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Speaker 1: second date. You know that you had a successful date
Speaker 1: when at the end of the date to drop her
Speaker 1: off and you text her and say, hey, we should
Speaker 1: totally go out again sometime. I had so much fun.
Speaker 1: And then she texts you back and says, hey, please
Speaker 1: never text me again. That's how you know that you
Speaker 1: have had yourself a successful first date, man. And that's
Speaker 1: apparently what happened to Dave, who was on the phone
Speaker 1: with us right now. He wants to do a second
Speaker 1: date update to a girl named Hannah. What happened, Dave?
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I'm really confused by what was
Speaker 1: going on. You said your email said that at the
Speaker 1: end of your date you texted her and said I'd
Speaker 1: love to see you again, and she texted you back
Speaker 1: and said, don't ever text me again. You don't know
Speaker 1: what went wrong on your date. I really don't. I'm
Speaker 1: with a little nerves that could be it, but I
Speaker 1: really don't know what happened. How could you possibly think
Speaker 1: that doing a second date is a good idea? Then
Speaker 1: if she said, never talk to me again, you know,
Speaker 1: just to show her, you know, I was just nerves
Speaker 1: and I'm really a cooler person than she may think
Speaker 1: I am. I think another shot and I might get
Speaker 1: it okay. So you just you just want to basically
Speaker 1: call up and beg her for a second date when
Speaker 1: you know she's not interested. When you put it like that,
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound desperate at all. Why don't you tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about your date? Well, I just
Speaker 1: got out of a long relationship and a friend who
Speaker 1: a friend told me that this girl, Hannah, she just
Speaker 1: got out of a long relationship too. When I checked
Speaker 1: her out on Facebook and she seemed pretty cool, and
Speaker 1: the date got set up and we went out, I
Speaker 1: might have been a little shaky, a little jittery, because
Speaker 1: you know, it's my first date after so long. Did
Speaker 1: you did you talk about how you had just got
Speaker 1: out of the long relationship a lot? It might have
Speaker 1: referenced it once or twice, but I don't think it
Speaker 1: was that much. But you didn't sit across to the
Speaker 1: table from her and go, oh, you remind me so
Speaker 1: much of my ag We used to have so much
Speaker 1: fun together. No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that. Okay,
Speaker 1: we laugh and joke, but that has happened on second
Speaker 1: date updates. That is a real struggle out there. It
Speaker 1: is hard, you know, after being with someone for so
Speaker 1: long and trying to start over. But I made an
Speaker 1: active effort to just be focused on her. How was
Speaker 1: the conversation on the date, It was pretty good. It
Speaker 1: was light. Um, I might have been talking a little
Speaker 1: bit of a higher register. When I get nervous. My
Speaker 1: point always kind of changes and raises, though, and I
Speaker 1: did talk a little jittery. I'm a little nervous right
Speaker 1: now calling into you guys. It's it's a little it's
Speaker 1: a little hard. I'm not I'm not a good public speaker.
Speaker 1: And it takes you give it a speech to this.
Speaker 1: When you get to know new people, you know how
Speaker 1: hard it is to make that connection, and it takes
Speaker 1: a little bit of work and trying to figure out
Speaker 1: how to say things the right way. But she must
Speaker 1: have done something though, to make her angry to give
Speaker 1: you a response like that right after the day. Don't
Speaker 1: you think all I know is at one point I
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom, and when I came back, things
Speaker 1: was totally different. Oh what do you mean? It was different?
Speaker 1: Like before I went to the bathroom. You know, we
Speaker 1: were talking, laughing, she was making jokes and we were
Speaker 1: having a good time. But when I came back from
Speaker 1: the bathroom, she was just cold and distant, like a
Speaker 1: completely different person. Oh yeah, it was like a personality change.
Speaker 1: It was like she was replaced with a robot. Maybe
Speaker 1: she's possessed by a demon. Oh yeah, that should be
Speaker 1: your automatic job to conclusion. She sounds like a crazy
Speaker 1: person to me. Did you spend like an uncomfortable amount
Speaker 1: of time in the bathroom? I don't think so. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like what you're implying. Minutes. Maybe things got weird,
Speaker 1: I don't know. And you know, I was nervous beforehand,
Speaker 1: but when I came back, she was totally silent. I
Speaker 1: got more nervous. I got shaky. I was trying to
Speaker 1: really force the conversation and my boy Scott really high.
Speaker 1: It felt so uncomfortable. How long after you came back
Speaker 1: from the bathroom did the date continue? Five minutes? Maybe
Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, it wasn't that long, Like it was
Speaker 1: awkward for like a minute, and then she told me
Speaker 1: she had to go. Do you know is she over
Speaker 1: her AX? Because you said they were together a long time.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It didn't come up much in the conversation.
Speaker 1: I mean, like if I was on a date and
Speaker 1: like my ex boyfriend texted me, it definitely changed my mood. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you wouldn't say never call me again. You wouldn't
Speaker 1: have Yeah, you might be like, I'm kind of busy,
Speaker 1: we can't go out again, not like, hey, you're an
Speaker 1: a hole ever contact me. I want to know why.
Speaker 1: It just the finality of it, That's just all I want.
Speaker 1: I just want to know why. All right, Well, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and find out
Speaker 1: why she hates you. Okay, we'll get your second date
Speaker 1: update right after your thank you looking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Dave is on the phone with us right now. We're
Speaker 1: about to call a girl named Hannah who he went
Speaker 1: out on a date with. We know that Hannah doesn't
Speaker 1: like Dave very much at all, but what we don't
Speaker 1: know is why she doesn't like him. Apparently the date
Speaker 1: was going fine, and then at some point he got
Speaker 1: up to go to the bathroom, came back and she
Speaker 1: was very cold. The date ended shortly after that. He
Speaker 1: even texted her after the date was like, we should
Speaker 1: totally hang out again, and she texted him back saying,
Speaker 1: don't ever text me again. You know that's so mean
Speaker 1: to laugh. But Dave, I think I figured out why
Speaker 1: she might be mad at you. Really. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: the mistake you made was you didn't invite her to
Speaker 1: the bathroom with you. That's a little trick that not
Speaker 1: a lot of guys know. Chicks dig it when you
Speaker 1: look at them across the table, go hey, I gotta
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom. You want to come with me
Speaker 1: and do stuff? What are we gonna do? Hold it
Speaker 1: for you while you go? Sure, whatever you want, I said,
Speaker 1: I said do stuff. It could be anything. So maybe
Speaker 1: she's upset because you didn't invite her to the bathroom
Speaker 1: with you. I don't think. Okay, I'm a dollar phone
Speaker 1: umber right now, you're ready? I'm ready? Okay, here we go,
Speaker 1: fancy I got a nice ring tone? Yeah? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Hannah please? This is Hannah, Hey, Hannah,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? This is Jewil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the morning. The radio show. Okay, how are
Speaker 1: you today, I'm fine. I'm calling you because we recently
Speaker 1: got an email from someone who listens to our show
Speaker 1: asking if we could get you on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 1: his name is Dave, and you two recently went out
Speaker 1: on a date. I don't quite understand. It's a segment
Speaker 1: we do on our show called the Second Date Update,
Speaker 1: and that's why Dave emailed us. Ah, and Dave told
Speaker 1: us a little bit about your date and how at
Speaker 1: the end of it he texted you saying you should
Speaker 1: hang out again, and you told him you never wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to him again. Essentially, that's correct. Yes, do
Speaker 1: you have a few minutes to talk to us, because
Speaker 1: Dave really wants to know what he did wrong? Can
Speaker 1: you tell us what happened? I kind of thought he
Speaker 1: would have figured it out by now. Oh really, so
Speaker 1: he should know how he screwed up. He really should.
Speaker 1: He told us we talked to him about your date,
Speaker 1: and he said that everything seemed fine and that you
Speaker 1: two were hitting it off. And then he says he
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom and came back and you seemed
Speaker 1: very cold and distant, and then the date ended shortly
Speaker 1: after that. Yes, it did. He kept saying how nervous
Speaker 1: and shy he was. But I got a feeling after
Speaker 1: he went to the bathroom that he's not always that way.
Speaker 1: Who did Was he making like weird noises in there
Speaker 1: or something that would have been even better? But everything
Speaker 1: was going fine. He'd excuse himself, and as I was
Speaker 1: sitting there, I got a stopchat message from him. Okay,
Speaker 1: he was snapchatting you from the bathroom, right. That was
Speaker 1: a little odd in the first place. Okay, but I
Speaker 1: don't think that he meant to snapchat me. What what
Speaker 1: do you mean by that? I think he meant to
Speaker 1: send it to a friend or a group of friends,
Speaker 1: and I accidentally got included. What did he say? Well,
Speaker 1: I understand, I'm sitting at a table in a restaurant
Speaker 1: and I opened this video and as it starts playing,
Speaker 1: there he is with urinals behind him, and he says, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: in the middle of the state, and this guy's about
Speaker 1: to bang his first telling years. Are you serious? Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm serious? And that it didn't stop. He kept going.
Speaker 1: I mean when we talked to him, he sounded like
Speaker 1: the most conservative, nervous dude on the planet. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: maybe one of his faces, but he's definitely got two
Speaker 1: sides to him. What else did he say in his snapchat?
Speaker 1: The next one was something like is she having down there?
Speaker 1: Or report back later because this guy's getting some God wow,
Speaker 1: no wonder you were annoyed when he came back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have snapped him back, been like, hey, don't
Speaker 1: come back to the table. I'm leaving. Honestly, I could
Speaker 1: not believe when I was watching the video and trying
Speaker 1: to remember that this was the sweet guy that was
Speaker 1: sitting across from the table telling me how nervous he was,
Speaker 1: And then I see this video and I literally I
Speaker 1: wanted to get up a run. I can't believe you
Speaker 1: didn't unleash on him when he came back to the table.
Speaker 1: I was so shocked. I didn't even know what to do.
Speaker 1: I looked up and he was walking out. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: stabbed him with your butter. I came back exactly where
Speaker 1: I would have gone with it. I never use snapchat before.
Speaker 1: Isn't that obvious to like make that big of a
Speaker 1: mistake and not realize you're sending it to some It
Speaker 1: is because there's a lot of recent so you can
Speaker 1: accidentally click on the last person that I wonder if
Speaker 1: that's what he did. So who knows how many people
Speaker 1: he sent that too? So you think it was just
Speaker 1: like him bragging to his friends about something that he
Speaker 1: thought was going to happen. I have no idea what
Speaker 1: would possess anybody to send something like that. I don't
Speaker 1: think he has any idea that he sent that snapchat
Speaker 1: to you. There's no way. Maybe he needs to learn
Speaker 1: how to use Snapchat better. Maybe I'd love to find
Speaker 1: out if he knows that he sent that snapchat to you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really care. I don't ever really want to
Speaker 1: talk to him again. Oh that's too bad, because Hannah,
Speaker 1: he's actually on the other line listening right now. Seriously,
Speaker 1: if he hasn't hung up yet, Dave, are you there?
Speaker 1: Oh my Dave, you're an idiot. Seriously, you're out on
Speaker 1: a nice date and you decide to go to the
Speaker 1: bathroom and call your data and stuff like that's your friends. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I wasn't being serious. I'm so sorry, but you weren't
Speaker 1: being serious. Well what did you go think? What happening? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out with this guy again, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna meet your friends who got this video? I don't
Speaker 1: think so, go on. I'm so sorry. I did not
Speaker 1: mean to do that. I'm sure you didn't, but you did.
Speaker 1: You did do it. Yeah, it's it's a tough place
Speaker 1: to come back from when you call your data and
Speaker 1: then talk about it. If you're going to discover it
Speaker 1: for another reasons or if or not, you know, there's
Speaker 1: something he will never find out. You was just me
Speaker 1: being messaging my friends. It was just boys being boys.
Speaker 1: I really didn't mean anything. Vite, oh, boys being boys,
Speaker 1: but you obviously tended to more than just your boys
Speaker 1: because I got it. Yeah, where were you sending it
Speaker 1: to your whole contact list, Dave? I didn't mean to.
Speaker 1: I meant to just send it to a few friend.
Speaker 1: Do you always call your dates at when you're talking
Speaker 1: to your buddies? I mean, that's the real problem here. No, god, No,
Speaker 1: I was only joking. I haven't been out on a
Speaker 1: date in six years. I wonder why. I really don't.
Speaker 1: But I don't think you're at It doesn't matter if
Speaker 1: you're not. If you great, Oh my god, I really
Speaker 1: don't care what you meant or didn't mean, the fact.
Speaker 1: If you set this out there's nothing you could do
Speaker 1: to change that, you know, Hannah, I promised if you
Speaker 1: gave me one chance, I can prove that I'm not
Speaker 1: that guy. I really am not that guy. You are
Speaker 1: that guy? Yeah, I'm really No. I think Dave you
Speaker 1: are that guy because you did it. But I would
Speaker 1: still love to ask Hannah if you will go out
Speaker 1: with Dave on a second date. Hannah, we will pay
Speaker 1: for it. It's not gonna happen, Dave, not now, not ever.
Speaker 1: This isn't sexy. I'm over it. Please just just just
Speaker 1: what seriously? All right? Well, Hannah, thank you for your time,
Speaker 1: and I appreciate you staying on with us and telling
Speaker 1: us what happened. You're welcome. Also, I would like to
Speaker 1: answer his question, though, Hannah, And which question is that?
Speaker 1: Then things go? I'm just fine broken jewel in the morning,
Speaker 1: just got a text message in at seven eight five
Speaker 1: nine two says my friend accidentally snapchatted his junk to
Speaker 1: his whole contact list shut on when he meant to
Speaker 1: send it to his girlfriend. Oh my god, that's so amazing.
Speaker 1: How much would you pay to accessdently get one of those?
Speaker 1: Said to you? Amazing? If I also, I opened up
Speaker 1: a friend snapchat and it was that they would never
Speaker 1: hear the end of it. Why did they text that end? Well,
Speaker 1: because of case you missed the second date update. Dave
Speaker 1: wanted us to call this girl named Hannah because she
Speaker 1: wasn't calling him back after their date. Actually, she was
Speaker 1: pretty blunt that you never wanted to see him again.
Speaker 1: Dave went to the bathroom during their date sent a
Speaker 1: snapchat to his friends saying like, Oh, I'm totally gonna
Speaker 1: nail her right after, you know, things like that, and
Speaker 1: he accidentally sent it to Hannah, who was sitting at
Speaker 1: the table, got the text that he or the snapchat
Speaker 1: that he had sent from the bathroom, and decided that
Speaker 1: she didn't want to go out with him again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because he was like an undercover douchebag, like he was
Speaker 1: playing nice guy the whole time and then in reality,
Speaker 1: oh you're that guy. No, no, no, I think he
Speaker 1: is a nice guy and he was excited just trying
Speaker 1: to show off to his friends and it made him
Speaker 1: look like a bad guy. Yeah, one guy who always
Speaker 1: refers to his dates as salutes. The only thing that
Speaker 1: we did learn is make sure you check your snapchats
Speaker 1: or text messages a couple of times before you send it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: only send that type of stuff to the people you
Speaker 1: want to send it to and not the person that
Speaker 1: you're out on a date with because it won't end
Speaker 1: well for you, all right. Remember if you want a
Speaker 1: second day up, they don't have to do his email
Speaker 1: the show Brooke and Jubileet movie to five com. You
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.