Speaker 1: Get your vitamin D right with me and get excited
Speaker 1: about your good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You were
Speaker 1: tuned into the Vitamin D Podcast and I'm your host,
Speaker 1: Dawn Day, here to get you excited about your lives
Speaker 1: so that you can live life on purpose and for
Speaker 1: a purpose. Now this is your first time tuning in. Welcome.
Speaker 1: You know, vitamin D is a pun off our name.
Speaker 1: You know how you get vitamin D from the sun.
Speaker 1: Right Well, my name is Dawn, which means the sun.
Speaker 1: So when I'm here to shed light and see your
Speaker 1: life now, I want to let you know this right now,
Speaker 1: when we talk about vitamin D and we talk about
Speaker 1: shedding light, that means we're shedding light on the good
Speaker 1: and the bad. Because if we want to be better
Speaker 1: and we want to do better, we have to have
Speaker 1: the ability to see better. And I do this with
Speaker 1: un delving and unraveling and unleashing inspirational insights, with inspirational
Speaker 1: conversations with celebrities and everyday people like you and me.
Speaker 1: You know we're gonna die one day, and my whole
Speaker 1: motive is to inspire people to live while they're still alive.
Speaker 1: Right now, it's all we got and along with you know,
Speaker 1: talking to people and and having this inspirational insights. I
Speaker 1: often sometimes do a special kind of segment and it's
Speaker 1: what I call the get Vice letters. And that's when
Speaker 1: I tell people just like you, all my fans and
Speaker 1: people that are listening to email me and which you
Speaker 1: can email me on relationships, on your career, on anything,
Speaker 1: financial advice, anything that comes to your mind that you
Speaker 1: just want to get, you know, a Dawn word in
Speaker 1: and I encourage you to email me at Vitamin D
Speaker 1: at dawn day speaks dot com. So today we're going
Speaker 1: into the email back and I'm going into some letters now.
Speaker 1: I want to be clear with you, just like I
Speaker 1: said about shipping the light. Understand that I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: it raw and reel with you. That's the only way
Speaker 1: you can be better. Because if I don't shed what
Speaker 1: I really feel and how I expressed, what is the
Speaker 1: purpose of me speaking the truth? Hey? Because I remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to be better, you want to do better,
Speaker 1: you got to see better. So I'm excited to delve in.
Speaker 1: And I want to say thank you to each person
Speaker 1: that has written in. I appreciate you for putting yourself first.
Speaker 1: You know, we talked about how you your greatest asset
Speaker 1: and you are here trying to be your bestself. I
Speaker 1: see you, all right. Let's dive in on the first
Speaker 1: letter subject, leaving Poe Dunk for something better. Okay, Paul
Speaker 1: dunc Um, Dear Dawn, my friend and I want to
Speaker 1: move out the pole Dunk town that we're from to
Speaker 1: the big city. I know it sounds cliche, but we
Speaker 1: can't grow old here, so the only option is to go.
Speaker 1: The problem for me, anyway, is that my family is
Speaker 1: pretty close minded and they're really against me leaving the
Speaker 1: mountain um. Coming from outside Morgan, West, Virginia, it's pretty
Speaker 1: looked down upon for people to leave out, like you're
Speaker 1: abandon in the family or something. It does weigh on
Speaker 1: me pretty heavy, But I also don't see much of
Speaker 1: a future for myself here. While I could get into
Speaker 1: being a nurse or something, the hospital is the biggest
Speaker 1: employer around here, up those same skills could easily take
Speaker 1: me away from here. My friend is pretty amped to
Speaker 1: roll out, and I'm on the fence about just saying
Speaker 1: screw it and taking the hit. With my family, I
Speaker 1: worried that they will cut me off. My grandmother has
Speaker 1: talked about. I can't believe one of my own is
Speaker 1: gonna up and leave me like she's trying to get
Speaker 1: me into stain. Weirdly, it just makes me want to
Speaker 1: go more. My friend says that they have a place
Speaker 1: to stay in Seattle and that there's another spare room
Speaker 1: that I could use till I got on my feet.
Speaker 1: It's a scary idea because I only know one person,
Speaker 1: but it's also really exciting and I don't know the
Speaker 1: idea of living life without some sort of adventure seems
Speaker 1: so sad. What do you think? I think you are
Speaker 1: to take a chance on yourself. This sounds phenomenal. And
Speaker 1: when you talk about being on the adventure, you're talking
Speaker 1: to the adventure queen. You know I didn't jumped out
Speaker 1: of planes, jumped off of bridges, kissed giraffes in Africa.
Speaker 1: Go on, honey, take a chance that's been coming to America.
Speaker 1: But no, really, I would say right out, here's the
Speaker 1: thing that you know. And you heard me make a
Speaker 1: comment I want to go back to it. You said,
Speaker 1: I also don't see much of a future for myself here, Okay,
Speaker 1: one thing that I am very keen on. And if
Speaker 1: you are listening to this podcast. If you know who
Speaker 1: I am, um about living out your dreams and living
Speaker 1: on purpose. And when you have a dream, your dream
Speaker 1: creates a vision. If we want to go, you know,
Speaker 1: scripturally based, Uh, without a vision, the people would perish. Now.
Speaker 1: Vision allows you to see beyond where you are. See,
Speaker 1: that's the also the realm of where the imagination lies.
Speaker 1: That's where the magic happens. That's where it comes out
Speaker 1: of the norm. See. And I know that's important to
Speaker 1: come out of the norm because you said that you
Speaker 1: are in this small town and you're wanting something more. Now,
Speaker 1: If you're wanting something more, that means you're seeing more
Speaker 1: than where you are right now. So then you ask
Speaker 1: me what do you think? I think you should go?
Speaker 1: Who are you staying for? Now? Here's another thing you
Speaker 1: said that you know, I feel like a lot oftentimes
Speaker 1: we can all fall victims of this, of feeling like
Speaker 1: we have to accommodate to someone else's um viewpoints, We
Speaker 1: have to accommodate or adhere to someone else's restrictions and
Speaker 1: someone else's fears. You said that one the only option
Speaker 1: is to go. But the problem for you is that
Speaker 1: your family is pretty closed minded. Here's another thing. When
Speaker 1: we talk about living out your dreams and living out
Speaker 1: your purpose, you know that it's a road less traveled.
Speaker 1: That's what makes that percentage of people special. And when
Speaker 1: you talk about living your dream, when you talk about
Speaker 1: living in an exciting life, you're going on a path
Speaker 1: less traveled. And you have to do it for you
Speaker 1: because if you're how you do anything, it's how you
Speaker 1: do everything. And if you're at the point when you
Speaker 1: have a dream inside and that could just be a wanting.
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be some fifty billion dollars. It
Speaker 1: can just be wanting to be more outside of where
Speaker 1: you are right now, that's the dream, that's the vision,
Speaker 1: and you have people around that instill as to why
Speaker 1: you should not do something. Therefore, it's almost like you're
Speaker 1: creating a barrier around yourself. M hmm. So then it
Speaker 1: comes back to how do you want to live your
Speaker 1: life and what are you going to choose. The thing
Speaker 1: that's so interesting in and what I love about life
Speaker 1: is I don't think there's ever a right or wrong.
Speaker 1: You choose what you want for yourself. Now, the only
Speaker 1: times that I feel like that it becomes a quote
Speaker 1: unquote wrong is that if you aren't being honest with
Speaker 1: yourself with your decisions, because everywhere and every opportunity, in
Speaker 1: every situation, we found ourselves and we understand that it
Speaker 1: is a decision that we made. And we often hear
Speaker 1: in times like like life is like chess, or learn
Speaker 1: to play chess, because you have to make your next
Speaker 1: move your best move. And if you're looking at where
Speaker 1: you want to be in life, you gotta look at
Speaker 1: where your steps are that are leading you there. Hence
Speaker 1: why you have the vision. Hence if you ask me,
Speaker 1: you need to go because you just said, right there,
Speaker 1: I don't see a future for myself. Oftentimes in life,
Speaker 1: I don't know if we always know exactly what we're
Speaker 1: running through, right, But oftentimes we know what we don't want,
Speaker 1: and sometimes that's enough because knowing what you don't want
Speaker 1: keeps you in forward momentum to find what it is
Speaker 1: that you do want. So you're not complacent because you
Speaker 1: have a sense of agitation. So now you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to use your courage to step out there and take
Speaker 1: a chance. Now here's another thing. You have an olive
Speaker 1: branch reaching out to you. Right. In many odd instances,
Speaker 1: people are there. Let's just say, imagine a barren desert.
Speaker 1: Nothing's out there, no type of viable notification of life.
Speaker 1: You have an olive branch because a friend said that, Hey,
Speaker 1: they have a place in Seattle where you can stay.
Speaker 1: There's a spare room and you can use it to
Speaker 1: you get back on your feet. You know what they say.
Speaker 1: You just gotta have faith the size of a mustard seed.
Speaker 1: So I have to ask you what do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want to leave out of that pole downtown?
Speaker 1: Do you truly do you want to leave out of
Speaker 1: West Virginia? But more importantly, do you think you deserve it? Now?
Speaker 1: I talk about all the time how you were your
Speaker 1: greatest asset, and it's basically treating your self with love
Speaker 1: and loving yourself, and that's listening to yourself. And you
Speaker 1: have to realize that your dreams and aspirations are taking
Speaker 1: you beyond and exceeding because you don't even understand of
Speaker 1: the magic that can happen getting out of where you
Speaker 1: are right now, you said, it's really exciting. That's what
Speaker 1: it means to live your life on purpose. You should
Speaker 1: get excited about your life. I say it in the
Speaker 1: jingle get your Vitamin d right here with me and
Speaker 1: get excited about your life. Who wants to live their life? Said?
Speaker 1: You just said it yourself. You said, I don't know
Speaker 1: the idea of living life without some sort of adventure.
Speaker 1: It seems sad. So what's the decision? What's the decision
Speaker 1: that you're gonna make? And I think oftentimes we should
Speaker 1: all consider that what are our decisions that we're making?
Speaker 1: What does it say? Does it lead us to where
Speaker 1: we want to go and what we want to do?
Speaker 1: Only you can answer that. I need you to sit
Speaker 1: down and evaluate and just make a decision, make a decision,
Speaker 1: because you can have anything you want out of life.
Speaker 1: So there's no such thing as fear. And it's you
Speaker 1: didn't even say in a sense of what you could
Speaker 1: be lacking. The main thing that you said that you
Speaker 1: were concerned about is what your family. We're going to
Speaker 1: think about you and you even have a friend who's
Speaker 1: ant to roll with you. I mean, what more could
Speaker 1: you ask for? So now, which is just like do
Speaker 1: you think you deserve the better? And while we're talking
Speaker 1: about you moving out of this this town, I want
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody that's looking to get out of
Speaker 1: a relationship. Maybe two, looking to take a chance and
Speaker 1: step into a new relationship. Maybe it's also making a
Speaker 1: commitment to um, working out, eating healthy, going after your dream. Whatever.
Speaker 1: It is how you do anything, it's how you do everything.
Speaker 1: So you say, what do you think right out? I'm
Speaker 1: all about the adventure. Okay, all right, let's go on
Speaker 1: to the next letter. Thank you for writing subject. How
Speaker 1: do I see myself winning? Dear Dawn, I have a
Speaker 1: problem that I just can't seem to shake. I don't
Speaker 1: see myself as a winner. I'm twenty two and rep
Speaker 1: in Houston. I keep looking at my life and all
Speaker 1: I see is like I'm working at a fast food
Speaker 1: joint forever, maybe making manager. It seems like a sad life,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to knock people who do that.
Speaker 1: I think you can give money, how you gotta give money?
Speaker 1: But something in me tells me that I don't want
Speaker 1: to do that. Or maybe it's better to say that
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to do that kind of work. Okay, UM,
Speaker 1: it's got me all in my head. All that being said,
Speaker 1: I know that I'm young and that I haven't seen
Speaker 1: the world yet. I want to go to college or
Speaker 1: community college, but I'm constantly trying to do ob jabs
Speaker 1: to put a roof over my head. I think that
Speaker 1: I have something in me, a drive to make it
Speaker 1: as a major plan in this world. What would you
Speaker 1: suggest to help and understanding that you can achieve something
Speaker 1: or be a winner? Sorry if this doesn't make sense,
Speaker 1: Thanks for your help. No, thank you, thank you for
Speaker 1: writing in Oh my gosh. First, this touches me because
Speaker 1: I love. I love the fact that you are taking
Speaker 1: your life so serious as you should, because that means
Speaker 1: that you love on yourself. And I think the greatest
Speaker 1: force of change is in love. Like, if you really
Speaker 1: want to yield great results out of your life, do
Speaker 1: it out of love, not out of hate, because hate
Speaker 1: wants to take things away. Love is only adding in
Speaker 1: abundance and overflowing. So first, thank you. Okay, now you
Speaker 1: said I don't how do I see myself as winning?
Speaker 1: You said, what would you suggest and help me understanding that? Well?
Speaker 1: Interesting enough. My engineer my homely back to the days
Speaker 1: that h you Howard University Gizma, who was actually the
Speaker 1: sound engineer for the show um audio director. He handles
Speaker 1: all sound basically, but I'm grateful for him because he
Speaker 1: sent a reminder to me, and he sent me this audio,
Speaker 1: but I guess I want to call him a famed philosopher, author, speaker.
Speaker 1: His name is Earl Nightingale, and the audio was on
Speaker 1: this clip called The Strangest Secret, a book that he's written.
Speaker 1: And the thing that I found so interesting is that
Speaker 1: this all talks about the power of the mind. How
Speaker 1: powerful the mind is, Oh my gosh, and we see
Speaker 1: it and we hear about it almost every day when
Speaker 1: we look at people that make inventions, when we hear
Speaker 1: stories about people going after their dreams and making something
Speaker 1: of themselves, they had this vision. And one of the
Speaker 1: thing is that I thought was so amazing about this
Speaker 1: is that Erl Nightingale talked about what it really meant
Speaker 1: to be successful, because success isn't always just a financial gain.
Speaker 1: Success is just seeing more of of what you're doing
Speaker 1: right now. And he said that oftentimes we measure success
Speaker 1: with money, and oftentimes with that measurement that puts the
Speaker 1: sort of limitation on our growth and who we are.
Speaker 1: It also takes away the value and the sense of
Speaker 1: who we are, because now we've taken out the purpose
Speaker 1: of it and the joy. Now, he said, the thing
Speaker 1: about when we talk about people who are so successful
Speaker 1: is because their measurement of success is just identifying something
Speaker 1: that they want to do and taking the steps towards
Speaker 1: to doing it. Now here is a thing in order
Speaker 1: for success to even be a possibility or in the realm,
Speaker 1: you have to identify what it is that you want. Now.
Speaker 1: The thing that's so amazing about what you're saying right
Speaker 1: now is that you are are known when you can
Speaker 1: feel that there's something more inside of you that you want.
Speaker 1: And you said, wait a minute, it's got me on
Speaker 1: in my head. Yes, this is the place that you
Speaker 1: need to be to figure out what you want. Because
Speaker 1: you said you don't see working in this fast food
Speaker 1: joint forever. And just like this gentleman, Raphael Gordon Stady,
Speaker 1: he said, your location is not your destination. Young man,
Speaker 1: I see you. I'm just assuming you're a young man.
Speaker 1: You could be a young man or a young woman. Um,
Speaker 1: but you said, like you don't see you see more
Speaker 1: for yourself than just working at this fast food joint.
Speaker 1: And that's the that's the key to success is just
Speaker 1: having the ability to see more of what it is
Speaker 1: that you want. And you said you want to go
Speaker 1: to college, or community college. But you're doing these eye
Speaker 1: jobs to keep a roof over your set, and you
Speaker 1: said there's something in me. Yes, there is something in you,
Speaker 1: and that's what you gotta continue to go and in
Speaker 1: and discover and identify and understand. If you want to
Speaker 1: have and be able to make the major move of
Speaker 1: the players, you to start identifying people who are doing.
Speaker 1: What it is that you want or what it is
Speaker 1: that interests you. Where are you finding yourself getting attracted
Speaker 1: to or is it something that you're saying on TV?
Speaker 1: Is it some way that business deals are being made?
Speaker 1: Do you like sneakers, shirt shoes, do you like crafts?
Speaker 1: Whatever it is. Hone in on what's taking your focus
Speaker 1: and then invest in that. And I would recommend getting
Speaker 1: some sort of education, whether it's in a formal school
Speaker 1: system or whether you're you're doing a job in that industry,
Speaker 1: or whether you're just picking up a book and read
Speaker 1: or heck, get on YouTube. What about YouTube university. There's
Speaker 1: a whole thing called clubhouse networking. So there's no reason
Speaker 1: as to why you can't get connected. What are some
Speaker 1: of the things that you want to do, And yes,
Speaker 1: you gotta get money, How you gotta get money. But
Speaker 1: if you've got something and you tells you that what
Speaker 1: it is that you do want to do or don't
Speaker 1: want to do because you want to live a better
Speaker 1: life than you gotta go out there and get it.
Speaker 1: I would definitely recommend for you to take a listen
Speaker 1: to Earl Nightingale The Strangest Secrets, because once we can
Speaker 1: get this mind together, it's an amazing thing when you
Speaker 1: can get your mind together. It talks about in the book,
Speaker 1: he says, um, you know, you hear this thing all
Speaker 1: the time you read with you so and whether that's
Speaker 1: good stuff or bad stuff, you're gonna read that. And
Speaker 1: we often here sometimes it's called karma. When we can
Speaker 1: get to the point of identifying our dreams, our passions,
Speaker 1: our purpose, our love are the things that make us
Speaker 1: feel good and continuously plant that in our spirits, plant
Speaker 1: that in our minds, plant that in our environments. We
Speaker 1: started to get that back, but when we stay in
Speaker 1: positions that we feel discontent and we feel annoyed, we're
Speaker 1: only gonna keep reaping that. It's like this vicious cycle
Speaker 1: of putting in this stuff that you don't want, expecting
Speaker 1: something different, we get the same thing. That's coming out.
Speaker 1: And if you keep leaving yourself in this situation of
Speaker 1: working at this fast food joint where you see there's
Speaker 1: no few true of yourself because the only thing that
Speaker 1: you can possibly do is making manager. What is that
Speaker 1: going to do to your life bank account? Because we
Speaker 1: talk about on this podcast how you are your greatest asset,
Speaker 1: it sounds like that your account is going to be
Speaker 1: in the negative because this is not what you want
Speaker 1: to be. This is not going to yield the results
Speaker 1: that you're going for. Hence, as Earl Nightingale stated in
Speaker 1: The Strangest Secrets, you are not going to find yourself successful.
Speaker 1: I don't care if they promoted you to the district manager.
Speaker 1: This is not what you want. This is not something
Speaker 1: that you're actively working for towards to be successful in it.
Speaker 1: And if you find yourself staying there, you're going to
Speaker 1: be complacent. And if that isn't charging you to do
Speaker 1: more in a sense of fulfillment, you're still going to
Speaker 1: get unhappy. So one of the first thing I would say,
Speaker 1: you gotta get your mom, gotta we gotta work out
Speaker 1: these mind muscles. One only to um ensure that you
Speaker 1: continue to stay optimistic about it, but also to expand yourself.
Speaker 1: Expand yourself of all the possibilities of things that you
Speaker 1: can't do, because it's nothing that you can't do. Right.
Speaker 1: So I hope I answered your question. Get that book,
Speaker 1: and I would also recommend you to check out the
Speaker 1: book um by Florence Scobelshin. It's called The Game of
Speaker 1: Life and How to Play It Phenomenal for phenomenal. I
Speaker 1: first read that book when I was in college. Um.
Speaker 1: You may have heard me mention to you this before,
Speaker 1: but I was so annoyed. I had to take a
Speaker 1: TV practice in class. It was in order to graduate,
Speaker 1: we had to have an internship in our field. I
Speaker 1: was a TV production major, but I was intern at
Speaker 1: XM Sidelighte Radio. It worked out where I was filming
Speaker 1: at the radio show, so I got that. But that's
Speaker 1: besides the point. We had to read this book, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are we reading this book? And let
Speaker 1: me just tell you, it was one of the most
Speaker 1: phenomenal books that I've read in my life, and I
Speaker 1: would definitely recommend for you to check it out. Okay,
Speaker 1: because you have to get to yourself to you have
Speaker 1: to see yourself as winning. You have to already be
Speaker 1: the winner. You know a lot. We should be focused
Speaker 1: on catching up to what we are right now because
Speaker 1: we're such in the now of being all that we want.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing too, you know how like if
Speaker 1: you think about it, if you want to be the CEO,
Speaker 1: or you want to be this top business or top
Speaker 1: model or top actress or speaker, you have to have
Speaker 1: the mindset that you already are. Because when you have
Speaker 1: the mindset and you're walking in it, you're performing as such.
Speaker 1: And if that's what you're performing is you're going to
Speaker 1: yield those resolves. So I'm just coming at the different
Speaker 1: angles of how you can see yourself winning, and that's
Speaker 1: to do the things that winners do. And one of
Speaker 1: the things that winners do is they win, and they
Speaker 1: win by exceeding by reaching out further. Mr Mrs Ms
Speaker 1: twenty two year old, it's time for you to go
Speaker 1: out further. Shout out to age town. But what's up?
Speaker 1: What do you want? Okay, all right, let's go on
Speaker 1: to the next letter subject how to get back out there.
Speaker 1: Dear don So, I'm writing to you because I know
Speaker 1: you talked to a lot of people. I'm twenty nine,
Speaker 1: and I don't really have friends. I live in Charleston,
Speaker 1: which is a big city, but I can't really say
Speaker 1: that I've had strong connections with anyone but maybe one
Speaker 1: or two people. The one person who comes to mind
Speaker 1: immediately is my best friend, who I'm in a high school.
Speaker 1: We were in separate, but over time he's gotten married
Speaker 1: and has a family life, and I'm well just kind
Speaker 1: of alone. Me and my best friends still came in touch,
Speaker 1: but in that distant kind of way that adults maintained relationships.
Speaker 1: We're good when we see each other, but there's not
Speaker 1: much contact outside of that. This was before the pandemic,
Speaker 1: and let me tell you, it's been real quiet for me.
Speaker 1: I've seen my parents all of twice in person. Thankfully
Speaker 1: they're okay. So now that things are starting that long
Speaker 1: track back to normal, I want to ask you what
Speaker 1: would be your advice on how to get back out
Speaker 1: there and make friends. I'm a little embarrassed about asking,
Speaker 1: and I want to be clear that I'm good with
Speaker 1: my bestie, but I do still want to make more
Speaker 1: connections with people. I like a lot of things that
Speaker 1: people would call nerdy or sci fi. UM was always
Speaker 1: too scared to go to conventions or things like that,
Speaker 1: and now that's not likely to be a thing for
Speaker 1: a bit, but I'm open to learning and experiencing new
Speaker 1: things in one and become my best fault. Any help
Speaker 1: you could provide would be greatly appreciated. UM, I say
Speaker 1: do you, uh one, thank you for writing it. It
Speaker 1: is kind of yucky being in this pandemic, right. I
Speaker 1: definitely have to do a lot of things virtually, but
Speaker 1: luckily with UM things that been seeing with everything that's
Speaker 1: going on in COVID, a lot of people are able
Speaker 1: to get back out there with UM taking all the
Speaker 1: proper safety precautions. But yes, first of all, I want
Speaker 1: to say, do you because it sounds like, whether the
Speaker 1: pandemic was happening or not, you were holding yourself back
Speaker 1: because you didn't wanna I guess go into the box
Speaker 1: about being nerd to you. So, I don't know if
Speaker 1: you found yourself in other environments that you didn't feel
Speaker 1: like you were thriving in because you weren't your true self. UM,
Speaker 1: definitely check out Jeremiah. He always talks about clubhouse and
Speaker 1: how phenomenal and networking that is that can lead you
Speaker 1: to people that are like minded. So while everybody may
Speaker 1: not be in person at all the conventions, I'm sure
Speaker 1: they have like a sci Fi chat or some type
Speaker 1: of convention chat for that. You can check it out,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's just about getting
Speaker 1: back in the room and getting back into the conversation.
Speaker 1: A lot of organizations and a lot of groups are
Speaker 1: doing a lot of online activities. You hear me talk
Speaker 1: about it all the time, how I'm studying at the
Speaker 1: groundlings and improv And while we haven't been in person
Speaker 1: doing our art form, we've had a lot of things
Speaker 1: happening on zoom, but we can still be interactive and
Speaker 1: we can still see our classmates. So that's something that
Speaker 1: I would definitely recommend um of how you getting back
Speaker 1: out there, but understanding that when you're gonna be out there,
Speaker 1: that requires you to be out. Did you catch it?
Speaker 1: If you're talking about getting out there, that's going to
Speaker 1: require you to be out. And when I say and
Speaker 1: being out, I mean living life out loud and proud
Speaker 1: meeting don't be ashamed cause you like sci fi stuff,
Speaker 1: or if you want to go to convinces, you need
Speaker 1: to let more people know about that, because why would
Speaker 1: you want to just hold that to yourself and then
Speaker 1: whether you find your next best friend, you're not even connecting,
Speaker 1: only what's truly yours and what you truly like. So um,
Speaker 1: don't be embarrassed by that. But yeah, I would say,
Speaker 1: just go ahead and check out some online groups, you know,
Speaker 1: just like people were doing the online dating, swiping left
Speaker 1: or right, join the clubhouse, you know, check out the thriller. Um,
Speaker 1: they got all these little programs now when you know,
Speaker 1: just like the versus Battle, people can get virtually and
Speaker 1: get your little party on at the little concert online.
Speaker 1: But then that's what I would recommend. Um. Other than that,
Speaker 1: m hmm, that's how you're going to become your best self,
Speaker 1: being you. I hope it's not next time. It's just
Speaker 1: about finding new ways. But let it not be for
Speaker 1: something that you're saying that a lot of people aren't
Speaker 1: into what you're into. Because a lot of people aren't
Speaker 1: into what you're into, then perhaps you're into the wrong thing.
Speaker 1: Perhaps it's you not into the right thing, because remember,
Speaker 1: you attract what you want to be around. So find
Speaker 1: your tribe, find your group and live. That's how you're
Speaker 1: gonna become your best self. You gotta live live. That's
Speaker 1: what it means to live on purpose and for a purpose,
Speaker 1: get excited about your life and get geeked and nerd
Speaker 1: it out. You know, I'm a nerd inside on the
Speaker 1: lo lo. I like intentus like collecting things. So yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I was saying. Well that was pretty light,
Speaker 1: you know. Well that's all we have for the advice letters.
Speaker 1: And let me just say I want to say thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you to each of you that wrote in. Whether
Speaker 1: it's you know, how to get back out there, whether
Speaker 1: it's trying to be successful, you know whatever, it is,
Speaker 1: just fine your mode, find your way, just do you.
Speaker 1: And I want to encourage you that if you need
Speaker 1: some advice or something, email me Vitamin D at Dawn
Speaker 1: day Speaks dot com um and then also have you
Speaker 1: can check out the YouTube page that's a Dawn Day
Speaker 1: Speaks and a lot of the conversations that that I'm
Speaker 1: having with my special guests they're up there. Check it out.
Speaker 1: It is gets pretty dope. It's one thing to be
Speaker 1: listening in, but it's another thing to be watching. And
Speaker 1: you see there reactions, you see my reactions and if
Speaker 1: you Lord knows, if you're seeing me anywhere you know,
Speaker 1: I am the queen of reaction, you know, And the
Speaker 1: minute they don't start making means about me because I know,
Speaker 1: just the facials, just go off, go off, go go off.
Speaker 1: I'm going off now. But UM, check it out. I
Speaker 1: think it's gonna be great. And I want to thank
Speaker 1: you so much for continuing to be on this right
Speaker 1: of my dreams. And also praise report, Praise report. I'm
Speaker 1: probably should have mentioned at the top, but it's coming
Speaker 1: right on time. Um, your dreams are manifesting. Understand that
Speaker 1: they're taking roote, and you just gotta hold on. Okay,
Speaker 1: just keep pushing, and you have to keep pressing because
Speaker 1: the magic is happening and you're staying faithful for it
Speaker 1: to be uncovered, you have to stay faithful to the dream.
Speaker 1: I say that to myself because the how I'm looking
Speaker 1: at how vitamin D has thrown and me just uncovering
Speaker 1: shows that I've done six and seven years ago. It's happening,
Speaker 1: and I just want to remind you that it's happening.
Speaker 1: And because you decided to have a vision, just don't
Speaker 1: give up because it's happening. I just had to let
Speaker 1: you know that it's happening. Okay, And if you want
Speaker 1: to keep up What's Happening movie, I want to make
Speaker 1: sure that you follow me on all social media at
Speaker 1: dawn Day Speaks. Okay, That's where I am every day,
Speaker 1: all day. It's Dawn Day. Hey, getting you excited about
Speaker 1: your life? Thank you? UM? Is there anything else that
Speaker 1: I missed? No, I guess I'll just see you next time.
Speaker 1: All right, I got more praise reports to come. Um.
Speaker 1: And until that next time, I want you to always
Speaker 1: remember that you are your greatest asset.