1
00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,760
Speaker 1: This is the press show. Let's get you hotel a

2
00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:05,760
Speaker 1: trip for two to see Jennifer Lopez her brand new

3
00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,600
Speaker 1: Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up All Night Live in

4
00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,120
Speaker 1: Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six at the Coliseum

5
00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:17,239
Speaker 1: at Caesar's Palace dext Palace to three seven three three

6
00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,920
Speaker 1: seven right now for a chance to win two tickets

7
00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,440
Speaker 1: to the March thirteenth show at two Night Hotel Day

8
00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,919
Speaker 1: March twelve through the fourteenth at De Flamingo Hotel Casino,

9
00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,200
Speaker 1: Las Vegas and Brown Trever Fair. A confirmation text will

10
00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,120
Speaker 1: be sent. Dennered message and data rates may apply. All

11
00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,199
Speaker 1: thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are on sale now at

12
00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,640
Speaker 1: ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December thirtieth through

13
00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:47,239
Speaker 1: January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth. Welcome Wait, wait,

14
00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:54,040
Speaker 1: wait wait, it's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years.

15
00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,240
Speaker 1: This is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in

16
00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,120
Speaker 1: ten years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,

17
00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,240
Speaker 1: let's just mess with everything and see if they can

18
00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:07,080
Speaker 1: manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's show is on,

19
00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:11,120
Speaker 1: Not what's happening Jason Brown. It truly feels like this

20
00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:16,280
Speaker 1: week feels like that. It's like, let's let's just let's

21
00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:22,080
Speaker 1: just see what happens. You know, let's let's let's just Jason,

22
00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,960
Speaker 1: see what you come up with it. It's like you

23
00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:28,000
Speaker 1: have to be the maguiver of this place. It's like,

24
00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,000
Speaker 1: here's a piece of thread and some chewing gum and

25
00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,560
Speaker 1: a paper clip. Make an event with some of our

26
00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:41,480
Speaker 1: biggest executives. Go enjoy girl, Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's all right. Tuesday,

27
00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:45,240
Speaker 1: July fifteenth, Hi everyone, It's the Fred Show. Good morning Kaylin,

28
00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,080
Speaker 1: Good morning Jason Brown. Hi Paulina. I'm not sure what

29
00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,240
Speaker 1: that was about. Like I'm like the disapproving first grade

30
00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,120
Speaker 1: teacher Kiki Bella. I mean, is background vacation? Thank you

31
00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:56,280
Speaker 1: for the was it fig Jam?

32
00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,200
Speaker 2: She brought us big Jam.

33
00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,560
Speaker 1: Thank you for the preserves. I didn't realize I was

34
00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,520
Speaker 1: gonna get reserved today. A shovin Shelley is here. Two

35
00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,480
Speaker 1: fifty in the Showdown five questions, you can win and

36
00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,880
Speaker 1: get the money and yes, that's what I got for

37
00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,600
Speaker 1: you so far. We'll do Stairgo debates some relationship drama

38
00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,480
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. Of course, why does somebody get

39
00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,799
Speaker 1: ghosted this hour, the biggest stories of the day, and blogs.

40
00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,400
Speaker 1: Also the entertainmer Report, What are You working on?

41
00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,720
Speaker 2: K talking, a big Fox Sports lawsuit, as well as

42
00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:26,200
Speaker 2: unreleased Beyonce music and someone who is very naughty about it.

43
00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So this woman is on TikTok and she is

44
00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,600
Speaker 1: sharing with everyone the current state of dating in New

45
00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:37,120
Speaker 1: York City. This is apparently where people are at women,

46
00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,519
Speaker 1: I guess specifically trying to find a date.

47
00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:40,799
Speaker 3: Now.

48
00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,680
Speaker 1: I just want to say, and I'm going to be

49
00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,520
Speaker 1: that guy and I don't like to argue this way

50
00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,480
Speaker 1: or I don't like to, you know, position this way.

51
00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:52,000
Speaker 1: But if a guy did this, he's a total creep. Okay,

52
00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,520
Speaker 1: But apparently if a girl does this, then we're good.

53
00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,840
Speaker 4: Dating scene is getting so bad in New York City

54
00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,960
Speaker 4: that I am seeing on TikTok there are girls going

55
00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:05,799
Speaker 4: into Midtown during the week and stealing Finance Bros Salads

56
00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,280
Speaker 4: for lunch and then looking their name up from the

57
00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,560
Speaker 4: salad order on LinkedIn and then messaging them through there

58
00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,560
Speaker 4: and being like, hey, we got so sorry.

59
00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,320
Speaker 5: Grabs your solid Like, let me just make it up

60
00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,079
Speaker 5: to you and buy you a new one. And that's

61
00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,800
Speaker 5: how they're like sliding it, which honestly smart. Why are

62
00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,720
Speaker 5: we stealing men's salads like that's you have?

63
00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,720
Speaker 1: But we have no idea who this man is. I mean,

64
00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,280
Speaker 1: I guess you run, he's a finance I suppose it's

65
00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,440
Speaker 1: an end. But I mean, yeah, okay, But if I

66
00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:39,240
Speaker 1: grab you know, Jake chad Z's, you know, lunch, and

67
00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,600
Speaker 1: then I got to go home, and first of all,

68
00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:42,640
Speaker 1: it's a bad lunch. What if you're the guy who

69
00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,160
Speaker 1: he likes raisins and grapes in his salad and nuts

70
00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,520
Speaker 1: in his salad. He likes one of those kind of Waldorf.

71
00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,320
Speaker 1: You ever had a what was it called a Walldorf?

72
00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:55,920
Speaker 1: It's like it's like Mayo. No, it's yogurt, raisins, nuts

73
00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,280
Speaker 1: and marshmallows. You ever had one of those? It sounds

74
00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:58,800
Speaker 1: good to me.

75
00:03:59,040 --> 00:03:59,920
Speaker 2: There's marshmallows.

76
00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,240
Speaker 1: It's a sound that has yogurt and marshallows. I don't know.

77
00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:06,320
Speaker 2: Is it a waldor ie like ambrosia?

78
00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe, I don't know. What if the guy has

79
00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,680
Speaker 1: bad tastes a salad and he's an idiot and he's

80
00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,720
Speaker 1: not cute, and he's that cute, Now you got this

81
00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,480
Speaker 1: bad salad you stole it. You ruined somebody else's day

82
00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,600
Speaker 1: because their lunch isn't there.

83
00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,600
Speaker 6: Oh you're right, Waldorf. Sorry, okay, sure, thank you. I

84
00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,960
Speaker 6: didn't I've never had that. And and then I mean,

85
00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,000
Speaker 6: come on, like, I don't, I don't know. I don't

86
00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,200
Speaker 6: think this is a great strategy. I mean, what are

87
00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,080
Speaker 6: the odds that you're going to get a good looking

88
00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,719
Speaker 6: guy's salad who's single and receptive and it's a good salad.

89
00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,760
Speaker 2: It sounds like, yeah, well that that would be hard.

90
00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,880
Speaker 2: It sounds like they just want someone who makes a

91
00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,640
Speaker 2: lot of money. That's how desperate we're getting in New York.

92
00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:46,839
Speaker 2: This is very thirsty.

93
00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't know how I would respond

94
00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,640
Speaker 1: to this. I don't. I don't know especially respond well maybe,

95
00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,480
Speaker 1: but then if I found out, okay, so if it

96
00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,960
Speaker 1: were like an accident, because you know me, I'm into

97
00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,800
Speaker 1: the happenstance, you know, yeah, I I'm into like the

98
00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,440
Speaker 1: Hallmark movie sort of thing. So I still believe I'm

99
00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,040
Speaker 1: going to meet someone at an airport. I really do.

100
00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,200
Speaker 1: And you guys don't agree with me. But the airport's

101
00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:09,920
Speaker 1: are not only a horny place, but it's the kind

102
00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,640
Speaker 1: of place where you meet someone who's I don't know,

103
00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,120
Speaker 1: that's where that's where love stories begin. In the airport.

104
00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,279
Speaker 1: I believe this every time I go to the airport

105
00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,240
Speaker 1: get on a flight, I look around and I survey

106
00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,919
Speaker 1: my surroundings and I see what might be available to me,

107
00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,880
Speaker 1: you know, and what could be. There was a very

108
00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,159
Speaker 1: very hot girl that was one like I was on

109
00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,919
Speaker 1: the aisle and she was on the other aisle on

110
00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,520
Speaker 1: the flight back from South Paulo, Brazil. I don't know

111
00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,400
Speaker 1: what her story was. I never really got it. I

112
00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,800
Speaker 1: think language may have been a barrier there too, but

113
00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,640
Speaker 1: she was good looking. You never know, it could have

114
00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,919
Speaker 1: been that could have been missus Fred. Yeah you know,

115
00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,400
Speaker 1: I could have been said in Abuda got to her

116
00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:51,120
Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, you know, and chow chow all

117
00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:56,760
Speaker 1: the time. But anyway, what are the odds though that? Okay?

118
00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,800
Speaker 1: So I would get the LinkedIn message, I would be like,

119
00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,960
Speaker 1: this is so cute, Oh my gosh, she's good looking.

120
00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,680
Speaker 1: She got my salad first of all. I would never

121
00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,040
Speaker 1: it would have been like a gigantic sandwich or some

122
00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,760
Speaker 1: like four meals breakfast. I got your team's lunch. It

123
00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,360
Speaker 1: would have been like that was all for me, but anyway,

124
00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,040
Speaker 1: and then and then I would have I would have

125
00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,760
Speaker 1: been been this is so cute, and then we maybe

126
00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,600
Speaker 1: would have gone out, and then I would have gone

127
00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,760
Speaker 1: on TikTok and found out this is just something. It's

128
00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:23,040
Speaker 1: his strategy. It wasn't cute, it wasn't happenstance, it wasn't

129
00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,720
Speaker 1: meant to be. You wouldn't care how many times did

130
00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,359
Speaker 1: you do this, and you know, to come upon me,

131
00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,760
Speaker 1: and then I would I would find it less sincere

132
00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,360
Speaker 1: and I would be upset about it, right, because it's

133
00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,520
Speaker 1: it's just simply a game.

134
00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:36,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, they're gonna start locking up the salads now, like

135
00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,560
Speaker 7: at Walgreens.

136
00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,599
Speaker 1: Like the soap. Yes, yes I have my salad. Some

137
00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,359
Speaker 1: man has to come around unlock it and hand it

138
00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:43,599
Speaker 1: to me.

139
00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,800
Speaker 2: It's crazy, Yeah, learning for everybody.

140
00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't know. But if

141
00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:52,440
Speaker 1: a guy, if a guy did this and it wasn't

142
00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,320
Speaker 1: an accident, we would get killed. It would be gross.

143
00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's true. It would be gross. It would

144
00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,760
Speaker 1: be it would be thirsty, it would be gross, it

145
00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:06,000
Speaker 1: would be intrusive, it would it would be violating. And

146
00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,919
Speaker 1: maybe because maybe men have just made that reputation for

147
00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,920
Speaker 1: ourselves by being those things. And I'm you know, taking

148
00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,840
Speaker 1: not personally taking credit, but yeah, I think a lot

149
00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,480
Speaker 1: of nice things have been ruined for the guys who

150
00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,840
Speaker 1: are well intentioned. That's a good point, but yeah, I

151
00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:21,520
Speaker 1: don't think this would go over very well if if

152
00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:23,680
Speaker 1: dudes were doing this consistently. I think women would be like,

153
00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,560
Speaker 1: first of all, worth my salad, That's what I would

154
00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,480
Speaker 1: be mean about it. Yes, like that was a good

155
00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,680
Speaker 1: salad I ordered, and it was like twenty four dollars.

156
00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:33,160
Speaker 2: Yes, just out like we're very specific, keeking eye, but

157
00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,360
Speaker 2: what we want in there?

158
00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,480
Speaker 1: You know, I understand that. I understand it. One a

159
00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:39,480
Speaker 1: week and there and they're eighty four dollars.

160
00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:42,160
Speaker 8: Yes, on Tuesday is a salad day. And I take

161
00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:42,880
Speaker 8: that very serious.

162
00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,240
Speaker 1: That's what I mean because you had to save up

163
00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:48,400
Speaker 1: hoping right right in order to get it. But that's

164
00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,400
Speaker 1: what I guess. That's where we're at. Have you guys

165
00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,760
Speaker 1: ever done anything well? Jason's been dating the same person

166
00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:56,920
Speaker 1: for eighty seven years and he moved in correct, as

167
00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,120
Speaker 1: we learned yesterday in the in the tangent Are off

168
00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,840
Speaker 1: their Uncentried podcast, he is a U haul lesbian, I am,

169
00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:03,920
Speaker 1: because he went on one date and then lived.

170
00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:04,800
Speaker 9: There already had it packed.

171
00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,520
Speaker 1: But if you guys are being as well, and I've

172
00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,120
Speaker 1: probably I've definitely done things that would be defined now

173
00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,680
Speaker 1: as cringe but used to be considered cute or romantic.

174
00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,640
Speaker 1: And again I'm not blaming women for this, but I'm

175
00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:23,440
Speaker 1: saying I think guys have screwed up what what could

176
00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:28,440
Speaker 1: be a sincere gesture from a man, because because now

177
00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,600
Speaker 1: the perception is if a stranger talks to you that

178
00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,720
Speaker 1: that's creepy, which is a shame or or threatening or something.

179
00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,480
Speaker 1: But will any of you women admit, any of you

180
00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:40,640
Speaker 1: ladies admit that you've done something somewhat sort of stalker

181
00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:45,040
Speaker 1: ish or creepy, or like set yourself up to meet

182
00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,040
Speaker 1: the guy you wanted to meet. I mean, I'm wondering

183
00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,079
Speaker 1: if anyone wants to admit to this eight five, five, five, nine,

184
00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,080
Speaker 1: one one oh three five Have you ever like gone

185
00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,760
Speaker 1: to the same place he saw a guy at a place,

186
00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,120
Speaker 1: and then you went there every day for a week,

187
00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,920
Speaker 1: or to see if he shows up, or I don't know,

188
00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,920
Speaker 1: somehow position yourself in a way that he had to

189
00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:05,480
Speaker 1: bump into you, so you had to talk to him

190
00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,480
Speaker 1: or anything. Have you ever done something like this to

191
00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:08,800
Speaker 1: put yourself in a position?

192
00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,240
Speaker 7: I mean yeah, Like I like there was a DJ

193
00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:13,840
Speaker 7: thought that was cute, like back in the day, like

194
00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:14,600
Speaker 7: back in my do you.

195
00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:15,560
Speaker 1: Have a money mouth tattoo?

196
00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,400
Speaker 7: He did not have that tattoo, soffuse them, Yes, and

197
00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,280
Speaker 7: we did an idea. I'm actually about that yesterday with

198
00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,480
Speaker 7: the Mighty Mouse side one of our listeners hang out

199
00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:23,719
Speaker 7: with it.

200
00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,959
Speaker 2: Oh okay, it was really fun with him. No, no,

201
00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,720
Speaker 2: not him himself, but he doesn't have the internet in jail,

202
00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:30,600
Speaker 2: he has no act.

203
00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,120
Speaker 7: But like with the DJ, I thought he was cute,

204
00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:35,280
Speaker 7: so I would like go to the spots that I

205
00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,599
Speaker 7: knew he was DJing at and like nothing happened, but

206
00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,480
Speaker 7: I was like, hey, like you're kind of a cool DJ,

207
00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,280
Speaker 7: Like I don't know, I like your style, and that

208
00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:42,199
Speaker 7: kind of just went from there.

209
00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:45,800
Speaker 1: I figured out someone's schedule at a bar, and I've gone,

210
00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:47,960
Speaker 1: I haven't done this in a while, but I would

211
00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,040
Speaker 1: make sure that I just happened to stop in when

212
00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:53,959
Speaker 1: that person was there. It worked, Yeah, it definitely worked.

213
00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:56,520
Speaker 1: You never done something like this though, You've never You've

214
00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:59,560
Speaker 1: never I'm trying to think of another example of where

215
00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,880
Speaker 1: you you just make sure that somehow done something or

216
00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,160
Speaker 1: maybe you had to take some sort of creepy method.

217
00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,360
Speaker 1: We'll be defined as creepy today, but it worked well.

218
00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,079
Speaker 2: I've done things like this to Taylor Swift, Like I

219
00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,160
Speaker 2: befriended someone she went to high school with, just because

220
00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:15,400
Speaker 2: they went to high school together and.

221
00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,200
Speaker 1: You were hoping that you two would become friends.

222
00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,120
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I'm still in the process, so you're.

223
00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,760
Speaker 1: Befriending her, right, Yeah, okay, did you talk regularly?

224
00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we became online friends. She doesn't know why I'm

225
00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:25,920
Speaker 2: being her friend.

226
00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,760
Speaker 1: Well she does, now, okay, I don't know.

227
00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,760
Speaker 2: I've like had my makeup done and then on purpose,

228
00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,599
Speaker 2: like made sure I run into a guy, you know,

229
00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,160
Speaker 2: because you know, when you get a beat done, you

230
00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,520
Speaker 2: can't waste it. But that's like the creepiest thing I

231
00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:40,160
Speaker 2: can probably think of. But let me think, because maybe

232
00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,680
Speaker 2: I'll be creepier if I remember.

233
00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:45,079
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, I've probably looked people up on

234
00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:49,679
Speaker 1: social media and make sure, like I've definitely I've probably

235
00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,320
Speaker 1: friend I've probably found people on social media and then

236
00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,600
Speaker 1: just shot my shot by requesting them and I didn't

237
00:10:55,679 --> 00:11:00,839
Speaker 1: necessarily have like a reason to know to do, you know,

238
00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:03,160
Speaker 1: like I didn't. I didn't. I wasn't invited to do that.

239
00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,040
Speaker 1: So but my thing is either you're going to accept

240
00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,040
Speaker 1: it and then that might mean that you want some

241
00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,840
Speaker 1: form of interaction or you're not. But you have the choice,

242
00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:12,880
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like you have the

243
00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,240
Speaker 1: option to not friend me or not respond. I'll shoot

244
00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,520
Speaker 1: my shot one time. I don't care. Uh and now

245
00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,679
Speaker 1: sometimes it winds up on message boards, but I don't care.

246
00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,160
Speaker 1: I'll shoot my Well, that's another kind of crappy thing,

247
00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,880
Speaker 1: is you know, you shoot your shot and and then

248
00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,559
Speaker 1: you just if you don't want to someone to Sometimes

249
00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,800
Speaker 1: it works, sometimes it doesn't. Right, I've gotten responses, I've

250
00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,800
Speaker 1: gotten I've gotten non responses, But like I shot, you

251
00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,040
Speaker 1: know what I mean, because because when I was much younger,

252
00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:37,960
Speaker 1: I would not talk to people because I was afraid

253
00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,800
Speaker 1: of getting rejected. And I think now it's like oh yeah,

254
00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,400
Speaker 1: and then people will later brag like so so and

255
00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,160
Speaker 1: so yeah he slipped my DMS. I didn't respond. It's

256
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,280
Speaker 1: like that's not cool, like love to do that. It's

257
00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,240
Speaker 1: like a minute, if I'm not good enough to go

258
00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:51,679
Speaker 1: out with you. Why am I good enough for you

259
00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,679
Speaker 1: to brag that you shot me down right? You know

260
00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,319
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, why why would that be? Because him?

261
00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,079
Speaker 1: By the way, for every couple that don't work, sometimes

262
00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,120
Speaker 1: it works. So you know she did. But is that creepy?

263
00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,480
Speaker 1: Because I feel like you have the option. But some

264
00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,120
Speaker 1: of some would argue, you found me on the internet.

265
00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,760
Speaker 2: That's what it's for. I don't that that's not creepy.

266
00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,839
Speaker 2: Shoot on the internet all the live long day.

267
00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,719
Speaker 1: But I will say this, and guys I'm talking to,

268
00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:16,959
Speaker 1: no one who listens to this show would be this

269
00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,400
Speaker 1: way because everyone has taste, fine, fine discerning taste, yes,

270
00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,360
Speaker 1: But if you shoot your shot. If you find if

271
00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,959
Speaker 1: you see a cute person and you're resourceful and you

272
00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,000
Speaker 1: find them and you request them, that's it. If you

273
00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:32,240
Speaker 1: DM them one time, something very kind, not a picture

274
00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:36,480
Speaker 1: of your genitalia, like just be nice and respectful one time.

275
00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,160
Speaker 1: If you do not get a response, we are done.

276
00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,439
Speaker 1: We are done. We don't continue to write over and

277
00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:45,760
Speaker 1: over and then what we definitely don't do. This one's

278
00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,360
Speaker 1: a classic. I've seen this one on the interweb so

279
00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,960
Speaker 1: many times. Is once we we've written to several times

280
00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:55,400
Speaker 1: and really really like released all all forms of dignity.

281
00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,920
Speaker 1: Then we start dissing the person. Yeah, yeah, for not like,

282
00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:01,120
Speaker 1: oh you want that hot any way? I see this

283
00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,480
Speaker 1: with you guys all the time. They'll DM you guys. Hey,

284
00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, Kaitlin, they'll shoot their shot. Then you don't respond.

285
00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,400
Speaker 1: I see it on the text all the time. Oh

286
00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,240
Speaker 1: sweet Kalin, how I would love to do this. And

287
00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,160
Speaker 1: then and then you don't respond because you have a

288
00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:18,520
Speaker 1: boyfriend whatever. And then and then like three texts after

289
00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,840
Speaker 1: they're like, you're so hot, you're so smart, you're so good,

290
00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,000
Speaker 1: you know what, You're an ugly bee and I hate you.

291
00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:23,440
Speaker 10: Yeah.

292
00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:25,520
Speaker 2: I got me the other day for not answering like

293
00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,199
Speaker 2: fifteen messages. I'm like, I just saw these you a whole.

294
00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,520
Speaker 1: He's like, oh right right, so like let's be respectful,

295
00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,559
Speaker 1: you know. But it's funny how quickly you go from

296
00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:38,400
Speaker 1: being the woman of their dreams to a witch of

297
00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:44,200
Speaker 1: a human being, an awful heathen, is terrible person, Gabby,

298
00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,480
Speaker 1: what did you know? It's true? Though? Don't So if

299
00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,000
Speaker 1: we lead with oh sweet Klein, you know, and then

300
00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:52,959
Speaker 1: we shoot our shot, that's very nice. Good for you

301
00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,440
Speaker 1: and now maybe you'll get a response to maybe you won't,

302
00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,160
Speaker 1: but we are done.

303
00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,960
Speaker 2: I shot people downkind I don't want people to stop shooting,

304
00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,120
Speaker 2: so I try really hard to like all good, like

305
00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:04,920
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, I'm really flattered.

306
00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:07,120
Speaker 1: And the same is true with women to men, like

307
00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,360
Speaker 1: shoot your shot, be empowered, ask for what you want. Really,

308
00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,240
Speaker 1: but if you don't get a response, or if the

309
00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:16,840
Speaker 1: response isn't what you want, then then then we're done

310
00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,080
Speaker 1: and you did it and we're good. But then when

311
00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,320
Speaker 1: it starts to get into this debate or when it's

312
00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,240
Speaker 1: like no, but really change your mind and stuff, it's like,

313
00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,640
Speaker 1: oh boyd now hold on, like, don't do that to yourself. Okay.

314
00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:30,800
Speaker 1: If someone doesn't think that you're there for you or

315
00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,200
Speaker 1: whatever you're for them or whatever, then that's their loss

316
00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:34,760
Speaker 1: and we move right on and we shoot our shots

317
00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:40,040
Speaker 1: to the next person. Hey Gabby, yeah, Gabby, what did

318
00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,800
Speaker 1: you what did you do? You look somebody up? What

319
00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,160
Speaker 1: is this sort of creepy method that you used?

320
00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,040
Speaker 11: Now that I think, glad, it is creepy. But a

321
00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,600
Speaker 11: couple of years ago, I used to work for a

322
00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,040
Speaker 11: bank and I had a really good conversation with a

323
00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,600
Speaker 11: guy like he was just there for like a good

324
00:14:55,720 --> 00:15:00,720
Speaker 11: fifteen minutes, and when he left, I was like, man, like,

325
00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,200
Speaker 11: that was such a good conversation. I should have just

326
00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,320
Speaker 11: gave him my number, And then I didn't, so I

327
00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,760
Speaker 11: still had his profile up and I'm like, boy, I'm

328
00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:13,280
Speaker 11: going to shoot my shot, and I did, and it

329
00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,200
Speaker 11: was so weird because I was like, why did I

330
00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:19,000
Speaker 11: do that. He ended up texting me back and he goes, well,

331
00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,000
Speaker 11: this is like my dad's phone number or something, and

332
00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,320
Speaker 11: my dad told me and I was like so embarrassed.

333
00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,840
Speaker 11: But actually it worked because we ended up going in

334
00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,720
Speaker 11: a couple of days after that. But now that I

335
00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:35,160
Speaker 11: look back, I'm like, yeah, that was really weird for

336
00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:35,520
Speaker 11: me to do.

337
00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,600
Speaker 1: Technically, you could have gotten fired for that, right, because

338
00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,280
Speaker 1: you were using someone's personal information for your personal game.

339
00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:43,160
Speaker 11: True.

340
00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,520
Speaker 12: Yes, I guess there's like kind of like a line

341
00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:49,480
Speaker 12: of boundaries because but it works, so no, found right, Yeah,

342
00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:50,920
Speaker 12: I mean he could have like, I mean he could

343
00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:53,160
Speaker 12: have been like he could have been married or something

344
00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:54,960
Speaker 12: with kids, and like at the end of the day,

345
00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,800
Speaker 12: like could have been his wife who came to the

346
00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:57,840
Speaker 12: bank and been like, who is this.

347
00:15:58,080 --> 00:15:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, it could have been bad. But I

348
00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,280
Speaker 1: suppose you could have disguised it as oh, no, I was,

349
00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,560
Speaker 1: It's my job. I was checking up on his experience

350
00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,600
Speaker 1: or something like, you know, I was making sure or

351
00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:08,920
Speaker 1: hey he forgot something. You could have made something up

352
00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,520
Speaker 1: that was like official business.

353
00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:15,360
Speaker 11: Yes, yes, I mean okay it ended up well, but yeah,

354
00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:17,280
Speaker 11: definitely very odd.

355
00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:21,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well, fair enough, Thank you, Gabby, and you're welcome.

356
00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:25,960
Speaker 1: Have a good day. What someone do memorizing people's schedules

357
00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,720
Speaker 1: to make sure they're at work when you stop in?

358
00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:33,120
Speaker 1: Is the creepy way? I don't know, I say, is

359
00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,000
Speaker 1: that is it? I mean, I suppose my definition? But like,

360
00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:39,320
Speaker 1: am I being that? The part that the part that

361
00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,120
Speaker 1: people seem to miss is am I being creepy?

362
00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:41,560
Speaker 8: Like?

363
00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:42,880
Speaker 1: Am I actually being great?

364
00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:43,120
Speaker 5: Yes?

365
00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,160
Speaker 1: That is kind of creepy, I suppose, But am I

366
00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,800
Speaker 1: being creepy? Am I going every time? Or is it

367
00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,720
Speaker 1: just like, hey, I know she's here on Thursdays, I'm

368
00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:51,240
Speaker 1: stopping yin?

369
00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah every time would be a little much, but like, yeah, I'm.

370
00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,840
Speaker 1: There every if she works two to seven and I'm

371
00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:59,320
Speaker 1: there at one fifty nine every day? Right right?

372
00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,480
Speaker 2: My friend, one of my guy friends, met a girl

373
00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,040
Speaker 2: at a wedding, and it was an out of town

374
00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,639
Speaker 2: wedding and her parents were also there, and he remembered

375
00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:13,800
Speaker 2: when she just said her room number, and which is

376
00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:16,520
Speaker 2: very creepy. He was very drunk and knocked on the

377
00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:20,040
Speaker 2: door and she was saying her parents' room number. Her

378
00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:23,200
Speaker 2: dad answered no, no, shirt out and chased him down

379
00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:25,760
Speaker 2: the hallway because he was like looking for her in there.

380
00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,320
Speaker 2: You can't do that. You can't listen to somebody's room

381
00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:29,320
Speaker 2: number and knock on the door.

382
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,520
Speaker 1: This was a lot of years ago in our different town,

383
00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:33,560
Speaker 1: but it is. I was messing around with the girl,

384
00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,280
Speaker 1: and it was kind of more like a situation ship

385
00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:38,880
Speaker 1: before they called it that way back in the day.

386
00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,680
Speaker 1: And she was a bank teller, and I never went

387
00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,600
Speaker 1: to the bank where I didn't even know. I knew,

388
00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,600
Speaker 1: I knew which bank, I knew why she worked, I

389
00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,040
Speaker 1: didn't know which location. So this kind of goes on

390
00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,520
Speaker 1: for a while and then it stops and I'm through

391
00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,480
Speaker 1: drive through bank, and I drive through the bank and

392
00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,560
Speaker 1: there she is. She's the teller, and I was like

393
00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:57,680
Speaker 1: making a deposit or something. I'm like, oh, hey, whatever,

394
00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,760
Speaker 1: your name is whatever, and then we do the deal

395
00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:01,159
Speaker 1: and she kind of looks at me, and we did

396
00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,679
Speaker 1: a deal and then I leave and then I get

397
00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:07,080
Speaker 1: this text from her. You know you sob you terrible person.

398
00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,440
Speaker 1: You didn't tell me you were married. I cannot believe you.

399
00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,680
Speaker 1: You know I've been having an affair this whole time.

400
00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,320
Speaker 1: I knew you. I knew that it was whatever. I go,

401
00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:17,640
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Well, I've had the same

402
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:19,840
Speaker 1: bank account since I was eight years old. My mom

403
00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,920
Speaker 1: is a co signer, or was a co signer, and

404
00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:24,760
Speaker 1: we have the same last name because I have her

405
00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,320
Speaker 1: maiden name is my legal last name. So she saw

406
00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,440
Speaker 1: my mom's name on my bank account and thought that

407
00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,240
Speaker 1: was my wife and lost your mind. I go, one,

408
00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,760
Speaker 1: why do you snoop it through my profile? And two,

409
00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,720
Speaker 1: this is why we don't make assumptions. It's my mom.

410
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,760
Speaker 1: My wife has a different last name. Fred's show is

411
00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,000
Speaker 1: on Fred's The Biggest Stories of the Day. Now, the

412
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:49,520
Speaker 1: gym one is pretty common. So if I go to

413
00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:53,920
Speaker 1: someone's work, if I find out their schedule and I

414
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,040
Speaker 1: show up occasionally when they're working because I want the

415
00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,840
Speaker 1: exposure to them, that's creepy. But I know a lot

416
00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:00,720
Speaker 1: of people will try and figure out when people work

417
00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,440
Speaker 1: out and then they'll show up at the same time

418
00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 1: and work out the only thing and apparently that's not creepy.

419
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,560
Speaker 1: It's the same level of it. Creepy is not the word.

420
00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,240
Speaker 8: Do women like being approached in the gym?

421
00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:10,479
Speaker 5: Now?

422
00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:13,040
Speaker 1: That would be my second thing is how many you know,

423
00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:17,080
Speaker 1: how many people men or women are prepared to be

424
00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,040
Speaker 1: approached at the gym? And a lot of people don't

425
00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,880
Speaker 1: wear their rings when they're at the gym because they're

426
00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:23,960
Speaker 1: working out, so you don't you know, that's usually my tell,

427
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,359
Speaker 1: but you don't know. And then it's like, I'm working out,

428
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,879
Speaker 1: I haven't showered, I don't look that good. Now, some

429
00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:31,440
Speaker 1: people go to the gym to meet someone, but you

430
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:32,680
Speaker 1: don't know the difference.

431
00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:37,240
Speaker 8: Way these gym outfits are set up, the little leggings

432
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 8: that you know, tighten everything on your body and show

433
00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 8: off every curve. Yeah, it's like I think some people

434
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,920
Speaker 8: really go for that reason, like look at.

435
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,119
Speaker 1: Me, Yeah, that's why I know, that's why you go.

436
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, But Kiki wears the boots with the fur

437
00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,119
Speaker 1: and actually Kiki is one of the few people I

438
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:58,160
Speaker 1: know who works out in denim, which is make Yeah.

439
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,439
Speaker 1: My trainer has been asking me about that, Like, how

440
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,120
Speaker 1: does she how is she able to stay so fit

441
00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:04,880
Speaker 1: in full denim head to toe?

442
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 8: It is hilarious.

443
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 1: The flexibility is incredible. It's not a moisture, you know,

444
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 1: Is it a breathable fabric? I don't know. I don't

445
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 1: think of No, no, I don't think so. Headlines, guys,

446
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 1: the Northeast is under flooding a flooding threat as storms

447
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 1: rolled through. Roughly fifty million people across the Northeast are

448
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 1: dealing with floodwatches with the risk of severe flash flooding

449
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,160
Speaker 1: in some areas. Major cities like New York City, Washington,

450
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 1: d C, and Baltimore are facing flash flood warnings. Video

451
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 1: from Manhattan shows floodwaters rushing into a subway station as

452
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 1: passengers boarded the train. NYPD Transportation released the statement on

453
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,480
Speaker 1: X saying that flooding would cause delays. Up to five

454
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:46,480
Speaker 1: inches of rain has already fallen in parts of northern

455
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 1: and central New Jersey as well. They were brief ground

456
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:52,120
Speaker 1: stops at New York airports yesterday, So flooding all over

457
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 1: the country. Elmo got hacked on X. Oh no, no,

458
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:56,479
Speaker 1: this is terrible. If you saw some of the things

459
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 1: Almo was saying, yeah. Now, I think I would have

460
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 1: pretty quickly realized it wasn't Elmo, because the Almo I

461
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 1: know wouldn't say somebody things. But Elma was definitely not tickled.

462
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 1: Almost verified ex account, which has more than six hundred

463
00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 1: and fifty thousand followers, was taken over by an unknown

464
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 1: hacker on Sunday. In a short burst of posts, the

465
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 1: hijack account shared anti semitic slurs, racist language, and strange

466
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 1: comments about former president well current President Donald Trump, and

467
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein. This is former president unless something happen I

468
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: don't know in the last hour, all written in Elmo's

469
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 1: usual third person style. Well, that was nice. They were

470
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:34,960
Speaker 1: able to adapt it to the way that Elmo would

471
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 1: say it. Elmo is anti Semitic, Elmo is raising No,

472
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 1: he's not, He's terrible. ABC News in Sesame Street are

473
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 1: reporting that this is disgusting and does not reflect Elmo's values.

474
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: So they were able to take the account back and

475
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: it wasn't really him. A lot of officers who are

476
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 1: doing this. Starbucks is the latest telling its office workers

477
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 1: to spend more time at their desks or take a buyout,

478
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 1: as the company pushes to revive lacking sales and restore

479
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: its in person culture. Starting in October, employees must be

480
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: in the office at least four days a week. The

481
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 1: CEO Brian Nichol, who was the former CEO of Chipotle,

482
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: he was the guy who was telling everyone to do

483
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: the head nod. When you can remember this, it was

484
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: like a year ago, maybe it was a little longer

485
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 1: than that, but he'd say, you know, if you want,

486
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: he's kind of a good looking guy and he was

487
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: making videos and do interviews. He was like, you know,

488
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 1: if you want a little more, a little more salsa,

489
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: a little more pico, just you know, just give him

490
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 1: a head nod. So people were going to and be like,

491
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: I'll take a little more guacamole. Would like the wink

492
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 1: and the head nods. And that was his advice though,

493
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: so he says that you need to come four days

494
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 1: a week, or you can take a voluntary buyout, which

495
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 1: includes a cash payout if you opt to leave. He

496
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 1: framed the decision as an attempt to rebuild Starbucks in

497
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: person culture, arguing that face to face collaboration fuels creativity

498
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: and quicker problem solving, qualities he says are essential as

499
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: the company seeks a turn around. We do our best

500
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 1: work when we're together. Now, this guy got the ji.

501
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: I think he makes one hundred million dollars a year

502
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 1: I saw the other day, so he's getting paid pretty well.

503
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. And then I remember when he got

504
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: the job. He lives in California, but the headquarters is

505
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: in Seattle, so the company flies him on a jet

506
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: so that he can get to work. I don't know

507
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: if it's every day or every couple of days, but

508
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 1: part of his agreement with the company was, I'll you

509
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,120
Speaker 1: can open me a little office in California, so I'm

510
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 1: in the office, and then they fly him on the

511
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: corporate jet to Seattle. Yeah, so I don't I don't

512
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 1: know how that's gonna work if he needs people to

513
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,160
Speaker 1: be in the unless he's counting his California office the office,

514
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: I think, you know, collaboratively, he probably needs to be

515
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: in the Seattle headquarters. So I don't know if that

516
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,199
Speaker 1: means he has to move now or they're just going

517
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 1: to fly him in like you know, the rest of

518
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: us drive every day.

519
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 8: That's insane.

520
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: But I would imagine that there's some employees using that

521
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 1: as an argument, like wait, a minute, Brian.

522
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 8: Where's yourfice?

523
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 11: Right?

524
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly, But this is beginning to happen a lot

525
00:23:55,400 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 1: of places, Amazon, JP, Morgan, Chase, Google, Walmart, They're all

526
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: rolling back their pandemic era flexibility. India's government is seeking

527
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: to limit the temperature settings of new air conditioners to

528
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 1: save electricity in the country that is considered the fastest

529
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: growing market for them. The Power Minister proposed to rule

530
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 1: in June requiring that air conditioners sold in the country

531
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: have thermostats that can be set to no lower than

532
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: sixty eight degrees. So here's my question. I mean, sixty

533
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: eight that's pretty low. If as the low as it goes,

534
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: we'll really get that cold, I would wonder. But then

535
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: you know, what if I want sixty What if I

536
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: want sixty five? What if I'm in a hotel room? Now, look,

537
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 1: I realized it's extremely wasteful. But the first thing that

538
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 1: I get it we're trying to save the environment here.

539
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: But the first thing that I do when I check

540
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: into the Marriod is go all the way down as

541
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: far down as it will go, all the way down,

542
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: sixty five, sixty four, whatever it is. I mean, we're

543
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: making that thing in ice box. That is part of

544
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: the luxury experience is I can turn that thing all

545
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: the way down. That little thing will get so quick,

546
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: go to Vegas all all the way down.

547
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 9: That Yeah, because it's hot, yes.

548
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: But sixty eight, I mean it's sixty eight going to

549
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:07,120
Speaker 1: be cold enough.

550
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 9: But my house is at seventy and it's fine all

551
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:12,120
Speaker 9: the time.

552
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: Seventy Yeah, you sleep with seventy degrees cold and we

553
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: have the fan on.

554
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 9: Yeah, fez there, I'd.

555
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 1: Rather work, Denim, you sleep at seventy degrees.

556
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 9: I just chocked at seventy right now?

557
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 8: When is yours?

558
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 11: Fred?

559
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm scared as low as it will go, like sixty

560
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: five ish. Well, that's not true because that's tactically probably

561
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: bad for the air conditioner. I think I said it

562
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: at sixty seven. Okay, it doesn't get that, but it

563
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: doesn't get that cold because you know it's so hot outside.

564
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: They tell you can get maybe twenty degrees out of

565
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: your air conditioner from the outside temperature. Got it twenty ish.

566
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: So if it's ninety and if I can mean so,

567
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: if I put it at sixty seven, I know it's

568
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: working like that, but I can you know, I can't

569
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: get my house to do. But it needs to be

570
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: cold at not in the sleepy time. It needs to

571
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: be cold. There is nothing worse than hot sleeping. I'm sorry,

572
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: that is a that would relationship ender you are trapped.

573
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: If I met someone they're like, oh no, seventy degrees

574
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: seventy two. Absolutely, I'm sorry, nice meeting you. I'm gonna

575
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: go back to the gym now and creep on somebody

576
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: else and find somebody else that has you know, that's

577
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: not that's a human and that some form of robot.

578
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: Because my thing about sleeping is if it's if it's

579
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: cold and you're in the bed, you can warm yourself off.

580
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: If it's hot, there is no reprieve, there's no way

581
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: around it.

582
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: You're supposed to sleep in cold. It's better for you.

583
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: Thank you. Well, this is and that's why I do it.

584
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: But this is no this is this is not something

585
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: I could negotiate on, Like this would be the end

586
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: of a relationship for me.

587
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 10: Yeah.

588
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 8: And that's a bill that I don't even think twice about, Like,

589
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 8: just throw it in a bag. The bill can be

590
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 8: one hundred thousand dollars. At this point, I don't care,

591
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 8: Like I'm not thinking twice about it. I'll figure it out.

592
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

593
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 8: But for some reason growing up like that was a

594
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 8: thing in the house, like don't touch to.

595
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: A c Like are you right now?

596
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 8: Oh you can't either.

597
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 9: I have to wait till it's eighty degrees in the

598
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 9: house to turn the air on. And then I text

599
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 9: Mike and I'm like, the dogs are really hot, like

600
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 9: the girls are panting. I think they're like really hot.

601
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 9: We should probably turn the air on. So he wants

602
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 9: it even hotter. Well, he's like, I work in the

603
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 9: heat all day, Like why do you guys get to

604
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 9: sit in there?

605
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 2: My design?

606
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 9: But once it goes on, it's on, like the whole summer.

607
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 9: It never comes off. So I'll take I'll take seventy.

608
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: Mechanic had to go to school uppeal both ways in

609
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: the snow, yeah, lord. And mental health experts reveal why

610
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: some people cannot help being late to everything. Paulina he late.

611
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: Experts say it might not be laziness, but a condition

612
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: called time blindness, and that's where people genuinely struggle to

613
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: estimate or manage time. It's linked to eighty HD and

614
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 1: other conditions like autism, OCD, depression, and anxiety. It's an

615
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: executive function issue affecting parts of the brain like prefrontal

616
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 1: cortex and cerebellum. Common sciences include underestimating task durations, frequent lateness,

617
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: and difficulty switching between activities. How to cope, experts say

618
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:06,959
Speaker 1: using timers, building consistent daily routines, breaking tasks into smaller steps,

619
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: and setting external reminders all methods proven to reduce lateness.

620
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 2: We were just talking about this this morning.

621
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 11: You have it.

622
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: You have time blindness.

623
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 13: I do.

624
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 7: I'd like to call it running on Mexican time. Like

625
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 7: when you do you know you're going to be an

626
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 7: hour late. You tell everybody to come at three because

627
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 7: the party's really at four, because you know everyone's going

628
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 7: to walk in at four.

629
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,639
Speaker 9: You have a problem switching between tasks, like you're switching

630
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 9: all the time.

631
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: I also except you forget to return to the previous task.

632
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: So there's that. You know, you you can pivot, but

633
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: it's sometimes going on.

634
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 2: Do things guys done?

635
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 10: Though?

636
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 8: Are things I think functioning? Can you hear us O

637
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 8: right today?

638
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

639
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 7: I'm currently no hear us No, It's true. Yeah, I'm

640
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 7: working on me. But I have add I got the

641
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 7: whole thing. I got all those probably I'm working on me.

642
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: If dinner's at seven thirty, we expect to see Paullin

643
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: at eight fifteen.

644
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 11: It just is.

645
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: It just is correct, So so we don't even. But

646
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: the thing is, if I told you was eight teen,

647
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: you show at nine. So like the whole thing about

648
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: I'd have to tell you is a five for you

649
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: to show up at something.

650
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 2: Oh that's what I meant.

651
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 1: Yes, it has to be the other way.

652
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, And I think I'm getting a little tiny better

653
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 7: just because every kid.

654
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, a little tiny better because ever since.

655
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 7: Having a child, I feel like, you know, we got

656
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 7: to get to things, appointments, and I can't miss though

657
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 7: it was like baby stuff.

658
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: So I'm like, you know what, I like being on

659
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: time now it's my new personality.

660
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: My issue is not that I want to be late

661
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 1: or that I am not considered considerate of other people's time.

662
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: My issue is I don't I don't want to be

663
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: so early that I feel that I'm wasting time. I

664
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: want to arrive when it's time.

665
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: That's how I feel.

666
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: I don't like being somewhere ten minutes early and then

667
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: just standing around waiting. I feel like and then I

668
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: can I can't do anything like I'm not being productive.

669
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 1: So I try and do like one more thing, like oh,

670
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: that wall needs to be painted. I got ten minutes,

671
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: I can, you know, Like I try and do one

672
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: more thing at home. But the problem is, you know

673
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: you it could take in a big city, it could

674
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: take the ten minutes that you that you think it's

675
00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: going to take to get there, it could take thirty.

676
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: And so sometimes I'll just cut, I'll just split the

677
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: difference and say, Okay, I'm gonna get myself fifteen, and

678
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: then it still takes thirty, you know what I mean.

679
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Like I never seem to hit it right, but I'm

680
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: always about five minutes late. I feel like to like

681
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: dinners and things in the evening because I'm trying to

682
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: get one more thing done.

683
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 8: Yes, that's like me joining a teams meeting or a

684
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 8: zoom meeting. Like I'm not joining early, bro, I'm not

685
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 8: doing the whole.

686
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 9: I just want to talk to you for so h forgot.

687
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna give it a couple more minutes to

688
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: make sure everybody joins nothing. There's nothing more desperate sounding

689
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: than that. Let me just give this a couple more minutes,

690
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: hoping people show up some meaning We're just gonna give

691
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: everybody a couple more minutes. Okay, Well I should have

692
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,239
Speaker 1: come out. I should have commented seven o four. Then

693
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: if we're gonna give but a couple more minutes, But

694
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: then if I come at seven oh four, we didn't

695
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: give everybody a couple more minutes, and the meeting has

696
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: already started. Now I'm late. M M. You see, this

697
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: is the story of my life. Favorite report is on

698
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: The Fresh Show at this one.

699
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 2: Host Joy Taylor has been dropped five Fox Sports after

700
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: being named in a very high profilei sexual battery and

701
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 2: harassment suit filed by a hairstylist, and that hairstylist is

702
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 2: accusing her of dismissing her claims against ex executive Charlie Dixon,

703
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,640
Speaker 2: telling her to quote get over it when she confide

704
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 2: it in her Fox also canceled three shows that she

705
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: was involved in, but Joy has denied all allegations. The

706
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: accused executive, Charlie Dixon, was already terminated, and sports commentator

707
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 2: Skip Vayalis, also named in the suit, has denied any

708
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 2: involvement and actually a year ago he said he quit,

709
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: but now we're learning that he was fired. So there's

710
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 2: a lot of moving parts and a lot of things

711
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: going on. But if you saw that trending, that is

712
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 2: what's going on with all that mess. Unreleased Beyonce music

713
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: was stolen in Atlanta after people broke into her choreographer's car,

714
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: grabbing flash drives with songs, tour footage, and setless The

715
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 2: break in happened outside of a food market while Beyonce

716
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: was in town for her Cowboy Carter tour. Cops tracked

717
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: a suspects car and issued a warrant, but no arrests

718
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 2: have been made yet. The hard drives also contain stuff

719
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: like future set lists for her tour, all and stuff.

720
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if someone's gonna get fired over that.

721
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: Why are we keeping that in our car? It feels

722
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: like that needs to be kept somewhere else.

723
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 8: And I don't know if it's all of those things

724
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 8: because I feel like Beyonce is very selective. It's our files.

725
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 8: I'm like, she carries our files.

726
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I'm surprised all of our show

727
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: ideas in the car. So if you know, our competitors

728
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: go ahead and break in there and take them.

729
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know.

730
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: I to take them out of the car because they

731
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: probably will break in and take them.

732
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean do the same show. Oh yeah, well,

733
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 14: good luck to them, go ahead and try it. Maybe

734
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 14: that's what happened. Maybe they broke into my car and

735
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 14: I took all of our ideas. Yeah, I probably shouldn't

736
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 14: keep them all written in a notebook, says all of

737
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 14: our ideas.

738
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 8: Ye do not open secret.

739
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 2: It was one of those like pink diaries that we

740
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 2: have in the nineties that you could just pick a

741
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: bobby pin.

742
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

743
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 8: It had a lot my Princess diary the front and

744
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 8: really quick.

745
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: Lastly, actress Suki Waterhouse was hospitalized after a pair of

746
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 2: pants were so tight they gave her a hernia. And

747
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 2: I feel you, girl, because remember when my leggings I

748
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 2: dislocated three ribs just trying to put on leather leggings.

749
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: She said that it happened when the pants constricted her abdomen,

750
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 2: leading to her having to go to the emergency room,

751
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 2: and she emphasized being more cautious with wardrobe choices going forward.

752
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 2: If your pants are so tight they're causing a hernia

753
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: and she's tiny, like, it's time for some new pants,

754
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 2: baby girl. And lastly, if you want to enhance her

755
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: listening experience, or you know, just see what we look

756
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: like today. You can go to YouTube and type Fred

757
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: Show Radio and we'll be live on and off throughout

758
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 2: the show.

759
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,479
Speaker 1: All right, I want to hear Kiki about your sudden

760
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: need for responsibilities. Yeah, they talk better than you are,

761
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: the radio blogs on the Freadh Show. What's interesting though,

762
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: is that you you are like at work, you're so responsible,

763
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: it's weird. So responsible. But then when it comes to

764
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: things like paying bills, yeah, not so much. Take it away.

765
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 8: All right, Well, dear blog, you know I specialize and

766
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 8: protecting my piece and picking.

767
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: The stressors by just not paying people.

768
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 8: But okay, yeah, like I will work hard to get

769
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 8: the money. What happens after I get it? That's between me,

770
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 8: Like I just got to figure that out.

771
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: It's between you, between the left and right of you.

772
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: Who's it? Between you and you?

773
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 8: Between me and me? Because you know, Kaitlin has been

774
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 8: warning me about this student loan that for years now, Joe,

775
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 8: I've really been thinking that it's just a joke, Like

776
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 8: Jason's always saying, like, you know why I gotta pay

777
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 8: my bill, I gotta pay my student loans.

778
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: And Jason Jason's we're all always saying that.

779
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 8: God, He's like, can I get for a coffee? Because

780
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 8: I had to pay my student loan And I'm just

781
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 8: looking at him, like, why are you doing that? Bro

782
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 8: buy the coffee?

783
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: So Kik, He's like, why are you so broke? Turns

784
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: out Ky hasn't paid a bill in three years. O.

785
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: It's not an invitation the.

786
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 8: Hard way, y'all. I learned the hard way because it's

787
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 8: something going on in the government.

788
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: Now, is that right?

789
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 8: Don't say with credit scores. Now, I know what's going on.

790
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: They're messing with them. Yes, it turns out if you

791
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: don't pay your bills, your credit score goes down. There's

792
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: something in the government, like the sock market.

793
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: Mind lef from like a good one all. I was like, oh,

794
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 2: they're not playing They're.

795
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 8: Not playing with me. And I was like, you know,

796
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 8: I'm walking around thinking that I'm that girl. You see.

797
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 8: I think I'm any job I can get, like I'm

798
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 8: going to make this money, man, But I'm not that girl.

799
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 8: My credit score right now is not that girl.

800
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: So that might be the Kiki. That might be the

801
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 1: one thing that has nothing to do with the government

802
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: that's entire we can complain about some anything that has

803
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: one hundred percent to do with youth. I thought I

804
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: was that girl I had to pay my bills. I

805
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: thought it was that girl.

806
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 8: So finally I had to call the number, and I

807
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 8: called and you know, the guy was so nice.

808
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: You called the guy.

809
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 8: The guy his name is Nailed Net and he was

810
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 8: so nice and he was walking me through all my

811
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 8: options't been looking for you for years. She turned herself

812
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 8: in the.

813
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: Most wanted. He got a bounty bonus to me through everything.

814
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 8: And long story short, I'm going back to school in

815
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 8: a couple of months because I'm not paying to I'm

816
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 8: going to get an art degree.

817
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,439
Speaker 1: If you just keeping so, if you just keep going,

818
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: you don't have to pay.

819
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, He's like, he's like, okay, these are your options.

820
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 8: He went down the payment He's like, this is a

821
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 8: payment plan because you have a job and I can

822
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 8: see what you're doing over there. Oh no, I said,

823
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 8: we can't do that payment plan. I said, what's the

824
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 8: next option? He said, well, are you thinking about going

825
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 8: back to school? So it said, as a matter of fact,

826
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:06,399
Speaker 8: I am, It's funny you mentioned that. Oh yes, I'm

827
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 8: going to get my art degree.

828
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 1: Wow, you've been talking about that basket weaving master's degree

829
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: for some time.

830
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 14: Now.

831
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're finally pursuing your dreams.

832
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 8: I'm out here, man, that's what I Hey, I gotta

833
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 8: do what I gotta do. It's an American way and more. Yeah,

834
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 8: more debts, more degree.

835
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: That's a racket I didn't know about. So Jason, you

836
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: could just keep going to school and then avoid the.

837
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 15: Whole thing forever, this course together, Jason, Wow, so yeah wow,

838
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 15: but no, for real, for real, I am now on

839
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 15: a plan.

840
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,280
Speaker 8: Okay, I will too be scraping for coffee Jason.

841
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 9: Girls here.

842
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,479
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's real out here, man, I got sugar, daddy.

843
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 2: Are you done with the toll plan that we're on?

844
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 8: So the toll plan is still it just happens, not

845
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,919
Speaker 8: a lot of plans. I don't even see the toll plan.

846
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 8: I don't think I'll ever be done planning to pay

847
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 8: in the Illinois tollway. Shout out to them. But that

848
00:37:59,560 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 8: made me.

849
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: You're driving on it, so it doesn't work the same way.

850
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: It's just keep going to school. It doesn't quite work out.

851
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 1: More Fread Show Next, This is the Fread Show. Let's

852
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: get you Hotel, a trip for Tunis Jennifer Lopez her

853
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 1: brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez Up All Night

854
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six at

855
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace dext Palace to three seven

856
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: three three seven right now for a chance to win

857
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: two tickets to the March thirteenth show. A two night

858
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: hotels day March twelfth through the fourteenth, pat Ky Flamingo

859
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: Hotel Casino Las Vegas and ron Drever Fair. A confirmation

860
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: text will be sent. Dennered message and data rates may apply.

861
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: All thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are on stale now

862
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 1: at ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December thirtieth

863
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: through January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth.

864
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: This is the Fred Show. It is the Fread Show.

865
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: Good morning on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one

866
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: hit music stay issues. Hey, what time we do in

867
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: the big announcement Jason for the addition tomorrow morning the

868
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: iHeart Radio Music Festival. We are adding another huge name

869
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 1: to our iHeart Radio Music Festival tomorrow at eight. We'll

870
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 1: tell you about that. We got talk back for tickets today,

871
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: which which ticket is a jacent day? Okay, all right,

872
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: because just allright, do Aleipa today and then tomorrow. Jonas Brothers, Yes,

873
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers. I gotta get all my days straight. I

874
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: got my little I got my little thing here. I'm

875
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: good to go. So yeah, we'll give you a keyword

876
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: so that you can win. Do Aleipa tickets at about

877
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: eight o'clock or just after eight guys, speaking of the

878
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: toll way, can we just talk about the tollway quickly,

879
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: because because I have a I don't even know how

880
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: they managed to bill you, Kiki, because it never works

881
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: for me. I'm I tend to be every time I'm

882
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: driving a toll way, which is about once or twice

883
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: a week, I tend to be that guy with my

884
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: flashers on in the lane because my tag won't work.

885
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: I guess they call them tags in Texas, but my

886
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 1: toll I pass whatever it's called. I am. You have

887
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,280
Speaker 1: my credit card, I have the transponder, take my money,

888
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 1: take it here it is it doesn't and then I'll

889
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: call I'll push the help. Then I'll go hello, we

890
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: can't hear you because I'm in the middle of a

891
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 1: road right now. The toll white people, we can't hear you.

892
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: That's because a motorcycle getting next to me. I just

893
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: open the gate, right, A truck is honking, and then

894
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 1: they'll be like, well, give us your the last four

895
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: of your transponder. And then I do that, like yeah,

896
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: well it doesn't register with us what I'm holding, it

897
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: doesn't register. It's getting my hands.

898
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 8: Oh you bought one of those fake ones. Yeah, you

899
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 8: got from the flea market.

900
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: But it works sometimes, it doesn't work other times, and

901
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 1: it's like, guys, can we get it together? Like, first

902
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: of all, you have potholes in your road. I tell

903
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: you why my my thing doesn't work. It's because I

904
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: can't invent new technology. Because Kiki won't pay them.

905
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 8: Oh, they get more than enough money. Okay, this is

906
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 8: the biggest scam.

907
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: It cost fifteen dollars to drive on the thing. Can

908
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: you at least take my money? Probably? Like what is

909
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: going on? Really?

910
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 9: Does I have a confession to make Kiki? I pulled

911
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 9: the U because I don't have a transponder. I normally

912
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 9: just paid by the plate. So but we took the

913
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 9: skyway the other day and there's a gate.

914
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 1: You can't That's what I mean, I'm talking about the Skyway. Yeah.

915
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 9: First one I paid with my credit card, like, I

916
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 9: pulled up to the booth legs to my credit card.

917
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 9: The second one, there was one with a broken gate, so.

918
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 8: I just drew as you show.

919
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 9: I was like, you guys need to get open tolling

920
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 9: because every other road has it.

921
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: But I was utterly freaked up. I see that's what

922
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm dead. I should have specified. I'm not talking

923
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: about like you know, the Kennedy or whatever. I'm not

924
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: talking about like it out bio hair. No, I'm talking

925
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: about like the Skyway, because they got the gate so

926
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: so you know, if the transplanter doesn't work, then it

927
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: won't open. And then everyone behind you is in the

928
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: fast lane and and they're they're like they hate you.

929
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: And then I'm pushing a button because I pay it

930
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: and it does work like it worked on the gate

931
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: before me. And then every now and again you get

932
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: to one where the gate has been ripped off. I

933
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 1: think as someone just was like screw this, and they

934
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: just drove.

935
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 8: Joy came behind me.

936
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: But guys, it's not my job to tell you how

937
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: to take my money, Like I am a customer, Okay,

938
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: you have my credit cardage current, take my money. That's

939
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: your job.

940
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 8: Make it easy. Illinois Away has figured it out.

941
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,760
Speaker 1: Are no gates, You just drive right through your computer

942
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: either works or it doesn't. I don't know. But you

943
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 1: guys with the Indiana guys or whoever, we gotta come on, yes,

944
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: please come on, like take my money.

945
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 8: Yeah, you never agree to this. I don't know who

946
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 8: was on the board. You know what, Let's make a

947
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 8: toll way.

948
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 1: My friend Bill Barker, our friend Bill Barker, not Bob Barker.

949
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: He just texted me and said, after that last segment,

950
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: can you just get these guys raises? Please? Like we

951
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: sound like total brokies. I'm like, dude, if you only

952
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 1: if you only knew, if you only knew, right, we've

953
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: raised money for everything else, now we're raising money for us.

954
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: Please wait wait, you know there are a lot of

955
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: hot threads. I don't know if there are.

956
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:31,439
Speaker 8: Was kind of fine.

957
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he was. I like a man and go

958
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: to work.

959
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 15: Yeah.

960
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 8: He beat him at his feet on the ground. That's

961
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 8: he gets there, you know.

962
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: That's all. Fred's show is on Tuesday, July fifteenth morning.

963
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: Every one, The Fred Show's here. Hi, Kaitlin Hi Brown, Hi, Paulina,

964
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: Hi Kiki. Good Morning SHOWBS two fifty is the prize

965
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: if you can stap for three game win streak in

966
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: the show that our pop culture game, Get that money.

967
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: Bella means back from vacation eight five, five, five nine

968
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: one three five call texts the same number. We'll get

969
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: to stay or go. It's Serena in Just Your Second

970
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: debates in My Relationship Drama and the entertainer reports coming

971
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: up to what's in their case?

972
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,879
Speaker 2: The singer that got drunk and is posting screenshots about

973
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 2: his axe. Also, Kim Krnes, the singer of Betty Davis Eye,

974
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 2: has officially commented on Jojos he was covered.

975
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: Oh boy, yeah, she sum Yeah, I have to confess something.

976
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you and I have something in common.

977
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: What we already got the same birthday, we get the

978
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:33,959
Speaker 1: same I'm so glad that you and I have something

979
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: in common.

980
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,240
Speaker 2: Nothing beat you today.

981
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: I never done nothing Holidays.

982
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 11: I won't get that.

983
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: Never I've holiday that. Whoever came up with that, I

984
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 1: don't think they realized how brilliant they were, but they

985
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: have gone wildly viral. Yes, I guess it's a thing

986
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: in Europe. It's like a vacation package. It would be

987
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: like Apple vacations. I'm not plugging anyone in particular, but

988
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: like where you you know, you pay them whatever and

989
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 1: you get the flights and the hotels and the whole thing.

990
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: But it's got that. There's jets Glynn, that song and

991
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 1: then the voiceover lady who now is making appearances at

992
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: clubs like in the middle of songs that like the

993
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: beat will drop and she'll go nothing be to holiday

994
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: And people are doing it all over the place.

995
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 16: A couple of new friends. And last night you will

996
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 16: not believe what they said to me. They said, Nicole,

997
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 16: what is a Jet two holiday?

998
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 11: What is it?

999
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 16: I don't stop laughing because clearly the Jets too Holiday

1000
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 16: sound has made it to America. It has had no

1001
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 16: idea what on earth a jetsoo holiday is? And why

1002
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,439
Speaker 16: you can get two hundred pounds off.

1003
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: For a family of four.

1004
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 16: Jess Glynn and Jet two, you've made it to America.

1005
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: The people love it, but they want to know what

1006
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 1: you are. They have no idea. See it's brilliant, Oh

1007
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: my god, it's brilliant. But yeah, I guess these commercials

1008
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: are like we were talking about this. I guess it

1009
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: was last week about the jingles that just stick in

1010
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: your head, you know, for the commercial campaigns that you know,

1011
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't even matter what it is, it's just you

1012
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: just you know it immediately. And I guess the people

1013
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: of Europe they just know this immediately, like this is

1014
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: their thing.

1015
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 8: It's so wild. It has gone viral on TikTok, so

1016
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,760
Speaker 8: like all these people are taking this sound and putting

1017
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 8: together videos of like terrible things, right, people almost drowning,

1018
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 8: people falling, stages breaking, like, but I will never miss

1019
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,800
Speaker 8: a video now me and probably we're talking about this

1020
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 8: morning like I'm it just it keeps playing on a

1021
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 8: loop in my.

1022
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: Head, which I'm sure Jet two is ecstatic that they're

1023
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: getting all this press. Except the problem is when I

1024
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: first saw the videos, I thought, is this a jet

1025
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: to holiday? Like is this what happens if I go

1026
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: on a jet to you know what I mean? Like,

1027
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell it is. Then I

1028
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: see all these like catastrophic things happening to people, and

1029
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, so are they are they telling us

1030
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: what happens if I go on a Jet two holiday?

1031
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: Or are they just making fun of the jingle, which

1032
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: I think they are. But if I'm Jet two, I

1033
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: want to be like, hey, guys, this hold up the

1034
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: just so you know, like this is nothing. This is

1035
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: in our trips. Our trips are way better than this. Yes,

1036
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: fifty dollars per person. That's two hundred dollars for a

1037
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: family of four.

1038
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 8: We need her at the iHeart Festival.

1039
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 1: Well, yes, there is a big announcement tomorrow. I don't

1040
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: want to sell you. I'm just gonna go ahead and

1041
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 1: say it. Sorry, Tom Pullman, It's Jess Glynn and the

1042
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: Jets too. Holiday lady, it's stay or go, all right.

1043
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: Serena is here. Good morning, Serena. Welcome, Hi, how's it

1044
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: going doing great? Serena? What's going on in Sierrago? This is,

1045
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: I mean a headline here is that you just had

1046
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: a baby two months ago.

1047
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 17: Yeah, two months ago, a little baby boy.

1048
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: Congratulations, that's exciting you and your husband's need a little beach.

1049
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 18: So what what?

1050
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 19: Well?

1051
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, here and tell the story, Serena. So

1052
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: you had this baby, which is wonderful, and your husband

1053
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 1: he's acting not acting right about this, She's not.

1054
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 17: And listen, you know, to be clear, I'm not you know,

1055
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 17: considering leaving my husband. But lately, you know, he told

1056
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 17: me he doesn't want the baby sleeping in our room anymore.

1057
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 17: And you know that's tough because you know, we had

1058
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 17: the baby two months ago. And he says that if

1059
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 17: I cared about our relationship at all, I'll move the

1060
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 17: baby into his own room.

1061
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so you know, and that is I'm sorry to

1062
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: rupt you, but is it the disruption? Is this sleeping disruption?

1063
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 11: Is it?

1064
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 13: Like?

1065
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: What is his issue? What does he want the baby

1066
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 1: in the room?

1067
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 2: No, I you know, I'm not totally sure.

1068
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 17: Like he just like gets visibly upset, like I think,

1069
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 17: you know, he thinks I'm hogging the baby. And he

1070
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 17: gets visibly upset when, you know, when I kiss the

1071
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 17: baby and hug the baby, and he says, you never

1072
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 17: cuddle me as much as him.

1073
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 1: He's jealous of the baby.

1074
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 17: He's jealous of the baby.

1075
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: I mean, what does he what does he expect you

1076
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: to do exactly two months postpartum? Does he expect you

1077
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: to guess at this point, just to banish the child,

1078
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 1: but the child in another room? Like we didn't do this?

1079
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's I.

1080
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 17: Know, I know, I don't know you know, he's saying that, like,

1081
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 17: ever since I gave birth, all I wanted to be

1082
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 17: is a mom and not a wife.

1083
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 2: And you know that's pretty intense.

1084
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 1: And he also gets upset because you know.

1085
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 17: We decided, I decided to breastfeed, even though we had

1086
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 17: originally talked about not doing it.

1087
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,879
Speaker 2: That was an issue for him. That was a really

1088
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 2: big issue for him.

1089
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: Affect him. I'm asking that question, uh, Paulina, as a mom,

1090
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,479
Speaker 1: I'm asking that question. Honestly, I don't know the answer,

1091
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: but how does it negatively affect him?

1092
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 7: It showed in first and foremost mom can make that choice.

1093
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 7: So and I congrats on doing that because the full

1094
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 7: time job to breastfeed. The only issue quote and I'm

1095
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 7: using it this quote, is that he might not be

1096
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 7: able to feed the baby at night via bottle or whatever. Right,

1097
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 7: because sometimes they say mom wants to rest, How is

1098
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 7: dad going to.

1099
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 2: Feed the baby? But that you guys can figure that

1100
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 2: all out.

1101
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: Later your baby or just more time. Mom has to

1102
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 1: dedicate to the baby. As if there were it was

1103
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: model feeding, then I suppose anybody could feed the baby.

1104
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 2: Correct, Okay, right right?

1105
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 17: You know, so it's just like, you know, he says,

1106
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 17: I treat him like an absentee father because I don't

1107
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 17: tell him when the baby's getting a bath or when

1108
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 17: you know, when he's going down for a nap, Like

1109
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 17: I make the decisions myself. But obviously i'm you know,

1110
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 17: I'm not doing that on the purpose.

1111
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: And I have a feeling that someone texted this. But

1112
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: this has something to do with intimacy as well, which

1113
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 1: you're two months postpartum, so I mean, aren't we a

1114
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 1: little again. I'm not going to get too detailed about that,

1115
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: but don't we wait a little longer than that anyway,

1116
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 1: isn't it? Is it sixty days?

1117
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 7: Well, typically six weeks you have a good checkof you

1118
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 7: go to a checkop, but they kind of clear you

1119
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 7: or what not, depending you know, if you have C section,

1120
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,839
Speaker 7: if you have the vaginal birth. But in two months

1121
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 7: you can still be in divers So I don't understand

1122
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 7: what his way is. So we're not even really there yet,

1123
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,799
Speaker 7: not there yet necessarily well.

1124
00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 17: Not yeah, yeah, so you know, and obviously we're both

1125
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 17: just exhausted and I'm really trying my best, and I

1126
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 17: just never imagined in a million years he'd react like this.

1127
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: I don't mean to be insensitive, Serena. But what did

1128
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: he think was going to happen? I mean, you and

1129
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: I realized it's an adjustment, but he's you know, you guys,

1130
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: I assume discussed having children and you and you and

1131
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: you conceived one, and for the last nine months you've

1132
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: been you know, pregnant, you know, baking this this this

1133
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: little guy, and now maybe so I would think that

1134
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: the transition would be sort of happening, right, like, Okay,

1135
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: we're adding to the family. There's going to be a

1136
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 1: new obligation here, there's going to be someone something dividing

1137
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 1: our attention a little bit. We have another. But I

1138
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: guess I don't understand why he's surprised that you have

1139
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: to raise the kid and that you can't just put

1140
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: the kid in another room and pay attention to me

1141
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,280
Speaker 1: all the time. Like it's it's very much me behavior.

1142
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally.

1143
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 17: And you know, like you said, it's not like we

1144
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 17: just decided to do this overnight. You know, this was

1145
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 17: a discussion. This was many months of talking about it,

1146
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 17: and obviously the baby needs more right now at this stage,

1147
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 17: and like it's just temper goes by so quickly, and

1148
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 17: I just he just can't see that, and I think

1149
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:09,280
Speaker 17: he's taking it really personally, and I did not expect

1150
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,320
Speaker 17: to set off from him, and I just don't I

1151
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 17: just don't know what to do.

1152
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to be negative, but this is him making

1153
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: this about him. He's not being considerate of you. He's

1154
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: not being considerate of what you're going through. He's not

1155
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: being considerate of what the child needs.

1156
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 11: It.

1157
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 1: Clearly isn't ready to make the adjustment that he's going

1158
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 1: to have to share your attention now with another human.

1159
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: He's acting like this is a surprise, like he wasn't

1160
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:34,839
Speaker 1: involved in the process of making the kid through postpartum.

1161
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: I don't know the answer either, but I mean I

1162
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 1: get that someone just said mental health as well as

1163
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: a new debt. I don't know if that means that

1164
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: a man's mental health is wild. Look, this is a transition,

1165
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 1: for sure, but making her feel bad about tending to

1166
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: the child, I think is really the wrong way to go.

1167
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 2: I agree.

1168
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 7: I mean, listen, everyone's world is upside down right now,

1169
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 7: right especially you as a brand new mom.

1170
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:02,399
Speaker 2: Just everything you're going through.

1171
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 7: I mean, you are in the thick of it, and

1172
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 7: I feel like, if anything, the husband has to your

1173
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,279
Speaker 7: husband has to be so supportive of anything that you

1174
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 7: need in that moment, and because he's not, he's focused

1175
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 7: on his I don't even know what he's focused on.

1176
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 7: If he just wants you, you know, intimately, or whatever

1177
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 7: like that that needs put to the side. I'm sorry

1178
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 7: you guys. Well, once again, have all the amazing sex

1179
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 7: and all the amazing times together and dance and all

1180
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 7: of that, but right now I think like your focus

1181
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 7: should be truly both on.

1182
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: The baby y geat two months out, honestly, and not

1183
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 1: that his needs don't matter. I don't mean to just

1184
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,240
Speaker 1: dump on this guy, but two months after having a baby,

1185
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: he needs to be focused on what's best for you

1186
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: and the baby and and his needs can be met

1187
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: down the road. And yeah, and I don't I don't

1188
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: think his needs are gonna any closer to being met

1189
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: when he's just acting like the baby. Yeah, these are

1190
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 1: not This is not a good sign for me. And

1191
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: again I don't have any experience in any of this,

1192
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: but it just doesn't feel right to me, and the

1193
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: texts are overwhelmingly in favor of This is really bad.

1194
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry to say that to you because I

1195
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 1: know you just had a baby with this guy. But

1196
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: this is really not the kind of supportive, you know,

1197
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: selfless behavior that you would hope from someone after what

1198
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: you just went through. But let me take some phone

1199
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: calls on this and see if you and by the way,

1200
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: you're welcome to feel differently about it, and maybe you

1201
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: can enlighten us in some ways because the men in

1202
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 1: the room here have never had a baby, so I

1203
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 1: don't I admittedly do not know. To me though, my

1204
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: thought is it feels bad.

1205
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, I feel so. I feel so bad for you, mama.

1206
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 17: I'm sorry, yeah you And you know again, I'm not

1207
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 17: like thinking about leaving him, but just like, I just

1208
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 17: feel like this confirms everything that I've sort of been thinking,

1209
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 17: and you know, I don't want to lose myself or

1210
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 17: my marriage. You know.

1211
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: Well, good luck to you and let's see what some

1212
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: people have to stay here. And I appreciate you sharing

1213
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: and all the best. Have a great day, Thanks you too.

1214
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 1: Y serena maternal mental health professional. Men go through postpartum

1215
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 1: mood changes, in postpartum depression. It's a maternal mental I'm

1216
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: a maternal mental health professional.

1217
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 8: Okay, so that may be what he's experiencing.

1218
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 1: But it doesn't necessarily change the negative effect it's having

1219
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: on her and the pressure it's adding to what has

1220
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: to be done. It's not a choice to care for

1221
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: the baby, correct, And you know it's not like she

1222
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: can just go I'll do a little less of that. Hey, Julie,

1223
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning. How are hi, Julie. So you

1224
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: just heard this this situation, but this woman is is

1225
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: experiencing sort of a negative reaction from her husband that

1226
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, there's this new being that she's

1227
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: having to devote so much attention to. What do you

1228
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: think when you hear tell the story.

1229
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 20: It's very reminiscent. We have three kids and they do

1230
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 20: get jealous, and that's the bottom line. And he's going

1231
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 20: to have to figure out. I'm gonna have to talk

1232
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 20: to somebody and deal with his emotions because this is

1233
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 20: a newborn. They need they need the parents. There's no

1234
00:55:56,200 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 20: one taking care of the baby, and he's just gonna

1235
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 20: have to step up a little bit and do what's

1236
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,359
Speaker 20: best for the family right now. Now, I'm not saying

1237
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 20: that marriage doesn't come first, but you know, dude needs

1238
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:11,000
Speaker 20: to wait four months.

1239
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, with that.

1240
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 20: Extra special attention that he really is craving, that's all.

1241
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: It's funny you mentioned that, Julie, because a lot, a lot,

1242
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 1: a lot, a lot of years ago. I think it

1243
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 1: had to do with a politician cheating on his wife

1244
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,840
Speaker 1: or something, and someone brought this up. This was a

1245
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 1: long time ago. I heard this, and the person hosting

1246
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: the debate was saying, you know, people say when it

1247
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: comes to marriage, they'll most people will answer the question

1248
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: when asked, you know, what's the most important part of

1249
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: your family, they'll say, well, the kids. My kids are

1250
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: the most important thing to me. And because that sounds right,

1251
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: but or it sounds harsh to say that my spouse

1252
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: is the most important thing. But the fact of the

1253
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: matter is, this person was arguing, that's the right answer,

1254
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: my spouse is the most important thing in the relationship,

1255
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: because if that's not solid, then my kids, who come

1256
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 1: to it at a close second, will not necessarily have

1257
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: a good upbringing. Mike, I would think the ass to

1258
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,760
Speaker 1: that would be when the kid is literally an infant

1259
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: and the mom is literally post part part of I mean,

1260
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,479
Speaker 1: it's like, you can wait, you can wait sixty ninety

1261
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: days for us to get this together. This this baby

1262
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: relies on me for absolutely everything. It's not a choice,

1263
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: it's not a preference. It is a mandate, right, Like

1264
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: if we don't do it, it's not happening. Correct, So

1265
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: your husband can be the most important thing to you

1266
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: once we get this baby, like you know, with a

1267
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: with a hard head. Once it's once its skull forms

1268
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 1: tolling you. Yes, right, I guess that's where I'm at

1269
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: with this. But Julie, thank you for calling. Thank you,

1270
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: have a good day. It's like, guys, you know, this

1271
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 1: isn't a this isn't a ten year old. You know.

1272
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 1: It's like I'd rather drive the kid to practice and

1273
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: have sex with you. Like that's that that would indicate

1274
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 1: something I think a lot deeper. This is, Hey, I'm

1275
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: going through all this stuff emotionally and physically and and

1276
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:00,680
Speaker 1: and we're figuring figuring out how to raise human and

1277
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: you're worried about whether you're getting cuddled.

1278
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 7: Or those It takes two years for a mom to

1279
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 7: really get back to her quote normal self.

1280
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 8: I'm gonna say that.

1281
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 7: So I'm not even there yet myself, So I can't

1282
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 7: even imagine how she feels.

1283
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: Again, I don't mean to be like anti male here,

1284
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 1: I just I think a lot of guys listening now

1285
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: would have who've been through this. I gotta think they're thinking, like, dude,

1286
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 1: it's not about you right now, Like it's it can't

1287
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 1: be about you right now. Emily, Hi, Hi, Hi? What

1288
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: do you think?

1289
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 21: So? I have two babies.

1290
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 22: I had two babies under and under two years, and

1291
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 22: I think I've reasty both of them. And the breasting

1292
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 22: issue is the thing that really sticks out to me

1293
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 22: is like sticky, I'm this situation. I really don't understand

1294
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 22: what his problem with her breastfeeding is. What I love

1295
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 22: to say, though, is while I think this is like

1296
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 22: a weird situation and he's definitely putting a lot of

1297
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 22: unnecessary liket on a new mom, I am sympathetic to

1298
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 22: the fact that, like having a baby is an adjustment

1299
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 22: for both partners, and there is definitely a point where

1300
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 22: you want to kick the baby out of your room

1301
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 22: because you're ready to have some space back. But two

1302
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,919
Speaker 22: months plus part them is not that time. Maybe four

1303
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 22: to six months.

1304
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 1: Is a more I think That's what I'm saying is

1305
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: right now would not be the time to put pressure.

1306
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: I don't think on the relationship to make it about you,

1307
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 1: because I just feel like there's so much adjustment going on.

1308
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: And I don't think it's necessarily personal. I don't think,

1309
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: but I think I think that one way it could

1310
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 1: create a tremendous amount of divide is by behaving this

1311
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: way right now, right right.

1312
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 22: And I think that a lot of time, well more

1313
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 22: often than not, we are very focused in that nine

1314
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 22: months of growing a baby on the needs that the

1315
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 22: baby will have, but there's not a lot of support

1316
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 22: about like what a new mom needs, especially a breastating mom,

1317
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 22: or women at with their hormones and postpart of issues,

1318
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 22: and how to be like partners in that situation. And

1319
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 22: so I do think there are ways to move past it.

1320
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 22: Like when I was pregnant with our second baby, our

1321
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 22: first baby was had just turned one, and we decided

1322
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 22: to do some couple counseling courses that are about like

1323
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 22: bringing home Baby, that like focus less on the like

1324
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 22: how to feed and diaper and take care of your

1325
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 22: baby and more on like how to be partners.

1326
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 1: In That's interesting, that's a good idea.

1327
01:00:31,560 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 22: Yeah, there's one specifically by the Gotman. They're like pretty

1328
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 22: famous couple counselors, and it's called Bringing Home Baby. So

1329
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 22: like I do think there's ways to work past it,

1330
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 22: but he has to be willing to like listen and

1331
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 22: hear her.

1332
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 2: He needs good points.

1333
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,200
Speaker 1: Good points, Emily, thank you for calling, Thanks for listening.

1334
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 1: Have a good day. Yeah, you too, appreciate you, Julian. Julian,

1335
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: we're not considering his feelings really.

1336
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 19: Because focusing more on him. I want to be intimate

1337
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 19: with him. I had a baby too, and the father

1338
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 19: of my daughter was really involved with the child. I

1339
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 19: tell him when I'm.

1340
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 10: Going to feed the baby, I tell him when the

1341
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 10: baby's going to sleep, and everything else in between.

1342
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 19: It's the community.

1343
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 23: I believe her issue is no one had to communicate

1344
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 23: with the father of putting him involved actually in the

1345
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 23: baby's child. And when I had my first baby, I

1346
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 23: was very insac care because I will call her father

1347
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 23: through the trauma that I've been with.

1348
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 22: All the time.

1349
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 19: But I do understand when you said that it's an

1350
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 19: intimate issue and everything. But she did mention of him

1351
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 19: feeling absent in the child's life.

1352
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: You know that's fair, that's fair much. Maybe and someone

1353
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 1: text right, Julia, I'm someone texted. Maybe maybe he hasn't

1354
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: bonded with the child yet. I think For me, it

1355
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: was the comment about you don't cuddle me, you've never

1356
01:01:56,520 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: cuddled me as much as you've cuddled him. Well, my

1357
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: daughter will.

1358
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 19: Feel like that. But at the same time, I had

1359
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 19: my daughter in certain place in a toy band. I

1360
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 19: apologize my English is my second language.

1361
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 23: My daughter in a in a play band by the

1362
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 23: by the bed, so he wasn't she wasn't in the

1363
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 23: bed with us.

1364
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 10: So maybe other than putting the child in it on

1365
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 10: his own room, maybe you know, put a little band

1366
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 10: or something next to next to her, or something in

1367
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 10: the womb and that and whatnot. But at the same time,

1368
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 10: she they just had the baby with him too much.

1369
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 10: So maybe he will probably do some research and see

1370
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 10: a way to make her feel better with him being

1371
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 10: in the in the intimacy as well, because at the

1372
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 10: time is not really sex. Really is more over the

1373
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 10: sitting together and talking the person there.

1374
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:01,919
Speaker 1: I appreciate good have a good day, of course, thanks

1375
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: for listening. I think for me it's the sixty days.

1376
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 1: You know, if we're talking about this after three years,

1377
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: you know my needs are being met, you're not paying

1378
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: attention to me, We're not you know, our partnership has falling. Apart,

1379
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 1: like okay, okay, like the kid's a little bit more independent.

1380
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 1: It's been years of this now, you know, he doesn't

1381
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 1: feel like he's part of the process. I mean all

1382
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: of that is fair, but I mean we are. It

1383
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: is just so new and we're to your point, we're

1384
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 1: still physically healing from what happened. Yeah, Kathy, Hi, Kathy, Hi,

1385
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,800
Speaker 1: good morning, Hey, good morning. And just to recap here,

1386
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 1: this woman, Serena Coled, and she just had a baby

1387
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 1: sixty days ago and her husband's not adjusting well. Essentially,

1388
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:40,959
Speaker 1: he's throwing a temper tantrum, saying, hey, you're not paying

1389
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: enough attention to me. I want the baby out of

1390
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: the room. I want to be cuddled more, I want

1391
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: to be held. But whatever he wants, he wants all

1392
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: the things that baby's getting. But I don't know that

1393
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: she's necessarily I mean, maybe she's choosing to do this,

1394
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: but at the same time, I think she kind of

1395
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: has to write.

1396
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 21: Yeah, and something similar happened to me. I was married,

1397
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 21: I had a baby, so excited the whole time and everything,

1398
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 21: but then he got really insecure after the baby was born, because, yeah,

1399
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 21: you don't go out to dinner every night, you know,

1400
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 21: you don't have all that free time for yourself. And

1401
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 21: he ended up, you know, it drove a wedge between us.

1402
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 21: He ended up having an affair, and then when we

1403
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 21: were splitting up, he said that it was the lack

1404
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 21: of attention and more attention on the baby, and it's

1405
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 21: just you know, like hindsight, it was all just a

1406
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 21: lot of insecurity, Like you're so jealous of a little baby,

1407
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:30,200
Speaker 21: like a sweet little baby.

1408
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 1: Well, it's all just gaslighting. Right again, I've said it

1409
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: fifty times in the last fifteen minutes. What are you

1410
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 1: supposed to do, especially in these really early stages, what

1411
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: are you supposed to do? Just okay, you know what,

1412
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: baby's crying and needs to eat and it requires me

1413
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: to do everything. But no, let me make sure that

1414
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: I hold you a little longer. And it's just a

1415
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: tough spot to put her in.

1416
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 21: Yeah, I'm sorry. Time to put your big boy pants on,

1417
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 21: like you're a dad now, Like it's time to provide

1418
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 21: and you know, intimacy will come later. Right now, it's

1419
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 21: all about your baby. You cannot me about you, And

1420
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 21: like I said, just a lot of insecurity.

1421
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think so. Thank you Kathy and I'm

1422
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 1: sure that happened to you, but thanks for sharing.

1423
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 11: It was all for the best.

1424
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 1: There you go, have a good day. Did you have

1425
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 1: any final thoughts?

1426
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 7: I do, because people are saying, you know, maybe dad

1427
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 7: doesn't feel like he's bonding with baby. I think mom could, okay,

1428
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 7: maybe give him, like, hey, do bath dough, little things

1429
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 7: like that.

1430
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 2: People have to understand it.

1431
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 7: Two months postpartum, you feel like you don't want to

1432
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 7: be away from your baby, like it's I don't know

1433
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 7: if it's just like this, I call it a primal feeling,

1434
01:05:29,160 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 7: Like I feel like I just like I had to

1435
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 7: grab her all the time, if somebody was holding her,

1436
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,440
Speaker 7: I needed her back instantly. So like we have to

1437
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 7: give grace to the mom to understand that these are

1438
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 7: her hormones. This is how she's feeling.

1439
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 1: I mean, we're talking about a chemical reaction. We're talking

1440
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: about human chemical reacity. We're not it's not necessarily all

1441
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: a choice, correct, So my understanding at least, So yeah,

1442
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: Camlon's Entertainment report, he's on the Bread Show.

1443
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 2: Chris Stapleton and his wife donated one million to support

1444
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 2: the victims of those devastating bloods in Texas. The couple's

1445
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 2: shared outlaw. State of Kind announced the donation will be

1446
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 2: split among several charities like Texas Search and Rescue, World

1447
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 2: Central Kitchen, and a few others. And if you want

1448
01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 2: to donate and anything helps, any amount helps, you can

1449
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:15,960
Speaker 2: head to Community Foundation dot net if you want to

1450
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 2: get involved. Moving on to singer Zach Bryan, who has

1451
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 2: seemingly started coming for X and barstool employee Brianna chicken

1452
01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 2: Fry out of nowhere. It seems like, I don't know

1453
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 2: what has gotten his his little self so upset, but

1454
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 2: his army of fans started coming for her as well,

1455
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 2: saying she's lying about how things went down during the breakup.

1456
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 2: She ignored it, ignored it, ignored it. And remember she

1457
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 2: was the one who said she was offered an NDA

1458
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 2: in exchange for her silence. So she decided to share

1459
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 2: screenshots from what she says was his team texting her

1460
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: outlining the terms. Now, first of all, she said, his

1461
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,439
Speaker 2: team is not really like the sharpest tool in the shed.

1462
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 2: Why are we texting the terms of an NDA like that,

1463
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,720
Speaker 2: with like bullet points and typos? It just seems if

1464
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 2: that's true crazy. But according to the message, here's what

1465
01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 2: the deal included she had two options ten million or

1466
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 2: three million, plus the Massachusetts house that Zach bought them,

1467
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 2: which costs seven point five million in return. Here's the

1468
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 2: bullets of what she would have to do. Now, this

1469
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 2: is allegedly what they texted her. Number one promised not

1470
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 2: to speak about Zach or his quote non public cheating,

1471
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 2: So I guess if he publicly cheated, she could speak

1472
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:26,360
Speaker 2: about that. That's a private.

1473
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 12: I got it.

1474
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 2: Guarantee A specific recording where Zach yelled at her friends

1475
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 2: and family at a bonfire never sees the light of day.

1476
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 2: She was also asked to publicly defend Zach if questioned

1477
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 2: by media or fans, and she has always said that

1478
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 2: she turned it down so she could speak about her

1479
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 2: own experience, really own that, and share only the parts

1480
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:47,120
Speaker 2: that may help other women. Now, as for Zaki, does

1481
01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 2: have a new woman in his life. Her name is

1482
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 2: Samantha Leonard, and she looks so much like Breonna that

1483
01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 2: it's actually scary. And I just showed Jason. I don't

1484
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 2: know what's going on there, but there's something and that

1485
01:07:56,840 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 2: just freaks me out when people date someone else after

1486
01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 2: and it's like, that's the same person that is the

1487
01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 2: same person. And lastly, singer Kim Carnes, who you know

1488
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 2: she sings Betty Davis's Eyes of course if you don't

1489
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 2: know that name. She's sharing how she really feels about

1490
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:14,640
Speaker 2: Jojo Siwa's cover of the hit Now. She said, I

1491
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 2: can only speak to how it initially struck me. The phrasing,

1492
01:08:18,040 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 2: the tone, even the inflections. It all felt a little

1493
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 2: too close. I'm all for female artists lifting each other up.

1494
01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 2: This business can be brutal, and I strongly reject any

1495
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 2: kind of hate and personal attacks that I've seen online.

1496
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I believe artists have the

1497
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 2: right to speak openly about how something makes them feel,

1498
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 2: especially when it's a little personal and close. And I

1499
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 2: think even the way she dressed up everything kind of

1500
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 2: freaked her out. She initially posted her first reaction and

1501
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,640
Speaker 2: then she deleted it and elaborated on her feelings. But

1502
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,200
Speaker 2: remember that was the cover was man Dave.

1503
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:51,280
Speaker 1: Sas and it was going very Actually I played the

1504
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,640
Speaker 1: audio just then, Yeah, you were quick on that. I

1505
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 1: was it really was, that was that was her singing it.

1506
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she doesn't love it.

1507
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 1: It's not day everyone. Thank you, Thank you so much.

1508
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: Stopping you do I do love her.

1509
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 17: I don't know.

1510
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 3: I love it.

1511
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:12,720
Speaker 1: It's so camp. But that wasn't good. You can you

1512
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 1: can love someone and then you cannot love everything.

1513
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:16,599
Speaker 2: They do actually ate with that cover.

1514
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: It was really bad.

1515
01:09:20,640 --> 01:09:20,960
Speaker 8: Tomato.

1516
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:24,680
Speaker 2: By the way, if you are new and want to

1517
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 2: follow us on social or you're slacking, please follow us

1518
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 2: Fred Show Radio on Instagram, Twitter, the frend Show TikTok.

1519
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:32,000
Speaker 2: If you like waiting by the phone, we have Fred

1520
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 2: Show Radio dot com. We have Fred Show Radio on YouTube.

1521
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 2: If you want to look at us as we're talking,

1522
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 2: I don't know why you would, but you can and

1523
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 2: then type the Fred Show on demand on the iHeartRadio

1524
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 2: app if you would like to catch up on anything

1525
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:44,679
Speaker 2: you missed.

1526
01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

1527
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: Shelley in the Showbiz Shohow Now military Mike didn't have

1528
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: any issue when you first had babies, right? He was well?

1529
01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 2: But other than that, yeah, I was gonna.

1530
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 24: I feel like my relationship isn't a good barometer because

1531
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:06,559
Speaker 24: she's just gone a lot, so.

1532
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:09,679
Speaker 2: I feel like it's it's just a little bit different.

1533
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 24: But man, I feel for her that that's sad because

1534
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:14,320
Speaker 24: it's such a hard time after you have a baby

1535
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 24: for lots of reasons.

1536
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 2: I think I told you guys, like from going from zero.

1537
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 24: Kids to one kid, it's a lot like you know,

1538
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:21,160
Speaker 24: you hear like, oh, it's a lot of work, but yeah,

1539
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:22,000
Speaker 24: it's a lot of work, and it.

1540
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,000
Speaker 2: Changes like it changes the dynamic of everything.

1541
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's a hard thing for everybody. But like

1542
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: especially the when you add the human chemical component, it's like,

1543
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 1: have some grace here, you know, it's yeah, time at all?

1544
01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:41,840
Speaker 1: Right exactly. Margo, Hi, Margo, what's up? Margo? Fun facts

1545
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: about you?

1546
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 23: Ease. I'll be sixty this year.

1547
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Margo, Well happy, almost sixtieth.

1548
01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 11: Thank you.

1549
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: Let's see how well you do here? Five questions against

1550
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: our pop culture expert showb is Shelley. Two hundred and

1551
01:10:56,160 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the price? Three game wins, streak one,

1552
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: twenty three wins, sick sixty nine losses? You ready, Yes,

1553
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: I'm right it, okay, good luck? All right, with all respect, Shelley,

1554
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 1: you got to go into the sound booth. Poof question

1555
01:11:09,120 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 1: number one. Margo Rihanna walked the red carpet with her

1556
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: kids for the premiere of the Smurfs movie. How many

1557
01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: kids does she have? Two? Okay? Which actress was spotted

1558
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 1: with Top Good actor Danny Ramirez after her divorce from

1559
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: Cash Warren, Jessica Alma, Amaya Espinol, and Brian Arenalez were

1560
01:11:34,160 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: announced as the winners of This Peacock Show and awarded

1561
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars Love Island. You are killing it, Margo,

1562
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: which DC movie broke box office records after its release

1563
01:11:45,360 --> 01:11:49,600
Speaker 1: over the weekend. Superman and HBO's Harry Potter series is

1564
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: officially in production. Who played Harry Potter in the movie series.

1565
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 2: Daniel Radcliff.

1566
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 8: That's five.

1567
01:11:57,960 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 1: That's a five.

1568
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,360
Speaker 2: Oh boy, no way, Marco.

1569
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:04,920
Speaker 1: I am so proud of you. She got a five.

1570
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 2: Oh Margaret.

1571
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 16: I felt that.

1572
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:08,080
Speaker 19: I remembered that.

1573
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 1: That is really really good. Okay, let's see how you do, Shelley.

1574
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: We got a focus. I am, I know, I know.

1575
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: Rihanna walked the red carpet with her kids for the

1576
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: premiere of the Smurfs movie. How many kids does she have? Well?

1577
01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 8: That are like out in Rebelly?

1578
01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: Two yeah, two, with one on the way, that's right,

1579
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 1: which actress was spotted with Topkun actor Danny Ramirez. Made

1580
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:38,719
Speaker 1: her divorce from Cash Orrin, Jessica Alba, Yes Amaya Espinal

1581
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: and Brian Arnalis, who announced as the winners of This

1582
01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: Peacock Show and awarded one hundred thousand dollars. Love Island, Yeah,

1583
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 1: which DC movie broke box office records after its release

1584
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 1: over the weekend.

1585
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:52,320
Speaker 2: Superman yep n.

1586
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 1: HBO's Harry Potter series is officially in production. Who played

1587
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 1: Harry Potter in the movie series, Daniel Record, that's a five.

1588
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 1: That's a time, Margot. You gotta come back tomorrow, Okay,

1589
01:13:02,800 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: all right, Wow, I'm still impressed with you. Marko showed

1590
01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:08,120
Speaker 1: three hundred bucks. You may earn yourself an extra fifty

1591
01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: and we're still out at the three game win streak.

1592
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:15,400
Speaker 1: So three hundred bucks tomorrow, hang on, okay, all right, Shelley,

1593
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 1: good work.

1594
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:16,840
Speaker 24: Wow, thank you.

1595
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 2: I need to watch Love Island, right like I That's

1596
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 2: a show I would like, right, Cayle, Yeah, you just

1597
01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:23,479
Speaker 2: need a lot of time, which I don't know if

1598
01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 2: you have as a mom of ta right.

1599
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:27,640
Speaker 1: No wonder I even't started it right all right, I

1600
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 1: don't know if I can bring myself. I've said, okay,

1601
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:31,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it, and then I can't.

1602
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:36,360
Speaker 8: You promised me tried. No, there's too much dancing in

1603
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:38,960
Speaker 8: the intro, like everybody's what now?

1604
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: You told me that there was a choreographed number, I

1605
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 1: said in the beginning.

1606
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 2: Forward through that and I don't like a number.

1607
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 1: I'm not a number guy, I don't like a number.

1608
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 8: You're not gonna like you, brother. They're jumping out of

1609
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 8: trees like twirl in everybody's.

1610
01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: They why why is it necessary?

1611
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 14: Let's get to the smut right because there are a

1612
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 14: bunch of hot people hikinis.

1613
01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 1: I've already seen the TikTok parodies. Hey, can I pull

1614
01:13:57,600 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 1: you aside.

1615
01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 2: Please for a chat? He gotta text.

1616
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:06,840
Speaker 1: Bachlor like, okay, put you put your like I'm really

1617
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 1: into like another like four or five other girls here, Like.

1618
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 2: I'm a mommy. You've not seen that? No TikTok.

1619
01:14:17,479 --> 01:14:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. How would I know the reference. I

1620
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 1: haven't watched the show.

1621
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 2: Oh it's like this is like how you when we

1622
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:25,360
Speaker 2: didn't know the plane thing and you thought we were crazy? Yeahsita,

1623
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 2: except no one told us that Ms. Huddah is one

1624
01:14:28,000 --> 01:14:29,799
Speaker 2: of our mary own from Raleigh.

1625
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 16: Oh is she?

1626
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 2: Yes, she is from Raleigh.

1627
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 3: She lives there.

1628
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 2: At least I didn't know the yes, one of us.

1629
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 2: Maybe she's one of the thirteen.

1630
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,439
Speaker 1: Then I take it back then one of the thirteen,

1631
01:14:39,479 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 1: and you're gonna pack otherwise otherwise I'm not sure. I

1632
01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 1: just don't know. No, I didn't know that reference. Oh wow.

1633
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a really dumb conversation when she was

1634
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 2: trying to tell another islander that she is a real

1635
01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 2: life mom and he like it didn't compute. So he

1636
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 2: was like, mommy, a mom of what mamasita? And she's like, no,

1637
01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 2: like I have a human child.

1638
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,960
Speaker 1: Oh I did see that. I just wouldn't. I wouldn't

1639
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 1: know the reference. Kind of watch the show. I mean,

1640
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: you know, that's why there's eighty seven of us on

1641
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: this show, because everybody watches different stuff. And then we're covered. Shelley.

1642
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 1: I want you to have a great day, and Margo's

1643
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 1: coming for you tomorrow.

1644
01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 8: I know she's good. All right, she is good.

1645
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:16,920
Speaker 1: Okay, talk to you late, all right? Waiting at the phone.

1646
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: Why does somebody get ghost to the Entertainment Report? Fun

1647
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:24,439
Speaker 1: fact in headlines all day? More Pread Show? Next, this

1648
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 1: is the Pread Show. Let's get you Hotel A trip

1649
01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: for two to see Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las

1650
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 1: Vegas residency Jennifer Lopez up All Night Live in Las

1651
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 1: Vegas March thirteenth, twenty twenty six, at the Coliseum at

1652
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 1: Caesar's Palace. Text Palace to three seven three three seven

1653
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,400
Speaker 1: right now for a chance to win two tickets to

1654
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 1: the March thirteenth show, a two night hotels day March

1655
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 1: twelve through the fourteenth at Key Flamingo Hotel Casino, Las

1656
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:53,760
Speaker 1: Vegas and Ron Treverair Fair. A confirmation text will be sent.

1657
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:56,720
Speaker 1: Dennered message and data rates may apply. All thanks to

1658
01:15:56,800 --> 01:15:59,280
Speaker 1: Live Nation. Tickets are on stale now at ticketmaster dot

1659
01:15:59,360 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: com for all shows running December thirtieth through January third,

1660
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: and March sixth through the twenty eighth in the city.

1661
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:08,600
Speaker 1: I actually do. I do have a burner from I

1662
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:09,600
Speaker 1: do have a burner? You do?

1663
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 11: You do?

1664
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 1: I've never used it, but I have one.

1665
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:13,160
Speaker 2: I know you was sex in the show?

1666
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:14,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been.

1667
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 2: No I s here that is so hands.

1668
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: I say, how terrible we are. Fred's show is on.

1669
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:24,160
Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, July fifteenth, of morning. Every one the Fread

1670
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: Show is not hig Kaleb Hello, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Pauline, Hey,

1671
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: Kiki show b Shelley Bellahamine eight five five five nine

1672
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: three five. You can call him text the same number. Guys,

1673
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:37,799
Speaker 1: I guess there's an imposter me again, this time on TikTok.

1674
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 1: How long have you been a fan of mine? Would

1675
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 1: you like to buy my laptop? And again, I am

1676
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 1: Fred Show Radio on TikTok. I am Fred on air

1677
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 1: on the others and the Fred Show TikTok. He is

1678
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: the official show TikTok. Accept no imitation, there is no

1679
01:16:57,120 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 1: other No. I will probably not DM you and asked

1680
01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 1: you for money. Yet we are not there yet. It's

1681
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: possible that that time would come, but it would come

1682
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:08,600
Speaker 1: from Fred Show Radio if it does, just so you know.

1683
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 1: But I guess this person's hitting people up. And then

1684
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 1: now I'm getting dms like, hey, you know, I thought

1685
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 1: I was talking to you for a while. Stopped doing

1686
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 1: that to people, and stop with your fake account. This

1687
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:24,599
Speaker 1: is how you decided to do it. Yes, yeah, hey, Hi,

1688
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 1: I'm Fred. I have a go fundme paid for myself. No,

1689
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,200
Speaker 1: don't believe it. It's not true. It is not true.

1690
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:35,120
Speaker 1: Only only associate with the sanctioned official platforms. Also on

1691
01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 1: YouTube now you can search for the Fred Show there

1692
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:40,360
Speaker 1: Fred Show Radio and on the iHeart app search for

1693
01:17:40,400 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 1: the Fred Show and make us a preset, and a

1694
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,720
Speaker 1: new episode of the Tangent Our author Uncentered podcast is up.

1695
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:46,400
Speaker 1: Jason had to go to a meeting, so we talked

1696
01:17:46,439 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 1: about lesbian terms without him. Oh no, I think we

1697
01:17:50,960 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: did a good job. But you know, you have to

1698
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,600
Speaker 1: listen to be the judge, all right, I will, I hope. So,

1699
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: but I learned a lot. I learned a lot, a

1700
01:17:57,120 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: lot of new terms I didn't know about. I've ever

1701
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 1: been left to wait. It's the Fredshell. Hey Pete, good morning,

1702
01:18:04,400 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. How are you, Hey, good morning?

1703
01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 1: I'm all right. So Pete, tell us what's going on

1704
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:12,640
Speaker 1: with this woman Brinn? How did you meet? We got

1705
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 1: to know about any dates you've been on, any details

1706
01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,759
Speaker 1: you can give us, and why you think she's ghosting you? Okay,

1707
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 1: So we met.

1708
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 18: At we were watching the playoffs.

1709
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 1: We're at a bar.

1710
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 18: The playoffs were on. I was watching the game and

1711
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 18: she seemed pretty great.

1712
01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 8: We hit it off.

1713
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 18: I got her number and we plan to go out again,

1714
01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 18: not football oriented, and grab some drinks and dinner. A

1715
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,720
Speaker 18: few nights later, and it was I don't know. We

1716
01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 18: just hit it off, Like I don't know what happened

1717
01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:45,600
Speaker 18: because afterwards she just starts acting a little off and

1718
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 18: she's not really in a rush to go out another date.

1719
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 18: And I thought we were connecting. I don't know, we

1720
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:54,680
Speaker 18: could talk about all these other things, and then she

1721
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 18: just kind of ghosted, And I'm just I'm hoping you

1722
01:18:58,160 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 18: guys can help me figure out why.

1723
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:01,679
Speaker 1: I do love it a meeting in the wild situation.

1724
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:02,960
Speaker 1: You know, we don't hear about a lot of those.

1725
01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:04,679
Speaker 1: I feel like all of these start on an app,

1726
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:06,560
Speaker 1: which is how everybody meets. I got that, But like

1727
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 1: the thing about meeting in the wild is it sort

1728
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 1: of takes away that is there going to be chemistry?

1729
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 1: Does the person look the same We've obviously heard that

1730
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:17,320
Speaker 1: one before. They don't look the same as their pictures

1731
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:18,960
Speaker 1: or whatever. So there's a lot that you kind of

1732
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 1: can read when you first meet somebody that you don't

1733
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:22,800
Speaker 1: know when you meet on the apps, which I think

1734
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 1: if that works, then you're off to a better start.

1735
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:29,519
Speaker 1: But in this case, you're saying you did actually hang

1736
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:33,040
Speaker 1: out separately, and now she's not calling you exactly.

1737
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 18: Like it's we got to know each other, we were

1738
01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:39,560
Speaker 18: laughing like I think laughter's great. On a day you

1739
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 18: realize like, oh I can connect with this person.

1740
01:19:42,040 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 1: And I just I.

1741
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 18: The silence afterwards is also like did I do something? Yeah,

1742
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:50,800
Speaker 18: I'm okay if I did, but I just want to

1743
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 18: know what I was so I don't do it again.

1744
01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, Well I get it, Pete, it's not a

1745
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 1: nice guy. Let's call this woman Brinn in just a second,

1746
01:19:58,280 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 1: well place long will come back. You'll be on the phone.

1747
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything right at first,

1748
01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 1: but at some point you're welcome to jumping on a call.

1749
01:20:03,600 --> 01:20:05,200
Speaker 1: And the hope, as always is that we can straighten

1750
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 1: this out and then set you up on another date

1751
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 1: that we pay for.

1752
01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 18: Sound good, awesome, Thank you, Thank you so much.

1753
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:12,679
Speaker 1: The Fred Show We're on the radio live every morning,

1754
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 1: Live on the iHeart app each morning as well, and

1755
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: catch up anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand,

1756
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 1: make us a preset YouTube. You can watch this there

1757
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 1: all day too, all day. Just watch all day. Why

1758
01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't you would work school all day? Search for Fred

1759
01:20:25,280 --> 01:20:28,720
Speaker 1: Show radio. Hey, Pete, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's

1760
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 1: call it Brin. You actually met out in person. You

1761
01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:34,120
Speaker 1: were watching football games you got her number. You guys

1762
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: went on a date. The date went well, but you've

1763
01:20:38,080 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 1: been reaching out since the date, trying to get a

1764
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:41,800
Speaker 1: hold of her to plan another one because you thought

1765
01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 1: there would be another one. Except she's not responding to you,

1766
01:20:44,320 --> 01:20:46,920
Speaker 1: and you want to know why. That's exactly exactly it.

1767
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 1: We're gonna call it Brin right now. Good luck?

1768
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:49,000
Speaker 5: Man?

1769
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is this Brin? Hey Brian, good morning. My

1770
01:20:59,360 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 1: name is Fred calling from the Fred Show, the Morning

1771
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 1: radio Show, and I have to tell you that we

1772
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 1: are on the radio right now and I do need

1773
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can which that

1774
01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: for just a second, would you mind?

1775
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 21: Yeah?

1776
01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:11,560
Speaker 1: Thank you very much for calling on behalf of a

1777
01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 1: guy named Pete. I guess you guys met in person

1778
01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:17,439
Speaker 1: and then went on a date recently. Do you recall Pete?

1779
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 3: I recall a Pete, but but I wasn't a date.

1780
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:27,960
Speaker 1: Well, what do you mean? Because he we just talked

1781
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:30,720
Speaker 1: to this guy Pete. He says he met you at

1782
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:32,920
Speaker 1: a bar, you were watching football, and then he asked

1783
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: you on a date. And then he says you went

1784
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: on a date, and so now.

1785
01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:39,120
Speaker 3: Thought I want to hang out like you know, like

1786
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:41,599
Speaker 3: dinner drinks, maybe watch another game or something.

1787
01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: Sounds like a date though, like dinner and drinks.

1788
01:21:44,680 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 2: It's possible.

1789
01:21:45,800 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 3: Why because because Pete's a guy and I've been a

1790
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:52,960
Speaker 3: lesbian for as long as i can remember.

1791
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 8: Oh minor detail that.

1792
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 1: Is a twist in the star story that I did

1793
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 1: not see. It is Pete aware of your interests?

1794
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 3: I mean, we didn't talk about that kind of thing.

1795
01:22:08,360 --> 01:22:10,400
Speaker 3: I just, I don't know, thought I was making a

1796
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 3: new friend.

1797
01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:13,680
Speaker 1: So this dude approaches you asked what he thought he

1798
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:15,720
Speaker 1: was doing was asking you out, And you're just like, no,

1799
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:17,479
Speaker 1: this is a nice man in a bar who wants

1800
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 1: to buy me dinner. And you're like, okay, I don't

1801
01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:21,000
Speaker 1: have to disclose that I actually don't like what he

1802
01:22:21,040 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: has to offer. I mean, that's you're right, by the way.

1803
01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 1: You don't You don't have to like qualify anything, Like

1804
01:22:28,479 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: you know, someone can ask you to hang out and

1805
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that anything is happening. But I guess

1806
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 1: that it would be safe to assume that if a

1807
01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,320
Speaker 1: dude approaches you he's a stranger and wants to take

1808
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 1: you to dinner. I don't know that it's unfair for

1809
01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 1: him to assume that was a date, right, Well, that doesn't.

1810
01:22:42,600 --> 01:22:47,960
Speaker 3: Happened that often. I guess, okay, I just thought we like,

1811
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 3: we're just clicking and yeah, that's all.

1812
01:22:50,760 --> 01:22:54,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I mean d's cool. Yeah, I mean that's

1813
01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:57,439
Speaker 1: that's honest and it's fair. I got to bring Pete

1814
01:22:57,439 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 1: in though, I forgot to mention that Pete is here

1815
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 1: with us. I I get caught up in a streng

1816
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:05,840
Speaker 1: so forgetful Pete turns out, so we just learned a

1817
01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:07,760
Speaker 1: piece of information that would have been vital to this

1818
01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 1: whole thing. Turns out she doesn't like men. Oh no, listening?

1819
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 1: Am I the first to tell you that?

1820
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:24,080
Speaker 2: Maybe she does?

1821
01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:24,479
Speaker 5: Hold it?

1822
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:25,360
Speaker 1: Where you been?

1823
01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:30,320
Speaker 2: I mean we were wearing the same shoes.

1824
01:23:31,400 --> 01:23:38,000
Speaker 1: Oh well, in that case, gay, you both wear like birkenstocks.

1825
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:39,759
Speaker 8: Like, what kind of shoes?

1826
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:41,920
Speaker 1: What was the dead giveaway there? I don't understand bred

1827
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 1: what kind of shoes? Were we both wearing?

1828
01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 8: Steel toe boozy?

1829
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:51,240
Speaker 1: I guess, honestly, I don't. I don't know that the

1830
01:23:51,280 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 1: footwear would have given it away. I don't, That's what

1831
01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. No one gave me the guide book on

1832
01:23:57,760 --> 01:23:58,920
Speaker 1: what lesbian shoes looked like.

1833
01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:02,360
Speaker 2: We got to look at her shoes.

1834
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 1: I've gotten the look book on that yet. But what

1835
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:08,559
Speaker 1: what shoes were you wearing, Brinn? That would have given

1836
01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:09,160
Speaker 1: it all the way.

1837
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 3: They were definitely Nikeys from the men's section.

1838
01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 1: The women in this room Nikes from the men's section.

1839
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:23,080
Speaker 1: So I don't okay, Peter, are you okay over there?

1840
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 1: Because you're not saying much. You seem a little stunned,

1841
01:24:25,120 --> 01:24:27,759
Speaker 1: Like are you okay? It's just an honest mistake.

1842
01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 18: It's I mean, it makes so much sense now, but

1843
01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 18: I can't believe I called this in and now everybody

1844
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 18: gets to hear it.

1845
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, don't worry about that. Is this is

1846
01:24:39,439 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: the least sinister of all of them. Like, we've heard

1847
01:24:41,479 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 1: a lot of really bad stuff. What do you want

1848
01:24:42,960 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: to say, Brin?

1849
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:45,640
Speaker 3: Oh, I just say you have my number if you

1850
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 3: still to hang out.

1851
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:50,280
Speaker 1: Oh friends, Wait a minute, how about that? Like I

1852
01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:52,320
Speaker 1: don't think that's ever happened before, where people at the

1853
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 1: end of waiting on the phone wind up being actual friends.

1854
01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:56,439
Speaker 1: Like she's not saying she doesn't like you as a human,

1855
01:24:57,120 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 1: she just doesn't like your parts. Uh yeah, I mean

1856
01:25:04,200 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 1: I might I might.

1857
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 18: Need some time just so every time I see you,

1858
01:25:08,040 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 18: I don't think about how uh embarrassed I am.

1859
01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:15,800
Speaker 1: Eventually, you didn't know, you didn't know, you got your hopes,

1860
01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:18,640
Speaker 1: but that's not your fault. Just hit me up.

1861
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 8: I'll tell you what.

1862
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:21,880
Speaker 1: If you guys want to go on again, let me know.

1863
01:25:21,960 --> 01:25:23,599
Speaker 1: We'll pay for that. You guys can go a little

1864
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:26,800
Speaker 1: friendly date. And uh, I'm sure that was embarrassing. You know,

1865
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:28,960
Speaker 1: I might have asked a few more questions like I

1866
01:25:29,040 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 1: don't know who's your favorite w NBA.

1867
01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:39,879
Speaker 2: Players, not the lesbian screening questions.

1868
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:47,800
Speaker 1: Well, we were trying to This would have avoided this situation.

1869
01:25:47,960 --> 01:25:51,559
Speaker 9: Needs something, something needs to happen. Go to the next situation.

1870
01:25:51,920 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 1: Yes, I guess My point is I feel like Pete

1871
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:56,840
Speaker 1: may have missed some obvious clues, but he's a sweet man.

1872
01:25:56,880 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: But Brin, hey, I think you've been very cool about this,

1873
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:01,400
Speaker 1: and Pete, I don't think you should be embarrassed. And

1874
01:26:01,520 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 1: I think that I think if you guys choose to

1875
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 1: go out again and be friends, which you should, let

1876
01:26:06,560 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 1: us know and we'll pay for the date or not date,

1877
01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:12,840
Speaker 1: we'll pay for the outing, right, the activity or whatever.

1878
01:26:12,920 --> 01:26:17,519
Speaker 2: Okay, badges, Oh my god, I'm just see suggesting things

1879
01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:26,200
Speaker 2: A friend do they're bros. They're bros what watching sports?

1880
01:26:26,240 --> 01:26:27,000
Speaker 2: When they met.

1881
01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:29,360
Speaker 1: Women who like men watch sports. I don't think that's

1882
01:26:29,360 --> 01:26:32,280
Speaker 1: the giveaway. I'm just saying you like sports and you're

1883
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:33,479
Speaker 1: very very stra.

1884
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:37,760
Speaker 7: I wouldn't say very very straight sports guys.

1885
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:38,439
Speaker 1: Watch for her.

1886
01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen her shoes.

1887
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:45,720
Speaker 1: You guys, thank you for being this Sports entertainment reports

1888
01:26:45,840 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 1: on the PREAD.

1889
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:50,480
Speaker 2: Show, Justin Timberlake got into some sort of heated exchange

1890
01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 2: with some crew members at a recent concert over audio issues,

1891
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:57,280
Speaker 2: and yes, it was all on video. JT was performing

1892
01:26:57,360 --> 01:26:59,759
Speaker 2: in England when he was seeing Look a Real ticked

1893
01:26:59,760 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 2: off with a couple of members of his crew on stage.

1894
01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:04,639
Speaker 2: He was about to perform Crime in a River when

1895
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:06,960
Speaker 2: the sound suddenly cut out, and that's when the video

1896
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:09,120
Speaker 2: picks up. You see the crew members telling Justin something

1897
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 2: about timing, which doesn't seem to sit well with him.

1898
01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:14,280
Speaker 2: Some are ripping him in the comments, with others saying

1899
01:27:14,320 --> 01:27:16,759
Speaker 2: that he has a right to be upset about technical issues.

1900
01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:20,120
Speaker 2: And I don't often defend Justin, but technical issues are

1901
01:27:20,200 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 2: very frustrating, as we know around here. However, you cannot

1902
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 2: speak to your crew in that sort of way, but

1903
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 2: I do understand him getting frustrated.

1904
01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:31,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to make the people, Yeah, when you

1905
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 1: look stupid when something happens technically. Yeah, maybe I should

1906
01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:36,280
Speaker 1: take a little bit of my own advice, because I

1907
01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 1: just rip everybody not in here, Ara, I rip all

1908
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:42,960
Speaker 1: the antillary people when things don't work here, especially when

1909
01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:45,600
Speaker 1: we did software updates during the show. That's usually what

1910
01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:48,400
Speaker 1: I have an issue with. Yeah, the middle of the

1911
01:27:48,439 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 1: night would be a good time for even but you

1912
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:52,400
Speaker 1: probably don't want to make the people mad. The only

1913
01:27:52,439 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 1: people who can fix it to mad, correct, because they

1914
01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:57,519
Speaker 1: could make you look like big dumb if they wanted to.

1915
01:27:57,800 --> 01:27:59,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so be nice here. There is true here, but

1916
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:04,960
Speaker 2: audio issues are very frustrating. Moving on. Yeah, I'm in

1917
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:06,679
Speaker 2: love with both of you. You and guys are the best.

1918
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:09,599
Speaker 2: If you heard the rumors that Britney Spears is adopting

1919
01:28:09,640 --> 01:28:13,519
Speaker 2: a baby girl named Lennon London Spears, those are not true.

1920
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:17,479
Speaker 2: The rumors were started by Brittany herself after she posted

1921
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:20,760
Speaker 2: a video claiming that she adopted a baby girl. Now,

1922
01:28:20,800 --> 01:28:22,680
Speaker 2: I try to not do stories about her, but I'm

1923
01:28:22,760 --> 01:28:25,840
Speaker 2: just I'm just spelling these rumors. I am now hearing

1924
01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:28,720
Speaker 2: that she was just kidding because there's no record of

1925
01:28:29,080 --> 01:28:32,639
Speaker 2: an adoption of even a pet, no less a human child,

1926
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:35,640
Speaker 2: nor are their plans to move to Italy. As she

1927
01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:37,719
Speaker 2: also mentioned in the clip, I want.

1928
01:28:37,560 --> 01:28:39,479
Speaker 1: To start doing that. I want to start I'm going

1929
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:41,960
Speaker 1: to start the rumors about myself as opposed to the haters.

1930
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:43,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to start them say things.

1931
01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's just trolling, guys, She's just kidding about that

1932
01:28:48,520 --> 01:28:49,120
Speaker 2: about adoption.

1933
01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:52,840
Speaker 1: That was just a silly SI girl.

1934
01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:58,360
Speaker 2: Sandra Vergara, cousin and adoptive sister of Modern Family Start

1935
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 2: Sophia Vergara, isining selling Sunset as a new agent at

1936
01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:04,920
Speaker 2: the Oppenheim Group. Jason, have you seen this for season nine?

1937
01:29:05,400 --> 01:29:08,280
Speaker 2: She's a veteran actress, former et host and our team

1938
01:29:08,320 --> 01:29:10,920
Speaker 2: at Tonight and a luxury real estate pro and obviously

1939
01:29:11,000 --> 01:29:12,840
Speaker 2: she's hot, because you have to be to be hired there.

1940
01:29:13,240 --> 01:29:17,640
Speaker 2: Returning cast members include Krishelle, Emma, Chelsea, Nicole Brie, and

1941
01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:21,240
Speaker 2: the very short Oppenheim Brothers. Season nine is in production

1942
01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:23,200
Speaker 2: now and scheduled to stream later this year. They just

1943
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:25,920
Speaker 2: keep pumping those out. And lastly, the dad of NFL

1944
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:28,920
Speaker 2: stars I'm and Ra and equamanias Saint Brown is going

1945
01:29:29,040 --> 01:29:31,559
Speaker 2: viral after telling his sons to avoid sleeping with white

1946
01:29:31,560 --> 01:29:34,479
Speaker 2: women in order to quote breed better athletes. John Brown

1947
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:36,920
Speaker 2: told his sons that a man should consider physical traits

1948
01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:40,439
Speaker 2: of women because he wants athletic grandchildren. He did the same,

1949
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,400
Speaker 2: he says, as a former Mister Universe and Mister World

1950
01:29:43,680 --> 01:29:47,560
Speaker 2: in the early eighties, he emphasized selective breeding, and he

1951
01:29:47,600 --> 01:29:50,280
Speaker 2: has for a long time, AKA choosing partners based on

1952
01:29:50,400 --> 01:29:53,639
Speaker 2: traits he believe would produce elite athletes. I always feel

1953
01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,920
Speaker 2: this way about you, Fred, like if you do make

1954
01:29:57,040 --> 01:29:59,240
Speaker 2: love and produce someone, I wanted to be another tall

1955
01:29:59,320 --> 01:30:02,080
Speaker 2: woman so we can either an w NBA player or

1956
01:30:02,080 --> 01:30:04,680
Speaker 2: an NBA player. By the way, I think amen Ra

1957
01:30:04,800 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 2: and Equimanius are the coolest names in the NFL. That's

1958
01:30:07,040 --> 01:30:07,840
Speaker 2: just a side note.

1959
01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:11,000
Speaker 1: No, they are cool names. No, for me, it's more like,

1960
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:15,639
Speaker 1: do we care enough about our physical appearance? I really

1961
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:18,080
Speaker 1: care more about our even the physical appearance. Do we

1962
01:30:18,200 --> 01:30:19,880
Speaker 1: care enough about our health that we just don't want

1963
01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:20,439
Speaker 1: to die young?

1964
01:30:21,120 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 19: You know?

1965
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm just like, we're just but can we also enjoy?

1966
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:26,760
Speaker 5: You know?

1967
01:30:27,040 --> 01:30:29,599
Speaker 1: Can you can you competitively eat taco bell on the couch?

1968
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:32,560
Speaker 1: Watch those are the kind of thing I'm looking for.

1969
01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm looking for that balance between Sure, we could go

1970
01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 1: around a little a little flirty five k r you know,

1971
01:30:39,040 --> 01:30:41,400
Speaker 1: if we wanted to, if we had to, and we're

1972
01:30:41,400 --> 01:30:43,280
Speaker 1: going to live to be at least seventy five, you know,

1973
01:30:43,400 --> 01:30:47,280
Speaker 1: at least we're gonna try. But then also we can

1974
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:50,960
Speaker 1: crush some taco bell on the couch, maybe a nice

1975
01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:53,040
Speaker 1: you know, pizza, that kind of thing, you know, Like

1976
01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm looking for that.

1977
01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:56,880
Speaker 2: Kind of ballant. Hey, everybody has something that they're looking for.

1978
01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so here you go.

1979
01:30:58,600 --> 01:30:59,840
Speaker 2: By the way, if you missed any part of our

1980
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 2: type the Fread Show on demand and set us as

1981
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:04,839
Speaker 2: a preset on the Free I Heard radio app The Fread.

1982
01:31:04,680 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 1: Show is on Fread's Fun Fact Fred Fun so much. Okay.

1983
01:31:18,439 --> 01:31:21,200
Speaker 1: Today's fact is it is a fast forward to one

1984
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:25,200
Speaker 1: of my favorite seasons, that is the fall. And we're

1985
01:31:25,200 --> 01:31:29,840
Speaker 1: gonna talk about male reindeer today. So okay, you ready,

1986
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:33,920
Speaker 1: I drew you in? Yes, I sucked you in. Okay, Kiki.

1987
01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:38,640
Speaker 1: Male reindeer shed their antlers in the winter, while females

1988
01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:42,680
Speaker 1: typically retain theirs until giving birth in the spring. Therefore,

1989
01:31:43,400 --> 01:31:47,439
Speaker 1: if Santa's reindeer are depicted with antlers in December. It's

1990
01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:52,560
Speaker 1: a female squad women in stem. Yes, this means that

1991
01:31:52,680 --> 01:31:55,799
Speaker 1: Santa Slay is indeed pulled by a team of strong

1992
01:31:56,080 --> 01:31:59,240
Speaker 1: female reindeer. And this is according to science.

1993
01:31:59,560 --> 01:32:00,720
Speaker 8: We always got to do the work.

1994
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:04,920
Speaker 1: I do more. Fread show next.

1995
01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 13: Yeah, they talk better than the excite. These are the

1996
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:13,120
Speaker 13: radio blogs on the Fred Show. Okay, like writing in

1997
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:15,479
Speaker 13: our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call them blogs.

1998
01:32:16,080 --> 01:32:18,559
Speaker 13: I'm taking this one, dear blog. So, after my little

1999
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:27,800
Speaker 13: venture to South America to visit Saint Todan In in Uruguayguay,

2000
01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:32,080
Speaker 13: I have decided that I am going to.

2001
01:32:34,479 --> 01:32:40,120
Speaker 1: Start speaking Spanish. I love it permanently, for no right,

2002
01:32:40,720 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 1: it is my first language. I'm good. I'm going to

2003
01:32:43,400 --> 01:32:45,160
Speaker 1: do the whole show in Spanish, starting right out.

2004
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 11: No.

2005
01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:48,880
Speaker 1: So, for twelve years growing up in Arizona, I took

2006
01:32:48,920 --> 01:32:51,639
Speaker 1: Spanish and because we had to, and I didn't take

2007
01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:54,080
Speaker 1: it very seriously. And it's amazing what I remember, but

2008
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:56,920
Speaker 1: it's amazing what I don't by not practicing it. So

2009
01:32:57,040 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 1: I've decided I'm going to take this seriously and I'm

2010
01:33:01,120 --> 01:33:03,800
Speaker 1: going to figure out a way to speak Spanish, Jason,

2011
01:33:03,840 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 1: you're on over eighteen hundred days of dua lipa. Yes,

2012
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:09,479
Speaker 1: uh huh do a lingo? I know it's called do

2013
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:11,559
Speaker 1: a lingo. You don't have to text me. I'd say

2014
01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:14,759
Speaker 1: it on purpose like that, would you say that you're fluent?

2015
01:33:15,680 --> 01:33:17,240
Speaker 1: Uh no, I'm not fluent.

2016
01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:19,240
Speaker 9: No, but I feel like I could make my way

2017
01:33:19,360 --> 01:33:21,839
Speaker 9: round a conversation yeah.

2018
01:33:22,680 --> 01:33:26,760
Speaker 1: Past yeah no no no no no no no. So

2019
01:33:26,880 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 1: I'd like googled, like basically, how to learn to speak

2020
01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:32,240
Speaker 1: Spanish is fast if you have it, like if you're

2021
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:36,439
Speaker 1: at an intermediate level, okay, And so many different options

2022
01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:39,599
Speaker 1: came up, I mean literally everything from there's a ninety

2023
01:33:39,760 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 1: episode series on YouTube. I forget what it's called. I

2024
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:45,599
Speaker 1: don't have it right in front of me, but it's

2025
01:33:45,720 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 1: like you watch that and you no memorization, no writing

2026
01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:53,440
Speaker 1: anything down. It's like if you follow their methods, supposedly,

2027
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 1: like at the end of it, you are really good.

2028
01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 1: I don't know how that's possible. There's, of course, you know,

2029
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 1: do a lingoes and babble. I saw that one a lot.

2030
01:34:02,760 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 1: Uh People, as simple as watching Destinos on YouTube, which

2031
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:09,599
Speaker 1: is a soap opera. I don't think that's gonna work.

2032
01:34:09,800 --> 01:34:12,519
Speaker 1: I can see why watching videos of people speaking Spanish,

2033
01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 1: if you know a little bit of Spanish, might help

2034
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:16,840
Speaker 1: because you could sort of maybe deduce things from that

2035
01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:20,599
Speaker 1: context clues. And then of course everyone's like immersion, which

2036
01:34:20,680 --> 01:34:26,000
Speaker 1: is not an option. What you mean house that I

2037
01:34:26,080 --> 01:34:27,680
Speaker 1: can't move to, Well, you're gonna move, but.

2038
01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:28,880
Speaker 2: Get you some friends.

2039
01:34:29,080 --> 01:34:31,719
Speaker 8: Go out to the restaurant that first.

2040
01:34:32,320 --> 01:34:36,240
Speaker 1: Get me some friends. But that's that's just a hard stop.

2041
01:34:36,280 --> 01:34:40,599
Speaker 1: Where you go. You guys are gonna go any friends

2042
01:34:40,600 --> 01:34:43,519
Speaker 1: would be great, but I guess that we're starting from scratch.

2043
01:34:43,520 --> 01:34:45,360
Speaker 1: To Spanish speaking friends would be awesome.

2044
01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:47,400
Speaker 2: You pick yours up. You guys are gonna go to

2045
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:49,040
Speaker 2: totally your favorite.

2046
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:56,559
Speaker 1: Spot every day there, every single day before I.

2047
01:34:56,560 --> 01:34:59,040
Speaker 7: Would know how to order and only speak Spanish the

2048
01:34:59,040 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 7: whole time. I basically that you'll be fluf.

2049
01:35:01,680 --> 01:35:03,960
Speaker 1: Tacos alpus store and boom. At least I can eat.

2050
01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:05,720
Speaker 8: Okay, you can't take my baby too, that she can

2051
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:06,920
Speaker 8: learn everyone learning.

2052
01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, all of a sudden, a babysitter out. She can

2053
01:35:09,040 --> 01:35:12,120
Speaker 1: be my only friend. It's fine. We communicated by it

2054
01:35:12,280 --> 01:35:14,800
Speaker 1: at the same level as she might have known more

2055
01:35:14,840 --> 01:35:17,479
Speaker 1: statush to me at this point actually and a half

2056
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:19,960
Speaker 1: year old. No, but I'm serious, So if anyone has

2057
01:35:20,000 --> 01:35:22,479
Speaker 1: any like thoughts about this, Yes, I realized I could

2058
01:35:22,479 --> 01:35:25,280
Speaker 1: move to Mexico and and I would. Honestly, I think

2059
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:27,800
Speaker 1: I know enough that if I moved to Mexico and

2060
01:35:28,000 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 1: took lessons, I think within six months or a year,

2061
01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:32,600
Speaker 1: I'd be in pretty good shape. I'm serious. That's not

2062
01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:35,280
Speaker 1: an option because I do have a good foundation, I

2063
01:35:35,439 --> 01:35:38,320
Speaker 1: just don't remember it. And also, the tenses are a

2064
01:35:38,360 --> 01:35:41,560
Speaker 1: little bit questionable, Like I can pretty much tell you

2065
01:35:41,640 --> 01:35:45,240
Speaker 1: what's happening right now, what's happening right here. Do not

2066
01:35:45,360 --> 01:35:47,320
Speaker 1: ask me what happened yesterday or what I plan to

2067
01:35:47,360 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 1: do tomorrow. I know. And the other tricky thing is,

2068
01:35:51,000 --> 01:35:53,840
Speaker 1: and I don't mean to be controversial with this, but

2069
01:35:53,960 --> 01:36:00,880
Speaker 1: the dialects are different. My ant speaks Argentine Uruguayan Spanish, yes,

2070
01:36:01,200 --> 01:36:05,559
Speaker 1: which has they used a different vocabulary, not entirely different,

2071
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:07,400
Speaker 1: but there are words that, like my aunt I would

2072
01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:08,680
Speaker 1: say something in my aunt would be like, oh, we

2073
01:36:08,760 --> 01:36:11,240
Speaker 1: don't use that word here, we use this. It's kind

2074
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:12,799
Speaker 1: of I be honest with you, it's a little bit elitist.

2075
01:36:13,080 --> 01:36:15,960
Speaker 1: It's a little bit eladist. It's like, oh, that's that's

2076
01:36:16,080 --> 01:36:18,719
Speaker 1: this kind of Spanish. We speak this kind of Spanish.

2077
01:36:18,760 --> 01:36:20,519
Speaker 1: And then if you're here, they'll say, oh, well that

2078
01:36:20,680 --> 01:36:23,800
Speaker 1: kind of Spanish is fancy. And and you know, I

2079
01:36:24,120 --> 01:36:27,680
Speaker 1: dated a Nicaragua girl for a while and when we

2080
01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:30,400
Speaker 1: went to Mexico together, like it was almost like she

2081
01:36:30,479 --> 01:36:32,439
Speaker 1: was speaking like with the British accent or something, because

2082
01:36:32,600 --> 01:36:34,519
Speaker 1: the person, you know, the person of Mexico step back,

2083
01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:35,599
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're fancy.

2084
01:36:35,680 --> 01:36:38,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's like proper, that's what you learn is proper.

2085
01:36:39,080 --> 01:36:43,960
Speaker 1: And so that's kind of the challenges. I speak Spanish

2086
01:36:44,000 --> 01:36:48,599
Speaker 1: from Mexico primarily, and so but as far as I'm concerned,

2087
01:36:48,880 --> 01:36:52,560
Speaker 1: that's that's valuable. And then I could adjust, you know.

2088
01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:55,320
Speaker 1: But and she has my my end after ten years

2089
01:36:55,320 --> 01:36:57,160
Speaker 1: of living in South America still has it's a tutor,

2090
01:36:57,520 --> 01:36:59,799
Speaker 1: and she's like, well you can, you can use my tutor.

2091
01:37:00,240 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 1: I need to get myself to a conversational level before

2092
01:37:03,000 --> 01:37:05,000
Speaker 1: I think the tutor would be helpful. So I'm very

2093
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 1: serious about this. I just I want to I want

2094
01:37:09,200 --> 01:37:11,400
Speaker 1: to be efficient and I want to do the right thing.

2095
01:37:11,960 --> 01:37:15,120
Speaker 1: But you know, I don't think watching Telenovellas is going

2096
01:37:15,160 --> 01:37:19,280
Speaker 1: to do it. I don't necessarily think that it would

2097
01:37:19,280 --> 01:37:21,200
Speaker 1: be appropriate for me to like go to class yet

2098
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:24,240
Speaker 1: or at all, because I think I don't know, and

2099
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:26,200
Speaker 1: I also don't think I would stick with that. So

2100
01:37:26,320 --> 01:37:29,400
Speaker 1: I'm curious if anyone's done this before. I'm very sincere.

2101
01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:31,920
Speaker 1: You know, did you use one of the apps? Did

2102
01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:35,240
Speaker 1: it work? You know, Jason's been doing it for two

2103
01:37:35,280 --> 01:37:38,160
Speaker 1: thousand days and it's somehow not fluid, and that's you know,

2104
01:37:38,640 --> 01:37:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused about that.

2105
01:37:39,880 --> 01:37:42,840
Speaker 9: But we'll only do it like five minutes a day

2106
01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:44,920
Speaker 9: just to keep the streak, like I do one lesson.

2107
01:37:45,160 --> 01:37:47,880
Speaker 1: You've you've been doing this for six years consecutive.

2108
01:37:47,560 --> 01:37:50,080
Speaker 9: I know, but you could do endless amounts of lessons

2109
01:37:50,120 --> 01:37:52,799
Speaker 9: in a day like hours.

2110
01:37:53,360 --> 01:37:53,599
Speaker 11: Yeah.

2111
01:37:53,880 --> 01:37:56,760
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm for fun, like there's no endgame for me.

2112
01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm very proud of you for doing it. But I

2113
01:37:59,200 --> 01:38:01,479
Speaker 1: have to tell you something, Jason. If I spend every

2114
01:38:01,560 --> 01:38:03,520
Speaker 1: day for six years working on something.

2115
01:38:03,960 --> 01:38:07,559
Speaker 2: Damn, but I'm not working towards fluid.

2116
01:38:07,720 --> 01:38:10,160
Speaker 1: No, I'm giving you. I'm giving you a hard time,

2117
01:38:11,200 --> 01:38:13,400
Speaker 1: which I know, and so I'm very serious about this,

2118
01:38:13,520 --> 01:38:15,599
Speaker 1: and so I and I think I said that four

2119
01:38:15,640 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 1: or five times, but I tend to not be very serious.

2120
01:38:18,880 --> 01:38:20,640
Speaker 1: But I'm very sincere that this is something that I

2121
01:38:20,720 --> 01:38:22,880
Speaker 1: really want to pursue, and I just want to do

2122
01:38:22,960 --> 01:38:26,000
Speaker 1: it the right way. And so if anyone has done

2123
01:38:26,040 --> 01:38:31,320
Speaker 1: this successfully and again, moving somewhere would be perfect not

2124
01:38:31,479 --> 01:38:34,920
Speaker 1: an option, at least not until January first, then it

2125
01:38:35,040 --> 01:38:38,560
Speaker 1: might be an option. The way things are going, I

2126
01:38:38,640 --> 01:38:45,640
Speaker 1: might be moving somewhere else January first, so it's very possible. Again,

2127
01:38:45,720 --> 01:38:47,439
Speaker 1: I do have it, because.

2128
01:38:47,280 --> 01:38:50,439
Speaker 9: That's like actual like you're like learning learning, like it's

2129
01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:54,120
Speaker 9: like real school, right, So if that's effective, then sure,

2130
01:38:54,120 --> 01:38:56,080
Speaker 9: I mean I guess again, like you can you can

2131
01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:57,680
Speaker 9: hit me up on social fred on air.

2132
01:38:59,320 --> 01:39:01,840
Speaker 1: But if that's the way to do it, find if

2133
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:03,800
Speaker 1: it's one of these apps, fine, if it's if there's

2134
01:39:03,800 --> 01:39:06,120
Speaker 1: another method that you've used. I see ads sometimes on

2135
01:39:06,240 --> 01:39:08,160
Speaker 1: TikTok as. Now it's part of my I've been searching

2136
01:39:08,240 --> 01:39:11,680
Speaker 1: for it, so it pops up and it's like, you know,

2137
01:39:11,920 --> 01:39:14,479
Speaker 1: I learned to speak Spanish fluently in ninety days doing

2138
01:39:14,560 --> 01:39:16,760
Speaker 1: this thing. And it's like if I don't know how

2139
01:39:16,840 --> 01:39:19,880
Speaker 1: that's possible, but if it is, I do know enough

2140
01:39:20,000 --> 01:39:23,160
Speaker 1: that maybe something like that would work. I don't know,

2141
01:39:23,400 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 1: so I'm actually asking for some help here, and I

2142
01:39:26,240 --> 01:39:27,360
Speaker 1: would love your feedback on this.

2143
01:39:27,520 --> 01:39:29,519
Speaker 7: I think it's awesome and I think too like it's

2144
01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:31,240
Speaker 7: about confidence, is what I've been told a lot of

2145
01:39:31,320 --> 01:39:33,400
Speaker 7: times because I'm so shy, because I'm like, I'm gonna

2146
01:39:33,400 --> 01:39:35,240
Speaker 7: say this wrong, so I'm gonna just keep quiet, you

2147
01:39:35,280 --> 01:39:36,880
Speaker 7: know what I mean. But if you're willing to put

2148
01:39:36,880 --> 01:39:39,080
Speaker 7: yourself out there and actually because you have to speak otherwise,

2149
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:39,760
Speaker 7: you're not gonna learn.

2150
01:39:39,800 --> 01:39:40,360
Speaker 8: That's the thing too.

2151
01:39:40,439 --> 01:39:41,880
Speaker 7: We think we can retain it. Okay, I could hear

2152
01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:43,600
Speaker 7: it all day, but until you open your mouth that

2153
01:39:43,640 --> 01:39:46,280
Speaker 7: actually say sentences and say words, you're really not going

2154
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 7: to learn how to speak and communicate properly.

2155
01:39:48,320 --> 01:39:50,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, what I say, I'm fully willing to try. And

2156
01:39:50,360 --> 01:39:53,160
Speaker 1: I've found in my experience for the most part, with

2157
01:39:53,320 --> 01:39:56,599
Speaker 1: Spanish in Mexico and other places I've traveled, people are

2158
01:39:56,720 --> 01:39:59,080
Speaker 1: very willing to be patient. I did not find that

2159
01:39:59,200 --> 01:40:01,080
Speaker 1: in resilt to be honest with you, like, and I'm

2160
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:03,280
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking Brazil, but they were not patient with

2161
01:40:03,360 --> 01:40:06,479
Speaker 1: me attempting to fumble through Portuguese. They weren't interested and

2162
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:08,519
Speaker 1: I've been other places too where they're just not interesting.

2163
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:12,280
Speaker 1: Like France, I noticed they don't they prefer you just

2164
01:40:12,320 --> 01:40:14,400
Speaker 1: speaking English. They would actually prefer that. Now, when I

2165
01:40:14,520 --> 01:40:17,280
Speaker 1: go someplace, I try, because you know, I'm so paranoid

2166
01:40:17,320 --> 01:40:19,800
Speaker 1: about being the six or five white dude that is

2167
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:23,519
Speaker 1: like ultra American and ignorant and doesn't try, and so

2168
01:40:23,680 --> 01:40:25,960
Speaker 1: I do try. But I've noticed there are places where

2169
01:40:26,000 --> 01:40:28,439
Speaker 1: they're and I've noticed in Mexico or when I speak

2170
01:40:28,479 --> 01:40:31,120
Speaker 1: to Spanish speakers, they're often very willing to be patient.

2171
01:40:32,120 --> 01:40:34,680
Speaker 1: I've noticed, and again this is not universal, but I

2172
01:40:34,800 --> 01:40:36,880
Speaker 1: have noticed in other places they're a little bit less

2173
01:40:36,960 --> 01:40:39,360
Speaker 1: likely to work with you, and they just let's just

2174
01:40:39,439 --> 01:40:43,760
Speaker 1: get to it. So anyway, open a suggestion that.

2175
01:40:43,840 --> 01:40:46,639
Speaker 8: Lady on their plane must have been really fair, because

2176
01:40:46,680 --> 01:40:47,920
Speaker 8: I know that that's why you're doing it.

2177
01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:51,400
Speaker 1: It was such Portuguese, maybe, like we don't even good

2178
01:40:51,479 --> 01:40:55,479
Speaker 1: luck with that, right, Yeah, girl

2179
01:40:55,560 --> 01:40:57,760
Speaker 6: I can't make my mouth dudo thing like I just

2180
01:40:57,800 --> 01:40:59,160
Speaker 6: immerse yourself in Portuguese