WEBVTT - Second Date Update: A Whole New Girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to a brand new second Date Update podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>we will talk real soft for any of our American

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<v Speaker 1>Irish listeners who may be drink too much last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Nice gentle, gentle like that?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we do have a brand new one for you,

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<v Speaker 1>but before we get to it, we do love your comments.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and Eden Levin said, I'm a singer of a

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<v Speaker 3>swing metal band, Shooby Doom from Germany and raising and

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<v Speaker 3>when we travel to shows, I forced my band to

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<v Speaker 3>listen to new episodes. First they ask why did you

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<v Speaker 3>put that on instead of music? But as episode continues,

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<v Speaker 3>I hear them laughing comment thank you for making our

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<v Speaker 3>travel time funny, and my band members annoyed.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the most complex band that it's ever lived.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go look up your music right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it's on YouTube. We're also on YouTube if

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<v Speaker 2>you're not there already. At Brook and Jeffrey, what a

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<v Speaker 2>great comment.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to get that brand new episode dedicated to

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<v Speaker 1>shoeby Doom Shoody Doom from Germany from Germany right.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever people email us saying they matched with someone online,

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<v Speaker 4>we usually assume it's on one of the big dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Grumbler,

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<v Speaker 4>all the usual ones. But one of our listeners says

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<v Speaker 4>he found a lady on an app that I've personally

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<v Speaker 4>never heard of before, but the name of it intrigues

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<v Speaker 4>me alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell me it's a pun.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's find out more about it. We'll speak to Brian. Brian,

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<v Speaker 4>welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's just gonna be one huge ad

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<v Speaker 1>for a niche dating app that nobody knows about.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, can tell us about this particular app that you use.

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<v Speaker 4>What's it called?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, the app that I'm on it is called Bristler.

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<v Speaker 4>Bristler bristler. Is it like with a brist like a

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<v Speaker 4>circumcision sort of thing?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, no, I think one might be different, but more

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<v Speaker 6>like bristle as in like beards.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's for women that like beards.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, better than beard oshuter or beard old.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't work for them, but I like it so far.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So what kind of facial hair are you sporting?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I would assume you have to have some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of requirement of beard and mustache to get on this app.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you have to prove that you have a beard

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<v Speaker 5>at least.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So a goateee or like a mustache wouldn't fly

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<v Speaker 7>on this site.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I've seen it, but I guess, well, I

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<v Speaker 6>guess I haven't, because you know, I'm only looking at

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<v Speaker 6>the women do not have beards.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's okay, it's okay. You could say you're perusing

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<v Speaker 4>the guy's apps too, just for I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess the women don't have facial hair.

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<v Speaker 4>I know Brook would be so popular on this app.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd get so many her Let it fly, girls, let

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<v Speaker 2>it fly.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So I think we get the idea. What's the

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<v Speaker 4>name of the woman that you matched with?

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<v Speaker 5>I matched with Olivia?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, did she hit you up first?

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<v Speaker 6>I reached out at the beginning of the week and

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<v Speaker 6>then to have made plans for the weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? So where does a manly, masculine, bearded guy

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<v Speaker 4>like yourself take a woman for a first date.

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<v Speaker 5>I like to go to David Busters.

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<v Speaker 2>A little arcade, little out there.

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<v Speaker 5>Amazing sliders. That my favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>So what was it like when you first met her?

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<v Speaker 5>We were just polite at first, and we gave a

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<v Speaker 5>gentle hog.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, so once we're done being polite. Then what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Then they gave it aggressive get over here and things

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<v Speaker 2>got real.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, we just sat at the bar, got some food.

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<v Speaker 6>Then the conversation started flowing pretty naturally.

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<v Speaker 4>Nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you get nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of pressure on how your beard looks

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<v Speaker 3>for this, like.

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<v Speaker 5>You know it. Oh, of course I have all the

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<v Speaker 5>oils and the trimmers. Good made it look real nice.

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<v Speaker 4>That's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And when you two were talking, what did you like

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<v Speaker 4>connect over?

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<v Speaker 6>How'd you bond Well, we both bonded over for just

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<v Speaker 6>being down for kind of anything I mean, and also

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<v Speaker 6>how nice she was. She complimented me on like the

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<v Speaker 6>way I looked the beard, obviously, and then I thought

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<v Speaker 6>she was adventurous. Not a lot of girls would want

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<v Speaker 6>to go to Dave and Busters, but she was down

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<v Speaker 6>for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Games.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you help her hold the gun?

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<v Speaker 2>Or I was thinking he like got too competitive.

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<v Speaker 1>Or I'm trying to figure out what we're wrong here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, I cheered her onto the games.

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<v Speaker 6>We were working as a team because we were trying

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<v Speaker 6>to get enough tickets to get a stuffed animal.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're there a long time, okay, But now I'm

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<v Speaker 4>with Brook, How did you mess up?

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<v Speaker 2>How did you tell us?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so I know it's more of a second and

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<v Speaker 6>third date kind of thing you drop on someone. But

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<v Speaker 6>I told her I'm a Disney adult.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, you guys know what that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're like adult who's obsessed with Disney, maybe goes

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<v Speaker 1>to Disneyland a lot for.

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<v Speaker 4>A vercation, names their children after Disney characters. Quiet down, dopey.

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<v Speaker 2>For that. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>There should be a why do you think bringing that up?

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<v Speaker 4>May have been a weird point?

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<v Speaker 5>You do have to tell someone not everyone's really into it.

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<v Speaker 6>And she kind of was asking me about it, and

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<v Speaker 6>I think she was kind of like trying to get

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<v Speaker 6>me to say, like what that means for me?

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<v Speaker 5>Like what level is she working with here?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess, yeah, like are you a fan or do

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<v Speaker 4>you have Donald Duck bed sheets?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 6>And so I told her it's like, well, it means

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<v Speaker 6>like with a group of friends, I go like five

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<v Speaker 6>six times a year, five or six, Okay week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I could see why, like looking down the road, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be hard in a relationship if you weren't both

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<v Speaker 1>on the same boat.

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<v Speaker 4>There. Yeah, did you gauge her love of Disney?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I asked her.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, well, you know, I really love Disney.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you love this? And she said, I like it.

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<v Speaker 5>I do really like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I love most people. After the Disney Converse sation, you

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<v Speaker 4>felt the vibe change a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if she's just being nice again about

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<v Speaker 6>it or she just played off really well.

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<v Speaker 5>But she was like, no, I like it, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>And yeah, I mean it wasn't as intense before, but

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<v Speaker 6>it wasn't like a full on drop offs. It was

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<v Speaker 6>just like, oh, yeah, that that is newest information I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, she's not getting back to me. I've tried

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<v Speaker 5>to call in her, but you know, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you understand that in a relationship, if you date

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's not a Disney adult, there'll be some compromise.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you're a reasonable guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean i'd like to think.

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<v Speaker 4>So Brook's going to be your fairy godmother when we

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<v Speaker 4>come back.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh you're really good mickey mouse impression.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and we're going to do Cinderella style and ask

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<v Speaker 4>to see her feet when we come back and do

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<v Speaker 4>a second date up there. We're going to see if

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<v Speaker 4>that slipper fits Disney style right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on, it's a little weird, but thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, We're on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold On, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Second Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a special fairy Tale edition of Second Date Update today. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>where our listener, Brian, who's a self proclaimed Disney adult,

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<v Speaker 4>is looking to find his happily ever after And how

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<v Speaker 4>does that happen? Well, in Cinderella, the Prince brings a

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<v Speaker 4>glass slipper from house to house. How do we do

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<v Speaker 4>it on our show? We request feet picks to see

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<v Speaker 4>if they match what we like. Brian. I'm not getting

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<v Speaker 4>too creepy here, am I?

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<v Speaker 5>I think so?

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't even going to tell you that it was

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<v Speaker 1>your feet picks that he was hoping for.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, I mean, yeah, do you think that's gonna help?

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<v Speaker 5>You're the experts.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll request those from you later. But the thing is,

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<v Speaker 4>we still don't really know if Olivia actually got turned

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<v Speaker 4>off by Brian's admission that he's a Disney adult and

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<v Speaker 4>he goes to Disneylane five or six times a year.

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<v Speaker 4>But my co hosts think that could be at least

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<v Speaker 4>one red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like two different lifestyles, right, it's like hard

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<v Speaker 1>to imagine going there five or six times.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Disney adults instead of going somewhere else, they just

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<v Speaker 7>go back and back, ye, back. Some people like going

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<v Speaker 7>to the beach.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they have that too.

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<v Speaker 7>Walt, Disney World has some mess beaches.

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<v Speaker 4>That's yeah, that could be a good second date. Go

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<v Speaker 4>into like a beach version of Disneyland. See her in

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<v Speaker 4>a bikini, Disney hoping we'll ask for bikini shots after

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<v Speaker 4>the feat. That's what doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask for pictures. He did not say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff is very creative.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the village, the beach. Then fine, you're really giving

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<v Speaker 2>off Gaston right.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, the hottest one. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, let's just call Olivia. We'll see if she answers

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<v Speaker 4>the phone, and I'll see a chance to say here

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<v Speaker 4>we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Olivia. Hey, Olivia,

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<v Speaker 4>you're on a radio show right now. We're called Brooke

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the morning. Hi, good morning.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm I'm actually confused.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that's okay, because we're doing a segment here

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<v Speaker 4>it's called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 4>help out one of our listeners. That you met up

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<v Speaker 4>with recently, a guy named Brian.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh, because he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Not hearing back from you after the two of you

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<v Speaker 4>hung out at david Busters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it sounds like it was fun.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I'm sorry. How do you how did you get

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<v Speaker 9>this information?

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<v Speaker 4>Well from him, because honestly, he's a little bit disappointed

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<v Speaker 4>that the two of you hadn't had a second meetup.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, so what do you want to what do you

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<v Speaker 9>want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly if there's a specific reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like, are you trying to avoid a second hangout?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah? I mean, I just I don't really know if

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<v Speaker 9>we were a great match.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what made you feel that way?

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<v Speaker 9>I think that maybe our lifestyles are different.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean by that?

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<v Speaker 9>Just like our hobbies and our interests are a little different.

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<v Speaker 9>He's into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well we'll just ask does that have anything to

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<v Speaker 4>do with his affection for the world of Disney?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, I mean, okay, once he told you he

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<v Speaker 1>was a Disney adult and he explains that he vacations

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<v Speaker 1>there five to six times a year, Like, what was

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<v Speaker 1>going through your head?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean, okay, I've never met anyone who like

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<v Speaker 8>loves Disney like that, but I will say that I'm

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<v Speaker 8>actually pretty open minded, and so.

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<v Speaker 9>When he first brought it up, you know, I thought like, oh,

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<v Speaker 9>this is just like a quirky kind of passion. But

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<v Speaker 9>then he kind of got.

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<v Speaker 8>Like a little more into it, and so he showed

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<v Speaker 8>me a picture on his phone of one of the

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<v Speaker 8>trips he went on, and it was with him and

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<v Speaker 8>like a bunch of his buddies, like a bunch of dudes,

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<v Speaker 8>and they were all dressed up like snow white doors.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that's kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that where a lot of Disney adults will cosplay,

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<v Speaker 1>like when.

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<v Speaker 2>They go on the trip.

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<v Speaker 4>What about him being dressed as a dwarf was unappealing

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<v Speaker 4>to you?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I think I realized, like looking at that photo.

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<v Speaker 8>So we met on this app I have a thing

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<v Speaker 8>for beards. I thought he was attractive, you know initially,

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<v Speaker 8>but then I called this photo and all of the

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<v Speaker 8>guys there have beards except one.

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<v Speaker 5>It was dopey.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you were attracted to all of the dwarfs

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<v Speaker 4>in addition to bright.

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<v Speaker 8>No, it was just I think I kind of realized

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<v Speaker 8>in that moment that like his whole identity is wrapped

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<v Speaker 8>up into being this kind of cartoon dwarf. Like, this

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<v Speaker 8>isn't a one time thing.

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<v Speaker 9>This is suspenny.

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<v Speaker 1>What wait, you're saying he's not a Disney adult. He

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<v Speaker 1>is a real life dwarf from the Seven Dwarves.

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<v Speaker 4>Like a fanatic. Yes, okay, just.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's one trip though, that doesn't mean he dresses

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<v Speaker 1>like that all the time.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't dressed like that for your date, right.

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<v Speaker 8>No, he was wearing regular clothes. But something else weird happened.

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<v Speaker 8>He walked me to my car, and then as you're

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<v Speaker 8>walking to my car, he was singing the high host song.

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<v Speaker 4>It's off to Kiss we Go he joking.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it a joke because of the picture from earlier?

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<v Speaker 9>I don't know, you know, I just met him, so

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<v Speaker 9>like this is my first impression.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, You're like, what do.

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<v Speaker 4>You do for living? You're like, I'm a minor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this diamond I was pulled out from behind you ears.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, now Alexis is interested. But okay, it sounds like, Olivia,

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<v Speaker 4>you were just kind of overwhelmed by how into Disney

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<v Speaker 4>he is.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, it's just kind of made me question things.

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<v Speaker 4>We can all understand why you might feel that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm curious if Brian does, though, because he is on

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<v Speaker 4>the other line of this call waiting to jump in

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<v Speaker 4>and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 8>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Okay, you guys couldn't tell me this.

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<v Speaker 9>When I just told you all.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry about that, Olivia, But yeah, he's there, Olivia, I get.

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<v Speaker 5>I get what you're saying there. By the way, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>sorry I had to go this route, but maybe I

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<v Speaker 5>played into it too much.

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<v Speaker 6>But no, I don't think I'm actually one of the

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<v Speaker 6>seven Dwarves, but the one I play I'm bashful by

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<v Speaker 6>the way.

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<v Speaker 4>Sweet one. Yeah, Brooke is drunky, So yeah that one

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<v Speaker 4>for sure, Olivia. Does that make it any better knowing

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<v Speaker 4>which specific character he is? I feel like it does.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't really know what to say, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 8>I just like, if I'm gonna date you, Like, do

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<v Speaker 8>I have to dress up?

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<v Speaker 6>No, you don't have to. That's like, this is something

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<v Speaker 6>I do with my friends. Of course, if you want to, like,

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<v Speaker 6>that's the thing, but like, you don't have to.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, think of it this way. It's healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got good friendships, he has a cool hobby, he

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<v Speaker 1>has other interests outside of you, which means he's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be no, you know, not too clingy, gone on vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 7>And he makes good money if he can afford to

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<v Speaker 7>go to Disney factor total.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, Alexis, would you be into him if you

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<v Speaker 4>found out he was a Disney adult that.

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<v Speaker 2>Could I go to the beach while he goes to

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<v Speaker 2>the park. Yeah, I think that's a good compromise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's not quite a no.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, I I probably.

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<v Speaker 6>Should have waited to tell you this because I normally

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<v Speaker 6>I don't bring it up.

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<v Speaker 5>But I felt so comfortable.

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<v Speaker 6>Around you and you're having such a good time that

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, Okay, why not just tell you to

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<v Speaker 6>that's good passions.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean it's definitely different than anyone I've stated before.

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<v Speaker 8>I guess I could try it out by a goes

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<v Speaker 8>too far, it's not going.

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<v Speaker 5>To be for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well wait, is there maybe a Disney character you're more

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to that.

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<v Speaker 2>He could try out?

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<v Speaker 8>I guess we can explore the princes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, they have a lot of facial hair.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh he's going to shave for that.

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<v Speaker 5>I bet about a little Chip and Dale. Those like

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<v Speaker 5>those are great.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, he's pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to do whatever. But we'd like to offer. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>oh my god, Well, Brian, feels like you two had

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<v Speaker 4>an obvious connection, so we'd like to offer to send

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<v Speaker 4>you out on another date, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 8>That's nice.

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<v Speaker 9>I wasn't planning to pay for it anyway, but.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's all right. I work in a diamond mine, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Covered.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry. I won't make those jokes on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, all right. True love is possible in this world,

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<v Speaker 4>not just in the Disney world. And turns out you

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<v Speaker 4>don't have to ask to see a woman's foot and

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<v Speaker 4>put a slipper on it to see if she's the

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<v Speaker 4>one for you.

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<v Speaker 9>Do come true?

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<v Speaker 4>Dreams do come true when you're willing to change yourself

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<v Speaker 4>as a man in order to fit exactly what a

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<v Speaker 4>woman wants you to be when you wish upon a star.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff Yeah, stars and galaxy size.

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<v Speaker 5>Good job, Brian, Well thanks so much, Yang, thanks for

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<v Speaker 5>the help.

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<v Speaker 2>Bashful of date, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>We really are the fairy god parents. Yeahok, and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I was joking at the end there by saying guys

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<v Speaker 4>can change themselves to become whichever Disney prince a woman

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<v Speaker 4>dreams that she wants him to be.

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<v Speaker 2>They could ever actually tell when you're joking or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that women want you to change yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just think they want you to be cool

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<v Speaker 1>from the start.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but they want you to be perfect to Olivia,

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<v Speaker 4>did seem tentative about his specific Disney character choices and

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<v Speaker 4>how deep his passion was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>For me, someone who goes to Disney once a year,

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<v Speaker 7>he didn't see that bad. There's literally just the real

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<v Speaker 7>Disney adults like live at the park five to.

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<v Speaker 2>Six times a year. Is every other month, totally.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, my advice to Brian is don't change yourself, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>be you just maybe wait till date three to bring

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<v Speaker 4>your long floppy hat into the bedroom a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's not part of it, Jeff, didn't you hear him?

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<v Speaker 4>Bro Okay, well, whatever it is, just be you, Brian.

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<v Speaker 4>Whichever whichever Disney Dwarf character you are, you be the

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<v Speaker 4>best version of that you can be.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you want some help being the best version

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<v Speaker 4>of yourself with a little bit of with a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of an assist from our show, email us and

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