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Speaker 1: Live from the Mercedes Benz Interview Lounge. Oh well, Lisa

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Speaker 1: Lampanelli's been in the roof for less than sixty seconds already,

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Speaker 1: My anxiety levels.

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Speaker 2: Are through the roof. You love it, girl.

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Speaker 1: How many years that we've been friends? All of us

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Speaker 1: have been friends for like.

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Speaker 2: Maybe twenty twenty five years. I was on and you

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Speaker 2: were one of the few people who helped me with

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Speaker 2: my career back when I was a nobody. And now

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Speaker 2: that I'm back to being a nobody, I'm back on

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Speaker 2: your a trying to do a podcast on that stick. Stop.

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Speaker 1: Please. You never were and never will be a nobody,

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Speaker 1: not at all, not at all.

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Speaker 2: You, but thank you for the opportunity ell us.

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Speaker 1: Oh please. I remember the first night they said you

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Speaker 1: got to come watch Lisa Lampanelli do her show. I've

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Speaker 1: seen you do this and that, but I never saw

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Speaker 1: your show or your stage show. So we went to

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Speaker 1: this little club in the village and we sat down

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Speaker 1: and you started in and I was like, you guys

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Speaker 1: want to have her on our show in the No,

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Speaker 1: there's no way this. I mean, I was entertained, dude.

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Speaker 2: So just how wild it is?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 2: I was thinking about the old days when I used

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Speaker 2: to come on, I used to be an insult comic.

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Speaker 2: I don't do that no more. I'm nice. So what

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Speaker 2: happened was Elvis would have me on and they would

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Speaker 2: literally people of different ethnicities would call in and have

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Speaker 2: me guess their ethnicity, you know. And that was the

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Speaker 2: day when you could say a lot of stuff. Not

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Speaker 2: that I want to anymore. I'm not a dumb sea.

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Speaker 2: So we save it all for the memory bank and

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Speaker 3: Don't you remember, like if you didn't insult, like, say,

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Speaker 3: you didn't insult Italians that day, right, the Italians would

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Speaker 3: call and say that they were mad at Lisa for

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Speaker 3: not insulting exactly.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm so shocked. Italians complained. No, it was

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Speaker 2: literally like they wanted to be included. And that's why

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Speaker 2: I'm lucky enough that I had the career when I did,

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Speaker 2: because back then people were like, oh, include me, include me,

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Speaker 2: and they all had a sense of humor. So I

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Speaker 2: just like to say, when I retire in twenty eighteen,

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Speaker 2: I canceled myself. Before I could get canceled, I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm done.

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Speaker 1: Well, I know I'll tell you Gandhi, this is before

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Speaker 1: you knew us and we knew you.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people in the Indian community would call

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Speaker 1: and be offended that she would not insult them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know offended.

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Speaker 2: I believe it.

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Speaker 4: I actually I encountered her when I was an intern

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Speaker 4: and she got me immediately and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I like this.

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Speaker 2: Oh very sexual the way you just did that. I

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Speaker 2: enjoy that.

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Speaker 1: Wow. So uh God. The last time we spoke was

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Speaker 1: at the at the wedding, I think that was, and

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Speaker 1: its been four years. We've talked since then, haven't we.

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Speaker 2: Well, we've talked. I've run into you in the studio

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Speaker 2: and you've given me that Oh I'm so famous and

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Speaker 2: you only have a podcast lesa thing.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we get it all this.

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Speaker 2: You're elevated and I'm not true.

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Speaker 1: That's not true.

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Speaker 2: No, we bumped into each other, but I have Oh

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Speaker 2: you know what, we went to like the North Shore

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Speaker 2: Animal League event, say little Donkies and the kiddies.

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Speaker 1: We did Fantastic Rabbit. You were so she's We had

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Speaker 1: Lisa at her own table with and I hand picked

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Speaker 1: the people at your table at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: They had to be well dressed, mostly homocessualand or good

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Speaker 1: That's all I send with.

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Speaker 2: I don't like no ugly.

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Speaker 1: You ran the Big Gay Table at the Big Gay Wedding.

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Speaker 1: You were incredible, Thank you heaven you as their host.

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Speaker 1: You were the official host. I actually said, Lisa, it's

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Speaker 1: more than you sitting down at a table full of strangers,

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Speaker 1: but you had you have people with you as well.

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Speaker 1: You You are the you are the host of the

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Speaker 1: Big Gay Table. Well you.

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Speaker 2: The thing is, I'm very entertaining, as you could tell,

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Speaker 2: I have a terrific personality, and people enjoy me. Shut up, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: I mean, and the Gandhi is looking like she's convinced

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Speaker 2: I'm actually interesting, but the rest of you are like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we don't care about her. I enjoy you have any time.

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Speaker 1: That's how this.

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Speaker 2: Whole silly podcast thing started, Elvis. Remember you had me

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Speaker 2: on hers and then you're like, come podcast with us,

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Speaker 2: and I got tricked into working for you for yes

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Speaker 2: see that it's a case.

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Speaker 1: You pay us in a way. Yeah, we'll we'll invoice you. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So uh, Lisa Lampinelli's podcast is called shrink This. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's incredible and you you haven't missed a beat. You

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Speaker 1: are still still on top of it. You are ahead

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Speaker 1: of the pack when it comes to your your thoughts,

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Speaker 1: your philosophy. Actually, you help people, bellieve or not. This

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Speaker 1: crazy woman helps people.

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Speaker 2: It's true. I am the life coach for the masses

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Speaker 2: with the potty mouth. You know what I'm saying, because

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Speaker 2: I think humor has to be included in who I am,

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Speaker 2: even though I'm a helpful broad. You know, people write letters.

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Speaker 2: They compliment me, and then I read the letter. By

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Speaker 2: the way, if you send me a letter, that's the

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Speaker 2: only way you get on is it first? It's a

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Speaker 2: compliment like you're beautiful, very Thinn, never needed botox, angeless, timeless,

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Speaker 2: great beauty, and the best comic who's ever lived. If

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Speaker 2: they say that, then I help them because I'm a giver,

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Speaker 2: as you know, as you she's a giver.

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Speaker 1: As you know, as I know, as we all know,

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Speaker 1: except not sexually.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you something, Elvis around. I'm sixty three years

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Speaker 2: old and I don't need it. You know. I am

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Speaker 2: you done?

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Speaker 1: Are you done?

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Speaker 2: I'm dead for jaist down since I was fifty years old,

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Speaker 2: and I don't care because you know what, it keeps

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Speaker 2: me from e f and lousy guys. I say to

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Speaker 2: myself Lisa, you're protected, you're safe. You just go home

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Speaker 2: and you have a good time. See how clean I am.

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Speaker 1: For the air, you enjoying your hold on. So, Lisa, lit,

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Speaker 1: let's turn this around. Let's say you had a guest

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Speaker 1: or a call or whatever and they said, you know what, Lisa,

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight years old and I've given up on

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Speaker 1: I don't have to deal with that. What would your

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Speaker 2: I'd probably say get therapy, because I even wear a

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Speaker 2: shirt during my podcast call that says go to therapy,

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Speaker 2: because these people, they got to look within them and

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Speaker 2: what their fricking problem is. If someone's truly asexual, well

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Speaker 2: that's fine, they'll figure it out, you know. But if

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Speaker 2: they're just sad and they've been abused by men like scary,

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Speaker 2: which I get terrible human and it hasn't come out yet,

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Speaker 2: but me too, I would just tell them look in

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Speaker 2: word for the answer, because Elvis, don't you feel that

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Speaker 2: every answer is within us already?

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Speaker 1: Yes, but sometimes we need someone to help us mind

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Speaker 2: And I take us a pickaxe and I go to

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Speaker 2: town the.

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Speaker 1: God.

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Speaker 2: So what have you open up to, Elvis, I'm curious, Well,

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Speaker 2: you're looking at it.

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Speaker 1: I've been up to this. We've all been up to

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Speaker 1: this together. We've been talking lately a lot about how

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Speaker 1: this family that we've created over the years is just

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Speaker 1: really where we want to be in life. This is

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Speaker 2: It is true because acceptance of your failures is a lot.

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Speaker 2: Acceptance is always the answer. You're surrounded by these people

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Speaker 1: A real ticket. No, no, no, that is not the case.

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Speaker 2: And you know, no, No, they're fantastic. You are lucky

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Speaker 2: I moved to Connecticut. I was like, oh, like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know anyone here. So this community is very important

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Speaker 2: and I had to build that. It only took me

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Speaker 2: So community is important.

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Speaker 1: It is it's everything. It's surrounding yourself with the right

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Speaker 1: add some spice here and they're like, for instance, with you,

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Speaker 1: Lisa Lampinelli's sitting in that chair.

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Speaker 2: It's true. Like I would say, you said, I listened

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Speaker 2: to the show, and you have it maybe every other day.

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you you're very generous.

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Speaker 2: I'll send you notes. Don't worry about it. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: No? I love you guys. You know that.

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Speaker 4: So when it comes to your your podcast and the

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Speaker 4: what are the most common threads of things that people

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Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of stuff about obviously, my issues

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Speaker 2: have always been weight and food related, body image related.

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Speaker 2: We get a lot of that stuff. We have a

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Speaker 2: two parter on friendship that we did because friendship is

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Speaker 2: have adult relationships like that. We're gonna do an episode

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Speaker 2: on should you tell your husband or partner everything? Because

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Speaker 2: I firmly believe you should not talk about that. You

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Speaker 2: have tons of secrets and have sex with other people.

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Speaker 2: Advice you have a hot husband like yours, Danielle, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I follow that cat if

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Speaker 2: I could call that on the Instagram. He is cool

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Speaker 2: as hey. Then he's acutie. He's really cute and his

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Speaker 2: looks because some of these old guys. That's the problem, Elvis.

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't care about not dating, because if

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Speaker 2: I went on, say Silver Singles or Raya for old bastards,

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Speaker 2: I would get disgusting old sixty year old men. I

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Speaker 2: don't want that. I don't want that. I want a

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Speaker 2: forty year old or nothing. And I ain't getting a

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Speaker 2: forty year old, So I might as well give up.

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Speaker 3: My mother says, my mother's seventy six, right. So I

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Speaker 3: said to my mom, som you meet anybody like it?

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Speaker 2: The Golden Age.

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Speaker 3: Answer to me is Danny. The guys I want don't

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Speaker 3: want me, and the guys that want me can't walk

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Speaker 3: across the room.

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Speaker 2: You know what, that's truthfully true, because see here's the problem.

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Speaker 2: You know who I blame for this whole thing is

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Speaker 2: Dennis Leary. And I'll tell you why. Two years ago,

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Speaker 2: I was watching this Rescue Me. It's this television show

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Speaker 2: with these hot firemen and I realized, ooh, he's sexy. Ooh,

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Speaker 2: And you know what happened. I realize, Yeah, because he's

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Speaker 2: forty two in the show. Oh, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Nor should you, because it

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Speaker 2: I said he's shifty in the old day.

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Speaker 2: You'll figure it out.

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Speaker 2: It's just the way I'm saying you're getting a divorce

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Speaker 1: It was great most Lisa, listen, talk, Let's talk about

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Speaker 2: Honesty?

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Speaker 2: Okay. When you texted me and said, hey, I liked

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Speaker 2: I was like, wow, that's great because Elvis Dran you know,

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Speaker 2: I said let's do this, and I said, let's do

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Speaker 2: I try to coach people because that's the thing you

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Speaker 2: And you help me with laughter as well. Thank you,

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Speaker 2: Yes, because every shrink is the most effed up person

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Speaker 2: I remember that I was going with my first ex husband.

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Speaker 2: I remember going to like counseling with marriage counseling, and

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Speaker 2: after one half hour, the shrink goes. You know, this

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Speaker 2: is obviously a bad union. You should get a divorce. No, no,

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Speaker 2: he is right, he's right. Half hour. I mean you

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Speaker 2: could assess that because I hated the guy and he goes.

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Speaker 2: But then he goes, but you, and he points to me,

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Speaker 2: he goes, you, I gotta see alone, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: and it's been a therapy ever since. No. I love

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Speaker 2: working on myself. Oh my god, I love it. I

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Speaker 2: mean it's hard because you learn some stuff about yourself

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Speaker 2: you don't like, but then you try to change it

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Speaker 2: and not be as douchey as you were the last week.

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Speaker 1: Well, people are afraid of learning more about themselves and

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Speaker 1: so afraid that they don't even know they don't know

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Speaker 1: themselves yet.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm business sorry, but that's a hard one to dig up.

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Speaker 1: It's a hard thing. It's a difficult thing to dig

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Speaker 1: up things about you that you're afraid to admit to

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Speaker 1: yourself or you're afraid to talk about to anyone else,

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Speaker 1: including yourself.

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Speaker 2: I know, but I guess after like doing it, since

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Speaker 2: I'm aged twenty five or so, I'm like, oh, I mean,

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Speaker 2: forty years of this. It's great cause you're I'm kind

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Speaker 2: of There's nothing I'm going to find out that is

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Speaker 2: going to send me over an edge, Like there's no

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Speaker 2: repressed memories. It's just like, oh yeah, I still got

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Speaker 2: to work on that codependence. I still have to work

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Speaker 2: on my protective instinct to like just jump to all

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Speaker 2: my friends and defense when they don't need it. So

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Speaker 2: like all my stuff I'm kind of aware of, and

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Speaker 2: weekly you get the chance to work on it. So

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Speaker 2: hopefully the podcast will help others do that too. If not,

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Speaker 2: they'll get a chuckle right down.

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Speaker 1: Y'all love you. I've told you this, We've all told

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Speaker 1: you this many times. We love you very much.

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Speaker 2: I love you man. You're honestly, you're like the tops

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Speaker 2: to me. You're the guy who would always have me on.

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Speaker 2: I remember in the old days you never had comedians on.

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Speaker 2: You had me John Pennette.

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Speaker 1: Do we lose.

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Speaker 2: Elvish okay, because it's this connection lost on the screen.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh no, great now he's died.

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Speaker 1: Now my brains, my brain, it's not the zoom.

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Speaker 2: No. But like John Pinnette and me and you would

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Speaker 2: be like, you know, we never have comics, but you

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Speaker 2: guys are different. And I thought that was great.

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Speaker 1: That was all of you and he was but we

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Speaker 1: we adore you. And Gandhi is I U should get

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Speaker 1: back on Gandhi's podcast.

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Speaker 2: But anytime, I like her so much despite her heritage,

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Speaker 2: I would just like today. That's the only racial thing

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Speaker 2: I've said, and it's because we're friends. So if you

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Speaker 2: have a letter of complaint, go after yourself safe space.

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Speaker 2: So can I do a shameless little podcast plug and

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Speaker 2: just say if you do have a question or want

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Speaker 2: advice about any sort of mental health topic or relational thing,

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Speaker 2: send it to shrink this show at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 2: If you don't know how to spell that, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna spell it for you because if

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Speaker 2: you're that stupid, you don't deserve an answer. Is podcast

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Speaker 2: shrink Shrink this show at gmail dot com. Don't worry,

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Speaker 2: someone got it wrong. I'm guessing that was my producer.

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Speaker 2: And guess what, saleya you're fire. I'm not they give

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Speaker 2: me an interurn. This is what happens. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 2: She is like my fabs because she can take a

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Speaker 2: joke with us. She's a good gal. But yeah, send

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Speaker 2: a letter, give me a compliment, and we'll give you advice.

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Speaker 1: Henny, drink this show at gmail dot com. Of course

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Speaker 1: it's Shrink This the new super superstar studded podcast on

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Speaker 1: the elvistrain Catch network. And I'm serious. You really should

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Speaker 1: hop onto a Gandhi's podcast. Gandhi, you should go on hers,

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Speaker 1: and we should all go in each other's.

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Speaker 2: I mean, hey, I promise you, Elvis, if you come

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Speaker 2: on my show, you can do it from any of

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Speaker 2: your twelve houses. Why not wear your fancy shoes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, according to you, I've sold like seven seven houses.

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Speaker 1: She started this interview.

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Speaker 2: No, I just like exaggerating your wealth.

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Speaker 1: It's fun, it's toping. I love you, Lisainelli.

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: I love