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Speaker 1: Thank you for you subject. The kids saw the whole video.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a mother of three boys,

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Speaker 1: and I just got remarried less than two years ago.

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Speaker 1: I have a thirteen year old son and an eight

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Speaker 1: year old son from my first marriage. My new husband

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Speaker 1: and I have a seven month old son, and I

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Speaker 1: had some complications after the baby, and I really I

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Speaker 1: haven't really been able to give my husband what he's

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Speaker 1: used to in the bedroom, so I take care of

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Speaker 1: his needs other ways. He and I always have had

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Speaker 1: great chemistry in the bedroom and we do all of

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Speaker 1: the things that are necessary to keep the sparks flying

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Speaker 1: between the sheets. Before we got married, one of my

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Speaker 1: old friends joined us at a hotel for an amazing experience.

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Speaker 1: My husband said he had to film it since I

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Speaker 1: told him it was a once in a lifetime experience.

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Speaker 1: I had no idea that he still had a video

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Speaker 1: until my thirteen year old son asked me about it.

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Speaker 1: I had a follow up appointment with my doctor and

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Speaker 1: I had to take my eight year old with me.

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Speaker 1: It was a long wait time, so I let him

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Speaker 1: watch videos on my phone. I went to the back

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Speaker 1: to be seen by the doctor, then my son and

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Speaker 1: I left. I wasn't even thinking about my phone because

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Speaker 1: I was ready to pick up my baby from my

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Speaker 1: sister's house and go home. When I got home, my

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Speaker 1: thirteen year old said there was a sad video with me,

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Speaker 1: his stepdad and a woman on it. I could feel

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Speaker 1: my heart racing as I asked him to show me

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Speaker 1: the video. It was the threesome video, and he said

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Speaker 1: his brother sent it to him while I was at

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Speaker 1: the doctor's office. My husband's silly behind and had texted

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Speaker 1: it to me as a joke, so he can't wait,

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Speaker 1: saying he can't wait to make me holler like that again.

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Speaker 1: He didn't know my son had my phone. I was

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Speaker 1: so ashamed. What do I tell my sons, Should I

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Speaker 1: be honest or act like it's nothing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I.

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Speaker 1: Just can't begin to imagine how you must feel right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, adults do what adults do. In your case,

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Speaker 1: threesomes no judgment here. But when you do what you do,

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Speaker 1: or in your case, when you did what you did,

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Speaker 1: it ends up in the hands of your kids, that's

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Speaker 1: got to be a whole new level, new level of

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Speaker 1: embarrassment and shame, especially when you're thinking it's just the

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Speaker 1: three of you. And I know your older son said

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Speaker 1: his little brother send him the video, but he probably

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Speaker 1: didn't know what else to do but send it to

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Speaker 1: his big brother. I'm sure they were both traumatized after

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Speaker 1: seeing mommy and daddy in the act. No one, and

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Speaker 1: I do mean no one wants to see, wants to hear,

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Speaker 1: wants to think about their parents doing it at no

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Speaker 1: time ever in life. I think both you and your

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Speaker 1: husband should talk to the boys together, and honestly, I

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Speaker 1: don't know exactly what you should tell them, I really don't.

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Speaker 1: What you can't do, though, is try to lie your

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Speaker 1: way out of this. When you gotta you gotta tell

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Speaker 1: some kind of truth. You gotta get them some kind

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Speaker 1: of understanding here, because I mean they're young boys, because

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Speaker 1: they've seen the video. They've seen the video, and they

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Speaker 1: know their parents when they see their parents.

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Speaker 3: Steve, well, well, well, well Sherley, Yes, Steve, you like me,

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Speaker 3: have nothing you can say to these damn people.

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Speaker 2: No nice try.

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Speaker 3: You said nothing. It's nothing we can say. What do

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Speaker 3: you want us to do? I don't even gotta go

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Speaker 3: through this letter? You and your husband, it's just this

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Speaker 3: simple made a sex tape with another woman. Y'all always

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Speaker 3: trying to do something to keep everything sparks flying between

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Speaker 3: the sheets. And then your dumb ass husband, he said,

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Speaker 3: since it's a once in a lifetime thing, he got

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Speaker 3: to record it with his stupid ass this right here,

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Speaker 3: he had to record it, since it was a once

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Speaker 3: in a lifetime and y'all set up there and let

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Speaker 3: him this what you get. I don't know what to

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Speaker 3: tell you. This what you get.

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Speaker 2: We ain't got nothing for you.

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Speaker 3: We can end this strawberry letter right now. We don't

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Speaker 3: know what to tell you. We don't know what you're

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Speaker 3: supposed to say to these boys. But I do know

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Speaker 3: when you went back there to see your doctor and

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Speaker 3: and your dumb ass husband texted to you and said,

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear you holler like that again.

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Speaker 3: That eight year old got it. When the eight year

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Speaker 3: old got it, he got marid. I got to bring

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Speaker 3: my brother into this because I don't have the band

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Speaker 3: within my mind to process none of this. Maybe my

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Speaker 3: big brother can help me. Hey, bro, look at him.

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Speaker 2: I just saw this. I have no idea even what

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Speaker 2: they doing.

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Speaker 3: I'm eight, I'm eight now. I heard you talking the

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Speaker 3: other day about this girl you was liking up at

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Speaker 3: the school.

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Speaker 2: Have y'all ever done this? Wow?

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Speaker 3: It's this our mama? Where is our real daddy act

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Speaker 3: in this damn video? We didn't have this problem when

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Speaker 3: she was married to our father. Now this other man

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Speaker 3: in him. I told you I ain't like him. Why

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Speaker 3: he got mama like that? Put this other woman in him.

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Speaker 3: And they don't look the same no more either. Nah.

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Speaker 2: This boy had seen everybody niked.

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Speaker 3: God, whoo you see your father in law naked, step dad,

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Speaker 3: but in the ready set gold position.

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 3: Now you in here looking down, you looking at yourself,

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Speaker 3: trying to figure out, Man, am I ever gonna be this? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Goodness? What is he in here? Doing? This little boy,

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Speaker 2: This little eight year old boy.

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Speaker 3: When he got there at the doctor's office, he sent

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Speaker 3: it to his brother right away because he needed some

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Speaker 3: questions answered.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hey, we'll have part two. Yourse to

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters come up twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's subject, the kid saw the whole video. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: This one's a crazy one. The subject the kids saw

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Speaker 1: the whole video.

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Speaker 2: This lady's remarried. She has two sons from a previous marriage.

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Speaker 3: Her new husband, they got a seven month old son,

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Speaker 3: you know, and she had some complications after the baby

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Speaker 3: and ain't really been able to give her husband what

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Speaker 3: he's used to in the bedroom, so.

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Speaker 2: I take care of his knees otherways.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what that mean, but he and I've

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Speaker 3: always had great chemistry in the bedroom and we do

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Speaker 3: all the things that necessary to keep the sparks flying.

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Speaker 3: And before we got married, one of my before we

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Speaker 3: got married, now, one of my old friends. This was

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Speaker 3: before the last baby, before the complications. One of my

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Speaker 3: old friends joined us at a hotel for an amazing experience.

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Speaker 3: My husband said he had to film it since I

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Speaker 3: told him it was a once in a lifetime experience.

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Speaker 3: His dumb ass had to film and you're dumb behind letty, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I had no idea that he still had the video

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Speaker 3: on till my thirteen year old son asked me about it.

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Speaker 3: So she had a follow up appointment with the doctor

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Speaker 3: and the long wait, so she had the eight year

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Speaker 3: old with us, So she left the eight year old

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Speaker 3: with her son, left her phone with the eight year old.

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Speaker 3: You don't ever do that. You don't ever give your

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Speaker 3: phone to some kids. And you ain't right there. You

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Speaker 3: went back in to see the doctor. Then your son.

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Speaker 3: You the eight year old, y'all left. You wasn't even

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Speaker 3: I wasn't even thinking about my phone because I was

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Speaker 3: going to pick up the baby from my sister's.

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Speaker 2: House when I got home.

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Speaker 3: Now, the thirteen year old said, that was a sad

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Speaker 3: video with me, his stepdad and a woman on it.

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Speaker 3: I could feel my heart racing as I asked him

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Speaker 3: to show me the video. It was, I be damn

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Speaker 3: the threesome video. He said, his brother sent it to

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Speaker 3: him while I was in the doctor's office.

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Speaker 2: God dog, the baby has seen it. God dog.

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Speaker 3: The eight year older seen it, yea god dog, And

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Speaker 3: he said his brother sent it to him while I

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Speaker 3: was at the doctor's office. You know why the brother

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Speaker 3: sent it to him, because he ate I can't process

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Speaker 3: what I'm looking at, Big brother. I'm gonna send this

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Speaker 3: to you because I know you, my big brother, you

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Speaker 3: know a lot. So tell me what the hell going

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Speaker 3: on in hire? Who is all these people? What is

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Speaker 3: this man doing to my mama? What is my mama

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Speaker 3: doing to this other woman? Why is this other woman

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Speaker 3: in here doing this to my mama? My mama acting like.

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Speaker 2: She like it. Now, the thirty year old say, it's

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Speaker 2: a sad video.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my husband silly behind text it to me as

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Speaker 3: a joke. Why he was She was at the doctor

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Speaker 3: office saying, I can't wait to make me holler like

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Speaker 3: that again. He didn't know my son had my fuck.

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Speaker 3: I was so ashamed. What do I tell my sons?

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Speaker 3: Should I be honest or act like it's nothing? Be honest?

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Speaker 3: This ain't the time for honesty. What what does you

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Speaker 3: honestly fit to say?

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Speaker 2: I don't really see you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No? Do I act like it's nothing?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if you could do that, but honest,

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Speaker 3: what did you honestly finish?

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Speaker 2: Say? Listen? It was a time doing.

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Speaker 3: What are you finn to tell these two boys that

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Speaker 3: your sons Listen, Mama was going through some things. And

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Speaker 3: me and your new daddy stop calling him my daddy.

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Speaker 2: Mama and me and your new daddy, we want our

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Speaker 2: old daddy back. We didn't have none of this with

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Speaker 2: our old daddy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't like our new daddy no more. What

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Speaker 3: do I tell my son, Shirley? I was waiting on

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Speaker 3: Shirley's response because I could not imagine what Shirley could say.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, I can't imagine what I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: say either, because.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell to tell you. See,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna lie now. I don't know what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Listen, that is not me, That is

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Speaker 2: not your daddy.

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Speaker 3: You know, they got this stuff out here, now call

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Speaker 3: aid and they don't win and put some people together.

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Speaker 3: You know what, me and your daddy is suing this

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Speaker 3: woman that's in this video right now, right.

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Speaker 2: That's because you.

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Speaker 3: Know the woman that's in this video, that's Kim Kardashing

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Speaker 2: Her whole body. Yeah, and we got we got to

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Speaker 3: Look listen, I don't even have a good one for you.

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Speaker 3: But lying is essential at this point. But what you

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Speaker 2: Gonna believe you because they saw, yeah.

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Speaker 3: And a boy's feelings for his mother, it's different than

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Speaker 3: And now you've scarred that love because you you've damaged

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Speaker 2: Know my daddy is not have had sex.

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Speaker 2: This tip man, Hussy gang head, han Jo the King.

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Speaker 2: I can't call it. This your man Cedric entertainer.

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Speaker 3: What I thought? Your boy a big snoop dogg.

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