Speaker 1: Looking jubiles. Second, d It's always going to pique my
Speaker 1: interest in an email when you say something like we
Speaker 1: shared an awkward kiss at the end. Oh gosh, I
Speaker 1: don't want to know exactly what that means. We'll get
Speaker 1: to that in a second. Chris is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us. He emailed us about a girl. Name is
Speaker 1: it Gianna or Gianna? Gianna? Gianna? Okay? Tell us about Gianna?
Speaker 1: How did you meet her? We met her a mutual friend.
Speaker 1: I emailed her and asked her if I could pick
Speaker 1: her up or if she want to meet me somewhere okay,
Speaker 1: And then she said I could pick her up and
Speaker 1: we could go to dinner. Okay. And so when you
Speaker 1: originally met her, what made you want to ask her
Speaker 1: out on a date? She had like this really awesome
Speaker 1: vibe about her, Like she was really positive, like a
Speaker 1: positive personality and really outgoing. And I also got the
Speaker 1: sense that she was a really stable girl, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like came from a good family. I
Speaker 1: thought you meant like she had good balance. That's important too.
Speaker 1: So you felt like she kind of had her stuff together?
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Okay, So how is the date? Would
Speaker 1: you guys do basically on the way, I asked her
Speaker 1: where she wanted to go, so she said cheesecake factory,
Speaker 1: which would not have been my pick necessarily, but you know,
Speaker 1: she wanted to go there, so and I'm pretty laid back,
Speaker 1: so it's like, whatever, we'll go to the cheesecake factory.
Speaker 1: You waited until you were going on the date to
Speaker 1: ask her where you were going. You didn't plan anything,
Speaker 1: you know, I thought about some places, but then I thought, well,
Speaker 1: let me not be selfish and just like let her pick.
Speaker 1: For future reference and my experience, at least women like
Speaker 1: you to at least make the decision on a first dat.
Speaker 1: Here it's after a little while where you can be like,
Speaker 1: I don't care where we go, but they usually like
Speaker 1: you to just man up and make it as sick. Well,
Speaker 1: if you're the one asking out, did you have some
Speaker 1: sort of plans, sort of idea, it didn't really matter.
Speaker 1: I don't think your intentions were good. They were to
Speaker 1: let her pick and to be selfless. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: How was dinner? It was good, Not the food, Not
Speaker 1: the food, I mean the conversation. Like, I know that
Speaker 1: they have pretty decent food there. I've eaten there before,
Speaker 1: I'm wondering is the interaction between you two. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: thought it went really well. I thought we had a
Speaker 1: lot to talk about. We both we talked about golf
Speaker 1: a lot, because we both liked the golf, you know,
Speaker 1: some of the various places we had been. And then
Speaker 1: oddly we both ended up on this conversation about Disneyland
Speaker 1: because we both liked Disneyland so much. Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 1: Did you do anything else on the day or did
Speaker 1: you guys just have dinner? I mean we had dessert
Speaker 1: and she picked the strawberry cheesecake and after that I
Speaker 1: just drove her home. Tell me about the awkward kiss
Speaker 1: your email. Your email said that you shared an awkward kiss.
Speaker 1: What do you mean by awkward? And and speaking to you,
Speaker 1: I don't know how anything could ever come out of
Speaker 1: your maid. When I say it was awkward, I mean
Speaker 1: it was like we were in the car still and
Speaker 1: I didn't know if I could get out, you know,
Speaker 1: and like walker the door or something. So I kind
Speaker 1: of stayed in the car because she was just kind
Speaker 1: of opening the door to get out, and then I
Speaker 1: kind of like reached across the kiss her. But you know,
Speaker 1: it's just like a weird angle, um and you know,
Speaker 1: and I had to like stumble over the console, you know,
Speaker 1: and it was just like it was just like a
Speaker 1: weird you know, the whole timing of it felt a
Speaker 1: little bizarre. Chris. You always get out and let a
Speaker 1: girl out of the car, always, Yes, No, I just
Speaker 1: let him get out. Yeah, I'm not trying to walk
Speaker 1: a girl to the doors. In the fifties, he just
Speaker 1: lets them, He just lets them stumble out in a
Speaker 1: drunken stupid lead over opened their door, hand before her
Speaker 1: and say hey, see you later. Yeah, if he slows down,
Speaker 1: that's something. So anyway, you tried to kiss her and
Speaker 1: it went weird. Yeah, it was. It was a little weird,
Speaker 1: but I mean but I thought it was good. And
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like she resisted it, you know or anything.
Speaker 1: You can back away from the air. You didn't have
Speaker 1: to grab her arm and pull her in with all
Speaker 1: your might. How long did the kiss last? Oh, I
Speaker 1: mean it was really quick. You know. I didn't I
Speaker 1: didn't try to linger did she just close the door,
Speaker 1: walk up And that was the last few seen her.
Speaker 1: Talk to her. I've you know, I've emailed her and
Speaker 1: but you haven't tried to call her. Well, no, no,
Speaker 1: I haven't okay, and you can't think of anything that
Speaker 1: would have gone wrong on the date other than you're
Speaker 1: weird kiss and I thought it was I thought it
Speaker 1: was good, Okay, I really did. All Right, Well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna call her in three minutes and get your second
Speaker 1: day update. Okay, okay, all right, just hang off Brooking
Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning, Seate. Remember if you want a
Speaker 1: second date update, I have to do his email us
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five dot com.
Speaker 1: We will call the person that didn't call you back,
Speaker 1: just like we're about to do for Chris, who was
Speaker 1: on the phone with us right now. He went out
Speaker 1: with a girl named Gianna. They had dinner and then
Speaker 1: shared an awkward kiss at the end of the date.
Speaker 1: He has no idea why she wants to take his
Speaker 1: calls or set up a second date. Chris, have you
Speaker 1: been thinking about anything that you want to say to
Speaker 1: her when we get her on the phone. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm actually starting to get a little bit nervous,
Speaker 1: to be honest, are you? She just doesn't respond that,
Speaker 1: you know. Now, I'm sitting here and I'm like on
Speaker 1: the radio. I mean, I haven't really done this before,
Speaker 1: so I'm just I don't know. I'm just I'm just
Speaker 1: just feeling a little bitter all of a sudden. I
Speaker 1: feel like this is the craziest thing Chris has ever
Speaker 1: done in his life. I can't really describe it, honestly,
Speaker 1: but I just I'm feeling a little nervous. Okay. The
Speaker 1: good thing is you don't sound nervous. Sounds like you're
Speaker 1: ready to go all right. Man? Oh god, that's sarcasm.
Speaker 1: Yeah that was sarcasm. Not at all. Man, you sound
Speaker 1: like a rock right now. Are you ready to call her? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Here we go, all right? Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Gianna? Is she? How are you? This
Speaker 1: is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm
Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. Um, right, how you doing good?
Speaker 1: You recently went out on a date with a friend
Speaker 1: of mine. His name is Chris. Okay, you remember going
Speaker 1: out to dinner with Chris? I doctor, It's a nice place.
Speaker 1: I like it. Okay. Yeah, I'm calling because Chris really
Speaker 1: enjoyed the date and he's wondering why you haven't called
Speaker 1: him or text him or returned his email. Asking you
Speaker 1: if you want to go out again. That's a little weird.
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's a really nice guy. Yeah, really
Speaker 1: really really really nice. Okay, all right, Usually that's not
Speaker 1: a glowing review of the dude. I guess I figured
Speaker 1: that when he asked me out, he would have a
Speaker 1: plan of some sort. Okay, Yeah, was it just the
Speaker 1: restaurant choice, because he did tell us that, you know,
Speaker 1: he let you choose the restaurant. I mean, that can't
Speaker 1: be that big of a deal. Oh well, it wasn't
Speaker 1: just the restaurant. He didn't make a decision the entire date,
Speaker 1: you know, like, oh, well should I pick you up
Speaker 1: or will you meet me? And you know, I ordered first,
Speaker 1: and then Chris is like, oh, I'll have what she's having.
Speaker 1: Really didn't even make a decision on his food. And
Speaker 1: it goes like this all night. And I decided that
Speaker 1: I want dessert, okay, and so I say, what dessert
Speaker 1: would you like? I give him the opportunity to order something.
Speaker 1: He goes, well, whatever you would like. I'm halfually surprised
Speaker 1: that he didn't like ask me if he could go
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. Hey, Chris, yeah, I'm here, Gianna, I
Speaker 1: should probably tell you that. Chris is on the phone.
Speaker 1: He's been listening the whole time. Here, what everything you
Speaker 1: just said? Are you kidding me? Say Hi, Chris, Okay,
Speaker 1: Hey Gianna, Hi Chris. You know I was just trying
Speaker 1: to think about your needs. You know, I was just
Speaker 1: trying to be considerate because most guys don't do that. Okay,
Speaker 1: but you asked me out, dude, like you've got to
Speaker 1: You got a man up, like you have a plan
Speaker 1: when you ask a girl out on a date. If
Speaker 1: I wanted to date another girl, I date another girl.
Speaker 1: I went out with you because I thought you were
Speaker 1: a nice guy. But there's such a thing as just
Speaker 1: being like too night. It's been a little bit of
Speaker 1: a while since I've been with a woman. So you know,
Speaker 1: I'm just not good at these things. I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 1: It's I'm not you to it. You're okay. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: was a weird way of saying it, Chris. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna tell you that right now. So you haven't been
Speaker 1: out on a date in a long time, that's what
Speaker 1: you were saying. My job is just so demanding, you know,
Speaker 1: So I just I don't get a lot of climbs
Speaker 1: generally be gone dates. Can I hear it? Can I
Speaker 1: hear Gianna's interpretation of the kiss at the end of
Speaker 1: the night? Oh yeah, oh god? Okay? Um? Can we
Speaker 1: can we actually not do that? No? Not embarrassing? Gianna
Speaker 1: tell us about the kiss? You know, he drops me
Speaker 1: up at home. I'm going to leave the car and
Speaker 1: I'm opening up the door, and I guess like this
Speaker 1: was his time to like finally like be a man.
Speaker 1: He one is his over this like consul and I
Speaker 1: thought he was gonna fall into my lap. It's I mean,
Speaker 1: it's it's hard to do that in a car. You're right, Chris,
Speaker 1: it is very difficult get that kiss in the car.
Speaker 1: Were you just nervous? Man? Is that what happened? I
Speaker 1: just feel like the expectations are too high, Like what
Speaker 1: do you want from me? You know, I want you
Speaker 1: to know where you want to go. I want you
Speaker 1: to know what you're going to pick me up. I
Speaker 1: want you to not fall into my lap. I want
Speaker 1: you to know what kind of cheesecake you like. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I'm asking a whole lot from a
Speaker 1: guy to know what okayaky would like to eat. I
Speaker 1: feel I feel like I can do this, you do
Speaker 1: I like, he says, I feel like I can do this.
Speaker 1: Not I can do this. Okay, I can do this.
Speaker 1: There you go get or can do attitude, And you
Speaker 1: gotta think it took a lot of Cone's to call
Speaker 1: a radio station to deal with it. Didn't to call me.
Speaker 1: If we continue to go out, if every time something
Speaker 1: goes wrong, you're gonna call Jewel. You know, personally, I
Speaker 1: would love that, Janna. He has a hotline, he does charge,
Speaker 1: he gives horrible relationship advice normally. Well, you did pick
Speaker 1: up the phone, though, so this seems to be working
Speaker 1: in some sense. Well, yes, I pick up my phone
Speaker 1: when it rings. Chris, you didn't answer my email. You know,
Speaker 1: you sent one email that was just a question mark,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Oh my god, Gianna, Sorry Gianna.
Speaker 1: At this point, I would like to say, we will
Speaker 1: send you out in a second day. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: Chris obviously wants to go out again. Gianna, would you
Speaker 1: go out with him? See if you guys could send
Speaker 1: me like our project plan. So I haven't like in
Speaker 1: my emails, I have an idea of what it is
Speaker 1: that we're doing. Is that I do know there is
Speaker 1: a plan? Oh god? Um sure yeah, yeah Chris, you
Speaker 1: got your second date. Man, I'm so excited. I can't wait.
Speaker 1: Wow you can you can tell ye? Come on, Chris,
Speaker 1: any idea where you want to go? Um? Well I
Speaker 1: hadn't really thought about it, honestly, in the morning