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Speaker 2: Chloe is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan.
Speaker 2: So in a little bit we'll call him and see
Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get
Speaker 2: her another date if she still wants one. But first, Chloe,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Ethan?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: My gosh, it's been two weeks.
Speaker 3: And I, you know, I'm just so nervous about it
Speaker 3: because I really liked him. He was such a great guy,
Speaker 3: and I I'm hoping I didn't overdo it, but I
Speaker 3: keep playing this in my head because everything went so well.
Speaker 5: Tell us about the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't expecting anything on this date, but even
Speaker 3: came like a gentleman.
Speaker 4: He showed a lot of chivalry. He was just it
Speaker 4: was just like so.
Speaker 3: Refreshing because it was just like out of an indie movie.
Speaker 3: I mean, we went to a Vimtage bookstore and then
Speaker 3: I was like, oh good, he can run, you know,
Speaker 3: he's very articulate. We grabbed some coffee and then we
Speaker 3: played cards in a quiet park I mean it was
Speaker 3: a dream. And then you know, we didn't even we
Speaker 3: didn't even finish the card game because we got a
Speaker 3: little distracted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so basically we had a.
Speaker 3: Major makeout sashion under the tree, and he was just
Speaker 3: like the best kisser ever. I mean, uh, it was
Speaker 3: just like we were made.
Speaker 4: For each other.
Speaker 3: So this is why it's really confusing, because my god,
Speaker 3: it just felt so electrificing.
Speaker 4: And so that's why I'm super confused.
Speaker 3: I mean, he made me laugh, and he made me
Speaker 3: he was listening to me. I felt seen, I felt
Speaker 3: so respected, like he was just very polite but also
Speaker 3: very sexy and handsome, and I was in disbelief that
Speaker 3: this is a guy that I'm dating.
Speaker 4: But he was also into me, at least that's what
Speaker 4: it felt like.
Speaker 3: And so I had text him like two or three times,
Speaker 3: you know, trying to spare it out because I don't
Speaker 3: want to be that girl who's constantly stocking him.
Speaker 4: But at the same time.
Speaker 3: It's been two weeks and I just don't know what's
Speaker 3: going on.
Speaker 4: I want to text him again.
Speaker 3: I'll admit that I text him this morning because he's
Speaker 3: like been on my brain and so when I see
Speaker 3: something funny. I want to like share it with him,
Speaker 3: and so I text him this meme because I knew
Speaker 3: he would like it. And so I just need a
Speaker 3: little help on like why or figuring out why I'm
Speaker 3: haven't hear from him. I'm assuming he's busy, but it's
Speaker 3: been two weeks and I don't think that he could
Speaker 3: be that busy.
Speaker 4: I'm hoping.
Speaker 3: I hope he's okay. That's the other thing. It's like,
Speaker 3: what if he got in an accident and he couldn't
Speaker 3: call me. I mean, I have been I tend to
Speaker 3: overanalyze a lot, and so I just want to like
Speaker 3: calm the nerves because oh my god, that would be
Speaker 3: so like it that I meet someone perfect and then
Speaker 3: something happened to him.
Speaker 1: And so wait, how did you leave it?
Speaker 4: Oh? He you know, he kissed me good night. It
Speaker 4: was almost like he didn't want to leave. And then
Speaker 4: he said, okay, we'll see you again, and so I
Speaker 4: took that as I'm going to see you again.
Speaker 1: And you never heard from him again after that?
Speaker 3: No, And so I'm thinking, did he lose his phone,
Speaker 3: did he break it?
Speaker 4: Did he get an accident they did he not make
Speaker 4: it home?
Speaker 2: Did anything happen that you can think of that would
Speaker 2: be a reason to get ghosted or for him to
Speaker 2: ghost you.
Speaker 3: No, I mean I have been replaying this over and over.
Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, maybe he got turned off by I
Speaker 3: have a really big laugh and so, you know. I
Speaker 3: mean I I saw the first time he was taking
Speaker 3: aback and I, you know, try to rein it in.
Speaker 4: But other than that, I was thinking, well, he wouldn't
Speaker 4: have kissed me like he did if he didn't like me.
Speaker 4: I mean, what guy does that?
Speaker 5: Right? Well, yeah, yeah, it can't happen.
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to say that's what happened, but I mean, yeah,
Speaker 2: you think maybe it was your laugh?
Speaker 4: I mean I hope not. Because I really liked him.
Speaker 3: We had so much in common, Like I said, it
Speaker 3: was I have never kissed someone like that. He was
Speaker 3: so great, Like I just I just want to see
Speaker 3: him again, and I hate the fact that I already
Speaker 3: missed him.
Speaker 4: I've already missed you know, only gone on one date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pretty fast connection.
Speaker 5: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, play a song, come back and then
Speaker 2: call him and see if he'll tell us why he's
Speaker 2: ghosting you and get you another date if you still
Speaker 2: want one.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, thank you, all right, well play song, come
Speaker 5: back and get your first a follow up next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Chloe is on the phone
Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Ethan. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if he'll tell
Speaker 2: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another day
Speaker 2: she still wants one. But first, Chloe, why do you
Speaker 2: catch us up on your date with Ethan?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: So I haven't heard from Ethan in like two weeks,
Speaker 3: but which is really confusing because we had such a
Speaker 3: great time. I mean, I haven't been on a date
Speaker 3: like that in like forever, and I've gone on a
Speaker 3: number of dates.
Speaker 4: But he was such a gentleman show chivalry, was so kind, polite, listening,
Speaker 4: he made me laugh like I had him laughed before.
Speaker 3: And then you know, we went on this date that
Speaker 3: was like from an indie movie. We went to a
Speaker 3: vintage bookstore, grabbed some coffee, having great conversation and laughing.
Speaker 4: I couldn't it was very surreal.
Speaker 3: And then he took me to a park and to
Speaker 3: play cards, and admittedly we didn't finish the game.
Speaker 4: We got a little distracted, and.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we had this incredible makeout session, like I
Speaker 3: haven't kissed anyone like that. He's such a great kisser,
Speaker 3: and so, you know, when we left it, I just
Speaker 3: felt like, you know, we had such a great time,
Speaker 3: and you know, he kissed me good night and said
Speaker 3: I'll see you soon. And when I thanked him for
Speaker 3: the date that night, he didn't text back, and so
Speaker 3: I thought, okay, well, hopefully he got home safe. And
Speaker 3: so I waited a few days and text him again.
Speaker 3: And admittedly he's been on my brain and I haven't
Speaker 3: heard from him, and so I'm just wondering what happened. Like,
Speaker 3: I hope he's okay. I did to overthink things. We
Speaker 3: just had such an incredible date and I don't know
Speaker 3: what happened.
Speaker 5: Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4: Yes, I hope he's okay.
Speaker 6: Hello, Hi man, I speak to Ethan. Please speaking Ethan?
Speaker 5: What's up? How are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jubile. I'm calling from a ready show.
Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 1: Hi Amina, also on the show, Hian Victoria.
Speaker 5: How are you?
Speaker 7: I'm doing okay?
Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show called the First
Speaker 2: Date follow Up. What that is is if you go
Speaker 2: out with someone and they end up ghosting you, you
Speaker 2: can email us to get that person on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why they're ghosting you. So you went on
Speaker 2: a date about two weeks ago with somebody named Chloe.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I definitely did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And Chloe emailed us and she told us all
Speaker 2: about your date. She thought, you guys really hit it off,
Speaker 2: but you haven't talked to her in two weeks and
Speaker 2: she was wondering if you would tell us why.
Speaker 7: Well, the day was really fun and I had a
Speaker 7: good time, and Chloe has some good energy, okay. And
Speaker 7: it's the humming.
Speaker 1: She humms, like what do you mean, Like while she's
Speaker 1: just sitting there, or in conversation, she hummed like the.
Speaker 8: Whole time, Like at the bookstore, during the card game,
Speaker 8: even we were kissing, she.
Speaker 1: Hummed like a tune or just.
Speaker 7: Couldn't really tell what she was and just constant humming.
Speaker 7: You know. It was okay in.
Speaker 8: The beginning, but every five seconds it would just continue
Speaker 8: to start, and then it started bothering me a little bit.
Speaker 1: Did you say anything to her about it, like, oh,
Speaker 1: just really got that song stuck in your head?
Speaker 5: Huh.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 8: So at one point I asked her I used to
Speaker 8: humming Sabrina Carpenter's latest song.
Speaker 7: And she said, oh, I didn't even realize those.
Speaker 1: Ah, some people do that. My grandma used to do that, huh.
Speaker 1: Or maybe she was nervous, like I.
Speaker 7: Did have a good time with her.
Speaker 8: It just it just struck me as odd that, like
Speaker 8: we couldn't acknowledge that there was a lot of umbing.
Speaker 1: Going on, and it's like sense overload.
Speaker 7: It was weird. Like at the beginning, I was like,
Speaker 7: what's going on?
Speaker 4: Is it her?
Speaker 8: Then I started thinking I can't be humming this long.
Speaker 8: You know, it's a fairly long date. I started looking
Speaker 8: around for a humming bird, and.
Speaker 7: There wasn't humming bird anywhere.
Speaker 8: It was just the girl I was out there with,
Speaker 8: you know, just humming a song like a mumble rapper.
Speaker 8: I started thinking about it, and I was just like
Speaker 8: not sure. Like I'm a sensitive sleeper and I really
Speaker 8: don't like the idea of humming his white noise when
Speaker 8: I go to bed, Like just thinking of the idea.
Speaker 7: Us sucking up and just humming the whole time.
Speaker 2: That definitely that would be weird, all right, that would Yeah,
Speaker 2: that would throw me off a little bit.
Speaker 5: Well, thank you for being honest with us.
Speaker 2: Now, Ethan, I'll let you know that Chloe is actually
Speaker 2: on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Oh I, Oh my god, Ethan, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: I didn't even realize I was humming that much. Was
Speaker 4: I humming that much?
Speaker 8: Yeah? You pretty much hummed since the moment you walked
Speaker 8: into the room, you know, right into that bookstore, it
Speaker 8: was humming. And even when we were making out, it
Speaker 8: was coming.
Speaker 7: I got a little bit I.
Speaker 4: Was humming out. Oh my god.
Speaker 7: It was a bit distracting. If I'm being honest with.
Speaker 4: No, I totally get it. I'm so embarrassed that that.
Speaker 3: I just you know, you just made me really nervous
Speaker 3: because I really liked you and I and I didn't
Speaker 3: think anything of it. Like I said when you asked
Speaker 3: me in the car, I didn't realize I was. I
Speaker 3: was humming, Like I don't even know that I'm doing it.
Speaker 3: And obviously I was super nervous if I was humming
Speaker 3: that much. But I'm mortified. But you know, and if
Speaker 3: you just tell me, because I've had friends tell me,
Speaker 3: and I do recognize it's the problem that I'm humming again,
Speaker 3: like they one of my friends even said I could
Speaker 3: never be.
Speaker 4: In Ninja because they would know that I'm coming.
Speaker 3: I can definitely turn it off because my friends have
Speaker 3: told me this.
Speaker 2: So you're saying, if Ethan were to tell you that
Speaker 2: you're humming, then you could stop it.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I would be able to stop it because
Speaker 3: I really do want to go out on a date
Speaker 3: with you, and that would be on my conscious don't
Speaker 3: hum make sure, I don't make sure, I don't know.
Speaker 2: No long we're making out, then would you like to
Speaker 2: go on another date with Chloe? Won't pay for it.
Speaker 2: She says that she can stop the hum Could I
Speaker 2: make a request your homer?
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I will take a request from you, all right.
Speaker 7: It's kind of cute now that you said that you're nervous.
Speaker 8: That makes a little bit more of a key thing
Speaker 8: and then we can acknowledge instead of it being healthy.
Speaker 7: So yeah, I'm in.
Speaker 5: I'm in from you real fast.
Speaker 2: Congratulations Chloe, you got another date?
Speaker 4: Oh thank you?
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