Speaker 1: We do have a simple story we received via Instagram.
Speaker 1: This is from a guy and we need your He
Speaker 1: needs your advice basically, so it says, what's up A
Speaker 1: J and Tam Bam. I need your advice on my
Speaker 1: current situation. I have a girl, but I just started
Speaker 1: back dealing with my baby mom on the side. Our
Speaker 1: son is three. I've been with my girlfriend for about
Speaker 1: two years, and honestly I love her and want to
Speaker 1: marry her. My child's mom and I have always been
Speaker 1: really good friends. The relationship just didn't work out. I
Speaker 1: can't even begin to tell you how we started back fucking,
Speaker 1: but it happened. She knows the ins and out of
Speaker 1: my current relationship because again, we were friends. The other day,
Speaker 1: my BM asked me for five dollars on top of
Speaker 1: what I already pay in child support, and I told
Speaker 1: her I didn't have it, but I did tell i'd
Speaker 1: have to see. Last night, I get a text from
Speaker 1: her saying she wants to have a sit down with
Speaker 1: me and my girl to discuss what's going on. I
Speaker 1: never gave her the money, and now I feel like
Speaker 1: she's on some bullshit. I really want to tell my
Speaker 1: girl at this point because I can't risk her finding
Speaker 1: out from anyone else. What y'all think. I should definitely
Speaker 1: tell your girl off the rep got to Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's gonna. It's gonna blow up in your face regarding
Speaker 1: if you don't, So you better go ahead and save
Speaker 1: yourself and tell your girl. Go ahead, tell them the
Speaker 1: situation because I feel like she's trying to store them anyway. Liken,
Speaker 1: you tell me, you gotta see you want to have
Speaker 1: a sit down when you don't want to get the money.
Speaker 1: Eight bro, I already seen that, So will go ahead
Speaker 1: and tell her because if you don't, she is that baby.
Speaker 1: I'm about to tell her regardless she's just waiting on
Speaker 1: the right time, for the right moment or the right money,
Speaker 1: not sick or something not being't gonna. It's about to
Speaker 1: tell it all. If there is no text thread that
Speaker 1: exists between you and the baby mama talking about Lincoln
Speaker 1: and talking about how good the dick us deny deny brother,
Speaker 1: she ain't got mad because we're happy she got to
Speaker 1: break us up. Don't you see what she's doing. You're
Speaker 1: a nigga, tell me you're a girl that quick. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to tell the brothers to communicate what it's good
Speaker 1: and be honest so they can get that shot out
Speaker 1: of the way. And look at me, nigga, dude, though
Speaker 1: you know, like you the bot, the reason I'm another voice,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get saving from from being hurt in
Speaker 1: the long run. In the long run, your baby Mom's
Speaker 1: gonna tell her regardless of something happen. You might not
Speaker 1: think this is a good incident, but it's the perfect
Speaker 1: red flag incident for you to realize, Hey, all right,
Speaker 1: this is something gonna happen. Mhm. He definitely needs to
Speaker 1: just tell her and shook on her. It's just hard.
Speaker 1: It's just her so bad to tell it. You dog
Speaker 1: it just right. When you like two people at the
Speaker 1: same time and you really gen literally like two people
Speaker 1: and you can't you can't control your feelings. She she
Speaker 1: just got that baby mama, Cuchi. That's that sounds like
Speaker 1: what's going on over there. I don't know if he
Speaker 1: liked her married, And that's probably why your baby mama
Speaker 1: playing with you now, because now you're sucking herself. Of course,
Speaker 1: like you got a child with this person. It's not
Speaker 1: like you could just turn these feelings off and act
Speaker 1: like you don't sunk with him. Real, it's now y'all
Speaker 1: back having sex. You got that emotional connection. I doubt
Speaker 1: they're using the conden right and now, Like because you
Speaker 1: you know, pillow talk probably with your baby mama even
Speaker 1: before they started working, Like maybe y'all had conversations and
Speaker 1: she knows your relationship because he did say that. She
Speaker 1: probably also knows that you want to marry her one day.
Speaker 1: How how would that make the baby mama feel? I
Speaker 1: want to know, Like, at what point if he told
Speaker 1: her he wanted to marry to married a girlfriend? When
Speaker 1: did they started sucking? Because if they started sucking shortly there,
Speaker 1: I just wanted that power move exactly. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: see if you can steal a guy just because you
Speaker 1: see he moving on to some ship that guys do
Speaker 1: that too. I sat you first, say what guys do that?
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna if I see you with another man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you be. I want you to be happy. Wow.
Speaker 1: Know what happened was this chicken talking? The chick who
Speaker 1: I was talking to? She came and I'll tell me.
Speaker 1: I went to Darren and Burpie's uh coming show. She
Speaker 1: came and I'm standing riverside Darren, and she came and
Speaker 1: spoke to Darren and Burpie and then walked off like
Speaker 1: midway through this chicken balls, I was like a text.
Speaker 1: I was like, what damn like, you're just gonna speak
Speaker 1: to the Burton And there you see me righting with
Speaker 1: stop oh and this is this and this, I'm like,
Speaker 1: get the fuk out of here. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It was dark and there you know you've seen me
Speaker 1: right you was you was sucking hurt and she did that. No, no,
Speaker 1: I want we used to fun. But oh she was
Speaker 1: with a guy at that their joint. Maybe she told
Speaker 1: her maybe she was honest about her past relationships or
Speaker 1: who she was dealing to it and your name came
Speaker 1: up and he was like, but not I ever speak
Speaker 1: to that. Look, I don't got any trouble she was
Speaker 1: talking to. You're gonna speak to those two guys, don't speak.
Speaker 1: Did she give them hugs or just hugs? Like she
Speaker 1: couldn't hug you, She couldn't give you a You could
Speaker 1: get me the piece, SI, it's COVID give you a
Speaker 1: little elbow the head U. I don't understand that. I
Speaker 1: don't stand that. That linkage all day every day. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's weird. Maybe she know the nigga she went and
Speaker 1: maybe she know he retarded, so maybe she knew like
Speaker 1: she couldn't even play with him like that, Like maybe
Speaker 1: he knew at y'all fucking boy and she can't even
Speaker 1: acknowledge you in that way to appease him. That's that
Speaker 1: could be what it is. Or maybe y'all ended foul
Speaker 1: and she don't funk with you no more. So she
Speaker 1: made did you go first? Yeah, because you say you
Speaker 1: cut people off with no explanation. She was doing too much.
Speaker 1: She's doing too much? Who did that mean? She was
Speaker 1: just being extra extra with everything. She was a security
Speaker 1: guard at the prison. She used to pull up to
Speaker 1: your house with a flash, like, nigga, I know you
Speaker 1: went near when she was bringing in Contrabad. What you
Speaker 1: mean you certain people might say some stuff that throw
Speaker 1: red flags at you, and you'd be like, man, this
Speaker 1: is mother might be a little weird to throw it
Speaker 1: off or something like that. Then she might do something
Speaker 1: that add on to that red flag. You just see,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It was kind of like that.
Speaker 1: It was kind of like that. I think anybody who
Speaker 1: want to work in the prison is a weirdo, Like,
Speaker 1: why you want to be in jail with these niggas
Speaker 1: all day? Mamma works in the jail. I do not listen,
Speaker 1: because you'll be a jail too. Motherfucker's work like twelve
Speaker 1: hour ships, Like you're fucking jail too, laughing the heart
Speaker 1: being jail all day with these fucking random asks niggas Like, no,
Speaker 1: I can't my mother help them? Your mama, I don't
Speaker 1: know she works in jail. Well, she doesn't work in
Speaker 1: one jail. She goes to different jails and helps them
Speaker 1: with drug abuse. Okay, that's different though I'm talking about CEOs.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like people trying to help, like
Speaker 1: CEOs ain't trying to know, like they're in their power
Speaker 1: tripping off the inmates and ship like that, like y'all
Speaker 1: want to control ship and y'all regular life and y'all
Speaker 1: getting off when you're grown as fucking men and women
Speaker 1: in prison and y'all in jail with them because you
Speaker 1: don't have no weapon. Y'all just in jail with them
Speaker 1: until you're getting paid to be there. No, that's the difference.
Speaker 1: How much money these motherfucker's ain't getting paying no bunch
Speaker 1: of money to be up in the prison with the niggers.
Speaker 1: That's why they're be in there doing I llegal ship
Speaker 1: because they salary in enough, kind of like teachers for