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Speaker 3: You know, is it normal throughout the wedding planning process

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Speaker 3: to call off your wedding? And I know, Kaylen, you've

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Speaker 3: been in a bunch of weddings, You've dealt with brides, Paulina,

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Speaker 3: You've been a bride, But like, what did you ever

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Speaker 3: get to the point where you're like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I'm not doing this?

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Speaker 1: You waited this long and a half years just to

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Speaker 1: call it off. Yes, and so all last.

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Speaker 3: Week the wedding was off, okay, and so but now

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Speaker 3: we're back on.

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Speaker 1: So that's why. Why was the wedding off because you

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Speaker 1: were mad at him? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Because I asked him to trim the bushes for it

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Speaker 3: was like these little like you in my driveway with

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Speaker 3: some bushes that was like scraping my car when I

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Speaker 3: would leave, like bro trim the bushes, and it was

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Speaker 3: taking him forever to do it. So I was like,

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Speaker 3: you know what, my husband would have cut these books,

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Speaker 3: you know. So, and I'm like, but it's starting to

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Speaker 3: be everything. Every argument, every fight, I'm like, you know

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Speaker 3: what this is over? The wedding is off, I know.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, is this normal or is this just

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Speaker 3: a kiky thing? Because I feel like it sounds like

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Speaker 3: when your parents would plan a birthday party for you,

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Speaker 3: and then that whole week leading to your birthday party

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Speaker 3: if you act up, they're like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this is up, this is over. Shocky cheese is canceled?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: Is this normal? Yeah? Okay, thank you?

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Speaker 4: Well, also you're talking to men say cancels things for

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Speaker 4: far less in my brain but like we're never really

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Speaker 4: like off right right in my brain, we're off. Plus,

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Speaker 4: you want to threaten him a little bit, keep him

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Speaker 4: on his toes because if he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Act right, you have to. He has to understand, like

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Speaker 1: this choice is being made by unhealthy and toxic go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Gotta keep on his toes a little bit. He has

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Speaker 4: to understand how lucky he is to marry Key. He

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Speaker 4: has understand that. And with that being said, he needs

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Speaker 4: to understand that he can just drop the ball in

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Speaker 4: a second and be like this is over.

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Speaker 1: We're not doing this over anything. Over anything.

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Speaker 3: It can be anything, you see what I'm saying, it's

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Speaker 3: really over anything. Like I'm planning the bridal proposal, dinner, whatever,

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Speaker 3: and even that is getting annoying. But it's like so

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, no bridal party, and it's

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Speaker 3: just that seems to be the new thing, like anything

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Speaker 3: that's inconvenience. I'm like, you know what, we're not doing it.

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Speaker 1: So don't do that, right, Okay, I'm I'm asking you gently.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's healthy. It's like when you're married,

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Speaker 1: you can't throw out the D word during arguments. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you may have to find something else.

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Speaker 2: Well, and plus how many times you're gonna say it

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Speaker 2: before he doesn't believe you anymore.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he doesn't believe me at all. It's not shook

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Speaker 1: up at all. He's like, girl, all right, you know,

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Speaker 1: but I'm like, I'll tell I'll tell John Rue everybody.

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Speaker 1: This could be I'm not John, you need this. And

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Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, I'll be careful.

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Speaker 4: See, like once you start playing that like game or

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Speaker 4: canceling everything, throw it all out, like you need to

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Speaker 4: be really careful because then like people will not take

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Speaker 4: it serious no more.

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Speaker 1: It's the whole thing. But what if he says like, okay,

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Speaker 1: now that would be all that. I like, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: hey that's fine with me. I don't really want to

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Speaker 1: do it anyway.

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Speaker 3: Then I'm sliding down the wall crying.

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Speaker 1: You play it with fire and you don't do that.

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Speaker 1: But we meant. I meant to talk to you about something.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I'm scared someone texting my husband and I

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Speaker 2: called off the wedding a couple of times. He even

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Speaker 2: called off the wedding four days before we were scheduled

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Speaker 2: to get married.

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Speaker 4: Okay, see he can't do that. That's not how this works.

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Speaker 4: I can't do that, Like he can do that, right,

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Speaker 4: once a man gets involved and does.

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Speaker 1: That, but he you can call off the wedding as

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Speaker 1: much as you. Hey, Mike, what's off morning?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? You're not allowed to do this. Now.

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Speaker 2: They can play games with you, toxic, unhealthy games with you, Mike,

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Speaker 2: but you can't do that.

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Speaker 5: Yes, oh gee, we've been married ten years. My wife

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Speaker 5: and I we argued over the lawn. Over the lawn,

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Speaker 5: we argue over and we argue over the most ridiculous things.

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Speaker 5: But when it comes to big things is when it matters.

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Speaker 5: We're on the same page with money, finances, being truthful

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Speaker 5: to each other, that's where it counts. If you're arguing

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Speaker 5: over dumb stuff like hey, you put my toothbrush there,

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Speaker 5: then that's what you want. You don't want the big things.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you say normal, I should, Oh it's normal,

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Speaker 3: and I should I should keep it cool or I'm

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Speaker 3: okay to like throw this tantrum every week or so.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's got to be up to him because my

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Speaker 5: normal response is, well, my wife calls my name is

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Speaker 5: what did I do?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 5: You know what? And it's darned if I do darn

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Speaker 5: if I don't. If I say nothing, I'm in trouble.

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Speaker 5: If I say something, I get I get chastised for

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Speaker 5: coming uh being too talkative.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Mike, you're really selling it like it sounded great.

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Speaker 2: Really can't wait for this in my life.

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Speaker 5: Well, you know what, when it's the right person for.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there you have a good day. He's a strong soldier.

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Speaker 1: Glad he's a strong soldier.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I was like, you know, is this just

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Speaker 3: brought normal bridal feelings? Is it part of the roller

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Speaker 3: coaster that you go with as you plan a wedding?

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Speaker 3: Do you call it off every now and then?

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Speaker 2: By the way, the more money you invest in deposits,

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Speaker 2: the less likely it is that you that you're calling

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Speaker 2: it off at all.

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Speaker 3: Let me say something. The wedding is not you know,

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Speaker 3: like I'm having his wedding. You know, whether he shows

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Speaker 3: up or not, we're having his wedding.

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Speaker 2: Even if it's a celebration of Kiki, the festivities are

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Speaker 2: taking place the most. Maybe somebody gets married, maybe somebody doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Okay,