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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo Our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from as and Pensacola clo Ace Wrights.

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Speaker 1: I rented a boat and a private chef for my

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Speaker 1: wife on our anniversary. We were going to take an

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Speaker 1: evening cruise. But her hair appointment was at three pm.

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Speaker 1: She didn't get out the salon until seven pm and

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Speaker 1: we missed the Boat's her hair important? More?

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Speaker 2: Hair appointment more important than me? Is her hair more

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Speaker 2: important than I am?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely got looked good?

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Speaker 4: Was it a surprise or was everybody?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she knew because he said we were going to

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Speaker 1: take an evening cruise, so she knew.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she rented a boat, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah she should have.

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Speaker 3: She should have known that that salon she go down

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Speaker 3: there as ghetto and them appointments ain't nobody on time.

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Speaker 4: She know that.

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Speaker 2: It does take a long time. Yeah, if it takes.

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Speaker 3: Four hours and you're gonna miss the appointment, and you

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Speaker 3: shouldn't have booked it at three You should have booked

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Speaker 3: it earlier. And that was wrong of her because this

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Speaker 3: man ha paid this money and then when we try

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Speaker 3: to do thoughtful stuff and then it don't work out.

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Speaker 4: Called something you did. Now you want us to just

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Speaker 4: get over it?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 4: She was wrong for that.

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Speaker 2: Put a wig on, yes, put a wig on it.

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Speaker 5: What times you should go when the stylust can take you.

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Speaker 4: The boat?

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Speaker 5: Leave at seven?

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Speaker 2: You all know black women in their.

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Speaker 3: Wiggs salon is open. You could have bought that wig

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Speaker 3: at ten.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you guys like wigs though. I like that part.

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Speaker 2: That's what I got out of this, all right. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Terarica in Birmingham, Tarikh writes, I asked

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Speaker 1: my child's father to help me plant some flowers, flowers

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Speaker 1: in my front yard. He came over and he wanted

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Speaker 1: sex afterwards. We haven't had sex in twelve years, and

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Speaker 1: I don't want him, he said.

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Speaker 2: I hurt his feelings. Should I apologize for how I reacted?

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Speaker 5: Why did I miss some of your heart?

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Speaker 2: What? She asked her child's father to come over? Her

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Speaker 2: child's father, Yeah, to come over?

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Speaker 3: I thought, you said, her husband's father a child, yea

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Speaker 3: twelve year Okay, so wait he came over, planted the.

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Speaker 2: Flowers and then he wanted sex afterwards.

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Speaker 5: What happened out here?

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Speaker 4: Taking all the holes? You see me down on my

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Speaker 4: knee was up.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't go to garter. We're just yeah, we're just

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Speaker 2: planning flowers. How does that wait to sex? What afterwards? Ow?

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Speaker 4: And then he got I don't want him. What you

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Speaker 4: call me for?

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Speaker 1: Well he's a good maybe he had good skills. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: is out here in the front yard. So she could

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Speaker 1: have called a landscaper if she didn't want sex.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: She wanted free work is what she won'ted.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, okay and work?

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Speaker 2: How does that equate to sex afterwards?

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Speaker 5: That's the question?

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Speaker 3: You what what makes you think this?

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Speaker 5: That's that's my question. What makes you what?

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Speaker 4: It's not? What makes you think that this is free?

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Speaker 2: So should she apologize, is what she's saying.

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Speaker 3: I think she should apologize for the misunderstanding.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: And she should say I'm sorry if I had you

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Speaker 3: come over here and you thought this was what it's

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Speaker 3: going to resort to.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but that yeah, he asked him to help

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Speaker 1: her and said shut So there was no misunderstanding about

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Speaker 1: the ground.

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Speaker 4: Oh my plan tell you right now.

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Speaker 1: She asked him he could have Why didn't he just

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Speaker 1: say no?

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Speaker 4: Because he thought it?

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Speaker 3: Because let me tell you, because because of the way.

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Speaker 5: She asked, what you're doing, said, I ain't playing no roses? Well,

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Speaker 5: why don't you come over?

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Speaker 4: I need I needed? My rose is planted.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't say that, she said. She asked him if

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Speaker 2: she didn't. She didn't say. She asked him with a

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Speaker 2: sexy voice.

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Speaker 3: She okay, just what she said? You want to come

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Speaker 3: over and dig up my yard? He said, hell, yeah,

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Speaker 3: your whole yard? Right, I'll be right over there.

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Speaker 2: Wow that okay, moving.

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Speaker 1: On, moving on, will agree to disagree. This is from

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Speaker 1: Corey and Denver. Corey writes, my wife and I separated

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Speaker 1: for a few months and we got back together after

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Speaker 1: marriage counseling.

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Speaker 2: I don't think our.

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Speaker 1: Marriage is going to last. She wants to start a family,

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Speaker 1: but my heart isn't in it. Should I be honest

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Speaker 1: with her and end the marriage?

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Speaker 2: Now? Wow?

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Speaker 4: Waitmen, bro, So okay, Now this is a guy that

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Speaker 4: wrote this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Cory, he won't out of the marriage. He doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Why did you counseling? Then? Why why did he do that?

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Speaker 1: Why not just end it because they separated for a

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Speaker 1: few months?

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Speaker 3: Well, he was hoping that the counselor was going to

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Speaker 3: say something to justify.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we won't out. We need validation.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, that's why the counselor said, we don't need

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Speaker 3: to be together.

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Speaker 4: You know. Oh okay, But he wants.

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Speaker 3: Out of this relationship because they separated for a while.

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Speaker 3: He had a good time. Now I ain't got back

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Speaker 3: together and with the counseling and all this here, now

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Speaker 3: she want a baby, He don't.

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Speaker 4: Do you think I should just.

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Speaker 3: Tell her I'm not really feeling that and we end

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Speaker 3: this marriage now because that's what he wants.

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Speaker 4: He wants his marriage.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he does.

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Speaker 3: Counseling, ain't it? Separation ain't it? And the child show,

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Speaker 3: ain't it? So now that's what with this?

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Speaker 2: So should he tell the truth alone? Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Right here, this one right here, he can tell her

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Speaker 4: the truth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ok, thank you.

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Speaker 4: But he's already three told three lies.

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Speaker 2: What were the three lines lies?

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Speaker 5: Already?

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Speaker 4: This ain't the first time the baby conversation that came up.

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Speaker 3: You better believe that about having a family, he said, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: one day, I want a family. He just didn't stay

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Speaker 3: when he knew. He knew then he didn't want no kids.

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Speaker 3: He was just thinking maybe he changed his mind. The

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Speaker 3: other lie was I'm separated from you, but he wasn't

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Speaker 3: separated from her. See man, a man, don't go get

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Speaker 3: separated from you and then don't do nothing. And then

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Speaker 3: the other lie was I go to counselor he knew good. Hell, well,

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Speaker 3: that wasn't gonna turn into nothing. I know the three

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Speaker 3: lies he told you.

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Speaker 5: Shure you want to stop lying on you? Sure you

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Speaker 5: want to do that?

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Speaker 2: Tell her it's over. He doesn't want her.

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Speaker 5: That's we'll be trying to get to the truth.

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Speaker 3: I don't recommend it, but since y'all want the truth,

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Speaker 3: I just don't recommend it. Hoighly against.

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Speaker 2: Your truth and lie ratio. And it's spot on.

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Speaker 3: That shows you how successful I am because that both

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Speaker 3: of you are in total confusion.

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Speaker 5: It's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Tell me the truth, all right, thank you you're listening.

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Speaker 2: Hardy Morning Show