WEBVTT - Carl Radke on Summer House tea, sobriety, hooping vs. WNBA legends

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you my fare story was Carrie Lambier. I

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't talked about a long time. Carry Lambier, Bill Lambier's

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<v Speaker 1>daughter daughter. She was one of our power formers at

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<v Speaker 1>the time.

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<v Speaker 2>She's fucking big.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a beast and she was she was good

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously I had the NBA pedigree. But I remember

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<v Speaker 1>one of the assistant coaches going to me, He's like, Carl,

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<v Speaker 1>go as hard as you can't do like and I

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<v Speaker 1>could still like dunk so like, but the women's ball

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit smaller than I was adjusting to

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<v Speaker 1>like using that a little bit. Yeah, but I remember

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<v Speaker 1>going fucking toe to toe and the paint and she

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<v Speaker 1>would kick my fucking ass. Dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, they weren't allowed.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a rule that you guys weren't allowed to dunk.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys could do anything, but you weren't allowed to dunk.

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<v Speaker 2>And like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so funny though, because it didn't take you a

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<v Speaker 3>second to learn how to like play against the girls.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think it's funny too though, because our practice

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<v Speaker 3>players is like the first ones, like you know you're playing,

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<v Speaker 3>so sometimes you're gonna like hit someone in the boo

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<v Speaker 3>where we're gonna hit you guys, Like in the yagone.

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<v Speaker 2>You're posting some guy up down low and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I was also like trying to get some like

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<v Speaker 1>lessards and I'm like putting my head in her tist like.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, First Weeks, First Guys, Show Me Something Podcasts Episode

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<v Speaker 4>thirty four.

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<v Speaker 2>We are joined by a dear friend of mine, Carl Radkey.

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<v Speaker 4>He's now also a podcast host himself Summer House Og

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<v Speaker 4>and I've got it in real time?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you calling you calling yourself an author?

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<v Speaker 1>Carl, No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>This is awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like I have to, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not comfortable with that. There's a lot of there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of amazing authors who are real authors. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a regular random dude.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why people love you though.

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<v Speaker 4>But Carl did publish a book. It is called Cake Eater.

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<v Speaker 4>You've kind of got a lot of awesome stuff going

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<v Speaker 4>on right now. Are you more excited to have the

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<v Speaker 4>book going around? Are you more excited to like start

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<v Speaker 4>the pod?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like they I've been working on

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<v Speaker 1>both of these things for like almost two years, so

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of go hand in hand together. They kind

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<v Speaker 1>of feed each other. So I mean it's been both

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<v Speaker 1>of them have been really fulfilling. It's super you know,

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<v Speaker 1>super fun, very overwhelming. Some of the book stuff going

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<v Speaker 1>on tours been really exciting. But also yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I've opened up a lot about you know, dark, difficult

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<v Speaker 1>things in my life. It's not like a happy you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how do your friends read? It's it's very difficult, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>material and things I've been through. So yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>some of it's been amazing. But the goal from the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning with the book was to help people, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's that's what's happening. So that's all that

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<v Speaker 1>really matters.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I shoot it real quick. Maybe I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>introduce you guys, because that's my fault.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even do it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you're okay, Sophy, Carl, Carl, Sophie and before I

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<v Speaker 4>go this summer, when we were filming Summerhouse, I told Carl,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I might be doing a podcast with

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<v Speaker 4>Sophie cunning Hamley.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you know who that is.

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<v Speaker 4>Carl and I live in house with a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>dudes who aren't super big ballnoers.

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<v Speaker 2>Carl is a Ballner.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Carl is a huge She's a beast, like you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta do it, and so I'm glad you to get

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<v Speaker 4>to mean help.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Hi Sophie, Hi Carl.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So I was I love this. I was just

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<v Speaker 2>telling Wes.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I think that I just really love him, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like you were just a good freaking

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<v Speaker 3>human and there's just something about you that you just

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<v Speaker 3>want to squeeze like and but like, well done.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why everyone's like calls him dad.

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<v Speaker 3>But seriously, I think that you are a fan favorite

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<v Speaker 3>for so many reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>But something that.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to talk to you about because I think

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<v Speaker 3>this is like so bold and courageous of you, and

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<v Speaker 3>I like love you for it is like you're on

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<v Speaker 3>a show that is known for like partying, partying.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you say that word partying?

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<v Speaker 1>Partying?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, being a partier and the fact that you just

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<v Speaker 3>choose to like be sober and now you're into running,

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<v Speaker 3>you're an author starting your own podcast. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like you are living your best years right now and

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<v Speaker 3>like you're mentally, physically, emotionally everything you were just like

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<v Speaker 3>blooming and blossoming, and everyone who watches the show can

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<v Speaker 3>see it, so like, let's dive into that big time

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<v Speaker 3>because I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you,

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<v Speaker 3>and I know other people when I said that we're

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<v Speaker 3>having you on the podcast, are like, hell yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 1>So well, thank you, thank you, thank you. If I

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<v Speaker 1>could say anything, I feel like I get way more

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<v Speaker 1>credit than I deserve. You know, I've I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>it all figured out, so I appreciate the kind words,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, it's hard sometimes to receive such complimentary

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<v Speaker 1>feedback because I you know, I've put I've been through

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff. I'm definitely I don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a fan favorite. I appreciate the notion of that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've certainly put a lot out there for

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<v Speaker 1>the fans to talk about over the years, some pretty bad,

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<v Speaker 1>some pretty ugly, but you know, that's kind of what

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<v Speaker 1>we're you know, what we're here to do is show

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<v Speaker 1>our lives and all the all the ugly, all the

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<v Speaker 1>bad and the good sometimes. But yeah, no, I I've

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<v Speaker 1>been very lucky and very privileged in a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>different ways, with a lot of opportunities and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things have kind of come my way since kind

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<v Speaker 1>of turning my life around, and a big part of

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<v Speaker 1>that was admitting that I'm an alcoholic and a drug addict,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I had to take those steps. I come

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<v Speaker 1>from a family that has alcoholism and drug addiction in

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<v Speaker 1>it mental health issues. So yeah, it was important for

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<v Speaker 1>me to kind of look in the mirror. And I

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<v Speaker 1>also watch the show too, Sophie. So seasons one through four,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I hated myself, like I hated who I

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<v Speaker 1>was and the person I was putting out. And from

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<v Speaker 1>season five and on, you know, I've really tried to

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<v Speaker 1>make better choices and really look in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 4>I told Sophie before we do this, because I've done

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<v Speaker 4>like the same press you have, Carl, that we get

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<v Speaker 4>asked a lot of the same questions over and over

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<v Speaker 4>and over and over again a thousand times, and I

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<v Speaker 4>think we want to have a little more fun and

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<v Speaker 4>ask you stuff that you've never been asked before, in

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<v Speaker 4>this spirit of this being a sports podcast. Originally, you're

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<v Speaker 4>Pittsburgh guy, born and raised, Pirates, Penguins, Steelers.

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<v Speaker 2>Who am I forgetting?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Pirates timans do? That's our big gree That's all.

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<v Speaker 1>We had three but I went to Syracuse University, so

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<v Speaker 1>I do kind of low key cheer for the sports,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean basketball, and Syracuse has been on a downhill

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<v Speaker 1>the last I mean ever since we joined six we

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<v Speaker 1>joined the ACC when the Big East got kind of disbanded,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Georgetown, Yukon and Deleanova, Syracuse, pitt It's never

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<v Speaker 1>been the same for the basketball team.

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<v Speaker 2>Even old Big East football used to be sick.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, and they had like West Virginia, Remember they had

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<v Speaker 4>like Steve Slayton, Like old Big East used to be

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<v Speaker 4>so toight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, West Virginia, Miami, Virginia Tech, Miami. That's some pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good like Thursday night ACC games.

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<v Speaker 4>What are your first memories? Is at Pittsburgh? Like sports fan?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it the Steelers?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you like? What is your first memory that

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<v Speaker 2>you can recall?

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<v Speaker 1>First memory was nineteen ninety one ninety two the Penguins

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<v Speaker 1>won back to back Stanley Cups. Mario Lemieux, Yamer Yager

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<v Speaker 1>lived in our little community. He would he would go

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<v Speaker 1>to his house during Halloween and he would hand like

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<v Speaker 1>in Pittsburgh, so the local players have like a candy bar,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was like their local thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was it? Though, was it like a s A.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a yamer yogurt, peanut butter hockey fuck like circular.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds kind of good. Actually, it was honestly legit,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would hand them out from his own home

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<v Speaker 1>because he lived in like in the community, so people

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<v Speaker 1>would trick or treat at his house and he'd hand

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<v Speaker 1>out his own candy bar to the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, got is that cocky as shit or is that

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<v Speaker 2>like legit?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he's he's a check and he's got a personality,

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<v Speaker 1>so he kind of got away with being like an

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<v Speaker 1>ego like Alpha.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>My first memory really of that was ninety ninety one

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<v Speaker 1>Penguins back to back. However, I do want to flag

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<v Speaker 1>I was born in Chicago, Illinois, and we lived there

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<v Speaker 1>when I was very young. My first game ever was

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<v Speaker 1>a Chicago Cubs game at Wrigley It was it was

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<v Speaker 1>a day game because when I went to the Wrigley Field,

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<v Speaker 1>they did not have lights for night games. It was

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<v Speaker 1>only daytime games at regularly up until like the late nineties.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know that there was also an ordnance in

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<v Speaker 4>Chicago that said that they you can't make loud noise

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<v Speaker 4>after whatever pm.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like seven or eight pm.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's why the Cubs like a if you watch

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<v Speaker 4>mon TeV they're always playing there during the day because

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<v Speaker 4>at Wrigley they've been playing day games for so long

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<v Speaker 4>due to like not having lights and like these weird

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<v Speaker 4>Chicago ordinances that they like never.

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<v Speaker 1>Got rid of. Well, like Wrigley is they like literally

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<v Speaker 1>in a neighborhood. It's like you're watching you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like north of Chicago, but it's almost like it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like you're in someone's backyard and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>here's a baseball stadium.

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<v Speaker 3>But guys, don't you kind of prefer like a great

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<v Speaker 3>like seventy five eighty degree day with a slight breeze

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<v Speaker 3>rather than a night game, Like think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Baseball baseball day game is yeah, epic. I would say

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<v Speaker 1>a playoff night game it's pretty cool too where it's

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<v Speaker 1>at like an October night game.

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<v Speaker 2>Playoffs, you're kind of bundled up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I like that. Oh yeah, Carl.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you to Syracuse? Like, I know Syracuse is

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<v Speaker 4>a good journalism school, and I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of was good right behind me there it is

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<v Speaker 1>my credentials, I my my guidance counselor, uh sophomore year

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<v Speaker 1>of high school. I did like the morning announcements. I

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<v Speaker 1>love holding microphones. I did the sports stuff even though

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<v Speaker 1>I played. I love like ESPN and Sports Center. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean kind of like you guys too. I thought of

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go to journalism school. It's originally my idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and my guidance counselor wrote down like four different schools.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like Syracuse, n y U, USC, and.

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<v Speaker 2>The University Missouri. Probably from being honest, Missouri it's the

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<v Speaker 2>number one journalism school in the country.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, there was a few schools and I my

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<v Speaker 1>uncle had actually had some friends had gone to Syracuse

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<v Speaker 1>and something about the basketball team, the big sports, the

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<v Speaker 1>big school. I was really excited about trying to go there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I put all my eggs into the Syracuse basket

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<v Speaker 1>from like junior year. That's why I knew I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go there because in school the education program. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I got to Syracuse. So I was recruit.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a really good volleyball player.

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<v Speaker 2>I was all was volleyball.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was first team All Pennsylvania my senior year.

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<v Speaker 1>I was probably the best center in I mean in

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<v Speaker 1>the country. I was probably the top five player in

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<v Speaker 1>the country my senior year.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you shitting me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, I'm so spie.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, I know, But like I just I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>being in the Midwest. I think when we were growing

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<v Speaker 3>up volleyball. All the tall guys they went to basketball,

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<v Speaker 3>but there were so many basketball players that I was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 3>you'd be a badass volleyball player.

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<v Speaker 2>And the fact that you played. Did you ever play sand?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Absolutely? We had a sand court in our like

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<v Speaker 1>in our town, even though we lived in Pittsburgh, we

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<v Speaker 1>had like this cool sand court. In the summer. We

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<v Speaker 1>all would like a cup.

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<v Speaker 2>D I had no idea that like makes me just

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<v Speaker 2>love you even more? What the heck?

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<v Speaker 1>That is so fun? This is how it came to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved baseball. I loved My brother was an amazing

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<v Speaker 1>baseball player. He you know, was world class baseball player.

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<v Speaker 1>People knew he was a great athlete. So I always

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be like my brother. Yeah, And when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to high school, I was on the freshman baseball team.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't great, but I just wanted to play. And

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<v Speaker 1>then sophomore year, I tried out for the varsity baseball

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<v Speaker 1>team got cut. I didn't even make the JD team,

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<v Speaker 1>So I like went home crying, essentially when I got cut.

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<v Speaker 1>What am I gonna do now with all this free time?

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<v Speaker 1>And one of my friends said to me, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to Ryan Murray. He was like, bro, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to dunk a basketball, try out for the volleyball team.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was kind of like all these basketball players

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<v Speaker 1>that weren't playing the spring sport went over to the

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<v Speaker 1>basketball team. And my sophomore year, or sorry, volleyball team.

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<v Speaker 1>My sophomore year, we had two of our best basketball

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<v Speaker 1>players on the but I just caught the bug and

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<v Speaker 1>it was incredibly technical, very competitive. I love the athleticism

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<v Speaker 1>of the jumping and the blocking.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, wait, the jumping that men volleyball players credit this

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<v Speaker 3>damn world. Like, I don't think people to the credit

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<v Speaker 3>dude basketball players is dunking, But I'm like, no, you

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<v Speaker 3>need to watch vollyball players jump.

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<v Speaker 2>It is insane.

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<v Speaker 1>They were crazy. So, yeah, I caught the bug my

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<v Speaker 1>sophomore year of high school with volleyball. I wasn't great

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<v Speaker 1>by sophomore year, but by junior year, yes, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>started playing. Like there's a Junior Olympics of community. I

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<v Speaker 1>started playing volleyball at Junior Olympics and my junior year

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<v Speaker 1>I was really really good. With my senior year, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I was definitely one of the best players in

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<v Speaker 1>the state. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>But I.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's funny because was setting the right side like

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<v Speaker 1>the center. Actually the right side blocker and the left

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<v Speaker 1>side hitter is the strong hitter. So technically you want

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<v Speaker 1>your probably your smartest player and your best blocker to

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<v Speaker 1>be on your right side. I was a good blocker,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was super smart. Yeah, so I played. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>we did a six to two, so I would set

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<v Speaker 1>back row and then get front right. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>a good arm and a good good swing. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say. Though I graduated from Syracuse, I

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<v Speaker 1>was recruited by you know, Penn State, Saint Francis, like

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<v Speaker 1>Ohio State Ball. I actually went to Ball State to

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<v Speaker 1>look good old Indiana, but I wanted a large university

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<v Speaker 1>experience and I wasn't going to get much scholarship money

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<v Speaker 1>from those schools. Yeah, and I don't think my dad

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<v Speaker 1>said this, but I heard this from someone. They said, Carl,

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<v Speaker 1>if you tear your acl day one of being at

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<v Speaker 1>ball State or Ohio State. Do you still want to

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<v Speaker 1>go there? Yeah? I mean the answer the answer is not.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go. I wanted to go to where

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<v Speaker 1>the education was the best and the program for furthering

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<v Speaker 1>my career after college made the most sense. But I

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<v Speaker 1>got to Syracuse and I did play on the club

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<v Speaker 1>men's volleyball team, and my freshman year I was an

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<v Speaker 1>All American as an actually outside hitter, not.

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<v Speaker 2>A center, right side or left.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a left side.

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<v Speaker 4>You've been so humble about that because I knew you

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<v Speaker 4>played volleyball, but you have never dropped the accolades until

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<v Speaker 4>just now.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I was legit, very legit. Yeah, we got to find eight,

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<v Speaker 1>but nope, you'll get a kick out of there. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is sophomore year at Syracuse. There was a gym

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<v Speaker 1>on campus where all, like the football players would come

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<v Speaker 1>and play pick up. The lacrosse team played pick up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just the regular guys, but we had like

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<v Speaker 1>a good crew of basketball players and I was playing

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<v Speaker 1>pick up. I mean I could dunk. I was bawling

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<v Speaker 1>like I was a good player.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the assistant coaches from the men's basketball team

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<v Speaker 1>was there watching and pulled me aside. He said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to try out? I said absolutely if I

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<v Speaker 1>went over to the try out like a week or

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<v Speaker 1>two later, and Jim bay Him was there. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>old deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't make the team I got. I got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about a week later, Hey Carl, I'm the head

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<v Speaker 1>coach of the women's basketball team.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you want to know where this is going?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Did you do it? Coach coach Quentin Richardson was like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing this whole men's practice squad, kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>what Yukon was doing. We wanted our.

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<v Speaker 2>Best supposed to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, well everyone does it now, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Back in the day, it might have been like a

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<v Speaker 3>newer thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was newer. I was one of the

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<v Speaker 1>first ones at Syracuse to kind of do this. But

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<v Speaker 1>I went into the meeting and it was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>get a gatorade, put your name on it, you get

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<v Speaker 1>a pair of shoes to all the kids show up

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<v Speaker 1>to this thing. And my favorite story, I'll tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite story was Carrie Lambier. I hadn't talked about

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Carry Lambier, Bill Lambier's daughter, daughter. She

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<v Speaker 1>was one of our power formers at the time. She's big,

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<v Speaker 1>she was a beast, and she was she was good.

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously I had the NBA pedigree. But I remember

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<v Speaker 1>one of the assistant coaches going to me, He's like, Carl,

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<v Speaker 1>go as hard as you fucking can't do it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I could still like dunk this. So but the women's

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<v Speaker 1>ball was a little bit smaller than I was adjusting

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<v Speaker 1>to like using that a little bit. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>remember going fucking toe to toe and the paint and

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<v Speaker 1>she would kick my fucking ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude. Really, they weren't allowed.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a rule that you guys weren't allowed to dunk.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys could do anything, but you weren't allowed to dunk.

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<v Speaker 2>And like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so funny though, because it didn't take you a

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<v Speaker 3>second to learn how to like play against the girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, I mean I was. I obviously I was excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the opportunity because I knew how fundamental and skilled. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but what I didn't clock was the toughness and like

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<v Speaker 1>the physicality of the women. I just assumed it would

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<v Speaker 1>be a little less physical. It was actually more physical.

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<v Speaker 3>So ever realized everyone says that everyone because I heard

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<v Speaker 3>that too. You just have to because when guys are

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<v Speaker 3>so much more athletic, Like I don't care what anyone

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<v Speaker 3>says that, yes, there's a lot of athletic females, but

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<v Speaker 3>guys are just built different, and so we, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>have to be more physical. And so when our practice

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<v Speaker 3>players come in, they're like like, shit, we got the

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<v Speaker 3>fucking shit beat out of us today. We're like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>we have to like to keep up with you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>Like there's no way that you you can't. So I

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<v Speaker 3>just think it's funny too though, because our practice players

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<v Speaker 3>is like the first.

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<v Speaker 2>Ones, like you know, you're playing, so sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna like hit someone in the boo where we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna hit you guys, like in the thing someone if

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<v Speaker 3>you're posting.

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<v Speaker 2>Some guy up down low and he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I was also like trying to like like get

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<v Speaker 1>some like leasuarage and I'm like putting my head in

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<v Speaker 1>her tist like.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say that the no dunking policy is

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<v Speaker 1>the real thing, because we had like I got frustrated

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<v Speaker 1>at one point and it was like kind of backing

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<v Speaker 1>down and I did like a pump fake and like

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<v Speaker 1>drop step and I can like to like step and

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<v Speaker 1>dunk and I did it, and the coach goes, don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever fucking do that, ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Carl, just like fuck you females exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Just because it's not a part of like I don't,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just not a part of the women's game.

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<v Speaker 1>So they just like.

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<v Speaker 3>Realistic, there's not anyone doing what Carl can do. Especially

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<v Speaker 3>if I played fucking men's volleyball.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just no way.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I remember, this is a crazy memory, but

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<v Speaker 1>there was a guard from Rutgers at the time who

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the best players in college basketball. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Cappy Pond. Oh my gosh, yet what she was sick,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I would wear this a like different colored jersey. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>i'd be Cappy for a plaque of practice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically I just ran around like a maniac, like screens

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<v Speaker 1>are being set. I just ran all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>And there was one particular person that had the guard yep,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would play kind of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude. Kapy is like one of the best players that

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<v Speaker 2>ever crossed the w n B.

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<v Speaker 3>A like that is in saying Carl that you know

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<v Speaker 3>these people, this is just like blowing my damn mind. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember her vividly because she was yeah, like we

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<v Speaker 1>had to kind of prepare for that game. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>always could tell my friends and were like.

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<v Speaker 5>Was Carl's saying we You hear that He's saying we

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<v Speaker 5>and there no.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say I think that like our practice

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<v Speaker 3>players are men who are like in female sports, and

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<v Speaker 3>like you're in it, like you're playing or like your

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<v Speaker 3>manager or whatever, like you have a better appreciation for

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<v Speaker 3>how how hard, like how hard we work in like

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<v Speaker 3>the athleticism that we have. It's different than the men,

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<v Speaker 3>but there's still an appreciation for it. And like the

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<v Speaker 3>fact that you're still a fan of it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's because you were in it. Like I just love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it right more, I mean more than Like

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<v Speaker 1>the competitiveness was incredible. The fundamentals were I actually believe

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<v Speaker 1>the fundamentals are better than the men. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bouts passing and pick screens, setting screens. So the defending

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<v Speaker 1>it was like the women I felt like were like

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<v Speaker 1>they do it, they did it better than us, and

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<v Speaker 1>we got away.

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<v Speaker 3>We have to like we have to we have to

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<v Speaker 3>pay to do the small details because you guys are

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<v Speaker 3>just too athletic that you'd pick us apart if you

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<v Speaker 3>don't have the right angle, if you don't have the

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<v Speaker 3>right I don't know, defensive scheme.

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<v Speaker 4>Like Ultimately, that's the that's the whole purpose of having

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<v Speaker 4>the men's squad is to just kind of like really

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<v Speaker 4>and make everything a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have to send you, guys the screenshot. There's it's

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<v Speaker 1>called it's called The Daily the Daily Orange, which is

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<v Speaker 1>our new student newspaper, And it was like men's bast

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<v Speaker 1>or men's team cast offs practicing with the women or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the w b A still has practice squads,

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<v Speaker 3>so you need to get on the practice squad of

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<v Speaker 3>the Liberty.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, if you need an extra. Well, it's funny. I

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<v Speaker 1>live at green Point, Brooklyn, and the Liberty are building

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<v Speaker 1>their brand new practice facility right right outside where I live.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude, what's written in the stars, Carl.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm already What if I got traded up there and

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<v Speaker 3>then actually me and carlill become like best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you're gonna say it like we get married.

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<v Speaker 2>Or something, I mean, and then I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>One part of your Summer House, lor Carl, that I

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<v Speaker 4>still haven't watched, like everything from the beginning, but it's

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<v Speaker 4>that you were like mister Sales, like just love, just

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<v Speaker 4>love sales.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, so you graduated from ser your cues with

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<v Speaker 1>what degree? Television radio, television, radio and film? And what's

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<v Speaker 1>funny is in my eighth grade like yearbook, we had

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<v Speaker 1>like like superlins, like most likely to be an NFL player,

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<v Speaker 1>most likely to be on TV? It was it was

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<v Speaker 1>me because I always liked I liked the mic in

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<v Speaker 1>the camera and like a lot of my friends from

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<v Speaker 1>my hometown and growing up aren't surprised that I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the TV world. They're surprised that the way it is,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, Prova. They thought it might be me like

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<v Speaker 1>hosting something or being an anchor or doing that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little different.

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<v Speaker 4>I think if the three of us can all agree,

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<v Speaker 4>we have always liked holding a microphone.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all have a knack for say.

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<v Speaker 2>It just comes natural. We have the face and the

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<v Speaker 2>voice for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was on a face for radio.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, no, so you graduated and then ju

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<v Speaker 4>were you in NYC right after you graduated, like came

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<v Speaker 4>straight here?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, So it's funny like when you're a junior

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<v Speaker 1>senior at Syracuse, a lot of the alumni, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe either like in the TV film program, alumni will

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<v Speaker 1>go to LA or go to New York and there's

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<v Speaker 1>like a at the time, it feels like it feels

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<v Speaker 1>like what like Reddit is. It's like a forum, but

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<v Speaker 1>just for Syracuse University. And kids would be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I live in LA. I just graduated last year. I

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<v Speaker 1>have an open couch if anybody wants to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>crash my couch for two months, no problem. Like alumni

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<v Speaker 1>helped each other out. So when I graduated from Syracuse,

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<v Speaker 1>I moved to LA like a week and a half

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<v Speaker 1>after graduation, one bag. I brought an acoustic guitar, like

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<v Speaker 1>a total loser car.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, dude, carl out of everything that you might need

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<v Speaker 3>to go across the damn world, you brought a fucking guitar.

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<v Speaker 1>Acoustic guitar that I like could barely play, like you know, Oasis, Wonderwall.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I had a dream and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to work in the TV, the TV world.

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<v Speaker 3>That's actually hilarious. Wait, when what year did you start Summerhouse?

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<v Speaker 1>First season of Summerhouse started filming June twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>This is ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, dude, two years.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a sophomore in college.

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<v Speaker 1>I was I had just gotten back from a visa

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<v Speaker 1>on a six day bachelor party, barely slept, and Kyle

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<v Speaker 1>and I drove out to the Hampton. So we had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea what the hell was happening. I know, we

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<v Speaker 1>were already we were already doing this kind of thing

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<v Speaker 1>with friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll never forget when I first moved to New

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<v Speaker 1>York in twenty thirty. So I'd been in LA for

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<v Speaker 1>quite a while and then I came to New York

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<v Speaker 1>and I went to dinner with some friends and they're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing this summer. I'm like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hanging out in New York City And they're like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>come out to the Hamptons. And what I had learned,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's twenty somethings, thirty somethings, finance, fashion, tech,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. They were like renting a house on

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend with like a big group of friends. So

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<v Speaker 1>I joined a house in twenty fourteen and twenty fifteen. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did what we kind of do. I met Kyle.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget the first time met Kyle last. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know I've ever told you this. Oh lord, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a true story. I was at surf Lodge. Now, I

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<v Speaker 1>was the guy back in the day. I'd get the

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<v Speaker 1>massive bottle of rose like yeah, like it was always

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<v Speaker 1>taller than like a five foot person.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had this bottle at the table and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like my like chumming the water fishing. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like a luring in all the cute girls and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course it was embarrassing. I'm not saying this is cool.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's cool, it's fine. No one literally, no one's

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<v Speaker 2>judging you. No one is judging.

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<v Speaker 1>So have this big bottle and it was one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things it reminded me of, like it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like I was like trying to hold cork and overwalks

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<v Speaker 1>Kyle Cook and he's like, I think he this is

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<v Speaker 1>what he said, but this is kind of my memory.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, sick bottle dude, Okay, I get some,

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like what I said. I had this thing

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<v Speaker 1>where the bottle was so big and heavy that like

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I could pick it up with one hand and like

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<v Speaker 1>pour it. It wasn't easy, but it was like a

0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:23.760
<v Speaker 1>douchebag move, like can you like pour it with one hand?

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 1>So I got a Kyle, I go, you can have

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<v Speaker 1>something if you can pour it with one hand. He

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<v Speaker 1>grabs it and he like couldn't do it. So how

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<v Speaker 1>it's done. And then I we partied, we hung out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I swear like a couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 1>I was at Equinox in Soho where I lived in

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<v Speaker 1>New York, and I was at the gym at like

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<v Speaker 1>seven thirty in the morning and I look over and

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<v Speaker 1>here's this blonde kid that looked like the dude from

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<v Speaker 1>Surflage and he's at the bench press, like ripping weights

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<v Speaker 1>and getting after one. It's two plates, bro, two plates,

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<v Speaker 1>And I literally was yo, what's up, dude, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like yo, And we got each other's numbers and

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 1>just became friends from there. But the honest to god truth,

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I was at my dentist's office a year later. I

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 1>didn't know anything about a TV show. Nothing I was getting.

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>I worked in sales, the west sales guy thing. I

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:20.399
<v Speaker 1>was like a really good sales rep. I worked for

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:24.159
<v Speaker 1>a medical dental company. I'd sold braces and wires and orthonics.

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I lived here in New York City. I worked New

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:29.439
<v Speaker 1>Jersey and all that. So one of our one of

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:33.320
<v Speaker 1>my dentists, who was a friend of Kyle's also, he

0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:35.400
<v Speaker 1>would give me cleanings and I'd go in and pitch

0:27:35.480 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>him new products. I went into his office in May

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty sixteen. I get in the chair, I lay back,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, Yo, your boys are going to be

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:46.440
<v Speaker 1>on some Bravo show. And I go what And he's like, yeah,

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:49.040
<v Speaker 1>Kyle and Everett are going to be on some Hampton's

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>reality show. And in the chair, I stall the email.

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:54.359
<v Speaker 1>I lay back and I wrote Kyle and Everett an email,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey boys, I'm a Lane. Lane was a dentist and

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 1>at Lane's office. What's this show about? Yeah, Kyle emailed

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 1>right back and said, it's funny you asked we're looking

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 1>for another guy, say less. I called Kyle after that

0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:09.040
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, yeah, me and him knew each other,

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:11.760
<v Speaker 1>we were friends, but it wasn't like, you know, I

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what was going on. And he's like, yeah,

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>we're we look, we had some guy back out. We're

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:18.000
<v Speaker 1>looking for one more dude to complete our house. I

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:19.439
<v Speaker 1>know you're a lot of fun and seem like a

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>good guy. Like what do you think? And I'm like, okay,

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:22.720
<v Speaker 1>fuck it.

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:23.800
<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Isn't it crazy the chain of events that just like

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 4>because you went to surflage that one day and Kyle

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:31.879
<v Speaker 4>came up to you that one day and then you

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:34.840
<v Speaker 4>were eating out like it all leads to like, I mean,

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 4>same with when I met fucking Lindsay, Like it's just

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:38.720
<v Speaker 4>like so random.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget She came home from the bar that night,

0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget it. She was like I met the

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 1>coolest guy ever, and like you we're going to do

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.280
<v Speaker 1>a podcast together. And she had like this napkin of

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 1>like a contract. Hey, you guys had drawn up some

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 1>like arrangement on a piece of paper.

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<v Speaker 4>We laughed about this the other day, Sophie, I don't

0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 4>know if you know this. The night I met Lindsay,

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:00.840
<v Speaker 4>I like told her because I was a Bleacher Report

0:29:00.920 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 4>or whatever, and then it's just the most Lindsy thing ever.

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:06.240
<v Speaker 4>She was like, you know what would be like a

0:29:06.240 --> 0:29:09.240
<v Speaker 4>good podcast, like a girl and a guy talking about sports,

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 4>be like inclusive bla blah blah blah blah. And I

0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:13.200
<v Speaker 4>was like, honestly, yeah, good idea whatever. And then we

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 4>kept drinking and she was like, you can't steal my

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:16.720
<v Speaker 4>fucking idea and take it.

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 2>To Bleacher Report tomorrow. And I was like, I was like, no,

0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:19.640
<v Speaker 2>I would never.

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<v Speaker 4>So she got a bar napkin, pulled it out and

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<v Speaker 4>like sharp eat a contract on a bar napkin, and

0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 4>then made me sign it.

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<v Speaker 2>So funny and then we joke.

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<v Speaker 4>We talked about it again the other day and she

0:29:27.640 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 4>was like, boy, I guess you broke your fucking contract.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a podcast girl up out here we are Michael,

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<v Speaker 2>I know my bad. All right, y'all sign for a

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<v Speaker 3>And I want to I want to know because I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't realize how in depth your relationship with Kyle really

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<v Speaker 3>was or is is it like so weird to look

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<v Speaker 3>back on the last like two years because I think

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people because I'm not in the reality

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<v Speaker 3>TV world, and so I've asked Wes this multiple times.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, are these relationships like real relationships?

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<v Speaker 3>Like when you are on a show, is like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be because you're part of the show,

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<v Speaker 3>or like do you genuinely kind of start liking your castmates?

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel like Kyle's one that you guys have

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<v Speaker 3>been through so much with and so like just like

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<v Speaker 3>the first three episodes of this season, I just feel

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:42.760
<v Speaker 3>like you have just grown and matured so much, like

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<v Speaker 3>every aspect of your life, and like now I feel

0:30:45.520 --> 0:30:47.959
<v Speaker 3>like you're looking at Kyle like, hey, like you can

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:49.640
<v Speaker 3>get out of this and you can have you can

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 3>blossom too. But I feel like you're in a tough

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<v Speaker 3>spot of like him needing to realize it himself, but

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<v Speaker 3>also you kind of being his mentor because you've been

0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 3>through it.

0:30:57.440 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Very solid perspective. I yeah, I mean it's interesting that

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:03.880
<v Speaker 1>Kyle's been through a lot with me on the other side.

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:07.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, before I was getting sober, Kyle had to

0:31:07.000 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 1>deal with a lot of eye ups and downs. You know,

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:11.120
<v Speaker 1>I'd show up the work pretty screwed up from the

0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 1>night before. I infamously showed up the work forgetting my laptop.

0:31:17.040 --> 0:31:19.200
<v Speaker 1>So you can put up with a lot over the

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 1>years with me, and you know, we're best friends. I

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:24.920
<v Speaker 1>love the guy to death, but I definitely you know,

0:31:25.000 --> 0:31:28.320
<v Speaker 1>it's been hard seeing, you know, some of these challenges

0:31:28.320 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 1>that he's gone through. But I will say, like we

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 1>both like when I'm having a tough time, he's there

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:34.760
<v Speaker 1>for me. When you have a tough time on there

0:31:34.800 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 1>for him. But I try not to be you know,

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>just stand back and like be a helpful person. But

0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I've tried to voice some things that I feel like

0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>are important. But we're very different people. And what's the

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>psycho fitness guy that I love to death? Like it's

0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>it's gotten less of that, and I'm trying to push

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>him back into more yeahness and wellness because I think

0:31:56.400 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 1>that will unlock some things for him as well.

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 4>Yep, do you obviously you're like I think you're a

0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:06.320
<v Speaker 4>hyper self aware person, especially now that.

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:10.000
<v Speaker 1>Just too much to my own phone, probably I know.

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:13.920
<v Speaker 2>But do you like how much do you tiptoe?

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 4>Because I feel like you would worry about having kind

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:20.040
<v Speaker 4>of like the god complex now of being the sober

0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 4>person dealing with you know, like our dumb drunk cry

0:32:25.840 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 4>baby moments and stuff. I think you do a great

0:32:29.360 --> 0:32:33.080
<v Speaker 4>job of like sharing your story without being condescending towards

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 4>other people. But kind of what Sophie brought up about now,

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:40.200
<v Speaker 4>it's kind of like your time to give Kyle that

0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:45.520
<v Speaker 4>like brotherly advice. How do you navigate like not coming

0:32:45.560 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 4>off pretentious in the like sobriety like lens.

0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:51.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's amazing. I'm glad you asked that, West

0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 1>because I think that's something I'm very conscious of. I

0:32:55.520 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>think when I first got sober, I mean even you

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:00.760
<v Speaker 1>could ask Lendsey probably like I would look at people

0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:03.480
<v Speaker 1>early on when I got sober, like, oh, you're just strong.

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I had to tie in mighty, like I was

0:33:06.520 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 1>better than you kind of a little bit. And it's

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not a great thing to be in early sobriety,

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>like you don't have it all figured out. I had

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 1>to muffle myself a little bit and kind of step

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 1>back and go, listen, whatever is it, Like whatever works

0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:24.000
<v Speaker 1>best for them, that's okay. You know, not everybody's an alcoholic,

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:26.760
<v Speaker 1>not everybody's a drug addict. You don't need to insert

0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 1>your own story into every little thing. So I've just

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:32.000
<v Speaker 1>tried to step back. You know. I have some friends that,

0:33:32.200 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>of course, like, deep down in my body, am I

0:33:34.680 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 1>like should I say something?

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>But I don't. I try to step back and just

0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:42.240
<v Speaker 1>be a support, be a friend, and I try not

0:33:42.320 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>to make a lot of our conversation all about sobriety.

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 1>And it's one of the most important things in my life.

0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>But I want to be just a regular guy too,

0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes I love my sober community. Sometimes when you're

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 1>newly sober. It's like all you talk about.

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:58.120
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I also want to say, though, I don't

0:33:58.160 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 3>think that I think the amount of people that I

0:34:02.240 --> 0:34:04.719
<v Speaker 3>know because they know I do this with Wes, that

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 3>they bring you up and they're like, you know, it's

0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 3>really cool to see someone who is sober on the show. Like,

0:34:09.120 --> 0:34:11.560
<v Speaker 3>I think you're not giving yourself enough credit because I

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 3>think that you've given a lot of people inspiration who

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:17.720
<v Speaker 3>are in their late twenties early thirties, well like whatever

0:34:17.800 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 3>it is to like be sober and totally be like

0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 3>so okay with that and like stand in full confidence

0:34:23.160 --> 0:34:24.359
<v Speaker 3>to do that. So I think you need to give

0:34:24.400 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 3>yourself more credit about the amount of people that you're

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:29.879
<v Speaker 3>seriously like inspiring to do that, because I know there's

0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:31.319
<v Speaker 3>a lot of people who want to but they're like,

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 3>oh I might not fit in, or like how am

0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 3>I going to go socializer? And it's like no, Carl

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:37.840
<v Speaker 3>is like the prime example, and like, I think you

0:34:37.880 --> 0:34:38.839
<v Speaker 3>give a lot of people hope.

0:34:38.840 --> 0:34:40.160
<v Speaker 2>So I think you need to give yourself a little

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:41.319
<v Speaker 2>bit more credit now.

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. It's something I'm working on, is receiving

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:45.400
<v Speaker 1>of compliments and praise.

0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 2>I think we're all bad at that in some.

0:34:47.719 --> 0:34:50.239
<v Speaker 1>Way, you know what I mean. Well, I think, you know,

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm very I feel it's not lost on me the

0:34:53.680 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>impact that having you know me and this experience and

0:34:57.239 --> 0:34:59.239
<v Speaker 1>kind of being honest about my ups and downs. Yeah,

0:34:59.280 --> 0:35:01.439
<v Speaker 1>and I think it's more relatable to have a group

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 1>of friends that, Okay, one of the people in the

0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:06.319
<v Speaker 1>group doesn't drink anymore, doesn't party like that, but he's

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:08.839
<v Speaker 1>still is social, still like to have fun. Ye. And

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:10.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm proud that I get to kind of showcase a

0:35:10.800 --> 0:35:13.240
<v Speaker 1>little bit of that experience to the audience for sure,

0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. And I think also I will I'm not

0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:18.719
<v Speaker 1>going to speak for Kyle or Lindsay or Amanda who

0:35:18.800 --> 0:35:20.880
<v Speaker 1>did spend a lot of time with me under the influence.

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I was a nightmare. It was a fucking pain in

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:27.400
<v Speaker 1>the ass. I was an asshole. I was rude, I

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:30.319
<v Speaker 1>was a dick. I was I was just like I

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>was chaoic.

0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 1>So I think if anything, the way, it's well's I

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:37.480
<v Speaker 1>told my close friends, they were like, thank god, yeah

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of thing.

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I think people love you.

0:35:40.320 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 3>You don't need that stuff, you know what I mean,

0:35:42.280 --> 0:35:44.520
<v Speaker 3>Some people, actually, I don't know if anyone needs it.

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 2>But like some people feel like that's the whole identity.

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 1>I thought it gave me this kind of like confidence

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:54.279
<v Speaker 1>and yeah who I thought I wanted to be. But

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:57.279
<v Speaker 1>as a result, it actually was the opposite. And I've

0:35:57.360 --> 0:36:00.160
<v Speaker 1>learned it. I've learned to kind of fall back into like, no,

0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:01.839
<v Speaker 1>this is just me. If you don't like me for this,

0:36:01.920 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 1>then okay, no worries.

0:36:05.400 --> 0:36:07.800
<v Speaker 2>You don't like me, then fuck you. It's your problem,

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:08.880
<v Speaker 2>not mine.

0:36:10.600 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 5>Story. Yeah, we've talked about it. One story Carl that

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 5>really like it didn't like change how I kind of

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 5>thought about everything. But two summers ago and Sophie, this didn't.

0:36:21.239 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 5>I don't think it made the show. But basically, the

0:36:24.120 --> 0:36:25.359
<v Speaker 5>girls stole.

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 4>Our costumes for like a costume party and do you

0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 4>say costume?

0:36:29.120 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Weird costume? Cost costume?

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:40.440
<v Speaker 4>Well anyway, costume, no age And okay, so they steal

0:36:40.440 --> 0:36:42.960
<v Speaker 4>our costumes, we can't find them anywhere, and Carl is

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 4>like tweaking out, like like he's where the fuck is

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 4>my fucking costume?

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 2>Fuck, everyone like losing it. And I was kind of

0:36:51.880 --> 0:36:53.879
<v Speaker 2>like Carl, Carl, you good, Like we'll find them later.

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 4>And Carl, to your credit, you took a breath, and

0:36:57.719 --> 0:37:00.600
<v Speaker 4>you're like, as someone who is no longer drinking a

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:04.280
<v Speaker 4>part of these parties, I feel included with my outfits,

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 4>with planning the party, with all of this, and that

0:37:07.120 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 4>was such a big moment for me to click. Like,

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:13.280
<v Speaker 4>even without necessarily like drinking, there's still a zillion different

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:16.040
<v Speaker 4>other ways to like feel included and being be a

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 4>part of things that are drinking centric, but they're not

0:37:20.520 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 4>specifically like drinking activities. And when you when you told

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:25.560
<v Speaker 4>me that, you're like, this is what I this is

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:27.799
<v Speaker 4>how I like have fun and feel a part of

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:29.919
<v Speaker 4>everything and feel a part of the group. I kind

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:32.280
<v Speaker 4>of in that moment switched being like, yeah, fuck you girls,

0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:35.920
<v Speaker 4>give them. Then you crashed out.

0:37:37.560 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Now you nailed it. I think I was just gonna

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:43.880
<v Speaker 1>say I wish they showed that moment because I I

0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:50.240
<v Speaker 1>melted down, Sophie. I bought five four costumes thatching I'll explain.

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I bought four costumes for Kyle, Jesse West and myself.

0:37:56.920 --> 0:37:59.839
<v Speaker 1>They were kind of douicy, fun American flag July fourth

0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 1>already outfits. I put them in the room, I go

0:38:04.400 --> 0:38:06.600
<v Speaker 1>run samarants and setting up I come back. They're gone

0:38:07.080 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 1>now I have nothing else to wear other than a

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 1>hot dump, and I don't want to wear the hot dog,

0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:18.560
<v Speaker 1>but I like tore up the house. Everybody lied to

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:21.480
<v Speaker 1>my face. Sierra specifically was like I don't have the

0:38:21.719 --> 0:38:23.840
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I know you're lying to me.

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:27.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't like you anymore. Because long story short to

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 1>west point, there is something like some of my sober friends.

0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I have a friend who says this very well. He's

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:34.800
<v Speaker 1>like Carl, just because I'm sober, it doesn't mean I

0:38:34.840 --> 0:38:37.279
<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out or stop getting dressed up. Yeah,

0:38:37.800 --> 0:38:40.960
<v Speaker 1>and getting dressed up is another element of like that

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:44.320
<v Speaker 1>feeling of you're a part of it, you're participating, you're social,

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:47.319
<v Speaker 1>you're having fun. And for me, dressing up also like

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I can act and play it, like acting almost as

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:54.319
<v Speaker 1>like a character and being sillier, goofy or whatever it

0:38:54.400 --> 0:38:57.719
<v Speaker 1>is to dressing up, especially our theme parties. I love

0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:01.000
<v Speaker 1>it because it gives me like another of just something

0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:03.799
<v Speaker 1>fun to do and yeah, out of participant.

0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:06.480
<v Speaker 3>So dude, you guys go balls to the walls with

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 3>your outfits like.

0:39:09.520 --> 0:39:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Miracle Well Wes is also gone balls ball with themes.

0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:15.319
<v Speaker 1>You've got a great theme to start the summer at

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:19.279
<v Speaker 1>the country fair. You know he's he love his missourius

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:20.280
<v Speaker 1>to the to the table.

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:21.320
<v Speaker 2>What do you love? Guys?

0:39:21.400 --> 0:39:23.920
<v Speaker 3>Now that we're talking about this, I have got to

0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:27.080
<v Speaker 3>know everyone wants to know how you made out with Bailey?

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>How or what not?

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 2>How? But like how did it come about? Like that

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:37.520
<v Speaker 2>is so good? We can't ask that question, Sophie, Yes

0:39:37.560 --> 0:39:37.799
<v Speaker 2>I can.

0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:39.600
<v Speaker 3>I can ask whatever the hell I want to ask it,

0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 3>so if he wants to answer or not. And here's

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:44.360
<v Speaker 3>my thing is, like we have just known you, Carl

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.319
<v Speaker 3>for like just being like the data of the house.

0:39:46.320 --> 0:39:48.320
<v Speaker 3>You're always the one who's like up running a million

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:51.439
<v Speaker 3>miles in the morning, getting everyone in bagels, like doing it, yeah,

0:39:51.480 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 3>the bagels. But then we also know you as of

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 3>course you and Lindsay had your little thing, so you've

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 3>always like kind of been in some type of relationship.

0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:00.680
<v Speaker 2>But like this is like fun, Carl.

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:02.719
<v Speaker 3>The summer is like so far fun Carl, Like you

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:04.400
<v Speaker 3>just give two fucks and I love to see it.

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:06.680
<v Speaker 3>Like so far you and Amanda this year are like

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:08.760
<v Speaker 3>fuck it, this is who we are and I absolutely

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:09.160
<v Speaker 3>love it.

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:11.720
<v Speaker 2>But like I want to know more about the Bailey sitch.

0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 2>That's so fun.

0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 1>No, we I mean it's funny watching back the first

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:17.240
<v Speaker 1>few episodes where she, you know, she's kind of crushing

0:40:17.239 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 1>out Ben the Australian, which I think we're all crushing

0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:25.200
<v Speaker 1>on Ben same, I mean west than I am. Ben.

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Ben's Ben's a fucking stunt and he he's like he's

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:31.240
<v Speaker 1>a great addition to the group and such good energy.

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:33.799
<v Speaker 1>But how did the girls kind of crush on him?

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:36.839
<v Speaker 1>Was actually kind of new new experience where like there's

0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:39.840
<v Speaker 1>this other guy in the house. Everybody's like, oh wait.

0:40:40.239 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Jell us, were you guys like wait a second, be honest, No,

0:40:46.880 --> 0:40:47.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm dealing.

0:40:47.480 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 4>I've just in my I've been in my own head

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:52.680
<v Speaker 4>for two years. He's he can't have fun.

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Ben, I think was the perfect person for that.

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:59.120
<v Speaker 1>He's he wasn't like I don't know, He's just a

0:40:59.160 --> 0:41:00.840
<v Speaker 1>good dude. And the way he handled a lot of

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:03.680
<v Speaker 1>that attention I thought was a very He's like shoy,

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 1>he's like very shot, Like he gets uncomfortable when girls

0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:08.680
<v Speaker 1>are like you're so hot, he like gets red and.

0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:10.800
<v Speaker 3>Well he said that he grew up like in a

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 3>very religious, religious, religious family, so they never really talked about.

0:41:14.080 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Any of that type of stuff.

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:17.560
<v Speaker 3>So I think that that helps a little bit of

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:20.040
<v Speaker 3>like not speaking of not being able to take a compliment.

0:41:20.160 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Ben, I can't compliment getting fat.

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:27.239
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, Bailey and I, you know, you'll see how

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:30.240
<v Speaker 1>the season plays out. I think it was a slower

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:35.200
<v Speaker 1>burn to get to that point. But I think Bailey's

0:41:35.200 --> 0:41:36.919
<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun. I mean, I love her over

0:41:37.040 --> 0:41:40.879
<v Speaker 1>sharing and like all the information I'm talking about, it's

0:41:40.920 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's sweet, Like she's been through some brutal dating stuff,

0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 1>and I give her that first dinner where she opened

0:41:47.400 --> 0:41:48.239
<v Speaker 1>up about sweet green.

0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 2>She got a fucking did you see you got a

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:54.239
<v Speaker 2>sweet green? I saw it. But at least Carl's more

0:41:54.480 --> 0:41:57.600
<v Speaker 2>like has empathetic what is that word? Empathy?

0:41:57.760 --> 0:41:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Empathy?

0:41:58.320 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then you're over there going back to Jess,

0:42:01.239 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 2>like two girls crying on the first dinner losers.

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:09.279
<v Speaker 1>Well, I was like, I was just like, oh, yeah,

0:42:10.840 --> 0:42:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm with West though, like that was you know, it's

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:16.000
<v Speaker 1>unusual at the first dinner for someone to kind of

0:42:16.040 --> 0:42:18.839
<v Speaker 1>go to that level of emotion, and I think, yeah,

0:42:18.880 --> 0:42:20.800
<v Speaker 1>it was funny as hell. Looking back, I think I

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:23.480
<v Speaker 1>did tell Bailey though, I go, you're gonna get a speaker.

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:27.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the shot of Carl is him doing the fake

0:42:27.840 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 4>puppy dog poutlet where he's.

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:33.960
<v Speaker 3>Like, guys, I want to start house and I'm just

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:37.040
<v Speaker 3>gonna have complete crash out, crying the whole time, emptying

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 3>my whole story, and see how you guys handle it.

0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I will, Oh, guys, that is so not like me.

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:43.840
<v Speaker 2>All.

0:42:44.080 --> 0:42:47.600
<v Speaker 5>I remember if you if when you guys play the

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:50.000
<v Speaker 5>Liberty if Carl, I can get court side.

0:42:51.800 --> 0:42:55.319
<v Speaker 2>Courtside Liberty Fever tickets in You're you got a room

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:57.000
<v Speaker 2>at the house? Hey, what else are we supposed to

0:42:57.000 --> 0:42:57.680
<v Speaker 2>be talking about here?

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, reality, Bailey Bailey, the maakeout was definitely hot. Then

0:43:02.160 --> 0:43:03.839
<v Speaker 1>I will say it was a great It was good.

0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 1>It was hot.

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:07.760
<v Speaker 3>I can co sign that it make it would as something.

0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 3>Is it weird like being in the house, like when

0:43:10.719 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 3>everyone's there and you guys just do stuff like that?

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Is it just like like I mean, we're real friends,

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:19.800
<v Speaker 1>like we we I think we just loved having a

0:43:19.880 --> 0:43:22.719
<v Speaker 1>good time. And I think the more we realize like

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 1>the silly like we almost kind of egg each other

0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:28.839
<v Speaker 1>on with like silly vibes or joking or being kind

0:43:28.880 --> 0:43:32.560
<v Speaker 1>of ridiculous. And I think the more we spend a

0:43:32.600 --> 0:43:34.360
<v Speaker 1>lot of time on camera that are off camera that

0:43:34.400 --> 0:43:37.839
<v Speaker 1>you guys don't see. So we do bond. I mean

0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:40.120
<v Speaker 1>even Kyle and I and lindsay like the car rides,

0:43:40.440 --> 0:43:42.640
<v Speaker 1>like you don't see all the car rides, but we

0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:45.640
<v Speaker 1>really hang out three hours in the car, So like

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:48.279
<v Speaker 1>there's just a lot we feel like, I know, we're

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.759
<v Speaker 1>kind of oh, we're all we're all here to make

0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:53.080
<v Speaker 1>a great show. Like let's be ridiculous and weird and

0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:53.799
<v Speaker 1>put it all out there.

0:43:54.480 --> 0:43:56.520
<v Speaker 4>The other thing, though, that I've always said, is like

0:43:56.920 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 4>unlike other reality TV shows where the film scenes where

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 4>it's like here's dinner, make stuff happen, and then you

0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 4>won't see each other and you won't film until like

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.759
<v Speaker 4>two days lunch, like we are the second we walk

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:12.320
<v Speaker 4>in the house. It's full like fifty hours of filming NonStop.

0:44:12.440 --> 0:44:14.279
<v Speaker 4>And after you've done it once and you realize, like

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 4>everything I said here, like this funny moment or whatever,

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:20.320
<v Speaker 4>also don't make it. You're not like trying to be

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:24.839
<v Speaker 4>performative because nothing you want to, like nothing you plan,

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 4>will be on the show, and everything you don't plan

0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:29.640
<v Speaker 4>will be on it. So like it's just a very uh,

0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:32.440
<v Speaker 4>you have to just kind of let your guard down

0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:34.760
<v Speaker 4>and just hang out, because otherwise you'd be exhausted.

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:35.040
<v Speaker 2>Wait.

0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:36.920
<v Speaker 3>I do have a question though, and this is kind

0:44:36.920 --> 0:44:39.480
<v Speaker 3>of for both of you, Carl, this is off the

0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:40.400
<v Speaker 3>walls to just hang tight.

0:44:40.480 --> 0:44:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you guys, do you guys kind of miss like

0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Lindsay being on the show. I mean she jumps back

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:49.439
<v Speaker 2>the episode this week?

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 3>Well, I know because I know she like last week,

0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:56.640
<v Speaker 3>they're like, oh, she doesn't have what's the baby's name, Jema? Yeah, Jimmy,

0:44:56.719 --> 0:44:58.120
<v Speaker 3>she didn't have jim us, so she's gonna come and

0:44:58.200 --> 0:44:59.440
<v Speaker 3>hang out. But like, do you kind of miss her

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:02.640
<v Speaker 3>like energy and just like being friends with her? Yeah?

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Girl, absolutely, and you'll see on this season. I think

0:45:06.120 --> 0:45:08.839
<v Speaker 1>I kind of have to face that feeling a lot

0:45:08.920 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 1>more than I think I realized. You know, we were

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:15.440
<v Speaker 1>very close friends, best friends for four years before we

0:45:15.480 --> 0:45:19.440
<v Speaker 1>started dating, and once we you know, we've been in

0:45:19.520 --> 0:45:21.799
<v Speaker 1>a relationship for less than two years all in all,

0:45:22.640 --> 0:45:25.879
<v Speaker 1>and not try to minimize that, but like since we've

0:45:25.920 --> 0:45:28.400
<v Speaker 1>been broken up and been kind of living our own lives. Like,

0:45:28.480 --> 0:45:31.360
<v Speaker 1>of course, like I miss my friendship with her, I

0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:35.200
<v Speaker 1>miss some of the inside jokes. I love seeing her

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 1>get along with the others, and like her friendships with

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:40.320
<v Speaker 1>the girls have been strong. She bonds really well with

0:45:40.400 --> 0:45:43.879
<v Speaker 1>West and Kyle, and of course I like see those

0:45:44.120 --> 0:45:45.759
<v Speaker 1>and kind of wish I had more of that. But

0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:50.759
<v Speaker 1>I think you'll see on this season the inside of me.

0:45:50.840 --> 0:45:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I wish I want I want to be

0:45:52.640 --> 0:45:54.320
<v Speaker 1>closer to her in some way and be friendly, but

0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:58.240
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be disrespectful. And there's still some closure.

0:45:58.320 --> 0:46:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I think that needed to happen. Yep, and you'll see

0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:02.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of at the end of the summer hurt Lindsay

0:46:02.640 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 1>and I do talk, which I think was really powerful.

0:46:05.480 --> 0:46:08.319
<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, tell us about when she brought you your mail.

0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 1>So this has been going on for several years now.

0:46:13.239 --> 0:46:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you the beginning of it. Obviously, we were

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:19.360
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, we broke up. I attended a Christmas

0:46:19.440 --> 0:46:23.160
<v Speaker 1>party maybe five months after we broke up for our

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 1>company that you know, the production company. We're a party.

0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I showed it to the Christmas party. Everybody writes their

0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:32.640
<v Speaker 1>name on like hello, my name is, puts it on

0:46:32.680 --> 0:46:35.800
<v Speaker 1>your sweater or your jacket. I put my name on

0:46:35.880 --> 0:46:38.880
<v Speaker 1>my shirt. I'm hanging out and overwalks one of our

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:42.200
<v Speaker 1>producers with a bag and it says, hello, my name

0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:45.680
<v Speaker 1>is Carl's mail and she's like, this is for you

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:50.719
<v Speaker 1>from Lindsay and I'm like okay. And then the next

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:52.480
<v Speaker 1>event we went to, I think I might have been

0:46:52.520 --> 0:46:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the reunion. She came into the green room and the

0:46:55.080 --> 0:46:58.120
<v Speaker 1>reunion and gave me a little stack of mail. Then

0:46:58.160 --> 0:47:01.680
<v Speaker 1>again last fall we were somewhere else, but it's been something.

0:47:01.800 --> 0:47:06.319
<v Speaker 1>We had an apartment together, so she it actually has

0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:07.400
<v Speaker 1>been really funny because I.

0:47:07.400 --> 0:47:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Think, but the most recent one was like really cute.

0:47:10.800 --> 0:47:13.760
<v Speaker 1>On my birthday, we were all together for a press

0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:17.160
<v Speaker 1>thing for Serious Radio and I walked into our kind

0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:20.239
<v Speaker 1>of dressing room and she was there. Everybody was singing

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:23.440
<v Speaker 1>me Happy birthday. It was really sweet. She even you know, participated,

0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:28.680
<v Speaker 1>and then like a thick like here you go, bail.

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, Wait, Carl, what if this like brings

0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:34.800
<v Speaker 3>you guys back to like you guys are both thriving.

0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:37.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm just talking shit, and like the male is what

0:47:37.960 --> 0:47:39.960
<v Speaker 3>brings you guys back to like getting married?

0:47:40.800 --> 0:47:43.800
<v Speaker 1>That would be an unbelievable Hollywood ending to all of this.

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, I will say, she looks amazing. She's

0:47:48.320 --> 0:47:50.799
<v Speaker 1>she looks hot, dude, she looks hot. She looks great.

0:47:50.840 --> 0:47:53.319
<v Speaker 1>And I Kyle and I think even wester n Jesse

0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:55.359
<v Speaker 1>might have caught me looking at her this past summer,

0:47:55.360 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe once or twice.

0:47:57.080 --> 0:47:58.839
<v Speaker 3>But I mean that, but both of you guys really

0:47:58.920 --> 0:48:00.839
<v Speaker 3>are I feel like you guys are just like really

0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:03.480
<v Speaker 3>healthy in every aspect or trying to be healthy, and

0:48:03.560 --> 0:48:07.600
<v Speaker 3>just like mentally, physically, emotionally, you guys are just really thriving.

0:48:07.719 --> 0:48:09.160
<v Speaker 2>And that's like good to see. I know that she

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:11.600
<v Speaker 2>probably loves seeing you like that too, so like it

0:48:13.040 --> 0:48:14.719
<v Speaker 2>looks really good on Lindsay for sure.

0:48:14.840 --> 0:48:18.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. She I mean, I I know her very very

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:21.360
<v Speaker 1>well and to see her she's just lighter and happier,

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.600
<v Speaker 1>and you know, just seeing her thrive, it just makes

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:28.480
<v Speaker 1>me happy deep down. But for me, like you know,

0:48:28.600 --> 0:48:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I we'll see how the friendship can unfold more. I mean,

0:48:32.040 --> 0:48:34.800
<v Speaker 1>we're cordial at Bravo Con and she, you know, was

0:48:34.880 --> 0:48:37.160
<v Speaker 1>very sweet. We had a really fun The group of

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Bravo Con was awesome, Like we had a really good group.

0:48:39.960 --> 0:48:41.920
<v Speaker 1>We were laughing at some of the same inside jokes.

0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:44.440
<v Speaker 1>She even had some things to say to me personally.

0:48:44.600 --> 0:48:47.239
<v Speaker 1>We just talked for a few minutes. So you know,

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:51.520
<v Speaker 1>my goal is at the reunion she unblocks me from Instagram.

0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:57.080
<v Speaker 7>You're you're still blocked speaking into existence, manifest block.

0:48:57.040 --> 0:48:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Which I understand totally. It's up to her. But I

0:48:59.600 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 1>was just a manifesting maybe at the reunion and you'll

0:49:03.040 --> 0:49:05.520
<v Speaker 1>take his finger and Lindsay's finger and go on.

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:08.040
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:49:09.400 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm just an idea, But now I I wish I

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 1>don't think people fully understand the bond, like the core

0:49:16.560 --> 0:49:18.840
<v Speaker 1>group of us really have, and those inside jokes and

0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:21.480
<v Speaker 1>those and this summer that you're watching in like the

0:49:21.520 --> 0:49:25.239
<v Speaker 1>episode tonight, like there's little moments of like me and

0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:27.520
<v Speaker 1>Lindsay laughing at the same thing, or Kyle me and

0:49:27.560 --> 0:49:31.400
<v Speaker 1>Lindsay laughing at the same thing. That makes me so happy.

0:49:31.200 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 2>Because it felt like that close to kissing it all.

0:49:35.040 --> 0:49:37.839
<v Speaker 1>Now. But you'll, I mean, there was a pretty large

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:41.520
<v Speaker 1>fight that occurred and she Lindsay came in to actually

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:43.480
<v Speaker 1>calm me down, and it kind of worked.

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:47.440
<v Speaker 4>For some reason, I figured actually that that would be

0:49:48.760 --> 0:49:51.400
<v Speaker 4>the best a voice of reason for you and like

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:57.000
<v Speaker 4>a super hot moment. Honestly, I just think there's so

0:49:57.400 --> 0:49:59.800
<v Speaker 4>so many full circle things that happened when you do

0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:02.239
<v Speaker 4>something like this and like that's one of them, I know.

0:50:02.320 --> 0:50:04.360
<v Speaker 3>But the reason I asked those because like you and Sierra,

0:50:04.520 --> 0:50:06.520
<v Speaker 3>there's like some dirty, little like cute moments that you

0:50:06.560 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 3>guys both talk about, So I want to ask him

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:11.759
<v Speaker 3>with lindsay you and I want to engage though or

0:50:11.840 --> 0:50:12.640
<v Speaker 3>together for that long.

0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:16.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. True. Now I know some people deep down and

0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:18.879
<v Speaker 1>are speculating like, oh, you guys are in much better

0:50:18.920 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 1>place than that. Yeah, one step at a time. I'm

0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:26.960
<v Speaker 1>just trying to get back from unblocked. And I will say, yeah,

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:31.280
<v Speaker 1>it's been really like the friendliness of it all is amazing.

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>We have so many mutual friends really could like we

0:50:35.320 --> 0:50:38.120
<v Speaker 1>have a core group of people that there was some

0:50:38.200 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 1>awkwardness obviously for a period of time, and I tried

0:50:41.560 --> 0:50:43.719
<v Speaker 1>my best to be respectful and kind of allow just

0:50:43.840 --> 0:50:47.080
<v Speaker 1>some space and some healing to it. But it for me,

0:50:47.239 --> 0:50:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it feels good to kind of feel like I'm maybe

0:50:49.200 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 1>welcome back in the group a little bit with some

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:55.080
<v Speaker 1>of the friends. But that took some time, so I'm

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:57.040
<v Speaker 1>just glad to be where we are now. For a

0:50:57.080 --> 0:51:02.319
<v Speaker 1>while it wasn't so great, but well, even like Wes,

0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:05.040
<v Speaker 1>we did that panel for ninety two and hy and

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Lina I were making cracks back and forth between each

0:51:07.560 --> 0:51:10.239
<v Speaker 1>other that night, which felt so it was like the

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:12.080
<v Speaker 1>highlight of the night for me, like and kind of

0:51:12.120 --> 0:51:13.960
<v Speaker 1>like when Sierra's nice the West West.

0:51:13.960 --> 0:51:17.239
<v Speaker 2>It's like I was going to say, get it. I

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:21.680
<v Speaker 2>don't know exactly what I mean. Yeah, so, oh good stuff.

0:51:21.840 --> 0:51:23.239
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say. Well, I was saying that to

0:51:23.320 --> 0:51:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Sophie being sober in the house, just like something that

0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I think is important for maybe or listeners to know,

0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like I feel very lucky that I get

0:51:31.760 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>to still do the show. There's certainly moments where I

0:51:35.280 --> 0:51:37.640
<v Speaker 1>get it, Like looking outside, you're like, wait, this guy

0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:39.920
<v Speaker 1>doesn't drink. How can he do that? But I was

0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:42.400
<v Speaker 1>such a terror and a pain in the ass, Like

0:51:42.480 --> 0:51:44.000
<v Speaker 1>the only way I can be a part of the

0:51:44.120 --> 0:51:48.360
<v Speaker 1>show is by not drinking. Yeah, and I'm present, I'm balanced,

0:51:48.400 --> 0:51:51.960
<v Speaker 1>But of course, like I think the show itself, we

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:54.120
<v Speaker 1>have stupid shit that happens. People get in the fights

0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:56.799
<v Speaker 1>because of alcohol. But I can still be a pick

0:51:56.920 --> 0:52:00.400
<v Speaker 1>and still be a jerk or still be human without alcohol.

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:03.080
<v Speaker 1>And I think people will see those moments too where

0:52:03.120 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 1>it's like yeah, like you'll get drama out of me.

0:52:05.000 --> 0:52:07.120
<v Speaker 1>But it's just much healthier.

0:52:07.239 --> 0:52:09.320
<v Speaker 4>I would like to say, though, Carl, your sobriety is

0:52:09.400 --> 0:52:11.360
<v Speaker 4>much bigger than just summer House.

0:52:11.640 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally significantly bigger, much cooler, and yeah.

0:52:17.920 --> 0:52:19.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I just I take a lot of pride

0:52:19.760 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 1>in being a part of this awesome show. And like

0:52:22.080 --> 0:52:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Wes, you've been in a massive, massive addition

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:26.840
<v Speaker 1>to what we get to do, and I feel like

0:52:26.880 --> 0:52:28.320
<v Speaker 1>you've brought a new energy to what we get to

0:52:28.400 --> 0:52:29.560
<v Speaker 1>do and for me to still be a part of

0:52:30.760 --> 0:52:33.319
<v Speaker 1>the season ten the way it is now, like it's

0:52:33.840 --> 0:52:35.600
<v Speaker 1>unreal that we've made it this far. I mean, my

0:52:35.719 --> 0:52:39.240
<v Speaker 1>dad jokes around, we've been on TV longer than Friends

0:52:39.480 --> 0:52:43.879
<v Speaker 1>and Signs, which is saying crazy, that's most shows don't

0:52:43.920 --> 0:52:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Most reality shows don't make it past one season. Ninety

0:52:46.600 --> 0:52:48.600
<v Speaker 1>nine percent of the reality shows don't make it to

0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.920
<v Speaker 1>a second season. And we're still kicking around. So I

0:52:52.000 --> 0:52:53.400
<v Speaker 1>just feel so lucky to be able to get to

0:52:53.480 --> 0:52:56.400
<v Speaker 1>do it. Sure, and I a little bit more boring And.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, you're literally not boring like saying you saying that,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm still add You're dude, You're human, like everyone

0:53:04.719 --> 0:53:06.120
<v Speaker 3>is that way, Like you're still human.

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<v Speaker 2>You're no one's perfect, so who cares?

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Well? I read too many comments and I've been absorbing

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:13.719
<v Speaker 1>all of the nonsense. I'm the guy that I could

0:53:13.800 --> 0:53:16.239
<v Speaker 1>make a hundred people smile and be the happiest. Ever,

0:53:16.440 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 1>it's the one guy goes it wasn't that great, And

0:53:18.800 --> 0:53:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I would just lose sleep all night for the one guy,

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<v Speaker 1>for the one girl.

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<v Speaker 2>You know you need to learn how to not care

0:53:23.880 --> 0:53:24.239
<v Speaker 2>so much.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm you tricks Vie, I I just don't get I

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:31.160
<v Speaker 3>work with the sports side guy, and that has.

0:53:31.200 --> 0:53:33.640
<v Speaker 2>Been literally a night and day difference for me.

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<v Speaker 3>And I promise you that I've always had like a

0:53:36.400 --> 0:53:38.239
<v Speaker 3>confidence about me that like I'm going to beat my

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:39.840
<v Speaker 3>own drum, like I know my end goal, I know

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<v Speaker 3>who I want to be and so.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that a lot of people can.

0:53:43.360 --> 0:53:45.319
<v Speaker 3>Get in their heads, like you can question if you're

0:53:45.320 --> 0:53:47.560
<v Speaker 3>doing things the right way, what your character is all that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've truly mastered I think the past, not mastered,

0:53:51.360 --> 0:53:53.399
<v Speaker 3>but pretty damn close the past, like two or three

0:53:53.480 --> 0:53:56.400
<v Speaker 3>years of like this is my word, and forgive me

0:53:56.600 --> 0:53:59.040
<v Speaker 3>for not for I mean, little kids can't say this,

0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:01.640
<v Speaker 3>but like fuck it, like who gives fuck? Like I

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<v Speaker 3>literally do not care, like people are gonna love me

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<v Speaker 3>or hate me regardless of what I do. So why

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<v Speaker 3>would I not just do not do what I want?

0:54:08.040 --> 0:54:09.200
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't want it to sound like this, but

0:54:09.280 --> 0:54:10.960
<v Speaker 3>I just don't care what other people think of me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just it's so freeing is so fatul or

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<v Speaker 2>is it a learned? Is that a learned?

0:54:17.160 --> 0:54:19.360
<v Speaker 3>I think I think there's a little bit of natural,

0:54:19.440 --> 0:54:22.399
<v Speaker 3>but like I had to relearn how to not care

0:54:22.480 --> 0:54:25.480
<v Speaker 3>so much because I'm someone who is a very like passionate,

0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:28.840
<v Speaker 3>fiery I love people, I care about people, but I

0:54:28.960 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 3>have just really mastered the art of like I really

0:54:31.560 --> 0:54:33.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't give a fuck, and like when I am

0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:34.799
<v Speaker 3>that way, I am my best self.

0:54:35.040 --> 0:54:37.360
<v Speaker 2>And so I don't know, it's there's so much I

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<v Speaker 2>just like.

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<v Speaker 1>I have like a thirty second message that plays in

0:54:41.040 --> 0:54:44.160
<v Speaker 1>the morning from Sophie, Hey, I don't give a fuck.

0:54:44.440 --> 0:54:46.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't give a fuck. I promise you. It is

0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:49.400
<v Speaker 2>so bring and you just you see, just it just

0:54:49.560 --> 0:54:50.320
<v Speaker 2>is so much lighter.

0:54:50.440 --> 0:54:52.960
<v Speaker 3>Things just open up when you literally don't care because honestly,

0:54:53.000 --> 0:54:55.040
<v Speaker 3>these people don't know you, the people commenting, the people

0:54:55.120 --> 0:54:58.040
<v Speaker 3>who are praising you, and like shitting on you.

0:54:58.280 --> 0:54:59.880
<v Speaker 2>They don't know really anything about you.

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:02.640
<v Speaker 3>They know you guys as like Summerhouse, Carl, summer House West,

0:55:02.719 --> 0:55:03.800
<v Speaker 3>like they don't truly know you.

0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:06.960
<v Speaker 1>So like I totally and I part of I think

0:55:07.040 --> 0:55:09.200
<v Speaker 1>what it's it's had me or it's allowed me to

0:55:09.320 --> 0:55:11.640
<v Speaker 1>like I had to be honest, like I'm a people pleaser,

0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:14.080
<v Speaker 1>which is why I feel this way. And yeah, you know,

0:55:14.160 --> 0:55:15.839
<v Speaker 1>I've had to do a lot of therapy and work

0:55:15.880 --> 0:55:19.919
<v Speaker 1>on that. I'm getting better, but you know, I've after

0:55:20.080 --> 0:55:23.239
<v Speaker 1>like going through a pretty public, difficult breakup, there was

0:55:23.280 --> 0:55:25.279
<v Speaker 1>something that kind of within me, like I felt like

0:55:25.400 --> 0:55:28.560
<v Speaker 1>for a long like literally everybody hated me. Yeah, and

0:55:29.160 --> 0:55:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you know there was I've had to do a lot

0:55:30.640 --> 0:55:32.560
<v Speaker 1>of healing and work on that, but you know, I

0:55:32.640 --> 0:55:34.520
<v Speaker 1>had a it was a pretty rough public thing that

0:55:34.640 --> 0:55:37.480
<v Speaker 1>went on and it took me probably a good year

0:55:37.560 --> 0:55:40.279
<v Speaker 1>to like finally heal and feel like myself, which is

0:55:40.320 --> 0:55:42.920
<v Speaker 1>what you're watching on the current season, like in the

0:55:43.000 --> 0:55:48.080
<v Speaker 1>mix and like I finally felt like myself. I get Yeah,

0:55:49.320 --> 0:55:51.000
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I need to bottle up some of that.

0:55:51.160 --> 0:55:53.920
<v Speaker 1>Sophie Cunningham, h fuck you energy, because I.

0:55:53.960 --> 0:55:56.200
<v Speaker 3>Think you also, like both of you guys, and like

0:55:56.239 --> 0:55:58.400
<v Speaker 3>everyone who is in reality or just like in a

0:55:58.440 --> 0:56:00.400
<v Speaker 3>platform in the public eye in general, do you have

0:56:00.480 --> 0:56:03.399
<v Speaker 3>to remember like that life is not normal, like other

0:56:03.440 --> 0:56:05.719
<v Speaker 3>people go through everything that we go through, but it's

0:56:05.800 --> 0:56:08.719
<v Speaker 3>just not highlighted. And like every little thing, Like if

0:56:08.760 --> 0:56:12.480
<v Speaker 3>everyone's life was highlighted, everyone would be getting so much shit, you.

0:56:12.480 --> 0:56:14.600
<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean? So like who cares?

0:56:14.719 --> 0:56:16.399
<v Speaker 3>Like people love you guys, but you know you're gonna

0:56:16.400 --> 0:56:19.120
<v Speaker 3>get shipped for it too, So just man, who cares it?

0:56:19.800 --> 0:56:21.919
<v Speaker 3>We need Sophie on summer else, No, you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that season season five we had a basketball

0:56:28.640 --> 0:56:31.440
<v Speaker 1>hoop and I we crushed Pig and Horse. I played.

0:56:31.920 --> 0:56:32.839
<v Speaker 1>We had a good time out there.

0:56:32.920 --> 0:56:34.759
<v Speaker 2>I love that I had a cool basketball hoop This year,

0:56:34.760 --> 0:56:35.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm waiting for.

0:56:35.360 --> 0:56:38.120
<v Speaker 1>That that episode. Oh, we had an epic.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm hoping to get make it one weekend when

0:56:42.120 --> 0:56:43.920
<v Speaker 3>we play in New Yorker if I haven't off to like,

0:56:44.040 --> 0:56:44.879
<v Speaker 3>come up and hang out.

0:56:44.920 --> 0:56:45.640
<v Speaker 2>It'd be so fun.

0:56:45.960 --> 0:56:48.239
<v Speaker 1>I think you gotta come. Yeah, we would love love

0:56:48.280 --> 0:56:48.640
<v Speaker 1>to see you.

0:56:48.960 --> 0:56:51.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it'd be good. Hey, Carl, I love you so much.

0:56:51.800 --> 0:56:55.680
<v Speaker 2>Thanks for having for the audio difficulties in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, thanks for putting on to me. I'm a huge

0:56:57.960 --> 0:56:59.920
<v Speaker 1>fan of you guys. I Wes told me you guys

0:57:00.120 --> 0:57:02.480
<v Speaker 1>doing that. I've been a big support. I hope you

0:57:02.520 --> 0:57:04.239
<v Speaker 1>guys see I like a lot of your show me

0:57:04.760 --> 0:57:06.120
<v Speaker 1>posts and things. I'm a big fan of what you

0:57:06.120 --> 0:57:09.640
<v Speaker 1>guys are doing. Thanks. I think Wess is incredibly talented

0:57:09.719 --> 0:57:11.920
<v Speaker 1>and he is a shining a shining light.

0:57:12.520 --> 0:57:17.640
<v Speaker 2>And oh guys, you are too. Sometimes sometimes no, I

0:57:17.680 --> 0:57:18.640
<v Speaker 2>think you're You're awesome.

0:57:18.640 --> 0:57:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge fan, so I appreciate your support.

0:57:21.120 --> 0:57:21.760
<v Speaker 2>I appreciate it.

0:57:22.440 --> 0:57:23.840
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to be in real life and I'll

0:57:23.840 --> 0:57:26.720
<v Speaker 1>show you my yeah skilled, there you go. I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>U show me something. Podcasts Episode thirty four with Karl

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<v Speaker 4>Radkey the best.

0:57:33.480 --> 0:57:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Guy to ever live. Carl, We're so thankful, love you,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you guys.

0:57:36.640 --> 0:57:37.280
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Go Carl. Oh and brought to you by Arby's.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we love If you are hungry, hungry right now,

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<v Speaker 3>this one's for you. Rby's just drop something new and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie. It's kind of wild.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>The Meet and three Bucks is going for seven ninety nine,

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<v Speaker 7>So tell them what they're working with. All right, So

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<v Speaker 7>you start by picking your sandwich. You either get a

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<v Speaker 7>classic gross beef, a Chris chicken or the new Crispy fish. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 7>no bad choice here.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they keep it coming.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got the curly fries, the mozzirella sticks, and the

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<v Speaker 4>peach cobbler role.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying that those are Mike quietly steal the

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<v Speaker 2>whole show.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah there's a drink in there too, it's called

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<v Speaker 4>the Meat and three. But you're really getting an all

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<v Speaker 4>star starting five.

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<v Speaker 3>Five things for seven ninety nine, and it's all the

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<v Speaker 4>That's tough to be so, whether it's lunch, dinner or

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<v Speaker 2>And three bops is an easy bold baby.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, my hog ger all the week was I think

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<v Speaker 4>you just missed her so but and keV correct me

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<v Speaker 4>if I'm wrong. It was Miranda, the waitress at Cooks

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<v Speaker 4>and Soldiers. It's called she was poorning big old pores

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<v Speaker 4>knew the menu new geography was so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the whole dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>It was me, keV.

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<v Speaker 4>Some of the Arby's teams, some of the Volume team

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<v Speaker 4>Hampton and the whole time we couldn't stop talking about

0:59:00.880 --> 0:59:05.280
<v Speaker 4>how incredible the service was. And I know my tone

0:59:05.400 --> 0:59:08.600
<v Speaker 4>sounds satirical, but I'm like fully not. It was like

0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:15.400
<v Speaker 4>such a lovely, lovely dinner. And she she was phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get her number? No, I wasn't even I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't even trying to. I wasn't even trying to go

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<v Speaker 2>for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hey, did she part with one hand?

0:59:28.160 --> 0:59:31.720
<v Speaker 4>One hand like a Marianda deserves howker leak because she's

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<v Speaker 4>incredible and she was so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and she brought us a little we took. She

0:59:35.000 --> 0:59:36.560
<v Speaker 2>brought us a little complimentary shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Queen, I like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, my hot girl the week is actually an

0:59:41.360 --> 0:59:43.080
<v Speaker 3>animal for the first time ever.

0:59:44.360 --> 0:59:48.120
<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna say who I think an animal? Well?

0:59:48.160 --> 0:59:51.160
<v Speaker 2>I thought you were gonna say the monkey who hugged punched. No,

0:59:52.040 --> 0:59:55.640
<v Speaker 2>I should have, but I'm it's my dead horse. Oh

0:59:55.880 --> 1:00:04.200
<v Speaker 2>fucking guys, I know that's curious. It is serious, So

1:00:04.720 --> 1:00:07.720
<v Speaker 2>I know guys are the worst.

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<v Speaker 3>It's funny because she was a funny, good, lighthearted, beautiful horse.

1:00:11.360 --> 1:00:14.040
<v Speaker 3>But my my very first horse. Her name was be

1:00:14.720 --> 1:00:17.520
<v Speaker 3>She was almost thirty six years old. She actually passed

1:00:17.560 --> 1:00:18.280
<v Speaker 3>away this morning.

1:00:19.760 --> 1:00:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what is going on? Oh for one out work?

1:00:23.960 --> 1:00:25.880
<v Speaker 3>No, she was seriously, I'll send you a picture of

1:00:25.880 --> 1:00:27.560
<v Speaker 3>her because she was beautiful and I'm not kidding. She

1:00:27.720 --> 1:00:29.800
<v Speaker 3>was like the best horse you could throw anyone on her.

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<v Speaker 3>All of our friends and family met her. I've had

1:00:32.160 --> 1:00:34.240
<v Speaker 3>her since I was like born, like I'm twenty nine.

1:00:34.400 --> 1:00:36.160
<v Speaker 3>We've had her since I mean she was thirty six

1:00:36.240 --> 1:00:38.800
<v Speaker 3>years old. So I want to shout out our beautiful baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, love yeah, sinning love to Paula.

1:00:45.280 --> 1:00:48.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, mom is really you know, kind of been

1:00:48.600 --> 1:00:50.640
<v Speaker 3>out of shape, out of it, but she she lived

1:00:50.640 --> 1:00:51.200
<v Speaker 3>a great life.

1:00:51.320 --> 1:00:53.280
<v Speaker 2>You know, she was a happy horse. So yeah, yeah

1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:54.080
<v Speaker 2>it was her time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, putting a horse down sad man, because they're like, well,

1:00:58.680 --> 1:00:59.800
<v Speaker 4>I don't mean, I don't want to get into that.

1:01:00.200 --> 1:01:01.680
<v Speaker 4>I was just gonna say they're big, they're standing up.

1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:04.560
<v Speaker 4>It's just it's really sad, and they're so pretty. It's

1:01:04.600 --> 1:01:07.560
<v Speaker 4>like it's like putting down like a supermodel.

1:01:07.680 --> 1:01:08.320
<v Speaker 2>It's just weird.

1:01:09.160 --> 1:01:10.840
<v Speaker 3>But honestly, on a real note, a lot of things

1:01:10.880 --> 1:01:13.600
<v Speaker 3>that you don't think about. It's like horses are massive

1:01:13.800 --> 1:01:16.440
<v Speaker 3>and like you have to dig some big assholes. Like

1:01:16.880 --> 1:01:20.960
<v Speaker 3>and then you have to lift forecasta or forklifts.

1:01:20.960 --> 1:01:22.240
<v Speaker 2>My dad uses a forklift.

1:01:22.440 --> 1:01:25.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, a forklift to like grab him or grab her

1:01:25.760 --> 1:01:27.880
<v Speaker 3>and then like carry like it's just a whole process.

1:01:27.920 --> 1:01:29.400
<v Speaker 2>So it is actually like kind of sad, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>No it is. Yeah, yeah, she was good. We love her. No,

1:01:38.320 --> 1:01:41.360
<v Speaker 2>not to end on that, no, guys, but uh, you

1:01:41.440 --> 1:01:43.120
<v Speaker 2>know what, while I'm here, shout out Nascar.

1:01:44.080 --> 1:01:48.320
<v Speaker 4>Also RB's in Nascar, and our boys, Carson Garson, turn

1:01:48.400 --> 1:01:50.680
<v Speaker 4>me up, Carson Messia.

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<v Speaker 2>Miss Yea, See you next time

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<v Speaker 1>Time