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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Kat,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. How are you hi, Guys, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for having me. You know, well, we love it.

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Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone, trying to help you out,

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out if maybe you've been ghosted by

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Speaker 1: this guy Steve. How did you meet Steve? Tell us

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Speaker 1: about your dates that you've been on and what's happening

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Speaker 1: right now with the communication.

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Speaker 2: Sure, so it's pretty typical. We met on an app.

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Speaker 2: I met him on bumble. We started talking a bit,

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Speaker 2: you know, yes for my number. We texted for a while,

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Speaker 2: and then we went to dinner.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, you was a gentleman. He picked me up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had fun and he said we'd you know,

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Speaker 2: he'd hit me off afterwards, you know, after the date,

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Speaker 2: and then I never heard from him again.

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Speaker 1: Huh. All right. Yeah, and you look back on this date,

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Speaker 1: you know, I always ask this question, but you look

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Speaker 1: back on this date and you're like, hey, everything went well,

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Speaker 1: Because you know, sometimes at least if I go out

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Speaker 1: with someone and then the response afterwards is not that

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Speaker 1: great or a little bit distant, I start to think, like,

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Speaker 1: what did I well, what could I have done you

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Speaker 1: didn't do anything?

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, I definitely was trying to think back, like

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Speaker 2: did I put my foot in my mouth at anytime?

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Speaker 1: You know? Did I? But but it was pretty normal.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was not my best behavior, and I.

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Speaker 1: Thought it was good. Yeah, okay, all right, Well, let's

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Speaker 1: call Steve here in this a second and we'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get him on the phone. You'll be

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Speaker 1: on the phone as well, and we'll ask some questions

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Speaker 1: on your behalf. And you know, the hope here is

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Speaker 1: that we can straighten things out and then set you

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Speaker 1: guys up on another date that we paid for. Sound good, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that'd be great. Let's find out what's going on next

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Speaker 1: after Miley Cyrus, Part two of Waiting by the Phone

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Speaker 1: on The Freend Show. Stay here, Moley, It's the Freend Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks so much for waking up with us.

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Speaker 1: Almost an hour of commercial free fread show happening right now, Hey,

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Speaker 1: kat Hi, All right, let's call Steve. You guys, you

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Speaker 1: went on a date, you thought it went great. You

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Speaker 1: expected to hear from him again, but you haven't no

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Speaker 1: response whatsoever. See, you feel like you're being ghosted, as

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Speaker 1: one would, and you want to know why. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, well let's call him now. Good luck, Kat,

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Hi? This Steve. Hey Steve, good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the calls and okay

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Speaker 1: if we chat for a second. Okay, well, thank you

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Speaker 1: very much. I'm gonna say that as a yes, we're

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Speaker 1: calling on behalf of a woman named who I guess

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Speaker 1: you went out with. Do you remember Kat?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember Kat? Okay, Well, she said that she

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Speaker 1: had a great time on the date and was hoping

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Speaker 1: to see you again, but that you haven't responded to her,

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Speaker 1: reached out to her at all since the date. So

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Are you ghosting? My man?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I'm ghosting.

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Speaker 1: And okay, what did she tell you? She just said

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Speaker 1: that you guys had a great date in her estimation

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Speaker 1: and uh, and then she was hoping to see you again,

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Speaker 1: but you're not reaching out. So what's your version of events?

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Speaker 1: Because I even asked her anything weird ha, but she

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I mean, I mean I could say that

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Speaker 5: in theory she could be a nice person, but I've

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Speaker 5: never seen anything like this. She on her date when

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Speaker 5: I picked her up. She I found out like after

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Speaker 3: Conversations and shed her Apple AirPods in right, she had

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Speaker 3: during the day when I picked her up, right, and

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Speaker 3: so you know, I'm trying to talk to her and stuff,

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Speaker 3: a murder podcast that she's listening to, which which okay,

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Speaker 3: and so I thought I was like a, oh, okay,

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Speaker 3: like yeah, so I'm just trying, right, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I'm like, all right, well, I guess I'll just

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Speaker 5: take you to the restaurant. Then, you know, I'm trying

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Speaker 5: to be polite. When we get there. They're not even

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Speaker 5: immediately out. It went until like the like the waitress

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Speaker 5: came up to us that she took them out to uh,

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Speaker 5: you know order. So I'm just trying to like, okay, now,

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Speaker 5: can we be people?

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Speaker 1: I guess, so hold on and pick her up and

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Speaker 1: she's listening to this thing the entire drive to the restaurant,

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Speaker 1: and then all the way into the restaurant, and then

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Speaker 1: even when you sit down, does she have both in

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Speaker 1: or one in? I mean, what what is going on?

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Speaker 5: She only had one in, but I mean just listening

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Speaker 5: to something like the video game was on pause. You know,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, well, let me know when you're

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Speaker 1: Right, because you can't really have a conversation and listen

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Speaker 1: at the same time. Okay, so she's listening to a

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Speaker 1: murder podcast up until the time the waitress comes. Then what.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So then we're trying to become people again and

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Speaker 5: we start to chat. But even during the even during that,

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Speaker 5: she would use the restroom and she would take extra

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Speaker 5: long in the restroom. I don't know, this is conjecture.

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Speaker 5: I think she might have even been trying to like

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Speaker 1: So she either has IBS or she was taking breaks

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Speaker 1: to go listen to more murder podcast.

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Speaker 5: That's man, that's my theory. Because as soon as we're

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Speaker 5: done eating and everything, and basically you know, I had to.

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Speaker 1: Get up early.

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Speaker 5: I wish we could have actually hung out, hung out longer.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I had to get up early so I

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Speaker 5: can take you home. And she's like sure, and then

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Speaker 5: she just slips the earbuts back in on the drive home.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm just like so, I'm just like

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Speaker 5: a transport carrier, you know, just delivering cargo. I guess

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm just giving someone a ride.

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Speaker 1: We love a binging queen over here. But like, how

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Speaker 1: rude cat? What? I'm sorry, I've got to mention the

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Speaker 1: cats on the phone. I'm surprised you were able to

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Speaker 1: only have one in, just one, and I took them off.

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Speaker 1: You know, when the like started at the restaurant, date

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Speaker 2: I know, but you guys know what it's like when

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Speaker 1: You know, I was like super hooked. You can't wait

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Speaker 1: two hours. You can't wait two hours to meet a

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Speaker 2: I thought I only had like fifteen minutes left, and

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Speaker 2: I was going to talk about it with my friends

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Speaker 2: the next day. I was so close to find out

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Speaker 2: who the killer was.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, date because yeah, yeah, that's well, that took a

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Speaker 4: twist in real life.

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Speaker 1: We got to going. I mean, I guess we've all

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Speaker 1: been there, but I guess either cancel the date if

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Speaker 1: you're I mean, that's ruin in itself, but at least

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Speaker 1: don't or I don't know, maybe get in the get

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Speaker 1: to the end of this thing. Maybe you explain to

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Speaker 1: the guy the context and then put it on the

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Speaker 1: blue teeth. You guys listen together, anything else. If I

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Speaker 1: she puts headphones in, I mean, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what I'm doing there except I'm a glorified uber driver.

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Speaker 1: At that point, I only have the one in. We

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Speaker 1: we did interject a little bit back. And then you

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Speaker 1: want to know why this guy's not calling you? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god.

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Speaker 2: Look I should have asked him if he was into

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Speaker 2: that the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I know, well that would have been a start, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think. And then and then the dates over and

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Speaker 1: you just okay, I'll put the headphones back in and whatever,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why this guy's not calling you. Steve,

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Speaker 1: if she were to do like a like a air

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Speaker 1: bugs free date, would you consider it? Oh? Man, no,

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Speaker 1: I think I think you guys get it. Hey, you

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Speaker 1: know I didn't want to make.

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Speaker 5: This a thing, but uh no, no, thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm a very personal guy.

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Speaker 1: I gave you a chance to tell us everything, and

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Speaker 1: they never do. They never do. That's very rude. Kat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. At least you get acknowledge that, but after

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Speaker 1: six minutes of talking about it, because it sounds like

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Speaker 1: you were writing for it here for a little while.

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Speaker 1: But no, all right, look, Steve, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: I wish you the best. Cat, I wish you the

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Speaker 1: best as well.

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Speaker 2: All Right, I learned my lesson.

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Speaker 5: Thanks guys,