1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: This episode of IRL podcast is powered by boost Mobile. 2 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Hi Everybody, it is Asghebartinez IRL this week checking in 3 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: al what's been happening with us this week? We dropped 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: Carrie Hillston this week, which was lovely. Carrie has been 5 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: I don't know, away for over a decade, over a decade, 6 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: could you imagine? And of that decade, she's probably spent 7 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: five years and that in a deep depression. I thought 8 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: that her conversation about depression was interesting because I don't know, 9 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 1: she just paint the picture so well of what that 10 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: feels like. I think depression is different for everybody, but 11 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Something about the way 12 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: she described it to me, I could see her. I 13 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: could see her in that place in that time. You know, 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: sometimes people are just like, oh, yeah, I was depressed, 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: And something about the way she said it, it's almost 16 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: like I could I could see it on her. And 17 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: the fact that she's able to get up from that 18 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: is is Uh. 19 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: She seems like she's in in a good space right, 20 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: Like she's like super happy and good. Anyway, I hope 21 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 2: everybody else is there is good and I hope people 22 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 2: who maybe are having a hard time could see something 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: in that that maybe maybe makes you, I don't know, 24 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 2: just gives you hope that there's We are not encouraging 25 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: anybody to do mushrooms, which is one of the things carried. 26 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 1: Fed got around me. But hey, that's your choice. But 27 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: we had the IROL podcast Canno neither prefer nor deny 28 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: nor deny that it's helpfold for you or helpful in 29 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: any way. She did say she did therapy, she tapped 30 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: into her spirituality. She said she did a lot of 31 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: work aside from that. But she did think that the 32 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: mushrooms helped her with the depression, which was interesting. But 33 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,919 Speaker 1: there's a lot going on in the world right now. 34 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: What were we just talking about before we got on. Oh, 35 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: first of all, my nieces had a baby. The Marius 36 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: had the baby good time. His name is nas nas 37 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 1: se Her so New York. Oh my god, I love it. 38 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: It's so cute. Anyway, it made me think about something 39 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: and I've been using I keep seeing her little baby 40 00:01:58,680 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: because she sent me the picture of the baby when 41 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: delivered it. And I keep thinking about this thing about 42 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: when you deliver a baby into the world, when you 43 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 1: cook a baby in your body for nine months, sometimes more. 44 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: And then you are introduced the baby to the world, 45 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: right and how you you know, you protect it and 46 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: you want to give it the best everything possibility and 47 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: energy and all that stuff. And so we have a 48 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 1: friend who just launched a business and we and he 49 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: was like, he's like worried about all the details of 50 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: like the launch and this and that, and he was 51 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: stressed and this energy that he was having on him, 52 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: I was I was like, first of all, you are 53 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: introducing something new to the world. I don't need you 54 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: to fix your energy and how you're putting something new 55 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: into the world so that it could be received in 56 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: the manner that you wanted to be received. And so 57 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: we had that little chat with a friend of ours. 58 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: But I honestly do the same thing. So I'm making 59 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: fun of him, but I honestly have done that. Sometimes 60 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: you you want something to do well, you're working on 61 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: a project for a long time, or your whatever it is, 62 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: you're moving into a new home, or you're planning a 63 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: birthday party for a loved one, or you're shooting your 64 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: first short film, or you're shooting your first short film, 65 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: and so you get caught up in the work and 66 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: the nuance and the frustration of the things that you 67 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: know are hard and they're just hard, and sometimes you 68 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: have to check yourself and make sure that the energy 69 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: that you're it's not just the energy you're putting into 70 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: whatever it is you're releasing or putting into the world. 71 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: It's also the energy that you're teaching everybody what type 72 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: of energy to put on your project or your thing. 73 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: Same way you bring a baby into the world, you 74 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: don't want to bring a baby into the world screaming 75 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: and yelling and rolling your eyes and the poor little 76 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: baby's just getting started. He's looking at you, like, what 77 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: the hell, what is this? So anything you put in 78 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: the world, whether it's work or a new version of 79 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: yourself or how you show up, I just think to 80 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: be super mindful and careful about your energy because it 81 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: really is infectious. It really teaches people how to respond 82 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: to you. It teaches people how to respond to whatever 83 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: your offering is. And I just think that's something we 84 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: need to remind ourselves all the time, because it's very easy. 85 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: We do it too. We'll work especially on the short 86 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: and things weren't going exactly right. Yeah, yeah, I was 87 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: really mindful that day, Like I was even when we 88 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: were shooting, I was mindful, like, okay, even in frustration moments, 89 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: you shake it off, you go go, and then people 90 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: would be like, how did it go? Yeah, And I 91 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 1: was honest in the fact that they want kick my ass, 92 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: and I would say that they want kick my ass. 93 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: But it was great. You know what I'm saying. The energy, 94 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: you gotta still give it love energy, good energy. Even 95 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: you could be honest and be like, man, some stuff 96 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: was hard, but the energy you put on it, it 97 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: really is infectious. Imagine I will go around and people 98 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: be like, yo, how did it go, And I'm like, oh, 99 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: it wasn't bad. It was bad. It's even like and 100 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: everybody goes off and tells everybody, oh, she said it 101 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: was bad. You know what I'm saying. I'm just that's 102 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: an example of just anything you put out there, like 103 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 1: watch your energy. You know what I'm saying. It's a 104 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: real real thing. 105 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 3: It's like you ever have those friends that are like 106 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 3: the life of the party, friends so or whenever you 107 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: see them, it's just that makes you happy. 108 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: There's like people like that too. They want to be 109 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: around me. Yes, if you want to be around. 110 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,479 Speaker 3: I can't wait to look forward to see that one 111 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 3: frame because I know we're just going to have We're 112 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: going to bring good. 113 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: And my friend Clark was like that recipieces J Clark 114 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: can't every time I saw Clark, I'd be I'd just 115 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: be happy immediately because he always gave me good energy. 116 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: He was always happy to see me, so his energy 117 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: towards me and made me feel happy to be like, 118 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: oh my god, you know what I mean, I would 119 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: feel like it's so it's the exact thing that we're 120 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: talking about. How somebody receives you is what you're going 121 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 1: to give back all the time, and even in like 122 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: work projects, especially if you're in school and you're doing 123 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: an essay or you got to read a speech, like 124 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: what energy are you giving off? It's so important. I 125 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: know it sounds cliche when they're like, yo, she had 126 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: good energy. He had good It's all about energy and vibes, 127 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: but also there is something real about it, like and 128 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm really just trying to frame it in a way 129 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 1: that you could hear me, because it can be the 130 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: difference between something being successful and not successful, or somebody 131 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: liking you or not liking you. Not that we care 132 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: before everybody likes us, but like it could be the 133 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: difference in how somebody receives whatever you are bringing. 134 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 3: It definitely being what's my I love the term personality 135 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:31,239 Speaker 3: higher and being the person that brings the good vibes 136 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 3: is like it's a thing. Yes, it's a very valuable currency. 137 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: There is no way we make a podcast like this 138 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: if every single person on this set had a bad 139 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 1: energy and a bad vibe, I couldn't. I couldn't talk 140 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: to people and people feel comfortable and people open up. 141 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: If when you walk in the door somebody's like, you 142 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, or like or whatever, stink like 143 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: any of that, it can't happen. It can't happen. I've 144 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: definitely removed people from probably good people, probably people who 145 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: are good at what their job. But if your energy 146 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: is off, I can't do it because it's not just 147 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: me fucking up. You're like fucking up system, the whole ecosystem. 148 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: It's really a real thing. So that is the message 149 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: for today. 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I 177 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: would like to say, by the way, once we are 178 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 1: talking about the IRL team, I would like to thank 179 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: the IRL team because we did something interesting this week 180 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: in IRL and we made the team go in the bowl. 181 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: We should show you a little bts of our team 182 00:08:55,840 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: inside the IRL Bowl. We don't ask our guests to 183 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: do anything we don't do ourselves. 184 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 4: Getting the bowl. 185 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: We're getting the bowl. Have fun. I'm so nervous. There's 186 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: like some like more tame ones in there. There's more 187 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: tame ones. It's been a minute. Okay, oh interesting, Okay. 188 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was strong until the deep one. Well, 189 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: I think I guess the theory is right, Like there's 190 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: levels too strong. Okay. Fair. I would say fair. 191 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 5: Because I think growing up as an athlete, I had 192 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 5: to learn pretty often early that I was strong because 193 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 5: a girl playing against boys, that whole thing I played, 194 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 5: I scould play tackle football. 195 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 3: And when I was six, it wasn't like flag like, 196 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 3: it was like full tackle. 197 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, full tackle. So that was early one. But I 198 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 5: think like as a woman, as an adult, I would 199 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 5: say probably when I first started working in this industry 200 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 5: and realized what being an outsider would do to my 201 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 5: my progression, and how much harder and tougher I had 202 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 5: to be to compete against the folks I was competing 203 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 5: against mentally, mentally, emotionally. Don't let them see you cry. 204 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 5: They're gonna try to break you down, but you just 205 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 5: gotta keep keep keep rolling. 206 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: M mm hmmm, mm hmm. This is this is me 207 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: going into the ball. Is this what I'm doing? Wow? 208 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, we're getting into it. 209 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: Sorry, I know this is our episode. 210 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 6: M I. 211 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 3: Oh God, give me something that I can eloquently answer. 212 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 1: Okay, this one is. 213 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 4: If you tell me to figure. 214 00:10:53,880 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 3: About it, I'm gonna do what the yes do, which 215 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 3: is picking. 216 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: Pick until you like one. There's there's a specific what 217 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: I'm want because you know the bull, so what you're 218 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: looking for? I created the ball. Okay, this was the 219 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: first one I had. What is the fear that you're 220 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 1: actively working through? How dramatic? Oh my gosh, everybody says this. 221 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: It's not original, it's imposter syndrome. 222 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, when you're doing something for the first time, you're like, 223 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 3: can I just not completely ship the bed? 224 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: Can I just? Can I not? Can I not just 225 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: face plant? But then I'm always like my own Devil's advocate, 226 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: and it's like if I do so what, I'll be 227 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: doing it next time. Yeah exactly. I woke up tomorrow 228 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: and be like, I'll try again. 229 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 3: If I really liked it, I'll try it again and 230 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 3: again and again and again and again. 231 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: That's my fear. 232 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's real though, re alternating. 233 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, can you stop a break? Oh this was long? 234 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 5: Oh no, this was long to pick my own Okay, 235 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 5: what are two things you absolutely need in a partner 236 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 5: and why do they matter so much to you? 237 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: I better? I better get this right or fiance is 238 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me. 239 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 5: Let's see two things I absolutely needed a partner and 240 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 5: why do they matter so much? 241 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 1: I would say the first one. 242 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 5: Safe space, like you know, we gotta be tough sometimes, 243 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 5: we gotta be like we're saying the last one, we 244 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 5: gotta be tough sometimes. Yeah, And I can be every 245 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 5: version of myself with her, and that's what's up. So 246 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 5: I can be soft, that can be tough, I can 247 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 5: be whatever. So I would say that number one, and 248 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 5: then number two. 249 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: Gotta make me laugh. We gotta have we gotta be 250 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: able to have fun. 251 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 5: We gotta be able to be We gotta be able 252 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 5: to have fun because we can't always be. 253 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: This life is too serious. 254 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 5: So if I can't have fun with anybody, it's just 255 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 5: not gonna work. 256 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: That's why you're getting married. That's what. 257 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, that's why you're getting married. 258 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 4: It is. 259 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:19,719 Speaker 1: I want a light one my gosh, heavy day, yo. 260 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: Please can't you ask me who should pay first on 261 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 1: the first day? Like, oh sorry, I can't do that one. 262 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: Not a parent, best parenting advice you've ever gotten, baby, Okay, 263 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 3: I'm not a parent, but whenever I would tell. 264 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: My dad, me and my dad are Thinkest Steeves. There's 265 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: nobody closer than me and my dad. And he when 266 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: I would. 267 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 3: As I got as you get older, your relationship with 268 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 3: your parents changes and you kind of like parent them 269 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 3: in a way. And I started telling my dad all 270 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 3: the stuff that I was like, you did. 271 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: This wrong and I didn't appreciate this. Thinking, you know, 272 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 1: I'm become an adult. 273 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 3: You start thinking you know everything, and he goes, he goes, 274 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 3: He shut me down like this, He goes. 275 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 1: You know, there's no handbook to this, and I'm trying 276 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 1: the best. 277 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 4: From what I got. 278 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm tired you. 279 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 3: So to my friends that have kids, I'm like, yo, 280 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 3: just do the best of what you've got. 281 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's you love them, you love We'll tell the 282 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: iron bold gods. That does that mean? Does that mean 283 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: she has to do a third one? Is that this 284 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: is the graveyard here? Oh? Yeah, for sure, for sure 285 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: I can. Okay, okay, okay. 286 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 3: This was like, yay, finally, what do you do to 287 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 3: decompress after a long day? 288 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: Oh? 289 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 3: I went to Japan and in my I learned that 290 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 3: in the hotel room that I had, all of the 291 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 3: hotel rooms had these foot massages. 292 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: So that's my new joint. Now whenever I get home, 293 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: I'd be like, pop them sneakers out. 294 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 3: I must go right fifteen minutes in a little and 295 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 3: if it helps me get I might be like I'm 296 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 3: at home. 297 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: I'm resetting at home. 298 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 5: Especially down here on your feet all day. 299 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: Fact. Fact, anybody down for a ball? You want to 300 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: get to switch the camera. Come give me the camera, 301 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: give me the camera, keep calling, well, no, come Ryan, 302 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: come in the ball, coming the ball coming ball. 303 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, come on, yeah, yeah, welcome, Welcome to the ball life. 304 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 7: You know it's super early, right, so just go. 305 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 4: Through it whatever you want. How are we looking? 306 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 7: What is your biggest challenge in your life? 307 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: The bulls hand hard, the bulls hand hard, but great. 308 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 7: My biggest challenge in my life, I feel like trying 309 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 7: to find something that I'm very like drawn to, but 310 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 7: staying consistent with it, and then just trying to also 311 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 7: impress like like real relatives, like you know, trying to 312 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 7: show them that you know, I could put the effort 313 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 7: in and just to like you know, believe in me. 314 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 7: So yeah, not trying to let nobody down. I feel 315 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 7: like that's like my biggest challenge. 316 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 4: Wo. 317 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's good though. That's good. 318 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 4: That's good. 319 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: No more, he's just getting warmed up. Now, you're just 320 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: getting warmed up. 321 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 4: That was good, all right? 322 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 6: Let me see. 323 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: Yeah see I'm too sure about that that. 324 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 7: I was definitely honest. 325 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: Oh okay. 326 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 7: Is there a moment that made you believe in divine 327 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 7: toming divine Tommy? 328 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: I feel like. 329 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 7: When I got an opportunity to go to extreme University, 330 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 7: I feel like it kind of like opened my eyes 331 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 7: to like like being a camera man for like the 332 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 7: biggest content creator like right now for Casonet. That like 333 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 7: kind of opened my eyes on like, oh, You're finally 334 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 7: in like something you really wanted to do in your life. 335 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 7: So it like kind of pushes me to like keep 336 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 7: going because it's like connections like networking. I love networking. 337 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,439 Speaker 7: So it's like I feel like it really drove like 338 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 7: my passions to network even more. But like showing like 339 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 7: all the effort I put in, you know, it's worth 340 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:33,719 Speaker 7: it right now. So it's like it made me really 341 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 7: feel like I'm in it and you know watching it 342 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 7: you know like on YouTube writing thing, I'm actually physically 343 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 7: there now. So it's like now I'm seeing people like 344 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 7: do clips of me while I'm recording. 345 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 4: So it's just funny. 346 00:17:46,160 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 6: But let's go, let's go. I thank you. Actually it's 347 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 6: a little scarce. 348 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: I was a little all right. I thought about for Brittany. 349 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: For Brittany, well, we're still recording. You have to get 350 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: well here you go. Thank you. Oh my uh. 351 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 3: If God were to text you right now, what would 352 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 3: it say. 353 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 1: Boy episodes You've never thought to you what I would Well, 354 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 1: it changes all the time the day or just what's 355 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: going on life? 356 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 3: And lately it's changes every day lately, it changes every 357 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 3: day today. 358 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: I don't remember going over right there? Yeah it is. 359 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 1: It is the text from God. What does it say? 360 00:18:53,040 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: Oh girl, you b I that? 361 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, cur By, it's gonna be fine. 362 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:08,479 Speaker 4: I like it. 363 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 3: Whatever your brain is talking about, just just quiet, just 364 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 3: shut quieting down. 365 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: It's a lot of thinking. Just just be just me. 366 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: So I was so good because we do another one 367 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: because Roger, who's behind the camera and doing Roger, will 368 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 1: you come to a bowl? Question whether Roger Roger rock? 369 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: No pressure? 370 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 4: No pressure? So is this the microphone here? 371 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: This is the microphone? Your lighting is okay, you feel. 372 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 4: I actually feel really good about the lighting. So I 373 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 4: like your face. So I like your blue jacket today. 374 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:47,719 Speaker 4: It just looks really awesome. 375 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: So let's into the bowl for you, sir. 376 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 4: Cool awesome bts so nervous. 377 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,000 Speaker 1: This is the behind the scenes crew. 378 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:02,479 Speaker 4: Oh okay, best apparenting you've ever gotten. A parent? I 379 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,959 Speaker 4: am a parent of two kids. Yeah yeah, I have 380 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 4: a three year old girl named Islah and then a 381 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 4: boy who just turned one. Wow, So yeah, I got 382 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 4: to You. 383 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: Never got to talk about your family because you're always 384 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 1: there quiet behind the camera. 385 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 4: You know, I try to keep to myself and just 386 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 4: make sure things look good. Thank you. 387 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: Oh, we appreciate your work. 388 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you so much. 389 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:22,679 Speaker 1: Okay, so what is the best parenting advice? 390 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:26,679 Speaker 4: Wow, I mean I'm trying to think. I don't know. 391 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,120 Speaker 4: I don't I mean, I don't even know if I've 392 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 4: ever had anyone be like here here's some advice. But 393 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 4: I'm I'm sure I have gotten some good advice. I 394 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:39,119 Speaker 4: mean maybe your wife is or yeah, I mean, oh yeah, actually, 395 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 4: actually my wife gives me advice all the time. I 396 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 4: mean probably just patience and listening is probably like the 397 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 4: best advice. Then not a thing, No, it's not. It 398 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 4: takes a lot of time and a lot of practice. 399 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm still working on it. Has that going 400 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 4: pretty good? Yeah, yea, yeah definitely, Because I mean my 401 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 4: kids are really young and they're doing their thing and 402 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 4: they're still figuring out the world. 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Oh rush, 436 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: oh okay, right, all right, so I'll finish out the 437 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:44,479 Speaker 1: round with a bowl question today. I feel like this 438 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 1: is out of I RL this week. No, oh, absolutely not. 439 00:22:52,400 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: I have no offering for that. HM thinking what is 440 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: something that you used to be embarrassed about? 441 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 3: I like this one for you that you now own. 442 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 3: I like this one for you. You do, Yeah, you 443 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 3: gotta think. I like when you gotta think, what was 444 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 3: I embarrassed about that I now own? 445 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 1: I think I own a lot of my shit. So 446 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: that's hard for me, but doesn't mean you still don't 447 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: get embarrassed. It's like it goes back to what keeps 448 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 1: coming up as a theme lately for us on RURL, 449 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: it's like, uh, sometimes I would do things that I 450 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: didn't really want to do, you know what I mean. 451 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 1: And because I don't want people to think I'm a 452 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: bad person, I'm not a good friend, or I'm not 453 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: a or I'm not whatever. I just would have a 454 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: little bit of insecurity about having to prove that I 455 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: was whatever fill in the blank, you know, just like 456 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 1: I know I'm a good person. I do know that, 457 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: but you want other people to know it or think it, 458 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: And so I would be worried about letting people down. 459 00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: I guess it's the better question where is now? But 460 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: that's different. That's not an embarrassment. That's just like I 461 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: think it's just a character shift that I've just recently had. 462 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 1: So it's like similar, like I less care about making 463 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: people think I'm a good person, so I get likes. 464 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: You have less anxiety about letting people down. Yes, so 465 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: it is a thing that I have let go of 466 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 1: in a weird way. That's why I said it's a 467 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: little complex. It's like an offshoot of embarrassment. It sounds 468 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 1: like a small thing, but it's such a big thing. 469 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 1: It really has lifted a load off of me, Like 470 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: I am lighter because of it, Like I feel actually 471 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:42,199 Speaker 1: this big age, I actually feel lighter. And this just 472 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 1: happened like this past year. It's a new, brand new thing. 473 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 3: Do you think, though you like people, it's better that 474 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 3: you went through the phase of like caring though, because 475 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 3: it's like when you learn how to drive, Like you 476 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:52,360 Speaker 3: learn all the. 477 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: Rules, so then you become a master at them and 478 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 1: then you can break them a little bit. I feel 479 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 1: like if you didn't even reverse just been massholes. Yeah, 480 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: I don't care about anybody. Yeah, you know, I care 481 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: people too much, and then you have to like pull 482 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: back and save yourself first, right now, excitingly probably right now, 483 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: it's ably right. And as much shit as I talk, 484 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: I still care for sure. I still be like, oh 485 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 1: I heard that person's feelings, so we make sure they understand. 486 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 1: I still do that type of stuff. But I'm just 487 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: a little freer about taking care of myself first. It's 488 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: a small shift, a little baby shift makes a big 489 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 1: difference in life. That makes a big difference. No, just 490 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 1: the weight you carry, yeah, like if you carry that 491 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: weight all day, if you just if I have to 492 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: carry this deck of cards everywhere I go, right. And 493 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: then this year I learned how to take away this 494 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: many after you walk ten miles, that shit feels different. 495 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: I never want those cards again. I'm just saying, even 496 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 1: the light a little bit of a low it goes 497 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: sometimes it could go a long way. So I don't 498 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: know if that was too common. You know, this is 499 00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,960 Speaker 1: why I don't need to do. That's why I don't 500 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 1: need to be in the damn ball to when you 501 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 1: left with it. But you understand what I mean, guys. Anyway, 502 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 1: So in real life, what is the thing maybe you 503 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: could let go? Maybe there's the thing, What is the 504 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 1: thing that is weighing you down that if you just 505 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: take a little you don't have to o d and 506 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 1: lose it all? Like, what is the thing you can 507 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: just lighten the load on yourself a little bit about? 508 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Maybe that's something for you 509 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: guys to think about. What is something you could take 510 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 1: out of your backpack that you're carrying around all day 511 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: every day like that you don't need it. Shit you 512 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: don't need. I'm not saying get rid of stuff that 513 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 1: you need, responsibility, morality, things that you need in the backpack. Yes, 514 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 1: but maybe there's some things in that back like you 515 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: don't really need them and you could take it out 516 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: and enlighten your load. Maybe that's something that we could 517 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 1: think about. Got it this week? 518 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:46,919 Speaker 4: You know? 519 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: You see what I did there? Cringing around town. I 520 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 1: love a promo. That was great for a promo. Sorry, go, 521 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of mine that I could something 522 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: I could take, but figure it out in around time. 523 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: Right now, in real life is something you could take 524 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: out of your backpack. I'm not gonna got a buffer 525 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: on that. I like that for you. Anything else happened 526 00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 1: this week that we should review here? Oh no, I'm 527 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: excited about next week's episode. I will tell you that. 528 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: Who do we have? Next week? Cardi bus next week Carti? 529 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 1: I'm excited about for so many reasons. She's just such 530 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: a complicated little cookie. She's so like, there's so much 531 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: in that little tiny body of hers. There's like the 532 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,879 Speaker 1: super funny. She's like Carol Burnette, funny, like funny. I 533 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 1: know that's a very old school reference. Well insert for 534 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: Ryan does not even know who Carol Burnett is. No, 535 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: he does not know. I've literally only learned from her, so, 536 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,640 Speaker 1: you know, like Lucy Olleball. You know I love Lucy right, Yes, 537 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: it's like these are of that caliber of comedian I think. Yeah, 538 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 1: I think Cardi is funny like that to me, I 539 00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 1: think so. But also she's small, art and complicated. Yeah, 540 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:10,120 Speaker 1: and I don't know, has many facts I want to say, 541 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: like one foot in here and another foot here, but 542 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: it's like ten feet in different things and then different 543 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: personalities and in different worlds. You know, It's like, I 544 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: don't know how interesting she moves around such an interesting way. 545 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: The way she handled that core case was like different 546 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 1: than any other person that we would see in that 547 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: same situation. You know what I'm saying, Like nobody would 548 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 1: have handled that the way she did it with like 549 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: comedy but realness but wigs. No, I'm just being like, 550 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like all those levels like 551 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: why only Cardi is Cardi and so and yeah, so 552 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what the I don't even haven't even 553 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 1: wrapped my brain around what we're going to get into 554 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: that week, but I think whatever it is, it'll be great. 555 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited for this season of 556 00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: her life now where she's getting ready to put me 557 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: out and and she just seems like she's having fun 558 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 1: her on the sidewalk and Harlem or whatever, she was 559 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: selling seats in the street, like she's having fun. It's 560 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: like kind of like what we talked about. Oh my god. 561 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: This is a perfect example to bring a full circle 562 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: to the back to the beginning of this episode, and 563 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: she talk about how you deliver something and how you 564 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: roll something out, how it lands for people. Her energy 565 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: being out by my taste by everybody's like, oh go Cardi, 566 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: because it's fun and she's having fun and she's giving 567 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 1: it to us. This energy of that. If she was like, yeah, 568 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 1: my album, you know, trying to stress out the business 569 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: and the music industry, you know what I mean, it 570 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 1: ain't the same, and these two streams, you'd be like, Okay, 571 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: Cardi's albums coming out, cool, great, you would feel differently 572 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 1: about it. And the energy in which she has presented it, 573 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: the energy which she showed up in that court, just 574 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: it just draws you to her like she's she's really 575 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: to me, have I don't know, in a good space. 576 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: Her energy is like on that level. So hopefully we 577 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: can get into all that next week and yeah, you'll 578 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: meet us right back here. Oh and we did have 579 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: as we go out because we, like I said, we're 580 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: gonna be doing more of these, more of these, hopefully 581 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: with you guys. You can join us on these. We 582 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: did have a couple of people, a couple of I 583 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: r L fans. I don't want to call them the 584 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: fans listener, sounds crazy Iro family, Irol family that have 585 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: reached out and they went in the bowl. So we're 586 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: gonna leave you with that. On this week's Edge, Martina 587 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 1: is in real life. Hey guys, thanks for watching. Make 588 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: sure you subscribe, like comments, and check out all of 589 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: the other episodes we have on Edge Martinez IRL Podcast