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Speaker 1: Last week you heard my thoughts on being a boy mom,

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Speaker 1: and many of you suggested that I get the boys

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Speaker 1: guess what, that's exactly what we're doing, my insanely beautiful, angel, magical, delicious,

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Speaker 1: totally unbiased mom of course saying this. Children, Skylar and

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Speaker 1: Caius are interviewed by my producer, also sister, not by blood,

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Speaker 1: sister from another mother, Mary Elizabeth. Oh, and she says, Hi,

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Speaker 1: so we can hear what it's like to be this

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Speaker 1: boy mom's boys, So enjoy the episode. So we can't

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Speaker 1: do a boy mom episode and not talk to the

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Speaker 1: two little boys themselves. So we are so excited to

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Speaker 1: have Skylar and Caius on this episode of works for us. Guys.

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Speaker 1: You want to say, Hi, Hello, how are you today?

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty good? Thank you. I had to take one

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Speaker 1: doo today. Oh we basically have the same schedule. Oh

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Speaker 1: you do. Yeah, we did a lot of things together.

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Speaker 1: Oh you do. What's your favorite thing to do together? Um?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it might be takewondo or sometimes

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Speaker 1: um being you go swimming together, You go swimming together,

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Speaker 1: I have anything being you up wrestling? You two you

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Speaker 1: must give your mother a heart attack. Okay, so let's

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Speaker 1: jump right in. I want to talk excuse you, kays, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about your names. Yeah, what about

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Speaker 1: our names? Skylar? Do you know why your mommy named

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Speaker 1: you that or what your name means? M I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: sure so I think uh Skylar spelled s c h

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Speaker 1: y l e R. But I'm pretty sure my name

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Speaker 1: means like endless body of or no endless sky because

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Speaker 1: endless thingy and um also a scholar and and um

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Speaker 1: you were. That's pretty much your spot on and Chius.

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Speaker 1: Do you know why mom and dad names chash kaius?

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Speaker 1: It means body of water and this body of water? Yes,

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Speaker 1: and comnes that's right. Okay, wait, so can I tell

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Speaker 1: you Mommy already shared this with me, But can I

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Speaker 1: tell you some of the list of names you guys

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Speaker 1: might have been named? Yeah? What Dylan, m M Hudson, London. Hey,

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Speaker 1: what do you think what if you were Hudson and

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Speaker 1: you were Dylan. Wouldn't that be weird? That would be

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Speaker 1: a weird name combination, right, because you're so a Chius

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Speaker 1: and you're so a Skylar. Right, Mommy says, you really

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Speaker 1: became your names, which is school? Okay, So Skylar, this

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Speaker 1: one's for you. What do you remember when mommy and

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Speaker 1: daddy told you that Kius was going to be born.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I do remember when my mom and

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Speaker 1: dad said Kais is going to be born. I was

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Speaker 1: really excited to have a little brother, and um, to

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Speaker 1: have a also to have a friend for life. That's

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Speaker 1: so sweet. And do you remember the first time you

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Speaker 1: saw Kaius or the first time you mommy and daddy

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Speaker 1: brought him home? Um? Yeah, so I'm I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: and mom and dad walked out of there and I

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Speaker 1: saw a little little Kaius, a newborn baby who could

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Speaker 1: barely open his eyes. And he was like, you just said,

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Speaker 1: a tiny little chubby kid. So cute, right, so cute Kaius.

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Speaker 1: You don't remember the first time you met Skyler, right?

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Speaker 1: I do, because you do. He made that little like

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Speaker 1: kind of like sack for me. What was that? Remember? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And the Hampton's um My grandma aka Mimi found this

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Speaker 1: little stack that I made for kay Kay when he

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Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, let's talk about something else. We

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Speaker 1: all know that mommy works in fashion, right, so I

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Speaker 1: want to talk about your clothes. Do you like picking

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Speaker 1: like it when Mommy picks out outfits for do you wear?

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Speaker 1: What's your own? What's your personal style? What's your vibet it? Yeah? Well,

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Speaker 1: I personally I like to pick out my own clothes,

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Speaker 1: like picking out my own clothes and um, yeah that's cool.

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Speaker 1: And what about you Kays? Do you like to wear

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Speaker 1: your own clothes? Like you like to pick out your

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Speaker 1: own clothes? Are you just like mom? Just tell me?

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Speaker 1: I don't really know, because my mom ever gives me

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Speaker 1: a choice. She never gives you a choice. She says

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Speaker 1: She guys says tomorrow everybody's year is gonna be wearing

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Speaker 1: because you guys have to wear school uniforms, right, And

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Speaker 1: how do you like that? Because at your old school.

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Speaker 1: You got to pick out whatever you wanted to wear. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so what do you think I like wearing uniforms are comfortable?

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Speaker 1: I think not to shoot my own horn, but I

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Speaker 1: think I look pretty good in them. You look very

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Speaker 1: what do you think is the nicest thing you've ever

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Speaker 1: done for your mom? Kays, what do you think what's

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Speaker 1: the nicest thing you've ever done for mom? Um? Modern

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Speaker 1: and that's how she knows that you love her so much.

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Speaker 1: The nicest thing you do? Right? Yes, because your nickname

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Speaker 1: is what nickname? Other one? Other one, other one? What

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Speaker 1: do we call you? Start the serpent tees? No, smash,

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Speaker 1: you're a smash? Okay, Skyler, your turn. What's the nicest

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Speaker 1: maybe taken mom out for her birthday? Or um, I

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Speaker 1: want to dinner with her or just it's hard to explain,

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Speaker 1: but same with Kai. Should we always hug her every day?

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Speaker 1: And I don't know. Maybe that makes your feel good

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Speaker 1: And that's pretty much all I've just stary. I love that.

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Speaker 1: So moving right along, what do you think you guys

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Speaker 1: want to be right now when you grow up? Well?

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Speaker 1: I want to be an architect, oh um, because I

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Speaker 1: like designing things, creating things, and um, I really want

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Speaker 1: to make creations that people could live in. That's cool.

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Speaker 1: What about you, chius, what do you want to be

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Speaker 1: when you grow up? I want to become a doctor

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Speaker 1: in the US President. I would vote for you, for sure,

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Speaker 1: So then when I become president, it makes smoking illegal.

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Speaker 1: That's your platform. I love that you're a but I

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Speaker 1: think I think forty percent of the population would not

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Speaker 1: I'll also made the law like Friday weekends. Well, we'll

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Speaker 1: have to work on that, right, Okay, this is one

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Speaker 1: of your final questions. Whoa skylar describe mom in only

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Speaker 1: three words nice, um, beautiful, and uh loving. That's so sweet. Okay,

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Speaker 1: by DNA. That's right. She is loving and she's been

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Speaker 1: What's one more word? Always making a smile? That's very sweet. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Now I want to get one more thing. So the

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Speaker 1: started queen mommy? Who started calling mommy queen mommy? Is

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Speaker 1: there a story behind that? Me? You did? Yeah? Why

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Speaker 1: what inspired you to say queen mommy? Because she was

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Speaker 1: as that. I can't do her, so I don't do

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Speaker 1: her a favor. I love that. Okay. Now we're gonna

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Speaker 1: play like a quick last game, and here's the rules.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you a question, but you have

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Speaker 1: favorite color? Um, I'm pretty sure it's blue. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: not true. It's a shade of blue. Oh, it's a

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Speaker 1: trying to turquoise. Y. No, I'm trying to answer you. You

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Speaker 1: You can't say anything else. Well, wait, is he right?

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Speaker 1: Is it blue? Kaius? It's a shade of blue, so

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Speaker 1: He has to guess yep, turquoisepe uh, guess tealpe and

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Speaker 1: make character possibly? What do you mean Anni, my character

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Speaker 1: what is Skylar's favorite color? I'm pretty sure it's black? Correct, Yes,

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Speaker 1: your favorites, so he knows. Okay, good, okay, next question, Kius,

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Speaker 1: what is Skylar's most favorite food isn't Skyla gonna go first? No,

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Speaker 1: it's crapes, crepes. Okay, what do you think, sky Is

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Speaker 1: that right? Crepes? And no crepes and pancakes. No, Nutel's

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Speaker 1: not food. But but like with the crepe, No, it's

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Speaker 1: my favorite food is crepes and Japanese style um crepes.

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Speaker 1: And what's it called? Um a ramen? Oh ram Okay, Skylar,

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Speaker 1: this might be tricky. What's Kaias's favorite food? Okay, crapes, pancakes,

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Speaker 1: chicken or chicken, nuggies? Nope? What is it? You got three?

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Speaker 1: But the others it's about one more yogurt and granola nope,

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Speaker 1: pancakes nope. Waffles yep, waffles sposific I love that. I

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Speaker 1: love your so specific. Okay, all right, Skyler, this is

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Speaker 1: the last one. If Kaias we're going to get in

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Speaker 1: trouble at school, what would it be for? Okay, for

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Speaker 1: being too hyper in class or for um uh accidentally

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Speaker 1: inventing somebody else's personal space bubble got it? And kaya Kaius?

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Speaker 1: If Skyler was to get in trouble at school, what

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Speaker 1: would it be for? Probably, we're being too smart for

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Speaker 1: be an insult. That was supposed to be an insult,

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Speaker 1: but it was actually a compliment. And for also also, guy,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say this thing embarrassingly fine, I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna say it. Okay, no, you can keep it secrets.

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Speaker 1: I do it to look too handsome. Oh on a

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Speaker 1: we did pretty sure. Thanks for listening, everybody,