1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: What arever the cases I want to hear from you. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, Now, go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beat. 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: Or let cheekiss super. You are such an inspiration for 13 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: me and I was hoping you can help me with 14 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: the dilemma. So I just got engaged a few months ago, 15 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 2: and we're sort of kind of starty to go into 16 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: wedding talks, and there has recently just been such family 17 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: drama on my family and then also on my fiance 18 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: side of the family that honestly, I'm about ready to 19 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 2: just elope at this point. You know, I've always kind 20 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: of dreamed of a wedding and everything, and you know, 21 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: all the traditions like the dances and just the little 22 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: things that come with the wedding, you know, I would 23 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: hate to miss out on. But I just want to 24 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 2: hire a photographer, a lope and home. What a great 25 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 2: honeymoon because of hit them, you know. And weddings are 26 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 2: so expensive and we want to start a family suit 27 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: And I tell my fiance we can always just you know, 28 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: renew our vows and ten years, you know, and have 29 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: a wedding event. But I don't know. I know you 30 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 2: had a wedding, big wedding in the past, and I 31 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: know you're recently engeached too. Socials would dream you know 32 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: what you opinion is on the topic and what are 33 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: you planning to do? You can give us the details anyways. 34 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 2: I love you so much, thank you for all that 35 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: you do, and I hope God continues to bless you 36 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 2: for many, many, many many years to come. Love you bye. 37 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 1: All, Karina. I love you too, baby, Thank you so much. 38 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: May God bless you and your marriage. Congratulations on your engagement. 39 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: That is awesome. I totally get the stress behind a 40 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: wedding and planning a wedding, especially if this is your 41 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: first wedding. You want it to be perfect as a woman. 42 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: We want the dress and to have fun, but you 43 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: are right, sometimes the fiestas are more for other people, 44 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: so you have to be very careful. Like I don't 45 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: know where the drama is coming from. I don't know 46 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: if it has to do with the wedding or who 47 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: wants to be invited or not, or I don't know 48 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: where the dramas coming from. But if you have any 49 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: stress at all, it should just be for instance, because 50 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: you don't know what venue to choose, you know, not 51 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: coming from the family. I would tell you to always 52 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: remember that the most important thing is that this is 53 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,080 Speaker 1: for you and your future husband. This is a moment 54 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: for both of you, and it should be absolutely beautiful. 55 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: And that's one thing that Emilio and I told ourselves. 56 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: We want something smaller, intimate, people that we absolutely one 57 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: hundred percent trust. If anyone's gonna be there that I 58 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: would second guess, then they shouldn't be there. So that's 59 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: how I'm playing it, and I'm like, have they supported 60 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: our relationship from the very beginning. I'm not thinking of 61 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: anyone else's feelings but my own. It is my wedding. 62 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: I want to be happy that day and to senokan 63 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: and if they're not invited, then they should really be like, Okay, 64 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: well what did I do? And I get mad at 65 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: me because it's not about them. It's about us, you know, 66 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: you and I and your partner, you know what I mean. 67 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: So I don't have any details as of yet for 68 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: my wedding. I just know that it's going to be 69 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: a small, big wedding. That's all I can say. But 70 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: I did think about ay open girl, because because I'm 71 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: just like, can it just be you and I? Like, 72 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's going to be 73 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: you and I anyways for the rest of our lives, 74 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: and we could just have a little party, like go 75 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: Elope and then this is probably a good idea. You 76 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: can probably Elope, have like the ceremony, just Hugh and him, photographer, 77 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: the whole thing, and then just have a huge party 78 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: when you come back and be like, hey, guys, I 79 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: got married. Y'all want to come or not? 80 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 81 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: Like, what's up? 82 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: I don't know. 83 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: That's another idea because I've thought about it. Not even 84 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: gonna lie, so I get it. But I always remember 85 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: what is important, and that is that you and your 86 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: man are good. What do you guys want. Don't do 87 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 1: everything and pick things or places for other people. It 88 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: has to be what's best for both of you. Okay, 89 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: that is my best advice. Cart now, and thank you 90 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 1: so much for listening to the podcast and for your question. 91 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: I hope everything works out. So our next question comes 92 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 1: from Celia. 93 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 4: Hey, Chiky, So I just got out of a nine 94 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 4: year relationship and I just wanted to ask you how 95 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 4: I start thinking about myself, choosing me, moving on forward 96 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 4: and just trying to get out of this depression. 97 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: Oh, Celia, nine years, it's a long time, so I 98 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: get it. I don't know why the relationship ended. I'm 99 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: assuming it's for a good reason. And I think once 100 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:26,679 Speaker 1: you start seeing things in that way, like saying, okay, 101 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: if it didn't work out, it's got protecting me from 102 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: something and not only you, but maybe the other person, 103 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,799 Speaker 1: you know, I think this is your opportunity to focus 104 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: on yourself and not trying to put a band aid 105 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: on your wound. If not feeling all of these feelings, 106 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: like embracing the pain. Pain is a pastor promotion to 107 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: a better you. So feel it, don't ignore it, don't 108 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: try to trying to like say I'm going to find 109 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: someone else to kind of just take up my time, 110 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: and like, no, I'm telling you, I've done that way 111 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: too many times, and it's the worst thing that you 112 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: can do. You really have to take this time to 113 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: spend with yourself, to meditate, to do things that make 114 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: you happy, things that you weren't able to do when 115 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: you were in a relationship. Work out, go on bike rides, 116 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: read a book, go out with friends, spend more time 117 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: with family, go to church, anything that's gonna fill your 118 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: heart and your mind with something positive and make you 119 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: feel better more than anything. And focus on you. And 120 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:34,119 Speaker 1: you're gonna have sat days. Know that, And it's okay 121 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: to be sad. Let it pass. Don't let that day 122 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: or that moment turn into three days or a week 123 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: or too much. Be like, Okay, I'm gonna shake this off. God. 124 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: I trust in you, Universe, I trust in you san 125 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: Fils or whatever it is that you believe in. I 126 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: trust in you. And I know that you're gonna bring 127 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:53,559 Speaker 1: the right person to me. Let go and let God. 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: But this is your time to focus on you. Take 129 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: this as an opportunity, a great opportunity to grow and 130 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: prepare yourself for the person that you want to attract. 131 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: Think the person that I want next? Am I that person? 132 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 3: Am I? 133 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: The reflection? You have to work on yourself and become 134 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: the person that you're trying to attract in your life. 135 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you don't go and try to find someone 136 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: a booty car or anything like that. It's not going 137 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: to do any good. Been there, done that girl. Mmmm. 138 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: So that's my advice to you, and I hope it helps. 139 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: I'm sending you a big hug. I know it's tough, 140 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: but you got this. You got this, okay strength. Our 141 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: next question comes from Eric hete Tonay. 142 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 5: Hi is Eric with the eyebrows from Nashville. It was 143 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 5: so good to see you, so good to give you 144 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 5: a hugging. It was so fun to be with you 145 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 5: for some of your last concerts of thena tour party. 146 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 5: Those just wanted to give you an update. I know 147 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 5: I had asked a question, you know about therapy, and 148 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 5: I'm applying for a master's in social work and update. 149 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 5: I got into my dream program to study a master's 150 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:17,119 Speaker 5: in clinical social work graduate next May, and I'm super 151 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 5: excited and I graduate this May from my undergrad or 152 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 5: from my bachelor's degree. 153 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: Date, current name in an internship. 154 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 5: Right now, working undersaid the police, working with a lot 155 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 5: of people who experience a lot of crimes, and even 156 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 5: though I'm just starting, it's sometimes getting to the point 157 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 5: to where I sometimes see myself in some of the 158 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 5: victims crimes, and it's kind of hard to separate that work, 159 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 5: you know, go home balanced where I don't take that 160 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 5: home with me. I just wanted to know if you 161 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 5: have any ways that you whenever year, you know, when 162 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 5: you're out being you know, cheeky's out on stage versus 163 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 5: when you go home in your gine and you know, 164 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 5: like you say, you're in your sweats and your clothes, 165 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 5: you know, just chilling. You know, how do you what 166 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 5: do you like? What are your routine steps to you know, 167 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 5: separate that. Also wondering well, trying to look on your 168 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 5: website if you do scholarships and how to apply for them, 169 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 5: because I would love to apply for my last year's 170 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 5: school messles and I can't wait to see you again, Verry. 171 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: It is so nice to hear from you again. I 172 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: love your questions. First of all, congratulations, I am so 173 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: freaking proud of you. That is amazing. I always tell you, guys' 174 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 1: knowledge is power, and it makes me so happy and 175 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: so proud that you guys go to school, that you're 176 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: going to school, that you're getting your bachelor's degree. Honestly, 177 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: patch yourself on the back. That is amazing. That is 178 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: something that no one can take from you. So keep 179 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: that up. And I love your question because I am 180 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 1: an impath. I am a person that feels. I'm very intuitive. 181 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: I feel people's energies. In the beginning of my career, 182 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure what was going on with me, but 183 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: there were times where I was like, I'm fine, but 184 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: then I'd in a place and then I'd go home 185 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: and I'd be sad. Now what I do, and I 186 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: say this out loud almost every single day, I say, 187 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: I release any feelings, any emotions that do not belong 188 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: to me. I release any stresses, any worries, any insecurities. 189 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: Like it's just releasing. I also do something physical after 190 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: my shows or after my meet and greets, not because 191 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: anyone has negative energy, because obviously people that go to 192 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: my shows or my meeting grades love me and I 193 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: love them. But it's more of like we exchange energy. 194 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 1: We are energy. So for me. It's like I wash 195 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: my hands as a sign of like okay, letting my 196 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: hands run under the water, and I'm just kind of like, mentally, 197 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: it could all be mental whatever. People can say that 198 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: it's oh, it's just your yes, it's your mind. But 199 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: your mind is very powerful. So anyways, going back to that, 200 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: I just let my hands like let the water flow, 201 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: and I'm just kind of like meditating, like I'm releasing 202 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 1: any energy that does not belong to me. And I shower. 203 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 1: I make sure that I shower, and I like, I'm 204 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,080 Speaker 1: meditating as I'm showering, wetting my hair and I'm like, okay, 205 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: our hair holds a lot of energy. So anyways, I'm 206 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: very intentional with that where I'm like, okay, I'm fine 207 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: because I think with time, since you're starting off with this, 208 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: this is very early on in your career and you're 209 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: an intern, so you're going to learn all of this 210 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: with time. You're going to learn to navigate through the 211 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: emotions and not take things that don't really belong to 212 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: you home. But I'm an impact, so I can't help it. 213 00:11:24,559 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: So it's just it's a matter of just knowing, Okay, 214 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm here to help I'm going to put this to 215 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: the side. And what I've done is I've separated Cheeky's 216 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: engine and that helped me a lot. So I don't 217 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: know if you have like an alter ego, like maybe 218 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 1: you can make like an alter ego at work. I'm like, okay, 219 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: this is you know, Eric with the sea or I 220 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: don't know something, and then the Eric at home. It's 221 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: like you just kind of hang up your jersey from 222 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: work outside of the door and it's like a mental 223 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: thing and then you're like, okay, cool, I'm leaving that there. 224 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm leaving this at work and I'm just me. So 225 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: there are different things that you can do, and I 226 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: hope that helps. I hope I explained it correctly, But 227 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: you just have to be very like it's where I 228 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: protect myself. I am protected. I do that every day 229 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: and right before I go into a meeting, I protect 230 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: my mind, my heart, all that stuff. But remember I 231 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 1: release any feelings, any emotions that do not belong to me. 232 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: And also before I forget the second part of your question, scholarships. 233 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I used to do this a long 234 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: time ago, like in twenty fifteen sixteen, I was giving 235 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: out scholarships from Bosby Nation, and I haven't opened up 236 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 1: my nonprofit you guys, because you guys know, education is 237 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: huge for me and I want to give out more scholarships, 238 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: so I'm working on that. I don't give out scholarships 239 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 1: right now, but I do help with Bosby Nation still. 240 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: I have a boss By Nation, so I can definitely 241 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: figure something out. I'm going to see if you can 242 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: maybe send me an email to the email that's on 243 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: my Instagram. Just go there, press email, send me an email. 244 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: Let us know who you are, Kim. Really, My assistant 245 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: reads them and she'll let me know and I will 246 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: send you a scholarship. But send me your story and 247 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: tell me why you need it. Okay, I'm not just 248 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: be giving away money, you guys. Okay, I gotta this 249 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: is real. Send me a video and explain to me 250 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: and show me that you go to school and the 251 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: whole thing, which Eric, I trust you, but this is 252 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: just for you. Know you don't know what I mean anyways, Eric, 253 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: I love you, puppy. I love you, and I can't 254 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: wit to see in my next concert that a month 255 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 1: is tour was up. I'm so excited. Our final question 256 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 1: comes from Oh an anonymous listener. 257 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 3: Let's see, Cheeky's huge fan of All the Family, and 258 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 3: I was wondering if you will ever reconsider having a 259 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,959 Speaker 3: relationship with the rest of the family. All the reader 260 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 3: is again. 261 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you, mama, thank you for loving my family. 262 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. You know what, I'm a person 263 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: that's very forgiving. I'm open to having conversations. I think 264 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: conversations need to be had before starting a relationship. I 265 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 1: don't know if anything will ever be what it used 266 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: to be years ago. I don't know, but I'm definitely 267 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: a person that believes in forgiveness and asking for forgiveness. 268 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: If I need to ask for forgiveness because I know 269 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 1: that I probably have hurt people's feelings or I've done 270 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 1: things that I didn't even know I did that hurt 271 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 1: their feelings or said something. So I'm definitely willing and 272 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: open to it. I don't know if right now is 273 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: the time. There's so much going on and I feel 274 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: very happy and at peace and I want to protect that. 275 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: But if the time comes he said that, and everyone's 276 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: open to having an open and honest conversation, then absolutely, 277 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: absolutely Yeah, So thank you for your question. I appreciate 278 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 1: that well. 279 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 5: Guys. 280 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: This concludes this episode of Dear Cheeky's. I am so 281 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: grateful for each and every single one of you guys. 282 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: You have no idea. It's so soothing to my heart 283 00:14:56,400 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: to help you guys out feel like I am doing 284 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: and living my life purpose through you guys. So if 285 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: there's anything that I can do to help you, please 286 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 1: leave me your question. It can be about absolutely anything. 287 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: I will give you the best advice from the bottom 288 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: of my heart and you can leave me your question 289 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: at speakpipe dot com, slash Chikys and Chill Podcast. Thank 290 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: you guys for your questions and I love you. 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