WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Forbidden Love

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<v Speaker 1>Second. Most of the time, whenever we talk about forbidden

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<v Speaker 1>love on the show, it's about Brooke and her insatiable

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<v Speaker 1>thirst for her cousin Ron. Stop it. I do not

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<v Speaker 1>like my cousin, not anymore, Oh my god. But alas,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not dealing with that type of forbidden love, at

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<v Speaker 1>least not today. One of our listeners, Mark says he

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<v Speaker 1>dipped a toe into the forbidden pool of romance recently,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's afraid the lifeguard won't let him cannonball all

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<v Speaker 1>the way in, so he needs our he Mark, Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show, man. Hey, thank you, Oh man, I

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<v Speaker 1>love a good, juicy story. I mean, I'm dying to

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<v Speaker 1>know who you're talking about. Yeah, it's all us your situation. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have a best friend Stewart. I'm going by Stu.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been really good friends since college. Oh, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to take it to the next level? No? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I thought forbid your best friend. Now I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>straight sella and uh, you know and I have been

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<v Speaker 1>really good buddies since college. You know, I know his family.

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<v Speaker 1>I will go over his house all the time. He

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<v Speaker 1>loves my family. That's the best. When you can just

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<v Speaker 1>like walk in. Yeah, like you're the second son. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you prefer their family to your own family. Actually, most

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<v Speaker 1>of the time, would take any family. Okay, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice to have a close friend from college. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's like a brother to me. And I'm just afraid

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<v Speaker 1>it may have ruined everything because I low key had

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<v Speaker 1>crushed on his younger sister Lisa for a while. You

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<v Speaker 1>did you hook up with her already? Um? Yeah, something

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<v Speaker 1>did happen, you know, but it's been one of those

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<v Speaker 1>things where you know, I couldn't even ask because he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be cool with it. Oh really, he wouldn't be. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's two different types. Like I have a friend who's

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<v Speaker 1>literally always asked like, bro, you should date my sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Would be so cool? Yeah, stay away. I asked my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend from high school if I could date his

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<v Speaker 1>little sister and he said yes. But then I asked

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<v Speaker 1>the sister and she said no. So that was a

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<v Speaker 1>super low moment. Yeah, legally we're supposed to. Yeah, that's rough.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really weird too, Like it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of aggressive on your bros part. It may

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<v Speaker 1>be weird. I mean, how old's a little sister how

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<v Speaker 1>much younger she's seen a few years younger. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing crazy, all right, So what happened. I was recently

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<v Speaker 1>single and I was at a bar and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa there. I went over and started talking to her

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<v Speaker 1>and we were laughing about something, and I said, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just under different circumstances. You know, I wasn't friends with

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<v Speaker 1>your brother. I would have asked you out a long

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<v Speaker 1>time ago. That's a lot yea. Yeah, you had to

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<v Speaker 1>have been drunk when he said that, a little buzz. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little bit of that's confidence. Yeah. What

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<v Speaker 1>did she say to that? She was like, well, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you should do it anyway. Oh god, this is why

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted an older brother. I never had one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, their friends would be so cute. Up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, like friends with older brothers always had hot guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You'd like to salute around with everybody and your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Alexa. Okay, we got it. So she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>you to ask her out. Yeah. I took that as

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<v Speaker 1>a go ahead. So I was like, what are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing ten minutes from now? And she said, oh, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm busy, but I'm available five minutes from now. I like, Lisa. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do have a good banter. Was it fun? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like meeting me outside in five So we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up walking around and grabbing food at a food truck

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<v Speaker 1>and we kind of set up making out so fun

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<v Speaker 1>and it probably felt like you know, it's always fun

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<v Speaker 1>when it's a little dangerous. Yeah, what was good, because

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<v Speaker 1>there's a whole build up to that moment. Was it

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<v Speaker 1>as good as you had thought it would be? It

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<v Speaker 1>was great, And I mean we had I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>have a connection. You know, we had a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>fun to hang out, and you know, we had known

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<v Speaker 1>each other for so long, so it was a little

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<v Speaker 1>you know, weird kissing someone that you know that you've

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<v Speaker 1>known for for that long. But yeah, I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>good news. How did it? How did that night end? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, we can't tell your brother about this,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, M a grown woman. I can make my

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<v Speaker 1>own decisions. I was gonna say that you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>both adults, and now, I mean that makes it feel

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<v Speaker 1>really immature by by trying to keep a secret. But

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<v Speaker 1>I get why you're worried about it. If you really

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<v Speaker 1>think he'd be that upset, Well, it kind of changed

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<v Speaker 1>my tune after that, and I said, if anybody's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell him, if it's got to be me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of need some time to figure out how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Okay, what'd you say to that? Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of got into a disagreement and it really

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<v Speaker 1>just ended sort of weird. Oh Oh, did she like

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<v Speaker 1>immediately leave and text her brother? Does he know? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Everything seems to be okay with two. She's

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<v Speaker 1>not treating me different and I haven't brought it up,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't think she said anything. Okay. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully she did and he's cool with it, but doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound likely. Do you want to date her or do

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<v Speaker 1>you just wanted it to be with that one night?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything except for the end was awesome, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to keep hanging out with her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you would like to see her. Let's take a quick

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<v Speaker 1>vote around the room. Do we think that this is

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<v Speaker 1>a good idea for him to date his best friend's

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<v Speaker 1>younger sister Alexis? Yeah? Why not? Yeah? Okay, Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>into it. Yeah, the girls love Yeah. The worst thing

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen you lose your best friend. Yeah. The

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<v Speaker 1>romantic in me loves this because if you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fast forwarding here, end up getting engaged or worried.

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<v Speaker 1>You already have a family's blessing. You missed a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of They kissed outside of a kill awesome truck, just

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<v Speaker 1>saying the romantic in me things. This will go very well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm gonna I'm gonna vote no. This is

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<v Speaker 1>probably not a good idea, but we're gonna that's all

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<v Speaker 1>because you were rejected by a sister. If I can't

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<v Speaker 1>have my best friends anyway, we're gonna call your best

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<v Speaker 1>friend's sister, Lisa and try and get you a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right after this. All right, that's the awesome thing.

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Hold on second, we're running a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>short on time, so I'm gonna do a quick recap.

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<v Speaker 1>A guy has a best friend from college, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>had a crush on his friend's little sister for a

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<v Speaker 1>few years now. One night, they ran into each other

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar, ended up hanging out the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the evening, and even kissed outside of a food truck. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and Mark, here's my question, because I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure I heard it correctly. You definitely don't think

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<v Speaker 1>her brother knows about this. No way, he would have

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<v Speaker 1>freaked out on me by now for sure. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>when do you want to tell him? Like a month

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<v Speaker 1>in a year when you start popping out nieces and nephews.

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<v Speaker 1>He when's the good time at the wedding? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it depends on what happens. Really, just play

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<v Speaker 1>it by a year. But today we're calling the little sister, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not calling I mean, when was the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you talked to her? Yeah? I haven't really talked to

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<v Speaker 1>her since all this went down, Oh about three weeks?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh wow, no checks. I have no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to get on the other line when we

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<v Speaker 1>call her, like we're a girl hopefully well I know

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<v Speaker 1>she angry. Yeah, Okay, I'm going in with a positive attitude. Okay, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>you always do, jeff someone has to. Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Calling Lisa right now here we go. Okay, Hello, Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is this Lisa? Yeah? This is she Lisa. How's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the right now? Okay, wait, who is this? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a morning show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and we are excited to talk to you. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>have a very interesting conversation looming here. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand what's happening. I don't understand what you mean

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<v Speaker 1>by a radio. Don't know what a radio. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of explaining to do here. We also do

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. Does that help? Probably? Okay? But why are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling me? Yeah, we're calling becausin. We're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>segment called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a little bit about your interaction about three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago with a guy named Mark, the family named Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to label anything. Okay, what did he tell you? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say? Yeah? Yeah, the whole have you

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<v Speaker 1>guys met up randomly at a bar one night and

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<v Speaker 1>ran into each other there, hung out the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. You guys went to a food truck. You

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<v Speaker 1>remember this, right, Yeah, I very vividly remember this night. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you think? Yeah? Yeah? I mean, can you

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<v Speaker 1>start for the beginning, like when Mark said I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you about on a date, Like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your brother's best friend. What were you thinking? So?

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<v Speaker 1>At birth? I actually was like into it, just because

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<v Speaker 1>I've always felt like Mark is kind of hot and

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<v Speaker 1>fun and like, okay, it was exciting and felt this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna sound strange, but like a little bit dangerous

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<v Speaker 1>and risky going behind my brother's back because yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how much you know, but like Mark is

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<v Speaker 1>best friends with my older brothers too. Yeah, okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>because of that though, after we kind of had our

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<v Speaker 1>and we like kind of made out whatever, um, And

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<v Speaker 1>then immediately Mark was like, but you can't tell your

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<v Speaker 1>brother and that felt really gross to me, like really controlling. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that felt like a red flag. Well, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he was like trying to kill the romance or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he was just honestly worried that he might

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<v Speaker 1>be blowing up a good friendship for this who wants

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<v Speaker 1>to keep the goods with everybody, I guess, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>not attractive to me, Like you're making out with me

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<v Speaker 1>and now you're you're acting scared. I don't tell anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>He probably should have waited him in five minutes or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we told him that sounded pretty immature when

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<v Speaker 1>he retold that. I mean he told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys got into an argument about it, and it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like he kind of realized that too. Honestly, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a little too late because I decided for sure I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to tell my brother. Oh so wait, when

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<v Speaker 1>did you tell him that night? What was his response? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my brother was cool with it, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a big deal. Shirt Wait what seriously, hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>why was Mark so in his head about your brother

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<v Speaker 1>being so weird about it? Then? Like yeah, he was

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<v Speaker 1>like for certain that his best room be like deep,

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<v Speaker 1>myst sister, she's mine, Yeah, weird. Well that's weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's whatever. So your brother was actually fine exactly, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>Mark the good guy. If you want to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, that's cool with me for someone. But the riskiness,

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<v Speaker 1>the dangerous part of it was gone, which like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine, not all my relationships need to be that.

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<v Speaker 1>But then it just started becoming weird for me, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be like making out with my brother's

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<v Speaker 1>best friend. This guy knows all my brother's deep secrets.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's not something. So it didn't freak your brother out,

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<v Speaker 1>it freaked you out to think about the risk and

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<v Speaker 1>the danger was gone, and then so that romance left.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, what if I told you, if you're into

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<v Speaker 1>risk in danger. There's been somebody secretly listening in on

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation on the other line. What he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you? I just don't really know what this is.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? I mean Mark has been quietly listening,

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to jump in and super creepy than risk. It's dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a dangerous bay. Oh yeah either, bad boy. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so Mark heard everything? I just said, Yes, you can

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<v Speaker 1>ask them or do there? Mark? You told your brother,

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<v Speaker 1>like right off the bath, that's what you did. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm able to make my own decisions and I decided

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Yes, that's the first thing you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say about all of this. I just I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you would do that, Like that

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<v Speaker 1>would be your first instinct when I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>worried about it, but whatever, I mean, he was cool

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<v Speaker 1>with it, Mark, Yes, I mean that's unexpected. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to be cautious about relationships. See that's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem right there. Mark, You're trying to be cautious

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<v Speaker 1>and she's into dangers. Got to be dangerous if that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm still plenty dangerous. Really, Yeah, your your your

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<v Speaker 1>family would hate it. If we hooked up. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think family, like, have you told your mom about it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>believe it or not. I didn't call my mom. You're

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<v Speaker 1>You're lucky you didn't tell your mom. She would have

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<v Speaker 1>been super angry and pissed. Oh dangerous. Don't tell the

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<v Speaker 1>dog either, family anymore? Your best friend und he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make it sound dangerous. And if you think your

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<v Speaker 1>parents would be up set, no, I think they'd be

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<v Speaker 1>fine with it too, which makes it? Can you actually

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<v Speaker 1>more lame? I mean Mark, I think not everyone approving

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<v Speaker 1>of a healthy relationship. I think we need to play

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<v Speaker 1>up Mark's good parts. Right. Everyone says he's a great

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<v Speaker 1>guy in your family, he obviously likes you, and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys know each other really well, like that can be

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<v Speaker 1>a real foundation for something. Yeah, but I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like with Mark specifically, i'd want it to

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<v Speaker 1>feel more dangerous and it doesn't. And so that's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of where I'm at. Okay, so maybe that was

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<v Speaker 1>the interact. I do other dangerous things, you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>gamble until I have no money. That okay, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>just irresponsible. But I'm not dangerous. He's like, I also

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<v Speaker 1>have horrible credit. What do you think of that? Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I mean, what we would like to do,

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa is send you and Mark out on another day

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<v Speaker 1>and we would pay for it. You see that? Look

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<v Speaker 1>at that a man who won't even pay for his

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<v Speaker 1>own dates, oh because he ran out of money gamble.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't that naughty? What do you think, Lisa? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>hear that you want to do that, and Mark probably

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<v Speaker 1>wants to do that, But I do not want to

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<v Speaker 1>look at that. We finally found someone that doesn't approve

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<v Speaker 1>of the relationship. Dating him would go against your own wishes.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't get any more naughty and risky than that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that. Jeff Yeah, yeah, yeah, but listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to say I'm okay with us still being friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, all of this is really awkward. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe let's shift have some distance for a bit

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll see you when I think you okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>you have Thanksgiving? Okay, Wow, I definitely shouldn't have kids

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Okay, maybe we can do. I'll laugh about

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<v Speaker 1>this in the future and Thanksgiving Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,