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Speaker 1: a plan? Oh god? Um sure yeah, yeah Chris, you

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Speaker 1: got your second date. Man, I'm so excited. I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Wow you can you can tell ye? Come on, Chris,

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Speaker 1: any idea where you want to go? Um? Well I

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Speaker 1: hadn't really thought about it, honestly, in the morning