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Speaker 1: My girlfriend cheated on me. She says it's for her

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Speaker 1: mental health therapist told her to I twenty five mail

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Speaker 1: dated my now ex girlfriend twenty five female for two years.

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Speaker 1: For the most part, things were going great. Although there

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Speaker 1: throwaway cheated on three on the r slash hookey story

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Speaker 1: Time subreddit. Well, all that came crashing to an end

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Speaker 1: when my girlfriend had what was a manic episode after

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Speaker 1: drinking copious amounts of alcohol on a night out. She

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Speaker 1: had a severe manic episode where she spent ten thousand

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Speaker 1: and then sending incomprehensible audio messages to me, WHOA what?

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Speaker 1: Sin had a manic episode, which obviously doesn't like excuse cheating,

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Speaker 1: but it does explain why that happened. End that and

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Speaker 1: how how do you spend ten thousand dollars? But stuff, Anthony, Well,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of other things you can spend ten

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Speaker 1: That's the only reasonable explanation. Okay. She was checked into

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Speaker 1: a mental health facility after that episode and diagnosed with BPD.

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Speaker 1: She had long suspected she maybe had this, but it

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Speaker 1: had never manifested so intensely. The psychiatrist said she had

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Speaker 1: underwent psychosis severe mania and had BPD. Since then, she

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Speaker 1: was placed on meds and undergoes talking therapy. That's so tough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I don't This isn't like. It doesn't mean that Op

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Speaker 1: I do feel for her because this is a mental

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Speaker 1: health crisis, and that's really really hard. Joseph, Oh, that

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Speaker 1: is more complicated than I thought. Yes, um m, that's

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Speaker 1: really tricky. Shortly after, she confessed to me she had

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Speaker 1: to hide my tears. I basically stormed out and went

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Speaker 1: then plucked up the courage to confront her. She tried

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Speaker 1: telling me she loves me and that she has a

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Speaker 1: feels immense shame and that it's because of her sickness.

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Speaker 1: I told her that her mental health issues are not

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Speaker 1: an excuse that has nothing to do with that, and

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Speaker 1: that she cheated because that's just who she is. I

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Speaker 1: then told her we are finished. She began sobbing uncontrollably,

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Speaker 1: saying she wants to and her life. That really hurt me,

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Speaker 1: but I stood firm. I told her that her cheating

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Speaker 1: is her own fault and it's a reflection of who

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Speaker 1: she is, and that she needs to stop hiding behind

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Speaker 1: her mental issues. Her friends have been messaging me, calling

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Speaker 1: me a whole, an a whole, and heartless, but I

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Speaker 1: feel they are the ones being heartless? Am I the

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Speaker 1: a whole? And there are some comments and an update

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Speaker 2: Sofiel, what's your stars on cancer? Oh my gosh, I'm

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Speaker 2: just a cancer.

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Speaker 1: I can't help it.

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Speaker 2: That's just who I am.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And that's a totally different scenario to this. This

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Speaker 1: I okay. Once again, Opie does not owe anyone a

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Speaker 1: owe them like time and effort if it hurts you, yeah,

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Speaker 1: if it puts your health at risk. But this is

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Speaker 1: so much more like this story is so much more complex,

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Speaker 1: I think because she has PPD and went through like

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Speaker 1: a manic episode. Like I don't necessarily know if I

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Speaker 1: fully agree with him that this is just who she is.

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Speaker 3: So let me throw out a wild comparison. Yeah, throw

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Speaker 3: it out there, wild Kanye mm hmm. And all of

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Speaker 3: everybody's like, ah, but he's got you know, he's got this.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, is he have BPD. Everybody's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but that's not a part of that disorder. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 3: saying those things about that group of people is not

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Speaker 3: a part of the disorder, and so it doesn't justify.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 3: Is cheating on your partner a like quality of having

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Speaker 4: Like here's their disorder and what they did was outside

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Speaker 1: Thank you. No, I don't think it excuses. I agree, Like,

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Speaker 1: I think that Kanye. You know, I am very against

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yes, But to answer the question of are

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Speaker 1: Mm hm? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Is OP the a hole for saying that? I think

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Speaker 3: the character it had nothing to do with your VPD.

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Speaker 1: I think it was harsh, but I mean OP was hurt. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so maybe maybe overly harsh, but I can also understand

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Speaker 1: immensely hurt by their partner's actions. Joanna Jensen says, is

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Speaker 1: someone with BPD, it can be managed and you learn

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Speaker 1: your patterns and triggers. Emily says, Kanye is bipolar. Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: well up, Kanye is bipolar. He's been having a manic

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Speaker 1: and if you're saying, oh, it's just my it's just

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Speaker 1: and over again. Yeah Yeah. Fuzzy Bunny says it's a

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Speaker 1: very sad situation. Elvira says it's not an excuse, just

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Speaker 1: an explanation. You can understand the circumstances behind an action,

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Speaker 1: and RP Carolina says op is a little a whole,

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Speaker 1: but there is. There are some comments on this. Freedom

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Speaker 1: Mister four three five says ex wife had an episode

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Speaker 1: them about their story? I think so. Cake Trees four

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Speaker 1: twenty sis it's not her fault that she has BPD,

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Speaker 1: but it's her responsibility. That's great. I like that line

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Speaker 1: in life. I agree like it. No one's responsibility to

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Speaker 1: you know, deal with your mental illness and your mental

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Speaker 1: consequences of one's action is part of that, whatever those

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Speaker 1: may be. Pick's Request ninety one says, exactly, mental health

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Speaker 1: struggles are real, but they don't excuse harmful actions. Accountability

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Speaker 1: those actions, even if it's painful. Lyons Junkie says, if

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Speaker 1: but that crap is real and legit BPD one with

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Speaker 1: that's a legit explanation for what they're doing during that

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Speaker 1: I don't blame him for breaking up, but there's a

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Speaker 1: big misunderstanding of what mania psychosis is here on a

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Speaker 1: Boy says, not gay Hoole, my sister had BPD and

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Speaker 1: bipolar and they ultimately led to her death. At twenty

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Speaker 1: serious diagnosis. As someone who lived with someone with this

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Speaker 1: her relationships and friendships went, I understand you, but her

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Speaker 1: mental illness has everything to do with this. That said,

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Speaker 1: you have zero obligation to stay. BPD is insanely hard

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Speaker 1: of nowhere. You can leave and be totally justified, but

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Speaker 1: don't do it with hate in your heart. She is

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Speaker 1: legitimately mentally ill with something I wouldn't wish on my

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Speaker 1: worst enemy. Whenever my sister's BPD pushed me over the edge,

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Speaker 1: my dad would always say, her brain is constantly and

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Speaker 1: escapably attacking her. If you think it's hard to deal

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Speaker 1: Have some empathy. But if you cannot handle an so

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Speaker 1: O with BPD, which most normal people cannot and is

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Speaker 1: not your fault, you are in the right to leave

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Speaker 1: before one or both of you get hurt, and physically

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Speaker 1: hurt is on the table with this diagnosis. That's a

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Speaker 1: Jacqueline Herber soulsa's accountability is part of being an adult.

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Speaker 1: There is no excuse to cheat. It doesn't accidentally happen here.

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Speaker 1: And Kay Yochnorre says, everyone sucks here, but there is

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Speaker 1: that was a depressing comment, but there is an update,

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Speaker 1: so let's get into it. So comments were quite evenly split,

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Speaker 1: I really contemplated it. My ex has been spamming mes,

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Speaker 1: she can explain. I thought about it, and the truth

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Speaker 1: I simply am not feeling empathy for her. My concern

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Speaker 1: I think this is the best best path forward, rather

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Speaker 1: more comments kind of you know, saying more about man

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Speaker 1: of that story. Elvira says. The last comment puts it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, totally.

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Speaker 1: Spy says, I wouldn't say everyone sucks here, but situation

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Speaker 5: I think I agree with that. A tricky situ tree tricky,

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Speaker 5: especially like the the ten thousand dollars. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 5: that puts. I think this whole evening in Yeah, was.

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Speaker 1: It ten thousand of her money or of I think

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Speaker 1: it's probably hers, Yeah, it probably hers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it puts the whole situation gives

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Speaker 3: in their right mind, I would not spend ten thousand dollars,

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Speaker 3: So somebody in the right mind probably also wouldn't cheat

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Speaker 3: if he could, if op, he could just use that

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Speaker 3: Truly, if he knew, he went from being in handcuffs

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Speaker 1: Little did she know. Opie's wife thought Amy was her friend,

434
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: but she was a double agent all along. And it

435
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 1: should be a tony because she got played. Yeah, by

436
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: the way, you can play us live on YouTube every

437
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: week to a three PMP just touff our profile. Yes,

438
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: that was really good. She told an appalling story, this

439
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 1: is Amy, about a neglectful mom who was completely out

440
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: of control, A story about a mother who had substance

441
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: abuse issues that were only getting worse. My ex couldn't

442
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: close her mouth the whole time that Amy was on

443
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: the stand. She made her attorney look like an idiot,

444
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: as all of her lives were now being exposed and

445
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: were contrary to what she told him. When the dust settled,

446
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 1: I was awarded soul custody and she was awarded supervised

447
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: visitation until she went to rehab and got additional treatment.

448
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: We quickly settled out of court, agreeing to a graduated

449
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: visitation schedule once she complied with rehab and mental health counseling.

450
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 1: I got the house nice after paying her a portion

451
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 1: of the equity, got to keep all of my investment

452
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: accounts and get to see my kids eighty percent of

453
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: the time. She got to go live with her mom

454
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: for the next two and a half years and jump

455
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: from job to job. Life is pretty good five years

456
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: down the road, and is even better knowing that she

457
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: isn't my problem anymore. Wow, And that is the end

458
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: of that story. Is like the Jason Bourne of the story.

459
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: And for like people who don't really know that reference,

460
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: maybe maybe give like a little little the chat knows

461
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: who Jason born. Damn man. Mama Jay says, I love

462
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: you both, but don't quit your stagecause that's my actual

463
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,479
Speaker 1: I was about to say, Okay, you know what, we

464
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 1: weren't trying. We were just kind of being goofy, goofy, goofy.

465
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: We don't have to be perfect every single jeez, She's Louise.

466
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 3: We have the voices of A. You have the voices

467
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 3: of and the timing of.

468
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: That A. Yeah. Kay, Yukimore says, I'm glad OPI and

469
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: the kids got out of there. And if this isn't

470
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: your story at Mariah, I hope they're okay. Nikki Bordeaux says,

471
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: it's almost one am, so maybe I've typed something wrong

472
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: at some point. Be forgive you. Chris ten HTx says,

473
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: hopefully this ex is doing better. She was a bad

474
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: wife and mom, but hopefully she can heal. Yeah, I'm

475
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: hoping that she goes you know, she gets help and

476
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: is able to be a better mom for her kids

477
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 1: going forward. But that is the end of that story.

478
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: But there is one new member, Melinda Burgess. Thank you

479
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: for becoming a new member. We appreciate you. But let's

480
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: get into this next story. Steve is he the guy

481
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: Steve BMI is what? What? What are you pointing at?

482
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: Do you want me to start the story? Who is Steve?

483
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: Steve is? Uh?

484
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 3: There is some gossip going on in the studio. Yes, okay,

485
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 3: why didn't you just say that.

486
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: We could just say that I was I was doing

487
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: the poorting.

488
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: I thought you knew.

489
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: I didn't understand what your pointing meant. Steve is like

490
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: the kind of weird looking guy. He's in that show, uh,

491
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: Miracle Workers with Daniel Bradcliffe. Hey, sirih, it's like that pictures.

492
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: He's the one who's like, do you think God stays

493
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: in heaven because he's afraid of his creatures and spy kids?

494
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: You know what you're messing with?

495
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: Okay? Read the next story.

496
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 2: Facebook is not liking this. Facebook is dipping.

497
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, here we go, We're back. Facebook hates blues brother.

498
00:29:52,880 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 3: Oh that's Steve bushmy gota. Okay, I found out my

499
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: boyfriend was cheating, so I vandalized his car.

500
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: Carry Carrie Underwood? That is this you are you reporting? Live?

501
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: Love that song?

502
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: If we appreciate the reference, show me some love award. Okay,

503
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 3: this happened a few years ago, but it was a

504
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: wild time. I won't even ask am I the a hole?

505
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: Because I kind of was? But it was justified petty revenge.

506
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

507
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from you missus care bear

508
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 3: on the r slash okay storytime sub reddit. I then seventeen,

509
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: almost eighteen, which will be relevant later. Female was dating Jay,

510
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 3: twenty three male for almost two years. Young, dumb, and rebellious.

511
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 3: I thought I had a catch, have a guy.

512
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: Okay, I already don't feel bad for him because he

513
00:30:57,120 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: was a twenty three year old dating apparently a fifteen

514
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: year old. Because she said I was seventeen dating him

515
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: for two years, unless I'm reading that wrong, unless she's

516
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: saying I started dating him at seventeen. Yeah, I think

517
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: that's okay. Well, still bast.

518
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 3: Seventeen, he was almost she was almost eighteen when he

519
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 3: was twenty three. It's all I'm understanding.

520
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, even if that's the case, I don't feel

521
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: bad for him getting his car vandalized.

522
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 2: Doesn't wow divided by two plus seven?

523
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: Also just I legally it doesn't pass. You can you

524
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: can date somebody at seventeen when they're twenty three? You

525
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: you can? Okay, maybe not? You can't. There isn't There

526
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: isn't a you can if I think it's like if

527
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: you're nineteen or something, there is like a certain age

528
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: gap that you can date a seventeen year old at.

529
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 3: But it's it's oh yeah, it is notting because if

530
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 3: you're whatever, and you could like anyway I was, Let's see,

531
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,239
Speaker 3: I thought I had to catch I was wrong for

532
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 3: so many reasons, but no one could tell me different

533
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: until one night I got myself a MySpace message from

534
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 3: a random girl that I had never met or heard

535
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 3: of before. Let's call her K. She was insistent she

536
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 3: had to talk to me, but wouldn't tell me what for.

537
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 3: I eventually agreed and asked about a spot to me

538
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: to what she informed me, she knew exactly where I lived,

539
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 3: and that she would pick me up.

540
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: Oooh, okay, she finds you IP address.

541
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 3: That's weird, but whatever. No, not that's weird, but whatever.

542
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: No, that's weird and I don't know.

543
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 3: She did, in fact show up my house less than

544
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 3: twenty minutes later, with no direction at all. I wouldn't

545
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: let her leave the driveway without telling me what exactly

546
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 3: we needed to talk about, And then she dropped the

547
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: mom She had just had a shed, just miscarried Jay's baby,

548
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 3: and had the hospital paperwork in hand to prove it.

549
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

550
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 3: She was pissed when he refused to be there for

551
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 3: her and decided it was time to tell me about

552
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 3: this multiple but his multiple sordid affairs.

553
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I mean props to her.

554
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 3: I guess crazy. She had been sleeping with him for

555
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 3: the entirety of our relationship, several times in my house.

556
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: Ah, that's terrible.

557
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 3: And she wasn't the only one. He was also sleeping

558
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 3: with this girl who happened to be my very first

559
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: boyfriend's sister, as well as someone I knew to be

560
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 3: his ex. This dude, yike, this dude.

561
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: But also it does make sense why she knows where

562
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: op is because she went.

563
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 3: And I think we knew that, but it's like, why

564
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 3: would you why would you not be shocked by that info?

565
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 3: Up meeting a stranger on line?

566
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: No? No, no, that's fine. I'm yeah. Okay, Kay loved Jay.

567
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: Why do you got to pick those names?

568
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 3: Kay loved Jay for years and that and was the

569
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 3: best friend girlfriend that was. Okay, we're going to start

570
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 3: that sentence. Kay loved Jay for years and was that

571
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 3: girl best friend that just thought eventually he would realize

572
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 3: she was just one, just the one for him, so

573
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: didn't care about the other women until he pregnancy. For

574
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 3: a little more context, he had gotten kicked out of

575
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,280
Speaker 3: his parents' house and was living in my basement, borrowing

576
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 3: my mom's car because his was constantly broke down. Was

577
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 3: a constantly broke down ricer and she was a misguided saint.

578
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 3: And we got him a job at it the industrial

579
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: park that was just down the street.

580
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: WHOA.

581
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 3: Before we started dating, I knew he was freshly out

582
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 3: of relationship with a girl we'll call Ray Stop okay,

583
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 3: NH helpful, not rhyming, but to my knowledge, she had

584
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 3: moved and.

585
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: It was over doubtful.

586
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 3: So according to Kay, he was also in a full

587
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 3: on relationship with Ray for at least the last six months.

588
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 3: The reason I had no idea that he was that

589
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 3: he timed everything perfectly. She worked night shifts at the

590
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 3: industrial park, so he spent his days with her while

591
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 3: I was in school and nights with me. Weekends he

592
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 3: would split depending on where he wanted to be and

593
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 3: just told me he was spending time with his son.

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00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: He is a sun Okay, so pausing. So what we

595
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: know right now is this guy is sucks, is great

596
00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: at time management of today times.

597
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 3: In order to get around, you need to have a

598
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 3: diligent He's got a little probably as like a person.

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00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: He's got Google.

600
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 3: He's like, hey, yeah, you can fill out these gallant I.

601
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: Just like to be organized. It's not I'm not sending

602
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: it to anyone else, and it's like girlfriend time slot.

603
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 1: That's the title of the calendar.

604
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 3: I was livid, but just breaking up with him wasn't

605
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 3: going to be good enough. Cue the music. I didn't

606
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 3: say anything. It just continued like normal until I could strike.

607
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 3: I found Ray's Facebook and messaged her. We met up

608
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 3: and actually hit it off. I was friends with both

609
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 3: K and Ray at this point.

610
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 1: He is collecting Jay's girlfriends.

611
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 3: But Ray and I really clicked as friends. Together we

612
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 3: hatch the perfect revenge plan to blow up this in

613
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 3: his entire life. This is actually like every carry Underwood song.

614
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: Ever.

615
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 3: Maybe Opie's It's three Black Cadillacs, or have many country

616
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 3: fans in the in the chat.

617
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: Perhaps Ope is the muse or carry on O. Okay,

618
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: because this took place back and back in the day

619
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,280
Speaker 1: when I dug back.

620
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, let's see how they do it. That'd be

621
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 3: if they say all those things, then we'll know.

622
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: And this is fair.

623
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: He was leaving out of state to visit his estranged mother.

624
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 3: This is where I am the a hole because he

625
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 3: hasn't seen her in years and she died shortly after

626
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 3: the week after, so we had to quickly put everything

627
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 3: in place and make a plant.

628
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: You ever really mean comment? Do it? Maybe he should

629
00:37:52,360 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: have penciled comment. Wow, I don't think that's mean. Reasonable. Okay,

630
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate it.

631
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:11,399
Speaker 3: Step one meet together with his step mom to tell

632
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 3: her she he was neglecting his son's visitations and his

633
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 3: plans to leverage his parental rights against BM Earth Mother

634
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 3: Earth Mother. This would cut all the little support from

635
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 3: his family he had left and would leave him without

636
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 3: a backup plan place to live. Wow, they're really getting

637
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 3: into it.

638
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: Step two. I remember this from the step step.

639
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 3: See you gotta step mother, kick him out of your house, doesn't.

640
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: Keep him abackup plan. Now he fucked.

641
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 3: Step two found the only thing he really cared about

642
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: was his ric er car. Without his car, he would

643
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 3: lose his job. Well, because he needs it to get

644
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 3: to work. But I thought he used his mom's car

645
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 3: or her mom's.

646
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: I think this was the car that they got for

647
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:11,839
Speaker 1: him or something something. I think he had his car

648
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: there was always broke down and I don't fully understand this.

649
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 3: Let's figure it out. Okay, Without his car, he would

650
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 3: lose his job. So at this point he would lose

651
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 3: both girlfriends, family support, his access to cars, and his job,

652
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 3: leaving him with next to nothing. This is where the

653
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 3: fund started. We didn't have the keys and it was locked,

654
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 3: so we had to get creative. I found one of

655
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 3: those double pronged hot dog roasting sticks nearby.

656
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 1: I mean nearby, just around around, you.

657
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 3: Know, put it through the rubber on the top window

658
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 3: and was able to unlock it from.

659
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 1: Wow, that's pretty cool.

660
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 3: I guess still to this day, proud of myself for

661
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 3: my small B and.

662
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: E victory breaking it.

663
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 3: Victor Victoria Ray was a car girl, so she knew

664
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 3: what to do.

665
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: This is a total movie. I love this. I want

666
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: I want this to be made into a film. The

667
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: first thing she did was flood the gas tank with water. Okay, okay,

668
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: what does that do? Obviously I understand it's not good

669
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: for the car, but what is it like? Is it

670
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: going to blow up your car? Is it just gonna

671
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 1: make it stop working? What does that effectively do? Well?

672
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 3: Car needs gas? Yes, And I'm just working through this

673
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 3: for myself. Okay, you don't know either, That's what I'm saying.

674
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 3: I'm not going to claim to be the car master. Okay,

675
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 3: you started it though, and I was. I'm just I'm

676
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 3: just taking it through. I think you flood the gas,

677
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 3: the engine through the like through where you put the

678
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: gas in, and what happens is I think there's a

679
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 3: big old spark and all that stuff, spark boom, engine pistons,

680
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 3: and so when all that gets water.

681
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: Bad, Alyssa Monday's like my man's flame? Was that good? Yeah?

682
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 3: Just like shut because engines don't like water at all.

683
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 3: They're like oiling. They're like oil and gas. And then

684
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 3: when you toss water in there, they like to go fast.

685
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: They like to go I want to go fast.

686
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 2: They do like water when it's on them.

687
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. And also the like the radiator. Yeah, that's coolant

688
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: though it's not water. It's got a little bit of

689
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: water in it isn't keep going okay. Uh, I took

690
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: the spray to spray painting.

691
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 3: I took the spray painting the entire inside of the

692
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 3: car with words like cheater, a whole et cetera. I

693
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 3: feel like, can't you get like arrested for that. Probably

694
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 3: you get caught, You're going to.

695
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: Be like, who else would say cheater? He's like, it

696
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: wasn't me one of your friends exactly. They have the alliance.

697
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 1: That's good. Okay.

698
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 3: The dashboard, the ceiling, the floorboards, the seats, all of

699
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:11,160
Speaker 3: it spray painted bright orange profanity. Fun fact. In my

700
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 3: state at the time, it was only considered vandalism if

701
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 3: it was visible from the outside.

702
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,720
Speaker 1: Weird law, sure, weird lot. But I forgot ohp broke

703
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: into the car, so this I guess. Yeah, this was

704
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: all on the inside of the car. So you couldn't

705
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: see it. Crazy, I mean browning. I'm not gonna what

706
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: am I gonna do to your car? I have car,

707
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: I know how car.

708
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 3: Workun Okay, it was amazing. The final touch, we stole

709
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 3: the stereo system that Ka had bought him for the car.

710
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 3: It was the cherry on top of the whole thing.

711
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 3: I took the stereo and stashed it at a different

712
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 3: friend's house. WHOA, By the way, you could stash us

713
00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 3: in your pocket, in your screen at three pm PST

714
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 3: every weekday.

715
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: On YouTube. Just tap up brofile.

716
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: Crazy crazy that that's a thing that's on the inside.

717
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 1: You can get away with it. You can get away

718
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: with it. I know there's a little bit more to

719
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: the story, but right now I still don't really feel

720
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: like normally, I am all for not vandalizing your ex's

721
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: property and approaching it in like a mature way, but

722
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: he was dating an underage minor, so I don't really

723
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,279
Speaker 1: feel that bad for him. That's the part. You're yes, Yes,

724
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 1: that is the why are you not?

725
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 3: That's not the thing that jumps out at me? What

726
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 3: is the thing that jumps out of you? Just the

727
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 3: all the other stuff, the multiple girlfriends. Yeah, the multiple girlfriends,

728
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 3: the cheating, that having a doesn't he have a does

729
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 3: he have a kid? Miskid, Well, does he actually have

730
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 3: a child? There was I think he has an actual child,

731
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 3: not the miscarriage.

732
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 1: There wasn't ascarriage. And then he also has an actual child.

733
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: That's messy, messy man, that's crazy, mix Mix, says Scorched Earth.

734
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 3: When he got back, he got dropped off at my

735
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 3: house and was greeted by both of us in the

736
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 3: driveway waving him good babe.

737
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: You stayed at the scene of the crime.

738
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 3: He had to get a ride or walk or whatever

739
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: he did to make it to where his car was. No,

740
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 3: so this is like their house. His car was somewhere else.

741
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: So they were like we know. Yeah, they're like bye, okay,

742
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: we hait.

743
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 3: In the chat Anthony, she was fifteen when they got together,

744
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 3: So I don't I guess that. Yes, it's bad, it's

745
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 3: bad something. That's the worst part of the store, the

746
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 3: worst part of the story. Well, so if he was

747
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 3: if she was that age, then he was like nineteen, No,

748
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 3: he was twenty three when but how come it said

749
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 3: seventeen late almost.

750
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: Twenty three, seventeen and twenty three down then it's twenty

751
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: one and fifteen. Oh dang, Yeah, that doesn't sound as good.

752
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:15,399
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, sound good. I was thinking all

753
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 3: of the other three. No, no, that's not good. So

754
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 3: he can like drink and vote and stuff. And she's

755
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 3: a junior in high school.

756
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: He was a junior, No, probably a sophomore. Sophomore I entered.

757
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, I was fifteen.

758
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 3: That's could be the worst part of the story, thank you, okay.

759
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 3: I he had to ride or walk to get wherever

760
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 3: he needed to be to get to where his car was.

761
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: I never talked to him again after that because of

762
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 3: my age. He couldn't do anything to me about the vandalism,

763
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 3: or he would have or he could have got pinched

764
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 3: or statutory.

765
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: Freak king told you.

766
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 3: He did get the cops to question Ray for the

767
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 3: stereo since she was older, but all she had to

768
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 3: do was deny, deny, deny, But she didn't and I

769
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 3: ended up having to hand it over to the police

770
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 3: for her. Would you believe that she got back together

771
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 3: with him after all.

772
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: Of that, Ray, Ray, Come on, Ray, That's ridiculous.

773
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 3: Eventually she did leave him, and we were friends for

774
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 3: years after that. Okay, and we were. Kay also decided

775
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:36,919
Speaker 3: to go back to him for a while. Either way,

776
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 3: I was done and that is where the story is.

777
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: Thank goodness. Wow Ee wow this guy sucks. Yeah, I

778
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: don't feel bad for him one bit. Quite frankly, keayok

779
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: Lory says, honestly, Opi is an a hole, but in

780
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,359
Speaker 1: the most lovable sense, she should be a lawyer. He's

781
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: a lovable justified the felon, and we love her for it.