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Speaker 1: Happy holidays.

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Speaker 2: Here's one of our favorite moments of twenty twenty four

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Speaker 2: from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show this morning, and.

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Speaker 1: Probably did the same exact thing you did yesterday morning

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Speaker 1: in the morning before, at the same exact time. Probably, right.

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Speaker 1: We are creatures of habit in the mornings, right, And

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Speaker 1: it's easier in the morning when you're still half asleep

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Speaker 1: to be in habit form, right, cause things get done

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Speaker 1: then you just stop them. Go Wait, did I use

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Speaker 1: the bathroom? Yes? I did, because I used the bathroom

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Speaker 1: at the same time. Remember, so as you got out

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Speaker 1: of bed, were you thinking, like, what, what's the purpose

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Speaker 1: of the day? Well, okay, to brush my teeth, get

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Speaker 1: on the road in time, get to the office, check

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Speaker 1: my email, you know it. And then before you know it,

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Speaker 1: it's five o'clock and your day just kind of melted away.

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Speaker 1: Right time to go home, get in that traffic, you

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Speaker 1: get home, and then you know what do I do? Now?

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Speaker 1: I watch the same thing every night? Do I What

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Speaker 1: habits are we getting into? They're standing in the way

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Speaker 1: of us really having momentum and purpose in our lives.

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Speaker 1: Is this making sense? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Very much?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 1: Are you happy with your sense of purpose at work,

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Speaker 1: at school, or in life.

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Speaker 5: Are you asking us this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And you know, yeah, absolutely I am, and everyone

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Speaker 1: and myself go ahead.

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Speaker 5: I would say I am happy with my purpose or

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Speaker 5: what I think my purpose is right now, but I

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Speaker 5: know that I could do better, and I know that

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Speaker 5: there is more purpose out there than just what I'm

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Speaker 5: doing now.

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Speaker 2: And you know what, I would have given the same

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Speaker 2: exact answer, right.

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Speaker 1: It's easy to give the answer because it's true, though

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Speaker 1: what you're saying is I mean, it's true, Yeah, Foggy.

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Speaker 3: It's impossible to be happy with where you are but

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Speaker 3: yet want to strive to have more you can where

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Speaker 3: you are and think it's great, but at the same

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Speaker 3: time always trying to improve and do better. Well, and

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Speaker 3: I hate to use the turn do better. I don't

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Speaker 3: really wanted to do better. No.

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Speaker 1: No, When you say that you're happy with where you are,

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Speaker 1: consider that an accomplishment. You know you've obviously done something

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Speaker 1: right and you've maneuvered correctly to get you where you

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Speaker 1: are to this place of happiness. Are you are? But

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Speaker 1: are you happy with just staying right here?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, exactly like.

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Speaker 3: There's got any more right line, You're you're in where

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Speaker 3: you should be in your race, trying to improve every day.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, So they're saying gen z ers are a good example.

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Speaker 1: Generation Z always trying to find purpose at work or school,

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Speaker 1: and like, where are you in your life? I mean,

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Speaker 1: are you Are you feeling like your life matters? Does

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Speaker 1: your life have direction? Or is your direction just the

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Speaker 1: same direction every day? Is it good to zig and

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Speaker 1: zag from time to time to learn new things?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I think the zig and the zag is super important.

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Speaker 5: I get uncomfortable with comfort, which I know sounds weird,

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Speaker 5: but I feel like I'm much more comfortable and discomfort

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Speaker 5: when things are all out of whack and you don't

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Speaker 5: really know where it's going. So you have this chance

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Speaker 5: every day if it's that way to create new opportunities

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Speaker 5: and learn new things. Whereas if I'm doing the same

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Speaker 5: thing all the time, that stresses me out.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I wish there was more time in

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Speaker 2: the day because there's a lot of things during the

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Speaker 2: day you have to do, being a parent or being

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Speaker 2: you know, responsible for things. You have to do them.

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Speaker 2: And then we have all these things that were like, well,

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Speaker 2: I'd love to get that done as well. And if

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Speaker 2: if sometimes there's just not enough damn time to get

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Speaker 2: it all done. Amen, will add new things that you

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Speaker 2: really want to do.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy, Amen. You know, in between the two of you,

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Speaker 1: Gandhi and Danielle, the two of you have, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: it sure looks like a very full day every day. Danielle,

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Speaker 1: you know, gosh it right, Gandhi. There's times Danielle is like, oh,

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Speaker 1: she went to the game, she would do this, she

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Speaker 1: did that.

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Speaker 5: She Daniel exhausts me. I tell her that all the time,

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Speaker 5: just hearing her day. I'm like, I gotta take a nap.

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Speaker 1: I know, Danielle. Daniel exhausted me too. But Gandhi, you

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Speaker 1: do the same thing with your artwork, and you're you know,

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Speaker 1: you're always you seem to be doing stuffing in all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I like being busy. I like having stuff to do.

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Speaker 5: I also like to sit on my couch and do nothing.

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Speaker 5: All of those things. I have to have the ability

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Speaker 5: to do it all. And then also, you know, just

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Speaker 5: go off the math completely and do something totally different,

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Speaker 5: you know, go on a vacation or do something that

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Speaker 1: I think that's fun. I think that that can be

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Speaker 1: doing something different. Maybe that could be new purpose. My

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Speaker 1: purpose is to do something different than what I do

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Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, we have rehearsed this purpose for so

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Speaker 1: many years. We have it down, We've accomplished this purpose.

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Speaker 1: The purpose is to come in every day, do this

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Speaker 1: show with each other, try to get out of here

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Speaker 1: without you know, another battle or or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But if we really truly enjoy each other's company, which

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Speaker 1: is great, is that enough? I would think that we

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Speaker 1: would want to try to do something beyond these.

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Speaker 5: Walls, right yeah, And I have course, and there's still

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Speaker 5: opportunity even within these walls to do stuff that's different.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I I've been having so much fun with

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Speaker 5: my podcast because we're talking about things that we don't

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Speaker 5: talk about on this show that I'm very interested in

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Speaker 5: that we can kind of dive into and expose a

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Speaker 5: whole new audience to all different types of things. So

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Speaker 5: even here, there's still opportunity to do it differently.

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Speaker 1: Finding your purpose is so important. Uh is it snowing

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Speaker 1: right now?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: God, no, no, please coming up tell me now? Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's just very white ring Okay, never mind, But finding

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Speaker 1: your purpose, you know, it's something you have to practice

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Speaker 1: several times a day. If ever, you catch yourself just

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Speaker 1: kind of like dwindling away and like, Okay, I'm maybe

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Speaker 1: taking that, maybe not. I don't know. Wait wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: hold on. What's my purpose today? What is your purpose

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Speaker 1: in life? What's your overall purpose? It's your five year purpose,

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Speaker 1: your one year purpose, if you want to look at

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Speaker 1: it that way. I don't know, but you know, having

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Speaker 1: purpose is so important for you. It makes you want

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Speaker 1: to wake up tomorrow and live another day. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: if you get into the rut, you owe it to

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Speaker 1: yourself to recognize that and try to zig and zag

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah, what's up, scary? I'm pretty happy.

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Speaker 4: I feel like there's more of a purpose out there

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Speaker 4: for me somewhere. But then I get feelings of I'm

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Speaker 4: feeling selfish for wanting more because I feel like, hasn't

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Speaker 4: the world given me enough? Shouldn't I be content where

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Speaker 4: I am?

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Speaker 1: So you should just pull up your tent and take

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Speaker 1: off what?

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Speaker 4: Well, No, I'm meaning like I feel like there's got

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Speaker 4: to even more of a purpose. But then I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I should just be thankful for everything I've accomplished and

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Speaker 4: where I am now.

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Speaker 3: You can be thankful, but then want more, strive for more,

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Speaker 3: work harder, want to progress.

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Speaker 4: But then that other voice hits me and says you're

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Speaker 4: being selfish for wanting more.

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Speaker 1: Just be grateful now.

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Speaker 5: Well, purpose doesn't necessarily mean you're you're collecting more things

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Speaker 5: or getting more material stuff. Purpose could just be hey,

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Speaker 5: I want to save an animal or do something like that,

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Speaker 5: and I don't know, there's a want.

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Speaker 2: To spend more time with your family, like a little things.

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Speaker 1: I've been doing that. But you know, it's there's nothing

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Speaker 1: wrong with being grateful with what you have. But does

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Speaker 1: does it mean Okay, I'm grateful, I can stop now

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Speaker 1: and well no, But also keep in mind when you

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Speaker 1: find purpose in your life a lot of the times,

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Speaker 1: a lot of the time, it will it will radiate

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Speaker 1: out and give other people happyiness or joy or you're

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Speaker 1: helping people out that where you find your For instance,

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Speaker 1: when Gandhi paints another painting, wo wow, her purpose for

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Speaker 1: that day? Check. I know, but someone's going to get

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Speaker 1: that painting and hanging on their wall, and now look

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Speaker 1: at them, their light is their life is now full

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Speaker 1: of color, you know, and really happy.

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Speaker 5: It makes me happy to finish something and deliver it.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. Feel like your life

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Speaker 1: matters because it does. But as far as finding direction

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Speaker 1: in your life, well, you're in charge of that. That's

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Speaker 1: your responsibility and no one else's. You can't wait for

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Speaker 1: someone else to give you give you direction. You can

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Speaker 1: have people help you find your direction, maybe through counseling,

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Speaker 1: through a therapist, through a good friend who's great to

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Speaker 1: bounce things off of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So today the challenge is to roll into the weekend

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Speaker 1: and find some purpose you may have, just like Daniels saying,

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Speaker 1: not enough hours in the day. And you know I

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Speaker 1: was looking. I shared you with you, guys, my frigging

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Speaker 1: list for the weekend. It's like good, It's almost you

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Speaker 1: feel like you're drowning because you how do I have

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Speaker 1: time to do anything interesting? Because I have to do

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Speaker 1: all these things? Well, you find the time. You have

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Speaker 1: to get it to yourself. It sounds simpler than it is.

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Speaker 1: But and there you go. You guys ready for a weekend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Can we just play music for the next hour and please.

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Speaker 5: Out everybody you guys wanted to do flush the format

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Speaker 5: jock jams from the nineties.

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Speaker 1: I know flush. The format just takes so much effort.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll put something together. We continue with the day.

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Speaker 1: We have a little more time left together, and then

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Speaker 1: the weekend is here.

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Speaker 2: Baby,