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Speaker 1: It's the two thousand and eighteen edition. Baby, were brand

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Speaker 1: Steve for what? Yes, the guys last bird. Yeahs. My

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Speaker 1: as a loan officer, but then got trouble paying back

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Speaker 1: the damn loan. Come on here, hit it, hit it.

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00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: See I've been at all these levels. So now hear

425
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: what you have to do. You have to make a

426
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: decision that enough is enough and too much stinks. And

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00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: right now y'all have the stink Paul, because how many

428
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: times you're gonna come to me? See my number? One

429
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: question began what I what I had to learn to

430
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: ask myself was if you did not have my number,

431
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: what would you do? Yeah, you always say that, you

432
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: always say that, that's what you call Listen to me, y'all.

433
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: All these emergencies that these people call y'all wit, if

434
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: they didn't have your number, what would they do? Well?

435
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: Guess what get to doing that? First of all, let

436
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: me explain something to you y'all. At this level right here,

437
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: you do not need voicemail. No more your voicemail. I

438
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: don't listen to mine anyway, but I get rid of

439
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: your voicemail. That's an opportunity for a cry for help.

440
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: Do not need people who can fly on your machine

441
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: to leave you before you got to hear voice and

442
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 1: flash hoping you answer. Please tell me I can't even

443
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: wait min hold up, be quiet enough, call me. You

444
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: know you was still doing stand up. This is the

445
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: set right, I'm telling you, man, get rid of your

446
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: voicemail because all it is is allows people to leave

447
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: you a cry for help. I always wondered why you

448
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: didn't have it. I just thought it was because you're

449
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All you can do is text me and

450
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: I can decide what this is you're talking about, like

451
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: okay for and then you can control it. What about this?

452
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: I heard what you said about your siblings, and we

453
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: all have What about those family members? You said you

454
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: will always help your brothers and sisters, you pay them,

455
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: But what about those especially folks that are listening to

456
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: have those family members? They are the ones that come

457
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: over and over and over again. But see guess what,

458
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: though you you can't keep coming to the whale once

459
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: it's dry. See what? Let and let me explain something

460
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: to y'all. These people will come to you as long

461
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: as you give it to and when you ain't got

462
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: it nor more, they go somewhere. So you do not

463
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: allow a person to dry your water whale up. It's

464
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: like they're holding your holding your kindness and your your

465
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: your generosity hostage because they know how you are. They know, Tommy,

466
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: like you said, you're you know that they know you

467
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: have it. They know you have it, they know you're

468
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: a giver. So they play on those sympathies. They play

469
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: on that emotion that you have because you know, because

470
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: you they you know, maybe you'll feel guilty because you

471
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: have more than them. So you know all of them

472
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 1: all year long. Man, this nice house. I've never been here. Wow, alright,

473
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: I feel man. Have a call like that. Man, what

474
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: you got to a car? We're gonna continue this when

475
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: we come back. We're doing a new two thousand either

476
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: midshell remarks. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

477
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: All right, Wow, what a discussion. We're in the middle

478
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: of two thousand eighteen predictions. It's evolved into something else.

479
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: What you know, the discussion is good. I think that

480
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: you know the leg workers carrying it out. You know,

481
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: I have to be focused to carry it out because

482
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: they don't come. You know what I mean. They come, Tommy,

483
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: like I was about to tell you what your problem is.

484
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: They set you up for this. Man, this is the

485
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: nicest house I have ever seen. Man, How I feel

486
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: to drive a car like that? Man? Man, So you

487
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: work with it? Man, you ain't show business? Man and

488
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: you tell him jokes Man, you're on the radio. Man,

489
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: you got that game show Man? How they feel? Man?

490
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: Oh man, Man, we're over here, Man, we're just trying

491
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: to get back. Yo. Hey man, I got this thing

492
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm working on, but I needed thousand dollars. Man. Man,

493
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: if you could just help me out, man, I show

494
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: we'll appreciate it. All right. Man, I'll help you out

495
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: because you're a kind person. But listen to me, y'all. People,

496
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: like Shirley said, people take advantage of your kind. When

497
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: a person wants something, they'll do the necessary things to

498
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: get it. If it's compliment, you make you false promises.

499
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: But the most, the biggest and the most useless emotions.

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00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: Oh Tommy, you're so tall. Let let me get a

501
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: their compliment, they'll do it's necessary, man for that. But

502
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 1: I jumped in it. The most useless emotions. The most

503
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: useless emotion in the human spirit is guilt. Yes, guilt,

504
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: it is the most useless emotion. It serves the purpose

505
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: of no one except the person who applies it right.

506
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: And people use it to apply it to get something

507
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: from you, so they make you feel guilty. Guilt is

508
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: the most useless human emotion. It serves no purpose. Why

509
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: are you feeling guilty, especially if you ain't done nothing. Now,

510
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: if you shot somebody and you're sitting over there looking

511
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: at him in the hospital room and you know you

512
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: shot it, yeah, you're posted to feel guilty. But if

513
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: you've done nothing, why would you feel guilt because you blessed?

514
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: Because God didn't bless you, because you go to work

515
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: every day and you don't got to supervise the job,

516
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: or you don't gotta upgrade and you don't got yourself

517
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: a raise because you didn't worked your tail off and

518
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: attend has been good. You don't be late. Now you're

519
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: on your job. You didn't come up now all of

520
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: a sudden, cause you didn't come up. You got this

521
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 1: relative and friend who thinks you owe them something because

522
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: they know now you got it. Now you're feeling guilty

523
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: because they ain't got it, because they ass ain't worked,

524
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: because they ain't putty in what you put in. See,

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00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,479
Speaker 1: I stopped that a long time ago because I works

526
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: my tail off. So what you're not gonna do it's

527
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: come over to me and make me feel funky because

528
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: I got something you ain't. But when I tell you

529
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: what you gotta do to get something, man, you gotta

530
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 1: get the hustling man. Yeah's people said, when you tell

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00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: them what they got to do, and the first thing

532
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: out that, my man, I ain't gonna be doing all that,

533
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: what then you ain't gonna happen. You can't have all

534
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: this thing. If you're not gonna do all that, you

535
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: can't have all that. You can't And that's that's the

536
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: problem that we all face it. So in two thousand

537
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: and eighteen, y'all think about it. Cut the dead weight, loose,

538
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: lose the guilt emotion because it's it only serves the

539
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: person that's applying it to you. Lose guilt shared the

540
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: dead weight. Don't be afraid to say no. And remember

541
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: if they didn't know your number, what would they do? Well,

542
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: guess what they needs to get to do with it?

543
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: He thinks that too, though. It's don't be afraid to

544
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: say no. Yeah, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

545
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, without further ado. Here he is starting

546
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: the new year off different. Eugene the Butterfly, good morning,

547
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: good morning, Stephen Shirley College Junior, Tommy, good morning, good morning,

548
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 1: good money. It's a beautiful, beautiful too. We're gonna do

549
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: something different, Okay, So here's what we're doing. Um, today

550
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: is January nine, Tuesday, and we have a special birthday.

551
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: And I wanted to do it myself because this is

552
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: one of my really really good girlfriends, because I love

553
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: her so much, so I want to bring her up.

554
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: We have her on the line, so I want to say, um,

555
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: happy birthday to miss JaQuel and Myles, good morning, good morning, morning.

556
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: We'll girl, Hi Jackie, Hi, happy birthday baby, but thank

557
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: you so much. Happy birthday, girl, Love you to the

558
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: moon and fat girl you hear me. Hey, y'all don't know.

559
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 1: This is Tommy's white the first Yeah, this is the

560
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: first CIS. But it was my idea that lemonade. It

561
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: was my idea to give you a car. I'm going

562
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: to one of the cow you wish you a happy birthday.

563
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: It was not him, it was me. He dog, Come on,

564
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: I don't don't, don't come between me and my girl.

565
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: Happy birthday. Tea yea. I just want to say I

566
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: look at you, Look at Lemon. Lemon. You know I'm

567
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: you already now I'm your favorite. I'm gonna say to

568
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: do things don't work out with you and Tommy, Hi right,

569
00:36:48,880 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: your baby, I'm your boy. It's my baby's birthday. This

570
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: is a milestone birthday. Today. We're going to see Hamilton

571
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: in New York tonight. So this is this is all

572
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 1: for her. I got a big party, we got playing

573
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 1: on Saturday night. When you when we get back to Houston.

574
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, they don't have a house. Yay.

575
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: You know how you know chateaus. You can't ja walk

576
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: up to a shot. They got a gate. Yeah, you

577
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: gotta get rung in. You got security, sting, you got,

578
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 1: you got, you got a white man stand outside in

579
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 1: a booth in a both. So I want to say

580
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: this to you. Let me. I want to do you

581
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: have anything to say for you know, this is a

582
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 1: beautiful housetown. Anything any worries you like to say about

583
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: Milestone what did you talking about? Lemonade is turned the

584
00:37:52,760 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: Big five out today? Beautiful looking look at years. Let

585
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: me tell you something. You look good. You look good

586
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: for Yes you do? Yes, congratulations your man birthday to day. Yeah, yeah,

587
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: you ain't thought on that. Carlos said, I should cook

588
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: dinner fromm We'll be back today. You're listening to Steve

589
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. Well, yesterday, I don't know if you

590
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,359
Speaker 1: guys recalled, but Steve got a little upset with Jay

591
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: because in well, yeah, yeah, they were, they were beefing yesterday. Well,

592
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 1: Steve was with Jay and eventually Steve kind of let

593
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 1: Jay have it due to Yeah, that could be, that

594
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: could be. He did leave another murder the hit. But

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00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: that's what it was all about, Steve, right, He put

596
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 1: your name in a murder of the hit like a

597
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: two thousand eighteen, two thousand seventeen review, Year in review,

598
00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: and you were in there your meeting with the press.

599
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: Let's hear though. Let's play it right now. Your part

600
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 1: is good. Let's start what I'm a Rosa Uncle Ridges

601
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: tone star will they in the White House? But Trump

602
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 1: said no, sir. How about Wendy Williams fainted on TV?

603
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: Since she was burning up drink a lady liberty. Then

604
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: it's Mr hard y'all first name Kenvin. He got us

605
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: once turned around and did the same thing. Hello Harvey Weinstein,

606
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: pulling at your danger link. Hope they let you up

607
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: and send your ass away to same thing. Mr Steve

608
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: Harby with Trump, I'm gonna let you go because I

609
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: need him checks from TV and radio, crying Ny Times, crying,

610
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: But your dactor had so many times you could have

611
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 1: sold bottle Watery Bill Cosby known as Mr Jello. Ladies

612
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: say one drunk when you you ain't a knife Fello

613
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: or thog Simpson out of jail, Old j C with

614
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: a button night my back. It is best to run

615
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: away fry babies to eighteen. I'm gonna need you people

616
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: to do stupid stuff in the two eight team. I

617
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: can't help the same people doing the same stuff and

618
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: then ship help a rug out. I don't need no

619
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Speaker 1: people or I ain't done it over. Remember check this out.

620
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: Robert R. Callis stepping in the name of love. Were

621
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: you lucking women up for your little night club? Yeah? Yeah,

622
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: us shut the ladies, shrush y'all unprotected sex to the clinic.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna rush shat. Don't forget Candie Be. She's the

624
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: next dancer. I had one hit, not she needs a financer.

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00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: Don't the inward camera Naty he got down on one

626
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: knee because it was down enough for upperly brutality. Yes,

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00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need no people. And it's two eighteen y'allhis

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00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 1: go you famous and you do something stupid. We don't

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Speaker 1: say about jor don't don't we just put on you.

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Speaker 1: That's my dog. You gotta like it, big dogs laughing

631
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: still lesson here. It's st aren't serious. You weren't sus

632
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 1: But that's why he ain't here. You can't intimidate the

633
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: new talent song and he can't go back over there,

634
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,439
Speaker 1: so he would love murder to his day here. Yeah,

635
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: and it's also five Beta Sigma founders day to day

636
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 1: to you know Jason member five. Yeah, that's right. Congratulations

637
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: all the brothers and five Beta sigm out there. Yeah.

638
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: I founded UH back in nineteen fourteen on the campus

639
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:01,239
Speaker 1: of Howard University in d C. Yes, right, a lot

640
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 1: of face, So he's not here today. Like who well,

641
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 1: like Reverenel Sharpton, I like that one. Yeah, like Blair Underwood, yes,

642
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: pretty black something you'll never be shut up. You shut up.

643
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: Campus is supposed to be pretty boy. They just well,

644
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: on your line, what was the deal? Well, on your line,

645
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: they just let you you have it. There are other

646
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: ones as well, Malik Yoba and of course Al Roker.

647
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: Yeah is Danny Glove Sigma. I didn't see his name,

648
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: but you know who is Bill Clinton? Former President Bill Clinton?

649
00:42:54,040 --> 00:43:02,919
Speaker 1: Billy Oh yeah, what what your mamma like? Yeah, he didn't,

650
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 1: he didn't play stop that. It was honorary. Alright, alright, listen,

651
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy's coming out with prank phone call right after this. Okay,

652
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

653
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right about four minutes after, we'll

654
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 1: have today's strawberry letter for you. But right now, up

655
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 1: next it is the nephew with today's prank phone call.

656
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: What you got now? Surely this only seems right. This

657
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: goes out to all the members of five Beta Sigma.

658
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: In the title of this prank is you ain't no signal? No,

659
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 1: you ain't no Sigers day. We miss you, Jay Blue Blue, Hello,

660
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Greg please. Yeah, this see

661
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: how you doing my name is Bernard, five Beta Sigma

662
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: over pledged relationships. Uh huh giving you a call to

663
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 1: day man, um you attended, prev, you and m University?

664
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: Am I correct? Yeah? Am I right? You attended and

665
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 1: from my understanding you pledged five Beta signal and fall

666
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: of ninety one. That's correct, alright, that's the Theta chapter correct? Yes,

667
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: all right. Here's where we're having some problems here going

668
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: through the records, actually looking at the records that we

669
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: have here headquarters, you're not actually an official member of

670
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: five Beta Sigma. I don't know what has taken place,

671
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: but what you mean not a member? Looking at our

672
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: records here at national headquarters, it's indicating that you're not

673
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: an official member of five Beta Sigma. I don't know

674
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: what could have gone wrong with this now not It

675
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: ain't right? Man, That ain't right because see depth of

676
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: data is recognized nationally, so why wouldn't I be nationally recognized.

677
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm not certain, sir. Maybe it's something that took place

678
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: on that that actual line of Fall ninety one. We're

679
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: actually going to have to do some research on everything

680
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: that's going on with your line as well as the chapter.

681
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: But how is that possible if they gave if they

682
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: gave me a certifticate in the in the plaque and

683
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 1: I got my my opin and I mean I'm a stigma.

684
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: What you mean? Okay, sir, I don't know what I'm

685
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: looking at here and and and please understand, I want

686
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 1: to try to clear this matter up. Yeah, yeah, we

687
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,319
Speaker 1: need to do this matter. Who who else? Is there

688
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: somebody there like U oversee? Uh, maybe the head president

689
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: or your branch or something I can talk to or something. Well,

690
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: I'm actually I am actually over pledged relations uh. And

691
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call personally so we

692
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: can try to rectify the matter. And it's gonna take

693
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: us some time to hiring this thing out. But what

694
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: I need you to do as at this point, and

695
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: you know what the problem is that I'm noticing is

696
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,840
Speaker 1: that all of the people that were on your line

697
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: they are official. For some reason, Mr Gregg isn't official,

698
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: So I want to I don't understand that because I

699
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: was the line president. So how how is everybody else

700
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: able to be your sigma and not me when I

701
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: did all the paperwork that it takes to for the

702
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: process to be right. I don't understand sir. You know what, brother? Uh,

703
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 1: I can't call you brother for the fact that right

704
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: now I'm telling me brother because I'm a Sigma. So

705
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: here's what we're gonna have to do. Greg. We're gonna

706
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: have to get you to First of all, if you're

707
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,439
Speaker 1: dealing with anybody alumni wise, we're asking that you don't

708
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: go to any meetings right now. We're also asking that

709
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: you don't wear any five beta Sigma peral for now.

710
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: At this point, we want to make sure and get

711
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: clarity that you are definitely a brother. Man. Man, I

712
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: am definitely a brother. Do you know what I had

713
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,759
Speaker 1: to go through to get where I am today? To

714
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,760
Speaker 1: be a signal? All the due y'all, y'all took y'all dudes.

715
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 1: What happened to that? If you're taking my dudes, you

716
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: should be able to tell me yo, man um, we

717
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: got this going on. Certain things are going on with

718
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: your line. We need to we need to check you.

719
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: You took our money. That's the thing. I'm seeing checks

720
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: that have gone through for other people on that line.

721
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: I don't say, man, And to this day, I'm like

722
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: a lifetime member, So what the hell are you talking about?

723
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: I have no records indicating that your lifetime. Remember that's

724
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So we dog, somebody needs to tell

725
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: me something today. We're gonna try to get to the

726
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: end of this by the end of the week. It's

727
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 1: gonna take no. No, no, but no, but no, but no,

728
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 1: you're not understanding what I'm saying, man, because I'm a

729
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: signal to the heart. Dude. You know what I'm talking about.

730
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: Y'all playing with my heart right now? Man, Ain't nobody's

731
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: gonna do that and get away with I don't know

732
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: what going on. You know, here's what we can do.

733
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,720
Speaker 1: We can bring you back in and do another pledging process. Pledge.

734
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: Did you understand what you just said to me? No, Man,

735
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 1: that that ain't happen. Dog, I'm been through this already. Man,

736
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm not pledging. I'm not signing my name on nothing

737
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:42,439
Speaker 1: else because I have pledged. I'm not doing it. I'll

738
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: need to get somebody on the phone that can answer

739
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: my question. I want to know what's going on, okay

740
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: right now? And and I understand you know the disbelief

741
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 1: of what's going on, I really do. You honestly don't.

742
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: But your brother, brother, We're gonna try to what year

743
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: did you go across? Did you walk to say? Let

744
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: me tell me what's going on? Brother, I'm fall lady

745
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: nine brother, and that what we're gonna have to do

746
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: right now is first of all, no pairaphernilia. You're trying

747
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: to see me that I can't well what's nearest and

748
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,080
Speaker 1: dearest to my heart, next to my wife and my child.

749
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: You're telling me that I can't go around to proclaim

750
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: where I am. That's like telling me I can't be black.

751
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: What the hell are you're saying? And another thing we're

752
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,400
Speaker 1: going to get you to do. Understand you have a brand,

753
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: Sigma brand. That's what I have to come off until

754
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 1: we until we get this taken care of? What and

755
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: then you talk about them medical procedure. What are you saying?

756
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: So we cannot allow you to wear a brand representing

757
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,919
Speaker 1: five Beta Sigmal when right now you are not. You can't.

758
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: I can't allow that that brand. Me was allowed to

759
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 1: put the brand on me. Now I can't be allowed

760
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: to wear something not been wearing for almost fifteen years.

761
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 1: Are you crazy? Come man? This is crazy. So we

762
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: gotta get you to take your until all of the brand.

763
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: What the hell are y'all, man, this is some look here, brother,

764
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: but not what but is that what your name is?

765
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 1: You need to get somebody on this minute. That's all right,

766
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: I know the president phill how about that. I will

767
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: just call in and I'll figured out my bill. Right now.

768
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 1: We need you to take the brand off keep it.

769
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: You come take the brand off of me. And you

770
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: wanted that bad, come get it. That's what you do.

771
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,479
Speaker 1: You are not a member of five Beta sick. Don't

772
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: give up you talking about dog I am a member.

773
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: If you want something over here, howland your boy, that's

774
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,319
Speaker 1: what you do. You're bad, Come do it. So I'm

775
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: telling you for the final time, do not wear any

776
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: paraphern now you keep couldn't don't want to hear that

777
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 1: talking about no final Let me tell you what's final.

778
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:46,879
Speaker 1: I am a five better sigma to the hard damn sir.

779
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is no more shirt and cover

780
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: that brand up until we're here. Man, I'm gonna wear everything.

781
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: I got a hat. I'm gonna hat. Of a matter

782
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: of fact, I'm gonna wearing hey just to get on yogas.

783
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna have it, praying, covering up until we figured

784
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: out if you are covering up. You come get it

785
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: and tell you better get go away from me. I'm

786
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: talking about put that bringing up. Don't shots no money?

787
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 1: Tell you something I ain't coming. Come do if you

788
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: want it, I got want maybe this is bluefire. You

789
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: don't want none. You don't want none, y'all, this is

790
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: the man. I don't know what one more thing I

791
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: need to say to you? Are you loving to say

792
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: what you got to say? You ain't getting this. This

793
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: is Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You

794
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 1: just got pranked by your boy. Hello, boy, y'all had

795
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: me ready to kill my man? Y'all, boy, let one

796
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: more thingy man? What is the baddest radio show in

797
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: the land? Greg? What is it? Steve Harby Morning Show?

798
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: What y'all think? That's how you do a segment, When

799
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: you do a segment, if you're gonna do a segment,

800
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: that was a real segment. He was not playing. Just

801
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: let y'all know. Let me drop this on your January

802
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 1: nineteen and twenty first the Nephew West Palm Beach, Florida

803
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: improv The Nephew was coming to town. That's January nineteen

804
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: twenty one, Friday said the Sunday West Palm Beach, Florida.

805
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 1: I'm bad get your tickets because ignorance is coming to town.

806
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: Here comes that nephew and all the people inside his head.

807
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 1: So get ready, y'all normally come up, show up, show out,

808
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: and sell out every time I come to town. I

809
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: see you again. January nineteen twenty one. Nah, okay, nah,

810
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 1: eighteen eighteen. Getting started, All right, I think so, I

811
00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: think so. I feel good about this. I got a

812
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: new attitude. I do. That's good. New year. Yeah, you do.

813
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: Surprise this new time. It's really shocking to meeting. It's

814
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: a new timey though, it's a new attitude. Call his

815
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: wife wishing happy birthday. I thought that forgiving people, forgiving me,

816
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: letting stuff go, can of people to man, he ain't

817
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 1: shutting down. Are you gonna shut down on the radio

818
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: this year for any reason? The only person can shut

819
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: me down is you. You're the only one. And I'm

820
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 1: gonna try not to let that happen. And I ain't

821
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: gonna do it this year. You are right. When once

822
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: you'll see an opening, you take it. Not no, no, no,

823
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:27,359
Speaker 1: no no, not once I see it? All right? Coming

824
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter

825
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: on deck. It's a good one. You do not want

826
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 1: to miss that. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

827
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: Here we are, Steve, I have to ask you something

828
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: before we get out of here today. You have to

829
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 1: help me with this one. But before we do that,

830
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 1: and before we get to the Strawberry Letter, let's go

831
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: to the phones. Please surprise Hello, oh oh, not unemployment.

832
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: That's good, that's good. Tell him were said, Hey, they're

833
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: probably listening to this show. I'm next up. What's up? Jay?

834
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:16,720
Speaker 1: Where you at? You out? I thought I was fired,

835
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: so I just went on. I'm so used to it.

836
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: I'm used to it now, man. I you know I

837
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: don't keep nothing long. So why as you walk in

838
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: there said hey, Jay, you're back again, saying something about

839
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: Stephen that song we heard it yesterday. Come on, we'll

840
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: pushing through for you. We'll trying to get you out

841
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: as soon as we had James five Baby Sigma Founder's Day.

842
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 1: I tried to all the signals, all five thousand, um,

843
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 1: just in l a alone in a fifty five thousand,

844
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: you only see two signals. I don't care where you go.

845
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 1: Steve you're absolutely right, man, and you're talking about fifty

846
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: five thousand people in blue in the l A damnas cript,

847
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, a doctor fan. You won't say anything

848
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: because cript ignorant. I got it really with my sister.

849
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:32,919
Speaker 1: Happy the lad birthday, Happy, happy birthday Sis. So yeah,

850
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:34,959
Speaker 1: and to all the two people, just to two people

851
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 1: thought I was fired, I guess I can come back

852
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 1: to work. So yeah, I didn't even last a year. Hey,

853
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: j here's some other news. Is gonna hurt you nough.

854
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 1: But they did take your computer at your office. Oh

855
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 1: we had the TV show they did. But all this forgiven, right, Steve?

856
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: When did your ass coming to work? That means yes,

857
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: thank you? I guess thank you so much? Is he

858
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: getting out of line? See you? Tom? Sigma blue five? Congratulations, Jake?

859
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 1: All right, So now what should I get Nasto? Really,

860
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: it's his birthday today and it's our third anniversary today,

861
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: so I'm anniversary. Thank you. I'm expecting again for sure,

862
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: But you ain't about him my anniversary? Are bury? I

863
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: have never said don't get me anything. I have never lived.

864
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: But do guys really mean that, Steve? When you say

865
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: I mean seriously, I'm meaning when I see it to

866
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 1: my keids because I know what they're fee to go by.

867
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, buy me something I don't

868
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: won't so yeah, and it'd be my money. It's just

869
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 1: a waste. Yeah, well you know guys mean it. But

870
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: it's nice when you do something anyway. Anyway, like they

871
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: got some cologne's out there, it's like really really nice

872
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 1: black Orchan though. Who makes that town fool? Fool? I

873
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: need to come on down the Maston black. What is

874
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: that Valentino you got? Yeah? You got cree cree clone over.

875
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: I'll be down. I'll be shopping down there. Yeah, very nice,

876
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: you go down Valentino. Yeah, okay, cool, but this down there, Yeah,

877
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 1: Carlos doesn't cook, okay, that's yeah. Cook your man dinner girl, No, no,

878
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: we're we're going out take him out. Don't cook for

879
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: your man's not on this birthday. Really get these once

880
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: a year taking the mastros and yes, okay, you're okay good.

881
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: That's always crowded mastros. Yeah, it's always crap about I

882
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: just I just ate up there, no bow and Malibu,

883
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: just ate up there all over TMZ. Soon as I

884
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: walked out, you can't go nowhere. As soon as I

885
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: walked out, I was in there. Oh, Cooper Gooding was

886
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: in there. Okay, Cindy Crawford was in there. That's all

887
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: it took. But they stay crossed the street though, they

888
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: don't let him in the parking lot. Okay, okay, what

889
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: they ask you about Oprah wunning for president? What they asked?

890
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,440
Speaker 1: That announcement hadn't got made yet, open could run. I

891
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 1: would throw all my weight behind. I hope she don't though.

892
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: I hope she's going and enjoy the rest of her life. Man,

893
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: he deserves it. But but like Steadman said, it's up

894
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: to the people. What if the people want her? Because

895
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: you know, they asked Dedmond and Stepman said, is up

896
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: to people? Yeah? Wow what twenty twenty what that's the vision?

897
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: All right? Yeah? Yeah, all right, come on, let's let's

898
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: get to this letter. That's it. Let's get to it.

899
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight, We got it for you.

900
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: Here it is. Here's a strawberry letter. All right, this

901
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 1: is another crazy one, another crazy one. Subject disrespectful senior citizen.

902
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: Good morning, Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty two year

903
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 1: old pastor with somewhat of an issue My wife and

904
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: I are happily married and we have the typical issues

905
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: like the next couple. Here's the situation. There is one

906
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 1: particular lady in my church who really freaks me out

907
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 1: and rubbed my wife the wrong way. I try to

908
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 1: avoid contact with this woman because she often says stuff

909
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: like come here and let me feel on you, or

910
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: come here and let grandma Grandma make you feel good.

911
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 1: This lady is in her eighties, but she doesn't have

912
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: any limits. She sometimes will randomly stop by the job

913
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 1: and bring me lunch or offered to take me to lunch.

914
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: Not only that her actions are more than words, she

915
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: has actually touched me inappropriately several times. Uh. She is

916
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: very rude to my wife at church. She will say

917
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: say things to my wife like you need you need

918
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: me to teach you how to take care of a man,

919
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 1: or do you need me to cook for you pastor

920
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: do you need me to cook for pastor. My wife

921
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: has told me that when she calls her house, she

922
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 1: doesn't even speak to her, but instead we'll just ask

923
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 1: to speak to me. Now, my wife isn't as saved

924
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 1: as I am, and she has come close to confronting

925
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: this woman. I don't want this situation to get more

926
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: out of control than it is. Now, how do you

927
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,479
Speaker 1: think I should handle this? I don't want to look

928
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: like a week pastor, nor do I want my wife

929
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 1: to catch a case behind this old lady. Okay, are

930
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: you sure this woman is in her eighties? That's what

931
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: I have to ask you, because most eighty year olds

932
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: that we know about, uh, you know, they're sweet, they're loving,

933
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: the caring, especially the ones that are in the church. Yes,

934
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 1: eighty year olds I'm talking about in the church. All right,

935
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up in

936
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour you're listening to the Steve

937
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's get

938
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: part two of your response to today's strawberry less subject.

939
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 1: Disrespectful senior, disrespectful senior citizen. Good morning, Shirley, Steve. I'm

940
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: a thirty two year old pastor with somewhat of an issue.

941
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: My wife and I are happily married, and we have

942
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:55,560
Speaker 1: typical issues like the next couple. Here's the situation. First

943
01:00:55,600 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: of all, I want to say this right here. What

944
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 1: it always chrips me out a little bit when a

945
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 1: pastor right in I just want you to understand that

946
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,280
Speaker 1: right there they listened, Steve, the okay, what you're writing

947
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: us folks, the Lord you got the Lord, we're supposed

948
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: to come to you. I think this is bad. So now,

949
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: since you're coming to me, when you could have easily

950
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 1: went to the Lord in prayer, all you could have

951
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: got counseling from a more qualified pastor like Bishop Olmer T. D.

952
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: Jakes Joel, I'm sure you've got somebody number, but you

953
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: wrote me and Shelly. So since you're going about it back,

954
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: which you must want to back with ans, Thus here

955
01:01:42,400 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 1: I come. There's a particular lady in your church who

956
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,439
Speaker 1: really freaks me out and rubs my wife the wrong way.

957
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 1: I try to avoid contact with this woman because she

958
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: have to says stuff like come in and let me

959
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: feel on you, and come on here and let grandma

960
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: make you feel good. This lady is in her eighties,

961
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 1: but she don't don't have any limits. First of all,

962
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: let me say that to your path. You don't know

963
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: what that lady. Maybe she ain't got no limits caused

964
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 1: ain't no you know my cheating learned what she know?

965
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 1: So past, when you write me about this eight year

966
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: if you can't handle a d year old woman, why

967
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: are you running the church? Why are you in charge

968
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: of your church? Though? I mean, on just real, it's

969
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: just gonna keep it real. You can't handle an old lady, man,

970
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 1: I ain't. Then here we go. See y'all getting a

971
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: little tight with this answer, but this answer real, I'm

972
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 1: with you. I mean, you can't handle eight year old

973
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: lady at your church, and here we go. She don't

974
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: have any limit. She sometimes will randomly stop by my job,

975
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 1: bring me lunch or offer to take me to lunch.

976
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: Not only that her actions are more than words, she

977
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: has actually touched me inappropriately several times. She's very rude

978
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: to my wife at church. She would say things to

979
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 1: my wife like, you need me to teach you how

980
01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: to take care of the man, or do you need

981
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 1: me to cook for pastor it's crazy, old, healthful, But

982
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,439
Speaker 1: see what you need to do and let your wife

983
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: loose on it, though, because that's what's really about to happen,

984
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 1: because you said this right here. My wife has told

985
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 1: me when she calls out how she don't even speak

986
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: to her, but instead we just asked to speak to me.

987
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 1: Here's department through me now, my wife isn't as saved

988
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: as I am. See, here we go with these most

989
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: saved people. But you most saved, and you run the

990
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 1: church and you're the pastor, but you can't handle eight

991
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 1: year old. You need to break off. You're the leader

992
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 1: of the house. Come on, gonna, I'm gonna play up

993
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: in y'all. I'm about what break off? All right, Steve,

994
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: you know we gotta go. We gotta get out of here.

995
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: You can email us or instagram us your thoughts on

996
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at my Girls shurely and don't forget

997
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: to join me. This Thursday, we are back with the

998
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter Live after show on Facebook. It'll be at

999
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 1: one thirty Eastern time, so please join me first. One

1000
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 1: of the New Years gears now Fitness, of course, is

1001
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 1: at the top of everyone's New Year's resolutions list. Uh well.

1002
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,960
Speaker 1: Lifetime Fitness Gym and Health Club have announced that they

1003
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: will be airing no news at its gyms. Okay, no news,

1004
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: I got a membership. Okay, yeah, no no more news, Lifetime, Lifetime,

1005
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 1: they do what? No more news. They have announced that

1006
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: they're banning all cable news channels at their fitness gyms.

1007
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: Because well, I mean, you can only imagine. Yeah. Yeah,

1008
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: they got a bunch of complaints from customers about TV

1009
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 1: shows you know that show, CNN, Fox, MSNBC and all

1010
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: the other you know, twenty four so cable news outlets.

1011
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: According to Lifetime Jim, they the customers just felt that

1012
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: being bombarded with news and politics all the time while

1013
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 1: they were trying to work out just does not fit

1014
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 1: a healthy lifestyle. But they're trying to achieve it, because

1015
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 1: I can imagine that's frustrating it is to be working

1016
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 1: out and then you got the news. All the news

1017
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 1: is bad. It's bad. It's bad, it's bad, Steve. Yeah,

1018
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: but at one channel they get they need the band

1019
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 1: that I'd be looking at when I'm in there, Uh,

1020
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: the Food Network. If they get that channel out of there,

1021
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: did I could finish my workout because the man I

1022
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 1: see the turkey and dress and stuff. I stopped walking

1023
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: and you go eat. Yeah, I said, maybe gonna get

1024
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: out here. I'm hung That's the channel they need to

1025
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 1: keep banding. Yeah, but you're you're right though. The news,

1026
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 1: but it's like watching a bad accident. Though. It's like

1027
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: once you start watching it, you continue watching it, you know,

1028
01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: every day. You know, you want to know what's going on.

1029
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: What did he do today, what did he say? What

1030
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: did he tweet today? Yeah? Yeah, So back to Oprah

1031
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: running for president. I don't know if you finished your thoughts, Steve. No,

1032
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: I wish she wouldn't, man, I wish she would go

1033
01:05:56,160 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: because this is such a high stress, thankless position. But

1034
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 1: don't you think she's she's will consider that or she's

1035
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 1: thought about that already. I'm pretty sure she has. But

1036
01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:08,919
Speaker 1: you know she's done everything, you know, I mean, maybe

1037
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: she wants that part of her life, you know, be interesting.

1038
01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: It would be the first woman, the first nonmarried person

1039
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 1: in the White House. But see, you could scrap all

1040
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 1: these rules, thank you. Anyway. See, I didn't know what's

1041
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 1: in there now you could, you know, say you'd go

1042
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:37,600
Speaker 1: grab a woman p and make it in. I didn't

1043
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: know you could not show your tax return. I didn't

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01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 1: know you could never ever have held political office, no

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01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 1: where ever ever be a nomineed. And I just did

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01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: not know that this could happen. You could tweet it.

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01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:00,919
Speaker 1: You don't even have to be either. You could just tweet. Yeah,

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01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,000
Speaker 1: I mean, real kind of government experienced, Steve, is what

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01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: you're saying, I didn't know you could. Just you don't

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01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,960
Speaker 1: assult people on a daily basis. Yeah, you don't really

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01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: have to hold press conferences if you don't want to,

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01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:14,120
Speaker 1: you don't talk to the press. Yeah, you don't have

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01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:17,720
Speaker 1: to answer to anybody. Yeah, he appeared you're supposed to

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01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,680
Speaker 1: answer to the people. Now you're talking about big Gil button, Neil,

1055
01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna push it man, Yeah, talk like that. And

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01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 1: you're a very stable genius. You call yourself a genius. Stable. Well,

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01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: now let me say this. I think he's a smart guy. Yeah,

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01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 1: and I think business wise he is could be a

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01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: bit of a genius. I just don't think he should

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Speaker 1: be the president. All right, coming up at forty one

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Speaker 1: after the hour, when we come back, two thousand eighteen predictions. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, Wow,

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01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 1: this is such a great subject. I mean, it's new,

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01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: it's the time to talk about it. Now. What we're

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01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:02,440
Speaker 1: gonna do in two Yeah, kind of a couple of

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01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: motivational days at the top of two thousand and eighteen,

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01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: I think on the Steve Harved Morning Show, maybe we'll

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01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 1: do a couple of days. It is getting people set

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01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: up and situated with the right mind set to approach

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Speaker 1: two thousand eighteen, because you know when when when God

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01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:24,040
Speaker 1: allows you to see a new year, that's a new opportunity.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a calendar year. Man, that's a great

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01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 1: accomplishment to still be here in two thousand eighteen. However

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01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 1: old you are, two thousand eighteen is here, So this

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01:08:40,120 --> 01:08:42,679
Speaker 1: is a new calendar year. You can get a fresh

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01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 1: start with a different attitude. So I'm you know, we're

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Speaker 1: just talking about two thousand and eighteen. Any questions like

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01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: what we've been talking about. Okay, all right, let's let's

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01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: talk investment, Like what can I do? Let's say I

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01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 1: tell you. Let's say I hear it. Let's say I

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01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: hear fifteen comic clubs over the course of this year.

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Speaker 1: Let's say I take ten and put it aside, ten

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01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: grand put it aside. Each time I I do a gig,

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01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,439
Speaker 1: Where can I put this money and invest it and

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01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: and make it profitable for me? Well not listen, you

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01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 1: have to think of do you have money to risk

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01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: or you want to make show us? Then when you

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01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: go back to get it with damn show us. There,

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01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: we're okay, damn show us there minimal risk. Okay, it's

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01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:39,760
Speaker 1: minimal risk. Money market, show me a little bit of

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01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: damn show and not so damn show. Give me some

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01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: way up in there. The stock market. And the reason

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01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:51,600
Speaker 1: the stock market is always cool is because when you

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01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: do make money on the stock market, in the in

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01:09:55,479 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 1: the in the in the financial bracket you're in when

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01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,839
Speaker 1: you pay taxes on it, you only pay capital gain taxes,

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01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 1: which is somewhere between eleven and fifteen percent something like that.

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01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: So you only pay taxes. So like, if you make

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Speaker 1: over you know a certain amount of four hundred thousand dollars,

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01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 1: three hundred thoud dollars, you already up in the bracket, right,

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Speaker 1: so now you got to pay forty percent on the money.

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Speaker 1: But if you make money in the stock market, you

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01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 1: get capital gains tax that's on somewhere between eleven percent.

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01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it is, but it's a much

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01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 1: much lower number. So stock market is good. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: your stock that you got to look into this young

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01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: boy and that works for me, invested his money in

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01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:42,600
Speaker 1: because marijuana is being legalized so many places. He's invested

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Speaker 1: money in the people who make the lights that grow marijuana.

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01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:55,000
Speaker 1: The soil companies for marijuana, the hosing for the hosing,

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01:10:55,360 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 1: and the bins and plant bins. He invest in all

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Speaker 1: the supplack. Now, let me tell you what this kid did,

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01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 1: because he handles my stocks, right, his young kid out

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01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 1: of more house. So I gave him some money to

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01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: stop much. I've doubled my money easy, easily over the

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Speaker 1: year and a half. I mean double it plus more

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01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: than double. So I made a deal with him for

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01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 1: off the profit of the money, I'll give you a

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01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: percentage for investing in you know, like if I had

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Speaker 1: a stockbroker or something, right, right, I get this kid

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Speaker 1: his take. He took all his money, this money I

1122
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 1: gave him, you know, just a few few tens of thousands.

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Speaker 1: He took all of his money and bought the stocks.

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Speaker 1: He's already doubled his money. Wow. He he looks at

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Speaker 1: all the marijuana stocks because it's it's climbing and that

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01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: that was a smart thing. Now I'm not saying go

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01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 1: out and do that, but you know, and they're like,

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Speaker 1: he I stayed away from all the bit coin stuff

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01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 1: because I think it's a bubble. No, let's go back

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01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:09,640
Speaker 1: to this man Juana part though. So I put over there,

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01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 1: let it ride. See what happened? Yeah, in them stocks. See,

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Speaker 1: I can't buy those stocks because of who you are. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just a promise I made to God.

1134
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 1: Me and God got a deal. So I can't dishonor

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01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,560
Speaker 1: the deal I want to God. They're talked about No,

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01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:39,560
Speaker 1: they ain't make that deal. Right there, They talked about marijuana,

1137
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: the supplies, the weed, the hoses, the lights. I mean,

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Speaker 1: this little kid, he researched it, and and it's and

1139
01:12:48,960 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 1: like one of the stocks he bought, he bought at

1140
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: a dollar ninety seven cent back when it first got

1141
01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:58,400
Speaker 1: that he just did this on his own, that same

1142
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 1: stock he got. It's damn the thirty some dollars. Oh.

1143
01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: Now it's no shoeing because something could happen to one

1144
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 1: of these companies. But stocks are a cool way, and

1145
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 1: you can kind of watch it so and you can

1146
01:13:14,360 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 1: put a stop on your stocks. So like you say, okay, cool,

1147
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna invest this much money in the stock market.

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01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: You can tell your stockbroker, Okay, look, if if my

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01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: stock ever drops to this much, I want to put

1150
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:29,719
Speaker 1: a stop on it, sell it, give me my money out. Okay. Okay,

1151
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 1: you know you know, so you don't evolute like you

1152
01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: might say, Okay, look, if I ever get down to

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01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:36,880
Speaker 1: three forth to this or half of this, I need

1154
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: you to put a stop on that. At least get

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01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: to get three forths a half of my money back.

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01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:42,679
Speaker 1: Oh I might not want to go past this point

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01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 1: right here. You know, you know you could do things

1158
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: like that. So those those that we're talking about stocks

1159
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 1: and stuff, I love it because you know we all

1160
01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: companies too. Small companies are good things to do. You know,

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01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:57,800
Speaker 1: somebody you know got a T shirt company, just need

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01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: twenty grand to get it off the ground hopping, and

1163
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 1: then you catch him and you know, you never know,

1164
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 1: one of these cats could flip it into some real things.

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01:14:05,600 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just talking small companies. Next, you're talking

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01:14:08,280 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 1: about what we're talking about. Name. That's why I don't

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01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 1: smoke it. Why I don't smoke it because I can't question.

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01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: He's done with you. Yeah, I got I got a question.

1169
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 1: I gotta I got a serious question though. This is

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01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 1: this is for this is something that's personal that's going

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01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 1: on me. Um, how how do I not only just

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 1: get rid of people, but how do I find the

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01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 1: qualify people to help me grow. Who should we got

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01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 1: We talked about getting rid of people, but who do

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01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:40,640
Speaker 1: we give the opportunity. I'm gonna give you an inventory

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01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: checklist to do, and then an inventory checklist to do

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01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: so to get rid of people and how to replace people. Okay, hey, y'all,

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01:14:51,040 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: we'll be back. Junior has a personal question. I tend

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01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:56,800
Speaker 1: to that, and we got some more the show right

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01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:01,960
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening morning, all right, we're back, everybody,

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01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 1: We're back, and we're talking about two thousand and eighteen.

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Speaker 1: We decided for the next day or so to just

1183
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:10,640
Speaker 1: talk in a positive direction, just to give you some

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01:15:10,800 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: insight and some thoughts. Starters, now, listen to me. I

1185
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: don't know everything, so all of these things that I'm

1186
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 1: giving you are just my opinions from my years of

1187
01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: getting it wrong finally getting it right. Made a lot

1188
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: of mistakes being at every economic level, so I'm able

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01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 1: to talk from a place of experience. But like when

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01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 1: it comes to money, you know, look, no stock is

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01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:36,640
Speaker 1: a guaranteed. I don't know everything. You know, if you

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01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:39,160
Speaker 1: put your money in the c D, yeah, some could

1193
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 1: happen to a c D. Something could happen to a

1194
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 1: money mark. You know, you can put your money in

1195
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:45,599
Speaker 1: treasury bonds. It's a lot of stuff. You know, people

1196
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 1: like annuities. I don't. I don't, I don't. But you know,

1197
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: whatever it is that that you want to do, you,

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01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 1: I'm just giving you thought starters. So Junior, what's your

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01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 1: next question? Okay? So we talked about losing people, right,

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01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting rid of people. The dead weight car. We

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01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,880
Speaker 1: talked about that early this morning. Got that. But then,

1202
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: like for me, like in business, and the people I'm

1203
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 1: getting rid of, I gotta replace them. So who do

1204
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 1: I get a job too? That's gonna do the job

1205
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: that's qualified. Okay, first of all, let's talk about before

1206
01:16:18,120 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: we replace people, how do we get rid of people.

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01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 1: I created a checklist. This is my own. I didn't

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01:16:24,120 --> 01:16:26,800
Speaker 1: get this from nowhere. It's just something I've learned over

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01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: the years. I have a grading system. I have a

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01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:37,800
Speaker 1: black dot, an asterick, and a check mark, A black dot,

1211
01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 1: an asterix, and a check mark. Okay, now this is

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01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,720
Speaker 1: the way I use it. Go down list everybody that's

1213
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:47,479
Speaker 1: in your life, family, friends, associates, business people, anybody in

1214
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:51,400
Speaker 1: your life. Every time they call you something wrong, it's

1215
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: bad news. You can't stand to see their number. Put

1216
01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 1: a black dot next to their name. That they don't

1217
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 1: never encourage you. That's I'm always wrong. They how you're

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01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 1: doing the day. Well, I'm so glad you ask. Okay,

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01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 1: put a black dot next to their name. The next

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01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 1: I thought you wan't is is there anybody in your

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01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 1: life that's like like, they're cool with you in some areas,

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01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:20,680
Speaker 1: but in some other areas they're not so cool. You

1223
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:23,680
Speaker 1: can take them over here, but you can't take them

1224
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: over there. You know, you can discuss this with them,

1225
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: but you show bed not bring up that with them.

1226
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:33,519
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you can talk to them about some things,

1227
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: share this with them. Some stuff you can't talk to him.

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01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 1: Put an asterisk. Those are fifty people. Okay, put an

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01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 1: asterisk by their name. The next person in your life

1230
01:17:47,360 --> 01:17:49,639
Speaker 1: is every time they call you, they got something good

1231
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: to say. Every time you talk to them, they encourage it.

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01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: They got a scripture for you. Maybe they just talk

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01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:58,639
Speaker 1: to you man. They try to be supportive. They hear

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01:17:58,720 --> 01:18:04,280
Speaker 1: you out. They always upbeat. They see they the optimistic people,

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01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:07,880
Speaker 1: they see the bright side, the very positive people. Those

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01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:11,200
Speaker 1: people right there, you put a checkmark next to their name. Now,

1237
01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 1: go to your iPhone, Android, whatever kind of phone you got.

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01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:20,200
Speaker 1: Everybody on your list that has a black dot, delete

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01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 1: their name from your phone right here. Block, delete and

1240
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 1: block they damn number. God, do you understand, delete and

1241
01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: block their number because you don't that bad news. You

1242
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 1: don't never need that now these sometimeing people, delete and

1243
01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 1: block they damn number. Dog for what I'm telling you, man,

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01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 1: a person that's good here and ain't good that cool

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01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: with you here? Cool? What dog I'm telling on you man?

1246
01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:05,600
Speaker 1: Because that always come on the day when it's opposite

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01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 1: your fifty you have? Do you ever this hot? Don't

1248
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: ever match up? You don't get the good fifty? You

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Speaker 1: block and delete their number. Everybody with a checkmark body number,

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01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:24,200
Speaker 1: keep it. That's what that's That's what I'm getting at.

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Speaker 1: So how many people in your phone? Uh oh, I

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01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:34,040
Speaker 1: got a lot of I got a lot of them.

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01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 1: When you got when you get through the leading the

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01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: black astrich how many it left? It ain't minutes. See,

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01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,280
Speaker 1: most of the people in my phone are all business people.

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01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:49,760
Speaker 1: And the other people in my phone, it's like people

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01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:54,599
Speaker 1: who uplift me. Bishop Jake's Joe Oldstein, Bishop Kenneth Oma,

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01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:58,040
Speaker 1: my boy, Bishop Getties down in Carolina that I met

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Speaker 1: on my show. I was at the door on Bishop

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Speaker 1: Gettings down there in the Carolina. Just my dude. He

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Speaker 1: always uplifted me. He do always texting me with good

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01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:10,240
Speaker 1: news stuff like that. You know, I got some celebrities

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01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:14,240
Speaker 1: that don't ever ask me for nothing. You understand, you

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01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:16,639
Speaker 1: got to look at your list. If your list is toxic,

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01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 1: your phone is toxic. Now you can't use it. Okay,

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01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:24,600
Speaker 1: Now how do you replace those people? Here's what you

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01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:28,720
Speaker 1: gotta do. First of all, if you can get rid

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01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 1: of a person and you don't miss them, what they

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01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: did that was excellent, But now what is it that

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01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,360
Speaker 1: you really thought they were supposed to do or what

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01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 1: did you really want from them? So first of all,

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01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 1: you have to determine Number one, where is it you're

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01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:47,760
Speaker 1: trying to go in two thousand and eighteen? Where do

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01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:50,440
Speaker 1: you want to go? What are your goals and aspirations

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01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:54,600
Speaker 1: for two thousand and eighteen? The next the people that

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01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 1: you're even considering to help you move in two thousand eighteen.

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01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:03,679
Speaker 1: A's yourself this one question? Have they are they currently

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01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 1: doing it now or have they done it before? Wow?

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01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:13,840
Speaker 1: What's that again? The people that you are considering putting

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01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: in your life to help you move through two thousand

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01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,559
Speaker 1: and eighteen and get to the next level. Ask yourself

1282
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 1: these two questions. Are they currently doing it right now

1283
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 1: for themselves or someone else? And have they done it before?

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01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:38,080
Speaker 1: If the answer is no, do not hide. Okay, that's

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01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 1: back to Junior's original question. Listen to me. That's why

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01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:46,240
Speaker 1: every job application you feel out got that same question

1287
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: on it. Do you have experience? But we keep hiding

1288
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 1: people with no experience just called they're gonna come in

1289
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:57,599
Speaker 1: there and work hard. Now they're learning on your check

1290
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 1: and all the mistakes you got to pay folk with

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01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: your career. I did all that. Okay, so I got

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01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 1: another when we come back here. You're listening to stew All, right, Wow,

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01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:16,559
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I mean, I keep saying it. It's so interesting.

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01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:18,200
Speaker 1: I mean, this is the way you should start off

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01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:21,400
Speaker 1: each year, plan the year. You know, you know, surely

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01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 1: the reason I'm telling people is I've learned this the

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01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 1: hard way. Now once again, this is just a system

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01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 1: that I've learned. But I've learned this from a lot

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01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: of big, big people. You know. I've had some people

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01:22:33,880 --> 01:22:36,640
Speaker 1: they're doing way better than me than shared a lot

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01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 1: of disinformation with me. There's some of the stuff I

1302
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 1: just had to figure out alone the way. And can

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01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:42,880
Speaker 1: I say this, Steve, I've known you for a really,

1304
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 1: really long time. I've worked with you for a really

1305
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:48,400
Speaker 1: long time. I have seen you grow into this business man.

1306
01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 1: You were not this business man when I first met you.

1307
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no.

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01:22:55,800 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 1: I wasn't even close. And I have had I've had

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01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: a lot of bad hires and I and I've made

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01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 1: a couple of bad hires recently. But remember you all

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01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 1: asked me what was one of my plans for two

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01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:15,440
Speaker 1: thousand and eighteen. I'm really I'm I got an organizational

1313
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: chart right now in front of me, and I'm plugging

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01:23:18,560 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 1: new people into it. And there's some people that's in

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01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:25,440
Speaker 1: that that's gonna be gone because I'm not taking you anymore.

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01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 1: Here's the analogy that Butch Lewis taught me when he

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01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:35,960
Speaker 1: was living. Yeah, butch Lewis, the fight promoter. Butch Lewis

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01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:39,240
Speaker 1: taught me an amazing analogy. He said, when you are

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01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:44,680
Speaker 1: trying to start a company, a business, or you are

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01:23:44,760 --> 01:23:48,559
Speaker 1: you the person at working in your family, He said,

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01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:52,479
Speaker 1: Steve you own rope, he said. Now you got on

1322
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:58,560
Speaker 1: tattered burlap shorts, you barefoot, You ain't got no shirt on,

1323
01:23:59,400 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: and you on rope. Now you've seen them jim ropes

1324
01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,439
Speaker 1: that you climb used to climb to the ceiling. You

1325
01:24:04,479 --> 01:24:06,639
Speaker 1: know how I think they are married at the burlout.

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01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 1: You got one of them connected to a wagon, old

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01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:14,439
Speaker 1: western wagon with four wheels on it, a flat bed,

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01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 1: open wagon with sides on it. You got no horse.

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01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:23,759
Speaker 1: You are the horse. That rope is tied to that wagon,

1330
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:27,040
Speaker 1: and you got that rope across your shoulder and it's

1331
01:24:27,080 --> 01:24:31,960
Speaker 1: cutting and you are pulling uphill. You have people on

1332
01:24:32,160 --> 01:24:36,160
Speaker 1: your wagon that you are responsible for. Some of them

1333
01:24:36,200 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: are family members, children, business associates, connections. They on your

1334
01:24:43,520 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: wagon because you're climbing to the top. Now, what you

1335
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,360
Speaker 1: hope for is that you have people on your wagon

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01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,439
Speaker 1: who at least got one foot hanging over the side

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01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:55,679
Speaker 1: trying to push up with you a little bit of help. Yeah,

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01:24:55,880 --> 01:24:58,400
Speaker 1: you know how you skateboard that one leg pushed the

1339
01:24:58,439 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 1: skateboard before you get on in ride. Hopefully you've got

1340
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:04,280
Speaker 1: some people that's doing that that get off the wagon

1341
01:25:04,400 --> 01:25:07,160
Speaker 1: every now and then and just try to knock a

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01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:09,760
Speaker 1: rock out the way. So when you're pulling up the here,

1343
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 1: you ain't least hitting rocks on this wagon wheel. Maybe

1344
01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 1: if you got a spouse, come walk next to you

1345
01:25:16,520 --> 01:25:19,320
Speaker 1: and wipe your brow with a cold sponge rag and

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01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 1: pull water in your mouth, feed you and everybody else

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01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: on the wagon. But everybody need to be doing some

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01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 1: type of footwork to push the wagon up. The wagon

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01:25:31,600 --> 01:25:35,840
Speaker 1: heavy anyway, Then at night when you go to bed, see,

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01:25:35,880 --> 01:25:38,560
Speaker 1: you don't get to let the wagon go. You have

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01:25:38,680 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 1: to take that rope tied around your waist and lay

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01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 1: back on the hill and sleep the wagon still tied

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01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: to And when you get up in the morning, you

1354
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 1: gotta unwrap that rope and gotta get back on your

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01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:52,600
Speaker 1: climb with that rope cut across your shoulder. Hit a

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01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:55,599
Speaker 1: sad part. Everybody got people on the wagon ain't even

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01:25:55,680 --> 01:26:00,240
Speaker 1: pushing your laying the ass. I ain't just up the

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01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:06,840
Speaker 1: laying all the way. That's the dead Wait you talk. Wow,

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01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 1: Now that is a visual right there. I got no

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01:26:11,400 --> 01:26:15,200
Speaker 1: question alright, uh wow, We'll be back with when more

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Speaker 1: of this incredible two thousand eighteen show. Way to kick

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01:26:18,880 --> 01:26:22,839
Speaker 1: it off. I love it. You're listening to the show

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01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 1: all right, all morning long. This has been uh like informative,

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01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 1: insightful everything. I mean, you know, we're learning two eighteen

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01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 1: how to how yeah, how to kick it off and

1366
01:26:37,760 --> 01:26:40,880
Speaker 1: how to get in gear your business life, your financial life,

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01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 1: your relationships, whatever it is. This is two thousand eighteen.

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Speaker 1: You had another question for Steve Jr. Or wasn't you,

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01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:50,360
Speaker 1: Tommy I go after him. Um, you know, I was

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01:26:50,400 --> 01:26:53,240
Speaker 1: sitting at home over the break right, and I'm sitting

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01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:55,280
Speaker 1: there and I'm I'm looking at my plane, I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: about all the stuff that I've accomplished, and I said

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01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:01,280
Speaker 1: to myself out loud with no in the house, I said, Man,

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01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be happier than this. Mm hmmm. I

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01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:08,160
Speaker 1: just said that. What no about in there? I just said, man,

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01:27:08,160 --> 01:27:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be happier than this and all the

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01:27:10,280 --> 01:27:12,840
Speaker 1: people that we talked about earlier today. But I want

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01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:15,400
Speaker 1: to talk about Lord. I need some ways to start

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01:27:15,520 --> 01:27:19,200
Speaker 1: feeding my spiritual man. I need to figure out what's

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01:27:19,240 --> 01:27:21,160
Speaker 1: the best way to go back to God and say,

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01:27:21,200 --> 01:27:24,120
Speaker 1: you know what, I made a mistake. It's just it's

1382
01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 1: just like right there, It's just like you just said.

1383
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:32,880
Speaker 1: See everybody, if you get a closer walk with God

1384
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:36,320
Speaker 1: and make this whole thing better. Now you know you

1385
01:27:36,400 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 1: say that to some people. What I don't know who

1386
01:27:38,439 --> 01:27:40,679
Speaker 1: I got need to meet or talk? You know already

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01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:44,960
Speaker 1: met him. He created you, so it's a very simple thing. See.

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01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:49,080
Speaker 1: But what the devil does is he makes it appear difficult.

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01:27:49,720 --> 01:27:52,840
Speaker 1: He makes you address things that you don't need to

1390
01:27:52,920 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 1: address before you go to the Lord. No, no, no,

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01:27:56,560 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 1: just go just like you are, Just like you are, broke, confused,

1392
01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:11,080
Speaker 1: He just waiting on you. Take the confusion, the lack

1393
01:28:11,160 --> 01:28:15,439
Speaker 1: of understanding, take the part where you don't know what

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01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:20,040
Speaker 1: to do next, and just go. Lord, Take me and

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01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:22,880
Speaker 1: shape me how you want me to blue, make me

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01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:25,360
Speaker 1: into who you want me to be. I'm tired of

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01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:28,479
Speaker 1: do it. I need your help. This is where I

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01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:30,600
Speaker 1: like to go. But show me the best way to

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01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:33,240
Speaker 1: get that, or better yet, if you got another plan,

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01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:36,000
Speaker 1: let's show to show that to me. Here's another part.

1401
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 1: A lot of times when people feel unfulfilled, like you

1402
01:28:40,000 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 1: should feel better than this, it's because, man, you gotta

1403
01:28:43,960 --> 01:28:50,120
Speaker 1: look at your gratitude. See, gratitude is an incredible asset

1404
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:53,800
Speaker 1: to your future. But with all you have, you should

1405
01:28:53,840 --> 01:28:56,760
Speaker 1: be grateful for all you have, because man, look at here.

1406
01:28:56,960 --> 01:29:00,160
Speaker 1: You ain't where you was. But if you lose sight

1407
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:03,920
Speaker 1: of all that you have, all you focus on is

1408
01:29:04,000 --> 01:29:08,040
Speaker 1: what you don't have, and you start blowing it. And

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01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:12,160
Speaker 1: you have to thank him speaking of gratitude and the

1410
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:15,280
Speaker 1: good times and the bad. No matter what you're going through,

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01:29:15,720 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 1: you still thank him. You're still grateful, you know all,

1412
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:21,719
Speaker 1: And thank him for big and a small all the time,

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01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:24,639
Speaker 1: and consult him. I mean, he's right there, he's all

1414
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:28,120
Speaker 1: the time, He's always with you always, he never leaves you,

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01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:30,680
Speaker 1: he never leaves you. So you got to consider that

1416
01:29:30,800 --> 01:29:34,040
Speaker 1: as well. He's right here right now, you know, all day,

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01:29:34,680 --> 01:29:37,479
Speaker 1: because that's some spiritually gifted people out there who could

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01:29:37,479 --> 01:29:40,800
Speaker 1: probably give you a better answer. But what I've always done, man,

1419
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:44,080
Speaker 1: keep it simple, is I just I just get right

1420
01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 1: down to it. I ain't nothing without him. I've come

1421
01:29:48,200 --> 01:29:52,080
Speaker 1: to that conclusion. Man, So I'm cool with knowing that

1422
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 1: I would be lost if he wasn't in my life.

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01:29:55,800 --> 01:29:58,400
Speaker 1: In no way I would be hire. So the more

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01:29:58,439 --> 01:30:01,880
Speaker 1: I confided him, the more help than the better I feel. See,

1425
01:30:01,960 --> 01:30:04,720
Speaker 1: take it off your shoulders and give it to him.

1426
01:30:05,040 --> 01:30:08,080
Speaker 1: He handled problems way better than you do. WHOA, what

1427
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,639
Speaker 1: a day. We'll come back to close out the show

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Speaker 1: with just one more thing and Steve's closing remarks. You're

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01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:18,479
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right here we

1430
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 1: are to close out the show with just one more thing. Wow,

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01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:24,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I've been to church, been to school,

1432
01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:33,439
Speaker 1: everything right, It's been a great day. Yeah. Yeah, So

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01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:36,679
Speaker 1: let's do close remarks right now in that light right there.

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01:30:37,560 --> 01:30:40,920
Speaker 1: I just keep it right there, because what Junior was

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01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:44,240
Speaker 1: talking about, and he shared with this off the air,

1436
01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:47,120
Speaker 1: was he said, I feel like I should be happier

1437
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:50,600
Speaker 1: right now than I am with all I've accomplished and

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01:30:50,720 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: all I have and I and he is grateful for

1439
01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:57,519
Speaker 1: his position, he tells me all the time. But he

1440
01:30:57,680 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 1: said the one thing that he finally had to come

1441
01:31:00,040 --> 01:31:03,840
Speaker 1: to the realization he got so many people pulling at him.

1442
01:31:05,760 --> 01:31:09,639
Speaker 1: See it's hard at the top. Man. It's like, oh,

1443
01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 1: Will Smith told me this one time. We're just talking backstage,

1444
01:31:15,040 --> 01:31:19,040
Speaker 1: and he said, hey man, you gotta understand, Steve. He said,

1445
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:22,680
Speaker 1: it's like a huge desert out here, and you over

1446
01:31:22,720 --> 01:31:26,960
Speaker 1: there on this island with these palm trees and waterfalls.

1447
01:31:27,960 --> 01:31:31,240
Speaker 1: He said, everybody on that desert. Want to come over there, yeah,

1448
01:31:31,640 --> 01:31:34,120
Speaker 1: he said, But there ain't no room over there for everybody,

1449
01:31:34,840 --> 01:31:36,680
Speaker 1: he said. But you can't get mad at them for

1450
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:41,200
Speaker 1: wanting to come over there, he said, but day over there.

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01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:45,400
Speaker 1: So what I decided was, and what I found out

1452
01:31:45,880 --> 01:31:49,920
Speaker 1: from talking to other very successful people, that being famous

1453
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:53,680
Speaker 1: is like living in a big, pretty prison. So what

1454
01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:55,120
Speaker 1: I had to do was I had to put up

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Speaker 1: walls because I can't stop having this island with this

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01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:03,680
Speaker 1: oasis on it. I like palm trees and waterfalls, So

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01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:07,080
Speaker 1: I can't not have it because too many people aren't

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01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:09,800
Speaker 1: over there. So I had put some walls up. You

1459
01:32:09,880 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 1: gotta get some walls, you gotta get a gate, you

1460
01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 1: gotta get some fences. It's like, man, if you live

1461
01:32:17,360 --> 01:32:19,200
Speaker 1: in the hood and you want your yard to be nice,

1462
01:32:19,240 --> 01:32:22,599
Speaker 1: you gotta fence it because they have mess up your

1463
01:32:22,640 --> 01:32:26,040
Speaker 1: grass like they do everybody else's grass. You got to

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01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:29,120
Speaker 1: fence it. Man. See if you if you got that

1465
01:32:29,280 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 1: house up there by the school and you're on the

1466
01:32:31,240 --> 01:32:34,559
Speaker 1: corner lot, if you don't fence that right there, them

1467
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:37,800
Speaker 1: kids gonna cut cross to cut that corn off and

1468
01:32:37,920 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 1: mess up your grass. It don't make you messed up

1469
01:32:41,000 --> 01:32:44,000
Speaker 1: for putting up your fence to protect your yard. You

1470
01:32:44,160 --> 01:32:47,600
Speaker 1: just gotta put up your fences. And the reason that

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01:32:47,760 --> 01:32:51,800
Speaker 1: you have to not give all your money away every

1472
01:32:51,920 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 1: time somebody asked you for is because of something my

1473
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:57,519
Speaker 1: father taught me. And I've said it a hundred times

1474
01:32:57,600 --> 01:33:00,360
Speaker 1: on this show. He says, Son, the that's the thing

1475
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:02,760
Speaker 1: you can do for po people is not be one

1476
01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 1: of them. Now you keep giving yours away. M And

1477
01:33:08,880 --> 01:33:12,720
Speaker 1: to all y'all sitting up there with nothing now, who

1478
01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 1: went in? Now where they're gonna be all? In? All

1479
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,680
Speaker 1: them phone calls you're getting where they're gonna come from.

1480
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 1: I mean, when you thought you was all that when

1481
01:33:21,600 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 1: you was over there with Steve. See, that's what you're

1482
01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:27,880
Speaker 1: gonna hear. Yeah, you know because I I after you

1483
01:33:27,920 --> 01:33:32,960
Speaker 1: didn't help him, after you helped him. Yeah, man, I

1484
01:33:33,040 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 1: mean when you had all them cars and everything. What happened? Man?

1485
01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:39,240
Speaker 1: You fell off a little bit. Dog. I've I've heard

1486
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:42,400
Speaker 1: all of this along the way. When I left radio

1487
01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:47,519
Speaker 1: in l A two thousand five, Steed and fell off.

1488
01:33:48,680 --> 01:33:51,160
Speaker 1: Steve ain't nothing, man, Steve out of TV. He just

1489
01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 1: doing radio up in New Yak. Oh. He ain't nothing, man.

1490
01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:57,559
Speaker 1: He don't fell off. Dog. I have some very very

1491
01:33:57,680 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 1: famous people say, man, you got to be told the dude.

1492
01:34:02,280 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 1: I know, man, I know he got to be tripping,

1493
01:34:05,120 --> 01:34:07,519
Speaker 1: cause look at you and look at him. They didn't

1494
01:34:07,560 --> 01:34:10,599
Speaker 1: know the whole time I was all right. I wasn't

1495
01:34:10,640 --> 01:34:12,559
Speaker 1: where I was, but I was on a new path.

1496
01:34:13,960 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 1: I've been hearing my whole life. You ain't nothing. You're

1497
01:34:17,240 --> 01:34:19,679
Speaker 1: about to fall off. You went up there to see Trump.

1498
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:22,120
Speaker 1: What you do that money? They're gonna ruin you. You

1499
01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:25,000
Speaker 1: said the wrong name in Mr Universe. You it's over

1500
01:34:25,080 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 1: with for you. Man. You set up and you wrote

1501
01:34:27,400 --> 01:34:29,439
Speaker 1: this joke about these people. They've gonna take you off

1502
01:34:29,479 --> 01:34:31,360
Speaker 1: the air. Never be You know how many times they

1503
01:34:31,400 --> 01:34:36,320
Speaker 1: wrote me off. I just keep on, man, I keep on,

1504
01:34:36,600 --> 01:34:38,479
Speaker 1: and I keep on, and I keep on, and I

1505
01:34:38,640 --> 01:34:42,320
Speaker 1: keep on. I keep talking about that God that created me.

1506
01:34:42,800 --> 01:34:47,080
Speaker 1: I keep talking about that God that holds me Isaiah

1507
01:34:47,160 --> 01:34:50,680
Speaker 1: fifty four seventeen when it's all going wrong around me,

1508
01:34:51,600 --> 01:34:54,320
Speaker 1: that Isaiah forty three one and two, that I can

1509
01:34:54,400 --> 01:34:57,000
Speaker 1: walk through the rivers and not be overcome, that I

1510
01:34:57,080 --> 01:34:59,679
Speaker 1: can walk through the fire and will not get burned,

1511
01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:03,360
Speaker 1: nor we kindling set upon my clothing. I to memorize

1512
01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:07,400
Speaker 1: these scriptures because I hadn't needed him. See, God is available,

1513
01:35:07,400 --> 01:35:10,760
Speaker 1: and his word is there for us to comfort us

1514
01:35:11,360 --> 01:35:14,439
Speaker 1: when we ain't got nowhere else to go, when your

1515
01:35:14,520 --> 01:35:19,479
Speaker 1: money can't fix the situation. God's word is there, his

1516
01:35:19,640 --> 01:35:22,920
Speaker 1: promises is there. Because I'm gonna tell you, man, money

1517
01:35:22,960 --> 01:35:26,760
Speaker 1: can't fix everything. A matter of fact. Money bring you

1518
01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:31,040
Speaker 1: some stuff you you really want to put back. Biggy

1519
01:35:31,120 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 1: said it best, more money, more problems. He never lied

1520
01:35:34,640 --> 01:35:37,040
Speaker 1: about that. I'm telling you it's true. And I said

1521
01:35:37,080 --> 01:35:39,160
Speaker 1: that to a partner one time. I said, hey, man,

1522
01:35:39,240 --> 01:35:40,800
Speaker 1: more money, more problems. He said, well, I need to

1523
01:35:40,840 --> 01:35:49,240
Speaker 1: go and see what the problems is without it. So

1524
01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:53,479
Speaker 1: I wants to go see the money problems. And so

1525
01:35:53,680 --> 01:35:56,680
Speaker 1: you know, man, it's it's just looking at it, man,

1526
01:35:57,200 --> 01:36:01,840
Speaker 1: and it's just everybody out there going do something. You

1527
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:05,400
Speaker 1: have to keep pressing forward and just become the best

1528
01:36:05,479 --> 01:36:08,519
Speaker 1: person you can. But do not be afraid to cut

1529
01:36:08,640 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 1: people out your life. Come on, do lose your fear

1530
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:18,000
Speaker 1: and your sense of guilt from having to carry people

1531
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:21,560
Speaker 1: who it ain't child. They made your children, man, And

1532
01:36:21,640 --> 01:36:24,120
Speaker 1: it's even at a point where you can't carry your children.

1533
01:36:25,360 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 1: And see all my kids. They bought it that damn point.

1534
01:36:27,640 --> 01:36:31,559
Speaker 1: Now they buy at that point. See my kids old

1535
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:33,400
Speaker 1: enough now with a dad. I need a minute. I

1536
01:36:33,400 --> 01:36:36,320
Speaker 1: ain't got time right now. Everything all right? Emergency you

1537
01:36:36,400 --> 01:36:38,800
Speaker 1: in the hospital or something? No, alright, work it out.

1538
01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:44,559
Speaker 1: It ain't your job, man, to carry a grown person nowhere.

1539
01:36:45,560 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 1: Cut about your life. Make your life a lot simple.

1540
01:36:50,120 --> 01:36:55,519
Speaker 1: Don't have a good weekend, man. Oh, I gotta say

1541
01:36:55,560 --> 01:37:01,360
Speaker 1: happy birthday to get out of here. I love you, honey,

1542
01:37:01,439 --> 01:37:04,080
Speaker 1: you know I love you very much. In Happy anniversary.

1543
01:37:05,680 --> 01:37:09,160
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