1 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: I had a nurse Dammy. She said that in her 2 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: clinic they have a problem with older men. They will 3 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: come in and instead of giving their proper sample in 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: a cup, they will spit in the cup instead. 5 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 2: All right, Today's guest is Heather McMahon, comedian actress, the 6 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: host of the podcast. 7 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: She blew up on Instagram after moving back home and Atlanta. 9 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 3: We talked about this in just a second. You're gonna 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: hear the whole story. 11 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: A very tough time in her life and that turned 12 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: into a lot of what she is now. 13 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 3: And she is massive. 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: When I told my friends she was coming up to 15 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: do this podcast, all of them wanted to come and 16 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 2: sit in. And you know what they all did, turn 17 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 2: the camera. Okay, we can't turn the camera, but they're 18 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: all here. Heather McMahon's here. Go see her tour. It's 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: the Bamboozle Tour right now, and she has a cruise 20 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 2: coming which we talk about tickets Heather ontour dot com. 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: She is the reason that everybody's in the studio right now. 22 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 2: They're very funny, Heather. Ic man, Heather, They're great to 23 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: meet you. 24 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 1: Hey, lovely to meet you. 25 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: My wife sent me with information yeah, I've listened to 26 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: your podcast a lot through my wife. 27 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, which is probably how a lot of dudes hear you, right. 28 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, They're laying in bed at night and they're like 29 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: trying to get some love and attention from their wives, 30 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: and they just hear my voice. 31 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 4: Over and over again. 32 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: So they you either have like a love hate relationship 33 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: with me, and then they'll like come to a show 34 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: and they'll act like they don't want to come, and 35 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: then they're there and they have a blast, and then 36 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: they're the ones hanging out afterwards at the meet and 37 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: greet being like, hey, can I just get some solo 38 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: photos and you're like, yeah, yeah, Rick, I knew you 39 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: liked me. Yeah, but I love that. That is the 40 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: gentle entrance for a lot of men into my comedy 41 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: is you know, through their spouses, and that's a beautiful thing. 42 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: Well, my wife says, tell her that my wife and 43 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: I went to Italy for the first time a few 44 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 2: years ago. We've been a couple of times since, and 45 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: she didn't say it was you at first. She says, Hey, 46 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: we got a recommendation to go to this restaurant, okay, 47 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: and I was like great, So it's some place called 48 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: Paron or. 49 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's what it is, treachery. Perione shout out. 50 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: We got in there and. 51 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 2: I was like, who told you to come to this? 52 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: And she said, Heather and I said and then she 53 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: said it was you and I said, oh, you heard 54 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 2: it on the podcast. So now we've been twice though, 55 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 2: and she said it's so good though, right, yeah, it's great. 56 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: And I'd never been to Italy except I've gone now 57 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: twice with her. 58 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: That's all. 59 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 3: It's a really cool place. 60 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: It's a great place, and you know it's funny. I 61 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 1: am not a creature of habit in any aspect of 62 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: my life except when I travel. I mean I go 63 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: to new places all the time. But when I have 64 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: my little I love, especially with Italy, it feels like 65 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: my second home. So when I go to Florence there, 66 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: which I spent a lot of time there, I have 67 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: my restaurants, I've got my I've got my espresso guy, 68 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: I've got my cheese guy. And Perione, I am so 69 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: obsessed with the entire weight staff there. They came to 70 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,359 Speaker 1: my after party at my wedding because I got married 71 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: a little outside of Florence and Tuscany, and the guy 72 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,239 Speaker 1: showed up and we're like, you know, we were just 73 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: like ripping shots. 74 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 4: And having a good time. So they are. They hold 75 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 4: a very special place in my heart. 76 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 3: How long have you been married. 77 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: I've been married. We had a COVID court wedding in 78 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: twenty twenty, but i've you know, we had the big 79 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: Italy wedding a couple of years ago, so five total. 80 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 3: So we got married around the same time. 81 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: We got married during COVID and we had that brief 82 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 2: window where you could not wear masks, so yeah, super 83 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 2: mask then because we were massed up, and then it 84 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 2: was you could stop wearing masks. 85 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,119 Speaker 3: We timed it right. 86 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: We had a wedding on our property and then it 87 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: was COVID again everybody had to wear masks again. So 88 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: we've been together about I mean, when did you guys, 89 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: how long did you have date before you married? 90 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 4: I mean we have been together almost fifteen years. 91 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: Oh, you've been together a long time, A long time. Yeah. 92 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: We met in New York in our early twenties and 93 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: then I moved to LA and we would have gotten 94 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: married our third date, but he wanted to finish his 95 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: grad program and I was moving to LA and that's 96 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: why I know him with the right person, because my 97 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: husband at no point, even when I was like I'm 98 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: going to leave New York and go to LA and 99 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: like follow the dream, he was like, I got to 100 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: let you do this because I never he said, I 101 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: know we're in this for the long run, and I 102 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: don't ever want you to resent me for holding you back. 103 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: And that's when you know you have a good man. 104 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, we're together a long time. 105 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: I was asking about your husband because another one of 106 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: my friends who's on my show, she had said this morning, 107 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: she said, you were going through your master's outfit. 108 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 109 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And she didn't know if there was a brand 110 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: called Dong by God. 111 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: Yeah no, So she literally. 112 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't think that's it. I think 113 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: that was a joke. 114 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a joke. So Jeff just has been doing 115 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: this thing. My husband is secretly one of the funniest 116 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: people in my life. He is just ridiculous and he's 117 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: so dry. But yeah, when he does his outfit outfit 118 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: of the day, he just started saying dong by God. 119 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: I don't know why, and people run with it. I 120 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: don't know where it came from, and I'm so mortified. 121 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: By it, but I say keep it going. 122 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 3: You know, does he do anything in entertainment. 123 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 1: No, absolutely not. I think my husband missed his real 124 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: calling to be like a sports analyst or to be 125 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: a football coach. 126 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 4: And I know that every straight. 127 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: Male and their like mid thirties thinks that they were 128 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 1: at one point could have been a coach. But he 129 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: really has an analytic brain in a way that's just wild. 130 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: And I tell him, I'm like, you need to do something. 131 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: You need to go be the new like offensive lineman 132 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 1: coach for ole miss or something. And that's no hate, 133 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: no shade, whoever's doing the job right now. But you know, 134 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm just like he is, so that's his He's really 135 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: really smart at that. But no, I would never date 136 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: anybody in entertainment. 137 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 2: My wife is so funny and she just despises thinking 138 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 2: of her doing entertainment. We feel like it's such she 139 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 2: has such a skill. She's so funny, so sharp, so dry, 140 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 2: so cutting if she wants to be yeah, and has 141 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 2: no interest in using it at all. 142 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 3: And I'm like, you're not using it, she goes, I 143 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 3: am with us. 144 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and also I get all my best material 145 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: from my husband because he's just such an idiot in 146 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: the best way, like, in the most loving way. I 147 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: just live life. And that's a thing in comedy. You know, 148 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: you can go and just pound the pavement all the 149 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: time and work your craft, which we all do, but 150 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: if you don't actually just go out and live life, 151 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: like I take the summers off. And that's why I 152 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: go to Italy. I'm like, I know in two weeks abroad, 153 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: I will get more material from my husband acting like 154 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: an absolute insane person while we're abroad. 155 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 4: Then I will just you know, hitting clubs every night. 156 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: Like you got to go and live life to have 157 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: a shared experience. 158 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: So then what was you, guys? A story? 159 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: If you guys, you didn't split, but you split off 160 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 2: for a bit, right if? 161 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 3: Yeah? 162 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: I mean we were we were wheeling and dealing, you know, 163 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: we say together and he was in New York finishing, 164 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: you know, starting his business, and I was out in 165 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: LA And then I moved back to Atlanta very abruptly 166 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 1: after my dad passed, and he's like, well, at least 167 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: you're back on the East coast. I mean, we had 168 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: two pennies to rub together. We would fly back and 169 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: forth to see each other. I mean it was unbelievable. 170 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 3: We were you know, you stay together the whole time. 171 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's my boo. Yeah wow, uh 172 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: huh so. And then I moved back to Atlanta, and 173 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: right before my dad died very abruptly, but my husband 174 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: flew down to MD Anderson where my dad was uh 175 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: getting treatment, and you know, immediately asked for my dad's 176 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 1: hand in marriage for me, and uh, of course my 177 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:38,799 Speaker 1: dad gave him my blessing. 178 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 4: Uh, gave him his blessing, and then the rest is history. 179 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: How important was that too? Did he get down and 180 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 2: do that with your dad before he passed? 181 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: You know, my my late father and my husband had 182 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: such a beautiful relationship. I'm sure he had asked him 183 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: a million times before, but it was I was so 184 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: touched by it, you know. And then when my dad passed, 185 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. We're in Houston and I couldn't find 186 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: my husband. I like woke up and I was just like, 187 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: you know, trying to process everything, and I look for 188 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: my husband and I just see him in a park 189 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: outside of our hotel and he's smoking a cigar, sitting 190 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,679 Speaker 1: on a bench and tears are rolling down his face. 191 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: And I was like I have the best man. Like 192 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: it was one of those where I knew he needed 193 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: that moment to grieve my dad. And I feel so 194 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: blessed that I had two wonderful men in my life. 195 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: And I don't know, it's just I feel so richly 196 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: blessed that my dad really loved him. 197 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 3: How does he do with your profession? 198 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: He loves it, I mean, Jeff, that's the bit best thing. Like, yes, 199 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: I you know, do a lot of jokes at my 200 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: husband's expense on stage, but we are each other's biggest cheerleaders. 201 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: My husband loves it, you know, and also, like I 202 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: make the joke, he gets to play a lot of golf, 203 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: you know, because there's perks to the job. 204 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 4: Everywhere we go. 205 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: Wherever I'm on tour, there's about sixteen different husbands that 206 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: will DM me and be like can I take Jeff 207 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 1: to play golf today? 208 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 4: I'm like, yes, get him out of my hair please. 209 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: So he's been traveling the world getting to play every 210 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: exclusive golf course on the planet, which is very cool. 211 00:07:58,200 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: But he loves it. 212 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: I mean, he's my bigges cheerleader and he you know, 213 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: it's funny because my last special breadwinner was all about 214 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: you know, me stepping into like my power, making more money, 215 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: like our crazy wedding. And every time I would get 216 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: asked a question from reporters I was doing press for it, 217 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: you know, what does your husband think about you making 218 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: fun of him on stage? And I'm like, no one 219 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: asked male comedians what their wives think, right, Like, you 220 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: just know that's a part of the gig. And it 221 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: was so interesting how all of a sudden it was 222 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: like we have to feel bad for Jeff because I'm 223 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: making jokes like fuck that, you know, like I'm sorry. 224 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: He's doing fine, and he loves it. And I can 225 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: always see him, like when he's on the side stage 226 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: and I can see him out of the corner of 227 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,839 Speaker 1: my eye and he's just like he's loving it. So 228 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: he's got a great since of humor. You have to 229 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: have a great sense of humor to be married to 230 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: a comic. 231 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, or does he watch every show? 232 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: Not every show? No, And he doesn't come to all 233 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: the shows with me. 234 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't know that was the case. So he doesn't. 235 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 3: He doesn't travel with you everywhere. 236 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: No, he comes to the fun cities. But you know, like, no, 237 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: ain't no shade to the smaller markets. But there are 238 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 1: days where Jeff's like, I'm good, you know, and at 239 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: the end of thea I'm still married. So I will 240 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: get off stage and then he's like, so what are 241 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: we doing for dinner? 242 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 4: I'm like, you figured it out. I just worked for 243 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 4: ninety minutes. 244 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: Like you, you make an order, Jeff, Like, there's still 245 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: the same marital roles even when you walk. 246 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: Off stage, so you won't make it any money and 247 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: you started to have success, did you feel like you 248 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 2: had become less relatable once you started to make money. 249 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: No, I didn't think I became less relatable because at 250 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: the end of the day, I have people around me 251 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: who will not let me get away with shit. Okay, 252 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: I still live with my mother like my husband, and I, 253 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: even eight years into my career, just bought like our 254 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 1: first home that we're going to live solo in. Like finally, 255 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 1: I said, I need to be able to come off 256 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: the road and not have my mom yell at me 257 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: about my laundry basket like it's time. But I don't know. 258 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: I mean maybe some other people will say differently, but 259 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: I really I keep a tight knit group around me 260 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: of people that I've known for since I was a child, 261 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: So I feel blessed that we have a good group 262 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: around us. 263 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 3: I've listened to the episodes with your mom. Yeah, those 264 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: are so good. 265 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's I mean, I I get my late father 266 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: was so so funny, but my mom is just unreal. 267 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: She's unhinged, and I feel again the material rights itself, 268 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: like when you were around Robin McMahon. She's insane. It's 269 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 1: just amazing. 270 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: Does she ever feel the love gratulation towards her? I mean, 271 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: is she ever out and people come up to her? 272 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: She is worshiped, She is a goddess. She is an icon. 273 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: And the best thing is if you run into my 274 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 1: mom at our local Trader Joe's, she will give you 275 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: my personal phone number. And I've had this same phone 276 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: number since I was like fifteen, and first got a phone, 277 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: and then I got a burner phone. My manager was like, 278 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 1: too many people have your number. You need a different phone. 279 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: So then I got the new burner phone and then 280 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: no one calls that number, and it made me so sad. 281 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: So I just will answer random phone calls and they're like, 282 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: I met your mom at Trader Joe's. 283 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 4: She gave me your number. 284 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm going through a hard time and I'm like, all right, Carol, 285 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: tell me what's going on. I just love it. 286 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 3: What did they think you wanted to be when you 287 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 3: were a kid? 288 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: I said, I think we have somewhere on home video 289 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: like what I was four. I'm like, well, I'm going 290 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: to be a funny girl. It's just what I called it. 291 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: I either wanted to do that or be a lifeguard 292 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: because I thought that that was a full time gig. 293 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: And I just thought, you know, you'd sit in a 294 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: lifeguard stand in a c bathing suit and he chicken 295 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: tenders all summer, and I thought that would be awesome. 296 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: But uh, and then I took my essats and we 297 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: saw those results, and I was like, I'm gonna have 298 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: to go into comedy because I'm definitely not going to 299 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 1: be a doctor. But no, I always wanted to do comedy. 300 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: And I was a theater kid growing up, did musical theater, 301 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: one act plays like competition plays, and then I got 302 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: a BFA for acting an ole miss. So this was 303 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: always kind of the trajectory. Now, whether or not it 304 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 1: was going to happen was the scary thing. And my dad, 305 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 1: who was very successful in his business would always say like, well, 306 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: what if it doesn't happen. 307 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 4: I'm like, don't worry about it. 308 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain to people that there 309 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,319 Speaker 1: was never there was a little voice in the back 310 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: of my head that said, just keep going. Be fearless 311 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: about it, because I was like, what do I have 312 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: to lose. 313 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 3: Was there ever a time you did almost quit? 314 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like every like yesterday, you know, when I'm exhausted 315 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: and running around and like what's happening? Uh, for sure, 316 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: But I just kind of kept going. I always had 317 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: this feeling, this gut instinct that this is what I 318 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: wanted to do, and it didn't come from a vain place. 319 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: It's like I genuinely love to get up every day 320 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 1: and giggle, and I knew that other people would relate 321 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: to that as well, So I mean, yeah, of course, 322 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: like it's great to see your name in lights and 323 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: do all this, and there's such a high about getting 324 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: on stage and having people admire you. 325 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 4: For your work. 326 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: But I truly was like, I just want to get 327 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: up there and giggle, and the fact that I can 328 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: make money at this is insanc. 329 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 3: Did you move to La already having done some comedy 330 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:30,239 Speaker 3: like in college. 331 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I actually did stand up. The first time 332 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: I ever did stand up, I was sixteen and I roasted. 333 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: I was at the junior senior prom and I roasted 334 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: the senior class. So I had like a thirty minute 335 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: set from that. I sent that old DVD to Jeff 336 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: Foxworthy because he lived a couple neighborhoods down for me 337 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: in Atlanta, and I dropped it off at his house 338 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: and I see Jeff a lot, and Jeff said that 339 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: he couldn't believe that I had the balls to do it. 340 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 1: And he was like, you know, you sat in my 341 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: living room and I gave you advice, and you know, 342 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 1: you never know what's going to happen. He's like, in 343 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: damn it if you didn't do it. So, after I 344 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: graduated high school, they were shooting Blue Collar Comedy Tour. 345 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 1: They were shooting their sketch comedy show at the Alliance 346 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: Theater in Atlanta. He gave me a writing assistant job 347 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: that summer, and I learned so much. I went to 348 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: ole Miss. I was doing comedy. I was in like 349 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: an improv troupe. I left ole Miss moved directly to 350 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,680 Speaker 1: New York because I always wanted to do SNL, and 351 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: I obviously like had a background and stand up, but 352 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: I also love characters and sketch. So I started training 353 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: at UCB, which is upright Citizen's Brigade, which is kind 354 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: of like the filter system into SNL. And I had 355 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: an agent at New York that said, you're super commercial, 356 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: You've got a great look. You need to go to LA, 357 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: like you'll SNL will happen, but you've got to go 358 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: to LA. So I moved to LA, and I always 359 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 1: joke like, you have to leave. As soon as you 360 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: leave LA, that's when it calls you back. As soon 361 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: as I picked up my life and I had good 362 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: success in LA, but I was really grinding and like 363 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: figuring out who I was as an artist. And then 364 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: once I left LA, now they always call you. And 365 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: that's why I don't live in La. I live in Atlanta. 366 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,079 Speaker 1: As soon as you move out of LA, that's when 367 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: they need you. It's like the old saying as an actor, 368 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: you never have an audition and then you finally take 369 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: a vacation and now they need like sixty five self 370 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: tapes and a producer's call back, and you're like, I'm 371 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: in Barbados for the first time in three years. Fuck off. 372 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 3: You know, I spending a little bit of time there 373 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 3: just randomly because I was in Texas forever. Then I 374 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 3: moved here. 375 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I would never live there, but I 376 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 2: would go there for a month at a time, or 377 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: like on Idol, we'd go out there for a couple 378 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: weeks at a time, or whatever, whatever the case was. 379 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: It just felt so insincere all the time because I 380 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 2: didn't have a core group though, Like I didn't have 381 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 2: a core group of friends out there, so I was 382 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: only out there working and it was only working people. 383 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 2: That just felt so instance like all the time. It 384 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 2: felt like everybody was fake, and that. 385 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: Is very much so the case. But I feel like 386 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: I was there at a great time. I'm in my like, 387 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: you know, early mid twenties, I was hustling, grinding, working 388 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: every job you can imagine, and so. 389 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 3: I real jobs, real job got it. 390 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Like I worked the front desk at this 391 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: boogie gym in West Hollywood called Soul Psychic. 392 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 3: Then you had real people around. 393 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: You around me. Yeah, But I was always smart because 394 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: I always put myself and even though I was making 395 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: twelve dollars and twenty five cents an hour at Soul Cycle. 396 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: I knew that every important producer, other comedians, all these 397 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: people would come in. Whitney Cummings would come in and 398 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: take class, and I would like get her off the 399 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 1: wait list, like Anna GASTI are all my favorite comedians. 400 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: And I would drop a business card into Whitney Cummings 401 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: bag every weekend. She never saw them. We're friends. Now 402 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: I've done her podcast. I was like, Whitney, you probably 403 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 1: have in the bottom of some old Soul Cycle bags 404 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: like fifty of my business cards begging you for a job. 405 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 4: Wow. 406 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: I just was smart in how I positioned myself. And 407 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: the wild thing was in New York, I worked like 408 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: these incredible restaurant jobs make great money, and then I 409 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: would do comedy on my night's off. And then I 410 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: moved to LA and because it wasn't a porn star, 411 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: I could not get a job at a bar. They 412 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: were like, unless you were a model, there's no way 413 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: you could get a job. So then I was like, 414 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: all right, I really got to hustle and really figure 415 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: this out. 416 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: Then what was the point when you're in LA where 417 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: you're like I got to get out of here, Like 418 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: what was going on. 419 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: Well, the only thing is, honestly, my dad passed ruptly 420 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: and suddenly, so I didn't want to leave Ballet my mom. 421 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: My dad died very quickly, in like seven days, and 422 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: so it was kind of like this whole shock, and 423 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: I had such a great relationship with my dad and 424 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: my family, so I thought I was just going to 425 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: move back to Atlanta, very temporarily, maybe for a couple months, 426 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: helped my family figure out the new normal. It's like, 427 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: grieve and put the pieces back together. And then I 428 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: got back and I felt kind of trapped, and you know, 429 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: and then I was like, this is this grieving process 430 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: is going to take a lot longer than I expected. 431 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: But it was a beautiful blessing in the sense that 432 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to say, like, oh, you know, a 433 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: full circle, look at this. I've had this success because 434 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: I went through this tragic thing. I don't want to 435 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 1: say that, but I do think I had a richer 436 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: perspective on life and I was grieving. I mean, it's 437 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: kind of unhinge. I would take like a x Anex 438 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: and drink glass of white WI then like, let me 439 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: talk on Instagram stories, and that's what I did. I 440 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: use Instagram stories when they first came out as my 441 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: fifteen second moment to like pop out one liners and 442 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: jokes and it took off. So that's where I really 443 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: like honed, right, and then I just lived my life 444 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: and honestly, my audience grieved with me in this wild way, 445 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: and I think my comedy just became so much richer 446 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: because I had such a more pointed point of view 447 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: and i'd like really been through something raw, and it 448 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 1: exposed me and my comedy in a totally different way, 449 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: if that made any sense. 450 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you think that experience is I hate use the 451 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 2: word launch. You think that launched you though, to a 452 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:25,679 Speaker 2: lot of people in their understanding or appreciation of you. 453 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. And it just made you know, it 454 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 1: humanizings in a way. And I think so many people 455 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: reach out to me and they're like, I'm going through loss, 456 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm going through this, and oh for sure, it definitely 457 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 1: opened me up. But also using social media as that, 458 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 1: using that specific tool, I really honed that honed that 459 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: skill of that little fifteen second Instagram story. It's like 460 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: all these kids that are blown up on TikTok. I 461 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: was the and then I did put all my characters 462 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: on Instagram and that's how it just like took off. 463 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 3: I'm friends with Dena Hayes. 464 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: I love Dnay. 465 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 2: She's the best, the best, right, the best because she's fearless. 466 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I often look back at how naive I 467 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 3: was a lot of times, and I'm very lucky I 468 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 3: was that naive because if you actually knew what was 469 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 3: about to happen, maybe you wouldn't pursue it. 470 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's terrifying. 471 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 2: So but I love Tonay and to watch her do 472 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 2: a version of that, I think a lot inspired by 473 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 2: you as well. I think she she'd often say that too, 474 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 2: but you know, she just kind of lays all of 475 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: her characters. 476 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, every all of her jokes. 477 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you find there are there's like a different 478 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 2: I hate say generation because you're similar ages. But yeah, 479 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 2: but they just did a little after you that that 480 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 2: saw you do that, and it kind of motivated them 481 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 2: to do that same thing. 482 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: I mean, listen today, is one of my favorite people 483 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: on the planet, and if she gives me any credit, 484 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: I'm so honored that she does so. But these they're 485 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,239 Speaker 1: knocking it out of the park. But for sure, I 486 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 1: think and I miss that, like the wild thing is 487 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: when you start having success, like I always started in 488 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: stand up, right, So for me, it's tough because the 489 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: characters bring me so much joy and it's so freeing 490 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 1: and I love being that insane and ridiculous and goofy 491 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: and silly. But then it's like I did the characters 492 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 1: to get the stand up portion, and now I want 493 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: to go back to the characters. So you know, when 494 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: I have a new audience, they know me from stand up, 495 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 1: but the ogs know me that that's how I started, right, 496 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: So I mean, I'm going to do this show for 497 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: Netflix as a joke, and I was like, I can 498 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: either do my hour that I'm going to shoot two 499 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: weeks after this comedy festival, or I'm going to go 500 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 1: back and do a character show and put on a 501 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: ball cap and get weird and do what I want 502 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: to do. Like I'm ready to tap into that avant 503 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: garde performance art because that's what brings me a lot 504 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: of joy. You know, anybody can go see my stand up. 505 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: Come on tour Heather atour dot com. 506 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 5: You know, let's take a quick pause for a message 507 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 5: from our sponsor, and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 508 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 3: After you record your hour. Yeah, when you start over, 509 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 3: completely start over. 510 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: And I always record my hour at the end of 511 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: my tour. Some people like to do in the middle, 512 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 1: but I it is such weird feeling because you shoot 513 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 1: the hour and then you walk off stage and you're like, oh, 514 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: that was so much fun with a relief, and then 515 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: you're like, oh shit, I got to start from scratch again. 516 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: It is the weirdest mental game with yourself. 517 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 2: Will you do smaller shows and practice material or we 518 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 2: just launch another tour and just no. 519 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: I will definitely do go and club it out and 520 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: I will go live my life this summer. I will 521 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: have a full blown experience and then I'll work the 522 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: clubs you know, in the fall, and then do another tour. 523 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 3: Do you ever pop in and never not tell people 524 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: you're coming? 525 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 1: No? Not really, I mean no, I'll let them know. 526 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'll pop in and do shows here and 527 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 1: there and just kind of feel it out. But I 528 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: also too the way my story runs because I'm an 529 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: old theater kid and I probably said this on too 530 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: many podcasts, but I like to have an idea of 531 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 1: a full show. I will lock myself in my basement 532 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 1: in my office for two weeks and just beautiful. Mind 533 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: it out, you know what I mean? It will look 534 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 1: like the scene from Homeland with Kirie Mathison and all 535 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: the things connecting. I like to have a full story. 536 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: And then obviously I write on the road and figure 537 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 1: things out. But I am going out with an hour. 538 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: I will figure that out. I will work out chunks 539 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: and clothes, but I am when you were coming to that. 540 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 1: I really like to have it all. It's a feeling. 541 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 1: I want you to feel a bunch of different emotions 542 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: at my shows from the moment that you walk in. 543 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 1: That playlist is going to set the exact tone and 544 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: mood the video, like every element, it's a full production. 545 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: You did a cruise last year, you're do any of 546 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 2: this year. I've never been on my cruise before. We 547 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 2: did one too. 548 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 3: It's pretty wild. 549 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 550 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 2: You're contained, You're contained, and you're you're just vulnerable. 551 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, vulnerable is the best way to describe it. 552 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 3: And that's not a negative thing. It's both. 553 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 2: It's both, but you're it's contained and vulnerable. And what 554 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: did you think about that experience? 555 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 4: I had the best four days of my life. 556 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 3: It was four days. 557 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: It was four days or four nights, five days, right, okay. 558 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: It was unreal and I was in a sorority, so 559 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 1: I knew. I felt like this was going to be 560 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,880 Speaker 1: one giant chapter meeting. I was pumped. Well, first of all, 561 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: it's surreal because I'm on I'm in this like insane 562 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: suite that overlooks the lido deck. People cannot see in, 563 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: but I can see out. So every morning at six am, 564 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: the entire production staff would stand out on the deck. 565 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: They would raise flags on the side of the ship 566 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,959 Speaker 1: that have my face on it. And I was standing 567 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: in the window with my hands behind my back, and 568 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 1: my husband walks by and goes, okay, Kim Jong Un, 569 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: I doubt like, you look insane. I was like, here, 570 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: I am looking over my hermit kingdom. It was wild. 571 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: But then the experience on the ship was so much fun. 572 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: I basically say, it's like adult spring break meets a 573 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 1: chapter meeting meets girls gone Wild and the best way, 574 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 1: it was just the best four days of wholesome, non 575 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: judgmental We are all have the same mind, same likeness, 576 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: and we just want to have a good time. It was. 577 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: It was thrilling. I loved it, and that's why when 578 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: it was such a success and They're like, do you 579 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: want to do another one? I was like, let's go. 580 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 4: How did you feel? 581 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 3: I get really see sick in motion sick. I scroll 582 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 3: on my phone, I get sick if I'm walking. It's 583 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 3: it's terrible. 584 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 4: Are you like constantly on a drip of dramma meetings 585 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 4: over it? 586 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,719 Speaker 2: It doesn't work, really doesn't work. And I had a 587 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: really bad experience at a Sean nat Gio for a 588 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: while and yeah, we spent time on the water and 589 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 2: I threw it the whole time and so I had 590 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: to get up in between throw ups to shoot and 591 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 2: so my all, my it was just miserable trauma from it, 592 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 2: big time. And so I was like, I don't know 593 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 2: if this is gonna work. But they really wanted to 594 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 2: do it, and I agreed. But I said, hey, I'm 595 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 2: gonna come on. I'm gonna do three nights of the 596 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: seven Sweet seven night cruise. 597 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: Oh wow, I know. 598 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, But also but I have such insecuritybout people even coming, 599 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 2: So I thought, this is an expensive ticket. 600 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, we would we all do, right? 601 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: So I was I think mostly I was really worried 602 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 2: about that, and I used the motion sickness as an 603 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 2: excuse for so long because I'm like, I'm seasick, right, 604 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: I'm really I just to think people would buy tickets 605 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 2: to come on a cruise right with me and no 606 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 2: us And so I got a little emotion sick. I'm 607 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 2: in a musical comedy do We played a couple of 608 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 2: shows that night and it was good. 609 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 3: But my wife was nine months pregnant at the time. 610 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 5: Oh wow. 611 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 2: And our doctor was like, you really should not go 612 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 2: on the cruise, right, But it was these people. I 613 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 2: paid three thousand. 614 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: Dollars to be going on the cruise. 615 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,120 Speaker 4: Listen, this is showbiz baby. 616 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: Okay, she can be crowning, but you know what you're doing, lights, 617 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: camera action, we're doing the bits off the cruise. 618 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 3: So went on the cruise for the first part of 619 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 3: the cruise. 620 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 2: Had to leave a little early because my wife and 621 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 2: the doctor was like, hey, if you're going to go, 622 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,120 Speaker 2: you can't be trapped at sea at any time. 623 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 3: Like, if you're gonna be able. 624 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,239 Speaker 2: To get to a port each day, you're all good. Right, 625 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 2: So did that didn't get that sick. I liked that 626 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 2: everybody kind of got to know each other. Yeah, there's 627 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 2: that initial like what's I'd never buen on a boat 628 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 2: that big either. 629 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 3: That to me was wild to see a boat with elevators. 630 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,640 Speaker 1: See I grew up cruising. Let me tell you something 631 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: right now, your girl thrives. 632 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 3: Oh shit, I never mind. 633 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 1: We were like the kids at the Captain's table. I 634 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 1: had the Shirley Temple curls. I'm drinking a Shirley Temple. 635 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: I'm in like my my debutante dress, and I, you know, 636 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: hanging out. 637 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 4: With Mickey and Minnie. I thrived. 638 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: Do you know mean Disney cruises I did as a kid. 639 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I love every aspect of it 640 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 1: and i' love that you're trapped. People who know me 641 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,679 Speaker 1: know that I like to trap people. Like at my wedding, 642 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,919 Speaker 1: the biggest compliment was not about the flowers, the food. 643 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 1: The biggest compliment was bringing people from all aspects timelines 644 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:12,959 Speaker 1: of my life. And they were like, I loved your 645 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 1: friends from LA I loved your old miss friends, and 646 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: now everyone's still friends. I get a sick high off 647 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: of like we're all having fun together? Is everyone having fun? 648 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 1: Like I could be miserable, but I'm like, are you 649 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 1: having so much fun? It's the sickness. I don't know 650 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: what it is. Somebody diagnosed me online please, But I 651 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 1: love bringing a sense of community. 652 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,959 Speaker 2: I was afraid to commit to a second one. As 653 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 2: soon as it's sold out. There were like, let's do 654 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 2: a second one, but I haven't been on the first 655 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 2: one yet. Yeah, and so I was like, I can't 656 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 2: do it. I can't commit to a second one. I 657 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 2: don't know how I'm gonna feel. And then two, I 658 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 2: don't know if I'm gonna like it. And it was great, 659 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 2: So we committed to a second one for next year 660 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: as well. 661 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: Great you should. 662 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 3: I'd never been, but i'd never seen a boat with 663 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 3: an elevator. All I saw was. 664 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 2: Fot bottoms, five bottoms and trollo motors where I grew up. 665 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 2: So that was that was wild to actually get on, 666 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 2: like if it's a freaking airport, it's like a massive 667 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 2: airport to get on the boat. 668 00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 4: And then you're on the boat and you're like, Okay. 669 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: When it leaves doct you're like, well we're doing this, 670 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 1: we're in international waters, we're out here. 671 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 6: Yeah. 672 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 3: It was pretty. It was much cooler than I thought 673 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,639 Speaker 3: it was going to be. 674 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 2: I didn't get a sick as I thought I was 675 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: going to, and I liked the experience because I thought 676 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 2: it would be weird around our being trapped. 677 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 3: I don't like being trapped. I'm a bit control guy. 678 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 1: Okay, and I see that, and I like that, but 679 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: I respect that because I am not a control gal. 680 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 1: I need more control of my life. I have no boundaries. 681 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is your name? Okay, Carl, come on over. 682 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you a grilled cheese. Tell me your 683 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: family drama, and then we'll end up exchanging social Security numbers. 684 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: Like I need to have boundaries in my life. 685 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 4: So I love that you're a control person. 686 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: I will say it was so funny, I now after 687 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 1: I mean, we learned so much on the first cruise. 688 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: But when I say, like, it was actually so much fun, 689 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: if I feel this anxiety of how do we top 690 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: the next one? And Dene's coming on the next cruise 691 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: and we have such a fun lineup and we're going 692 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,679 Speaker 1: to continue to add more talent, but I literally am like, 693 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: that was so much fun. And I got off the 694 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: ship and I did not even know what an adrenaline. 695 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 1: I mean just crash though afterwards, because and I also 696 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: learned how to maintain my energy. But every night I 697 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 1: would be dancing into club with everybody shout out to 698 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: DJ John Stamps. I literally told our DJ said, I 699 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: want you to play to early two thousands rap and 700 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 1: we are going to beat from the windows to the walls. 701 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 1: I want to be grabbing my ankles, busting down, thought Tiana. 702 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: And when I just saw the unbridled joy on everyone's face, 703 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: just letting their hair down at three am in open waters, 704 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: just having a blast, that was the highlight of the ship. 705 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 4: But then every night I would sit. 706 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 1: I never got to any of the restaurants because you know, 707 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: you're working, you're running around. I didn't sleep for five 708 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: days and I would sit. And my manager found me 709 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: one night in my room in between shows and I'm 710 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 1: just eating a tea bone steak by myself, and she's like, 711 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: are you okay. I was just in silence in the 712 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 1: dark eating steak. I was like, I just have to 713 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: recalibrate for a minute. And so I only lived off 714 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: steak on the ship because I would have like a 715 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: twenty minute window to like scarf something down. 716 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 4: I'm like pure protein. I just see protein. 717 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 1: So my butler in this ship was like, she's had 718 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: a lot of stakes, like we're worried about her. 719 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 4: She hasn't shit in four days. 720 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 3: Did you ever watch the show on Netflix about the 721 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 3: woman that was on the cruise? 722 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 4: Did I the one who went missing? 723 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 724 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 1: So actually I said the next cruise, we should just 725 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 1: go to that port and cure us how and we 726 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: will find them. If I have two thousand women on 727 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: a ship, you don't think we could find her in 728 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: thirty five minutes. 729 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 4: You just release all at once, release the hound, Yeah, truly. 730 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: Release the hounds are all running around, and like Lily Pulitzer, 731 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: they would find her. I was furious by that documentary me. 732 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 2: Too, And when I was on the cruise, I had 733 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 2: perfectly time to watch it. I don't know, two weeks 734 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 2: before and one of the cruise, like I'm more on Yeah, yeah, 735 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 2: I shouldn't have watched it. It's like, yeah, you know, 736 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 2: watching airplane crash news before you get on the flight, 737 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 2: right And I watched her right before, and then I 738 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 2: found myself like looking to see someone I couldn't have 739 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 2: fallen over my boat, like there was nowhere to fall 740 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: into because there were like life boats around the side. 741 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 3: What do you think happened to her? 742 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 4: I think she was trafficked. 743 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: I think she got off the island, whether she was 744 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: drugged or she was kind of had a wild night 745 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 1: and ended up leaving with that guy. And I think 746 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 1: she's still alive. I think she's somewhere out there. Okay, 747 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 1: the part of the documentary, and I haven't seen it in 748 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: a minute, so correct me if I'm wrong. The part 749 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: of the documentary were somebody flags that like the dad 750 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 1: found a essentially, you know, an ad for her online. Yeah, 751 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: and nobody tried to order her. She was like down 752 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: in Venezuela. 753 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 3: I agree. 754 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: I would have been like, hello, order, yes, how much 755 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 1: money one hundred thousand dollars send her my way? Can't 756 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: wait to be a pervert. And then you're like, she's ohned. 757 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: We got I mean what yeah, yeah, say I was here. 758 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: Look I got goosebumps. Right now. I'm so angry about 759 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: that documentary. 760 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 2: I just don't trust that documentaries are really giving me 761 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: the three sixty of the reality of what they found. 762 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: That they're giving us what they found, but they're adding 763 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: or taking a little away for the sake of the 764 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,239 Speaker 2: entertainment of us, right taking in the story. Because there 765 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 2: was also the part during the Christmas when whomever it 766 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 2: would always come to her website Christmas and Thanksgiving. Yes, 767 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: And it was like, can you not track back, like 768 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 2: we have the abilit to track everything. 769 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 3: They're listening to this to our phone right now. 770 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 2: They're monitoring, you know, whatever governorate. They're making sure you 771 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 2: and I are saying straight stuff right now. Yeah, we 772 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 2: can't figure out who where that's coming from, who's logging 773 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 2: onto that site? 774 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 1: First of all, And I would have never left the 775 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: island if that was my kid. My ass would be 776 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 1: in curious. How I would be a resident. I would 777 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: run for president, I'd be the mayor. I would run 778 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: the whole damn country after that. And I thought about 779 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: that when I saw that, I was like, my dad 780 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,479 Speaker 1: would have never left that island. It wouldn't have happened. 781 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:31,959 Speaker 2: Now. 782 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 1: I know you you know, we don't know all the details, 783 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: but I was just like, and I'm not a parent, 784 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 1: but I could only imagine if my kid was missing, 785 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,320 Speaker 1: and I know she was what twenty one, No, I 786 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't be I'd be there. 787 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 4: I'd be running the damn country. 788 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 3: It's a great point though, by just ordering the kid. 789 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, why didn't you order it? Order the damn kid? 790 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: And at that point she was like thirty it looked 791 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: like her, and then they had like that FBI forensic 792 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: gal who was like, yeah, the tattoos match up. You know, shit, 793 00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: the tattoos match up. 794 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's not a like they did that kind 795 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 2: of evaluation of it as well, like there's been no 796 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: heavy manipulation. 797 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 3: Of the picture. Yeah, that's a crazy one. So you 798 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 3: don't have kids, don't have kids. 799 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 2: I was asking my wife some questions because I had 800 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 2: listened sporadically to the podcast. 801 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 3: That's where I've consumed most of you. It's a weird 802 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 3: thing to say, but I've consumed most of it. 803 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: I like that, honestly, kind of sexy. 804 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 3: I like that. 805 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll take it. 806 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 2: She said that you were talking about and I may 807 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 2: mess this up, so always forgive me. You were talking 808 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 2: about possibly IVF, but you were talking about how how 809 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 2: you were doing it and you were doing it wrong, 810 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 2: and someone messaged you and said, hey, you're not doing 811 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 2: this correctly. 812 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I did IVF wrong twice in a row. 813 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: During the pandemic. I was home off tour and I said, okay, 814 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to get proactive about my fertility. I went 815 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: in thought it was going to be a quick in 816 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: and out. I'm going to get a couple embryos, easy, 817 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: breezy and really, you know, I have control of my life. 818 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: I get in there and my doctor's like, uh, you 819 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: should have done this ten years ago. So I had 820 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: to get really aggressive with trying to get some eggs. 821 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: I did two rounds of it. You're doing what two 822 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: weeks of shots, you know, five shots a day. The 823 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: first round we couldn't get any eggs, right, Like, I 824 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: had nothing developed enough to retrieve an egg. And then 825 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm talking about it on the podcast because that's also 826 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: like my weekly therapy is just trauma dumping on the podcast. 827 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: And then I went for another round and they were like, 828 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: you're completely mixing the medicine wrong. 829 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,440 Speaker 4: So I would prey to just nurses on the internet. 830 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, dms who are like, hey, you're not doing this right, 831 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: cause I would pre batch it. So you have to 832 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 1: mix all these you know, medicines together. First of all, 833 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm not a chemist. It's insane to me that they 834 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: send home me, a civilian of the world, just to 835 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: go home and mix all these drugs and then inject myself. Unreal. 836 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: Now I know that there's like concierge nurse services where 837 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: they can come over and like make sure you do 838 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: it right. I went to Ole Miss like okay, And 839 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 1: so I was pre batching the medicine and then putting 840 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: it in the biles and putting it on a tray 841 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: in my uh, in my fridge in the garage, like oh, 842 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: it's fine. They're like, no, you have to mix the medicine. 843 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: In that moment, you know, I just I threw thousands 844 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: of dollars to the drink because I didn't read the 845 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: directions right. So kids read the directions thoroughly, but no, 846 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 1: it was very complicated. And also my body was just 847 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: like you know what, howther we decide we're going to 848 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: give you some more material, so we're just gonna have 849 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: you struggle a bit. And then I finally did a 850 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: Hail Mary third round and we got one embryo and 851 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: it's wild now with the technology. So I know, I 852 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 1: have a daughter on ice. 853 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 3: Like that's why they know the gender. 854 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: They know the gender. Uh huh, I have a daughter 855 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: on ice. So I'll probably do another round this fall 856 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 1: to try and get some more. But it's a gnarly 857 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: and of course I wanted to share that experience. I 858 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: get asked a lot like what made you share this? 859 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, cause I know that my audience, that's eighty 860 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 1: percent women. How many of them are also going through 861 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: this experience? How many of them were like what in 862 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: the hell am I doing right now? And no one 863 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 1: talks about it. And then you go to the fertility clinic. 864 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 1: You're sitting on couches, you know, four couches this size. 865 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 1: Everyone's in there doing the same blood draw confused, bloated, 866 00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: pissed off, angry, unwell. And then the men will always 867 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: come in and like drop off their like semen sample, 868 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: and they kind of come in sheepishly and they're like, hey, 869 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 1: you know, it's like walk away. We don't care, Bruce, 870 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 1: get out of here, just leave us. We're all pissed 871 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: off because we're on hormones. You know, it was a 872 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: semen sample. 873 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 3: Things embarrassing though, So. 874 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 1: Inside I had to do that. 875 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 3: You had to do that, well, I am not twenty five. 876 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, and so before my wife and I were like, hey, 877 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 2: we're going to have a baby, I was like I 878 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 2: need to get tested, yeah, and so I proactively went up. 879 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,719 Speaker 2: That's a weird thing to do because everybody knows what 880 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 2: you're doing. 881 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: Everybody knows what's like. 882 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,680 Speaker 2: They know what the cooler we know, baby, well, no, 883 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 2: they even know once you go in there, like what's like. 884 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 2: They know behind that door there's no X ray vision, 885 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 2: but they know what's happening behind you. 886 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 1: They know you're sitting on that awkward leather couch with 887 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: your just your magazines. If you will, you know, it's 888 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 1: crazy and this is not bringing a hip of violation 889 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: because we don't know who did this. I had a 890 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 1: nurse DM me. She said that in her clinic they 891 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: have a problem with older men. They will come in 892 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 1: and they instead of giving a semen sample. It's like 893 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 1: an older guid and he's on his third marriage to 894 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 1: a younger woman and instead of giving their proper sample 895 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: in a cup, they will spit in the cup instead, 896 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: because you know, they want to pregnant. They don't want 897 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 1: her to get pregnant. They don't want to have kids. 898 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: They don't have the balls to be like, hey, Trish, 899 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: don't want to have another kid with you. So they 900 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 1: say they see this a lot that these old and 901 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,760 Speaker 1: then they just have to say, oh, it's an inconclusive 902 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: you know specimen. We can't we can't read it. And 903 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: they'll just do it over and over again. And then 904 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,799 Speaker 1: they've been like, have the balls to tell your wife 905 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: you don't have kids? 906 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,760 Speaker 2: And they probably all know what's going on, and they 907 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 2: all look at each other. 908 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, inconclusive. 909 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 4: Inconclusive, that's crazy. 910 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: That's crazy. So if you're a young gal out there 911 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: and you're married to an old man and you're getting inconclusive, 912 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: sit him down, take him for all of his money 913 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: and he's not giving you a kid. 914 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I got I didn't get inclusive. I got 915 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 3: Lebron on mine. Yeah it's pretty good. 916 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:50,799 Speaker 1: Hell yeah. 917 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 3: They came out and they were like, which one of you? 918 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 4: Yep, that's right. 919 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 1: I thought for sure it was going to be I 920 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: could blame my husband for this, but he also was 921 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,479 Speaker 1: a Lebron. But now now he's addicted to zens. He's 922 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 1: fully addicted to zens, and if we're gonna do another round, 923 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 1: I keep getting these ads like, you know, get off 924 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: nicotine for a while. And my husband, you know, listens 925 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: to like a biohacking thing where it's like, oh, you 926 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,399 Speaker 1: can have forty five zens in your upper lip a day, 927 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 1: but because it's pure nicotine, you're gonna be fine. And 928 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, are you zened out right? Now? 929 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 4: You get reroll zippy around the house. So I'm gonna have. 930 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: To deal with that monster this summer, being like get 931 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,279 Speaker 1: off the zen's. 932 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 2: There are people like even Tucker Carlson. His clips will 933 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,080 Speaker 2: come up talking about nicotine. Yeah, and he's going, Nicotine's great, 934 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 2: it's got a bad rap. Yes, yeah, Big Pharma is 935 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 2: trying to cancel nicotine. 936 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 1: Yeah. 937 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 3: I'm I don't know who to believe about what now. 938 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,600 Speaker 1: I don't either, And the fact is that I see 939 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: some Tucker Carlson clips now and I'm like, he has 940 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 1: a point. I'm so confused. 941 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,760 Speaker 4: I think we're all very. 942 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 2: Confusedly comes up and I'm like, I agree, what the crap? 943 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. My girlfriend said me a 944 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,319 Speaker 1: clip of hers the other day, and I was like, 945 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to dial into this twelve part series 946 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 1: of what's happening? I mean, really, truly, we are living 947 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: the up down, up is down, left is right. I 948 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 1: don't know what's happening, but yes, And then I've also 949 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: heard of some women that will do the nicotine patches 950 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: and it's supposed to be great for your hormones. So 951 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,240 Speaker 1: I'm willing to be a guinea pig and try anything 952 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,800 Speaker 1: for the greater good. But my husband seems to say 953 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 1: that the yeah, the zen pouches are really elevating his health, 954 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't think that's the case. 955 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 3: How do you feel about bringing the kid into the world. 956 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,720 Speaker 1: That's a great question. 957 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 2: I just had a baby, and I struggle not with 958 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 2: having a baby, but with like, what is happening. But 959 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 2: then I think to myself, Okay, prohibition happens. Yeah, And 960 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,399 Speaker 2: these parents are like, we can't believe kid, our kids 961 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 2: are going to be around on alcohols here because they 962 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 2: went through prohibition right and with us now and they're 963 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 2: like twelve year olds who won't think weed's weird when 964 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 2: they get older because it's legal in a lot of places. 965 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 3: But and this is a weird thought. 966 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,640 Speaker 2: But I'm like, well, my daughter, who was just born 967 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 2: weeks ago, think that aliens are normal? 968 00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 3: Will they be real? 969 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,919 Speaker 1: Yeah? Her buddies, well yeah, because it kind of hopes 970 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 1: like that's happening now, Like what will she have the internet? 971 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 2: For example, when we were young, like we got to 972 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,839 Speaker 2: see no internet and internet, you know, if you're born 973 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: in like the eight I was born in the eighties. Eighties, Yeah, 974 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 2: we got to not have internet and have internet, so 975 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 2: we got that. We're and so kids now don't know 976 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 2: not having the internet. Yeah, but that also brought a 977 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 2: lot of bad I just I just struggle with like 978 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 2: what she's going to. 979 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: Struggle with it all the time, and you know, I 980 00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,959 Speaker 1: really do. I'm like, do I need to bring another 981 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:29,799 Speaker 1: person into this world? 982 00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:30,000 Speaker 2: Now? 983 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 3: Does the world need another person? 984 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:31,279 Speaker 6: Then? 985 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:31,799 Speaker 3: Yeah? 986 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,200 Speaker 1: But then I think, like I'm fun so yes, like 987 00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: maybe I maybe my offspring is the one who can 988 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:41,240 Speaker 1: change the world. Probably not. Yeah, it is a gnarly feeling. 989 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 1: And I agree that we did grow up in the 990 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: best time because I mean, there was nothing better than 991 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 1: dial up internet, right that cord went into the back 992 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,359 Speaker 1: of the phone jack and then went into the back 993 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: of the computer, and then the phone line was tied up, 994 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: so like if God forbid there was a family emergency, 995 00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: no one knew Grandma died because you were like in 996 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,680 Speaker 1: chat room, just tinkering away. Those were the golden years. 997 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 3: Okay, chat rooms were awesome. 998 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:06,479 Speaker 1: Chatrooms were the best. Chat rooms were the absolute best. 999 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,400 Speaker 1: So I agree, and I mean I'm even trying to 1000 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,759 Speaker 1: like understand AI and do all this and really stay up, 1001 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 1: and even my brain feels rattled. I think I am 1002 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:19,240 Speaker 1: getting dumber, I will say, like the brain is completely fried. 1003 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 1: So I'm trying to figure out how to have a 1004 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,240 Speaker 1: sense of like I don't want computers to run my life, 1005 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 1: but like how do I not use Google? Like how 1006 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 1: do I actually have my syneps fire enough so that 1007 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,720 Speaker 1: I can make decisions on my own without asking my phone. 1008 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 2: I feel like my brain rot comes from slowly replacing 1009 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 2: reading with TikTok, Like, yes, just slowly, slowly, And I'm 1010 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 2: trying to, you know, be purposeful with reading books because 1011 00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 2: it's so easy not to because there's so much content everywhere, 1012 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,760 Speaker 2: and I find myself doing the same going. I'm probably 1013 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 2: day by day slowly just on TikTok more, which is 1014 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 2: not good. Obviously it's not good for our brains. 1015 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 1: Oh the rot. I mean, I get to the point 1016 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: where it's like the little like night owl pops up 1017 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,440 Speaker 1: and it's like you've been scrolling for three and a 1018 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:02,040 Speaker 1: half hours. 1019 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 4: You're gonna die soon? Please? 1020 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,360 Speaker 3: Are you okay? Are you okay? 1021 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 4: I say, your Bible, bitch, like figure it. 1022 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 2: Out, like when China's asking you through TikTok if you're okay, Yeah, 1023 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 2: something is wrong because I do the same thing. 1024 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 3: That message comes on. 1025 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 2: It's like a young woman, Hey, yeah, maybe she'd get 1026 00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:17,800 Speaker 2: off TikTok. 1027 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:18,840 Speaker 1: Maybe she get off TikTok. 1028 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 4: Maybe you should like let your brain simmer for a 1029 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 4: little bit. 1030 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1031 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 1: And isn't it in China that they don't allow. 1032 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 3: You can't get on it. 1033 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 2: You can't get on it. It's only learning to take education 1034 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 2: until like twelve years old. Smart, but they give it 1035 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 2: to us. That's full McDonald's. 1036 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 1: I thought about downloading one of the apps, and I 1037 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: don't know if they're kind of bs, but it will like 1038 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 1: teach you history lessons instead, so you still get the 1039 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 1: addiction of like scrolling, but you're learning about, like I 1040 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 1: don't know, you know, a. 1041 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 4: Couple of world wars. That's what I need to do. 1042 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,680 Speaker 3: I don't know if that addiction would feel the same. 1043 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,759 Speaker 1: But then I see like this, there's a guy right 1044 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: now who ordered eggs off Facebook marketplace and he and 1045 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 1: he's in a fight with this woman, and I'm like, 1046 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 1: I need to know about the eggs from Facebook marketplace. 1047 00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: Like I am dialed in to random people's drama and 1048 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 1: I it brings me so much joy in my life. 1049 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 1: And then I'll sit down at dinner with people who 1050 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: are not on TikTok and they have no idea what 1051 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. 1052 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 4: I'm like, you guys are losers. Get with the program. 1053 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:10,439 Speaker 3: There was a double edged. 1054 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 2: Sword the story of the Charlie Sheen documentary where he 1055 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 2: was maybe hardcore on crack and whatever the drug was, 1056 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 2: and they started slowly weakening it. 1057 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:20,280 Speaker 3: That's what I need to happen. 1058 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 2: I made like some of the fifteen second tiktoks to 1059 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 2: be history lessons, like out of my control. I just 1060 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 2: need to see this is Thomas Jefferson, even if I 1061 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 2: just need people to replace it slowly, because I get 1062 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 2: the same thing. 1063 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: I need to know what the Alex Cooper Alex Earl 1064 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 1: drama is, and then I also need to know about 1065 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 1: what was Thomas Jefferson about. 1066 00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:39,960 Speaker 4: I respect that. 1067 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:41,600 Speaker 2: And then you can hit me with Brianna Chicken Fry, 1068 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 2: but I need Thomas Jefferson in the middle of. 1069 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 1: I need to know about the Egyptian Times. 1070 00:41:48,239 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 6: Same The Bobby Cast will be right back. This is 1071 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 6: the Bobby Cast. 1072 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,560 Speaker 2: Do you ever pull videos? Do you ever put one 1073 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,360 Speaker 2: on and then go like that? Either didn't work or 1074 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 2: I don't like what I said and take it down. 1075 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 4: No, I definitely think they're listen. 1076 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,799 Speaker 1: I have a team now that helps me like figure 1077 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,399 Speaker 1: out the algorithm, and even then I haven't figured it out. 1078 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 4: I do think there are days where I'm like, what 1079 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:19,240 Speaker 4: is happening? 1080 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 1: But no, I don't really pull I am so I 1081 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,520 Speaker 1: know that I can't compete with these kids who have 1082 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,520 Speaker 1: TikTok down to a fucking science. 1083 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 4: So I'm just like, let it rip. 1084 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:30,239 Speaker 1: Just let it rip. 1085 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 4: And the videos that are not produced that. 1086 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,239 Speaker 1: Is it's literally me picking up my phone and be like, 1087 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: this is what I feel in this exact moment are 1088 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,439 Speaker 1: always the ones that go viral. So I hate getting 1089 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: these like hype reels about like look at how glamorous 1090 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,279 Speaker 1: tourists look, at how crazy it is. We do it 1091 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,319 Speaker 1: because we sell tickets, but in the reality people want 1092 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: to hear me bitch about whatever you know, feud I'm 1093 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,280 Speaker 1: having at that exact moment with my husband. 1094 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 3: Do you still get nervous about ticket sales? 1095 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 1: I mean, for sure, everybody, right, I mean, I've been 1096 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,440 Speaker 1: very blessed that it's been successful, but yeah, there are 1097 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,240 Speaker 1: days and I'm I'm still even going into newer markets 1098 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,240 Speaker 1: where I mean, I feel like I've hit every market, 1099 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 1: but there's still days where I'm like, hey, i've never 1100 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,880 Speaker 1: played Juno, let's go, you know, and you don't know 1101 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: what's going to happen. But it's also so competitive. I'm 1102 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: so honored that people come to my shows and have 1103 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 1: a good time, that I have repeat customers. I'm like, 1104 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 1: that's what it's about. And yes, if new people come along, fantastic, 1105 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,319 Speaker 1: but I'm doing it for the people who've been there 1106 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: since the beginning. 1107 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,440 Speaker 2: Are there any comedians now that you look at and 1108 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 2: have like a professional healthy jealousy of because they're so good? 1109 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, well, you know, I think it's just incredible 1110 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,759 Speaker 1: to see like what Leanne's done, and you know, I 1111 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 1: have like eight shows and development and then they never 1112 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 1: get picked up. So I would like to Being on 1113 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: the road is the most magical thing, and stand up 1114 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: is my one true love, but I would love to 1115 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: be acting more so. Anybody who's been able to have 1116 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: their own show or to translate that to television, that's. 1117 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 4: Really my first love. So I would love to have that. 1118 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, like that's why Whitney's cool. Yeah, Well she's also 1119 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 3: she's very funny. 1120 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:57,280 Speaker 1: She's very funny. 1121 00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 2: She also writes for other people very funny, and she'll 1122 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,800 Speaker 2: rites for herself very funny. Like she kind of nails 1123 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 2: all of those. When you say you have all these 1124 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,879 Speaker 2: shows in development, are you the center of all them? 1125 00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: I am the center of all them. But this show 1126 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,439 Speaker 1: that I have at Hulu right now is my real 1127 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: joy because I'm finally playing somebody other than myself. And 1128 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 1: again it taps, and this is the one. Please, dear God, 1129 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 1: let this go, let this go to get picked up. 1130 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 1: This is the one where I'm like, it's tapping into 1131 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 1: the like how I started, where yes, stand up will 1132 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 1: always be about me, but playing a gnarly role where 1133 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm telling somebody else's story that I've of course written 1134 00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: and created is really what I want to do. You know, 1135 00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: I got into comedy because I grew up on Joan 1136 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 1: Rivers and if I could emulate her career, I mean, 1137 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,480 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with her. I got to meet her. She 1138 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: gave me your blessing in comedy. I feel very grateful 1139 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 1: for that. But like, my dream is to eventually be 1140 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 1: on QVC one day, hawking pajminas and talking to women 1141 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,760 Speaker 1: in the middle of the night while I'm smoking cigarette 1142 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 1: and drinking white wine, being like, honey, tell me you 1143 00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,640 Speaker 1: problems you need for forty nine ninety nine. You can 1144 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: have two calf t hands that'll make can you feel fantastic? 1145 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,280 Speaker 1: Like that's the goal, right to just have a product, 1146 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 1: sell it, and then I'll live in the Dirks and 1147 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: Caicos or in Tuscany and you'll never have to hear 1148 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:09,440 Speaker 1: my annoying voice ever again. 1149 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 2: The fact that she would save and organize all of 1150 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,760 Speaker 2: her jokes, Yeah, it was pretty amazing, pretty amazing, how 1151 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 2: attention to detail she was. Yeah, Like, and then you 1152 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 2: know Jean Smart and Hacks is loosely roughly based on 1153 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 2: that situation. 1154 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,160 Speaker 3: And you said you get to meet her. 1155 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:26,799 Speaker 4: I got to meet her, So I would go. 1156 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: I worked at a restaurant on forty third between eighth 1157 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,520 Speaker 1: and ninth, and there was a club right across from it, 1158 00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: and when i'd get off my shift, I'd go see 1159 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,720 Speaker 1: Joan and she would have these giant note cards on stage. 1160 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 1: I mean, she was in her eighties, had these giant 1161 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 1: note cards on stage and she's ripping through jokes. And 1162 00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 1: I would always like hang outside the back door and 1163 00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: she would come out and I'm beg Miss Rivers, I 1164 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 1: love you. 1165 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,160 Speaker 4: I have a lot of photos with her. 1166 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 1: And she was so kind. So I moved to La. 1167 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: I'm in. I'm sitting in out at this bar by 1168 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,839 Speaker 1: myself that my buddy was bargaining at and I hear her. 1169 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: I hear her walk in the door. She and she 1170 00:45:58,640 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 1: was the one who told me. She said you need 1171 00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:02,640 Speaker 1: go to LA. You've got a commercial look. So she 1172 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 1: sits in a booth and I'm like, oh my god, 1173 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,360 Speaker 1: Miss Rivers is here. So I go up to the 1174 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,800 Speaker 1: booth and her assistant in me is like, do you 1175 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: want a photo. I was like, no, no, no, I've got 1176 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 1: a photo with Joan. I said, John, I want you 1177 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,279 Speaker 1: to know I followed your lead. You told me to 1178 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,399 Speaker 1: come to LA. I'm here and thank you so much 1179 00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,960 Speaker 1: for giving me that advice. And I'm I'm three days in, 1180 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,800 Speaker 1: but I hopefully if this works out. She's so kind. 1181 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 1: I go and sit back at the bar. She wraps 1182 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 1: up her dinner. She comes up and she's like, I 1183 00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: have a good feeling about you. She said, you have hutzpah. 1184 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: You followed your gut. You're gonna make it, don't worry 1185 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,400 Speaker 1: you got this. So when she passed away, I was 1186 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: working at Soul Cycle and was Hollywood. I came out. 1187 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: I had taken a class, so I'd come out of 1188 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 1: the spin glass. The entire staff looks like like ill, 1189 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,279 Speaker 1: They're white as a ghost, and I'm like, what's going on. 1190 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 1: I thought they were about to tell me my entire 1191 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,879 Speaker 1: family had died. They were like, you need to sit down. 1192 00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 1: Jones passed, I mean, and I was inconsolable. And I 1193 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,359 Speaker 1: knew her very very loosely right, just as a fan, 1194 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:58,839 Speaker 1: and I mean, people sent flowers to my apartment as 1195 00:46:58,880 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 1: if she died. 1196 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 4: When she died, I was devastated. 1197 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: And so years later, after she had passed, they had 1198 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,399 Speaker 1: a big auction at Christie's and I didn't have any 1199 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,120 Speaker 1: money this one. I was like first starting out, and 1200 00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: all I wanted were these giant Tiffany silver dog bowls 1201 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,839 Speaker 1: with her dog's name on him. I was like, this 1202 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 1: is so cool. Didn't have any money, didn't get them, 1203 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 1: And then they just did another auction last year for 1204 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: her stuff. And I'm on a flight on my way 1205 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 1: to my show in Tampa and my I'm like, honey, 1206 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: you got to get in there. Like, I can't do 1207 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 1: this on the plane. And my husband won for me 1208 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,719 Speaker 1: one of her tour jackets. 1209 00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 5: Oh wow. 1210 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: And it's the first thing going in my new house. 1211 00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:39,359 Speaker 1: It's gorgeous. It's like champagne color with feathers, and I'm 1212 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 1: going to put it in a giant acrylic box. And 1213 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:42,920 Speaker 1: I want you to walk in my home and be like, 1214 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,720 Speaker 1: this is the house that Joan built. 1215 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 4: And I'm friends with Melissa. 1216 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: Now her daughter, and she brings me on her podcast 1217 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 1: and it is so full circle. Like when I started 1218 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,840 Speaker 1: doing the e red Carpets, it was because you know, 1219 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,760 Speaker 1: Joan did it. It's just I love her so much 1220 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: and she was really my idol in comedy. 1221 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 3: Who else you know? 1222 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,279 Speaker 1: I go back. I loved a Richard Pryor. I love 1223 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 1: a Carlin. I liked anybody who said the thing, who 1224 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 1: did not hold back and who said it. And I 1225 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:15,040 Speaker 1: think if Carlin was around right now, my god, you 1226 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:16,800 Speaker 1: go back and watch this stuff. It is so poignant. 1227 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 2: I watched I literally watched George Colin, I do Advertiser 1228 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 2: Allla by last Ar. 1229 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,359 Speaker 1: Everything that he's saying back then twenty thirty years ago 1230 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: is happening right now. 1231 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the story of his special that he recorded 1232 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 2: right before nine to eleven. 1233 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy, Yeah. 1234 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 2: I was a massive George Carland fan. I never got 1235 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,400 Speaker 2: to see him and do a live show, and I 1236 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:39,839 Speaker 2: bought tickets to see a show and he was coming 1237 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,360 Speaker 2: to Austin. I lived in Austin at the time, and 1238 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 2: he was playing in the Paramount, which is like my 1239 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 2: favorite theater, and he died like a week before I 1240 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 2: got to go watch him. But I was a massive 1241 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,239 Speaker 2: fan then, and to watch his stuff now it resonates 1242 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 2: so hard right now, I don't think I fully got it, 1243 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:52,640 Speaker 2: or maybe times weren't. 1244 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:53,239 Speaker 3: Is crazy for me. 1245 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,280 Speaker 1: Then I had a theater teacher at a very religious 1246 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,399 Speaker 1: school that I went to in Atlanta, and he would 1247 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 1: always tell me, He's like, Heather, you loved Carlin, and 1248 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,239 Speaker 1: he like wasn't supposed to be pushing Carlin on me, 1249 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:04,960 Speaker 1: and was like, trust me, trust me, you'll like the 1250 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 1: Doobie Brothers and you'll love George Carland. And so I 1251 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 1: was like forty and listening to Carland like he just 1252 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 1: I adored him. 1253 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,320 Speaker 2: When I did my honors thesis in college at Present, 1254 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,400 Speaker 2: it was seventy pages and it was in front of 1255 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 2: the faculty wow, And I did it on his the 1256 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 2: seven words you can't say on TV radio, right, but 1257 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:22,320 Speaker 2: I did. 1258 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:23,200 Speaker 3: I use that. 1259 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 2: But how the industry and the FC is changing, and 1260 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,359 Speaker 2: you can say some of these words now, but I 1261 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,480 Speaker 2: used his like I was such a I was so 1262 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:30,439 Speaker 2: inspired by George Carlin. 1263 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:35,560 Speaker 3: I used that entire Well it's more than a joke, 1264 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:38,279 Speaker 3: but that monologue with which is one of the best. 1265 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I love that. 1266 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,840 Speaker 1: And you know, I hate now when people are like, 1267 00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 1: are you a clean comic or like, you know, don't 1268 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 1: you love clean comics? That's great, that's their thing. But 1269 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,680 Speaker 1: my whole, my whole shtick is it's not even a stick. 1270 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying the things on stage that all of my 1271 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,920 Speaker 1: girlfriends are saying while they're playing majong, while they're in 1272 00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:57,919 Speaker 1: their mommy and me group, while they're figuring it out. 1273 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:01,280 Speaker 1: So why would I filter myself on stage? If that's 1274 00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,680 Speaker 1: if these are the real conversations that are people that 1275 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:04,360 Speaker 1: people are having. 1276 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:05,920 Speaker 3: Do you feel that it hurts you in privates at all? 1277 00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:06,880 Speaker 3: Or do you just clean up it when you. 1278 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,360 Speaker 1: Do a private uh wait, we'll say that again, like 1279 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 1: a private gig gig? Oh no, I mean I listen 1280 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 1: I can clean up for corporate all day long. I mean, 1281 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,720 Speaker 1: those corporate gigs are fantastic. Send me to a convention 1282 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 1: center somewhere in Boise and I will what are we 1283 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 1: selling wind decks? I will do windex jokes all day. 1284 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to buy a boat, you know. But no, no, 1285 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,800 Speaker 1: it doesn't hurt me. But it's it's funny too. Especially 1286 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:31,399 Speaker 1: being a female comedian, people will say, like, so you're 1287 00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,320 Speaker 1: not a clean comic. I'm like no, And just because 1288 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,439 Speaker 1: I'm a woman, if that's always a question, I'm going 1289 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,800 Speaker 1: to say the things that all women are saying on stage, 1290 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 1: like why would I Now, I can't say that Ford, 1291 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 1: what are we doing here? We're adults. We're adults here, 1292 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:46,719 Speaker 1: you know. 1293 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:50,160 Speaker 5: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 1294 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,240 Speaker 5: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 1295 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 3: How do you know the show didn't go well? 1296 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can feel it? Can I tell you? When 1297 00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 1: you know the show crushed? You could be out there. 1298 00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,399 Speaker 1: Of course, your fans are gonna love your shit. When 1299 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 1: I walk off stage. 1300 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 4: And a security guard it's like, damn, girl, let me 1301 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,240 Speaker 4: get your number. 1302 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,239 Speaker 1: They're like, really love the shit. When I walk off 1303 00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 1: stage and I've either made one of the union guys 1304 00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:24,399 Speaker 1: in a theater laugh really hard or a security guard. 1305 00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I crushed. 1306 00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,839 Speaker 3: I've seen every show and as also, they're doing a job. 1307 00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1308 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, they didn't come for that, they just come to 1309 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 3: do their hours. 1310 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 1: Yeah. I was just in Red Bank, New Jersey, and 1311 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,920 Speaker 1: I love that theater. And these guys afterwards are like 1312 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, we filmed so many specials here. 1313 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 1: That was the funniest night. I had so much fun. 1314 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god. You know, have you thought about doing TV? 1315 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 1: You know, they think they've discovered you. I'm like, I 1316 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,160 Speaker 1: played this theater four times, like you really should think 1317 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,120 Speaker 1: about doing this full time. And I'm like, I had 1318 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 1: a sold out show, serve two thousand people, but yes, 1319 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 1: I will consider doing this full time. I had a 1320 00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,000 Speaker 1: really good time and I'm like, thanks, mo, I appreciate it. 1321 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 3: What are you taking a break again? 1322 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 1: Uh this summer because I'm gonna shot my special at 1323 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,399 Speaker 1: the end of May in Knoxville and then you won't 1324 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,279 Speaker 1: see me for two months. You know. Of course I 1325 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,280 Speaker 1: have my podcast and were running around, but I travel 1326 00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,240 Speaker 1: in the summer and I just I unplug. Why Knoxville 1327 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,239 Speaker 1: you know it's funny. I love shooting my specials in 1328 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 1: the South. My first one was in Kentucky. My last 1329 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,680 Speaker 1: one was at the Fox Seat in Atlanta. And after 1330 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,279 Speaker 1: this whole Lane Kiffin debacle at ole Miss, I had 1331 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 1: so many people reach out to me from Tennessee and 1332 00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 1: they were like, Heather, we went through the same thing 1333 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: as you. We know your heartbroken by Lane Kiffin going 1334 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: to LSU. Please come shoot your special here. And I 1335 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,879 Speaker 1: adore Knoxville. It's a great comedy crowd. And I said, 1336 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,040 Speaker 1: you know what, We're all in this together. We're all 1337 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,560 Speaker 1: creepy together. I'm to shoot it in Knoxville. 1338 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 3: Have you met Pete Golden yet, the new coach? 1339 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,440 Speaker 1: So I'm his wife is my sority sister, and she's 1340 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 1: a oh way, yeah, yeah, so you're in. I'm in. 1341 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 1: But I haven't met him yet, but you're in. I'm in. 1342 00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:58,759 Speaker 3: So if you know the wife. 1343 00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,799 Speaker 1: I'm in, shout out. I tell my Delta gave his sisters. Yeah, 1344 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,360 Speaker 1: so I'm in. And I really truly adore ole Miss 1345 00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,600 Speaker 1: And I ended up there on a total whim. That's 1346 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,440 Speaker 1: not where I wanted to go to school. And it 1347 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,760 Speaker 1: ended up being the best four years of my life. 1348 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:13,600 Speaker 1: I now own a home there that I've went out 1349 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 1: for football games and Oxford is such a magical place 1350 00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,120 Speaker 1: and it truly changed my life. And so I'm just 1351 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: the biggest old miss fan. 1352 00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:23,279 Speaker 3: Do you hate cow Bells? 1353 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 1: I hate him? Gets obnoxious. 1354 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:26,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough. 1355 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,920 Speaker 1: The only time each every year cow Bell is in 1356 00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,920 Speaker 1: the Will Ferrell SNL sketch. Okay, other than that, you're 1357 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,399 Speaker 1: out of your minds. And I even dated a guy 1358 00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:35,839 Speaker 1: that went to who lived in Starkville and I never 1359 00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: once visited him. 1360 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 4: I said, if you want this relationship to work, you're 1361 00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 4: gonna have to come to Oxford. I'm not going down there. 1362 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:43,919 Speaker 1: And I have plenty of friends that went to Mississippi State, 1363 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:46,319 Speaker 1: but I'm like, no, I'm not going there. Yeah, absolutely not. 1364 00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,360 Speaker 3: I really appreciate coming by. This has been awesome. 1365 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:50,439 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm such a fan of yours and I really 1366 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 1: appreciate it, and and I just you know, it's it's 1367 00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: such a refreshing, honest conversation. And congratulations on everything you're doing. Truly. 1368 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 3: Oh thanks, Yeah, I had a baby, that's all we're doing. 1369 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 1: Listen, that's huge. 1370 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,480 Speaker 3: That's I mean, I'm saying that's all like, that's what it's. 1371 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:05,560 Speaker 3: It's a lot. 1372 00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: It's a lot. It's a lot, and you know a. 1373 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 2: Great way, And I want to make sure that nobody's 1374 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,480 Speaker 2: confusing what I'm saying. Yeah, it's awesome, but it's a lot. 1375 00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 1: It's a lot, and you're obviously a good dad and 1376 00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 1: a good partner, so you want to you're all all 1377 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:20,279 Speaker 1: hands on deck. 1378 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,440 Speaker 4: And I think it's a lot. It doesn't matter who 1379 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 4: it's happening to. 1380 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:24,040 Speaker 1: It's a lot. 1381 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 2: I feel like I don't think I'm a good dad 1382 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 2: or good partner, and hopefully that makes me a good partner. 1383 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,239 Speaker 1: Oh wow, why do you think that you're not a 1384 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,840 Speaker 1: good dad or partner? Because and it does make you 1385 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:34,680 Speaker 1: a good partner because you actually care. 1386 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 3: That's it. 1387 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,440 Speaker 2: I'm so concerned about it, yea, that I don't know 1388 00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 2: if there's actual actually the ability to be a good 1389 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 2: dad or good partner, because whatever it is, I don't 1390 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 2: feel like I meet whatever standard that is. But then 1391 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,360 Speaker 2: I can go, well, maybe that's what makes me a 1392 00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 2: good partner because I continue to try to achieve a 1393 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:49,720 Speaker 2: higher standard. 1394 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I got goals and expectations for yourself. 1395 00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 3: Spend a lot of time in therapy. I got two therapists. 1396 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:55,440 Speaker 4: Listen, I've got a therapist. 1397 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,440 Speaker 1: And she told me the other day, she was like, so, 1398 00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: when are you gonna start feeling your feet? I said, huh, 1399 00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:02,799 Speaker 1: I said, Claire, what do you mean? She goes, when 1400 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 1: are you gonna start getting like emotional and like crying? 1401 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 1: I said, do you want me to cry? Because I 1402 00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:08,719 Speaker 1: don't have time to cry. I literally told her that. 1403 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,680 Speaker 1: She's like, I can tell you're an impath and you 1404 00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 1: feel other people's feelings very deeply, Like I can read 1405 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,920 Speaker 1: a room. I can spot at the back of a 1406 00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,799 Speaker 1: bar that's some some gals upset. I can feel it, 1407 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:20,440 Speaker 1: but I don't know how to feel mine because I'm like, 1408 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:21,719 Speaker 1: I don't have time to be upset. We got to 1409 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,279 Speaker 1: keep working. We got shit to do. Like, I'll get there, 1410 00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:24,759 Speaker 1: I'll move on. 1411 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,480 Speaker 3: Do you go to therapy regularly now, can you? Yeah? 1412 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's all over you schedule. Yeah, I'm not 1413 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,839 Speaker 1: doing in person. You know my girls in Birmingham shout 1414 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 1: out to Claire. 1415 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,839 Speaker 2: Do not feel like somebody's gonna be like I won't 1416 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:37,640 Speaker 2: do therapy on zoom. I feel like people are watching me. 1417 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,359 Speaker 1: You don't think they could have a hidden camera in 1418 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 1: the little vase. They got that nice orchid on their desk. 1419 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: Please there we Gordon, I'll trust no one. Here's my 1420 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,840 Speaker 1: thing though, too. I share so much of my life. 1421 00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,280 Speaker 1: There's nothing that would come out in therapy that somebody 1422 00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 1: would be like, wow, bombshell. 1423 00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:56,920 Speaker 2: Like I probably already said it on my own podcast. 1424 00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 2: All right, we talked about it before you came in. 1425 00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 2: But Heather on right, Heather on tour dot com website. 1426 00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,400 Speaker 2: And then the cruise absolutely not yet naps. 1427 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,080 Speaker 4: Not cruise. It's Heather at sea dot com. 1428 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:10,560 Speaker 1: And if you've never been on a cruise, I'm telling 1429 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 1: you this is the perfect entry level to your cruise experience. 1430 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 1: You'll have the time of your life. And honestly, I 1431 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:20,080 Speaker 1: just feel so insanely blessed and honored that people will 1432 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 1: trust me, uh with their vacation experience and it is 1433 00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,960 Speaker 1: It is just the most fun you'll ever have. 1434 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:27,840 Speaker 2: I think any flags on my face on it, so 1435 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 2: I need to put that into They never. 1436 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,120 Speaker 1: Let them know. You want a full wrap of the 1437 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,319 Speaker 1: ship with your face and that is the most out 1438 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,480 Speaker 1: of body experience you walk on and you're like, who 1439 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,919 Speaker 1: the hell did one I didn't ask for it okay, 1440 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:39,680 Speaker 1: so I want everybody to know I'm not that vain, 1441 00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,480 Speaker 1: but also too, it is really wild when you see 1442 00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:44,840 Speaker 1: your face on a ship and you're like, what is happening? 1443 00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,719 Speaker 1: Like people, I mean, I still get I'm still in 1444 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,440 Speaker 1: awe that people that this is my life and people 1445 00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:52,400 Speaker 1: tune in, and I'm so grateful for that, but it 1446 00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:54,400 Speaker 1: is crazy. I'm like, do you guys know that you 1447 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 1: came to see me? Like I live with my mom, 1448 00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,160 Speaker 1: Like everybody, calm down, you know. Heather, thank you, Hey, 1449 00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 1: thank you. This has been great. 1450 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,800 Speaker 3: Thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production