1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: Morning. The morning I'm talking right, You're about to experience 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: a morning showing like any overst what you guys are 3 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: doing right now. That's the hump culture. Breakfast Club is 4 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: my morning sick. I need it and I love it. 5 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: Something you like, You're really not popping until you do 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: the breakfast Club and waiting come to y'all show man, 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: I know you gotta be a big time celebrity. Be 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: up in here. You gotta be. You gotta be big time. 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: And Charlottagne the guy the breakfast club bitches. Good morning USA. 10 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: Hey damn okay, all right, well guess what day it is. 11 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: Guess what day it is? Hump Day. That's right, Today 12 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: is Wednesday's hump Day. Good morning to you. Good morning. 13 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: Are you feeling easy? I feel good. I got a 14 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 1: little package in the mail. I'm trying to think it's 15 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: a briefcase, trying to see what's in it. I already 16 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,639 Speaker 1: know because look, I had ordered these chocolates right from 17 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: Philip Ashley. It's a black owned chocolate company, and so 18 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: the owner, Philip Ashley, actually asked me what my favorite 19 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: flavors of things are, like my favorite foods, and he 20 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: made me some chocolates based off of that. Oh nice, 21 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: So we're gonna see. I don't know what they are 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: yet they look beautiful. They look at this amazing, They're 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: so pretty. You can try it. And he sent me 24 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: some uh Sirock and Calwer to go with it. Okay, cool, well, 25 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: thank you. And I got some Hotti sauce. This is 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: for you Nick. He does all of our camera stuff. 27 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 1: He loves hot sauces. So I got some Popeyes Megda 28 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: Stallion Hotti sauce. But I finally got to finish Squid 29 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: Game last night. Okay, I finished Squid Game this weekend. 30 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: Did you like it? Um? It was cool. I thought 31 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: the end should have been a little different, but I 32 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: didn't like them to need it. That's the only that's 33 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: my only great. I didn't like the ending too much. 34 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: I didn't like the I didn't like the ending because 35 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: I was like, man, you know what I'm mine, I'm 36 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: about to tell the whole thing. Yeah. Now I figured 37 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: it out. I figured it out on like the third episode. 38 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: I figured it out. What did you figure out? What 39 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: was it to figure out? I don't want to talk 40 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: about it, but you know who was in charge and 41 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: all that. I figured out the third episode, you figured 42 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: out who was in charge? Who was in charge of? 43 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: Then I figured that part out. You figured that out, Nick, 44 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: I figured out who was in Jarde. Who's in Jearge. 45 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: We'll tell us off the air. No, no, well, now 46 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: you can watch You're not gonna watch you. Season three 47 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: scret Game was really good. If you get a chance, 48 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: definitely check it out. I really really enjoyed it, and 49 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: I did up to watch Queens last night the first episode. 50 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: Did you watch that? How was that? Yeah? It was good. 51 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. And you know, my best friend is 52 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: an artist named Santi Gold. They played one of her 53 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: songs during the show. I would say, that sound like 54 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: a sane song. So I didn't get to see Queens. 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: I was on I had to do Stephen colbet show 56 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: last night, dropping the Clues BOMX from my top killund 57 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: of Bredren Stephen Colbet. So I was on there last 58 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: night talking all things uh to Gods on This Truth, 59 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: which is my late night talk show that comes on 60 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: Friday nights at ten pm on Comedy Central, executive produced 61 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: by Stephen Corbett by the Way Right and Aaron McGruder. 62 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: And last night, NBA season was back to I ain't 63 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: get to see. No, I didn't see the nets nets 64 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: lost for those in Lakers lost last night. Her day 65 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: was getting heard the next gut washed last night. I 66 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't say it was a wash. I just saw saw 67 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: twenty three points. That's pretty much a wash. Twenty three 68 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: points if you lose by twenty three points, kind of 69 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: a wash. Actually, you watch basketball, clearly you actually used 70 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: to play basketball. Point Guess what if y'all lost by 71 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: twenty three, your coach would be very disappointed. They lost 72 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: twenty three, and then girls games didn't even really score. 73 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: Y'all score twenty three. Sometimes high school goodness gracious, all right, 74 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes it'd be like forty that's all the funniest tweets 75 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: somebody sent me last night. Somebody takes it to my phone. 76 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: It was like the netshout here, the netshout here getting washed, 77 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: and Kyrie Irvan's at home listening to the most death. 78 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: All right, Well, we got a special guest joining us today, right, yes, 79 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: Smel Robins. Smel Robbins is a you know, world renowned author, 80 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: international best selling offer. You might have read her book 81 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: The Five Second Rules. She's got a new book out 82 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: now called the high five at it, and she's gonna 83 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: talk to us about taking control of your life with 84 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: one simple habit. Okay, m all right, we'll get into 85 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: all that when we come back. It's the breakfast Club. 86 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey morning, everybody is dj envy exactly and 87 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: you get it getting in the morning. Hey, you got 88 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: a chocolate mustache? And wipe that off? A chocolate mustache 89 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: with y'all. Let's get some foa that sounds like some 90 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: remember them old movies back in the day, like let 91 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: me blowing your eye? Remember those movies on them twa movies? 92 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: What movies are you I remember? Let me blow your eye? 93 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: Like you got a chocolate mustache? Wipe it off? What 94 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: is that's the cold? Let's get to Brookpaige. Dudes, man, 95 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 1: not a Warriors beat the Lake is one twenty one 96 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: one fourteen. The Milwaukee Bucks beat the Nets one twenty 97 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: seven to one oh four and they got their championship 98 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: rings two before the game. The Bucks did Milwaukee do? Is? 99 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: I love the city of Milwaukee? Scooth to Milwaukee man, 100 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: Milwaukee holds a special place in my heart. One because 101 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: you know V one hundred point seven with the first 102 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: station to take a chance on Brekas Club and syndicate 103 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: us and too. I just love the city. I mean, 104 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: I love the city to the food's amazing. Shout to 105 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: the Caribbean restaurant. There's a Caribbean restaurant and it's a 106 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: slash like a juice liquor spot called Concoctions. I love it. 107 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 1: But shout to Milwaukee. All right, Now, what else you 108 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: talking about? Restless anal syndrome. Experts are saying that COVID 109 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: nineteen infections may be causing a restless anal syndrome that 110 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: likestl bitch face. Yea, oh so now you want COVID 111 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: restless anal something? All right? Well, a new case report 112 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: in Japan has established a link between what people are 113 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: saying is a gastro intestinal pain that's chronic, that's a 114 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: constant urge to defecate. So they are trying to do 115 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: some more research to determine that link between restless anal 116 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 1: syndrome and COVID nineteen. But they're saying, this is a 117 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: real symptom that's been happening, that's keep even after you go, 118 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: you still feel like you have to go, and it's 119 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: a deep anal discomfort. Isn't it a deep anal discomfort. No, 120 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: they said that it was the urge to go to 121 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: the bathroom, was worse at night, and then when he 122 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: was resting throughout most of the day. Only when he 123 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: was moving or breaking a sweat did he feel temporary 124 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: relief before the sensation rushed back later, according to people. 125 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: So they did conduct colinoscopies and neurological tests for reflexes 126 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: and his anus, but they could not explain why these 127 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: symptoms arose weeks after his infection and then they did 128 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: find hemorrhoids. But they are saying that it's kind of 129 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: like restless leg syndrome. Fall asleep now you know, yeah, 130 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: you know how your leg just is always like moving. 131 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: That was called anxiety. But they are going to be 132 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 1: doing some more evidence, but just keeps like imagine you 133 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and you defecate and then you 134 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: always still feel like you have to say what you mean? Yeah, 135 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna blame cold with for everything up well, they 136 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: say this is another symptom. Shout out to a destiny 137 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: Forever EJC. She actually sent me this story on Instagram, 138 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: like make sure you report on this because Charlotmagne will 139 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: love it. She's right. I like the title, the titles 140 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: five syndrome. Well, the bottom line is is what what's 141 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: the bottom line? All right? And Facebook is planning to 142 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 1: rebrand the company. They're gonna get a new name and 143 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna announce that next week. They're going to be 144 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: focusing on not just being a social media company, but 145 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 1: their ambitions have expanded, and they're saying right now they 146 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: are trying to make sure they build up more public trust. 147 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 1: And also it's just that's not all they do. They 148 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: don't want to be associated as just a social media company. 149 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: They want to be a metaverse company, just bigger than 150 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: just one thing. It's universal, it's all over. So they're 151 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: gonna actually unveil this at the company's annual Connect conference 152 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: on October twenty eighth, but you might learn the names. Well, 153 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: you know, they own a lot of other things like 154 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: what's app Oculus and more So there's more that they 155 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: do besides this Instagram, Facebook, What's app Oculus. They have 156 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: a lot of different companies underneath them, so they're a 157 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: tech giant. It's not just social media. I wonder if 158 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: they start calling themselves something else, like if they say 159 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: that they're a network. Well, that prompt the government to 160 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: start regulating them in a real way, because once you 161 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: start calling yourself an actual network and you're admitting that 162 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: you're broadcasting things right, all right, well I guess and 163 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: you know they do have a lot of shows on 164 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: there too, Facebook watch a lot of different programming. All right, 165 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: Well that is your front page news, all right, get 166 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: it off your chests. Eight on drink five eight five 167 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: one on five one. If you need to vent, hit 168 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 1: us up right now, phone lines and wide open again. 169 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: Eight on drink five, five one on five one is 170 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm telling 171 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm telling you if this is your time to get 172 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 1: it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight 173 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: one five one. We want to hear from you on 174 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Oh boy, you heard 175 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 1: Wrestless ain't no syndrome and you called immediately trave Hey, Trav, 176 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: what's up pieces, what's happening? Well, no, I really am 177 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: calling and talking about Wrestless. Any know what happened? You're like, 178 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: I feel like my ex added turned around. He was 179 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: cheating on me. I think he had Restless anal syndrome. Bro, 180 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: and it's a real thing that these bottoms have and 181 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: trav trav. But yeah, X wanted it, wanted it to 182 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: go in, ain't know wrested it goes out. Well, I 183 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 1: think I think you had a different type of antal 184 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: antal syndrome. So yeah, it was just restless. He me, 185 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: I got something to say to you that called in yesterday. 186 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: He was absolutely right. I don't like how you asking 187 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: about your car show. Drive your dreams used to be 188 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: your name, and now are you acting like this? You 189 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: gonna car teller? You don't have the same I told 190 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: him that too, Yes, I doing thank you my car 191 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: show is I told a thirty minute my celebrity car show. 192 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: Make sure you get your tickets or Miami twelve twelve. Yeah, 193 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: if that kind of energetic about it again? Drive your 194 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: dream jaws coming up? Thank you, Thank you, y'all, Thank you. Hello. 195 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: Who's this hello? I just want to say bless good 196 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: morning everybody. Sehn Stone was happening. Brother, what's up? Charlotte 197 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: made a guard? What's up? Angelie? Eyes? Red? You don't 198 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: never speak, but what's up? Redak? Hey, I just want 199 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: to shout out my board real quick. He just came 200 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 1: out with a new project. His name is Patient Steve Underscore. 201 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: He's Haitian, obviously, Uncle go follow him on by h 202 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: A I E I A M. Steve spe v E Underscore. 203 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: And Uh, one more thing that story. Uh, angelie, you 204 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: was talking about the ainto thing? Were you talking about Trap? Trap? 205 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: Just Trap? Just called him Trap's X had it? Why? Why? 206 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: Why Trav got it? Are you in it? What are 207 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: you doing? Trav got it? I think he got start. 208 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: How do you know? I don't know? You know what 209 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: I mean. I'm just now showing Stone. This is how 210 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: you get in trouble. Leave travel over. Traf is minded 211 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: his business and now he he want to get on 212 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: your ass. You're gonna be like, damn. The crazy thing is, 213 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 1: you know. The crazy thing is I got love for Trap, 214 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: but I wanted to see y'all the story. So last 215 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: off the train and woof bridge and I come off 216 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: the train and I see a black dude on the platforms. 217 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: I say, what's up? I give him the head nod, 218 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 1: like when black people to each other, we give each 219 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: other the head nods. Right, he gave me the head 220 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: nod and start smiling at me. Crazy, what's trum with 221 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: that no, but it was a crazy smile. It was 222 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: like like, hey, like I wanted hill a smile. Well, 223 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: I got to do a trap. This don't got never 224 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: to do a sad trap, but everything to do a 225 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: wrestlers anto synder. I'm trying to say that was gay 226 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 1: and he was showing the holl that short Stone. But listen, 227 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: short Stone, don't get down that way. Man, are you 228 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: sewn Stone? Why can't you just take it as a conference? 229 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: Why are you referring to yourself as Shawn Stone or not? Listen? 230 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 1: But the matter of fact is I went down to 231 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: when I look behind me, let's do what is following me? 232 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: So I said, hey, why are you following me? Man? 233 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: You was like no, and then ran back up seating 234 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: the hop on the train crazy. I mean, you shouldn't 235 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 1: be winking that. Brothers on the train for the platform, right, 236 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: I didn't win. I say, what's up? I head? Now, 237 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: that's not that's not a wink. Bro Okay, let's just 238 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: be flat, just be flattered, Yeah, just be flattered. It 239 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: ain't It was cute, all right, get into a few 240 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 1: chests eight hundred five eight five one on five one. 241 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: If you need to vent hit this up now it's 242 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:49,840 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is 243 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: your time to get it off your chest. Whether you're 244 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: man from you on the Breakfast Club, but you got 245 00:12:56,040 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: something on your mind. Hello, who's this? And there the 246 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: Cleve stuff y'all. How y'all doing? Hey Man, I just 247 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: want to give a big thanks to you, Eavy Man. 248 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm a new listener. I've probably been listening for about 249 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: a year. My girl took me on game with you guys. 250 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 1: I used to say she was a clown listening to y'all. 251 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: Man was the clown back in the day. Uh, But 252 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: I never actually listened to you guys the show. And 253 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: so when I actually listened, I was like, you know 254 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: what these people are that they're good people, you guys. 255 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: You guys know what you're doing, and I really appreciate 256 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: what you guys are doing. At every um I heard 257 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,960 Speaker 1: you talked about the credit dude, the wild back. And 258 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: at the same time, I was trying to get everything 259 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: since Man and I finally hit a month and he 260 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: got my stuff straight, myself a new trust. Yeah, he 261 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: got my credit right, man, they got my credit right. 262 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm still working all this, still trying to get up 263 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: to that those eight, man. But they got me into 264 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: the seven, all in the five and they got me 265 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: all the way up. Man. I just bought myself a 266 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: new truck. I'm a truck driver around here, worked for 267 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: FavAC and uh man, I'm blessed, highly favored. How long 268 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: did it take to eight to nine months? Man? I 269 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: have some serious stuff on there that they got off 270 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: pretty quick for me. Okay. I was really murprised how 271 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: fast they did it, you know, because it was kind 272 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: of the slow prom in the beginning. But you know, 273 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: as I kept checking and I you know, didn't the 274 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: programs they were talking about, it was just yeah, it 275 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 1: just shot up instantly. Yeah, and let people know. Man, 276 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: you know, it's never too late to do what you 277 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: need to do. Man. I was a feeling. I'm thirty 278 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: three years old. I was getting curved from every job 279 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: I tried to get. End up just grabbing getting my CDL, 280 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: getting the class day, and I'm loving life right now, 281 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: all right. I think the credit dude, I think I'm 282 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: he's gonna come up here this week, and I think 283 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do is we're gonna fix I think 284 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: like maybe twenty thirty people's credit, just to just on 285 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: the strength, just to help people out many I've been 286 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: recommending him to everybody I know man, because he weren't 287 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: wondering guys work to thank you so much. Yeah, he 288 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: helped me out so many times. And people don't like 289 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: I've met him because he actually helped me fix my credit. 290 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: I had something left up on my credit and he 291 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: helped me in and we just became good friends. Hello. 292 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: Who's this Jessica from Virginia. Hey, Jessica from vall part 293 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: of VA. I'm in Arlington. Okay, get it off your 294 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: right outside of Okay, get it off your chess. So 295 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: I am actually blessed, but I'm a little sad because 296 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: I listened to you guys every morning live on my 297 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: way to work, and basically I told you guys how 298 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: I shot my shot of dramas we shot it down, 299 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: I found a black King. Hey, congratulations. Job moving to 300 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: Seattle to be with my black King's nice. Yes, So 301 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: I'm very excited. But I just wanted to tell you guys, 302 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: thank you so so so much for everything you do 303 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: for the community and and the people that you guys 304 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: bring on as far as like information and stuff like 305 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: that you guys are more appreciated than you're thinking you now, 306 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: so I just wanted to say thank you. I appreciate you. 307 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: You gotta listen to us on the app now, Yeah, 308 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: I listen to the iHeart if I be missed in 309 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: the morning, so I'm just gonna stick to iHeart. Okay, Well, 310 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: thank you, mama, and you have a great trip and 311 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: be safe out this, ma'am. Thank you starling man. Can 312 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: I get assigned copy of Black Privilege? Please? Absolutely, that's easy. 313 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: When we put you on hold, when we get your address, 314 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: don't hold, don't hang up, all right, get it off 315 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: your chest. Eight undred five eight five one on five one. 316 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: Now we got rumors on the way. What we're talking about, Yes, 317 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: and let's talk about young boy. He has been involved 318 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: in a jail fight, according to reports, and that's why 319 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: he is going to be denied bond. We'll give you 320 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: more details, all right, We'll get into that next. Keep 321 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: a lock. This to Breakfast Club. God Morning, the Breakfast Club. 322 00:16:52,000 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela. Ye, well, it 323 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: looks like Wendy Williams will not be returning to her 324 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 1: show until at least November. So yeah, so it looks 325 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: like she's still going through whatever sickness and I know 326 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: complications some graves disease a direct condition. So yeah, she's 327 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: not back until then. But they have announced some more 328 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: guest hosts. Sherry Shepherd is going to be a special 329 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: guest host from November first to the fifth, and Whitney 330 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 1: Cummings will be guest hosting October twenty fifth to the ninth. Now, 331 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: Whitney Cummings posted, nobody can ever replace Wendy, but we 332 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: will do whatever we can to fill in so she 333 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 1: can come back stronger than ever. She's gone so hard 334 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:36,880 Speaker 1: for so long, and as much as I miss seeing 335 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 1: her every day, just imagine how hilarious she's going to 336 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: be after some time to take care of herself and 337 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 1: have some quiet time to think. Sherry Shepherd also posted 338 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: that she will be guest hosting too. Well, you gotta 339 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 1: continue to send a Wendy Williams healing energy. She might 340 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 1: will take the whole year off though, like, well you can't. 341 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 1: You can't rush your health, you know what I mean? 342 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: Not for no TV show, all right. Sherry Shepherd in 343 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: the press release state that I had such a great 344 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 1: time when I hosted the show in twenty nineteen, and 345 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: I'm flattered that and the producers put their trust in 346 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: me to fill in again. I'm sending my love and 347 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 1: well wishes to her. All right, Young boy never broke again. 348 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 1: He was allegedly involved in a fight while he was 349 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: in jail, and prosecutors are using that to deny him bond. 350 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: According to a recent report that regards his detailed post 351 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: release plan, they're using that one incident that reportedly happened 352 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 1: to justify keeping him locked up for such a long time. 353 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 1: They argued that he cannot stay out of fights. Prosecutor 354 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,959 Speaker 1: Will Morris even said that his pattern of behavior is disturbing, 355 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: and it was confirmed that the Feds were using the 356 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: name Operation Never Free Again to describe the sting takedown 357 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: of Young Boy. I was think in jail though, like 358 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, if somebody walked to be when 359 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: swings on you, you should be allowed to defend yourself. Now, 360 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: if you started the fight, that's different. But if you're 361 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: defending yourself, and I'm sure everybody's showing yeah, that's what 362 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: I'm saying, what are you supposed to do? Yeah? And 363 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: you know they're proposing when he gets released that he'll 364 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: relocate to Utah, and which I think that could be 365 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: really good for him, right, And what they are saying 366 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 1: is that there's a tutor, one of his childhood tutors 367 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: that lives there. He purchased a residence in North Utah recently. 368 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 1: He reportedly stayed with her extended family throughout the past 369 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: decade while remaining out of trouble whenever he's there. And 370 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: I think that could be a positive thing because sometimes 371 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,160 Speaker 1: you got to take people out of the environment where 372 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,440 Speaker 1: things can provoke you and put them someplace else. Because 373 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,240 Speaker 1: such a young you really want to rehab somebody, right, Right, 374 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: he's such a young man. That's why you got to 375 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: give people the chance to grow, give people a chance 376 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: to evolve, Like, you know, how old is he? God? 377 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:38,560 Speaker 1: Come on, you know I did have that chance to 378 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: really go like to his you know, grandparents' house and 379 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: talk to him and to have some off camera conversations. 380 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,239 Speaker 1: And so I do feel particularly particularly empathetic to him 381 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: and what he's been through. So much love to nb 382 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: a young boy. And after he's held accountable for whatever 383 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: he's in jail for and he you know, pays that 384 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 1: to society, he should be allowed to, you know, come 385 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: out and go live a great life. What did a 386 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: man chance to grow? What is he in jail? Or 387 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: do we even know? I forgot weapons and drug charges? 388 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: And all right, now let's talk about Cardi B. She 389 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 1: is pleading not guilty to assault charges and she could 390 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,680 Speaker 1: face four years in prison. She had been offered the 391 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,360 Speaker 1: chance to plead guilty the third degree assault that would 392 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 1: be in exchange for a conditional discharge, but she has 393 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: decided that she is going to plead not guilty. They 394 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: always tell us, a lot of lawyers have come up 395 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: here and told us, if you didn't do something, don't 396 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: just plead guilty to a lesser charge, because that will 397 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: that could potentially a conditional discharge lead to any little 398 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: thing that happens could land her behind bars. So I'm 399 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: sure she feels like she can fight this. Not only 400 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: that that opens up the civil case. So she pleads 401 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: guilty to that, then that civil case gets opened wide up, 402 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: and that's a lot easier than a court case. So 403 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 1: but if you're found not guilty to assault charges, somebody 404 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 1: can't still bring a Yeah, but it's a lot easier 405 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: if you plead guilty though. Okay, so she posted no 406 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: one ever notices when you're being provoked, just when you 407 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: reta ALLIHL supposed they want to see a bad bitch 408 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: do bad and a lot of people have been testing 409 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: her on social media as well. Now pushics is asking 410 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: a judge to stop Fedge from presenting evidence of past 411 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: crimes from when he was only eleven years old at 412 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 1: his trial. So the first is an assault case that 413 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: happened when he was fourteen, the other is a robbery 414 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: case that occurred when he was only eleven in the 415 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: sixth grade. And his team is saying that you shouldn't 416 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: show those things at the trial. All right. These actions 417 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: have no direct nexus to pushicsy other than in speculation. 418 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 1: They're saying. You know, he was arrested in June for 419 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: his legend involvement in the shooting and robbery of two 420 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 1: men in October of twenty twenty in Miami. The federal 421 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 1: charges he's facing and clude discharging firearm during a violent crime, conspiracy, 422 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: and Hobbs Act robbery. If convicted, he's facing a possible 423 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,719 Speaker 1: maximum sentence of life in prison. Damn. So what are 424 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: you trying to say he got a history of violence 425 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: or something later? Yeah, but I think, I mean, eleven 426 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: years old, and when you're a child, should you be 427 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:01,159 Speaker 1: allowed to present that now the sixth grade something you 428 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 1: did in sixth grade? I don't know. I mean I 429 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 1: didn't my mind, no, But I don't know. I don't 430 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 1: know how the law works. It sounds to me like 431 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: they're just trying to paint a history of you know, 432 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: him being violent and saying that he I guess he 433 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 1: hasn't rehabilitated or change. I don't know, all right, And 434 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 1: that is all These kids be so nice when you 435 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: meet that. I called him a kid, but yeah, these 436 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,200 Speaker 1: young men be so nice when you meet him, Like, 437 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: I don't that gets hard to I don't know, man, 438 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: I just know that, you know, we all start someplace, 439 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 1: and I couldn't even imagine being that young with that 440 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,199 Speaker 1: kind of money in the minds that I had when 441 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 1: I was twenty something years though, correct, you know what 442 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: I mean? That's when you would hope your old g's 443 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: and your older family members can you know, put their 444 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: arm around you and try to guide you the right way. Hey, 445 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 1: we we all had that. It's not like we didn't 446 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,959 Speaker 1: have that growing up. But you know, you still end 447 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 1: up doing stupid things. But I just know that you 448 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: know that man had a long life ahead of him. 449 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: Poosh its the NBA young boy, all of them. So 450 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: I would hate to see any of them have to 451 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: go to jail for life or twenty years or thirty years, 452 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: because you never know who the brothers are gonna turn 453 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: out to be. All right, now we got front page 454 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: news next, Yes, and let's talk about Halloween costumes. What 455 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: is the number one search? All right, we'll get into 456 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 1: that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, So Breakfast Club, 457 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same. Audible is your 458 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: source for best selling audio books, hot new releases in 459 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: popular podcasts, plus exclusive titles you can't find anywhere else. 460 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,719 Speaker 1: It's all in the one app. Get your first one 461 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: free when you sign up for a thirty day trial 462 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: at audible dot com. Slash Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is 463 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the 464 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Let's get some front page news that NBA 465 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: last night, the Bucks beat the Nets one twenty seven, 466 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 1: one on four, the Warriors beat the Lakers one twenty 467 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,719 Speaker 1: one fourteen. Now what else we got? Easy? Well, Square 468 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 1: game Halloween costumes are topping internet searches, so everybody wants 469 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: to be a character from Square Game. I kind of 470 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 1: was thinking, I like to be the red light green 471 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,719 Speaker 1: Light ones three dollars, Yeah, the dollar around and then 472 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: maybe you guys can come dress and jumpsues and I 473 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: can shoot y'all. We've been um, well some of the 474 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 1: A lot of those people survive. You you haven't seen 475 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:09,400 Speaker 1: the show, but if I did, a lot of them died. 476 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: That was like the first episode. But we would be 477 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 1: the one to survive. Yes, we would. Yeah, we would 478 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 1: definitely want to survive easily. All right. Now let's talk 479 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: about Donald Trump. He made a statement about Colin Powell's passing. 480 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: Instead of just saying rest in peace or nothing at all, 481 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 1: he posted, wonderful to see Colin Powell, who made big 482 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 1: mistakes on Iraq and famously so called weapons of master 483 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: Chucks and be treated in death so beautifully by the 484 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: fake news media. Hope that happens to me someday. He 485 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: was a classic rhino, if even that, always being the 486 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: first to attack other Republicans. He made plenty of mistakes, 487 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 1: but anyway, may he rest in peace? What is wrong 488 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:47,480 Speaker 1: with him? Nothing? He sounded like you sound like a 489 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,359 Speaker 1: lot of rappers. I know. I've heard shut up and 490 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: don't say nothing. I've heard rappers say when you might 491 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: if you most my ap alive, you might op did 492 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: like you know. It's distasteful to me, but that's who 493 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:04,640 Speaker 1: he all. Right now, there is early November approval expected 494 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: for the fives, a vaccine for children at age five 495 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: to eleven, and then New York officials are pushing forward 496 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,119 Speaker 1: on planning to vaccinate children once they were approved, and 497 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: right now they want school to become alternate vaccination sites 498 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 1: due to fears of an impending rush on pediatrician So 499 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: they're saying about one point five million children in the 500 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: state will be eligible to get that vaccine, and the 501 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,199 Speaker 1: governor is saying that with parental permission slip for parents, 502 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 1: they will encourage them to make appointments now for early 503 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: to mid November, so age five to eleven. I know 504 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: that scares y'all with your kids as far as that 505 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: vaccination being available in early November, right, it does, yeah, don't. 506 00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,919 Speaker 1: I just don't know how it affects the kids as yet. 507 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if they tested enough kids and seeing 508 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: the results for kids as yet. I know they have 509 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: for adults. Oh yeah, it does definitely makes me nervous, 510 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: all right. And gang in Haiti won seventeen million dollars 511 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: in ransom for seventeen American and Canadian missionaries who have 512 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: been kidnapped. They're asking for a million dollars each for 513 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,479 Speaker 1: their release. At sixteen American citizens and one Canadian. They 514 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: were actually they're visiting an orphanage. And that abduction is 515 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: part of a wave of indiscriminate kidnappings. It's become more brazen. 516 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,479 Speaker 1: The country is suffering from political instability, civil unrest, lack 517 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: of quality healthcare, and severe poverty. So we are praying 518 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: for their safe return. The abductive group is made out 519 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: of five men, seven women, and five children. The kids 520 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: include an eight month old baby and kids aged three, six, thirteen, 521 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: and fifteen years old. The ages of the adults range 522 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: from eighteen to forty eight. All right, and that is 523 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye. 524 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: Now when we come back, who's joining us this morning? 525 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 1: Oh man. Mel Robbins international bestselling author. She had a 526 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: book called The Five Second Rules. Some of y'all own it, 527 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure, And now she had a new book called 528 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: the High five habit. What she's that you can take 529 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 1: control of your life with one simple habit, and I 530 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 1: cannot wait for her to tell us what that habit is. 531 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that when we come back, 532 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good morning. The 533 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club in this front page and was responsive by 534 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 1: Universe Souls Circus, which is back in town for tickets 535 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 1: to visit Universal Circus dot com. The Breakfast Club. Your 536 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: mornings will never be the same morning. Everybody is DJ 537 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 538 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: We have a special guest in the building. Yes, indeed 539 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: we have author Mel Robbins. Welcome, Wow, thank you, a 540 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: motivational speaker and a host of others. Yes, a lot 541 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,920 Speaker 1: of things. How are you doing this morning? And welcome 542 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 1: to the show. Well, I'm I'm super excited. We got 543 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: so much to talk about and I cannot wait to 544 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 1: just get into it all. Well, who is Mel Robbins? 545 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: For the folks that don't know, I'm somebody that's screwed 546 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: up a lot in life. Oh yeah, I tend to 547 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: come by wisdom the hard way, Okay, by either digging 548 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 1: a hole or falling into one and then needing a 549 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: ladder and having to build it myself. A kind of 550 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 1: people I like to listen to. I like to listen 551 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: to people who've actually had experiences that they can speak on, 552 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: whether those experiences a so called good or so called 553 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,120 Speaker 1: back because I don't believe in either. I don't believe 554 00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: life is a process. Yeah. I think life is like 555 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: the hardest and most incredible school you'll ever attend. Absolutely, 556 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: and everything is a lesson. And you know, I kind 557 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: of came into writing books and being a motivational speaker 558 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 1: because I have had so many struggles, just like everybody else. Like, 559 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody gets to being an adult in 560 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: life and not experiencing some kind of trauma or abuse 561 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: or whatever. It's hot in here. We didn't pay to 562 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: a c build. I'm also fifty three. I could be 563 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: like everybody's mother, and so I'm having a lot, right. Yeah, 564 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: I don't know how old you think we are, but there, yeah, 565 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 1: you'd have been a very very young mother. My mom 566 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: was a very young mom too, but no. So I 567 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: have had a lifelong struggle with anxiety, which is one 568 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: of the reasons why I'm so excited to talk to 569 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: you guys. And I have these two books that became 570 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 1: instant best sellers because I just have this crazy knack 571 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: of taking really complicated stuff and coming up with really 572 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 1: almost simple, cheesy ways to explain things that are memorable 573 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 1: that anybody can use with any level of education or 574 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:40,240 Speaker 1: no education at all, to attack issues like anxiety, depression, PTSD, procrastination. 575 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: And that's been my gift. Let's talk about the High 576 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 1: five habit. You know, take control of your life with 577 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: one simple what does that habit? Okay, so first I 578 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,040 Speaker 1: gotta tell you, Okay, this is going to sound like 579 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: the stupidest thing you've ever heard. This is the most 580 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,760 Speaker 1: powerful thing I have ever discovered in my entire life, 581 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: and it unpacked decades of research in psychology, in human behavior, inhabits. 582 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 1: It's insane. Basically, you're going to stand in front of 583 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: the mirror every morning, right after you brush your teeth, 584 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 1: and I want you to do it after you brush 585 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: your teeth because we know, based on research, that your 586 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: brain learns new habits when you stack it with an 587 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: old habit. Now, I want to teach you, using science, 588 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: how to get all of the gunk out of your mind, body, 589 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: and spirit, spirit, and I'm talking generational here. Okay, So 590 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 1: as you stand in front of the mirror, you're going 591 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: to put your toothbrush down and you're gonna look in 592 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 1: the mirror. That's step one. Now, this is the hardest 593 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: part for most people. And I actually read the interview 594 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: that you said when you announced the Mental Wealth Alliance. 595 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 1: There was an article that you that was written about 596 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: you in Forbes, and there was a quote there that 597 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 1: I loved because this is what the high five habit 598 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,520 Speaker 1: is all about. You were talking about the fact, you know, 599 00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: about how the black community had been impacted by the pandemic, 600 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: and you said, I've never had more people call me, 601 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: FaceTime me or text me saying yo, bro, I'm ready 602 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: to talk to somebody. Everybody's sitting at home and having 603 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 1: to deal with themselves all the time, and there's a 604 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: lot of people who are just seeing themselves for the 605 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: first time, and they may not necessarily like what they see. 606 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: The fact of the matter is fifty percent or more 607 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: of men and women can't even look at themselves in 608 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: the mirror right because they do not like the person 609 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,720 Speaker 1: that they see. And the reason why they don't like 610 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 1: themselves is so sad. They either like every morning in 611 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: the mirror, when you simply stand there and you look 612 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: at yourself in the mirror, you're not alone, and that's 613 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: not your reflection. I believe you're in that bathroom with 614 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: another human being, and that human being needs you. They 615 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: are trying their best. They have been trying so hard. 616 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: They are so sick and tired of being picked apart. 617 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 1: They're tired of your negativity. They are tired of yourself doubt. 618 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: They're tired of being beaten down by you. And the 619 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 1: reason why most people cannot even look at themselves in 620 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 1: the mirror is because if you're a human being, you 621 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: have a past that is filled with all kinds of crep. 622 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 1: There's not a human being that hasn't experienced some level 623 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: of trauma. I know in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I'm from Moskeegan, Michigan. 624 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: They just the officials, they're just actually said that racism 625 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: is the leading mental health crisis. Thankfully, people are starting 626 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: to talk about this. And so you've either experienced trauma 627 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 1: or abuse, or neglect or abandonment or and you drag 628 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: that into the bathroom every morning, and it stands between 629 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: you and the human being in the mirror. And there's 630 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: so many people that think that they are not worthy, 631 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: or that they are damaged or not lovable because of 632 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: what they've survived, or if you're a human, you've done 633 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff that you regret. You've cheated, you've lied, 634 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: you've you've hurt other people, you've hurt yourself, you've squandered opportunity, 635 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 1: you've stolen stuff. I mean, everybody has stuff they've regret, 636 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: stuff that they would forgive all of us for. But 637 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: you stand in judgment of the human being in the mirror. 638 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: And so number one, you may find it super challenging 639 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: just to do the part where you look in the mirror. 640 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: But what I want you to do is I want 641 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: you to then raise your hand, as cheesy as it sounds, 642 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: I want you to high five the human being you see. 643 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: And what's incredible about this simple habit is that number one, 644 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: you have high five to other people your whole life. So, Charlemagne, 645 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: when you high five somebody, what does the gesture itself mean? 646 00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: I'm greeting them, want them to be seen, want them 647 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: to feel seen, want them to know that I recognize them. 648 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: What are you thinking? When you high five me, I 649 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 1: recognize them, I respect them, I would a love for them. Yeah, yeah, 650 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: anderations on something. Yeah, to accomplicate. They've accomplice and you're 651 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: acknowledging that. Yeah. Now here's this. This is where the 652 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: high five habit gets bananas. Since you have been high 653 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: fiving and receiving high fives from tons of people your 654 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 1: whole life, your mind, body, and spirit is already programmed 655 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: with the messaging of a high five. There is neural 656 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: association with the physical trigger of doing this. So when 657 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 1: you go to high five yourself, no matter how weird 658 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: it feels or resistant you are to it, your brain 659 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: turns all that judgment off and it picks up the 660 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: neural association with a lifetime of high five and receiving 661 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 1: high fives. You have never once thought envy. I hate 662 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: you as you high five somebody. You've never once thought 663 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: you loser. I hope you lose. Today is gonna be too. 664 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 1: You've never ever ever done it unless you like you 665 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 1: got to be one of the most facus backstabbing people 666 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: in the world to do something, I don't even think 667 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,399 Speaker 1: anybody can do it. Somebody. Yeah, Because here's the thing, 668 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,759 Speaker 1: Like you literally eat. Like if you and I high 669 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,359 Speaker 1: five right now, if we high five right now, right, 670 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,919 Speaker 1: if we have five right now? Yes, like I said, 671 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: receive something, Yes, you have to just one. Your brain 672 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 1: doesn't know the difference between me high five envy or 673 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: angel or you or me high five myself. So that 674 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: that feeling that you just got, that's dopamine. Your brain 675 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 1: gives you a drip of dopamine every morning when you 676 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: high five yourself, that celebratory yeah, yeah, yeah, that's your 677 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 1: nervous system programming. Your nervous system remembers celebratory gestures of 678 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: waving hello, of hugging. There is so much freaking research 679 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 1: about the high five. So they studied NBA teams. Okay, 680 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 1: there's this huge article in the Wall Street Journal in 681 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: twenty eleven where they studied NBA teams and researchers were 682 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 1: able to predict who were going to be the best 683 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,399 Speaker 1: performing teams at the end of the season by looking 684 00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: at one habit during the preseason. And the habit they 685 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,399 Speaker 1: studied was how many times did the team give each 686 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 1: other pats on the back or fist bomps or high 687 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: fives during the preseason. But oh, sure that works till 688 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: after that feels really good. And so what happens is 689 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: when you give somebody a high five, verus fist bomp 690 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 1: or a pat on the butt. These build trust and partnership, 691 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: and so the teams that do that the most in 692 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:05,720 Speaker 1: the preseason go on to have the winning as seasons. 693 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 1: The teams that do it the least actually do the worst. 694 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: Because you've got a bunch of players that are in 695 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,319 Speaker 1: it for themselves. We should do it more as a community, yes, 696 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: and you should do it. You should start by doing 697 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 1: it to yourself. I'll tell you why, because we are 698 00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: all looking outside ourselves for the validation, love, respect, support 699 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: that we need and we need for ourselves for our children. 700 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,520 Speaker 1: To teach ourselves to be able to stand in front 701 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 1: of the mirror and give that same validation, support, self 702 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: worth and love to ourselves. Because if you learn how 703 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: to like, respect, forgive support yourself. Yeah, it sucks when 704 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: somebody else doesn't like you, but it won't change the 705 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: fact that you like yourself. We have more with Mel 706 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: Robbins when we come back. Don't Move is to breakfast Club, 707 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy angela ye Shalma guy. 708 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with 709 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: Mel Robbins, author, motivational speaker. How did you learn all 710 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,400 Speaker 1: it is? How did you learn to give yourself a 711 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: high five? How do you learn to talk to yourself? Like? 712 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: You know, how did you get to that point your credit? 713 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: From what you said earlier, you've been through a lot, like, yes, 714 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 1: well everybody's everybody, So you know some people, I mean, 715 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: bankruptcy is a really difficult thing. Yes, and finances can 716 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: be crushing person. Yes, So I'll tell you the story 717 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: about what I call the five second rule and being 718 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,439 Speaker 1: almost a million dollars in debt and about to lose 719 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: everything in two thousand and eight. But how I discovered 720 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: the high five habit was? You know, I used to 721 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: be a daytime syndicated talk show host, and I lost 722 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 1: that dream job on March tenth in twenty twenty, when 723 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 1: they found COVID at CBS Broadcast Center and they walked 724 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: in and said, shows over, you're fired. Five minutes to 725 00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:00,319 Speaker 1: evacuate the building. Wow. And so I find my self 726 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,879 Speaker 1: back home just like everybody else. My whole life turned 727 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 1: upside down in an instant. The kids have their college 728 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: experience imploded. We're now all quarantining back at home. Every 729 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 1: single speech I have for a year cancels, and I 730 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 1: find myself in a free fall. And this is before 731 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: the PPP loans come out, and you know, we're all 732 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: in quarantines. Kids are in breakdown, anxieties coming back, and 733 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm having flashbacks to two thousand and eight where my 734 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:31,120 Speaker 1: husband and I were losing everything. And I wake up 735 00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 1: one morning with a very familiar feeling. I'm just feeling 736 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: overwhelmed by my life and feeling the anxiety pinning me 737 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: down in that bed like a gravity blanket. And I 738 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: know not to lay in that bed. And I'll tell 739 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: you the story about the five second roll in a minute, 740 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 1: because you definitely want to know this when it comes 741 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: to mental health. So I count backwards five four, three 742 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 1: two one. I get out of bed, I drag myself 743 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I'm standing there in the bathroom 744 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: and I literally catch a glimpse of my reflection. I think, 745 00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, you look like hell. And then I 746 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: start picking apart the woman I see in the mirror. 747 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,399 Speaker 1: The dark circles under my eye, one boob hanging lower 748 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 1: than the other. I start thinking about my day and 749 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: it's negative. You got eight minutes to get on zoom. 750 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 1: You know how you get you didn't return that call. 751 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: How are you going to get out of this? Met 752 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,399 Speaker 1: the beat? Down? The beat? This is how most people 753 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 1: start their day. Yeah, even though you should have gave 754 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 1: yourself so much grace. Yeah no, nope, just that it's 755 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 1: a habit. Like That's what folks don't understand is that 756 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: you're not broken. You have patterns of thinking and patterns 757 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 1: of behavior that make you feel broken. And the good 758 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: news is if you understand it's a pattern, you can 759 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: catch it and break it. And so, I don't know 760 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: what came over me, envy, because I'm not a cheesy person, 761 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:45,800 Speaker 1: and it sounds pathetic. You're standing there and you're underwearing 762 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: your bathroom, you know, And if you had walked into 763 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 1: the bathroom that morning, or you had walked into the 764 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,439 Speaker 1: bathroom that morning, I would have been able to spin 765 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,520 Speaker 1: on a dime and pick you up. I would have 766 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,919 Speaker 1: been able to say, Angela, I know this is not fair, 767 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: but if anybody can handle this, it's you. I don't 768 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 1: if you'd have done that with random screen is just 769 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: walking in your bathroom. I don't think that would have 770 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:15,479 Speaker 1: been your mind. Yeah, and so, uh, I don't know what. Okay, 771 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 1: I actually think it was divine intervention. I really do, 772 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,919 Speaker 1: because I literally just raised my hand without even thinking 773 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 1: about it and high five the woman in the mirror 774 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 1: because she needed it. And I laughed the second my 775 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 1: hand hit the mirror because it's so cheesy, and I 776 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 1: felt like, all right, come on, you got a roof 777 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,839 Speaker 1: over your head, it's not that bad. Get your ass 778 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,440 Speaker 1: out there. Like that was kind of the mood it 779 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: was the second morning. The second morning is when it 780 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 1: hit me. You know, you know that feeling when you're 781 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: about to walk into a bar or cafe and you're 782 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,360 Speaker 1: going to see somebody you really like, what do you 783 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,600 Speaker 1: feel in that moment right before you're about to walk in? Excited? 784 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 1: But if that yeah, I felt that about the idea 785 00:40:54,960 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: of seeing myself. Wow, what just hit you? Um? I 786 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: guess gratitude, you know, like I always try to have 787 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: a mean Worthiness is a tricky thing, right, Yeah, but 788 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 1: I think the first step to worthiness is just having gratitude. 789 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: And you know, Bishop TDJS told me something one time. 790 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: You said, even if you don't feel like you're worthy, 791 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 1: God knows you're worthy. So waking up in the morning 792 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: and just know that I'm still here, still alive. God 793 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,800 Speaker 1: has some type of plan for me. Yeah, and you 794 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: know you asked the question about, you know, the five 795 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 1: second rule. I should explain this really quickly because this 796 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 1: is what helped me actually interrupt all the patterns that 797 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:35,400 Speaker 1: caused anxiety, stop taking medication, get control of my mindset, 798 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,759 Speaker 1: and literally I have situational anxiety. I never have general 799 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,600 Speaker 1: anxiety anymore ever, because I understand it now. So I 800 00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: invented something called the five second rule in two thousand 801 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: and eight. And at the time, my husband had gone 802 00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,240 Speaker 1: into the restaurant business. He had a little pizza pizza 803 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:53,440 Speaker 1: joint outside of Boston, Massachusetts, with his best friend, and 804 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,560 Speaker 1: the first one did really, really well. So, like complete idiots, 805 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,280 Speaker 1: we cashed out our entire life savings, the kid's college fund. 806 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: We took out a home equity line because that's free money, right. 807 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 1: What could possibly go wrong in the restaurant business, And 808 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 1: what went wrong is the second location was a total disaster, 809 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,840 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden we found ourselves eight hundred 810 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: thousand dollars in debt, three kids under the age of ten, 811 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 1: credit cards maxed out. I lost my job, lean's hit 812 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,520 Speaker 1: the house. I of course, faced these problems like a 813 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: high functioning adult, and that is by drinking myself into 814 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,440 Speaker 1: the ground and screaming at my husband when you say that, 815 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 1: give me just a little anglio investments. Yeah. And so 816 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:41,160 Speaker 1: I was waking up every morning pinned to bed with anxiety, 817 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:45,480 Speaker 1: and I became a person I didn't recognize, like I 818 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 1: was drunk by five o'clock in the afternoon. I was 819 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 1: angry all the time. I would lie in bed in 820 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 1: the morning and stare at the ceiling, just pinned with anxiety. 821 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,960 Speaker 1: I felt like the world's worst mom, the worst wife, 822 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 1: a huge fail. The kids were missing the bus every day. 823 00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 1: So I invented this crazy thing in desperation. There is 824 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 1: a five second window that defines your whole life. It's 825 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: a moment of hesitation. Inside this window is the difference 826 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: between confidence and doubt, courage and fear, inspiration and procrastination. 827 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 1: If you can teach yourself to move within this five 828 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 1: second window, you win. And in this moment, this rock 829 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: bottom moment, God, I swear to God help me create 830 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,320 Speaker 1: I get so like just when you guys hear what 831 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: has happened with the five second rule, and now the 832 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 1: high five habit. There's no other explanation for this. I remembered, mel, 833 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 1: you got to launch yourself out of bed, and then 834 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: I started thinking about doing it, and I started thinking, 835 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,800 Speaker 1: what goods it going to do? I don't care, I 836 00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:46,680 Speaker 1: don't feel like it. It's dark, it's cold, I'm made 837 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: hundred grand in dead. How's this going to help? And 838 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 1: then I just started counting five four three two one, 839 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden I stood up and I 840 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 1: used it the next morning five four three two one, 841 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,880 Speaker 1: and the next morning and the next morning, and then 842 00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,560 Speaker 1: I started using at any moment. I knew what I 843 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 1: should do, but I didn't feel like doing it. I 844 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 1: counted backwards five four three two one. When you count 845 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,960 Speaker 1: backwards five four three two one, it's what researchers call 846 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: a starting ritual. It interrupts all the habits stored in 847 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:18,879 Speaker 1: your basil ganglia. Habit loops like procrastination, anxiety, worry, self doubt, 848 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:24,280 Speaker 1: and the counting backwards five four three two one requires focus. 849 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,919 Speaker 1: So as you start to focus on the counting five 850 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: four three two one, your prefrontal cortex engages on the counting. 851 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,360 Speaker 1: This is the part of the brain that gives you 852 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 1: immediate control over what you think and do next. This 853 00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 1: is the part of the brain that you're using when 854 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 1: you're doing any kind of strategic thinking, when you're learning 855 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: new behavior. This is the part of the brain that 856 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 1: helps you change. So when you count backwards five four, three, 857 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 1: two one, by the time you get to one, you've 858 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 1: got a moment where you can take control. This is 859 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: what actually led me into the business of writing books 860 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: and being a mode ovational speaker. It was literally not 861 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 1: something I set out to do, but I believe God 862 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: was like, this crazy lady is the one that's going 863 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,759 Speaker 1: to get this out in the world. This amazingly normal lady. 864 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: That's true, but I meant like in a good way. Yes, 865 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:19,439 Speaker 1: And so I first mentioned it in a TEDx talk 866 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,640 Speaker 1: in twenty eleven. It's now got twenty eight million views. 867 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: That's what started the speaking career, and so many people 868 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 1: started writing about the five second rule. I, despite my dyslexia, 869 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: and ADHD wrote a book about it self published it. 870 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: It went on to sell two million copies, be translated 871 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: into thirty six languages and thank you. But here's the 872 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: most important part. The five second rule is now being 873 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,360 Speaker 1: used by pediatricians around the world to help kids with anxiety. 874 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,840 Speaker 1: It's being used by veterans organizations to help people program 875 00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,640 Speaker 1: triggers associated with PTSD. And we know of more than 876 00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: one hundred and eleven people who have stopped themselves from 877 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:02,319 Speaker 1: attempting suicide by counting backwards five four, three, two one 878 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: and asking for help. All right, well, no move. We 879 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: got more with Mel Robins when we come back is 880 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,800 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good morning, good morning. Everybody is DJ 881 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee. Chalomagne, the guy we are to Breakfast 882 00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: Club was still kicking it with Mel Robbin's author motivational Speaking. No, Chalomie, 883 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:19,040 Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong, But you think having a 884 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:24,640 Speaker 1: comfort zone is problematic. I think that your comfort zone 885 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:30,160 Speaker 1: is problematic if you stay in it because you're afraid 886 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: to grow. I think human beings are designed to grow 887 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,399 Speaker 1: their entire life. Your cells regenerate every seven years. Your 888 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,800 Speaker 1: brain's constantly changing. Heck, we just talked about how the 889 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: filter in your mind can change. And if you are 890 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 1: comfortable and not If you're comfortable and happy, fabulous, But 891 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: if you're comfortable and you're not satisfied or you're not 892 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 1: happy that's a problem. Yes. One thing I will say 893 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: that I related to is wanting something really bad is terrifying. Yes, 894 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,719 Speaker 1: when you really really want something sometimes scary to even 895 00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 1: just admit it. Well, one of the things that I 896 00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,280 Speaker 1: like to do. Everybody has a morning routine. Mine obviously 897 00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: involves the five second rule five four three two one 898 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,400 Speaker 1: get out of bed. I also don't look at my 899 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,120 Speaker 1: phone for the first thirty minutes of the day because 900 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 1: us I well, I'll tell you why. You don't want 901 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: to do that, because how many like, let's take you 902 00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,920 Speaker 1: know how many people like let's say you've got I 903 00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,239 Speaker 1: don't know a million people on Facebook? Okay that follow you? 904 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,280 Speaker 1: Would you want all of them to walk into your bedroom? 905 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 1: Do you want a strength? You know that's what you're 906 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 1: doing when you look at your phone. Oh, wake up, 907 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:34,960 Speaker 1: and I pray because I have to make sure ideas 908 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,040 Speaker 1: no changes in the schedule at work. I'm like, let 909 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 1: me just make sure I would not do that, and 910 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: let me tell you why, because you're putting all of 911 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,880 Speaker 1: that before what matters to you. And so if you 912 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 1: were to literally try it tonight, take your phone and 913 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,840 Speaker 1: plug it in in your bathroom or your closet, do 914 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: not even have it next to your bed. And if 915 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 1: you need to be reached in the middle of the night, 916 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,920 Speaker 1: tell people to call you and not text you. Because 917 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: what's interesting about work and what's interesting about family is 918 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 1: people will text you all night long. They will not 919 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 1: call you unless it's an emergency. That way you're reachable. 920 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: Then when the alarm goes off, presumably it's on your phone, 921 00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 1: you're now can't lay in bed. You gotta get up 922 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,000 Speaker 1: to go to the phone to turn it off. So 923 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 1: you sort of set yourself up to have to get 924 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 1: out of bed and not lay there and think about 925 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,520 Speaker 1: things and worry, which is where a lot of people 926 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 1: have anxiety. Cortisol levels are very high in the morning, 927 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: you turn off your phone, then put it face over 928 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,720 Speaker 1: and walk away from it. Take the first thirty minutes 929 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 1: for you, your dreams. You you deserve thirty minutes, even 930 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 1: five minutes. I did it on a weekend. I don't 931 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,000 Speaker 1: know about daring the week. But I also don't wake 932 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,840 Speaker 1: up from my phone, like if anybody texts me or 933 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: it calls me, I will not wake up until my 934 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,719 Speaker 1: alarm goes off in the morning or right before my 935 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,120 Speaker 1: alarm goes up, so I never know it's something like 936 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,920 Speaker 1: important happened. I just want you to try it. Give 937 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 1: me five minutes, five minutes yourself first before the world 938 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: comes out. I can't do that. I'll do five. So 939 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: what happens is is I wake up. First of all, 940 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't need it along to wake up anymore. My 941 00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:06,360 Speaker 1: body wakes me up at four thirty eight m. But 942 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,319 Speaker 1: you know what I do is I have five kids. 943 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,279 Speaker 1: So my daughter who goes to n y U, I 944 00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:13,719 Speaker 1: make sure she texts me if she's arriving back at 945 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,279 Speaker 1: her apartment or she's going somewhere. So that's the first 946 00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 1: thing I check to make sure that she's safe. The 947 00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: first thing poop, I text Dad, I made it back safe. 948 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: I do the same thing. Then I can go on 949 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,360 Speaker 1: with my day. Then I can go take my shower, 950 00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 1: I do my prayer, I kiss my wife, I go 951 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 1: kiss my kids. Then. But the first thing I have 952 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:31,839 Speaker 1: to do, and this is I learned from my dad, 953 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 1: is the first thing I have to make sure my 954 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 1: family safe. That's the first thing I do, regardless check 955 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 1: that text. Then, So how do you go to sleext messages? 956 00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:41,640 Speaker 1: What do you mean? How do you go to sleep. 957 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,440 Speaker 1: If she hadn't take me back, if I sent the 958 00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 1: text of my daughter she wasn't in yet, it would 959 00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,160 Speaker 1: be hard for me to sleep. I wouldn't be able 960 00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 1: to lay down. Do I do have a problem, Well, 961 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 1: that's my problem. I don't sleep. But if I do 962 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:53,000 Speaker 1: fall asleep or something happened, let's say my daughter is 963 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: out studying or something like that, I won't sleep. It's 964 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 1: difficult for me to sleep. And I'm always waiting for 965 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,360 Speaker 1: that phone to ring because I'm waiting for her to 966 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,759 Speaker 1: be like, hey, Dad, I'm safe. That's my difficult part. 967 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: So then when I see that text or whether it's 968 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,319 Speaker 1: my mother, as my father or somebody that's traveling, whatever, 969 00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,440 Speaker 1: I see that text dinner, I can get up from 970 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 1: my day. But that's what I have to do. And 971 00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,880 Speaker 1: then I'm like, the second thing I look at is 972 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 1: the show. Charlottagne's not coming in today. He's not broadcasting. 973 00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,400 Speaker 1: That means I'm broadcasting from home. That means, you know what, 974 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm closing my eyes for another So that's the second thing. 975 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,480 Speaker 1: Then when I see that email at the then I 976 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,839 Speaker 1: can I'm realizing this show not a priority in my life. 977 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 1: Because I get up and I thank God, and you know, 978 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 1: I give gratitude and I meditate, and that gives my family. 979 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,279 Speaker 1: I don't talk to them to like five thirty, when 980 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm close to work driving I might look at my Texas. 981 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 1: Somehow I cannot. I can't look at this. I have 982 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 1: to put everything I have to like get my mind straight. 983 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 1: I got it. And then I always write down five 984 00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 1: things that I want in the morning, right as another 985 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 1: way to train my mind to just focus on the 986 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: things that I desire, that I want to allow myself 987 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,279 Speaker 1: to dream, to give myself permission to want those things. 988 00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,200 Speaker 1: And here's the thing, though, is that I don't think 989 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 1: that you're a dreams are necessarily meant to be achieved. 990 00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 1: I think your dreams have this purpose of being a 991 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 1: beacon out in front of you that pull you through 992 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,440 Speaker 1: your fear and your anxiety and your circumstances to be 993 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 1: greater than you are right now. Well, mel, we appreciate 994 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 1: you for joining us to say, now we definitely do 995 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:18,880 Speaker 1: you know what to do? You think you got a 996 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,760 Speaker 1: bad rap, I mean, not a bad rap, bad shake 997 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,759 Speaker 1: with your TV show? No, I thought, yeah, I think 998 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 1: that again. At the very beginning, we said that life 999 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 1: is the most is the hardest and most amazing school 1000 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:33,840 Speaker 1: year of her ten. And I think absolutely everything is 1001 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,880 Speaker 1: preparing you for what's coming next. And it had always 1002 00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: been a dream of mine to do a daytime syndicated 1003 00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,680 Speaker 1: talk show that really gave people like you guys are 1004 00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:49,839 Speaker 1: tools not only entertainment, but tools and life changing information 1005 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 1: that can help somebody really take control or improve their lives. 1006 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,040 Speaker 1: And I learned a tremendous amount. It was a tremendous gift, 1007 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,440 Speaker 1: and it prepared me for what's coming next. I'm actually 1008 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: happy it's over because I love audio more. I like 1009 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,319 Speaker 1: I'm a digital entrepreneur. You can reach more people that way, 1010 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 1: you have more creative freedom. And so I learned a 1011 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,600 Speaker 1: massive amount. But it was just preparing me. You see 1012 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:20,520 Speaker 1: the apportunity, see the exactly, exactly exactly, you're with the 1013 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,239 Speaker 1: right guy if you can about audio. My guy Mark, Yes, 1014 00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,480 Speaker 1: and it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club. Come on, 1015 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,359 Speaker 1: huh you don't think I'm too sexiful? How you looking 1016 00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: at me? Sir? Sir? Sir, sir, sim adown sir, you're married, sir. Morning. 1017 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ restless but syndrome your buds board since 1018 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,920 Speaker 1: sim adown sir, kay, we are to breakfast club. Goodbye. 1019 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,839 Speaker 1: Let's get to the rules to still doctor Dre. It's 1020 00:52:49,920 --> 00:53:02,080 Speaker 1: about this report Angela the breakfast club all right. Well, 1021 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,920 Speaker 1: A source with direct knowledge told TMZ that doctor Dre 1022 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 1: was at a cemetery in La on Monday. He was 1023 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: actually his grandmother passed away. He was laying her to 1024 00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:16,879 Speaker 1: rest and allegedly he was confronted by a process server 1025 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,520 Speaker 1: with some divorced documents. So they said he recoiled an 1026 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,399 Speaker 1: anger wouldn't take the documents in hand. The process server 1027 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:26,160 Speaker 1: then dropped the documents by the grave site and they said, uh, 1028 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,400 Speaker 1: they were dropped in the parking lot. Though, that's with mama, 1029 00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,120 Speaker 1: because behind the scene said that. I thought you said 1030 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,840 Speaker 1: doctor j And in my mind I was like, well, 1031 00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:38,200 Speaker 1: how old is doctor Jay's grandma? Oh boy, yeah, but 1032 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:39,839 Speaker 1: I got a certain somewhere and they got a certain 1033 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:41,040 Speaker 1: way a place where he is, And you got to 1034 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,800 Speaker 1: think about it. Doctor Dre is not out and about. 1035 00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,719 Speaker 1: It's not like you wanna catch him in there, so 1036 00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,520 Speaker 1: I mean, the only place with it and that's sad 1037 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:49,800 Speaker 1: that a burial for his grandmother. I don't know business 1038 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,040 Speaker 1: I would be terrible having to do that. Yeah, I mean, 1039 00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm not saying the person didn't feel terrible, but they 1040 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:55,960 Speaker 1: still got a job to do. She pays the service. 1041 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 1: In the service, they do what they gotta do to 1042 00:53:58,239 --> 00:53:59,920 Speaker 1: make sure that they get, you know, get those documents. 1043 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 1: When he has to grab do he has to take 1044 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,239 Speaker 1: those documents. And if you don't take him in your hand. 1045 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 1: You know what's so funny? It does baby think I 1046 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 1: saw somebody getting served outside the building one day, Wax, Yes, 1047 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 1: Charlemagne's boy, I was walking outside. You try to serve 1048 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:17,120 Speaker 1: me one time outside. If they try to serve him 1049 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 1: and he like spun around and then they fell on 1050 00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,480 Speaker 1: the papers, fell on the floor, and then somebody's like, 1051 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:22,960 Speaker 1: you need to pick those off the floor has your 1052 00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,120 Speaker 1: personal information on him. You can't just leave him there 1053 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,399 Speaker 1: like that. Would you drop him at the grave site 1054 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,279 Speaker 1: if you was the person. No, because if you drop 1055 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: it on the floor, then you're not served. Right. If 1056 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 1: they touch your hands, you are. If they touch your hands, yes, 1057 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 1: it's like the paperwork. If they give you the paperwork 1058 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 1: and touch hand, you see, you got served. Man, I 1059 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,760 Speaker 1: haven't been served at all. It's just a terrible feeling. 1060 00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 1: They have to go through that. But yeah, all right now, 1061 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:50,000 Speaker 1: little Yadi. Congratulations to him. According to sources, he is 1062 00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:52,759 Speaker 1: a father for the first time. They're saying that a 1063 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,239 Speaker 1: baby was born, a baby girl in the last couple 1064 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 1: of weeks in New York City, so congratulating. Congrats to 1065 00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:03,720 Speaker 1: him all right now. According to more sources, Buster Rhymes, 1066 00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,760 Speaker 1: five rappers turned down offers to battle him on versus 1067 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,439 Speaker 1: Crazy Legs from Rocksteady Crew wrote it on Instagram. He said, 1068 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 1: I had to let Buster Rhymes know that no one 1069 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: is worthy enough to battle him. Then he told me 1070 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,440 Speaker 1: that five people already turned it down. Some things are 1071 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 1: just what they are. He has the unfortunate pleasure of 1072 00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,239 Speaker 1: being a god in the rap game. Shot out to 1073 00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:25,759 Speaker 1: Swiz who could battle Buster Run? What I would say 1074 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 1: is is Missy having both go back video. I was 1075 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 1: thinking about this yesterday when I saw that story. Definitely 1076 00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 1: Missy would be dope, but they would have to play 1077 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,799 Speaker 1: videos and musicos and music. I think L would LLL 1078 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,640 Speaker 1: would be a good one too, would Buster them. I 1079 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,360 Speaker 1: wanted to see LLL and cares one, but Hello Cooj 1080 00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: versus Buster Romes would be damn good. What about Buster Rhymes? 1081 00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:52,240 Speaker 1: What about versus Q tip No, I mean just catalog 1082 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,839 Speaker 1: like no let he got trip cold questions. Yeah, that's 1083 00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 1: two different Now that's and they all they from the 1084 00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 1: same family. So ray Kuon and ghost Face did it. 1085 00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah that's true, But now I don't not not cute 1086 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:05,839 Speaker 1: tip Buster. That's two totally different styles of music. Huh. 1087 00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 1: All right, I think Hello Hello and Buster would be 1088 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,719 Speaker 1: damn sure got enough callop. I gotta keep thinking about that. 1089 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: I want to know who turned him down? Everybody? Five 1090 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:19,440 Speaker 1: people want to know who the five people are though 1091 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,320 Speaker 1: that he says turned them down? Well, you know t 1092 00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:25,359 Speaker 1: I said, no, m all right. Now, Kanye has been 1093 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 1: spotted out and about wearing these weird masks. I don't 1094 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,840 Speaker 1: know if you guys have seen it, but it's a 1095 00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,319 Speaker 1: prosthetic mask, and so I don't know. I can't wait 1096 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 1: to see what he's gonna do for Halloween. But I 1097 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,759 Speaker 1: guess that's just the way and people know it's him. 1098 00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,800 Speaker 1: But I guess I don't know why he's trying to 1099 00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,719 Speaker 1: make the mains popular too. I've seen the head cut. 1100 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:46,200 Speaker 1: What's that about? I don't know what that is, but 1101 00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,800 Speaker 1: they said the masks from an old French movie villain 1102 00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:56,040 Speaker 1: called phantomas Kanye does what he wants. Manta what that's 1103 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,439 Speaker 1: his name officially, he's changing name. Don't call him Kanye. 1104 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard to do. Yay, all right, Yay 1105 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,920 Speaker 1: has also a broken a record he has because of 1106 00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,919 Speaker 1: Little nas xis Industry Baby. He has produced five hot 1107 00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,120 Speaker 1: one hundred number one hip hop songs, the most of 1108 00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:14,399 Speaker 1: all hip hop producers. You know who's done four? Did 1109 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:18,439 Speaker 1: he so? Now because of Industry Baby he has five, 1110 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:22,080 Speaker 1: So congratulations to Yay Kanye. He didn't produce Industry Baby, 1111 00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 1: did he? Jetson made it. Produce the Industry Baby. Well, 1112 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 1: according to this, Kanye has broken all kinds of records 1113 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,600 Speaker 1: and is his fifth. Maybe got production credit, maybe he's 1114 00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: sampled something. Jetson made it, made us all with Jack 1115 00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:37,320 Speaker 1: Hallow and Little Knot that just one number one. I 1116 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:40,520 Speaker 1: mean Legga just says South Carolina's own Jetson made it. Well. 1117 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't do things alone either, They collaborate and 1118 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,960 Speaker 1: produced together. You never heard about Kanye being on part 1119 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,560 Speaker 1: of that record ever. All right, well, it's on the 1120 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,720 Speaker 1: phone that's their Industry Baby is the first track YEA 1121 00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:54,640 Speaker 1: he has produced to go number one since Stronger in 1122 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,000 Speaker 1: two thousand and seven, Get Drama on the phone. He 1123 00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,680 Speaker 1: might have did the Drums Owner or something like that 1124 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 1: co produced all right. Now, speaking of music, Kawhi Leonard 1125 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 1: has shared a video for his Culture Jam project and 1126 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 1: he was actually uh talking to n Ellie Choppa on FaceTime. 1127 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 1: Here's what he said, was good and what's goody man 1128 00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 1: much in the studio over here, trying to be like 1129 00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:27,640 Speaker 1: y'alls and something hurt. Nah No, thank you you know 1130 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 1: what I mean? Thank you be a part of it 1131 00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 1: for real. That's funny. Well. Kawhi has revealed Culture Jam 1132 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:44,720 Speaker 1: Volume one will be released in two parts. The first 1133 00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: part is coming out this Friday, and there's appearances from 1134 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: the Loozy Ver, Young Boy, road Wave, Tide, Dallas, Time, 1135 00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,560 Speaker 1: Wile and Only, Choppa, Young Blue Gun, Apolo G and Moore. 1136 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:58,960 Speaker 1: And here is a snippet of a boogie. Uh oh no, 1137 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,560 Speaker 1: that's something all right. And then the next thing, since 1138 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: we're talking about music, um, we have a snippet of 1139 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:07,000 Speaker 1: a song a boogie featuring Capella Gray and it is 1140 00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 1: called Bestie. It ain't on talking she wan my God, 1141 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,000 Speaker 1: Bob Baby don't want enough even though I got money 1142 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,520 Speaker 1: and the counter back and send. Then we spend it 1143 00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:22,880 Speaker 1: on wagers to ask you. So that's a single from 1144 00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 1: that culture jam Value oneting the first single. What do 1145 00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 1: y'all think? Is that phone ring in it? Or is 1146 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,640 Speaker 1: that what you was? That? Your phone rings? Not a 1147 00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,280 Speaker 1: phone ring, it's an alarm. No, I had no idea. Kanye, 1148 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:34,520 Speaker 1: what's did industry? Baby? Yeah? Still yeah? And his name 1149 00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: is Yeah. Whatever he did intry, I thought, I swear 1150 00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:43,360 Speaker 1: I thought Jenson made it up every day? You really do? Like? Wow? 1151 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:45,560 Speaker 1: All right, and that is your room of report. Did 1152 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:47,240 Speaker 1: you look it up? Yeah? I'm looking at it now, 1153 00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm looking at it. On titles with man Jason definitely 1154 00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 1: says Kanye. It says Kanye was producer. I had no idea. 1155 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: He could have did drums. He could have They could 1156 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,200 Speaker 1: have sampled something from it. I know it says producer, 1157 00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:04,040 Speaker 1: says Kanye weston take a Day Trip. Wow. Okay, it's 1158 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 1: a dope record too. That'd beat its crazy? All right, 1159 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,920 Speaker 1: Well you give me your donkey too, man oh Man. 1160 01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:12,680 Speaker 1: Four after the hour, we need to talk about home invaders. Okay, 1161 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,360 Speaker 1: this is a home invader that I don't want to say, 1162 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,080 Speaker 1: God lucky, but we'll talk about it four after the hour. 1163 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,080 Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club. 1164 01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:22,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast Club. Your morning's will never be 1165 01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:26,320 Speaker 1: the same. Angela here, don't you wish everything was as 1166 01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 1: easy as getting quality coverage from the General Insurance? The 1167 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:31,920 Speaker 1: General offers the quality coverage you deserve at prices you 1168 01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,120 Speaker 1: can afford. Switch to the General and you could save 1169 01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,960 Speaker 1: over five hundred dollars. Call eight hundred General or visit 1170 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 1: the General dot com. Some restrictions apply. It's gonna be 1171 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,760 Speaker 1: a dusky because right now you want some real doctor. 1172 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,000 Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the day. So if we 1173 01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,280 Speaker 1: ever feel I need to be a dog man with 1174 01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: the heat, did she get day? I had become donkey 1175 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:59,200 Speaker 1: of the day the breakfast club. Bitch, you're a donkey. 1176 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,680 Speaker 1: Feel bad? I really feel bad. I feel I feel bad. 1177 01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,520 Speaker 1: We were talking about a quick game behind the scenes, 1178 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 1: and we all finished it. We didn't realize our god, 1179 01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 1: Nick didn't finish it. I didn't know he didn't finish it. 1180 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:14,920 Speaker 1: He walked out earlier saying that, okay, you can talk 1181 01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: about school game when I lead it around. I actually 1182 01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:19,680 Speaker 1: already spoiled it. That's right. Anyway, dark Here to Day 1183 01:01:19,680 --> 01:01:22,080 Speaker 1: for Wednesday, October twentieth goes to a forty three year 1184 01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,160 Speaker 1: old man named Kevin William t Okay. Kevin is from 1185 01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,880 Speaker 1: the Michigan area, and I swear in my old age, 1186 01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 1: I just be feeling sorry for people. I'm serious. I 1187 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:31,960 Speaker 1: used to come in here and just want to give 1188 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:34,080 Speaker 1: people to credit they deserve for being stupid. But when 1189 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:35,920 Speaker 1: I hear certain stories like this one of to Day, 1190 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:39,760 Speaker 1: I feel bad for Kevin because clearly, clearly something is wrong. 1191 01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 1: All right. We have to recognize when mentally someone is 1192 01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 1: not what they need to be. And I have empathy 1193 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 1: for those people. I just do because I think something 1194 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,840 Speaker 1: that just out of their control. Some things are above them, 1195 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 1: and I feel, I truly feel like this is one 1196 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,080 Speaker 1: of those situations. Now, was that said Kevin is a 1197 01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,600 Speaker 1: home invader? Okay? If you wake up in the middle 1198 01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 1: of the night and a stranger is in your house, 1199 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,480 Speaker 1: does it matter what his or her mental or emotional 1200 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 1: state is, they probably getting shot. Okay, well, at least 1201 01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,160 Speaker 1: in my house. All right, now, I will send him 1202 01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 1: in his family healing energy after the fact. But hey, 1203 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,120 Speaker 1: that person made a choice to break it into him. 1204 01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,680 Speaker 1: My house. I don't have time to figure out if 1205 01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 1: you know, if they're mentally unwell. Now, that has nothing 1206 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 1: to do with the story I'm about to tell you, 1207 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 1: Because Kevin broke into someone's house and he lived to 1208 01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:24,920 Speaker 1: tell about it. In fact, he didn't just live to 1209 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 1: tell about it. He lived to ask the police for help. 1210 01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:32,440 Speaker 1: Uncle Shla, brother lend. What are you talking about? He 1211 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,280 Speaker 1: lived to ask the police for help after breaking into 1212 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 1: someone's house. Well, let's go to news net for the report. 1213 01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:40,920 Speaker 1: Police a Michigan State Police trooper from the Cadillac Post 1214 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 1: respondent to a breaking and entering complaint at a home 1215 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: on west Ridge Drive in Williamsburg. The homeowner reported she 1216 01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 1: was watching television in the living room when she saw 1217 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 1: a man enter the room. She originally thought it was 1218 01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: her husband, However, when she realized it wasn't, she screamed. 1219 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,680 Speaker 1: Her husband came downstairs and told the man to leave. 1220 01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:05,680 Speaker 1: The troopers searched the area and located the suspect, forty 1221 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,920 Speaker 1: three year old Kevin william Tegue from Williamsburg, in the 1222 01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:13,240 Speaker 1: backyard of his parents home nearby. When the trooper attempted 1223 01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,240 Speaker 1: to speak with Tigue, he fled into the woods. Later 1224 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:19,400 Speaker 1: that evening, Tigue called nine one one to report he 1225 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 1: was lost. When troopers arrived, Tigue flagged them down, and 1226 01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,240 Speaker 1: he was taken into custody and lodged in the Grand 1227 01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 1: Traverse County Jail. Tigue was arraigned for one count breaking 1228 01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:34,440 Speaker 1: and entering without permission and one count resisting and obstructing police. 1229 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,560 Speaker 1: He was given a one thousand dollars bond and his 1230 01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:41,520 Speaker 1: next scheduled court appearances on October twenty sixth. There's a 1231 01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:47,200 Speaker 1: phrase God watches over babies and fools babies. Maybe it's possible. Okay, 1232 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 1: God is in a babysitter per se, but he will 1233 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:51,600 Speaker 1: give the mother to scrimp to hold it down. But 1234 01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,560 Speaker 1: watches over and not watches. It's a difference, all right. 1235 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:58,520 Speaker 1: The fool's part. I don't know about that, because Kevin, 1236 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if that was God watching over him 1237 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 1: or just the luck of the draw. Okay, it's great 1238 01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:06,400 Speaker 1: Kevin didn't get shot in these people's house. But why 1239 01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,800 Speaker 1: would God be involved in this? Why would God have 1240 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:12,680 Speaker 1: sent this fool all right to do the breaking into 1241 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,440 Speaker 1: someone's house and didn't have him run off into the 1242 01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:19,080 Speaker 1: woods and get lost. And then this man felt like 1243 01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,880 Speaker 1: he could just call the police because he was lost, 1244 01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:24,680 Speaker 1: never mind the fact he just committed a whole crime, 1245 01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 1: never mind the fact he was in the woods hiding 1246 01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,560 Speaker 1: because of a crime he just committed. I'm gonna call 1247 01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,040 Speaker 1: the police and tell them I'm lost. You don't think 1248 01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:34,360 Speaker 1: they're gonna have questions on why you just randomly in 1249 01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:36,600 Speaker 1: the woods at this time of night. What you're gonna 1250 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:40,240 Speaker 1: tell them? You're camping? Huh, you're hunting, just taking a walk? Y'all? 1251 01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 1: Do realize narcissism is considered a mental disorder, correct, Because 1252 01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: there's no way you commit a crime and didn't think 1253 01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,200 Speaker 1: you are able to call the police because you're lost 1254 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 1: if you're not a narcissist. All right, I honestly, I 1255 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:54,920 Speaker 1: can't even continue this story until we play a game 1256 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:59,920 Speaker 1: of guess what. Raising Maybe this will give us a 1257 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:04,280 Speaker 1: better understanding of this situation. Okay, Kevin william T, forty 1258 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 1: three years old, broken into someone's house, lived to tell 1259 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:11,120 Speaker 1: about it, fled into the woods, then had the audacity 1260 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,760 Speaker 1: the unmitigated gaul to call nine one one to report 1261 01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:20,720 Speaker 1: that he was lost. ANGELA, Ye, yes, what race he is? Well, 1262 01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say he is Caucasian. What makes 1263 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,280 Speaker 1: you say Caucasian? ANGELA, Well, you know, we don't call 1264 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,560 Speaker 1: nine one one like that, And then he probably said, 1265 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,560 Speaker 1: I didn't know you couldn't do that. In the words 1266 01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:39,040 Speaker 1: of Dave Chappelle, all right, Kevin william T, forty three 1267 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,400 Speaker 1: years old, broke into someone's house and fled into the woods, 1268 01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:43,800 Speaker 1: then called nine one one to report that he was lost. 1269 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 1: DJ N b Rashawn, Yes, what race it is? I'm 1270 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,360 Speaker 1: destroyed on this one. Why are you destroyed? All right? 1271 01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:53,400 Speaker 1: Because it's I'm in the middle. Right, I'm gonna tell 1272 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,320 Speaker 1: you why right. First Dominican. No, I'm not Dominican black, 1273 01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:58,760 Speaker 1: but I was thinking black at first, because I can 1274 01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 1: see a black person getting stuck in the woods and 1275 01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,480 Speaker 1: then hearing animals and being like, nah, if dadam cool 1276 01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 1: and I will want to get out. Okay, But if 1277 01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:09,600 Speaker 1: we did something illegal, we just we just tried to 1278 01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 1: set in the woods, sugg out with the bear, stuck 1279 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:13,040 Speaker 1: out with them bears, because we ain't calling no part. 1280 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,240 Speaker 1: Rather do these bears than be in jail. Yes, I 1281 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:21,400 Speaker 1: gotta go with callucasion. Okay, Well I want ange Lee 1282 01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:23,919 Speaker 1: and DJ and VI didn't know that you bofar right, 1283 01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,080 Speaker 1: Kevin william T gets our Caucasian. He had to call 1284 01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: Gathony the unmitigated white privileged gall to break into someone's house, 1285 01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:35,320 Speaker 1: running too the woods, getting lost and then call the 1286 01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:40,600 Speaker 1: police to help. And this bond is only a thousand 1287 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,040 Speaker 1: dollars for breaking into entering without permission and resisting and 1288 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:47,360 Speaker 1: obscructing police. And he resisted in obscrupted police without getting shot. Well, 1289 01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 1: if you just said that, I definitely I know I 1290 01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 1: didn't want to give that one away. Please give Kevin 1291 01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:56,720 Speaker 1: william Tu the biggest he hull a matter of fact, 1292 01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,479 Speaker 1: mccafy Griffin gets some of that. Please give this giant 1293 01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:06,880 Speaker 1: Jaro may the biggest he heah heahaw. That is way 1294 01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,440 Speaker 1: too much. Dann Man is there you go anywe are 1295 01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:17,640 Speaker 1: you good man for the culture. He's talking Chris rock guy. Right, 1296 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,760 Speaker 1: it's this crack ass cracker, right, don't give it away. Now, 1297 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,720 Speaker 1: I don't say he say what it was right? The 1298 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:29,560 Speaker 1: crackers pointed to it. Jesus, all right, he didn't getting 1299 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:34,480 Speaker 1: ready crack crack doesn't hit the say that doesn't No, 1300 01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:40,360 Speaker 1: actually it does that cracker always rips. Try one more time, Yeah, 1301 01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:44,600 Speaker 1: crack of rips Brocker rips. Okay, what y'all say that slaps? 1302 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:49,200 Speaker 1: All right? Now up next, ask ye eight hundred five 1303 01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,680 Speaker 1: five one on five one. If you need relationship advice 1304 01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,640 Speaker 1: or any type of advice, call ye right, what? What? What? Nothing? 1305 01:07:55,720 --> 01:08:00,440 Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all later. He is so silly. What happened? 1306 01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:02,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to I definitely wanted to tell us later, 1307 01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:03,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is, I don't want to hear it on that. 1308 01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,480 Speaker 1: You know, I don't get shocked by much. Okay, all right, 1309 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:10,520 Speaker 1: it's a breakfast local morning. What what? What? What you 1310 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:13,480 Speaker 1: gonna know? Baby mama issues? See some words of wisdom? 1311 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 1: All up now for asking eight hundred five eight five 1312 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 1: one oh five one the Breakfast Club. Come on, need 1313 01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:27,800 Speaker 1: relationship advice, need personal advice? Just need real advice? Hall 1314 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:34,200 Speaker 1: up now for asking morning. Everybody is dj Envy Angela, Yee, 1315 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:37,400 Speaker 1: Charloteen the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now it's 1316 01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:39,800 Speaker 1: time to ask ye. If you need relationship advice to 1317 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:41,640 Speaker 1: any type of advice, you can call yee. Now we 1318 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,639 Speaker 1: got Kim on the line. Come on to Kim. Hey, 1319 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,719 Speaker 1: what's going on? Man? I gotta I got some small problems? Okay, 1320 01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 1: all right, So I got a four year old daughter, 1321 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:55,720 Speaker 1: I mean four my old daughters and baby. Three months ago, man, 1322 01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,640 Speaker 1: her father got into an altercation where in terms big 1323 01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:03,160 Speaker 1: and she caught the police one me and you know 1324 01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:05,840 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now, I'm dealing with all the legal 1325 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:09,200 Speaker 1: stuff going on the deck really but we ended up 1326 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,360 Speaker 1: like getting back together making everything good. Well legally, I've 1327 01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,120 Speaker 1: been coming different from a life every time the legal 1328 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,920 Speaker 1: stuff come up and I think about causing our law. 1329 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,439 Speaker 1: You go through all this over an argument that we 1330 01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,599 Speaker 1: got over maybe an hour or two later and everything 1331 01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:27,679 Speaker 1: and calmed out. So I just want to know life. 1332 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:32,040 Speaker 1: Am I being stubborn by life? Not trying to work everything? 1333 01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 1: Y'all wanted to get asking or what did I do? 1334 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,320 Speaker 1: Because right now I'm just gonna cross old because I 1335 01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,920 Speaker 1: want to be at my daughter life. I just don't 1336 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:42,559 Speaker 1: really know him. I want to be with her mother. Okay, 1337 01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:44,880 Speaker 1: Well a couple of things here. You said that the 1338 01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:48,200 Speaker 1: argument got physical, so and in all honesty, did you 1339 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:51,920 Speaker 1: put your hands on her? I'll push them, Okay, So 1340 01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,599 Speaker 1: you understand that that's wrong, and I know that you're 1341 01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,479 Speaker 1: going through some legal things. It really does suck when 1342 01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,280 Speaker 1: when these situations turn physical, she put her hands on you, 1343 01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:02,560 Speaker 1: you put your hands on her. That has to be 1344 01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:06,080 Speaker 1: really difficult for her as well, right, And so the 1345 01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,160 Speaker 1: reason why you're going through the legal things that you're 1346 01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:09,640 Speaker 1: going through and you have to own up to it, 1347 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:11,800 Speaker 1: is that you did put your hands on her. And 1348 01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:14,080 Speaker 1: so that's that's something that's not easy for her and 1349 01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:15,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure people who love her to have to deal 1350 01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:18,080 Speaker 1: with two. As a man, you want, you're a woman 1351 01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:20,760 Speaker 1: to feel protective and when things get physical, you have 1352 01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 1: to try to do, you know, diffuse a situation and 1353 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:25,519 Speaker 1: not do things like that. It sounds like you both 1354 01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,000 Speaker 1: need to get some professional help to be able to 1355 01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 1: move forward because some people might say, you know, that 1356 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 1: happened and she shouldn't be with you anymore, and I'm 1357 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:35,760 Speaker 1: sure sometimes she thinks that to herself as well. Now, 1358 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:37,439 Speaker 1: as far as whether or not you feel like you 1359 01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,080 Speaker 1: want to be with her, those are some things that 1360 01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:41,240 Speaker 1: you know, you guys are fresh out of this trying 1361 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,040 Speaker 1: to work through things. You're still dealing with legal issues, 1362 01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: but you got to take ownership of the reason that 1363 01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,160 Speaker 1: you're dealing with It is your fault as well, right, Right, 1364 01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:59,560 Speaker 1: It does feel as wallowing. You know, I don't she 1365 01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 1: called it and listen, and I know in our households 1366 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:04,120 Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do to a man is 1367 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:06,639 Speaker 1: called the cops on him, right, and then the system 1368 01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:10,240 Speaker 1: takes over. But she might really have felt threatened in 1369 01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,280 Speaker 1: that moment. Yeah, I mean, I understanding the moment. The 1370 01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:17,960 Speaker 1: moment could have been been. It's never been to theres 1371 01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,840 Speaker 1: a well, the police had to be called over that, 1372 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:23,519 Speaker 1: even if I don't really feel like the police had 1373 01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 1: to be involved, because like in a lot of states, 1374 01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:31,120 Speaker 1: sent Florida like one and brought apart up to the state. 1375 01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:33,280 Speaker 1: It don't matter if y'all the made off kids to 1376 01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:36,800 Speaker 1: make all that state feel like they want to do 1377 01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:39,519 Speaker 1: something something about it, then I gotta do it. I 1378 01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:42,240 Speaker 1: gotta deal with that, even though we straight at home, 1379 01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:44,400 Speaker 1: you know, and as a woman, Cam, I have to 1380 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 1: say that she wasn't wrong for that. You really did 1381 01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:51,680 Speaker 1: put your hands on her. So unfortunately, you know, that 1382 01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: is the consequences of the actions that took place, and 1383 01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:58,599 Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this is something that will never happen again, 1384 01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:02,479 Speaker 1: and that you got whether or not you're together, can 1385 01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:04,760 Speaker 1: raise your daughter because you you know, you have a 1386 01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 1: child whose four months old. You would hate to see 1387 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,560 Speaker 1: something like that happened to your child as you have 1388 01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 1: a girl, right yea, yeah, and you know you should 1389 01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:16,000 Speaker 1: be very protective of that and understand that as a woman, 1390 01:12:16,080 --> 01:12:18,960 Speaker 1: maybe she felt like at the moment, I'm scared, I 1391 01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:20,600 Speaker 1: gotta just call the cops because I want to make 1392 01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:22,200 Speaker 1: sure nothing happens to me, because you don't know what 1393 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:23,760 Speaker 1: was going on in her head or what type of 1394 01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,519 Speaker 1: trauma she's suffering from. After that as well, it sounds 1395 01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,960 Speaker 1: like y'all both need to get some professional help to 1396 01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:32,240 Speaker 1: be able to first and foremost tie priority take care 1397 01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,880 Speaker 1: of your child together, and then for you to make 1398 01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,360 Speaker 1: sure that nothing like this happens again. And I'm sure 1399 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:40,040 Speaker 1: that on her end there's work that she needs to 1400 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:42,600 Speaker 1: do as well so that these arguments. Y'all, as a 1401 01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:46,120 Speaker 1: couple or even as parents, you're not going to agree 1402 01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,880 Speaker 1: on everything, and you have to learn how to be 1403 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 1: able to disagree but in a productive manner. And as parents, 1404 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:56,000 Speaker 1: y'all need to be able to figure out those two 1405 01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:57,880 Speaker 1: You have a four month old, so there's a long 1406 01:12:58,160 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 1: road ahead for the two of you to be able 1407 01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,040 Speaker 1: to at least at the minimum co parent well, so 1408 01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 1: I think what would be great for you right now 1409 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:07,519 Speaker 1: is to show that you are stepping up to the plate. 1410 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,679 Speaker 1: You acknowledge the fact that you did something that felt 1411 01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:13,840 Speaker 1: threatening to her. You are now paying the consequences for that. 1412 01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:16,360 Speaker 1: You know that you'll never do that again, and take 1413 01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,680 Speaker 1: every step you can to make sure that it can 1414 01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:24,400 Speaker 1: be positive moving forward from a little better. Thank thank 1415 01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:30,320 Speaker 1: you so much. Hey, by the way, I love you more, 1416 01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:41,880 Speaker 1: king man. Listen, thank you for what to do on 1417 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: rental home. I'll need those books. Get to help me 1418 01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:53,679 Speaker 1: as well. I'm gonna sing you, hey, hey, I'm gonna 1419 01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:55,720 Speaker 1: give you the unapologetic God to Black mental health, and 1420 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,639 Speaker 1: I'm gonna send you a resume momenticum my grandmother's hands. 1421 01:13:58,640 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put that in the mail for you today. 1422 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:04,000 Speaker 1: Hold on, let me get your address. Well, we love 1423 01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:06,160 Speaker 1: you too, We wish you so much. Um, you know, 1424 01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 1: success with your relationship, all right? Ask ye eight on 1425 01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:12,400 Speaker 1: dread five A five one oh five one if you 1426 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 1: need relationship advice and any type of advice. He e, 1427 01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:16,639 Speaker 1: now it's the breakfast club. Good morning, all right, Ask 1428 01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:18,880 Speaker 1: ye eight on dread five A five one oh five 1429 01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:21,040 Speaker 1: one if you need relationship advice and any type of advice. 1430 01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:24,160 Speaker 1: He e. Now it's the breakfast Club. Go on, I'm 1431 01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:27,760 Speaker 1: gonna keep for you some real advice with Angela yet, 1432 01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:33,439 Speaker 1: ask ye morning. Everybody is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne 1433 01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:35,439 Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club with in the 1434 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 1: middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? My name 1435 01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:43,639 Speaker 1: is Nora. Hey, Nora, Hi, I'm so excited. I'm sorry. 1436 01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:46,280 Speaker 1: I'm just super nervous, tous, like really wanted to talk 1437 01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:49,680 Speaker 1: to you guys for so long about this. Okay, now 1438 01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,560 Speaker 1: we're ready to We're listening, Nora, Okay. My question is 1439 01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 1: pertaining to a situation about my dad. Um my mom 1440 01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,320 Speaker 1: and dad. They have been married for forty years and 1441 01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:04,160 Speaker 1: they're from a different country. However, of course they go 1442 01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:09,479 Speaker 1: and visit sometimes. My dad just recently visited their country 1443 01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:12,400 Speaker 1: and when he came back, he started acting pretty weird. 1444 01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:16,840 Speaker 1: He is an older man, so he always asked me 1445 01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 1: to like help with things on his phone because he 1446 01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:23,559 Speaker 1: doesn't know how to do it that well. But then 1447 01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:25,720 Speaker 1: now after he came back from his trip, he was 1448 01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,880 Speaker 1: acting weirdlys and testing his phone. He was hovering over me. 1449 01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 1: I just thought it was just old people, you know, 1450 01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 1: things that they do, so I was didn't think about it. However, 1451 01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:37,960 Speaker 1: when I got alone with his soul and I went 1452 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,040 Speaker 1: through his text messages, I saw that he was entertaining 1453 01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:46,040 Speaker 1: and sending money to another female that he met in 1454 01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:51,720 Speaker 1: this country during his trips. He now right, So I 1455 01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:55,640 Speaker 1: instantly got upset by it, because not only are you 1456 01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,280 Speaker 1: cheating on my mom, but you're sending money to this 1457 01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:01,599 Speaker 1: woman that we don't even know. My mom she does 1458 01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:06,519 Speaker 1: have dementia. So I was even more upset by that 1459 01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,599 Speaker 1: because I wasn't sure if I should even like bring 1460 01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:12,439 Speaker 1: this up to my mom or if I should bring 1461 01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 1: it up to him. But I didn't want to bring 1462 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:16,400 Speaker 1: it up to him, and he gets mad at me 1463 01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 1: for like going through his phone, being that I'm his 1464 01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 1: child and not his wife. He's sixty by it. Okay, 1465 01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:25,439 Speaker 1: So you want to know what should you do? Yeah? 1466 01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:28,160 Speaker 1: Should I even say anything to my mom about this, 1467 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:30,760 Speaker 1: you know? Or if I should just go ahead and 1468 01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,559 Speaker 1: keep it to myself, or should I bring it up 1469 01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:35,400 Speaker 1: to him. I don't even know what to do with 1470 01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:38,320 Speaker 1: this situation, because you know they've been married. For you, 1471 01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,960 Speaker 1: I've never experienced this, my god, you know, I'm gonna 1472 01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:45,360 Speaker 1: say a few things here, right, and everybody's situation is different. 1473 01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:48,960 Speaker 1: So from my point of view, you don't even know 1474 01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:51,240 Speaker 1: what your parents' situation is with each other. A lot 1475 01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:54,120 Speaker 1: of times we're unaware right of things that may have 1476 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:56,439 Speaker 1: happened in the past, understanding that they might have with 1477 01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:59,000 Speaker 1: each other. You don't know if this is something he's 1478 01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,280 Speaker 1: done before she ever, you don't know any of that, right, 1479 01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:05,240 Speaker 1: And so this is really just something right now that 1480 01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:07,479 Speaker 1: you need to deal with with him, because I'm never 1481 01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:09,760 Speaker 1: a fan of keeping things to myself, because I can 1482 01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:12,240 Speaker 1: imagine how that would make you feel about him. You 1483 01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 1: already have a feeling about you know, obviously your mom 1484 01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:17,920 Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. That's not easy. You feel like 1485 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:19,880 Speaker 1: he's betraying her and the family. And on top of that, 1486 01:17:19,920 --> 01:17:23,759 Speaker 1: he's sending money to some woman that is most likely 1487 01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,759 Speaker 1: just taking advantage of him and his generosity. But clearly 1488 01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 1: he's also yeah, and clearly he's also lonely, and it's 1489 01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:33,920 Speaker 1: not easy to have been with somebody as long as 1490 01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:36,960 Speaker 1: your parents have been together to watch her suffer from dementia. 1491 01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:39,400 Speaker 1: We already know how hard that is on families, and 1492 01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:42,679 Speaker 1: I'm sure for him, it's really difficult, but I would 1493 01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:45,880 Speaker 1: say that for both you and your father it's worth 1494 01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:49,000 Speaker 1: a conversation. It might be something that would benefit him 1495 01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:52,519 Speaker 1: as well. But you cannot keep that to yourself. And 1496 01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:55,559 Speaker 1: you guys have to have that whole conversation because there's 1497 01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,400 Speaker 1: things at play here that you may not even know about. 1498 01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:01,240 Speaker 1: You know, as far as the faculty that he's having, 1499 01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 1: as far as maybe things about your parents' relationship that 1500 01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,960 Speaker 1: you're not aware of. And like you said, your mama 1501 01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:09,880 Speaker 1: is suffering from dementia. I don't know that something like 1502 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:12,800 Speaker 1: this would be beneficial for you to bring up to 1503 01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:16,639 Speaker 1: her at this point. But I think with your father, 1504 01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:20,160 Speaker 1: you definitely because you don't want to have these feelings 1505 01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:24,760 Speaker 1: of animosity toward him. It's something that you should talk 1506 01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:27,960 Speaker 1: to him about, but go into it with an open mind, 1507 01:18:28,040 --> 01:18:30,240 Speaker 1: knowing that they might have things going on that you're 1508 01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:32,160 Speaker 1: not even aware of, and he might have his own 1509 01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:35,439 Speaker 1: struggles that he's dealing with and it's not going to 1510 01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:37,680 Speaker 1: be an easy conversation for him to have. But you 1511 01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:40,040 Speaker 1: also don't want to say your father getting taken advantage 1512 01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:42,360 Speaker 1: of right at the same time. All right, he is 1513 01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:45,479 Speaker 1: too old to be acting this way, and I just 1514 01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:47,640 Speaker 1: so as they if you know, end that he's with 1515 01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:50,800 Speaker 1: someone for as he's been without some forty years. He 1516 01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:53,680 Speaker 1: has you know, pity issues, and she took care of 1517 01:18:53,800 --> 01:18:56,840 Speaker 1: come through all of that, you know, regardless of her 1518 01:18:56,920 --> 01:19:02,160 Speaker 1: mental propowerty, our capabilities. I just felt like he owes 1519 01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:05,080 Speaker 1: her a lot more loyalty. And the only reason why 1520 01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:07,960 Speaker 1: I was fully upset about him sending money for her 1521 01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:11,639 Speaker 1: was because my dad definitely asked me for money time 1522 01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:14,360 Speaker 1: and time again, and I'm the one that is actually 1523 01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,680 Speaker 1: setting the bill about he is sending right, and you know, 1524 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:19,720 Speaker 1: for me moving forward, I wouldn't give him money, but 1525 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:21,439 Speaker 1: what he needs it for I would take care of. 1526 01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:23,920 Speaker 1: So if he's like I need to get this, okay, 1527 01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:25,600 Speaker 1: no problem that I got it, I'll send it to you. 1528 01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna order it for you online. I'm gonna take 1529 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:30,200 Speaker 1: care of that bill for you, because you don't want 1530 01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:31,759 Speaker 1: to be sending him money for him to be sending 1531 01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:34,519 Speaker 1: to somebody else. And truthfully, if that was me, I 1532 01:19:34,600 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 1: would text the girl and be like, this is his daughter, 1533 01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:40,400 Speaker 1: you know, leave my dad alone and you're not gonna 1534 01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:42,920 Speaker 1: take it. Yeah, I would. I always that was just 1535 01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:45,920 Speaker 1: how I am. I would do that, but you should 1536 01:19:45,920 --> 01:19:49,320 Speaker 1: definitely have that conversation just with your father, and it 1537 01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:52,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't hurt for you guys to actually talk to someone together, 1538 01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:56,040 Speaker 1: a professional that can help him work through his feelings 1539 01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:57,880 Speaker 1: and understand it, and for you as well, because I 1540 01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:00,400 Speaker 1: would hate for anything to happen to your here ends 1541 01:20:00,439 --> 01:20:02,200 Speaker 1: like they're older, and you don't want to have these 1542 01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:07,000 Speaker 1: feelings of animosity, of regret of whatever you might feel resentment, 1543 01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 1: you know, later on. So I would love to see 1544 01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:12,600 Speaker 1: you deal with that now, yeah, because I definitely do. 1545 01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:15,800 Speaker 1: I love and appreciate my dad. He has been there 1546 01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:18,600 Speaker 1: for me since day one, who does anything for me, 1547 01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:21,160 Speaker 1: and I is the last thing I would want is 1548 01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:25,240 Speaker 1: to have any negativity forward him, you know, throwing his 1549 01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,880 Speaker 1: last few years that I may have with him. But 1550 01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:31,320 Speaker 1: that really chocked me and it definitely didn't hurt me. 1551 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,200 Speaker 1: And I don't like, I appreciate the advice to give 1552 01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:36,919 Speaker 1: because I honestly didn't know how to go about our approaches. 1553 01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,479 Speaker 1: All right, Nora, Well, I wish you so much luck 1554 01:20:39,520 --> 01:20:42,080 Speaker 1: and were sending you so much love because I can't 1555 01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:46,280 Speaker 1: even fathom what that's like. But it is complicated, thank 1556 01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:50,240 Speaker 1: you ye, and thank you guys for answering my paul. Thanks, 1557 01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:55,519 Speaker 1: good luck, thank you all right, ask ye eight hundred 1558 01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:57,879 Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If any relationship 1559 01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:01,080 Speaker 1: advice or any type of advice need rumors all the way. Yes, 1560 01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:04,120 Speaker 1: And let's talk about the co CEO of Netflix, Ted 1561 01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:08,800 Speaker 1: Sarrondosi is speaking out more about Dave Chappelle and how 1562 01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:12,559 Speaker 1: he did not communicate well with his employees. All right, 1563 01:21:12,560 --> 01:21:14,479 Speaker 1: we'll get to that. Next is the Breakfast Club. Good morning. 1564 01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,560 Speaker 1: This is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye on the 1565 01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:27,439 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. So Magic Johnson was on CBS News and 1566 01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: one thing that he discussed was the vaccination controversy and 1567 01:21:30,360 --> 01:21:33,840 Speaker 1: whether NBA players should tell the public to get vaccinated. 1568 01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:36,599 Speaker 1: Here's what he said, Oh for sure. You know, that's 1569 01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:39,880 Speaker 1: why I got my two shots and made sure I 1570 01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:43,080 Speaker 1: put it out on social media. I wanted especially my 1571 01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:46,040 Speaker 1: community to know that first of all, is safe. And 1572 01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:50,479 Speaker 1: the players, again, people listen to them, they follow them. 1573 01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:54,000 Speaker 1: That's very important. Plus the last thing is this, you 1574 01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:57,080 Speaker 1: have said to your teammates, I'm gonna be there for you. Well, 1575 01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:59,559 Speaker 1: you can't be there if you don't get vaccinated. You're 1576 01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:02,479 Speaker 1: letting them down and then that hurts our chances of 1577 01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 1: winning the championship. I would never do that to my teammates. 1578 01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:09,360 Speaker 1: What was the question again, now, whether or not NBA 1579 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:11,720 Speaker 1: players should have the responsibility of telling the public to 1580 01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:14,240 Speaker 1: get vaccinated? Yeah, I say I believe players getting the 1581 01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:17,080 Speaker 1: vaccine is promotion enough. All those athletes who have huge 1582 01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:19,799 Speaker 1: endorsement deals won't even take pictures next to certain products 1583 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:21,920 Speaker 1: because they know them being seen with those products are 1584 01:22:21,920 --> 01:22:24,200 Speaker 1: an endorsement. So what's the better endorsement than NBA players 1585 01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:26,479 Speaker 1: saying they have the vaccine? Like, why do they got 1586 01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:28,120 Speaker 1: to go out there and do commercials and everything else? 1587 01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:30,280 Speaker 1: Like ninety five percent of the NBA is vaccinated? Is 1588 01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:33,680 Speaker 1: that not enough? Yeah? I think it's ninety percent. Is 1589 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:35,439 Speaker 1: that not enough to, you know, go out there and 1590 01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 1: encourage people to get the vaccine? All right? Well yeah 1591 01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:39,760 Speaker 1: he was just asked about it, So that was his 1592 01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:43,720 Speaker 1: answer to that question. All right. Now. Snoop Dogg has 1593 01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:47,280 Speaker 1: and as a new algorithm LP and it has a 1594 01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:50,080 Speaker 1: new Mount Westmore single on their featuring ice Cube too 1595 01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:53,280 Speaker 1: Short any forty. Of course they're collectively known as Mount Westmore. 1596 01:22:53,800 --> 01:23:09,280 Speaker 1: So here is Big Subwaffer frames, Big Sub with a 1597 01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:12,320 Speaker 1: bouncing like a tramp for lane glass shake, going to 1598 01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:15,840 Speaker 1: roll past the same candy apple paint, dripping glass of 1599 01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:19,640 Speaker 1: green everybody eating. You can ask the team fast to me, 1600 01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:23,040 Speaker 1: Speaker's bumping, taxes clean, keep me something to smoke on, 1601 01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:26,639 Speaker 1: bad to poke hole base hitting like an earthquake, because 1602 01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:29,160 Speaker 1: hold on, I hit the block and roll home. All right? 1603 01:23:29,200 --> 01:23:31,800 Speaker 1: I heard that big sub with for that sounds good. 1604 01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:35,559 Speaker 1: Fifty today? Right? You said, what snoop is fifty today? Right? Oh? 1605 01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:41,120 Speaker 1: Is he? Okay? Number dropping? It's a lot of birthday 1606 01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:44,439 Speaker 1: today day is also NBA Young Boy's birthday. I think, 1607 01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,800 Speaker 1: how was it you today? Twenty two? Now? Yes, it 1608 01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:50,639 Speaker 1: was fifty today, Okay. I feel like is Vice President 1609 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,240 Speaker 1: Harris's birthday? Yes, Kamala Harris's birthday. It's a big day, 1610 01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:57,000 Speaker 1: all right. Money bag Yo has also announced Against his 1611 01:23:57,080 --> 01:24:00,640 Speaker 1: Pain and reloaded seven new songs. There's gonna be some 1612 01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:04,040 Speaker 1: new songs on it and we'll be getting that this Friday. 1613 01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:08,320 Speaker 1: So some of the new songs. Dj Khalett another one 1614 01:24:09,360 --> 01:24:13,120 Speaker 1: Waukeisha remix featuring Little Wayne, Switches and Drake speak to 1615 01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:16,479 Speaker 1: You a Little Dirk EStG and Pooh chicsty So make 1616 01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:18,479 Speaker 1: sure y'all check that out. I know you went to 1617 01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:21,560 Speaker 1: It's asap Ferg's birthday too. Shout the Ferg. It's a 1618 01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:24,720 Speaker 1: lot of birthdays happening movies all right. Now. Netflix is 1619 01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:27,479 Speaker 1: Ted Serrandos, he is the co CEO, is speaking out. 1620 01:24:27,560 --> 01:24:30,920 Speaker 1: He had gotten criticism for the Dave Chappelle comedy special 1621 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:34,320 Speaker 1: The Closer, and he made a lot of comments about it. 1622 01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:36,960 Speaker 1: But he does say that he screwed up and the 1623 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:40,960 Speaker 1: handling of employee concerns, and he's not taking down the special, 1624 01:24:41,439 --> 01:24:46,639 Speaker 1: but he does say that he should have basically said 1625 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:50,679 Speaker 1: that he was sorry for people's feeling pain and hurt 1626 01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:53,120 Speaker 1: from a decision that they made, instead of kind of 1627 01:24:53,240 --> 01:24:56,640 Speaker 1: dismissing that. And so he said, storytelling has a real 1628 01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,200 Speaker 1: impact in the real world. I reiterate that because it's that, 1629 01:24:59,360 --> 01:25:01,160 Speaker 1: because it's why I work. Here's why we do what 1630 01:25:01,240 --> 01:25:03,760 Speaker 1: we do. That impact can be hugely positive and it 1631 01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:06,000 Speaker 1: can be quite negative. So I would have been better 1632 01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:08,720 Speaker 1: in that communication. They were joining a conversation already in 1633 01:25:08,800 --> 01:25:11,960 Speaker 1: progress but out of context. But that happens. Internal emails 1634 01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:14,000 Speaker 1: go out in all my communications, I should lean into 1635 01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,880 Speaker 1: the humanity upfront and not make a blanket statement that 1636 01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:20,360 Speaker 1: could land very differently than it was intended. So he 1637 01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:23,599 Speaker 1: said he made some blanket and matter of fact statements 1638 01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:25,760 Speaker 1: that are not all accurate, and he said that it 1639 01:25:25,920 --> 01:25:28,920 Speaker 1: was uncharacteristic for him. He was moving fast and trying 1640 01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:31,679 Speaker 1: to answer really specific questions, but there were a group 1641 01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:35,000 Speaker 1: of employees who were definitely feeling pain and hurt, and 1642 01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:38,840 Speaker 1: he should have led with a lot more humanity. Nothing 1643 01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:40,639 Speaker 1: wrong with that. I don't want to know what content 1644 01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:42,680 Speaker 1: are you going to create that everyone is going to 1645 01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:45,519 Speaker 1: agree with, though, Like it doesn't matter what it is comedy, 1646 01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:48,320 Speaker 1: news radio, someone is going to be the topic of 1647 01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:52,680 Speaker 1: said discussion. Or even when you're presenting a certain you know, 1648 01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:55,880 Speaker 1: lifestyle or something somebody's not going to agree with. It 1649 01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,120 Speaker 1: doesn't matter what it is, right, And I guess when 1650 01:25:58,160 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 1: you have employees who have concerns, you just lead with 1651 01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:04,600 Speaker 1: humanity and understanding of that, because he does. He is 1652 01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:07,680 Speaker 1: aware that everybody's not going to like everything, and so 1653 01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: you can't make blanket statements. You just kind of have 1654 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:12,719 Speaker 1: to lean into that humanity. I hear people who complain 1655 01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:14,920 Speaker 1: about poles, I hear people who complain about sisters. I 1656 01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:18,360 Speaker 1: hear people who complain about spells, specials, like everybody's gonna 1657 01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:21,240 Speaker 1: always have something to say. Some people even complain about 1658 01:26:21,280 --> 01:26:23,760 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, believe it or not. Really, no, no, 1659 01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:27,800 Speaker 1: that's not true. Nobody ever complaint about the Breakfast Club 1660 01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:30,040 Speaker 1: and eleven years we've never had no complaints. Stop. But 1661 01:26:30,160 --> 01:26:33,160 Speaker 1: we lean into humanity. And Charlomagne was on Stephen Colbert 1662 01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:36,519 Speaker 1: last night, and well know, I meant to say, Lenard 1663 01:26:36,600 --> 01:26:40,360 Speaker 1: mckelby was on. I go to my therapist a lot, 1664 01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:41,960 Speaker 1: and I talk to her about getting caught up in 1665 01:26:42,040 --> 01:26:45,000 Speaker 1: the charcterature of yourself. And it's like for me, you know, 1666 01:26:45,080 --> 01:26:47,400 Speaker 1: the name Lenard Mantelby grounds me because when I hear it, 1667 01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:49,880 Speaker 1: I hear my grandma, I hear my mom, I hear 1668 01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:52,320 Speaker 1: my wife. Like nobody calls me Charlotmagne at the house, 1669 01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:54,559 Speaker 1: you know me? And I remember we had Will Smith 1670 01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:57,040 Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club like last year. He said, you know, 1671 01:26:57,120 --> 01:26:59,000 Speaker 1: he had read in my book and he was talking 1672 01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:01,360 Speaker 1: to me and he was like, I'm seeing the real 1673 01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:03,599 Speaker 1: you poke out and he was like, I just want 1674 01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:05,479 Speaker 1: you to know that you don't have to wear the 1675 01:27:05,560 --> 01:27:08,960 Speaker 1: mask anymore. You are enough. And I was like, are 1676 01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:12,000 Speaker 1: you tapping my phone. It's my therapist giving you notes 1677 01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:13,479 Speaker 1: on me, like how do you know that? So I 1678 01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:16,000 Speaker 1: just felt like that was God talking through him in 1679 01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:18,320 Speaker 1: that moment to let me know, you know what, You're 1680 01:27:18,360 --> 01:27:19,720 Speaker 1: on the right path. You don't need to wear to 1681 01:27:19,760 --> 01:27:21,160 Speaker 1: mask him. We don't have to be the character of 1682 01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:24,000 Speaker 1: Charlotta Magne. You can be Leonard. Leonard is enough, that's right, 1683 01:27:24,120 --> 01:27:27,720 Speaker 1: dropping a clues bombs for Will Smith, that's right, drop 1684 01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:31,160 Speaker 1: a bond first. Charlotta ain't poking out. Leonard is poking out. 1685 01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:36,439 Speaker 1: Also for legacy. Also for legacy, because I got four 1686 01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:38,000 Speaker 1: daughters and I want all of them to keep our 1687 01:27:38,080 --> 01:27:39,760 Speaker 1: last name. When you know, they get older, if they 1688 01:27:39,840 --> 01:27:42,400 Speaker 1: get married, you know, do the hyphen thing, but keep 1689 01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:44,400 Speaker 1: the mckelvy, keep the legacy going. I'm not out here 1690 01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:47,200 Speaker 1: breaking these generational curses for nothing. All right, Well that 1691 01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:49,560 Speaker 1: is your reports. Proud of you, bro, and I do 1692 01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:51,720 Speaker 1: want to thank everyone who's been watching other Gods on 1693 01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:54,120 Speaker 1: his True Phone. Comedy Central show's been doing really well. 1694 01:27:54,400 --> 01:27:56,280 Speaker 1: We have a dark week this week, but we'll be 1695 01:27:56,360 --> 01:27:58,800 Speaker 1: back with a new episode next Friday at ten pm 1696 01:27:58,840 --> 01:28:01,160 Speaker 1: on Comedy Central, So go catch up on the first 1697 01:28:01,200 --> 01:28:04,599 Speaker 1: five episodes on Paramount Plus, and that show is executive 1698 01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:08,240 Speaker 1: produced by Stephen Colbert and Aaron McGruder. Okay, all right, 1699 01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:13,800 Speaker 1: and we're ready for the Rashawn mix through revote. We'll 1700 01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:19,160 Speaker 1: see tomorrow. Everybody else is Rashawn Casey. Poking through is 1701 01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:24,120 Speaker 1: actually sounds very mature. Stop, you're married man who is 1702 01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:26,519 Speaker 1: flirting with you just like you want to poke coming through? 1703 01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:28,800 Speaker 1: That's what you're just? What are you? Ye? What is 1704 01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:33,720 Speaker 1: wrong with all right? It's the Breakfast Club comarity. So 1705 01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:38,400 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, your mornings will never be the same. Our 1706 01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:40,720 Speaker 1: Audible pick of the day is call us What We 1707 01:28:40,840 --> 01:28:43,439 Speaker 1: Carry by a man de Garment. It's to break out 1708 01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:46,280 Speaker 1: collection from the youngest poet in history to read at 1709 01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:49,880 Speaker 1: a presidential inauguration, and it's an instant classic. Sign up 1710 01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:52,720 Speaker 1: for a free thirty day Audible trial at audible dot com. 1711 01:28:52,840 --> 01:29:00,120 Speaker 1: Slash Breakfast Club First Club. Your morning's will never you 1712 01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:05,439 Speaker 1: the say boy. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye, Charlomagne 1713 01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:07,519 Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlotte, I've 1714 01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:09,679 Speaker 1: been watching you a lot. Bro bro bro Bro' married 1715 01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:11,760 Speaker 1: knock it Off. I was about to say I've been 1716 01:29:11,800 --> 01:29:14,320 Speaker 1: watching you on TikTok. You haven't because I'm not on TikTok. 1717 01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:16,040 Speaker 1: Yes you are. That's a damn lot. How am I 1718 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,559 Speaker 1: on TikTok? For one, we have our breakfast club, TikTok 1719 01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:21,759 Speaker 1: got you blowing off. We got people taking out clips 1720 01:29:21,760 --> 01:29:24,479 Speaker 1: and making their old clips about them. So people are 1721 01:29:24,479 --> 01:29:27,360 Speaker 1: taking our clips and putting their own like spin on it. Exactly. 1722 01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:29,400 Speaker 1: You also got other shows talking about you. I mean, 1723 01:29:29,680 --> 01:29:31,160 Speaker 1: you're not even on here, and I think you've got 1724 01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,760 Speaker 1: like thirty eight million views. That's not true. Yeah, it's true. 1725 01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:36,600 Speaker 1: Brilliant idiots. You're doing all types of wild things. You 1726 01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:38,479 Speaker 1: gotta go check it out. Are they talking about my 1727 01:29:38,520 --> 01:29:40,360 Speaker 1: talk show on Comedy Central every Friday night called The 1728 01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:43,200 Speaker 1: Guys on the Truth? No, they're talking about you blowing Well, 1729 01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 1: you got my attention, all right, salute to everybody who's 1730 01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:48,840 Speaker 1: been showing me love on TikTok. You have excellent taste. 1731 01:29:48,960 --> 01:29:50,960 Speaker 1: And for all of you that's planning on posting content 1732 01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:53,880 Speaker 1: on me, please get my name rights. Charlomagne the God, 1733 01:29:54,280 --> 01:29:57,800 Speaker 1: not Mars chestnut O, chast me bro. Nobody's making a mistake. Well, 1734 01:29:57,840 --> 01:29:59,680 Speaker 1: you say, TikTok is where the conversation is in the 1735 01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:02,080 Speaker 1: place to catch great content. That's right. You don't even 1736 01:30:02,160 --> 01:30:04,280 Speaker 1: have to post, just joined to watch and then you 1737 01:30:04,360 --> 01:30:06,160 Speaker 1: can post if you want. All right, TikTok. You have 1738 01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:11,400 Speaker 1: to see it. Yes, that shell hoarding everybody as DJ Envy, 1739 01:30:11,600 --> 01:30:15,120 Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Yes, 1740 01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:17,240 Speaker 1: you have to show out to Mel Robins for joining 1741 01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:19,240 Speaker 1: us this morning and had a great Mel Robbins man 1742 01:30:19,320 --> 01:30:21,840 Speaker 1: go get her new book, The High Five Habit. Take 1743 01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:23,800 Speaker 1: control of your life with one simple habit. I do 1744 01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:27,200 Speaker 1: the mirror technique, though I've been doing. I don't high 1745 01:30:27,240 --> 01:30:29,840 Speaker 1: five myself. I just I'm on some like DJ Kallis 1746 01:30:29,840 --> 01:30:31,719 Speaker 1: stuff like you know you are great, you are special. 1747 01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:33,519 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I tell myself I forgive 1748 01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:37,080 Speaker 1: you you know, Mike, Yeah you do. I do. I 1749 01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:38,960 Speaker 1: give affirmation to myself in the mirror. I've never done 1750 01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:40,479 Speaker 1: the high five thing, but that makes a lot to 1751 01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:43,120 Speaker 1: try it. I am. I did that. I don't look 1752 01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:45,000 Speaker 1: at my phone now for five minutes in the morning, 1753 01:30:45,360 --> 01:30:46,800 Speaker 1: I don't look at it for an hour. I've been 1754 01:30:46,840 --> 01:30:50,240 Speaker 1: doing that. Brush my teeth, then I look, she was 1755 01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:54,160 Speaker 1: just here yesterday. I did that. I did that the 1756 01:30:54,240 --> 01:30:56,679 Speaker 1: other day, and then I look at my phone. Charlomagne 1757 01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:58,439 Speaker 1: hits me, I'm not coming to work. See if I 1758 01:30:58,479 --> 01:31:01,559 Speaker 1: had knewn that thirty minute beforehand, I wouldn't quit to work. 1759 01:31:01,600 --> 01:31:06,160 Speaker 1: Even that's right, that means that now, doesn't that mean? 1760 01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:08,080 Speaker 1: Show the main looked at his phone? No, I was up? 1761 01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:10,800 Speaker 1: How did you send the text? Twenty? I get up 1762 01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:12,760 Speaker 1: four twenty every morning. I don't. I don't touch my phone. 1763 01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,880 Speaker 1: Mor No, I get up at four twenty. I pray, 1764 01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:19,160 Speaker 1: take a shower, I meditate, I read out of my 1765 01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:21,439 Speaker 1: daily affirmation books, kiss my family, and then I'm out. 1766 01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:23,280 Speaker 1: And I literally do not look at my phone TOI 1767 01:31:23,320 --> 01:31:25,400 Speaker 1: like five thirty six o'clock. I tried. Didn't I even 1768 01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:27,519 Speaker 1: know that you wasn't coming in until I already got here? See, 1769 01:31:27,520 --> 01:31:30,920 Speaker 1: I should should have checked my phone earlier. M all right. 1770 01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:32,760 Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to shout out to 1771 01:31:33,160 --> 01:31:35,479 Speaker 1: um Whole Foods. If you want to get some coffee 1772 01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:38,280 Speaker 1: uplifts people. It's now available on the Whole Food's website 1773 01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:40,679 Speaker 1: to get it as well, say you know if y'all 1774 01:31:40,720 --> 01:31:43,400 Speaker 1: want to do that, and too, rouses for being supportive 1775 01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:45,880 Speaker 1: of my other company, Drink Fresh Juice We're in sixteen 1776 01:31:45,920 --> 01:31:48,040 Speaker 1: stories there, but they just sent us an email saying 1777 01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:51,519 Speaker 1: they're gonna expand. So I do appreciate that partnership as well. 1778 01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:54,280 Speaker 1: In Louisiana. All right, now, when we come back, we 1779 01:31:54,360 --> 01:32:00,320 Speaker 1: got the positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. 1780 01:32:00,320 --> 01:32:04,240 Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy. We 1781 01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:07,559 Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. Now, Charlomagne, you got a positive note. 1782 01:32:07,680 --> 01:32:09,599 Speaker 1: I do have a positive note, man, And I want 1783 01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:12,960 Speaker 1: to quote Mel Robbins because I think that Mel Robbins 1784 01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:16,040 Speaker 1: is dope and she says a lot of great things, 1785 01:32:16,080 --> 01:32:17,560 Speaker 1: so I'm gonna quote her. I really don't even know 1786 01:32:17,600 --> 01:32:19,320 Speaker 1: what quote I don't want to go with from Mel Robbins, 1787 01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:21,720 Speaker 1: but I do enjoy this one a lot. There is 1788 01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:24,880 Speaker 1: only one you, and there will never be another one. 1789 01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:27,320 Speaker 1: That's your power, and I give you one more. Knowing 1790 01:32:27,400 --> 01:32:30,599 Speaker 1: what you need to do to improve your life takes wisdom, 1791 01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:34,920 Speaker 1: pushing yourself to do it takes courage. Mel Robbins, Breakfast Club, 1792 01:32:35,640 --> 01:32:36,880 Speaker 1: you don't finish a y'all dumb