1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things and its good listening to other. Please, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn you're going to 5 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: do you gotta turn to turn out. You haven't got 6 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: to turn out to turn turn water the water go. 7 00:01:55,720 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: Come come on your fad uh huh. I shore will 8 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You'all listening to the voice, come 9 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: on dig me nah. One and only Steve Harvey got 10 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: a radio show, Yeah, I got one. And I got 11 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: a message for you today too. Something I was thinking 12 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 1: about that might help you along the way. The thing 13 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: I appreciate about so many people that I learned from 14 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: Bishop Jake's, Kenneth Olmer, Donnie McClerkin, Kirk Franklin, Joel Oldstein, 15 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: I can't tell you, and many more than that. I mean, 16 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: you know I'm naming you know, famous people because I 17 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: know you know these names. But my father, who you 18 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: never met, was so great in my development as a man. 19 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: But my mother thought him mercy. My mother, she taught 20 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: me about faith. She gave me the things I needed 21 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: to know about. What I speak about every day that 22 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: basis was given to me by hers. So it's so 23 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: many great people. But here's the thing that I've had 24 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: to learn, and that is that if God got you 25 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 1: through it, it's done. Move on. See, I can't tell 26 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: you how many people don't really pay attention to that 27 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 1: close enough. If God got you through it, it's done. 28 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: Move on. How many times have we as people allowed 29 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: God to get us through something, get us beyond something, 30 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: get us over something, get us through something, and then 31 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: even after it's completion, we sit there and we dwell 32 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: on it, and we dwell on it to the point 33 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: where it becomes an anchor around our neck, and we 34 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: can't move on. We can't move on because we just 35 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: won't let it go. It's done. If God got you 36 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: through it, it's done. Move move on. Stop harboring on 37 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: the pass. Stop hanging on to every time you fail, 38 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: Stop hanging on to every time you slipped up and 39 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: messed up, Stop hanging on to every time you didn't 40 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: get it right. So what everybody makes mistakes, Everybody messes up, 41 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: everybody don't get it right, everybody struggling with something you 42 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: ain't thought. Only one but my God, Man, if God 43 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: got you through it, it's done. Move on. You hanging 44 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: on to it, for that's why He got it, got 45 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: you through it, so you can move on from it. 46 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: See a lot of things that happened to us that 47 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: we think are negative or bad experience. These are lessons 48 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: in what not to do. This is a way to 49 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: have a now or bearing on. Look out for it 50 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: the next time. You got me once, you can't get 51 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: me again. I'm telling you, man, if God got you 52 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: through it, it's done, move on. You have got to 53 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: move on. I use this analogy all the time. I'm 54 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: gonna add a little bit to it. Bishop Jake's told 55 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: me you cannot drive your car looking in the rearview mirror. 56 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 1: See you know what your rearview mirror is actually for 57 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: in your car. Your rearview mirror is designed. After I 58 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: pass a car and I want to merge into that lane, 59 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: or I want to make another move, I look up 60 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: in the rearview mirror, and all I use it for 61 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: it shows me that I've gotten past it. I've gotten 62 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 1: past the vehicle I was passing, and I got enough 63 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 1: room now clear to make my next move. That's what 64 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: I use my rearview mirror for. I use my rearview 65 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: mirror to just glance up every now and then to 66 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: see who coming up on me. That's all I use 67 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: it for. Listen to me real close. Now. Your rearview 68 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 1: mirror on your car is after you're passing something or 69 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 1: you're passing by something, you can look up in the 70 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: rearview mirror and it lets you know you're pasted it, 71 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: you're beyond it. It's clear now it's in the past. 72 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 1: You no longer have to deal with it as the 73 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: car that was in front of you blocking your way. 74 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: You have passed it. You look up in the mirror, 75 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: you've cleared it. Now if you want to switch lanes, 76 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: you could slide on over. You got room. But that 77 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: rearview mirror also lets you see if anything is coming 78 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: up on you, and you just need to glance, because 79 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: if you're moving forward, ain't a whole lot can come 80 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: up on you. You're just glancing every now and then, 81 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: and it reminds you that you got through something and 82 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: you got beyond something. That's what the rearview mirror for. Now. 83 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: Let's talk about that win shield. Why you think that 84 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: windshields so big on your car. That's the biggest window 85 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: on your car. You know why the windshield so big, 86 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: because it's where you're going. Because even the automobile makers 87 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: want you to have a wide view of where you're 88 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: going so you can see what's up ahead. They put 89 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: lights on the card night so you can have night 90 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: vision and see what's up ahead. But you can, oh, man, 91 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: see not? Why is that look? Think about that now 92 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: for I move forward with this one. Think about that windshield, man, 93 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: why is that windshield so big so you can see 94 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: where you're going? It's way more important where you're going 95 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: than where you're being, don't you see that. That's why 96 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: the rear view mirrors so small because it is nowhere 97 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: in there as important as it is as to where 98 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: you're going. Why you being? Just allows you to take 99 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: a glance so you can make sure you clear it, 100 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: so you can see if it's room enough for you 101 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: to make your next move, so you can know that 102 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: you've gone through it and go head on about your business. 103 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: But that windshield, that windshield is for vision a man 104 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: without a dream of visions your parish. That windshield is 105 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: for somebody going somewhere. That windshield is for somebody else 106 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: there trying to make another move. I'm gonna go right. 107 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 1: I'm on left. I'm gonna get off on this exit. 108 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this DTWOL. I'm gonna handle it signed 109 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: as a new route. There's only so many miles left 110 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 1: to go. That's what the windshield got. Let me tell 111 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: you something, man, when you see a mile sign, you're 112 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: driving on the freeway, you're on the interstate, and you 113 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 1: let's say you're driving to a particular city and you 114 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 1: see a sign that says that city is thirty eight, 115 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty eight miles away. That lets you 116 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: know where you're going. And you're on the right path. Now, 117 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: if you keep looking in the rear view mirror, you'll 118 00:08:54,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: never know how close you are. You'll never know because 119 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: you're driving your car. Look in the review mirror. You 120 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: all on the shoulder, you hear them rocks up under 121 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: your car. You'd scared yourself to death because you know why, 122 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:11,719 Speaker 1: because you keep looking in the rearview mirror. Get out 123 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: the rear view mirror. If God got you through, it's done, 124 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: move on. So what he don't love you know more? 125 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: And man, let's move on. If God got you through, 126 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: it's done, move on. God got something for you. If 127 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: you get out your rear view mirror and get up 128 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: in that windshield. God's got something for your up ahead. 129 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: But you can't see what's up ahead because you in 130 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: that rearview mirror. If God got you through, it is done. 131 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: Let's move on. Come on, y'all, don't let the pass 132 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: beat you up. That's the ingredients in the cake. You 133 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 1: haven't made that already. That's done. Let's go. God, look 134 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: in the windshield, see what God Mobil got something new 135 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: for you. If you get out the rearview mirror and look, 136 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: open up your eyes and see. All right, let's go. Today. 137 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: You're listening morning, ladies and gentlemen to Steve Harvey Morning 138 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: Show is about to begin. I must warn you today 139 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 1: today is gonna be his day. What does that mean exactly? 140 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm not for show, which means you are in for someone, 141 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: because anytime I can't define what it is I'm about 142 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: to be. We got a problem and the problem is 143 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: about to begin. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show 144 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: that never starts the same way twice. Why because it 145 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 1: ain't no two days alike. So why should we try 146 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: to do something that God never intended to be? Get 147 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: ready for the ride. Strap up, buckle in, hold on tight. 148 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: Here come that man, Here comes Charley Strawberry. Here come 149 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 1: calling for rel Here come that little liding my girl 150 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: out of Mississippi. Here come Junior, better known It's killed space, 151 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 1: got about eight radio shows, and here comes that damn fool, 152 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: always in somebody's business, breaking people, bota get it self hurt. 153 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: One day, ladies and gentlemen, let us begin, Junior, what's 154 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: on your mind? Let me let me ask you something. 155 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:17,559 Speaker 1: Because you're sixty five, you you you health conscious? Okay? 156 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: You got your fitness gold. Are you tired of trying 157 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 1: to be in shape? Very? Just be honest, exhausted, exhausted. 158 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: I'm I'm perplexed. I'm actually throwed off by the whole 159 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: damn ideal staying healthy because it counters Yeah, everything that 160 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: is unhealthy. Yeah, in order to look the best you 161 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: can look, the older you get, the less good stuff 162 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 1: you are allowed to eat. Yeah, you can't have pie 163 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: every day, sweet potato pie cobbler. You can't have pound 164 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: cake every day, ice cream things I love, Yeah, you can't. 165 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: You can't have it nowa pudding like you want to. 166 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: You just can't. Just can't do it. You can't eat 167 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: posta every time. You can't have power. You can't have 168 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: pizza every day. Pizza one of my favorite foods. You 169 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 1: can't have it all the time. You got to cut 170 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: it back. You can't have it every other day either. 171 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: You got to eat eighty twenty. You gotta eat eighty 172 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: percent clean, good foods and twenty percent what you want. 173 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you right now, eighty twenty is 174 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: not gonna lie you to lose much damn weight. It 175 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: just ain't. It's just gonna keep you from getting worse. 176 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 1: If you want to lose weight, I've actually found out 177 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to eat ninety ten maybe ninety five. Ye, 178 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: it's really tell you the truth. And the older you get, 179 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: the most strick you got to get with this diet. 180 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: But you gotta make up your mind. Do you want 181 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: to live? Do you want to eat to live? Or 182 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: you want to just eat to your ass? Ain't here 183 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: no more diecision you want to die? Eat? You got 184 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: to make have decided to eat to lil Yeah, yeah, 185 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: because I would rather live than to not be hill 186 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: with a smile on my fat ass fake because I 187 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: do today some cake eat moderation, moderation, y'all ain't here, y'all, 188 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 1: i't eed hi hire to this my chief. Y'all ain't ahead? 189 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: Broccoli rice? Have you no I glink flower rice? I 190 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: have mad that too, and it's not the same. I 191 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: haven't had broccoli rice. Why your hearts holding? Coming up? 192 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: At thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll we'll start 193 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 1: off the show. We'd run that prank back from the 194 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: nephew right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 195 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Let's start a morning off now. Would run 196 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: that brank back from the nephew. Nephew, what you got 197 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: for us today? We want to end happy. This is 198 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: happy ending. That's right, that's right happy. You want to 199 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: don't worry, be happy happy? If you would, Hello, therapy 200 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: and to duty speaking. How may I help you? Yeah, 201 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to come in and get some some therapy done. 202 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: I was in an accident at my job. You know, 203 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: I got injured like a week and a half ago. 204 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: I ain't been able to go back to work for 205 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: my back and my leg. They say, you know, I 206 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: haven't broke any bones in none, but it's you know, 207 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: it's real. So real stealth, hard to get out of bed, 208 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: So I wanted to see you know what it takes 209 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 1: um to get a therapist and get start getting some 210 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: type of treatment. Okay, well, sir, what we typically do 211 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: is we ask for our patients to come in, you know, 212 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: check out our facility and so we can also accept you, um, 213 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: you know, see where the damage is the majority of it, 214 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: and you know, then get you to a therapist. So 215 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: if you would like to come in, we can definitely 216 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: do that for you. Okay. Do you know what the 217 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: therapists actually do when they do in the treatment? Well, 218 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: if you come in, sir, we can definitely direct you 219 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: to any of our three therapists that we have on 220 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: site right now, but each one specializes in a particular 221 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 1: um field. So it's more beneficial for you if you 222 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: come in and then we can assess you and then 223 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: direct you to that particular therapist. Okay, Okay, So you said, 224 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: how many of y'all do y'all have? We have three. 225 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: There's Marty, Brenda and Cecilia here. Okay. The person that 226 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: referred me to y'all told me that Cecilia was the 227 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: one that that had worked on Is it a way 228 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: I could talk to Cecilia. Typically, we normally ask our 229 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: patience to come in then let me see if she's 230 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: available right now. I know earlier she was was a patient, 231 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: so let me just check really quick. I mean, if 232 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: she is available, then I can I can transfer you. Okay, okay, okay, 233 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: I'll just hold on, Okay, hold on, Hi. This is Cecilia. Yeah, 234 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: Miss Cecilia, trying to come up there and get some 235 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: therapy done. I heard my back and my leg at work. 236 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: I mean they already told me was nothing broken, nothing, 237 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: But I wanted to see what exactly do y'all do 238 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: is for physical therapy? You know, what exactly will I 239 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: be doing? Well? When you come in, We'll do a 240 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: consultation and you know, will missage you and take X 241 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: rays and put you in a whirlpool tub and there 242 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: are several different things that we can do for you. Okay, 243 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: is it a certain timeline? I mean, like, how long 244 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: would it take before I can get back to work, 245 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: because you know, I've been awful about a week nine. 246 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get back within the next couple of weeks. 247 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: But it's taken me, like, you know, at least thirty 248 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 1: minutes to get out of bed because of my back 249 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: in my leg. Oh wow, well you need to come 250 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: in as soon as possible because that's something like that's 251 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: pretty bad. Okay, well let me ask you this hill. 252 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: After people get through doing the therapy, do y'all have 253 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: happy endings? Happy endings? What do you mean by happy endings? 254 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: Happy end is like, you know, when therapy is over with, 255 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: you know, do would you yourself, you know, would you 256 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: do happy endings at the end? Okay, I'm still i 257 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: understanding what do you mean by happy endings? What are 258 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 1: you talking? Okay, say like if I come over then 259 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: and go through a session or whatever for about an hour, 260 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 1: when we get through, you know, when you kind of like, 261 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: you know, close the door and and you know, do 262 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: happy endings, you know, and make me feel good. Okay, um, 263 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: close the door. I'm still not quite understanding what you 264 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: mean by happy ending sir. Okay, what I'm trying to 265 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 1: say is like, when we get through with the procedure, uh, 266 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: you know, make me feel good in a in a 267 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: nice uh you know, sexual way. You know, happy endings. 268 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 1: When Judy sent you back to me, what are we 269 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: talking about with this happy ending thing? Because I don't. 270 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't asking about the happy endings that 271 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 1: that right there was just gonna be between me and you. 272 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: We'll see. I don't. I don't plan it. I don't know. 273 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: This is a place of business. We're professional here. We 274 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: do therapy for people who are seriously being hurt. This 275 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: is not the nearest far we're talking about happy ending 276 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: after we finished with that. What's not a place do 277 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 1: you think this is? Well? I mean, I know it's 278 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: I know it's therapy, But I mean, if people going 279 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: through that much pain at least have some type of 280 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 1: happy endings, don't you think Well, I think you might 281 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: suggest your significant other. Okay, so you wouldn't be up 282 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 1: for doing a happy ending for hell? No, I ain't 283 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: interested in that. Man. What kind of this you call 284 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: about talking about? You heard? Hell? If you heard, you 285 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't be even talking about fending. You're talking about it? Okay? 286 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: Hold I mean you're not talking to me professionally. Well, 287 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: you coming at me with this happy ending ain't professionally 288 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: at all either. What kind of place you ain't? We're 289 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: running over here? Okay? Hold on, I was referred to you. 290 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, you know the guy telling me. You know 291 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: you're gonna take kevimy what God told you like this? 292 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, God, I told you something like this. Look, 293 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 1: let you know what. That's not even going there because 294 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 1: I don't even want to bring him any this. Can 295 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: you satisfy me? Out the east there? I'm gonna tip 296 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: you a little bit too, man. Have you lost your 297 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: everlasting marble mind? Are you gone crazy? Julie? Julie? Who 298 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 1: in the hell is this on the phone that you 299 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: didn't sit through me thinking this is an happy ending place? 300 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: Who is this, missus Cillian? She don't she don't know 301 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: nothing about the happy ending part. It don't matter you 302 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 1: You you're the receptionist. You know what? You on the 303 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: borderline losing your job because this is hello, hello, missus Cilia. 304 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 1: Can I just tell you who who referred me? Who? Who? 305 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 1: Who told you that I have happy endies for anybody? 306 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 1: Because person I have happy endies for it is my husband? 307 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 1: Who Who is it, missus Cilia? Nephew Timmy from the 308 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show? Your girlfriend Caaren got me the 309 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: prank phone? Call you y'all, y'all in here getting me rid. 310 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: I'm about to find a depitionist I got folks in 311 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: the libbists look back out of call me on my job. 312 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: I'm a kid caught make no sense, missus cilious. He 313 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 1: told me. She say, my girlfriend patience is short, dairy dairy. 314 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,959 Speaker 1: Oh it's own. She gonna need her. That's all right. 315 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: I got something for her. You got some happy I 316 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: got some happy endings for her. You just wait, I 317 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: tell you. You gotta tell me this, baby. What is 318 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 319 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 1: the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Shows? Nephew, All right, nephew, 320 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: everybody help you. Coming up next, it is the Cello 321 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, 322 00:20:56,040 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: you're listening morning show coming up in the top of 323 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,600 Speaker 1: the hour. In trending entertainment news, Well today is Marti 324 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: Gras and H. Plus we'll tell you about Keim Kardashian's 325 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: custom private jet. Wait till you hear about this. Plus 326 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 1: some states are banning the sale of Russian vodkas. We'll 327 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: talk about all of these stories at the top of 328 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: the hour, But right now it is time to ask 329 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Office of Steve Hardy is ready? 330 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: Are you ready Irma and Hammond rights. I'm a sixty 331 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: year old widow and I'm dating a guy that's a chef. 332 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: We bonded over our love for food, but he thinks 333 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: he's the best cook on the planet. I made gumbo 334 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 1: for him, and instead of enjoying it, he critiqued it. 335 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: We got in an argument and I said most of 336 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 1: his food is bland. He hasn't called since should I 337 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 1: reach out like a good gumbo argument? Well, y'all to 338 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 1: the old last people, y'all too old ass people in 339 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: here arguing about food instead of trying to find a 340 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: way to get along, y'all trying to find a way 341 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 1: to see His need to be accepted as the chelf 342 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: and you'll need to be accepted as a good cook. 343 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: It's greater than both y'all's needs to have a quality relationship. 344 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: There is a saying, I'm not sure if it's a 345 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: scripture or not. Ain't no fool like an old fool 346 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: pretty show. That ain't a scripture, but it sounds like 347 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 1: it should be. So congratulations, both of you all have 348 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: ruined your relationship because you all won't let the other 349 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: person win. And that's as simple as that. And What 350 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 1: would it have hurt if he'd just h your damn gumbo? 351 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: And what would have hurt if you would have just 352 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: said you're a great chelf? What would it have But 353 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: he bought this on hisself because he started it. Dumb 354 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: ass doing it sometimes ego got the way, all right? 355 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: Moving on, I mean, let's look at that very own 356 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: show as a great example. Shirley k Ball Water but 357 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 1: she got a husband though. No, she hello, learn yourself something, 358 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: lady and pole Nesto and had to eat lawd knows 359 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 1: what out of a damn crock pot. He had steak 360 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: and rice out of a crock pot one time, lady 361 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: with pham on it and he ate it? No, he didn't. 362 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: Let's pray for next stop Marie. Moving on, Marie and 363 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: Tampa says, my husband and I met through my best friend, 364 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: so we're all close and they talk often. She needed 365 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: boxes moved from her attic and she called my husband. 366 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 1: I went too, because I don't trust women. She joked 367 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: only said, uh, don't nobody wants your man. He laughed, 368 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 1: but I didn't. Was she joking or being shady? The 369 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: three of us on this show will tell you that 370 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: the best jokes we've ever written has been ninety percent truth, 371 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: the truth. Oh yes, it's something to her line that 372 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:25,120 Speaker 1: she stated something nobody won't your man? Why you call 373 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 1: him all the time? If you don't want my man? 374 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: Why you ask him to come over here? Move? No box? 375 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: You don't know no other men. They got three men 376 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 1: in a truck. They got all kind of moving companies. 377 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: You can come. Hell, yeah, they probably got Uber moves 378 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: by now you haul? Oh you know what? You ain't tripping? Right? Yeah? 379 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: She says she's just not trust women. Oh what's your 380 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: first man? All right? Marine not mad at her for 381 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 1: the all right. Deejer m Portsmith says, I'm moving to 382 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: a new city to marry a man that I met online. 383 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: I've been single for years, so I had to tell 384 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: my old sex buddies and excess that I'll be off 385 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: the market. One of them said goodbye. One of them 386 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 1: got some goodbye cookie too. I want to enter marriage 387 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 1: with a clean slate. Should I change my Facebook page 388 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 1: and myself number? If you want to inter marriage with 389 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: a clean slate, what you need to do is quit 390 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: calling people up. But your ass gets talked into things 391 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: getting You just need just to quit calling people up. Hey, y'all, 392 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm fit to move up. Huh say one mom? Say 393 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: what sadday? Something? I'm not Saturday? Last time you promise, okay, 394 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 1: I'll be there. You like to? It was okay. If 395 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:09,679 Speaker 1: you you need to just it looks just do what 396 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Block everybody, change your number, get all 397 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 1: Facebook like that and going about your business. How many 398 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: people you'd have had to call? Yeah, you might want 399 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: to get baptized too. You might want to do a 400 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: little at two. Just ye, you need to be washed 401 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 1: in the blood of light. All you can get washed, 402 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: that'll probably be better. Oh yeah, because if you get 403 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 1: washed right, all right? Moving on to Liliana, Oh Liliana, 404 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: that's a pretty name, Liliana, and Savannah says. I'm a 405 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 1: thirty three year old Latina woman and I am only 406 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: interested in dating black men, but I hear horror stories 407 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 1: about how mean they are. The first black man I 408 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: dated ghosted me after we had sex, even after I 409 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 1: waited three months to sleep with him. Is it a 410 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: way to vet these guys before I get too deeply 411 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: involved with them? So wait a minute, let me ask 412 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 1: yourself before you start slamming the whole black male races 413 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: monsters that they are, while you're as Saint Davey Latino 414 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 1: men I mean, I mean, I mean Latin men. It 415 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 1: is because men are the same everywhere. Why don't you 416 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: try some white men that we all the same. We 417 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: men all get upset. Now let me tell you something. 418 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: If you got the wrong one, you got the wrong one. 419 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 1: I don't care what race he belonged to you. All 420 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,199 Speaker 1: the focus aren't getting the right man instead of a 421 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: type of man, because obviously your type ain't working for you. 422 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 1: So why don't you try that, Lily Anna? Because Tommy, 423 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: me and Junior, Hey, we never we never been described 424 00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: as monsters towards women. You might not like me now 425 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: once I end up not liking you, Oh I'm gone 426 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: now yeah yeah, I'll get ghosts. But I wonder who 427 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: told her these four stories that she's heard. But I 428 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: hear more about how men, I mean black men. A Well, 429 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: what you want is phone White women been ghosted, Latino 430 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: women been go wait wait wait wait wait wait wait 431 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: that c Lowe has an announcement to make you think 432 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 1: black men as moms. White men will have your ass 433 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 1: on a fishing boat with rocks in the boat rolling 434 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: out to see and you ain't coming back. All right, 435 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: thank you, Steelo. Coming up at the top of the 436 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: we'll have some trending headlines and some entertainment news right 437 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show. All right, here we go, 438 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: time for entertainment news. But before we get to that, 439 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: Carl love what you got girl. Well, today it's fat Tuesday, 440 00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: so we have to say happy Mighty Grow. It was 441 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: back all weekend, yes, parades and all that, so we 442 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: just have to say welcome back, Mighty Grass, back bat Tuesday, 443 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: Mobile Alabama and the n O. We want to say 444 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: happy mart YEP. Tomorrow is Wednesday. Tomorrow's ash Wednesday. And 445 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: just a reminder, Easter Sunday is April seventeenth, so it 446 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: is that time, is it? Yea? So what was our yesterday? Then? 447 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 1: I was fat? It was it fat Monday? For me? 448 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: It's skinny Monday. It's skinny Monday. Monday is Londay. Grasnday. Grow. 449 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: When you're speaking a fat Monday of Tuesday, what's your 450 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: body fat percentage? Anyway? Timing twenty seven, I'm gonna get 451 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: I don't know my number, but I'm going to get 452 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: my number. Check this week. I want to know what 453 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: it is. What do you think it is? Whatever it is, 454 00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna like it. I already know me. I mean, 455 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: just tell the champ of what you think it is? 456 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:35,840 Speaker 1: Probably about about eighteen seventeen percent at boyeen think it's worse. Seventeen. 457 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: He always think he's fine you on this fat Tuesday. 458 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: I always thinkin what he said junior about seventeen or 459 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: something like that. My whole goal in life is seventeen 460 00:30:54,560 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: seventeen girl, seventeen an even wearing no shirt. Norm don't 461 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: worry about it. You look good and ya ain't played 462 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:17,320 Speaker 1: as board? All right? Thank you, Carlos So Moving on, 463 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian is the new owner of a custom designed 464 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,959 Speaker 1: private jet, the gulf Stream G six fifty er likely 465 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 1: set her back about one hundred and fifty mil. The 466 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: eight will it is okay because she's a billionaire, right? 467 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:37,719 Speaker 1: Eighteen leather seats feature cashmere accents, the cream color exterior 468 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 1: and interior matches her home decorations. Uh. In flight meals 469 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: are served on the same table where Kim has at home. 470 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: The tagline of the gulf Stream jet is you simply 471 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: cannot fly farther faster. Uh. Maximum speed is seven hundred 472 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: miles per hour, or just shy of mock one, which 473 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: is the speed of sound U. The eighty six hundred 474 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: mile flight range allows Kim to travel NonStop to just 475 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: about any destination. Pete Davidson. Pete Davidson's New York City 476 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: is twenty five hundred miles away, Paris is fifty five 477 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: hundred miles away, and Armenia is a seven thousand mile trip. 478 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 1: So how far as Kanye Ye ride away on cross 479 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: the streets you think, Steve, I ain't mad. You ain't 480 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 1: mad at I know right at get decorated just like that. Oh, 481 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: that price is steep, but depends on the customization. But 482 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: you can get them booth. But that's that's steep. But 483 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: I ain't mad at it all. I ain't man. Fifty 484 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: is the top of the line of gold Stream out there, 485 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 1: and she's getting a brand new She's a bad girl. 486 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: She didn't order this thing. Now it's gonna be down 487 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: quite a bit, because when you buy a new airplane, 488 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 1: you know it's got to go. It's got to get 489 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,840 Speaker 1: all the kinks out. They're gonna test flight a few times, 490 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: but they're gonna give it to you and then you 491 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: got to be it'll be a lot of downtime. I 492 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:25,239 Speaker 1: know some people that bought new airplanes, and it'll be 493 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: some downtime. But you'll survive it because if you got 494 00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty million four plane, you do have 495 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 1: an alternate, alternately plane. Yeah, you can feel well. You 496 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: might not have another one, you'll say, but you can 497 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: get access to them. You gotta have a jet service 498 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 1: somewhere that you use. Would it did they have pictures 499 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 1: of it? Anything? Monica? Could I please see what you 500 00:33:56,760 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: have available? Who do you call the buy a plane? Who? Who? Ghost? 501 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: They ride in Savannah? Hey man, let me tell you something. 502 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: It's really an interesting process. I've actually set in the 503 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: room while they pitched these jets. I've been on several 504 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:19,919 Speaker 1: test rides with jets. Savannah, Georgia is the main headquarters 505 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 1: for golf, and you can go there. I don't kill what, 506 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,720 Speaker 1: but let me tell you something. Ain't no deals, it's 507 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,880 Speaker 1: not a that's not what they're not doing sales or 508 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 1: nothing like that. They no sale, ain't no fifteen percent off? 509 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah no, yeah, you lay it away, it'll be in there. 510 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 1: They'll be fixing on it, taking your money. You're not 511 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: driving out of here till they got there though, and 512 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: they got laid away. That's that other level of their partner. Yeah, 513 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,360 Speaker 1: that's different. Yeah, that's nice, you know, but you know, 514 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: like you know, like my plane, my plane, the one 515 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,439 Speaker 1: I ride on, you know, it's you know, by three 516 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:07,959 Speaker 1: fifty Brown Trip, you Knowlton. Yeah, I mean, I'm only 517 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: they got some good cookies on that though, cookies cookies. No, 518 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:23,720 Speaker 1: I meant united us. We love them. I appreciate them. 519 00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 1: You keep that frontier spirit. So I'm gonna let you 520 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: have that. You can have that on you. It's custom 521 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: painted a great color like her Man Calabasas, all that 522 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: beautiful doing her thing right now. Congratulations to her. All right, 523 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes, we're gonna switch gears. Stars 524 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: like stars are just like us. They're just like us. 525 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: We'll tell you about Rick Ross do with your cell 526 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: phone project right after this. You're listening to the String Show. 527 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 1: So guys, stars are just like us. They're people too, 528 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 1: hip hop star and we stop mogul. Rick Ross decided 529 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: he needed to chop down ten massive oak trees on 530 00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 1: his property. However, he got a quote of ten thousand 531 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:14,879 Speaker 1: dollars one thousand dollars for each tree from an outside contractor. 532 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 1: So Ricky posted. I just told my homie, you gotta 533 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 1: you go to home depot and you go get me 534 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: the biggest blankety blank saw there is with a big 535 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,239 Speaker 1: chain and you crank that blankety blank. I'm gonna cut 536 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: the trees down. You heard me? Yeah, rick fing to 537 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: cut some trees down. He did, He did down the 538 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: next I guess he didn't give it down. Which way 539 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 1: they fail? And you gotta clean all that up. You 540 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: still when they get down, you still got it. You 541 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 1: still got a lot of cutting to do. Yeah. Yeah, 542 00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 1: it ain't the cuting, ain't it? What the fall? Take 543 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: all the fall? It's the fall and then you gotta 544 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: you gotta get them up to clean up. It's from 545 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: the hall and in all and if you ain't got 546 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: that big chipper where they grind it up driving around him, Yeah, yeah, man, 547 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,799 Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta have a big wood chipping. Then 548 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: you got to get that stump remover, because how you 549 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 1: gonna get Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now, property 550 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 1: right now. So I mean that's cool. I got it. 551 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 1: He got a beautiful property. I don't I haven't been 552 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 1: over there since he owned it. I have been over 553 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: there since. Holy field of it. Oh, it's a wonderful 554 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 1: property man, and and and Rick got a deal on it, 555 00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: and he laying it out, you know, man, I like 556 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: Rick Ross. I've had it on my show talking to it. 557 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 1: I just admire his sheer hustle with what he got 558 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:54,479 Speaker 1: and who he is, which just shows me over and over. 559 00:37:55,360 --> 00:38:01,200 Speaker 1: It's not your pedigree, it's not your background round, it's 560 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: not your language, your choice of language, or your education. Now, 561 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: the choice of language is important when it comes to 562 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 1: what comes out your mouth. Come on, Cussing doesn't diminish 563 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: your chances. It's it's the negativity. See. But a lot 564 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 1: of people consider I've had people tell me all the 565 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 1: time cussing is a sign of unintelligence. Oh. I know 566 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:32,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people say that. Well, I mean to 567 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 1: them it is. And I understood. One of the great 568 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 1: poets of our time, Gil Scott Hearing, said the reason 569 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,800 Speaker 1: he didn't cuss because it dilutes the message. I bety 570 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:49,760 Speaker 1: custom when they close the jail, cell I bety customs 571 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 1: that you say something crazy to Sinbad. Sinbad got something 572 00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:00,479 Speaker 1: for you too. Coming up in thirty four minutes after hour. 573 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,399 Speaker 1: We're gonna check Steve's voicemail right after this. You're listening 574 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:10,719 Speaker 1: show All right, guys, time now to check Steve's voicemail 575 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,359 Speaker 1: and listen. If you want to leave Steven message, all 576 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 1: you have to do is call him eight seven seven 577 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 1: twenty nine Steve. Eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, We 578 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,760 Speaker 1: are ready, Steve. Here's a caller talking about a basketball legend. Hey, Steve, 579 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:29,360 Speaker 1: This James Morgan from high Point, North Carolina. I remember Friday, 580 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 1: you're talking about ar Moro the Prayer. Yeah, I loved him. 581 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,040 Speaker 1: I remember. It broke my heart when he came to 582 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,200 Speaker 1: New York, even though I was a New York fan, 583 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 1: because when they're playing for Baltimore, I mean the Bullets, 584 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 1: and him and Walt Fraser said against each other, You've 585 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:49,319 Speaker 1: never seen nothing like. But I love I love New York. Nick. 586 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 1: I mean, that's just something I wanted to say. Thank you, Steve. 587 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: I appreciate that man. Old school cat that was for you. 588 00:39:55,760 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: Reminded me too. He was with the Bullets. Bullets. Yeah, yeah, 589 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: they changed that name because they thought they had a 590 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 1: negative connotation, you know, from the Bullets. You know, well, 591 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 1: but they kept to Washington red Skins for years. So 592 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:17,319 Speaker 1: so much for what they cared about here. Yeah, so 593 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: much for that, charl I have a question for you, Yes, sir, 594 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 1: when you tilt your head to the side like you 595 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,920 Speaker 1: do when we're talking to you on these zooms, do 596 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: Nesto walk out the room sometimes? Of course I'll be 597 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,960 Speaker 1: wanting to go ahead. Let's go back to the email 598 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:45,520 Speaker 1: to voicemail, all right, eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, 599 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: if you want to leave Steve a voicemail this one. 600 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: Remember last week when we had the Strawberry letter about 601 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 1: the man who was in prison he got out. He 602 00:40:55,120 --> 00:41:00,120 Speaker 1: was in prison for mistakingly driving a getaway car for 603 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 1: an armed robbery. He said he didn't know happen, so 604 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 1: he came home. His wife was rashing out money to him. 605 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,200 Speaker 1: She was talking to other guys on the phone. So 606 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 1: you remember that call. Well that this caller is about 607 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 1: that Strawberry letter. The title was, the subject was what 608 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,959 Speaker 1: was she doing while I was gone? All right? Listen, listen, 609 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,279 Speaker 1: is pertweening to the Strawberry landing and the guy going 610 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 1: to jail for armed robbery? Dude, you got a road care. Seriously, 611 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 1: you guys, are married again. It means for better or 612 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 1: for worse. It didn't matter if you went to the 613 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 1: moon and came back and stayed there for twenty years. 614 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, yeah, she didn't feel like that she 615 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: could stay inside the marriage and be faithful, then she 616 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,960 Speaker 1: should have got a divorce. That's the only option. I mean, 617 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: there's no such thing as a guy coming around the 618 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: house and taking care of things while you're going or whatever. 619 00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: What if the situation would have been turned around, But 620 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 1: look at it and be a man about the situation. 621 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:02,280 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, she's talking to guys. Obviously, she doesn't 622 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 1: want you to leave the situation. YO, your own way, 623 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 1: thank you. Okay, Yeah, I agree with how he ended it. 624 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,719 Speaker 1: I was struggling in the beginning. I mean, ideally, you 625 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 1: would love for it to be you know, death do 626 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 1: us part and all this here for better off of 627 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,640 Speaker 1: works going twenty years state twenty years? The reality is, 628 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 1: but see me, and if we do something that puts 629 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:30,399 Speaker 1: ourselves in a situation, that puts her in a situation. 630 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,719 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure when they said the vils, they wasn't 631 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,600 Speaker 1: saying you was gonna be in prison. That wasn't nobody 632 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,959 Speaker 1: signs up for that. They don't say prison, do us part? 633 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:47,240 Speaker 1: They don't say that. Yeah, so it kind of puts 634 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 1: a woman in a bad position. But I did like 635 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: the way he ended it. It ain't happening for you, bro, 636 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: Gone about your business. Go ahead, Shirley. Here's a call 637 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 1: about prink phone call. Good morning, y'all people on the 638 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,839 Speaker 1: morning show. Man, look up, y'all need to stop doing 639 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 1: the prank phone calls while people out there driving and 640 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: it's bad weather. Man, folks on the last and lose 641 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 1: control of the wheel, hitting breaks and slides and stuff. Man, Hey, yeah, 642 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: y'all wrong for that. Yeah, y'all wrong. Keep it going, man, Love, 643 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:22,840 Speaker 1: you got to make up your mind getting breaks and sliding, 644 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 1: And thank you brother, We're gonna keep your sliding every morning. 645 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:33,600 Speaker 1: Just be careful, keep your foot on that break, all right? Well, 646 00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 1: thank you guys for you and you're sliding in the snow. 647 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: You have to take your foot off the break. Oh okay, 648 00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 1: you don't driving the snow? Quick telling people keep their 649 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,359 Speaker 1: foot on the damn break. Why don't y'all didn't know 650 00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: how to? I know, we'll quit telling people how to 651 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: driving snow for you kill or some like why are 652 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,480 Speaker 1: you cleanling people set up at this? Well, what's y'all 653 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:56,280 Speaker 1: soo touch? You shouldn't learn how to drive for your left? 654 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: Coming up the nephew in the prank phone call all 655 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 656 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 657 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the 658 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 1: subject my boss wants to whip me. Oh uh, we 659 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 1: don't know what that means. Oh you know what it means. 660 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 1: You don't wear what it means. And none of us 661 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 1: wrote this, Steve, none of us My boss wants to 662 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,879 Speaker 1: whip me. We'll get into that in just a bit, 663 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,840 Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's frank 664 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us, nef, Well, you 665 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,839 Speaker 1: know when you don't pay your bills, things get repossessed. 666 00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:40,359 Speaker 1: We've had it happened to us. Well, we're gonna take 667 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: it to the church this time. Repoll the pew, repoll. Hey, Hey, 668 00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:50,160 Speaker 1: if you ain't paid up, call we gotta come. Maybe 669 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: you gonna have to stand repoll cat dog if you would. 670 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: I'm trying to retail u. Pastor. Pastor Wilkins. Yeah, this 671 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 1: is the reverend doctor Wilkins. Are you the you're the 672 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 1: pastor of Baptist Church? Am right? MAASTI church? That's correct. 673 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,799 Speaker 1: How can I help you? Okay, listen, my name is 674 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 1: Daniel and I'm calling from RCS, which is a church supply, 675 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 1: and we have an outstanding bill here that we wanted 676 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,839 Speaker 1: to bring to you all's attention for like twenty three 677 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:27,280 Speaker 1: thousand dollars for your pews that has not been paid, 678 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: so we wanted to see not to cut you off. Yeah, yeah, Daniel, RCS, Yeah, 679 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: church supply, sir. That's h this is actually where you 680 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 1: guys got your pus. Okay, outstanding bill for twenty three thousand. Well, 681 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: first of all, best normally, uh, all our standing bills 682 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: are handled by our finance department. You know, you wouldn't 683 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 1: need to speak to our treasurer and they will be 684 00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 1: able to help you with that, sir, that this hasn't 685 00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: been taken care of, and this matter when it comes 686 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,760 Speaker 1: to these pews, because like I stated before, you guys 687 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: old twenty three thousand dollars on these cues and I 688 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 1: think this was probably twelve or thirteen years ago, so 689 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: maybe this was something before you got there, but nevertheless, 690 00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,560 Speaker 1: there's still an outstanding building right now. We're actually going 691 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,760 Speaker 1: to be repossessing these cues as of early seven o'clock 692 00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 1: Sunday morning, not far this Sunday morning, though. We have 693 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,720 Speaker 1: the Women's Days Missionary just here today, and I also 694 00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: fund it. We have like our kid man, you have 695 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 1: a lot of things, and you actually running off your schedule. 696 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,719 Speaker 1: To me, that's that's really not my concern. And maybe 697 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: your Women's Day or whatever it is gonna get y'all 698 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 1: gonna do a standing up because right now we're not 699 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: going to do it. You're understanding me. See um, did 700 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 1: you say twelve or thirteen years ago? Yes, sir, well, 701 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 1: I've been the past here for ten years and you know, 702 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:54,400 Speaker 1: you know occurred before you got there. But nevertheless, the 703 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,440 Speaker 1: bill is still outstanding and these cues need to be 704 00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: taken care of now. If y'all don't have the twenty 705 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 1: three thousan dollars, then I got to come pick these 706 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 1: pews up Sunday morning. Sir. We gotta over there. You're 707 00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 1: not hearing me. And first of all, this is my 708 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 1: private number. How did you get this number? You're your 709 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 1: numbers here in the books as a contact. No, this 710 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: is this is only only get this out to very 711 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 1: few people, and I know none of them would would 712 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 1: give our number. So that's definitue right there. And a 713 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,359 Speaker 1: second of all, if you're talking about coming in our 714 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,919 Speaker 1: church Sign the morning to take our pews, uh, that's 715 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 1: not something you really want to do, sir. I have 716 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,480 Speaker 1: to do my job the same way you get up 717 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 1: on Sunday morning and you have to do yours. I 718 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: have to do mine. So my job is to get 719 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,800 Speaker 1: these fews back because you guys are twenty three thousand 720 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,759 Speaker 1: dollars in the rears, nou kyling and tell you I 721 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,680 Speaker 1: ain't always been been a treaty. Now you come in 722 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 1: my church and you test them cues, I'm gonna come 723 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: out that proof it aren't you. I'm not. I'm not 724 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,799 Speaker 1: here to go to what you used to be and 725 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,480 Speaker 1: what you want now. I'm nothing to go back and 726 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,800 Speaker 1: forth with you on that. The bottom line consequences you 727 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: don't want to deal with Sign because you know I said, 728 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on, let me calm down, 729 00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,319 Speaker 1: because you know you're about to make me say some 730 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:08,399 Speaker 1: words that I've been delivered from Thank God, I'm gonna 731 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 1: deliver them pews away from you on Sunday. Now, I 732 00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 1: got to come and pick them pews up. That's the 733 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 1: bottom line. Do you have twenty three thousand Sunday morning? 734 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 1: Twenty three thousand? Understand, that's not the issue. The issue 735 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: is you have no business calling me on my personal phone. 736 00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm in my meditation time right now, trying to get 737 00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 1: consecrated for you know, my message that as to deliver 738 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,280 Speaker 1: later this afternoon, so we need all of our pumers. Okay, 739 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Do you have the twenty 740 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,000 Speaker 1: three thousand dollars that you can give me Sunday morning 741 00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:40,000 Speaker 1: and then you can continue whatever it is you have 742 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 1: going on that day. Other than that, I'm gonna have 743 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: to take them culls. I define told me the twenty doolums. 744 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,080 Speaker 1: If you are listening, Fron, that ain't my bill. I 745 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:53,360 Speaker 1: ain't paying it, you ain't touching my watch. I'm not 746 00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,560 Speaker 1: gonna continue to go. Okay, listen, I'm trying to respect 747 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 1: what's what's past. Will trying to respect you first remend, 748 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,160 Speaker 1: doctor Wilkins. I'd appreciate that you called me in my name, 749 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 1: Reverend doctor Wilkins. Okay, Reverend doctor Wilkins. Now, first of all, 750 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 1: I'm crumbing up there Sunday. Now, I'm hoping I only 751 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 1: have to lay hands on these queues now, but I 752 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 1: gotta lay hands on something else. Then I gotta do 753 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 1: what I got to say. You can come on up here, 754 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,759 Speaker 1: and you said it on the property, that's cool, but 755 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 1: you touch them pulls. I got some lawyers in here. 756 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,200 Speaker 1: They can take that Jesus coat off, they can stay 757 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,040 Speaker 1: it down. They can get with you, partner. I'm standing yeah, 758 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 1: and you know what the jaydo. I walked through the 759 00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:36,080 Speaker 1: valley shadow the desk. I will see no evil. I 760 00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,919 Speaker 1: ain't got no problems. Wait wait wait wait wait wait 761 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,040 Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait, you're talking about coming to me 762 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:44,400 Speaker 1: and answer my church because police, I'm gonna do what 763 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 1: I got to do. Man, Then I'm gonna dog I 764 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,480 Speaker 1: got to do in the namer Jesus, they man, the man, 765 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,920 Speaker 1: stand up the whole service. Now, what which one do 766 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 1: you want? We can handle it however you want to 767 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,319 Speaker 1: handle it. I got I got something else I want 768 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,839 Speaker 1: to tell you. You list into me. You ain't saying 769 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 1: nothing inside you listening what you got to say to me? 770 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 1: I got to say this to you. His nephew taught 771 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,239 Speaker 1: me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got 772 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 1: planked by your entire deacon. Boy. What who this man? Well, 773 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,520 Speaker 1: because this is nephew Tommy Man from the Steve Harvey 774 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your deacon BOYD got me the plank phone 775 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 1: called you. I can't believe it. Boy, you almost made 776 00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 1: me lose my religion. Sign in there, man, you hung 777 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 1: in there past which the deacon Glover. Oh okay, I've 778 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: got some some things I got to talk to this 779 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 1: love about you. I don't wonder how you got my 780 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:47,319 Speaker 1: personal cell phone out anyway, man, So well, I'm glad 781 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 1: I was. They would put a laugh on your face today. Man, 782 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:56,480 Speaker 1: I'm used, boy a man pastor. What is the baddest 783 00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:01,279 Speaker 1: radio show in the land? Steve Harvey mor the showy 784 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 1: lit Let me tell you this, keep doing what he's doing. 785 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: The first man is ever the show man. I loved that. 786 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,440 Speaker 1: I really loved that. I really really blessed the people. 787 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: Really appreciate that. Man, he really will. That's Reverend doctor Wilkins. 788 00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,920 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna get this right by my name now, okay, 789 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 1: put some back on my name. That was one of 790 00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:26,800 Speaker 1: my favorite dudes. That was my dude right there. I 791 00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:29,320 Speaker 1: don't know how he held it together that long. I can't, 792 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,879 Speaker 1: but you know, my favorite party said, now, looking man, 793 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 1: when you come up in here, I got some people 794 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,560 Speaker 1: gonna take that Jesus coat off. Yeah, and they're gonna 795 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,360 Speaker 1: have something for you. You can do anywhere you want to. 796 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:47,320 Speaker 1: I'm told you, now, take the Jesus coade off and 797 00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:51,799 Speaker 1: got something for you. I think, I think, I think 798 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 1: every path that got one of them that to take 799 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,920 Speaker 1: that coat off and get with it, every path that 800 00:51:56,040 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 1: got one more than one Jesus head twelve. This is 801 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 1: who rolling with me. Thank you, Reverend doctor wilcome and 802 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:12,680 Speaker 1: make sure I get that right. Thank you for having 803 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,160 Speaker 1: doctor will. We appreciate it. All right, y'all already know 804 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 1: I've been telling you stupid, coming your white baby mark 805 00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 1: to nineteen Botmar Touchers nephew, Julie Rogers, theater hunt, new suit, 806 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: new jokes, new shoe, new look, new body, little bit 807 00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 1: of bout the fat little bit of about the fat 808 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,760 Speaker 1: little bit of about the fat little bit about eighteen. 809 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: You know, don't say fat what I'm supposed to say, 810 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 1: body wood, no little bit. Anybody hit your ticket, boum 811 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:55,880 Speaker 1: the nephew coming baby, Carla went to meg the stallion 812 00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:04,719 Speaker 1: body out the lit body everybody. I love it all right, Well, 813 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:11,399 Speaker 1: thank you little buddy nephew. Listen coming up. Strawberry letter 814 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,759 Speaker 1: subject my boss wants to whip me. Wait till you 815 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 1: hear this, though you're not gonna believe this. This comes 816 00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 1: with base disclaimer and we'll get into it right after this. 817 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:26,440 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 818 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:31,720 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 819 00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:35,080 Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve 820 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 821 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: be reading your letter alive on the air, just like 822 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,799 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now, and 823 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: you never know. It could be yours, but none of them, 824 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,120 Speaker 1: no bucking up, Hold on type. We got it for 825 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,560 Speaker 1: you here. It is a Strawberry letter subject my boss 826 00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,400 Speaker 1: wants to whip me Again. A disclaimer if you have 827 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,839 Speaker 1: young children anywhere around you who do not want them 828 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 1: to hear this letter, Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley. It says 829 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty one year old, single black man, and 830 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,360 Speaker 1: about two months ago I was not ready to settle 831 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 1: down yet, so I was mingling and dating. After countless 832 00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 1: failures with meeting women, I finally came across a much 833 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 1: older woman who was on the same page that I 834 00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:24,560 Speaker 1: was on. She only wanted sex and that's it. She 835 00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,279 Speaker 1: invited me to her house one evening, and from the 836 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 1: moment I got there, it started getting heated. We were 837 00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 1: kissing and grinding on her sofa, and as it was 838 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: about to go down, she left me on the sofa 839 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: and went upstairs to her room, and she told me 840 00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 1: to give her ten minutes. So I undressed and went upstairs, 841 00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,440 Speaker 1: and it was pitch black. She told me where to go, 842 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,839 Speaker 1: and I followed her voice into a room where all 843 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,760 Speaker 1: I heard was jingling keys and metal clinging, and something 844 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: that sounded like a towel was hitting a mattress. The 845 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: noise stopped suddenly, and she said, I got something for you, baby, 846 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:08,400 Speaker 1: and the lights came on. There were four adult toys 847 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:11,120 Speaker 1: of different shapes and sizes, and she was wearing a 848 00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: dog collar with a lot of gold chains hanging from it. 849 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: I looked over in the corner and there was a 850 00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:23,120 Speaker 1: huge dog cage on a platform. She took off her 851 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:30,440 Speaker 1: lunch aray and I stood there in disbelief. I asked 852 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:34,400 Speaker 1: where the dog was because I don't like dogs. She 853 00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 1: pulled out a belt and told me to get in 854 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:40,400 Speaker 1: the cage while she whipped me several times on my 855 00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:44,279 Speaker 1: bear behind. I turned and ran so fast that I 856 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:48,359 Speaker 1: almost fell down the stairs in the dark. I ended 857 00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,920 Speaker 1: up leaving my hat and my shirt, but I left 858 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: with my dignity. Did you now what I failed to do? 859 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,280 Speaker 1: What I failed to mention is that she's my direct 860 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 1: supervisee and she's very unhappy with how I left. She's 861 00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:07,319 Speaker 1: giving me major attitude because she wants a do over. 862 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:11,239 Speaker 1: I really need my job, So how do I fix 863 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:21,400 Speaker 1: this without getting whipped? What what it's going with you 864 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:27,520 Speaker 1: with your boss? You conveniently left out the fact that 865 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:31,319 Speaker 1: this woman was your boss. You conveniently left that out 866 00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 1: until the very last part of the letter. And that's 867 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,680 Speaker 1: because you probably knew we were going to tell you 868 00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,560 Speaker 1: this was a very stupid move on your part. Um. 869 00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 1: But I do have to tell you this. I'm glad 870 00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,879 Speaker 1: you got out. I'm glad you survived it, even though 871 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: you almost fell down the stairs. In the pitch black. Um, 872 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 1: you said you guys talked about this beforehand, and she 873 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: was you guys were on the same page. I don't 874 00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:57,240 Speaker 1: think so. I don't think you're on the same page 875 00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 1: at all. Um. You you gotta get out of there, 876 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 1: even you're gonna have to transfer to a different department 877 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,959 Speaker 1: or you're gonna have to get another job somewhere else. 878 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 1: You should be an interviewing and doing all that you 879 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,319 Speaker 1: can do to make that happen right now. And no 880 00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,560 Speaker 1: matter how bad her attitude is, she is your boss, 881 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: and you said she's giving you major attitude. Whatever you do, 882 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 1: there are no do overs. Do not go back to 883 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,400 Speaker 1: that lady's house. Okay, next time she might tell you 884 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,360 Speaker 1: to get in the cage, lock you up with those 885 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:31,160 Speaker 1: jingling keys you heard in the dark. Her kind of 886 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: freakiness is a little different, and you could really get 887 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: hurt with all the whipping and stuff. And this is 888 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: just too crazy. Stay away from her, do your job 889 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,880 Speaker 1: until you leave, and then when you get out of there, 890 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 1: don't look back. But please get out and get out now. Steve, 891 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 1: this is one of those letters where I'm gonna use 892 00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:57,920 Speaker 1: as a teaching moment. A lot of young brothers listening 893 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 1: to this show, Uncle Steve, It's gonna walk you through 894 00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 1: some things that you need to know when faced with 895 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 1: anything similar to this. Let's go now. He starts off 896 00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: by telling us who he is. He's a thirty one 897 00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 1: year old single black man, and he said, very confusingly, 898 00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:23,080 Speaker 1: about two months ago, I was not ready to settle 899 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 1: down yet. I don't know where that came from, because 900 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 1: this whole letter has nothing about you wanting a commitment 901 00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:34,560 Speaker 1: of any kind. So you just telling us a story. 902 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,240 Speaker 1: You're thirty one years old and you single, ready to mingle. 903 00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:39,560 Speaker 1: That's what you should have said. So I was mingling 904 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,560 Speaker 1: and Dayton, that's all you had to say. Though, after 905 00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:47,040 Speaker 1: countless failures with meeting women, no they weren't. They weren't 906 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:52,200 Speaker 1: countless failures. You're not looking for a commitment, so anytime 907 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:58,960 Speaker 1: relations fail, it's what you weren't committed to anyway. After 908 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:04,480 Speaker 1: countless failed you didn't want no successes. It was just 909 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:08,440 Speaker 1: dating in England, so let's just stay honest. Brother. I 910 00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: finally came across a much older woman who was on 911 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:16,000 Speaker 1: the same page that I was on. She only wanted 912 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,880 Speaker 1: sex and that's it. She invited me to her house 913 00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 1: one even and from the moment I got there, it 914 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 1: started getting heated. I was kissing and grinding on the sofa. 915 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 1: It was about to go down. She left me on 916 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,360 Speaker 1: the sofa. Here's the key. She left me on the 917 00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 1: sofa and went up stairs to her room, and she 918 00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 1: told me to give her ten minutes. But now your 919 00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:49,400 Speaker 1: ass didn't listen, your stupid ass. Right after that said so, 920 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:54,640 Speaker 1: I undressed and went up stairs, and it was pitched, 921 00:59:54,720 --> 01:00:01,160 Speaker 1: black boy, you got neked too early. All right, hold 922 01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:06,640 Speaker 1: that thought right there, right there. We've all done it. No, Tommy, 923 01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 1: I know it. Two of your response coming up Steve 924 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters. 925 01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:16,720 Speaker 1: Subject my boss wants to whip me. We'll be back 926 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:21,960 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Come on, Steve. 927 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,440 Speaker 1: Let's recap this letter. The subject is please There is 928 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,680 Speaker 1: a disclaimer with this letter if you have small children. 929 01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 1: My boss wants to whip me. Study one year old 930 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:37,160 Speaker 1: young man. It's very confused about what he wants and 931 01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,520 Speaker 1: what he's expecting out of the results from what he's 932 01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:44,600 Speaker 1: actually doing. He's dating and mingling around. He's serious. He 933 01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to settle down. So now he's saying, 934 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,920 Speaker 1: after he's been meeting women dating and all fail you 935 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,480 Speaker 1: after failure, because you don't want nothing, And it just 936 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: proves that you don't won't nothing, because you said right 937 01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: after this, after countless failures in eating women, I finally 938 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,120 Speaker 1: came across a much older woman who was on the 939 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,800 Speaker 1: same page, and I was on she only wanted sex 940 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 1: and that's it. See, boy, You've been wanting to get 941 01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 1: in relationships that women that only want sex and that's it, 942 01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 1: and then when it don't work out, you consider that 943 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:22,600 Speaker 1: a failure. Everybody don't want to sign up for this foolishness. 944 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,520 Speaker 1: Oh but you to find this old as lady though, 945 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:31,360 Speaker 1: ain't got no problem with it. So you meet her, 946 01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:34,160 Speaker 1: y'all on the same page, invite you to a house. 947 01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,480 Speaker 1: Soon as you got there, you grinding on the couch. 948 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:42,479 Speaker 1: It's hot, heating it then't got good boy. She left 949 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:45,120 Speaker 1: you on the sofa, went upstairs to her room and 950 01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 1: told you to give her ten minutes. Yo, jumping as 951 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: can't wait ten minutes? Why cause you young? After she 952 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:58,440 Speaker 1: said give her two minutes, your reaction was so I 953 01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:02,680 Speaker 1: undressed and when up stairs, and it was pitch black. 954 01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:07,040 Speaker 1: What is your ass up? Your fault? She said, ten 955 01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:13,040 Speaker 1: minutes you up down two damn early and your naked 956 01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 1: and took your clothes off two damn fans and the 957 01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:21,360 Speaker 1: one up stairs and left your clothes downstairs. How stupid 958 01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:26,680 Speaker 1: is your ass? Don't ever have your clothes software you 959 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:32,200 Speaker 1: can't reach them. That's the left ruled. There's so many 960 01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:36,920 Speaker 1: lessons in this letter. Then I am dressing with I'm 961 01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 1: saying it was pitch black. It's because you two damn early, 962 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:47,080 Speaker 1: she said. Ten minutes. She ain't set up yet. She 963 01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,760 Speaker 1: told me where to go, and I followed her voice 964 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:54,640 Speaker 1: into a room right here. Never be niked. End the 965 01:02:54,880 --> 01:03:03,520 Speaker 1: dumb following voices. Stupid. I'm following the voice into a 966 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:08,040 Speaker 1: room where all I heard was jingling keys and metal 967 01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:13,280 Speaker 1: clinging and something that sounds like a towel hidding the mattress. 968 01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:21,880 Speaker 1: What And you kept walking towards the jingling and the 969 01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:25,959 Speaker 1: towel hidding the mattress, and your ass naked and ca'se see, 970 01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:31,480 Speaker 1: don't understand how stupid you are. The noises stopped suddenly, 971 01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:35,120 Speaker 1: and she said, I got something for your baby, And 972 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:41,800 Speaker 1: then the lights came on That was four adult towards 973 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,480 Speaker 1: of different shapes and sizes, and she was wearing a 974 01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,400 Speaker 1: dog collar with a lot of gold chains hanging from it. 975 01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 1: I looked over in the corner. That was a huge 976 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:54,440 Speaker 1: dog cage on the platform. See, I would have missed 977 01:03:54,520 --> 01:04:00,959 Speaker 1: all this because I'm old, first of all, all our 978 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,680 Speaker 1: all she heard was for me to don't stand you 979 01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 1: read it been boy twelve minutes. Now what you're doing. 980 01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:17,480 Speaker 1: But all this because of the unknown. I have my 981 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:22,360 Speaker 1: damn clothes off just in case she says something crazy 982 01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:26,120 Speaker 1: from upstairs. I can get on out the house downstairs 983 01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:29,040 Speaker 1: and never speak to her ass again. But now you 984 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 1: ask nicking up stad sees Na. She cut the light on. 985 01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:37,880 Speaker 1: You look over in the corner. It's a huge dog 986 01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:41,959 Speaker 1: cage on the platform on the platform. Heny dog can't 987 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,960 Speaker 1: do the platform. She took off her lingerie and I 988 01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:50,880 Speaker 1: still there in disbelief, probably cause you necking, know yo, nick, 989 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,480 Speaker 1: I asked where the dog was because I don't like dogs. 990 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: Right there, your black ass upstairs with the potential Germany 991 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:03,840 Speaker 1: chef for somewhere raw. So now you in the cage, 992 01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,840 Speaker 1: you're looking over there at the cage. You don't like dogs? 993 01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 1: Potential German shepherd rot Wilder could be in the rooms, 994 01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:13,800 Speaker 1: but now you can. And now you in that ass naked. 995 01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:18,080 Speaker 1: Not a reason this ain't working out for you food 996 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:23,920 Speaker 1: because your ass is naked. See getting whimped and asked 997 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 1: to get in the cage is different when you fully closed. 998 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 1: But now you naked and your clothes it downstairs. And 999 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:35,800 Speaker 1: the reason she can whoop you cross your ass, it's 1000 01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:41,720 Speaker 1: caused you nick it's out. I turned and ran so fast, 1001 01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,040 Speaker 1: almost fell down the steps in the dark because you're 1002 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:50,480 Speaker 1: slipping on them coffee cause your clothes is downstairs. I 1003 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:54,560 Speaker 1: ended up leaving my hat and shirt cause you couldn't 1004 01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:58,240 Speaker 1: find them, cause you got to keep your clothes where 1005 01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,919 Speaker 1: you can see him in Rachel. Now you have left 1006 01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 1: your cat, You left your hat and your damn shirt. 1007 01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:10,240 Speaker 1: All that's DNA. No dumb ass could be in a 1008 01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:13,200 Speaker 1: crime scene. You're on forty eight hours and don't even 1009 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:17,520 Speaker 1: know it because you have left you in the closed downstairs. 1010 01:06:17,760 --> 01:06:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm about to get Brady will now come to find 1011 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,320 Speaker 1: out this your boss she want to do over now 1012 01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:28,440 Speaker 1: she got the attitude. When I come back, I'm just 1013 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,000 Speaker 1: gonna give you ten seconds of what your solution is 1014 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:34,440 Speaker 1: for this stupid ass upstairs naked. Anybody told you to 1015 01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 1: come up there yet this is we'll be back. Well 1016 01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,040 Speaker 1: he is an employee. Is what's this? You're listening Steve 1017 01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:45,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, see right before we get 1018 01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:48,400 Speaker 1: to sports talk, you had a couple of more let 1019 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,880 Speaker 1: me just clothes off. This man had been upstairs naked, 1020 01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:53,120 Speaker 1: would found out who was his boss, and she was 1021 01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,240 Speaker 1: whipping him while he was neked toned with getting this 1022 01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,840 Speaker 1: big dog cage. And now he back at working. The 1023 01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 1: boss got an attitude because she wants to du over. 1024 01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,040 Speaker 1: He really needs his job and he knows how to. 1025 01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 1: He don't know how to handle the situation. So now 1026 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 1: let me explain something to young boy. You're gonna have 1027 01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:12,080 Speaker 1: to give her a due over. Keep your job, y'all. 1028 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:15,920 Speaker 1: Shut up, You shut up, Sirley, You answered your letter. 1029 01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:18,439 Speaker 1: He thirty one, He can have the list go back 1030 01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,800 Speaker 1: in the door. No, he don't go back in there. 1031 01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:23,960 Speaker 1: He got to get a duke over. He got to 1032 01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:28,680 Speaker 1: control this situation. The due over is at a hotel. 1033 01:07:30,520 --> 01:07:35,200 Speaker 1: Can't bring all a dog cages through that lobby, all 1034 01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 1: these platforms and stuff. You're gonna get your dude over 1035 01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 1: is at the hotel and tell her you bringing your 1036 01:07:44,120 --> 01:07:48,120 Speaker 1: own trump of toys and they're gonna be the four 1037 01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:51,040 Speaker 1: dog toys of different sizes, because you're gonna end up 1038 01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:56,760 Speaker 1: wearing something if you ain't killed. Now coming there with 1039 01:07:56,840 --> 01:08:00,479 Speaker 1: some with a velvet rope, some fuzzy hands and cuff 1040 01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:04,880 Speaker 1: that don't click, a feather tickler that don't do no damage, 1041 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:08,960 Speaker 1: can't push nothing. See, you gotta gotta have your little 1042 01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:11,600 Speaker 1: sex toys. Had to have control on him and can't 1043 01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:15,560 Speaker 1: have nothing here with a battery on him because that 1044 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,280 Speaker 1: because that hair switches with levels on it, you gotta 1045 01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:22,280 Speaker 1: get out of control. Anything on high, it's gonna be 1046 01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:26,120 Speaker 1: shocking to your end. Can't let nothing have a switch 1047 01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 1: on it that can go to high high high is dangerous. Okay, 1048 01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 1: that's all I want. Yes, calling question what if on 1049 01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 1: this dude over she doesn't like it because she's still 1050 01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:45,160 Speaker 1: his supervisor. Well you just didn't like it. I ain't 1051 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,680 Speaker 1: I ain't who you thought I was. Well you have 1052 01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:52,160 Speaker 1: seen me run out of this house. You already know 1053 01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 1: I ain't up to who you thought I was. I'm 1054 01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,200 Speaker 1: scared of dogs. You got a dog cage that we're 1055 01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:01,840 Speaker 1: gonna have a duo. But I got a hotel and 1056 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,800 Speaker 1: I have everything in there. Now you're coming there. You 1057 01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:11,240 Speaker 1: have attitude, sex, that's all right, Ain't this ain't what 1058 01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 1: I wanted? Well, you know this, this all I got 1059 01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:16,160 Speaker 1: because this just one time. We do this due over, 1060 01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:19,679 Speaker 1: then that's it. If you do it and you don't 1061 01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 1: do it, well, she ain't gonna want to have nothing 1062 01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,400 Speaker 1: else to do with you. But at least you'll keep 1063 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:29,120 Speaker 1: your job fame. It's hard to make naked decisions, though. 1064 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:38,320 Speaker 1: It's hard. Left with his dignity, nothing with a battery 1065 01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:45,959 Speaker 1: and a switch and get out of hand, no medium, 1066 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:53,559 Speaker 1: and it's high when you get caught on right after this, 1067 01:09:54,600 --> 01:10:01,599 Speaker 1: you're listening show. While the the US has already imposed 1068 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:05,400 Speaker 1: official sanctions against Russia, some states are taking it upon 1069 01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:09,799 Speaker 1: themselves to post economic pain following Russia's invasion of Ukraine. 1070 01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:13,720 Speaker 1: Many states have banned the sale of Russian vodka. Virginia, 1071 01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:17,960 Speaker 1: Ohio and New Hampshire, Texas and Pennsylvania leaders are asking 1072 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:21,360 Speaker 1: bars and restaurants not to serve Russian made liquor, and 1073 01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,919 Speaker 1: in more recent developments, according to the Black Information Network, 1074 01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:29,120 Speaker 1: African people are being turned away from the Ukraine, Poland 1075 01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:32,200 Speaker 1: border or told to get to the back of the 1076 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:37,639 Speaker 1: line so that quote unquote real Ukrainians can escape first. 1077 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:42,320 Speaker 1: One woman tweeted, women of color, some with babies in 1078 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,240 Speaker 1: their arms, cannot take the same trains at the same 1079 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:48,880 Speaker 1: time as Ukrainians, even if they belong to these priority 1080 01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:52,720 Speaker 1: categories announced by Polish officers. We had to push the 1081 01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:55,280 Speaker 1: African women onto the train, so they had no other 1082 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,719 Speaker 1: options but to let them in since they said women 1083 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:03,040 Speaker 1: and children first. One displaced person adding that when we 1084 01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:07,240 Speaker 1: try to enter, police forces took them out, saying only 1085 01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:14,880 Speaker 1: Ukrainians have the right to enter. There's racism everywhere. That's heavy, 1086 01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:23,200 Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's par for the course. It's happening 1087 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:29,400 Speaker 1: around the world. Two things I can assure you about racism. 1088 01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:35,800 Speaker 1: They usually always involve a person who is non white 1089 01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:44,479 Speaker 1: and involves a person who is white. Almost always. That's 1090 01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 1: not always the case, but when you hear of this 1091 01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:53,240 Speaker 1: stuff on an international level, it almost always involves a 1092 01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:58,360 Speaker 1: person who isn't white and a person who is white. 1093 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:03,719 Speaker 1: It is something about some people who give them the 1094 01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:07,920 Speaker 1: thought that because of the color of their skin, they 1095 01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:14,519 Speaker 1: are superior. It is worldwide and because of your pigment, 1096 01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:19,400 Speaker 1: the dark scheme of your color, you are less relevant, 1097 01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:23,800 Speaker 1: less important, and less human. And they've been doing it 1098 01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,759 Speaker 1: for a long, long long time and they ain't fitness 1099 01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:32,320 Speaker 1: stop it. So welcome to the real world, and it's 1100 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:36,960 Speaker 1: happening in the United States on a daily basis. Now, 1101 01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:39,800 Speaker 1: are we supposed to feel as black people hearing about 1102 01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:42,920 Speaker 1: the Ukrainians, you know, and the Russian invasion and all that, 1103 01:12:42,960 --> 01:12:46,080 Speaker 1: but then seeing them be racist to our people over there? 1104 01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:52,880 Speaker 1: You'd understand the dilemma. See, But because of political correctness, 1105 01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,200 Speaker 1: all of us in media and all of us have 1106 01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:59,440 Speaker 1: to say the correct things. But we are always expected 1107 01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:03,000 Speaker 1: to be simple apathetic to everybody else's cause. The problem 1108 01:13:03,160 --> 01:13:07,160 Speaker 1: is everybody ain't sympathetic to our cause. Ain't that about 1109 01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:15,160 Speaker 1: a bill right against? We got to always be sympathetic 1110 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:20,000 Speaker 1: to everybody else's cause, but everybody ain't. Everybody don't have 1111 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:25,559 Speaker 1: to be sympathetic to our cause. So excuse me when 1112 01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:28,840 Speaker 1: I ain't all that jumpy jump about what you going through. 1113 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:33,040 Speaker 1: When I know on the other side of that coin, 1114 01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:36,840 Speaker 1: we still got to go through what we're going through, right, 1115 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:40,599 Speaker 1: And so sometimes we don't care, we care, we care 1116 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 1: about what's going We care, but we got a bigger 1117 01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:51,080 Speaker 1: issue though us. See, listen to me. When the airplane 1118 01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:55,880 Speaker 1: instructions come on. In the event that the oxygen mask 1119 01:13:56,439 --> 01:14:01,080 Speaker 1: come down from the ceiling, please place your mask on 1120 01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:05,880 Speaker 1: first before helping a small child or someone else. You 1121 01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:08,960 Speaker 1: know why, because if you don't get yourself together and 1122 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:13,519 Speaker 1: help yourself, you can't help nobody ebody else. Yeah, So 1123 01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:18,120 Speaker 1: now what you want us to do? So excuse me 1124 01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:24,439 Speaker 1: while I ten to me. Yeah, all right, listen. We'll 1125 01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,559 Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 1126 01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:29,720 Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to 1127 01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve Harvey Nation. Listen up. 1128 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:39,160 Speaker 1: Attention to all of our listeners in Dallas and Central Texas. 1129 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 1: Today today are primaries and it is election day in 1130 01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:48,439 Speaker 1: the state of Texas. Why are there primaries? Why are 1131 01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:52,200 Speaker 1: the elections important? The primary elections you are choosing the 1132 01:14:52,240 --> 01:14:55,280 Speaker 1: best candidate to represent that your party will win the 1133 01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:59,559 Speaker 1: general election in November. That's why it's important. All states 1134 01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: are on the road to mid term elections. As we 1135 01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:06,120 Speaker 1: all are prepared for the upcoming primaries. Please get prepared. 1136 01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:09,599 Speaker 1: Please make sure you are registered do your research, try 1137 01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:12,640 Speaker 1: to check out the sample ballots. Go to when we 1138 01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:16,639 Speaker 1: all vote to register now. Okay, it is happening this 1139 01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:19,519 Speaker 1: year and they want to take back the Senate, they 1140 01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:22,000 Speaker 1: want to take back the House. Okay, we have to 1141 01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:26,639 Speaker 1: do our part, especially Dallas Central Texas. We're gonna say 1142 01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:35,000 Speaker 1: one word governor race. Yeah Oorialbato Scobato in Texas in November, 1143 01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:43,080 Speaker 1: you need to day march primaries. It's not don't. We're 1144 01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:47,200 Speaker 1: doing our part, So please do your part. Please you registered? 1145 01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,880 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, normally these elections aren't important. We normally 1146 01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:54,120 Speaker 1: just vote in the general elections. But these primary elections 1147 01:15:54,160 --> 01:16:04,720 Speaker 1: are extremely important. You are younger, keep keep going. Your 1148 01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:07,240 Speaker 1: vote matters. Your vote matters again. Go to when we 1149 01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:10,160 Speaker 1: all vote to register right now? Coming up at thirty 1150 01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:12,720 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour, we'll switch geared to play 1151 01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,519 Speaker 1: a little bit up. Would you rather? Right after this 1152 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:19,920 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is 1153 01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:23,080 Speaker 1: time now for a round of would you rather? Would 1154 01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:27,559 Speaker 1: you rather tell your partner you're having an affair? Or 1155 01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:30,080 Speaker 1: would you rather your partner tell you that they're having 1156 01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:34,479 Speaker 1: an affair? Big? Neither, And that's this way I ain't wrong. Yeah, 1157 01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:40,320 Speaker 1: this is about your You're Wait a minute, you ain't wrong. 1158 01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:46,400 Speaker 1: You the one wrong. So hey, it's on you. It's 1159 01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:52,920 Speaker 1: on you. Now help me junior, Junior, let's go Junior. 1160 01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,000 Speaker 1: That's logic because I'm going with tome you wrong? So 1161 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:59,599 Speaker 1: I could I get to cush you outfly you got 1162 01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:03,760 Speaker 1: the power? Ain't ain't even got You're wrong. Would you 1163 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:07,320 Speaker 1: rather tell your partner you're having an affair or would 1164 01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:11,040 Speaker 1: you rather them tell you they're having an affair? Time 1165 01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:13,920 Speaker 1: go with A. You can't take that they're having an 1166 01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:21,000 Speaker 1: affair because B B, I'm going to prison. I'm gonna 1167 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:23,920 Speaker 1: get my ass whipped and lose everything. And I'm getting 1168 01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:31,080 Speaker 1: that twice already already. It ain't neither one of them 1169 01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 1: had a divorce before, and ain't either one of them 1170 01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:38,840 Speaker 1: had to walk in and make that announcement before. I 1171 01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:45,439 Speaker 1: have I have experience at making that announcement. Steve gonna 1172 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:51,880 Speaker 1: go with a B. Final final answer is B is 1173 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:56,439 Speaker 1: two life sentences without parole. Yeah, so I ain't gonna 1174 01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:59,680 Speaker 1: need to me all right. Would you rather live in 1175 01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 1: the back best house in the worst neighborhood or the 1176 01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:06,400 Speaker 1: worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah, I'm gonna take 1177 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,960 Speaker 1: the worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah. Yeah, you 1178 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:12,320 Speaker 1: can feel how you want to feel about me. That's 1179 01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,799 Speaker 1: the bottom of the rich. I'll take that. I believed 1180 01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:20,360 Speaker 1: in the best house in the worst neighborhood. Nobody got sleep, 1181 01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:27,400 Speaker 1: and nobody knew it until I went to other people's houses. 1182 01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:29,760 Speaker 1: I realized. I realized, Man, we got the best house 1183 01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:31,840 Speaker 1: on the street. You could drive down the street, go 1184 01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:40,160 Speaker 1: look at all the ragged ass I've already lived in 1185 01:18:40,240 --> 01:18:43,880 Speaker 1: the best house in the ragged ass neighborhood. I've done that, 1186 01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:48,200 Speaker 1: and no one knew all. We could get to this 1187 01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:50,880 Speaker 1: one quickly. Would you rather have a bell go off 1188 01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,840 Speaker 1: every time you're turned on or have to say all 1189 01:18:54,880 --> 01:19:00,439 Speaker 1: your thoughts out loud during sex? Don't go off every 1190 01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:03,400 Speaker 1: time you're turned on or have have to say all 1191 01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,360 Speaker 1: your thoughts out loud during sex. Yeah, you let that 1192 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:10,120 Speaker 1: bell go off of me? He even every time? No, no, 1193 01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:15,559 Speaker 1: hell no, I won't get no damn sleep. All right, 1194 01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:20,320 Speaker 1: say everything you think you're doing sex. That's what I do. Anyway, 1195 01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:24,840 Speaker 1: coming out forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our 1196 01:19:24,920 --> 01:19:30,559 Speaker 1: last break of the day. We'll get Steve Harvey. Right, 1197 01:19:30,560 --> 01:19:38,519 Speaker 1: no system d you're listening to Harpy Morning Show. All right, guys, 1198 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,040 Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on 1199 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 1: this Tuesday. What a day? What a day? What a day? 1200 01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:57,600 Speaker 1: Break dream boom boom boom boom boom boom boom, what 1201 01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:02,680 Speaker 1: a day? What a day? For day dre, Hey, do 1202 01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:12,680 Speaker 1: you all find yourself daydreaming all the time? That I 1203 01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:17,280 Speaker 1: do it at night? Yeah? Do daydream at night? M 1204 01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:22,479 Speaker 1: do it at night? Y'all see the confusion that is 1205 01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:27,479 Speaker 1: his mind? All right? Let me let me go with 1206 01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:31,880 Speaker 1: these closing remarks because I was thinking of something I 1207 01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:37,240 Speaker 1: wanted to share with you all, and it's about this 1208 01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:41,800 Speaker 1: thing that stops so many people. And I want to 1209 01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:44,960 Speaker 1: offer you a way to look at this thing so 1210 01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:48,519 Speaker 1: you don't allow it to continue to stop you. This 1211 01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:57,719 Speaker 1: thing that I'm talking about, it's called failure. It's it's 1212 01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:03,479 Speaker 1: such a stopper to so many people. So many people 1213 01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:10,320 Speaker 1: get stopped because they experience a failure, because they internalize 1214 01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 1: it the wrong way. Folks, I'm gonna give you a 1215 01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:21,639 Speaker 1: different way to look at failure so you don't allow 1216 01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:26,320 Speaker 1: it to define you. So let me help you with 1217 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:40,479 Speaker 1: the first thing, Failure ain't a person. Failure is an event. 1218 01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:48,360 Speaker 1: Do you understand it? Failure ain't a person. Failure is 1219 01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:54,040 Speaker 1: an event. How many times have you heard people describe 1220 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:57,799 Speaker 1: a person as a failure because of something that happened 1221 01:21:57,840 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 1: to them or something that's going through. Look at him, 1222 01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 1: he's an attic, He's nothing but a failure. Look at him, 1223 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:13,479 Speaker 1: he came an an alcoholic, just ruined his life. He's 1224 01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:17,960 Speaker 1: a failure. Look at that girl over there. I told 1225 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:20,400 Speaker 1: her she was too fast, then set up there and 1226 01:22:20,479 --> 01:22:25,559 Speaker 1: had that baby and they ain't got no man, just 1227 01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:28,479 Speaker 1: then ruined her life. Now she can't go do this 1228 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 1: and she can't do Excuse me what? Look at him? 1229 01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:37,240 Speaker 1: Just set up there and flunked out of school. You 1230 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:41,400 Speaker 1: have failed. You are failure because you flunked out of school. 1231 01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:47,519 Speaker 1: You're a failure because you got a divorce. You're a 1232 01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:54,600 Speaker 1: failure because you've lost everything. You're a failure because you're homeless. 1233 01:22:55,520 --> 01:23:00,880 Speaker 1: You're a failure because you didn't pass math, science, English, geography. 1234 01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:07,320 Speaker 1: You're a failure. Excuse me. Failure is not a person. 1235 01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:15,280 Speaker 1: Failure is an event. It's an eventu'all stop drinking this 1236 01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:18,720 Speaker 1: stuff and stop listening to people who are making you 1237 01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:24,200 Speaker 1: think your failure is defining you as a person. Failure 1238 01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:28,599 Speaker 1: is not a person. Failure is an event. And if 1239 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,680 Speaker 1: you take the word event and break it down, the 1240 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:35,240 Speaker 1: word event is the root word of a word, a 1241 01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 1: word called eventually. What event is the root word of 1242 01:23:45,560 --> 01:23:52,320 Speaker 1: a bigger word called eventually. Because this is how God works. 1243 01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:57,559 Speaker 1: He takes all your failures, wraps him up, puts him 1244 01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:02,280 Speaker 1: in a box, put a bow on it, and eventually 1245 01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:11,280 Speaker 1: turns all those things into person he intended you to be. Eventually, 1246 01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:17,599 Speaker 1: all of these failures are going to become the makeup 1247 01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 1: of the person that you are. You better get this now, 1248 01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:29,679 Speaker 1: You better understand this and quitting letting these events, these 1249 01:24:29,720 --> 01:24:36,800 Speaker 1: things call failures, determine you as a person. Failure ain't 1250 01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:42,760 Speaker 1: a person. Failure is an event. We all have these events. 1251 01:24:44,400 --> 01:24:50,200 Speaker 1: Life is full of them, these events. Man, do you 1252 01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:55,679 Speaker 1: know you're gonna lose somebody you care about deeply? That's 1253 01:24:55,720 --> 01:25:00,880 Speaker 1: gonna cause you to go into some things that grief 1254 01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:07,920 Speaker 1: causes that ain't who you are. That's the event that 1255 01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:14,479 Speaker 1: you went through. That event will turn into eventually what 1256 01:25:14,640 --> 01:25:19,400 Speaker 1: God has for you. Because everything you're going through is 1257 01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:23,360 Speaker 1: God preparing you for what he has for you. You 1258 01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:27,519 Speaker 1: need to get this man so you can quit tripping 1259 01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:31,640 Speaker 1: every time you have a failure, which ain't nothing but 1260 01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:37,719 Speaker 1: an event. This tool shall pass. Name one thing ain't passed. Man. 1261 01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:40,639 Speaker 1: Y'all better getting me today because I'm trying to give 1262 01:25:40,640 --> 01:25:45,960 Speaker 1: it to you. Failure ain't a person. Failure is an event. 1263 01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:52,120 Speaker 1: Everybody have them. Quit drinking them, letting them define who 1264 01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:55,439 Speaker 1: you are. You ain't no failure as a person. You 1265 01:25:55,600 --> 01:26:00,280 Speaker 1: just having an event. I'm gonna stop now because next 1266 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:04,639 Speaker 1: thing I want to do has profanity in it. Those 1267 01:26:04,680 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: are my clothes and remarks today. Well, time to stop. 1268 01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,639 Speaker 1: Talk to God. He loved to hear from you. Because 1269 01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:17,320 Speaker 1: you keep talking to me, I'm gonna say something. See 1270 01:26:17,360 --> 01:26:26,960 Speaker 1: you tomorrow. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, 1271 01:26:27,040 --> 01:26:30,280 Speaker 1: void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at 1272 01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:34,479 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1273 01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:38,120 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the 1274 01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:39,679 Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show.