Speaker 1: Welcome to a brand new second Date Update podcast, and
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Speaker 2: Now, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Date Updates.
Speaker 4: Whenever people email us saying they matched with someone online,
Speaker 4: we usually assume it's on one of the big dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Grumbler,
Speaker 4: all the usual ones. But one of our listeners says
Speaker 4: he found a lady on an app that I've personally
Speaker 4: never heard of before, but the name of it intrigues
Speaker 4: me alone.
Speaker 2: I tell me it's a pun.
Speaker 4: Let's find out more about it. We'll speak to Brian. Brian,
Speaker 4: welcome to the show man.
Speaker 5: Oh, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's just gonna be one huge ad
Speaker 1: for a niche dating app that nobody knows about.
Speaker 4: Yeah, can tell us about this particular app that you use.
Speaker 4: What's it called?
Speaker 5: Well, the app that I'm on it is called Bristler.
Speaker 4: Bristler bristler. Is it like with a brist like a
Speaker 4: circumcision sort of thing?
Speaker 6: Well, no, I think one might be different, but more
Speaker 6: like bristle as in like beards.
Speaker 5: So it's for women that like beards.
Speaker 4: Yeah, better than beard oshuter or beard old.
Speaker 5: I don't work for them, but I like it so far.
Speaker 2: Okay, So what kind of facial hair are you sporting?
Speaker 1: Because I would assume you have to have some sort
Speaker 1: of requirement of beard and mustache to get on this app.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to prove that you have a beard
Speaker 5: at least.
Speaker 7: Okay, So a goateee or like a mustache wouldn't fly
Speaker 7: on this site.
Speaker 6: I mean, I've seen it, but I guess, well, I
Speaker 6: guess I haven't, because you know, I'm only looking at
Speaker 6: the women do not have beards.
Speaker 4: No, it's okay, it's okay. You could say you're perusing
Speaker 4: the guy's apps too, just for I.
Speaker 2: Guess the women don't have facial hair.
Speaker 4: I know Brook would be so popular on this app.
Speaker 2: You'd get so many her Let it fly, girls, let
Speaker 2: it fly.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I think we get the idea. What's the
Speaker 4: name of the woman that you matched with?
Speaker 5: I matched with Olivia?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, did she hit you up first?
Speaker 6: I reached out at the beginning of the week and
Speaker 6: then to have made plans for the weekend?
Speaker 4: All right? So where does a manly, masculine, bearded guy
Speaker 4: like yourself take a woman for a first date.
Speaker 5: I like to go to David Busters.
Speaker 2: A little arcade, little out there.
Speaker 5: Amazing sliders. That my favorite.
Speaker 2: So what was it like when you first met her?
Speaker 5: We were just polite at first, and we gave a
Speaker 5: gentle hog.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, so once we're done being polite. Then what happened?
Speaker 2: Then they gave it aggressive get over here and things
Speaker 2: got real.
Speaker 6: Oh, we just sat at the bar, got some food.
Speaker 6: Then the conversation started flowing pretty naturally.
Speaker 4: Nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you get nervous.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of pressure on how your beard looks
Speaker 3: for this, like.
Speaker 5: You know it. Oh, of course I have all the
Speaker 5: oils and the trimmers. Good made it look real nice.
Speaker 4: That's good.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: And when you two were talking, what did you like
Speaker 4: connect over?
Speaker 6: How'd you bond Well, we both bonded over for just
Speaker 6: being down for kind of anything I mean, and also
Speaker 6: how nice she was. She complimented me on like the
Speaker 6: way I looked the beard, obviously, and then I thought
Speaker 6: she was adventurous. Not a lot of girls would want
Speaker 6: to go to Dave and Busters, but she was down
Speaker 6: for it.
Speaker 1: Games.
Speaker 4: Did you help her hold the gun?
Speaker 2: Or I was thinking he like got too competitive.
Speaker 1: Or I'm trying to figure out what we're wrong here.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I cheered her onto the games.
Speaker 6: We were working as a team because we were trying
Speaker 6: to get enough tickets to get a stuffed animal.
Speaker 4: So you're there a long time, okay, But now I'm
Speaker 4: with Brook, How did you mess up?
Speaker 2: How did you tell us?
Speaker 6: Okay, so I know it's more of a second and
Speaker 6: third date kind of thing you drop on someone. But
Speaker 6: I told her I'm a Disney adult.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you guys know what that is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're like adult who's obsessed with Disney, maybe goes
Speaker 1: to Disneyland a lot for.
Speaker 4: A vercation, names their children after Disney characters. Quiet down, dopey.
Speaker 2: For that. That's a good point.
Speaker 4: There should be a why do you think bringing that up?
Speaker 4: May have been a weird point?
Speaker 5: You do have to tell someone not everyone's really into it.
Speaker 6: And she kind of was asking me about it, and
Speaker 6: I think she was kind of like trying to get
Speaker 6: me to say, like what that means for me?
Speaker 5: Like what level is she working with here?
Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, like are you a fan or do
Speaker 4: you have Donald Duck bed sheets?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 6: And so I told her it's like, well, it means
Speaker 6: like with a group of friends, I go like five
Speaker 6: six times a year, five or six, Okay week.
Speaker 2: I'm going to be honest with you.
Speaker 1: I could see why, like looking down the road, that
Speaker 1: would be hard in a relationship if you weren't both
Speaker 1: on the same boat.
Speaker 4: There. Yeah, did you gauge her love of Disney?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I asked her.
Speaker 6: I was like, well, you know, I really love Disney.
Speaker 5: Do you love this? And she said, I like it.
Speaker 5: I do really like it.
Speaker 4: I love most people. After the Disney Converse sation, you
Speaker 4: felt the vibe change a little bit.
Speaker 6: I don't know if she's just being nice again about
Speaker 6: it or she just played off really well.
Speaker 5: But she was like, no, I like it, you know.
Speaker 6: And yeah, I mean it wasn't as intense before, but
Speaker 6: it wasn't like a full on drop offs. It was
Speaker 6: just like, oh, yeah, that that is newest information I guess.
Speaker 5: But yeah, she's not getting back to me. I've tried
Speaker 5: to call in her, but you know, I mean.
Speaker 1: Like you understand that in a relationship, if you date
Speaker 1: someone who's not a Disney adult, there'll be some compromise.
Speaker 2: Right, you're a reasonable guy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean i'd like to think.
Speaker 4: So Brook's going to be your fairy godmother when we
Speaker 4: come back.
Speaker 7: Oh you're really good mickey mouse impression.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and we're going to do Cinderella style and ask
Speaker 4: to see her feet when we come back and do
Speaker 4: a second date up there. We're going to see if
Speaker 4: that slipper fits Disney style right after this.
Speaker 5: Hold on, it's a little weird, but thank you.
Speaker 4: All right, We're on it.
Speaker 2: Hold On, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 8: Second Date Updates.
Speaker 4: It's a special fairy Tale edition of Second Date Update today. Yeah,
Speaker 4: where our listener, Brian, who's a self proclaimed Disney adult,
Speaker 4: is looking to find his happily ever after And how
Speaker 4: does that happen? Well, in Cinderella, the Prince brings a
Speaker 4: glass slipper from house to house. How do we do
Speaker 4: it on our show? We request feet picks to see
Speaker 4: if they match what we like. Brian. I'm not getting
Speaker 4: too creepy here, am I?
Speaker 5: I think so?
Speaker 1: It wasn't even going to tell you that it was
Speaker 1: your feet picks that he was hoping for.
Speaker 5: Oh well, I mean, yeah, do you think that's gonna help?
Speaker 5: You're the experts.
Speaker 4: We'll request those from you later. But the thing is,
Speaker 4: we still don't really know if Olivia actually got turned
Speaker 4: off by Brian's admission that he's a Disney adult and
Speaker 4: he goes to Disneylane five or six times a year.
Speaker 4: But my co hosts think that could be at least
Speaker 4: one red flag.
Speaker 1: It's just like two different lifestyles, right, it's like hard
Speaker 1: to imagine going there five or six times.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Disney adults instead of going somewhere else, they just
Speaker 7: go back and back, ye, back. Some people like going
Speaker 7: to the beach.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they have that too.
Speaker 7: Walt, Disney World has some mess beaches.
Speaker 4: That's yeah, that could be a good second date. Go
Speaker 4: into like a beach version of Disneyland. See her in
Speaker 4: a bikini, Disney hoping we'll ask for bikini shots after
Speaker 4: the feat. That's what doesn't.
Speaker 2: Ask for pictures. He did not say that.
Speaker 4: Jeff is very creative.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the village, the beach. Then fine, you're really giving
Speaker 2: off Gaston right.
Speaker 4: Now, the hottest one. Thank you.
Speaker 8: Brook.
Speaker 4: Anyway, let's just call Olivia. We'll see if she answers
Speaker 4: the phone, and I'll see a chance to say here
Speaker 4: we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Olivia. Hey, Olivia,
Speaker 4: you're on a radio show right now. We're called Brooke
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning. Hi, good morning.
Speaker 9: I'm I'm actually confused.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's okay, because we're doing a segment here
Speaker 4: it's called a second Date Update, and we're trying to
Speaker 4: help out one of our listeners. That you met up
Speaker 4: with recently, a guy named Brian.
Speaker 9: Oh, because he's.
Speaker 4: Not hearing back from you after the two of you
Speaker 4: hung out at david Busters.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it sounds like it was fun.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm sorry. How do you how did you get
Speaker 9: this information?
Speaker 4: Well from him, because honestly, he's a little bit disappointed
Speaker 4: that the two of you hadn't had a second meetup.
Speaker 9: Okay, so what do you want to what do you
Speaker 9: want to know.
Speaker 2: Exactly if there's a specific reason.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like, are you trying to avoid a second hangout?
Speaker 9: Yeah? I mean, I just I don't really know if
Speaker 9: we were a great match.
Speaker 4: Okay, what made you feel that way?
Speaker 9: I think that maybe our lifestyles are different.
Speaker 3: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 9: Just like our hobbies and our interests are a little different.
Speaker 9: He's into it.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well we'll just ask does that have anything to
Speaker 4: do with his affection for the world of Disney?
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I mean, okay, once he told you he
Speaker 1: was a Disney adult and he explains that he vacations
Speaker 1: there five to six times a year, Like, what was
Speaker 1: going through your head?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, okay, I've never met anyone who like
Speaker 8: loves Disney like that, but I will say that I'm
Speaker 8: actually pretty open minded, and so.
Speaker 9: When he first brought it up, you know, I thought like, oh,
Speaker 9: this is just like a quirky kind of passion. But
Speaker 9: then he kind of got.
Speaker 8: Like a little more into it, and so he showed
Speaker 8: me a picture on his phone of one of the
Speaker 8: trips he went on, and it was with him and
Speaker 8: like a bunch of his buddies, like a bunch of dudes,
Speaker 8: and they were all dressed up like snow white doors.
Speaker 6: Oh that's kind of funny.
Speaker 1: I've seen that where a lot of Disney adults will cosplay,
Speaker 1: like when.
Speaker 2: They go on the trip.
Speaker 4: What about him being dressed as a dwarf was unappealing
Speaker 4: to you?
Speaker 8: Well, I think I realized, like looking at that photo.
Speaker 8: So we met on this app I have a thing
Speaker 8: for beards. I thought he was attractive, you know initially,
Speaker 8: but then I called this photo and all of the
Speaker 8: guys there have beards except one.
Speaker 5: It was dopey.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you were attracted to all of the dwarfs
Speaker 4: in addition to bright.
Speaker 8: No, it was just I think I kind of realized
Speaker 8: in that moment that like his whole identity is wrapped
Speaker 8: up into being this kind of cartoon dwarf. Like, this
Speaker 8: isn't a one time thing.
Speaker 9: This is suspenny.
Speaker 1: What wait, you're saying he's not a Disney adult. He
Speaker 1: is a real life dwarf from the Seven Dwarves.
Speaker 4: Like a fanatic. Yes, okay, just.
Speaker 1: Because it's one trip though, that doesn't mean he dresses
Speaker 1: like that all the time.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It wasn't dressed like that for your date, right.
Speaker 8: No, he was wearing regular clothes. But something else weird happened.
Speaker 8: He walked me to my car, and then as you're
Speaker 8: walking to my car, he was singing the high host song.
Speaker 4: It's off to Kiss we Go he joking.
Speaker 2: Was it a joke because of the picture from earlier?
Speaker 9: I don't know, you know, I just met him, so
Speaker 9: like this is my first impression.
Speaker 6: All right, You're like, what do.
Speaker 4: You do for living? You're like, I'm a minor.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this diamond I was pulled out from behind you ears.
Speaker 4: Oh, now Alexis is interested. But okay, it sounds like, Olivia,
Speaker 4: you were just kind of overwhelmed by how into Disney
Speaker 4: he is.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just kind of made me question things.
Speaker 4: We can all understand why you might feel that way.
Speaker 4: I'm curious if Brian does, though, because he is on
Speaker 4: the other line of this call waiting to jump in
Speaker 4: and talk to you.
Speaker 8: Are you serious?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, Okay, you guys couldn't tell me this.
Speaker 9: When I just told you all.
Speaker 4: Sorry about that, Olivia, But yeah, he's there, Olivia, I get.
Speaker 5: I get what you're saying there. By the way, I'm
Speaker 5: sorry I had to go this route, but maybe I
Speaker 5: played into it too much.
Speaker 6: But no, I don't think I'm actually one of the
Speaker 6: seven Dwarves, but the one I play I'm bashful by
Speaker 6: the way.
Speaker 4: Sweet one. Yeah, Brooke is drunky, So yeah that one
Speaker 4: for sure, Olivia. Does that make it any better knowing
Speaker 4: which specific character he is? I feel like it does.
Speaker 8: I don't really know what to say, to be honest,
Speaker 8: I just like, if I'm gonna date you, Like, do
Speaker 8: I have to dress up?
Speaker 6: No, you don't have to. That's like, this is something
Speaker 6: I do with my friends. Of course, if you want to, like,
Speaker 6: that's the thing, but like, you don't have to.
Speaker 2: I mean, think of it this way. It's healthy.
Speaker 1: He's got good friendships, he has a cool hobby, he
Speaker 1: has other interests outside of you, which means he's gonna
Speaker 1: be no, you know, not too clingy, gone on vacation.
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.
Speaker 7: And he makes good money if he can afford to
Speaker 7: go to Disney factor total.
Speaker 4: I mean, Alexis, would you be into him if you
Speaker 4: found out he was a Disney adult that.
Speaker 2: Could I go to the beach while he goes to
Speaker 2: the park. Yeah, I think that's a good compromise.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not quite a no.
Speaker 5: And you know, I I probably.
Speaker 6: Should have waited to tell you this because I normally
Speaker 6: I don't bring it up.
Speaker 5: But I felt so comfortable.
Speaker 6: Around you and you're having such a good time that
Speaker 6: I was like, Okay, why not just tell you to
Speaker 6: that's good passions.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it's definitely different than anyone I've stated before.
Speaker 8: I guess I could try it out by a goes
Speaker 8: too far, it's not going.
Speaker 5: To be for me.
Speaker 1: Well wait, is there maybe a Disney character you're more
Speaker 1: attracted to that.
Speaker 2: He could try out?
Speaker 8: I guess we can explore the princes.
Speaker 2: Okay, they have a lot of facial hair.
Speaker 4: Oh he's going to shave for that.
Speaker 5: I bet about a little Chip and Dale. Those like
Speaker 5: those are great.
Speaker 2: Wow, he's pretty funny.
Speaker 4: Want to do whatever. But we'd like to offer. Oh
Speaker 4: oh my god, Well, Brian, feels like you two had
Speaker 4: an obvious connection, so we'd like to offer to send
Speaker 4: you out on another date, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 8: That's nice.
Speaker 9: I wasn't planning to pay for it anyway, but.
Speaker 5: Well, it's all right. I work in a diamond mine, so.
Speaker 4: Covered.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I won't make those jokes on the.
Speaker 4: Wait.
Speaker 2: Is that a yes?
Speaker 4: Yes, all right. True love is possible in this world,
Speaker 4: not just in the Disney world. And turns out you
Speaker 4: don't have to ask to see a woman's foot and
Speaker 4: put a slipper on it to see if she's the
Speaker 4: one for you.
Speaker 9: Do come true?
Speaker 4: Dreams do come true when you're willing to change yourself
Speaker 4: as a man in order to fit exactly what a
Speaker 4: woman wants you to be when you wish upon a star.
Speaker 4: Jeff Yeah, stars and galaxy size.
Speaker 5: Good job, Brian, Well thanks so much, Yang, thanks for
Speaker 5: the help.
Speaker 2: Bashful of date, that's a good point.
Speaker 4: We really are the fairy god parents. Yeahok, and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the morning.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 4: I was joking at the end there by saying guys
Speaker 4: can change themselves to become whichever Disney prince a woman
Speaker 4: dreams that she wants him to be.
Speaker 2: They could ever actually tell when you're joking or not.
Speaker 1: I don't think that women want you to change yourself,
Speaker 1: and I just think they want you to be cool
Speaker 1: from the start.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but they want you to be perfect to Olivia,
Speaker 4: did seem tentative about his specific Disney character choices and
Speaker 4: how deep his passion was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 7: For me, someone who goes to Disney once a year,
Speaker 7: he didn't see that bad. There's literally just the real
Speaker 7: Disney adults like live at the park five to.
Speaker 2: Six times a year. Is every other month, totally.
Speaker 4: Well, my advice to Brian is don't change yourself, okay,
Speaker 4: be you just maybe wait till date three to bring
Speaker 4: your long floppy hat into the bedroom a little bit.
Speaker 2: No, that's not part of it, Jeff, didn't you hear him?
Speaker 4: Bro Okay, well, whatever it is, just be you, Brian.
Speaker 4: Whichever whichever Disney Dwarf character you are, you be the
Speaker 4: best version of that you can be.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 4: And if you want some help being the best version
Speaker 4: of yourself with a little bit of with a little
Speaker 4: bit of an assist from our show, email us and
Speaker 4: we can call that person who's not calling you back.
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Speaker 4: up online. Wherever you get yours. Yeah, Aprok and Jeffrey