1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:06,359 Speaker 1: Second. Most of the time, whenever we talk about forbidden 2 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: love on the show, it's about Brooke and her insatiable 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: thirst for her cousin Ron. Stop it. I do not 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: like my cousin, not anymore, Oh my god. But alas, 5 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: we're not dealing with that type of forbidden love, at 6 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: least not today. One of our listeners, Mark says he 7 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: dipped a toe into the forbidden pool of romance recently, 8 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: and he's afraid the lifeguard won't let him cannonball all 9 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: the way in, so he needs our he Mark, Welcome 10 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: to the show, man. Hey, thank you, Oh man, I 11 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 1: love a good, juicy story. I mean, I'm dying to 12 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: know who you're talking about. Yeah, it's all us your situation. Okay, Well, 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: so I have a best friend Stewart. I'm going by Stu. 14 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: We've been really good friends since college. Oh, do you 15 00:00:55,920 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: want to take it to the next level? No? Okay, 16 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: well I thought forbid your best friend. Now I'm a 17 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: straight sella and uh, you know and I have been 18 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: really good buddies since college. You know, I know his family. 19 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: I will go over his house all the time. He 20 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: loves my family. That's the best. When you can just 21 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: like walk in. Yeah, like you're the second son. Sometimes 22 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,960 Speaker 1: you prefer their family to your own family. Actually, most 23 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: of the time, would take any family. Okay, that's cool. 24 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: It's nice to have a close friend from college. Yeah, 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: he's like a brother to me. And I'm just afraid 26 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: it may have ruined everything because I low key had 27 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: crushed on his younger sister Lisa for a while. You 28 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: did you hook up with her already? Um? Yeah, something 29 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: did happen, you know, but it's been one of those 30 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 1: things where you know, I couldn't even ask because he 31 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't be cool with it. Oh really, he wouldn't be. Well, 32 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: there's two different types. Like I have a friend who's 33 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: literally always asked like, bro, you should date my sister. 34 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: Would be so cool? Yeah, stay away. I asked my 35 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: best friend from high school if I could date his 36 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: little sister and he said yes. But then I asked 37 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: the sister and she said no. So that was a 38 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: super low moment. Yeah, legally we're supposed to. Yeah, that's rough. 39 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 1: I think it's really weird too, Like it's just like 40 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: a kind of aggressive on your bros part. It may 41 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: be weird. I mean, how old's a little sister how 42 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: much younger she's seen a few years younger. I mean, 43 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: nothing crazy, all right, So what happened. I was recently 44 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: single and I was at a bar and I saw 45 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 1: Lisa there. I went over and started talking to her 46 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: and we were laughing about something, and I said, it's 47 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: just under different circumstances. You know, I wasn't friends with 48 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 1: your brother. I would have asked you out a long 49 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: time ago. That's a lot yea. Yeah, you had to 50 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:59,119 Speaker 1: have been drunk when he said that, a little buzz. Yeah, 51 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: I got a little bit of that's confidence. Yeah. What 52 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: did she say to that? She was like, well, maybe 53 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: you should do it anyway. Oh god, this is why 54 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: I always wanted an older brother. I never had one. 55 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, their friends would be so cute. Up. Yeah, 56 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: I agree, like friends with older brothers always had hot guys. 57 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: You'd like to salute around with everybody and your friends. 58 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Alexa. Okay, we got it. So she wanted 59 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: you to ask her out. Yeah. I took that as 60 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: a go ahead. So I was like, what are you 61 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: doing ten minutes from now? And she said, oh, she said, 62 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm busy, but I'm available five minutes from now. I like, Lisa. Actually, 63 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,119 Speaker 1: you guys do have a good banter. Was it fun? Yeah, 64 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: She's like meeting me outside in five So we ended 65 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: up walking around and grabbing food at a food truck 66 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: and we kind of set up making out so fun 67 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: and it probably felt like you know, it's always fun 68 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: when it's a little dangerous. Yeah, what was good, because 69 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: there's a whole build up to that moment. Was it 70 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: as good as you had thought it would be? It 71 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: was great, And I mean we had I mean, we 72 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: have a connection. You know, we had a lot of 73 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: fun to hang out, and you know, we had known 74 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: each other for so long, so it was a little 75 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: you know, weird kissing someone that you know that you've 76 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: known for for that long. But yeah, I mean that's 77 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: good news. How did it? How did that night end? Well? 78 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: I was like, we can't tell your brother about this, 79 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: he said, M a grown woman. I can make my 80 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: own decisions. I was gonna say that you guys are 81 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: both adults, and now, I mean that makes it feel 82 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: really immature by by trying to keep a secret. But 83 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: I get why you're worried about it. If you really 84 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: think he'd be that upset, Well, it kind of changed 85 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 1: my tune after that, and I said, if anybody's gonna 86 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: tell him, if it's got to be me, and I 87 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: kind of need some time to figure out how to 88 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: do that. Okay, what'd you say to that? Well, we 89 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: just kind of got into a disagreement and it really 90 00:04:55,520 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: just ended sort of weird. Oh Oh, did she like 91 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: immediately leave and text her brother? Does he know? I 92 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 1: don't know. Everything seems to be okay with two. She's 93 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 1: not treating me different and I haven't brought it up, 94 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: so I don't think she said anything. Okay. I mean 95 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: hopefully she did and he's cool with it, but doesn't 96 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 1: sound likely. Do you want to date her or do 97 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: you just wanted it to be with that one night? 98 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: Everything except for the end was awesome, and I you know, 99 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 1: I would love to keep hanging out with her. Okay, 100 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: you would like to see her. Let's take a quick 101 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: vote around the room. Do we think that this is 102 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: a good idea for him to date his best friend's 103 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: younger sister Alexis? Yeah? Why not? Yeah? Okay, Yeah, I'm 104 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: into it. Yeah, the girls love Yeah. The worst thing 105 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: that can happen you lose your best friend. Yeah. The 106 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: romantic in me loves this because if you guys do 107 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm fast forwarding here, end up getting engaged or worried. 108 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: You already have a family's blessing. You missed a lot 109 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: of They kissed outside of a kill awesome truck, just 110 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: saying the romantic in me things. This will go very well. Okay, 111 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: And so I'm gonna I'm gonna vote no. This is 112 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: probably not a good idea, but we're gonna that's all 113 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: because you were rejected by a sister. If I can't 114 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: have my best friends anyway, we're gonna call your best 115 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 1: friend's sister, Lisa and try and get you a second 116 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: date update right after this. All right, that's the awesome thing. 117 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: All right? Hold on second, we're running a little bit 118 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: short on time, so I'm gonna do a quick recap. 119 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: A guy has a best friend from college, and he's 120 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: had a crush on his friend's little sister for a 121 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: few years now. One night, they ran into each other 122 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: at a bar, ended up hanging out the rest of 123 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: the evening, and even kissed outside of a food truck. Yeah, 124 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: and Mark, here's my question, because I just want to 125 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: make sure I heard it correctly. You definitely don't think 126 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: her brother knows about this. No way, he would have 127 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: freaked out on me by now for sure. Okay, so 128 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: when do you want to tell him? Like a month 129 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: in a year when you start popping out nieces and nephews. 130 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: He when's the good time at the wedding? I don't know. 131 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: I guess it depends on what happens. Really, just play 132 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: it by a year. But today we're calling the little sister, right, 133 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: we're not calling I mean, when was the last time 134 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: you talked to her? Yeah? I haven't really talked to 135 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: her since all this went down, Oh about three weeks? 136 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, no checks. I have no idea what 137 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: we're going to get on the other line when we 138 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: call her, like we're a girl hopefully well I know 139 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: she angry. Yeah, Okay, I'm going in with a positive attitude. Okay, Mark, 140 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: you always do, jeff someone has to. Let's do it. 141 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: Calling Lisa right now here we go. Okay, Hello, Hey 142 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: is this Lisa? Yeah? This is she Lisa. How's it going? 143 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: You're on the right now? Okay, wait, who is this? Well, 144 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: we're a morning show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, 145 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: and we are excited to talk to you. Yeah, we 146 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: have a very interesting conversation looming here. I think I 147 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: don't understand what's happening. I don't understand what you mean 148 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: by a radio. Don't know what a radio. We have 149 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: a lot of explaining to do here. We also do 150 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: a podcast. Does that help? Probably? Okay? But why are 151 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: you calling me? Yeah, we're calling becausin. We're doing a 152 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: segment called a second Date Update, and we're trying to 153 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: ask you a little bit about your interaction about three 154 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: weeks ago with a guy named Mark, the family named Mark. 155 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to label anything. Okay, what did he tell you? Like? 156 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: What did he say? Yeah? Yeah, the whole have you 157 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 1: guys met up randomly at a bar one night and 158 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: ran into each other there, hung out the rest of 159 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: the night. You guys went to a food truck. You 160 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: remember this, right, Yeah, I very vividly remember this night. Okay, Okay, 161 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: what did you think? Yeah? Yeah? I mean, can you 162 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: start for the beginning, like when Mark said I want 163 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: to ask you about on a date, Like, I mean, 164 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: it's your brother's best friend. What were you thinking? So? 165 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: At birth? I actually was like into it, just because 166 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: I've always felt like Mark is kind of hot and 167 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: fun and like, okay, it was exciting and felt this 168 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: is gonna sound strange, but like a little bit dangerous 169 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: and risky going behind my brother's back because yeah, I 170 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: don't know how much you know, but like Mark is 171 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: best friends with my older brothers too. Yeah, okay, Well 172 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 1: because of that though, after we kind of had our 173 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: and we like kind of made out whatever, um, And 174 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: then immediately Mark was like, but you can't tell your 175 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: brother and that felt really gross to me, like really controlling. Yeah, 176 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: like that felt like a red flag. Well, I don't 177 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: think he was like trying to kill the romance or anything. 178 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: I think he was just honestly worried that he might 179 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: be blowing up a good friendship for this who wants 180 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: to keep the goods with everybody, I guess, but that's 181 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 1: not attractive to me, Like you're making out with me 182 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: and now you're you're acting scared. I don't tell anybody. 183 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:34,240 Speaker 1: He probably should have waited him in five minutes or something. 184 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: I mean, we told him that sounded pretty immature when 185 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: he retold that. I mean he told us that you 186 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 1: guys got into an argument about it, and it sounded 187 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: like he kind of realized that too. Honestly, it was 188 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: a little too late because I decided for sure I 189 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: was going to tell my brother. Oh so wait, when 190 00:10:52,840 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: did you tell him that night? What was his response? Well, 191 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: my brother was cool with it, and I was like, oh, 192 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: that's not a big deal. Shirt Wait what seriously, hmmm, 193 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: why was Mark so in his head about your brother 194 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: being so weird about it? Then? Like yeah, he was 195 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: like for certain that his best room be like deep, 196 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: myst sister, she's mine, Yeah, weird. Well that's weird. Yeah, 197 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: that's whatever. So your brother was actually fine exactly, he said, 198 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: Mark the good guy. If you want to hang out 199 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: with him, that's cool with me for someone. But the riskiness, 200 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: the dangerous part of it was gone, which like, okay, 201 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: that's fine, not all my relationships need to be that. 202 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: But then it just started becoming weird for me, like, oh, 203 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: I'm going to be like making out with my brother's 204 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: best friend. This guy knows all my brother's deep secrets. 205 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: Like that's not something. So it didn't freak your brother out, 206 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 1: it freaked you out to think about the risk and 207 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: the danger was gone, and then so that romance left. 208 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 1: But like, what if I told you, if you're into 209 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: risk in danger. There's been somebody secretly listening in on 210 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: this conversation on the other line. What he wanted to 211 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: talk to you? I just don't really know what this is. 212 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: What do you mean? I mean Mark has been quietly listening, 213 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 1: wanting to jump in and super creepy than risk. It's dangerous. 214 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: He's a dangerous bay. Oh yeah either, bad boy. Wait, 215 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: so Mark heard everything? I just said, Yes, you can 216 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 1: ask them or do there? Mark? You told your brother, 217 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: like right off the bath, that's what you did. Of course, 218 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm able to make my own decisions and I decided 219 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: to do that. Yes, that's the first thing you have 220 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: to say about all of this. I just I mean, 221 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: I don't know why you would do that, Like that 222 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: would be your first instinct when I was like, I'm 223 00:12:56,800 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: worried about it, but whatever, I mean, he was cool 224 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,719 Speaker 1: with it, Mark, Yes, I mean that's unexpected. And I 225 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 1: was just trying to be cautious about relationships. See that's 226 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: the problem right there. Mark, You're trying to be cautious 227 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 1: and she's into dangers. Got to be dangerous if that's true. 228 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: I'm I'm still plenty dangerous. Really, Yeah, your your your 229 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: family would hate it. If we hooked up. I don't 230 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: think family, like, have you told your mom about it? No, 231 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: believe it or not. I didn't call my mom. You're 232 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: You're lucky you didn't tell your mom. She would have 233 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: been super angry and pissed. Oh dangerous. Don't tell the 234 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: dog either, family anymore? Your best friend und he's trying 235 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: to make it sound dangerous. And if you think your 236 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: parents would be up set, no, I think they'd be 237 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: fine with it too, which makes it? Can you actually 238 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: more lame? I mean Mark, I think not everyone approving 239 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 1: of a healthy relationship. I think we need to play 240 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: up Mark's good parts. Right. Everyone says he's a great 241 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: guy in your family, he obviously likes you, and you 242 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: guys know each other really well, like that can be 243 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: a real foundation for something. Yeah, but I'm just saying 244 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: I feel like with Mark specifically, i'd want it to 245 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: feel more dangerous and it doesn't. And so that's just 246 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: kind of where I'm at. Okay, so maybe that was 247 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: the interact. I do other dangerous things, you know. I 248 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 1: gamble until I have no money. That okay, So that's 249 00:14:56,400 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 1: just irresponsible. But I'm not dangerous. He's like, I also 250 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: have horrible credit. What do you think of that? Sometimes? 251 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, what we would like to do, 252 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: Lisa is send you and Mark out on another day 253 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: and we would pay for it. You see that? Look 254 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: at that a man who won't even pay for his 255 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: own dates, oh because he ran out of money gamble. 256 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: Isn't that naughty? What do you think, Lisa? Well, I 257 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: hear that you want to do that, and Mark probably 258 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: wants to do that, But I do not want to 259 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: look at that. We finally found someone that doesn't approve 260 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: of the relationship. Dating him would go against your own wishes. 261 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: He doesn't get any more naughty and risky than that. 262 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: I think that. Jeff Yeah, yeah, yeah, but listen, I 263 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: do want to say I'm okay with us still being friends, 264 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: but like, all of this is really awkward. So I 265 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: think maybe let's shift have some distance for a bit 266 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: and I'll see you when I think you okay, great, 267 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: you have Thanksgiving? Okay, Wow, I definitely shouldn't have kids 268 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: to you. Okay, maybe we can do. I'll laugh about 269 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: this in the future and Thanksgiving Brooke and Jeffrey in 270 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: the morning,