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Speaker 1: We do have a simple story we received via Instagram.

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Speaker 1: This is from a guy and we need your He

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Speaker 1: needs your advice basically, so it says, what's up A

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Speaker 1: J and Tam Bam. I need your advice on my

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Speaker 1: current situation. I have a girl, but I just started

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Speaker 1: back dealing with my baby mom on the side. Our

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Speaker 1: son is three. I've been with my girlfriend for about

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Speaker 1: two years, and honestly I love her and want to

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Speaker 1: marry her. My child's mom and I have always been

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Speaker 1: really good friends. The relationship just didn't work out. I

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Speaker 1: can't even begin to tell you how we started back fucking,

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Speaker 1: but it happened. She knows the ins and out of

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Speaker 1: my current relationship because again, we were friends. The other day,

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Speaker 1: my BM asked me for five dollars on top of

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Speaker 1: what I already pay in child support, and I told

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Speaker 1: her I didn't have it, but I did tell i'd

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Speaker 1: have to see. Last night, I get a text from

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Speaker 1: her saying she wants to have a sit down with

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Speaker 1: me and my girl to discuss what's going on. I

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Speaker 1: never gave her the money, and now I feel like

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Speaker 1: she's on some bullshit. I really want to tell my

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Speaker 1: girl at this point because I can't risk her finding

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Speaker 1: out from anyone else. What y'all think. I should definitely

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Speaker 1: tell your girl off the rep got to Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: it's gonna. It's gonna blow up in your face regarding

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Speaker 1: if you don't, So you better go ahead and save

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Speaker 1: yourself and tell your girl. Go ahead, tell them the

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Speaker 1: situation because I feel like she's trying to store them anyway. Liken,

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Speaker 1: you tell me, you gotta see you want to have

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Speaker 1: a sit down when you don't want to get the money.

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Speaker 1: Eight bro, I already seen that, So will go ahead

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Speaker 1: and tell her because if you don't, she is that baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to tell her regardless she's just waiting on

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Speaker 1: the right time, for the right moment or the right money,

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Speaker 1: not sick or something not being't gonna. It's about to

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Speaker 1: tell it all. If there is no text thread that

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Speaker 1: exists between you and the baby mama talking about Lincoln

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Speaker 1: and talking about how good the dick us deny deny brother,

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Speaker 1: she ain't got mad because we're happy she got to

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Speaker 1: break us up. Don't you see what she's doing. You're

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Speaker 1: a nigga, tell me you're a girl that quick. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to tell the brothers to communicate what it's good

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Speaker 1: and be honest so they can get that shot out

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Speaker 1: of the way. And look at me, nigga, dude, though

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Speaker 1: you know, like you the bot, the reason I'm another voice,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get saving from from being hurt in

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Speaker 1: the long run. In the long run, your baby Mom's

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Speaker 1: gonna tell her regardless of something happen. You might not

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Speaker 1: think this is a good incident, but it's the perfect

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Speaker 1: red flag incident for you to realize, Hey, all right,

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Speaker 1: this is something gonna happen. Mhm. He definitely needs to

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Speaker 1: just tell her and shook on her. It's just hard.

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Speaker 1: It's just her so bad to tell it. You dog

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Speaker 1: it just right. When you like two people at the

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Speaker 1: same time and you really gen literally like two people

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Speaker 1: and you can't you can't control your feelings. She she

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Speaker 1: just got that baby mama, Cuchi. That's that sounds like

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Speaker 1: what's going on over there. I don't know if he

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Speaker 1: liked her married, And that's probably why your baby mama

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Speaker 1: playing with you now, because now you're sucking herself. Of course,

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Speaker 1: like you got a child with this person. It's not

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Speaker 1: like you could just turn these feelings off and act

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Speaker 1: like you don't sunk with him. Real, it's now y'all

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Speaker 1: back having sex. You got that emotional connection. I doubt

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Speaker 1: they're using the conden right and now, Like because you

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Speaker 1: you know, pillow talk probably with your baby mama even

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Speaker 1: before they started working, Like maybe y'all had conversations and

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Speaker 1: she knows your relationship because he did say that. She

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Speaker 1: probably also knows that you want to marry her one day.

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Speaker 1: How how would that make the baby mama feel? I

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Speaker 1: want to know, Like, at what point if he told

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Speaker 1: her he wanted to marry to married a girlfriend? When

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Speaker 1: did they started sucking? Because if they started sucking shortly there,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted that power move exactly. I'll be like,

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Speaker 1: see if you can steal a guy just because you

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Speaker 1: see he moving on to some ship that guys do

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Speaker 1: that too. I sat you first, say what guys do that?

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna if I see you with another man,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you be. I want you to be happy. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Know what happened was this chicken talking? The chick who

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Speaker 1: I was talking to? She came and I'll tell me.

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Speaker 1: I went to Darren and Burpie's uh coming show. She

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Speaker 1: came and I'm standing riverside Darren, and she came and

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Speaker 1: spoke to Darren and Burpie and then walked off like

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Speaker 1: midway through this chicken balls, I was like a text.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what damn like, you're just gonna speak

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Speaker 1: to the Burton And there you see me righting with

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Speaker 1: stop oh and this is this and this, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: get the fuk out of here. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It was dark and there you know you've seen me

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Speaker 1: right you was you was sucking hurt and she did that. No, no,

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Speaker 1: I want we used to fun. But oh she was

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Speaker 1: with a guy at that their joint. Maybe she told

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Speaker 1: her maybe she was honest about her past relationships or

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Speaker 1: who she was dealing to it and your name came

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Speaker 1: up and he was like, but not I ever speak

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Speaker 1: to that. Look, I don't got any trouble she was

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Speaker 1: talking to. You're gonna speak to those two guys, don't speak.

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Speaker 1: Did she give them hugs or just hugs? Like she

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Speaker 1: couldn't hug you, She couldn't give you a You could

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Speaker 1: get me the piece, SI, it's COVID give you a

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Speaker 1: little elbow the head U. I don't understand that. I

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Speaker 1: don't stand that. That linkage all day every day. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's weird. Maybe she know the nigga she went and

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Speaker 1: maybe she know he retarded, so maybe she knew like

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Speaker 1: she couldn't even play with him like that, Like maybe

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Speaker 1: he knew at y'all fucking boy and she can't even

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Speaker 1: acknowledge you in that way to appease him. That's that

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Speaker 1: could be what it is. Or maybe y'all ended foul

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Speaker 1: and she don't funk with you no more. So she

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Speaker 1: made did you go first? Yeah, because you say you

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Speaker 1: cut people off with no explanation. She was doing too much.

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Speaker 1: She's doing too much? Who did that mean? She was

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Speaker 1: just being extra extra with everything. She was a security

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Speaker 1: guard at the prison. She used to pull up to

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Speaker 1: your house with a flash, like, nigga, I know you

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Speaker 1: went near when she was bringing in Contrabad. What you

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Speaker 1: mean you certain people might say some stuff that throw

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Speaker 1: red flags at you, and you'd be like, man, this

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Speaker 1: is mother might be a little weird to throw it

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Speaker 1: off or something like that. Then she might do something

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Speaker 1: that add on to that red flag. You just see,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. It was kind of like that.

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Speaker 1: It was kind of like that. I think anybody who

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Speaker 1: want to work in the prison is a weirdo, Like,

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Speaker 1: why you want to be in jail with these niggas

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Speaker 1: all day? Mamma works in the jail. I do not listen,

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Speaker 1: because you'll be a jail too. Motherfucker's work like twelve

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Speaker 1: hour ships, Like you're fucking jail too, laughing the heart

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Speaker 1: being jail all day with these fucking random asks niggas Like, no,

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Speaker 1: I can't my mother help them? Your mama, I don't

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Speaker 1: know she works in jail. Well, she doesn't work in

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Speaker 1: one jail. She goes to different jails and helps them

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Speaker 1: with drug abuse. Okay, that's different though I'm talking about CEOs.

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking about like people trying to help, like

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Speaker 1: CEOs ain't trying to know, like they're in their power

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Speaker 1: tripping off the inmates and ship like that, like y'all

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Speaker 1: want to control ship and y'all regular life and y'all

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Speaker 1: getting off when you're grown as fucking men and women

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Speaker 1: in prison and y'all in jail with them because you

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Speaker 1: don't have no weapon. Y'all just in jail with them

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Speaker 1: until you're getting paid to be there. No, that's the difference.

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Speaker 1: How much money these motherfucker's ain't getting paying no bunch

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Speaker 1: of money to be up in the prison with the niggers.

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Speaker 1: That's why they're be in there doing I llegal ship

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Speaker 1: because they salary in enough, kind of like teachers for