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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one

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Speaker 1: behind a scene with a member of the show, Mary

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Speaker 1: post Christmas. Everybody, welcome to the Best Bits. I'm joined

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Speaker 1: this weekend by Abby. Abby Mary Related Christmas.

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Speaker 2: Oh ho, Mary related Christmas.

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Speaker 1: It feels weird saying no, because normally it's always our

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Speaker 1: these Best Bits roll before the holidays, but because of

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Speaker 1: how it falls this year, it's both after and so

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Speaker 1: we're doing like post things, but we're also recording this

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Speaker 1: before they even happened. So we're here.

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Speaker 2: Here, we are. We went into the future.

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Speaker 1: We did, We're and we're gonna think back on things

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Speaker 1: that have happened that have not quite happened yet, but

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Speaker 1: we're gonna. We're gonna figure it out because this is

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Speaker 1: the Christmas edition of Best Bits. So Abby, talk to

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Speaker 1: me about the holidays. What you've been doing.

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Speaker 2: What'd you go do over Christmas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? The Christmas holiday? No, we haven't made it to

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Speaker 1: New Year's yet.

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Speaker 2: I came home to Wichita and you did two? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we did. Who hung out with family? Of course? My

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Speaker 2: boyfriend came home for the first time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but he's a family.

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Speaker 2: The family, my parents like my mom and stepdad. But

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Speaker 2: he has not met anybody else like my dad and stepmom,

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Speaker 2: so my friends, I'm very excited.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so exciting, I know. Are you freaking out

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Speaker 1: at all?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: A little? Yeah, yeah he was. He was only able

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Speaker 2: to stay like a couple of days though.

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Speaker 1: So did you guys also do Christmas here in Nashville too? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or playing to also? Sorry guys, if I say like here,

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Speaker 1: my verbs are press present passed? Since what I roll

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Speaker 2: Okay, we we did Christmas like before I left for home,

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Speaker 2: so got itsas one.

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Speaker 1: Did you also visit his family?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not. We're not gonna have time to do that. Sure, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because he has kids. So he's here with his kids

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Speaker 2: and it is going to stay here, and then that's

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Speaker 2: why I get to go home a little longer.

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Speaker 1: But oh, how long have you do you plan to

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Speaker 1: go home for?

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Speaker 2: I haven't even booked my flight back, honestly, so I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I love that. I'm like asking the

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Speaker 1: in like the current or crushing this. Well, I think

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Speaker 1: you have plans yeah for after Christmas? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like more to go somewhere, but I'm not. I'm just

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Speaker 2: staying just hanging out out and then I gonna go

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Speaker 2: back to Nashville.

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Speaker 1: So well, he'd be doing like his personal Christmas with

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Speaker 1: his kids the whole time. Is that kind of what's happening?

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Speaker 1: Got it? And yeah, you'll hang out with them for

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Speaker 1: a little bit and then you'll get to go home,

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Speaker 1: but he's getting also to come for a little bit. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well that's a navigating of holidays, there is. Yeah, I know,

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Speaker 1: it's is that weird?

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Speaker 2: It is weird, Yeah, because I wish he could be

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Speaker 1: It's really hard, I know. Yeah. It's also I feel

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Speaker 1: and all this is happening for the first time and

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Speaker 1: you're starting to navigate, Okay, what are we gonna do.

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Speaker 1: We're going to see your family, my family, are we

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Speaker 2: It really is weird, especially when it's like his family

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's just a lot of I don't know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your favorite thing when you go back for

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Speaker 1: towitch job for the holidays? Like, is there anything you

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Speaker 2: Oh? My gosh, what do I have to do? I

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Speaker 2: We don't really do a lot of the things that

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Speaker 1: Yeah? How do you not have time? Just make all

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Speaker 2: I know, it's they just it's too hard. Like getting

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Speaker 2: Like my high school friends, they all bring their kids

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Speaker 2: So I love doing that totally fun.

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Speaker 1: Okay, See that's something where do you guy typically go

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Speaker 2: Chat home Man. It switches up every year, like home

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Speaker 2: what is it? Homegrown homeground?

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Speaker 1: I love that place, the best best homemade pop hop

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Speaker 1: pop tarts? Why not? Words are hard.

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Speaker 2: I always let them pick because they live in Wichita,

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Speaker 1: Belmont's really good. They have the Brusquetta flights and those

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Speaker 2: You know what I want? Well, you don't like coffee.

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Speaker 2: You don't drink coffee, but I want to do like

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Speaker 2: don't know if they do.

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Speaker 1: We yeah, we do always do Botanica. That's always one

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Speaker 1: that's like a family outing Christmas event. And then I

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Speaker 1: always make sure to stop at Coca Dulce, which was

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Speaker 1: at the Vegas Hotel foundin Blue that I went to

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Speaker 2: Did it start in Wichitah yep, and so why is

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Speaker 1: So somebody wrote to me on Instagram and told me

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Speaker 1: that the somebody who's invested in Fountain Blue, they said

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Speaker 2: Millionaire, billionaire, millionaire, whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, three things I got combined in that. But I

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Speaker 1: to go to Morts for the martini, and I did.

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Speaker 2: That last year. Yes, that was so fun.

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Speaker 1: The Monday night was like it's like a dollar, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, it's super cheap and it's just so fun

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Speaker 1: I always try and see some of my friends. Friends

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Speaker 2: I know it is so hard to get everybody together

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Speaker 1: It is, it so is. And I make my play

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Speaker 1: My family play a lot of board games. That's always

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Speaker 1: a oh that's fun. Yeah, like drinking game. They're like, okay, more,

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Speaker 1: game and like all all kinds. We'll also find some

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fun, suear.

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Speaker 1: We did like the bo one, the one with where

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Speaker 2: Those are fun. I've seen the ones where they like

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Speaker 2: you draw, you get a number or something, and you

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Speaker 2: number under the cup is your prize, and that looks

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Speaker 1: the saran Wrap ball where you basically put a bunch

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Speaker 2: I want to go ice skating. I have which I

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Speaker 2: think a chicken and pickle. Oh they had it last year.

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Speaker 2: I think they put up like a ice skating rink.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know your side. Sorry, Hey, when you

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Speaker 2: go everything you said you want, oh no, not really,

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Speaker 1: No coc there's a Coca Doul chain maze. There's Botanica

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Speaker 2: There was the other you said, would you say, oh, Morts,

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Speaker 2: Morts's downtown, downtown in between.

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Speaker 1: is the right. I'm just kidding. I love both sides.

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Speaker 1: It's just funny to give you our time.

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Speaker 2: You too. Chicken and Pickle, that's where it's at. It's

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Speaker 2: fun there. Yeah, they have like Christmas theme drinks and do.

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Speaker 1: You don't you play pickleball in the winter? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man, well it's inside, yeah, half of them are inside.

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Speaker 2: I think so then yeah, I need to go.

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Speaker 1: I am in a chick chick hole, chick chickle, pickle,

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Speaker 1: Chicken and a pickle in a hot minute.

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Speaker 2: Really, yeah, it's fun. I haven't either, so check that out.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should meet up at Chicken and a Pickle.

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Speaker 2: We should, we should.

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Speaker 1: We can't meet any of our friends, but we can

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Speaker 1: hang out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if there's no one that's answering or like, I

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Speaker 2: can't okay, see you.

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Speaker 1: There, backup, I know, I know what I read. Yeah

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Speaker 2: It's like if it's more that like see each other

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Speaker 2: all the time, so exactly, we could like hang out

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Speaker 1: it's chaotic, especially now with you having your boyfriend, which,

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Speaker 1: by the way, got all kinds of questions. And we're

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Speaker 2: Know it is. I think any change, like even with

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Speaker 1: You will in time. Some people can just leap with

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Speaker 1: Sure it helped so because I'm sure you're still like

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Speaker 1: I'm excited for you. I'm excited for what's to come

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Speaker 2: My gosh, I would honestly say, like meeting my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I just want like somebody to love and for them

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Speaker 2: And yeah, so I think I's it like being able

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Speaker 1: I think this year you've had a big You've had

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's like a one eighty life for in one year.

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Speaker 2: Like I just said, like this time last year, I

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but you were headed into it. You didn't

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Speaker 1: A really good one. I have another one that I'm

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00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,320
Speaker 1: I'll all share next week with Scuba because I'm doing

437
00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,840
Speaker 1: it with both because they're both were like end of

438
00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:12,119
Speaker 1: year times. But you know, I feel like I have

439
00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:17,520
Speaker 1: progressed so far professionally this year, which wasn't really on

440
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,719
Speaker 1: my radar, not in like a way that I was like, Okay,

441
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,800
Speaker 1: this is the year I'm going to do this, this

442
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,800
Speaker 1: and this and this has to happen or whatever. I mean.

443
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,720
Speaker 1: I always feel super driven. You and I both have

444
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 1: those qualities. I think that's the the Wichita cans in

445
00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 1: in US or just Canson. We're super hard workers and

446
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 1: just really driven. So that was never not there. But

447
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 1: this year, for some reason, just feels like it was

448
00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,960
Speaker 1: a catalyst to something else that's coming. And I don't

449
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,199
Speaker 1: know what that is. I'm zero clue, but launching my

450
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:48,639
Speaker 1: podcast and doing a lot of work trips and just

451
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 1: trying new things, taking whatever opportunity comes, and especially like

452
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,320
Speaker 1: when I went through the breakup and being like, oh,

453
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 1: this is what I thought was going to be like

454
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,879
Speaker 1: my new life, and then was it And then it

455
00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,919
Speaker 1: was like the universe literally directed was like no, actually,

456
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,560
Speaker 1: you gotta focus on this because something's coming. It's kind

457
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 1: of what it felt like after that all happen. So

458
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,400
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four was like a huge year of growth

459
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 1: for me professionally.

460
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 2: I love that, And I mean I could see it

461
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:21,440
Speaker 2: too for sure. Thank you, Like and you can tell

462
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 2: like you're passionate about what you do and you love it,

463
00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 2: and that's I feel like you are like on your

464
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,360
Speaker 2: right path and everything does happen for a reason obviously,

465
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 2: And I mean sometimes even me like I'm like, oh,

466
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 2: having a boyfriend, like it's hard to go out of

467
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 2: town and you know, do other things or whatever. But

468
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 2: it's like you you just like full on it, like

469
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 2: let's go like traveling everywhere.

470
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 1: And yeah, I think we're sending it this year for sure.

471
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, which I agree. I think is like something in

472
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 2: the future, whatever it may be, like this leads to it.

473
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's what I'm like hopeful for and I

474
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 1: have like, you know, I have no intentions of ever

475
00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 1: leaving the show. I love this job. All these other

476
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:04,160
Speaker 1: things are just really things I'm passionate. But I love traveling.

477
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 1: I love having honest conversations. You guys have heard it

478
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: on Best Bits. We have therapy sessions just kind of

479
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: like what we add and evolving just all of those

480
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:16,680
Speaker 1: different skills. So it has been just an interesting year

481
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: in a lot of ways that I just didn't see

482
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 1: a lot of things coming and how impactful they were

483
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 1: going to be. So I think that was my favorite

484
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 1: part of twenty twenty four this year. I have others,

485
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,639
Speaker 1: but I'll share that other one with Scuba Bute, so

486
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,880
Speaker 1: if you have another one, you can share it too.

487
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,879
Speaker 2: That's okay, I just had that one too. I feel

488
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 2: like that's it. Okay, that's right, Yeah, because I put

489
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: my singing and stuff. Well, the thing is is he

490
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 2: is like very pushes me to try to write and

491
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 2: like play guitar more, and I'm the one that's just

492
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: like I don't really want you right now. I don't

493
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 2: know what it is, okay.

494
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 1: But also you've had a crazier speaking of like professionally,

495
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: you've taken on a lot of things this year in particular,

496
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 1: maybe it was towards the end of last year that

497
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 1: weren't a part of what you were doing originally. And

498
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: so that being said, you do like this job, and

499
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 1: you do love doing this right wrong enough for sure? Yeah, yeah,

500
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 1: and you do love that, but like this, this is

501
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: like your job for survival that you're also passionate about,

502
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 1: and so it's taken more of your attention versus your

503
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 1: music career, which is something you really want and you're

504
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: passionate about, but like this took the front seat. I

505
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:25,360
Speaker 1: feel like this year.

506
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like a big thing. Also is just

507
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 2: like balancing, trying to balance because I want to be

508
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 2: like the best I can be at everything, no matter

509
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 2: what I do, and so I obviously I put this

510
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 2: job first, and then I also my relationships. In the past,

511
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: I was like working all the time and kind of

512
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,639
Speaker 2: putting relationships on the back burner and probably wasn't giving

513
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 2: them like the most attention. Or I'd be like, I

514
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: have to work and they're just like, oh my gosh,

515
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 2: you always have to work, you know. And I do

516
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 2: a lot of events because I was single, and I

517
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 2: was like, I can do this now. But now that

518
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 2: I have something that, you know, I really care about,

519
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,400
Speaker 2: it's important for me to also make sure he knows

520
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 2: he's important and that he's on the front, like not

521
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: on the back burner too, because guys have made me

522
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: feel like that in the past, like I'm on the

523
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 2: back burner and that's a terrible feeling. And I was like,

524
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that to somebody else. So

525
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 2: I think, and there's not enough time in the day

526
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 2: for me to do this, to be writing, playing guitar,

527
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 2: singing out, trying to be there with him, like there's

528
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 2: just a lot. So I'm trying to like prioritize and

529
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 2: create balance. And I think that's something I want to

530
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,639
Speaker 2: work on, like next year too, is like just to

531
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 2: create balance.

532
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think you know, as you guys do

533
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: start to live together. It's definitely going to be a

534
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: very major part of your twenty twenty five is like

535
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: how do I do all this? How do I fit

536
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: it all in? And again, how do I make me

537
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 1: fit in this new world? Like what does that look like?

538
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: Yes?

539
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 1: Or like how do I adjust to this new world?

540
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: You know however it sounds, But I think you can

541
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: and you will, and you'll find ways to do things

542
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: that you never thought possible. Like if there's anything that

543
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: I've realized this year is that I am capable of

544
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 1: so many things that I didn't think I could. You know,

545
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 1: Like when I'm staying up at midnight and I'm editing

546
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: my podcast and I'm like, oh my gosh, I need sleep.

547
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: I'm so tired, I need, you know, and I'm drained.

548
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: But then I put it out and I get the feedback,

549
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, it's worth it. Keep pushing, Like, just

550
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: keep doing it. It's worth it. You will. You're gonna

551
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: be exhausted. Your next year is going to be as

552
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: amazing as it is also exhausting when you transition, I know,

553
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 1: But like that just means take the naps whay you

554
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: can when you go home, make sure you take a

555
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: few naps, Yes, enjoy some relaxation before this big beginning starts,

556
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: and you will find time even if it's Heck, if

557
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: you're hanging out with his kids and you're sitting there

558
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: writing songs and they're doing stuff, you know, you will

559
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,160
Speaker 1: find the time. I think right now it just feels

560
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: very daunting and very overwhelming.

561
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a lot. It is a lot, like

562
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 2: just trying to figure out how to do it all.

563
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: I guess, Oh, yeah, they don't listen. They don't teach

564
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: you in high school.

565
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: Like, hey, by the way, you're gonna have to balance

566
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: a social life, having kids, having your relationship, also going

567
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: to a full time career, knowing how to keep up

568
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: with your entire adult responsibilities of your home if you

569
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: just have animals. Also that also keep yourself mentally healthy,

570
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: oh physically healthy as well, cooking, eating food, surviving, doing

571
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: your finances.

572
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 2: Like they learn none of that. Where was that class?

573
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: You don't learn any of it. But you also don't

574
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: learn that, like the requirement to do all those things

575
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: in mouss is literally inhuman, Like there is not a

576
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 1: person unless we really have a legit superman on this

577
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,199
Speaker 1: planet that could do all of those things and do

578
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: them all well all.

579
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: The time, but I think we feel like we have to. Yeah,

580
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 2: we're like we do. Everybody else is doing it, why

581
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: can't we. It's just everybody thinks that everybody's doing I was.

582
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 1: Gonna say, but that's the key nobody else. I know.

583
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 2: We think they are though, and we're like, oh, how

584
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: do I do that they are?

585
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: But it's like it's just like with me this year,

586
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: like my my profession became the big spot that was

587
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: the focus, and all of my friends that were getting

588
00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 1: married and my sister getting married, like those were my

589
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: priority use this year, and everything else kind of took

590
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: a back burner, you know, And next year the same

591
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 1: thing will happen. It'll probably shift, it'll be a different thing.

592
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: That's life. That's like how it's actually supposed to work,

593
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: because that's how you balance. It doesn't mean you're being

594
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: bad at the other things. It means you're still doing

595
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: them and utilizing them. It's just not your center focus

596
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 1: because you can't have a center focus that has ten

597
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 1: different things exactly.

598
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't, or you're going to be giving each

599
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 2: of those like ten percent.

600
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: And you will literally end up in a hospital. Yeah,

601
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 1: I know, you can't survive that way. We weren't meant

602
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: to survive that way. We aren't even met to survive

603
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,640
Speaker 1: what we're doing right now, but somehow we're managing.

604
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, how are we doing this? I'm just kidding, No,

605
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 2: you know.

606
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: What I mean? Though, Like they were once upon a time,

607
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: people were living off the land. There was no kinds

608
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: of things that we did. They were naturally physically healthy,

609
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: mentally healthy. They didn't have the the things that we have.

610
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 1: They would cook easily, like there was community all the time.

611
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: Things have evolved and changed, so which means we have

612
00:26:56,440 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: to kind of forcively evolve and change them act if

613
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: we want to feel good again.

614
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 2: I'm that crazy to think about how it's just kind

615
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 2: of like in waves, like I feel like last year

616
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 2: I focused more on my job and like singing and

617
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: I released like well, I guess, hey, their hometown. That

618
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 2: was like two years ago. But and then this year

619
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 2: I just felt like it was more like my personal

620
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 2: life and kind of like my health, like mental health

621
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: and getting better and like doing the brain things that

622
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: I'm doing to get myself on track, because I was

623
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 2: started to feel like crazy, like I was just like

624
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: I don't feel like myself. I don't know, and I'm

625
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 2: trying to kind of get more like on a healthy

626
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: path so that I can be better in like twenty

627
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 2: twenty five, Like I haven't been on social media much,

628
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 2: posted much.

629
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, take a pause, take a breakwak. I'm

630
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 1: coming right back to that. Okay, Okay, you haven't been

631
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: on social media much and you've been focused on mental

632
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 1: health and stuff. Walk me through that a little bit more.

633
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like with social media

634
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 2: when I post, I would get so just like caught

635
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: up in people's feedback and like the positive and the

636
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 2: negative and just worrying about what people think of my life.

637
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 2: And I'm like, that's my life, you know, Like even

638
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 2: though I am a little bit upset because like I

639
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,719
Speaker 2: take so many pictures and I've had so many good

640
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: things happen this year, but I've posted. I think I've

641
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 2: posted like five times total, and I'm like, you are

642
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: so good at posting, And I'm always like, why can't

643
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: I be like Morgan, like cause you're so good.

644
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: In all fairness, it is my job, so I bet

645
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: I better be good at that.

646
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: It is true, But I just struggle with like just

647
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 2: even captions and stuff like I just overthink everything.

648
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Abby, have you seen some of the captains

649
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: I post sometimes, Like especially if I do like eight

650
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 1: videos up one day, at some point somebody's probably reading.

651
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm like what is she even saye? Or like I'll

652
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: make a caption on the Bobby Bone Show and and

653
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: people are like what does that even mean? And I

654
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: was like, guys, I'm trying.

655
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 2: To be cool. I'm trying to keep up with the times.

656
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: Like yeah, so I promise it's not it looks like

657
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: I probably post a lot. I do a lot of things,

658
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 1: and I do, but also like I struggled to come

659
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: up with captains all the time.

660
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. But like going back to like the

661
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: brain thing, I mean, Amy's the one that told me

662
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: about it, and I was just feeling so like just clouded,

663
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 2: like I couldn't think of things like easier. Trivia is easy,

664
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: Trivia is a great example. I just can't pull things

665
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: out of my brain. It's like what color is the sun?

666
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, oh, like I don't know what

667
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 2: it was, And she basically it's like neuro feedback, and

668
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: she was like, I bet every traumatic experience in your

669
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,479
Speaker 2: life is kind of like a pothole in your brain, okay,

670
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 2: you know, and like even grief like losing a family member,

671
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 2: just anything, and it kind of gets your Your brain

672
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 2: waves are supposed to go one way, like, and when

673
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 2: you have trauma, it starts going all different directions and

674
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 2: you can't think clearly and you can't think like more efficiently.

675
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 2: You can't think as of, hey, here we go.

676
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: Now, I'm like, oh no, it's okay.

677
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 2: But when she like stimulates the different parts of your brain,

678
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 2: like I can tell it has been like helping me

679
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: think more clearly and cool. Even athletes do it and

680
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 2: like it even helps songwriters like write better and think better.

681
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: And so I feel like that's kind of been helping me.

682
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: So that was something I've been doing, like for my

683
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 2: mental health. I'm trying to sleep more because I was

684
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: not getting a lot of sleep. I mean there's still

685
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: nights that I don't get enough. Like a few days ago,

686
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: I got like three hours.

687
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: And were you like in bed or were you doing stuff?

688
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: And that's why a lot of it is like work.

689
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: It's just like we're so busy, like leading up to

690
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: the holidays, especially like we're just trying to get everything in.

691
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 2: Like I'm doing podcast stuff and sometimes I can't fall

692
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: asleep even when I'm laying in bed, So it's just

693
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: a lot of that. So just trying to i don't know,

694
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: be more healthy, eat better, get more sleep.

695
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: Well, it is like right, like that's the biggest thing

696
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: because if you are healthy physically, mentally, everything, then everything

697
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: else can't operate to any optimal place that it needs

698
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 1: to be. You have to be functioning on that level.

699
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: So but again it's hard to do because you have

700
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: to go to appointments like for different things or whatever

701
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: you may need, and you have to eat healthy foods,

702
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: and you have to work out, and all that takes

703
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: time and effort and money, all of which things are

704
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: very scarce and like hard to find, you know what

705
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, so it is it is super tough,

706
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: but also goal that you've found a way to start

707
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: to focus on it and found that it's important for

708
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: you to focus on. Not everybody will everybody's like no,

709
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: it's fine, I'm gonna keep operating this for the rest

710
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: of my life.

711
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like this is like perfect timing

712
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: because it's like the new year and this is when

713
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 2: now is the time to like be motivated to you know,

714
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 2: have a good new year. Yeah, and set goals for

715
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 2: yourself now, which I still need to do that. That's

716
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: what I need to go.

717
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: Are you going to set a resolution or anything?

718
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I should, Like I want to

719
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 2: do more goals that you can they're attainable. I think

720
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: that's sometimes when we do things like that at the

721
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: beginning of the year, we just say, oh, we want

722
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 2: to do this, get more sleep. But it's like you

723
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 2: have to make it like more specific, like oh, focus

724
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 2: on going to bed an hour before you usually do

725
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 2: or something like that to make it were it's possible

726
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: to do.

727
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, that's definitely true. And the resolutions sometimes we

728
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: go a little over bore where we're like, I'm gonna

729
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: do it for the entire year, and then can you

730
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: imagine actually obtaining something for an entire year?

731
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like baby steps.

732
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

733
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: Like even my boyfriend and I instead of dried January

734
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 2: because we tried last year and failed after like day twelve,

735
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: So now we are gonna do it in January where

736
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 2: you pick one day a week and you can drink,

737
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 2: you know, So it's like you designate, Okay this week,

738
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna drink on Friday, and that's when you get

739
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: to drink and then it's out of your system. Yeah,

740
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: so I feel like that's a little better. So it's

741
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 2: like four days out of January that you get to

742
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 2: drink instead of like depriving yourself and then going crazy

743
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: in February or giving up and you know, so just

744
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 2: little ways like that.

745
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I do think it's like there's different things

746
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: like that that I feel like are beneficial for people.

747
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: But I also feel like sometimes we go to extreme

748
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: and that's why we burn ourselves out so quickly on

749
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: things and why they fail or we don't do them.

750
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: It's because we're like, no, you have to do it

751
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: this way. There's so many different versions. And just because

752
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: everybody else is doing dry Danmuary, you could do a

753
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: version of that much like Abby's doing. Also, like you

754
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: want to get fit cool, make it your goal to

755
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: walk ten minutes a day for a month. See how

756
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: that works, see how you feel. Maybe then you can

757
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: up it and maybe you can go to the gym. Whatever.

758
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: But like I think resolutions often guide us in the

759
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: direction of being like this extreme. You have to accomplish

760
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: us in twenty twenty five and it's your entire goal

761
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: for the year. Maybe not. Maybe let's see the many

762
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: goals and many many things that like we can actually accomplish,

763
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: because then it makes us want to accomplish other things.

764
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: M Yeah, that's true. Yeah, because you see you're like,

765
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: you see the results because it was attainable.

766
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: Yep.

767
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 2: Instead of being like, oh, I want to lose fifty

768
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: pounds by I don't know, you know, you could just

769
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, maybe I should start eating healthier and

770
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: cut this out and replace it with this or you know.

771
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: All the things.

772
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

773
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: Oh resolutions, man, do you have one? No, Like I said,

774
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have any plans really to have any.

775
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I've just like we're talking about,

776
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't really have the time to like sit just

777
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: sit down and be like, let me focus on this.

778
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: Could I make the time? Yes? Do I have the

779
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: desire to? I don't think so, because I'm like, as

780
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: my entire goal in life always, forever, every year, will

781
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: we be a good person, Like genuinely be a good

782
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: person and everything that you do. If you do that,

783
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 1: you're winning. Like that's always been my goal.

784
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: I loved that. Yeah, I love like that's so easy,

785
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: but it's so hard for so many people. It just

786
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:32,760
Speaker 2: be a good person.

787
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 1: It's also hard for me when I'm having a really

788
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: bad day and I really want to get home or

789
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: I want to you know, like and have the patience.

790
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: Like I saw this thing the other day. That was

791
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: when you are mad at somebody on the road, think

792
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: of the fact that they're probably transporting a birthday cake

793
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: in the backseat and they really want to get it

794
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: to where it needs to go. And it just like

795
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 1: there's like moments where you read things, see things that

796
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 1: just kind of shift your perspective a little bit. And

797
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: it just reminded me like, Okay, I have to even

798
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: in my chaos, even when my life is insanely busy,

799
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: I am drained, I'm exhausted, I have to slow down,

800
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: and I just have to like continue to be a

801
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: good person because everything else doesn't matter. The only thing

802
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 1: that matters, genuinely, the only thing that matters.

803
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 2: Right. That's crazy you brought that up because that happened

804
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 2: to me. Like last week I was having like the

805
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: worst day and I was just like, no one knows

806
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: what I'm going through like no one knows, and I'm like, wait,

807
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 2: someone else because I have like major road rage.

808
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 1: And that's how it's understandable in the video of Nashville.

809
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 2: Yes, and so I had that thought, like I was

810
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 2: like the whole day, Abby, just like, don't get mad

811
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: at people, because they could be having a day just

812
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 2: like you, like, just give them like some grace because

813
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: they honestly could be having the worst day of their

814
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 2: life too. You have no idea. Maybe they're not thinking

815
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 2: clearly because they were just given bad news or something.

816
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: So that's crazy. Yeah, And it worked because I was like,

817
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 2: oh my gosh. It taught me to just like slow

818
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: down and be like, Okay, it's all good, Like you

819
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 2: don't have to get mad at anybody. It's not it's stupid.

820
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 1: It's really hard to do that when you're having a

821
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: really bad day, especially like I have had multiple days

822
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 1: as year where it's been a when it rains a

823
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: poor situation and I'm like, okay, I really can't take anymore.

824
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna I'm going to turn into a volcano. And

825
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: yet I managed not to because I just kept being

826
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: like okay, patience, like you like you can't do anything

827
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 1: about this. It was also my thing that I also

828
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: try and always keep in my brain is if you

829
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: can't do anything about it in five minutes, you can't

830
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: change anything, You can't whatever. So many messages to me

831
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: about talking about like people like if they can't change

832
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: something about their parents in five minutes, don't say anything

833
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 1: mm hmmm. And so it's kind of that same rule

834
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 1: of like, if if this is not going to matter

835
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: five days from now, five months from now, five years

836
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: from now, do not spend more than five minutes on it.

837
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: And most things they don't even last in that five

838
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: days category. I know there are there are some and

839
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: they will last years, and they will last months or whatever.

840
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: The most things in life will not even make it

841
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: to the five day threshold. And that also takes me

842
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: back to that same level of just like, Okay, this

843
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: isn't going to matter in the capacity that's mattering to

844
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: me right now in this moment, m M, I just

845
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: have to take a set back, remind myself to be

846
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: a good person despite that this is happening, and try

847
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 1: and move through it. Like, but that's so so hard

848
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 1: to do.

849
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: It is especially on like the rain and when it

850
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: rains up poor as days. You're like, oh my gosh,

851
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 2: what else? Yeah, like what and then it just kind

852
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 2: of amplifies your thoughts.

853
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I and you want you want to be mad

854
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: at the world. You want to take it out on

855
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: somebody because why is it happening to you? Like that's

856
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: that's human nature to feel angry and upset when things

857
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 1: like that are happening.

858
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 2: Right, But you know, that's why I need to get

859
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 2: my boxing membership back or actually go I.

860
00:37:56,239 --> 00:38:01,320
Speaker 1: Mean boxing membership that you paid for for months that you.

861
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 2: Know, I cannot believe that you watched me. You watched

862
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 2: me go up there. I was like, oh, I'm gonna

863
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: get a guest pass for the day. And then you're like, wait,

864
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: what are you doing. I'm like, I'm signing up for

865
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 2: like unlimited.

866
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 1: I was like, you haven't even been why don't you

867
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: just like, I mean, I get it, like the commitment

868
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: of like doing a month cool, yeah you wait six months.

869
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: I know. That's the perfect example where I was like, Okay,

870
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 2: we're gonna just go big. But then I didn't because

871
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 2: I didn't just be like no.

872
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: Okay, if you're going to send it, you have to

873
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 1: fully commit. I know, like, yeah, I love a send

874
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: it situation, send it on, but do not half committing

875
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: a send it situation. You did in that moment you did.

876
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: Buying the membership and not going that's not helping you

877
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: in any way. Like maybe it made me feel better

878
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: for having that membership, I didn't go, oh my gosh.

879
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 3: So if you two go back, for the love of

880
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: all that is holy, do it for one month. Okay,

881
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 3: if you do do a membership, just unless like the

882
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,959
Speaker 3: next five months are free or something.

883
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: Fine, exactly like never again and anything you do with

884
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 1: these resolutions, okay, yeah, listend it fully give it.

885
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 2: Baby steps. You like the baby steps better.

886
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: Baby steps are good, So let's focus on that. No

887
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 1: more fully stent memberships at random places.

888
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 2: Nikes, I know, so bad.

889
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: Anything else you want to add before we get out

890
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: of here, I.

891
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 2: Don't think so. Hopefully this was like positive and not

892
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: being like, oh my gosh, I'm so unsure of my life.

893
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 2: There was one little I think that moving in was me.

894
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 2: Maybe that sounded I think this was this was life.

895
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah it is, you know, corns and rainbows. And we're

896
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 2: also coming.

897
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 1: Off the holiday season, which is gonna be a mix

898
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: for a lot of people. Right You're gonna have people

899
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: coming off of it who are incredibly excited, had the

900
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 1: best time ever, and they're recharged, rejuvenated, ready to go.

901
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: You have a whole lot of other people who are like,

902
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: that was the worst time ever. I'm so ready for

903
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: this to be done. Take me home, and I don't

904
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: want to see anybody. I'm gonna hibernate for you know. Yeah,

905
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: So I think it's going to go both ways with

906
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: people listening to this. I hope more people than not

907
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: are on this side of that that feel relaxed and

908
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 1: ready to take on life and had a great time

909
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: whatever he did the holiday season. But I think most

910
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: of us are probably feeling the same way that you

911
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: and I are mutually feeling in a lot of different

912
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: ways of our lives right now.

913
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 2: I mean holidays are hard, like personally for me because

914
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 2: it's like I go home and my brother's not there,

915
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 2: and you know, and like that's he always sits used

916
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 2: to sit on the fireplace when we would open presents,

917
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 2: like with my whole family, and so like no one

918
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 2: sits there now, Like we put a plant there, and

919
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 2: it's just like it's like a constant reminder that he's

920
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: not there, and like my grandpa, he always had a

921
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 2: Christmas party and he's no longer here. So it's just

922
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: like you go back to your hometown wanting things to

923
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: be how they were like when you were a kid

924
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 2: growing up, and you want that to be and it

925
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 2: is no longer and you realize the change. So I

926
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: think a lot of that is for a lot of

927
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 2: people that could be hard to you know, like going

928
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 2: back and if you used to have good times and

929
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 2: now times are hard, you wish that was still it.

930
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 2: But I just think you have to like create your

931
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 2: own memories and just look back at that and be

932
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: like that was a good time and there's still good

933
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 2: times ahead. Yeah, you know, there's still room to make

934
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 2: other amazing memories and meet new people. And even if

935
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: it's not great this year, like you can have a

936
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,959
Speaker 2: great year next year. You know, we're not always gonna

937
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 2: have amazing everything, Like you.

938
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: Said, it's not always gonna be unicorning in rainbows.

939
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so sometimes it will be mm hmm. Well, I think.

940
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: That's really good for a lot of people to here

941
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 1: because I do guarantee that a lot of people are

942
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 1: feeling in similar capacity to you in that way and yeah,

943
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: I mean this is the the first year of that

944
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 1: both of my grandparents here and we had just I

945
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: believe this is the first year. Gosh, time is I

946
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 1: it is a time warp that I don't understand, and

947
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: timing messes with my brain back to me needing to

948
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: go to where you go. But I understand that side

949
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: of things. And also I will be here if you want,

950
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 1: not here in Nashville, I'll be here in our both

951
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: of our hometown if you want to go play pickleball

952
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: if things get a little hard. And also you just

953
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: have a different season happening right now and you're like,

954
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: I need to do something that is not in this vicinity.

955
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:16,719
Speaker 1: I'm there.

956
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 2: Well, thank you you too, thank you, I really am.

957
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:20,800
Speaker 2: You can come to my side though, I'm.

958
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: Just well, technically we're playing pickleball.

959
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: I have to you do, and you're gonna love it.

960
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: I will because I love you. I just you know

961
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 1: you little bougie east Siders. That's with that. We'll tell

962
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: the people where they can find you. All that good stuff.

963
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 2: On Instagram, Abby Lee Anderson. Yeah, that's it. That's about it.

964
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 2: That's where I'm most active on social media. It's my Instagram,

965
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: even though I'm not even that active.

966
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: But your five year posts, you're five times a year posts.

967
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do stories, so I guess you can look

968
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: at my stories.

969
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:51,959
Speaker 1: I haven't seen a story from you in a hot minute,

970
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: besides reposting the questions for best bits, Oh that's true.

971
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 2: Yeah and the radiothon. Yeah I did those reposting. But see,

972
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 2: just took a little hiatus. Well I got like work

973
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: done on my face, so it was a huge puffball.

974
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 2: I got this laser.

975
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, none, it looks really good. Your face looks beautiful

976
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: right now.

977
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 2: Thank you?

978
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: Do you have any.

979
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 2: Makeup on a little bit, like a little just like

980
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 2: a powder. I got a doctor Lucky's office. I love

981
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 2: that nice.

982
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's.

983
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 2: So. It's called BBL. And then the other one is HALO.

984
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: It's like the butt thing.

985
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 2: You got a butt broadband laser.

986
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 3: I know when she said that alls are called BBL

987
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 3: because BBL definitely means but.

988
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: I know when I went in, she was like, you're

989
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 2: getting BBL. I'm like, ah, no, well, I mean I

990
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 2: want to but no, just kidding.

991
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: I mean, this was so much love. Abby. If you

992
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 1: got a BABEL, everybody would know, like you're so little.

993
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: Everyone would know.

994
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: They absolutely would know.

995
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: And I'm not like specifically talking about your butt. That's weird,

996
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:56,959
Speaker 1: Like you're just like a tiny human being. And even

997
00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: if they're like the tiniest injection before.

998
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, they so would.

999
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 1: Not that anybody mean, that would not be a subtle No,

1000
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: it wouldn't. You couldn't keep that secret.

1001
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,359
Speaker 2: No, oh my gosh. So yeah, I didn't get that.

1002
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 2: Maybe next I'm just kidding.

1003
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I need I need to go look into this. Yeah,

1004
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: your amazing.

1005
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's very intense because I could not,

1006
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: like I couldn't be at work for it. It was during

1007
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving because I knew Lunchbox would just like never stop.

1008
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: It was really bad, Like I looked like a chipmunk.

1009
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 2: I was just like my face.

1010
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: How long does it take for you to finally be

1011
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: back to normal?

1012
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: Well, it was like five days that it was like that.

1013
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was really bad.

1014
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: So that that was why you had the social media break.

1015
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 2: Also, yes, that actually is Yeah, I was gonna document it,

1016
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 2: but it was way too I'm gonna do it now,

1017
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 2: but it was way too bad.

1018
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: So that's funny. Okay, Well I'm glad you looked beautiful

1019
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: and I am at upgra Morgan on all the things.

1020
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Speaker 2: Make sure you check out.

1021
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: Our YouTube page at Bobby Bone Show. Subscribe there are

1022
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: lots of content, and check out my podcast take this personally.

1023
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: I in the last few episodes at this point, I've

1024
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: had on at Kansas Kids episode with Logan Mize and

1025
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: Nicole Gallion Supercowl. You to listen to that one.

1026
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,479
Speaker 2: I know I need to. I love them.

1027
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're amazing, really fun episode there. I also had

1028
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: Hillary on We caught Up.

1029
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hillary did a.

1030
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 1: Little catch up and then I don't know what else

1031
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: is aired, but yeah, go check that out. Okay, we're

1032
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Speaker 1: getting out of here. Mary post Christmas.

1033
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: Everyone marry post Christmas, And as Abby says.

1034
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Speaker 1: Oh ho ho, that's the best bits of the week

1035
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Speaker 1: with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out

1036
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Speaker 1: the other two parts this weekend. Go follow the show

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