WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Same Meal Every Day 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:01.520 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.760 --> 0:00:05.600 See you, thank you for listening to us on. 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:07.800 Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:11.920 Yeah, you know I have I have a friend that's 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:16.120 even more in You won't believe this, sistany Tanya, Hi, 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:17.880 and good morning, Welcome to your Friday broadcast. 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:20.279 Good morning, Happy weekend. I'm here for this. 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:22.640 Well, I have a friend that's even more impatient than 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:26.280 I am shocked. I know you should see the two 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.280 of us together. Wow, Like right now we'd be like 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:33.599 you would say weekend, be like it's almost over, and 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:35.720 he would encourage me to feel the same way. 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:37.280 Where did you meet this person? 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:42.480 Let's see rod Da is his name? I met Roda, 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:44.720 Like it's some one of those friends, been like a 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:48.280 twenty two decade friend, so loyal friend Randa. But he's 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.320 more impatient than I, which is his talent, right, Like 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:53.400 he gets bored before eybody else to like start playing 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:55.959 the next thing, which is kind of our talent, right, 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:59.160 I mean we keep things, we try to keep things moving, 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:04.080 so then moving. Yes, So anyway, the thing is, what 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.759 is the best part of the weekend? Is it now 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:08.640 with everything ahead of you or not really because you 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.760 have to get through work today? Is it for me? 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:14.080 It's sunset tonight. That's the best part of the whole week. 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.000 Sunday to night. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:20.039 Weekend. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:21.920 The best part of the whole weekend for me is 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:29.200 probably tomorrow morning. That's mine too, Saturday morning, because there's 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:31.800 always like a not a panic, but I wake up 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:34.640 Saturday morning thinking that it's Friday, like it's a workday. 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:36.319 But then when I realize it's not, it's like. 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:41.600 Oh, back that up to sunset, knowing Saturday morning is coming. 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:42.280 That's not better. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:44.280 No Fridays you're like tired. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.640 It's it's the waking up and knowing you have the 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:52.120 whole day of just whatever you want to do and 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:53.360 you don't have to work the next day. 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:57.240 Yeah, but the next day is the day of almost 0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.320 Monday Day. You like to go through the sky everything 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:04.360 you procrastinated to not do exactly tomorrow. 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:05.840 And tomorrow morning is the best. 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.440 Plus Mark sends his emails out about the show on 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:11.320 Monday's starting. We have. 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:13.440 Sundays. 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:16.760 There's three like formal emails that come on Sunday evening. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.359 Sunday is not a day of rest for us. No, 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.120 Sunday's I get it, you gotta get you tracked. The 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:25.120 other so the weekend's really one day. Yeah there, So again, 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:27.560 my friend would be even more impatient than I about 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:28.200 this conversation. 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:29.959 It's gonna be fine, guys. 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:33.320 All right, we have a free gas Friday this morning. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:35.160 That means you get free gas every hour. I love 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:38.680 doing that. Yeah, mostly Sunday today and tomorrow. High's number 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:41.840 sixties and then the rain is coming. Rain starts like 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:45.440 Saturday night continues one of the week. Uh. By the way, Tanya, 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:48.200 I was thinking about rain, our dogs, the smell, the paws, 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.760 everything distaining on the carpet. But your sunny picture that 0:02:51.800 --> 0:02:55.240 you sent us last night. Yeah, your dog does not 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.760 look like a dog. That is a full on stuffed animal. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:02:58.240 I know. 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:01.480 I always say that. I'm like, she literally, to me, 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:04.200 is a living stuffed animal. But the look she gave 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:07.120 me when I put her in that sleepsack was like, Mom, 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:08.720 are you choking me? 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:12.680 Do you ever see Mickey Mouse blink with the big eyelids, Yeah, 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:16.920 that's what your dog does, the big eyelids blink like 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:18.119 big plastic eyelids. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:19.840 Yeah, she gives me the side. 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:24.200 I animatronic mm hmm, but so adorable. Thank you for 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:25.400 that picture kind of made my evening. 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.280 Thank you. I thought I was pretty cute too. 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:32.280 It was like a Pixar movie that summer National Almonday, 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:35.040 Happy Birthday, the weekend a The Max celebrating a birthday, 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:38.360 Iced Tea celebrating a birthday. Today. Wow, we got an issue. 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:41.680 I don't know if this is a crisis in the engagement, 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:42.960 but it's an issue. 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:44.560 Well, it's not a crisis. 0:03:44.760 --> 0:03:47.640 It's something to address before you get married, Yes, for sure. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.960 But are you making a list of those things? No, 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:51.600 well we will. 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:54.680 You kind of are really by talking to us about 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:55.160 this right now? 0:03:55.160 --> 0:04:00.400 You are, Oh, well, okay, So I love Robbie's. 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:03.600 Every time you say that at the beginning, it's bad 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:04.440 news to come. 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:08.680 And he's perfect. But the one thing that he does 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:09.480 that drives me. 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:13.600 Absolutely nuts is he if he wears like a pair 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:16.120 of sweats or something, once he'll put them on the 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:17.440 he'll just take them off and put them on the 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.440 bed because they're not dirty. So he's not putting them 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:21.080 in the dirty hamper. But he's not like putting them 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:22.200 away because they're not clean. 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:23.760 So there's a process. 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.360 So there's God was like the system, Yeah, but they're 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:27.040 not on our. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:31.200 Welcome to living with a dude, so you're you've ever 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:32.279 got in on the floor. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.240 No, So every time I see them on the bed, 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.120 I take them and I put them in the hamper. 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:38.200 I said, clothes do not belong on the bed. If 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.400 they're on the bed, I'm going to put them in 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:39.640 the hand. 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.279 They're not dirty. He says, you're right. 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.159 So I was like, then, find a space in the 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.719 closet that's for the not dirty but not clean. 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:48.440 I have a solution, tell me, so I do this. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:51.360 This is my This is my system because I don't 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.039 want to clog up the laundry with things that I 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:54.880 put and I changed, you know, a couple times during 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.520 the day, right with the activities that are going on. 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:04.560 So I have a chance and I throw be cleaned, 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.960 go on the chair. At some point myself or someone 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:11.080 walks by, Aubrey might pick it up and fold it 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:13.360 and put it in a closet. Now, if it goes 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.240 a couple of days, I end up doing it. The 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:18.560 odds are you know, someone comes buying rabs them and 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:21.560 she's very good at that. I can't fold. I'm not 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:25.719 a good folder fold well, not a great folder. That's 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:28.680 that's my default. Wow, but yeah, grab a chair don't 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:29.839 you have a closed chair. 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.200 No, the chairs, the benches, they're not meant for that. 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:35.040 They're great, but they're great for keeps it off the bed, 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:36.840 keeps it out of the hamper. It's a nice solution. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.559 I think it's a compromise. That's what marriage is all about, 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:41.880 right Sysney, compromising it is. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.640 And Tanya, he's not gonna change because I've been with 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.920 Michael for fifteen years and it's the same thing. And 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:50.080 for us it's the bench, and it's his jackets, this 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:53.400 hooded sweatshirts. It's whatever it is. And after about the 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:55.680 third or fourth day, you're gonna get sick of the pile. 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:01.400 And he always goes, where are my sweats? Where I 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:02.520 was like, I put them in the hamper. 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:05.240 They were on the beat, but they're not dirty. A 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:09.240 good system for sweaty cloths, which I love as well, 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:13.440 is I take my sweaty shorts and shirt and socks 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:17.039 and I lay them to dry over the lip of 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:23.240 the tub. Michael does that too, because they're not I 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:26.680 could technically I could get into shorts again. I know 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:29.719 there's shirt's questionable, but the socks for sure, and the 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:33.080 shorts definitely. I do. 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.400 That is so wrong. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:41.520 Okay, with all due respect, hygiene. 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:44.520 Process, I have respect. 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.960 Have you seen my workout. I'm sitting on a bench 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.760 press pushing up weights that my feet don't get wet. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:52.680 First of all, I do. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:56.600 It's one hour. How often are you I'm going to 0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:57.480 take this to the people. 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.359 Don't even reuse socks for my kids, like this is. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:02.159 It's one hour and my workout socks. 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:04.680 First of all, you're sweating when you work out? 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:05.080 Are you? 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:07.279 The socks? You know those socks that you saw for 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:11.960 Super Bowl that I posted. Remember you didn't see me 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:15.160 trying open to back chip. Yeah, I saw that their 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:16.280 socks were like three days. 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.720 I did see those socks and they looked so big 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:19.200 on you. 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:22.480 Because they they're not big. I just warn them a 0:07:22.480 --> 0:07:24.440 couple of times so they stretched out by the time 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:26.480 because I don't wear them all day, but in the 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:28.720 nighttime I put them on for a little coziness. 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:34.280 The socks, Ryan, that's gross. Yeah, it's pretty crazy listening. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.360 You've gross things too, And Robbie has that thing he's 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:38.040 got going on, so everybody's not perfect. 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:42.400 Wow, maybe I'll get a little chair or like a 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:46.280 little something and put it just like I'm trying to think. 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.000 Of what my gross things are, but I don't reuse 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:48.440 my socks. 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:50.560 Let's get your husband, Michael on the line, and he's 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.040 got a list ready to go. Mark's produced this segment already. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:56.920 Time for the morning hack and a quote of the day, 0:07:56.960 --> 0:08:00.200 Systey and Tanya. Let's see if you're into this. So 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:01.720 do you think you can tell someone's lying to you 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:03.400 via text? Tony? You might be able to do this, 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:03.720 can you? 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:04.640 I think so? 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:05.800 Okay? 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:11.160 Long sentences, oh yeah, when someone's trying, like over explain something. 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:17.880 Yeah, and more personal pronouns like I and myself. Okay, 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:19.400 I don't than I could tell on that, but I 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.640 guess basically, if someone's writing long sentences or long text, 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:25.600 they may be making some of that up. Yeah, and 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:29.360 no one likes No one really likes a long text anyway. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:33.120 Yeah myself. So I'm so sorry I'm not going to 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:35.920 be able to make it today because I slept myself 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:37.760 in and I have to die. I never do that, 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:39.400 and I'm I get it. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:43.720 Okay, I myself myself, How do you use myself? How 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:45.360 do you type myself? Talking about ie? 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.640 I myself want to come my dog? 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.440 As they do myself, and. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:54.240 I, yeah, I myself want to come. 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:57.800 But if you say that, I would think I wouldn't 0:08:57.800 --> 0:08:59.400 think you're lying. I would think that you need to 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:02.559 use your correct engage. 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.600 It we check on your sanity. 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:05.800 Yeah, maybe it's a sanity. 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:07.959 People say I myself, don't they? 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.360 Not one for you? Go around the room on this mark. 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:13.720 You ever said I myself, It doesn't really ring a 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:17.160 bell with me. No, ruby I myself, that ring a 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:18.280 bell with you. 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:21.280 No, I'm trying to check your text messages. You can 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.439 probably check I myself and see if it's ever popped 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:23.920 up in anything. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:25.440 What are you trying to say about? Why are you 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:30.760 being redundant about you? It's like saying I I. 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:34.120 Like I myself like I myself, enjoy walk around the block. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:36.319 Why why are you pounding it into our heads that 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:41.840 you you like When you say I, we know it's you. 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:42.760 I know what you mean. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.640 I think I wasn't sleeping so well myself. 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:52.719 Because it's not I myself, that's myself In place of 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:57.880 eye you could also say I wasn't sleeping so well, 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.600 I myself. A new rom com to paramount plus. 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:05.040 Sounds like anybody but you, anyone but you. 0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:08.199 All right, well good, this is it's getting more fun. Guys, 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.080 We're all getting more fun. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:09.640 Here we go. 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:11.240 Oh, it's I personally. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:16.200 Ah today's quote. You can go to the gym, drink 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.199 your water, take your vitamins, but if you don't deal 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:20.280 with the stuff going on in your heart and your head, 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:23.280 you're still yourself. I gonna be unhealthy. 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:25.360 You had that high in there. 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:27.240 I hit a couple of those man. 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:30.480 Just FM headlines with well did you feel it? At 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:34.120 three point eight magnitude earthquake struck the Ontario area last 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:38.480 night around eleven thirty eight. A pm land movement caused 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.800 by recent rains has led to the closure of Wayfar's 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:47.040 Chapel in Rancho Palace Verdes for safety reasons. About one 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.280 hundred and seventy five wedding scheduled for the Glass Church 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.680 will have to be held elsewhere now. Teachers in South 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.960 LA got some help yesterday from ABC's Abbot Elementary, a 0:10:57.000 --> 0:11:00.440 new mobile lunch box stopped by several schools having away 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:04.760 goodie bags and prepackaged lunch boxes to teachers. And Jennifer 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:07.720 Lopez is hitting the road this summer for her This 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:10.280 Is Me Now tour. She'll be at the Kia Forum 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:13.480 on July eleventh and at the Honda Center on July 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.240 thirteenth on air with Ryan Seacret. 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:21.760 So let me grab Roger before we pay a bill, 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:25.679 and then Sisney's got It's called la nada, la nada, 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:28.079 la nada. What does it mean? 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.680 Well, if you translate it into Spanish, it means the nothing. 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:33.679 But but it's the something. 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:34.520 It's the something. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:39.080 So it's this new weather phenomenon, not or El Nino, right, lanada? 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:39.760 Exactly? 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.120 What is about? How scared are we? 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:44.240 Sounds like nothing? 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.640 Well, which is ironic because it's not nothing. Well, it'll 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:52.640 be something. So Sicaney herself will be telling us about 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:57.560 that exactly. I myself will tell you, Roger, that's coming 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.400 up in the match game. But Roger first, Roger, I 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.079 want to get to you. So let me understand this, 0:12:01.360 --> 0:12:03.880 and thanks for reaching out to us about it. You 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:06.360 found your therapist on a dating app? Were you looking 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.599 to date but found someone to help you? 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.920 No, So I am a single and looking to date, 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:17.520 but I was on my dating app or a dating app, 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:21.640 and I did come across my therapist, which look, obviously 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:25.599 we're both human. When I'm lives this could happen. But 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:27.599 then some of the pops of my mind that I 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:31.839 remember he told me he was married previously, and look, 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:35.240 I don't know all the details, but the profile didn't 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.400 give off like open relationship vibe. Sometimes you know, it'll 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.120 say like me and my partner here, or the pictures 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:45.599 of both of them, and I don't know. I'm just 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:47.400 kind of in my head a little bit. I mean, 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:49.320 it's not my business. I don't know all the details. 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.880 But part of me thinking, do I want to go 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:55.600 to a therapist who might be maybe I'm jumping to conclusions, 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.520 but on a dating app and put potentially cheating on 0:12:58.559 --> 0:12:59.520 their on their husband. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.839 Okay, I need to unload a load this. Ye, so 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:09.640 you're swiping on a dating app and you saw your therapist, correct, 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.800 got it? And what did you? Did you do anything? Yet? 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:18.760 I like to know, first of all, he knows too 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:19.240 much about me? 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:25.040 Yeah, like he knows about a lot about you. Now 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:26.920 you know something about him. But he's married. 0:13:28.280 --> 0:13:30.079 He is married? Yeah, he told me he's married. 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.600 So how so how do you go to your next 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:36.719 session knowing all of this without talking about it? 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:38.079 Right? 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:38.319 Like? 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:39.160 Do I is it? 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:39.599 So? 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.079 Look, like I said, people live their own lives, but 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:43.920 it's just in my head a little bit that, you know, 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:47.240 I'm worried that am I going to somebody who could 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:51.360 be potentially cheating on their on their spouse? Like I said, 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:54.080 people have different relationships. But I kind of I'm wondering 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:55.679 if it's in appropriate to bring it up and ask 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.079 like do I say it, you know, pretend it never happened. 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.360 But it's gonna kind of I'm always gonna wonder it. 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.840 I think it's your therapy session, so you talk about 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:04.000 whatever you want to talk about. 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:06.520 Yeah, I mean I thought about just bring up in 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.559 a joking matter, like you know, did you see me 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:11.720 on there? And you know I tell you on tender 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:12.520 you know too much about it? 0:14:12.640 --> 0:14:14.719 Help me understand this? Would he have definitely seen you 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:16.559 and you've seen him, like, would you've seen each other? 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:17.520 Not necessarily? 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.360 Yeah, I don't know if that's how how it always 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:24.080 works advice likee nolla, But yeah, I mean there's there's 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:25.960 there's a high chance though that if I'm seeing him 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:29.160 in my area and aging that he's also seeing me 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:33.120 on there too. So I'm just yeah, it's not sure 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:33.720 if I should bring it. 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:43.120 Up or not, if it's me, I think it's wasted 0:14:43.360 --> 0:14:45.280 your money to bring it up and waste time talking 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:48.240 about that one. It's your session total to you know, 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:50.520 like it's on your mind, but like you're there for 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:53.280 you and what you need, not for Why is he there? 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:54.680 And is he cheating on his person? 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.880 This therapist is giving him advice about life and this 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.240 guy's a cheater and he's through his back? 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:02.360 Have you heard our advice? And like we don't ever 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.600 amaze still, this guy's a pretty stuff. We give advice 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:06.920 about Roger's not paying. 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:08.680 Us one hundred and seventy five dollars an hour or 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.360 ask you, Roger. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:11.880 Let's talk about that. 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.720 I would, I would happily. I might be in the 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:14.640 market for a new one now. 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:16.320 So well, that's what I'm saying, Rogers. 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:18.240 There's two ways to deal with this. To me, this 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:20.000 is two things. Either you quit this person, you go 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:21.640 find a new therapist, or you just get in there 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:23.200 and you work on you and don't worry about this 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:23.720 other person. 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.600 Yeah, but also you don't know your therapist might have 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:28.080 gone through a divorce. They're not telling you what's going 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:30.040 on in their life. They're listening to what's going on 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:31.880 in your life. So they could have very well just 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:34.920 been divorced and getting back in the dating field. And yeah, 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:38.000 I waste your time talking about that. I say, pretend 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:39.160 you never saw it and keep going. 0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:42.520 If you like this therapist, Yeah I do like. 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.360 The sessions ago. Well I'll try to power through. I 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.960 think it will. Maybe a couple of sessions I'll forget. 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:53.640 But yeah, you good luck, Okay, thank you very much. 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:55.880 I mean we give advice on things that we're not 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:57.200 great at all the time. 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.480 You know, we're not licensed therapist. 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:01.240 Yeah, different, Yeah. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:07.320 I mean that's a small detail. All right. So everybody 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:09.120 is talking about this, but do you know what you 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:11.800 need to know? Rain this weekend, it's coming Saturday night 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:15.280 into Sunday and next week. But there's a new weather. 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:18.880 So we have El Nino, La Nina and now a 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:22.160 new weather phenomenon, La na Da. What is La nada? 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:23.280 And how scared are we? 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:27.880 So the more technical name is and so neutral. Okay, 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:31.640 the absence of both El Nino and La Nina, So 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:36.000 then that is La Nada. It makes basically predicting the 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:40.240 weather unpredictable. It makes it challenging, It makes it so 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.200 at least with El Nino and Lanina. You knew what 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:45.640 to expect. You knew that with El Nino it's gonna 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.160 be cold, it's gonna be rainy, and with La Nina 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:52.000 it's more warmer rain. But with La Nada it's very 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:55.920 It's almost like you can experience fall, winter, and spring 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:59.680 conditions during the months of La Nada and. 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.480 It's like a good thing. If you're a weather forecaster, 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:05.840 you could give a forecast and they go, Lanada, I 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:08.840 never predicted. If your forecast is wrong, yeah. 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:11.399 I guess. So they're saying that El Nino is going 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:15.360 to weaken and maybe even fade away as early as April, 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:20.439 and then when it comes to La Nada that'll happen 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:24.200 sometime after that, and who knows between April. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:27.520 It's just a big weather disclaimer, like we don't really 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:28.960 tell what it's going on. It's like, you don't know 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:30.679 what's going to be a next It could be Nino 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:32.800 La Nina. But if they flip times of year, then 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:34.440 let's Lenada talking about. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:39.399 I hadn't heard of La Nada until this year. That 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:40.800 was like new news to me. 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:45.240 But hurricanes Lanada right right right? I mean, you know, 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:48.080 is talking about all the things that they're preparing for. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:49.000 They're calling it Lena. 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:53.240 Yeah, because I think when we experienced the hurricane back 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:55.760 in August of last year, we were not expecting to 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:57.480 have But why is it in August? 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:00.119 Why is it being called the nothing though? That to 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:04.680 me is not Are they just being cute? Maybe the 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:05.439 weather namers. 0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:06.639 Sure, it's so funny. 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:09.040 We actually met with a wedding planner that said that 0:18:09.160 --> 0:18:12.879 they specialize and that is it predicting. But they have 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:17.399 these like special meteorologies where they can predict what the 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:17.840 weather is. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.399 Going to be like that anymore? Yeah, don't pay that 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:24.159 feet you don't need that, Like, oh really, I. 0:18:24.119 --> 0:18:25.919 Didn't even think about it. I was like, I wouldn't 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:26.600