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Speaker 1: come on, dig me now one it only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: This is a good one because today I want to

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Speaker 1: share with you something that affects every living soul, and

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Speaker 1: that one thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It

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Speaker 1: is your attitude. You know. I don't know if anyone's

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Speaker 1: A positive attitude can bring about a change. Well, now

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Speaker 1: Now listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring

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Speaker 1: This is the start. It starts within you. See, life

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Speaker 1: does you having a positive attitude. How does that change

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Speaker 1: Here's what happens when you have a positive attitude. What

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Speaker 1: And when you have a positive attitude and a positive

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Speaker 1: You know, if you want for nothing, then nothing comes

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Speaker 1: Here's a positive attitude. Okay, two things have happened as

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Speaker 1: If you change your attitude, you change your altitude. Altitude

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is upon us,

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Speaker 1: it is here, it is live. That's how I decided

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Speaker 1: my longest running com padre. Shirley Strawberry, Hey good, morning, Steve,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Oh you mean we're friends? Well you know,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, uh huh, what is that your teeth?

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Speaker 1: Something can't be nowhere on the island and nothing of time? Yeah, yeah, Colin,

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Speaker 1: Sister Odell is in the building because why it's women

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Speaker 1: it is women crushed Wednesday, and you know what that means.

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Speaker 1: thank you, Sweedie. You're well. You know you never have

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Speaker 1: But what Tommy, it was the way you should. Let's

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Speaker 1: step Tommy. I didn't mean y'all outside yourself, yes, man,

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Speaker 1: just push some push some speck on my name now, yes, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: thank you, go ahead, shitty. Yeah, I didn't have any cherish.

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Speaker 1: because I know I made a difference in someone's life.

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Speaker 1: So good for Nai. Yeah, that's really giving back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's really good man. Yeah, get the people back there

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Speaker 1: to should some hope too, you know. Yeah, you just

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Speaker 1: gotta see you know, you gotta see somebody else done it.

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Speaker 1: They've been in it like you in it. That's all

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Speaker 1: inspiration is just glimpse, you know, Like I read the

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Speaker 1: other day, I want to live my life so when

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Speaker 1: somebody looks at me one day they say I made

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Speaker 1: it because of you or something you said, I heard you,

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Speaker 1: and everybody should want that, be able to put that

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Speaker 1: on your resume. Yeah, it gives you hope. If he

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Speaker 1: can do it, I can do it. You know, there's

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Speaker 1: a chance. Wow. And I just love that inspirational story, Steve,

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Speaker 1: because you talk about inspirational. You give out inspiration every

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Speaker 1: single morning. And just like you said this, this young

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Speaker 1: man didn't let surely what you referred to that the

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Speaker 1: shelter manager said in a story he didn't let being homelessness,

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Speaker 1: but his family define Yeah, the future yea. And I

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Speaker 1: just you know, I just love that. Yeah. I think

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Speaker 1: it's really important for transparency. See, you know, so many

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Speaker 1: people get to where they want to goal and then

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Speaker 1: they don't want to be transparent because they don't want

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Speaker 1: people to know this and they don't want people. No, man,

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Speaker 1: that's important. Your journey is important. Your testimony can change

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Speaker 1: the life of somebody coming behind you. Because I don't

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Speaker 1: care what you're going through. Somebody hadn't done it already,

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Speaker 1: that's right, that's right, and it just it gives people

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Speaker 1: hope if they can do it, maybe I can do that.

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Speaker 1: I can do it. You know, they went through it.

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Speaker 1: I can do it, you know. And that's part of

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Speaker 1: your testimony and your journey right there, what you go through,

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Speaker 1: it helps you get to where you are, so, you know,

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Speaker 1: really cool. I definitely like that. I mean, can only

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Speaker 1: imagine him and his family and his brothers and sisters sleeping,

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Speaker 1: being homeless, and then he is able to throw a

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Speaker 1: party for kids. I mean that he gets drafted in

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Speaker 1: the NFL. It's an amazing story. It really is. Going

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Speaker 1: back to that, yeah, yeah, to tell Yeah, he really

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Speaker 1: has a story to tell. Never giving up on your dream,

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Speaker 1: all of that place. All right, Steve, we're gonna go

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Speaker 1: to headlines now, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Tripp, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you, and good morning everyone. Here we go. At

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Speaker 1: least three deaths are blamed this morning on the bad

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Speaker 1: weather in the Deep South this week. There were strong

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Speaker 1: winds and heavy rains overnight in Mississippi's Round Jackson, especially.

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Speaker 1: Flash flood warnings were issued for Alabama, and authorities say

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Speaker 1: that homes would damaged from Texas in a kind of

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Speaker 1: a straight line all the way up to Virginia because

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Speaker 1: of the bad weather. The now infamous Derek Chauvin wants

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Speaker 1: to do over. Chauvin's lawyer has followed the motion seeking

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Speaker 1: a new trial, alleging prosecutorial and jury misconduct, adding that

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Speaker 1: his request for a change of venue should have been

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Speaker 1: granted as well. Attorney Eric Nelson has requested a hearing

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Speaker 1: where the judge would reinterview jurors with the Amish showing

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Speaker 1: that members of the panel committed misconduct because they supposedly

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Speaker 1: felt threatened by race based pressure to convict his client.

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Speaker 1: So the videotape wasn't there right, And also they say

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Speaker 1: one a black jury. He says attended a Black Lives

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Speaker 1: Matter of protests and he lied on his vader and

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Speaker 1: said he didn't. President Biden set up another COVID fighting

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Speaker 1: gold by July fourth to have seventy I'M adult Americans

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Speaker 1: at least one shot and one hundred and sixty million

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Speaker 1: Americans fully vaccinated. It's life and death. The president wants

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Speaker 1: vaccine available on a walk in basis, and even though

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Speaker 1: he admits that there are still people who will not

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Speaker 1: take the shots. He feels that a lot of folks

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Speaker 1: will because they don't want their friends and family members

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Speaker 1: to get sick and maybe die. A Pennsylvania man who

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Speaker 1: used his dead mother's name to vote for Donald Trump

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Speaker 1: says he did it because it was so much propaganda

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Speaker 1: around the election. Seventy year old Bruce Bartman has pled

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Speaker 1: guilty to unlawful voting and perjury. He says that he's

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Speaker 1: been senced to five years probation and he can't vote

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Speaker 1: for four years, and he can't sit in any kind

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Speaker 1: of jury. He says that he was kind of away

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Speaker 1: from people. He was at home, he didn't go anywhere,

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Speaker 1: he voted for Donald Trump erroneously using his mother's name.

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Speaker 1: His mother again had passed away. Former deputy sheriff in

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Speaker 1: Georgia fired last November after investigators found a bunch of

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Speaker 1: text messages he sent to a members of a racist

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Speaker 1: group in California, where he bragged about beating up a

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Speaker 1: black man and calling its sweet stress, release how he'd

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Speaker 1: arrest black people and charge him with felony so they'd

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Speaker 1: lose their right to vote. Cody Griggs, a former marine,

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Speaker 1: also fantasized apparently about a civil war against liberals, Muslims, Hispanics,

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Speaker 1: and other non whites. Finally, yeah, you'd at tax man

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Speaker 1: at tax for his issue to ruling in the battle

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Speaker 1: between the I arrest and Michael Jackson's estate, Michael's side,

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Speaker 1: one judge said Jackson's worth of the time of his

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Speaker 1: death anyway much closer to what the estate said it

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Speaker 1: was and not what the government claimed it was. So

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Speaker 1: the bottom line, no tax pelt he's were levied. Now

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show,

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Speaker 1: all right, So on this wellness Wednesday, we all saw

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Speaker 1: the picture that Will Smith posted yesterday. He says he

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Speaker 1: loves his body that carried him through this entire pandemic

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Speaker 1: and countless days of grazing through the pantry, but he

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Speaker 1: wants to feel better. No more midnight muffins. Will went

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Speaker 1: on to say, midnight muffins are good. He didn't say that,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that. Will went on to say that he

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Speaker 1: wants to get in the best shape of his life,

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Speaker 1: and so he's teaming up with YouTube now to document

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Speaker 1: and get his health and wellness back on track. So

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Speaker 1: good for him, really good for him. So you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like he's posting these pictures saying he's not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: He's in the worst shape of his life, but he's

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Speaker 1: getting the way to monetize it, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Because I mean, he's gonna do it anyway, might as

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Speaker 1: well get paid your Yeah, I know, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean you know how many people are gonna tune in

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Speaker 1: for that and making money off of it. That's a

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Speaker 1: great thing, you know. Yeah, especially if him saying he

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Speaker 1: wants to get into the best shape of his life.

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Speaker 1: It reminds me of Llo cool j when he went

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Speaker 1: on that journey, and you remember that he didn't turned back.

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Speaker 1: He's stayed there the whole time. Yeah, yeah, he went hard. Yeah. No, No,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't look like that anymore, Tommy. No, you're talking

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Speaker 1: about the boxing. You're talking about cool Jeah. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: he he don't look like that video. It's a whole

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Speaker 1: nother lifestyle and you can't live that way. When when

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Speaker 1: you see bodybuilders, when you see bodybuilders that go out

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Speaker 1: for these contests, they go into transformation mold. They don't

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Speaker 1: look like that year round. What about the rock though, Steve,

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Speaker 1: he does when the rock is different? How is it different?

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Speaker 1: Because you said he travels with his gem all of that.

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Speaker 1: You you're gonna do that. I don't take a damn.

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Speaker 1: I don't take a dumbbell with my ass. You didn't

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Speaker 1: have that when you're in Africa, I had. I had

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Speaker 1: some stretched bands and pulling them out twice twice. Man

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Speaker 1: I was man. I was in survival mold man. I

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Speaker 1: had my trainer with me and everything I couldn't between

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Speaker 1: doing family feud in Africa and radio back over here

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Speaker 1: on them time zones. Oh no, dog, I was done,

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Speaker 1: So I turned my train into a security guard checked

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Speaker 1: his body just blowing up in front of your face,

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Speaker 1: coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, A

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Speaker 1: quick round of ass the CLO. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening morning show all right? Time Now for a quick

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Speaker 1: round of asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: in the building. This one's from Andy and Kelly. Andy Rights.

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Speaker 1: I own a small business that I put all my

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Speaker 1: savings into, so it has to work. My wife decided

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Speaker 1: she'd quit her job to help me full time because

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Speaker 1: she hated her job. Not only is it frustrating to

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Speaker 1: be around her? Twenty four to seven? But the loss

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Speaker 1: of our second source of income is stressing me out.

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Speaker 1: I want to be honest with her about everything so

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Speaker 1: she will find another job and give me some space.

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Speaker 1: But I don't want to offend her. This could ruin

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Speaker 1: our marriage. How do I handle this? Well, I hold up,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be a little touch you because she hated

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Speaker 1: her job, so she says she quit it to work

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Speaker 1: with you full time. She thought two would be better

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Speaker 1: than one, pursuing the dream. But the loss of her

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Speaker 1: income is stressing you out. But let me ask you

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Speaker 1: a question. Did you quit your job and put all

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Speaker 1: your money into a business? Two? Yeah? And you don't

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Speaker 1: want to see that's your real problem. Dogs, See that's

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Speaker 1: the real problem. And we can't help you with that

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Speaker 1: because nothing I can tell you're gonna make you want

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Speaker 1: to be around her twenty fourth seven. Nothing's not ready? Then?

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Speaker 1: So how does he handle it? What does he say? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's a little water over the damn situation now, because

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Speaker 1: y'all should have covered this before she quit. But now

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Speaker 1: that she could, now you're gonna ask her to go

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Speaker 1: find another job. And what that's gonna be is go

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Speaker 1: finding some more another job to support my dream. You

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Speaker 1: do hear how this is gonna sound to her. You

589
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Speaker 1: can quit your job and be free, but I can't

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Speaker 1: quit my job to he'll pust be free. I got

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Speaker 1: to go back to work. That's right, That's what's been

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Speaker 1: to happen. So I don't have a suggestion for you,

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Speaker 1: so good luck. Yeah, all right, Carlos and Indiana, We're

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Speaker 1: moving on. I'm a forty two year old married man

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Speaker 1: with a twenty seven year old pregnant side chick. She's

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Speaker 1: having a baby. He's forty two and married. She's twenty

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Speaker 1: seven and pregnant. Okay, she's having a baby shower in

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Speaker 1: two weeks, and this is her first baby, so I

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Speaker 1: want to be there for her special day. My wife

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Speaker 1: knows about the baby, and she's dealing with it in

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Speaker 1: her own way, so I don't want to keep hurting her.

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Speaker 1: If I go to the shower, I'm sure pictures of

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Speaker 1: me will be all over Instagram. I'm trying to fix

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Speaker 1: this mess by keeping my baby mama calm while I

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Speaker 1: work on getting my marriage back on track. What should

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Speaker 1: I skip the baby shower? Well, let me explain some two.

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Speaker 1: What if you go to that call me stupid dog. No,

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Speaker 1: you've made a statement in here that cannot happen. You said,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my marriage on track. You cart

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Speaker 1: your ass to that baby shower. Boy boy sitting up smiling.

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Speaker 1: But his wife is dealing with it in her own way,

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Speaker 1: up her own way. Do you know the hele, the

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Speaker 1: sheer hair. You don't put this woman through and now

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Speaker 1: you fit to go to a baby shower? You know

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Speaker 1: you do know that Hale has a wave with it.

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Speaker 1: See when you're giving a woman hele, she got a

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Speaker 1: wave of it for you. Now take your ass to

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Speaker 1: that shower. See what happened? That's so, But he wants

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Speaker 1: to keep his marriage on track, and then he wants

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Speaker 1: to keep his baby mama calm too. You're an idiot

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Speaker 1: girl if you don't call me Linda Gates and get

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Speaker 1: these papers, all right, Rice and Charlotte, excuse me one

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Speaker 1: last day. Yeah, there's a cause for being the side ship. Um,

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Speaker 1: there's a cause for that. They don't come with the

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Speaker 1: full benefit package. That's why he's not gonna be at

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Speaker 1: that shower. A mess. That's horrible. How is his wife

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Speaker 1: dealing with this? Though in her own way. Where all

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Speaker 1: my money in my bank account? All right, listen, that's

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Speaker 1: all the time. We have her cello, Thank you cello.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next to this is the nephew with today's

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Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening Stave Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

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Speaker 1: four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for today, the

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Speaker 1: subject I fell for the oaky doke. We'll get into

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Speaker 1: it in just a little bit, but right now the

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Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you

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Speaker 1: got for us? Now? High school reunion? High school reuion.

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Speaker 1: We've all gone, I'm she at one point another take

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Speaker 1: a listen, let's go cash. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: reach Sylvia. Please, she's not available. This is a husband.

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Speaker 1: I'm drafting. I help you. I'm under How you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: My name is Ken, I'm I graduated with Sylvia. We're

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Speaker 1: having a big twenty five year class reunion this year.

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Speaker 1: Okay for nineteen eighty five. We should be homesome. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, man, she act that shopping right now? Okay? Okay, cool? Well, hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: as she heard about does she know about the reunion

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Speaker 1: or or do you know anything about that? Not? To

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Speaker 1: my knowledge, that's the first I ever heard about a reunion. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well there is a reunion, man. Actually, I think signed

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Speaker 1: up for it. I'm not sure that's why I asked you,

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Speaker 1: but I think I saw her name was that she

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Speaker 1: was signed up to come. Let me I should just when? When?

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Speaker 1: When exactly did you graduate? I graduated in eighty two? Okay,

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Speaker 1: eighty two? Okay, you a little bit before us. Then

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll listen. Um let me let me go

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Speaker 1: ahead and say this sounds drink uh. Actually in high school, man,

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Speaker 1: Sylvia was mine, you know, my high school sweetheart, and

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Speaker 1: we you know, we dated from ninth grade to freshman

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Speaker 1: year in college. And I wanted to see, if, you know,

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Speaker 1: if if it was cool with you, you know, if

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Speaker 1: you didn't mind me escorting her to the twenty five

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Speaker 1: year class reunion. Doing well, let me say that again,

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Speaker 1: Like I say, man, my name is Ken. I got

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Speaker 1: that part. I'm trying to make sure I heard right

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Speaker 1: what you said. Yeah, I said that I Sylvia and

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Speaker 1: Iowa high school sweethearts. Man. I was, you know, from

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Speaker 1: ninth grade all the way to freshman year, in college.

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Speaker 1: We dated each other. Okay, yeah, yeah, I got I

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Speaker 1: got that. But what did you ask me? I as

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Speaker 1: if it was all right for you, if you didn't

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Speaker 1: mind if I escorted her to the twenty five year

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Speaker 1: class for union. Are you related to him? No? I

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Speaker 1: mean no, I'm not related to I just told ye

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Speaker 1: I was in a high school sweetheart. No. Man, I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: nobody gonna be askooting my wife nowhere. I put the

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Speaker 1: ring on my finger. You said you was you was

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Speaker 1: a high school sweetheart? Yeah, I mean we was together

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Speaker 1: from you know, ninth grade always to months to press

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Speaker 1: me year in college. You know, so that that was

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Speaker 1: in the past. But I'm sorry to let you know that,

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Speaker 1: but that was in the past. I'm the president, so

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Speaker 1: I don't even much think she's gonna be interested in

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Speaker 1: trying to go nowhere with you anyway. Hey, man, what

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to explain to you this is something innocent, though. Man,

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Speaker 1: this is just me taking her to you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: I thought she might get a kick out of us

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Speaker 1: going together. You know, I don't know what's wrong with you.

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Speaker 1: I hadn't told you. If it's not going to one

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Speaker 1: ear for the phone on the other one. She ain't

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Speaker 1: going nowhere? What you do? I need to break it

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Speaker 1: down anymore. Hey man, you ain't gotta you ain't gotta

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Speaker 1: talk to me and disrespect me like this. Man. Now

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Speaker 1: I tried to do is you're talking, I'm disrespecting you.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna call my I want to tell me I'm

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Speaker 1: disrespecting you. You asking me, can you take my wife

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Speaker 1: to the damn class reunion? And expect me to be

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Speaker 1: okay with that? What kind of damned food that they called?

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Speaker 1: Somebody asks can you take the wife to a class reunion?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, that was my high school sweetheart. All right,

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Speaker 1: we had we asked something. I was our first, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was off first dog If you was the first thing,

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Speaker 1: I'm the last and I'm the only one. So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna leave it at that. How about that partner? It's whatever, man.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Man, I try to call you and

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Speaker 1: talk to you like a man. But you know what

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Speaker 1: I should have did I talk like that? You're doing

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Speaker 1: a little stuff. Man. I should have called Sylvia in

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Speaker 1: the first I should have never called. A matter of fact,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I apologize for calling. Let me get

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Speaker 1: at the phone and just called Sylvia set here and

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Speaker 1: do that. You go right on the head and call them. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna do. Because Sylvia can make a

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Speaker 1: decision on what Sylvia want to do. I can tell

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Speaker 1: you what thing Sylvia do, what Sylvia want to do.

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Speaker 1: But Sylvia, it ain't interested in you. Man. This is

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Speaker 1: not about being interested in me. Man. This is innocent.

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Speaker 1: This is just me and Hunt going to the damn

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Speaker 1: class reunion together. A man. It ain't like we're gonna

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Speaker 1: go do something together. Man, on a physical level, We're

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Speaker 1: just going to have phone signs my clue. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to tell you that I've already told you no. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if you can't get no, I don't know what you

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Speaker 1: can't get. But you ain't getting Sylvia. I tell you

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Speaker 1: that much. She's not going to no reunion. You know where. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm through talking to you. I'm just gonna call Sylvia

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Speaker 1: because that's what I should have done in the first place.

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Speaker 1: A call. I told you, brother, you ain't gonna call nobody.

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Speaker 1: You bet not doubt my wife. Nother man. I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you this right now. I'll be at that pass for union.

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Speaker 1: I've been looking for your can whatever your name is.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna mind out who you are. I ain't playing

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Speaker 1: those like as I I told you you are disrespectful

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Speaker 1: in the first place, I didn't told Joe, don't call

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Speaker 1: my wife. She ain't going to don't, but union told

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Speaker 1: you bet not call her phone. I've been man, you

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Speaker 1: know what you want to walk up and if my

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Speaker 1: situation not to unteld you, I will come to this

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Speaker 1: class reunion and I will, man, because you look like

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Speaker 1: you're playing with me, an acting stupid or something. You

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Speaker 1: ain't taking my wife to no class reunion. You understand

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Your wife don't gonna want to go

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Speaker 1: to the reunion with me. How do you know that

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Speaker 1: you ain't going nowhere with you? I'd have told you, man,

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Speaker 1: don't get me act the quasip and here I'd have

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Speaker 1: told you now I said first, I'm gonna come to

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Speaker 1: the class when you but I will come to that

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Speaker 1: just to make shout, knock your likes out. Don't be

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Speaker 1: acting stupid like I can't find they got all kind

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Speaker 1: of ain't fid or some of it, but I'll find

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Speaker 1: what's just innocent. Man, Me and her going to the

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Speaker 1: reunion is innocent, and she want to be able to

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Speaker 1: decide if she want to go with me or not.

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Speaker 1: That's about to your sounds trife and anyway calling somebody

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Speaker 1: taking about a class re union. Ain't even much hurt

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Speaker 1: about it, Like, I don't get I tell you what,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna get our phone calls? Hill, Okay,

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Speaker 1: respect the ring. You understand what I'm saying to you.

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Speaker 1: I didn't fo shit, man, But I don't understand what

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Speaker 1: you can understand about that. Respect the ring. And man,

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Speaker 1: I got one more things I need to say to you. Man,

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Speaker 1: got to say to me. Man, you ain't got to

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Speaker 1: say to say to me except to hit it quick

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Speaker 1: in your heel. Right, I got one more damn thing

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Speaker 1: to say you, and then I'm gonna get off the phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be stupid it man, I'm gonna be about

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Speaker 1: to say to me. What what's you gotta say to me? Fly?

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Speaker 1: Hang up? I got this to say to you. This

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Speaker 1: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Horbin Morning Show. Your

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Speaker 1: wife Silvia got me to prank phone call you Bush.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious, man, oh man, I'm over here winning and everything. Man,

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Speaker 1: just man, oh, this is a joke. You all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out right about an hour too. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's cool, all right, all right, y'all got me, y'all

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Speaker 1: got me. Well, I guess this is a good time

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Speaker 1: to tell you the class reunion is coming up, and

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Speaker 1: I guess ain't no class room. Huh No, here's a

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Speaker 1: class of union you need to get rid of because

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Speaker 1: you're going. Yeah, I'll be making sure if there is one,

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Speaker 1: definitely be there. Who if you can't hear it in

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Speaker 1: this ear, take the phone and put it up to

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Speaker 1: the other ear. Let me help you down for what

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Speaker 1: it is. You ain't here a man? Brothers when you

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Speaker 1: when you talk about the dude's wife. Oh man, dude,

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Speaker 1: go right there with you. He not playing with you, man, Silvia.

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Speaker 1: With men, they can't find someone been lying. But I

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Speaker 1: bet I can find your ass, don't. I'm gonna come

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Speaker 1: down to the to the classroom. And that's your lights.

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Speaker 1: A bodyguard, dude, get a bodyguard, lest you heard knock

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Speaker 1: your lights? That he serious? Yea, he dead sits we've

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Speaker 1: married twelve years, got out and put a ring on it.

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Speaker 1: That's oh yeah, okay, well that's the ass man. I

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Speaker 1: just thought it'd be cool. Man what you just disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: I'm disrespectful. I'm disrespected. While y'all at the reunion? What

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Speaker 1: as I'm doing? Man? Exactly time time y'all. Did y'all

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Speaker 1: go to the first to the first time, the first

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Speaker 1: class reunion to the first one? Yeah, I went to ten.

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Speaker 1: It was I went to twenty. It started getting thin

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Speaker 1: at the twenty. Car a real thing. We did? What Tori?

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Speaker 1: Remember everybody's She'll say, don't you remember? No, remember everybody, man,

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Speaker 1: especially when you when your classmate look like your teacher.

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Speaker 1: You like this, I remember everybody you coming up nex

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subject I fell for the OKIDEC will get

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, happy sinco de mayo. Everybody, by the way,

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Speaker 1: you nephew, subject I fell for the Okie Dokee. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty eight year old single mother

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Speaker 1: and I'm in a crazy situation with my exes. I

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Speaker 1: was married eight years to a man that cheated on

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Speaker 1: me multiple times. The first time was right after i'd

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Speaker 1: had our first I forgave him and we moved on

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Speaker 1: with life. Three years later, I got pregnant again and

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Speaker 1: he started acting out again. I was in labor when

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Speaker 1: I found out he cheated. The second time. He fell

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Speaker 1: asleep and his phone rang, so I answered it and

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Speaker 1: the lady told me everything. When I got home from

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Speaker 1: the hospital, he was gone and I started raising my

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Speaker 1: children alone. A year later, I decided to file for divorce.

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Speaker 1: One of my former care workers helped me with the process,

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Speaker 1: and we grew very close because she came over often

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Speaker 1: to check on me and the children. Right as my

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Speaker 1: divorce was final, I found myself in a relationship with

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Speaker 1: this woman. She arranged visitation with my ex husband and

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Speaker 1: the children, so I didn't have to talk to him

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Speaker 1: or deal with him at all. A year had passed

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Speaker 1: and I thought things were going good until one Saturday

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Speaker 1: when I decided to go to the outlet mall in

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Speaker 1: the neighboring city. I passed by a restaurant and recognized

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend on the patio with my ex husband. I

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Speaker 1: parked and watched them for a while, and he couldn't

838
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 1: keep his hands off of her, and she could not

839
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: stop blushing. I fell for the okie doke and let

840
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: this woman slide right into the arms of my ex husband.

841
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: She knew exactly how he treated me and how lowdown

842
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: he is, yet she used me to get to him.

843
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: She came to my house later that day and I

844
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 1: showed her picks of her and my ex that I

845
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: took on my phone. All she said was I'm so sorry,

846
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: and she left. My ex tried calling me, but I

847
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: blocked him. How will I ever trust a man or

848
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: a woman again in a relationship? Who? Okay, these are

849
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 1: two horrible people who actually deserve each other, your ex

850
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:57,440
Speaker 1: husband and your ex girlfriend. I know you're hurt. I

851
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: know you're betrayed right now, but whatever this is between them,

852
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: don't worry. It's not gonna last. It's not I mean,

853
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:10,919
Speaker 1: you know, she's a backstabbing ex friend and the side chick.

854
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 1: They usually don't, you know, stick with them. We haven't

855
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: had one like this in a while, though, Steve, So

856
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: to the letter this is a mess, right we have.

857
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: It's been a minute, So to the letter writer. Basically,

858
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: your husband cheated on you throughout your marriage, and when

859
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 1: you had had enough, you divorced him. Your female friend

860
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: from from work that you used to work with stepped

861
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 1: in to help you get through it. All. You guys

862
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: ended up in a relationship, and now she's cheating on

863
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,439
Speaker 1: you with your ex husband that she helped you get over.

864
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 1: And wasn't it nice of her to say she was

865
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: so sorry when you showed her the pictures? Wow? Your

866
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 1: question is how do you trust a man or a

867
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 1: woman again? I mean to that, I just say, it's

868
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: not going to happen tomorrow. You know, trust once as

869
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 1: broken as a thing. You have to build and you

870
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:06,879
Speaker 1: don't need to trust them. But in your next relationships, yeah,

871
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:11,879
Speaker 1: it's probably going to be a problem with you. It's

872
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: gonna take some time. I say, don't jump into another

873
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: relationship right away. You need a moment to process all

874
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,720
Speaker 1: of this because this is crazy. This really is crazy.

875
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,840
Speaker 1: I mean, betrayal upon betrayal is what happened to you.

876
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: You know, I'll say this, judge any new prospects on

877
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: their own merit. You know, you're talking about trust now

878
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 1: and how they treat you, not on the baggage from

879
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 1: your past. You know, you'll really find out how strong

880
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: you are when you go through something. The best revenge

881
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,880
Speaker 1: is success looking good. So I say, work on yourself,

882
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: take care of your kids, don't let bitterness take over.

883
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: Keep moving forward. You know, remember you gotta give yourself time.

884
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: This was a lot. This was a lot. This was

885
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 1: a lot in time, heals. It was a whole lot

886
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:06,239
Speaker 1: to deal with. Steve right when I was reading the letter,

887
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,439
Speaker 1: thinking I had a handle on it, or the handle broke, yeah,

888
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: and then all the coffee fell out the cup. And

889
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: this is just lady, I see the opening. I'm a

890
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: thirty ye year old single mother and I'm in a

891
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: crazy situation with my exes. That was no clue on

892
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: who these exes was at all. So you're married to

893
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: this man cheated on you multiple times. Now, most of

894
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: this could be over with had you done a couple

895
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: of things differently early. I'll save that for last though,

896
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: and the first time was right after you had your

897
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: first child. You forgave him and y'all moved on with life.

898
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: But see, there were no repercussions. Once a man don't

899
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: have repercussions, then there's no consequences. Then there's no teaching moment.

900
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: We just required at almost all of us do. It's

901
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: like your children. It's like they require repercussions and consequences

902
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: for the lesson to really stick. If you don't want

903
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: to do that, you're gonna happen again. Well, it happens again. Next,

904
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: say you pregnant again? He fell asleep. Now this time

905
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: you were in labor. He fell asleep his phone rang

906
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: I answered, and the lady told you everything. Now I'm

907
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: trying to figure out when you're in the hospital in labor. Yeah,

908
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 1: all right, hang on, we'll have part two of us

909
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

910
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: Subject for today, I fell for the Oki joke. Wow,

911
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: we'll get back into it at twenty three minutes after

912
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: the hour. Right after this. You're listening to show, All right,

913
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The

914
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: subject I fell for the oky dope all right, thirty

915
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: eight year old single mother, crazy situation with access. She

916
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: was married to a man to cheat it on a

917
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 1: bunch of times. The first time, after they had their

918
00:59:14,360 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: first child, she forgave him and they moved on. Three

919
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: years later, she got pregnant again and he started acting

920
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 1: out again. I was in labor I found out he

921
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 1: cheated the second time. He fell asleep in his phone ring.

922
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: So I answered, and the lady told me everything. Why

923
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:34,480
Speaker 1: are you in label? Wow? Now here's a crazy part.

924
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: When I got home from the hospital, he was gone.

925
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: He was just gone. So now you raised the children alone.

926
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: Then a year later you filed for divorce. Co worker

927
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: helped you with the process. We go very close because

928
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: she came over often to check on me and the children.

929
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: Right as his divorce was final, I found myself in

930
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: a relationship with this woman. Now I've been divorced twice. Yeah,

931
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 1: you obviously were very distraught and you sought comfort. Now

932
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 1: who had come from? That's your business? Do you boot

933
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: and so? Now? But here's but now here's what I

934
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 1: tell you. I don't care who you doing it with.

935
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: Once you get into relationship and problems, it's the same

936
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: man on man, woman on woman. Man boy meets girls,

937
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: you get in relationship, like everybody talking about marriage, go

938
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: getting married. Okay, okay, you'll see this is work now.

939
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: So she arranged vegetation with my ex husband and the children,

940
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: so I didn't even have to talk a deal with him.

941
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: A year pass and I thought things were going good.

942
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: Into one Saturday. You was going out to the outlet

943
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: mall in the neighboring city and you was driving by

944
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 1: this restaurant and you recognize your girlfriend on the patio

945
01:00:55,520 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 1: with your ex husband. So you parked and watched him

946
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: for a while, and he couldn't keep his hands off her,

947
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 1: and she couldn't stop blushing. I failed for the okay doke,

948
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: and I let this woman slide into the arms of

949
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: my ex husband. It's not this woman. Knew exactly how

950
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: this woman treated you and everything and how low down

951
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: he is, yet she used me to get to him.

952
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: She came to your house later that day and I

953
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: showed a picture of my ex that I took on

954
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 1: my phone, and all she said was I'm so sorry. Yeah,

955
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: that was that was real nice and left. My ex

956
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: husband tried calling me, but I blocked him. Well, the

957
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: reason your ex husband stried calling you, it's because she

958
01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: called him and said, launch Jesus. She saw us at

959
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 1: the outlet mall and she showed me pictures. So I

960
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 1: blocked him. How will I ever trust a man or

961
01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: woman again in relationship? Okay, here's a deal. Let's forget

962
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: about the term the question you're asking, how can I

963
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 1: ever trust a man or woman in another relationship? Because

964
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: there are good men and women out there that you

965
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 1: can be in relationships with text time, that's not the problem.

966
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 1: Your problem is not trust, but it's better timing and

967
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: better decision making. So when Shirley said earlier, the real

968
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: issue is you got to take some time just for you.

969
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: You was in a traumatic divorce. Soon as the divorce

970
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 1: was over, you fell into arms and this woman. Then

971
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 1: the woman fell into the arms and your ex, and

972
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: your ex fell into the arms of her, and everybody

973
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: holding somebody self for you right now. And so what

974
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: this becomes it's not about trust. It's just about better

975
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: timing and better decisions. And the timing I'm talking about

976
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: is you need some time just to do you, to

977
01:02:55,520 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: treat yourself right. See, don't let the people ruin your

978
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: idea of what the relationships can be because they are

979
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: all relationships that don't have trust issues in it. You

980
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: just got to get to that one. But see, let

981
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 1: me take you back to your better decision. When your

982
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 1: husband cheated the first time, you said they treated multiple times,

983
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,040
Speaker 1: but the first time you found out about it, y'all

984
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: just went on with life. There was no consequences. So

985
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 1: I'm assuming some other times happened. But the next time

986
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: you busted him you were labor in the hospital. That

987
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: was no consequences. What you mean you came home, he

988
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 1: was just gone. You was married. No, no, you can't

989
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: just up and go. Where was the consequences? He just gone? No,

990
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna no, no no. You've been to make

991
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 1: some donations over here, partner, But you've got to learn

992
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: to make better decisions, and you could have avoided this

993
01:03:55,440 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: second one or third one. Maybe I'm just saying in

994
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: once you have self love and you know how it

995
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 1: feels to love yourself, you don't accept bad love from

996
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: other people because you know what loving yourself is about.

997
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: And if ain't nobody gonna treat you the way you

998
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 1: want to be treated, then don't move in that direction.

999
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: And then take your time, slow down. Just because this

1000
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: woman was helpful, there ain't no reason to fall into

1001
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 1: her homes helpful. Hell, I help people on the Strawberry Letter,

1002
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:32,439
Speaker 1: me and Shelly, but we're not falling into your own.

1003
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: All right, listen, thank you Steve your radio show. I

1004
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 1: think that's serious. So crazy? Are these are real issues? Though?

1005
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 1: Poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey FM

1006
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1007
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 1: on demand now coming up at forty six minutes after

1008
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 1: the hour Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're

1009
01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior, time for

1010
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: your sports talk? What you got for us? Deon Sanders

1011
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: Prime Time is speaking out after no HBCU players were

1012
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 1: selected during the NFL Draft. According to Primes, there were

1013
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty nine picks in the twenty twenty

1014
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 1: one NFL Draft, and not one single draft pick featured

1015
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: a player from an HBCU. You mean to tell me

1016
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: all all the talent at Grambling seven, but through Cookman Howard,

1017
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 1: North Carolina, ant Alabama State, nobody Jackson got Draft Jackson.

1018
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: Stay right here. That is two hundred fifty. I know

1019
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 1: about three draft picks on the Texas they could we

1020
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 1: could get one from it. I know you can get

1021
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: one from Texas. Nobody we drafted. I swear to god,

1022
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 1: we don't know nobody we got. Wow. But that is um.

1023
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: That is I think that's why PRIM is in the

1024
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: HBCU area to give these guys, these these players, the

1025
01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: jump players, to get a look at bringing these scouts

1026
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: in brings. That's that's what he's there. And he's being

1027
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 1: joined by a lot of black head coaches at at HBCU.

1028
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: I was just gonna ask you because he having support, huh.

1029
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 1: Not not one, no, not one, not for this. And

1030
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: I mind you, there's some Hall of famers that came

1031
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 1: out of HBCU school one Jerry Rice please, hello, good

1032
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: dood will you? Michael straighthand hello Walter Payton, Walter Payton,

1033
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: Walter Day there. Yeah, he didn't get drafted. He just

1034
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 1: came out. We're gonna talk about this morning. Those are

1035
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 1: just unknown, very unknown, limited NFL facts that I know. Yeah,

1036
01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: that's what I said, what Steve, don't nobody know that?

1037
01:06:55,760 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: That's like said that stayed out of prey of view,

1038
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:12,320
Speaker 1: which even makes it lower press careful, you know, powerfully?

1039
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: All right, listen, Thank you, Junior. Well, we'll follow this

1040
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 1: story with you because it's interesting. We'll have more of

1041
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.

1042
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:25,439
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, here's

1043
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: a question for you, guys. How soon will you get

1044
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 1: tired of your family after reuniting with them? You know,

1045
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: the world is starting to open up now. This is

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Speaker 1: a question we saw on Facebook. It says, I'm fully

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Speaker 1: vaccinated and about to see my family for the first

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Speaker 1: time since December of twenty nineteen. December of twenty nineteen.

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Speaker 1: I might cry when I see them, but two days

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Speaker 1: into the visit, I will be hiding from them in

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Speaker 1: my room watching Netflix on my phone. So the question

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Speaker 1: how long do you give yourself before you want to

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Speaker 1: quant quarantine alone again? Weekend? Family one weekend, same as

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Speaker 1: a reunion. So as that reunion normally, what you're done

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Speaker 1: family reunion normally when the family reunion, you know, that's

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Speaker 1: thought about what Friday thirty Friday, go to side. You're tired,

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Speaker 1: abody I can see I can't. It ain't got to

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Speaker 1: be to next year until I see y'all again Sunday

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Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're gonna be a little

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Speaker 1: church service and then a little brunch. That's it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't really suffer like that because I don't see

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Speaker 1: him much. Nohow So the pandemic, it's just what they

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Speaker 1: don't write on time. For me, it's a silver lighting.

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Speaker 1: It just was like, okay, well, you know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: just keep the payments coming. I don't see him that much,

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Speaker 1: no way, So I'm I'm I'm gonna try to God willing,

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Speaker 1: you know, have them all to the house. There's summer

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Speaker 1: for barbecue or something. From just my immedia family now, huh,

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Speaker 1: that's my my brother, my two sisters, oh my nephew.

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Speaker 1: El that's all I do. I don't do no more.

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Speaker 1: He don't need to come. Why you know he's coming though,

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Speaker 1: but you know not now he kind of famous too,

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Speaker 1: so I don't. I don't want him telling everybody no

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Speaker 1: because you know he's stage is hell. Y'all know he

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Speaker 1: typed now, oh oh, he take care of his mama.

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Speaker 1: But after that, you get real. It's slim pickings after that.

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Speaker 1: A matter of fact, they'd be calling me all the time.

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Speaker 1: So this show timmy on you got his number. Nope,

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna don't time. I'm gonna pass your number.

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Speaker 1: No you're not. Yeah, listen to reunite. Yeah, Junior, what

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Speaker 1: about your family? You know I love your family, my my, my,

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Speaker 1: whole visit depends on who show up the barbecue, the function.

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Speaker 1: I'm not staying if they say, you know, like timming

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Speaker 1: them coming through that, then timing them I'm not I'm

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Speaker 1: not staying at timm so so Junior, So you to

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Speaker 1: do that when they call and ask you to come back,

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Speaker 1: your first question is who? All over the ye black

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Speaker 1: question right there, all over the real black question, all

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Speaker 1: over that. But Junior, you don't miss them because of quarantine?

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Speaker 1: Is any year over year you don't miss miss Timmy

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Speaker 1: and him? No, I've been paying for stuff in quarantine.

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Speaker 1: I don't miss No, they't like they ain't calling every

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Speaker 1: other thing. Yeah, you know now they called. But you're

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Speaker 1: seeing out how you're you're like your grandmother used to say,

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Speaker 1: I just want to put my eyes on you. You

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01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 1: don't want to just put your eyes on anyone in

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Speaker 1: your family? Sure? Yeah, yeah, you don't want to hug

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Speaker 1: him past hug We got it. We got a social

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Speaker 1: distance nothing. Huh. My grandmother has found out how to FaceTime.

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Speaker 1: It's the most hilarious thing I have ever seen. She speak,

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Speaker 1: Did put the phone up to her ear? Now, mother

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Speaker 1: than her ear? You ain't got to do that. Granted

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Speaker 1: what you say? Did you put it right back on

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Speaker 1: the ear? Granted? Just look at me and talk? Look

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Speaker 1: at you a du what we fifteen minutes? I love you?

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Speaker 1: Just call me, call me, Hold up? Hold up. Mardree's

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Speaker 1: mom and daddy FaceTime and her daddy call his phone

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Speaker 1: be so close to his face you just be looking

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Speaker 1: up his nostril on the whole FaceTime. We'll have more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes after. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So every man handled the

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Speaker 1: midlife crisis differently. We hear a lot of times about

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Speaker 1: men who buy sports cars, who get young women, you know, etcetera, etcetera,

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Speaker 1: new clothes all that, you know, maybe a two pay

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Speaker 1: if they're ball, you know, just different stuff. Right, Well,

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Speaker 1: Diddy did something entirely different. Sean Diddy Combs now has

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Speaker 1: decided to change his name again to review he was

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Speaker 1: born Sean Combs. He's been known by several nicknames over

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Speaker 1: the years, Puff Daddy, Puffy, Pee Diddy, and now Diddy.

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Speaker 1: That's what everybody calls him now, he said. Yeah. He

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Speaker 1: said back in twenty seventeen that he was going to

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Speaker 1: change his name to brother Love, and Puffy shared a

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Speaker 1: picture of his Florida driver's license on the Graham that

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Speaker 1: reflected his new name. It's it said, Sean Love Combs.

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Speaker 1: And then his post was look at what I just

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Speaker 1: got in the mail today. Uh, it's official. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Love era. So now you know we called love.

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Speaker 1: He ain't got nothing to do. Clearly you're a pandemic. Pandemic.

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Speaker 1: They got what you think, Steve can Are you gonna

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01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,240
Speaker 1: call him love now when you see him? Because you

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Speaker 1: know him. I still call him Puffy. That's my favorite. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love. Yeah, Well, when you see him now, just

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Speaker 1: call him love. I'm not calling love. We Love. More

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after right after this. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: all right, So on this wellness Wednesday, we all saw

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Speaker 1: the picture that Will Smith posted yesterday. He says he

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Speaker 1: loves his body that carried him through this entire pandemic

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Speaker 1: and countless days of grazing through the pantry, but he

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Speaker 1: wants to feel better, no more midnight muffins. Will went

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01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 1: on to say midnight muffins are good. He didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying that. Will went on to say that he

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Speaker 1: wants to get in the best shape of his life,

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Speaker 1: and so he's teaming up with YouTube now to document

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Speaker 1: and get his health and wellness back on track. So

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Speaker 1: good for him, really good for him. So you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like he's posting these pictures saying he's not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: He's in the worst shape of his life, but he's

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Speaker 1: getting the way to monetize it, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Because I mean he's gonna do it anyway, might as

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01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 1: well get paid r Yeah, I know, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean you know how many people gonna tune in for

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Speaker 1: that money off of it. That's a great thing, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: especially if him saying he wants to get an to

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Speaker 1: the best shape of his life. It reminds me of

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Speaker 1: Llo cool j when he went on that journey, and

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Speaker 1: he remember that he didn't turned back. He's stayed there

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Speaker 1: the whole time. Yeah, yeah, he went hard. Yeah, no, no,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't look like that anymore. Tommy, No, you're talking

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Speaker 1: about the boxing l You're talking about L cool J. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh no he he don't look like that video. It's

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Speaker 1: a whole nother lifestyle. And you can't live that way.

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Speaker 1: When when you see bodybuilders, when you see bodybuilders that

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Speaker 1: go off of these contests, they go into transformation mold

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Speaker 1: they don't look like that year round. What about the

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Speaker 1: rock though, Steve he does the rock is different? How

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Speaker 1: is it different? Because you said he travels with his

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Speaker 1: gem all of that. You you're gonna do that. I

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Speaker 1: don't take a damn I don't take a dumbbell with

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Speaker 1: my ass. Yeah, you didn't have that. When you're in Africa,

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Speaker 1: I had. I had some stretch bands and pulling them

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Speaker 1: out twice twice. Man I was man, I was in

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Speaker 1: survival Molde. Man. I had my trainer with me and everything.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't between doing family feud in Africa and radio

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Speaker 1: back over here on them time zones. Oh no, dog,

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Speaker 1: I was done. So I turned my train into a

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Speaker 1: security guard checked his body that was blowing up in

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Speaker 1: front of your face, coming up it as our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks

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Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour from the one

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Speaker 1: in Emily Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening to

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Speaker 1: all right, guys, here we are last break of the

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Speaker 1: day on this hump day Wednesday. Okay, yes, ma'am, pretty

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Speaker 1: good day. I can't wait for your poem coming up

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Speaker 1: later in the week, Junior, for Mother's Day. I look

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Speaker 1: forward to Gotlan. I look forward to it. Yes, I'm

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Speaker 1: looking forward to your poem because I am looking forward

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Speaker 1: to revealing your new name on the show. I'm thank you.

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Speaker 1: I like the new name. Welcome. I don't worry about

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, time for you to step up to

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Speaker 1: the mic. Well, you know, today I wanted to remind

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Speaker 1: people of something, and that is the power of power thinking.

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Speaker 1: And I was reminded of that because I was listening

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Speaker 1: to a sermon the other day online. I was listening

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Speaker 1: to one of Joel Olstein's sermons, and he reminded me

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Speaker 1: how important the mind is. He had reminded me how

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Speaker 1: important the mind is tied to your words, because it's

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Speaker 1: a true statement from the Bible that a man is

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Speaker 1: as he thinketh right. So what you think determines who

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Speaker 1: you are, where you go, and some people are not

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Speaker 1: taking advantage of this gift that God has given us,

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Speaker 1: which is the power of choice. And you have a

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Speaker 1: right to make decisions to be positive or negative. That's

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Speaker 1: a choice you have. And so in this choice on

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Speaker 1: a daily basis, if you wake up to have power thoughts,

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Speaker 1: if you can manufacture thoughts to move your life in

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Speaker 1: an upward and forward trajectory, that's the way you get

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Speaker 1: the life of your dreams and ambitions and goals and

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Speaker 1: and and and things that feel your imagination. You can

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Speaker 1: only get these things by having power thoughts. So let

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Speaker 1: let me show you what we mean here. When you

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Speaker 1: wake up in the morning, if you confess with your mouth,

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Speaker 1: if you open your mouth and say Wow, thank you Lord, today,

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Speaker 1: I expect great things to happen. I today am going

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Speaker 1: to live my life to the fullest. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: accept the things that are happening to me and realizing

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Speaker 1: that with you, all things are possible. That no matter

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Speaker 1: what besets me today, that I have no problem bigger

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Speaker 1: than my God. So I look forward to today and

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Speaker 1: I move forward with the expectation that this is going

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Speaker 1: to be a great day. If you open your day

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Speaker 1: with that affirmation, you have no idea what you set

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Speaker 1: into motion. You set into motion positive things to happen.

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Speaker 1: Because if the Bible is true what it always is,

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Speaker 1: if a man is as you think, if you've just

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Speaker 1: set the pattern for what your day could be, that

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Speaker 1: no matter what besets you, that you have the ability

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Speaker 1: to understand that God got you. See, God does have you.

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Speaker 1: Because I was reminded that God doesn't put anything on

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Speaker 1: you that you can't handle. Think about that for a moment.

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Speaker 1: Every dire situation you've ever been in, every single one

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Speaker 1: of them, think about this, y'all. Have you not survived

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Speaker 1: them all? Or it might have lasted way longer than

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Speaker 1: you wanted to. The outcome could have been different than

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Speaker 1: you thought it was, and you certainly didn't want it

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Speaker 1: and don't wish it on nobody. But did you not

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Speaker 1: survive it? It is what I'm asking you. Did you

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Speaker 1: not make it through every critical moment in your life?

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Speaker 1: Did you survive the grief you was going to when

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Speaker 1: you thought it was unbearable? Did you not? The answer? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you did. Now you may be carrying the residue of it,

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Speaker 1: but that's on you. But God got you through it,

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Speaker 1: because you still here. I was talking to a friend

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Speaker 1: whose mother had passed, and she passed sort of unexpectedly.

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Speaker 1: She was in her eighties, and my partner's wife was

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Speaker 1: really really going through it. And he said, man, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I can't help her. Man,

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Speaker 1: she just in a dog place. And so he said, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: i've heard you on the radio. CO could just say

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Speaker 1: something to it. So it gave me a phone number

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Speaker 1: and I text her and in response, her message to

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Speaker 1: me was, you don't understand how I feel. And I said,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute now, I'm sorry, but I think I

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Speaker 1: do because mine is gone too. I say, but are

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Speaker 1: you hanging on to it so you could feel badly

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Speaker 1: for yourself? Are you hanging on to it because it's

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Speaker 1: just the worst thing that's ever happening to you? I say,

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Speaker 1: either way, it's bad. But can I ask you something?

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Speaker 1: Do you think this is what she would want you

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Speaker 1: to do? Did she not raise you to be strong? Independent?

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Speaker 1: This woman has degrees, I mean several degrees. She's a

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Speaker 1: bad girl, man, And she was just in a dark

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Speaker 1: phone and we would through several moments of talking to

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Speaker 1: it and I had to let it go. And then

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Speaker 1: about a month later she texts me and said, Wow,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. You were right. I said, no,

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Speaker 1: I was not right. God does what he always says

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Speaker 1: he's gonna do. He promised to never leave you. He

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Speaker 1: said he would not put more on you than you

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Speaker 1: can bear, and he didn't. You bared it. It wasn't me.

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Speaker 1: I was just here to remind you that this thing

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Speaker 1: you're going through that God will see you through it,

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Speaker 1: just like he has every other thing in your life.

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Speaker 1: So produce power thoughts when you wake up. Think energy

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Speaker 1: into your world. Put the positivity out there, because that's

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Speaker 1: exactly where to come back to you. If you put

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Speaker 1: negativity out there, old woe is me, then old woe

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Speaker 1: is you. Put power thoughts into the air and watch

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Speaker 1: what comes back in the air you breathe Trust me, y'all.

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Speaker 1: That's how you start your day. Come on, y'all, power thoughts,

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Speaker 1: Power thoughts, have a great day. Will see you wrong

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