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A hobby listed other than hiking? 0:01:42.300 --> 0:01:44.380 Oh, you've got a guy holding a fish. 0:01:44.900 --> 0:01:48.020 Oh, super sexy. I think only guys think that's cool. 0:01:48.100 --> 0:01:50.500 Well, one of our listeners, Amanda, met a guy online 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:54.540 and said she was attracted to something a little more unusual. 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:54.700 On his page. 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:55.300 Him? 0:01:56.540 --> 0:01:58.700 I don't know. That would be crazy. That'd be shocking. 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:01.390 I'm curious what it might be. Amanda, welcome to the show. 0:02:02.350 --> 0:02:03.770 Hi, thanks for having me. 0:02:04.610 --> 0:02:06.930 Well, I'm glad you're thanking us now. We'll see how 0:02:06.950 --> 0:02:07.470 this goes. 0:02:09.310 --> 0:02:11.120 Let's get all that out of the way and move 0:02:11.260 --> 0:02:13.820 on to this guy. And what was it about his 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:15.620 profile that turned you on? 0:02:16.350 --> 0:02:19.669 Oh, my goodness. It was the silliest thing. Like, you 0:02:19.710 --> 0:02:21.690 know how on the dating profiles they have, like, those 0:02:21.710 --> 0:02:22.810 voice prompts and stuff? 0:02:23.070 --> 0:02:24.410 Oh, those can be bad or good. 0:02:24.470 --> 0:02:26.700 It's like a hinge, right? 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:28.700 We made fun of those a lot when they first 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.880 came out. No, they still made fun of them. Oh, okay. 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:31.760 Just want to make sure. 0:02:31.780 --> 0:02:33.260 You can, like, have it on your bio. 0:02:33.460 --> 0:02:35.140 How was that attractive to you? 0:02:35.790 --> 0:02:38.549 Well, because here's the thing. His name is Steve, and 0:02:38.590 --> 0:02:41.250 he did the one where it's how to pronounce your name. 0:02:41.270 --> 0:02:44.570 So it was just his voice going, Steve. 0:02:45.210 --> 0:02:47.750 That's funny, dude. That's pretty funny. 0:02:47.770 --> 0:02:48.250 I see that. 0:02:48.350 --> 0:02:49.410 It actually is good. 0:02:49.530 --> 0:02:50.410 Overplayed, but it's okay. 0:02:50.530 --> 0:02:52.170 Oh, you say overplayed. It's fine. 0:02:52.470 --> 0:02:53.970 A lot of people do that, Alexis? 0:02:53.990 --> 0:02:54.530 I think. 0:02:54.730 --> 0:02:56.890 With easy names. Let's give Steve his moment. 0:02:57.050 --> 0:02:57.890 Yeah. 0:02:57.990 --> 0:03:00.400 I think it's funny. So you like that, Amanda? 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.820 I still think it's funny. It is. I'm not thinking 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:04.180 about it. 0:03:04.180 --> 0:03:04.260 Okay. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:05.020 That's funny. 0:03:05.980 --> 0:03:09.470 Dude, you better, you better have mispronounced his name when 0:03:09.510 --> 0:03:11.690 you saw him in person the first time. 0:03:11.730 --> 0:03:13.419 That would have been funny. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:14.900 I wish I had thought of that. That would have 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:17.440 been great. I was going to say sheep. 0:03:18.410 --> 0:03:18.889 Stev-y? 0:03:20.050 --> 0:03:24.250 But still, Steve reeled you in with just that little prompt. 0:03:24.310 --> 0:03:25.390 Make you laugh. 0:03:25.410 --> 0:03:25.650 That's good. 0:03:25.690 --> 0:03:28.040 I mean, you like humor. Humor's attractive for sure. 0:03:28.060 --> 0:03:30.600 Yeah, I'm a very silly person, so I was like, 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:32.040 you know, I think we're going to get along. He's 0:03:32.060 --> 0:03:33.940 going to make me laugh. 0:03:34.100 --> 0:03:34.600 Even better. 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:35.900 So how did it go from there? 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:39.590 I feel like it went really, really well, quite honestly. 0:03:39.810 --> 0:03:42.150 He took me for a fro-yo, which was my idea 0:03:42.170 --> 0:03:43.730 because I'm a big fro-yo lover. 0:03:43.750 --> 0:03:44.230 Okay. 0:03:44.250 --> 0:03:44.670 Wow. 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:47.630 Is it just like you like to pour it yourself? 0:03:48.110 --> 0:03:50.410 I absolutely love the self-serve. I love getting the little 0:03:50.430 --> 0:03:52.310 cups and doing all the samples. And then I like 0:03:52.330 --> 0:03:54.630 to do what I call like a flight in my cup. 0:03:54.650 --> 0:03:56.370 So I do. 0:03:56.470 --> 0:03:57.350 Like six flavors in there. 0:03:57.370 --> 0:03:57.970 It's exotic. 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:00.240 And I love, I bet you were real positive about 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.860 all this Froyo experience when you're on the date. 0:04:02.900 --> 0:04:05.960 I get very excited. I have a membership card that 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.500 I get punched and all that. I do think maybe 0:04:08.540 --> 0:04:10.460 he thought it was a little bit much, but we 0:04:10.500 --> 0:04:10.920 had fun. 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.490 Did you pull out like eight full cards to pay? 0:04:13.530 --> 0:04:14.150 Yeah. 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:17.200 Can we go to the very beginning, though? Like, what 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.159 was it like when you first saw him in person? 0:04:19.180 --> 0:04:20.280 I don't care about that. I want to know more 0:04:20.300 --> 0:04:23.960 about the fro-yo. Let's get into fro-yo flavors. 0:04:24.020 --> 0:04:26.640 Yeah, let's talk the flavors and toppings. It's the toppings. 0:04:26.730 --> 0:04:27.490 Okay, yeah. 0:04:27.510 --> 0:04:29.350 It's really about both, right? Because if they have, like, 0:04:29.410 --> 0:04:32.030 a cheesecake flavor and then you put cheesecake bites, that 0:04:32.050 --> 0:04:34.789 doesn't help unless you also add strawberry or chocolate or 0:04:34.850 --> 0:04:36.690 something else. Okay, you really are. 0:04:36.730 --> 0:04:38.530 You're a connoisseur. You have a good palate. 0:04:38.589 --> 0:04:39.710 I hope he didn't have to hear about this. 0:04:41.980 --> 0:04:43.539 Was there a lot of fro-yo talk with Steve? 0:04:44.130 --> 0:04:46.310 I mean, I think there was a decent amount of 0:04:46.350 --> 0:04:49.670 Froyo talk with Steve. It's one of my favorite things. 0:04:49.710 --> 0:04:50.609 I got pretty excited. 0:04:51.070 --> 0:04:52.409 Okay. 0:04:52.550 --> 0:04:55.130 Now, I mean, again, what was it like? Because you're 0:04:55.170 --> 0:04:57.510 not there for very long at Froyo. Is that all 0:04:57.529 --> 0:04:58.630 you guys did for a date? 0:04:59.510 --> 0:05:01.630 No, no, no, no. After that, because we were having 0:05:01.650 --> 0:05:03.370 so much fun, I was like, look, why don't we 0:05:03.390 --> 0:05:04.049 go dancing? 0:05:04.210 --> 0:05:08.310 Oh, shoot. No drinks. I didn't know that pro-yo led 0:05:08.350 --> 0:05:08.970 to dancing. 0:05:09.410 --> 0:05:11.450 I got all sugared up. I was ready for some 0:05:11.570 --> 0:05:13.220 activity for sure. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.060 What does Steve say to dancing? 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.100 He said yes. He was up for it. 0:05:17.540 --> 0:05:19.920 Oh, he's having a sugar rush, too. Okay. 0:05:19.980 --> 0:05:21.539 What time is it at right now? 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:22.200 That's what I'm thinking. 0:05:22.220 --> 0:05:25.089 I mean, it's probably, like, at the Froyo place, it was, like, 10, so. 0:05:25.410 --> 0:05:26.349 Late night, okay. 0:05:26.510 --> 0:05:28.330 So he picked the club, and it was really cool, 0:05:28.350 --> 0:05:29.950 because when we got there, he knew the bouncer. 0:05:30.529 --> 0:05:30.609 Oh. 0:05:31.110 --> 0:05:31.330 Oh. 0:05:31.450 --> 0:05:33.740 Nice. Yeah, thank God, because I'm guessing you guys aren't 0:05:33.770 --> 0:05:35.680 dressed to go into a club if you were just 0:05:35.740 --> 0:05:36.719 at a Froyo shop. 0:05:36.740 --> 0:05:36.860 Mm-hmm. 0:05:37.620 --> 0:05:39.620 I mean, I feel like I'm always kind of dressed 0:05:39.670 --> 0:05:41.010 to go into a club. I feel like my whole 0:05:41.070 --> 0:05:43.310 vibe is like psychedelic figure skater. 0:05:43.589 --> 0:05:43.969 Wow. 0:05:44.130 --> 0:05:46.029 That a girl. Psychedelic figure skater. 0:05:46.050 --> 0:05:46.330 That a girl. 0:05:46.450 --> 0:05:47.110 I love that image. 0:05:47.130 --> 0:05:50.610 All right. So how was it inside the club? 0:05:51.130 --> 0:05:52.860 I mean, it was awesome because the door guy was 0:05:52.890 --> 0:05:54.680 a friend of his. So we got in first. We 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:56.400 got to cut the whole line. Oh, nice. We ended 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:58.480 up dancing all night. We were there till close. So like, 0:05:58.700 --> 0:05:59.599 I mean, five hours. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:00.800 Whoa. 0:06:00.900 --> 0:06:03.719 Dang. Wait, you didn't just like step in and have 0:06:03.740 --> 0:06:04.539 a couple dances? 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.000 You got to work off that froyo, you know? If 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:08.740 you don't have cheesecake, you got to shake it. 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.920 Does this concern you at all that this may be 0:06:12.060 --> 0:06:13.320 indicating that this guy. 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:14.679 Is at the club every weekend? 0:06:14.700 --> 0:06:18.400 Because sometimes it's a turnoff when they're, like, a regular 0:06:18.460 --> 0:06:19.620 at a bar or a club. 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:21.820 I think it would have been different if, like, a 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:23.620 lot of people had been coming up to him or 0:06:23.660 --> 0:06:26.320 if there was, like, a waitress that had an attitude about, 0:06:26.339 --> 0:06:28.720 you know, but there was no weird vibe. It was 0:06:28.740 --> 0:06:31.260 very wholesome, quite honestly. We danced our hearts out. It 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:32.520 felt like I was in junior high again. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:32.900 It was amazing. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:33.520 I love that. 0:06:34.460 --> 0:06:36.950 Are you able to, like, get to know him while 0:06:36.990 --> 0:06:38.570 you're at the club for five hours? 0:06:38.630 --> 0:06:40.450 She got to know him at Froyo. Does it matter 0:06:40.490 --> 0:06:41.770 at that point? 0:06:41.910 --> 0:06:44.450 Did she sound like they talked about Froyo the whole time? 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.940 I mean, to be fair, I feel like we got all, like, 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.240 the preliminary stuff out of the way when we were 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.620 eating our Froyo, and then on the dance floor, you 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:52.619 just let your body talk. 0:06:52.660 --> 0:06:54.120 Yeah, that's right, girl. 0:06:54.140 --> 0:06:56.690 So five hours at the club until it closed, and 0:06:56.730 --> 0:06:57.530 how'd you guys leave it? 0:06:58.490 --> 0:07:00.970 He actually called me an Uber, which he paid for. 0:07:00.990 --> 0:07:04.050 And he said he was going to call me. We 0:07:04.589 --> 0:07:06.390 said we were going to see each other again. So 0:07:06.510 --> 0:07:09.070 I'm kind of confused because it's been an entire week. 0:07:09.270 --> 0:07:09.950 I think I've. 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:11.800 Been on this date before during one of my childhood 0:07:11.820 --> 0:07:14.240 birthday parties where it's fro-yo. 0:07:13.780 --> 0:07:14.950 And then you're just dancing at Chuck E. 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:16.020 Cheese for five minutes. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.200 And then hitting a pinata at the end of the day. Oh, 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:19.540 and some pizza slices. Yeah. 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:21.760 Maybe he's sore. That's a lot of dancing. 0:07:21.780 --> 0:07:23.140 Wait, do you not like pinata? 0:07:24.660 --> 0:07:25.380 I like her. 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:26.320 She's funny. Yeah. 0:07:26.350 --> 0:07:28.050 But Brooke brought up a good point. Maybe all that 0:07:28.110 --> 0:07:30.430 dancing did him in. And he needs a whole week 0:07:30.470 --> 0:07:32.330 to recover before he's able to go out with you again. 0:07:32.350 --> 0:07:33.630 His hammies are hurting, man. 0:07:33.670 --> 0:07:37.430 He could have called me for a massage. 0:07:38.470 --> 0:07:39.690 Oh, there you are. All right. 0:07:39.710 --> 0:07:42.630 Well, now we have something to offer when we come back. 0:07:42.110 --> 0:07:46.620 And we call Steve. Steve, and get to your second date. 0:07:46.780 --> 0:07:48.340 I'm glad you're saying it right, Jess. 0:07:48.380 --> 0:07:50.480 Get to your second date update right after this. Hold on. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.730 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update. 0:07:54.770 --> 0:07:58.350 What's the fastest way to a woman's heart? Some might 0:07:58.450 --> 0:07:59.950 say a pair of Louboutins. 0:08:00.330 --> 0:08:00.510 Oh, wow. 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:03.440 Others might say a Costco membership card. 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.520 See, now we're talking. My first thought was food. 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:05.920 Yeah. 0:08:06.140 --> 0:08:09.960 But for our girl Amanda, all she wants is fro-yo, 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:14.610 followed by five hours of dancing at the club. Oh, man. 0:08:14.630 --> 0:08:16.630 Sounds like a fun time. You two must have been 0:08:16.730 --> 0:08:17.430 so sweaty. 0:08:18.550 --> 0:08:20.810 We lost a lot of electrolytes, for sure. 0:08:21.630 --> 0:08:25.040 Her and Steve were there all night long, boogieing all 0:08:25.060 --> 0:08:26.140 the way until close. 0:08:26.180 --> 0:08:27.300 But now, a week later. 0:08:27.620 --> 0:08:29.880 Things have cooled off even more than a cup of 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:33.709 frozen yogurt, leaving Amanda with just the memory of Steve 0:08:33.830 --> 0:08:35.390 pelvic thrusting into the night. 0:08:35.650 --> 0:08:35.850 What? 0:08:36.929 --> 0:08:39.429 He sounds like a pelvic thruster. That's how I'm imagining him. 0:08:39.470 --> 0:08:41.430 Can you confirm that, Amanda? Into the night is weird, though. 0:08:41.910 --> 0:08:43.350 I mean, he's got moves. 0:08:43.870 --> 0:08:44.330 Okay. 0:08:44.390 --> 0:08:47.570 Sounds like a wolf humping at the moon. Yeah. 0:08:47.650 --> 0:08:48.929 That's just my mental image. 0:08:48.970 --> 0:08:49.929 She didn't say no. 0:08:50.150 --> 0:08:50.410 Yeah. 0:08:50.429 --> 0:08:53.510 So let's find out exactly what's going on with him. 0:08:53.550 --> 0:08:55.939 We're about to call. And just a reminder, Amanda, you 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.599 are agreeing to hear whatever his reason is, even if 0:08:58.660 --> 0:09:01.460 it's slightly embarrassing. You're going to wait on the line 0:09:01.500 --> 0:09:02.860 and keep your sobbing to a minimum? 0:09:03.100 --> 0:09:05.300 Why would it be embarrassing? She sounds like a lovely 0:09:05.340 --> 0:09:05.860 human being. 0:09:05.900 --> 0:09:07.939 I'm just pre-warning you, okay, Amanda? 0:09:08.850 --> 0:09:11.140 You don't sound hopeful, but let's do it. 0:09:11.190 --> 0:09:13.130 He's worried, I think, that this guy's going to make 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:15.300 fun of your dance moves and it's going to crush you. 0:09:15.780 --> 0:09:17.520 Don't worry, you can come back for people making fun 0:09:17.540 --> 0:09:18.140 of your dancing. 0:09:18.220 --> 0:09:22.020 If Alexis can survive in this type of environment, you 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:22.479 can too. 0:09:24.020 --> 0:09:27.530 We've officially crushed your ego. Let's call Steve and see 0:09:27.570 --> 0:09:28.120 if he picks up. 0:09:28.130 --> 0:09:28.610 Here we go. 0:09:29.330 --> 0:09:30.250 Hello? 0:09:38.010 --> 0:09:39.110 Hey, is this Steve? 0:09:39.890 --> 0:09:40.750 This is who's speaking. 0:09:40.970 --> 0:09:42.410 Oh, you did say it right. That's good. 0:09:42.530 --> 0:09:43.030 Steve. 0:09:43.130 --> 0:09:45.470 I just wanted to make sure we were pronouncing it right. 0:09:45.530 --> 0:09:47.330 Hey, man, my name is Jeff from a radio show 0:09:47.350 --> 0:09:48.510 called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:49.490 --> 0:09:49.790 Okay. 0:09:50.730 --> 0:09:51.110 Okay. 0:09:51.790 --> 0:09:52.069 Sweet. 0:09:52.730 --> 0:09:54.890 Right down to business. I like that about you, Steve. 0:09:55.309 --> 0:09:57.210 Sorry, what is this concerning? 0:09:57.330 --> 0:09:59.390 This is concerning a segment that we do. It's called 0:09:59.429 --> 0:09:59.970 The Second Date. 0:10:00.130 --> 0:10:00.490 Update. 0:10:01.190 --> 0:10:02.550 Basically, it's where we help out a listener. 0:10:02.590 --> 0:10:04.970 If you've gone out with somebody and afterwards they're not 0:10:05.010 --> 0:10:08.229 calling you back, we'll reach out on their behalf. 0:10:07.910 --> 0:10:09.140 To see if there's a reason why. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.380 Okay. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:10.640 Okay. 0:10:10.660 --> 0:10:11.340 I don't. 0:10:12.179 --> 0:10:14.800 All right. Kind of weird, we know. 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:17.079 I know, you sound super skeptical, but it's supposed to 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:17.440 be a good thing. 0:10:17.460 --> 0:10:19.160 Yeah, I'm just not sure what this is about. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.280 Well, it's about a woman that you went out with 0:10:21.300 --> 0:10:22.059 named Amanda. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:26.940 Okay. 0:10:27.220 --> 0:10:31.040 That sounds actually like a nice laugh, Steve. Like, oh, 0:10:31.059 --> 0:10:33.580 I remember Amanda. Like that type of laugh. 0:10:33.900 --> 0:10:37.750 I do indeed remember Amanda. She's hard to forget. 0:10:38.570 --> 0:10:39.630 Oh, that's nice. 0:10:39.870 --> 0:10:41.210 Is it nice? I think. 0:10:41.290 --> 0:10:41.550 Is it? 0:10:41.590 --> 0:10:42.090 Yeah. 0:10:42.190 --> 0:10:49.840 Is she hard to forget in a good way? Yeah. Oh, okay. 0:10:50.340 --> 0:10:51.480 Maybe not. 0:10:51.500 --> 0:10:53.240 You spent so much time with her. 0:10:53.260 --> 0:10:54.679 Yeah. 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:55.560 Okay. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:58.180 That's interesting that you know that. Yeah. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:10:58.500 Yeah. 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:01.220 Cause well, we, we spoke to Amanda before calling you 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.980 just to get the rundown of your hangout and it 0:11:04.020 --> 0:11:07.180 sounded pretty good on our end with fro-yo and, dancing 0:11:07.340 --> 0:11:08.020 which i'm. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:09.920 Sorry at the end of froyo when she says i 0:11:09.940 --> 0:11:12.260 want to go dancing and you're up for it like 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:13.579 what's going through your head. 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:19.000 Oh i mean i don't know if i would characterize 0:11:19.059 --> 0:11:21.339 it exactly the way that you just said it but 0:11:21.500 --> 0:11:23.760 i don't i don't know it's hard to talk about 0:11:23.780 --> 0:11:26.220 it without sounding like a jerk oh well. 0:11:26.140 --> 0:11:28.600 That's okay just sound like a jerk it's fine Well, 0:11:28.620 --> 0:11:29.720 she kind of asked for it. 0:11:29.780 --> 0:11:30.319 Yeah, I mean. 0:11:30.540 --> 0:11:31.240 She wants to know. 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:34.870 What you don't know is Amanda, before we made this call, 0:11:35.010 --> 0:11:38.510 agreed that whatever the reason might be you're not calling back, 0:11:38.590 --> 0:11:39.560 she's willing to hear it. 0:11:39.970 --> 0:11:40.190 Gotcha. 0:11:40.210 --> 0:11:41.910 She just needs some closure because she doesn't know what's 0:11:41.929 --> 0:11:42.390 going on. 0:11:42.530 --> 0:11:44.510 Even if it's embarrassing. She just sounds like such a 0:11:44.570 --> 0:11:46.310 fun-loving person when we talk to her. 0:11:46.330 --> 0:11:47.309 Yeah, she did. 0:11:47.330 --> 0:11:48.380 She was up for everything. 0:11:48.390 --> 0:11:48.819 Good energy. 0:11:49.300 --> 0:11:52.920 She definitely has a fun personality and that came across. 0:11:52.940 --> 0:11:54.840 And so I was like, yeah, you know, she seems fun. 0:11:54.860 --> 0:11:56.980 I'm not sure if she's my type, but let's do 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:59.829 the Froyo thing. Cause she was, she was very excited 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:04.829 about that. So we meet up and everything is fine. 0:12:04.910 --> 0:12:07.830 And I have this joke on my profile and she 0:12:07.870 --> 0:12:09.950 keeps on doing this joke, like for the first 20 0:12:09.950 --> 0:12:13.209 minutes while we're like getting our Froyo. And I'm like, right. 0:12:14.850 --> 0:12:16.390 The name pronunciation joke. 0:12:17.130 --> 0:12:21.150 She just kept saying, Steve, Steve. 0:12:21.210 --> 0:12:22.780 She was still laughing about it. 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:24.559 She told us about that and she did find it 0:12:24.580 --> 0:12:25.340 very funny. 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:29.099 She clearly did because it was like the first 20 0:12:29.100 --> 0:12:33.010 minutes where it was just that. Then it transitioned into 0:12:33.070 --> 0:12:36.130 like She's kind of like a Froyo chemist, I guess 0:12:36.150 --> 0:12:40.550 you would say. Like, she was waxing poetic about the toppings, 0:12:40.630 --> 0:12:42.440 and she was instructing me, like, oh, you know, you 0:12:42.460 --> 0:12:45.760 don't want to do that because that flavor profile or 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:49.220 whatever is not going to match. And I was like, oh, okay. 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:52.140 She's looking out for you. Okay, wait, wait, wait. 0:12:52.179 --> 0:12:55.500 You can't be, like, at Froyo and not thinking that 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:57.140 you like her at that point. Why would you go 0:12:57.220 --> 0:12:59.640 dancing with her if, like, everything she was doing was 0:12:59.700 --> 0:13:00.339 annoying you? 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:01.040 That's a good point. 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:02.380 Well, I mean. 0:13:03.750 --> 0:13:06.170 The thing about the dancing is, all right, so here's 0:13:06.190 --> 0:13:08.330 what I'll say. Like, my idea of a good first 0:13:08.370 --> 0:13:10.750 date is probably a little less talking, more just, like, 0:13:10.950 --> 0:13:13.090 feeling out the vibes, right? 0:13:13.130 --> 0:13:14.150 Feeling vibes. 0:13:14.380 --> 0:13:16.280 How do you feel vibes if you don't talk? 0:13:16.420 --> 0:13:18.560 With your bodies, Brooke. 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.840 There's, like, medium amounts of talking, and then there's, like, 0:13:21.900 --> 0:13:24.660 a lot of talking, and we were in that latter 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:26.200 category there. 0:13:26.220 --> 0:13:29.069 Oh, and she wouldn't give you a second to take 0:13:29.090 --> 0:13:30.010 a breath? 0:13:30.090 --> 0:13:32.230 You're talking about you're at the club, and there's a 0:13:32.250 --> 0:13:32.910 lot of talking? 0:13:32.929 --> 0:13:35.290 Yeah. It was like at Froyo, and that's where in 0:13:35.309 --> 0:13:37.449 my head I was like, there's no chemistry. It's not 0:13:37.470 --> 0:13:37.890 going to work. 0:13:38.650 --> 0:13:39.250 Okay. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.819 You felt like there was so much conversation on Amanda's 0:13:42.940 --> 0:13:45.540 end at Froyo, you needed to move it to someplace 0:13:45.580 --> 0:13:47.270 where you could do less conversation. 0:13:47.900 --> 0:13:50.520 Kind of, but she was the one who wanted to 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:54.490 go dancing. So I was like, okay, I don't want 0:13:54.510 --> 0:13:56.270 to waste her time. I don't want to waste my time. 0:13:56.650 --> 0:13:58.309 I kind of want to let her off easy. So 0:13:58.370 --> 0:14:00.790 my buddy is a bouncer at this club. And so 0:14:00.809 --> 0:14:03.679