WEBVTT - BONUS: Biggest Fears

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, My loves It is Wali Kent, Jessica Walter needs

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<v Speaker 1>to Burningham back on the mic, or the bonus episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Give Them a Hello, Boner Bonner. We ask you

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<v Speaker 1>guys what your biggest fears are for this episode, and

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<v Speaker 1>when we decided to use this as like the theme

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<v Speaker 1>of today's episode, it got me to thinking, what is

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<v Speaker 1>my biggest fear? Because it's like, yes, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>fear of spiders or like someone breaking into the house.

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<v Speaker 1>But you want to know my ultimate fear. I have

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<v Speaker 1>two My daughter becoming a drug addict, okay, or my

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<v Speaker 1>kids right, or my kids murdering someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Murdering purposely like becoming a murderer, or accidental murder or either.

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<v Speaker 1>Either just having Well, if you're like a murderer, we

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk. Yeah, well, but if you accidentally killed someone,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do know.

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<v Speaker 3>Unfortunately I know a family member that got well, not

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<v Speaker 3>a family member, a family a friend and their family

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<v Speaker 3>member was struck by a car and he passed away

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<v Speaker 3>and it was the driver drunk. No, he just he

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<v Speaker 3>was walking at night, couldn't see him and hit him.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's an I think it went down as just

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<v Speaker 3>an accidental.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's not murder I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about one with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Accidental death is even crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>No that, But can I tell you I have We've

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<v Speaker 1>talked about this before. I had a friend who in

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<v Speaker 1>high school was drunk driving, hit a family and killed

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<v Speaker 1>everybody but two people. And living with something like that

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<v Speaker 1>I think would be extremely difficult. But then I think

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<v Speaker 1>you tap into now he goes around to schools and

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<v Speaker 1>talks about like the importance of not drinking and driving,

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<v Speaker 1>not doing drugs, and it's like, okay, you paid your dues.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely went to jail, and now he's come out

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<v Speaker 1>and he's starting to like make a difference and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make as much right as he possibly can.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm talking about cold blooded killers. If I gave

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<v Speaker 1>birth to a cold blooded killer, first of all, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>give them my hit list. If you're gonna give it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's get.

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<v Speaker 1>After you take care of this list.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding, but that would really shake me up,

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<v Speaker 1>I would think.

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<v Speaker 2>So my biggest fear ever, that's those are two great fears.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine sitting in a courtroom as your child

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<v Speaker 1>is up there and they go through all this stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>like and then she put a butcher's knife into him

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<v Speaker 1>fifty seven times. And you're like, I just couldn't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>you doing this as you were calling me a stupid

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<v Speaker 1>bitch at the age of two. This just wasn't where

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<v Speaker 1>my head went.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I guess if Ocean goes, it's gonna be foring

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<v Speaker 3>off men.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not manifestation, by the way, We're just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about fears.

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<v Speaker 4>God.

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<v Speaker 1>It is very imperative universe because everything I've manifested comes

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<v Speaker 1>that I into the universe comes true. Got mom's calling.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been beefing today. You're the favorite today.

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<v Speaker 5>Take your winds where you can get them to.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the favorite today as today. Okay, what are where

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<v Speaker 1>were we?

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<v Speaker 2>We were talking about murder, ocean becoming a murderer, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're not man.

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<v Speaker 4>Any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not manifesting it. And it's imperative that God

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<v Speaker 1>in the universe know that I'm simply talking about my fears,

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<v Speaker 1>not a manifestation.

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<v Speaker 3>Another fear, just but being just seeing her go to

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<v Speaker 3>tap class. And if she's the bully, that is not

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<v Speaker 3>the She's not the bully, but I will that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a if my kid's a bully, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>have a bigger fear of my kid being bullied, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because then I'm gonna have to boss up on other kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Whereas if my daughter's the bully, like I can check

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<v Speaker 1>her real quick, I know how to handle it. My

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<v Speaker 1>fear is my kid's bullied and parents don't handle it

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<v Speaker 1>the way I think that they should. And now I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta fucking hand with your kid. And guess what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna win your kids to be tall and I will him.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I will absolutely not. But even at.

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<v Speaker 1>At the playground, it gets intent sometimes because there's these

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<v Speaker 1>kids that will like bring their giant bikes up the

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<v Speaker 1>slide and my daughter wants to go down, and they'll sit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the older kids. They'll just sit there

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<v Speaker 1>while my kid wants to go down. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>got a boss up. I gotta say move and then

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<v Speaker 1>they look at me like I'm rude, and I say,

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<v Speaker 1>go up or go down? Move please, my kid's going

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<v Speaker 1>down the side, and move your bike and I'll pick

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<v Speaker 1>up the bike and note it doesn't belong on the playground.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I look around like I hope their mom

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<v Speaker 1>is not like a WWE wrestler or something.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, No, because that's sometimes you have to do.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the shittiest thing. When I used to do it

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<v Speaker 2>nanny all the time, I'm sitting there, especially in the

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<v Speaker 2>rich town I used to nanny, and I'm sitting there,

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<v Speaker 2>your kid is doing something obnoxious and you're just sitting

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<v Speaker 2>there gabbing away, or you're looking like, oh, he's so silly.

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<v Speaker 2>I started, like three four years in a nannying. I

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<v Speaker 2>would go and I'd walk up to the kid and

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say, that's not very nice of you to say.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna let you know that, so you can keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>And the mom was right there and say something, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's why I don't. I'd rather have my kid

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<v Speaker 1>be the bully because I can. I will check you right.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen my kid not act right on the playground

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<v Speaker 1>and I tell her we don't act that way. So

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<v Speaker 1>and so wants to get up the slide, So move ocean.

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<v Speaker 5>So you're the moms, you're the type of mom I

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<v Speaker 5>appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, bravo, thank god, I don't mess around. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>contrary to what you guys se.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I feel like that's what we see. You don't

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<v Speaker 5>mess around.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mess around, but I go toes and I

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<v Speaker 1>say really crazy shit sometimes and people love to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's such a bully, and I'm like, wow, you've seen

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<v Speaker 1>me fifteen hours at most, that's of an entire episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and suddenly you think.

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<v Speaker 4>You know me.

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<v Speaker 1>May may you don't know shit. In fact, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>crazy because anytime there's people who come for me in

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<v Speaker 1>the comments section, like on other pages, because people are

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<v Speaker 1>really nice and like the podcast, love reading the podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>But anyone who listens to the podcast really goes toes

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<v Speaker 1>with anybody who has something negative to say based on

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<v Speaker 1>what they've seen on vander Pump. So I really love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys for listening.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys are the shit. You go toes.

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<v Speaker 2>You freaking I've had you come to my defense, which

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 4>Need some defense. Probably I'm seeing a.

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<v Speaker 5>Lot of defense.

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<v Speaker 2>In the podcast reviews, someone said all you fucking assholes

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<v Speaker 2>who are calling Jessica's voice annoying And it was literally

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<v Speaker 2>right above a comment that was like the subject line

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<v Speaker 2>was Jess's voice and it was two stars, and it

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<v Speaker 2>just put so annoying, and the person above said, all

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<v Speaker 2>you trolls coming after Jess's voice, I hope she jiu

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<v Speaker 2>jitsues all of you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll get them. I might need.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, people in New York came up to me talking

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<v Speaker 1>about your jiu jitsu and getting a kick out of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Get it, No, that's moy ti, But that's okay. I

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<v Speaker 5>get a lot of Are you.

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<v Speaker 4>Going to get into moy tie once you got no? I?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh really, I'll get into that's striking and kicking.

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<v Speaker 3>Because then now she knows how to you'll know how

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<v Speaker 3>to roll if they're like on that, and then you

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<v Speaker 3>get to do moy thi before they get to you

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<v Speaker 3>get to smack them in a so now you know both,

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<v Speaker 3>so like you can fight and if they get you,

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<v Speaker 3>you now have the ground access.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm up to seven mm. I literally counted this last night.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm up to seven or eight dms of women saying

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<v Speaker 2>I've tried jiu jitsu.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm obsessed. Thank you so much?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think at the house I should put down

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<v Speaker 1>flooring and have someone come in and teach us. You

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<v Speaker 1>could be pretty slamming bodies with that stuff, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Also boxing, just like boxing boxing.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do like a one thousand percent I

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<v Speaker 2>know in Okay, no, one thousand percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Somebody come to the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>We could either go to a gym, or we can

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<v Speaker 2>have someone come to the house.

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<v Speaker 1>And we saw someone come to the house and and

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<v Speaker 1>set up that room and can.

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<v Speaker 2>We and makee hundred we're doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys would like to know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing your fears or fear, I guess biggest fear.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a huge fear and I feel like everybody has it,

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<v Speaker 3>but you don't know it until you're on your last breath.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like not reaching your full potential.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you know, like looking back at it or like

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<v Speaker 3>have you ever heard of somebody like or the story

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<v Speaker 3>of when they're like when you die, you meet buddy

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<v Speaker 3>and like they show what your potential was that you could.

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<v Speaker 4>Have reached if you weren't too afraid to do.

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<v Speaker 1>That, or that it sounds like you're going to help.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I have goosebumps. It's a way shared thing of

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<v Speaker 5>people who have died.

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<v Speaker 2>And you see the flash of your life and then

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<v Speaker 2>you're able to see a lot of people say you see.

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<v Speaker 5>What you could have done? It like you're what you

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<v Speaker 5>did that.

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<v Speaker 3>You you had the thought of starting whatever brand or

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<v Speaker 3>this or that or doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>You were you were afraid failure, so you kept your

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<v Speaker 4>nine to five.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when you die, you look back and it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you would have taken that chance.

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<v Speaker 1>You could have done this crazy Yeah, but that's what's

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<v Speaker 1>so hard about life is because you have bills to pay.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, people aren't going to sit around and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, well, we know that you have really big

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<v Speaker 1>goals and we think you can fulfill them, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to put this aside. You don't have to pay

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<v Speaker 1>anything until you reach your full potential. Not how life works.

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<v Speaker 1>It's freaking hard. People have all of these goals, but

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<v Speaker 1>they have to afford their living situation. They got to

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<v Speaker 1>keep the lights on, keep food on the table. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fucking work. So I personally don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that when you're on your deathbed, I just don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>my higher power would be like, look at how much

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<v Speaker 1>no found. I'm not saying I think that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think that either.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying that's what scares me is like, will

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<v Speaker 3>I in my life reach my full potential? And that's

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<v Speaker 3>why I'm going to keep doing the things that I

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<v Speaker 3>want to do, and I'm not going to be afraid

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<v Speaker 3>of failure.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something real quick, and I wholeheartedly

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<v Speaker 1>believe this as someone who is used to be afraid

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<v Speaker 1>of saying I am driven by money, and now I

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<v Speaker 1>just it is what it is. I'm driven by money.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something, when you're on your deathbed,

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<v Speaker 1>there's not going to be one thing that fucking matters. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you're my homeboy who sits outside of seven to eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>who is without a home, or you're Kim Kardashian, you

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<v Speaker 1>all are going to the same place death. Okay, it

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<v Speaker 1>does not matter. Sure you are. It doesn't mean you

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<v Speaker 1>get to go to a cooler place or live a

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<v Speaker 1>little longer. It just doesn't. So guess what the one

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<v Speaker 1>thing you need to fixate on is get the dollar

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<v Speaker 1>amount out of your head.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't die, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not even But you said your goals. You could have

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<v Speaker 1>reached your highest potential. No, what difference did you make

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<v Speaker 1>on this plant potential?

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<v Speaker 4>What I didn't bring up dollars?

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<v Speaker 1>You just said a brand. You just said what I.

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<v Speaker 4>Could have created a mark.

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<v Speaker 2>You could have left the mark on the world because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm exact created.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I thought you were saying, like your brand,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care about money or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying what brand. I'm saying, go start a nonprofit.

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<v Speaker 3>The potential that you could put out into your community

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<v Speaker 3>that can make a mark, That's what I'm I don't

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<v Speaker 3>care about money. I'm saying, will my potential be reached?

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<v Speaker 3>And how many people can I touch with the potential

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<v Speaker 3>I'm giving leaving your mark on the world, that's what. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>dollar amounts away. I was using that as just a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you were saying, like brands and ship just.

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<v Speaker 5>Like no, no, no, no, but sometimes brands leave the market.

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<v Speaker 3>Brands I mean like right, shout out to Landing Career

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, love Loud and all of that. Like

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<v Speaker 3>that is a nonprofit, but that left a huge mark

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<v Speaker 3>and so many people are getting amazing things out of it, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and like that is potential and those are the things

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<v Speaker 3>that like I don't want to be afraid to start

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<v Speaker 3>something like that because the potential could be so magnificent

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<v Speaker 3>for kids or people on the truck.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you under because you've always you've always had

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<v Speaker 1>this in you where like you and I love this

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<v Speaker 1>about you and I share this with you. We always

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<v Speaker 1>think so grand and if it's not grand, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean anything. But then you start to to think about

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<v Speaker 1>the like if I can just leave a mark on

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<v Speaker 1>a few people who then take what they learned from me,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they can they can start spreading, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the roots a little bit further out, and it just

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<v Speaker 1>is like this ripple effect where you may have only

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<v Speaker 1>affected a handful of people, but because of the how

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<v Speaker 1>you affected them, they spread your word for years and

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<v Speaker 1>years to come.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's a great way.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean one person, you affect one person's life truly,

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<v Speaker 2>and also but.

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<v Speaker 4>I can that's purpose and that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And if I do that, you know, that's I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>saying like it has to be extravagant.

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<v Speaker 4>My purpose is to.

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<v Speaker 3>Help one person and if that is one person throughout

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<v Speaker 3>my whole life, that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>I did something well, even you Easton.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very proud of you because for every I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, you've had many aches of the week that

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<v Speaker 1>have to do with animals and captivity. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>that we get a lot of DMS saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>made people deep dive into this who never would have

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<v Speaker 1>known what this, what that world was like before, and

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<v Speaker 1>now they do because you spoke about it and they

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<v Speaker 1>now know. We're not to places like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So you are making a mark.

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<v Speaker 4>And shout out to the wal.

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<v Speaker 1>Whisper, But he's doing he's boots on the fucking ground.

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<v Speaker 2>People like that, like those people, the farm animal rescuers,

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<v Speaker 2>the dog rescuers.

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<v Speaker 1>God's work, God's work. What's your fear?

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<v Speaker 2>The same same as Eason? Not it's the same exact thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like when you said I got these bumps. Not I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I'll ever this will happen, but not like

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<v Speaker 2>being on my deathbed and being like, oh I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>leave a mark on the world, or I didn't live

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<v Speaker 2>to my potential and mine is not mine? Is really

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<v Speaker 2>just like when I think about what do I want

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<v Speaker 2>out of life, I just want to like make people

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<v Speaker 2>laugh and bring happiness and like bring some sort of

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<v Speaker 2>escapism through creative works like as of now that might change,

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<v Speaker 2>but and then also just like want a core group

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<v Speaker 2>of people, like a family and people. I'm on my

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<v Speaker 2>deathbed and I can be like this is these are

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<v Speaker 2>my people, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, But I have to imagine that when people are

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<v Speaker 1>on their deathbed, they're not thinking about the mark they

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<v Speaker 1>left on the world. I think that. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>more like, did I spend enough time with with my

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<v Speaker 1>loved ones? There was a meaning now that I love them?

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<v Speaker 1>Did I say I love you enough?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they going to hold on to like the fights

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<v Speaker 1>that we had or are they gonna hold on to

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<v Speaker 1>the good times? Like I feel like those are going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the things you fixate on because that's the

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<v Speaker 1>core of who you are, right, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Can think that as well.

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<v Speaker 3>But like for you on like Ocean being the bully, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>people will know, like you know because you'll check her

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<v Speaker 3>for me, like I'm going to say I love you enough,

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<v Speaker 3>So those won't be my thoughts on a deathbed, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I know those basis.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's because we said a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting because there was a meme going around that

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<v Speaker 2>said like all these people on their deathbed whatever were

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<v Speaker 2>interviewed and like, what are the things you're thinking of?

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<v Speaker 5>And one of the main things was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I wish I didn't focus on work so much

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<v Speaker 2>and focused more on family.

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<v Speaker 5>I wish. So it is I think it's just like

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<v Speaker 5>that's life. Have you guys heard that.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a really quick off topic, but the theory

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<v Speaker 2>that a lot of people who have died they all

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<v Speaker 2>see the same light, but then they don't see anything

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<v Speaker 2>after it. There's a theory that after it and God

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<v Speaker 2>in higher power is you, and so you are basically

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<v Speaker 2>we're all beings in this higher power and we've all

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<v Speaker 2>been given the opportunity the choice do you want to

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<v Speaker 2>go to this? Do you want to get this experience?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a second, it's split second of your life,

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<v Speaker 2>this human experience. You're going to feel all the emotions, pain, suffering, happiness, joy,

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to get this experience. In the grand scheme

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<v Speaker 2>of things, it's the blink of an eye, but you

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<v Speaker 2>get to experience this thing called life and like it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be painful, amazing, and you get to experience

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<v Speaker 2>it as a human. And then when you die, you're

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<v Speaker 2>back here and we're all in the same place, and

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<v Speaker 2>all of us who are here.

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<v Speaker 5>Said, yes, this is so we don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>But then afterwards, when we're we die and we're back

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<v Speaker 2>in this we come to realize, like this was a

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<v Speaker 2>choice we made, and then we get to see what

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<v Speaker 2>we did in the.

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<v Speaker 5>Short amount of time. It's like a really it's going

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<v Speaker 5>around TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a really beautiful and like Lily Reiner said something

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<v Speaker 2>about it, I kind of believe that where like your.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole life flashes before your eyes, like everything you've been through, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all beings and we chose like me, I am,

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<v Speaker 2>I exist somewhere and I and I was given the

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<v Speaker 2>choice to like, do you want to experience this thing

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<v Speaker 2>of being a human And you're gonna feel pain and suffering,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're gonna like love and heartbreak. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's a blip of your of your existence and yes, yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Then it's just the computer shutting down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>And then you're back in wherever and you're like, why

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<v Speaker 5>back home?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Home, And you're like, look what.

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<v Speaker 4>I did with I believe in the high and I

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<v Speaker 4>hope I.

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<v Speaker 2>Make that being proud. That's what I want. I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to be like good for me. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you will just I think I think that's.

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<v Speaker 5>About the mark on the world thing, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, purpose, purpose, I love it. Yeah, what are other

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<v Speaker 1>people's fears? Sorry, I mean to cut you off.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I was just gonna say, you know, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like at the very end, when you do go on

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<v Speaker 3>to the next and that all happens and the light

0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:20.920
<v Speaker 3>flashes and you see you, I feel like you see

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<v Speaker 3>everybody in my world. You see everybody that you loved

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<v Speaker 3>as in the best position that they were in. So

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<v Speaker 3>Mom will see Dad very differently than I do. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>you do, That's how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, Right, Yeah, That's why I can't understand when

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<v Speaker 1>people which it's to each his own, but people who

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<v Speaker 1>think that we just die and go into the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, so you think all this is for nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>You think we experience things like childbirth or like relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>But then again, I'm coming from a place of like

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<v Speaker 1>having a very beautiful life, and there are people who

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<v Speaker 1>have had very rough goes, so I could understand if

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<v Speaker 1>people who haven't had a privileged life like I have

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<v Speaker 1>would think there's nothing right looking out for me. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think it depends on where you come from. That's

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent tro All right, what are other people's fears?

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<v Speaker 5>This one cracks me up.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just gonna say this is real, though there's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of deep ones. Cracking an egg and a

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<v Speaker 2>chicken coming out ah.

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<v Speaker 5>Could you imagine that being a fear? That's horrifying.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Kase I knew, well now you're yeah, now you got

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<v Speaker 4>to get an incubator.

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss Sanderson.

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<v Speaker 4>You're a mother to this thing that's.

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<v Speaker 5>A fear cracking an egg.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was, I'm like, chicken coming out. I'm obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with this.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed with this person.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember when we had chickens in elementary school pets?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when I put in grabbed an egg from

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<v Speaker 2>the fridge at six years old and ran it upstairs

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<v Speaker 2>and tried to hatch it. I kept it in my

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<v Speaker 2>room for a month. My dad found He's like, what

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<v Speaker 2>is this? And I was like, I'm trying to hatch

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<v Speaker 2>it because I saw it fly away home. Okay, there

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<v Speaker 2>are a lot of dying before my kids are grown.

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<v Speaker 2>Single mom, My biggest fear is something happening to me

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<v Speaker 2>before my kids are adults. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Well

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<v Speaker 2>those are deep, those are deep.

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<v Speaker 4>You can really put yourself in that, Yeah I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>There are funny ones too, like you losing my youth,

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<v Speaker 2>losing my youth and metabolism.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess that's not funny, but like, hey, that's a fear.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a fear.

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<v Speaker 1>I still think I'm more afraid of having my kid

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<v Speaker 1>be a murderer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, oh this is a good one. Windows at night,

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<v Speaker 2>people can see in, but you can't see out. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>How do you guys feel about those houses? Hate them

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<v Speaker 2>with the giant windows?

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<v Speaker 1>No desire?

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing, I love them?

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<v Speaker 5>Three yea.

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<v Speaker 3>What I mean like mirror, So like when you're looking

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<v Speaker 3>at the house, it's reflected, but when you're in the house,

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<v Speaker 3>you can look at.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know why. That's genius because all of these

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<v Speaker 1>like super modern and stuff, and everyone's like it's beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>three hundred and sixty degree views. I'm like, yeah, perfect

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<v Speaker 1>for me to like be in a horror film.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and or for somebody to see all everything that

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<v Speaker 3>earned sixty.

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<v Speaker 4>Angles of my horrible body naked. Ah, could you imagine,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you get to see my entire body naked?

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<v Speaker 4>You're not mine? Running towel on all A lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the ones we said east and feeling like I

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<v Speaker 2>never made it or succeeded in life, feeling worthless.

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<v Speaker 5>So those are just like that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like and that's it's the fear of not

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<v Speaker 3>like you have this idea or something that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, accomplish or achieve, but you're too afraid

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<v Speaker 3>of the failure, or you're nine to five is getting

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<v Speaker 3>in a way and you're too lazy.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Those our society that people's biggest fears are that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make it in life or I didn't fulfill Like

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<v Speaker 1>think about back in the day where it's like people

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<v Speaker 1>were dying in their forties and I was like, we're

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<v Speaker 1>so happy that you made it to your forties. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we're talking pioneers, fucking haul and ass through the plane,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, giving.

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<v Speaker 5>Birth on the Orgon trail.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, you know you think at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>their life they're thinking, oh my potential. No, they're just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there, orgon organ organ Organ.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not fucking doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, honestly, that's why I didn't. I'm like, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get into an orinary ornery thing, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Like maybe she's right, I'm not saying anything. I'm about

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<v Speaker 4>to go home and be like how and.

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<v Speaker 1>Here come the Oregon du.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's definitely organ No society has fucked us all up.

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<v Speaker 2>I hear you, but I think that there is something

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<v Speaker 2>to say. These are just two different viewpoints. There's people

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<v Speaker 2>like us who and I think you but in a

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<v Speaker 2>different sense, who are like, we have this need to

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<v Speaker 2>leave the mark on the world, and it's just bigger

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<v Speaker 2>than like.

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<v Speaker 1>I Was Here by Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That songs me sob every time I listen.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that I.

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<v Speaker 5>It's what you don't like it, it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad pulled that ship up on YouTube when she

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<v Speaker 1>preferred the u N. My dad tears in the car and.

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<v Speaker 4>He'd just be like, you should you should play that

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<v Speaker 4>one song, and you go, I hate every other song

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<v Speaker 4>by her, but I love this.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it can't never say that to anybody, really cut

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<v Speaker 1>your bald.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't love Beyonce, but he sure loved I Was Here.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can cover that song Willie Spence, which fucking

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<v Speaker 2>just iconic ri ip from the season of American Idol

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<v Speaker 2>I worked on covered I Was Here and he passed

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<v Speaker 2>away as pipes, Oh my godness, pipes for days. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is damn. This like just gave me anxiety. Crashing

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<v Speaker 2>my car with my kids inside into a body of water.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you guys have a fear of crashing your car

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<v Speaker 2>into a body of water?

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<v Speaker 1>And no?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think you could get out in time? Many people?

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<v Speaker 5>I can get out easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding? Do you know how much pressure comes

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<v Speaker 1>with going underwater?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I would. I think you're I mean, you guys, you're dying.

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<v Speaker 4>Are giving me all these fears that you're dying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think of anything because.

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<v Speaker 3>When the car sinks, the windows are shatter. Now it's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna suck you in. You're gonna be sucked into a vortex.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't get your kids out. I've tried to get

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<v Speaker 3>ocean out while she's just kind of moving, and what

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<v Speaker 3>a nightmare that is.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you guys have the thing? I have the thing

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<v Speaker 5>on my keys. I took it off sh say. It's

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<v Speaker 5>a tool.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got a seatbelt cutter and a shatter, a window

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<v Speaker 2>shadow shatter.

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<v Speaker 5>So if I were in water and it's you.

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<v Speaker 1>Need to absolutely, not that I'm driving by water really ever,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want one of those, right.

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<v Speaker 2>And then there's you know, a lot of dying. A

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people have a fear of dying. There was

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<v Speaker 2>a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw. Are we just talking about like dying where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like time to have? Yeah, I'm telling you what.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty three and I'm fucking exhausted when that day comes.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to know another fear of mine been real,

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<v Speaker 3>honestly talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming, Huh, I'm coming the world that I'm coming

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that it's a fear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you've never been cheated on?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it sucks, but it's not earth shattering, It isn't.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is a fear giving somebody your.

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<v Speaker 3>All and not being given that back, and then you

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<v Speaker 3>being scarred for every other relationship you go into.

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<v Speaker 5>What is the fear?

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<v Speaker 1>You're right?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it's fear, man, because I am fucked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you've never been cheated on?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I have, and that's why I just don't

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<v Speaker 3>know about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Many of us do cheated on me eat dick.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember finding out years later from one of.

0:26:03.160 --> 0:26:06.719
<v Speaker 1>The guy I already did. That's why they're cheating. They

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<v Speaker 1>already ate a dick.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I go eat another one? Horror, not hor.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to show you the greatest Seinfeld ever. Speaking

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<v Speaker 3>of ri I p to Joe Devola. Joe Devola, Yes, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy Joe Devola has passed away.

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<v Speaker 1>He did.

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<v Speaker 3>I have to look up his name if we can

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<v Speaker 3>get a good cut. I just had it in my

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<v Speaker 3>notes because I saw it quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to you don't watch Seinfelds. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know his real name.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, he's actor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he was in seinfeld and he uh, crazy Joe Devola.

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<v Speaker 4>Peter Crombie.

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<v Speaker 1>When did he pass away?

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<v Speaker 4>He passed away? Let's see.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I have a hair on my tongue. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember Eaton? You've got to watch Seinfeld No, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to have watched it.

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<v Speaker 4>I watched it all.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it early January? See, I saw it a

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<v Speaker 3>while ago. It's just never had time to really bring

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<v Speaker 3>it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out January.

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<v Speaker 4>I finished it all, FYI.

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<v Speaker 1>He died in Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh beautiful place.

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<v Speaker 1>Peter Crombie, Crazy Joe Devola, Thank you for making Seinfeld.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for giving us many episodes make.

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<v Speaker 4>Me thank you for your purpose? Is That's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>joy to the world. And it does.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Five six episodes are just crazy Joe Devola.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole thing we talked about it. How could he

0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:47.320
<v Speaker 1>not like you?

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<v Speaker 4>I like how he meets Elaine outside. I met a

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful woman. What's her name? Elaine? What?

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<v Speaker 3>Because she's calling him Joey yeah, and.

0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 1>So no one puts that it's crazy. And she goes

0:28:04.760 --> 0:28:08.239
<v Speaker 1>into his apartment and he's got thousands of photos her.

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<v Speaker 5>I have to watch that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like what he does. What does he say, Hey, Jerry,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it, I got a hair on my Tongue's

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:21.119
<v Speaker 1>how annoyed he is. And then he's gonna bash his

0:28:21.119 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>head in and then Kramer has to come in with

0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:26.280
<v Speaker 1>a helmet. I got kicked in the head by.

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<v Speaker 3>Crazy Joel and he goes, I hate to tell you, buddy,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're next.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody likes you. I could see why people don't like him, Jerry,

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<v Speaker 1>don't say that you did see?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Elevators so I know a lot of people have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of fear of elevators and escalators.

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<v Speaker 5>Do either of you have that.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a fear of being in a small elevator

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<v Speaker 1>crammed and getting stuck.

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<v Speaker 5>Agreed.

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<v Speaker 2>I one of my biggest fears for a long time

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<v Speaker 2>was being in an elevator in Grand Central Station.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm the only rat air.

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<v Speaker 2>It crashes, it's the cable snap. It crashes to the

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<v Speaker 2>basement of Grand Central where no one is. I'm stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in there, but the doors are open just enough for

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 2>rats to come in, and then they squeeze in and

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<v Speaker 2>eat me alive.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I hope you die on the fall.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, God, Jessicay, you really do have a fear

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<v Speaker 1>of rats.

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<v Speaker 5>Right disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>And I had such a fear of rats that I

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<v Speaker 2>never wanted to say it on things like podcasts because

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 2>I thought, if someone wants to kill me and torture me,

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<v Speaker 2>now they know how.

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<v Speaker 4>To do it.

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<v Speaker 3>And if we get a we should put up a pole,

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<v Speaker 3>and if we get enough likes or something like that,

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<v Speaker 3>we should be able to put a rat.

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<v Speaker 4>On you in the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, it's a phobia. No I would.

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<v Speaker 4>I would.

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<v Speaker 2>This is what I do because I've seen it. I

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<v Speaker 2>get stiff and I get and then I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to find a phobia.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine, No, but it could also like I feel like

0:29:48.480 --> 0:29:50.240
<v Speaker 1>you could have a heart attack, Like if you have

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 1>a true fear like that, I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my breath is like it's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how people die is when they start stopping breathing, Like,

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:01.719
<v Speaker 1>when they start to stop breathing, you can die. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 5>People give me idea though, good pitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're gonna abort that one.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, rats give you that. People give me that.

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<v Speaker 1>On the same page.

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<v Speaker 4>That's why I just sit.

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<v Speaker 1>At home same. I hope you enjoyed this episode. It

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<v Speaker 1>got a little dark, a little dark, but it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. You know, we're gonna hit highs and then

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<v Speaker 1>there are gonna be times where the boner episode is

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<v Speaker 1>you old said, and we're talking about death and not

0:30:30.960 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 1>leaving our mark that we wanted to. But you know

0:30:33.520 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 1>what I feel like, if you're listening to the Give

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Them Lalla podcast, you're out in these streets making a

0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:40.640
<v Speaker 1>fucking difference. And I also feel like you're just cool

0:30:40.640 --> 0:30:43.600
<v Speaker 1>as shit and you're just a vibe. So like, keep

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 1>your head up, don't worry about your deathbed. You're gonna

0:30:45.920 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 1>go out and be like you know what I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Dope shit again. Reminder, Bonus episodes drop every single Monday

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<v Speaker 1>Follow those What are those handles, Jessica.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe, And for Instagram, it's give them Alla pod.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on, guys, I want to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>it's give them all a pod.

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<v Speaker 5>On TikTok as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Love it. I love you guys, and I will catch

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<v Speaker 1>you on Monday and on Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 5>Love y'all. Bye,