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Speaker 1: Welcome to a brand new second Date Update podcast, and

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Speaker 1: we will talk real soft for any of our American

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Speaker 1: Irish listeners who may be drink too much last night.

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Speaker 2: Nice gentle, gentle like that?

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Speaker 1: All right, we do have a brand new one for you,

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Speaker 1: but before we get to it, we do love your comments.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and Eden Levin said, I'm a singer of a

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Speaker 3: swing metal band, Shooby Doom from Germany and raising and

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Speaker 3: when we travel to shows, I forced my band to

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Speaker 3: listen to new episodes. First they ask why did you

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Speaker 3: put that on instead of music? But as episode continues,

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Speaker 3: I hear them laughing comment thank you for making our

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Speaker 3: travel time funny, and my band members annoyed.

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Speaker 2: This is the most complex band that it's ever lived.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go look up your music right now.

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Speaker 2: I hope it's on YouTube. We're also on YouTube if

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Speaker 2: you're not there already. At Brook and Jeffrey, what a

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Speaker 2: great comment.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get that brand new episode dedicated to

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Speaker 1: shoeby Doom Shoody Doom from Germany from Germany right.

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Speaker 2: Now, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Date Updates.

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Speaker 4: Whenever people email us saying they matched with someone online,

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Speaker 4: we usually assume it's on one of the big dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Grumbler,

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Speaker 4: all the usual ones. But one of our listeners says

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Speaker 4: he found a lady on an app that I've personally

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Speaker 4: never heard of before, but the name of it intrigues

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Speaker 4: me alone.

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Speaker 2: I tell me it's a pun.

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Speaker 4: Let's find out more about it. We'll speak to Brian. Brian,

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: I feel like there's just gonna be one huge ad

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Speaker 1: for a niche dating app that nobody knows about.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, can tell us about this particular app that you use.

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Speaker 4: What's it called?

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Speaker 5: Well, the app that I'm on it is called Bristler.

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Speaker 4: Bristler bristler. Is it like with a brist like a

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Speaker 4: circumcision sort of thing?

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Speaker 6: Well, no, I think one might be different, but more

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Speaker 6: like bristle as in like beards.

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Speaker 5: So it's for women that like beards.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, better than beard oshuter or beard old.

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Speaker 5: I don't work for them, but I like it so far.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what kind of facial hair are you sporting?

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Speaker 1: Because I would assume you have to have some sort

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Speaker 1: of requirement of beard and mustache to get on this app.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to prove that you have a beard

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Speaker 7: Okay, So a goateee or like a mustache wouldn't fly

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Speaker 6: I mean, I've seen it, but I guess, well, I

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Speaker 6: guess I haven't, because you know, I'm only looking at

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Speaker 6: the women do not have beards.

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Speaker 4: No, it's okay, it's okay. You could say you're perusing

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Speaker 4: the guy's apps too, just for I.

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Speaker 2: Guess the women don't have facial hair.

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Speaker 4: I know Brook would be so popular on this app.

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Speaker 2: You'd get so many her Let it fly, girls, let

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I think we get the idea. What's the

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Speaker 4: name of the woman that you matched with?

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Speaker 5: I matched with Olivia?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, did she hit you up first?

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Speaker 6: I reached out at the beginning of the week and

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Speaker 6: then to have made plans for the weekend?

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Speaker 4: All right? So where does a manly, masculine, bearded guy

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Speaker 5: I like to go to David Busters.

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Speaker 2: A little arcade, little out there.

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Speaker 5: Amazing sliders. That my favorite.

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Speaker 2: So what was it like when you first met her?

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Speaker 5: We were just polite at first, and we gave a

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Speaker 5: gentle hog.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, so once we're done being polite. Then what happened?

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Speaker 2: Then they gave it aggressive get over here and things

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Speaker 6: Oh, we just sat at the bar, got some food.

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Speaker 6: Then the conversation started flowing pretty naturally.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you get nervous.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of pressure on how your beard looks

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Speaker 5: You know it. Oh, of course I have all the

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 4: And when you two were talking, what did you like

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Speaker 6: How'd you bond Well, we both bonded over for just

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Speaker 4: Did you help her hold the gun?

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Speaker 2: Or I was thinking he like got too competitive.

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Speaker 1: Or I'm trying to figure out what we're wrong here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I cheered her onto the games.

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Speaker 6: We were working as a team because we were trying

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Speaker 4: So you're there a long time, okay, But now I'm

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Speaker 4: with Brook, How did you mess up?

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Speaker 2: How did you tell us?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so I know it's more of a second and

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Speaker 6: third date kind of thing you drop on someone. But

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Speaker 6: I told her I'm a Disney adult.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you guys know what that is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're like adult who's obsessed with Disney, maybe goes

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Speaker 1: to Disneyland a lot for.

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Speaker 4: A vercation, names their children after Disney characters. Quiet down, dopey.

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Speaker 2: For that. That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: There should be a why do you think bringing that up?

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Speaker 4: May have been a weird point?

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Speaker 5: You do have to tell someone not everyone's really into it.

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Speaker 6: And she kind of was asking me about it, and

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Speaker 6: I think she was kind of like trying to get

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Speaker 5: Like what level is she working with here?

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Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, like are you a fan or do

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Speaker 4: you have Donald Duck bed sheets?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 6: And so I told her it's like, well, it means

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Speaker 6: like with a group of friends, I go like five

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Speaker 6: six times a year, five or six, Okay week.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to be honest with you.

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Speaker 1: I could see why, like looking down the road, that

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Speaker 4: There. Yeah, did you gauge her love of Disney?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I asked her.

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Speaker 6: I was like, well, you know, I really love Disney.

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Speaker 5: Do you love this? And she said, I like it.

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Speaker 4: I love most people. After the Disney Converse sation, you

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Speaker 6: I don't know if she's just being nice again about

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Speaker 5: But she was like, no, I like it, you know.

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Speaker 6: And yeah, I mean it wasn't as intense before, but

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Speaker 6: just like, oh, yeah, that that is newest information I guess.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, she's not getting back to me. I've tried

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Speaker 5: to call in her, but you know, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like you understand that in a relationship, if you date

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Speaker 1: someone who's not a Disney adult, there'll be some compromise.

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Speaker 2: Right, you're a reasonable guy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean i'd like to think.

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Speaker 4: So Brook's going to be your fairy godmother when we

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Speaker 4: come back.

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Speaker 7: Oh you're really good mickey mouse impression.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and we're going to do Cinderella style and ask

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Speaker 4: to see her feet when we come back and do

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Speaker 4: a second date up there. We're going to see if

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Speaker 4: that slipper fits Disney style right after this.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, it's a little weird, but thank you.

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Speaker 4: All right, We're on it.

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Speaker 2: Hold On, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 8: Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 4: It's a special fairy Tale edition of Second Date Update today. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: where our listener, Brian, who's a self proclaimed Disney adult,

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Speaker 4: is looking to find his happily ever after And how

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Speaker 4: does that happen? Well, in Cinderella, the Prince brings a

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Speaker 4: glass slipper from house to house. How do we do

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Speaker 4: it on our show? We request feet picks to see

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Speaker 4: if they match what we like. Brian. I'm not getting

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Speaker 4: too creepy here, am I?

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Speaker 5: I think so?

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Speaker 1: It wasn't even going to tell you that it was

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Speaker 1: your feet picks that he was hoping for.

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Speaker 5: Oh well, I mean, yeah, do you think that's gonna help?

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Speaker 5: You're the experts.

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Speaker 4: We'll request those from you later. But the thing is,

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Speaker 4: we still don't really know if Olivia actually got turned

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Speaker 4: off by Brian's admission that he's a Disney adult and

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Speaker 4: he goes to Disneylane five or six times a year.

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Speaker 4: But my co hosts think that could be at least

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Speaker 1: It's just like two different lifestyles, right, it's like hard

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Disney adults instead of going somewhere else, they just

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Speaker 7: go back and back, ye, back. Some people like going

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they have that too.

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Speaker 7: Walt, Disney World has some mess beaches.

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Speaker 4: That's yeah, that could be a good second date. Go

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Speaker 4: into like a beach version of Disneyland. See her in

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Speaker 4: a bikini, Disney hoping we'll ask for bikini shots after

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Speaker 2: Ask for pictures. He did not say that.

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Speaker 4: Jeff is very creative.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the village, the beach. Then fine, you're really giving

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Speaker 2: off Gaston right.

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Speaker 4: Now, the hottest one. Thank you.

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Speaker 8: Brook.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, let's just call Olivia. We'll see if she answers

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Speaker 4: the phone, and I'll see a chance to say here

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Speaker 4: we go. Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Olivia. Hey, Olivia,

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Speaker 4: you're on a radio show right now. We're called Brooke

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Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the morning. Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 9: I'm I'm actually confused.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's okay, because we're doing a segment here

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Speaker 4: it's called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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Speaker 4: help out one of our listeners. That you met up

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Speaker 4: with recently, a guy named Brian.

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Speaker 9: Oh, because he's.

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Speaker 4: Not hearing back from you after the two of you

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Speaker 4: hung out at david Busters.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it sounds like it was fun.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm sorry. How do you how did you get

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Speaker 4: Well from him, because honestly, he's a little bit disappointed

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Speaker 4: that the two of you hadn't had a second meetup.

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Speaker 9: Okay, so what do you want to what do you

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Speaker 9: want to know.

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Speaker 2: Exactly if there's a specific reason.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like, are you trying to avoid a second hangout?

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Speaker 9: Yeah? I mean, I just I don't really know if

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Speaker 9: we were a great match.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what made you feel that way?

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Speaker 9: I think that maybe our lifestyles are different.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean by that?

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Speaker 9: Just like our hobbies and our interests are a little different.

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Speaker 8: Well, I think I realized, like looking at that photo.

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Speaker 8: No, it was just I think I kind of realized

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Speaker 4: It wasn't dressed like that for your date, right.

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Speaker 8: No, he was wearing regular clothes. But something else weird happened.

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Speaker 4: It's off to Kiss we Go he joking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this diamond I was pulled out from behind you ears.

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Speaker 4: Oh, now Alexis is interested. But okay, it sounds like, Olivia,

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's just kind of made me question things.

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Speaker 8: Are you serious?

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Speaker 9: When I just told you all.

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Speaker 4: Sorry about that, Olivia, But yeah, he's there, Olivia, I get.

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Speaker 6: But no, I don't think I'm actually one of the

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Speaker 4: for sure, Olivia. Does that make it any better knowing

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Speaker 8: I don't really know what to say, to be honest,

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Speaker 8: I just like, if I'm gonna date you, Like, do

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Speaker 8: I have to dress up?

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Speaker 6: No, you don't have to. That's like, this is something

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Speaker 2: I mean, think of it this way. It's healthy.

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Speaker 1: He's got good friendships, he has a cool hobby, he

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Speaker 7: And he makes good money if he can afford to

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Speaker 4: I mean, Alexis, would you be into him if you

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Speaker 5: To be for me.

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Speaker 1: Well wait, is there maybe a Disney character you're more

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Speaker 2: He could try out?

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Speaker 8: I guess we can explore the princes.

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Speaker 2: Wow, he's pretty funny.

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Speaker 4: Want to do whatever. But we'd like to offer. Oh

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Speaker 4: oh my god, Well, Brian, feels like you two had

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Speaker 8: That's nice.

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Speaker 9: I wasn't planning to pay for it anyway, but.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's all right. I work in a diamond mine, so.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I won't make those jokes on the.

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Speaker 2: Is that a yes?

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Speaker 4: Yes, all right. True love is possible in this world,

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Speaker 9: Do come true?

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Speaker 4: Dreams do come true when you're willing to change yourself

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Speaker 4: Jeff Yeah, stars and galaxy size.

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Speaker 5: Good job, Brian, Well thanks so much, Yang, thanks for

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Speaker 2: Bashful of date, that's a good point.

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Speaker 4: We really are the fairy god parents. Yeahok, and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: I was joking at the end there by saying guys

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Speaker 1: I don't think that women want you to change yourself,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but they want you to be perfect to Olivia,

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Speaker 2: Six times a year. Is every other month, totally.

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Speaker 4: Well, my advice to Brian is don't change yourself, okay,

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Speaker 2: No, that's not part of it, Jeff, didn't you hear him?

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Speaker 4: Bro Okay, well, whatever it is, just be you, Brian.

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Speaker 4: Whichever whichever Disney Dwarf character you are, you be the

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 4: And if you want some help being the best version

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