WEBVTT - How Creepy Is Too Creepy?

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<v Speaker 1>By myself. Is that creepy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes see, I mean, but listen to it. It's mostly

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<v Speaker 2>for families. So unless you're going to go trigger treating

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<v Speaker 2>as an adult, which is another whole creepy thing of

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<v Speaker 2>adults that decide to go trigger treating without their kids

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<v Speaker 2>and get candy.

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<v Speaker 3>It like, do you understand that? Though? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, know, that's why I haven't. I didn't take part

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<v Speaker 4>in that activity. I didn't take part in the concert.

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<v Speaker 4>Now wait, there's another one. So so one of our

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<v Speaker 4>Brooklyn we did this on the Brooklyn Boys and one

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<v Speaker 4>of our slices, she said, hey, scary.

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<v Speaker 1>I did a solo trip. I'm a female.

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<v Speaker 4>I did a solo trip by myself. I went to

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<v Speaker 4>Walt Disney World and I walked in and we were

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<v Speaker 4>hung out. We went on the rides and I met

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<v Speaker 4>some fun families. I even held the little girl's hand

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<v Speaker 4>by the end of the train, one of the listeners

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<v Speaker 4>of the Brooklyn Boys. Okay, so right there, I stopped

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<v Speaker 4>it and I said, look at this. I said, that

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<v Speaker 4>is a double standard because she can get away with

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<v Speaker 4>that because she's a woman. Now, imagine me in a

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<v Speaker 4>Disney World by myself, riding all the rides.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I get away with that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think you can get away with riding all the rides,

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<v Speaker 2>But it's when you try to friend a family that

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<v Speaker 2>is a little creepy, Like I mean, they have single

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<v Speaker 2>single lane ride that you can go on Acceptable Foolish

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<v Speaker 2>and Disney World by myself because.

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<v Speaker 3>There's so many people there.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's the moment where you start to have conversation

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<v Speaker 2>with other people and they're like, oh, who are you

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<v Speaker 2>here with? And you're like, by myself, And then that's

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<v Speaker 2>where it kinda goes from normal to creepy.

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<v Speaker 5>And yes, the sex definitely makes a difference. Because I

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<v Speaker 5>was away with my daughters and we went to a

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<v Speaker 5>habachi place and it was just me and my two

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<v Speaker 5>daughters and some woman was sitting there by herself, enjoying

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<v Speaker 5>a drink, and she was from Atlanta, and we started

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<v Speaker 5>talking and she was talking to the kids, and the

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<v Speaker 5>whole thing if it was reversed and it was me

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<v Speaker 5>talking to a mom with two girls, it was a.

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<v Speaker 1>Man sitting by himself. Would you and your daughters have

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<v Speaker 1>befriended this guy?

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<v Speaker 5>My daughters wouldn't be friend of a weird creepy But

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<v Speaker 5>if he started talking he started.

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<v Speaker 1>Having habachi by himself. Yeah, you have been so friendly

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<v Speaker 1>and gotten into that conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>If he started talking to us, no, I would think

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<v Speaker 5>that that's weird. It's one thing if if I was like, hey, man,

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<v Speaker 5>what's up by you by yourself? But I mean I

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<v Speaker 5>I approached this woman because she was by herself, and

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<v Speaker 5>I felt bad and I'm like, hey, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>And so we all had a conversation. But I think

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<v Speaker 5>if it was a dude, then it's creepy.

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<v Speaker 2>You go to hibachi by yourself, no matter who you are,

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<v Speaker 2>male or female, that's just creepy. And it is because

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<v Speaker 2>you're you're an adult watching someone throws shrimp into the herd.

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<v Speaker 6>Goes to haibachi by themselves, that is very strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to a cat, but you have to be entertained

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<v Speaker 3>by an adult when have.

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<v Speaker 7>An omelet do not go to the freaking hibachi. Catch

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<v Speaker 7>a freaking flaming onion and you want.

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<v Speaker 3>To see the rice heart by yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know the woman lost her husband

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<v Speaker 5>that she wanted to I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what the reason was. But she was by herself, and

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<v Speaker 5>she was sweet, and it was cool, but if it

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<v Speaker 5>was a dude, or you know, if it was me

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<v Speaker 5>and I was just said by myself and I started

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<v Speaker 5>talking to some guy with his daughters, Yeah that would

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<v Speaker 5>be weird. Yeah right, and speaking of you were talking

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<v Speaker 5>about Halloween and creepy whatever. So this happens to me

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<v Speaker 5>every freaking year. So my daughter Cooper still likes to

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<v Speaker 5>go trigger treating, but she meets up with her friends

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever. So I wind up walking over to my parents'

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<v Speaker 5>house with her in whatever costume that she and I

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<v Speaker 5>are in, but she.

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<v Speaker 1>Always deserts me.

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<v Speaker 5>So like this year, I left my parents' house, which

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<v Speaker 5>is like four blocks away from my house, and it

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<v Speaker 5>was just me dressed in a weird sweater pushing a

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<v Speaker 5>shopping cart and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I walking four blocks with an M and M

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<v Speaker 3>with an M and M.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, But so I walked to you know, my parents'

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<v Speaker 5>house with her, and that was okay because I was

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<v Speaker 5>with my daughter's trick of treating alone now right, But

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<v Speaker 5>I'm walking home at dusk and it's almost dark and

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<v Speaker 5>here I am this creepy dude with a sweater and

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<v Speaker 5>a collar, and I'm with a shopping cart and with

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<v Speaker 5>an eminem in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking at that adults carrying a kid in the shopping

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<v Speaker 2>guard he probably stole them from the supermarket.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so, I mean you look like lollipops exactly. Any

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<v Speaker 5>little kidies want to get in my cart.

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<v Speaker 6>Follow me, kiddies come into my white vant.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway.

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<v Speaker 7>By the way, speaking of white fants, yesterday, my husband

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<v Speaker 7>and I were sitting forgot where we were, and there

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<v Speaker 7>was a white van that pulled up, and they were

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<v Speaker 7>giving out something from the van speaker, and people were

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<v Speaker 7>going in the van, and I said to my husband,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, I don't think I would ever. I don't

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<v Speaker 7>care what they're giving out. I'm not going to into

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<v Speaker 7>this strange white.

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<v Speaker 3>Van people were going in. People didn't care.

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<v Speaker 6>It was not Canal Street. I'm just letting you know

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<v Speaker 6>that scurio.

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<v Speaker 5>I've just like, have you ever traveled by yourself? Have

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<v Speaker 5>you gone away on a plane or whatever and gone

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<v Speaker 5>on vacation alone on purpose?

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<v Speaker 1>Never?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I mean I've gone away by myself knowing that

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<v Speaker 4>the city I'm going to usually Miami or somewhere else,

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<v Speaker 4>or I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to meet somebody but my friends, or I'll meet

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<v Speaker 1>up with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't mind traveling by myself as long as when

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<v Speaker 4>I get to the destination, I'm with other people. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so I have to have at least one of my

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<v Speaker 4>one of my guy friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So you would never like on purpose.

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<v Speaker 4>On purpose on my own vacation where I know nobody

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<v Speaker 4>the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, shot, I think start with baby steps. Start

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<v Speaker 2>with a movie, because you don't have to have conversation

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<v Speaker 2>with anybody during the movie. I mean you don't have to,

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<v Speaker 2>but it.

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<v Speaker 6>Depends on what kind of movie. Don't go to see,

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<v Speaker 6>like you know, Ca Pop Demon Hunters by yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't see Leland Stitch.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had dinner at the bar counter by myself. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>so that was something that wouldn't have done.

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<v Speaker 5>Ten y But you're on your phone the whole time

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<v Speaker 5>because you're so nervous that people think you're a loser.

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<v Speaker 1>Not necessarily.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel the most comfortable at a counter of a

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<v Speaker 4>restaurant or a bar eating or if I went for

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<v Speaker 4>sushi and like, you know, you see them making it

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<v Speaker 4>in front of you. That's cool, But I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>the movie is a little maybe in the afternoon. I

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<v Speaker 4>could do an afternoon movie by myself. Wouldn't do a

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<v Speaker 4>Saturday Night nine o'clock film.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I was thinking about you the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go to a conveyor belt sushi with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I would just have like enjoyment and seeing

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<v Speaker 2>like what you could take down.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing would get past us and passed by.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I think Scary could really just like

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<v Speaker 2>go to town on this and just have some fun

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<v Speaker 2>like you.

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<v Speaker 6>We opened another conveyor belt restaurant with all other things

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<v Speaker 6>not just sushi, like cheeseburgers and French fries and chicken

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<v Speaker 6>fingers and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You need something small, so maybe maybe chicken nut, like

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<v Speaker 2>a chicken finger type of what you need, something small

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<v Speaker 2>you can.

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<v Speaker 4>Put some wrong, something that doesn't that that holds well.

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<v Speaker 4>If it could go around a few times, the burger

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<v Speaker 4>would get stale, and so would French fries would become

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<v Speaker 4>But how long would.

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<v Speaker 6>French fries go around before someone wouldn't grab those?

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<v Speaker 4>Come on?

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<v Speaker 3>No, of course, it maybe two or three times at best.

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<v Speaker 4>But sushi has a lot lasts a lot longer because

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<v Speaker 4>it's a cold item.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Maybe I guess I'm just saying, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, that's pretty cool food. For thought? Is that it?

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<v Speaker 6>The podcast all right?

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