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Speaker 1: Shell West. Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right, you know, I'm just a bit.

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Speaker 1: Confused, right right, right, confused. Well here we are here

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Speaker 1: to try and help you with that confusion. This is

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. We're trying to see if you

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Speaker 1: have been ghosted by someone who you met recently named Alicia.

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Speaker 1: So how did you meet her? Tell us about any

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Speaker 1: days that you've been on, any kind of backstory. We

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Speaker 1: need all the infos so we can We're investigators here,

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Speaker 1: we're like Sherlock Holmes, so trying to figure this out.

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Speaker 2: I met her on Tinder. She was my Tinderella and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, never say that again. So then what we

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Speaker 1: were on one day?

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Speaker 2: We had kind of a good vibe. I asked her

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Speaker 2: out again. We had a second date. It went great.

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Speaker 2: But since that second date, I haven't heard from her

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Speaker 2: at all.

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Speaker 1: Okay, not one work Okay, And I assume you've texted

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Speaker 1: her or called, You've reached out, You've you've attempted. You're

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Speaker 1: not just waiting for her to reach out to you.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I've definitely reached out to her.

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Speaker 1: You can call her Tinderella to her face, because we

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Speaker 1: could just stop it right now if you did. That's

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Speaker 1: the reason, that's the problem. If that's it, case closed.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I just called her at Tenderella this morning.

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Speaker 1: You know right right? Got it? Okay? Well, excellent, excellent

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Speaker 1: thought there, Caitlin. But no, that's not that's not the

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Speaker 1: culprit I guess in this case. So here's what we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do. We're gonna play a song, come back, call

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Speaker 1: this woman, Alicia. We're gonna see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on. See we can get her on

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Speaker 1: the phone, ask some questions. You'll be on the phone

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Speaker 1: too at some point. You're welcome to jump in after

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Speaker 1: we get some info, and we're hoping that we can

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Speaker 1: straighten things out and set you guys up on another

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Speaker 1: date that we pay for. Sound good, do great, You've

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Speaker 1: got to hear what happens next part to you of

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone two minutes away after Miley The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show is good morning. Miley is on the frend

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Speaker 1: Show commercial free by the way, and we're on the

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Speaker 1: radio and the iHeart app anytime search for The Fred

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Speaker 1: Show on demand. Hey Wes, Hey, how are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: Still great? Let's call uh this woman, Alisha? You're what

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Speaker 1: do you call it? Tinderella? Yeah? I wish you hadn't

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Speaker 1: said that, but anyway, as long as you didn't say

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Speaker 1: to her, but we're gonna call her. You met her

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Speaker 1: on Tinder, you went on two dates. You thought they

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Speaker 1: went great, except you've reached out to schedule the third

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Speaker 1: date text had called whatever, and she is not responding

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just it's bothering me because I think we

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Speaker 2: had two awesome days and I love to see her again.

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Speaker 1: I get that. That's understandable. All right, Wes, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call her now. Good luck. Hi is this Alisha? Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for just a second. You can hang

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Speaker 1: up at any point if you want to, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the call and taking

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Speaker 1: the timing. Maybe you've heard this before, but it's called

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, and a dude name Wes says

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Speaker 1: he met you on Tinder and you guys went out

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Speaker 1: a couple times. Do you remember hopefully dating Wes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I remember.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened with him? Because he called us

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Speaker 3: That's really funny, because yeah, I mean the first two

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Speaker 3: So I thought, oh, you know, maybe he would talk

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Speaker 2: After the first date, thinking if I want to go

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Speaker 3: This guy was like, okay, I do want to see

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day, not calling me, not planning anything. He's absolutely

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Speaker 2: He's absolutely playing me.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, I'm done with that, Alicia. I tend

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Speaker 1: But and well, I think it may have been a

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Speaker 1: it and some way, Hey, happy Valentine's There is something

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Speaker 1: touchy holiday for a lot of people because it's it's

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Speaker 1: a love holiday, right, And he does not love you,

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Speaker 1: And I think if he did love you, love you.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't love you yet, not yet. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: he'll never love you. I mean it's two days. He

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Speaker 1: about that right now. In fairness. No, Ki, you would

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Speaker 1: love it, but the rest of us are you? I

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Speaker 1: have on me, I need it, I need you really

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Speaker 1: want a man after two days to say he loves you, Yes,

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Speaker 1: ninety nine percent of women. I feel like we would

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Speaker 1: get the total inch for that, and for good reason. Love.

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Speaker 4: This is why y'all not out here making love, because

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Speaker 4: y'all want to hold off if you love me day.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I hold off two days. I absolutely hold

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Speaker 1: inkling of like real serious feelings. I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: I think there was something he could have done. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, you really you really expected him to, like,

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Speaker 3: It didn't even have to be anything crazy or big,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, Okay, well, if you're trying to

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Speaker 1: And why are we jumping immediately to him having some

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Speaker 1: Like maybe I'm just coming from the male perspective. There

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Speaker 1: could he have said something maybe, But could he have

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Speaker 1: At him, Oh I will, because he's here. I forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention that. I feel like Maury, bring him out,

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Speaker 1: Alicia Wes, what happened here? I mean, what is your

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Speaker 1: He's been here the whole time. I'm so forgetful. I

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Speaker 1: always I always forget that part. Why no acknowledgement of

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Speaker 2: I mean, I want to be honest, Fred, I kind

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Speaker 2: of I echoed everything that you said, which is why

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Speaker 2: I just stay completely silent, which is after the second date.

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Speaker 2: I had a good time, but I just think it's

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Speaker 2: I felt facetious if I was going to try and

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so look he wasn't. He was uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: What if I tell you I'm super into on Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day and you're like, I'm not there yet. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean it, Alicia, like we got to give this

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Speaker 2: Right, But it's like it's just the acknowledgment of it.

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Speaker 3: Like if you're feeling awkward about it, just say that, like, hey,

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Speaker 3: this is usually such an awkward holiday. But I did

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Speaker 3: you know, you go on social media and it's just covered.

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Speaker 2: In Valentine's Day. I would have liked something of like

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Speaker 2: I'm super awkward about this this day.

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Speaker 3: But I just wanted to say that I'm thinking about

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Speaker 1: That's the least he could have done. After two days

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Speaker 4: Yes, Valentine, I got a text from Instagram like a snapchat,

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Speaker 4: sent me a message and said Happy Valentine's Day. So

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Speaker 4: what would have been to somebody I've spent two days with?

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Speaker 4: Couldn't do that.

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Speaker 1: The text? I see both sides, but I can also

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Speaker 1: see why I was a little premature for you know,

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Speaker 1: too much acknowledgment of a romantic, loving love related holiday

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Speaker 1: big red hearts. I mean, you just made we.

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Speaker 2: Mean, I think you might have gotten you know, I

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Speaker 1: So just a simple is so simple? Have you not

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Speaker 1: been on I know you have RUF, You've been on

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Speaker 1: the internet and TikTok because you've every bikini shot ever

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Speaker 1: you you sent them a red heart now that I

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Speaker 1: know already. But I just mean likes the list of

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Speaker 1: its that you see. I mean, it's like people are

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Speaker 1: icked out by everything. I guess I would have kind

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Speaker 1: of tried to away from that too after two dates,

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Speaker 1: but maybe not ignore her completely. But I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't look. So you heard him, Alicia, that was his justification.

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Speaker 1: What do you think give him another shot?

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Speaker 3: I think that if I think that I just need somebody,

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Speaker 3: that's a little bit more like upfront and forward with

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Speaker 3: their feelings, whether it's good, bad, anything in between.

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Speaker 2: I just need somebody that's more forward with things.

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Speaker 1: So no, I'm good, Okay, I love you?

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Speaker 2: Is that cool?

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Speaker 1: It's hard? It's hard. Well that's going to work, Alicia?

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Speaker 1: Are you into him now? No? I can't win.

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Speaker 4: But if that's how you truly feel love on people,

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Speaker 4: it's okay.

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Speaker 1: It's a safe I do not think that's great advice

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Speaker 1: coming from the single perspective, but anyway, like I guess

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. This is kind of

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Speaker 1: makes me sad because it sounds like everything was fine

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Speaker 1: except for this. But anyway, guys, thank you for your time.

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