WEBVTT - Selective Ignorance: Ep. 41 | AI Vs Autonomy, Decade Old Tweets & Non-Apologies feat. Jason "Jah" Lee 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.880 Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However, 0:00:03.000 --> 0:00:05.320 before we get to this week's episode, I want to 0:00:05.360 --> 0:00:09.160 remind you guys to purchase my book No Holds Barred, 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:12.319 a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. 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Welcome to another 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:49.440 episode of Selective Ignorance with me, you girl, Mandy B. 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:52.920 Where I know just enough to be dangerous but not 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:56.040 enough to be depressed. This week and this is America, 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:59.320 we're getting real tenfoil hat with it. Okay, it's it's 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.040 the end of the year, so we're lighting up the 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.240 mood a bit. But we are tapping into the themes 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.760 of Apple TV's new show Pluribus Jo Caro and asking 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:11.640 is sci fi actually not that fictional anymore? Like at 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.360 this point is it a genre or is it a 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:15.760 soft launch for what the government got planned in real life? 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:20.000 So robots, surveillance, social scoring system, babes, it's looking less 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:22.040 once upon a time and more give it to more 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:25.399 election cycles? All right, look at my African American. Then 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.920 in celebrities say the darness things, including your girl, Hi, Hello, 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.960 it's me manby b They tried to get me out 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.520 of here, gotcha, bitch by emailing me some tweets that 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.760 I had out in twenty eleven and failed miserably. Because 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:42.400 guess what, I'm doubling down. Not only do I refuse 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:45.600 to get canceled and will I never get canceled. I 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.680 am letting y'all know that maybe in twenty twenty five, 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.320 those tweets from fourteen years ago still kind of apply. 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:55.280 We need to do better. Meanwhile, Rory from roorya Maul, 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.280 Kayla Nicole who everyone only knows as the ex of 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:02.160 a football player, and Tyler the Creator have gotten kind 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.000 of put in the hot seat over the last couple 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.200 of weeks with their tweets, but we are talking about 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:09.280 what black Twitter really was, what it meant, and if 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.760 we could just forgive everybody for their tweets from twenty 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:12.640 eleven everything. 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:14.480 Fuck the fuck up, y'all. 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.840 This is a fun episode leading into the week right 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.880 before our year and wrap up that has taking place 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.040 next week, so y'all make sure to tune into that, 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.480 and then of course we have a cute little Christmas 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:31.040 episode ending out the year. Also, listen, fuck your jobs. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:34.680 None of y'all are really working right now anyways, you 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:36.760 know what I mean. Everybody is clocked the fuck out. 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:39.120 So I thought that we would give you guys some 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:43.640 entertaining conversations in your ear while you barely work. 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:45.680 Fuck your cop schnugger, Yeah, what what is it? 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:47.040 Working? 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:47.919 Barely working? 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.560 But what is the goddamn saying? 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:53.160 Are you hard? Harley? Yes? 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:56.959 Working harder, hardly working? All of you nigglets are hardly working. 0:02:58.360 --> 0:03:04.000 Show anyways, y'all don't per usual. I am joined by 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:13.519 my super producers, can can Jason Wegas y'all know journalism. Jason, 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:16.000 I'm here to bring y'all the facts, the stats and 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:19.280 all the things. And then we have o G podcast legend, 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:24.320 a king here to what real mean really? Uh if 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:27.640 I'm getting too out of bounds, and then y'all welcoming 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.400 yet again a voice that you guys will learn to 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:33.880 get familiar with who will be joining me at the 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.440 top of next year as well. Really excited to welcome 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:40.200 Jason Lee. And we've already talked about it last week. 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:48.839 Not that Jonson, Sir Joah, Sir John Job crazy. He's 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.280 in the building, and I guess, uh, per usual, We're 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:55.520 gonna start off with some conversations about how I've been 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:59.560 kind of ignorant because baby I have. It is really 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:02.120 crazy because I'm actually starting a list as we come 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:05.119 into the studio and I'd be having to like hold 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.360 some for the following episode because I'm like, damn it, bitch, 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:13.760 be ignorant a lot, damn what is wrong with your girl? Everything? Maybe, 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:18.800 but this one, I actually am not the ignorant one here. 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:21.600 I had to call out a friend who was ignorant, 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:23.919 and I want to hear y'alls thoughts on if it 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:28.200 has ever happened, and pretty much per usual, I'm trying 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:33.440 to educate men here on this one. Okay, So anyways, Uh. 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:36.560 A couple of weeks ago, I went to a Prize 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:40.040 Picks party, and you know Prize Picks. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:40.400 What's up? 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:43.839 Throw the bag here? This is not a sports podcast, 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:47.400 but we could do it here. I can get listen. 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:50.080 I could bet on which niggas look good to say, yeah, 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.440 they gonna throw the ball real far, like what's up? 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:53.040 You know what I mean? 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:58.440 No? No, no, and. 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:00.240 Do no not. 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.360 The crazy part about it is is what I when 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.400 I'm out and I'm watching it so crazy to me 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.440 and my friends are the same type of bitches. So 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.960 we'll be watching a game, We're not really watching the game, 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.719 but a fine motherfucker come across the screen because you know, 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.560 the helmets don't come off very often, but when they do, 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:18.279 and then they put the little name at the bottom 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.920 of the screen, immediately you got to go find then Instagram. 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:24.039 That's what I do. And then nine times out of 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:26.800 ten they fucking have white wives. But uh, and then 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:28.359 I'm like, ooh, not gonna follow him. But if I 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.839 go down enough rows and they ain't got no no 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:32.880 pictures of the wife, no pictures of the girlfriend, I'm 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.840 hitting that follow button, hitting it like in a couple 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:37.800 of pictures. Uh, but yeah. Anyways, Prize pixs high let 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:40.159 your girl. So I go to this Prize Pix event. 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.279 It's really cool, really dope. I did not win the 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:45.280 money that I thought I was gonna win. Of course, 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.800 I go into all gambling thinking, ooh, I got free money, 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:50.760 I'm gonna win big and did it, but had a 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.960 good time. Saw a lot of familiar faces and it 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:57.840 was it was cute. So I'm not gonna say the 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:01.880 rapper's name because the rapper is in a relationship. But 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:06.040 it was very very platonic conversation. 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.680 A relationship or relationship. 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:09.400 Relationship, which is the only reason why I'm not going 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:10.760 to bring it up, because I don't want it to 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.120 seem like it's something that's not. Anyways, I'm talking to 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:18.919 this rapper because we had exchange words at the BET 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:20.000 Awards a couple of years ago. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:20.920 Exchange words. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.760 No, no when I say exchange words. And now I'm 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.320 probably even gonna say. My mom is a big fan 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:30.839 of this rapper, ironically, and so I FaceTime I say, 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:35.720 oh my god, my mom loves you so much, like I, 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.839 do you mind if I FaceTime six? Now they're little, 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.440 they're little, which is also a part of the story 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:46.880 as well, which is crazy. So he's a he's a shorty, 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.880 but my mom is a fan. Okay, you know what, 0:06:48.880 --> 0:06:50.680 because I've already let it know how platonic it is, 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:51.680 and I don't want him like that. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:52.080 Whatever. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:53.400 It's two sy. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:07:08.360 Favorite puts me on, tell your mom to share a playlist? 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:12.400 Right the way this is this is a super like 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:17.360 Atlanta reunion. So I walk in with Travis Porter and 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.880 k Camp those are the people, you know what I mean, 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:22.080 I know them niggas forever. So anyways, I go here, 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:25.520 Suci's there. He's got security, but we catch each other's eye, 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.640 don't talk, but then we finally talk and he's like, hey, 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.480 how you been. Finally it's like okay, I was like, hey, 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.720 what's up? But yeah, he FaceTime my mom, So my 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:36.320 mom's forever grateful about that. He's he's one of like 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:38.880 the sweetest guys. And I really do like his music 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:42.520 because my mama put me on. So anyways, we're talking 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:43.880 and we're just catching up, and I was like, you 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.320 don't live in Atlanta, right, He's visiting for for whatever 0:07:46.360 --> 0:07:49.640 he was visiting for. In the middle of our conversation, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:51.320 it's just me and him talking. But mind you, at 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.000 the top of the stairs, mad people walking around, but 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:57.360 it's me and him in conversation. My homie walks up 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:59.160 in the middle of a conversation. Mind you, I see him. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:00.600 I see him from my eye and I give him 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.800 not He walk up behind me and give me a 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.760 hug from the back while I'm talking like Michael RB. 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:11.080 Yes. 0:08:11.280 --> 0:08:13.640 If y'all don't know the micro look up the white parties. 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:15.560 This nigga huggs everybody from the back. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:17.800 Two arms. 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:24.520 Why he gives you the very important it don't matter. 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:28.000 He he like literally is walking behind me and in 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:31.960 the middle of my conversation he hugs me from behind. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:36.040 So he's entitled this is you don't even know hold on, 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:36.720 so let me tell you. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.560 So I'm like, I'm like, did how long you stay? 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:42.920 He did his cross to you? But yeah, yeah, he 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.520 lean into it was it wasn't the crotch at the butt, 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.360 but it was just like one of hed the butt 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:51.200 sticking out because I couldn't see from the back. All 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:55.400 I know is shortly after all, right to see like 0:08:55.720 --> 0:09:01.280 the conversation, but my you and we wasn't talking about nothing, 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:07.120 just like well he got going on while so I perturbed. 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:09.960 But I'm upset and not because I was trying to 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.960 throw no pussy at this nigga, nothing like that. But 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:13.640 I'm just thinking, what. 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:18.560 If I was no, no, a little bit. 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:22.400 You are a professional radio personality podcaster to this woman. 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:25.720 You could have been discussing whatever whatever you feel liberally, so. 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:29.160 As a man and another man, whatever it is, you 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.840 don't come and make it awkward or uncomfortable or do 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.320 that ship mind you, just say, this is a whole 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:35.760 me said. 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:38.079 Person you was talking to might interpret that, oh ship. 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.440 Like oh, let me back up. So anyways, we go 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:46.640 to to passing each other, go into the bathroom and 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:48.800 I let this nigga have it, and it's my homie. 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:53.240 I say, hey, come on, I said, don't you ever 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:58.040 your motherfucking life mind you, he's not even a nigga 0:09:58.040 --> 0:09:58.960 that we like that. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:02.559 We even we don't even in brace like that. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.160 I said, Nigga, I said, don't you ever in your 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:08.440 motherfucking life while I'm talking to any other man, because 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:12.079 it's really a man, particularly while I'm engaging in conversation 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.720 with another man, come up first, off from behind, but 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.839 also make your presence be known like that and interrupt 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.320 in exchange that's happening between me and another nigga, because 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.680 first off, you don't know what the conversation was. You 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:26.640 don't know who this nigga is to me, but you 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:29.760 also don't know the conversation, and your presence interrupts that. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:32.200 And do you know what his first response was? 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:33.720 But I know your type. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:36.920 I didn't think that that was anything because he's short, 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:40.280 because to see is on the shorter side and it's so. 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:46.720 Literally that's good on his part. 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.560 So because this nigga wasn't six foot, you felt entitled 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.480 to come interrupt or make your presence be known in 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:55.720 a conversation where it wasn't warranted, and so we literally 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:57.960 had to have the whole conversation because he didn't see 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:00.880 the problem with what he did. Apparently he brought this 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:04.720 scenario to multiple people and they all said, nigga, you 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:07.440 dead ass wrong. So I say this to say for 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:15.760 any but not only that, this is one of those 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:21.160 universal things men listening. If a woman that you know 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:26.400 is engaging into a conversation with another man, regardless of 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:29.920 what their relationship is, you making your presence be known 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:33.040 by coming and embracing her in that moment is dead, 0:11:33.040 --> 0:11:37.640 ass ignorant is fun, and it's wrong, like because again 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:42.600 men see that as a territorial thing, as if he's 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:45.440 doing something wrong, even though he wasn't. Bro, we were talking, 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.959 We were having a conversation. Mind you wanting him to 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.839 come on a radio want it? Like, nigga, what are 0:11:49.840 --> 0:11:51.680 you in Atlanta for how long? Because I'd love to 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:53.720 get you on my ship. And then he come over 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:55.760 and embrace me. And now this nigga feels like, oh, 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:59.520 I don't cross the boundary. I shouldn't be talking. Let 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.560 me back off. And so I had to tell him that, 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:03.319 but I was like, how do you not know this? 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.440 So I didn't want to make this announcement to any 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:06.199 nigga who. 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.080 Is like, wait, what's the problem? Bro? 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.800 If a woman is engaging in conversation with any man, 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.200 it don't matter. If that's her coworker, it don't matter. 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:15.760 If it's just a stranger, it don't matter if it's 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:17.920 it's a colleague. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:20.840 Do not or some nigga you think she don't like, 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:22.200 or nigga that you don't. 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.480 Think she likes, because you don't think that's her. Do 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:30.960 not come over and insert yourself into the that's crazy. 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:32.719 If you do a Michael Rubin from the back and 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:34.640 you see somebody like you have you have to you 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:35.720 have to like stick and stay. 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:37.240 You have to you have to be like, oh this 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.960 is my pe. No, no, you join the conversation. That's no, no, no, no. 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:44.839 That's even worse. That's even worse. You don't see Michael, 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.280 you don't. You don't embrace it from the back and 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:50.400 then stay into a conversation that you're not a part of. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:52.640 Well, first of all, if you have the audacity to 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.360 do a Michael Rubin, you've got to plant you can't 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:56.880 even worse. 0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:01.360 Again, that means you are you are putting your your 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:07.320 scent into it. Unless unless you are my nigga, and 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:11.400 unless you are on some like insecure as shit and 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:14.120 we are together and I am in a room speaking 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.920 to someone that might intimidate you, make you feel uncomfortable 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:18.680 or you feel like you have to include yourself. Cool, 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:22.440 But if you are just a friend of if you 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:26.560 are just a male counterpart male, you don't insert yourself 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.400 into a space between a woman and another. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:34.280 Man because it's a violation on multiple fronts, right, all 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:34.840 the violation. 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:36.480 The first is like. 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:40.000 You yourself as the person being accosted by this hug, 0:13:40.559 --> 0:13:46.080 like you know what I'm saying, So like, hey, that's 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:47.880 the first thing that stands like paramount. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:49.480 But then the other part of it till you spoke 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:50.079 to is like. 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:55.720 We men were in social situations, like we understand how 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.160 things go and like whether your ego can deal with 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.200 it or not. Like be in a room with a 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:05.720 lot of other men. There's rich niggas, there's powerful niggas. 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:09.520 There's niggas who might be on your quote unquote level. 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:11.760 There might be all kinds of situations going on. You 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:13.480 don't want to be the weird guy. 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:14.600 Facts. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.400 Also, I know a lot of women. I'm friends with 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:18.040 a lot of women. 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:21.240 I really can't name you a single woman and he's 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.200 a woman who to your point, some women you don't 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:26.320 even embrace like that whatever. But all the women that 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:29.280 I know that I hug, I can't really name you 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.720 one of them that I would hug from the. 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:34.640 Back unless you ate my ass, Hug me at the back, 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.400 hug the bitch from the back, unless you work. Yeah, 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.760 like that even an etiquette of hugs, which is why 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:42.720 both of y'all asked, was it both, here was one, 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:47.960 here was the church hug was Yeah, it was from 0:14:47.960 --> 0:14:50.280 the back, which made it egregious. Nonetheless, that could have been. 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:54.720 If you what if you was talking Todd, I mean, whoever? 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:59.760 And who are you emotional intelligence? Like I don't have it? 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:01.440 Who are you say? 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:03.400 Oh? 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:05.240 Well, but I mean if it's your lady. 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:07.480 That's a whole un saying that in the moment we're 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:08.240 talking to hit him. 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:12.720 Who are you determine who's my who's my type or not? Like, yes, 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:18.200 everyone knows that, don't give you but that. I was 0:15:18.320 --> 0:15:21.320 so like, how old is this nigga? In his thirties? 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:21.960 He know better? 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:26.640 Yeah, that's and he asks other people. That just shows 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:27.720 that he didn't know. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:32.600 Referencing last week. These niggas be knowing better, they just 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:36.120 don't choose to do better. They just ignore and don't 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.680 give a fuck. And when I tell you, I and 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.240 I ain't never talked to this nigga like that because 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:44.280 he's cool, Leslie, I said, don't you ever in your 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:47.360 motherfucking life you see how many kurtseperds I'm using. I 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:48.920 was so upset. 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:55.000 Of course, he was probably how long have you known him? 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:56.040 Actually met him? This year? 0:15:56.760 --> 0:16:01.680 So here's what that. Here's what that is, right? 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:03.640 What is that? What that is? 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:11.760 That is him taking an opportunity what he thought back 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:16.160 what he thought was an opportunity to be like, oh man, 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:21.200 and then he thinks the water yeah yeah, yeah, response 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:21.680 would be warm. 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:25.800 She thought she was gonna lean back into it. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.760 Yeah, that was him. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.760 That was the passes aggressive, Like all right now, if 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.240 she leaning ass back into me, she liked me. 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:35.240 Maybe maybe I got. 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:39.440 A niggas he over He might be right at six. 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:43.320 Because niggas fish and niggas fish in various ways. Sometimes 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:45.920 I can fish by saying a compliments. Sometimes I can 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.880 fish by doing it a chore. 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.280 Don't fish? How about that? 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:54.440 Yeah, you know, fishing physically That nigga was fishing though 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:56.160 he was because. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:01.280 You know what I mean. Difference between flirt and sexual assault, Like. 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:04.760 Yeah about it? 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.080 Like even if you even if there's a person that 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.600 you regularly embraced, what if you didn't want to be 0:17:09.640 --> 0:17:11.720 touched right now? Like you know, I did it and 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.240 I can't see I mean conversation, I mean conversations. 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:16.359 So you just take it upon yourself to that you 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:17.280 can't do that, bro. 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:19.200 Mind you I'm in a room and I'm looking around 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:22.359 and I love it. There's no bodies. I have no 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:25.720 bodies in this room. There's not one in this room 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:29.359 that I fucked. So immediately, who got the nerves? 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:31.199 Yeah? Who is this? Right? 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:35.800 Ain't none of these niggas, none of mine? 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.879 I had his read coming, mind you, none of them 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:43.680 are in my rolodicts in this whole room, right. So 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:46.480 I'm just like, why are you laughing? 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.240 You caught it? Yeah? 0:17:48.280 --> 0:17:52.360 Yeah, yeah, you feel me. That's a T shirt, you know. 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:59.919 But yeah, I was like, did the nerve the dacity? 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.399 Because listen, if it's one thing a man gonna have, 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:07.359 he can't no money, no job, little dick whatever, he 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:09.879 ain't got much, but he gonna have the audacity. 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:11.240 Pocket full of audacity. 0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:14.400 Oh my god. Anyways, I'm glad to know that y'all 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:16.360 are mature enough to know that you don't just hug 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.280 bites from the back. That's a standard in conversation in 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:20.320 the presence of another man. 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.720 And to be honest with you, like I never had 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:25.159 to be told that, like that's not a thing, that 0:18:25.200 --> 0:18:29.640 that's not really a lesson that you. 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:31.040 I never had to learn that lesson. I want to 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:32.399 sit you down and tell you about I'm gona tell 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:33.640 you by somebody what you can't do now. 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:42.359 Just you have some level of social intelligence, of emotional intelligence, 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:44.439 you just know, Okay, this is gonna you know what 0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:44.760 to be. 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:46.959 Fair, to be fair, and I will say it, and 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.440 it's gonna sound and it's stupid, probably gonna make y'all 0:18:49.440 --> 0:18:53.600 little bad. I don't care. Everyone's still not diagnosed yet. 0:18:54.240 --> 0:19:00.240 So social cues are like we talk about what is it? Everybody? 0:19:00.480 --> 0:19:04.560 Like common sense ain't so common the social cues. And 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:07.000 we could blame the pandemic a little bit because people 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:09.320 had to be inside for some time, but also they 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:12.480 weren't inside in Atlanta, so social cues should be better 0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:17.560 here than anywhere else. Y'all niggas didn't have social It. 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:20.720 Should be for the record, as the longest standing in 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.200 Atlanta resident in this room, my ass was inside. 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:24.200 I don't know nothing about. 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:29.600 What the niggas, the super bars, niggas, all the videos. 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:33.639 COVID was saying hi to everybody, but yeah to me, 0:19:33.840 --> 0:19:35.040 social cues. 0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:37.560 And that is that, you know, It's funny, like like 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:39.640 if you introduced me to a friend of yours. Right, 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:41.320 the first thing I'm gonna do is reach my hand 0:19:41.320 --> 0:19:43.439 out nine times at the ten they said no, I 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:47.520 give h only say that because I believe because of 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.600 how I present it, because they're like, no, that's respectful, right, 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:51.760 you know, come give hugs, right. 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:54.240 That should be it. Yeah, and then he should have. 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:56.359 Honestly, I would have if I'm him, I would have 0:19:56.359 --> 0:19:57.200 played off to the side. 0:19:57.200 --> 0:19:58.200 Wait till you finished talking? 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:02.119 Man, what upsy? Even in the front facing greeting instead 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:02.480 of that? 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:06.840 Are you saying that though I only extend hugs to women, 0:20:07.480 --> 0:20:10.760 if I'm meeting a man, they're getting a hand out, 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:14.560 like I don't like even if I'm being introduced, I 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:18.280 don't embrace men. I embrace women to let their guard down. Know, 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.840 like girl, I'm friendly bit yeah, but men I never 0:20:21.880 --> 0:20:23.680 embraced with a hug upon introduction. 0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:27.760 Most nine times out of ten, I meet a woman, 0:20:28.520 --> 0:20:31.280 send your hand, You get a shake if if from 0:20:31.320 --> 0:20:34.600 that shake, and then y'all have a good conversation or 0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:35.920 y'all are kicking of the bunch of a group of 0:20:35.960 --> 0:20:38.399 people and y'all have gotten to like warm up to 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:38.879 one another. 0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:41.359 Most times, then you get the hug. 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:54.960 Crazy ye be weaving through Florida bronze. But that there's 0:20:55.000 --> 0:20:57.600 a two part violation though, because the first violation is 0:20:57.840 --> 0:20:59.120 he shouldn't even came up. 0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.199 In the should have saw you got excited and be like, 0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:03.960 oh cool, soon she done with that, like I'm gonna 0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:05.040 go say what's up to her whatever. 0:21:05.119 --> 0:21:07.360 So that's the first thing, But the second part is, yeah, 0:21:07.400 --> 0:21:08.800 you definitely like you can't just. 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:13.520 Anyway shout out to tescy uh and and him being 0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:19.480 my mom's favorite rapper. I guess I'll ask the room 0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:22.240 before we dive in. Did any of y'all do anything 0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:25.159 ignorant over the last week or so? 0:21:26.600 --> 0:21:27.000 Hmm? 0:21:27.240 --> 0:21:36.280 I love a good clean life man ignorant of the butt. No, 0:21:36.560 --> 0:21:39.880 did y'all Did y'all do anything ignorant or that y'all 0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:41.720 feel like could be perceived as ignorant? 0:21:42.280 --> 0:21:44.360 Ignorance is and an eye to beholder. 0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:48.680 Please chop please, No, I don't think. 0:21:48.760 --> 0:21:50.639 I mean, I feel like all the ignorance ship that 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:57.240 I do is like like talking about people like okay, yeah, 0:21:57.760 --> 0:22:00.880 the good old fashion. 0:22:00.040 --> 0:22:02.239 To talk about who you cursed out and what your 0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:03.600 thoughts are on certain drivers. 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:07.639 It's okay, okay, So here's a story. 0:22:08.160 --> 0:22:10.119 And this isn't even my ignorance, but this is like 0:22:10.119 --> 0:22:12.840 a very ignorant thing that I that I saw in 0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:13.480 real time. 0:22:13.560 --> 0:22:15.240 But I was like, damn, that really happened. 0:22:15.359 --> 0:22:16.680 Okay, so I've. 0:22:16.480 --> 0:22:18.840 Only been arrested one time in my life. Oh okay, 0:22:18.880 --> 0:22:22.360 all right, game is the game? 0:22:22.440 --> 0:22:24.320 Actually wait no, we're equal. I forgot the Nelson. 0:22:24.680 --> 0:22:27.040 Well technically I got arrested twice in forty eight hours. 0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:27.600 But it's for the. 0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:29.400 Same cheese, the same package. 0:22:29.440 --> 0:22:32.199 Same yeah, same same, same same. Later that's like you 0:22:32.200 --> 0:22:33.360 get some head. That shit don't count. 0:22:33.920 --> 0:22:40.600 So that's another so as a body or yeah, head 0:22:40.760 --> 0:22:43.080 counts as a body, that's not a body. The body 0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:44.160 is a body. 0:22:44.720 --> 0:22:45.399 We're not doing that. 0:22:45.480 --> 0:22:47.640 No, oral sex is sex, but that's not a body. 0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:50.040 If you walk into the room and a nigga can 0:22:50.080 --> 0:22:53.400 say her mouth has been around my fucking dick to anybody, 0:22:53.480 --> 0:22:55.040 that means that's not. That's not. 0:22:55.440 --> 0:22:57.960 But if you ask somebody count your bodies, you're not counting, 0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:00.840 like you're not. You're not adding that into the list. 0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:03.520 You're adding the niggas who anyway, we're getting off. 0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.560 Yeah, okay, yeah this same decisions, say. 0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:10.720 Decisions, right, Yeah, I got to invite me to another part. 0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:13.440 But so no, so I get arrested. We're on our 0:23:13.480 --> 0:23:16.000 way to the jail. We get to a red light 0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:18.520 downtown Atlanta. There's a bunch of one way streets everything there. 0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:19.359 Everything. 0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:22.200 We get to the red light, we see headlights coming 0:23:22.200 --> 0:23:25.560 towards us. Cop is looking at that. 0:23:25.640 --> 0:23:26.159 We're all in it. 0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:28.080 Had the same thought at the same time, like why 0:23:28.160 --> 0:23:31.360 they coming at us? It's a one way street. Cop 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:33.639 task partner and says, I bet. 0:23:33.520 --> 0:23:37.840 You twenty dollars day Asian Yo, yo. I'm in the 0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:38.880 back of the car, like. 0:23:40.640 --> 0:23:42.159 You should have started negotiating there. 0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:46.320 Let me go. Look, I bet my bell agent. 0:23:46.640 --> 0:23:50.600 Look the cops, white cops, two white cops, bet you 0:23:50.680 --> 0:23:53.920 twenty dollars Asian bet boo. 0:23:54.640 --> 0:23:55.520 Pull up on them. 0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:58.040 Car full of like six Asian folks in the car. 0:23:59.080 --> 0:24:00.080 This about it. 0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:01.760 But we just don't do that. 0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:06.760 What's that We could call it out? We do what 0:24:07.000 --> 0:24:10.800 we call out. We can, Yeah, who's committing the offense? 0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:19.560 Special talent I have. We literally do that a lot 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:21.879 all the time, and I have a I have a 0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:24.320 bit of a problem with it. Y'all know the video 0:24:24.359 --> 0:24:27.560 I sent y'all this week, you know, the one in 0:24:27.600 --> 0:24:30.600 the chat so that Okay, I came across. I came 0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:32.919 across the video and it pissed me off because I 0:24:32.960 --> 0:24:35.080 think it's what we were we were talking about it 0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:38.040 with and we'll get into the tweets later. But in 0:24:38.160 --> 0:24:42.199 terms of how we are also racist against other we 0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:51.040 can't be racist but prejudice, bius, bias towards other other ethnicities. Bro, 0:24:51.520 --> 0:24:53.880 why do we be shot when they do it to us? 0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:56.840 And this is so here we are So there's a 0:24:56.840 --> 0:25:02.879 clip that I saw and it is yeah, can we 0:25:02.960 --> 0:25:05.240 just well, yeah, we do. 0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:07.520 That amongst our own to That's that gotta be a nigga, 0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:08.359 that's a straight nigga. 0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:12.520 But yeah, and you know, I'll draw a very thin 0:25:12.680 --> 0:25:16.280 line right the ship that we be biased about toward 0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:17.280 most people. 0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:22.440 Don't be crimes. No, no, we mean we mean biased. 0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:24.480 I want you to watch this, watch this. 0:25:24.359 --> 0:25:29.760 Video English ship Mexican. 0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:33.800 Can you tell me the difference between Valentino and Patino? 0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:34.440 You? 0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:36.680 Honestly, they kind of both taste the same. Ones made 0:25:36.680 --> 0:25:38.159 here in the United States ones made in Mexico. I 0:25:38.200 --> 0:25:39.600 mean basically they taste the same. Honestly. 0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.800 Okay, thank you excuse me? 0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:44.560 Are you black? 0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:55.840 Right? 0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:57.120 But he put out that. 0:25:59.200 --> 0:26:04.360 Literally you speak first off, the question do you speak English? 0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:07.760 Is crazy? And then you're Mexican, right, And then it's 0:26:07.800 --> 0:26:12.000 hot sauces of two different like clip bro to me 0:26:12.440 --> 0:26:15.640 and she just asked it, like so again selective ignorance. 0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:18.320 So you can walk up to a Mexican ask them 0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:20.840 if they even speak English first, then ask them about 0:26:20.840 --> 0:26:23.400 these two hot sauces and be like, Okay, thank you. 0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.439 But if someone else walks up to you and asks 0:26:26.640 --> 0:26:29.800 what you perceived to be a racist thing because they're asking, 0:26:29.880 --> 0:26:32.320 but they're knowing that you should be knowledgeable because you're black, 0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:33.800 how the fuck you mad at that? 0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:43.120 But he actually matter, by the way, by the way, 0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:49.160 by the way, if y'all are listening audio only, when 0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:53.040 he asked, hey, you're black, right, he's holding a Jiffy 0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:54.240 box of corn bread. 0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:58.480 And a watermelon. That's what I'm saying that, to be. 0:26:58.320 --> 0:27:01.520 Fair, would black people I have the most knowledge around 0:27:01.520 --> 0:27:02.679 corn bread and watermelon? 0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:03.600 Yeah? 0:27:03.840 --> 0:27:09.000 He gave. He gave great knowledge. He was able to 0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:14.080 explain the difference between the top of fair Enough, if 0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:18.280 I go to a black person, I'm gonna what are 0:27:18.320 --> 0:27:21.720 the races can make cornbread? What are the races associated 0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:24.160 with watermelon? So if he had a question about corn 0:27:24.200 --> 0:27:26.600 bread and watermelon, what makes a racist? Then he went 0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:27.800 up to you're black, right. 0:27:27.880 --> 0:27:29.800 I think if he if she had to pulled out 0:27:29.840 --> 0:27:33.000 some avocados, and then it would have it would have 0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:36.479 been equal. He pulled out head, I'm gonna knock all 0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:41.960 this out, and I got feel like, let's everybody eat 0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:42.639 the hot sauce. 0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:46.359 Now. 0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:51.399 It was a skit to be in terms of like 0:27:52.320 --> 0:27:56.239 how we want people to treat us, we somehow get 0:27:56.280 --> 0:28:00.399 a pass to be completely ignorant, not not selectively. We 0:28:01.119 --> 0:28:03.320 believe we get the past to be completely ignorant with 0:28:03.440 --> 0:28:06.440 every other race in our biases and their stereotypes. But 0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:11.880 heaven forbid someone else of another race has the stereotype 0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:13.840 about us, and so like it's one of those like 0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:15.000 do all the others? 0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:15.240 Is you? 0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:18.240 Like done onto yourself? I don't understand why we get 0:28:18.280 --> 0:28:21.520 the past to be just completely ignorant to all other I. 0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:25.440 Don't think I would ask a Mexican that they different. 0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:29.560 Bullshit, bullshit you just said. But the avocado, I'm walking 0:28:29.640 --> 0:28:31.080 up to it as. 0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:35.280 It relates to what the what is the one of one? Well, 0:28:35.320 --> 0:28:36.479 you know, I'm thinking about it now. 0:28:37.160 --> 0:28:40.240 My selective ignorance came out on seeing it one time, 0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:41.200 not that I'm thinking about it. 0:28:41.640 --> 0:28:44.600 What you was ignorant on CNN is representing us. 0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:49.080 You were ignorant, and I could have there was a 0:28:49.120 --> 0:28:52.520 way to me to avoid this ignorance, but I didn't 0:28:52.560 --> 0:28:55.800 didn't think about it until after the fact, Right, what was. 0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:57.360 Your ignorance caught by everyone? 0:28:57.520 --> 0:28:57.560 No? 0:28:57.720 --> 0:28:59.360 No, no, no, it was only caught about one person. 0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:02.720 It was so we were on there talking about bad 0:29:02.760 --> 0:29:06.960 Bunny in the Super Bowl. Bonney shout out to Benny Benito, 0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:09.240 by the. 0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:14.040 Way, shout out to also his change in aesthetics. I 0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:16.200 didn't know that bad Bunny was Bad Bunny who he 0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:18.360 is now because he's fine. But when he came out, 0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:30.040 he looked real uptown, uh Washington. I was like, this 0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:30.520 is the same. 0:29:32.520 --> 0:29:34.360 So we're talking about him on the Super Bowl and 0:29:35.160 --> 0:29:36.960 they came to me on the panel and I was like, 0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:39.440 you know, all these Magga people are mad at that 0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.960 he's going to be not speaking English whoo woop the woop. 0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:43.000 And I was like, yo, I hope none of. 0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:45.800 These people will get access to tacos or guacamole or 0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:47.920 none of that. Ship Like, fuck him all you don't 0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:50.000 want if you can't, if you can't support this man. 0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:58.000 You put your Mexican. 0:29:58.120 --> 0:30:02.160 So I posted the clip on my Instagram and I 0:30:02.200 --> 0:30:04.000 don't think nothing of it. And he wasn't tight because 0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:05.640 we know each other, but it was still funny. When 0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:06.840 he said I was like, oh, ship, He's right. I 0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:09.280 could have said a different food, so you could have 0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:10.040 had bad knee. 0:30:10.160 --> 0:30:10.520 I could have. 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:17.720 Tacos Mexican all the way. 0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:20.440 I'm not Utrian, but not even a little bit. That 0:30:20.600 --> 0:30:25.560 was so so Rook of Justice League. Justice League Rook 0:30:25.640 --> 0:30:27.520 hit me in the comment. He was like, bro, we're 0:30:27.640 --> 0:30:29.760 Puerto Ricans, like, we don't eat that ship. And I 0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:35.120 was like, you know, point that out, to point that 0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:35.840 out of all people. 0:30:36.320 --> 0:30:39.960 Because to be very fair, if if Jason decides to 0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:45.920 make hen he gonna be real American and say Taco Tuesday, 0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:49.120 we do a taco thing that I'm sure him and 0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:52.200 his wife just make like it's given. It's given. They 0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:59.000 buy the taco bell box. Well, you're not making homemade 0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:01.720 corn tortillas. They said you are hard shell. The soft 0:31:01.760 --> 0:31:02.400 shell were getting. 0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:06.400 But when he said that, I was like, damn, I 0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:08.120 could have said a million different food. But that was 0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.000 your but that was that was my ignorance. I was 0:31:10.080 --> 0:31:16.280 just like, ah, very Spanish people, that that was the 0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:18.480 that was and I thought about it. I was like, 0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:19.400 then that was ignorant. 0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:23.160 That was like me saying, well, sure makes more sense 0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:25.120 when I call them the Espanios because they do all 0:31:25.160 --> 0:31:28.200 speak Spanish. At least that's a common thing. All right, 0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:33.760 I would listen, I didn't get so many people mad 0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:36.600 from last week. So it's Spaniols. That's what I'm going into. 0:31:38.960 --> 0:31:41.800 And then you know what, it also includes the Spaniards. Okay, 0:31:43.040 --> 0:31:46.320 Europe the euro Spaniards, but colonizers. 0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.640 Yeah, I'm going to say this is a white people. Yeah, 0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:50.800 you spinards, damn. 0:31:53.440 --> 0:32:01.400 Historically accurate colonized colonizes. And if you'll haven't, if y'all 0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:04.000 haven't heard talked about the colonizers yet, please go back 0:32:04.040 --> 0:32:07.520 to our Thanksgiving Day episode because we give y'all all 0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:11.760 the history on the Americas. Anyways, we're gonna put on 0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:15.440 our tenfoil hats for this is America. Don't got to 0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:18.640 sleep in on them, because I think we're all a 0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:21.120 little fed up and tired of talking about the orange 0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:24.520 cheeto in the office. And as we round out the year. 0:32:24.880 --> 0:32:27.040 I want to give y'all some good television to watch 0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:30.200 because again, y'all aren't working hard. You're hardly working. So 0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:31.960 this is normally the time of year where yeah, you 0:32:32.000 --> 0:32:34.000 got to spend time around family, but you get to 0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:37.840 like wind down and watch TV. And me and John 0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:41.200 luckily had our We made y'all get into the show. 0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:45.880 But if you haven't yet, and spoiler alert, but not 0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:49.880 so much. We are talking about the Apple TV news 0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.680 show Pluribus, brought to you by the team that made 0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:55.400 Breaking Bad and Better Calls saw. You know what's crazy 0:32:55.400 --> 0:32:59.840 about that? Either my sister. My sister has a sea 0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:10.880 that is problematic and ignorance the show. Y'all enjoying this 0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:20.160 as a listening experience, you know, when the main character gets. 0:33:27.120 --> 0:33:27.760 Not what happens. 0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:31.280 I'm going to give you guys a brief synopsis, but 0:33:31.520 --> 0:33:33.160 for for what I wanted to do with this was 0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:35.560 kind of dig into the themes to talk about where 0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:39.000 we stand on certain things such as AI, the idea 0:33:39.040 --> 0:33:42.280 of world peace, UH agency as a human and what 0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:46.560 humanity even means. But the show follows Carol Starks, who 0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:51.400 is a successful fantasy romance author. But it's really dope 0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:58.680 because she leaned into heterosexual romance as a lesbian. So yes, 0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.120 if you are a Christian you fucking hate the gays, 0:34:01.160 --> 0:34:05.160 this might not be for you. But she survives an 0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:09.600 alien virus outbreak, which kind of looks a lot like 0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:13.640 the coronavirus, y'all. It impacts the entire world now for 0:34:13.840 --> 0:34:17.440 whatever reason, y'all know, just like normally in most sci 0:34:17.560 --> 0:34:21.360 fi films, there's people that outlive shit or are the 0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:26.040 cure for all things. When this takes place, there are 0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:29.480 eleven people total in the world who do not get 0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:34.320 infected with this virus. Now, the show pretty much follows Carol, 0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:37.840 who is one of the eleven who are not affected, 0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:42.239 and she has a huge issue with what's going on. 0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.720 The tagline for the show is the most miserable person 0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:49.000 on Earth must save the world from happiness. 0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:50.960 And I want to add this part add to it. 0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:55.799 The virus isn't a virus like the Last of Us or. 0:34:57.360 --> 0:35:02.080 Zombies essentially zombies kind of zombies, but it's a it's 0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:07.800 a social virus that essentially when you catch when you 0:35:07.920 --> 0:35:12.160 catch this virus, you get a choice of either joining 0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:14.600 the hive mind joining all of society. 0:35:14.840 --> 0:35:17.200 Kind of, well, you don't get well. 0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:19.359 The only reason I say they don't get a choice 0:35:19.440 --> 0:35:22.040 is because the woman, without going too far to it 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:26.560 ahead of time, the woman said when Helen passed, she said, 0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:28.080 Helen joined us. 0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:32.200 Before she passed, So, like you catch it. 0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:34.960 And they haven't explained this yet, but the way I'm 0:35:34.960 --> 0:35:36.600 taking it based on what they showed us, is that 0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:41.480 as you are dying, quote unquote dying, you get an 0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.360 option of either either you're going to be part of 0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:47.759 this collective state of everyone, or you're going to die 0:35:47.880 --> 0:35:49.200 off as an individual. 0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:53.320 Which is interesting because I mean, we've talked about zombies 0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:55.120 on here and I was like, bitch out running them, 0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:59.879 But this is, this is this is essentially different, right, didn't. 0:36:00.360 --> 0:36:04.920 It's a very different take on uh an apocalypse essentially, 0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:09.840 And so there's so many themes that are brought about 0:36:10.080 --> 0:36:12.600 by this, and I'm not sure where we want to 0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:15.920 take it first, Jason, I know that we had some questions. 0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:19.440 Do we want to just start with whether if you 0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:22.000 had the option and mind you, let me tell you 0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:27.840 essentially what is being proposed here. It is a state 0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:33.320 of pure happiness and content, so you're not sad, you 0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:38.600 don't really have feelings whatever, you want to do. Essentially, 0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:43.560 is is all for the betterment of society, and everything 0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:46.719 is good. There's nothing bad, there's no crimes anymore, no 0:36:46.800 --> 0:36:48.759 one has an ill thought to do something wrong. 0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:55.120 Right, It's a net positive society. 0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:59.400 Yes, there we go. So let's start there in exchange 0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:05.359 you for losing yourself, your identity, your individuality, what makes 0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:08.560 you different, because essentially everyone is the same. Now everyone 0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:11.960 has the same goal. Everyone just lives happy. There's no 0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:15.840 no one cries, no one's mad, no one's angry. Everyone 0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:19.680 just you just want to help. Literally to the point where, 0:37:19.760 --> 0:37:21.560 let me tell you this, they don't even believe in 0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:25.239 killing so much so to where you can't fish, you 0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:30.000 can't step on an end. Nothing intentionally that would cause 0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:31.320 harm to any. 0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:34.960 Life has value. In the value of that life supersedes 0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:35.839 everything else. 0:37:36.080 --> 0:37:40.960 Yes, now, with this, would you guys, decide to connect 0:37:41.000 --> 0:37:43.279 to the hive mind where your thoughts and feelings are 0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:48.920 transparent and aligned with everyone, or would you would you 0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:51.359 not want to do that and filter out? 0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:52.360 Sign up? 0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:53.959 Sign you up to be happy. 0:37:56.560 --> 0:37:59.320 Because from my standpoint, the way I look at it 0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:03.040 is is that that in this individualistic life that we live, 0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:08.040 we're all trying to chase that happiness. 0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:09.799 Happiness, we're trying to achieve peace. 0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:13.320 We're trying to achieve happiness in ourselves individually, and hopefully 0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:16.200 if everyone has that same goal, everyone can move in that. 0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:19.480 Gay I think that's my problem, Like with what you 0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:22.680 just said, though that's fair, everyone doesn't what makes people 0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:27.640 happy or not the same? Well, happiness is not subjective, Well, happiness. 0:38:27.280 --> 0:38:32.279 Is Happiness is sugg subjective based on the fact that 0:38:32.360 --> 0:38:34.920 we have choices, we can make individual choices. 0:38:35.080 --> 0:38:35.200 Right. 0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:40.120 If that, if that idea of making individual choices is removed, 0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:43.320 then there is nothing else but happiness. 0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:48.240 Like the the philosophy of life is suffering. 0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:49.640 I don't know if that's Plato Socer I don't know 0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:51.640 one of them niggas said that shit, But like life 0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:55.680 is suffering, right, Like we all endure things, and we're 0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:59.400 all working through our lives, through our professional and our 0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:01.920 personal relie relationships and what we decided to spend our 0:39:02.000 --> 0:39:04.279 time on to find a place that gives us peace, 0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:07.040 that actually gives us the happiness that we want, and 0:39:07.120 --> 0:39:10.360 we're pretty much suffering outside of those things. 0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:16.000 It's it's interesting because even in terms of how you 0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:19.360 consider suffering right, like mind you, grieving is something that 0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:23.560 we know we're all going to deal with. But to me, 0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:27.919 happiness a lot of times comes from achieving the things 0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:29.759 that were hard, that were hard to do, that were 0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.759 hard to do right. So, completing college one of my 0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:36.560 most prideful moments, even though now not so much because 0:39:36.560 --> 0:39:39.200 student debt, but Sally made a suck my dick from 0:39:39.239 --> 0:39:43.320 the back. The idea that I completed it though it 0:39:43.440 --> 0:39:44.840 was hard is what brought me happiness. 0:39:44.880 --> 0:39:45.839 Would you miss that though? 0:39:46.400 --> 0:39:56.160 Would you miss the hard the process? Would miss the hard? 0:39:56.239 --> 0:39:56.880 I don't want to. 0:39:56.880 --> 0:40:01.960 Done, That's my point. I wouldn't miss suffering. 0:40:02.080 --> 0:40:05.120 If I was just given happiness, I wouldn't be like, damn, 0:40:05.560 --> 0:40:06.880 I wish you could be fucked up so. 0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:08.000 That I could be happy. 0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:10.120 That's but that's how you know what happy is? 0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:15.640 Right? I think the contrast of it, and it's controlled happiness. 0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:18.640 But it's only but it's all. We only know that 0:40:18.800 --> 0:40:23.040 from our perspective because we have choices to make the 0:40:23.200 --> 0:40:25.239 only reason that there is the suffering because we can 0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:28.040 make individual decisions, and you make that decision, it might 0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:29.200 go left, it might go right. 0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:31.640 Now, let me ask you the other question. There was 0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:35.520 eleven people. Would you want to exist as yourself now 0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:39.040 in a world where everyone else has this virus? 0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:49.560 So the Diabat character, yeah, so oh oh yeah he 0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:51.799 when that. 0:40:55.160 --> 0:40:59.040 When they put it out. But you're just calling him Indian. 0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:00.800 Because you know what I'm thinking about. No, I'm putting 0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:03.040 him related to the mother and the son. 0:41:05.560 --> 0:41:07.000 This man is just from. 0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:12.440 It could be like, Yeah, when the nigga pulled up 0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:15.319 in Air Force one, I was like, this, he got 0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:15.640 hold on. 0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:18.520 He got it with with hose. 0:41:18.680 --> 0:41:19.800 I was like, oh, he got it. 0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:22.399 I think I think that was an interesting part. So y'all, 0:41:22.640 --> 0:41:26.680 maybe episode two or three, there's an episode two that's. 0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:28.920 When it really says this. Episode one sets you up 0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:31.399 for the premise of what Yeah, episode to let. 0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:34.600 You know, gives you the deep dive to where this 0:41:34.800 --> 0:41:37.799 is happening. Because because a lot of the other people 0:41:37.880 --> 0:41:39.320 that she's able to meet, she wants to meet with 0:41:39.440 --> 0:41:43.000 the ones that speak English and very American. 0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:45.480 Very we're gonna talk about it reminded me. 0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:51.320 She reminded me of like, yeah, only because just so 0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:55.360 y'all know, I'm going to cure us out for Christmas 0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:58.560 and the most let me, I'm bringing up another ignorant 0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:02.480 thought of mine. I love Aruba so much because the 0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:05.720 first language is English. Same for curious out it's the neighbor. 0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:10.719 I personally, I hate traveling internationally where niggas speak another 0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:13.840 language first, because then there's like accents, I gotta decipher 0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:16.280 ship and I'm like, oh, where do they speak English? 0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:17.279 That's where I want to go. I want to go 0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:23.760 enjoy another country, but I want it's convenience, very American American. 0:42:24.960 --> 0:42:27.239 No one could argue that ignorance and American is. 0:42:32.560 --> 0:42:36.200 So she sits with these people and essentially she feels 0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:38.839 like there is a problem with what society is looking 0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:40.880 like now. She's like, oh my god, it's up to 0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:43.480 us to save the world. And they're looking at. 0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:47.719 Her like I'm good, granted, but they still have loved 0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:48.280 ones around. 0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:51.200 They do still have loved ones around. She is by herself, 0:42:51.600 --> 0:42:53.880 she's sort of like in like a purgatory. But the 0:42:53.960 --> 0:42:58.440 French guy comes in and he's he's viewing this from 0:42:58.480 --> 0:43:02.360 a lens that takes advantage to me of what happiness 0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:06.720 looks like because he's leaning in more so individualistic, because 0:43:06.800 --> 0:43:09.960 whatever he wants he's asking for. Because that's another part 0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:14.879 of the virus. These people don't say no, They give 0:43:14.920 --> 0:43:18.520 you what you want, and so he has a harem 0:43:18.640 --> 0:43:22.839 of whores. He blew in on the Air Force one jet. 0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:29.520 We have the nuclear football. What are you doing? Are 0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.480 they benefiting? Is he benefiting? 0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:36.160 They told Carol that they're still trying to figure out 0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:37.920 how to fix get them. 0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:40.720 So they can make that decision. 0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:44.759 So does he And it's like clearness. They're trying to 0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:47.160 figure out how she can get infected with the virus. 0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:50.000 Want her to be right, so that would apply to 0:43:50.080 --> 0:43:50.879 the other, to the other. 0:43:51.760 --> 0:43:54.319 They're all trying to figure out that enjoyment that he's 0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:57.839 experiencing right now might be a further down the line. 0:43:58.000 --> 0:43:59.360 In the last series, it was. 0:43:59.400 --> 0:44:02.640 Crazy because is also in that in that same scene 0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:07.040 where he clearly wants to have sex. 0:44:06.960 --> 0:44:07.479 With the girl. 0:44:09.040 --> 0:44:10.839 And so for me as a woman, it was really 0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:15.080 interesting to tap into the idea that a woman couldn't 0:44:15.120 --> 0:44:15.400 say no. 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:20.880 Yeah, that's exact part. Cont part of it was very 0:44:21.480 --> 0:44:23.960 do you feel like whatever he asked her? Did he 0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:24.759 asked what's her name? 0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:28.640 Did you feel like you know I was Did I 0:44:28.719 --> 0:44:31.960 do something to make you She said no? And she no, 0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:36.000 She didn't say no, She said affection is always welcome. 0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:38.480 It was wow wow. 0:44:40.000 --> 0:44:44.239 And I think that as a society where women have 0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:48.120 now the right to say no, seeing that as something 0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:51.360 that they brought into the script was really interesting because 0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:56.680 it removes the choice from from women all over, like 0:44:56.840 --> 0:44:58.120 like that's essentially. 0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:00.760 What they did a good job of making it because 0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:03.120 like the man figured out her name and the woman 0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:07.160 didn't figure out the woman's had no right. Yeah, so 0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:08.600 it's like it made it murky where it's like he 0:45:08.760 --> 0:45:14.640 put in like, yeah, he made an attempt at connection. 0:45:16.000 --> 0:45:20.879 Correct, Yeah, he was investing in them as people. She didn't. 0:45:21.280 --> 0:45:21.840 She didn't. 0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:29.759 Weird because she sees them kind of like how we've 0:45:29.920 --> 0:45:33.719 perceived zombies to be zombies are not people, right, And 0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:36.920 so it was really interesting because yeah, these people are 0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:42.720 operating just in a different way of which we view society. 0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:47.080 I will say, as you watch this, you have so 0:45:47.160 --> 0:45:49.959 many themes. So there's the themes of autonomy, what makes 0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.960 you human? But one of my favorite scenes reminded me 0:45:54.080 --> 0:45:57.600 of where we're going with technology and AI. She goes 0:45:57.640 --> 0:46:01.960 into Sprouts and it's completely empty and she calls the 0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:04.319 people because you can call them, and she's like, yo, 0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:08.520 I just want to grocery shop, and literally she's like, well, 0:46:08.840 --> 0:46:11.319 whatever you want, we can deliver it straight to your house. 0:46:11.680 --> 0:46:13.520 So it reminds me of this era that we're going 0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:15.920 to with Amazon right now, but also with me. I 0:46:16.000 --> 0:46:18.359 get anxiety about going to the grocery store. I don't 0:46:18.360 --> 0:46:20.359 want to go to a grocery store. I like all 0:46:20.440 --> 0:46:23.600 of my whatever I want being delivered straight to my door. 0:46:23.680 --> 0:46:24.080 I love it. 0:46:24.800 --> 0:46:28.520 And you see her almost break down, where apparently going 0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:30.960 to a grocery store and walking down the aisles is 0:46:31.000 --> 0:46:33.680 a part of humanity, is a luxury is a part 0:46:33.760 --> 0:46:36.600 of again, maybe remember when we talked about what things 0:46:36.640 --> 0:46:40.480 we would miss if the world changed. She almost broke down, 0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:42.279 was like, no, all I want to do is walk 0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:44.320 down the aisles and buy my groceries. And it was 0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:49.280 really interesting to consider that as a luxury of humanity 0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:52.919 and just being human because so many of our things 0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:57.600 are being automated. AI is coming in taking over, and 0:46:57.680 --> 0:46:59.359 I do say it, what's crazy is where I love 0:46:59.440 --> 0:47:02.040 all of my groceries to be delivered to my door. 0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:05.439 One of the things I hate the most is sitting 0:47:05.480 --> 0:47:09.439 down at a restaurant and having to order my meal 0:47:10.040 --> 0:47:14.800 through a fucking iPad and then I still got a 0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:20.560 tip of bitch, no one talk to me scanning, I'm wiping, 0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:24.520 I'm adding what's being taken off. It's completely removing the 0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:28.000 the interaction, but then at the end it's still asking 0:47:28.080 --> 0:47:32.480 for a tip. The ship just came out like there 0:47:32.680 --> 0:47:35.200 was no interaction for what I wanted my order to 0:47:35.320 --> 0:47:37.120 be in the exchange of a person. 0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:40.480 Well, that scene, and there's a lot of stuff I 0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:42.080 want to I know, we don't have like forever to talk. 0:47:42.360 --> 0:47:45.719 We can talk because I like these I like dissecting, 0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:46.160 and to me. 0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:48.600 That's what makes this show interesting. And so like, if 0:47:48.640 --> 0:47:49.239 you're like a. 0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:53.400 If you're want of these niggas who like if you 0:47:53.480 --> 0:47:55.279 like a Drake fan who doesn't like here we Go, 0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:58.600 if you want of these niggas on podcast mics that 0:47:58.719 --> 0:48:01.319 talk about like they want to think about no song, 0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:01.800 I don't. 0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:03.799 Want Like this probably is not for youau. 0:48:03.880 --> 0:48:05.680 This is this show is like there's a lot it 0:48:05.800 --> 0:48:08.759 makes you think sociological and think in a way that 0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:10.720 not just the plot of it. Yeah, there's a mystery 0:48:10.760 --> 0:48:12.959 of like what's going on, but the thinking is really 0:48:13.480 --> 0:48:18.840 the sociological experiment of what this show represents right. But 0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:21.080 in that scene, the thing that I thought was the 0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:25.239 most interesting is that Carol is anti all of this shit, right, 0:48:25.520 --> 0:48:29.360 She's anti everything until that thing can't get her what 0:48:29.480 --> 0:48:32.040 she wants. And when she and not only does she 0:48:32.120 --> 0:48:35.640 get what she wanted, she got it immediately. She said, 0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.319 oh how long? Will I just need to know when 0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:39.239 I need to come back to the store and the 0:48:39.360 --> 0:48:42.440 late and Zosha was like, come back from be there 0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:45.239 in a second. And but this is where it's like 0:48:45.760 --> 0:48:49.040 one of the themes here is like capitalism versus socialism. Right, 0:48:50.040 --> 0:48:54.279 the whole community Carol said, I want this, I need this, 0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:58.160 I need food. The whole community instantly pulled up two 0:48:58.280 --> 0:49:01.719 hundred people, popped out trucks, and put that whole store 0:49:01.719 --> 0:49:03.799 together in a couple of hours, and now Carol had 0:49:03.800 --> 0:49:04.640 everything she wanted. 0:49:05.600 --> 0:49:08.759 So it's like it reminds me of the hypocrisy and 0:49:08.880 --> 0:49:13.120 individualism that we experience with like, Okay, you want to 0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:15.799 stand for something, right, but as soon as it kind 0:49:15.840 --> 0:49:18.200 of impacts and y'all know this is me, Actually I'm 0:49:18.360 --> 0:49:22.400 very much hypocrit Like goddamn, yeah, we blacks and we 0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:27.480 boycotton boycotton target. But when mtvs. Are a little less 0:49:27.520 --> 0:49:29.080 than they are everywhere else. I'm gonna just go get 0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:30.320 this because I want to save somebody. 0:49:30.120 --> 0:49:31.359 Because I had this money is fine. 0:49:31.480 --> 0:49:33.960 I need this and it's something that's working for me 0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:37.080 in a moment that I'm supposed to be standing for something. 0:49:37.480 --> 0:49:41.359 So Carol, do you stand for something but benefit from 0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:45.040 it when it matters to you? Only because yeah, you're 0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:48.239 you're kind of contributing to what the system is right now, 0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:49.080 but you're supposed to. 0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:50.440 Be fighting against right against it. 0:49:50.560 --> 0:49:53.120 And she's the whole thing is she's fighting all of 0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:57.400 these She's fighting all of these dualities right like even 0:49:57.719 --> 0:50:01.160 in like Carol is a miserable person, but she writes 0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:02.440 fantasy for other. 0:50:02.360 --> 0:50:03.240 People to be happy. 0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:07.640 She's miserable when this all thing, when this whole thing happens, 0:50:08.040 --> 0:50:11.680 these eleven people are all happy, but she goes like 0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:16.840 I call her Karen Carroll because that at that at 0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:19.719 that conversation on Air Force one telling them what they 0:50:19.840 --> 0:50:22.520 need to do, and she's trying to tell the Indian LA, 0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:23.480 that's not your child. 0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:25.759 She's like, bitch, that is my child, Like who the 0:50:26.040 --> 0:50:26.200 are you? 0:50:26.840 --> 0:50:30.480 I also really love that in terms of and so 0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:33.839 far we where we're at in the show, we haven't 0:50:33.880 --> 0:50:35.840 met the other people because they don't speak English. 0:50:35.920 --> 0:50:36.040 Right. 0:50:36.600 --> 0:50:40.000 I really love how in the Karen way, she's the 0:50:40.040 --> 0:50:42.359 only white woman and everyone else for people of color, 0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:45.759 everybody else, and she's now trying to tell all of 0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:48.239 these people of color they need what they need to 0:50:48.280 --> 0:50:50.480 do because what she thinks is the right way, and 0:50:50.600 --> 0:50:52.239 every which way they think is the wrong one. 0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:55.879 What would make her happy, happy, should make should make happy? 0:50:56.719 --> 0:50:57.279 Twist into it. 0:50:58.120 --> 0:51:00.640 I would I agree with what your but I also 0:51:00.800 --> 0:51:04.319 think that she feels that way because her life pre 0:51:04.560 --> 0:51:07.440 the virus, it was a microcosm of that, right, Like 0:51:07.520 --> 0:51:09.800 she was she was trapped where like her fans of 0:51:09.880 --> 0:51:13.640 her book writing, they were the virus like zombies. Right, 0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:16.480 she was doing something that she didn't enjoy because, like 0:51:16.640 --> 0:51:21.520 Mandy said, like she's a lesbian, she's writings, she was closeted, right, 0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:23.759 So it's like so then when it happens, it's like 0:51:23.880 --> 0:51:26.200 on a huge scale that she sees it around the 0:51:26.239 --> 0:51:28.399 world and she I think, she's like, this is my life. 0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:29.759 This is a bit like we have to stop this. 0:51:30.280 --> 0:51:33.319 Everybody the world can't be like what I'm suffering from. 0:51:33.680 --> 0:51:35.839 And I think that's so I think, like what we've 0:51:35.840 --> 0:51:37.440 seen in the early parts of the show, it's like 0:51:37.520 --> 0:51:41.719 she's clearly traumatized and she's seeing that and and but 0:51:41.880 --> 0:51:43.799 the casting and the way that they set it up 0:51:44.120 --> 0:51:46.680 really makes it look problematic because she's the white woman 0:51:46.880 --> 0:51:48.680 who wants to speak to the English speaking people. 0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:51.280 But I think it's I think it's interesting. 0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:54.080 And there's like so many overlapping kind of themes of 0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:57.960 like choice and technology and even like the idea of. 0:51:59.640 --> 0:52:02.400 Not an standing the consequences of your asks. 0:52:02.280 --> 0:52:05.439 That part I wanted to get to too, or even 0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:07.000 of your actions. 0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:11.240 Like the show is called pluribus, right, and the essence 0:52:11.280 --> 0:52:15.000 of that is out of many one plurbis one. And 0:52:15.280 --> 0:52:18.480 so the idea is that everything that we do as 0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:21.680 individuals affects the world, right, And this has been talking 0:52:21.680 --> 0:52:25.080 about on it Really it made me think about mister 0:52:25.160 --> 0:52:27.160 Morale and the Big Steppers, and it made me think 0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:30.080 about Most Death Black on both Oh. 0:52:30.040 --> 0:52:32.520 Yeah, oh yeah, maybe it made me thinking of Matrix. 0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:34.640 Okay, so. 0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:38.120 Most Death Black on Both Sides came out in nineteen 0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:42.600 ninety nine. There's a song on an album called Fear 0:52:42.680 --> 0:52:45.920 Not of Man, And in that song and I think 0:52:45.920 --> 0:52:47.520 it's in the beginning of the song, before he even 0:52:47.520 --> 0:52:50.479 starts rapping, he's talking and he's like, people always asking 0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:52.520 me about hip hop, where's hip hop going? Where's hip 0:52:52.560 --> 0:52:55.160 hop going? And his response is, hip hop is going 0:52:55.239 --> 0:52:58.200 wherever we're going. If we happy, hip hop is happy. 0:52:58.239 --> 0:53:00.560 If we're healthy, hip hop is healthy. If doing the 0:53:00.640 --> 0:53:02.719 right thing, hip hop is doing the right thing. It's 0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:06.759 about us reflecting the world. This is what we this 0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:08.560 is what we want to do, you know, be the 0:53:08.680 --> 0:53:11.399 change you want to see, that type of thing. Mister 0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:15.680 Morale in The Big Steppers is the whole album is 0:53:15.800 --> 0:53:18.440 based off this guy at car Toole, who's in the 0:53:18.560 --> 0:53:22.719 album as like Kendrick's therapist, and the whole concept of 0:53:22.920 --> 0:53:29.040 et car Tole is like one person reflects the society. 0:53:29.160 --> 0:53:31.920 Each of us individually reflects society. What we're going through, 0:53:32.000 --> 0:53:34.480 our traumas reflect society. The things that we're trying to 0:53:34.600 --> 0:53:38.759 change reflect society. And so this whole show is kind 0:53:38.800 --> 0:53:41.320 of centered around that whole kind of idea. Carol loses 0:53:41.360 --> 0:53:45.600 her temper, sixteen million people die. She thought she was 0:53:45.719 --> 0:53:50.560 just losing her temper for herself. It impacted all of 0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:52.879 these people that she had no idea about didn't really 0:53:52.880 --> 0:53:53.360 even give. 0:53:53.200 --> 0:53:57.480 A one peer the one Pier gave the example. She 0:53:57.560 --> 0:54:00.320 was like, my husband was driving driving and did that 0:54:02.520 --> 0:54:05.320 crash and he died, and you thought because of you. 0:54:06.440 --> 0:54:08.839 So like you can point all of these fingers as 0:54:08.840 --> 0:54:10.600 saying you're doing this, you're doing this, you're doing this. 0:54:11.160 --> 0:54:13.760 You are part of the problem too, which is crazy 0:54:13.800 --> 0:54:15.880 because being an individual, well, and we've. 0:54:15.760 --> 0:54:20.040 Talked about that in terms of climate change, global warming, 0:54:20.320 --> 0:54:22.560 we've talked about it in terms of where you purchase 0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:25.280 your clothes, because if you care about the children overseas 0:54:25.360 --> 0:54:27.719 that are working for pennies a day, why do you 0:54:27.840 --> 0:54:32.640 keep buying fast faction the Apple iPhones that we use, 0:54:33.320 --> 0:54:35.799 like it's the technology, but if it makes your life better. 0:54:36.280 --> 0:54:38.839 Sometimes again, you don't even view yourself as a part 0:54:38.880 --> 0:54:41.319 of the problem. You just want to find the bits 0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.839 of happiness, which is also why I call it subjective, right, 0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:46.759 But again, the things that you're partaking in, you don't 0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:49.200 understand the harm that it's causing elsewhere. And I didn't 0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:51.239 actually draw that parallel, but yes, you're very right. 0:54:51.440 --> 0:54:53.920 And so part of the thing is like what as 0:54:54.000 --> 0:54:59.719 a society, what are we willing to accept for our convenience, 0:54:59.840 --> 0:55:01.239 warm on sneeds whatever it is. 0:55:02.320 --> 0:55:03.880 Can we go down those lists with us? 0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:05.680 Like, what is one of the. 0:55:07.239 --> 0:55:09.800 Things that you do that you enjoy doing that you 0:55:09.960 --> 0:55:11.640 know may be causing harm elsewhere? 0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:15.560 Alcohol? Yeah, what do you mean by that? Every weekend 0:55:15.719 --> 0:55:16.520 I go to a bar. 0:55:16.960 --> 0:55:19.280 Every bar has a parking lot, and all those parking 0:55:19.320 --> 0:55:21.560 lots have cars in them, and all the people who 0:55:21.600 --> 0:55:23.840 are in those bars are gonna go get in those. 0:55:23.760 --> 0:55:28.560 Cars and drive away. We a society expect everyone in 0:55:28.680 --> 0:55:30.120 that bar to drink. 0:55:31.760 --> 0:55:34.320 Either either don't drink it all, drink enough to know 0:55:34.440 --> 0:55:37.520 your limit, be responsible with this dangerous thing that you have. 0:55:38.360 --> 0:55:40.839 Or call a car and don't get in that car. 0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:43.960 But everyone in there, everyone who's drinking, regardless of whether 0:55:44.040 --> 0:55:46.320 we think they should be, what their level are, Everyone's 0:55:46.320 --> 0:55:46.840 gonna get in there. 0:55:46.880 --> 0:55:50.839 I will say, it's such a Southern mindset like it's been. 0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:53.640 It's been the selective ignorance down here that I hate 0:55:53.680 --> 0:55:55.520 the most. Because I still don't have a car. I 0:55:55.600 --> 0:55:58.840 live very New York. Down here in Atlanta, I'd uber everywhere, 0:55:59.080 --> 0:56:00.920 and when I go out with my friends, you already 0:56:00.960 --> 0:56:05.640 know I'll make us super nigga, leave your car at home, 0:56:05.719 --> 0:56:08.040 come park at my house if we're gonna go out, 0:56:08.360 --> 0:56:09.960 and if you're too lit when we get back to 0:56:10.040 --> 0:56:12.239 my house, you could say the nights you I'm not 0:56:12.360 --> 0:56:14.960 getting in a car with niggas who even drink. Even 0:56:14.960 --> 0:56:19.320 the other day, like, uh, we went out and Crystal 0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:20.880 had her Tesla, and I was mad as that she 0:56:21.040 --> 0:56:23.359 came anyways, because when you go out to one place 0:56:23.400 --> 0:56:25.040 with me, you really end up at three. It's all night, 0:56:25.200 --> 0:56:27.080 and it's all night thing and we're gonna be drinking everywhere. 0:56:27.320 --> 0:56:28.840 But literally we got in the car and I was like, 0:56:28.960 --> 0:56:30.759 and I was like, no, she good. She literally didn't 0:56:30.760 --> 0:56:32.640 even finish with a boxa soda. That's that was her 0:56:32.680 --> 0:56:35.239 only drink. I was like, okay, well maybe if we 0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:38.080 do shots, if we do more than one drink, I'm 0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:40.080 not getting in the car with you. 0:56:40.440 --> 0:56:41.960 And that's the thing like I've always had, like a 0:56:42.480 --> 0:56:45.480 I would used to have. Well, I don't really drink. Honestly, 0:56:46.880 --> 0:56:55.440 most I drink with y'all. By the way, you don't 0:56:55.480 --> 0:57:00.000 even know meaning it's not an extraordinary mind. 0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:06.560 That night I bought a bottle. We would out bought 0:57:06.640 --> 0:57:13.239 a bottle these we closed. It wasn't legend. Shout out, 0:57:14.760 --> 0:57:17.520 shout out, this was this was way weekend up music. 0:57:18.160 --> 0:57:20.480 After the second After the second night, we end up 0:57:20.520 --> 0:57:22.320 going out to my favorite spot, m c K. We 0:57:22.400 --> 0:57:25.080 get a table, my friend buying bottles and buy bottles 0:57:25.080 --> 0:57:29.520 because I said, no, we need a table. We go out. Baby, 0:57:29.680 --> 0:57:33.040 we had a tom But I'm not gonna lie drink 0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:33.600 way too much. 0:57:34.040 --> 0:57:36.520 But again it's like drink way too much. 0:57:37.680 --> 0:57:42.280 But that's the thing about it. But I'm saying, but 0:57:42.400 --> 0:57:45.120 the O, but the hog. But the bigger, the bigger 0:57:45.280 --> 0:57:49.440 picture of it is is that society we've accepted that. 0:57:51.280 --> 0:57:52.840 Some people are going to get d u y. Some 0:57:52.920 --> 0:57:55.840 people are gonna die every single year. 0:57:57.320 --> 0:58:02.160 Having a good time, families, kids, dogs, People are going 0:58:02.200 --> 0:58:05.280 to die and d UIs every single year. Guaranteed me, 0:58:05.520 --> 0:58:08.800 every single day. Society is not ever going to say 0:58:09.640 --> 0:58:12.479 we're going back to prohibition. If you had a vote 0:58:12.800 --> 0:58:15.560 to say we're going back to removing alcohol, it will 0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:19.200 unanimously get shot down by everybody because no one's going 0:58:19.240 --> 0:58:21.320 to give up their alcohol. And how many people die 0:58:21.440 --> 0:58:24.120 of DUIs, Well, what's that number that you're willing to accept. 0:58:24.640 --> 0:58:26.880 Charlie Kirk got himself in a lot of trouble after 0:58:26.960 --> 0:58:30.240 he died because he said that comment about the Second Amendment. 0:58:30.960 --> 0:58:33.080 He said, I think it's worth it to have this 0:58:33.280 --> 0:58:35.120 price for certain people to die. 0:58:35.320 --> 0:58:38.160 And people are mad about that, And I understand it 0:58:38.240 --> 0:58:40.840 because it's a different topic a little bit and people 0:58:40.880 --> 0:58:44.760 are sensitive to that concept. But what he was saying 0:58:44.960 --> 0:58:46.760 what I'm what I'm what I'm hearing when he says that, 0:58:46.920 --> 0:58:48.560 is that that doesn't just apply to guns. 0:58:48.600 --> 0:58:49.800 That applies to a lot of shit. 0:58:52.080 --> 0:58:54.640 Just the value proposition against against. 0:58:54.400 --> 0:58:56.920 Decisions, And like, how many people? What is that number? 0:58:56.960 --> 0:58:58.760 Like the same way you say everybody has a price, 0:58:59.560 --> 0:59:01.560 every we're all accepting a certain number. 0:59:01.680 --> 0:59:04.400 What is that number of people that something to be 0:59:04.480 --> 0:59:08.640 happy that we like? What's your happiness for us? Do 0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:09.200 we want to do? 0:59:09.480 --> 0:59:09.520 What? 0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:12.520 And what is that number? Is it fifty thousand people? 0:59:12.760 --> 0:59:15.520 Is it one hundred thousand people? Is it five million? 0:59:15.840 --> 0:59:18.360 The number the number that we don't have to know about, 0:59:18.800 --> 0:59:20.680 because that's why we're going the dog and we go 0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:24.160 and bodies think we know about the factories, but we 0:59:24.240 --> 0:59:26.000 still go and shot and go and do this. 0:59:26.240 --> 0:59:28.280 You don't, you don't, you don't leave the store pain, 0:59:28.320 --> 0:59:30.360 you don't have no you don't leave the store in shame. 0:59:30.520 --> 0:59:33.640 You're not hiding your iPhone. The article ain't in that moment, 0:59:33.680 --> 0:59:34.640 you're like damn, damn. 0:59:35.040 --> 0:59:37.760 But there's still but there's still a tension within those decisions. 0:59:38.120 --> 0:59:40.200 And that's what makes like the like the world that 0:59:40.280 --> 0:59:42.920 we live in versus like the show where there's like 0:59:43.520 --> 0:59:45.000 it's just it's just all clear from the. 0:59:45.000 --> 0:59:47.000 Gates, everything exactly. 0:59:47.040 --> 0:59:48.400 You don't have to worry about it. What it's like 0:59:48.440 --> 0:59:50.720 with us like influences like should I buy this or not? 0:59:50.840 --> 0:59:52.400 Should I have that third drink or not? Are we 0:59:52.440 --> 0:59:53.560 going to do shots or not? 0:59:53.880 --> 0:59:56.520 And you influences and that is the choice. But this 0:59:56.640 --> 1:00:00.400 is a way to put it right, Joah. Roughly twelve 1:00:00.480 --> 1:00:05.680 to fourteen thousand people a year die in alcohol impaired crashes. 1:00:08.240 --> 1:00:12.640 Would you stop drinking to save if you knew your 1:00:12.840 --> 1:00:16.680 drink your drinking ability could save twelve to fourteen thousand 1:00:16.960 --> 1:00:19.480 people a year? Would you stop drinking today? 1:00:20.200 --> 1:00:20.240 No? 1:00:20.640 --> 1:00:24.760 See? Okay, Okay? I think and I think that that's 1:00:24.800 --> 1:00:27.720 the interesting part because when we talk about this idea 1:00:27.880 --> 1:00:30.760 of world peace and coming together as one in humanity, 1:00:31.120 --> 1:00:34.919 when we really dig deep into what are what makes 1:00:35.000 --> 1:00:38.360 us happy and our individualism. It's why I don't believe 1:00:38.400 --> 1:00:40.680 we can never meet come to a place of world 1:00:40.720 --> 1:00:44.720 peace because and I love the reality and you being 1:00:44.800 --> 1:00:47.240 real and the fact that yeah, nah, twelve to fourteen 1:00:47.280 --> 1:00:49.240 thousand people, I don't know them, niggas. I want to 1:00:49.320 --> 1:00:49.760 have a drink. 1:00:49.800 --> 1:00:50.680 I want to have this Hennessy. 1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:55.080 It's gonna make me feel Goodah. 1:00:55.080 --> 1:00:57.360 I want this represent real quick for me. 1:00:57.840 --> 1:01:03.880 And I mentioned it earlier Fast Fashion as mine. For sure, 1:01:05.680 --> 1:01:09.440 y'all have heard me be ignorant hell to say, I know, 1:01:09.720 --> 1:01:11.360 I know a kid made this T shirt. This is 1:01:11.440 --> 1:01:14.200 she Ian, bitch. I know a kid was slaving away 1:01:14.240 --> 1:01:17.360 for the T shirt. And in terms of child labor, 1:01:17.840 --> 1:01:21.640 h if I stopped buying from she and Fashion, no bizarre, 1:01:22.160 --> 1:01:23.600 these kids might have a better life. 1:01:24.880 --> 1:01:26.560 No no, because someone else will. 1:01:27.400 --> 1:01:29.400 But also that might be the only means of them 1:01:29.440 --> 1:01:30.400 to make money, even if. 1:01:30.280 --> 1:01:31.240 It's get that. 1:01:31.360 --> 1:01:32.880 I mean, that's what I'm saying, whether it's five cents 1:01:32.960 --> 1:01:35.120 or not. The way we view child labor here in 1:01:35.200 --> 1:01:37.600 the States is different than other people, which is the 1:01:37.640 --> 1:01:40.080 same way if you if you really want to draw parallels, 1:01:40.240 --> 1:01:43.680 same thing with no monogamy, polygamy and polyamory and other 1:01:43.760 --> 1:01:47.200 parts of the world are viewed drastically different than how 1:01:47.240 --> 1:01:50.240 we view it here in the Western hemisphere. Before we 1:01:52.000 --> 1:01:53.959 go ahead just makes me sound even more. 1:01:55.360 --> 1:01:58.920 No, just in the concept of the movie, the series. 1:01:59.800 --> 1:02:02.200 Now the episode you mentioned you had difficulty with the 1:02:02.280 --> 1:02:03.800 cleaning services. 1:02:03.880 --> 1:02:07.080 Uh last week, last right last? But would you. 1:02:08.680 --> 1:02:10.480 Would that be part of you want a bunch of 1:02:10.520 --> 1:02:13.200 people say hey, Mandy, we're gonna clean. 1:02:13.360 --> 1:02:17.360 We know you want, so we're here to clean your apartment. 1:02:18.120 --> 1:02:21.920 Lie, I've already said I would want to be a 1:02:22.000 --> 1:02:24.560 part of taking advantage of everybody advantage. 1:02:24.600 --> 1:02:27.320 But you don't want to be What does that mean? 1:02:27.440 --> 1:02:31.280 That means you're the I'm worse than. 1:02:32.960 --> 1:02:37.240 Maybe maybe maybe the way that we be outside season two, 1:02:39.760 --> 1:02:43.120 the way we be out a method man, give me 1:02:43.200 --> 1:02:48.720 some dick, run run it up. But that's what that's. 1:02:50.240 --> 1:02:52.920 No one can say no to me, bro clean my 1:02:53.080 --> 1:02:56.800 house like And I guess that's where again the the 1:02:57.000 --> 1:03:01.280 idea to of of humanity to me and especially as 1:03:01.320 --> 1:03:04.480 a woman, is the right for us to have a 1:03:04.600 --> 1:03:08.600 choice to say no, is the right to be actually 1:03:08.720 --> 1:03:11.120 what we want to do, not what someone else wants 1:03:11.200 --> 1:03:13.880 us to do. And it's it's very interesting to watch 1:03:13.960 --> 1:03:16.680 this too, because it's kind of again, what we see 1:03:16.720 --> 1:03:18.840 that French character do and where our mind goes is 1:03:18.960 --> 1:03:22.520 essentially no different than what we what happened for four 1:03:22.640 --> 1:03:26.000 hundred years with slavery, you know, like they didn't have 1:03:26.080 --> 1:03:28.000 the choice to say no, I don't want to do this, 1:03:28.320 --> 1:03:30.960 but they were at the mercy of what someone else wanted, 1:03:30.960 --> 1:03:32.000 whether it be crops. 1:03:31.760 --> 1:03:34.280 Whether it be cleaning, whether it be But that's an 1:03:34.320 --> 1:03:36.680 interesting example because it sucks up both sides. It does, 1:03:36.880 --> 1:03:39.280 like it not only fuck up like the people who 1:03:39.280 --> 1:03:41.000 are experiencing it, but the people who are making those 1:03:41.000 --> 1:03:43.240 decisions throughout the four hundred years. They're all fucked up, 1:03:43.320 --> 1:03:44.960 which is why. 1:03:44.960 --> 1:03:48.000 To me it was interesting because there's a battle with 1:03:48.640 --> 1:03:51.400 Carol being the Karen of wanting to change it back 1:03:51.440 --> 1:03:54.600 to what society was, and because there is a toggle 1:03:54.720 --> 1:03:57.160 to where wait, this isn't right, but yes it is 1:03:57.200 --> 1:03:59.480 a better world, but is it really? Because now these 1:03:59.520 --> 1:04:00.600 people don't have choices. 1:04:01.040 --> 1:04:03.040 So so look, let me land my like my matrix 1:04:03.080 --> 1:04:04.560 point real Q like you bringing it up, but like 1:04:04.720 --> 1:04:06.760 the matrix, so been in the matrix there was an 1:04:06.920 --> 1:04:08.720 example about like the world and they were doing and 1:04:08.760 --> 1:04:10.040 so it's like the first time they did it, it 1:04:10.160 --> 1:04:12.760 was all perfection and people were unhappy. It was the 1:04:12.800 --> 1:04:15.400 same things, world peace, you don't have to worry about murders, 1:04:15.600 --> 1:04:19.040 and people found unhappiness and that because they didn't have choice. 1:04:19.280 --> 1:04:21.520 So then he went like the complete opposite the architect, 1:04:21.600 --> 1:04:24.600 and he made it like war, famine and like and 1:04:24.720 --> 1:04:27.600 and again with that like that that people were just 1:04:27.680 --> 1:04:29.840 as unhappy. So then they found it someplace in the 1:04:29.880 --> 1:04:32.120 middle where they had choice, right, and so like even 1:04:32.160 --> 1:04:35.120 if you have a semblance of choice, it's like, you know, 1:04:35.200 --> 1:04:36.880 it could be such a minimum thing where it's like 1:04:36.920 --> 1:04:39.400 what I wear today, and you know some some people 1:04:39.520 --> 1:04:41.240 have other means and they have bigger choices. 1:04:41.480 --> 1:04:43.400 But it's it's it's somewhere in between. 1:04:43.480 --> 1:04:45.680 And I think it's funny to call her to Karen, 1:04:45.720 --> 1:04:48.080 and there is like Karen behaviors in it. But also 1:04:48.360 --> 1:04:50.200 but I think she's fighting for the idea of like 1:04:50.600 --> 1:04:52.520 let's have choice. Like when she says like, that's not 1:04:52.720 --> 1:04:57.320 your family, because her children will listen to everything she 1:04:57.400 --> 1:05:00.800 says with no qush back her husband, our husband will listen, 1:05:00.880 --> 1:05:02.480 and that so it's like everybody they don't have a 1:05:02.560 --> 1:05:05.000 ch so now you're dealing with people who don't have choice, 1:05:05.040 --> 1:05:07.320 and that's not real either. I think that's kind of 1:05:07.400 --> 1:05:09.560 like her pursuit more than's. 1:05:10.280 --> 1:05:15.160 But I think that there's an inherent idea that like, 1:05:15.560 --> 1:05:19.200 we value choice, value, but we value. 1:05:18.960 --> 1:05:20.880 That's not We're in a democracy where we believe we 1:05:20.960 --> 1:05:22.760 have a choice, and even who correct. 1:05:23.200 --> 1:05:26.120 And I would even say we value the emotion behind 1:05:26.840 --> 1:05:29.320 the idea of choice, because sometimes they don't even really 1:05:29.440 --> 1:05:30.280 have a real choice. 1:05:30.520 --> 1:05:31.760 And what that's the part I was going to get 1:05:31.760 --> 1:05:35.360 to is that we we value choice, but we also 1:05:35.640 --> 1:05:38.760 see choice as the happiness we do. 1:05:39.160 --> 1:05:42.280 And choice does not have to be the happiness. Choice 1:05:42.320 --> 1:05:43.800 can be the thing that funcks you over. 1:05:44.480 --> 1:05:47.720 Well, yeah, because you could. There's right and wrong, wrong, 1:05:48.080 --> 1:05:49.080 choose choose wrong. 1:05:49.200 --> 1:05:51.560 Someone else has a choice too. You do something and 1:05:51.680 --> 1:05:54.720 that someone else reacts to I ran down. I ran 1:05:54.760 --> 1:05:57.000 down on the guy or the home Depot van pulled 1:05:57.120 --> 1:06:00.280 up on him. It wasn't him, right now, I okay, 1:06:00.360 --> 1:06:02.240 I made that choice. He could have made a choice. 1:06:02.560 --> 1:06:03.880 He could have made a choice to be like, who the. 1:06:03.920 --> 1:06:04.240 Fuck is this? 1:06:05.400 --> 1:06:05.560 Like this? 1:06:06.440 --> 1:06:08.040 And it just castays down. 1:06:08.280 --> 1:06:10.040 That guy gets out the car tries to shoot me, 1:06:10.080 --> 1:06:12.040 but he misses, he hits somebody across the street with 1:06:12.120 --> 1:06:14.600 a bullet because of them all, because I went down 1:06:14.720 --> 1:06:17.120 there confronting him. He made a choice. Then his choice 1:06:17.120 --> 1:06:19.280 affected that person over there should to do what was 1:06:19.320 --> 1:06:19.640 going on. 1:06:21.240 --> 1:06:25.720 Yeah, it's tricky if you haven't seen it, because when 1:06:25.840 --> 1:06:28.640 the series ends, and I do hope Apple TV is 1:06:28.680 --> 1:06:33.040 not really or they are notorious for seasons not going 1:06:33.200 --> 1:06:35.439 very long over there, which I don't know why because 1:06:35.440 --> 1:06:37.320 we all got these Apple phones. I don't know why 1:06:37.320 --> 1:06:45.160 I hate the series that are six or but because 1:06:45.200 --> 1:06:47.040 it's from the creator, Like I said, Breaking Bad and 1:06:47.120 --> 1:06:50.320 Better Cross Sault shout out to Vinci. 1:06:50.560 --> 1:06:51.640 Are you expecting a plot twist? 1:06:51.760 --> 1:06:55.680 I am expecting. I am expecting that this show kind 1:06:55.720 --> 1:06:58.120 of like, what's the one I really like, you know, 1:06:58.240 --> 1:07:00.600 what's what's the guy that I really with? The black 1:07:00.640 --> 1:07:03.960 guy at the end of the world. Oh, that is 1:07:04.120 --> 1:07:07.040 already locked into a season two that I went, Oh, 1:07:07.280 --> 1:07:09.240 you're talking about Sterling h Sterling K. 1:07:09.320 --> 1:07:17.400 Brown on Hulu Hulu Sterling K Come on Journalism, Jason Paradise, Paradise. 1:07:17.680 --> 1:07:20.840 So what I'm hoping is that season two for this 1:07:21.000 --> 1:07:23.120 has already been written and they're just they just need 1:07:23.120 --> 1:07:25.800 agree like to where they go straight into because what 1:07:25.880 --> 1:07:29.959 I'm also hating is like the fact that Stranger Things 1:07:30.080 --> 1:07:32.400 just released, but released what three years later? 1:07:33.720 --> 1:07:36.600 Like Jesus Christ, especially with show this one thing. If 1:07:36.640 --> 1:07:38.240 the show is just kind of like I'm getting into 1:07:38.280 --> 1:07:39.280 that too, I want to talk about but. 1:07:39.320 --> 1:07:42.280 It showed it like this that has like deep things unpacked, 1:07:42.520 --> 1:07:45.200 Like you can't give us six episodes and expect us 1:07:45.280 --> 1:07:46.720 to get the whole. 1:07:46.760 --> 1:07:47.880 We need to be more good. 1:07:48.640 --> 1:07:50.680 I think the good thing is they're TV people doing it. 1:07:50.720 --> 1:07:54.080 They're not like movie people. Yes, Plara, shooting and doing TV, 1:07:54.400 --> 1:07:55.480 which is what you're busy. 1:07:56.000 --> 1:08:01.080 I'm excited by this. Uh And celebrities say the darnest things, y'all. 1:08:01.120 --> 1:08:06.120 I'm the celebrity apparently. So a couple of weeks ago, 1:08:06.320 --> 1:08:10.320 of course, Rory, my good friend Rory, who I'm not canceling. 1:08:10.440 --> 1:08:12.840 So and I'm not gonna sit here and go through 1:08:13.080 --> 1:08:15.360 why people were trying to cancel him. It's a couple 1:08:15.360 --> 1:08:19.360 of weeks old now. But so when I guess, I 1:08:19.400 --> 1:08:20.840 don't know what they thought they were doing. I don't 1:08:20.840 --> 1:08:23.160 know if they were warning me or blackmailing me. But 1:08:23.520 --> 1:08:26.680 I got sweat out it was weird. I got emailed 1:08:27.680 --> 1:08:32.599 my tweets from twenty eleven through twenty thirteen, and they 1:08:32.840 --> 1:08:36.679 clearly decided to search the word blacks and black women. 1:08:37.400 --> 1:08:41.040 And that's so that's going to be the highest search 1:08:41.160 --> 1:08:41.640 thing in. 1:08:41.720 --> 1:08:45.840 The Twitter over the next over the next month. If 1:08:45.880 --> 1:08:48.840 you spoke about blacks or black women and you are 1:08:48.880 --> 1:08:51.519 a black person, they are coming to see what the 1:08:51.600 --> 1:08:55.360 fuck you had to say. Now, because I am me, 1:08:56.520 --> 1:08:59.640 I am she, I am going to read some of 1:08:59.720 --> 1:09:02.679 these tweets or you know what, maybe I'll have Jason 1:09:02.880 --> 1:09:06.320 read them so that I can respond. And this is 1:09:06.439 --> 1:09:09.120 kind of a mix of celebrities say the darness things 1:09:09.160 --> 1:09:11.600 but also double down or take it back, and so 1:09:12.320 --> 1:09:14.840 you will in real time see me double down or 1:09:14.960 --> 1:09:17.400 take it back with explanations. 1:09:17.960 --> 1:09:22.200 So so they emailed you, They emailed me a number 1:09:22.760 --> 1:09:24.479 a number of tweets. Yeah it was. 1:09:24.600 --> 1:09:27.720 It was seven seven tweets with just question mark as 1:09:27.760 --> 1:09:39.040 a subject line. That's the part the strange shout out 1:09:39.320 --> 1:09:42.120 to gena abuse. So me and Gina was talking about 1:09:42.160 --> 1:09:44.320 all this ship what was happening. So I sent her 1:09:44.400 --> 1:09:48.479 this email that bitch found that nigga cash app all 1:09:48.520 --> 1:09:51.280 the things because I got your email. So we were searching. 1:09:51.960 --> 1:09:54.240 His name is Joshua. I forgot the last name, but 1:09:54.680 --> 1:09:57.640 any who, we found your cash out nigga, And what 1:09:57.800 --> 1:09:59.240 are you doing this for? I don't know if you're 1:09:59.240 --> 1:10:02.960 a fan or oh, but suck my dick from the back. Anyways, 1:10:03.200 --> 1:10:06.000 I am going to now double down or take it back. 1:10:06.040 --> 1:10:07.960 And then I do want to lean into y'all because 1:10:07.960 --> 1:10:09.840 we've all been a part of black Twitter kind of 1:10:09.920 --> 1:10:13.400 what this timeframe of tweets was, what it means to 1:10:13.479 --> 1:10:16.559 actually change or evolve or stay the same. So go ahead. 1:10:16.840 --> 1:10:21.800 A tweet from Mandy May fifth, twenty seventeen. I read 1:10:21.840 --> 1:10:25.879 the comment. I read the comments, often black women, the spies, 1:10:26.040 --> 1:10:30.000 black men with any women lighter than them, dot dot 1:10:30.120 --> 1:10:31.080 dot double. 1:10:30.840 --> 1:10:35.400 Down, dug, bro, it's still happening. And this was twenty seventeen. 1:10:35.600 --> 1:10:38.360 The other ones are all like twenty eleven to twenty thirteen. 1:10:38.920 --> 1:10:42.360 Uh yeah, black women hate to see black men with 1:10:42.479 --> 1:10:46.880 any black black women. Okay, don't saynes okay, So joh, 1:10:46.920 --> 1:10:47.800 how about this one? Joah. 1:10:47.960 --> 1:10:51.719 August fifteenth, twenty thirteen, ten to fifteen in the morning, 1:10:51.880 --> 1:10:55.200 Mandy thought, this is crazy. My preference in women isn't 1:10:55.280 --> 1:10:59.080 black women? But lawd, do I have my exceptions? Dot 1:10:59.160 --> 1:11:00.240 dot dot you like lips? 1:11:01.439 --> 1:11:02.400 Okay, now here's the thing. 1:11:02.560 --> 1:11:03.040 Here's the thing. 1:11:03.479 --> 1:11:04.559 This one sounds bad. 1:11:07.160 --> 1:11:09.680 Bad, she said her prep she doesn't what I like 1:11:10.600 --> 1:11:13.800 hast covered, which is because my preference. 1:11:13.479 --> 1:11:17.200 And men is only black men now at this time. 1:11:17.960 --> 1:11:22.600 She's like, the whites with the long hair wouldn't know 1:11:22.720 --> 1:11:23.880 better than the NBA player. 1:11:24.280 --> 1:11:27.320 You ready, you played for the Pacers. 1:11:27.439 --> 1:11:30.599 Nigga, you want to know what's funny? 1:11:31.920 --> 1:11:32.080 You know? 1:11:34.280 --> 1:11:39.559 I just talked about that, and you know I had 1:11:39.840 --> 1:11:42.960 I had a threesome this year with my first white 1:11:43.000 --> 1:11:46.920 woman with an NBA player, and I told him, I said, nigga, 1:11:46.960 --> 1:11:50.000 not you making me my first white Yeah, but I 1:11:50.080 --> 1:11:52.360 don't like white women experience. 1:11:52.400 --> 1:11:52.960 If you want. 1:11:54.960 --> 1:11:57.320 She was kind of fun, she I was gonna say, 1:11:57.560 --> 1:11:59.599 she probably knew what to do with that mouth. Yeah, 1:12:00.120 --> 1:12:02.519 it was nice. It was cute. Uh would I do 1:12:02.600 --> 1:12:04.800 it again? And it wouldn't be my preference, you know, 1:12:04.960 --> 1:12:08.840 but if it happens, it happens. I'm double down and 1:12:08.920 --> 1:12:12.920 taking this back because only because this was from twenty thirteen, 1:12:13.320 --> 1:12:16.519 my preference now is only black women. I really don't 1:12:17.760 --> 1:12:21.639 no pink nipples. Yeah, I like the little butter Scotch. 1:12:22.640 --> 1:12:24.679 But you know, all of my women that I've dealt 1:12:24.680 --> 1:12:28.360 with in the past five six years plus have all 1:12:28.400 --> 1:12:31.280 been black women. Let's go back to pre like just 1:12:31.320 --> 1:12:32.599 a couple of days before Christmas. 1:12:32.680 --> 1:12:33.240 That's crazy. 1:12:33.840 --> 1:12:38.920 Twenty eleven, eight thirty six in the morning, Joah, when 1:12:39.000 --> 1:12:40.120 the coal out of eye. 1:12:40.080 --> 1:12:43.479 Right in a tooth brush? What I say, talk and shit? 1:12:43.880 --> 1:12:45.800 She said our quote she threw. 1:12:45.840 --> 1:12:50.120 The quotes around this are quote unquote black girls still 1:12:50.240 --> 1:12:53.639 throwing shade at black men for dating white, white skinned women. 1:12:54.200 --> 1:12:57.040 Rose Eyes waits for valid response. Why did you put 1:12:57.040 --> 1:12:57.920 black girls in quotes? 1:12:58.080 --> 1:12:58.280 Really? 1:12:58.280 --> 1:12:58.519 Trump? 1:12:58.760 --> 1:12:59.800 What did you about? That? 1:13:01.680 --> 1:13:07.560 Very clear? Because I included light skinned women. So the 1:13:07.720 --> 1:13:12.000 quotes around the black girls were the darker skinned women 1:13:12.080 --> 1:13:16.040 who also lean into I don't want to say reverse colorism, 1:13:16.400 --> 1:13:20.719 but they line up to with the light skinned black 1:13:20.760 --> 1:13:25.360 women who also go with black men. Right Like there's 1:13:25.479 --> 1:13:28.880 wars between Okay, are you dark skin, brown skin, light skin? 1:13:29.240 --> 1:13:32.800 Like the colorism of the spectrum. Sometimes light skin black 1:13:32.840 --> 1:13:35.280 girls get grouped into oh, he's only with you because 1:13:35.280 --> 1:13:38.599 you're light skin and maybe and I don't know. Again, 1:13:38.840 --> 1:13:41.400 This is from twenty eleven, twenty thirteen. I don't know 1:13:41.520 --> 1:13:44.320 what was on the timeline that was like why is 1:13:44.400 --> 1:13:46.920 this a thing? And I've always questioned like why is 1:13:47.000 --> 1:13:49.439 this a thing? And to be fair, it's been questioned 1:13:49.439 --> 1:13:53.120 about me, like where women have told me, oh, but 1:13:53.240 --> 1:13:55.840 you don't count as a black girl because you're biracial 1:13:56.000 --> 1:13:58.960 or you real light skin, or so there's been conversations 1:13:59.000 --> 1:14:00.960 about me saying, oh, I'm black and this man is 1:14:01.000 --> 1:14:03.960 dating a black Yeah, but you like skin. So to me, 1:14:04.040 --> 1:14:06.360 it's just still questioning things. I do want to get 1:14:06.400 --> 1:14:10.439 into the ones that I absolutely double down on and 1:14:10.520 --> 1:14:14.040 don't understand why fourteen years later there is still questions 1:14:14.040 --> 1:14:18.559 about it. So let's get into. Because you're you're going into, 1:14:18.720 --> 1:14:20.720 you're reading ones that are all the same. I got 1:14:20.760 --> 1:14:21.040 this one. 1:14:21.080 --> 1:14:22.920 This next one feels a little I was gonna say, 1:14:22.920 --> 1:14:24.280 speaking a mix this next one. 1:14:24.479 --> 1:14:27.160 August tenth, twenty eleven. You see this one. 1:14:27.680 --> 1:14:31.320 But when I say I'm white, people completely ignore that 1:14:31.439 --> 1:14:32.360 because I'm half black. 1:14:32.439 --> 1:14:33.080 That's what I'm saying. 1:14:33.120 --> 1:14:34.280 But even now, black. 1:14:34.040 --> 1:14:36.800 People will walk around calling each other the nbomb all 1:14:37.000 --> 1:14:39.320 day long in Bomb Man, that's like the white side 1:14:39.320 --> 1:14:42.120 of EA and Bomb. But they want to get their 1:14:42.160 --> 1:14:44.479 panties in a bunch when another race says it fuck 1:14:44.520 --> 1:14:44.960 out of here. 1:14:45.080 --> 1:14:47.120 The N word is overrated. 1:14:47.520 --> 1:14:47.800 Wow. 1:14:48.560 --> 1:14:52.320 In box side, people are so sensitive to things, which 1:14:52.360 --> 1:14:55.840 is also crazy because if you go to literally another 1:14:55.880 --> 1:14:58.360 tweet around that I'm talking about the in word, and 1:14:58.439 --> 1:15:01.479 I say, it's sensitive ignorance, but also it's why I 1:15:01.560 --> 1:15:04.200 don't allow any of my friends who are not black 1:15:04.280 --> 1:15:06.400 to say it. You could read that verbatim. But there's 1:15:06.439 --> 1:15:08.599 two around the same thing, which is crazy because clearly 1:15:09.000 --> 1:15:11.280 my only tweets around blacks and black people and black 1:15:11.320 --> 1:15:14.080 women are all about the same ship, which I'm doubling 1:15:14.160 --> 1:15:17.000 down on the day to. 1:15:18.640 --> 1:15:18.960 Obama. 1:15:19.000 --> 1:15:26.639 Still No twenty eleven, I was in Miami twenty eleven, 1:15:26.680 --> 1:15:29.040 I was living saying. 1:15:31.840 --> 1:15:33.720 I'm trying to see what what might have been your 1:15:33.760 --> 1:15:37.120 experiences on the social level that I mean. 1:15:37.080 --> 1:15:40.280 I was in the club, but also you guys also 1:15:40.560 --> 1:15:45.040 was So nigga is a word that know, all you 1:15:45.240 --> 1:15:48.720 Puerto Ricans, Cubans, Dominicans shouldn't be saying. But then at 1:15:48.720 --> 1:15:52.080 the same time, you have a lot of Afro Caribbean 1:15:52.439 --> 1:15:55.760 people who don't know nigga is not a part of 1:15:55.880 --> 1:15:59.280 their Nigga's an American word, and so it's just like 1:16:00.040 --> 1:16:02.040 the N word was. And again, maybe to me at 1:16:02.080 --> 1:16:06.080 the time, I'm not surrounded by Black Americans. Everyone using 1:16:06.160 --> 1:16:09.080 it is everything but black American. So maybe at this 1:16:09.240 --> 1:16:11.479 time I also maybe wasn't using the in word as 1:16:12.080 --> 1:16:15.360 as fluently. I did live in Atlanta for a little bit, 1:16:15.439 --> 1:16:18.639 and then I mean, my just whole circle is black people, 1:16:18.720 --> 1:16:22.200 but growing up in Florida, No, I think everyone that's 1:16:22.320 --> 1:16:24.000 using it isn't really African American. 1:16:24.080 --> 1:16:28.040 I actually because sometimes when we tweet these things spec let's. 1:16:27.840 --> 1:16:29.559 Be very special experience moment. 1:16:29.640 --> 1:16:32.360 But at this time, in the moment, you see, they 1:16:32.479 --> 1:16:34.800 was trying to say Obama wasn't black, So me, as 1:16:34.800 --> 1:16:37.360 a biracial girl, they definitely was trying to say, which 1:16:37.360 --> 1:16:39.720 is why even when I say I'm white. Maybe at 1:16:39.720 --> 1:16:41.600 this time I even thought I could say that I 1:16:41.720 --> 1:16:44.680 was white and you were like, you're You're like twenty one, No, 1:16:45.840 --> 1:16:48.880 nineteen twenty twenty one. That's when these tweets are like, yeah, 1:16:48.920 --> 1:16:52.479 maybe at the time I thought otherworldly as a biracial 1:16:52.520 --> 1:16:55.080 I could identify as either or right now today, with 1:16:55.240 --> 1:16:57.960 enough lived experience, no bitch, I'm black. I'd have lived 1:16:58.000 --> 1:17:00.200 in Singapore. I done went abroad. I didn't even have 1:17:00.240 --> 1:17:02.200 a passport while I was tweeting these, you know what 1:17:02.200 --> 1:17:03.519 I mean. I got my passport when I was twenty 1:17:03.560 --> 1:17:06.080 two years old. So this is the ignorance of me 1:17:06.280 --> 1:17:10.040 being in America, living in Florida, where most people are 1:17:10.080 --> 1:17:14.240 not African American. Like, if you're black, oftentimes your family's 1:17:14.280 --> 1:17:18.280 from Haiti or Jamaica or the islands. Like, it's just different, 1:17:18.520 --> 1:17:22.000 and they don't identify as African American. They identify as 1:17:22.040 --> 1:17:25.040 the island that they're from. So that's where this comes from. 1:17:25.360 --> 1:17:27.040 By the way, the other two tweets is what I 1:17:27.080 --> 1:17:29.720 wanted to get into. If you don't mind buck using 1:17:29.760 --> 1:17:31.599 the N word as much, I want to get into 1:17:32.120 --> 1:17:37.160 the other two things the light girl first tweets, first tweet, 1:17:37.200 --> 1:17:39.160 second line, Let's get into it because this is still 1:17:39.520 --> 1:17:41.200 my goal and I haven't done a really good job 1:17:41.280 --> 1:17:43.559 at it. Let's get into these two things that are 1:17:43.640 --> 1:17:46.280 still an issue within our community. 1:17:48.240 --> 1:17:50.960 I'm make it my goal in life to teach black 1:17:51.000 --> 1:17:51.679 people how to tip. 1:17:51.840 --> 1:17:56.760 Oh yeah, let's get and then hashtag. I'm just saying 1:17:58.240 --> 1:18:01.000 this probably comes from me being a bartender, me being 1:18:01.040 --> 1:18:03.439 a server because that's not good at this time. And 1:18:03.560 --> 1:18:06.400 do you know how embarrassing it is to work in 1:18:06.479 --> 1:18:11.040 an atmosphere around other people of other colors and hear 1:18:11.200 --> 1:18:14.560 them talk about us to where they don't want to 1:18:14.640 --> 1:18:17.280 serve you. They don't care to give you that much 1:18:17.640 --> 1:18:20.880 of good service because there is a stereotype that it 1:18:20.920 --> 1:18:23.439 doesn't matter how good the service is, how above and 1:18:23.560 --> 1:18:27.519 beyond I go. Black people don't tip. And I hated 1:18:28.000 --> 1:18:30.760 that I was experiencing that at the hands of my 1:18:30.840 --> 1:18:35.400 own people, because I wanted to believe that this is 1:18:35.560 --> 1:18:37.959 just a stereotype. And I don't like that my coworkers 1:18:38.000 --> 1:18:40.920 are saying the same thing. And unfortunately, and it could 1:18:40.960 --> 1:18:45.200 be a socioeconomic thing, right, I get that sometimes you 1:18:45.320 --> 1:18:47.840 make just enough to finally enjoy a meal outside and 1:18:47.920 --> 1:18:50.519 you don't consider that tipping is a part of that part. 1:18:51.560 --> 1:18:55.600 And so again I'm gonna blame the socioeconomic oppression that 1:18:55.800 --> 1:19:03.320 has ravaged our community. However, however, still in twenty twenty five, 1:19:03.360 --> 1:19:05.960 when was this sweet? This was twenty eleven, twenty eleven, 1:19:06.000 --> 1:19:10.000 April sixteenth, damn it, fourteen years later, you niggas still don't. 1:19:09.840 --> 1:19:13.360 Know how to tip. Yeah, I listen, we see it 1:19:13.439 --> 1:19:13.880 all the time. 1:19:14.240 --> 1:19:18.840 Yeah, we've had arguments about this amongst unnamed coworkers, but 1:19:19.000 --> 1:19:21.000 like we talked about this in the office, just shooting 1:19:21.000 --> 1:19:21.320 and shit. 1:19:21.400 --> 1:19:22.439 It's like damn like. 1:19:24.320 --> 1:19:27.120 There was there was one of our coworkers in particular 1:19:27.439 --> 1:19:29.000 that was just adamant about. 1:19:28.880 --> 1:19:32.240 Like, that's not my problem. Second, you see what I mean. 1:19:32.400 --> 1:19:37.120 I was like, yeah, you're right, I'm paying for the fool. 1:19:37.200 --> 1:19:40.040 Okay, so they take your ass through McDonald's drive through, 1:19:40.479 --> 1:19:42.640 but go if you were gonna take it to go, 1:19:42.800 --> 1:19:46.240 If you're gonna sit down and receive a service, there 1:19:46.320 --> 1:19:47.280 needs to be a tip. 1:19:47.280 --> 1:19:48.920 Well also, which I also find interesting. 1:19:48.920 --> 1:19:50.920 I don't know if y'all saw on Twitter last week 1:19:52.360 --> 1:19:57.640 they uploaded a blank receipt and we're literally asking how 1:19:57.720 --> 1:20:00.360 much tip do you live leave? It was like hundred 1:20:00.360 --> 1:20:02.960 and thirty one dollars and some change, And it was 1:20:03.200 --> 1:20:06.120 interesting to see what people thought they should leave as 1:20:06.120 --> 1:20:08.240 a tip. Now I go straight to mind you. I 1:20:08.400 --> 1:20:10.800 was one hundred and twenty dollars and then I count 1:20:10.840 --> 1:20:12.840 by fives based on that, so I was like, okay, 1:20:12.880 --> 1:20:14.760 one thirty one, I'm leaving a twenty six dollars tip. 1:20:14.920 --> 1:20:16.760 Then you had people that wanted to get into the change. 1:20:16.880 --> 1:20:19.160 The change is saying the same, I'm not doing yump 1:20:19.800 --> 1:20:26.040 you're doing. But it was interesting to see like he's 1:20:26.080 --> 1:20:28.760 leaving ten dollars on it, like the idea of even 1:20:28.840 --> 1:20:31.759 the percentage that should be left based on what you're spending. 1:20:33.200 --> 1:20:37.720 We still don't know, Like maybe it's selective ignorance, bad 1:20:38.000 --> 1:20:41.519 bad service with bad service, Mandy, do you load chip 1:20:41.680 --> 1:20:41.880 or no? 1:20:42.400 --> 1:20:47.360 Low tip? They ten percent percent? That's my low tip. 1:20:47.520 --> 1:20:49.680 If it's really bad service, you didn't come check on 1:20:49.720 --> 1:20:52.920 the table I sat there was drinking air because you 1:20:53.000 --> 1:20:57.840 refuse even I don't I don't know tip, but at 1:20:57.920 --> 1:20:59.639 ten percent tip when. 1:20:59.520 --> 1:21:02.960 Here's the thing for me, it's like with tipping, even 1:21:03.000 --> 1:21:05.599 with the socioeconomic part of it, right, like which which 1:21:05.640 --> 1:21:07.439 is a fair thing to say though, because okay, I 1:21:07.520 --> 1:21:08.120 get that, but. 1:21:10.080 --> 1:21:12.280 What are you gonna do with the eight dollars. 1:21:12.920 --> 1:21:14.000 Put it towards something else? 1:21:14.200 --> 1:21:15.880 What are you gonna do with the ten? 1:21:16.080 --> 1:21:19.920 Like I can see if it if the tip had 1:21:19.960 --> 1:21:22.280 to be something crazy and you're like, I'm not paying 1:21:23.040 --> 1:21:25.720 double the amount of this object. But it's like if 1:21:25.760 --> 1:21:27.640 you could buy a five hundred dollars dinner, then you 1:21:27.720 --> 1:21:29.120 can afford one hundred dollars tip. 1:21:29.160 --> 1:21:31.679 But I'm even talking about say the fifty dollars dinner 1:21:32.479 --> 1:21:35.800 you're leaving three dollars should be ten dollars. 1:21:37.320 --> 1:21:39.519 But that's that's the same. But are you are you 1:21:40.240 --> 1:21:42.439 that hard press for the ten bucks? Are you gonna 1:21:42.439 --> 1:21:43.000 do with the I. 1:21:42.960 --> 1:21:45.120 Think people, I think I think people walk in and 1:21:45.200 --> 1:21:46.679 they just know they're not gonna tip. 1:21:46.720 --> 1:21:48.839 But they're just trifling and they're just like, no matter. 1:21:48.720 --> 1:21:51.280 What they do, like, I'm keeping my money to give you, 1:21:51.400 --> 1:21:53.599 no extra money, and that's what you just pay thirty 1:21:53.680 --> 1:21:56.280 five dollars for margarita that cost three dollars. 1:21:56.360 --> 1:22:00.320 But the stereotype is that it's us doing it. Yeah 1:22:00.320 --> 1:22:04.240 and so, and by the way, stereotype white people are tricky. 1:22:05.400 --> 1:22:08.760 Y'all know who tips the most? Let me ask y'all 1:22:08.840 --> 1:22:12.599 who let me who do y'all think tips the most? 1:22:12.800 --> 1:22:19.160 I think it's either white men or Latin men. Nope, women, Okay, 1:22:19.200 --> 1:22:21.599 by the way, it's not a color, you ready, it's women, 1:22:22.120 --> 1:22:29.000 the gays a gay wait, wait, gay doesn't matter, doesn't matter. 1:22:29.040 --> 1:22:34.720 The color could be Latino. I worked gay nights. I've 1:22:34.800 --> 1:22:38.760 been my lived experience, my lived experience, and also just 1:22:38.880 --> 1:22:41.280 other bartenders who may even be straight. I know straight 1:22:41.760 --> 1:22:44.800 straight men that will go fucking bartend and boxers, that's 1:22:44.880 --> 1:22:46.080 just one of the ones I know in New York. 1:22:46.280 --> 1:22:52.280 But gay men, especially if you're quick, funny, look attractive, 1:22:52.840 --> 1:22:55.000 you're just gonna get so much more tips, like and 1:22:55.080 --> 1:22:56.840 they just they do the least bitch they want a 1:22:57.120 --> 1:23:01.720 Bokasota like maybe a fucking surely niggas could be ordering 1:23:01.760 --> 1:23:05.320 Shirley Temples and they're gonna tip like. Gay men doesn't 1:23:05.320 --> 1:23:10.160 matter the color, are the best tippers out there. And 1:23:10.280 --> 1:23:14.160 then maybe if you're in fine dining, then sure, white 1:23:14.200 --> 1:23:16.200 men or I'm not even gonna say white men, I'm 1:23:16.240 --> 1:23:19.439 gonna say business cards. If you know that it's a 1:23:19.600 --> 1:23:22.760 business meeting and it's going on on the business, then 1:23:22.800 --> 1:23:25.320 you're gonna get tipped well or over. But to me, 1:23:26.640 --> 1:23:28.240 all the gay men tip the best. 1:23:28.320 --> 1:23:28.920 That's interesting. 1:23:28.920 --> 1:23:31.360 I mean, I guess there's a level of selective ignorance 1:23:31.400 --> 1:23:35.560 that I could apply to that and say do for 1:23:35.960 --> 1:23:40.440 for gay men outside of being accosted for your sexuality, 1:23:40.880 --> 1:23:43.479 I feel like for a lot of gay men, perhaps 1:23:44.040 --> 1:23:46.320 the worst thing you could be is raggedy. 1:23:49.120 --> 1:23:49.400 Or be. 1:23:51.479 --> 1:23:53.719 What's the word I'm looking for, like not have couse 1:23:53.920 --> 1:23:56.040 or not know how to treat people, or not know 1:23:56.240 --> 1:23:56.600 how to. 1:23:58.200 --> 1:24:01.880 Conduct yourself toward others that maybe they feel like I'm 1:24:01.920 --> 1:24:02.559 not going to be that. 1:24:03.160 --> 1:24:06.519 Maybe and I don't know the answer, but going to 1:24:06.600 --> 1:24:09.639 call me when I tell you gay men like you're 1:24:09.680 --> 1:24:11.639 not gonna do that? They tip the best, they tip 1:24:11.680 --> 1:24:14.000 the best. And then here's another one. The last one. 1:24:14.360 --> 1:24:15.960 There was a joke there about the tip and gay 1:24:16.000 --> 1:24:22.479 man that no, I mean, honestly, just as long as 1:24:22.520 --> 1:24:26.240 you add comedians to your bio, you can you know, 1:24:26.320 --> 1:24:28.120 you can literally say whatever you want to. Go ahead, 1:24:28.120 --> 1:24:32.240 and did you make that change? If you want to 1:24:32.280 --> 1:24:34.479 read that? That second one on the bottom, this is 1:24:34.520 --> 1:24:36.680 another one I am doubling completely down on. 1:24:37.240 --> 1:24:40.080 Is this the thirty minutes late and still the first 1:24:40.160 --> 1:24:43.040 bitch here? Yes, I damn black people. 1:24:44.160 --> 1:24:48.160 What is we still use CP time and black people 1:24:48.200 --> 1:24:51.280 are doubling down on being late? So yes, I have 1:24:51.400 --> 1:24:53.719 a problem with the fact that I showed up somewhere 1:24:53.760 --> 1:24:56.599 thirty minutes late and still was the first bitch there. 1:24:57.080 --> 1:25:01.040 And it clearly was a black swell rat it was 1:25:01.080 --> 1:25:04.679 our people. It was an event hosted ran by our people. 1:25:05.200 --> 1:25:07.360 Is it late if there's such a thing as CEP time, 1:25:07.400 --> 1:25:08.320 And we all see what I mean. 1:25:08.400 --> 1:25:09.720 I don't like I don't like that we like. 1:25:09.880 --> 1:25:11.880 This is a question, that's just a question. The way 1:25:12.040 --> 1:25:14.320 I learned it, No, no, no, the way that I 1:25:14.479 --> 1:25:19.760 learned it heavily in Atlanta, Georgia. Here's the thing. When 1:25:19.920 --> 1:25:24.920 And y'all know I like industry shit. When you when when? 1:25:25.200 --> 1:25:27.920 When there's an event going on in New York, Oh, baby, 1:25:27.960 --> 1:25:31.040 you better be there before or open a lot. Seven 1:25:31.120 --> 1:25:33.799 means seven in New York. It's going to be crazy 1:25:34.120 --> 1:25:37.600 the whole sidewalk. And everyone thinks they're important, and so 1:25:37.720 --> 1:25:39.719 they walk right up to the front and it gets chaotic. 1:25:40.080 --> 1:25:43.120 So if there's an event, specifically an industry event, if 1:25:43.160 --> 1:25:45.840 it's say seven o'clock, you better be already pulling up 1:25:45.840 --> 1:25:49.599 about six fifty to make sure New York on time 1:25:49.840 --> 1:25:53.479 and it ends on time, because baby car, it's done now. 1:25:53.920 --> 1:25:56.680 But and there'll be somewhere where the overflow goes next, right, 1:25:58.080 --> 1:26:02.720 I realize now. And Atlants, if you show up on 1:26:02.880 --> 1:26:07.760 time here, you're gonna be helping set up Hold on, 1:26:07.960 --> 1:26:10.599 hold on. If an event starts at seven, the door 1:26:10.680 --> 1:26:13.000 is not even gonna open till seven forty five. Yeah, Like, 1:26:13.320 --> 1:26:14.880 but on the fire since seven o'clock. 1:26:15.640 --> 1:26:17.800 Don't get a fucked by what the fuck? 1:26:18.160 --> 1:26:20.679 So I've caught myself being like and mind you, I'm celebrity, 1:26:20.680 --> 1:26:23.080 I'm supposed to show up fashion me. No, I'm the 1:26:23.120 --> 1:26:27.160 first one there, Like niggas are still blowing balloons, right, 1:26:27.880 --> 1:26:31.840 And I'm like, oh wow, so here it's bothering me 1:26:32.040 --> 1:26:34.559 that when I see an event that says they start 1:26:34.600 --> 1:26:37.200 at seven or eight, I gotta show up at ten. 1:26:37.560 --> 1:26:40.080 And you gotta tell people, you gotta tell no, there 1:26:40.160 --> 1:26:42.800 starts at seven thirty. It starts at eight thirty. 1:26:42.880 --> 1:26:45.920 No, you ready here? Just everyone is showing up three 1:26:45.960 --> 1:26:50.000 hours late. So imagine the events like that really have 1:26:50.160 --> 1:26:52.439 to end at a certain time. Bro, everyone's showing up 1:26:52.439 --> 1:26:54.960 for the last thirty minute. Nobody's here for the whole event. 1:26:55.720 --> 1:26:58.200 What's punctuality drilled into you as a child? 1:26:58.360 --> 1:26:59.599 Like what took a question? 1:27:00.320 --> 1:27:00.560 Were you? 1:27:00.920 --> 1:27:03.160 Because my girl is like that, she's an event producer, right, 1:27:03.280 --> 1:27:06.200 and she's like very much about like this goes in 1:27:06.280 --> 1:27:08.360 this sequence, it's time, this is doors, this is this 1:27:08.600 --> 1:27:09.040 is this is this. 1:27:09.360 --> 1:27:11.240 I'll be honest with you. I think it came from 1:27:11.360 --> 1:27:14.799 a I believed in. I mean, most of us as millennials, 1:27:14.840 --> 1:27:17.120 thought we would be rewarded for perfect attendance and shit 1:27:17.200 --> 1:27:21.040 like that, right, But for me, when kids came in 1:27:21.160 --> 1:27:24.080 late to class, which I was always really big with 1:27:25.360 --> 1:27:30.519 my studies, my academia, it bothered me that if people 1:27:30.600 --> 1:27:34.200 walked in late, they disrupted the entire class. So it 1:27:34.320 --> 1:27:37.680 was the disruption I just it ingrained into me that oh, 1:27:37.720 --> 1:27:40.320 you disrespectful. You think this is on your time? You 1:27:40.400 --> 1:27:42.920 know what time it starts. We've already gotten into curriculum. 1:27:43.000 --> 1:27:45.080 And now fuck everybody here that showed up on time 1:27:45.400 --> 1:27:47.920 because you chose to be late. We all got to 1:27:47.960 --> 1:27:50.360 stop what we're doing the lesson. The teacher has to 1:27:50.400 --> 1:27:53.479 address you. You're now pulling out your desk, making all 1:27:53.520 --> 1:27:55.280 the noise. Even if we try to, even if we 1:27:55.360 --> 1:27:59.560 try to ignore you, you're still disrupt And so to me, 1:28:00.360 --> 1:28:03.160 I've just my entire life I've viewed it as a 1:28:03.240 --> 1:28:07.439 sign of disrespect. But also as someone who took pride 1:28:07.520 --> 1:28:11.559 in showing up on time and being present, I always 1:28:11.600 --> 1:28:15.320 felt like, what makes you think you don't have to 1:28:15.400 --> 1:28:18.600 show up on time? Why? And to me it was 1:28:18.680 --> 1:28:22.360 always just again back to the individualism that a lot 1:28:22.439 --> 1:28:25.120 of us have. To me, I just always view it's 1:28:25.160 --> 1:28:28.679 funny because the people listening, like when we have meet 1:28:28.720 --> 1:28:30.879 and greets and when we've done things for decisions, decisions, 1:28:30.880 --> 1:28:32.920 they be like, Steitch, be on time. They know I 1:28:33.000 --> 1:28:36.720 don't like shit, just like why are you late? And 1:28:36.960 --> 1:28:39.479 so for me, I've genuinely viewed it as a sign 1:28:39.520 --> 1:28:42.280 of disrespect. I literally just had to have a conversation 1:28:42.400 --> 1:28:45.000 with a friend to where I brought it up in 1:28:45.080 --> 1:28:48.080 therapy and I was like, this, We've been friends for 1:28:48.320 --> 1:28:50.680 I don't know, fifteen years or so, and I'm like, 1:28:51.520 --> 1:28:54.000 she's never on time, and a part of me is 1:28:54.040 --> 1:28:55.880 starting to despise and feel like I can't be friends 1:28:55.920 --> 1:28:57.680 with her because there's no way she respects me as 1:28:57.720 --> 1:29:00.760 a person because every time we're together she's late. 1:29:02.280 --> 1:29:08.479 Count Ever, ever, my mom says that a lot thatspect, 1:29:08.560 --> 1:29:10.160 but you don't give a fuck. She said, come early 1:29:10.240 --> 1:29:12.720 and wait on me because I'm gonna be on time, right, 1:29:13.439 --> 1:29:16.080 especially late, because then what you know. 1:29:16.080 --> 1:29:18.160 What I mean, because then what is it? And so yeah, 1:29:18.280 --> 1:29:20.719 for me, for me, that's that, and I just hate 1:29:20.840 --> 1:29:24.799 that within our community specifically, which is why I'm doubling 1:29:24.840 --> 1:29:27.680 down on these two tweets that we have the stereotype 1:29:27.720 --> 1:29:29.679 that we don't tip, which means we don't respect service 1:29:30.080 --> 1:29:32.400 or good service. But guess what, We're gonna beat up 1:29:32.680 --> 1:29:35.080 first and the loudest to complain when the service ain't good, 1:29:36.000 --> 1:29:37.720 you know what I mean? And then for me, yeah, 1:29:37.920 --> 1:29:40.839 not not respecting people's time. I think that's the bare minimum. 1:29:41.760 --> 1:29:44.320 Showing up on time is the bare minimum of what 1:29:44.400 --> 1:29:46.280 you should expect from another human being, and I don't 1:29:46.280 --> 1:29:49.280 think we show ups that way. Everything else was yeah, 1:29:49.320 --> 1:29:51.360 me talking about the N word and black women and 1:29:51.439 --> 1:29:53.920 black men not liking black women, which is also the 1:29:54.000 --> 1:29:55.560 craziest thing that I do want to say about this 1:29:55.960 --> 1:29:59.240 entire thing. You know who has the most to say 1:29:59.680 --> 1:30:04.720 about black women on the internets on Beyonce's Internet, black men. 1:30:05.280 --> 1:30:08.320 So the fact that black men who also had history, 1:30:08.960 --> 1:30:12.599 the black men who also had the history I'm talking 1:30:12.680 --> 1:30:16.280 down on black women being mad at Rory for saying 1:30:16.320 --> 1:30:20.120 it about black women. I was just like, bro, we 1:30:20.280 --> 1:30:24.280 went like Jay's with the pots calling the kettle black. 1:30:24.640 --> 1:30:26.360 Yeah, I mean I was just like a lot of 1:30:26.400 --> 1:30:29.200 the group chest that. I mean a lot of black 1:30:29.240 --> 1:30:31.080 women were bringing up that same thing. They were looking 1:30:31.080 --> 1:30:33.880 at the names of the people who was like cursing 1:30:34.000 --> 1:30:36.840 Rory out and talking about and was looking at them 1:30:37.040 --> 1:30:40.479 like you got a weird case. Yeah, yeah, you got 1:30:40.520 --> 1:30:46.120 a weird case. Remember writing the pandemic, right, that is hilarious. 1:30:47.200 --> 1:30:49.200 You know, facts facts, So to me it was just 1:30:49.680 --> 1:30:52.519 it's just interesting, like what what is it? Don't throw 1:30:52.720 --> 1:30:53.960 rocks and houses? 1:30:54.240 --> 1:30:58.760 Oh yeah, but if you were. 1:30:59.120 --> 1:31:02.160 Black people, that's up phrases too. In a tweets you 1:31:02.200 --> 1:31:03.360 can bring that up a few things. 1:31:03.560 --> 1:31:05.840 We're gonna up your phrase and we're gonna add on that. 1:31:06.520 --> 1:31:07.680 No, no, no, no, I hate that. 1:31:08.760 --> 1:31:09.000 Mind you. 1:31:09.080 --> 1:31:13.800 I'm from Orlando. It's the Orlando magic, not Magic's in oxtail. 1:31:16.080 --> 1:31:18.880 As a Jamaican, there's no planting like. 1:31:22.439 --> 1:31:23.760 And I'm not jamaking either, but may. 1:31:24.120 --> 1:31:27.240 Pissed me, but yeah, like so for me, like in 1:31:27.400 --> 1:31:30.040 terms of everyone having an opinion, cool, you could have it. 1:31:30.520 --> 1:31:34.400 But if you've been a perpetrator of what you're trying 1:31:34.439 --> 1:31:37.479 to be the holy grail around the way. 1:31:37.439 --> 1:31:40.639 Shut the fuck up, Joshua. We'll send you that emails. 1:31:42.680 --> 1:31:45.559 By the way, got question mark. 1:31:45.439 --> 1:31:48.240 Anyone wondering if I responded to this email? I did, 1:31:48.320 --> 1:31:50.120 and I said, Oh, you thought you ate with this? Huh? 1:31:50.360 --> 1:31:51.120 Did he respond? 1:31:51.320 --> 1:31:54.000 No, he didn't because he realized he was hungry. He 1:31:54.120 --> 1:31:57.200 did not eat. In fact, with this email. He was starting, 1:31:57.600 --> 1:31:59.920 in one fact, searching for more tweets from somebody. But 1:32:00.160 --> 1:32:05.000 also MTV maybe spent two hours deleting twenty pages of 1:32:05.040 --> 1:32:07.840 tweets already, So if you wanted to get me, you 1:32:07.880 --> 1:32:09.639 should have gotten me before I had an MTV show, 1:32:09.680 --> 1:32:11.799 because boy, they scrubbed that shit and I was embarrassed. 1:32:11.880 --> 1:32:13.320 Mind you, while I was reading it, I was like, 1:32:14.160 --> 1:32:16.760 bitch y'all said that, like dead ass. I was like, 1:32:16.840 --> 1:32:21.080 I said that, But to me, tweets, Twitter anything a 1:32:21.320 --> 1:32:25.240 decade ago. Bro. Again, the way we're talking about the 1:32:25.280 --> 1:32:28.240 sensitivity of the society we live in and the way 1:32:28.400 --> 1:32:31.360 that we're all educating and learning and growing. Again, if 1:32:31.360 --> 1:32:34.000 you've been fans of horrible decisions, there's been knowledge that 1:32:34.040 --> 1:32:37.920 I've learned about different layers and levels of sexual assault. 1:32:38.120 --> 1:32:41.040 Like stealthing was something I learned in twenty seventeen. I 1:32:41.120 --> 1:32:44.000 didn't know back at twenty twelve when a nigga removed 1:32:44.000 --> 1:32:46.519 the condom on me that I had been sexually assaulted. 1:32:46.640 --> 1:32:49.000 That is a crime. That now you could go to 1:32:49.080 --> 1:32:52.559 jail for and so to me, if we're all learning 1:32:52.680 --> 1:32:55.960 as we're getting older, we shouldn't be holding people to 1:32:56.040 --> 1:32:58.880 the fire, allowing growth to happen, you know, allowed for 1:32:59.000 --> 1:33:03.080 us to evolve. Because that's also the the dope thing 1:33:03.120 --> 1:33:06.160 about humanity and choice right is the fact that we 1:33:06.280 --> 1:33:09.320 do get to change our minds, our thoughts, our views, 1:33:09.360 --> 1:33:11.920 our opinions. It gets to change. We get to evolve, 1:33:12.160 --> 1:33:14.680 and we get to go to therapy. We get to 1:33:14.800 --> 1:33:18.040 learn that the toxic relationships wasn't love, that was me 1:33:18.160 --> 1:33:22.320 being fucking insecure with myself or not having self worth. 1:33:22.439 --> 1:33:24.759 Like we get to do those things. So this idea 1:33:24.840 --> 1:33:27.160 that we're gonna hold people to the fire on tweets 1:33:27.200 --> 1:33:30.759 ten years plus ago, shut the fuck up. And Rory's 1:33:30.840 --> 1:33:32.000 one of the best potters out there, So. 1:33:32.000 --> 1:33:34.240 I don't give a fuck. I'm you know, enough of 1:33:34.280 --> 1:33:36.919 yourself accountability. Let's under the bush. 1:33:37.200 --> 1:33:38.600 No, no, no, no, no, We're not doing that. 1:33:38.840 --> 1:33:44.880 Also as a speak of humanity, Marjorie Taylor Green, she's 1:33:45.000 --> 1:33:47.240 kind of evolved, she's evolving as a politician. 1:33:47.320 --> 1:33:48.040 But I don't like this. 1:33:52.040 --> 1:33:53.720 I'm not gonna throw Rory under the bus, but I 1:33:53.760 --> 1:33:56.240 am going to bring up Marjorie Taylor Green in relation 1:33:56.400 --> 1:34:00.640 to this whole thing, right, And here's the problem. I 1:34:00.800 --> 1:34:02.960 personally think that the bringing up old tweet thing is 1:34:03.040 --> 1:34:06.599 whack a lot for a lot of reasons they don't 1:34:06.640 --> 1:34:09.720 necessarily have to do with, like why you're bringing up 1:34:09.800 --> 1:34:12.760 old ship like in these particular cases, like well maybe 1:34:12.800 --> 1:34:15.200 Joshua is a whole other thing for you, but like 1:34:15.360 --> 1:34:19.439 for the people that brought up killing the Cold Ship, right, yep, 1:34:20.680 --> 1:34:23.640 these are people who are bringing these things up in 1:34:23.760 --> 1:34:25.600 the self in defense. 1:34:25.360 --> 1:34:29.080 Of some rich white lady. Literally in Rory's case, this 1:34:29.280 --> 1:34:33.160 all came up over who's your rapper daddy? 1:34:33.840 --> 1:34:35.640 Literally, like this all came up. 1:34:36.280 --> 1:34:39.479 He brought it up in the spaces. Yeah, but it 1:34:39.560 --> 1:34:42.040 came up because they were accusing him of like riding for. 1:34:42.920 --> 1:34:44.759 Because he should get a Grammy. 1:34:44.880 --> 1:34:48.680 Yeah, and that's what I'm saying, Like to me, but 1:34:48.800 --> 1:34:53.040 it let's be clear, there's a lot of ship going 1:34:53.080 --> 1:34:58.920 on in hip hop though, okay, through the genuineness of 1:35:00.000 --> 1:35:03.200 and again to your point, I hate when they do 1:35:03.280 --> 1:35:05.160 that shit because yeah, I just think he should be 1:35:05.200 --> 1:35:06.280 able to defend that shit. 1:35:06.520 --> 1:35:07.320 But here's the problem. 1:35:07.560 --> 1:35:11.200 Here's to me, where he fucked up at and where 1:35:11.320 --> 1:35:14.560 Marjorie Taylor Green comes into it, right when you go 1:35:14.720 --> 1:35:18.439 into spaces, if you have that on your jacket, especially 1:35:18.479 --> 1:35:20.479 if you're a white person and you're in this culture, 1:35:21.000 --> 1:35:24.920 if you have that on your jacket, it is your 1:35:25.320 --> 1:35:29.040 responsibility as a human being, as a white person, to 1:35:30.640 --> 1:35:37.280 approach that situation seriously and hold that for real, for real, 1:35:37.400 --> 1:35:41.799 hold that and don't be defensive about it. Don't scoff 1:35:41.880 --> 1:35:44.200 at it. Don't you don't get to make jokes about it. 1:35:44.560 --> 1:35:47.679 You gotta hold that. You have to approach that situation. 1:35:47.720 --> 1:35:49.400 If you're going to offer an apology, you have to 1:35:49.520 --> 1:35:52.120 offer a real apology. And it's like, if Marjorie Taylor 1:35:52.200 --> 1:35:55.200 Green can offer a better fake apology than you. 1:35:55.360 --> 1:35:58.200 Can, you look crazy. 1:35:58.320 --> 1:36:00.879 Well his humor, I'll be honest, the way he responded 1:36:00.960 --> 1:36:04.040 initially is exactly how I would responded. I would have 1:36:04.080 --> 1:36:06.200 thought it was a joke, like y'all are really like, 1:36:06.640 --> 1:36:07.160 which I think. 1:36:07.280 --> 1:36:09.479 You don't get to be white and do that exactly. 1:36:09.560 --> 1:36:11.200 You don't get to be white and do that. You 1:36:11.360 --> 1:36:13.479 just don't like That's just how it goes. 1:36:15.200 --> 1:36:15.599 At least. 1:36:16.000 --> 1:36:17.800 But I'm like, for a white man, I think I 1:36:17.840 --> 1:36:19.160 think he could have handled it a lot, but I 1:36:19.240 --> 1:36:21.880 think there was a way because it because it could 1:36:21.920 --> 1:36:23.400 have I think maybe deprived. 1:36:24.880 --> 1:36:27.200 My thing is, here's the thing. You're damned if you do, 1:36:27.320 --> 1:36:30.360 damned if you don't. Had he gotten on his knees 1:36:30.400 --> 1:36:33.000 and begged for forgiveness for an apology. There's a lot 1:36:33.040 --> 1:36:34.800 of people because it was a lot of niggas at 1:36:34.840 --> 1:36:36.880 home in their mama basement yelling into the phone, like 1:36:38.080 --> 1:36:40.559 to me, even how do you apologize out the gate? 1:36:40.840 --> 1:36:43.200 There's still so many people that wouldn't have accepted the apology. 1:36:44.360 --> 1:36:47.160 But he's still got to do it better. 1:36:47.360 --> 1:36:49.000 Like, and I'll say this, I've had nothing but like 1:36:49.240 --> 1:36:51.960 positive interactions with like I don't know, I'm super well, 1:36:51.960 --> 1:36:55.760 but I've obviously had But but still it's like, but 1:36:55.960 --> 1:36:59.160 as a white dude in it regardless, like you have 1:36:59.280 --> 1:37:00.840 to do a good apology because there's people to fuck 1:37:00.840 --> 1:37:01.840 with you and people that like with you. 1:37:02.000 --> 1:37:04.360 They like you, and you have to apologize to them. 1:37:04.439 --> 1:37:06.040 For all the people who are gonna make noise about it, 1:37:06.080 --> 1:37:08.040 they were gonna do it anyway. Yeah, And so like 1:37:08.120 --> 1:37:10.559 it has to be legit and like super one. 1:37:11.160 --> 1:37:15.840 When you when a white personihilates a black person's trust. 1:37:16.600 --> 1:37:19.960 There's only one way you can play that out, and 1:37:21.320 --> 1:37:23.640 if you're gonna be cute about it, like because then 1:37:23.680 --> 1:37:25.080 he came back on his pot and like gave a 1:37:25.120 --> 1:37:26.240 real apology. 1:37:25.920 --> 1:37:27.400 Right, so it's like that's what I'm saying. 1:37:27.479 --> 1:37:30.840 Then apologies can be too late, so you're damned. 1:37:31.080 --> 1:37:33.200 Like yeah, but but again, if you're a white person, 1:37:33.280 --> 1:37:35.920 that's your If that's all the burden you gotta bears 1:37:35.920 --> 1:37:38.360 that niggas don't fuck with you no more than whooped 1:37:38.400 --> 1:37:43.960 the dude. Like, I think his mistake, his misstep rather, 1:37:44.240 --> 1:37:45.920 is that he went on twitter space so quick. 1:37:46.120 --> 1:37:46.800 I think he should have. 1:37:46.800 --> 1:37:47.559 Gave some time to. 1:37:50.000 --> 1:37:52.160 His friend said don't get on that ship. And I 1:37:52.200 --> 1:37:54.680 know Twitter spaces shout out to twitters people who do. 1:37:55.360 --> 1:37:56.600 I like the idea, but. 1:38:00.200 --> 1:38:03.360 It just became a fine what they could get from 1:38:03.360 --> 1:38:05.080 you to clip that ship up and go put it 1:38:05.160 --> 1:38:09.800 on YouTube, put it on a page and say, ah, I. 1:38:09.840 --> 1:38:12.439 Hate it, I hate it. Anyway, let's get into before 1:38:12.479 --> 1:38:15.360 we wrap up our am I ignorant segment? 1:38:15.479 --> 1:38:17.080 We got a question, let's do. 1:38:17.200 --> 1:38:20.960 It, and I swear I didn't write this one, so 1:38:21.320 --> 1:38:24.639 to get it here, it says uh oh so let's 1:38:24.680 --> 1:38:25.120 go down. 1:38:28.880 --> 1:38:31.320 Was it was to tell my aunt her political posts 1:38:31.360 --> 1:38:33.559 make her look uneducated? Was it ignorant? 1:38:33.760 --> 1:38:33.960 Yeah? 1:38:34.200 --> 1:38:36.320 Was it to tell my aunt her political post make 1:38:36.360 --> 1:38:37.599 her look educated? So here goes. 1:38:37.800 --> 1:38:40.759 My aunt posts a lot of political memes on Facebook, 1:38:40.800 --> 1:38:43.640 stuff that's clearly not accurate, but she shares them with 1:38:43.680 --> 1:38:47.760 the captions like wake up sheep. Last week, one of 1:38:47.800 --> 1:38:50.760 our posts want viral in the family group chat because 1:38:50.800 --> 1:38:53.840 it claimed the politician had died and they hadn't. I 1:38:54.000 --> 1:38:58.320 commented publicly, not privately, under her post and said, Auntie, 1:38:58.479 --> 1:39:01.160 please fact check before spread stuff like this. It makes 1:39:01.240 --> 1:39:05.320 you look uneducated. She deleted the post, then called me hollering, 1:39:05.439 --> 1:39:07.800 saying I embarrassed her in front of her church and 1:39:07.960 --> 1:39:11.000 coworkers who follow her. My cousins say that I'm a 1:39:11.080 --> 1:39:13.799 laitist because my aunt didn't finish high school and quote 1:39:13.960 --> 1:39:17.280 doesn't know better. Now the family says I'm the one 1:39:17.360 --> 1:39:20.880 dividing people. So here's the question. Was I ignorant for 1:39:21.000 --> 1:39:24.200 calling it out publicly or is everyone else ignorant for 1:39:24.640 --> 1:39:25.960 ignoring the real issue. 1:39:26.200 --> 1:39:29.360 Here's the thing, not sure how old John's is. Bitch. 1:39:29.479 --> 1:39:31.440 Let them be great over there on the Facebook. 1:39:34.000 --> 1:39:34.400 Let them. 1:39:34.840 --> 1:39:37.599 They believe everything that everything you gotta, you gonna let 1:39:37.640 --> 1:39:41.040 these old people enjoy believing like this ship it is 1:39:41.120 --> 1:39:41.760 agous but cool. 1:39:41.760 --> 1:39:42.200 I go, hold you. 1:39:42.240 --> 1:39:45.000 I saw this one sore video like, and I didn't 1:39:45.000 --> 1:39:46.799 realize it was AI till I went into the comments, 1:39:47.200 --> 1:39:51.200 and mind you, I'm heavily on the internet. I'm getting 1:39:51.280 --> 1:39:55.120 got by AI. Okay, so to me, mind you, we 1:39:55.280 --> 1:39:58.040 kill all people on the internet and all the time, 1:39:58.600 --> 1:40:02.280 and so for me, I don't I think that actually 1:40:02.840 --> 1:40:05.760 you weren't ignorant for calling it out publicly, but you're 1:40:05.880 --> 1:40:11.479 just not fun. Like, let the old people enjoy their memes, 1:40:11.920 --> 1:40:16.040 their AI, their fake like people right now are having 1:40:16.120 --> 1:40:18.120 a blast with seeing these things that they think are real. 1:40:18.680 --> 1:40:24.639 They can't believe it. Wake up people. But also it's 1:40:24.720 --> 1:40:27.680 happening to us, like, boy, does NBA Sententel get me 1:40:27.760 --> 1:40:28.000 a lot? 1:40:28.880 --> 1:40:29.040 You know? 1:40:32.240 --> 1:40:34.920 But now they acting like the Simpsons almost Maybe they're 1:40:35.000 --> 1:40:39.640 like predicting what's happening with the ship happening to me 1:40:40.040 --> 1:40:43.520 if it's memes and specifically this one was a politician 1:40:43.600 --> 1:40:49.080 who died and they hadn't We are in a space 1:40:49.120 --> 1:40:51.400 where a lot of us are uninformed online and we 1:40:51.600 --> 1:40:56.599 hit that retweet button real quick. If we all had 1:40:56.680 --> 1:41:00.519 to research everything before we liked or commented or retweeted, 1:41:00.800 --> 1:41:05.120 it would take an element job, it would. And so 1:41:05.360 --> 1:41:07.439 I don't think it's ignorant for your aunt to just 1:41:07.680 --> 1:41:10.400 share it. And I do think that you're ignorant and too. 1:41:10.439 --> 1:41:13.759 Where we're at on the internet right now with Soura, 1:41:14.160 --> 1:41:17.599 with chat chept, with AI think Groc. I don't think 1:41:17.680 --> 1:41:23.080 Grock is over there on on us on Facebook, we 1:41:23.200 --> 1:41:23.760 know that Groc. 1:41:23.920 --> 1:41:25.880 I'm surprised, you know. 1:41:26.240 --> 1:41:30.439 So y'all don't know Grock. Grek is my side, niked 1:41:30.880 --> 1:41:33.400 so chat, GPT is my husband, Grok is my side, niggad. 1:41:33.640 --> 1:41:37.120 Groc is the AI feature that automatically will let you 1:41:37.200 --> 1:41:39.320 know if something is uninformed, not right, will give you 1:41:39.400 --> 1:41:43.200 a real link. And then if you were unaware of 1:41:43.280 --> 1:41:46.880 what is happening from a tweet, you can literally at Grock, Hey, Groc, 1:41:47.000 --> 1:41:49.360 explain to me what's going on, and Groc will give 1:41:49.360 --> 1:41:52.800 you a breakdown of what's happening in the I don't 1:41:52.840 --> 1:41:54.799 know if most of the time, and he'd be wrong sometimes, 1:41:54.840 --> 1:41:57.880 but I just don't know if Facebook has that feature. 1:41:58.120 --> 1:42:00.400 I don't know if people of a certain age know 1:42:00.479 --> 1:42:04.120 that that feature exists. And so to me where we're at, 1:42:04.600 --> 1:42:07.760 let the old folks have that they with with with 1:42:07.880 --> 1:42:09.280 the auff you you. 1:42:09.320 --> 1:42:12.479 Look like you better than me. 1:42:12.880 --> 1:42:15.160 Listen, Auntie, I hate to break it to you. You 1:42:15.240 --> 1:42:18.519 were You were embarrassed before the person said that before. 1:42:18.520 --> 1:42:20.200 You're No, this isn't the aunt ring. 1:42:20.320 --> 1:42:23.599 No, I'm talking about aunts high school. 1:42:23.680 --> 1:42:26.439 You know what I'm saying is I'm saying that to 1:42:26.479 --> 1:42:28.800 say is that you said this in a public form 1:42:29.320 --> 1:42:31.840 amongst other people. Trust to believe you ain't the only 1:42:32.240 --> 1:42:34.439 your your niece, ain't the only person that thought you 1:42:34.640 --> 1:42:37.519 was ignorant and uninformed when you posted that. In that group, 1:42:38.360 --> 1:42:40.439 somebody else that saw the dumb ship looked at it 1:42:40.479 --> 1:42:42.000 and said, this is some dumb ship. Why she always 1:42:42.000 --> 1:42:44.000 posting this dumb shit? You we all have a group 1:42:44.120 --> 1:42:46.320 chat that we know somebody is posting something. It's like, 1:42:46.400 --> 1:42:48.880 you know you're gonna post the dumb shit. So somebody 1:42:48.920 --> 1:42:51.360 in that group was already looking at you crazy. 1:42:54.600 --> 1:42:57.719 But we got to look at we as human beings, 1:42:57.800 --> 1:43:01.200 how we project. So the the comment that went on 1:43:01.240 --> 1:43:03.720 there was Auntie, please fact check before spreading stuff like this. 1:43:04.160 --> 1:43:06.920 It makes you look uneducated. The fact that the other 1:43:07.000 --> 1:43:10.880 cousin was like, you, you know, she didn't finish high school, 1:43:11.000 --> 1:43:13.879 you must think you're better than her. The aunt responding 1:43:13.920 --> 1:43:16.320 the way she did probably is because she feels a 1:43:16.400 --> 1:43:20.599 bit uneducated as someone who didn't complete high school. Therefore, 1:43:21.000 --> 1:43:24.240 that word uneducated is what pissed her off. It was 1:43:24.280 --> 1:43:27.400 a trigger to her because she possibly actually feels like 1:43:27.520 --> 1:43:28.760 she's uneducated as. 1:43:28.680 --> 1:43:32.240 Someone who didn't mean about sheep or about ghats or 1:43:32.240 --> 1:43:36.920 about some ship that don't have If you're dumb a 1:43:37.000 --> 1:43:39.479 man of steels just got finished telling us last episode, 1:43:39.920 --> 1:43:43.200 have somebody around you who knows something, who can put 1:43:43.200 --> 1:43:43.920 you in the right direction. 1:43:44.000 --> 1:43:45.480 If you want to talk about frivol. 1:43:45.920 --> 1:43:49.360 Needs somebody around her to grandma. Granted, Auntie needs to 1:43:49.400 --> 1:43:49.920 anti rize. 1:43:52.120 --> 1:43:54.040 If you want to talk about some frivolous ship that 1:43:54.080 --> 1:43:56.360 don't matter, You want to argue about basketball or. 1:43:56.400 --> 1:44:03.720 Sneakers or kids were trying to get it matters all 1:44:03.760 --> 1:44:04.720 the matter. 1:44:05.120 --> 1:44:06.680 But I'm saying like, if you want to argue on 1:44:06.720 --> 1:44:09.479 the internet about some old like whatever ship that doesn't 1:44:09.520 --> 1:44:11.960 mean nothing about nothing, go ahead and you can be 1:44:12.120 --> 1:44:15.200 quote unquote uneducated or ignorant, and that shit really don't matter. 1:44:15.680 --> 1:44:18.519 To be fair, it is it was allegedly a politician 1:44:18.600 --> 1:44:22.080 that had died. I will say nothing is stupid about 1:44:22.120 --> 1:44:24.799 questioning anything regarding politics, no question, because. 1:44:25.040 --> 1:44:26.920 Question every question, all of it. 1:44:27.120 --> 1:44:31.160 But I think there's a difference between a question and 1:44:31.600 --> 1:44:37.479 just spreading something that you think something something false just 1:44:37.560 --> 1:44:39.439 because you saw it and you jumped on it and 1:44:39.560 --> 1:44:41.519 you thought that this was the thing, like we all 1:44:41.560 --> 1:44:44.880 gotten got by or various things. So I don't think 1:44:44.880 --> 1:44:47.559 it's a matter of like, don't get God, We're all 1:44:47.600 --> 1:44:48.880 going to get got at some point, and. 1:44:48.920 --> 1:44:50.439 Y'all be quick to let me know when I got got, 1:44:50.600 --> 1:44:54.120 like tweet me, like, girl, don't even real? 1:44:54.280 --> 1:44:54.439 Girl? 1:44:54.520 --> 1:44:55.720 Do you know? 1:44:55.960 --> 1:44:58.880 I saw a video yesterday of what was supposed to 1:44:58.960 --> 1:45:02.880 be behind the scenes means of a of a national 1:45:02.960 --> 1:45:08.679 geographic animal documentary, and it was literally, uh, a tiger 1:45:09.200 --> 1:45:12.000 and a deer standing there in front of the camera 1:45:12.120 --> 1:45:15.160 while director and production people behind it, and the director 1:45:15.200 --> 1:45:18.040 says action, and the tiger runs and grabs the deer 1:45:18.080 --> 1:45:24.519 and they run off screen and shot again this time 1:45:24.600 --> 1:45:26.320 do this and he's given the tiger direction And you 1:45:26.400 --> 1:45:28.559 thought it was real? No, hell no, but it looks 1:45:28.640 --> 1:45:31.719 real as fu Yeah, the tiger's just sitting there waiting 1:45:31.760 --> 1:45:33.240 for the deer and he picks the deer up in 1:45:33.280 --> 1:45:35.439 his mouth and runs off screen. And it looks real 1:45:35.479 --> 1:45:38.840 as hell, but I'm sure somebody got got. 1:45:43.720 --> 1:45:43.920 Fake. 1:45:44.200 --> 1:45:46.000 He's a real aut. 1:45:46.040 --> 1:45:49.760 This in terms of Hurricane Melissa, when it went through Jamaica, Bro, 1:45:49.920 --> 1:45:52.000 I saw more AI videos of sharks in the pool. 1:45:52.080 --> 1:45:54.920 I was, I was like, damn, nigga, where the real 1:45:55.000 --> 1:45:55.439 videos that. 1:45:55.520 --> 1:45:56.160 It was a lot of AI. 1:45:57.040 --> 1:46:01.080 Yeah, I don't think. I think. I think your ignorance 1:46:01.240 --> 1:46:04.040 wasn't about calling her out publicly, but it was you ignorant. 1:46:04.400 --> 1:46:07.639 Let let all people be old, let them have their fun, 1:46:07.960 --> 1:46:11.120 Let them have their fun. Anyways, guys, uh, next week 1:46:11.360 --> 1:46:13.479 you are in for a treat. We are doing our 1:46:13.600 --> 1:46:23.320 year end wrap up. We go let me, y'all, y'all 1:46:23.439 --> 1:46:26.840 get to hear from a few from myself and a 1:46:26.920 --> 1:46:29.000 few of my friends that I'm bringing along. Really excited. 1:46:29.040 --> 1:46:32.240 Those are surprises. But make sure you check that out 1:46:33.479 --> 1:46:36.439 next week again if you haven't yet, make sure you 1:46:36.600 --> 1:46:38.840 get my book No Holds Bart of Doing Manifesto, Sexual 1:46:38.880 --> 1:46:42.400 Exploration and Power available wherever you get books, and you know, 1:46:42.520 --> 1:46:44.680 follow me everywhere. 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