WEBVTT - Mel Robbins interview and more

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<v Speaker 1>Morning. The morning I'm talking right, You're about to experience

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<v Speaker 1>a morning showing like any overst what you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now. That's the hump culture. Breakfast Club is

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<v Speaker 1>my morning sick. I need it and I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Something you like, You're really not popping until you do

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast Club and waiting come to y'all show man,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you gotta be a big time celebrity. Be

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<v Speaker 1>up in here. You gotta be. You gotta be big time.

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<v Speaker 1>And Charlottagne the guy the breakfast club bitches. Good morning USA.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey damn okay, all right, well guess what day it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what day it is? Hump Day. That's right, Today

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<v Speaker 1>is Wednesday's hump Day. Good morning to you. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling easy? I feel good. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>little package in the mail. I'm trying to think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a briefcase, trying to see what's in it. I already

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<v Speaker 1>know because look, I had ordered these chocolates right from

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<v Speaker 1>Philip Ashley. It's a black owned chocolate company, and so

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<v Speaker 1>the owner, Philip Ashley, actually asked me what my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>flavors of things are, like my favorite foods, and he

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<v Speaker 1>made me some chocolates based off of that. Oh nice,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna see. I don't know what they are

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<v Speaker 1>yet they look beautiful. They look at this amazing, They're

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<v Speaker 1>so pretty. You can try it. And he sent me

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<v Speaker 1>some uh Sirock and Calwer to go with it. Okay, cool, well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. And I got some Hotti sauce. This is

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<v Speaker 1>for you Nick. He does all of our camera stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>He loves hot sauces. So I got some Popeyes Megda

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<v Speaker 1>Stallion Hotti sauce. But I finally got to finish Squid

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<v Speaker 1>Game last night. Okay, I finished Squid Game this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like it? Um? It was cool. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>the end should have been a little different, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like them to need it. That's the only that's

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<v Speaker 1>my only great. I didn't like the ending too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like the I didn't like the ending because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, you know what I'm mine, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to tell the whole thing. Yeah. Now I figured

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<v Speaker 1>it out. I figured it out on like the third episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured it out. What did you figure out? What

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<v Speaker 1>was it to figure out? I don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, but you know who was in charge and

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<v Speaker 1>all that. I figured out the third episode, you figured

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<v Speaker 1>out who was in charge? Who was in charge of?

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<v Speaker 1>Then I figured that part out. You figured that out, Nick,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured out who was in Jarde. Who's in Jearge.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll tell us off the air. No, no, well, now

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<v Speaker 1>you can watch You're not gonna watch you. Season three

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<v Speaker 1>scret Game was really good. If you get a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely check it out. I really really enjoyed it, and

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<v Speaker 1>I did up to watch Queens last night the first episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you watch that? How was that? Yeah? It was good.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed it. And you know, my best friend is

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<v Speaker 1>an artist named Santi Gold. They played one of her

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<v Speaker 1>songs during the show. I would say, that sound like

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<v Speaker 1>a sane song. So I didn't get to see Queens.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on I had to do Stephen colbet show

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<v Speaker 1>last night, dropping the Clues BOMX from my top killund

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<v Speaker 1>of Bredren Stephen Colbet. So I was on there last

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<v Speaker 1>night talking all things uh to Gods on This Truth,

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<v Speaker 1>which is my late night talk show that comes on

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<v Speaker 1>Friday nights at ten pm on Comedy Central, executive produced

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<v Speaker 1>by Stephen Corbett by the Way Right and Aaron McGruder.

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<v Speaker 1>And last night, NBA season was back to I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>get to see. No, I didn't see the nets nets

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<v Speaker 1>lost for those in Lakers lost last night. Her day

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<v Speaker 1>was getting heard the next gut washed last night. I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't say it was a wash. I just saw saw

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three points. That's pretty much a wash. Twenty three

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<v Speaker 1>points if you lose by twenty three points, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a wash. Actually, you watch basketball, clearly you actually used

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<v Speaker 1>to play basketball. Point Guess what if y'all lost by

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three, your coach would be very disappointed. They lost

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<v Speaker 1>twenty three, and then girls games didn't even really score.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all score twenty three. Sometimes high school goodness gracious, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it'd be like forty that's all the funniest tweets

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<v Speaker 1>somebody sent me last night. Somebody takes it to my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like the netshout here, the netshout here getting washed,

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<v Speaker 1>and Kyrie Irvan's at home listening to the most death.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we got a special guest joining us today, right, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Smel Robins. Smel Robbins is a you know, world renowned author,

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<v Speaker 1>international best selling offer. You might have read her book

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<v Speaker 1>The Five Second Rules. She's got a new book out

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<v Speaker 1>now called the high five at it, and she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk to us about taking control of your life with

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<v Speaker 1>one simple habit. Okay, m all right, we'll get into

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<v Speaker 1>all that when we come back. It's the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Hey morning, everybody is dj envy exactly and

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<v Speaker 1>you get it getting in the morning. Hey, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a chocolate mustache? And wipe that off? A chocolate mustache

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<v Speaker 1>with y'all. Let's get some foa that sounds like some

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<v Speaker 1>remember them old movies back in the day, like let

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<v Speaker 1>me blowing your eye? Remember those movies on them twa movies?

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<v Speaker 1>What movies are you I remember? Let me blow your eye?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you got a chocolate mustache? Wipe it off? What

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<v Speaker 1>is that's the cold? Let's get to Brookpaige. Dudes, man,

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<v Speaker 1>not a Warriors beat the Lake is one twenty one

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<v Speaker 1>one fourteen. The Milwaukee Bucks beat the Nets one twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seven to one oh four and they got their championship

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<v Speaker 1>rings two before the game. The Bucks did Milwaukee do? Is?

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<v Speaker 1>I love the city of Milwaukee? Scooth to Milwaukee man,

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<v Speaker 1>Milwaukee holds a special place in my heart. One because

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<v Speaker 1>you know V one hundred point seven with the first

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<v Speaker 1>station to take a chance on Brekas Club and syndicate

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<v Speaker 1>us and too. I just love the city. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the city to the food's amazing. Shout to

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<v Speaker 1>the Caribbean restaurant. There's a Caribbean restaurant and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>slash like a juice liquor spot called Concoctions. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>But shout to Milwaukee. All right, Now, what else you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Restless anal syndrome. Experts are saying that COVID

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen infections may be causing a restless anal syndrome that

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<v Speaker 1>likestl bitch face. Yea, oh so now you want COVID

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<v Speaker 1>restless anal something? All right? Well, a new case report

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<v Speaker 1>in Japan has established a link between what people are

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<v Speaker 1>saying is a gastro intestinal pain that's chronic, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>constant urge to defecate. So they are trying to do

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<v Speaker 1>some more research to determine that link between restless anal

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<v Speaker 1>syndrome and COVID nineteen. But they're saying, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>real symptom that's been happening, that's keep even after you go,

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<v Speaker 1>you still feel like you have to go, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a deep anal discomfort. Isn't it a deep anal discomfort. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they said that it was the urge to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom, was worse at night, and then when he

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<v Speaker 1>was resting throughout most of the day. Only when he

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<v Speaker 1>was moving or breaking a sweat did he feel temporary

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<v Speaker 1>relief before the sensation rushed back later, according to people.

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<v Speaker 1>So they did conduct colinoscopies and neurological tests for reflexes

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<v Speaker 1>and his anus, but they could not explain why these

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<v Speaker 1>symptoms arose weeks after his infection and then they did

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<v Speaker 1>find hemorrhoids. But they are saying that it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like restless leg syndrome. Fall asleep now you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how your leg just is always like moving.

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<v Speaker 1>That was called anxiety. But they are going to be

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<v Speaker 1>doing some more evidence, but just keeps like imagine you

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<v Speaker 1>go to the bathroom and you defecate and then you

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<v Speaker 1>always still feel like you have to say what you mean? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna blame cold with for everything up well, they

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<v Speaker 1>say this is another symptom. Shout out to a destiny

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<v Speaker 1>Forever EJC. She actually sent me this story on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>like make sure you report on this because Charlotmagne will

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<v Speaker 1>love it. She's right. I like the title, the titles

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<v Speaker 1>five syndrome. Well, the bottom line is is what what's

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom line? All right? And Facebook is planning to

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<v Speaker 1>rebrand the company. They're gonna get a new name and

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna announce that next week. They're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on not just being a social media company, but

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<v Speaker 1>their ambitions have expanded, and they're saying right now they

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<v Speaker 1>are trying to make sure they build up more public trust.

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<v Speaker 1>And also it's just that's not all they do. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be associated as just a social media company.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to be a metaverse company, just bigger than

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<v Speaker 1>just one thing. It's universal, it's all over. So they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna actually unveil this at the company's annual Connect conference

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<v Speaker 1>on October twenty eighth, but you might learn the names. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they own a lot of other things like

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<v Speaker 1>what's app Oculus and more So there's more that they

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<v Speaker 1>do besides this Instagram, Facebook, What's app Oculus. They have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of different companies underneath them, so they're a

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<v Speaker 1>tech giant. It's not just social media. I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>they start calling themselves something else, like if they say

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<v Speaker 1>that they're a network. Well, that prompt the government to

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<v Speaker 1>start regulating them in a real way, because once you

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<v Speaker 1>start calling yourself an actual network and you're admitting that

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<v Speaker 1>you're broadcasting things right, all right, well I guess and

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<v Speaker 1>you know they do have a lot of shows on

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<v Speaker 1>there too, Facebook watch a lot of different programming. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well that is your front page news, all right, get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chests. Eight on drink five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one on five one. If you need to vent, hit

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<v Speaker 1>us up right now, phone lines and wide open again.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight on drink five, five one on five one is

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm telling

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you if this is your time to get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight

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<v Speaker 1>one five one. We want to hear from you on

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Oh boy, you heard

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<v Speaker 1>Wrestless ain't no syndrome and you called immediately trave Hey, Trav,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up pieces, what's happening? Well, no, I really am

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<v Speaker 1>calling and talking about Wrestless. Any know what happened? You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my ex added turned around. He was

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on me. I think he had Restless anal syndrome. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a real thing that these bottoms have and

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<v Speaker 1>trav trav. But yeah, X wanted it, wanted it to

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<v Speaker 1>go in, ain't know wrested it goes out. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I think you had a different type of antal

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<v Speaker 1>antal syndrome. So yeah, it was just restless. He me,

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<v Speaker 1>I got something to say to you that called in yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>He was absolutely right. I don't like how you asking

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<v Speaker 1>about your car show. Drive your dreams used to be

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<v Speaker 1>your name, and now are you acting like this? You

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<v Speaker 1>gonna car teller? You don't have the same I told

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<v Speaker 1>him that too, Yes, I doing thank you my car

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<v Speaker 1>show is I told a thirty minute my celebrity car show.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you get your tickets or Miami twelve twelve. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if that kind of energetic about it again? Drive your

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<v Speaker 1>dream jaws coming up? Thank you, Thank you, y'all, Thank you. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this hello? I just want to say bless good

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<v Speaker 1>morning everybody. Sehn Stone was happening. Brother, what's up? Charlotte

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<v Speaker 1>made a guard? What's up? Angelie? Eyes? Red? You don't

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<v Speaker 1>never speak, but what's up? Redak? Hey, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to shout out my board real quick. He just came

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<v Speaker 1>out with a new project. His name is Patient Steve Underscore.

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<v Speaker 1>He's Haitian, obviously, Uncle go follow him on by h

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<v Speaker 1>A I E I A M. Steve spe v E Underscore.

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<v Speaker 1>And Uh, one more thing that story. Uh, angelie, you

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about the ainto thing? Were you talking about Trap? Trap?

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<v Speaker 1>Just Trap? Just called him Trap's X had it? Why? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Why Trav got it? Are you in it? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Trav got it? I think he got start.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you know? I don't know? You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. I'm just now showing Stone. This is how

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<v Speaker 1>you get in trouble. Leave travel over. Traf is minded

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<v Speaker 1>his business and now he he want to get on

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<v Speaker 1>your ass. You're gonna be like, damn. The crazy thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. The crazy thing is I got love for Trap,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to see y'all the story. So last

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<v Speaker 1>off the train and woof bridge and I come off

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<v Speaker 1>the train and I see a black dude on the platforms.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, what's up? I give him the head nod,

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<v Speaker 1>like when black people to each other, we give each

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<v Speaker 1>other the head nods. Right, he gave me the head

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<v Speaker 1>nod and start smiling at me. Crazy, what's trum with

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<v Speaker 1>that no, but it was a crazy smile. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like like, hey, like I wanted hill a smile. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I got to do a trap. This don't got never

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<v Speaker 1>to do a sad trap, but everything to do a

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<v Speaker 1>wrestlers anto synder. I'm trying to say that was gay

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<v Speaker 1>and he was showing the holl that short Stone. But listen,

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<v Speaker 1>short Stone, don't get down that way. Man, are you

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<v Speaker 1>sewn Stone? Why can't you just take it as a conference?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you referring to yourself as Shawn Stone or not? Listen?

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<v Speaker 1>But the matter of fact is I went down to

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<v Speaker 1>when I look behind me, let's do what is following me?

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>You was like no, and then ran back up seating

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<v Speaker 1>the hop on the train crazy. I mean, you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not that's not a wink. Bro Okay, let's just

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<v Speaker 1>be flat, just be flattered, Yeah, just be flattered. It

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<v Speaker 1>ain't It was cute, all right, get into a few

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<v Speaker 1>chests eight hundred five eight five one on five one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you need to vent hit this up now it's

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is

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<v Speaker 1>your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're

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<v Speaker 1>man from you on the Breakfast Club, but you got

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<v Speaker 1>something on your mind. Hello, who's this? And there the

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<v Speaker 1>Cleve stuff y'all. How y'all doing? Hey Man, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to give a big thanks to you, Eavy Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a new listener. I've probably been listening for about

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<v Speaker 1>a year. My girl took me on game with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to say she was a clown listening to y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Man was the clown back in the day. Uh, But

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<v Speaker 1>I never actually listened to you guys the show. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when I actually listened, I was like, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what these people are that they're good people, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys know what you're doing, and I really appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>what you guys are doing. At every um I heard

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<v Speaker 1>you talked about the credit dude, the wild back. And

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, I was trying to get everything

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<v Speaker 1>since Man and I finally hit a month and he

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<v Speaker 1>got my stuff straight, myself a new trust. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>got my credit right, man, they got my credit right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still working all this, still trying to get up

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<v Speaker 1>to that those eight, man. But they got me into

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<v Speaker 1>the seven, all in the five and they got me

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<v Speaker 1>all the way up. Man. I just bought myself a

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<v Speaker 1>new truck. I'm a truck driver around here, worked for

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<v Speaker 1>FavAC and uh man, I'm blessed, highly favored. How long

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<v Speaker 1>did it take to eight to nine months? Man? I

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<v Speaker 1>have some serious stuff on there that they got off

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<v Speaker 1>pretty quick for me. Okay. I was really murprised how

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<v Speaker 1>fast they did it, you know, because it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the slow prom in the beginning. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as I kept checking and I you know, didn't the

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<v Speaker 1>programs they were talking about, it was just yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>just shot up instantly. Yeah, and let people know. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's never too late to do what you

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<v Speaker 1>need to do. Man. I was a feeling. I'm thirty

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<v Speaker 1>three years old. I was getting curved from every job

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to get. End up just grabbing getting my CDL,

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<v Speaker 1>getting the class day, and I'm loving life right now,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I think the credit dude, I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna come up here this week, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna do is we're gonna fix I think

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe twenty thirty people's credit, just to just on

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<v Speaker 1>the strength, just to help people out many I've been

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<v Speaker 1>recommending him to everybody I know man, because he weren't

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<v Speaker 1>wondering guys work to thank you so much. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>helped me out so many times. And people don't like

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<v Speaker 1>I've met him because he actually helped me fix my credit.

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<v Speaker 1>I had something left up on my credit and he

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<v Speaker 1>helped me in and we just became good friends. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this Jessica from Virginia. Hey, Jessica from vall part

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<v Speaker 1>of VA. I'm in Arlington. Okay, get it off your

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<v Speaker 1>right outside of Okay, get it off your chess. So

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<v Speaker 1>I am actually blessed, but I'm a little sad because

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to you guys every morning live on my

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<v Speaker 1>way to work, and basically I told you guys how

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<v Speaker 1>I shot my shot of dramas we shot it down,

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<v Speaker 1>I found a black King. Hey, congratulations. Job moving to

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<v Speaker 1>Seattle to be with my black King's nice. Yes, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very excited. But I just wanted to tell you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so so so much for everything you do

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<v Speaker 1>for the community and and the people that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>bring on as far as like information and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys are more appreciated than you're thinking you now,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just wanted to say thank you. I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta listen to us on the app now, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I listen to the iHeart if I be missed in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, so I'm just gonna stick to iHeart. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, mama, and you have a great trip and

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<v Speaker 1>be safe out this, ma'am. Thank you starling man. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I get assigned copy of Black Privilege? Please? Absolutely, that's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>When we put you on hold, when we get your address,

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<v Speaker 1>don't hold, don't hang up, all right, get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chest. Eight undred five eight five one on five one.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we got rumors on the way. What we're talking about, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's talk about young boy. He has been involved

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<v Speaker 1>in a jail fight, according to reports, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>he is going to be denied bond. We'll give you

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<v Speaker 1>more details, all right, We'll get into that next. Keep

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<v Speaker 1>a lock. This to Breakfast Club. God Morning, the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the rumor report with Angela. Ye, well, it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like Wendy Williams will not be returning to her

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<v Speaker 1>show until at least November. So yeah, so it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like she's still going through whatever sickness and I know

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<v Speaker 1>complications some graves disease a direct condition. So yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not back until then. But they have announced some more

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<v Speaker 1>guest hosts. Sherry Shepherd is going to be a special

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<v Speaker 1>guest host from November first to the fifth, and Whitney

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<v Speaker 1>Cummings will be guest hosting October twenty fifth to the ninth. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Whitney Cummings posted, nobody can ever replace Wendy, but we

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<v Speaker 1>will do whatever we can to fill in so she

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<v Speaker 1>can come back stronger than ever. She's gone so hard

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<v Speaker 1>for so long, and as much as I miss seeing

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<v Speaker 1>her every day, just imagine how hilarious she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be after some time to take care of herself and

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<v Speaker 1>have some quiet time to think. Sherry Shepherd also posted

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<v Speaker 1>that she will be guest hosting too. Well, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>continue to send a Wendy Williams healing energy. She might

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<v Speaker 1>will take the whole year off though, like, well you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't rush your health, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Not for no TV show, all right. Sherry Shepherd in

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<v Speaker 1>the press release state that I had such a great

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<v Speaker 1>time when I hosted the show in twenty nineteen, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm flattered that and the producers put their trust in

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<v Speaker 1>me to fill in again. I'm sending my love and

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<v Speaker 1>well wishes to her. All right, Young boy never broke again.

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<v Speaker 1>He was allegedly involved in a fight while he was

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<v Speaker 1>in jail, and prosecutors are using that to deny him bond.

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<v Speaker 1>According to a recent report that regards his detailed post

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<v Speaker 1>release plan, they're using that one incident that reportedly happened

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<v Speaker 1>to justify keeping him locked up for such a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>They argued that he cannot stay out of fights. Prosecutor

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<v Speaker 1>Will Morris even said that his pattern of behavior is disturbing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was confirmed that the Feds were using the

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<v Speaker 1>name Operation Never Free Again to describe the sting takedown

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<v Speaker 1>of Young Boy. I was think in jail though, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, if somebody walked to be when

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<v Speaker 1>swings on you, you should be allowed to defend yourself. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you started the fight, that's different. But if you're

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<v Speaker 1>defending yourself, and I'm sure everybody's showing yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, what are you supposed to do? Yeah? And

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<v Speaker 1>you know they're proposing when he gets released that he'll

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<v Speaker 1>relocate to Utah, and which I think that could be

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<v Speaker 1>really good for him, right, And what they are saying

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<v Speaker 1>is that there's a tutor, one of his childhood tutors

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<v Speaker 1>that lives there. He purchased a residence in North Utah recently.

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<v Speaker 1>He reportedly stayed with her extended family throughout the past

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<v Speaker 1>decade while remaining out of trouble whenever he's there. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that could be a positive thing because sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you got to take people out of the environment where

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<v Speaker 1>things can provoke you and put them someplace else. Because

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<v Speaker 1>such a young you really want to rehab somebody, right, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>he's such a young man. That's why you got to

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<v Speaker 1>give people the chance to grow, give people a chance

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<v Speaker 1>to evolve, Like, you know, how old is he? God?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, you know I did have that chance to

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<v Speaker 1>really go like to his you know, grandparents' house and

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him and to have some off camera conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I do feel particularly particularly empathetic to him

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<v Speaker 1>and what he's been through. So much love to nb

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<v Speaker 1>a young boy. And after he's held accountable for whatever

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<v Speaker 1>he's in jail for and he you know, pays that

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<v Speaker 1>to society, he should be allowed to, you know, come

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<v Speaker 1>out and go live a great life. What did a

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<v Speaker 1>man chance to grow? What is he in jail? Or

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<v Speaker 1>do we even know? I forgot weapons and drug charges?

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<v Speaker 1>And all right, now let's talk about Cardi B. She

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<v Speaker 1>is pleading not guilty to assault charges and she could

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<v Speaker 1>face four years in prison. She had been offered the

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<v Speaker 1>chance to plead guilty the third degree assault that would

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<v Speaker 1>be in exchange for a conditional discharge, but she has

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<v Speaker 1>decided that she is going to plead not guilty. They

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<v Speaker 1>always tell us, a lot of lawyers have come up

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<v Speaker 1>here and told us, if you didn't do something, don't

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<v Speaker 1>just plead guilty to a lesser charge, because that will

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<v Speaker 1>that could potentially a conditional discharge lead to any little

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<v Speaker 1>thing that happens could land her behind bars. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure she feels like she can fight this. Not only

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<v Speaker 1>that that opens up the civil case. So she pleads

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<v Speaker 1>guilty to that, then that civil case gets opened wide up,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a lot easier than a court case. So

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<v Speaker 1>but if you're found not guilty to assault charges, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>can't still bring a Yeah, but it's a lot easier

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<v Speaker 1>if you plead guilty though. Okay, so she posted no

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<v Speaker 1>one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you

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<v Speaker 1>reta ALLIHL supposed they want to see a bad bitch

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<v Speaker 1>do bad and a lot of people have been testing

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<v Speaker 1>her on social media as well. Now pushics is asking

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<v Speaker 1>a judge to stop Fedge from presenting evidence of past

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<v Speaker 1>crimes from when he was only eleven years old at

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<v Speaker 1>his trial. So the first is an assault case that

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<v Speaker 1>happened when he was fourteen, the other is a robbery

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<v Speaker 1>case that occurred when he was only eleven in the

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<v Speaker 1>sixth grade. And his team is saying that you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>show those things at the trial. All right. These actions

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<v Speaker 1>have no direct nexus to pushicsy other than in speculation.

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<v Speaker 1>They're saying. You know, he was arrested in June for

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<v Speaker 1>his legend involvement in the shooting and robbery of two

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<v Speaker 1>men in October of twenty twenty in Miami. The federal

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<v Speaker 1>charges he's facing and clude discharging firearm during a violent crime, conspiracy,

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<v Speaker 1>and Hobbs Act robbery. If convicted, he's facing a possible

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<v Speaker 1>maximum sentence of life in prison. Damn. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to say he got a history of violence

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<v Speaker 1>or something later? Yeah, but I think, I mean, eleven

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<v Speaker 1>years old, and when you're a child, should you be

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to present that now the sixth grade something you

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<v Speaker 1>did in sixth grade? I don't know. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't my mind, no, But I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how the law works. It sounds to me like

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<v Speaker 1>they're just trying to paint a history of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>him being violent and saying that he I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't rehabilitated or change. I don't know, all right, And

0:22:18.320 --> 0:22:21.399
<v Speaker 1>that is all These kids be so nice when you

0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.480
<v Speaker 1>meet that. I called him a kid, but yeah, these

0:22:24.560 --> 0:22:26.200
<v Speaker 1>young men be so nice when you meet him, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't that gets hard to I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I just know that, you know, we all start someplace,

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<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't even imagine being that young with that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of money in the minds that I had when

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<v Speaker 1>I was twenty something years though, correct, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? That's when you would hope your old g's

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<v Speaker 1>and your older family members can you know, put their

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<v Speaker 1>arm around you and try to guide you the right way. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we we all had that. It's not like we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have that growing up. But you know, you still end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing stupid things. But I just know that you

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<v Speaker 1>know that man had a long life ahead of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Poosh its the NBA young boy, all of them. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would hate to see any of them have to

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<v Speaker 1>go to jail for life or twenty years or thirty years,

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know who the brothers are gonna turn

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<v Speaker 1>out to be. All right, now we got front page

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<v Speaker 1>news next, Yes, and let's talk about Halloween costumes. What

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<v Speaker 1>is the number one search? All right, we'll get into

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<v Speaker 1>that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, So Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Let's get some front page news that NBA

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<v Speaker 1>last night, the Bucks beat the Nets one twenty seven,

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<v Speaker 1>one on four, the Warriors beat the Lakers one twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one fourteen. Now what else we got? Easy? Well, Square

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<v Speaker 1>game Halloween costumes are topping internet searches, so everybody wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be a character from Square Game. I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, I like to be the red light green

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<v Speaker 1>Light ones three dollars, Yeah, the dollar around and then

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you guys can come dress and jumpsues and I

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<v Speaker 1>can shoot y'all. We've been um, well some of the

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of those people survive. You you haven't seen

0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:09.400
<v Speaker 1>the show, but if I did, a lot of them died.

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<v Speaker 1>That was like the first episode. But we would be

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<v Speaker 1>the one to survive. Yes, we would. Yeah, we would

0:24:13.440 --> 0:24:17.440
<v Speaker 1>definitely want to survive easily. All right. Now let's talk

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:21.040
<v Speaker 1>about Donald Trump. He made a statement about Colin Powell's passing.

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Instead of just saying rest in peace or nothing at all,

0:24:24.359 --> 0:24:27.120
<v Speaker 1>he posted, wonderful to see Colin Powell, who made big

0:24:27.160 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 1>mistakes on Iraq and famously so called weapons of master

0:24:29.720 --> 0:24:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Chucks and be treated in death so beautifully by the

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<v Speaker 1>fake news media. Hope that happens to me someday. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a classic rhino, if even that, always being the

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<v Speaker 1>first to attack other Republicans. He made plenty of mistakes,

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<v Speaker 1>but anyway, may he rest in peace? What is wrong

0:24:42.480 --> 0:24:47.480
<v Speaker 1>with him? Nothing? He sounded like you sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of rappers. I know. I've heard shut up and

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:54.040
<v Speaker 1>don't say nothing. I've heard rappers say when you might

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<v Speaker 1>if you most my ap alive, you might op did

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<v Speaker 1>like you know. It's distasteful to me, but that's who

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<v Speaker 1>he all. Right now, there is early November approval expected

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<v Speaker 1>for the fives, a vaccine for children at age five

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<v Speaker 1>to eleven, and then New York officials are pushing forward

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<v Speaker 1>on planning to vaccinate children once they were approved, and

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<v Speaker 1>right now they want school to become alternate vaccination sites

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<v Speaker 1>due to fears of an impending rush on pediatrician So

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying about one point five million children in the

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<v Speaker 1>state will be eligible to get that vaccine, and the

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<v Speaker 1>governor is saying that with parental permission slip for parents,

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<v Speaker 1>they will encourage them to make appointments now for early

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<v Speaker 1>to mid November, so age five to eleven. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that scares y'all with your kids as far as that

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<v Speaker 1>vaccination being available in early November, right, it does, yeah, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know how it affects the kids as yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they tested enough kids and seeing

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<v Speaker 1>the results for kids as yet. I know they have

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<v Speaker 1>for adults. Oh yeah, it does definitely makes me nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. And gang in Haiti won seventeen million dollars

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<v Speaker 1>in ransom for seventeen American and Canadian missionaries who have

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<v Speaker 1>been kidnapped. They're asking for a million dollars each for

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<v Speaker 1>their release. At sixteen American citizens and one Canadian. They

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<v Speaker 1>were actually they're visiting an orphanage. And that abduction is

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<v Speaker 1>part of a wave of indiscriminate kidnappings. It's become more brazen.

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<v Speaker 1>The country is suffering from political instability, civil unrest, lack

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<v Speaker 1>of quality healthcare, and severe poverty. So we are praying

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<v Speaker 1>for their safe return. The abductive group is made out

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<v Speaker 1>of five men, seven women, and five children. The kids

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<v Speaker 1>include an eight month old baby and kids aged three, six, thirteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and fifteen years old. The ages of the adults range

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<v Speaker 1>from eighteen to forty eight. All right, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.

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<v Speaker 1>Now when we come back, who's joining us this morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man. Mel Robbins international bestselling author. She had a

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<v Speaker 1>book called The Five Second Rules. Some of y'all own it,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, And now she had a new book called

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<v Speaker 1>the High five habit. What she's that you can take

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<v Speaker 1>control of your life with one simple habit, and I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot wait for her to tell us what that habit is.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get into that when we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning. The

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<v Speaker 1>mornings will never be the same morning. Everybody is DJ

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<v Speaker 1>Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a special guest in the building. Yes, indeed

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<v Speaker 1>we have author Mel Robbins. Welcome, Wow, thank you, a

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<v Speaker 1>motivational speaker and a host of others. Yes, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things. How are you doing this morning? And welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Well, I'm I'm super excited. We got

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<v Speaker 1>so much to talk about and I cannot wait to

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<v Speaker 1>just get into it all. Well, who is Mel Robbins?

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<v Speaker 1>For the folks that don't know, I'm somebody that's screwed

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<v Speaker 1>up a lot in life. Oh yeah, I tend to

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<v Speaker 1>come by wisdom the hard way, Okay, by either digging

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<v Speaker 1>a hole or falling into one and then needing a

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:09.320
<v Speaker 1>ladder and having to build it myself. A kind of

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<v Speaker 1>people I like to listen to. I like to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to people who've actually had experiences that they can speak on,

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<v Speaker 1>whether those experiences a so called good or so called

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<v Speaker 1>back because I don't believe in either. I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>life is a process. Yeah. I think life is like

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest and most incredible school you'll ever attend. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>and everything is a lesson. And you know, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of came into writing books and being a motivational speaker

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<v Speaker 1>because I have had so many struggles, just like everybody else. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think anybody gets to being an adult in

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<v Speaker 1>life and not experiencing some kind of trauma or abuse

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. It's hot in here. We didn't pay to

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<v Speaker 1>a c build. I'm also fifty three. I could be

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<v Speaker 1>like everybody's mother, and so I'm having a lot, right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old you think we are, but there, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd have been a very very young mother. My mom

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<v Speaker 1>was a very young mom too, but no. So I

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<v Speaker 1>have had a lifelong struggle with anxiety, which is one

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<v Speaker 1>of the reasons why I'm so excited to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. And I have these two books that became

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<v Speaker 1>instant best sellers because I just have this crazy knack

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<v Speaker 1>of taking really complicated stuff and coming up with really

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<v Speaker 1>almost simple, cheesy ways to explain things that are memorable

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<v Speaker 1>that anybody can use with any level of education or

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<v Speaker 1>no education at all, to attack issues like anxiety, depression, PTSD, procrastination.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's been my gift. Let's talk about the High

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<v Speaker 1>five habit. You know, take control of your life with

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<v Speaker 1>one simple what does that habit? Okay, so first I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta tell you, Okay, this is going to sound like

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<v Speaker 1>the stupidest thing you've ever heard. This is the most

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<v Speaker 1>powerful thing I have ever discovered in my entire life,

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<v Speaker 1>and it unpacked decades of research in psychology, in human behavior, inhabits.

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<v Speaker 1>It's insane. Basically, you're going to stand in front of

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror every morning, right after you brush your teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want you to do it after you brush

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<v Speaker 1>your teeth because we know, based on research, that your

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 1>brain learns new habits when you stack it with an

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<v Speaker 1>old habit. Now, I want to teach you, using science,

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<v Speaker 1>how to get all of the gunk out of your mind, body,

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<v Speaker 1>and spirit, spirit, and I'm talking generational here. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>as you stand in front of the mirror, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to put your toothbrush down and you're gonna look in

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror. That's step one. Now, this is the hardest

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<v Speaker 1>part for most people. And I actually read the interview

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<v Speaker 1>that you said when you announced the Mental Wealth Alliance.

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<v Speaker 1>There was an article that you that was written about

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<v Speaker 1>you in Forbes, and there was a quote there that

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<v Speaker 1>I loved because this is what the high five habit

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<v Speaker 1>is all about. You were talking about the fact, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>about how the black community had been impacted by the pandemic,

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<v Speaker 1>and you said, I've never had more people call me,

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<v Speaker 1>FaceTime me or text me saying yo, bro, I'm ready

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 1>to talk to somebody. Everybody's sitting at home and having

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>to deal with themselves all the time, and there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people who are just seeing themselves for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, and they may not necessarily like what they see.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact of the matter is fifty percent or more

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>of men and women can't even look at themselves in

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:27.440
<v Speaker 1>the mirror right because they do not like the person

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:30.720
<v Speaker 1>that they see. And the reason why they don't like

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:35.600
<v Speaker 1>themselves is so sad. They either like every morning in

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror, when you simply stand there and you look

0:31:37.520 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>at yourself in the mirror, you're not alone, and that's

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 1>not your reflection. I believe you're in that bathroom with

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>another human being, and that human being needs you. They

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<v Speaker 1>are trying their best. They have been trying so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>They are so sick and tired of being picked apart.

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<v Speaker 1>They're tired of your negativity. They are tired of yourself doubt.

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<v Speaker 1>They're tired of being beaten down by you. And the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why most people cannot even look at themselves in

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 1>the mirror is because if you're a human being, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a past that is filled with all kinds of crep.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not a human being that hasn't experienced some level

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<v Speaker 1>of trauma. I know in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I'm from Moskeegan, Michigan.

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<v Speaker 1>They just the officials, they're just actually said that racism

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<v Speaker 1>is the leading mental health crisis. Thankfully, people are starting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about this. And so you've either experienced trauma

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 1>or abuse, or neglect or abandonment or and you drag

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<v Speaker 1>that into the bathroom every morning, and it stands between

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:37.280
<v Speaker 1>you and the human being in the mirror. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many people that think that they are not worthy,

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<v Speaker 1>or that they are damaged or not lovable because of

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>what they've survived, or if you're a human, you've done

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:50.360
<v Speaker 1>a lot of stuff that you regret. You've cheated, you've lied,

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 1>you've you've hurt other people, you've hurt yourself, you've squandered opportunity,

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 1>you've stolen stuff. I mean, everybody has stuff they've regret,

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that they would forgive all of us for. But

0:33:01.720 --> 0:33:04.560
<v Speaker 1>you stand in judgment of the human being in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>And so number one, you may find it super challenging

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<v Speaker 1>just to do the part where you look in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I want you to do is I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to then raise your hand, as cheesy as it sounds,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to high five the human being you see.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's incredible about this simple habit is that number one,

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<v Speaker 1>you have high five to other people your whole life. So, Charlemagne,

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<v Speaker 1>when you high five somebody, what does the gesture itself mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm greeting them, want them to be seen, want them

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<v Speaker 1>to feel seen, want them to know that I recognize them.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you thinking? When you high five me, I

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 1>recognize them, I respect them, I would a love for them. Yeah, yeah,

0:33:44.400 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 1>anderations on something. Yeah, to accomplicate. They've accomplice and you're

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 1>acknowledging that. Yeah. Now here's this. This is where the

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:55.520
<v Speaker 1>high five habit gets bananas. Since you have been high

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>fiving and receiving high fives from tons of people your

0:33:59.200 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 1>whole life, your mind, body, and spirit is already programmed

0:34:03.440 --> 0:34:05.920
<v Speaker 1>with the messaging of a high five. There is neural

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>association with the physical trigger of doing this. So when

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.760
<v Speaker 1>you go to high five yourself, no matter how weird

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 1>it feels or resistant you are to it, your brain

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:19.040
<v Speaker 1>turns all that judgment off and it picks up the

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:22.440
<v Speaker 1>neural association with a lifetime of high five and receiving

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 1>high fives. You have never once thought envy. I hate

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 1>you as you high five somebody. You've never once thought

0:34:28.320 --> 0:34:30.839
<v Speaker 1>you loser. I hope you lose. Today is gonna be too.

0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:33.239
<v Speaker 1>You've never ever ever done it unless you like you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be one of the most facus backstabbing people

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<v Speaker 1>in the world to do something, I don't even think

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:41.399
<v Speaker 1>anybody can do it. Somebody. Yeah, Because here's the thing,

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:44.759
<v Speaker 1>Like you literally eat. Like if you and I high

0:34:44.760 --> 0:34:47.359
<v Speaker 1>five right now, if we high five right now, right,

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:51.919
<v Speaker 1>if we have five right now? Yes, like I said,

0:34:52.000 --> 0:34:58.120
<v Speaker 1>receive something, Yes, you have to just one. Your brain

0:34:58.200 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 1>doesn't know the difference between me high five envy or

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:03.279
<v Speaker 1>angel or you or me high five myself. So that

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>that feeling that you just got, that's dopamine. Your brain

0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 1>gives you a drip of dopamine every morning when you

0:35:09.400 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 1>high five yourself, that celebratory yeah, yeah, yeah, that's your

0:35:12.800 --> 0:35:17.840
<v Speaker 1>nervous system programming. Your nervous system remembers celebratory gestures of

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:21.480
<v Speaker 1>waving hello, of hugging. There is so much freaking research

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:24.879
<v Speaker 1>about the high five. So they studied NBA teams. Okay,

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:27.279
<v Speaker 1>there's this huge article in the Wall Street Journal in

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>twenty eleven where they studied NBA teams and researchers were

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 1>able to predict who were going to be the best

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:38.399
<v Speaker 1>performing teams at the end of the season by looking

0:35:38.480 --> 0:35:41.600
<v Speaker 1>at one habit during the preseason. And the habit they

0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:44.399
<v Speaker 1>studied was how many times did the team give each

0:35:44.440 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>other pats on the back or fist bomps or high

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>fives during the preseason. But oh, sure that works till

0:35:50.920 --> 0:35:54.600
<v Speaker 1>after that feels really good. And so what happens is

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 1>when you give somebody a high five, verus fist bomp

0:35:57.280 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>or a pat on the butt. These build trust and partnership,

0:36:01.000 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 1>and so the teams that do that the most in

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:05.720
<v Speaker 1>the preseason go on to have the winning as seasons.

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 1>The teams that do it the least actually do the worst.

0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 1>Because you've got a bunch of players that are in

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.319
<v Speaker 1>it for themselves. We should do it more as a community, yes,

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.960
<v Speaker 1>and you should do it. You should start by doing

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 1>it to yourself. I'll tell you why, because we are

0:36:21.400 --> 0:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>all looking outside ourselves for the validation, love, respect, support

0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>that we need and we need for ourselves for our children.

0:36:31.120 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 1>To teach ourselves to be able to stand in front

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:37.319
<v Speaker 1>of the mirror and give that same validation, support, self

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:41.520
<v Speaker 1>worth and love to ourselves. Because if you learn how

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:46.200
<v Speaker 1>to like, respect, forgive support yourself. Yeah, it sucks when

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.719
<v Speaker 1>somebody else doesn't like you, but it won't change the

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:52.319
<v Speaker 1>fact that you like yourself. We have more with Mel

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 1>Robbins when we come back. Don't Move is to breakfast Club,

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy angela ye Shalma guy.

0:36:59.680 --> 0:37:01.480
<v Speaker 1>We are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with

0:37:01.640 --> 0:37:05.040
<v Speaker 1>Mel Robbins, author, motivational speaker. How did you learn all

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:06.400
<v Speaker 1>it is? How did you learn to give yourself a

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:09.640
<v Speaker 1>high five? How do you learn to talk to yourself? Like?

0:37:09.760 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, how did you get to that point your credit?

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:16.080
<v Speaker 1>From what you said earlier, you've been through a lot, like, yes,

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 1>well everybody's everybody, So you know some people, I mean,

0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 1>bankruptcy is a really difficult thing. Yes, and finances can

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>be crushing person. Yes, So I'll tell you the story

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>about what I call the five second rule and being

0:37:32.680 --> 0:37:36.439
<v Speaker 1>almost a million dollars in debt and about to lose

0:37:36.520 --> 0:37:39.320
<v Speaker 1>everything in two thousand and eight. But how I discovered

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>the high five habit was? You know, I used to

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:46.680
<v Speaker 1>be a daytime syndicated talk show host, and I lost

0:37:46.800 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 1>that dream job on March tenth in twenty twenty, when

0:37:50.239 --> 0:37:53.360
<v Speaker 1>they found COVID at CBS Broadcast Center and they walked

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 1>in and said, shows over, you're fired. Five minutes to

0:37:56.640 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 1>evacuate the building. Wow. And so I find my self

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:02.879
<v Speaker 1>back home just like everybody else. My whole life turned

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:06.840
<v Speaker 1>upside down in an instant. The kids have their college

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:11.200
<v Speaker 1>experience imploded. We're now all quarantining back at home. Every

0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:14.440
<v Speaker 1>single speech I have for a year cancels, and I

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:16.920
<v Speaker 1>find myself in a free fall. And this is before

0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 1>the PPP loans come out, and you know, we're all

0:38:19.760 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 1>in quarantines. Kids are in breakdown, anxieties coming back, and

0:38:22.840 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm having flashbacks to two thousand and eight where my

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:31.120
<v Speaker 1>husband and I were losing everything. And I wake up

0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 1>one morning with a very familiar feeling. I'm just feeling

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:38.960
<v Speaker 1>overwhelmed by my life and feeling the anxiety pinning me

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:41.600
<v Speaker 1>down in that bed like a gravity blanket. And I

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:43.200
<v Speaker 1>know not to lay in that bed. And I'll tell

0:38:43.200 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>you the story about the five second roll in a minute,

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:46.759
<v Speaker 1>because you definitely want to know this when it comes

0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 1>to mental health. So I count backwards five four, three

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<v Speaker 1>two one. I get out of bed, I drag myself

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:54.000
<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom and I'm standing there in the bathroom

0:38:54.440 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>and I literally catch a glimpse of my reflection. I think,

0:38:58.239 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you look like hell. And then I

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:05.319
<v Speaker 1>start picking apart the woman I see in the mirror.

0:39:05.760 --> 0:39:08.399
<v Speaker 1>The dark circles under my eye, one boob hanging lower

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<v Speaker 1>than the other. I start thinking about my day and

0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:13.080
<v Speaker 1>it's negative. You got eight minutes to get on zoom.

0:39:13.200 --> 0:39:15.560
<v Speaker 1>You know how you get you didn't return that call.

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 1>How are you going to get out of this? Met

0:39:17.239 --> 0:39:19.399
<v Speaker 1>the beat? Down? The beat? This is how most people

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 1>start their day. Yeah, even though you should have gave

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:25.000
<v Speaker 1>yourself so much grace. Yeah no, nope, just that it's

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:27.680
<v Speaker 1>a habit. Like That's what folks don't understand is that

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:31.160
<v Speaker 1>you're not broken. You have patterns of thinking and patterns

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:34.239
<v Speaker 1>of behavior that make you feel broken. And the good

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.640
<v Speaker 1>news is if you understand it's a pattern, you can

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:38.680
<v Speaker 1>catch it and break it. And so, I don't know

0:39:38.760 --> 0:39:42.040
<v Speaker 1>what came over me, envy, because I'm not a cheesy person,

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:45.800
<v Speaker 1>and it sounds pathetic. You're standing there and you're underwearing

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:48.560
<v Speaker 1>your bathroom, you know, And if you had walked into

0:39:48.600 --> 0:39:50.360
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom that morning, or you had walked into the

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:52.439
<v Speaker 1>bathroom that morning, I would have been able to spin

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 1>on a dime and pick you up. I would have

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<v Speaker 1>been able to say, Angela, I know this is not fair,

0:39:57.320 --> 0:39:59.759
<v Speaker 1>but if anybody can handle this, it's you. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>if you'd have done that with random screen is just

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:08.120
<v Speaker 1>walking in your bathroom. I don't think that would have

0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:15.479
<v Speaker 1>been your mind. Yeah, and so, uh, I don't know what. Okay,

0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I actually think it was divine intervention. I really do,

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:21.919
<v Speaker 1>because I literally just raised my hand without even thinking

0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:23.600
<v Speaker 1>about it and high five the woman in the mirror

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 1>because she needed it. And I laughed the second my

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:28.759
<v Speaker 1>hand hit the mirror because it's so cheesy, and I

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:30.799
<v Speaker 1>felt like, all right, come on, you got a roof

0:40:30.840 --> 0:40:32.839
<v Speaker 1>over your head, it's not that bad. Get your ass

0:40:32.880 --> 0:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>out there. Like that was kind of the mood it

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:37.440
<v Speaker 1>was the second morning. The second morning is when it

0:40:37.600 --> 0:40:40.319
<v Speaker 1>hit me. You know, you know that feeling when you're

0:40:40.360 --> 0:40:43.120
<v Speaker 1>about to walk into a bar or cafe and you're

0:40:43.120 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>going to see somebody you really like, what do you

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:48.600
<v Speaker 1>feel in that moment right before you're about to walk in? Excited?

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:53.560
<v Speaker 1>But if that yeah, I felt that about the idea

0:40:54.960 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>of seeing myself. Wow, what just hit you? Um? I

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 1>guess gratitude, you know, like I always try to have

0:41:04.320 --> 0:41:07.160
<v Speaker 1>a mean Worthiness is a tricky thing, right, Yeah, but

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I think the first step to worthiness is just having gratitude.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:12.719
<v Speaker 1>And you know, Bishop TDJS told me something one time.

0:41:12.719 --> 0:41:14.600
<v Speaker 1>You said, even if you don't feel like you're worthy,

0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:17.399
<v Speaker 1>God knows you're worthy. So waking up in the morning

0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and just know that I'm still here, still alive. God

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:22.800
<v Speaker 1>has some type of plan for me. Yeah, and you

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.200
<v Speaker 1>know you asked the question about, you know, the five

0:41:25.280 --> 0:41:27.440
<v Speaker 1>second rule. I should explain this really quickly because this

0:41:27.560 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>is what helped me actually interrupt all the patterns that

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:35.400
<v Speaker 1>caused anxiety, stop taking medication, get control of my mindset,

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 1>and literally I have situational anxiety. I never have general

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.600
<v Speaker 1>anxiety anymore ever, because I understand it now. So I

0:41:41.719 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>invented something called the five second rule in two thousand

0:41:44.600 --> 0:41:47.319
<v Speaker 1>and eight. And at the time, my husband had gone

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:50.240
<v Speaker 1>into the restaurant business. He had a little pizza pizza

0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 1>joint outside of Boston, Massachusetts, with his best friend, and

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 1>the first one did really, really well. So, like complete idiots,

0:41:57.600 --> 0:42:01.280
<v Speaker 1>we cashed out our entire life savings, the kid's college fund.

0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:04.400
<v Speaker 1>We took out a home equity line because that's free money, right.

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:07.440
<v Speaker 1>What could possibly go wrong in the restaurant business, And

0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>what went wrong is the second location was a total disaster,

0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:13.840
<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden we found ourselves eight hundred

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:16.799
<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars in debt, three kids under the age of ten,

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:21.640
<v Speaker 1>credit cards maxed out. I lost my job, lean's hit

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.520
<v Speaker 1>the house. I of course, faced these problems like a

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 1>high functioning adult, and that is by drinking myself into

0:42:27.200 --> 0:42:29.440
<v Speaker 1>the ground and screaming at my husband when you say that,

0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:36.360
<v Speaker 1>give me just a little anglio investments. Yeah. And so

0:42:36.640 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I was waking up every morning pinned to bed with anxiety,

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:45.480
<v Speaker 1>and I became a person I didn't recognize, like I

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:48.279
<v Speaker 1>was drunk by five o'clock in the afternoon. I was

0:42:48.440 --> 0:42:52.440
<v Speaker 1>angry all the time. I would lie in bed in

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:55.840
<v Speaker 1>the morning and stare at the ceiling, just pinned with anxiety.

0:42:56.280 --> 0:42:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I felt like the world's worst mom, the worst wife,

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:01.560
<v Speaker 1>a huge fail. The kids were missing the bus every day.

0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:06.040
<v Speaker 1>So I invented this crazy thing in desperation. There is

0:43:06.080 --> 0:43:09.120
<v Speaker 1>a five second window that defines your whole life. It's

0:43:09.160 --> 0:43:12.920
<v Speaker 1>a moment of hesitation. Inside this window is the difference

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:19.360
<v Speaker 1>between confidence and doubt, courage and fear, inspiration and procrastination.

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:22.239
<v Speaker 1>If you can teach yourself to move within this five

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:25.640
<v Speaker 1>second window, you win. And in this moment, this rock

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:28.680
<v Speaker 1>bottom moment, God, I swear to God help me create

0:43:28.760 --> 0:43:31.320
<v Speaker 1>I get so like just when you guys hear what

0:43:31.440 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 1>has happened with the five second rule, and now the

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 1>high five habit. There's no other explanation for this. I remembered, mel,

0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:40.200
<v Speaker 1>you got to launch yourself out of bed, and then

0:43:40.239 --> 0:43:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I started thinking about doing it, and I started thinking,

0:43:43.360 --> 0:43:44.800
<v Speaker 1>what goods it going to do? I don't care, I

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:46.680
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like it. It's dark, it's cold, I'm made

0:43:46.760 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 1>hundred grand in dead. How's this going to help? And

0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:51.239
<v Speaker 1>then I just started counting five four three two one,

0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:53.719
<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden I stood up and I

0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:55.400
<v Speaker 1>used it the next morning five four three two one,

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:56.880
<v Speaker 1>and the next morning and the next morning, and then

0:43:56.920 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I started using at any moment. I knew what I

0:43:59.680 --> 0:44:02.880
<v Speaker 1>should do, but I didn't feel like doing it. I

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:06.440
<v Speaker 1>counted backwards five four three two one. When you count

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 1>backwards five four three two one, it's what researchers call

0:44:10.200 --> 0:44:14.400
<v Speaker 1>a starting ritual. It interrupts all the habits stored in

0:44:14.440 --> 0:44:18.879
<v Speaker 1>your basil ganglia. Habit loops like procrastination, anxiety, worry, self doubt,

0:44:19.840 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>and the counting backwards five four three two one requires focus.

0:44:24.600 --> 0:44:26.919
<v Speaker 1>So as you start to focus on the counting five

0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:32.640
<v Speaker 1>four three two one, your prefrontal cortex engages on the counting.

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:35.360
<v Speaker 1>This is the part of the brain that gives you

0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:37.880
<v Speaker 1>immediate control over what you think and do next. This

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 1>is the part of the brain that you're using when

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:42.640
<v Speaker 1>you're doing any kind of strategic thinking, when you're learning

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:45.239
<v Speaker 1>new behavior. This is the part of the brain that

0:44:45.400 --> 0:44:49.080
<v Speaker 1>helps you change. So when you count backwards five four, three,

0:44:49.120 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 1>two one, by the time you get to one, you've

0:44:52.320 --> 0:44:55.680
<v Speaker 1>got a moment where you can take control. This is

0:44:55.760 --> 0:44:59.200
<v Speaker 1>what actually led me into the business of writing books

0:44:59.320 --> 0:45:02.719
<v Speaker 1>and being a mode ovational speaker. It was literally not

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:05.640
<v Speaker 1>something I set out to do, but I believe God

0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, this crazy lady is the one that's going

0:45:08.080 --> 0:45:10.759
<v Speaker 1>to get this out in the world. This amazingly normal lady.

0:45:12.520 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 1>That's true, but I meant like in a good way. Yes,

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:19.439
<v Speaker 1>And so I first mentioned it in a TEDx talk

0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:22.640
<v Speaker 1>in twenty eleven. It's now got twenty eight million views.

0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>That's what started the speaking career, and so many people

0:45:27.160 --> 0:45:30.920
<v Speaker 1>started writing about the five second rule. I, despite my dyslexia,

0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 1>and ADHD wrote a book about it self published it.

0:45:35.239 --> 0:45:37.600
<v Speaker 1>It went on to sell two million copies, be translated

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:41.239
<v Speaker 1>into thirty six languages and thank you. But here's the

0:45:41.520 --> 0:45:44.440
<v Speaker 1>most important part. The five second rule is now being

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:48.360
<v Speaker 1>used by pediatricians around the world to help kids with anxiety.

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:51.840
<v Speaker 1>It's being used by veterans organizations to help people program

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 1>triggers associated with PTSD. And we know of more than

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:58.480
<v Speaker 1>one hundred and eleven people who have stopped themselves from

0:45:58.480 --> 0:46:02.319
<v Speaker 1>attempting suicide by counting backwards five four, three, two one

0:46:03.200 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 1>and asking for help. All right, well, no move. We

0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:07.160
<v Speaker 1>got more with Mel Robins when we come back is

0:46:07.200 --> 0:46:09.800
<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club? Good morning, good morning. Everybody is DJ

0:46:10.360 --> 0:46:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Envy Angela Yee. Chalomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast

0:46:13.480 --> 0:46:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Club was still kicking it with Mel Robbin's author motivational Speaking. No, Chalomie,

0:46:17.560 --> 0:46:19.040
<v Speaker 1>correct me if I'm wrong, But you think having a

0:46:19.080 --> 0:46:24.640
<v Speaker 1>comfort zone is problematic. I think that your comfort zone

0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:30.160
<v Speaker 1>is problematic if you stay in it because you're afraid

0:46:30.239 --> 0:46:33.600
<v Speaker 1>to grow. I think human beings are designed to grow

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:37.399
<v Speaker 1>their entire life. Your cells regenerate every seven years. Your

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:39.800
<v Speaker 1>brain's constantly changing. Heck, we just talked about how the

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>filter in your mind can change. And if you are

0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 1>comfortable and not If you're comfortable and happy, fabulous, But

0:46:47.600 --> 0:46:50.440
<v Speaker 1>if you're comfortable and you're not satisfied or you're not

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:53.600
<v Speaker 1>happy that's a problem. Yes. One thing I will say

0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:57.600
<v Speaker 1>that I related to is wanting something really bad is terrifying. Yes,

0:46:57.840 --> 0:47:00.719
<v Speaker 1>when you really really want something sometimes scary to even

0:47:00.800 --> 0:47:03.719
<v Speaker 1>just admit it. Well, one of the things that I

0:47:03.880 --> 0:47:06.280
<v Speaker 1>like to do. Everybody has a morning routine. Mine obviously

0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 1>involves the five second rule five four three two one

0:47:08.760 --> 0:47:10.400
<v Speaker 1>get out of bed. I also don't look at my

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:13.120
<v Speaker 1>phone for the first thirty minutes of the day because

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:16.480
<v Speaker 1>us I well, I'll tell you why. You don't want

0:47:16.520 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to do that, because how many like, let's take you

0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:22.920
<v Speaker 1>know how many people like let's say you've got I

0:47:22.960 --> 0:47:25.239
<v Speaker 1>don't know a million people on Facebook? Okay that follow you?

0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:27.280
<v Speaker 1>Would you want all of them to walk into your bedroom?

0:47:27.320 --> 0:47:29.640
<v Speaker 1>Do you want a strength? You know that's what you're

0:47:29.680 --> 0:47:31.200
<v Speaker 1>doing when you look at your phone. Oh, wake up,

0:47:31.200 --> 0:47:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and I pray because I have to make sure ideas

0:47:35.000 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 1>no changes in the schedule at work. I'm like, let

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:39.120
<v Speaker 1>me just make sure I would not do that, and

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>let me tell you why, because you're putting all of

0:47:42.160 --> 0:47:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that before what matters to you. And so if you

0:47:46.040 --> 0:47:49.360
<v Speaker 1>were to literally try it tonight, take your phone and

0:47:49.520 --> 0:47:51.840
<v Speaker 1>plug it in in your bathroom or your closet, do

0:47:52.040 --> 0:47:54.600
<v Speaker 1>not even have it next to your bed. And if

0:47:54.800 --> 0:47:56.960
<v Speaker 1>you need to be reached in the middle of the night,

0:47:57.040 --> 0:47:59.920
<v Speaker 1>tell people to call you and not text you. Because

0:48:00.200 --> 0:48:03.680
<v Speaker 1>what's interesting about work and what's interesting about family is

0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:06.160
<v Speaker 1>people will text you all night long. They will not

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>call you unless it's an emergency. That way you're reachable.

0:48:09.520 --> 0:48:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Then when the alarm goes off, presumably it's on your phone,

0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:14.600
<v Speaker 1>you're now can't lay in bed. You gotta get up

0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 1>to go to the phone to turn it off. So

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 1>you sort of set yourself up to have to get

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 1>out of bed and not lay there and think about

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:21.520
<v Speaker 1>things and worry, which is where a lot of people

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:25.000
<v Speaker 1>have anxiety. Cortisol levels are very high in the morning,

0:48:25.360 --> 0:48:27.120
<v Speaker 1>you turn off your phone, then put it face over

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:29.720
<v Speaker 1>and walk away from it. Take the first thirty minutes

0:48:29.760 --> 0:48:34.040
<v Speaker 1>for you, your dreams. You you deserve thirty minutes, even

0:48:34.120 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 1>five minutes. I did it on a weekend. I don't

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:38.000
<v Speaker 1>know about daring the week. But I also don't wake

0:48:38.120 --> 0:48:40.840
<v Speaker 1>up from my phone, like if anybody texts me or

0:48:40.840 --> 0:48:42.560
<v Speaker 1>it calls me, I will not wake up until my

0:48:42.640 --> 0:48:44.719
<v Speaker 1>alarm goes off in the morning or right before my

0:48:44.800 --> 0:48:47.120
<v Speaker 1>alarm goes up, so I never know it's something like

0:48:47.360 --> 0:48:49.920
<v Speaker 1>important happened. I just want you to try it. Give

0:48:49.960 --> 0:48:54.520
<v Speaker 1>me five minutes, five minutes yourself first before the world

0:48:54.560 --> 0:48:58.960
<v Speaker 1>comes out. I can't do that. I'll do five. So

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:01.239
<v Speaker 1>what happens is is I wake up. First of all,

0:49:01.239 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't need it along to wake up anymore. My

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:06.360
<v Speaker 1>body wakes me up at four thirty eight m. But

0:49:06.480 --> 0:49:08.319
<v Speaker 1>you know what I do is I have five kids.

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.279
<v Speaker 1>So my daughter who goes to n y U, I

0:49:10.400 --> 0:49:13.719
<v Speaker 1>make sure she texts me if she's arriving back at

0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:16.279
<v Speaker 1>her apartment or she's going somewhere. So that's the first

0:49:16.280 --> 0:49:18.360
<v Speaker 1>thing I check to make sure that she's safe. The

0:49:18.400 --> 0:49:21.080
<v Speaker 1>first thing poop, I text Dad, I made it back safe.

0:49:21.200 --> 0:49:23.759
<v Speaker 1>I do the same thing. Then I can go on

0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 1>with my day. Then I can go take my shower,

0:49:26.680 --> 0:49:28.320
<v Speaker 1>I do my prayer, I kiss my wife, I go

0:49:28.440 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 1>kiss my kids. Then. But the first thing I have

0:49:30.320 --> 0:49:31.839
<v Speaker 1>to do, and this is I learned from my dad,

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:33.400
<v Speaker 1>is the first thing I have to make sure my

0:49:33.520 --> 0:49:36.000
<v Speaker 1>family safe. That's the first thing I do, regardless check

0:49:36.080 --> 0:49:40.520
<v Speaker 1>that text. Then, So how do you go to sleext messages?

0:49:40.640 --> 0:49:41.640
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? How do you go to sleep.

0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:43.440
<v Speaker 1>If she hadn't take me back, if I sent the

0:49:43.480 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>text of my daughter she wasn't in yet, it would

0:49:45.680 --> 0:49:47.160
<v Speaker 1>be hard for me to sleep. I wouldn't be able

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:48.960
<v Speaker 1>to lay down. Do I do have a problem, Well,

0:49:49.000 --> 0:49:50.520
<v Speaker 1>that's my problem. I don't sleep. But if I do

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:53.000
<v Speaker 1>fall asleep or something happened, let's say my daughter is

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:56.200
<v Speaker 1>out studying or something like that, I won't sleep. It's

0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:58.040
<v Speaker 1>difficult for me to sleep. And I'm always waiting for

0:49:58.120 --> 0:50:00.360
<v Speaker 1>that phone to ring because I'm waiting for her to

0:50:00.400 --> 0:50:02.759
<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, Dad, I'm safe. That's my difficult part.

0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:04.640
<v Speaker 1>So then when I see that text or whether it's

0:50:04.640 --> 0:50:07.319
<v Speaker 1>my mother, as my father or somebody that's traveling, whatever,

0:50:07.560 --> 0:50:09.440
<v Speaker 1>I see that text dinner, I can get up from

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:11.480
<v Speaker 1>my day. But that's what I have to do. And

0:50:11.520 --> 0:50:13.880
<v Speaker 1>then I'm like, the second thing I look at is

0:50:14.160 --> 0:50:17.520
<v Speaker 1>the show. Charlottagne's not coming in today. He's not broadcasting.

0:50:17.560 --> 0:50:19.400
<v Speaker 1>That means I'm broadcasting from home. That means, you know what,

0:50:19.560 --> 0:50:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm closing my eyes for another So that's the second thing.

0:50:22.680 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Then when I see that email at the then I

0:50:24.560 --> 0:50:27.839
<v Speaker 1>can I'm realizing this show not a priority in my life.

0:50:28.640 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Because I get up and I thank God, and you know,

0:50:31.160 --> 0:50:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I give gratitude and I meditate, and that gives my family.

0:50:33.920 --> 0:50:36.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't talk to them to like five thirty, when

0:50:36.320 --> 0:50:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm close to work driving I might look at my Texas.

0:50:38.680 --> 0:50:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Somehow I cannot. I can't look at this. I have

0:50:40.719 --> 0:50:43.160
<v Speaker 1>to put everything I have to like get my mind straight.

0:50:43.280 --> 0:50:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I got it. And then I always write down five

0:50:45.239 --> 0:50:47.080
<v Speaker 1>things that I want in the morning, right as another

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:50.560
<v Speaker 1>way to train my mind to just focus on the

0:50:50.680 --> 0:50:53.480
<v Speaker 1>things that I desire, that I want to allow myself

0:50:53.560 --> 0:50:56.279
<v Speaker 1>to dream, to give myself permission to want those things.

0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.200
<v Speaker 1>And here's the thing, though, is that I don't think

0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:02.120
<v Speaker 1>that you're a dreams are necessarily meant to be achieved.

0:51:02.719 --> 0:51:05.239
<v Speaker 1>I think your dreams have this purpose of being a

0:51:05.360 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 1>beacon out in front of you that pull you through

0:51:08.200 --> 0:51:11.440
<v Speaker 1>your fear and your anxiety and your circumstances to be

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 1>greater than you are right now. Well, mel, we appreciate

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:17.520
<v Speaker 1>you for joining us to say, now we definitely do

0:51:17.600 --> 0:51:18.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what to do? You think you got a

0:51:18.920 --> 0:51:21.760
<v Speaker 1>bad rap, I mean, not a bad rap, bad shake

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:24.759
<v Speaker 1>with your TV show? No, I thought, yeah, I think

0:51:24.960 --> 0:51:27.600
<v Speaker 1>that again. At the very beginning, we said that life

0:51:27.719 --> 0:51:29.920
<v Speaker 1>is the most is the hardest and most amazing school

0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:33.840
<v Speaker 1>year of her ten. And I think absolutely everything is

0:51:33.920 --> 0:51:36.880
<v Speaker 1>preparing you for what's coming next. And it had always

0:51:36.920 --> 0:51:41.520
<v Speaker 1>been a dream of mine to do a daytime syndicated

0:51:41.560 --> 0:51:44.680
<v Speaker 1>talk show that really gave people like you guys are

0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:49.839
<v Speaker 1>tools not only entertainment, but tools and life changing information

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:53.360
<v Speaker 1>that can help somebody really take control or improve their lives.

0:51:53.560 --> 0:51:57.040
<v Speaker 1>And I learned a tremendous amount. It was a tremendous gift,

0:51:57.520 --> 0:52:00.440
<v Speaker 1>and it prepared me for what's coming next. I'm actually

0:52:00.480 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 1>happy it's over because I love audio more. I like

0:52:05.320 --> 0:52:08.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm a digital entrepreneur. You can reach more people that way,

0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:11.040
<v Speaker 1>you have more creative freedom. And so I learned a

0:52:11.200 --> 0:52:14.600
<v Speaker 1>massive amount. But it was just preparing me. You see

0:52:14.600 --> 0:52:20.520
<v Speaker 1>the apportunity, see the exactly, exactly exactly, you're with the

0:52:20.640 --> 0:52:23.239
<v Speaker 1>right guy if you can about audio. My guy Mark, Yes,

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:27.480
<v Speaker 1>and it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club. Come on,

0:52:29.360 --> 0:52:33.359
<v Speaker 1>huh you don't think I'm too sexiful? How you looking

0:52:33.360 --> 0:52:38.160
<v Speaker 1>at me? Sir? Sir? Sir, sir, sim adown sir, you're married, sir. Morning.

0:52:38.200 --> 0:52:41.799
<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ restless but syndrome your buds board since

0:52:42.200 --> 0:52:45.920
<v Speaker 1>sim adown sir, kay, we are to breakfast club. Goodbye.

0:52:47.200 --> 0:52:49.839
<v Speaker 1>Let's get to the rules to still doctor Dre. It's

0:52:49.920 --> 0:53:02.080
<v Speaker 1>about this report Angela the breakfast club all right. Well,

0:53:02.280 --> 0:53:05.920
<v Speaker 1>A source with direct knowledge told TMZ that doctor Dre

0:53:06.160 --> 0:53:08.480
<v Speaker 1>was at a cemetery in La on Monday. He was

0:53:08.680 --> 0:53:12.160
<v Speaker 1>actually his grandmother passed away. He was laying her to

0:53:12.280 --> 0:53:16.879
<v Speaker 1>rest and allegedly he was confronted by a process server

0:53:17.120 --> 0:53:20.520
<v Speaker 1>with some divorced documents. So they said he recoiled an

0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:23.399
<v Speaker 1>anger wouldn't take the documents in hand. The process server

0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 1>then dropped the documents by the grave site and they said, uh,

0:53:26.719 --> 0:53:29.400
<v Speaker 1>they were dropped in the parking lot. Though, that's with mama,

0:53:29.680 --> 0:53:32.120
<v Speaker 1>because behind the scene said that. I thought you said

0:53:32.160 --> 0:53:34.840
<v Speaker 1>doctor j And in my mind I was like, well,

0:53:34.880 --> 0:53:38.200
<v Speaker 1>how old is doctor Jay's grandma? Oh boy, yeah, but

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:39.839
<v Speaker 1>I got a certain somewhere and they got a certain

0:53:39.840 --> 0:53:41.040
<v Speaker 1>way a place where he is, And you got to

0:53:41.040 --> 0:53:42.800
<v Speaker 1>think about it. Doctor Dre is not out and about.

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:44.719
<v Speaker 1>It's not like you wanna catch him in there, so

0:53:44.880 --> 0:53:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the only place with it and that's sad

0:53:46.600 --> 0:53:49.800
<v Speaker 1>that a burial for his grandmother. I don't know business

0:53:49.800 --> 0:53:52.040
<v Speaker 1>I would be terrible having to do that. Yeah, I mean,

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying the person didn't feel terrible, but they

0:53:53.960 --> 0:53:55.960
<v Speaker 1>still got a job to do. She pays the service.

0:53:56.040 --> 0:53:58.200
<v Speaker 1>In the service, they do what they gotta do to

0:53:58.239 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 1>make sure that they get, you know, get those documents.

0:54:00.120 --> 0:54:01.440
<v Speaker 1>When he has to grab do he has to take

0:54:01.480 --> 0:54:03.239
<v Speaker 1>those documents. And if you don't take him in your hand.

0:54:03.520 --> 0:54:05.759
<v Speaker 1>You know what's so funny? It does baby think I

0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:12.719
<v Speaker 1>saw somebody getting served outside the building one day, Wax, Yes,

0:54:12.880 --> 0:54:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne's boy, I was walking outside. You try to serve

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:17.120
<v Speaker 1>me one time outside. If they try to serve him

0:54:17.120 --> 0:54:18.840
<v Speaker 1>and he like spun around and then they fell on

0:54:18.920 --> 0:54:21.480
<v Speaker 1>the papers, fell on the floor, and then somebody's like,

0:54:21.520 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>you need to pick those off the floor has your

0:54:23.000 --> 0:54:25.120
<v Speaker 1>personal information on him. You can't just leave him there

0:54:25.200 --> 0:54:27.399
<v Speaker 1>like that. Would you drop him at the grave site

0:54:27.440 --> 0:54:30.279
<v Speaker 1>if you was the person. No, because if you drop

0:54:30.320 --> 0:54:32.600
<v Speaker 1>it on the floor, then you're not served. Right. If

0:54:32.640 --> 0:54:35.600
<v Speaker 1>they touch your hands, you are. If they touch your hands, yes,

0:54:35.600 --> 0:54:36.960
<v Speaker 1>it's like the paperwork. If they give you the paperwork

0:54:37.000 --> 0:54:40.600
<v Speaker 1>and touch hand, you see, you got served. Man, I

0:54:40.640 --> 0:54:43.760
<v Speaker 1>haven't been served at all. It's just a terrible feeling.

0:54:43.800 --> 0:54:46.640
<v Speaker 1>They have to go through that. But yeah, all right now,

0:54:46.680 --> 0:54:50.000
<v Speaker 1>little Yadi. Congratulations to him. According to sources, he is

0:54:50.120 --> 0:54:52.759
<v Speaker 1>a father for the first time. They're saying that a

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:55.239
<v Speaker 1>baby was born, a baby girl in the last couple

0:54:55.320 --> 0:54:58.239
<v Speaker 1>of weeks in New York City, so congratulating. Congrats to

0:54:58.320 --> 0:55:03.720
<v Speaker 1>him all right now. According to more sources, Buster Rhymes,

0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:07.760
<v Speaker 1>five rappers turned down offers to battle him on versus

0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:10.439
<v Speaker 1>Crazy Legs from Rocksteady Crew wrote it on Instagram. He said,

0:55:10.440 --> 0:55:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I had to let Buster Rhymes know that no one

0:55:12.840 --> 0:55:14.560
<v Speaker 1>is worthy enough to battle him. Then he told me

0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:17.440
<v Speaker 1>that five people already turned it down. Some things are

0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:20.120
<v Speaker 1>just what they are. He has the unfortunate pleasure of

0:55:20.200 --> 0:55:22.239
<v Speaker 1>being a god in the rap game. Shot out to

0:55:22.320 --> 0:55:25.759
<v Speaker 1>Swiz who could battle Buster Run? What I would say

0:55:25.840 --> 0:55:28.440
<v Speaker 1>is is Missy having both go back video. I was

0:55:28.480 --> 0:55:31.200
<v Speaker 1>thinking about this yesterday when I saw that story. Definitely

0:55:31.320 --> 0:55:32.879
<v Speaker 1>Missy would be dope, but they would have to play

0:55:33.000 --> 0:55:35.799
<v Speaker 1>videos and musicos and music. I think L would LLL

0:55:35.880 --> 0:55:37.640
<v Speaker 1>would be a good one too, would Buster them. I

0:55:37.719 --> 0:55:40.360
<v Speaker 1>wanted to see LLL and cares one, but Hello Cooj

0:55:40.520 --> 0:55:46.040
<v Speaker 1>versus Buster Romes would be damn good. What about Buster Rhymes?

0:55:46.440 --> 0:55:52.240
<v Speaker 1>What about versus Q tip No, I mean just catalog

0:55:52.400 --> 0:55:54.839
<v Speaker 1>like no let he got trip cold questions. Yeah, that's

0:55:54.840 --> 0:55:56.680
<v Speaker 1>two different Now that's and they all they from the

0:55:56.760 --> 0:55:59.440
<v Speaker 1>same family. So ray Kuon and ghost Face did it.

0:55:59.640 --> 0:56:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's true, But now I don't not not cute

0:56:01.560 --> 0:56:05.839
<v Speaker 1>tip Buster. That's two totally different styles of music. Huh.

0:56:06.160 --> 0:56:08.719
<v Speaker 1>All right, I think Hello Hello and Buster would be

0:56:10.880 --> 0:56:13.719
<v Speaker 1>damn sure got enough callop. I gotta keep thinking about that.

0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to know who turned him down? Everybody? Five

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:19.440
<v Speaker 1>people want to know who the five people are though

0:56:19.480 --> 0:56:21.320
<v Speaker 1>that he says turned them down? Well, you know t

0:56:21.520 --> 0:56:25.359
<v Speaker 1>I said, no, m all right. Now, Kanye has been

0:56:25.400 --> 0:56:27.560
<v Speaker 1>spotted out and about wearing these weird masks. I don't

0:56:27.560 --> 0:56:30.840
<v Speaker 1>know if you guys have seen it, but it's a

0:56:30.960 --> 0:56:33.319
<v Speaker 1>prosthetic mask, and so I don't know. I can't wait

0:56:33.320 --> 0:56:35.560
<v Speaker 1>to see what he's gonna do for Halloween. But I

0:56:35.640 --> 0:56:37.759
<v Speaker 1>guess that's just the way and people know it's him.

0:56:38.560 --> 0:56:40.800
<v Speaker 1>But I guess I don't know why he's trying to

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 1>make the mains popular too. I've seen the head cut.

0:56:42.800 --> 0:56:46.200
<v Speaker 1>What's that about? I don't know what that is, but

0:56:46.239 --> 0:56:48.800
<v Speaker 1>they said the masks from an old French movie villain

0:56:48.960 --> 0:56:56.040
<v Speaker 1>called phantomas Kanye does what he wants. Manta what that's

0:56:56.080 --> 0:56:58.439
<v Speaker 1>his name officially, he's changing name. Don't call him Kanye.

0:56:58.719 --> 0:57:02.520
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be hard to do. Yay, all right, Yay

0:57:02.719 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 1>has also a broken a record he has because of

0:57:06.000 --> 0:57:08.919
<v Speaker 1>Little nas xis Industry Baby. He has produced five hot

0:57:09.080 --> 0:57:11.120
<v Speaker 1>one hundred number one hip hop songs, the most of

0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:14.399
<v Speaker 1>all hip hop producers. You know who's done four? Did

0:57:14.440 --> 0:57:18.439
<v Speaker 1>he so? Now because of Industry Baby he has five,

0:57:18.600 --> 0:57:22.080
<v Speaker 1>So congratulations to Yay Kanye. He didn't produce Industry Baby,

0:57:22.120 --> 0:57:24.400
<v Speaker 1>did he? Jetson made it. Produce the Industry Baby. Well,

0:57:24.400 --> 0:57:27.800
<v Speaker 1>according to this, Kanye has broken all kinds of records

0:57:27.920 --> 0:57:30.600
<v Speaker 1>and is his fifth. Maybe got production credit, maybe he's

0:57:30.600 --> 0:57:34.360
<v Speaker 1>sampled something. Jetson made it, made us all with Jack

0:57:34.400 --> 0:57:37.320
<v Speaker 1>Hallow and Little Knot that just one number one. I

0:57:37.400 --> 0:57:40.520
<v Speaker 1>mean Legga just says South Carolina's own Jetson made it. Well.

0:57:40.600 --> 0:57:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes people don't do things alone either, They collaborate and

0:57:43.720 --> 0:57:45.960
<v Speaker 1>produced together. You never heard about Kanye being on part

0:57:46.000 --> 0:57:50.560
<v Speaker 1>of that record ever. All right, well, it's on the

0:57:50.600 --> 0:57:52.720
<v Speaker 1>phone that's their Industry Baby is the first track YEA

0:57:52.720 --> 0:57:54.640
<v Speaker 1>he has produced to go number one since Stronger in

0:57:54.680 --> 0:57:57.000
<v Speaker 1>two thousand and seven, Get Drama on the phone. He

0:57:57.120 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 1>might have did the Drums Owner or something like that

0:57:58.760 --> 0:58:02.280
<v Speaker 1>co produced all right. Now, speaking of music, Kawhi Leonard

0:58:02.360 --> 0:58:06.760
<v Speaker 1>has shared a video for his Culture Jam project and

0:58:07.360 --> 0:58:11.440
<v Speaker 1>he was actually uh talking to n Ellie Choppa on FaceTime.

0:58:11.480 --> 0:58:15.400
<v Speaker 1>Here's what he said, was good and what's goody man

0:58:15.600 --> 0:58:17.880
<v Speaker 1>much in the studio over here, trying to be like

0:58:18.040 --> 0:58:27.640
<v Speaker 1>y'alls and something hurt. Nah No, thank you you know

0:58:27.680 --> 0:58:29.080
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Thank you be a part of it

0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:42.480
<v Speaker 1>for real. That's funny. Well. Kawhi has revealed Culture Jam

0:58:42.600 --> 0:58:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Volume one will be released in two parts. The first

0:58:44.760 --> 0:58:47.880
<v Speaker 1>part is coming out this Friday, and there's appearances from

0:58:47.960 --> 0:58:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the Loozy Ver, Young Boy, road Wave, Tide, Dallas, Time,

0:58:52.160 --> 0:58:55.560
<v Speaker 1>Wile and Only, Choppa, Young Blue Gun, Apolo G and Moore.

0:58:55.760 --> 0:58:58.960
<v Speaker 1>And here is a snippet of a boogie. Uh oh no,

0:58:59.480 --> 0:59:01.560
<v Speaker 1>that's something all right. And then the next thing, since

0:59:01.560 --> 0:59:03.680
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about music, um, we have a snippet of

0:59:03.720 --> 0:59:07.000
<v Speaker 1>a song a boogie featuring Capella Gray and it is

0:59:07.040 --> 0:59:14.200
<v Speaker 1>called Bestie. It ain't on talking she wan my God,

0:59:15.400 --> 0:59:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Bob Baby don't want enough even though I got money

0:59:18.600 --> 0:59:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and the counter back and send. Then we spend it

0:59:20.600 --> 0:59:22.880
<v Speaker 1>on wagers to ask you. So that's a single from

0:59:22.920 --> 0:59:25.280
<v Speaker 1>that culture jam Value oneting the first single. What do

0:59:25.360 --> 0:59:26.880
<v Speaker 1>y'all think? Is that phone ring in it? Or is

0:59:26.880 --> 0:59:28.640
<v Speaker 1>that what you was? That? Your phone rings? Not a

0:59:28.680 --> 0:59:31.280
<v Speaker 1>phone ring, it's an alarm. No, I had no idea. Kanye,

0:59:31.320 --> 0:59:34.520
<v Speaker 1>what's did industry? Baby? Yeah? Still yeah? And his name

0:59:34.560 --> 0:59:38.520
<v Speaker 1>is Yeah. Whatever he did intry, I thought, I swear

0:59:38.560 --> 0:59:43.360
<v Speaker 1>I thought Jenson made it up every day? You really do? Like? Wow?

0:59:43.680 --> 0:59:45.560
<v Speaker 1>All right, and that is your room of report. Did

0:59:45.600 --> 0:59:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you look it up? Yeah? I'm looking at it now,

0:59:47.240 --> 0:59:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at it. On titles with man Jason definitely

0:59:49.760 --> 0:59:52.480
<v Speaker 1>says Kanye. It says Kanye was producer. I had no idea.

0:59:52.600 --> 0:59:55.160
<v Speaker 1>He could have did drums. He could have They could

0:59:55.200 --> 0:59:58.200
<v Speaker 1>have sampled something from it. I know it says producer,

0:59:58.280 --> 1:00:04.040
<v Speaker 1>says Kanye weston take a Day Trip. Wow. Okay, it's

1:00:04.040 --> 1:00:06.760
<v Speaker 1>a dope record too. That'd beat its crazy? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well you give me your donkey too, man oh Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Four after the hour, we need to talk about home invaders. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a home invader that I don't want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>God lucky, but we'll talk about it four after the hour.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Angela here, don't you wish everything was as

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<v Speaker 1>General offers the quality coverage you deserve at prices you

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<v Speaker 1>the General dot com. Some restrictions apply. It's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a dusky because right now you want some real doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>It's time for Donkey of the day. So if we

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<v Speaker 1>ever feel I need to be a dog man with

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<v Speaker 1>the heat, did she get day? I had become donkey

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<v Speaker 1>of the day the breakfast club. Bitch, you're a donkey.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel bad? I really feel bad. I feel I feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking about a quick game behind the scenes,

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<v Speaker 1>and we all finished it. We didn't realize our god,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick didn't finish it. I didn't know he didn't finish it.

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<v Speaker 1>He walked out earlier saying that, okay, you can talk

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<v Speaker 1>about school game when I lead it around. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>already spoiled it. That's right. Anyway, dark Here to Day

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<v Speaker 1>for Wednesday, October twentieth goes to a forty three year

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<v Speaker 1>old man named Kevin William t Okay. Kevin is from

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<v Speaker 1>the Michigan area, and I swear in my old age,

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<v Speaker 1>I just be feeling sorry for people. I'm serious. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to come in here and just want to give

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<v Speaker 1>people to credit they deserve for being stupid. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I hear certain stories like this one of to Day,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad for Kevin because clearly, clearly something is wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. We have to recognize when mentally someone is

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<v Speaker 1>not what they need to be. And I have empathy

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<v Speaker 1>for those people. I just do because I think something

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<v Speaker 1>that just out of their control. Some things are above them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel, I truly feel like this is one

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<v Speaker 1>of those situations. Now, was that said Kevin is a

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<v Speaker 1>home invader? Okay? If you wake up in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the night and a stranger is in your house,

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<v Speaker 1>does it matter what his or her mental or emotional

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<v Speaker 1>state is, they probably getting shot. Okay, well, at least

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<v Speaker 1>in my house. All right, now, I will send him

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<v Speaker 1>in his family healing energy after the fact. But hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that person made a choice to break it into him.

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<v Speaker 1>My house. I don't have time to figure out if

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if they're mentally unwell. Now, that has nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with the story I'm about to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>Because Kevin broke into someone's house and he lived to

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<v Speaker 1>tell about it. In fact, he didn't just live to

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<v Speaker 1>tell about it. He lived to ask the police for help.

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<v Speaker 1>Uncle Shla, brother lend. What are you talking about? He

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<v Speaker 1>lived to ask the police for help after breaking into

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<v Speaker 1>someone's house. Well, let's go to news net for the report.

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<v Speaker 1>Police a Michigan State Police trooper from the Cadillac Post

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<v Speaker 1>respondent to a breaking and entering complaint at a home

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<v Speaker 1>on west Ridge Drive in Williamsburg. The homeowner reported she

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<v Speaker 1>was watching television in the living room when she saw

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<v Speaker 1>a man enter the room. She originally thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>her husband, However, when she realized it wasn't, she screamed.

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<v Speaker 1>Her husband came downstairs and told the man to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>The troopers searched the area and located the suspect, forty

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<v Speaker 1>three year old Kevin william Tegue from Williamsburg, in the

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<v Speaker 1>backyard of his parents home nearby. When the trooper attempted

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<v Speaker 1>to speak with Tigue, he fled into the woods. Later

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<v Speaker 1>that evening, Tigue called nine one one to report he

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<v Speaker 1>was lost. When troopers arrived, Tigue flagged them down, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was taken into custody and lodged in the Grand

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<v Speaker 1>Traverse County Jail. Tigue was arraigned for one count breaking

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<v Speaker 1>and entering without permission and one count resisting and obstructing police.

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<v Speaker 1>He was given a one thousand dollars bond and his

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<v Speaker 1>next scheduled court appearances on October twenty sixth. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>phrase God watches over babies and fools babies. Maybe it's possible. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>God is in a babysitter per se, but he will

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<v Speaker 1>give the mother to scrimp to hold it down. But

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<v Speaker 1>watches over and not watches. It's a difference, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>The fool's part. I don't know about that, because Kevin,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was God watching over him

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<v Speaker 1>or just the luck of the draw. Okay, it's great

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin didn't get shot in these people's house. But why

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<v Speaker 1>would God be involved in this? Why would God have

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<v Speaker 1>sent this fool all right to do the breaking into

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<v Speaker 1>someone's house and didn't have him run off into the

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<v Speaker 1>woods and get lost. And then this man felt like

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<v Speaker 1>he could just call the police because he was lost,

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<v Speaker 1>never mind the fact he just committed a whole crime,

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<v Speaker 1>never mind the fact he was in the woods hiding

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<v Speaker 1>because of a crime he just committed. I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>the police and tell them I'm lost. You don't think

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna have questions on why you just randomly in

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<v Speaker 1>the woods at this time of night. What you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell them? You're camping? Huh, you're hunting, just taking a walk? Y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Do realize narcissism is considered a mental disorder, correct, Because

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way you commit a crime and didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>you are able to call the police because you're lost

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not a narcissist. All right, I honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even continue this story until we play a game

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<v Speaker 1>of guess what. Raising Maybe this will give us a

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<v Speaker 1>better understanding of this situation. Okay, Kevin william T, forty

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<v Speaker 1>three years old, broken into someone's house, lived to tell

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<v Speaker 1>about it, fled into the woods, then had the audacity

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<v Speaker 1>the unmitigated gaul to call nine one one to report

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<v Speaker 1>that he was lost. ANGELA, Ye, yes, what race he is? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to say he is Caucasian. What makes

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<v Speaker 1>you say Caucasian? ANGELA, Well, you know, we don't call

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<v Speaker 1>nine one one like that, And then he probably said,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you couldn't do that. In the words

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<v Speaker 1>of Dave Chappelle, all right, Kevin william T, forty three

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<v Speaker 1>years old, broke into someone's house and fled into the woods,

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<v Speaker 1>then called nine one one to report that he was lost.

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<v Speaker 1>DJ N b Rashawn, Yes, what race it is? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>destroyed on this one. Why are you destroyed? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's I'm in the middle. Right, I'm gonna tell

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<v Speaker 1>you why right. First Dominican. No, I'm not Dominican black,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was thinking black at first, because I can

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<v Speaker 1>see a black person getting stuck in the woods and

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<v Speaker 1>then hearing animals and being like, nah, if dadam cool

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<v Speaker 1>and I will want to get out. Okay, But if

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<v Speaker 1>we did something illegal, we just we just tried to

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<v Speaker 1>set in the woods, sugg out with the bear, stuck

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<v Speaker 1>out with them bears, because we ain't calling no part.

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<v Speaker 1>Rather do these bears than be in jail. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta go with callucasion. Okay, Well I want ange Lee

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<v Speaker 1>and DJ and VI didn't know that you bofar right,

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin william T gets our Caucasian. He had to call

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<v Speaker 1>Gathony the unmitigated white privileged gall to break into someone's house,

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<v Speaker 1>running too the woods, getting lost and then call the

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<v Speaker 1>police to help. And this bond is only a thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for breaking into entering without permission and resisting and

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<v Speaker 1>obscructing police. And he resisted in obscrupted police without getting shot. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just said that, I definitely I know I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to give that one away. Please give Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>william Tu the biggest he hull a matter of fact,

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<v Speaker 1>mccafy Griffin gets some of that. Please give this giant

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<v Speaker 1>Jaro may the biggest he heah heahaw. That is way

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Dann Man is there you go anywe are

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<v Speaker 1>you good man for the culture. He's talking Chris rock guy. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's this crack ass cracker, right, don't give it away. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't say he say what it was right? The

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<v Speaker 1>crackers pointed to it. Jesus, all right, he didn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready crack crack doesn't hit the say that doesn't No,

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<v Speaker 1>actually it does that cracker always rips. Try one more time, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>crack of rips Brocker rips. Okay, what y'all say that slaps?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Now up next, ask ye eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>five one on five one. If you need relationship advice

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<v Speaker 1>or any type of advice, call ye right, what? What? What? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell y'all later. He is so silly. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to I definitely wanted to tell us later,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, I don't want to hear it on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't get shocked by much. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a breakfast local morning. What what? What? What you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna know? Baby mama issues? See some words of wisdom?

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<v Speaker 1>All up now for asking eight hundred five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one the Breakfast Club. Come on, need

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<v Speaker 1>relationship advice, need personal advice? Just need real advice? Hall

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<v Speaker 1>up now for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela, Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>Charloteen the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to ask ye. If you need relationship advice to

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<v Speaker 1>any type of advice, you can call yee. Now we

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<v Speaker 1>got Kim on the line. Come on to Kim. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Man? I gotta I got some small problems? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So I got a four year old daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean four my old daughters and baby. Three months ago, man,

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<v Speaker 1>her father got into an altercation where in terms big

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<v Speaker 1>and she caught the police one me and you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. Now, I'm dealing with all the legal

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<v Speaker 1>stuff going on the deck really but we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>like getting back together making everything good. Well legally, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been coming different from a life every time the legal

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<v Speaker 1>stuff come up and I think about causing our law.

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<v Speaker 1>You go through all this over an argument that we

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<v Speaker 1>got over maybe an hour or two later and everything

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<v Speaker 1>and calmed out. So I just want to know life.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I being stubborn by life? Not trying to work everything?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all wanted to get asking or what did I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Because right now I'm just gonna cross old because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be at my daughter life. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know him. I want to be with her mother. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well a couple of things here. You said that the

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<v Speaker 1>argument got physical, so and in all honesty, did you

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<v Speaker 1>put your hands on her? I'll push them, Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>you understand that that's wrong, and I know that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going through some legal things. It really does suck when

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<v Speaker 1>when these situations turn physical, she put her hands on you,

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<v Speaker 1>you put your hands on her. That has to be

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<v Speaker 1>really difficult for her as well, right, And so the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why you're going through the legal things that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going through and you have to own up to it,

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<v Speaker 1>is that you did put your hands on her. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that's that's something that's not easy for her and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure people who love her to have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with two. As a man, you want, you're a woman

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<v Speaker 1>to feel protective and when things get physical, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to try to do, you know, diffuse a situation and

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<v Speaker 1>not do things like that. It sounds like you both

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<v Speaker 1>need to get some professional help to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>move forward because some people might say, you know, that

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<v Speaker 1>happened and she shouldn't be with you anymore, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure sometimes she thinks that to herself as well. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as whether or not you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be with her, those are some things that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you guys are fresh out of this trying

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<v Speaker 1>to work through things. You're still dealing with legal issues,

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<v Speaker 1>but you got to take ownership of the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>you're dealing with It is your fault as well, right, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It does feel as wallowing. You know, I don't she

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<v Speaker 1>called it and listen, and I know in our households

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<v Speaker 1>the worst thing you can do to a man is

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<v Speaker 1>called the cops on him, right, and then the system

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<v Speaker 1>takes over. But she might really have felt threatened in

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<v Speaker 1>that moment. Yeah, I mean, I understanding the moment. The

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<v Speaker 1>moment could have been been. It's never been to theres

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<v Speaker 1>a well, the police had to be called over that,

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<v Speaker 1>even if I don't really feel like the police had

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<v Speaker 1>to be involved, because like in a lot of states,

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<v Speaker 1>sent Florida like one and brought apart up to the state.

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<v Speaker 1>It don't matter if y'all the made off kids to

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<v Speaker 1>make all that state feel like they want to do

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<v Speaker 1>something something about it, then I gotta do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta deal with that, even though we straight at home,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and as a woman, Cam, I have to

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<v Speaker 1>say that she wasn't wrong for that. You really did

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<v Speaker 1>put your hands on her. So unfortunately, you know, that

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<v Speaker 1>is the consequences of the actions that took place, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping that this is something that will never happen again,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you got whether or not you're together, can

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<v Speaker 1>raise your daughter because you you know, you have a

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<v Speaker 1>child whose four months old. You would hate to see

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<v Speaker 1>something like that happened to your child as you have

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, right yea, yeah, and you know you should

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<v Speaker 1>be very protective of that and understand that as a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she felt like at the moment, I'm scared, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta just call the cops because I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure nothing happens to me, because you don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on in her head or what type of

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<v Speaker 1>trauma she's suffering from. After that as well, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all both need to get some professional help to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to first and foremost tie priority take care

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<v Speaker 1>of your child together, and then for you to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that nothing like this happens again. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that on her end there's work that she needs to

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<v Speaker 1>do as well so that these arguments. Y'all, as a

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<v Speaker 1>couple or even as parents, you're not going to agree

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<v Speaker 1>on everything, and you have to learn how to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to disagree but in a productive manner. And as parents,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all need to be able to figure out those two

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<v Speaker 1>You have a four month old, so there's a long

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<v Speaker 1>road ahead for the two of you to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to at least at the minimum co parent well, so

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<v Speaker 1>I think what would be great for you right now

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<v Speaker 1>is to show that you are stepping up to the plate.

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<v Speaker 1>You acknowledge the fact that you did something that felt

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<v Speaker 1>threatening to her. You are now paying the consequences for that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that you'll never do that again, and take

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<v Speaker 1>every step you can to make sure that it can

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<v Speaker 1>be positive moving forward from a little better. Thank thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. Hey, by the way, I love you more,

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<v Speaker 1>king man. Listen, thank you for what to do on

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<v Speaker 1>rental home. I'll need those books. Get to help me

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<v Speaker 1>as well. I'm gonna sing you, hey, hey, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you the unapologetic God to Black mental health, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna send you a resume momenticum my grandmother's hands.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put that in the mail for you today.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, let me get your address. Well, we love

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<v Speaker 1>you too, We wish you so much. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>success with your relationship, all right? Ask ye eight on

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<v Speaker 1>dread five A five one oh five one if you

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<v Speaker 1>need relationship advice and any type of advice. He e,

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<v Speaker 1>now it's the breakfast club. Good morning, all right, Ask

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<v Speaker 1>ye eight on dread five A five one oh five

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<v Speaker 1>one if you need relationship advice and any type of advice.

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<v Speaker 1>He e. Now it's the breakfast Club. Go on, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep for you some real advice with Angela yet,

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<v Speaker 1>ask ye morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne

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<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the breakfast club with in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Nora. Hey, Nora, Hi, I'm so excited. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just super nervous, tous, like really wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you guys for so long about this. Okay, now

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<v Speaker 1>we're ready to We're listening, Nora, Okay. My question is

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<v Speaker 1>pertaining to a situation about my dad. Um my mom

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<v Speaker 1>and dad. They have been married for forty years and

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<v Speaker 1>they're from a different country. However, of course they go

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<v Speaker 1>and visit sometimes. My dad just recently visited their country

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<v Speaker 1>and when he came back, he started acting pretty weird.

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<v Speaker 1>He is an older man, so he always asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to like help with things on his phone because he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know how to do it that well. But then

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<v Speaker 1>now after he came back from his trip, he was

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<v Speaker 1>acting weirdlys and testing his phone. He was hovering over me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was just old people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things that they do, so I was didn't think about it. However,

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<v Speaker 1>when I got alone with his soul and I went

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<v Speaker 1>through his text messages, I saw that he was entertaining

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<v Speaker 1>and sending money to another female that he met in

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<v Speaker 1>this country during his trips. He now right, So I

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<v Speaker 1>instantly got upset by it, because not only are you

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on my mom, but you're sending money to this

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<v Speaker 1>woman that we don't even know. My mom she does

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<v Speaker 1>have dementia. So I was even more upset by that

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<v Speaker 1>because I wasn't sure if I should even like bring

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<v Speaker 1>this up to my mom or if I should bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up to him. But I didn't want to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up to him, and he gets mad at me

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<v Speaker 1>for like going through his phone, being that I'm his

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<v Speaker 1>child and not his wife. He's sixty by it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you want to know what should you do? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Should I even say anything to my mom about this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know? Or if I should just go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>keep it to myself, or should I bring it up

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<v Speaker 1>to him. I don't even know what to do with

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<v Speaker 1>this situation, because you know they've been married. For you,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never experienced this, my god, you know, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say a few things here, right, and everybody's situation is different.

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<v Speaker 1>So from my point of view, you don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what your parents' situation is with each other. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times we're unaware right of things that may have

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<v Speaker 1>happened in the past, understanding that they might have with

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<v Speaker 1>each other. You don't know if this is something he's

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<v Speaker 1>done before she ever, you don't know any of that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And so this is really just something right now that

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<v Speaker 1>you need to deal with with him, because I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>a fan of keeping things to myself, because I can

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<v Speaker 1>imagine how that would make you feel about him. You

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<v Speaker 1>already have a feeling about you know, obviously your mom

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<v Speaker 1>is suffering from dementia. That's not easy. You feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he's betraying her and the family. And on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>he's sending money to some woman that is most likely

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<v Speaker 1>just taking advantage of him and his generosity. But clearly

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<v Speaker 1>he's also yeah, and clearly he's also lonely, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>not easy to have been with somebody as long as

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<v Speaker 1>your parents have been together to watch her suffer from dementia.

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<v Speaker 1>We already know how hard that is on families, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure for him, it's really difficult, but I would

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<v Speaker 1>say that for both you and your father it's worth

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation. It might be something that would benefit him

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<v Speaker 1>as well. But you cannot keep that to yourself. And

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have to have that whole conversation because there's

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<v Speaker 1>things at play here that you may not even know about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, as far as the faculty that he's having,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as maybe things about your parents' relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not aware of. And like you said, your mama

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<v Speaker 1>is suffering from dementia. I don't know that something like

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<v Speaker 1>this would be beneficial for you to bring up to

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<v Speaker 1>her at this point. But I think with your father,

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<v Speaker 1>you definitely because you don't want to have these feelings

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<v Speaker 1>of animosity toward him. It's something that you should talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him about, but go into it with an open mind,

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that they might have things going on that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not even aware of, and he might have his own

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<v Speaker 1>struggles that he's dealing with and it's not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be an easy conversation for him to have. But you

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<v Speaker 1>also don't want to say your father getting taken advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of right at the same time. All right, he is

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<v Speaker 1>too old to be acting this way, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>so as they if you know, end that he's with

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<v Speaker 1>someone for as he's been without some forty years. He

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<v Speaker 1>has you know, pity issues, and she took care of

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<v Speaker 1>come through all of that, you know, regardless of her

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<v Speaker 1>mental propowerty, our capabilities. I just felt like he owes

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<v Speaker 1>her a lot more loyalty. And the only reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I was fully upset about him sending money for her

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<v Speaker 1>was because my dad definitely asked me for money time

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<v Speaker 1>and time again, and I'm the one that is actually

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<v Speaker 1>setting the bill about he is sending right, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for me moving forward, I wouldn't give him money, but

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<v Speaker 1>what he needs it for I would take care of.

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<v Speaker 1>So if he's like I need to get this, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem that I got it, I'll send it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna order it for you online. I'm gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>care of that bill for you, because you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be sending him money for him to be sending

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody else. And truthfully, if that was me, I

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<v Speaker 1>would text the girl and be like, this is his daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, leave my dad alone and you're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take it. Yeah, I would. I always that was just

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<v Speaker 1>how I am. I would do that, but you should

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<v Speaker 1>definitely have that conversation just with your father, and it

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't hurt for you guys to actually talk to someone together,

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<v Speaker 1>a professional that can help him work through his feelings

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<v Speaker 1>and understand it, and for you as well, because I

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<v Speaker 1>would hate for anything to happen to your here ends

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<v Speaker 1>like they're older, and you don't want to have these

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<v Speaker 1>feelings of animosity, of regret of whatever you might feel resentment,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, later on. So I would love to see

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<v Speaker 1>you deal with that now, yeah, because I definitely do.

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<v Speaker 1>I love and appreciate my dad. He has been there

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<v Speaker 1>for me since day one, who does anything for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I is the last thing I would want is

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<v Speaker 1>to have any negativity forward him, you know, throwing his

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<v Speaker 1>last few years that I may have with him. But

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<v Speaker 1>that really chocked me and it definitely didn't hurt me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't like, I appreciate the advice to give

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<v Speaker 1>because I honestly didn't know how to go about our approaches.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Nora, Well, I wish you so much luck

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<v Speaker 1>and were sending you so much love because I can't

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<v Speaker 1>even fathom what that's like. But it is complicated, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you ye, and thank you guys for answering my paul. Thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck, thank you all right, ask ye eight hundred

1:20:55.640 --> 1:20:57.879
<v Speaker 1>five eight five one oh five one. If any relationship

1:20:57.920 --> 1:21:01.080
<v Speaker 1>advice or any type of advice need rumors all the way. Yes,

1:21:01.200 --> 1:21:04.120
<v Speaker 1>And let's talk about the co CEO of Netflix, Ted

1:21:04.200 --> 1:21:08.800
<v Speaker 1>Sarrondosi is speaking out more about Dave Chappelle and how

1:21:08.920 --> 1:21:12.559
<v Speaker 1>he did not communicate well with his employees. All right,

1:21:12.560 --> 1:21:14.479
<v Speaker 1>we'll get to that. Next is the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye on the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. So Magic Johnson was on CBS News and

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that he discussed was the vaccination controversy and

1:21:30.360 --> 1:21:33.840
<v Speaker 1>whether NBA players should tell the public to get vaccinated.

1:21:33.880 --> 1:21:36.599
<v Speaker 1>Here's what he said, Oh for sure. You know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I got my two shots and made sure I

1:21:40.000 --> 1:21:43.080
<v Speaker 1>put it out on social media. I wanted especially my

1:21:43.240 --> 1:21:46.040
<v Speaker 1>community to know that first of all, is safe. And

1:21:46.240 --> 1:21:50.479
<v Speaker 1>the players, again, people listen to them, they follow them.

1:21:51.040 --> 1:21:54.000
<v Speaker 1>That's very important. Plus the last thing is this, you

1:21:54.520 --> 1:21:57.080
<v Speaker 1>have said to your teammates, I'm gonna be there for you. Well,

1:21:57.160 --> 1:21:59.559
<v Speaker 1>you can't be there if you don't get vaccinated. You're

1:21:59.600 --> 1:22:02.479
<v Speaker 1>letting them down and then that hurts our chances of

1:22:02.560 --> 1:22:05.120
<v Speaker 1>winning the championship. I would never do that to my teammates.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the question again, now, whether or not NBA

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<v Speaker 1>players should have the responsibility of telling the public to

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<v Speaker 1>get vaccinated? Yeah, I say I believe players getting the

1:22:14.320 --> 1:22:17.080
<v Speaker 1>vaccine is promotion enough. All those athletes who have huge

1:22:17.160 --> 1:22:19.799
<v Speaker 1>endorsement deals won't even take pictures next to certain products

1:22:19.840 --> 1:22:21.920
<v Speaker 1>because they know them being seen with those products are

1:22:21.920 --> 1:22:24.200
<v Speaker 1>an endorsement. So what's the better endorsement than NBA players

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<v Speaker 1>saying they have the vaccine? Like, why do they got

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<v Speaker 1>to go out there and do commercials and everything else?

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<v Speaker 1>Like ninety five percent of the NBA is vaccinated? Is

1:22:30.320 --> 1:22:33.680
<v Speaker 1>that not enough? Yeah? I think it's ninety percent. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that not enough to, you know, go out there and

1:22:35.640 --> 1:22:38.160
<v Speaker 1>encourage people to get the vaccine? All right? Well yeah

1:22:38.200 --> 1:22:39.760
<v Speaker 1>he was just asked about it, So that was his

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<v Speaker 1>answer to that question. All right. Now. Snoop Dogg has

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<v Speaker 1>and as a new algorithm LP and it has a

1:22:47.360 --> 1:22:50.080
<v Speaker 1>new Mount Westmore single on their featuring ice Cube too

1:22:50.160 --> 1:22:53.280
<v Speaker 1>Short any forty. Of course they're collectively known as Mount Westmore.

1:22:53.800 --> 1:23:09.280
<v Speaker 1>So here is Big Subwaffer frames, Big Sub with a

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<v Speaker 1>bouncing like a tramp for lane glass shake, going to

1:23:12.479 --> 1:23:15.840
<v Speaker 1>roll past the same candy apple paint, dripping glass of

1:23:15.960 --> 1:23:19.640
<v Speaker 1>green everybody eating. You can ask the team fast to me,

1:23:19.920 --> 1:23:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Speaker's bumping, taxes clean, keep me something to smoke on,

1:23:23.240 --> 1:23:26.639
<v Speaker 1>bad to poke hole base hitting like an earthquake, because

1:23:26.720 --> 1:23:29.160
<v Speaker 1>hold on, I hit the block and roll home. All right?

1:23:29.200 --> 1:23:31.800
<v Speaker 1>I heard that big sub with for that sounds good.

1:23:32.160 --> 1:23:35.559
<v Speaker 1>Fifty today? Right? You said, what snoop is fifty today? Right? Oh?

1:23:35.680 --> 1:23:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Is he? Okay? Number dropping? It's a lot of birthday

1:23:41.160 --> 1:23:44.439
<v Speaker 1>today day is also NBA Young Boy's birthday. I think,

1:23:44.520 --> 1:23:46.800
<v Speaker 1>how was it you today? Twenty two? Now? Yes, it

1:23:47.000 --> 1:23:50.639
<v Speaker 1>was fifty today, Okay. I feel like is Vice President

1:23:51.000 --> 1:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>Harris's birthday? Yes, Kamala Harris's birthday. It's a big day,

1:23:54.520 --> 1:23:57.000
<v Speaker 1>all right. Money bag Yo has also announced Against his

1:23:57.080 --> 1:24:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Pain and reloaded seven new songs. There's gonna be some

1:24:00.720 --> 1:24:04.040
<v Speaker 1>new songs on it and we'll be getting that this Friday.

1:24:04.560 --> 1:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>So some of the new songs. Dj Khalett another one

1:24:09.360 --> 1:24:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Waukeisha remix featuring Little Wayne, Switches and Drake speak to

1:24:13.120 --> 1:24:16.479
<v Speaker 1>You a Little Dirk EStG and Pooh chicsty So make

1:24:16.520 --> 1:24:18.479
<v Speaker 1>sure y'all check that out. I know you went to

1:24:18.760 --> 1:24:21.560
<v Speaker 1>It's asap Ferg's birthday too. Shout the Ferg. It's a

1:24:21.600 --> 1:24:24.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of birthdays happening movies all right. Now. Netflix is

1:24:24.760 --> 1:24:27.479
<v Speaker 1>Ted Serrandos, he is the co CEO, is speaking out.

1:24:27.560 --> 1:24:30.920
<v Speaker 1>He had gotten criticism for the Dave Chappelle comedy special

1:24:31.000 --> 1:24:34.320
<v Speaker 1>The Closer, and he made a lot of comments about it.

1:24:34.360 --> 1:24:36.960
<v Speaker 1>But he does say that he screwed up and the

1:24:37.040 --> 1:24:40.960
<v Speaker 1>handling of employee concerns, and he's not taking down the special,

1:24:41.439 --> 1:24:46.639
<v Speaker 1>but he does say that he should have basically said

1:24:46.680 --> 1:24:50.679
<v Speaker 1>that he was sorry for people's feeling pain and hurt

1:24:50.760 --> 1:24:53.120
<v Speaker 1>from a decision that they made, instead of kind of

1:24:53.240 --> 1:24:56.640
<v Speaker 1>dismissing that. And so he said, storytelling has a real

1:24:56.720 --> 1:24:59.200
<v Speaker 1>impact in the real world. I reiterate that because it's that,

1:24:59.360 --> 1:25:01.160
<v Speaker 1>because it's why I work. Here's why we do what

1:25:01.240 --> 1:25:03.760
<v Speaker 1>we do. That impact can be hugely positive and it

1:25:03.840 --> 1:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>can be quite negative. So I would have been better

1:25:06.080 --> 1:25:08.720
<v Speaker 1>in that communication. They were joining a conversation already in

1:25:08.800 --> 1:25:11.960
<v Speaker 1>progress but out of context. But that happens. Internal emails

1:25:12.000 --> 1:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>go out in all my communications, I should lean into

1:25:14.040 --> 1:25:16.880
<v Speaker 1>the humanity upfront and not make a blanket statement that

1:25:16.920 --> 1:25:20.360
<v Speaker 1>could land very differently than it was intended. So he

1:25:20.439 --> 1:25:23.599
<v Speaker 1>said he made some blanket and matter of fact statements

1:25:23.640 --> 1:25:25.760
<v Speaker 1>that are not all accurate, and he said that it

1:25:25.920 --> 1:25:28.920
<v Speaker 1>was uncharacteristic for him. He was moving fast and trying

1:25:28.960 --> 1:25:31.679
<v Speaker 1>to answer really specific questions, but there were a group

1:25:31.720 --> 1:25:35.000
<v Speaker 1>of employees who were definitely feeling pain and hurt, and

1:25:35.120 --> 1:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>he should have led with a lot more humanity. Nothing

1:25:38.880 --> 1:25:40.639
<v Speaker 1>wrong with that. I don't want to know what content

1:25:40.680 --> 1:25:42.680
<v Speaker 1>are you going to create that everyone is going to

1:25:42.800 --> 1:25:45.519
<v Speaker 1>agree with, though, Like it doesn't matter what it is comedy,

1:25:45.640 --> 1:25:48.320
<v Speaker 1>news radio, someone is going to be the topic of

1:25:48.840 --> 1:25:52.680
<v Speaker 1>said discussion. Or even when you're presenting a certain you know,

1:25:53.240 --> 1:25:55.880
<v Speaker 1>lifestyle or something somebody's not going to agree with. It

1:25:56.000 --> 1:25:58.120
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter what it is, right, And I guess when

1:25:58.160 --> 1:26:00.400
<v Speaker 1>you have employees who have concerns, you just lead with

1:26:00.520 --> 1:26:04.600
<v Speaker 1>humanity and understanding of that, because he does. He is

1:26:04.640 --> 1:26:07.680
<v Speaker 1>aware that everybody's not going to like everything, and so

1:26:07.880 --> 1:26:10.120
<v Speaker 1>you can't make blanket statements. You just kind of have

1:26:10.200 --> 1:26:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to lean into that humanity. I hear people who complain

1:26:12.720 --> 1:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>about poles, I hear people who complain about sisters. I

1:26:15.000 --> 1:26:18.360
<v Speaker 1>hear people who complain about spells, specials, like everybody's gonna

1:26:18.360 --> 1:26:21.240
<v Speaker 1>always have something to say. Some people even complain about

1:26:21.280 --> 1:26:23.760
<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club, believe it or not. Really, no, no,

1:26:24.600 --> 1:26:27.800
<v Speaker 1>that's not true. Nobody ever complaint about the Breakfast Club

1:26:27.840 --> 1:26:30.040
<v Speaker 1>and eleven years we've never had no complaints. Stop. But

1:26:30.160 --> 1:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>we lean into humanity. And Charlomagne was on Stephen Colbert

1:26:33.320 --> 1:26:36.519
<v Speaker 1>last night, and well know, I meant to say, Lenard

1:26:36.600 --> 1:26:40.360
<v Speaker 1>mckelby was on. I go to my therapist a lot,

1:26:40.400 --> 1:26:41.960
<v Speaker 1>and I talk to her about getting caught up in

1:26:42.040 --> 1:26:45.000
<v Speaker 1>the charcterature of yourself. And it's like for me, you know,

1:26:45.080 --> 1:26:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the name Lenard Mantelby grounds me because when I hear it,

1:26:47.439 --> 1:26:49.880
<v Speaker 1>I hear my grandma, I hear my mom, I hear

1:26:49.960 --> 1:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>my wife. Like nobody calls me Charlotmagne at the house,

1:26:52.360 --> 1:26:54.559
<v Speaker 1>you know me? And I remember we had Will Smith

1:26:54.640 --> 1:26:57.040
<v Speaker 1>on the Breakfast Club like last year. He said, you know,

1:26:57.120 --> 1:26:59.000
<v Speaker 1>he had read in my book and he was talking

1:26:59.040 --> 1:27:01.360
<v Speaker 1>to me and he was like, I'm seeing the real

1:27:01.600 --> 1:27:03.599
<v Speaker 1>you poke out and he was like, I just want

1:27:03.640 --> 1:27:05.479
<v Speaker 1>you to know that you don't have to wear the

1:27:05.560 --> 1:27:08.960
<v Speaker 1>mask anymore. You are enough. And I was like, are

1:27:09.000 --> 1:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you tapping my phone. It's my therapist giving you notes

1:27:12.040 --> 1:27:13.479
<v Speaker 1>on me, like how do you know that? So I

1:27:13.560 --> 1:27:16.000
<v Speaker 1>just felt like that was God talking through him in

1:27:16.080 --> 1:27:18.320
<v Speaker 1>that moment to let me know, you know what, You're

1:27:18.360 --> 1:27:19.720
<v Speaker 1>on the right path. You don't need to wear to

1:27:19.760 --> 1:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>mask him. We don't have to be the character of

1:27:21.240 --> 1:27:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Charlotta Magne. You can be Leonard. Leonard is enough, that's right,

1:27:24.120 --> 1:27:27.720
<v Speaker 1>dropping a clues bombs for Will Smith, that's right, drop

1:27:27.840 --> 1:27:31.160
<v Speaker 1>a bond first. Charlotta ain't poking out. Leonard is poking out.

1:27:33.280 --> 1:27:36.439
<v Speaker 1>Also for legacy. Also for legacy, because I got four

1:27:36.520 --> 1:27:38.000
<v Speaker 1>daughters and I want all of them to keep our

1:27:38.080 --> 1:27:39.760
<v Speaker 1>last name. When you know, they get older, if they

1:27:39.840 --> 1:27:42.400
<v Speaker 1>get married, you know, do the hyphen thing, but keep

1:27:42.439 --> 1:27:44.400
<v Speaker 1>the mckelvy, keep the legacy going. I'm not out here

1:27:44.439 --> 1:27:47.200
<v Speaker 1>breaking these generational curses for nothing. All right, Well that

1:27:47.479 --> 1:27:49.560
<v Speaker 1>is your reports. Proud of you, bro, and I do

1:27:49.640 --> 1:27:51.720
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<v Speaker 1>and we're ready for the Rashawn mix through revote. We'll

1:28:13.800 --> 1:28:19.160
<v Speaker 1>see tomorrow. Everybody else is Rashawn Casey. Poking through is

1:28:19.160 --> 1:28:24.120
<v Speaker 1>actually sounds very mature. Stop, you're married man who is

1:28:24.160 --> 1:28:26.519
<v Speaker 1>flirting with you just like you want to poke coming through?

1:28:26.560 --> 1:28:28.800
<v Speaker 1>That's what you're just? What are you? Ye? What is

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<v Speaker 1>the say boy. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne

1:29:05.479 --> 1:29:07.519
<v Speaker 1>the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlotte, I've

1:29:07.560 --> 1:29:09.679
<v Speaker 1>been watching you a lot. Bro bro bro Bro' married

1:29:09.760 --> 1:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>knock it Off. I was about to say I've been

1:29:11.800 --> 1:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>watching you on TikTok. You haven't because I'm not on TikTok.

1:29:14.439 --> 1:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Yes you are. That's a damn lot. How am I

1:29:16.120 --> 1:29:18.559
<v Speaker 1>on TikTok? For one, we have our breakfast club, TikTok

1:29:18.640 --> 1:29:21.759
<v Speaker 1>got you blowing off. We got people taking out clips

1:29:21.760 --> 1:29:24.479
<v Speaker 1>and making their old clips about them. So people are

1:29:24.479 --> 1:29:27.360
<v Speaker 1>taking our clips and putting their own like spin on it. Exactly.

1:29:27.439 --> 1:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>You also got other shows talking about you. I mean,

1:29:29.680 --> 1:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>you're not even on here, and I think you've got

1:29:31.200 --> 1:29:33.760
<v Speaker 1>like thirty eight million views. That's not true. Yeah, it's true.

1:29:34.160 --> 1:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Brilliant idiots. You're doing all types of wild things. You

1:29:36.680 --> 1:29:38.479
<v Speaker 1>gotta go check it out. Are they talking about my

1:29:38.520 --> 1:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>talk show on Comedy Central every Friday night called The

1:29:40.400 --> 1:29:43.200
<v Speaker 1>Guys on the Truth? No, they're talking about you blowing Well,

1:29:43.560 --> 1:29:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you got my attention, all right, salute to everybody who's

1:29:46.200 --> 1:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>been showing me love on TikTok. You have excellent taste.

1:29:48.960 --> 1:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>And for all of you that's planning on posting content

1:29:51.000 --> 1:29:53.880
<v Speaker 1>on me, please get my name rights. Charlomagne the God,

1:29:54.280 --> 1:29:57.800
<v Speaker 1>not Mars chestnut O, chast me bro. Nobody's making a mistake. Well,

1:29:57.840 --> 1:29:59.680
<v Speaker 1>you say, TikTok is where the conversation is in the

1:29:59.720 --> 1:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>place to catch great content. That's right. You don't even

1:30:02.160 --> 1:30:04.280
<v Speaker 1>have to post, just joined to watch and then you

1:30:04.360 --> 1:30:06.160
<v Speaker 1>can post if you want. All right, TikTok. You have

1:30:06.320 --> 1:30:11.400
<v Speaker 1>to see it. Yes, that shell hoarding everybody as DJ Envy,

1:30:11.600 --> 1:30:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Yes,

1:30:15.520 --> 1:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>you have to show out to Mel Robins for joining

1:30:17.320 --> 1:30:19.240
<v Speaker 1>us this morning and had a great Mel Robbins man

1:30:19.320 --> 1:30:21.840
<v Speaker 1>go get her new book, The High Five Habit. Take

1:30:21.920 --> 1:30:23.800
<v Speaker 1>control of your life with one simple habit. I do

1:30:23.880 --> 1:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>the mirror technique, though I've been doing. I don't high

1:30:27.240 --> 1:30:29.840
<v Speaker 1>five myself. I just I'm on some like DJ Kallis

1:30:29.840 --> 1:30:31.719
<v Speaker 1>stuff like you know you are great, you are special.

1:30:31.840 --> 1:30:33.519
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. I tell myself I forgive

1:30:33.600 --> 1:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>you you know, Mike, Yeah you do. I do. I

1:30:37.120 --> 1:30:38.960
<v Speaker 1>give affirmation to myself in the mirror. I've never done

1:30:39.000 --> 1:30:40.479
<v Speaker 1>the high five thing, but that makes a lot to

1:30:40.560 --> 1:30:43.120
<v Speaker 1>try it. I am. I did that. I don't look

1:30:43.120 --> 1:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>at my phone now for five minutes in the morning,

1:30:45.360 --> 1:30:46.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't look at it for an hour. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. Brush my teeth, then I look, she was

1:30:50.320 --> 1:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>just here yesterday. I did that. I did that the

1:30:54.240 --> 1:30:56.679
<v Speaker 1>other day, and then I look at my phone. Charlomagne

1:30:56.720 --> 1:30:58.439
<v Speaker 1>hits me, I'm not coming to work. See if I

1:30:58.479 --> 1:31:01.559
<v Speaker 1>had knewn that thirty minute beforehand, I wouldn't quit to work.

1:31:01.600 --> 1:31:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Even that's right, that means that now, doesn't that mean?

1:31:06.200 --> 1:31:08.080
<v Speaker 1>Show the main looked at his phone? No, I was up?

1:31:08.439 --> 1:31:10.800
<v Speaker 1>How did you send the text? Twenty? I get up

1:31:10.800 --> 1:31:12.760
<v Speaker 1>four twenty every morning. I don't. I don't touch my phone.

1:31:12.800 --> 1:31:15.880
<v Speaker 1>Mor No, I get up at four twenty. I pray,

1:31:16.760 --> 1:31:19.160
<v Speaker 1>take a shower, I meditate, I read out of my

1:31:19.240 --> 1:31:21.439
<v Speaker 1>daily affirmation books, kiss my family, and then I'm out.

1:31:21.479 --> 1:31:23.280
<v Speaker 1>And I literally do not look at my phone TOI

1:31:23.320 --> 1:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>like five thirty six o'clock. I tried. Didn't I even

1:31:25.439 --> 1:31:27.519
<v Speaker 1>know that you wasn't coming in until I already got here? See,

1:31:27.520 --> 1:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>I should should have checked my phone earlier. M all right.

1:31:31.040 --> 1:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, I want to shout out to

1:31:33.160 --> 1:31:35.479
<v Speaker 1>um Whole Foods. If you want to get some coffee

1:31:35.560 --> 1:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>uplifts people. It's now available on the Whole Food's website

1:31:38.320 --> 1:31:40.679
<v Speaker 1>to get it as well, say you know if y'all

1:31:40.720 --> 1:31:43.400
<v Speaker 1>want to do that, and too, rouses for being supportive

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<v Speaker 1>of my other company, Drink Fresh Juice We're in sixteen

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<v Speaker 1>stories there, but they just sent us an email saying

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna expand. So I do appreciate that partnership as well.

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<v Speaker 1>In Louisiana. All right, now, when we come back, we

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<v Speaker 1>got the positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlomagne, you got a positive note.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a positive note, man, And I want

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<v Speaker 1>to quote Mel Robbins because I think that Mel Robbins

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<v Speaker 1>is dope and she says a lot of great things,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna quote her. I really don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what quote I don't want to go with from Mel Robbins,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do enjoy this one a lot. There is

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<v Speaker 1>only one you, and there will never be another one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your power, and I give you one more. Knowing

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<v Speaker 1>what you need to do to improve your life takes wisdom,

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<v Speaker 1>pushing yourself to do it takes courage. Mel Robbins, Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't finish a y'all dumb