1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Miles, good morning, welcome to the show. How 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: are you hey, good morning, Thanks for having me. I'm 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: really good, really good. Okay, Well, well. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 2: I mean I could be better. 6 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: That's what I'm calling you. He's really good, but he 7 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 1: could be excellent. Okay, I see this. Okay, he's good, 8 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: positive guy, but he could be a lot better if 9 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: if Jessica were reachable to you. Now we got to know, 10 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: you know, kind of the whole backstory here on waiting 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: by the phone. How did you meet Jessica? How many 12 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: dates have you been on? What were they like? What's 13 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: going on now? Why do you think you're being ghost to? 14 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: Kind of fill us in? 15 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 2: So we met on hinge and we've only been on 16 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: one date. We talked for a bit, we planned a 17 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 2: date and I took her out for drinks and I 18 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 2: I want to see her again. But it's been like 19 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 2: over a week since our date and she hasn't texted 20 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: me back, and she's not answering me either, And I'm 21 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: just am curious to know what as to why? 22 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and again I asked the question every time, 23 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: and everyone lies, But do you The conversation was good, 24 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: I mean, no weird topics. You really felt like everything 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: was flowing. Like you left this date. I need you 26 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: to have a moment of self awareness here. But you 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: left this date and you felt like you were going 28 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: to see Jessica again. It was it was at least 29 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: that's successful. 30 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. Like I left it. I walked 31 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 2: out going this is great, like I'm going to see 32 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: her again. I can't wait to see her again. And 33 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: then nothing. 34 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's let's call her in just a second. 35 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to play a song. Comeback. You'll be on 36 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: the phone. We'll ask these questions on your behalf. At 37 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jumping on the call. And 38 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: the hope is that we can figure this out as 39 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: always and set you guys up on another date that 40 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: we pay for. Sound good, great? Sounds great? Hey, Miles, 41 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm here. Let's call Jessica. You guys, you went out 42 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: for drinks and you felt like the date went really well. 43 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: But you feel like she's ghosting you now because you've 44 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: reached out to try and plan date number two and nothing. 45 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: That's right. 46 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: That sums it up, all right, We're gonna call her now. 47 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: Good luck. Hello. Hi is this Jessica? 48 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: Yeah? 49 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: She Hi Jessica, Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm 50 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show. The 51 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: whole crew is here. I have to tell you that 52 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would 53 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can wa 54 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: chat for just a second? You can hang up anytime? 55 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: All right? This is so weird, I know, I know, 56 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: but it's okay. We're calling on behalf of a guy 57 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: named Miles who reached out to us, and he he 58 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 1: shared that he had met you and you guys went 59 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: on a date recently. 60 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, we did. 61 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: So what happened with him? Because you know the way 62 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: that he describes things is that he liked you and 63 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: I guess you guys had drinks and he felt the 64 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: conversation was good and at least good enough that you know, 65 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: there would be a second date. But he says that 66 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: you haven't responded to him at all. So what happened? 67 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: All right? 68 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know exactly what you know he told 69 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 3: you about this date, but. 70 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: He said we were going out for. 71 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 3: D set like his spot. You know, he said, bring 72 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: a bathing suit. You know, I got really excited. I 73 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 3: didn't know what a spot was, you know, a swimsuit. Like, 74 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 3: I got very excited. I didn't know what I was 75 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 3: getting into. He just gave me an address, you know, 76 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 3: didn't say exactly where to meet, just the address. 77 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: For drinks and gave you an address and told you 78 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: to bring a swimsuit. 79 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: Yes, so so big. I'm like, I'm very excited. I thought, 80 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 3: I think, like it's going to be some like super 81 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 3: snazzy hotel or something. Yeah, like it's I don't know, 82 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: I don't know what I thought. I thought like maybe 83 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: a speak easy something. 84 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: Something I don't know. 85 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, so a swimsuit date at 86 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: a random address. Okay, so you would have been an 87 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: apartment complex pool. Now where did you wind up? 88 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 3: I mean it could have been that. Yeah, but I 89 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 3: get there, I pull up and it's it's his gym, 90 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: a gym, so it's then, I mean it was a 91 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: bougie gym, but like drinks were like a smoothie. 92 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: The swimsuit so we could go in. 93 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 3: The hot tub. Like I showed up in dress and heels. 94 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 3: I thought this was it was going to be a 95 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 3: S fifty like hotel or something. 96 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. So homeboy had you in a Planet 97 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: Fitness on one no adjudgtment zone though it was just cool, wow, 98 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: all right, and so you proceeded, I mean going there 99 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: and get in the hot sub and have a banana 100 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: smoothie or something. I mean, what was that? What the 101 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: day was? Yeah? 102 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was cute, but just not at 103 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 3: all what I expected, and like, just say, we're going 104 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:46,559 Speaker 3: to the gym. 105 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: You know, there are some like gyms that are kind 106 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: of country club issue depends where you live. But you know, 107 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: some cities have really fancy ones, but I guess a 108 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: little warning about that, and some I have actual bars 109 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: in them too, so that would be some thing. But 110 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 1: like this, this wasn't that. This was a gym but elevated. Yeah, okay, 111 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: let me miles. Miles, you didn't tell us about the 112 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: fact that you asked her to show up at Planet Fitness. 113 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 2: Plan. But it's not a it's not a Planet Fitness. 114 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 2: I feel like, like my gym is fancy. Like I'm 115 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: just saying, like, I don't know that you could even 116 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 2: afford a tour there. 117 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: I didn't have any money. Yeah, okay, well, way to 118 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: do some charity work then miles nice and. 119 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 2: Look, I'm just saying, like you could have ordered food 120 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: there too, Like you didn't have to stick to a smoothie, like, 121 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: like there were a lot of other options. 122 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: Do they have a kale salad there? That is unbelievable 123 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: at this place? You've never had anything like it. 124 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 3: He didn't specify, and he didn't order food. I was 125 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 3: just going with the flow. It was my first gym date. 126 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 3: I guess you know, I didn't. 127 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: I mean, at least he didn't like, try and get 128 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: you on the treadmill or something. I mean, you're trying 129 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: to get you to do some aerobics or something. I mean, 130 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: it's it's a strange venue and he should have given 131 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 1: you a heads up to what to expect. But he 132 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: says it's a fancy place though, so there, yeah, so fancy. 133 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 3: I can't afford it. 134 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, don't take me to a gym ever. 135 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: Yeah again on a date. Yeah, speak to yourself, right, 136 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: you'd be down for this. I've had a lot of 137 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: first dates that steam works. Okay, well that's not a 138 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,799 Speaker 1: gym on the third floor. There's some there's some working 139 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: out that takes place there. If you know, you know, 140 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: but that's a very different experience. Yet, even if it 141 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: were like a nice kind of thing like a club 142 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: or something, I would still want to heads up as 143 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 1: to what we're doing exactly, because you know, she got 144 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: all dressed up thinking that. You know, I don't know 145 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: what she thought, but that's weird. It's a weird place 146 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: to take someone. Miles. Have we done this before? 147 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: You know, it was my first time. 148 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's the last, you know, maybe we don't. 149 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 2: Do that again. Taking a shot. I was just trying 150 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 2: to bring her into a part of my world, you 151 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: know what I mean, like stuff that I enjoy, things 152 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 2: like that. 153 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: I mean, you guys could have played like pickleball or 154 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: something and maybe that takes place there and then you know, 155 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: but I don't know that can activity involved. There's a 156 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: lot of ways to set this up, and I don't 157 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: really think you did that. It's a little strange to 158 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: go hang out in the in the public gym hot 159 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: tub on the first day. Jason doesn't think that's strange 160 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: at all, strange at all? 161 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: Been there? 162 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well, sometimes romance blossoms there, I don't Yeah, 163 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: sometimes something blossoms okay, all right, Well, look, would you 164 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: like to go out with Miles again, Jessica? What if 165 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: we What if we choose a neutral location that doesn't 166 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: require any kind of membership and we'll pay for it 167 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: dinner drinks is traditional. 168 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 3: No, I'm not interested. He doesn't need a free, free meal. 169 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: He can membership better than I think. He goes equinox. 170 00:07:53,640 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: I think that's what it was, fitness. But a minute, 171 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know anything about that. Miles. 172 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: She's not interested, man, I'm sorry, but maybe we just 173 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: next time we sort of frame this all differently, or 174 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: maybe we don't do that at all. 175 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: All right, I appreciate the advice, and I'm just glad 176 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: to know what was going on. 177 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, all's well. That ends well, Jessica, good luck 178 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: to you, Miles, good luck to you as well.