Speaker 1: The second date up date, what's the best activity to
Speaker 1: meet somebody at Wow? I mean I could think of
Speaker 1: a handful, but maybe the worst activity would be mid
Speaker 1: hang gliding. Oh my god, logistically not great for a
Speaker 1: dating scenario, do you see. Other than that, I think
Speaker 1: outdoor stuff and sports in particular are a good idea
Speaker 1: because being active, the doorphins are going and they don't
Speaker 1: know if you have a dungeon at that point. You
Speaker 1: gotta keep the surprises for later. That's one of the
Speaker 1: benefits of sports.
Speaker 2: But if you're hang gliding, of course.
Speaker 3: Totally Yeah, you got a sweet dungeon.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But one of our listeners says she met someone during
Speaker 1: a sports activity. Not sure if there are dungeons involved
Speaker 1: with her yet, but let's talk to Avery about it. Avery,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Oh hi, Hey, I hope for dungeons or you against dungeons, Avery,
Speaker 5: I don't.
Speaker 4: Know I feel about dungeons.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait till the second date to explore the dungeon.
Speaker 2: Talk until dungeon, I see.
Speaker 1: But let's start with the first encounter that you had.
Speaker 1: I guess, what's your activity that you did where you
Speaker 1: met this guy?
Speaker 4: Well, I joined this like recreational softball league. Okay, it
Speaker 4: could be less of a couch potato, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are always so fun and a lot of
Speaker 2: those leagues they drink a little bit.
Speaker 5: Yea.
Speaker 1: The softball is really good because it's mostly standing. So
Speaker 1: that's a nice transition.
Speaker 2: From the couch. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, he's into it.
Speaker 2: Okay, is he on the team too?
Speaker 4: Well, he's not on my team. He's actually on a
Speaker 4: team we played again. Man, Okay, yeah, he basically saved me.
Speaker 1: Whoa, there was like a ball?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you said, well, okay.
Speaker 1: Can we get his name real quick? Oh that was Josh? Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: how did Josh save you?
Speaker 4: Well, at first and foremost, like, I am not good
Speaker 4: at softball, like the team, they're very nice to let
Speaker 4: me play, but they made me like the base coach.
Speaker 4: You know, I think in an effort that I would.
Speaker 2: They don't even give you right field.
Speaker 1: No, sounds like that you are having fun with it.
Speaker 2: Still, She's like, I don't know if you should run?
Speaker 2: Should you?
Speaker 4: I'm just like, you got this, sweetie.
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, like the team, momb okay, so you're
Speaker 5: you're bass coaching?
Speaker 2: What happened? Yeah?
Speaker 4: So basically a foul ball is coming right at my face,
Speaker 4: and this guy from the other team, he just like
Speaker 4: reaches in front of me and like catches the ball
Speaker 4: and out for your team.
Speaker 2: That sucks.
Speaker 1: Would have been better for got hit in the face.
Speaker 1: That's cool, that's nice. So Josh is the one that
Speaker 1: saved you and caught the ball?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you saved my face.
Speaker 3: Please tell me because every guy kind of dreams of
Speaker 3: something like this. Did it impress you really?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, saving a girl making a really good catch
Speaker 3: because I play baseball and like the crush you have
Speaker 3: sees it.
Speaker 4: Like, did you impress Okay, Oh honey, let me tell
Speaker 4: you it works.
Speaker 2: Okay, dream is coming.
Speaker 3: I just gotta start.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to stop that reflect.
Speaker 2: But listen, it wasn't an out on my team.
Speaker 3: Everybody wins.
Speaker 1: This was a good idea.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So that was the start of your in Josh's long romance.
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm like, this man is adorable. He's my hero.
Speaker 4: He looks good in the softball outfit.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, is this encounter? Is this the date? Was
Speaker 1: there a date that happened after this? No?
Speaker 4: Okay, So after the game I went up to him
Speaker 4: and like, thanks him again for saving my face. And
Speaker 4: then there was like a bar right by where we were,
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, hey, do you want to
Speaker 4: run a there and grab a beer real quick? So
Speaker 4: we just went and got a drink. It was nothing crazy,
Speaker 4: you know, It's just twenty minutes. We chit chatted and
Speaker 4: exchange numbers.
Speaker 5: Okay, but it was just you too. So that's a
Speaker 5: good I mean, that's.
Speaker 4: A date that was like a pre date. I mean
Speaker 4: I thought, maybe.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did you end the night with him?
Speaker 4: I mean there was no like scandal, there was no
Speaker 4: like kissing or anything. But he did offer and give
Speaker 4: me a ride home, and oh that's good.
Speaker 6: He has this like cool.
Speaker 4: Old pickup truck that like reminded me of this truck
Speaker 4: that my dad drove when I was against Like, it
Speaker 4: was just like a cool It felt like a little
Speaker 4: extra sign. I'm like, oh, he's got the truck and
Speaker 4: he saved my life and the sous all out. But
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, you're definitely.
Speaker 3: Crushing on him because when you end up feeling I
Speaker 3: think people look for signs.
Speaker 5: So old trucks are sexy. They just are old trucks
Speaker 5: are hot.
Speaker 1: Didn't you buy your husband an old truck and then
Speaker 1: he sold it like a month later.
Speaker 2: Now we sold it like eight years later. Okay.
Speaker 5: Oh, we never drove it because we had kids and
Speaker 5: there's no back seat and you can't put him in
Speaker 5: the bed anymore, or like you used to super hot
Speaker 5: it was when it was just he and I.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get another old truck someday.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how long has this been since you last
Speaker 1: saw Josh.
Speaker 4: I mean, it hasn't really been that long, but we
Speaker 4: texted back and forth a little bit, and then he
Speaker 4: just kind of like stopped responding, So I don't I
Speaker 4: don't know if he wasn't feeling it or if I
Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe I said or did something.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Have you seen him back on the softball field or
Speaker 1: have you talked to him since then?
Speaker 4: Well no, because he's not on my team.
Speaker 1: Well it doesn't sound like you're really much on your
Speaker 1: own team, even so she could.
Speaker 4: Just cheer everybody on for at this point, I care you.
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, Avery, We're messing around, but we will
Speaker 1: try and call Josh here and try and get you
Speaker 1: your second date update when we come right back. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on second date update. Mariah Carey taught
Speaker 1: us you never know when a hero might come a
Speaker 1: law and give you the strength to carry on and
Speaker 1: help you cast your fears aside, so that you know,
Speaker 1: tell us you can survived.
Speaker 2: Even Alexis knows that song.
Speaker 1: And one of our listeners, Avery met her hero the
Speaker 1: other day at a recreational softball game.
Speaker 2: Man, I bet this song was playing in the background.
Speaker 1: It was a dude on the other team named Josh
Speaker 1: who saved her life when he caught a foul ball
Speaker 1: right before it hit her in the face. It was
Speaker 1: a special moment.
Speaker 3: So Leaus, you're laughing that it didn't hit her.
Speaker 5: Broke, Yeah, just staring at it like.
Speaker 3: It come.
Speaker 1: Avery admits that she's not the most athletic type of person.
Speaker 1: She's doing this just to get out of her shell
Speaker 1: and get out into the world. Yeah, and it's amazing
Speaker 1: because she met this guy and they grabbed a drink
Speaker 1: at a bar. He drove her home that night. Now
Speaker 1: she's just trying to get another hangout.
Speaker 5: I forgot to ask Avery, you did cover with Josh
Speaker 5: that he was single, right? I mean, because there could
Speaker 5: be the case where maybe he just thought you were
Speaker 5: just saying thank you for.
Speaker 3: A girlfriend.
Speaker 4: No, he's single.
Speaker 1: You know that.
Speaker 2: I love that you laugh no matter what you're saying.
Speaker 2: But you can just tell.
Speaker 1: Even if he is not single. Not important, Am I right? Avery?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: That's important when you know, you know, when the hero
Speaker 1: comes along. I think that's it doesn't.
Speaker 2: Matter he was in a relationship.
Speaker 3: Some hit hard.
Speaker 1: I didn't catch it because I love you.
Speaker 5: Up.
Speaker 1: But let's find out what's really going on with Josh.
Speaker 1: If he answers the phone, I'm gonna dial his number
Speaker 1: right now. You're ready to do this, Avery.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to know.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go right now.
Speaker 6: Hello, Hey is this Josh?
Speaker 1: Is this hey Josh? My name is jeff I'm a
Speaker 1: morning radio host on a show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. My co host is already laughing at
Speaker 1: me for how I said that. What was wrong with it? Brooke?
Speaker 3: It was a little clunky. That was weird.
Speaker 2: Bro Okay, Hey Josh.
Speaker 3: Hey, we're morning radio show. Josh. How are you?
Speaker 2: Brother?
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, brother? What's like? What's up the home?
Speaker 3: You can't be I don't say my home.
Speaker 1: To be casual? Here, Sorry, Josh, be quiet. Jeff, sorry
Speaker 1: to interrupt you in the middle of your day, but
Speaker 1: we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. We'd
Speaker 1: like you to be a part of it. Well Brook,
Speaker 1: why don't you explain how this works?
Speaker 5: Josh, A lovely listener of ours was interested in you,
Speaker 5: and you're not coming her back.
Speaker 1: You met a woman the other day when you were
Speaker 1: playing softball named Avery. Oh now you're laughing, are you
Speaker 1: what's going on?
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 6: It was pretty clear that she was kind of into me.
Speaker 5: Okay, is that good because or are you like in
Speaker 5: a relationship.
Speaker 6: No, No, it's not that. It's just like there was
Speaker 6: I don't know how. It's like an air of desperation,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean? Like every time I looked
Speaker 6: she was looking at.
Speaker 1: Me, you were getting a vibe that she was maybe
Speaker 1: like super super into it right from the start. A
Speaker 1: little bit too much.
Speaker 6: A little yeah, but it was more so like a
Speaker 6: day or two later, I'm in a coffee shop somewhere,
Speaker 6: and I'm pretty certain I saw her walk by staring
Speaker 6: at me. What somehow knew I was in that coffee shop?
Speaker 3: Now, woh, okay, that would be creepy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's true unless you all live in
Speaker 5: the san neighborhood, Like I run the people I know
Speaker 5: all the time and.
Speaker 2: At the coffee shop, at the grocery store.
Speaker 1: You're a woman broke.
Speaker 2: It could have been a Quins.
Speaker 6: Totally could have been a coincidence, except she then was
Speaker 6: there at my bank when I was at my bank.
Speaker 2: It's a really small town.
Speaker 3: People.
Speaker 2: I picture her as a teller for some reason.
Speaker 3: She's just in every business he walks into.
Speaker 6: It seemed that way, is what I'm saying, Like it
Speaker 6: seemed like she was following me.
Speaker 2: Wait, did you ever go up and say hi to her?
Speaker 2: Because it's weird. She didn't mention that she saw you
Speaker 2: at all. She did after the softball was.
Speaker 3: Strange or like I was trying to you actually.
Speaker 5: Even asked you, said have you seen him since like
Speaker 5: on the softball field?
Speaker 2: And she's like no, Yeah.
Speaker 1: But I guess I meant when I asked her, like
Speaker 1: have you had a conversation with him?
Speaker 3: You should start asking the listeners have you stalked him?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean that seems like a big stretch. I
Speaker 1: didn't get that type of vibe when we talked to her. Yeah, show,
Speaker 1: do you feel like maybe you could just be in
Speaker 1: your head about it, Josh.
Speaker 6: How can you see the same person that you know
Speaker 6: or sort of know?
Speaker 2: What if it was a coincidence and she thinks you
Speaker 2: were stalking her, that's probably true.
Speaker 5: Now that is I would be creeped out a little
Speaker 5: bit in that second Yeah, the second one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean at least the good news is she's
Speaker 1: not like secretly listening on this phone call right now,
Speaker 1: like knowing that you would be on it or anything
Speaker 1: like that. Oh wait a second, she actually is what Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how the segment works. We have them listening quietly
Speaker 1: on the other line.
Speaker 6: Sorry, you didn't think that was important information. When I
Speaker 6: was saying she was everywhere around.
Speaker 1: Me, like you know about it, and we were digestically
Speaker 1: come to my head right away she's line listening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what.
Speaker 1: My bad, but she is there, Avery awfully Chipper.
Speaker 2: Yes, did you hear what he said? Avery?
Speaker 5: Ah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Just a coincidence, right, you mean, not exactly?
Speaker 2: Why don't follow people? You do be good at it.
Speaker 1: You're following him, I'm.
Speaker 4: Not like consistently following him.
Speaker 1: I just what's going on?
Speaker 4: Full disclosure. I do like Josh, I got the little
Speaker 4: flutter when he saved me at the game, but then
Speaker 4: seeing his truck. Honestly, I just I really really like
Speaker 4: the truck. It reminds me of my dad, and I
Speaker 4: kind of want to buy the truck. Like I was
Speaker 4: hoping I could make an offer. And then I thought
Speaker 4: like if I just casually ran into him, like if
Speaker 4: he wasn't into me, I could still maybe get the truck,
Speaker 4: if I guess what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: So you're not you're not seeing You're not like following him.
Speaker 1: You're seeing his truck around town, and that's how you know.
Speaker 3: Where he is?
Speaker 5: Kind of.
Speaker 1: Avery, how are you doing it? What's going on?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Just be honest.
Speaker 4: I mean he gave me a ride on the truck
Speaker 4: and I may have air tagged it.
Speaker 5: What that is?
Speaker 2: So it's got to be illegal? That's crazy?
Speaker 4: Are you joking right now?
Speaker 6: You have a tracking device in my truck right now?
Speaker 2: That's crazy that you're telling.
Speaker 4: It's not that big of it. You're not like in
Speaker 4: any danger of like if I wanted to do something
Speaker 4: too like dangerous. I just thought like, if he wasn't
Speaker 4: into me, at least I could like run into him casual,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Dude? Air tag is so scary.
Speaker 5: It pops up on your phone, it'll say, like an
Speaker 5: air tag is following you.
Speaker 2: Have you seen that on your phone?
Speaker 6: Android Studio?
Speaker 2: Not say, because then you don't know.
Speaker 1: So, Josh, you've never been air tagged by a woman before.
Speaker 6: Come, I it is the first for me.
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, listen, I know it's awkward now,
Speaker 4: but like it's out there. You know, I'm interested in
Speaker 4: him and the truck.
Speaker 3: You know, my way to put the vibe out.
Speaker 1: But if you take a look at the other side
Speaker 1: in a way, Josh, it's kind of flattering, kind of
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 3: What.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I think Jeff's stretching really hard to try to see
Speaker 5: Avery's side.
Speaker 1: Our job is to help Avery get another date with you,
Speaker 1: and we're going to offer to send you out with
Speaker 1: her one more time, and we pay for it.
Speaker 2: Take the air tag, Jeff, I'm sure this is going
Speaker 2: to work out well.
Speaker 4: Josh, I will save you the trouble. It's under your
Speaker 4: passenger seat. You can throw it away.
Speaker 2: She's got plenty to go around for the next round
Speaker 2: of men.
Speaker 3: She's like, don't worry, there's one behind his license.
Speaker 1: Jobs that's pretty appealing. You got to admiss.
Speaker 6: That's appealing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your semi stalker just told you how to stop
Speaker 1: being stocked.
Speaker 3: You're welcome.
Speaker 4: I get I should get brownie points.
Speaker 1: But.
Speaker 6: Brownie point brook at brownie points for stopping stocking.
Speaker 1: Josh, that's where the dating world is now. So what
Speaker 1: do you say one more meet up with Avery? We're
Speaker 1: going to pay for it?
Speaker 6: No, absolutely not.
Speaker 3: Yeah we figured out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, but would you sell me the truck?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 1: What's one good thing come out of this phone call?
Speaker 4: Makes the money, make the money, take it positive.
Speaker 2: Just set the price for seventy thousand dollars. That's all
Speaker 2: you got to do.
Speaker 1: And Josh, you don't even have to answer right now,
Speaker 1: let's roll this over into our next awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 1: We'll get a bidding war going. Psycho wants to buy
Speaker 1: a truck.
Speaker 3: Awkward, my man, oh my god, you
Speaker 1: Are brooking Jeffrey in the morning.