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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It's

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Speaker 1: a Thursday episode which we haven't had in a minute.

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Speaker 1: Thursday Thursday, but instead of alcohol, we're drinking questions. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it is also the first day of December. It should

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Speaker 1: be noted. Oh my gosh, I gotta pay my rent.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, don't forget it. Oh my gosh, golly,

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Speaker 1: can you believe that my apartment complex still does checks

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Speaker 1: like we can't do direct. They don't take anything direct deposit.

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Speaker 1: They just make you write a check and put it

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Speaker 1: in the box. My apartment, my old apartment was the

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Speaker 1: same way, and I it was horrible, honestly, it annoying.

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Speaker 1: I had to take it to the our office in

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Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. It was a very Oh my god, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't great. Um on the first of every month,

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Speaker 1: you know, I typically got it there or by the fourth.

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Speaker 1: I'd say that. But direct deposit benefits everybody. I think

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Speaker 1: they if you can set it up and forget it,

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Speaker 1: then they're going to get more regular checks. No one's

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Speaker 1: going to be able to forget it. I know it's

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Speaker 1: you I'm with you. Um, well, today's episode is strictly

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Speaker 1: questions from descrubbing an instagram that you all submitted our

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Speaker 1: scrubber so um, we're just here to answer your your

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Speaker 1: burning questions. And I don't know who's in charge of

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Speaker 1: asking the questions of us, Mark, who is and who's

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Speaker 1: doing this? I've decided I'm going to be unless anybody

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Speaker 1: wants to wrestle that away from me. Great, I would think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it did say that we get to choose what

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Speaker 1: we want to answer. But how fun is that? Not? Fun? Zero? Fun?

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Speaker 1: Very last question about my g free Thanksgiving because I

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Speaker 1: was proud of it. We'll go ahead. Let's start with

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Speaker 1: that then, before we get too much farther away from Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: How did you go gluten free over Thanksgiving? Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much? Um. You know you'd be shocked and amazed

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Speaker 1: to realize that not everything you think is gluten is gluten.

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Speaker 1: And I really got to enjoy my Thanksgiving just song's gravy.

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Speaker 1: I had the turkey, I had mashed potatoes, I had

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Speaker 1: uh yams like the cream yam or whatever yam smash um.

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Speaker 1: I had my salad and I had no stuffing either.

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Speaker 1: And my cranberry sauce great, So it was a success.

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Speaker 1: It was a success. I still got my whole. What

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Speaker 1: I really like is the turkey, the mashed potato, and

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Speaker 1: the cranberry together as one. And I still got that.

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Speaker 1: So it's so good. That's like the best combo. G

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Speaker 1: Free life is the way to be. You know, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I've ever eaten more sugar gluten over that

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Speaker 1: this past weekend. I I think I genuinely altered my

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Speaker 1: And the world made a gluten free uh lemon pie.

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Speaker 1: It's my favorite pie. He made a gluten free one,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, really navigated the water is nicely. Thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. I'm glad you've come around on pie. That's great.

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Speaker 1: The lemon pie in particular is amazing. Hailey made a

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Speaker 1: you know, she has all her allergy, so she made

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Speaker 1: a pie that she could eat, like a pumpkin pie.

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Speaker 1: And every year, like her last pie she made literally

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Speaker 1: tasted like straight black pepper. We all took a bite

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Speaker 1: and we're like, what in the actual hell. And so

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Speaker 1: this year she made a pumpkin pie and so we

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Speaker 1: were just waiting. I was like waiting for everyone to

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Speaker 1: was like just silently nodding her head, and Haley took

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Speaker 1: a complete fail, but it wasn't like a success. It's

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Speaker 1: like that episode of Friends when Jenner for Jennifer Anderson

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Speaker 1: when Rachel makes the what is it called the fawn? No,

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Speaker 1: and Joey's like, what's not to love? Jam amazing custard,

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Speaker 1: great lady fingers, yum minced meat with peas and sauteped carrots. Delicious.

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Speaker 1: It isn't that the one where Ros says it tastes

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Speaker 1: like feet feet Yeah? Great episode. Great episode. All right,

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Speaker 1: well this is kind of topical because you guys did

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Speaker 1: a few weeks. Anyway, what is the one thing you

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Speaker 1: Like it's like I know it's a job, but also

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Speaker 1: I don't feel that same home and that same piece. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with, there's just something very like we know

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Speaker 1: the rhythm of the podcast, it's very easy, the ebb

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Speaker 1: But when I'm not there, like i I'm never like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, Tania can't do it without me. I'm just

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Speaker 1: like she's got it unlocked. You know, I'm not worried

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Speaker 1: don't miss me when I ad question? How can I

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Speaker 1: find my person if I don't like dating apps? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know at one point Tanya too was very anti

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Speaker 1: dating apps. She was like, I'm not doing it. When

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Speaker 1: was this in two thousand nine? Roll the tape, somebody,

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Speaker 1: I know that there's a podcast if you talking about

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Speaker 1: how you did not want to join dating apps. You

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Speaker 1: wanted to meet someone in a very natural like setting

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Speaker 1: that wasn't a dating app through a friend at a bar.

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Speaker 1: Dating apps, I didn't. I wasn't poop pooh. I was

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Speaker 1: on them all. Anyone anyone knows stuff in here? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone?

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Speaker 1: Anyone remember this conversation or I make it up in

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Speaker 1: my head? Or was this a conversation Dannia and I

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Speaker 1: had off the podcast? No, I mean it does ring

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Speaker 1: there's something about a real life meet cute. I mean,

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Speaker 1: see why she would want that in real life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I got burnt out from the apps, and

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Speaker 1: the apps. I can't do anymore, and I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: oh natural with it. You know what you did, Like

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Speaker 1: dating apps right now, to be honest, like when people

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Speaker 1: I'm like, how do you not get discouraged in this?

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Speaker 1: But Tommy and I think this is a good, um

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Speaker 1: good one for you to answer specifically, Well, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: riddle me this. I would think about why you don't

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Speaker 1: find your person, you should exhaust all odds. So get

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Speaker 1: eat the barista, go to a new workout class, go

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Speaker 1: to a new Bible study, like get involved with different

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Speaker 1: cast a wide net, because you know what a fisherman

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Speaker 1: does with When a fisherman just has one hook, they're

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Speaker 1: out with a net, you can get a whole school. Honestly, Tony,

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Speaker 1: may have been your best work. You can ride out

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Speaker 1: of my brain. It really it all made sense. That

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Speaker 1: I think it's easy, like I said, to get discouraged,

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Speaker 1: just makes it so easy to move on to the

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Speaker 1: I do think that what Tony always says, like it

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Speaker 1: doing pilates every day and eating healthy. But we've moved

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Speaker 1: do for that, Tony? And do you wanna let me

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Speaker 1: y set a date, Set a date. I'll bring my

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Speaker 1: dear lord. Okay, wait a minute. We'll talk about it eventually.

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Speaker 1: But I don't want to like jinx anything, you know,

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Speaker 1: surprised people with this raunchy photo. Correct, she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: moving on to some lighter stuff. How do you two

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Speaker 1: d A. Okay. P d A is my love language.

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Speaker 1: And I need it in all ways shapes and forms.

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Speaker 1: I need it in public, I need it on social

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Speaker 1: some of those as well. That's good, all right. Um,

423
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Speaker 1: if you two weren't in your current career paths, what

424
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Speaker 1: do you see yourself doing? Tanya, you never got into radio. Becca,

425
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: you were on a different path than you're ever got on.

426
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Speaker 1: What would you have ended up doing with your life?

427
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 1: M I think I definitely would have done something with

428
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Speaker 1: kids involved, Like I honestly would like to think maybe

429
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: I would have gone back to school and done what

430
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: I was studying to do in college, which was to

431
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: be a child life specialist. I like to think I

432
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: would have gotten to a point where I was I

433
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 1: wanted to get back into that because before I went

434
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor and like the whole social media and

435
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: all that started, I was kind of I worked for

436
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: a chiropractor, but I wasn't really sure, like long term,

437
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do. So I think I would

438
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: have liked to do that I would like to think

439
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: I would have been maybe traveling too still because that

440
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: was always a like dream of mine. So I don't know.

441
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 1: I like the path I could see myself doing, like um,

442
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: like speaking engagements and like workshops and things like that,

443
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: like putting together programs or you know what I mean,

444
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 1: like those things that I wish I would have learned

445
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: in school that they didn't teach you, you know what

446
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: I mean, Like I could see myself doing that, like

447
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 1: creating like a workshop, or like have somebody come in

448
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: that talks about like health insurance and how that works,

449
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like you're throwing out

450
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 1: of college and you have to like be a grown up,

451
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: and nobody like teaches you any of that stuff. I

452
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: feel like I was in the room when you learned

453
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 1: about the four one case. I forget exactly, but something

454
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: like that. Oh no, it was that you can write

455
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: off business expenses on your texas, right, I remember remember

456
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 1: that day. But you're right, we don't learn that stuff.

457
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: They spent a lot of time teaching stuff in school

458
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: that you probably will never have to learn again. Like

459
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: they're teaching me about like a lion if a lion

460
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: is a bear, and a bear is a lion, then

461
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: what is an aunt? And it's like when am I

462
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: ever going to learn that? Like teach me about my

463
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: four oh one k Arizona And that was in place

464
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 1: in my math class. It was like logic or something

465
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, she does not stand for logic?

466
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: Is anti logic? Isn't like I am anti logic? I

467
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: am theological? Okay, So the lion and the lion is

468
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: a bear, then what is an aunt? Yeah? Do you

469
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about? Like those clubs, those those

470
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: classes Like an elephant can be a you know, a

471
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: horse and a rat, but a rat can only be

472
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: a horse. Then what's a horse rat or whatever? A

473
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: horse rat? Well you're talking those logic questions and you're

474
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: just like I never no, yea lucky you went to

475
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: a party school. One more looking forward question, what do

476
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: you imagine your friendship will be like in forty years?

477
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: The year is so it's actually interesting. I was talking

478
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: to a friend of mine the other day and I

479
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: was saying, how like I want to have a baby

480
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: at the same time as my friends have babies, So right,

481
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: But the question is when you guys in your seventies

482
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: what's your friendship going to be? Like, I'm sure what

483
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: that was. That really just came out of left field. Um,

484
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 1: so we'll be seventy four seventy five respectfully. Yes, Yes,

485
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: I was like knitting, oh, knitting, having like a knitting

486
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,480
Speaker 1: club or something. I saw these women the other day

487
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: at lunch and they were probably in their like sixties

488
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: or seventies, and they had gone to we were at

489
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: Malbousie Food and they they there's like picnic tables there

490
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: and they had brought a tablecloth and had their own

491
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: wine and they were playing cards and I was like,

492
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: it was four friends, and I was like, that is

493
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: the cutest thing. So I hope we go beyond knitting

494
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: and go to where we're like going out and doing

495
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: things and going to dinners and you know, I'm feeding

496
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: your grandchildren unhealthy snacks. It's top cats pop tarts, teaching

497
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 1: the young kids about butter on pop tarts, and I'm

498
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: giving your children green juice freshly squeezed from my squeezer

499
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: farm farm guard in my garden. I don't know. I

500
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: see us being like the same, but just older, older. Yeah,

501
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: it will be a hell of a podcast by the

502
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: different people's choice awards, we're gonna have to, like yeah,

503
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: and we'll have our podcast will be in its own studio,

504
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: and we'll have in our studio. We'll have all of

505
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: our awards. All right. Now we get to my favorite questions.

506
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Speaker 1: These are the three eye that made me smile. If

507
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: you two could switch lives for one day, what would

508
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: you be most excited about? I mean, I'd love to

509
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,959
Speaker 1: live back his life for a day, Like what specifically

510
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: what part of it? I'd love to sleep until ten am?

511
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 1: Like that would be in dream in that cozy bed

512
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: of hers, just wake up at ten am on a Tuesday.

513
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's like really that would be my dream,

514
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: Like I would love that, all right, that's an answer,

515
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: sleeping in it a weekday. That's good. Yeah, I think

516
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: I would love of two. I would like to like

517
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: get up and have the energy to get as much

518
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: done as Tony gets done, like the productivity that she

519
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: has That would that intrigues me because I don't have that,

520
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 1: and like with the like energy and joy that she

521
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: exudes while doing it. Well, you know, you gotta do

522
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: what you gotta do, like right, necessity creates that What

523
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: what time did you allow him go off on Monday

524
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: morning Tanya three forty. Yeah, mine was two thirty. We

525
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: don't have to get into why, but it was a

526
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: crazy day at kiss and so we are to get

527
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 1: up super super early. But you know, we wouldn't choose

528
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: to do that, We wouldn't choose to have energy doing that.

529
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: But you kind of don't have a choice. So that's

530
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 1: not quite a great answer. Well, not so much like

531
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: the work stuff, because I agree, like there's things that

532
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: I have to do for work that I'm not like

533
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: like I have to do them because I have to

534
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: get them done. It's not like I would do them

535
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: without having to do that. I'm talking about just like

536
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: the the extra things that you go to the rough to,

537
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 1: like like my thankful turkeys. Those are a little much

538
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: personally for me, But I don't like, I don't know

539
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: if that's how I'd spend my time. I had air

540
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: pods in I had like Christmas music and my AirPods,

541
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: and Robbie was taking a nap and I was making

542
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: these like thankful turkeys, and so I guess he was

543
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: trying to talk to me from upstairs, but I had

544
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: my headphones and so I couldn't hear him, and and

545
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: he like, he goes, I poked my head out the

546
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: door to see where you are what you're doing, and

547
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: you're just like sitting on the dining room table with

548
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: your head bouncing around, cutting like construction paper and like

549
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: singing all the day music. And I was like, that's

550
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: pretty much my era right now. I think I'm in

551
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: my I think I'm in my gratitude era. Like I'm

552
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: really like I find myself being like acknowledging things out loud,

553
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: like gratitude wise, so I would saying my gratitude. I

554
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: hope I stay in this era. But anyways, I think

555
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: I would like to be Tania on the day that

556
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 1: she interviewed Harry Styles and then he called her that's

557
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: that's that's where. That's a great day. It was a

558
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: great day. If I could change. We're going to say

559
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 1: that you wish you could see Robbie's hands cutting like

560
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 1: a raw fish or something. We care about his hands,

561
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: Like yeah, And I think that's what you're thinking until

562
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: you see them. No, I think that's a good thing.

563
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: He has great hands. But I think it's good that

564
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: you love them the most. How you do, thank you?

565
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 1: All right, This one's kind of silly, but it made

566
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 1: me smile. Please help me end this debate with my friends.

567
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: Is cereal? A soup? Is a hot dog a sandwich? No?

568
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: And no, why and why? Cereal is cereal? It is

569
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: not soup. If you go down the soup aisle at

570
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 1: this store, you're not going to find cereal. And a

571
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,479
Speaker 1: hot dog is not a sandwich, It's a hot dog.

572
00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: If you get on the sandwich, if you go to

573
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 1: the story get a sandwich, You're not gonna get a

574
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: hot dog. You're gonna sandwich. You know this answer from

575
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: your is a hor If a horse is a bear

576
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: and a bear is a lion, what isn't aunt logic

577
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 1: to that logic is a big range. But I don't

578
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: think cereal is a suit because, like I think of

579
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: soup is like hot and cozy, and I love Cereal

580
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: and I love soup, but I don't consider them the

581
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 1: same thing. The hot dog is a sandwich intrigues me

582
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: because you put the same ingredients. It's kind of like

583
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: all the same thing in between two pieces of bread

584
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: is just shaped differently. It's a hot dog, I know,

585
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: But the question sandwich hot dog bun is often one

586
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: piece though that has been sliced split. It's been sliced,

587
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: but not completely in half. It's not two separate slices

588
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: like a sandwich with sand in Easton. I'd like to

589
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: hear your opinion on this. I mean, I think the

590
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 1: hot dog is not a sandwich. I think is a

591
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: hot dog. And I don't think there's one cold soup

592
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: I can think of, and that's gospaco. I don't even

593
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that, right, but that's that's the

594
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: one cold soup I can name. Uh. And therefore I

595
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: don't think cereal falls into that category. Um. And I

596
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: don't think hot dog is a sandwich because you just

597
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: eat a hot dog bun is connected usually by a

598
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: by a sea hot dogza. But so if you it's

599
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,959
Speaker 1: like a slap thing with like a thing go on.

600
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: But so what if you split that seem suddenly it's

601
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: a sandwich. Yes, Like I've made entire circumstances. I've made

602
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: a hot dog using two pieces of white bread as

603
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 1: the bus uh, and I still would not consider that

604
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: a sandwich. I think there's other factors that come into play. Uh,

605
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: Like could you if you take like two slices of

606
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: sour to bread and like tomato and cheese and lettuce,

607
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: like every sandwich factor except for add a hot dog

608
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: in as the meat. I still don't think that counts.

609
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,919
Speaker 1: I think it becomes a hot dog. I'm changing my rule.

610
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 1: The presence of hot dog meat makes it a hot Okay,

611
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,959
Speaker 1: that's where I was leading into. I think what it's

612
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: I think it's less about the bread and more about

613
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,919
Speaker 1: the shape of the hot dog versus like deli meat.

614
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: But can't a hot dog be a type of sandwich?

615
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: You can't say, like, oh, it's not a sandwich, it's

616
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: a b LT. It's because belt it's a type of sandwich.

617
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: A hot dog could be a type of sandwich, but

618
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 1: you couldn't say a sandwich is a hot dog. You

619
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Well, a sandwich dogwich isn't a

620
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 1: b LT either, it goes it's it's a category. No

621
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: BALT is a sandwich though, Yeah, I'm saying, Okay, So

622
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: the answer across the board, I think is that cereal

623
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: is not a soup. Agree with that because, by the way,

624
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: a soup is a liquid food made by boy think

625
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: we're simmering meat, fish or vegetables with added ingredients. So

626
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: that's not Cereal, And I think that there's probably a

627
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: better argument to say that a hot dog is a sandwich.

628
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: But I think there are two separate things, two separate entities. Yeah,

629
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 1: I think a hot dogs closely to being a sandwich

630
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: than cerealist to being a soup. I can agree to that.

631
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: All right, thank you? All right? Last question, because they

632
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: maybe laugh, Here we go. If you had to choose

633
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: a new name for each other, what would you choose

634
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,959
Speaker 1: a new name for each other? Like a new name?

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Speaker 1: That's right, Becca will start with you. She is no

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Speaker 1: longer Tanya? What what? What should her name be? This

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Speaker 1: is so unexpected? I think, Do I just go Tanya? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's a cop out? Cop out? Do

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Speaker 1: you have one for me? Tanya? It can't be Tatiana either,

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Speaker 1: and so I can't. I'm thinking. I'm thinking like like

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Speaker 1: Harmon or something. Okay, Karmen is nice. I could actually

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Speaker 1: hate Carmen Issa Issa? Oh wait? What Issa? Okay? Carmen

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Speaker 1: or Issa? All right, I'm gonna go. You know what

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Speaker 1: I see, Tanya? Is it an Izzy? Really? Yeah? Something?

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Speaker 1: It's like is he is like a like cute, like

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Speaker 1: happy name? Yeah? That would be a fun should be

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Speaker 1: a fun is He and Issa? Should that be our

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Speaker 1: new podcast name? Just and Izzy? Is it time with

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Speaker 1: Issa and Isy? I? Is it? Is it? Or what

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Speaker 1: is it with is He and Issa? Wow? Alright our

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Speaker 1: new alter egos? Yeah? Is He and Issa? I liked Carmen.

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Speaker 1: I felt Carmen was like more me was more you, Carmen. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty just. I don't think I get. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I deserve like a like accent or anything. I'm

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Speaker 1: just very huh. I don't think that. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what that accent is. But is that it? For today?

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's our Q and A show on this

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Speaker 1: first of December. I hope everyone has a wonderful December

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Speaker 1: and December to remember, if you will, I do hope

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Speaker 1: it's a December to remember. Tanya is only just starting

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Speaker 1: the month. Is it's just starting. It's been a long day.

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Speaker 1: She's she's she's tired, she's she's done, and we're done,

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Speaker 1: and we love you all, and we'll be back on

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Speaker 1: Monday with a new episode. Hopefully we're all back in

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Speaker 1: the student together. We belong, back in the student where

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Speaker 1: we belong. And I hope you have a wonderful weekend

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Speaker 1: and we love you so much. I love you, Bye bye,