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Speaker 1: paternity test and the results are about to change everything.

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Speaker 2: What will it change? I don't know if it will

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Speaker 2: change the fact that she cheated, but it will change

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Speaker 1: It will change the fact that I am running away

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Speaker 1: with another bros. Baby. Wait, did ope cheat? Is a father?

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to read this and find out. Let's see,

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Speaker 1: let's get it. Weird title and a weird situation. So

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Speaker 1: my twenty six male best friend is Derek, also twenty

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Speaker 1: six male. We have been oh interesting, two twenty six males.

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Speaker 1: I hate that enough to know good, I'm sure just

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Speaker 1: like some people I know, well, you being a twenty

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Speaker 1: six male and me twenty five sub sub twenty six,

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Speaker 1: I'm dominating your twenty five over there. We've been best

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Speaker 1: friends since we were eight years old, and due to

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Speaker 1: some family issues, he lived with my family during high

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Speaker 1: school and college and slept with my mom. Yeah that's

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Speaker 1: that's that's the up down. Yeah the kid. Forget about

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Speaker 1: the kid. He just slept with my mom.

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Speaker 2: Brother, and I want to be best friends with my

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Speaker 1: What? Oh my god? That's like uh Reddit story in sessions. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: then kids are carricter. We got to do that with U.

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Speaker 1: Chad Layers add, that's great. My parents called my parents

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Speaker 1: called him their bonus kid, and we are basically brothers

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Speaker 1: at this point, So I really don't they really brothers?

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Speaker 1: Maggy kid, step bro, stepbro? What are you doing? But

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Speaker 1: I really don't trust his girlfriend of three years, Nicole

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Speaker 1: twenty five female. Yeah, I don't trust her at all

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Speaker 2: And still hasn't told my best friend, yeah that I'm

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Speaker 1: Just kidding, just kidding, We're gonna We're gonna see you guys. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She has always given me bad vibes. She lies about

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Speaker 1: little things for no reason, what like, uh, you're like

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Speaker 2: If you think about it, if another man's semen is

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Speaker 2: inside you, it is a little white lie. Those little swimmers,

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Speaker 2: those little yeah semen, they're train swimmers. But unfortunately her

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Speaker 2: and Derek have a lot of similar experiences in hobbies,

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Speaker 2: and he is head over heals for her first mistake.

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Speaker 1: Derek, never let them into your heart exactly. Just don't

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Speaker 1: deserve love. Andrew Tate, not me. I think that's you.

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Speaker 1: I think you said it enough that it has become

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Speaker 1: The compilation video is gonna come out with me. Luckily,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing the voice every time. Ten times I think

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Speaker 1: that's just your voice. Yeah, so someone's gonna ai my

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Speaker 2: You talk like that, I'm sure. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: The cancel campaign is coming for me now. I have

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Speaker 1: always been respectful to her, but I'm always looking out

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Speaker 1: for Derek, of course.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is best best friend, best homie exactly to look

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Speaker 1: And my girlfriend thinks he's blind with love. He ain't

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Speaker 1: saying so. Nicole is now eight months pregnant. Derek comes

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Speaker 1: to me asking to be the godfather slash legal guardian. Now,

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Speaker 1: Derek works a very a dangerous job, so it wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be crazy for something to happen to him. What's his

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Speaker 1: job just railing pipes all day, just like well pipes.

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Speaker 2: Works like an oil rig. Yeah, it's like they go

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they pay well, you know, so get them,

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Speaker 2: Derek, Like, have you seen like those underwater see like

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Speaker 1: Dude, that's crazy. One of those. That's crazy, one of those.

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Speaker 1: Nicole was also on board of me being the godfather.

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Speaker 1: Man, Just listen, just listen. He was shocked and asked why. Well,

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Speaker 2: That fucks up the relationship a bit. It does, it does,

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Speaker 2: little bit? Or raising another man's child. They say ignorance

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Speaker 1: I ignorantly spend five hundred thousand dollars on raising for

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Speaker 2: Hey, you know, and it becomes yours true less unless

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Speaker 2: the og fathers like I demand a paternity test.

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Speaker 1: And after eighteen years, that's where it's crazy. I'm like, no, bro,

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Speaker 1: my biggest reason is what Nicole did with her sister.

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Speaker 1: The suspicions ain't over. What did she do with her sister? Oh?

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Speaker 1: So Nicole's sister did have a kid already. She claimed

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Speaker 1: lion runs in the family. Oh yeah, friends in the

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Speaker 2: Bro, I'm not gonna love some kid off the street.

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Speaker 1: I'm not freaking mother, Teresa. Oh man, dude, it's just man.

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Speaker 1: God place to tell? Oh God. Ever since, I've kept

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Speaker 1: he would do? Sam leave, he would fitcher. Oh really, yep,

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Speaker 2: Mean, yeah, that's true. I mean it's really his relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, I'm not helping raise some other guys

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Speaker 1: It feels like he's like a second father. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: just like my child will have a DNA test, almost

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Speaker 1: if the DNA test is such an issue, then pick someone.

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Speaker 2: Else to be the godfather. Wow, he is, He's serious,

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Speaker 1: My parents are calling me the a hole. My girlfriend

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Speaker 1: that isn't a law. She my girlfriend is on my

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Speaker 2: I think, like, you know, it's it's tough, right because like,

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Speaker 2: it's Derek who should decide what he wants to do

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Speaker 2: On the other hand, Derek's asking him to be the godfather,

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Speaker 1: That's a good question. Oh was it because of the ultimatum.

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Speaker 1: Have the guy like bump some shit elsewhere, you know, Dude, Like, dude,

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Speaker 2: Also, Nicole admitted that she actually slept with him multiple times. Man,

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Speaker 2: so she went behind Derek's back and already got a

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Speaker 2: Oh this is over, this is over even like you

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Speaker 2: like now like at this point now that she's like

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Speaker 1: Uh, but are are you ready for the for the results?

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Speaker 1: Fuck before you hear the results? Hear the results.

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Speaker 2: What is more fucked up at this point in the story,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because now he's like fucking like he's he's joint

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Speaker 1: Ooh wow. I honestly literally did not think about that

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Speaker 1: Are you ready. Yeah, the kid is Derek's. It's not

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Speaker 4: Fuck that sucks, Derek, your life is fine, dude, that sucks.

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Speaker 1: So that is the worst case scenario. Not only did

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Speaker 5: On you multiple times and lie on it, not only

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Speaker 1: So now you're stuck with her for eighteen years.

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Speaker 2: Well, don't be so sure, what no, I mean, regardless,

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. But yeah, but still regardless, step together. Yeah, okay, So, uh, dude,

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Speaker 2: my name Derek got He was head over heels for

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Speaker 2: this girl too. Literally, fuck, don't let him into your heart, Derek.

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Speaker 1: There's gonna trample on. Let's see, it's a little hard.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what Derek does. Obviously, Derek is distraught and embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, he actually knows the other guy that Nicole

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Speaker 4: This. This sucks, Sush, this sucks, this sucks.

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Speaker 1: This sush. Oh my god, feel bad for Derek. Dude.

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Speaker 2: See, Like the bad thing is that she lied about it,

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Speaker 2: you know, like they broke up. She lied about you know.

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Speaker 2: See, Like, I actually think a lot of like in

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Speaker 2: instruct situations can't be resolved if you're just completely, like

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Speaker 1: Yes. Yes, if you go with a hundred percent honesty.

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Speaker 2: Then you're actually setting yourself up for an honest relationship

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Speaker 1: Or you can hide everything, let it all blow. Bro

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Speaker 1: Yeah he was sticking friend. Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, he's man.

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Speaker 1: goddamn bro. At this point, Derek is done with Nicole,

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Speaker 1: wow wow okay. Uh he told nicoldest and she is

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Speaker 1: I don't you have to pay like child support? Still? Yes,

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Speaker 1: money involved. Derek is refusing to co parent with a

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Speaker 1: she can terminate it because he won't be involved. Sheez,

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Speaker 1: that's a little strong, that's a little I wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: I man, what would I do? What would Sam do? WWSD?

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Speaker 2: I think I would say, ah, fuck, because I was

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Speaker 1: The baby is this baby is a baby, bro, this

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Speaker 1: baby is a baby. Fuck you kind of fucked with that? Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: It's not like it's like oh, like you know to

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Speaker 1: Fuck. I mean I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I I think I would probably be involved.

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Speaker 1: Fuck because you have to be with this fucking girl. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Fuck dude, that sucks. It's really really hard.

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Speaker 2: It probably would it probably would be involved in the

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Speaker 1: I would there's a way to be involved where you're

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Speaker 1: Uh fuck that sucks. From the sounds of it. Nicole

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Speaker 1: only advice is that everyone get a DNA test because

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Speaker 1: you never know what someone is lying about. I'm glad

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Speaker 1: I pushed for this because the truth might have never

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Speaker 2: Wo man o, man o, man yo, Wow Derek, Derek,

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Speaker 2: my god, Eric man I can I'm just glad you

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Speaker 2: have a good friend like op cry on insane. I

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Speaker 2: don't even know what to say. This is most I

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