1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Jasmine is on the phone today for a first day 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Ryan. 5 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him see 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: get her another date if she still wants one. But first, Jasmine, 8 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Ryan? 9 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: It's been a week, okay, So have you reached out 10 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: to him? And that week about how many times. 11 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: Do you think I've reached out to him? 12 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: Uh? 13 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: Embarrassingly, probably over twenty times. 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's a lot. Don't be embarrassed. 15 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I mean I think that we can all 16 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 3: say that that ghosting is definitely happening here. 17 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: Then yeah, unless he lost his phone? 18 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, both, Like who can survive without a phone nowadays? 19 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: True? What were the twenty texts or calls? 20 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 1: Like? 21 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 2: What did you say? Yeah? 22 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: Well, I basically it was it was like more than 23 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: twenty calls and then just a text had just been 24 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: kind of like of just some kind of writing paragraphs 25 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: only because him and I basically met, we spoke on 26 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: this app and then we before meeting, we were just 27 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: he was like hyping me up and just it was 28 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: almost like love bombing, to be honest, now that I 29 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: think about it, and now that I've spoken to my 30 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: friends on it, but he kind of promised me a 31 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: lot of things, and I guess I was just being 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: really vulnerable. But before we met, he was telling me 33 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: how pretty I was, and we were going to go 34 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: to this place and we're going to go to that place. 35 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: And then when I met him, he was so incredible, 36 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: so like everything I could even ask for I checked off, 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: Like I don't ever, I don't even know if people 38 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: have a check box list. I don't, but if I 39 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: were to have one, he's definitely that person. And he 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: was witty, which is what I love so much. Yeah, 41 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: when we met at this top bugs bar, and I 42 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: was just super excited about everything. He paid for the 43 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: check of course, you know, like any gentleman would, and yeah, 44 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: I asked him if she was okay after that and 45 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing. But before then, before we were the day, 46 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: everything we're just like so many checks. It was like 47 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: a lot. Like I said, it was like love bombing. 48 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: And then we go on this date and it's the 49 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: greatest time of my life. And then I was like okay, 50 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: like you know, I was gonna wait to see if 51 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: he wanted to go ahead and give me a call, 52 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: because that's like what you do. But he took too long. 53 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: I was like hey, like are you okay? And then 54 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: I was just like thanks for the night. And then 55 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: after that, I've just been like, what's going on? 56 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 3: So while you were on the date at the restaurant, 57 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: it was so perfect, like can you tell us about that? 58 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 3: What were the conversations like, like what did you guys do? 59 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it was it was like NonStop, like talked 60 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: about our future together. He was talking about he was 61 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: talking about going to like Papo, going to like like 62 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: meet his parents. 63 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 2: That's supera yeah, that is intent. 64 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 3: I would wonder what was going on, But also it'd 65 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 3: be kind of flaggy to hear somebody start talking that 66 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 3: life so soon. Yeah, did you do or say anything 67 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 3: on the date that may have I don't know altered 68 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 3: the course of this marriage. 69 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean maybe I like appeared too eager 70 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: because he's like, yeah, like we'll meet like my parents. 71 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: I can't wait to show you like my grandparents too, 72 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: and I was just like, maybe, like I said, like, yes, 73 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: too quick. 74 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: That is a lot. Yeah, I mean to go that 75 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: far right, Yeah, And. 76 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: Then now I just think maybe he's like he wasn't 77 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: attracted to me or something, and maybe I should have 78 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: wanted parent dress but I don't look basic. But I 79 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: was like, I feel like I picked the perfect dress, 80 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: like you know, like when you ask your girlfriends when 81 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: you're going out, and I did. Yeah. Now I feel 82 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: kind of insecure and just not okay with the right 83 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: selection that I even picked on my. 84 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: Dress be anything about you at all. 85 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 3: I mean, I understand turning to yourself like what's wrong 86 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: with me and doing the superficial like clothing and stuff 87 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: like that, but there's a really good chance it has 88 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 3: nothing to do with any of that. 89 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: But like, first date impressions are everything too, you know, 90 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: like when I like, when you wear like a red 91 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: dress that makes a big statement that maybe I should 92 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: have just warned that one and I just I wore 93 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: a regular black dress, and I think that like a 94 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: guy probably in the first date wants like a red 95 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: statement piece dress. 96 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 2: As a guy who's been on dates before, I don't 97 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 2: think I would care black or red as long as 98 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: you're wearing something well or not on where we meet. 99 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 2: But you know, I don't think. Yeah, I don't know 100 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 2: if the color of it, but hey, who knows. Everybody's different. Okay, Okay, plaus, 101 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,239 Speaker 2: don't come back get your first date follow up next 102 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for today's first date follow up. 103 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: Jasmine is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Ryan. 104 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if he'll 105 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghostinger and see if she still 106 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 2: wants another date after she hears the reason. But things 107 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: moved pretty quickly. Jasmine, give a real quick recap for 108 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 2: everybody who's just joining us on your situation with Ryan. 109 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so I feel like this isn't your regular like 110 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: ghost story. I mean, like this guy sent me flowers 111 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: before our gate. He told me he wanted He told 112 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: me we wanted to travel together, that I can meet 113 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: his parents, he paid for the bill. Everything was good, 114 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: good conversation, and now I absolutely haven't heard from him. 115 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: And it went from so many messages of flowers to 116 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: my door and now I don't even get a peep. Nothing. 117 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: I would want to know, Yeah, I would definitely want 118 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: to know what's going on? All right? Well? You ready 119 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: for us to call him? 120 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? 121 00:05:45,000 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm message to Ryan. Please the right Ryan. 122 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: How are you? Man? My name is Jubil from a 123 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: radio show called The Jebel Show. 124 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: Hi, Ryan, whole show's here. 125 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. 126 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: Well okay, what's up? 127 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before? 128 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 4: I have? 129 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: Oh? 130 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 2: No, Ryan, we're calling you because you went on a 131 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: date with somebody and you haven't called them back. Okay, 132 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: So I'm not sure if you've ever heard a first 133 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: date follow up before, but that's the segment where if 134 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 2: you go out with someone and then ghost them, they 135 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 2: ask us to call you and ask why. So we 136 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: got an email about you from Jasmine. 137 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 138 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: Do you mind telling us about why you're ghosting Jasmine? 139 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 5: Well, Jasmine's great, we have a really cool date. She 140 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 5: is attractive, lovely. But you know what I have come 141 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 5: to learn about myself that I am I have a 142 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 5: lot of momentum in the romance department, and I need 143 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 5: to cool the jets more often, and so I have 144 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 5: decided for myself, no matter how good it's going. You know, 145 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 5: as we're texting and talking before him in the first 146 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 5: five minutes, irl, if I don't feel something discernible spark, 147 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 5: I got to cut it off because I've gone down 148 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 5: that road too many times hoping that would come because 149 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 5: everything else seems so good, and then I'm months into 150 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 5: a relationship. I want, you know, I just I'm too 151 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 5: much of a romantic, so I need I needed to draw. 152 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I don't like Okay, hey, sorry, but it's 153 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: kind of really refreshing to even hear your voice. But 154 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: at the same time, now I'm kind of just like 155 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: I'm really just in shock and taken by everything. If 156 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: you're such a romantic and all of this stuff, wouldn't 157 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: you have been polite to just send me a text 158 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: back or call back and be polite have, you know, 159 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: like just and communicate let me know what's going on, 160 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,120 Speaker 1: instead of just leaving me out in the dark like that. 161 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: That's really disrespectful. I honestly want to like curse your 162 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: head off right now, but like I'm not going to 163 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: just because I'm actually polite. I don't understand why you 164 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: couldn't have just sent a message. You can go ahead 165 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: and send flowers before, but you can't go ahead and 166 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: send a message after our lovely date that we had 167 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: because you didn't feel. 168 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 2: As dark, right, And that's Jasmine. She's been She's on 169 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you. 170 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 4: I got that. 171 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: You're so much of a romantic, Like, what do you mean? 172 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: How are you such a romantic? I hope everybody knows 173 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 1: who this guy is and honestly doesn't want to be 174 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: with you, because you should be a little bit more 175 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: upfront if you're a romantic, have common turtesty. 176 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 3: My biggest question for you, Ryan, though, is what made 177 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 3: you want to buy somebody flowers before you met them 178 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: and talked about family and all those types of things, 179 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 3: and then like what changed in the moment where you 180 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 3: felt comfortable doing that and meeting her in real life? 181 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: Well, that is just a coward move to not even 182 00:08:58,160 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: respond back to me. 183 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm just I'm also pretty non confrontational, and 184 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 5: I don't like ghosting, but it has become a fact 185 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 5: in our generation that that's just how people handle it. 186 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 5: So I thought it was better than me explaining all 187 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 5: this stuff to you about my rule. 188 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but being romantic is being vulnerable and having courage 189 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: and all of that. So I don't even think that's 190 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: what you are. I think you're actually like a narcissist, 191 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: to be honest, if you're going to go ahead and 192 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: like this is like, honestly just unbelievable. You shouldn't love 193 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: bomb people like that. You shouldn't. You shouldn't do that. 194 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: I wish you lucky this spark and somebody I hear it. 195 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 5: I was embarrassed that I went so far before we 196 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 5: even met, and so I just know your coward deponder 197 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 5: like double back from that. 198 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well I really hope you learn your lesson 199 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: and don't pull such a coward and move on the 200 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: next person that you try and find a spark with, 201 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: because I couldn't mentally mess with people like honestly, like 202 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: my friends aren't even enough now, like having to see 203 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: a therapist after this is like where it's leading to, 204 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,719 Speaker 1: Like it's a lot so ridiculous. You should like you 205 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: can't do that stuff. I'm trying to find the love 206 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: of my life here, the person that I'm supposed to 207 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: be with. I think that's what everybody's job is and 208 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: that's what they're trying to do. And you're going over 209 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: here and then just like oh, let me just like fake, 210 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: pretend and love bomb you and all this stuff and 211 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: then just like stop and not talk to you, like 212 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: what are you doing with your life as a man? 213 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry. I have to jump in again really quick, Jasmine. 214 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 3: You're right, you shouldn't be ghosting you and all that stuff. 215 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 3: And if you're in therapy, I think that that's wonderful. 216 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 3: But that's not entirely his fault. 217 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: How I think that, Like, what if you were in 218 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: my position? What if you were like ghosted like that. 219 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: I don't think you understand. 220 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 3: No, actually I do. I completely understand. I have been 221 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 3: in your position. It's more about the relationship. 222 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm just kind of hurt right now in 223 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: the situation. And it's just like I didn't expect him 224 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: to even answer. 225 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 2: I get that. We'll just leave it there, Jasmine. 226 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 5: I want to be really clear. I think you're amazing. 227 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 5: I had a great time with you. It was it 228 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 5: was me after our date processing this and realizing, you 229 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 5: know what, gone too far and I didn't feel something 230 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 5: that I wanted to feel before I proceeded, and you 231 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 5: deserved better communication about that. But that that those are 232 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 5: the facts, and I didn't want to lead you on 233 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 5: or any further whatever. 234 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 2: Ryan, would you like to go on another date with Jasmine? 235 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. 236 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: I would like to go on another date with you Ryan. 237 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 2: Oh wait, what you would? 238 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? I would, absolutely you would. Okay, yes, yeah, what what? 239 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 4: I'm busy tonight, but. 240 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 5: I do have a friend who I swear I just 241 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 5: I say you came to mind when we went out. 242 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 5: I thank you guys. 243 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: Actually I can put you in cash, I swear. 244 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 4: No. 245 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 2: Oh that's nice. 246 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: Really okay? 247 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 2: Cool me all right, but you guys, seems like it 248 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: worked out. 249 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 4: Thank you? 250 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 2: All right? Cool? You will first date full