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Speaker 1: Here Calm Down with Aaron and Chrissa is a production

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Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. I ask these questions. I like these questions.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes, and we have said this before, we're going to

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Speaker 2: Sometimes anonymous, I need you to like side dm us

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Speaker 3: So, because we have follow ups.

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Speaker 2: anonymous is, like what they've done? Like can we get

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Speaker 1: It's inappropriate that I want to follow up on us

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Speaker 1: being matchmakers to the people at home, to the listeners,

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Speaker 1: there's there's a person in my life that I want

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Speaker 1: called Matchmakers. Let's do the Aaron Carissa addition Carissa, Aaron whatever,

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Speaker 3: Pen to paper.

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Speaker 2: Nosy Rosie reporter, noepet in hand, she's writing down.

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Speaker 1: Apply Now, what was I going to say, how about

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Speaker 2: we can make the decision right now, Missus Stormer, we're

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Speaker 2: going collarbone a few layers. Now, what do you tell

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Speaker 2: So Missus Stormer, I got you check your DM.

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Speaker 2: do a like full on safari wasteil will you come?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? But I you know how I want to do it.

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Speaker 3: I mean there's places like I want to go. I've

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Speaker 3: What you get five five knee high folks in the summer?

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Speaker 3: What are we in?

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Speaker 3: Are we loafering it?

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Speaker 3: What is a shoe? Apparently a kitten? The heel is

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Speaker 2: By the way, there's nothing more classic in life than

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Speaker 2: The wedge is like, hey, I can't handle a heel

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Speaker 2: She didn't even care what size they were. If she

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Speaker 3: I can't do.

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Speaker 3: No, I know they're stupid. I was thinking about that.

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Speaker 1: miss so much Stromer. I'm going to send you what

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Speaker 3: Missus Stromer. Can we stop saying missus Stromer? How many

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Speaker 3: times have I said that? Okay, love you? Bye?

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