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Speaker 1: Are you feeling easy? I feel good. I got a
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Speaker 1: Philip Ashley. It's a black owned chocolate company, and so
Speaker 1: the owner, Philip Ashley, actually asked me what my favorite
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Speaker 1: So we're gonna see. I don't know what they are
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Speaker 1: some uh Sirock and Calwer to go with it. Okay, cool, well,
Speaker 1: thank you. And I got some Hotti sauce. This is
Speaker 1: for you Nick. He does all of our camera stuff.
Speaker 1: He loves hot sauces. So I got some Popeyes Megda
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Speaker 1: Did you like it? Um? It was cool. I thought
Speaker 1: the end should have been a little different, but I
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Speaker 1: I didn't like the I didn't like the ending because
Speaker 1: I was like, man, you know what I'm mine, I'm
Speaker 1: about to tell the whole thing. Yeah. Now I figured
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Speaker 1: I figured it out. What did you figure out? What
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Speaker 1: Then I figured that part out. You figured that out, Nick,
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Speaker 1: you can watch You're not gonna watch you. Season three
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Speaker 1: I did up to watch Queens last night the first episode.
Speaker 1: Did you watch that? How was that? Yeah? It was good.
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Speaker 1: an artist named Santi Gold. They played one of her
Speaker 1: songs during the show. I would say, that sound like
Speaker 1: a sane song. So I didn't get to see Queens.
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Speaker 1: talking about? Restless anal syndrome. Experts are saying that COVID
Speaker 1: nineteen infections may be causing a restless anal syndrome that
Speaker 1: likestl bitch face. Yea, oh so now you want COVID
Speaker 1: restless anal something? All right? Well, a new case report
Speaker 1: in Japan has established a link between what people are
Speaker 1: saying is a gastro intestinal pain that's chronic, that's a
Speaker 1: constant urge to defecate. So they are trying to do
Speaker 1: some more research to determine that link between restless anal
Speaker 1: syndrome and COVID nineteen. But they're saying, this is a
Speaker 1: real symptom that's been happening, that's keep even after you go,
Speaker 1: you still feel like you have to go, and it's
Speaker 1: a deep anal discomfort. Isn't it a deep anal discomfort. No,
Speaker 1: they said that it was the urge to go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom, was worse at night, and then when he
Speaker 1: was resting throughout most of the day. Only when he
Speaker 1: was moving or breaking a sweat did he feel temporary
Speaker 1: relief before the sensation rushed back later, according to people.
Speaker 1: So they did conduct colinoscopies and neurological tests for reflexes
Speaker 1: and his anus, but they could not explain why these
Speaker 1: symptoms arose weeks after his infection and then they did
Speaker 1: find hemorrhoids. But they are saying that it's kind of
Speaker 1: like restless leg syndrome. Fall asleep now you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know how your leg just is always like moving.
Speaker 1: That was called anxiety. But they are going to be
Speaker 1: doing some more evidence, but just keeps like imagine you
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and you defecate and then you
Speaker 1: always still feel like you have to say what you mean? Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're gonna blame cold with for everything up well, they
Speaker 1: say this is another symptom. Shout out to a destiny
Speaker 1: Forever EJC. She actually sent me this story on Instagram,
Speaker 1: like make sure you report on this because Charlotmagne will
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Speaker 1: five syndrome. Well, the bottom line is is what what's
Speaker 1: the bottom line? All right? And Facebook is planning to
Speaker 1: rebrand the company. They're gonna get a new name and
Speaker 1: they're gonna announce that next week. They're going to be
Speaker 1: focusing on not just being a social media company, but
Speaker 1: their ambitions have expanded, and they're saying right now they
Speaker 1: are trying to make sure they build up more public trust.
Speaker 1: And also it's just that's not all they do. They
Speaker 1: don't want to be associated as just a social media company.
Speaker 1: They want to be a metaverse company, just bigger than
Speaker 1: just one thing. It's universal, it's all over. So they're
Speaker 1: gonna actually unveil this at the company's annual Connect conference
Speaker 1: on October twenty eighth, but you might learn the names. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, they own a lot of other things like
Speaker 1: what's app Oculus and more So there's more that they
Speaker 1: do besides this Instagram, Facebook, What's app Oculus. They have
Speaker 1: a lot of different companies underneath them, so they're a
Speaker 1: tech giant. It's not just social media. I wonder if
Speaker 1: they start calling themselves something else, like if they say
Speaker 1: that they're a network. Well, that prompt the government to
Speaker 1: start regulating them in a real way, because once you
Speaker 1: start calling yourself an actual network and you're admitting that
Speaker 1: you're broadcasting things right, all right, well I guess and
Speaker 1: you know they do have a lot of shows on
Speaker 1: there too, Facebook watch a lot of different programming. All right,
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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Oh boy, you heard
Speaker 1: Wrestless ain't no syndrome and you called immediately trave Hey, Trav,
Speaker 1: what's up pieces, what's happening? Well, no, I really am
Speaker 1: calling and talking about Wrestless. Any know what happened? You're like,
Speaker 1: I feel like my ex added turned around. He was
Speaker 1: cheating on me. I think he had Restless anal syndrome. Bro,
Speaker 1: and it's a real thing that these bottoms have and
Speaker 1: trav trav. But yeah, X wanted it, wanted it to
Speaker 1: go in, ain't know wrested it goes out. Well, I
Speaker 1: think I think you had a different type of antal
Speaker 1: antal syndrome. So yeah, it was just restless. He me,
Speaker 1: I got something to say to you that called in yesterday.
Speaker 1: He was absolutely right. I don't like how you asking
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Speaker 1: if that kind of energetic about it again? Drive your
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Speaker 1: Who's this hello? I just want to say bless good
Speaker 1: morning everybody. Sehn Stone was happening. Brother, what's up? Charlotte
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Speaker 1: Just Trap? Just called him Trap's X had it? Why? Why?
Speaker 1: Why Trav got it? Are you in it? What are
Speaker 1: you doing? Trav got it? I think he got start.
Speaker 1: How do you know? I don't know? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I'm just now showing Stone. This is how
Speaker 1: you get in trouble. Leave travel over. Traf is minded
Speaker 1: his business and now he he want to get on
Speaker 1: your ass. You're gonna be like, damn. The crazy thing is,
Speaker 1: you know. The crazy thing is I got love for Trap,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to see y'all the story. So last
Speaker 1: off the train and woof bridge and I come off
Speaker 1: the train and I see a black dude on the platforms.
Speaker 1: I say, what's up? I give him the head nod,
Speaker 1: like when black people to each other, we give each
Speaker 1: other the head nods. Right, he gave me the head
Speaker 1: nod and start smiling at me. Crazy, what's trum with
Speaker 1: that no, but it was a crazy smile. It was
Speaker 1: like like, hey, like I wanted hill a smile. Well,
Speaker 1: I got to do a trap. This don't got never
Speaker 1: to do a sad trap, but everything to do a
Speaker 1: wrestlers anto synder. I'm trying to say that was gay
Speaker 1: and he was showing the holl that short Stone. But listen,
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Speaker 1: Why are you referring to yourself as Shawn Stone or not? Listen?
Speaker 1: But the matter of fact is I went down to
Speaker 1: when I look behind me, let's do what is following me?
Speaker 1: So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man?
Speaker 1: You was like no, and then ran back up seating
Speaker 1: the hop on the train crazy. I mean, you shouldn't
Speaker 1: be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, right,
Speaker 1: I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head? Now,
Speaker 1: that's not that's not a wink. Bro Okay, let's just
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Speaker 1: Now we got rumors on the way. What we're talking about, Yes,
Speaker 1: and let's talk about young boy. He has been involved
Speaker 1: in a jail fight, according to reports, and that's why
Speaker 1: he is going to be denied bond. We'll give you
Speaker 1: more details, all right, We'll get into that next. Keep
Speaker 1: a lock. This to Breakfast Club. God Morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela. Ye, well, it
Speaker 1: looks like Wendy Williams will not be returning to her
Speaker 1: show until at least November. So yeah, so it looks
Speaker 1: like she's still going through whatever sickness and I know
Speaker 1: complications some graves disease a direct condition. So yeah, she's
Speaker 1: not back until then. But they have announced some more
Speaker 1: guest hosts. Sherry Shepherd is going to be a special
Speaker 1: guest host from November first to the fifth, and Whitney
Speaker 1: Cummings will be guest hosting October twenty fifth to the ninth. Now,
Speaker 1: Whitney Cummings posted, nobody can ever replace Wendy, but we
Speaker 1: will do whatever we can to fill in so she
Speaker 1: can come back stronger than ever. She's gone so hard
Speaker 1: for so long, and as much as I miss seeing
Speaker 1: her every day, just imagine how hilarious she's going to
Speaker 1: be after some time to take care of herself and
Speaker 1: have some quiet time to think. Sherry Shepherd also posted
Speaker 1: that she will be guest hosting too. Well, you gotta
Speaker 1: continue to send a Wendy Williams healing energy. She might
Speaker 1: will take the whole year off though, like, well you can't.
Speaker 1: You can't rush your health, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Not for no TV show, all right. Sherry Shepherd in
Speaker 1: the press release state that I had such a great
Speaker 1: time when I hosted the show in twenty nineteen, and
Speaker 1: I'm flattered that and the producers put their trust in
Speaker 1: me to fill in again. I'm sending my love and
Speaker 1: well wishes to her. All right, Young boy never broke again.
Speaker 1: He was allegedly involved in a fight while he was
Speaker 1: in jail, and prosecutors are using that to deny him bond.
Speaker 1: According to a recent report that regards his detailed post
Speaker 1: release plan, they're using that one incident that reportedly happened
Speaker 1: to justify keeping him locked up for such a long time.
Speaker 1: They argued that he cannot stay out of fights. Prosecutor
Speaker 1: Will Morris even said that his pattern of behavior is disturbing,
Speaker 1: and it was confirmed that the Feds were using the
Speaker 1: name Operation Never Free Again to describe the sting takedown
Speaker 1: of Young Boy. I was think in jail though, like
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, if somebody walked to be when
Speaker 1: swings on you, you should be allowed to defend yourself. Now,
Speaker 1: if you started the fight, that's different. But if you're
Speaker 1: defending yourself, and I'm sure everybody's showing yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what are you supposed to do? Yeah? And
Speaker 1: you know they're proposing when he gets released that he'll
Speaker 1: relocate to Utah, and which I think that could be
Speaker 1: really good for him, right, And what they are saying
Speaker 1: is that there's a tutor, one of his childhood tutors
Speaker 1: that lives there. He purchased a residence in North Utah recently.
Speaker 1: He reportedly stayed with her extended family throughout the past
Speaker 1: decade while remaining out of trouble whenever he's there. And
Speaker 1: I think that could be a positive thing because sometimes
Speaker 1: you got to take people out of the environment where
Speaker 1: things can provoke you and put them someplace else. Because
Speaker 1: such a young you really want to rehab somebody, right, Right,
Speaker 1: he's such a young man. That's why you got to
Speaker 1: give people the chance to grow, give people a chance
Speaker 1: to evolve, Like, you know, how old is he? God?
Speaker 1: Come on, you know I did have that chance to
Speaker 1: really go like to his you know, grandparents' house and
Speaker 1: talk to him and to have some off camera conversations.
Speaker 1: And so I do feel particularly particularly empathetic to him
Speaker 1: and what he's been through. So much love to nb
Speaker 1: a young boy. And after he's held accountable for whatever
Speaker 1: he's in jail for and he you know, pays that
Speaker 1: to society, he should be allowed to, you know, come
Speaker 1: out and go live a great life. What did a
Speaker 1: man chance to grow? What is he in jail? Or
Speaker 1: do we even know? I forgot weapons and drug charges?
Speaker 1: And all right, now let's talk about Cardi B. She
Speaker 1: is pleading not guilty to assault charges and she could
Speaker 1: face four years in prison. She had been offered the
Speaker 1: chance to plead guilty the third degree assault that would
Speaker 1: be in exchange for a conditional discharge, but she has
Speaker 1: decided that she is going to plead not guilty. They
Speaker 1: always tell us, a lot of lawyers have come up
Speaker 1: here and told us, if you didn't do something, don't
Speaker 1: just plead guilty to a lesser charge, because that will
Speaker 1: that could potentially a conditional discharge lead to any little
Speaker 1: thing that happens could land her behind bars. So I'm
Speaker 1: sure she feels like she can fight this. Not only
Speaker 1: that that opens up the civil case. So she pleads
Speaker 1: guilty to that, then that civil case gets opened wide up,
Speaker 1: and that's a lot easier than a court case. So
Speaker 1: but if you're found not guilty to assault charges, somebody
Speaker 1: can't still bring a Yeah, but it's a lot easier
Speaker 1: if you plead guilty though. Okay, so she posted no
Speaker 1: one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you
Speaker 1: reta ALLIHL supposed they want to see a bad bitch
Speaker 1: do bad and a lot of people have been testing
Speaker 1: her on social media as well. Now pushics is asking
Speaker 1: a judge to stop Fedge from presenting evidence of past
Speaker 1: crimes from when he was only eleven years old at
Speaker 1: his trial. So the first is an assault case that
Speaker 1: happened when he was fourteen, the other is a robbery
Speaker 1: case that occurred when he was only eleven in the
Speaker 1: sixth grade. And his team is saying that you shouldn't
Speaker 1: show those things at the trial. All right. These actions
Speaker 1: have no direct nexus to pushicsy other than in speculation.
Speaker 1: They're saying. You know, he was arrested in June for
Speaker 1: his legend involvement in the shooting and robbery of two
Speaker 1: men in October of twenty twenty in Miami. The federal
Speaker 1: charges he's facing and clude discharging firearm during a violent crime, conspiracy,
Speaker 1: and Hobbs Act robbery. If convicted, he's facing a possible
Speaker 1: maximum sentence of life in prison. Damn. So what are
Speaker 1: you trying to say he got a history of violence
Speaker 1: or something later? Yeah, but I think, I mean, eleven
Speaker 1: years old, and when you're a child, should you be
Speaker 1: allowed to present that now the sixth grade something you
Speaker 1: did in sixth grade? I don't know. I mean I
Speaker 1: didn't my mind, no, But I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know how the law works. It sounds to me like
Speaker 1: they're just trying to paint a history of you know,
Speaker 1: him being violent and saying that he I guess he
Speaker 1: hasn't rehabilitated or change. I don't know, all right, And
Speaker 1: that is all These kids be so nice when you
Speaker 1: meet that. I called him a kid, but yeah, these
Speaker 1: young men be so nice when you meet him, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't that gets hard to I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I just know that, you know, we all start someplace,
Speaker 1: and I couldn't even imagine being that young with that
Speaker 1: kind of money in the minds that I had when
Speaker 1: I was twenty something years though, correct, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? That's when you would hope your old g's
Speaker 1: and your older family members can you know, put their
Speaker 1: arm around you and try to guide you the right way. Hey,
Speaker 1: we we all had that. It's not like we didn't
Speaker 1: have that growing up. But you know, you still end
Speaker 1: up doing stupid things. But I just know that you
Speaker 1: know that man had a long life ahead of him.
Speaker 1: Poosh its the NBA young boy, all of them. So
Speaker 1: I would hate to see any of them have to
Speaker 1: go to jail for life or twenty years or thirty years,
Speaker 1: because you never know who the brothers are gonna turn
Speaker 1: out to be. All right, now we got front page
Speaker 1: news next, Yes, and let's talk about Halloween costumes. What
Speaker 1: is the number one search? All right, we'll get into
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Speaker 1: last night, the Bucks beat the Nets one twenty seven,
Speaker 1: one on four, the Warriors beat the Lakers one twenty
Speaker 1: one fourteen. Now what else we got? Easy? Well, Square
Speaker 1: game Halloween costumes are topping internet searches, so everybody wants
Speaker 1: to be a character from Square Game. I kind of
Speaker 1: was thinking, I like to be the red light green
Speaker 1: Light ones three dollars, Yeah, the dollar around and then
Speaker 1: maybe you guys can come dress and jumpsues and I
Speaker 1: can shoot y'all. We've been um, well some of the
Speaker 1: A lot of those people survive. You you haven't seen
Speaker 1: the show, but if I did, a lot of them died.
Speaker 1: That was like the first episode. But we would be
Speaker 1: the one to survive. Yes, we would. Yeah, we would
Speaker 1: definitely want to survive easily. All right. Now let's talk
Speaker 1: about Donald Trump. He made a statement about Colin Powell's passing.
Speaker 1: Instead of just saying rest in peace or nothing at all,
Speaker 1: he posted, wonderful to see Colin Powell, who made big
Speaker 1: mistakes on Iraq and famously so called weapons of master
Speaker 1: Chucks and be treated in death so beautifully by the
Speaker 1: fake news media. Hope that happens to me someday. He
Speaker 1: was a classic rhino, if even that, always being the
Speaker 1: first to attack other Republicans. He made plenty of mistakes,
Speaker 1: but anyway, may he rest in peace? What is wrong
Speaker 1: with him? Nothing? He sounded like you sound like a
Speaker 1: lot of rappers. I know. I've heard shut up and
Speaker 1: don't say nothing. I've heard rappers say when you might
Speaker 1: if you most my ap alive, you might op did
Speaker 1: like you know. It's distasteful to me, but that's who
Speaker 1: he all. Right now, there is early November approval expected
Speaker 1: for the fives, a vaccine for children at age five
Speaker 1: to eleven, and then New York officials are pushing forward
Speaker 1: on planning to vaccinate children once they were approved, and
Speaker 1: right now they want school to become alternate vaccination sites
Speaker 1: due to fears of an impending rush on pediatrician So
Speaker 1: they're saying about one point five million children in the
Speaker 1: state will be eligible to get that vaccine, and the
Speaker 1: governor is saying that with parental permission slip for parents,
Speaker 1: they will encourage them to make appointments now for early
Speaker 1: to mid November, so age five to eleven. I know
Speaker 1: that scares y'all with your kids as far as that
Speaker 1: vaccination being available in early November, right, it does, yeah, don't.
Speaker 1: I just don't know how it affects the kids as yet.
Speaker 1: I don't know if they tested enough kids and seeing
Speaker 1: the results for kids as yet. I know they have
Speaker 1: for adults. Oh yeah, it does definitely makes me nervous,
Speaker 1: all right. And gang in Haiti won seventeen million dollars
Speaker 1: in ransom for seventeen American and Canadian missionaries who have
Speaker 1: been kidnapped. They're asking for a million dollars each for
Speaker 1: their release. At sixteen American citizens and one Canadian. They
Speaker 1: were actually they're visiting an orphanage. And that abduction is
Speaker 1: part of a wave of indiscriminate kidnappings. It's become more brazen.
Speaker 1: The country is suffering from political instability, civil unrest, lack
Speaker 1: of quality healthcare, and severe poverty. So we are praying
Speaker 1: for their safe return. The abductive group is made out
Speaker 1: of five men, seven women, and five children. The kids
Speaker 1: include an eight month old baby and kids aged three, six, thirteen,
Speaker 1: and fifteen years old. The ages of the adults range
Speaker 1: from eighteen to forty eight. All right, and that is
Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.
Speaker 1: Now when we come back, who's joining us this morning?
Speaker 1: Oh man. Mel Robbins international bestselling author. She had a
Speaker 1: book called The Five Second Rules. Some of y'all own it,
Speaker 1: I'm sure, And now she had a new book called
Speaker 1: the High five habit. What she's that you can take
Speaker 1: control of your life with one simple habit, and I
Speaker 1: cannot wait for her to tell us what that habit is.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that when we come back,
Speaker 1: so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning. The
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Speaker 1: mornings will never be the same morning. Everybody is DJ
Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: We have a special guest in the building. Yes, indeed
Speaker 1: we have author Mel Robbins. Welcome, Wow, thank you, a
Speaker 1: motivational speaker and a host of others. Yes, a lot
Speaker 1: of things. How are you doing this morning? And welcome
Speaker 1: to the show. Well, I'm I'm super excited. We got
Speaker 1: so much to talk about and I cannot wait to
Speaker 1: just get into it all. Well, who is Mel Robbins?
Speaker 1: For the folks that don't know, I'm somebody that's screwed
Speaker 1: up a lot in life. Oh yeah, I tend to
Speaker 1: come by wisdom the hard way, Okay, by either digging
Speaker 1: a hole or falling into one and then needing a
Speaker 1: ladder and having to build it myself. A kind of
Speaker 1: people I like to listen to. I like to listen
Speaker 1: to people who've actually had experiences that they can speak on,
Speaker 1: whether those experiences a so called good or so called
Speaker 1: back because I don't believe in either. I don't believe
Speaker 1: life is a process. Yeah. I think life is like
Speaker 1: the hardest and most incredible school you'll ever attend. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: and everything is a lesson. And you know, I kind
Speaker 1: of came into writing books and being a motivational speaker
Speaker 1: because I have had so many struggles, just like everybody else. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody gets to being an adult in
Speaker 1: life and not experiencing some kind of trauma or abuse
Speaker 1: or whatever. It's hot in here. We didn't pay to
Speaker 1: a c build. I'm also fifty three. I could be
Speaker 1: like everybody's mother, and so I'm having a lot, right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know how old you think we are, but there, yeah,
Speaker 1: you'd have been a very very young mother. My mom
Speaker 1: was a very young mom too, but no. So I
Speaker 1: have had a lifelong struggle with anxiety, which is one
Speaker 1: of the reasons why I'm so excited to talk to
Speaker 1: you guys. And I have these two books that became
Speaker 1: instant best sellers because I just have this crazy knack
Speaker 1: of taking really complicated stuff and coming up with really
Speaker 1: almost simple, cheesy ways to explain things that are memorable
Speaker 1: that anybody can use with any level of education or
Speaker 1: no education at all, to attack issues like anxiety, depression, PTSD, procrastination.
Speaker 1: And that's been my gift. Let's talk about the High
Speaker 1: five habit. You know, take control of your life with
Speaker 1: one simple what does that habit? Okay, so first I
Speaker 1: gotta tell you, Okay, this is going to sound like
Speaker 1: the stupidest thing you've ever heard. This is the most
Speaker 1: powerful thing I have ever discovered in my entire life,
Speaker 1: and it unpacked decades of research in psychology, in human behavior, inhabits.
Speaker 1: It's insane. Basically, you're going to stand in front of
Speaker 1: the mirror every morning, right after you brush your teeth,
Speaker 1: and I want you to do it after you brush
Speaker 1: your teeth because we know, based on research, that your
Speaker 1: brain learns new habits when you stack it with an
Speaker 1: old habit. Now, I want to teach you, using science,
Speaker 1: how to get all of the gunk out of your mind, body,
Speaker 1: and spirit, spirit, and I'm talking generational here. Okay, So
Speaker 1: as you stand in front of the mirror, you're going
Speaker 1: to put your toothbrush down and you're gonna look in
Speaker 1: the mirror. That's step one. Now, this is the hardest
Speaker 1: part for most people. And I actually read the interview
Speaker 1: that you said when you announced the Mental Wealth Alliance.
Speaker 1: There was an article that you that was written about
Speaker 1: you in Forbes, and there was a quote there that
Speaker 1: I loved because this is what the high five habit
Speaker 1: is all about. You were talking about the fact, you know,
Speaker 1: about how the black community had been impacted by the pandemic,
Speaker 1: and you said, I've never had more people call me,
Speaker 1: FaceTime me or text me saying yo, bro, I'm ready
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody. Everybody's sitting at home and having
Speaker 1: to deal with themselves all the time, and there's a
Speaker 1: lot of people who are just seeing themselves for the
Speaker 1: first time, and they may not necessarily like what they see.
Speaker 1: The fact of the matter is fifty percent or more
Speaker 1: of men and women can't even look at themselves in
Speaker 1: the mirror right because they do not like the person
Speaker 1: that they see. And the reason why they don't like
Speaker 1: themselves is so sad. They either like every morning in
Speaker 1: the mirror, when you simply stand there and you look
Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror, you're not alone, and that's
Speaker 1: not your reflection. I believe you're in that bathroom with
Speaker 1: another human being, and that human being needs you. They
Speaker 1: are trying their best. They have been trying so hard.
Speaker 1: They are so sick and tired of being picked apart.
Speaker 1: They're tired of your negativity. They are tired of yourself doubt.
Speaker 1: They're tired of being beaten down by you. And the
Speaker 1: reason why most people cannot even look at themselves in
Speaker 1: the mirror is because if you're a human being, you
Speaker 1: have a past that is filled with all kinds of crep.
Speaker 1: There's not a human being that hasn't experienced some level
Speaker 1: of trauma. I know in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I'm from Moskeegan, Michigan.
Speaker 1: They just the officials, they're just actually said that racism
Speaker 1: is the leading mental health crisis. Thankfully, people are starting
Speaker 1: to talk about this. And so you've either experienced trauma
Speaker 1: or abuse, or neglect or abandonment or and you drag
Speaker 1: that into the bathroom every morning, and it stands between
Speaker 1: you and the human being in the mirror. And there's
Speaker 1: so many people that think that they are not worthy,
Speaker 1: or that they are damaged or not lovable because of
Speaker 1: what they've survived, or if you're a human, you've done
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that you regret. You've cheated, you've lied,
Speaker 1: you've you've hurt other people, you've hurt yourself, you've squandered opportunity,
Speaker 1: you've stolen stuff. I mean, everybody has stuff they've regret,
Speaker 1: stuff that they would forgive all of us for. But
Speaker 1: you stand in judgment of the human being in the mirror.
Speaker 1: And so number one, you may find it super challenging
Speaker 1: just to do the part where you look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: But what I want you to do is I want
Speaker 1: you to then raise your hand, as cheesy as it sounds,
Speaker 1: I want you to high five the human being you see.
Speaker 1: And what's incredible about this simple habit is that number one,
Speaker 1: you have high five to other people your whole life. So, Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: when you high five somebody, what does the gesture itself mean?
Speaker 1: I'm greeting them, want them to be seen, want them
Speaker 1: to feel seen, want them to know that I recognize them.
Speaker 1: What are you thinking? When you high five me, I
Speaker 1: recognize them, I respect them, I would a love for them. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: anderations on something. Yeah, to accomplicate. They've accomplice and you're
Speaker 1: acknowledging that. Yeah. Now here's this. This is where the
Speaker 1: high five habit gets bananas. Since you have been high
Speaker 1: fiving and receiving high fives from tons of people your
Speaker 1: whole life, your mind, body, and spirit is already programmed
Speaker 1: with the messaging of a high five. There is neural
Speaker 1: association with the physical trigger of doing this. So when
Speaker 1: you go to high five yourself, no matter how weird
Speaker 1: it feels or resistant you are to it, your brain
Speaker 1: turns all that judgment off and it picks up the
Speaker 1: neural association with a lifetime of high five and receiving
Speaker 1: high fives. You have never once thought envy. I hate
Speaker 1: you as you high five somebody. You've never once thought
Speaker 1: you loser. I hope you lose. Today is gonna be too.
Speaker 1: You've never ever ever done it unless you like you
Speaker 1: got to be one of the most facus backstabbing people
Speaker 1: in the world to do something, I don't even think
Speaker 1: anybody can do it. Somebody. Yeah, Because here's the thing,
Speaker 1: Like you literally eat. Like if you and I high
Speaker 1: five right now, if we high five right now, right,
Speaker 1: if we have five right now? Yes, like I said,
Speaker 1: receive something, Yes, you have to just one. Your brain
Speaker 1: doesn't know the difference between me high five envy or
Speaker 1: angel or you or me high five myself. So that
Speaker 1: that feeling that you just got, that's dopamine. Your brain
Speaker 1: gives you a drip of dopamine every morning when you
Speaker 1: high five yourself, that celebratory yeah, yeah, yeah, that's your
Speaker 1: nervous system programming. Your nervous system remembers celebratory gestures of
Speaker 1: waving hello, of hugging. There is so much freaking research
Speaker 1: about the high five. So they studied NBA teams. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's this huge article in the Wall Street Journal in
Speaker 1: twenty eleven where they studied NBA teams and researchers were
Speaker 1: able to predict who were going to be the best
Speaker 1: performing teams at the end of the season by looking
Speaker 1: at one habit during the preseason. And the habit they
Speaker 1: studied was how many times did the team give each
Speaker 1: other pats on the back or fist bomps or high
Speaker 1: fives during the preseason. But oh, sure that works till
Speaker 1: after that feels really good. And so what happens is
Speaker 1: when you give somebody a high five, verus fist bomp
Speaker 1: or a pat on the butt. These build trust and partnership,
Speaker 1: and so the teams that do that the most in
Speaker 1: the preseason go on to have the winning as seasons.
Speaker 1: The teams that do it the least actually do the worst.
Speaker 1: Because you've got a bunch of players that are in
Speaker 1: it for themselves. We should do it more as a community, yes,
Speaker 1: and you should do it. You should start by doing
Speaker 1: it to yourself. I'll tell you why, because we are
Speaker 1: all looking outside ourselves for the validation, love, respect, support
Speaker 1: that we need and we need for ourselves for our children.
Speaker 1: To teach ourselves to be able to stand in front
Speaker 1: of the mirror and give that same validation, support, self
Speaker 1: worth and love to ourselves. Because if you learn how
Speaker 1: to like, respect, forgive support yourself. Yeah, it sucks when
Speaker 1: somebody else doesn't like you, but it won't change the
Speaker 1: fact that you like yourself. We have more with Mel
Speaker 1: Robbins when we come back. Don't Move is to breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy angela ye Shalma guy.
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with
Speaker 1: Mel Robbins, author, motivational speaker. How did you learn all
Speaker 1: it is? How did you learn to give yourself a
Speaker 1: high five? How do you learn to talk to yourself? Like?
Speaker 1: You know, how did you get to that point your credit?
Speaker 1: From what you said earlier, you've been through a lot, like, yes,
Speaker 1: well everybody's everybody, So you know some people, I mean,
Speaker 1: bankruptcy is a really difficult thing. Yes, and finances can
Speaker 1: be crushing person. Yes, So I'll tell you the story
Speaker 1: about what I call the five second rule and being
Speaker 1: almost a million dollars in debt and about to lose
Speaker 1: everything in two thousand and eight. But how I discovered
Speaker 1: the high five habit was? You know, I used to
Speaker 1: be a daytime syndicated talk show host, and I lost
Speaker 1: that dream job on March tenth in twenty twenty, when
Speaker 1: they found COVID at CBS Broadcast Center and they walked
Speaker 1: in and said, shows over, you're fired. Five minutes to
Speaker 1: evacuate the building. Wow. And so I find my self
Speaker 1: back home just like everybody else. My whole life turned
Speaker 1: upside down in an instant. The kids have their college
Speaker 1: experience imploded. We're now all quarantining back at home. Every
Speaker 1: single speech I have for a year cancels, and I
Speaker 1: find myself in a free fall. And this is before
Speaker 1: the PPP loans come out, and you know, we're all
Speaker 1: in quarantines. Kids are in breakdown, anxieties coming back, and
Speaker 1: I'm having flashbacks to two thousand and eight where my
Speaker 1: husband and I were losing everything. And I wake up
Speaker 1: one morning with a very familiar feeling. I'm just feeling
Speaker 1: overwhelmed by my life and feeling the anxiety pinning me
Speaker 1: down in that bed like a gravity blanket. And I
Speaker 1: know not to lay in that bed. And I'll tell
Speaker 1: you the story about the five second roll in a minute,
Speaker 1: because you definitely want to know this when it comes
Speaker 1: to mental health. So I count backwards five four, three
Speaker 1: two one. I get out of bed, I drag myself
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I'm standing there in the bathroom
Speaker 1: and I literally catch a glimpse of my reflection. I think,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you look like hell. And then I
Speaker 1: start picking apart the woman I see in the mirror.
Speaker 1: The dark circles under my eye, one boob hanging lower
Speaker 1: than the other. I start thinking about my day and
Speaker 1: it's negative. You got eight minutes to get on zoom.
Speaker 1: You know how you get you didn't return that call.
Speaker 1: How are you going to get out of this? Met
Speaker 1: the beat? Down? The beat? This is how most people
Speaker 1: start their day. Yeah, even though you should have gave
Speaker 1: yourself so much grace. Yeah no, nope, just that it's
Speaker 1: a habit. Like That's what folks don't understand is that
Speaker 1: you're not broken. You have patterns of thinking and patterns
Speaker 1: of behavior that make you feel broken. And the good
Speaker 1: news is if you understand it's a pattern, you can
Speaker 1: catch it and break it. And so, I don't know
Speaker 1: what came over me, envy, because I'm not a cheesy person,
Speaker 1: and it sounds pathetic. You're standing there and you're underwearing
Speaker 1: your bathroom, you know, And if you had walked into
Speaker 1: the bathroom that morning, or you had walked into the
Speaker 1: bathroom that morning, I would have been able to spin
Speaker 1: on a dime and pick you up. I would have
Speaker 1: been able to say, Angela, I know this is not fair,
Speaker 1: but if anybody can handle this, it's you. I don't
Speaker 1: if you'd have done that with random screen is just
Speaker 1: walking in your bathroom. I don't think that would have
Speaker 1: been your mind. Yeah, and so, uh, I don't know what. Okay,
Speaker 1: I actually think it was divine intervention. I really do,
Speaker 1: because I literally just raised my hand without even thinking
Speaker 1: about it and high five the woman in the mirror
Speaker 1: because she needed it. And I laughed the second my
Speaker 1: hand hit the mirror because it's so cheesy, and I
Speaker 1: felt like, all right, come on, you got a roof
Speaker 1: over your head, it's not that bad. Get your ass
Speaker 1: out there. Like that was kind of the mood it
Speaker 1: was the second morning. The second morning is when it
Speaker 1: hit me. You know, you know that feeling when you're
Speaker 1: about to walk into a bar or cafe and you're
Speaker 1: going to see somebody you really like, what do you
Speaker 1: feel in that moment right before you're about to walk in? Excited?
Speaker 1: But if that yeah, I felt that about the idea
Speaker 1: of seeing myself. Wow, what just hit you? Um? I
Speaker 1: guess gratitude, you know, like I always try to have
Speaker 1: a mean Worthiness is a tricky thing, right, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I think the first step to worthiness is just having gratitude.
Speaker 1: And you know, Bishop TDJS told me something one time.
Speaker 1: You said, even if you don't feel like you're worthy,
Speaker 1: God knows you're worthy. So waking up in the morning
Speaker 1: and just know that I'm still here, still alive. God
Speaker 1: has some type of plan for me. Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: know you asked the question about, you know, the five
Speaker 1: second rule. I should explain this really quickly because this
Speaker 1: is what helped me actually interrupt all the patterns that
Speaker 1: caused anxiety, stop taking medication, get control of my mindset,
Speaker 1: and literally I have situational anxiety. I never have general
Speaker 1: anxiety anymore ever, because I understand it now. So I
Speaker 1: invented something called the five second rule in two thousand
Speaker 1: and eight. And at the time, my husband had gone
Speaker 1: into the restaurant business. He had a little pizza pizza
Speaker 1: joint outside of Boston, Massachusetts, with his best friend, and
Speaker 1: the first one did really, really well. So, like complete idiots,
Speaker 1: we cashed out our entire life savings, the kid's college fund.
Speaker 1: We took out a home equity line because that's free money, right.
Speaker 1: What could possibly go wrong in the restaurant business, And
Speaker 1: what went wrong is the second location was a total disaster,
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden we found ourselves eight hundred
Speaker 1: thousand dollars in debt, three kids under the age of ten,
Speaker 1: credit cards maxed out. I lost my job, lean's hit
Speaker 1: the house. I of course, faced these problems like a
Speaker 1: high functioning adult, and that is by drinking myself into
Speaker 1: the ground and screaming at my husband when you say that,
Speaker 1: give me just a little anglio investments. Yeah. And so
Speaker 1: I was waking up every morning pinned to bed with anxiety,
Speaker 1: and I became a person I didn't recognize, like I
Speaker 1: was drunk by five o'clock in the afternoon. I was
Speaker 1: angry all the time. I would lie in bed in
Speaker 1: the morning and stare at the ceiling, just pinned with anxiety.
Speaker 1: I felt like the world's worst mom, the worst wife,
Speaker 1: a huge fail. The kids were missing the bus every day.
Speaker 1: So I invented this crazy thing in desperation. There is
Speaker 1: a five second window that defines your whole life. It's
Speaker 1: a moment of hesitation. Inside this window is the difference
Speaker 1: between confidence and doubt, courage and fear, inspiration and procrastination.
Speaker 1: If you can teach yourself to move within this five
Speaker 1: second window, you win. And in this moment, this rock
Speaker 1: bottom moment, God, I swear to God help me create
Speaker 1: I get so like just when you guys hear what
Speaker 1: has happened with the five second rule, and now the
Speaker 1: high five habit. There's no other explanation for this. I remembered, mel,
Speaker 1: you got to launch yourself out of bed, and then
Speaker 1: I started thinking about doing it, and I started thinking,
Speaker 1: what goods it going to do? I don't care, I
Speaker 1: don't feel like it. It's dark, it's cold, I'm made
Speaker 1: hundred grand in dead. How's this going to help? And
Speaker 1: then I just started counting five four three two one,
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden I stood up and I
Speaker 1: used it the next morning five four three two one,
Speaker 1: and the next morning and the next morning, and then
Speaker 1: I started using at any moment. I knew what I
Speaker 1: should do, but I didn't feel like doing it. I
Speaker 1: counted backwards five four three two one. When you count
Speaker 1: backwards five four three two one, it's what researchers call
Speaker 1: a starting ritual. It interrupts all the habits stored in
Speaker 1: your basil ganglia. Habit loops like procrastination, anxiety, worry, self doubt,
Speaker 1: and the counting backwards five four three two one requires focus.
Speaker 1: So as you start to focus on the counting five
Speaker 1: four three two one, your prefrontal cortex engages on the counting.
Speaker 1: This is the part of the brain that gives you
Speaker 1: immediate control over what you think and do next. This
Speaker 1: is the part of the brain that you're using when
Speaker 1: you're doing any kind of strategic thinking, when you're learning
Speaker 1: new behavior. This is the part of the brain that
Speaker 1: helps you change. So when you count backwards five four, three,
Speaker 1: two one, by the time you get to one, you've
Speaker 1: got a moment where you can take control. This is
Speaker 1: what actually led me into the business of writing books
Speaker 1: and being a mode ovational speaker. It was literally not
Speaker 1: something I set out to do, but I believe God
Speaker 1: was like, this crazy lady is the one that's going
Speaker 1: to get this out in the world. This amazingly normal lady.
Speaker 1: That's true, but I meant like in a good way. Yes,
Speaker 1: And so I first mentioned it in a TEDx talk
Speaker 1: in twenty eleven. It's now got twenty eight million views.
Speaker 1: That's what started the speaking career, and so many people
Speaker 1: started writing about the five second rule. I, despite my dyslexia,
Speaker 1: and ADHD wrote a book about it self published it.
Speaker 1: It went on to sell two million copies, be translated
Speaker 1: into thirty six languages and thank you. But here's the
Speaker 1: most important part. The five second rule is now being
Speaker 1: used by pediatricians around the world to help kids with anxiety.
Speaker 1: It's being used by veterans organizations to help people program
Speaker 1: triggers associated with PTSD. And we know of more than
Speaker 1: one hundred and eleven people who have stopped themselves from
Speaker 1: attempting suicide by counting backwards five four, three, two one
Speaker 1: and asking for help. All right, well, no move. We
Speaker 1: got more with Mel Robins when we come back is
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good morning, good morning. Everybody is DJ
Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee. Chalomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast
Speaker 1: Club was still kicking it with Mel Robbin's author motivational Speaking. No, Chalomie,
Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong, But you think having a
Speaker 1: comfort zone is problematic. I think that your comfort zone
Speaker 1: is problematic if you stay in it because you're afraid
Speaker 1: to grow. I think human beings are designed to grow
Speaker 1: their entire life. Your cells regenerate every seven years. Your
Speaker 1: brain's constantly changing. Heck, we just talked about how the
Speaker 1: filter in your mind can change. And if you are
Speaker 1: comfortable and not If you're comfortable and happy, fabulous, But
Speaker 1: if you're comfortable and you're not satisfied or you're not
Speaker 1: happy that's a problem. Yes. One thing I will say
Speaker 1: that I related to is wanting something really bad is terrifying. Yes,
Speaker 1: when you really really want something sometimes scary to even
Speaker 1: just admit it. Well, one of the things that I
Speaker 1: like to do. Everybody has a morning routine. Mine obviously
Speaker 1: involves the five second rule five four three two one
Speaker 1: get out of bed. I also don't look at my
Speaker 1: phone for the first thirty minutes of the day because
Speaker 1: us I well, I'll tell you why. You don't want
Speaker 1: to do that, because how many like, let's take you
Speaker 1: know how many people like let's say you've got I
Speaker 1: don't know a million people on Facebook? Okay that follow you?
Speaker 1: Would you want all of them to walk into your bedroom?
Speaker 1: Do you want a strength? You know that's what you're
Speaker 1: doing when you look at your phone. Oh, wake up,
Speaker 1: and I pray because I have to make sure ideas
Speaker 1: no changes in the schedule at work. I'm like, let
Speaker 1: me just make sure I would not do that, and
Speaker 1: let me tell you why, because you're putting all of
Speaker 1: that before what matters to you. And so if you
Speaker 1: were to literally try it tonight, take your phone and
Speaker 1: plug it in in your bathroom or your closet, do
Speaker 1: not even have it next to your bed. And if
Speaker 1: you need to be reached in the middle of the night,
Speaker 1: tell people to call you and not text you. Because
Speaker 1: what's interesting about work and what's interesting about family is
Speaker 1: people will text you all night long. They will not
Speaker 1: call you unless it's an emergency. That way you're reachable.
Speaker 1: Then when the alarm goes off, presumably it's on your phone,
Speaker 1: you're now can't lay in bed. You gotta get up
Speaker 1: to go to the phone to turn it off. So
Speaker 1: you sort of set yourself up to have to get
Speaker 1: out of bed and not lay there and think about
Speaker 1: things and worry, which is where a lot of people
Speaker 1: have anxiety. Cortisol levels are very high in the morning,
Speaker 1: you turn off your phone, then put it face over
Speaker 1: and walk away from it. Take the first thirty minutes
Speaker 1: for you, your dreams. You you deserve thirty minutes, even
Speaker 1: five minutes. I did it on a weekend. I don't
Speaker 1: know about daring the week. But I also don't wake
Speaker 1: up from my phone, like if anybody texts me or
Speaker 1: it calls me, I will not wake up until my
Speaker 1: alarm goes off in the morning or right before my
Speaker 1: alarm goes up, so I never know it's something like
Speaker 1: important happened. I just want you to try it. Give
Speaker 1: me five minutes, five minutes yourself first before the world
Speaker 1: comes out. I can't do that. I'll do five. So
Speaker 1: what happens is is I wake up. First of all,
Speaker 1: I don't need it along to wake up anymore. My
Speaker 1: body wakes me up at four thirty eight m. But
Speaker 1: you know what I do is I have five kids.
Speaker 1: So my daughter who goes to n y U, I
Speaker 1: make sure she texts me if she's arriving back at
Speaker 1: her apartment or she's going somewhere. So that's the first
Speaker 1: thing I check to make sure that she's safe. The
Speaker 1: first thing poop, I text Dad, I made it back safe.
Speaker 1: I do the same thing. Then I can go on
Speaker 1: with my day. Then I can go take my shower,
Speaker 1: I do my prayer, I kiss my wife, I go
Speaker 1: kiss my kids. Then. But the first thing I have
Speaker 1: to do, and this is I learned from my dad,
Speaker 1: is the first thing I have to make sure my
Speaker 1: family safe. That's the first thing I do, regardless check
Speaker 1: that text. Then, So how do you go to sleext messages?
Speaker 1: What do you mean? How do you go to sleep.
Speaker 1: If she hadn't take me back, if I sent the
Speaker 1: text of my daughter she wasn't in yet, it would
Speaker 1: be hard for me to sleep. I wouldn't be able
Speaker 1: to lay down. Do I do have a problem, Well,
Speaker 1: that's my problem. I don't sleep. But if I do
Speaker 1: fall asleep or something happened, let's say my daughter is
Speaker 1: out studying or something like that, I won't sleep. It's
Speaker 1: difficult for me to sleep. And I'm always waiting for
Speaker 1: that phone to ring because I'm waiting for her to
Speaker 1: be like, hey, Dad, I'm safe. That's my difficult part.
Speaker 1: So then when I see that text or whether it's
Speaker 1: my mother, as my father or somebody that's traveling, whatever,
Speaker 1: I see that text dinner, I can get up from
Speaker 1: my day. But that's what I have to do. And
Speaker 1: then I'm like, the second thing I look at is
Speaker 1: the show. Charlottagne's not coming in today. He's not broadcasting.
Speaker 1: That means I'm broadcasting from home. That means, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm closing my eyes for another So that's the second thing.
Speaker 1: Then when I see that email at the then I
Speaker 1: can I'm realizing this show not a priority in my life.
Speaker 1: Because I get up and I thank God, and you know,
Speaker 1: I give gratitude and I meditate, and that gives my family.
Speaker 1: I don't talk to them to like five thirty, when
Speaker 1: I'm close to work driving I might look at my Texas.
Speaker 1: Somehow I cannot. I can't look at this. I have
Speaker 1: to put everything I have to like get my mind straight.
Speaker 1: I got it. And then I always write down five
Speaker 1: things that I want in the morning, right as another
Speaker 1: way to train my mind to just focus on the
Speaker 1: things that I desire, that I want to allow myself
Speaker 1: to dream, to give myself permission to want those things.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing, though, is that I don't think
Speaker 1: that you're a dreams are necessarily meant to be achieved.
Speaker 1: I think your dreams have this purpose of being a
Speaker 1: beacon out in front of you that pull you through
Speaker 1: your fear and your anxiety and your circumstances to be
Speaker 1: greater than you are right now. Well, mel, we appreciate
Speaker 1: you for joining us to say, now we definitely do
Speaker 1: you know what to do? You think you got a
Speaker 1: bad rap, I mean, not a bad rap, bad shake
Speaker 1: with your TV show? No, I thought, yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that again. At the very beginning, we said that life
Speaker 1: is the most is the hardest and most amazing school
Speaker 1: year of her ten. And I think absolutely everything is
Speaker 1: preparing you for what's coming next. And it had always
Speaker 1: been a dream of mine to do a daytime syndicated
Speaker 1: talk show that really gave people like you guys are
Speaker 1: tools not only entertainment, but tools and life changing information
Speaker 1: that can help somebody really take control or improve their lives.
Speaker 1: And I learned a tremendous amount. It was a tremendous gift,
Speaker 1: and it prepared me for what's coming next. I'm actually
Speaker 1: happy it's over because I love audio more. I like
Speaker 1: I'm a digital entrepreneur. You can reach more people that way,
Speaker 1: you have more creative freedom. And so I learned a
Speaker 1: massive amount. But it was just preparing me. You see
Speaker 1: the apportunity, see the exactly, exactly exactly, you're with the
Speaker 1: right guy if you can about audio. My guy Mark, Yes,
Speaker 1: and it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club. Come on,
Speaker 1: huh you don't think I'm too sexiful? How you looking
Speaker 1: at me? Sir? Sir? Sir, sir, sim adown sir, you're married, sir. Morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ restless but syndrome your buds board since
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Speaker 1: Let's get to the rules to still doctor Dre. It's
Speaker 1: about this report Angela the breakfast club all right. Well,
Speaker 1: A source with direct knowledge told TMZ that doctor Dre
Speaker 1: was at a cemetery in La on Monday. He was
Speaker 1: actually his grandmother passed away. He was laying her to
Speaker 1: rest and allegedly he was confronted by a process server
Speaker 1: with some divorced documents. So they said he recoiled an
Speaker 1: anger wouldn't take the documents in hand. The process server
Speaker 1: then dropped the documents by the grave site and they said, uh,
Speaker 1: they were dropped in the parking lot. Though, that's with mama,
Speaker 1: because behind the scene said that. I thought you said
Speaker 1: doctor j And in my mind I was like, well,
Speaker 1: how old is doctor Jay's grandma? Oh boy, yeah, but
Speaker 1: I got a certain somewhere and they got a certain
Speaker 1: way a place where he is, And you got to
Speaker 1: think about it. Doctor Dre is not out and about.
Speaker 1: It's not like you wanna catch him in there, so
Speaker 1: I mean, the only place with it and that's sad
Speaker 1: that a burial for his grandmother. I don't know business
Speaker 1: I would be terrible having to do that. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying the person didn't feel terrible, but they
Speaker 1: still got a job to do. She pays the service.
Speaker 1: In the service, they do what they gotta do to
Speaker 1: make sure that they get, you know, get those documents.
Speaker 1: When he has to grab do he has to take
Speaker 1: those documents. And if you don't take him in your hand.
Speaker 1: You know what's so funny? It does baby think I
Speaker 1: saw somebody getting served outside the building one day, Wax, Yes,
Speaker 1: Charlemagne's boy, I was walking outside. You try to serve
Speaker 1: me one time outside. If they try to serve him
Speaker 1: and he like spun around and then they fell on
Speaker 1: the papers, fell on the floor, and then somebody's like,
Speaker 1: you need to pick those off the floor has your
Speaker 1: personal information on him. You can't just leave him there
Speaker 1: like that. Would you drop him at the grave site
Speaker 1: if you was the person. No, because if you drop
Speaker 1: it on the floor, then you're not served. Right. If
Speaker 1: they touch your hands, you are. If they touch your hands, yes,
Speaker 1: it's like the paperwork. If they give you the paperwork
Speaker 1: and touch hand, you see, you got served. Man, I
Speaker 1: haven't been served at all. It's just a terrible feeling.
Speaker 1: They have to go through that. But yeah, all right now,
Speaker 1: little Yadi. Congratulations to him. According to sources, he is
Speaker 1: a father for the first time. They're saying that a
Speaker 1: baby was born, a baby girl in the last couple
Speaker 1: of weeks in New York City, so congratulating. Congrats to
Speaker 1: him all right now. According to more sources, Buster Rhymes,
Speaker 1: five rappers turned down offers to battle him on versus
Speaker 1: Crazy Legs from Rocksteady Crew wrote it on Instagram. He said,
Speaker 1: I had to let Buster Rhymes know that no one
Speaker 1: is worthy enough to battle him. Then he told me
Speaker 1: that five people already turned it down. Some things are
Speaker 1: just what they are. He has the unfortunate pleasure of
Speaker 1: being a god in the rap game. Shot out to
Speaker 1: Swiz who could battle Buster Run? What I would say
Speaker 1: is is Missy having both go back video. I was
Speaker 1: thinking about this yesterday when I saw that story. Definitely
Speaker 1: Missy would be dope, but they would have to play
Speaker 1: videos and musicos and music. I think L would LLL
Speaker 1: would be a good one too, would Buster them. I
Speaker 1: wanted to see LLL and cares one, but Hello Cooj
Speaker 1: versus Buster Romes would be damn good. What about Buster Rhymes?
Speaker 1: What about versus Q tip No, I mean just catalog
Speaker 1: like no let he got trip cold questions. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: two different Now that's and they all they from the
Speaker 1: same family. So ray Kuon and ghost Face did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's true, But now I don't not not cute
Speaker 1: tip Buster. That's two totally different styles of music. Huh.
Speaker 1: All right, I think Hello Hello and Buster would be
Speaker 1: damn sure got enough callop. I gotta keep thinking about that.
Speaker 1: I want to know who turned him down? Everybody? Five
Speaker 1: people want to know who the five people are though
Speaker 1: that he says turned them down? Well, you know t
Speaker 1: I said, no, m all right. Now, Kanye has been
Speaker 1: spotted out and about wearing these weird masks. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys have seen it, but it's a
Speaker 1: prosthetic mask, and so I don't know. I can't wait
Speaker 1: to see what he's gonna do for Halloween. But I
Speaker 1: guess that's just the way and people know it's him.
Speaker 1: But I guess I don't know why he's trying to
Speaker 1: make the mains popular too. I've seen the head cut.
Speaker 1: What's that about? I don't know what that is, but
Speaker 1: they said the masks from an old French movie villain
Speaker 1: called phantomas Kanye does what he wants. Manta what that's
Speaker 1: his name officially, he's changing name. Don't call him Kanye.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard to do. Yay, all right, Yay
Speaker 1: has also a broken a record he has because of
Speaker 1: Little nas xis Industry Baby. He has produced five hot
Speaker 1: one hundred number one hip hop songs, the most of
Speaker 1: all hip hop producers. You know who's done four? Did
Speaker 1: he so? Now because of Industry Baby he has five,
Speaker 1: So congratulations to Yay Kanye. He didn't produce Industry Baby,
Speaker 1: did he? Jetson made it. Produce the Industry Baby. Well,
Speaker 1: according to this, Kanye has broken all kinds of records
Speaker 1: and is his fifth. Maybe got production credit, maybe he's
Speaker 1: sampled something. Jetson made it, made us all with Jack
Speaker 1: Hallow and Little Knot that just one number one. I
Speaker 1: mean Legga just says South Carolina's own Jetson made it. Well.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't do things alone either, They collaborate and
Speaker 1: produced together. You never heard about Kanye being on part
Speaker 1: of that record ever. All right, well, it's on the
Speaker 1: phone that's their Industry Baby is the first track YEA
Speaker 1: he has produced to go number one since Stronger in
Speaker 1: two thousand and seven, Get Drama on the phone. He
Speaker 1: might have did the Drums Owner or something like that
Speaker 1: co produced all right. Now, speaking of music, Kawhi Leonard
Speaker 1: has shared a video for his Culture Jam project and
Speaker 1: he was actually uh talking to n Ellie Choppa on FaceTime.
Speaker 1: Here's what he said, was good and what's goody man
Speaker 1: much in the studio over here, trying to be like
Speaker 1: y'alls and something hurt. Nah No, thank you you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Thank you be a part of it
Speaker 1: for real. That's funny. Well. Kawhi has revealed Culture Jam
Speaker 1: Volume one will be released in two parts. The first
Speaker 1: part is coming out this Friday, and there's appearances from
Speaker 1: the Loozy Ver, Young Boy, road Wave, Tide, Dallas, Time,
Speaker 1: Wile and Only, Choppa, Young Blue Gun, Apolo G and Moore.
Speaker 1: And here is a snippet of a boogie. Uh oh no,
Speaker 1: that's something all right. And then the next thing, since
Speaker 1: we're talking about music, um, we have a snippet of
Speaker 1: a song a boogie featuring Capella Gray and it is
Speaker 1: called Bestie. It ain't on talking she wan my God,
Speaker 1: Bob Baby don't want enough even though I got money
Speaker 1: and the counter back and send. Then we spend it
Speaker 1: on wagers to ask you. So that's a single from
Speaker 1: that culture jam Value oneting the first single. What do
Speaker 1: y'all think? Is that phone ring in it? Or is
Speaker 1: that what you was? That? Your phone rings? Not a
Speaker 1: phone ring, it's an alarm. No, I had no idea. Kanye,
Speaker 1: what's did industry? Baby? Yeah? Still yeah? And his name
Speaker 1: is Yeah. Whatever he did intry, I thought, I swear
Speaker 1: I thought Jenson made it up every day? You really do? Like? Wow?
Speaker 1: All right, and that is your room of report. Did
Speaker 1: you look it up? Yeah? I'm looking at it now,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at it. On titles with man Jason definitely
Speaker 1: says Kanye. It says Kanye was producer. I had no idea.
Speaker 1: He could have did drums. He could have They could
Speaker 1: have sampled something from it. I know it says producer,
Speaker 1: says Kanye weston take a Day Trip. Wow. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: a dope record too. That'd beat its crazy? All right,
Speaker 1: Well you give me your donkey too, man oh Man.
Speaker 1: Four after the hour, we need to talk about home invaders. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is a home invader that I don't want to say,
Speaker 1: God lucky, but we'll talk about it four after the hour.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club.
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Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the day. So if we
Speaker 1: ever feel I need to be a dog man with
Speaker 1: the heat, did she get day? I had become donkey
Speaker 1: of the day the breakfast club. Bitch, you're a donkey.
Speaker 1: Feel bad? I really feel bad. I feel I feel bad.
Speaker 1: We were talking about a quick game behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: and we all finished it. We didn't realize our god,
Speaker 1: Nick didn't finish it. I didn't know he didn't finish it.
Speaker 1: He walked out earlier saying that, okay, you can talk
Speaker 1: about school game when I lead it around. I actually
Speaker 1: already spoiled it. That's right. Anyway, dark Here to Day
Speaker 1: for Wednesday, October twentieth goes to a forty three year
Speaker 1: old man named Kevin William t Okay. Kevin is from
Speaker 1: the Michigan area, and I swear in my old age,
Speaker 1: I just be feeling sorry for people. I'm serious. I
Speaker 1: used to come in here and just want to give
Speaker 1: people to credit they deserve for being stupid. But when
Speaker 1: I hear certain stories like this one of to Day,
Speaker 1: I feel bad for Kevin because clearly, clearly something is wrong.
Speaker 1: All right. We have to recognize when mentally someone is
Speaker 1: not what they need to be. And I have empathy
Speaker 1: for those people. I just do because I think something
Speaker 1: that just out of their control. Some things are above them,
Speaker 1: and I feel, I truly feel like this is one
Speaker 1: of those situations. Now, was that said Kevin is a
Speaker 1: home invader? Okay? If you wake up in the middle
Speaker 1: of the night and a stranger is in your house,
Speaker 1: does it matter what his or her mental or emotional
Speaker 1: state is, they probably getting shot. Okay, well, at least
Speaker 1: in my house. All right, now, I will send him
Speaker 1: in his family healing energy after the fact. But hey,
Speaker 1: that person made a choice to break it into him.
Speaker 1: My house. I don't have time to figure out if
Speaker 1: you know, if they're mentally unwell. Now, that has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with the story I'm about to tell you,
Speaker 1: Because Kevin broke into someone's house and he lived to
Speaker 1: tell about it. In fact, he didn't just live to
Speaker 1: tell about it. He lived to ask the police for help.
Speaker 1: Uncle Shla, brother lend. What are you talking about? He
Speaker 1: lived to ask the police for help after breaking into
Speaker 1: someone's house. Well, let's go to news net for the report.
Speaker 1: Police a Michigan State Police trooper from the Cadillac Post
Speaker 1: respondent to a breaking and entering complaint at a home
Speaker 1: on west Ridge Drive in Williamsburg. The homeowner reported she
Speaker 1: was watching television in the living room when she saw
Speaker 1: a man enter the room. She originally thought it was
Speaker 1: her husband, However, when she realized it wasn't, she screamed.
Speaker 1: Her husband came downstairs and told the man to leave.
Speaker 1: The troopers searched the area and located the suspect, forty
Speaker 1: three year old Kevin william Tegue from Williamsburg, in the
Speaker 1: backyard of his parents home nearby. When the trooper attempted
Speaker 1: to speak with Tigue, he fled into the woods. Later
Speaker 1: that evening, Tigue called nine one one to report he
Speaker 1: was lost. When troopers arrived, Tigue flagged them down, and
Speaker 1: he was taken into custody and lodged in the Grand
Speaker 1: Traverse County Jail. Tigue was arraigned for one count breaking
Speaker 1: and entering without permission and one count resisting and obstructing police.
Speaker 1: He was given a one thousand dollars bond and his
Speaker 1: next scheduled court appearances on October twenty sixth. There's a
Speaker 1: phrase God watches over babies and fools babies. Maybe it's possible. Okay,
Speaker 1: God is in a babysitter per se, but he will
Speaker 1: give the mother to scrimp to hold it down. But
Speaker 1: watches over and not watches. It's a difference, all right.
Speaker 1: The fool's part. I don't know about that, because Kevin,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was God watching over him
Speaker 1: or just the luck of the draw. Okay, it's great
Speaker 1: Kevin didn't get shot in these people's house. But why
Speaker 1: would God be involved in this? Why would God have
Speaker 1: sent this fool all right to do the breaking into
Speaker 1: someone's house and didn't have him run off into the
Speaker 1: woods and get lost. And then this man felt like
Speaker 1: he could just call the police because he was lost,
Speaker 1: never mind the fact he just committed a whole crime,
Speaker 1: never mind the fact he was in the woods hiding
Speaker 1: because of a crime he just committed. I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: the police and tell them I'm lost. You don't think
Speaker 1: they're gonna have questions on why you just randomly in
Speaker 1: the woods at this time of night. What you're gonna
Speaker 1: tell them? You're camping? Huh, you're hunting, just taking a walk? Y'all?
Speaker 1: Do realize narcissism is considered a mental disorder, correct, Because
Speaker 1: there's no way you commit a crime and didn't think
Speaker 1: you are able to call the police because you're lost
Speaker 1: if you're not a narcissist. All right, I honestly, I
Speaker 1: can't even continue this story until we play a game
Speaker 1: of guess what. Raising Maybe this will give us a
Speaker 1: better understanding of this situation. Okay, Kevin william T, forty
Speaker 1: three years old, broken into someone's house, lived to tell
Speaker 1: about it, fled into the woods, then had the audacity
Speaker 1: the unmitigated gaul to call nine one one to report
Speaker 1: that he was lost. ANGELA, Ye, yes, what race he is? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say he is Caucasian. What makes
Speaker 1: you say Caucasian? ANGELA, Well, you know, we don't call
Speaker 1: nine one one like that, And then he probably said,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you couldn't do that. In the words
Speaker 1: of Dave Chappelle, all right, Kevin william T, forty three
Speaker 1: years old, broke into someone's house and fled into the woods,
Speaker 1: then called nine one one to report that he was lost.
Speaker 1: DJ N b Rashawn, Yes, what race it is? I'm
Speaker 1: destroyed on this one. Why are you destroyed? All right?
Speaker 1: Because it's I'm in the middle. Right, I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you why right. First Dominican. No, I'm not Dominican black,
Speaker 1: but I was thinking black at first, because I can
Speaker 1: see a black person getting stuck in the woods and
Speaker 1: then hearing animals and being like, nah, if dadam cool
Speaker 1: and I will want to get out. Okay, But if
Speaker 1: we did something illegal, we just we just tried to
Speaker 1: set in the woods, sugg out with the bear, stuck
Speaker 1: out with them bears, because we ain't calling no part.
Speaker 1: Rather do these bears than be in jail. Yes, I
Speaker 1: gotta go with callucasion. Okay, Well I want ange Lee
Speaker 1: and DJ and VI didn't know that you bofar right,
Speaker 1: Kevin william T gets our Caucasian. He had to call
Speaker 1: Gathony the unmitigated white privileged gall to break into someone's house,
Speaker 1: running too the woods, getting lost and then call the
Speaker 1: police to help. And this bond is only a thousand
Speaker 1: dollars for breaking into entering without permission and resisting and
Speaker 1: obscructing police. And he resisted in obscrupted police without getting shot. Well,
Speaker 1: if you just said that, I definitely I know I
Speaker 1: didn't want to give that one away. Please give Kevin
Speaker 1: william Tu the biggest he hull a matter of fact,
Speaker 1: mccafy Griffin gets some of that. Please give this giant
Speaker 1: Jaro may the biggest he heah heahaw. That is way
Speaker 1: too much. Dann Man is there you go anywe are
Speaker 1: you good man for the culture. He's talking Chris rock guy. Right,
Speaker 1: it's this crack ass cracker, right, don't give it away. Now,
Speaker 1: I don't say he say what it was right? The
Speaker 1: crackers pointed to it. Jesus, all right, he didn't getting
Speaker 1: ready crack crack doesn't hit the say that doesn't No,
Speaker 1: actually it does that cracker always rips. Try one more time, Yeah,
Speaker 1: crack of rips Brocker rips. Okay, what y'all say that slaps?
Speaker 1: All right? Now up next, ask ye eight hundred five
Speaker 1: five one on five one. If you need relationship advice
Speaker 1: or any type of advice, call ye right, what? What? What? Nothing?
Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all later. He is so silly. What happened?
Speaker 1: I don't want to I definitely wanted to tell us later,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, I don't want to hear it on that.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't get shocked by much. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: it's a breakfast local morning. What what? What? What you
Speaker 1: gonna know? Baby mama issues? See some words of wisdom?
Speaker 1: All up now for asking eight hundred five eight five
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Speaker 1: relationship advice, need personal advice? Just need real advice? Hall
Speaker 1: up now for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela, Yee,
Speaker 1: Charloteen the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now it's
Speaker 1: time to ask ye. If you need relationship advice to
Speaker 1: any type of advice, you can call yee. Now we
Speaker 1: got Kim on the line. Come on to Kim. Hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Man? I gotta I got some small problems? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, So I got a four year old daughter,
Speaker 1: I mean four my old daughters and baby. Three months ago, man,
Speaker 1: her father got into an altercation where in terms big
Speaker 1: and she caught the police one me and you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now, I'm dealing with all the legal
Speaker 1: stuff going on the deck really but we ended up
Speaker 1: like getting back together making everything good. Well legally, I've
Speaker 1: been coming different from a life every time the legal
Speaker 1: stuff come up and I think about causing our law.
Speaker 1: You go through all this over an argument that we
Speaker 1: got over maybe an hour or two later and everything
Speaker 1: and calmed out. So I just want to know life.
Speaker 1: Am I being stubborn by life? Not trying to work everything?
Speaker 1: Y'all wanted to get asking or what did I do?
Speaker 1: Because right now I'm just gonna cross old because I
Speaker 1: want to be at my daughter life. I just don't
Speaker 1: really know him. I want to be with her mother. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well a couple of things here. You said that the
Speaker 1: argument got physical, so and in all honesty, did you
Speaker 1: put your hands on her? I'll push them, Okay, So
Speaker 1: you understand that that's wrong, and I know that you're
Speaker 1: going through some legal things. It really does suck when
Speaker 1: when these situations turn physical, she put her hands on you,
Speaker 1: you put your hands on her. That has to be
Speaker 1: really difficult for her as well, right, And so the
Speaker 1: reason why you're going through the legal things that you're
Speaker 1: going through and you have to own up to it,
Speaker 1: is that you did put your hands on her. And
Speaker 1: so that's that's something that's not easy for her and
Speaker 1: I'm sure people who love her to have to deal
Speaker 1: with two. As a man, you want, you're a woman
Speaker 1: to feel protective and when things get physical, you have
Speaker 1: to try to do, you know, diffuse a situation and
Speaker 1: not do things like that. It sounds like you both
Speaker 1: need to get some professional help to be able to
Speaker 1: move forward because some people might say, you know, that
Speaker 1: happened and she shouldn't be with you anymore, and I'm
Speaker 1: sure sometimes she thinks that to herself as well. Now,
Speaker 1: as far as whether or not you feel like you
Speaker 1: want to be with her, those are some things that
Speaker 1: you know, you guys are fresh out of this trying
Speaker 1: to work through things. You're still dealing with legal issues,
Speaker 1: but you got to take ownership of the reason that
Speaker 1: you're dealing with It is your fault as well, right, Right,
Speaker 1: It does feel as wallowing. You know, I don't she
Speaker 1: called it and listen, and I know in our households
Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do to a man is
Speaker 1: called the cops on him, right, and then the system
Speaker 1: takes over. But she might really have felt threatened in
Speaker 1: that moment. Yeah, I mean, I understanding the moment. The
Speaker 1: moment could have been been. It's never been to theres
Speaker 1: a well, the police had to be called over that,
Speaker 1: even if I don't really feel like the police had
Speaker 1: to be involved, because like in a lot of states,
Speaker 1: sent Florida like one and brought apart up to the state.
Speaker 1: It don't matter if y'all the made off kids to
Speaker 1: make all that state feel like they want to do
Speaker 1: something something about it, then I gotta do it. I
Speaker 1: gotta deal with that, even though we straight at home,
Speaker 1: you know, and as a woman, Cam, I have to
Speaker 1: say that she wasn't wrong for that. You really did
Speaker 1: put your hands on her. So unfortunately, you know, that
Speaker 1: is the consequences of the actions that took place, and
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this is something that will never happen again,
Speaker 1: and that you got whether or not you're together, can
Speaker 1: raise your daughter because you you know, you have a
Speaker 1: child whose four months old. You would hate to see
Speaker 1: something like that happened to your child as you have
Speaker 1: a girl, right yea, yeah, and you know you should
Speaker 1: be very protective of that and understand that as a woman,
Speaker 1: maybe she felt like at the moment, I'm scared, I
Speaker 1: gotta just call the cops because I want to make
Speaker 1: sure nothing happens to me, because you don't know what
Speaker 1: was going on in her head or what type of
Speaker 1: trauma she's suffering from. After that as well, it sounds
Speaker 1: like y'all both need to get some professional help to
Speaker 1: be able to first and foremost tie priority take care
Speaker 1: of your child together, and then for you to make
Speaker 1: sure that nothing like this happens again. And I'm sure
Speaker 1: that on her end there's work that she needs to
Speaker 1: do as well so that these arguments. Y'all, as a
Speaker 1: couple or even as parents, you're not going to agree
Speaker 1: on everything, and you have to learn how to be
Speaker 1: able to disagree but in a productive manner. And as parents,
Speaker 1: y'all need to be able to figure out those two
Speaker 1: You have a four month old, so there's a long
Speaker 1: road ahead for the two of you to be able
Speaker 1: to at least at the minimum co parent well, so
Speaker 1: I think what would be great for you right now
Speaker 1: is to show that you are stepping up to the plate.
Speaker 1: You acknowledge the fact that you did something that felt
Speaker 1: threatening to her. You are now paying the consequences for that.
Speaker 1: You know that you'll never do that again, and take
Speaker 1: every step you can to make sure that it can
Speaker 1: be positive moving forward from a little better. Thank thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Hey, by the way, I love you more,
Speaker 1: king man. Listen, thank you for what to do on
Speaker 1: rental home. I'll need those books. Get to help me
Speaker 1: as well. I'm gonna sing you, hey, hey, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give you the unapologetic God to Black mental health, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send you a resume momenticum my grandmother's hands.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put that in the mail for you today.
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me get your address. Well, we love
Speaker 1: you too, We wish you so much. Um, you know,
Speaker 1: success with your relationship, all right? Ask ye eight on
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Speaker 1: gonna keep for you some real advice with Angela yet,
Speaker 1: ask ye morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club with in the
Speaker 1: middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? My name
Speaker 1: is Nora. Hey, Nora, Hi, I'm so excited. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm just super nervous, tous, like really wanted to talk
Speaker 1: to you guys for so long about this. Okay, now
Speaker 1: we're ready to We're listening, Nora, Okay. My question is
Speaker 1: pertaining to a situation about my dad. Um my mom
Speaker 1: and dad. They have been married for forty years and
Speaker 1: they're from a different country. However, of course they go
Speaker 1: and visit sometimes. My dad just recently visited their country
Speaker 1: and when he came back, he started acting pretty weird.
Speaker 1: He is an older man, so he always asked me
Speaker 1: to like help with things on his phone because he
Speaker 1: doesn't know how to do it that well. But then
Speaker 1: now after he came back from his trip, he was
Speaker 1: acting weirdlys and testing his phone. He was hovering over me.
Speaker 1: I just thought it was just old people, you know,
Speaker 1: things that they do, so I was didn't think about it. However,
Speaker 1: when I got alone with his soul and I went
Speaker 1: through his text messages, I saw that he was entertaining
Speaker 1: and sending money to another female that he met in
Speaker 1: this country during his trips. He now right, So I
Speaker 1: instantly got upset by it, because not only are you
Speaker 1: cheating on my mom, but you're sending money to this
Speaker 1: woman that we don't even know. My mom she does
Speaker 1: have dementia. So I was even more upset by that
Speaker 1: because I wasn't sure if I should even like bring
Speaker 1: this up to my mom or if I should bring
Speaker 1: it up to him. But I didn't want to bring
Speaker 1: it up to him, and he gets mad at me
Speaker 1: for like going through his phone, being that I'm his
Speaker 1: child and not his wife. He's sixty by it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you want to know what should you do? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Should I even say anything to my mom about this,
Speaker 1: you know? Or if I should just go ahead and
Speaker 1: keep it to myself, or should I bring it up
Speaker 1: to him. I don't even know what to do with
Speaker 1: this situation, because you know they've been married. For you,
Speaker 1: I've never experienced this, my god, you know, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say a few things here, right, and everybody's situation is different.
Speaker 1: So from my point of view, you don't even know
Speaker 1: what your parents' situation is with each other. A lot
Speaker 1: of times we're unaware right of things that may have
Speaker 1: happened in the past, understanding that they might have with
Speaker 1: each other. You don't know if this is something he's
Speaker 1: done before she ever, you don't know any of that, right,
Speaker 1: And so this is really just something right now that
Speaker 1: you need to deal with with him, because I'm never
Speaker 1: a fan of keeping things to myself, because I can
Speaker 1: imagine how that would make you feel about him. You
Speaker 1: already have a feeling about you know, obviously your mom
Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. That's not easy. You feel like
Speaker 1: he's betraying her and the family. And on top of that,
Speaker 1: he's sending money to some woman that is most likely
Speaker 1: just taking advantage of him and his generosity. But clearly
Speaker 1: he's also yeah, and clearly he's also lonely, and it's
Speaker 1: not easy to have been with somebody as long as
Speaker 1: your parents have been together to watch her suffer from dementia.
Speaker 1: We already know how hard that is on families, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure for him, it's really difficult, but I would
Speaker 1: say that for both you and your father it's worth
Speaker 1: a conversation. It might be something that would benefit him
Speaker 1: as well. But you cannot keep that to yourself. And
Speaker 1: you guys have to have that whole conversation because there's
Speaker 1: things at play here that you may not even know about.
Speaker 1: You know, as far as the faculty that he's having,
Speaker 1: as far as maybe things about your parents' relationship that
Speaker 1: you're not aware of. And like you said, your mama
Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. I don't know that something like
Speaker 1: this would be beneficial for you to bring up to
Speaker 1: her at this point. But I think with your father,
Speaker 1: you definitely because you don't want to have these feelings
Speaker 1: of animosity toward him. It's something that you should talk
Speaker 1: to him about, but go into it with an open mind,
Speaker 1: knowing that they might have things going on that you're
Speaker 1: not even aware of, and he might have his own
Speaker 1: struggles that he's dealing with and it's not going to
Speaker 1: be an easy conversation for him to have. But you
Speaker 1: also don't want to say your father getting taken advantage
Speaker 1: of right at the same time. All right, he is
Speaker 1: too old to be acting this way, and I just
Speaker 1: so as they if you know, end that he's with
Speaker 1: someone for as he's been without some forty years. He
Speaker 1: has you know, pity issues, and she took care of
Speaker 1: come through all of that, you know, regardless of her
Speaker 1: mental propowerty, our capabilities. I just felt like he owes
Speaker 1: her a lot more loyalty. And the only reason why
Speaker 1: I was fully upset about him sending money for her
Speaker 1: was because my dad definitely asked me for money time
Speaker 1: and time again, and I'm the one that is actually
Speaker 1: setting the bill about he is sending right, and you know,
Speaker 1: for me moving forward, I wouldn't give him money, but
Speaker 1: what he needs it for I would take care of.
Speaker 1: So if he's like I need to get this, okay,
Speaker 1: no problem that I got it, I'll send it to you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna order it for you online. I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: care of that bill for you, because you don't want
Speaker 1: to be sending him money for him to be sending
Speaker 1: to somebody else. And truthfully, if that was me, I
Speaker 1: would text the girl and be like, this is his daughter,
Speaker 1: you know, leave my dad alone and you're not gonna
Speaker 1: take it. Yeah, I would. I always that was just
Speaker 1: how I am. I would do that, but you should
Speaker 1: definitely have that conversation just with your father, and it
Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt for you guys to actually talk to someone together,
Speaker 1: a professional that can help him work through his feelings
Speaker 1: and understand it, and for you as well, because I
Speaker 1: would hate for anything to happen to your here ends
Speaker 1: like they're older, and you don't want to have these
Speaker 1: feelings of animosity, of regret of whatever you might feel resentment,
Speaker 1: you know, later on. So I would love to see
Speaker 1: you deal with that now, yeah, because I definitely do.
Speaker 1: I love and appreciate my dad. He has been there
Speaker 1: for me since day one, who does anything for me,
Speaker 1: and I is the last thing I would want is
Speaker 1: to have any negativity forward him, you know, throwing his
Speaker 1: last few years that I may have with him. But
Speaker 1: that really chocked me and it definitely didn't hurt me.
Speaker 1: And I don't like, I appreciate the advice to give
Speaker 1: because I honestly didn't know how to go about our approaches.
Speaker 1: All right, Nora, Well, I wish you so much luck
Speaker 1: and were sending you so much love because I can't
Speaker 1: even fathom what that's like. But it is complicated, thank
Speaker 1: you ye, and thank you guys for answering my paul. Thanks,
Speaker 1: good luck, thank you all right, ask ye eight hundred
Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If any relationship
Speaker 1: advice or any type of advice need rumors all the way. Yes,
Speaker 1: And let's talk about the co CEO of Netflix, Ted
Speaker 1: Sarrondosi is speaking out more about Dave Chappelle and how
Speaker 1: he did not communicate well with his employees. All right,
Speaker 1: we'll get to that. Next is the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Speaker 1: This is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye on the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. So Magic Johnson was on CBS News and
Speaker 1: one thing that he discussed was the vaccination controversy and
Speaker 1: whether NBA players should tell the public to get vaccinated.
Speaker 1: Here's what he said, Oh for sure. You know, that's
Speaker 1: why I got my two shots and made sure I
Speaker 1: put it out on social media. I wanted especially my
Speaker 1: community to know that first of all, is safe. And
Speaker 1: the players, again, people listen to them, they follow them.
Speaker 1: That's very important. Plus the last thing is this, you
Speaker 1: have said to your teammates, I'm gonna be there for you. Well,
Speaker 1: you can't be there if you don't get vaccinated. You're
Speaker 1: letting them down and then that hurts our chances of
Speaker 1: winning the championship. I would never do that to my teammates.
Speaker 1: What was the question again, now, whether or not NBA
Speaker 1: players should have the responsibility of telling the public to
Speaker 1: get vaccinated? Yeah, I say I believe players getting the
Speaker 1: vaccine is promotion enough. All those athletes who have huge
Speaker 1: endorsement deals won't even take pictures next to certain products
Speaker 1: because they know them being seen with those products are
Speaker 1: an endorsement. So what's the better endorsement than NBA players
Speaker 1: saying they have the vaccine? Like, why do they got
Speaker 1: to go out there and do commercials and everything else?
Speaker 1: Like ninety five percent of the NBA is vaccinated? Is
Speaker 1: that not enough? Yeah? I think it's ninety percent. Is
Speaker 1: that not enough to, you know, go out there and
Speaker 1: encourage people to get the vaccine? All right? Well yeah
Speaker 1: he was just asked about it, So that was his
Speaker 1: answer to that question. All right. Now. Snoop Dogg has
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Speaker 1: Fifty today? Right? You said, what snoop is fifty today? Right? Oh?
Speaker 1: Is he? Okay? Number dropping? It's a lot of birthday
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Speaker 1: was fifty today, Okay. I feel like is Vice President
Speaker 1: Harris's birthday? Yes, Kamala Harris's birthday. It's a big day,
Speaker 1: all right. Money bag Yo has also announced Against his
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Speaker 1: It's asap Ferg's birthday too. Shout the Ferg. It's a
Speaker 1: lot of birthdays happening movies all right. Now. Netflix is
Speaker 1: Ted Serrandos, he is the co CEO, is speaking out.
Speaker 1: He had gotten criticism for the Dave Chappelle comedy special
Speaker 1: The Closer, and he made a lot of comments about it.
Speaker 1: But he does say that he screwed up and the
Speaker 1: handling of employee concerns, and he's not taking down the special,
Speaker 1: but he does say that he should have basically said
Speaker 1: that he was sorry for people's feeling pain and hurt
Speaker 1: from a decision that they made, instead of kind of
Speaker 1: dismissing that. And so he said, storytelling has a real
Speaker 1: impact in the real world. I reiterate that because it's that,
Speaker 1: because it's why I work. Here's why we do what
Speaker 1: we do. That impact can be hugely positive and it
Speaker 1: can be quite negative. So I would have been better
Speaker 1: in that communication. They were joining a conversation already in
Speaker 1: progress but out of context. But that happens. Internal emails
Speaker 1: go out in all my communications, I should lean into
Speaker 1: the humanity upfront and not make a blanket statement that
Speaker 1: could land very differently than it was intended. So he
Speaker 1: said he made some blanket and matter of fact statements
Speaker 1: that are not all accurate, and he said that it
Speaker 1: was uncharacteristic for him. He was moving fast and trying
Speaker 1: to answer really specific questions, but there were a group
Speaker 1: of employees who were definitely feeling pain and hurt, and
Speaker 1: he should have led with a lot more humanity. Nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with that. I don't want to know what content
Speaker 1: are you going to create that everyone is going to
Speaker 1: agree with, though, Like it doesn't matter what it is comedy,
Speaker 1: news radio, someone is going to be the topic of
Speaker 1: said discussion. Or even when you're presenting a certain you know,
Speaker 1: lifestyle or something somebody's not going to agree with. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is, right, And I guess when
Speaker 1: you have employees who have concerns, you just lead with
Speaker 1: humanity and understanding of that, because he does. He is
Speaker 1: aware that everybody's not going to like everything, and so
Speaker 1: you can't make blanket statements. You just kind of have
Speaker 1: to lean into that humanity. I hear people who complain
Speaker 1: about poles, I hear people who complain about sisters. I
Speaker 1: hear people who complain about spells, specials, like everybody's gonna
Speaker 1: always have something to say. Some people even complain about
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, believe it or not. Really, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's not true. Nobody ever complaint about the Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: and eleven years we've never had no complaints. Stop. But
Speaker 1: we lean into humanity. And Charlomagne was on Stephen Colbert
Speaker 1: last night, and well know, I meant to say, Lenard
Speaker 1: mckelby was on. I go to my therapist a lot,
Speaker 1: and I talk to her about getting caught up in
Speaker 1: the charcterature of yourself. And it's like for me, you know,
Speaker 1: the name Lenard Mantelby grounds me because when I hear it,
Speaker 1: I hear my grandma, I hear my mom, I hear
Speaker 1: my wife. Like nobody calls me Charlotmagne at the house,
Speaker 1: you know me? And I remember we had Will Smith
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club like last year. He said, you know,
Speaker 1: he had read in my book and he was talking
Speaker 1: to me and he was like, I'm seeing the real
Speaker 1: you poke out and he was like, I just want
Speaker 1: you to know that you don't have to wear the
Speaker 1: mask anymore. You are enough. And I was like, are
Speaker 1: you tapping my phone. It's my therapist giving you notes
Speaker 1: on me, like how do you know that? So I
Speaker 1: just felt like that was God talking through him in
Speaker 1: that moment to let me know, you know what, You're
Speaker 1: on the right path. You don't need to wear to
Speaker 1: mask him. We don't have to be the character of
Speaker 1: Charlotta Magne. You can be Leonard. Leonard is enough, that's right,
Speaker 1: dropping a clues bombs for Will Smith, that's right, drop
Speaker 1: a bond first. Charlotta ain't poking out. Leonard is poking out.
Speaker 1: Also for legacy. Also for legacy, because I got four
Speaker 1: daughters and I want all of them to keep our
Speaker 1: last name. When you know, they get older, if they
Speaker 1: get married, you know, do the hyphen thing, but keep
Speaker 1: the mckelvy, keep the legacy going. I'm not out here
Speaker 1: breaking these generational curses for nothing. All right, Well that
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Speaker 1: the say boy. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne
Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlotte, I've
Speaker 1: been watching you a lot. Bro bro bro Bro' married
Speaker 1: knock it Off. I was about to say I've been
Speaker 1: watching you on TikTok. You haven't because I'm not on TikTok.
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Speaker 1: got you blowing off. We got people taking out clips
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Speaker 1: You also got other shows talking about you. I mean,
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Speaker 1: Guys on the Truth? No, they're talking about you blowing Well,
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Speaker 1: you say, TikTok is where the conversation is in the
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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Yes,
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Speaker 1: the mirror technique, though I've been doing. I don't high
Speaker 1: five myself. I just I'm on some like DJ Kallis
Speaker 1: stuff like you know you are great, you are special.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I tell myself I forgive
Speaker 1: you you know, Mike, Yeah you do. I do. I
Speaker 1: give affirmation to myself in the mirror. I've never done
Speaker 1: the high five thing, but that makes a lot to
Speaker 1: try it. I am. I did that. I don't look
Speaker 1: at my phone now for five minutes in the morning,
Speaker 1: I don't look at it for an hour. I've been
Speaker 1: doing that. Brush my teeth, then I look, she was
Speaker 1: just here yesterday. I did that. I did that the
Speaker 1: other day, and then I look at my phone. Charlomagne
Speaker 1: hits me, I'm not coming to work. See if I
Speaker 1: had knewn that thirty minute beforehand, I wouldn't quit to work.
Speaker 1: Even that's right, that means that now, doesn't that mean?
Speaker 1: Show the main looked at his phone? No, I was up?
Speaker 1: How did you send the text? Twenty? I get up
Speaker 1: four twenty every morning. I don't. I don't touch my phone.
Speaker 1: Mor No, I get up at four twenty. I pray,
Speaker 1: take a shower, I meditate, I read out of my
Speaker 1: daily affirmation books, kiss my family, and then I'm out.
Speaker 1: And I literally do not look at my phone TOI
Speaker 1: like five thirty six o'clock. I tried. Didn't I even
Speaker 1: know that you wasn't coming in until I already got here? See,
Speaker 1: I should should have checked my phone earlier. M all right.
Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to shout out to
Speaker 1: um Whole Foods. If you want to get some coffee
Speaker 1: uplifts people. It's now available on the Whole Food's website
Speaker 1: to get it as well, say you know if y'all
Speaker 1: want to do that, and too, rouses for being supportive
Speaker 1: of my other company, Drink Fresh Juice We're in sixteen
Speaker 1: stories there, but they just sent us an email saying
Speaker 1: they're gonna expand. So I do appreciate that partnership as well.
Speaker 1: In Louisiana. All right, now, when we come back, we
Speaker 1: got the positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy. We
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlomagne, you got a positive note.
Speaker 1: I do have a positive note, man, And I want
Speaker 1: to quote Mel Robbins because I think that Mel Robbins
Speaker 1: is dope and she says a lot of great things,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna quote her. I really don't even know
Speaker 1: what quote I don't want to go with from Mel Robbins,
Speaker 1: but I do enjoy this one a lot. There is
Speaker 1: only one you, and there will never be another one.
Speaker 1: That's your power, and I give you one more. Knowing
Speaker 1: what you need to do to improve your life takes wisdom,
Speaker 1: pushing yourself to do it takes courage. Mel Robbins, Breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: you don't finish a y'all dumb