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Speaker 1: We all know the answer for how to handle a

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Speaker 1: really bad breakup?

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Speaker 2: Girls, n.

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Speaker 3: How you do it?

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Speaker 1: Just one evening out with strong, poor drinks and weak

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Speaker 1: minded men, and you will be forgetting all of your problems.

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Speaker 1: But what do you do if the person who's dumping

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Speaker 1: you is way more important than any dumb boyfriend ever

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Speaker 1: could be?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, One of our listeners says, that's exactly the position

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Speaker 1: that she's in after she got one text from somebody

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Speaker 1: she thought was a really close friend, and now she's wondering,

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Speaker 1: how do I even respond to it?

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Speaker 2: Was?

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Speaker 1: How you do brook? No, Remember, it's not that kind

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Speaker 1: of breakup, but it may still help, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna hear it in a brand new Textual Healing

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Speaker 1: coming up next, Text You Will Heal, then Textual Welcome

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Speaker 1: to Textual Healing out Right, the segment where we take

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Speaker 1: your so called complicated life problems and instantly fix them

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Speaker 1: for you with one simple text message. Yes, it is

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Speaker 1: that easy, because we help you craft the perfect message

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Speaker 1: to make all of your issues and problems melt away

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Speaker 1: like a tasty handful of off brand xanax. That's what

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Speaker 1: we do for you.

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Speaker 3: It feels too good.

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Speaker 2: To be true, Jeff, like you've forgotten all the other

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Speaker 2: textual healings that we've done.

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Speaker 1: But maybe it's the handful of xanax that I just tool.

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Speaker 1: But we do have a woman on the phone right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anything about her, not even her name.

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Speaker 1: I just have a note here saying this is a

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Speaker 1: last second, emergency, desperate situation that she's in and she

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Speaker 1: would really like our help with it. So hello, listener,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Who are you hi?

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Speaker 4: This is janew and I would really appreciate some help.

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Speaker 4: I got a really upsetting text and it sort of

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Speaker 4: feels like I've lost my best friends. Not twice, but

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Speaker 4: it feels that way to me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, Brook, First of all, you need

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Speaker 1: to calm down a little bit, because she said it's

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Speaker 1: like her best friend, your actual best friend.

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Speaker 3: I have like twelve best friends. Okay, they are all

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Speaker 3: equally important.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there's no time to brag about that.

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Speaker 2: Stuff's best friends are integral to a happy life.

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Speaker 1: But she said, is this an actual friend of yours

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Speaker 1: or it's just friend adjacent? What is going on?

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Speaker 4: It is a friend, but it's a professional relationship as well. Basically,

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Speaker 4: I got fired by my hair stylist.

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Speaker 3: Is that the text?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask? Is that the text that you just got?

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Speaker 4: Yes? I got a last night and she basically told

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Speaker 4: me she doesn't want me as a client anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, oh my god, that's my dream.

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Speaker 4: Air.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she told me I can't come.

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Speaker 1: What did you do with Janelle?

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Speaker 4: I did nothing, and I don't understand because I always

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Speaker 4: hip her really well, I'm sweet to her. We get along.

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Speaker 4: I've been seeing her for about six years.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait wait, wait though, did you bad mouth or

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Speaker 2: behind were back somewhere because I'm sorry, hairstylists or the

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Speaker 2: queen of gossip they know everything that's happening all time.

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Speaker 4: This was out of nowhere. Well, we didn't even have

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Speaker 4: an appointment scheduled or anything, but said it said. Let

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Speaker 4: me read it to you verbatim. Hi, I've really enjoyed

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Speaker 1: Did you put an emoji like a tear eye emoji

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Speaker 4: No, not like smiley and wouldn't enough.

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Speaker 3: The girl hair flipping?

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Speaker 1: Hey, this sounds no.

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Speaker 4: Hair emoji nothing, So I have not responded to get

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Speaker 5: I was like, what sounds like you're feeling upset and

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Speaker 1: Even more like she sounds devastated to me.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's really hurt my feelings because again,

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Speaker 1: You know again, well, I pay my friends too, So

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Speaker 1: I get that feeling.

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Speaker 3: No my hairs.

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Speaker 2: I've been with my hairstylist for over a decade and

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Speaker 3: Mine, competition friend.

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Speaker 2: No, if I got that text message, I would also

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Speaker 2: that's not it. It's like it is such an intimate

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Speaker 4: Is like you share are really confided in her, Okay,

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Speaker 4: And I'm wondering if I should be taking this personally.

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Speaker 1: Oh you sul well, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Hairstylists don't do anything that's not personal, and I've.

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Speaker 5: Never heard of them losing a client, Like it takes

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Speaker 1: So for her to say I don't want your business,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty big. Yeah, there's got to be some sort

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Speaker 1: and that's what you're going for here, Janelle. You want

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Speaker 4: I want to respond in like the right way without

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Speaker 4: seeming like I'm flying off the handle, like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: How dare you what I can That's going to be

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Speaker 4: Okay, I want to like craft this in the right

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Speaker 1: Okay, we we can tell that you're very clearly emotional

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Speaker 1: about this, but we're going to do our job and

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Speaker 1: get you some textual healing right now. Help you have

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Speaker 1: the right message to her to figure out politely how

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Speaker 1: to ask the reason why she's letting you go from

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't have an idea because I personally don't ever

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Speaker 5: I avoid that a relationship with women in there her

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Speaker 1: Is even deeper. I can understand. I would refer to

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Speaker 2: I think you should I think you should lead with

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Speaker 2: it wrong for some reason. I don't know how you

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Speaker 2: can misconstrue her message. But what if you just said,

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Speaker 3: Were they? You know, like haircut?

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Speaker 4: Okay, right, I say, like, I promise I didn't use

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly, Yeah, girl, I swear I didn't cut my

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Speaker 1: That's an option. Or you could also play the pity

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Speaker 1: three of my dogs run away this week. Also, my

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Speaker 1: dad says he wants to redivorce my mom.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: That's also kind of funny work on a hairstylist.

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Speaker 1: In that chair, that's not bad.

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Speaker 2: What if you lean into what Alexis is saying with

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Speaker 2: I did it last time?

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Speaker 4: Talking about it? Oh, I like that just to intrigue her.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just wonder if there's something personal going

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Speaker 3: Be able to tell on her interest level. If she

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. So you're worried there's going to be

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Speaker 1: something personal about you. What does the room think, Like,

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Speaker 1: what are the percentage chances that this has something to

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Speaker 1: do with something Janelle did? Or what's the percentage it's

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Speaker 1: something not related to her going on in just the

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Speaker 3: Janelle ninety nine percent. I mean, honestly, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't like to hear that, but I hate to say it.

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Speaker 4: I think you guys that the way she phrased it

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Speaker 4: in her text is I don't think I'd like to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Is anyone else optimistic? There's a one percent

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Speaker 5: chance he's intimidated by her, Like, oh my god, that

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Speaker 5: coat you were last time was so much better dressed

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Speaker 1: Do you think the one percent chance is optimism?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm optimistic.

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Speaker 1: It's not your fault, and it's something to do with

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Speaker 3: Stylists are always the prettiest girls. Yeah, they'timate, they're not intimidating.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I appreciate your optimism, Jose, Sorry for it.

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Speaker 1: So we're obviously running out of time here. We need

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Speaker 1: write to your hairstylist, Janelle.

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Speaker 4: I think I'm going to go with the little gossip

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Speaker 4: humor thing. At least that's an attempt to diffuse the

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Speaker 3: And remind her that you guys are friends.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's a reminder that you're more connected than

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Speaker 4: Perfect.

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Speaker 1: So we are officially out of time now, So Janelle,

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Speaker 1: to her on your own about I have gossip for you.

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Speaker 1: You have to hear it, and then we'll come back

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Speaker 1: and hopefully she's responded to it and you've reeled her

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Speaker 1: hairstylist who fired you coming out right after this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're in the middle of textual healing with our listener Janelle,

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Speaker 1: who had a professional and what she thought was a

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Speaker 1: The issue is last night she received a random text

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Speaker 1: that said, I'm sorry, but you're fired. You cannot be

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Speaker 1: my client anymore, Like we're not even her client. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we all winced when He.

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Speaker 3: Said this like she was just canceling an appointment.

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Speaker 1: She is canceling, yes, yes, and there was nothing else

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Speaker 1: with it. No emoji's attached, no explanation for why. So

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Speaker 1: Janelle turned around and urgently sent a message to our producer,

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Speaker 1: and here we are trying to help her get an

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm going to win. That's what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I'm fully confident.

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Speaker 1: Nobody we never said that was a possibility in the

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Speaker 1: first part, but I think Jose's were lentless. Optimism seeped

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Speaker 1: through my clothing down into my heart.

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Speaker 4: It did.

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Speaker 1: It made me believe. So can I make her too happy?

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Speaker 5: And she's like, I can't focus on anything else other

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Speaker 1: I'm losing the optimism. Okay, so we don't even know

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Speaker 1: what text message she actually sent. Janelle, what did you

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Speaker 1: end up writing to your stylist after she said she's

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Speaker 4: Here's what I ended up sending her and she is

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Speaker 3: Okay, well that means it's going to be a long one.

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Speaker 3: What did you say?

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Speaker 4: I said, are you sure? Because I have something juicy

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Speaker 3: That I know. Everybody wants to know the tea, don't they.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can always come up with some tea about

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Speaker 3: I do you respond to that in a negative way?

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Speaker 2: You're being fun and playful, even though that could be

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Speaker 4: She said, Okay, okay, something has come true. Okay, waiting

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Speaker 4: hear this?

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Speaker 3: What what?

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Speaker 4: That's exactly the problem. Your mother in law is my client.

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Speaker 4: Now shut of you betrayal if she choose her. I

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Speaker 3: Do you have a backstabbing mother in law? Is this

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Like the mother in law came in and started gossiping

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Speaker 4: I told my mother in law that I went to

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Speaker 1: Particulars understand clearly there's a tension going on between the

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Speaker 1: and like why why would you choose her? No?

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Speaker 3: And you need to say what did my mother in

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Can we assume that that was yeah, clearly in law talking.

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Speaker 1: I mean, for any life is you just assumed the

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna write, why would you choose her over me?

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Speaker 4: I'm typing now, why would you choose her over me?

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Speaker 4: I've been your client for six years?

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Speaker 1: Yes, angry face emoji? No, not angry yes, a face

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: I want to know what kind of bs at mother

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, no emoji, just curse words.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I sent it.

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Speaker 4: I've done it, and she's writing back already, so she's

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Speaker 4: definitely on it, and we're going to see what she says.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, I am dying.

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Speaker 4: I can't. Oh, this is freaking me out. Okay, I

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Speaker 4: came through. She right, Oh my god, I'm sorry. This

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Speaker 1: What your mother in law gossiped to your stylist and

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Speaker 3: Off, You've got to throw the mom in law under

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about values because that woman, okay, and then

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when they go low, you go lower.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 1: Let's undercut mom in law.

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Speaker 4: I'm just her. What values is she saying don't align

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Speaker 4: with yours? I would like to and I'm going to

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Speaker 4: add on whatever she said to you it's a lie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, and then say it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: No, you let her know that you literally can't with

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Speaker 2: a mother in law is getting you kicked out of

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Speaker 4: I sent it. I sent it, oh man in the

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Speaker 2: And we got to do a whole other segment of

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Speaker 3: Next book is releasing her.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited for that segment.

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Speaker 3: I hate that stuff.

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Speaker 4: This is so weird. I did not even know my

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Speaker 4: mother in law went there. This is like no good deeds,

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Speaker 4: Like I recommended this salon to my mother in law.

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Speaker 4: This is what I get.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you better be careful. You're gonna lose your dentist.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna lose your dermatologists.

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Speaker 4: I'm definitely not recommending anywhere. I wouldn't recommend a grocery

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Speaker 1: I mean, oh my god, this is.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. She texted back.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, I'm scared.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait to hear this. She says, I don't want

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Speaker 1: Your mother, your mother in law said that about you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, apparently she told my stylence us. Who knows that's

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Speaker 4: how champ already. I mean, this is not news.

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Speaker 1: You don't believe in. Tipping above fifteen percent is.

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Speaker 4: Pretty standard, and percent is like really like really.

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Speaker 1: Not defending this, this is weird.

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Speaker 3: I'm just processing, Oh really, aren't you no? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Tips?

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Speaker 1: Okay, five percent isn't it?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, listen, this.

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Speaker 4: Is what.

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Speaker 3: This is what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: If this is important to you, just be like, that

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Speaker 4: But it is true. I never more than fifteen percent,

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Speaker 5: And she's known that.

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Speaker 2: She's known that.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she's been waiting to find an excuse to get

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Speaker 3: rid of you that. I don't know that this is

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Speaker 2: What probably happened is that your hairstylist was complaining to

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Speaker 3: You don't tip. A mother in law said, well, that's

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Speaker 4: Now do I fire my mother in law?

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Speaker 1: You can't.

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Speaker 3: You got a we got a tip?

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Speaker 4: Moore?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, haircut And I'm sorry too. We are out of

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was the mother in law's fault.

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Speaker 1: Down your pro mom in law.

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Speaker 2: I maybe went a little too hard too soon, Brook

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Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Brook, what happened there at the end to you know,

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Speaker 1: you were one hundred percent on our listener's side the

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Speaker 1: whole way, rallying the troops to go scorched earth on

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Speaker 2: You know, I just sometimes I may make choices before.

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Speaker 3: I have all the information.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not great.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's okay to say I was wrong.

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Speaker 1: Sure, that's a rare thing for us to hear.

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Speaker 3: Say all the time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you can't be this opinionated and not also

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Speaker 3: You can't do both.

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Speaker 5: I will say, Yeah, I never reached my ears breath

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Speaker 3: Probably no I talked to Alexis about okay.

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Speaker 1: I will say. The weirdest part was after the break,

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Speaker 1: you went and bragged to our producer about how much

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Speaker 1: you tipped to your stylist. Personally you did. They went

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Speaker 1: in there and you said, it's all under the table,

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Speaker 1: so quote the government can't get our money. I heard it.

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Speaker 1: I was in the mortgage every month as me.

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Speaker 3: How much I tip. But I told him.

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Speaker 1: You did have a smug look on your face though

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Speaker 1: when you gave him the answer.

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Speaker 4: But that's okay.

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Speaker 1: You could tip as much or as little as you want.

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Speaker 1: We're not here to judge you. Your hair is on salary, yeah, salary,

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Speaker 1: but we can't always try to help you with the

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Speaker 1: issues going on in your life. Reach out to the show,

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Speaker 1: find us on email at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and subscribe to our podcast ast Brook and Jeffrey