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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Minds where a drunk

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Speaker 1: guess today, and you know what, I am so excited

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Speaker 1: because first of all, we want to have you on

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Speaker 1: and I feel like we're gonna school the girls and

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Speaker 1: I don't know about y'all, but I need it. So

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Speaker 1: we have en Dunlap with us today. The Master Investory'll

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Speaker 1: really thank you for now you better.

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Speaker 2: Real like you'll growth has been amazing.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to see.

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Speaker 2: Like your evolution even like this said, it's beautiful ive

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Speaker 2: been when y'all first started, it wasn't like a fight

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Speaker 1: Our studio. But we have a new studio in Atlanta

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Speaker 1: and it's super laid out, so we appreciate.

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Speaker 2: In the coming up studio.

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Speaker 1: At first, we was luckily you didn't come to Atlanta

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Speaker 1: We used to have Ril back because he was sweating. Lord,

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Speaker 1: he was he was very hot. Okay, So anyways, and

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Speaker 1: let the people know who you are, what it is

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Speaker 2: How y'all doing. I'm Ian Dunlap, the master investor. If

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Speaker 2: I've made you money, please put us in chat. So

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Speaker 2: my thing is with the community, Like I wanted to

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Speaker 2: give all the information for free and help to make

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Speaker 2: money so opposed to coming out the get charging. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: let me just make it, make you the money, you

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Speaker 2: keep it, and then give me a testimony as a result.

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Speaker 2: So I've been investing since two thousand and eight when

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Speaker 1: So how did you educate yourself on like how to

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Speaker 1: want to be like, okay, I'm gonna go this way

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Speaker 2: I had a buddy named Art. He was working at

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Speaker 2: He was like, these are the stocks to buy by

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Speaker 2: So Art is still retired off the investments that he

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Speaker 2: like two months later, like hey, I'm going to liquidate

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Speaker 2: He was like, you didn't bother the stocks? I told you.

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Speaker 2: The From that moment, I was like, I will never

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's a big misconception, Like I

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Speaker 2: He was like, Michael Jackson, let me get let me

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Speaker 2: So like we aren't taught at we don't have enough

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Speaker 2: So imagine if we got twenty of us together and

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Speaker 2: but we'll not investing in companies that were buying. That's

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to be too woke now, but

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Speaker 2: I mean, think about it. Twenty twenty was like the

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Speaker 2: us to say podcasts while shooting in four K, it's

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Speaker 1: That's why I got a talk show, ain't they feeling myself?

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Speaker 2: I'm well, I said you have to. I mean, look

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, So that definitely makes sense. So I want

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Speaker 2: I lost like ten grand on one trade. Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Then I was like fuck, you know, like I cried,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your biggiest loss that you take.

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Speaker 2: Started I was like because that was shattering, because that

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Speaker 1: I think that's what people are afraid of is the

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Speaker 1: don't have this, but let me just try because you know,

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Speaker 1: Ian or somebody that I'm listening to seconds right. So,

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Speaker 1: but they're scared because it's like low ky, they might

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Speaker 2: But I'll talk to the men. I won't speak to

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Speaker 2: the women. When men said that they don't have the money,

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Speaker 2: mm hmm. If Rihanna said, Hey, I'm about to leave

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Speaker 1: I'm weak.

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Speaker 2: So anytime, like you want to know what's investment in

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Speaker 3: And I was I was actually listening to this audiobook

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Speaker 3: to look it up. It's by this black woman. I

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Speaker 3: think it's called Learning how to Invest Your Money right now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm about to. I'm sorry, y'all, I need to

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Speaker 1: look it up. My show Not Smart.

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Speaker 2: Women finish read that's a good book too.

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Speaker 3: That's a good but just finished reading that too. But

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Speaker 1: Right, that makes sense, That makes it. But do you

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Speaker 2: Simple say, makeup is our money.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a great idea. I think that's a

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Speaker 1: The Chanel classic flap. I think the small Bag was

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Speaker 1: It was just a split, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: in our community, would probably the Robin Hood Robin Hood.

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of people gave Robin Hood flack.

439
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Speaker 2: But I think as soon as we got into the market,

440
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Speaker 2: I think it's pretty interesting that inflation went up to

441
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,720
Speaker 2: all time highs, the real estate market came down, the

442
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,400
Speaker 2: stock market came down, and the crypto market came down.

443
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,199
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

444
00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 2: I don't think that's coincidental, right, because they were the

445
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Speaker 2: first company to make it, like really.

446
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Speaker 1: Easy, like easy, like you just got a download on

447
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Speaker 1: your phone, right and.

448
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Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden it began to fall apart.

449
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,199
Speaker 2: If you want a more like technical version, you can

450
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Speaker 2: use td Ameritrade.

451
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Speaker 1: That might be a little too advanced for Big Mama,

452
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Speaker 1: Robin Hood or good. Okay, I've heard of Okay, so

453
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Speaker 1: I was saying, I never heard of WEU. Okay, so

454
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Speaker 1: they got the app. How much should they put into

455
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Speaker 1: Apple like today?

456
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Speaker 2: I do, like two hundred bucks? I mean, because this

457
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:02,920
Speaker 2: is what we need. We need an easy win, right

458
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 2: because like if we put two thousand in, it doesn't

459
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Speaker 2: work out, Like why the fuck you have ian on

460
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 2: and I lost all my money? We don't want that.

461
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 2: But once we see how easy it is, you'll start

462
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 2: to think different about being a consumer versus an investor, right,

463
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 2: Like the consumers are the fiends of the business world.

464
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Speaker 2: The investors are the ones who make all the money. Okay,

465
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Speaker 2: So they trained us to be a fiend for the

466
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Speaker 2: product and a rollout, but we have to take part

467
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Speaker 2: in the capitalistic part of it and get money from

468
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Speaker 2: these devices right back in Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then okay, so if a person INVESTI two hundred

470
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Speaker 3: dollars today, ideally, how much growth could they potentially see.

471
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Speaker 2: I'd say in about a year, depending on what time

472
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 2: you bought it, anywhere from like five percent to like

473
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Speaker 2: fifteen percent. Okay, But in twenty twenty the games were

474
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Speaker 2: like dramatically different. That's why, like on the show Market Mondays,

475
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Speaker 2: I'll tell you like exactly where to buy because those

476
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Speaker 2: are the prices I'm looking to buy.

477
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Speaker 1: Okay.

478
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Speaker 2: So there's some people that made like thirty forty fifty percent.

479
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Speaker 1: Damn in a year to watch Mark Mondays and get

480
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Speaker 1: the gotta get the t be hot. Okay. So that's

481
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Speaker 1: about Yeah is good, but Robinhood is bitter.

482
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it's better. It's easier for it's easier

483
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Speaker 2: because like when we start, I don't want anything to

484
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Speaker 2: block us from understanding it. So like that's like the

485
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Speaker 2: most elementary form to use. But as you get more

486
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Speaker 2: bands like you are, you can use the trailer.

487
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Speaker 1: Yeah for the beginners like me go ahead, and.

488
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Speaker 2: The text you can buy a stock on Robin Yeah,

489
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Speaker 2: it's very like like I.

490
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Speaker 1: Said, that's what I'd be using. It's very very easy.

491
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Speaker 1: If I see something about okay, let me just buy.

492
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Speaker 2: Then after that you want to just put in your

493
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Speaker 2: budget surviving both right, Okay, it's like notice they.

494
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Speaker 1: To buy something every month.

495
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, our companies have trained us to have good credit,

496
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 2: which is literally just paying another company before you pay yourself.

497
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Speaker 2: It's the greatest finesse ever. Like if you got paid

498
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Speaker 2: and you went on tour and I was like, no,

499
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Speaker 2: let me get eighty percent of your money first, and

500
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Speaker 2: then you get the twenty and half fun that's a

501
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Speaker 2: finest move. But they trained us over years to take

502
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Speaker 2: care of them first.

503
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Speaker 1: M hm.

504
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 2: So whenever you're buying the product, you're essentially making another

505
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: family rich over yourself. Right, you have to put that

506
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 2: money into yourself first.

507
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so lesson, I was getting good advice somebody

508
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Speaker 3: I was dating telling me I needed to start doing it.

509
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Speaker 2: Breakup there. He even, okay, gotcha, good job.

510
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Speaker 3: He was definitely And that's how I found out about

511
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 3: you trade too, and he was definitely telling me. Yeah,

512
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Speaker 3: he was like, you need to buy some size. If

513
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Speaker 3: you're gonna go buy a person, you're gonna go buy

514
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Speaker 3: some shoes. You need to put the same amount of

515
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Speaker 3: money in and inside.

516
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

517
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Speaker 1: So when does somebody know when to pull it out?

518
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Speaker 2: You don't want to like minimum leave it in you

519
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Speaker 2: know what I mean, you want to hold for five years,

520
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Speaker 2: five years because I know we want to get the

521
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Speaker 2: money and flip. Yeah, but look how quickly five years

522
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Speaker 2: to go by. Man.

523
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, like, it took my three dollar that

524
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Speaker 1: I had back in the gain.

525
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Speaker 3: You know what, I regret not investing my money into that.

526
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Speaker 3: Somebody told me back in twenty I think twenty sixteen

527
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Speaker 3: now seventeen, yeahen I first moved to Atlanta, they were like,

528
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Speaker 3: you need to buy bitcoin. And at the time, I

529
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Speaker 3: want to say, it was like two hundred dollars person.

530
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Speaker 3: It was so fucking cheap. And like to this day,

531
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Speaker 3: I regret that shit. And the guy that told me

532
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Speaker 3: to invest my money in it, then the nigga got

533
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 3: so much money he's still read it up off of

534
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Speaker 3: the investments.

535
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Speaker 2: But it happens.

536
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Speaker 1: All. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think sometimes a lot of time us as black people,

538
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Speaker 3: we be having all the money, we'd be wanting to

539
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Speaker 3: hold on.

540
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Speaker 1: To our money.

541
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Speaker 3: And at the time I was working in the clubs,

542
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Speaker 3: you know, I was making good money bartend, and I'm like,

543
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Speaker 3: I don't want to I'm scared, Like what if in

544
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Speaker 3: five what.

545
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Speaker 2: You're scared of and you were having money coming in.

546
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Speaker 3: I was just scared that it wasn't gonna be a

547
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Speaker 3: good investment because I just didn't know that much about

548
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Speaker 3: crypto at the time, you know, So I just was

549
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 3: like they saying it's gonna be the future of money

550
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 3: and like eventually we're not going to actually have cash,

551
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Speaker 3: but I just wasn't believing it.

552
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Speaker 2: I don't know how I was to these conversations matter.

553
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 2: So it's the same thing like we grew up watching

554
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 2: the Cosbies and seeing like New York flourish, Like, imagine

555
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: if we could have bought one of these Brownstones back

556
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 2: in the day. How much like the secret even in media,

557
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: like the longer you can hold a property. And I've

558
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 2: talked to Ryan and chat about this, like if you

559
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Speaker 2: can hold a media property for ten years, with real

560
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 2: estate with stocks rich as fun, But they always try

561
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: and get us to feel like they're different. So it's

562
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 2: like stocks or real estate, media or real estate or crypto.

563
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,479
Speaker 2: It's like the true gem is to do all of them.

564
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Speaker 2: And that's why I really missed Nipsey because he was

565
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Speaker 2: he was the first black person I heard talk about crypto.

566
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Speaker 2: Really Yeah, Nipsey was in crypto like in twenty fourteen,

567
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Speaker 2: twenty fifteen, wow, while being in the real estate, while

568
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: being into media. So you want to hold five years minimum,

569
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Speaker 2: ideally thirty years. I know people give me pushback and

570
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: be like, I don't know if I'm gonna live that long.

571
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Speaker 1: But I'm like you said, thirty.

572
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Speaker 2: Look at like, if you would have held Monsters from

573
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Speaker 2: the time it came about through now you'll be up

574
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 2: like nineteen thousand percent. Let me ask you a question.

575
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: The people that own CBS, NBC or let's even take

576
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: Jerry Jones of Dallas. You never see them sell this

577
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: shit right the fine with to refinance it restructural deal,

578
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 2: Like I love that QC got that three hundred million. Okay,

579
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: talk about that.

580
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,360
Speaker 1: But that's why we were talking about school Bryn. Yeah,

581
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: but everybody was like that's not enough, that's crazy. You

582
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: don't so you do agree with it?

583
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: What like a lie of culture? True, but now it's

584
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 2: a win for him, Don't get me wrong. But if

585
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Speaker 2: I'll pay three hundred for it now it has to

586
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Speaker 2: be worth at least nine hundred.

587
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Speaker 1: But if I, like you said, five six years, so

588
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Speaker 1: you think they should have held.

589
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Speaker 2: Out a little longer, somebody offered me three hundred I'm

590
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 2: gonna take the three.

591
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Speaker 3: Hundred, right If I was having a conversation with somebody

592
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Speaker 3: recently and they were just basically saying that, like, they're

593
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Speaker 3: not allowing especially black men to reach that level of

594
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 3: will that Jay Z and d D reach.

595
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 2: Like that game is over. Yeah, like.

596
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 3: Or even like you know, talking about the white men

597
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 3: like Tommy Matola and stuff like, No, people are not

598
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 3: getting that kind of money in the music industry anymore.

599
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Speaker 1: What's the guy's name, Jimmy, Yeah, offers you three hundred

600
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 1: million dollars. That might be the best it's gonna get

601
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: these days, you know.

602
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I mean, but what I'm looking at

603
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 2: is he's acquiring all these catalogs, right, and I'm like,

604
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 2: what is he gonna do with it? Play some video games?

605
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 2: Metaverse that That's my.

606
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: Thought every time I hear that. Every time I hear that,

607
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: that's what I been thinking about. Like ten years later,

608
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna see a bubblegum commercial, a little baby playing

609
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: in the background or something, or you know whatever, and

610
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: that's the stuff I be thinking about. But I also

611
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: feel like, do you feel like maybe they were looking

612
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Speaker 1: at it from a point where like, Okay, we did this,

613
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: we can do it again.

614
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, and then pas the talent to pull

615
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Speaker 2: it off.

616
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Speaker 1: Fact, but.

617
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: There's some truth on what you're saying that there is.

618
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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a celan in the industry, especially

619
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Speaker 2: like if you have like a street background, they don't

620
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: want to see a resurgence of a Sugar night Right

621
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: character that could take over Have Money. Even Fifty, like

622
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 2: fifty actual transition in the film and the scope derailed

623
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Speaker 2: his career because they didn't want him to be a menace.

624
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,439
Speaker 2: Same with like bmt FI its promoting Jesus, like there

625
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 2: was some fear there. But I'm looking like if you

626
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 2: got Taylor Swift's catalog, biber QC and I know has

627
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 2: funds are at trying to buy music up right now

628
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 2: because it's an asset that's going to be worth a lot.

629
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Speaker 2: Even me, like one of my friends like, hey, you

630
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 2: want to put it in the bitch trying and get

631
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: Big Cham's catalog last year we didn't get it, but

632
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: we tried.

633
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: A little one. But I'm like, but like, can y'all

634
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: just think about that for a second. Having Taylor Swiss

635
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: catalog and I mean that so bad. I don't know what.

636
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: I think her fans are called the Swifties. They was

637
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: online tearing him apart and he was probably just sitting

638
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: on his yacht like okay, not caring because he was not.

639
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: I think it got to the point to where did

640
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: she like re record? She re recorded her albums and

641
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: had to re release them because he wasn't giving them up.

642
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: He was like no, you know what I'm saying. So

643
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: it's like and there's nothing like the original version, Like

644
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: a lot of people will re record their songs. I

645
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: think did that as well. Jojo did it as well.

646
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: A lot of celebrities have done that. But it's like

647
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: it's still not the same, Like I still want to

648
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Speaker 1: hear the origin.

649
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 2: We have to be very honest outside of social media

650
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: music as well. Keep most people on their phones. Yeah,

651
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 2: it's the bloodstream of technology. If they're buying those and

652
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 2: GTA comes out or another call of duty, he's gonna

653
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 2: sell those rights at some point to leverage them a license.

654
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Speaker 1: I mean, I was even thinking about when I was

655
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: in college how much we used to play rock band

656
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: songs on rock band like that. Every time I hear

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Speaker 1: What it is? Three headed months before showing.

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Speaker 2: The coogie, because even in podcasts, and I've had a

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Speaker 2: bunch of conversations because evaluations, of course on talk show

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Speaker 2: But that's things they won't tell us to do right,

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Speaker 2: I want to help revamp the company. I want credit

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Speaker 2: M That sounds like the entertainment industry, so we have.

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Speaker 1: To know where we're a lot of yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: Like if you built a brand up all this time

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Speaker 2: the brand. Like we have to know where to get in,

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Speaker 2: where to get out, and how to properly value these things.

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Speaker 2: And that's why, like, if you invest in a company

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like sometimes these like CEOs and

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Speaker 1: like these people who aren't like looking at you, like

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Speaker 2: Learned how to finesse it well thee and I tell them,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna help my people. Don't cut off

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Speaker 2: the pipeline, but I'm gonna find a way to make

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Speaker 2: you money. And I tell the audience that that's no

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Speaker 2: different than being like in the neighborhood, like right, right, right,

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Speaker 2: I want to be of the people and health corporations.

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Speaker 2: But if I'm just for the people, just a backlasher

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Speaker 2: right exactly. But if I'm finding a way to help,

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Speaker 2: like I probably said, I don't know from the show

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Speaker 2: and my social media, probably sixty million dollars at ted Ameritrade,

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Speaker 2: and I've never gotten a bonus a cup.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Here, right. Question.

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Speaker 3: I know you talk about AI a lot and investing

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Speaker 3: your money into AI companies and stuff. So do you

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Speaker 3: feel like, in like another five years, if people don't

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Speaker 3: take heed and invest their money into AI, it's going

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Speaker 3: to be like a crypto situation again.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna be Yeah, because like the true purpose and

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Speaker 2: I set this two years ago, but about twenty thirty,

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Speaker 2: they want forty percent of the job market to be eliminated. Yep,

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Speaker 2: that's all so like if we don't learn how to

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Speaker 2: use AI properly, we're gonna be eliminated out of jobs.

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Speaker 2: Even like here, you guys should get on Chat, GPT, Mine, Journey,

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Speaker 2: Jasper and figure out how now what is that? These

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Speaker 2: are like three different sites for AI. So like Chat, GPT,

787
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Speaker 2: like you can put anything in it and be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: give me fifteen topics I can talk about on the show.

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Speaker 2: In like two minutes, it'll shoot out, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Somebody about to Okay, what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I chat money, Aldady, I'm just saying, like we have

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Speaker 2: to use all the tools and even everyone here use

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Speaker 2: it to make your lives.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm really about to write that. It's called what jasper.

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Speaker 2: One is jasper and one is chat GPT. That's the

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Speaker 2: one that microsoftvest Hey and we.

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Speaker 3: Literally were just talking about this earlier today, Like how

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Speaker 3: once you've been podcasting for so long, it starts to

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Speaker 3: become very hard to come up with topics all the time,

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Speaker 3: and just the TDS process because you really feel like

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Speaker 3: you've talked about every league when you've been doing it

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Speaker 3: for years.

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Speaker 2: Gotta take you and that from your fans. You do, yep,

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Speaker 2: we do.

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Speaker 1: We have questions and answers. It's called pour your heart out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so let me ask you this. So you said invest

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Speaker 1: in AI. So what are the some of the AI

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Speaker 1: stocks that people should know about.

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Speaker 2: That they should Microsoft owns a considerable portion and chat GPT. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that's also any company with a big bag that any

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Speaker 2: company that's coming the same thing as the music business.

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Speaker 2: Like when fifty got hot, eminem was like let me

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Speaker 2: grab him right, So, like the corporate structure is always

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Speaker 2: the same. The language, the language is just different. Little

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Speaker 2: grab this younger right here for roster. So Microsoft is

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Speaker 2: one of the best ones. Amazon for sure is a

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Speaker 2: good one. Okay, Apple is always okay. I feel like

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Speaker 3: I would like podcasting is kind of like that too though,

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Speaker 3: because I just remember it's it's such a big thing now.

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Speaker 3: And I remember a few years ago we were having

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Speaker 3: conversations with people and we were like telling people because

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Speaker 3: we would talk to our other podcast friends that had

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Speaker 3: bigger shows than us at the time, and we would

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Speaker 3: really be trying to tell people like podcasting is going

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Speaker 3: to be very similar to the music industry as far

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Speaker 3: as podcasters, you know what I mean, in the next

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Speaker 3: few years, And like so many people thought we were crazy,

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Speaker 3: and look at how she is going right now.

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Speaker 1: Podcasters are making the same kind of money as artists.

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Speaker 1: And what.

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Speaker 2: I'm ask you the same question I askually I love

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Speaker 2: your episode when I was on Buton's podcast. How many

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Speaker 2: podcasters in the space actually can make a living from

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Speaker 2: podcasting or are making a living right now?

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Speaker 1: It's not me, It's really it's a small percentage I

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Speaker 1: know a long time ago when I googled, it was

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Speaker 1: like one percent if you think about like the big

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Speaker 1: like a lot of people have podcasts, but I will

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Speaker 1: say that one percent. It was like people are touring now,

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Speaker 1: they're selling out arenas like tickets.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we need to do a collaboratively.

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Speaker 1: Are you telling I actually was telling lex that before too,

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Speaker 1: like I think that multiple shows like we should do

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Speaker 1: like a collective tour. Absolutely, And you know what, I

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Speaker 1: will say. The thing that I love about this show

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Speaker 1: too is like when we started it, you know, because

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Speaker 1: talking about, you know, dating men with money and dating.

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Speaker 1: But Drea made a good point, like she learned a lot.

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Speaker 1: She's learning a lot from the guy that she's dating.

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Speaker 1: So now it's like we started off this way by

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Speaker 1: So even if you don't have a BDB and you're

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Speaker 1: And I feel like we have a good audience, like

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Speaker 1: because if I have access to this information like this,

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Speaker 2: Mean, you guys making fun, that's the part, Yeah, because

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Speaker 2: we got to make it simple and regardless, like because

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Speaker 2: regardless of what happens, you know, you're going to have

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Speaker 2: hated that they tried to make Investor look really boring

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Speaker 2: when it's the most fun on earth.

873
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. When I was in high school,

874
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: I had this was my geography class, and you know,

875
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 1: we had school in like six weeks. You get your report,

876
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: and he took one six weeks and he was like,

877
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: we didn't do nothing in geography. He was teaching us stocks.

878
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: When I tell you, none of us paid attention. And

879
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: now I'm like, I think about that all the time.

880
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 1: Why didn't I pay attention? Because I was like, I

881
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: could have learned so much because we were like he

882
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: was teaching us about everything. Because I remember it, and

883
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: I actually talked to my homegirl about the other day

884
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: because this is what's really crazy. My best friend from

885
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: high school, she was working at a job and you

886
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: know how sometimes when you get hired at a job,

887
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: they'll like give you stocks or something like that and something.

888
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but she got a lot

889
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: of money. She got like a million dollars and she

890
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: blew it. She literally ran through all of it. And

891
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: I was like, man, that's crazy because I feel like

892
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: if we would have paid attention and learned, you would

893
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: you would have knew what to do. Because she was like,

894
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: I don't know what they just gave me this because

895
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: she don't know nothing about anything, you know what I'm saying.

896
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: So I feel like, but that's intentional too by the brands. Yeah,

897
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 2: if Instagram is pushing luxury and every guy thinks that

898
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: he needs to change yes too, expensive ass cards and

899
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: buying a bag on the first day, that is a requirement.

900
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 2: That money comes out of our pocket and back right

901
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: into those Italian exactly. That's why these conversations are important.

902
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 2: But for anyone in that situation, man spend maximum twenty

903
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 2: percent of it, eighty percent of it put it away

904
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 2: for a rainy day, And I know everybody's gonna be like,

905
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 2: I'll never blow through a million, but you you'll be surprised. Yeah,

906
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 2: you will be surprised to help help your mom. And

907
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 2: I've always said it, the easiest way for black and

908
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 2: brown people is to go broke is by helping others

909
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,439
Speaker 2: in our family, with our friends circle. Right, I've known

910
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 2: more people that have gotten into poverty that got it

911
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: back by helping more so than they did buy an

912
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 2: expensive shit.

913
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 3: And so I'm sure you probably have talks about this

914
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 3: on your show before. But you know, obviously we're all entrepreneurs.

915
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 3: I'm sure we have like a lot of entrepreneurs that

916
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: listen to the show. When you know, when you have

917
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 3: a traditional job, it's really easy for you to get

918
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 3: an IRA, but when you're an entrepreneur, you have to

919
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 3: get a roth IRA. In twenty twenty three, do you

920
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 3: think that there's something that still worth in wasting your

921
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 3: money into if you're an entrepreneurs.

922
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's more about the habit. Because if we're

923
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 2: going to be honest as entrepreneurs, the fan base isn't

924
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 2: always loyal or the customers are always fat. So you

925
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 2: have I always say like, would you rather you take

926
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: a chance on you you making a great amount of money,

927
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 2: or you invested in elon making money for you, right.

928
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 2: And when I started telling it like business owners to invest,

929
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 2: they're like, damn, I started putting forty percent away and

930
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: now this money is making more than some of my pes.

931
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

932
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: So you have to leverage like the systems of other

933
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 2: businesses that are better than you. It's okay to say

934
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: somebody's better and if I can leverage that, great great.

935
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: So do you feel like stocks are the best way

936
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 1: to make for your money to make money for you?

937
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 2: Absolutely, because you don't have to do like think of

938
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 2: like every competitive advantage of the company may have they

939
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: made a brand hot, they've done all the research and development,

940
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 2: they know how to go to market internationally. All of

941
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 2: that is packaged up already now. Of course, if you

942
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 2: can combine it with real estate, combine it with business

943
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: building strategies, if you can go on tour, great, But

944
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 2: I know for damn sure whether the audience falls out

945
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 2: of love with me or not. People gonna be on

946
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,959
Speaker 2: this phone texa period. You're gonna be swiping right like crazy,

947
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 2: trying to get chosen in the d M. Right, we

948
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 2: have to take advantage of that. Just so we have

949
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: to invest in the things that we use and that

950
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: we love to give us financial security for sure.

951
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha. So let me ask you this. You did

952
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: you go to college and you graduated? So where did

953
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: you go to school.

954
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 2: At Indiana University? Indiana?

955
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's where you're from and you live in Houston.

956
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: Now how did you end up in Houston?

957
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 2: Long journey? So after college, I went to Atlanta, and

958
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 2: then after Atlanta I went to Colorado. And then I

959
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 2: got tired of being in Colorado. Beautiful place, but it

960
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: was not like enough ethnic diversity. So like if I

961
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: saw you in Target when I was in Colorado, excuse me,

962
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 2: excuse me, we'd be like, hey, how you doing? Like

963
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: I used to like being a little I don't give

964
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 2: a little shade. How you do? How you that going?

965
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 2: Enough time? At the time, my girlfriend with my son's mom,

966
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:56,760
Speaker 2: she was like you know her and what I just happened?

967
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:00,479
Speaker 1: Okay?

968
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 2: So I didn't want to go back to Atlanta because

969
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: I felt Atlanta had got a little bit bougie and.

970
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: That was an interesting sing. Yeah it's fake bougie.

971
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 2: Though, And then I went to Houston and fell in

972
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 2: love with it.

973
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. We talk about this all

974
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: the time. I definitely miss Houston.

975
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 3: It's just yeah, for sure, especially now like I feel

976
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 3: like the first few years I lived in Atlanta, I

977
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 3: didn't miss Houston at all, But now I'm definitely over

978
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 3: it in Houston.

979
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,359
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll be in Houston all the time. The city

980
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: has grown so much. Yeah, I mean, all my family's there,

981
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 1: all my friends are there, Like everything is back in

982
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 1: Houston for me.

983
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 3: So I definitely I'm definitely gonna buy my first property there.

984
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,600
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985
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1029
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: real estate is something good to invest in right now

1030
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 1: this year with the way it's been going.

1031
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 2: Absolutely. I feel like last year people were buying at

1032
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 2: hides and pain forty thousand over what they should have

1033
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 2: been paying. Now we've come back to a normal level.

1034
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 2: But you know, like even in Houston, the values are

1035
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 2: only going to increase because everybody from California and Washington's

1036
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 2: moving out there right or New York. They're driving a

1037
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: price up like crazy. They brought up everything in Perland

1038
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 2: even started to move to the Woodland.

1039
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's different, Caroland. I lived in Perland

1040
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:22,919
Speaker 1: when I because I grew up in a small town

1041
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 1: called Orange Sexas. Then I moved to Houston. I lived

1042
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: in Perland. Don't you when I go back to Perland,

1043
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: because my sister still is in Pirland.

1044
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 2: It looks commpletely different.

1045
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 1: When I moved there, it was just a bunch of woods, ye,

1046
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: like nothing. So to go back now and everything that

1047
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: they have, i' be shocked every time. It's crazy. And

1048
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:43,959
Speaker 1: let's not even talk about like you know, I guess

1049
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: the hood areas.

1050
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, third ward, the gentrification is crazy insane, Like they

1051
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 3: literally have big ass time half a million dollar.

1052
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: Right next to like an old trip I know.

1053
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: And that's the more of a reason why we need

1054
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: to like get all of us together. But like Chris

1055
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 2: Sinegau has done a great job of like investing in

1056
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 2: that area and trying to like revitalize, but we need

1057
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: more of us to pour our money into it. So

1058
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 2: every artist on me, I'm like, why are we just

1059
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 2: going tour and make a whole bunch of money? Then

1060
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 2: by a whole bunch of property and it sounds good,

1061
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: but no one wants to do it when it's time

1062
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 2: to like actually do it right right, Well, you know

1063
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 2: we now big women are better investors. So like with men,

1064
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 2: you know this, it's always about who gets the credit

1065
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: right the face of it. It's never like the mission.

1066
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 2: It's like, well I'll do it if I'm the one

1067
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:40,320
Speaker 2: who's going to be known for doing it.

1068
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: So do you feel like a lot of this stuff

1069
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: that you've learned about, like money and financial literacy, like

1070
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: you had to teach yourself.

1071
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the only way, because it's no person's job

1072
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 2: or company's job to teach you how to get rich.

1073
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 3: Right.

1074
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 2: Every business like started and that's what I love about

1075
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 2: going to Wall Street, like Goldman, Sex, JP, Morgan, all

1076
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 2: of the started as family businesses. So the thing there

1077
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 2: is like, I'm not supposed to teach you the ship

1078
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 2: that I learned in my family and give it to

1079
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 2: you for free. Why would I Because it's not supposed

1080
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 2: to leave this empire anyway. But it's a fun journey

1081
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 2: when you get to learn to see like a company

1082
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 2: grow and why it grows, Like even with like artists

1083
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: it's the artist is the product. We know right at

1084
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 2: the gate who's hot, who's not?

1085
00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: Right?

1086
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 2: Right? So I always trying to say, like Apple would

1087
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 2: be like Drake, Microsoft is kind of like like bad Bunny,

1088
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:36,280
Speaker 2: just like Hella consistent big we like bad Bunny.

1089
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 3: Right?

1090
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: You know me too?

1091
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: So you said you had a son, right, so if

1092
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: you could pick like the perfect school, Like, what should

1093
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: the high schools like add to the curriculum even though

1094
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 1: we know they're not because like you said, they don't

1095
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: want us to really have all this information. What do

1096
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 1: you think could be added to like the high school

1097
00:51:55,960 --> 00:52:00,080
Speaker 1: curriculum to really teach kids like financial literacy and to

1098
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: help because I feel like that's the age of where

1099
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 1: you really start really learning and things stick with you

1100
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 1: because you know, the older you get, the harder is

1101
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: to learn.

1102
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 2: You gotta teach him really too. I wouldn't even say

1103
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 2: maybe like first second grade, you gotta teach him investing.

1104
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 2: You have to teach them like interpersonal skills.

1105
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: Like how not your son's first word was apple?

1106
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 2: No? But like, like for real, I saw teaching my

1107
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 2: son about investing probably at three.

1108
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: Really, how old is he now?

1109
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 2: Oh? So he knows, he knows like yeah, and knows

1110
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 2: how to trade everything, like he'll even like we go

1111
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 2: to like Smoothieking, like, hey, how can we invest here?

1112
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 2: Like because no public can we get a franchise? Like

1113
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 2: because my nephew be asking for is roadblocks and ship.

1114
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 3: Start.

1115
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 2: That's amazing because if we look at from when we

1116
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 2: were kids to now, the job market is dramatically different.

1117
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 2: Like when we were kids, who was like go to school,

1118
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 2: you're guarantee the job. Now it's like shit, you're lucky

1119
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 2: to find anything. So kids have to know. I think

1120
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 2: for boys though, especially like in our neighborhoods, we need

1121
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: to learn a conflict resolution, like how many times have

1122
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 2: we known people to get into it or people get

1123
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 2: killed over dumb ship when someone wouldn't say, Hey, my bad,

1124
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to say that. I g

1125
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 2: I was having a funck U day. I shouldn't care.

1126
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 2: That's really important. And then like how to build as

1127
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 2: a community. I think collectively as a community, we spend

1128
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 2: too much time like flexing on each other instead of

1129
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 2: with each other. But they'll never chease that ship because

1130
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 2: like if we're at war with each other, it gets

1131
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: us to spend more and That's why I hate like

1132
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:36,919
Speaker 2: all the what women should do red pill debate ship

1133
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 2: because that but no, no, that's done by design to

1134
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: keep us apart. Because when you're happy and like in

1135
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 2: relationship with family, you don't want to spend all the money.

1136
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: You're off Instagram about four o'clock. You spend the time

1137
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 2: to get like right, you mean with your bull You're like,

1138
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: I'll give a fuck what, I don't care to Cashi

1139
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 2: bought them fifteen bad.

1140
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 1: I'm cool.

1141
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 2: But when we're not happy, we end up spending more

1142
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 2: to try and feel that promotional whole.

1143
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: And I think, and that's something that we've talked about

1144
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 1: a lot too, because like the topics that of course

1145
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: we still talk about. You know what our brand was

1146
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 1: built on, but the conversation it was built on running

1147
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: up right, I think. But like you said, it's a

1148
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,479
Speaker 1: it's really about a balance older you know better, Yeah,

1149
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: you know better? And like and we always say this,

1150
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: I always.

1151
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,879
Speaker 2: Do you think women start doing better? Though?

1152
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: I mean, because I feel.

1153
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 3: Like some women don't never do better. I think a

1154
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 3: lot of people really go through life. Well, let me say,

1155
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: women go through life feeling like eventually one nobody somebody

1156
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 3: gonna say that night and shine and armor and comes

1157
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 3: to and save them, you know. But it's like, no,

1158
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 3: you have to invest in yourself. And I think that

1159
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,240
Speaker 3: when you're big on it, you have to invest in yourself.

1160
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 3: And I feel like when you invest in yourself or

1161
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,720
Speaker 3: you seem like you have goals and dreams and admissions

1162
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 3: that you're actually working towards, I think it's even easier

1163
00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 3: to find somebody who's willing to poort in.

1164
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 2: That's just so rare, right, Yeah, woman who's already done

1165
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 2: the work.

1166
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: Yes, And like I said, our conversations have changed so

1167
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: much because at first it was like this and now

1168
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,759
Speaker 1: we're like, you know what, let's do our own ship.

1169
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: Because don't get me wrong, it's very it feels good

1170
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: to have somebody that is like, you know, there to

1171
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: take care of you. But it does feel even better

1172
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,320
Speaker 1: to know that you can take care of yourself and

1173
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 1: you know what to do when you know how to

1174
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: navigate you know, this world. So I feel like it's

1175
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: not necessarily an age. It's more of like when you

1176
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: reach that point of realization that this world nobody's here

1177
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: to save you. Yeah.

1178
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 3: And it's not to say that it doesn't happen, because

1179
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 3: I feel like it definitely happens, but it's just very rare.

1180
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, or the trade off that comes with it, right.

1181
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: Or the trade off that comes with you, because it's

1182
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 1: a lot, and it's.

1183
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,359
Speaker 2: A lot dealing with y'all. Like if we're taking care

1184
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: of you too, right, there's a little bit of resentment

1185
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,439
Speaker 2: at times or too much conflict, Like if a person

1186
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 2: isn't on a purpose, it feels like a person trying

1187
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 2: to dictate to you, right, just because they're taking care

1188
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 2: of it right now. I think everyone has to have

1189
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 2: a passion of purpose or drive, and I.

1190
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: Feel like sometimes when it's just like you know, different

1191
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 1: strokes for different folks. But I know for me personally,

1192
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: I would feel like if I'm just sitting at home

1193
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,240
Speaker 1: and this is not shading to stay at home moms

1194
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: or stay at home dads or whoever does that, but

1195
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: I feel like me, I would feel like my purpose

1196
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 1: in life would just be like to you, but I

1197
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: feel like you should always have a life outside of

1198
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:31,360
Speaker 1: your partner. So I saw a clip on TikTok and

1199
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: it was a divorce lawyer and she was they were

1200
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: asking her what is the number one occupation of women

1201
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: that get divorced, and she said stay at home moms

1202
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 1: like that is the highest people that get divorces, Moms

1203
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 1: that stay at home essentially whether and most of the

1204
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 1: time it's the wife that initiates it because she feels like,

1205
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: I've lost myself and I think the culture has gotten

1206
00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:54,800
Speaker 1: so wrapped up in the soft life and being taken

1207
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: care of and not doing anything. And I say that

1208
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: a lot. And you know what, I took accountability in

1209
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: into it because when I watched the older episodes, that's

1210
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: what I used to be, like, girl, get you gonna

1211
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 1: do X y Z, Yeah.

1212
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 3: Until you get it right, and then it's like that

1213
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,840
Speaker 3: ain't really what you want, right, Yeah. And speaking of that,

1214
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 3: so one of the books that I was talking about

1215
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 3: earlier is actually called Smart Women Finished Reads, the audio

1216
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 3: books that I was listening to, and in the book,

1217
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 3: the guy that wrote the book he actually said that

1218
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 3: he said that that's like normally the people that would

1219
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 3: come in because he was a financial advisor at one point,

1220
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 3: and he was like, those were always the women that

1221
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 3: would come in and they would be fucked up because

1222
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 3: they would be married for so long and you trusted

1223
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 3: these men and you trusted that they were making smart

1224
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 3: financial decisions for the both of y'all. And then when

1225
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 3: it comes down to getting a divorce, you find it

1226
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 3: out you don't have nothing and you don't need anything.

1227
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 3: But it's because you didn't even know what was going

1228
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 3: on with the finances for twenty thirty years, because you

1229
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 3: just like, oh, he don't want to take care of everything.

1230
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 3: And I feel like that's definitely a problem that a

1231
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 3: lot of women have had over the years. You know,

1232
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 3: you just put you delegate the financial responsibility of keeping

1233
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 3: up with the finances and what's going on in the

1234
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 3: household to the men, and you have no idea what's

1235
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 3: going on.

1236
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: And then women get divorced.

1237
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 3: And then the fifty years, Oh you're having to and

1238
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 3: not that anything is wrong with that, you're having to

1239
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 3: become in a county fifty years old and you haven't

1240
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 3: worked find a job.

1241
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 2: Song too far to the left with the boss ship

1242
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 2: too like we need a happy meeting.

1243
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: That's a medium, because like I said, I still believe

1244
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: in partnership. Life is hard. I don't care how much

1245
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: money you have. Life is not meant to navigate it

1246
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: by yourself. I don't care what nobody says, so sometimes

1247
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: our community teaches to be too independent girls these nigga

1248
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 1: b I n d ep Like, I know I want to.

1249
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: I want to, Yeah, I like, but I also want

1250
00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: somebody who's like equally yoked. Like I get it. I

1251
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,920
Speaker 1: understand that now, Like I used to be like on

1252
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 1: some other ship.

1253
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 3: But like I said, say I didn't give a fuck

1254
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 3: about getting married. I used to say I didn't care about.

1255
00:58:58,880 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1256
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it used to be like I didn't care, like

1257
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 3: I definitely want a kid, but I don't care about

1258
00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 3: the marriage.

1259
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 2: But now.

1260
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: Community, I definitely look at marriage. It's more of a

1261
00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: partnership and let's be real, it's also a bus. Right.

1262
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm cool to set my own terms and be cool.

1263
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 2: With it for me to sign its.

1264
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: I like percentages. I don't like raw like I don't

1265
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 1: want no prenup that yeah, thank you.

1266
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 3: I don't like raw numbers because my thing is Okay,

1267
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 3: we get married and say I do have to because

1268
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 3: relationships I sacrifice. Say I do have to sacrifice my

1269
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 3: career because we married and we decided to start a family,

1270
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 3: and so I'm having to focus on the kids and everything,

1271
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 3: and then we get married, Say you worn't you know,

1272
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 3: like two million dollars and then my prenup says, oh, well,

1273
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 3: you get five hundred thousand if we eat a divorce

1274
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 3: from now, Uh what do you what do you think

1275
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 3: she could have not necessarily have? But I believe in percentergy, right,

1276
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 3: So it needs to be in case your net worth because.

1277
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: Because if you can grow and.

1278
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 3: It's one hundred million, and I have stayed at home

1279
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 3: this whole time, taking care of the kids, taking care of.

1280
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 1: The house, I mean, you're worth a hundred million. I'm

1281
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: walking away with five hundred thousand. That's crazy, nah.

1282
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 2: But but but the truth is if you give with

1283
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 2: somebody who's worth a hundred in a relationship and amicably,

1284
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: they'll still take care of you.

1285
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't think so, though, because a lot of times

1286
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: don't in amicably, Like let's be real and honestly, but

1287
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: I feel like three D. But also I think we

1288
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,280
Speaker 1: need to stop looking at the word prenup as being bad,

1289
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times people say screen up, or

1290
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together forever, or how does you want

1291
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: to bring up a prenup? Like it's not a bad thing.

1292
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: You're just protecting yourselves just in case things go left

1293
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: and if you're a business woman or a businessman, you

1294
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: want to talk about a prenup, let's do it. I

1295
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: think you want to contract, right, I think absolutely As

1296
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 1: a woman, when you get to a point to where

1297
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 1: you start making your own money.

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Speaker 2: And you got to protect, get picked up and y'all

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Speaker 2: replace the view. Yeah, you don't have.

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Speaker 1: Perfect example was Jessica Simpson and Nicholas when they got

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01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: a divorce. She had to pay him, she did. You

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01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Everybody was like, oh my godance

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01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: to pay her. That's what I'm saying. You definitely have

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Speaker 1: to protect yourself. And I mean it's been situations where

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Speaker 1: I mean most of the time it is the man

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Speaker 1: paying the woman. But like I said, everybody should protect themselves.

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Speaker 1: So I am all for a prenup one thousand percent

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01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 1: the money. It definitely got to make sense, though, got

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Speaker 1: to make sense. It has to make sense for sure.

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Speaker 1: Everything should be So that's something you believe.

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Speaker 2: I believe. Yeah, a lot to protect mandatory. I mean honestly,

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01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: even just going through like when me and my son's

1313
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 2: mom split, just going through that court proceeding just over him.

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01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 2: That made me look at that and the funny like

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01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 2: her lawyer and my lawyer were best friends. So he

1316
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 2: was like, I know when we get into court, like

1317
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna act like an idiot and I'm gonna go crazy,

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01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,600
Speaker 2: but I'm telling me and him going on vacation together after.

1319
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 2: So he was like, if child support and divorce law

1320
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 2: what's combined, would be the biggest company in the country.

1321
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 2: He was like, that's how big of a business it is.

1322
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, okay, I got you. So yeah,

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01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 2: you have to protect for the downside. But I think

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Speaker 2: like if I get married and let's say, god forbid,

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01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: I did get divorced, like I would put ship away

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01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 2: to make sure that like she was still good after. Okay, yeah,

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01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 2: but and I think that should be drafted.

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01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: Up in would you be like the type like even

1329
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: if you are married to like hide money though, are

1330
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: you gonna be company.

1331
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just tell her, like you're not getting to this.

1332
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 1: So you would tell her that it's there, but she

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01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: has no access.

1334
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,320
Speaker 2: I'm telling you now, I'm not looking whoever you are.

1335
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, like this is Xander's money,

1336
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 2: that's my son's money.

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01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you got anything else? We get On because

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01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: I was about to get spicy.

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01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 3: No, it is, but I would like to ask you

1340
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 3: because I know you say you're pretty much feelf taught, So, like,

1341
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 3: what are some good books?

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01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 2: They were the great question. Yes, my favorite one is

1343
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 2: Money Masters the Game by Tony Robbins. So he interviewed

1344
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: like the best investors of all time. Like that book

1345
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 2: changed my life. It's thick as hell, but if you

1346
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 2: go through it, like that book has made me more

1347
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 2: money than any other book I ever written. I think

1348
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 2: I have like six hundred books of miles like if

1349
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 2: you applied and listen, like y'all directly, if you apply

1350
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 2: in your business, your personal life, you'll make easily another

1351
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:46,439
Speaker 2: like four or five million dollars, like five or six years.

1352
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: I've got to tell me twice.

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01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. I know a lot of people don't like Dave Ramsey,

1354
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 2: but Dave Ramsey books are pretty good to the money makeover.

1355
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 2: On a marketing side, I like Gary Veat's books. I

1356
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 2: know Grank Cardon has been in some shit recently for

1357
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 2: his comments, but ten Next Rule is really good. That

1358
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 2: changed my life, And the premise of the book is

1359
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:15,680
Speaker 2: just to apply and do ten times more than your competitors.

1360
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 2: It has changed my life.

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01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: So I don't like what he said, but right, so

1362
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. How do you feel about his comments?

1363
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,520
Speaker 2: And it was stupid, but there's two sides of it.

1364
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 2: It was wrong, he knew he shouldn't have said it,

1365
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 2: but he's made comments before. The other side of me

1366
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:34,000
Speaker 2: is like, we know what press costs. You think it

1367
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 2: was an accident that he said that on Black History Month,

1368
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: knowing that all of us were going to reach like

1369
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 2: he probably got fifteen million dollars worth of press off

1370
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 2: of an old clip from three weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy, and a lot of people just finding out

1372
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: who he is for the first time. I want to

1373
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: research what he's talking about.

1374
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 2: Everyone made his books and seeing and I'm cool with

1375
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 2: this guy, Jared his right hand. He hadn't told me this,

1376
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 2: but I'm like, I know Grant probably has an event

1377
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 2: probably coming out in April, because like, did it not

1378
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 2: look like a rollout?

1379
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: So do you feel like we buy into stuff like that?

1380
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Everyone uses our emotions against us too, because honestly,

1381
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 2: if he gets canceled amongst us, he will replace us

1382
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 2: with a whole bunch of Macco boys. What difference do

1383
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 2: it make it's a free yeah. So, like I mean,

1384
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 2: and we saw it with Gucci the fut of dumb

1385
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 2: Ass Sweater and people still supported Blinciaga probably come back,

1386
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 2: and so Kanye chata Ye, but Slavery's a choice.

1387
01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, like people were still buying it up crazy, So

1388
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: the emotion of black people.

1389
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's one of the easiest promotional vehicles. I mean,

1390
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 2: like I went to the Grammys this year. I saw

1391
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 2: how inclusive it was, but they use the us being

1392
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 2: upset about us not being included, right even last year,

1393
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 2: like every year, like be honest, I should have won

1394
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 2: Album of the Year, but they gave her award early,

1395
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 2: got it out the way, got all the audience, and

1396
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 2: jay Z performed at the end. So it's like you

1397
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 2: get all of our attention, right, but we won't always

1398
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 2: get the accolades for it. So we definitely do you know.

1399
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,880
Speaker 2: Black twitters are things that they do just enough, just enough.

1400
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 2: Instagram fall apart in like three weeks.

1401
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, because a lot of the artists that,

1402
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 3: like in recent years have talked down on a Grimmy's

1403
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 3: going again, It's like we forget very quickly, Like you know,

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01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 3: so I don't.

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01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: Even think it's that people forget.

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01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 3: But it's just like sometimes I wish we could create

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01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 3: our own I mean accolades that.

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01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 2: Are you want to be real. We don't want accolades

1409
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 2: from us, We want accolades from that.

1410
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. People want to acceptance and they

1411
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: win because it's like we want the right.

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01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 3: If Lex created a Grammy a quote unquote similar Grammy

1413
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 3: award right now, nobody will want it.

1414
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: They want I'm just being hony.

1415
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 2: Nobody gonna want it.

1416
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,919
Speaker 1: They gonna want the real Graen. No, I know, she said,

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01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: she's saying, I think that. I mean, even if you

1418
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: need one of them to endorse right, And I feel like,

1419
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 1: as it's silly as it sounds, that's why I hate that.

1420
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: Oh he's invited to the cookout saying I hate that

1421
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: stuff because even though we're joking, it's a lot of

1422
01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: seriousness in that joke. You know what I'm saying. It's

1423
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: like we praise the most simplest things that other races

1424
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: do because it's like, oh, they got swagged, they got rhythm,

1425
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 1: you go l I mean, when that girl was at

1426
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 1: her wedding a couple of years ago, she rapped. What

1427
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: was that a little baby or some one of them?

1428
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, but like that ain't nothing new

1429
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: because we do that every day.

1430
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 2: But I think because we haven't been seen for so long,

1431
01:07:55,800 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 2: anyone that gives us any kudos that is white, we

1432
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 2: look at them like I've seen it personally on Markumundas,

1433
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 2: like I'll tell somebody, hey, Apple, at this price. Even

1434
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 2: when bigcoin was at fifty thousand, I was like, hairs

1435
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 2: can go to twenty thousand. They're like, you're fucking crazy.

1436
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 2: Mike Novagrats came on White Billionaire. He was like, no,

1437
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 2: he's spot on, Like there's still level of that, like

1438
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 2: hands funds want to buy. And then they're like the

1439
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 2: entire audience is like, oh my god, yeah, yeah, you

1440
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 2: have to learn and if they use us, we have

1441
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 2: to learn how to use them right well.

1442
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 1: And I think that's something that we have kind of

1443
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: experienced to like we see a lot of people who

1444
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,560
Speaker 1: have kind of like the same type of podcasts that

1445
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:37,240
Speaker 1: we have, but they're white. So it's like they're literally

1446
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,559
Speaker 1: getting millions and millions of views and the people are like, oh,

1447
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 1: y'all are so funny. And then we say the same

1448
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: ship and it's like them ratchet, So it's definitely a

1449
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 1: double stand y'all put sign of artists underneath all y'all

1450
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 1: may want to go find all.

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01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 2: You know two or three.

1452
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: No, yeah, that's actually something I've been thinking about.

1453
01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 2: Just a little gym going you mean.

1454
01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 1: Dropping the gym, dropping the jams for show. Okay, So

1455
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into the bit aboo. So today

1456
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:19,679
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about sexorism, a sex oricism, So we'na

1457
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:20,559
Speaker 1: elaborate a little bit.

1458
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:22,559
Speaker 2: So have y'all ever.

1459
01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: Been dating somebody and you just thought this was your

1460
01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: person and y'all were gonna be together and then shit

1461
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: just started going left. We've all been through that. Things

1462
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: just started going left, and you know it was a

1463
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 1: point of no return, but you felt like you just

1464
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: couldn't get over it was just so toxic. So what

1465
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 1: a sexorism is is, even when the door is still

1466
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 1: open with this person, you go and you have sex

1467
01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: with somebody else to get that that sex demon out

1468
01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 1: of you. So do y'all think that that means? So

1469
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:56,759
Speaker 1: having sex with somebody else to get over another person?

1470
01:09:57,200 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 2: Well, I think it depends on how much you like them.

1471
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 2: Like if you like, don't really fuck with them, it

1472
01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 2: can't work. But like, if you really fuck with somebody,

1473
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 2: it makes that shit worse, It makes it worse worse,

1474
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 2: like and then it's like they can feel the energy.

1475
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 2: I'm be real, Like I went through a little break

1476
01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 2: up one time, and I'm like, and the girl was phenomenal,

1477
01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 2: Like hen was phenomenal. Me amazing. I thinking about my

1478
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 2: exibata entire time though.

1479
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: Wow.

1480
01:10:24,880 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 2: So it's like if you really don't fuck with somebody, yeah,

1481
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 2: like you can run through them. But like, as men,

1482
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 2: we have to take time to like actually heal and

1483
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 2: we don't like want to go through that grieving process

1484
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 2: right telling homeboys like no, I'm really fucked up, Like

1485
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:41,880
Speaker 2: I'm playing cool on Instagram, but I'm I'm going through it, right.

1486
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 1: So sexualism doesn't work with like a woman that you

1487
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: really loved. Yeah, absolutely not. And that's what I was

1488
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,360
Speaker 1: going to say. I feel like we've all done it.

1489
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: But do I think it works?

1490
01:10:52,920 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 3: No, it doesn't work if it's somebody because in order

1491
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:57,519
Speaker 3: for you to be trying to go have sex with

1492
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 3: somebody else to get over a person, clearly it's a

1493
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 3: person you have feelings for because you're trying to do something,

1494
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 3: not to necessarily say, be spiteful, because you might not

1495
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 3: even let the person knows that you're doing it, but

1496
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 3: you're doing it to try to make yourself feel better

1497
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 3: because your feelings are hurt about the fact that you

1498
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 3: and this person.

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01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it works. It's crazy because when

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01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: I was younger, I definitely used to do that, but

1501
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,280
Speaker 1: now I don't even I don't even want to see

1502
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:36,559
Speaker 1: like another man if I'm like still thinking about somebody else,

1503
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:38,720
Speaker 1: because that is the worst feeling in the world, like

1504
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: having somebody on top of you and you're thinking about

1505
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 1: somebody else. That is, if you really think about that's

1506
01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: some sick ass ship. Have y'all ever said somebody else

1507
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 1: name during sex? I've almost I almost have, Like what happened?

1508
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what my reaction would be if

1509
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:57,679
Speaker 1: I was another girl name.

1510
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god, but we we just was doing We

1511
01:12:02,960 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 2: wasn't kicking it, like that wasn't my base shoot, like right,

1512
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 2: I do, Like, yeah, so she just slid through and

1513
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 2: she didn't care. No, she was mad, But I'm like,

1514
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 2: how can you be mad? And you know I used

1515
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:17,559
Speaker 2: to fuck with such and such Right now, I'm fucking

1516
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:17,800
Speaker 2: with you.

1517
01:12:18,120 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 1: See, That's why I didn't even if it was a

1518
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 1: late night hype. I feel disrespected about to pack it

1519
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 1: up and go because my coachie not good.

1520
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:29,639
Speaker 3: Enough to work for at least thirty minutes think about

1521
01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 3: this other girl, like you.

1522
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 1: Can't give off your mind for fifteen minutes.

1523
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 2: The hard ones with the hard one, I know that,

1524
01:12:36,360 --> 01:12:38,599
Speaker 2: y'all done. I've got the other done.

1525
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 1: They had the same name.

1526
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 2: I'm smart the house.

1527
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 1: I've never done it now. I've almost slipped up, but

1528
01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 1: I caught myself, but I've never like actually said it

1529
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,400
Speaker 1: like I definitely and like I said, when I did that,

1530
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I shouldn't be doing this because it

1531
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: just felt so like bad and like you don't want

1532
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:04,360
Speaker 1: to be here.

1533
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 2: Did you do it again after that? Though?

1534
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 1: No, I did it. I did it because it just

1535
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:10,680
Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong, I'm not sitting here and

1536
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,640
Speaker 1: acting like I'm an angel, because Lord knows y'all know

1537
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm not. But I'm saying, like, for me, if I'm

1538
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 1: in love with somebody and I'm trying to get over them,

1539
01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: like I said, I just learned that I need to

1540
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: heal because you start going on this rampage, and then

1541
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: after you're done with the rampage, like you said, you

1542
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 1: feel worse. And then so if y'all do us getting

1543
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:31,000
Speaker 1: back together, you got to deal with the guilt like

1544
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,600
Speaker 1: I was doing all this ship while we were broken up.

1545
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:34,560
Speaker 2: Do you tell or no?

1546
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1547
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, what about you?

1548
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm taking you to the grade. Lie, I'm

1549
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 3: not telling nobody. I'm talking about these on the show

1550
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:47,759
Speaker 3: numerous times. And at this point, I mean, I feel

1551
01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 3: like my boyfriend he know now. But I've only ever

1552
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 3: cheated on one guy that I dated, and it was

1553
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:54,719
Speaker 3: like my college high school boyfriend.

1554
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 1: And I never told him nig until I got on

1555
01:13:57,439 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 1: Four Minds, And I think he knows.

1556
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 2: Is that hard forure to date being so open with

1557
01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:06,000
Speaker 2: your love life on media? Or do like men get

1558
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 2: you know, because men can be real emotional.

1559
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you have to date somebody that's securing it.

1560
01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 1: That's the main thing, you know what I mean?

1561
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 3: Because I think too, when you're in these type of spaces,

1562
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 3: people have to understand that Dre on the call that's

1563
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 3: on this show necessarily isn't always Undrell the real version

1564
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 3: of me that you're going to see. I think it's

1565
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 3: the version of my Yeah, myself, but this isn't the

1566
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:37,280
Speaker 3: whole need. Like I'm here to entertain, right, And so

1567
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 3: sometimes you know, you say ship for shock value and stuff,

1568
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 3: or you might tell a story and it was something

1569
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 3: that literally happened.

1570
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:45,080
Speaker 1: Ten years ago. I don't need you judging me off.

1571
01:14:45,560 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 2: I did ten years No, you really just savaged the

1572
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 2: sugar Land. That is hilarious chatter. She gave you hell

1573
01:14:58,960 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 2: and galleria.

1574
01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:06,599
Speaker 1: I definitely did. Yeah, I feel the same. I feel

1575
01:15:06,680 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: like in the beginning, we tend to like tell all

1576
01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 1: of our dating stories and this and that, and it's

1577
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: like once we I didn't realize how big it was

1578
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 1: till people started really figuring out who I was dating

1579
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:19,760
Speaker 1: at one point, and it was like yeah, and when

1580
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 1: they figured out together, why are you.

1581
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:25,600
Speaker 2: That investment man? They go investigate and comments and go

1582
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:26,760
Speaker 2: who following who?

1583
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 1: And who like was and once somebody and once they

1584
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:31,840
Speaker 1: figured out who he was, I didn't like that because

1585
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 1: it's like he didn't ask for this, you know what

1586
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:35,839
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, this is my job and he shouldn't

1587
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,560
Speaker 1: have people trying to pry into his life and what

1588
01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: he got going on just because this is what I do.

1589
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: So I still share stories and talk about my personal life,

1590
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 1: but I don't necessarily say who, or I don't get

1591
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 1: too into detail. I don't say when you know what

1592
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I feel like it's definitely I have

1593
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:54,599
Speaker 1: to navigate my dating life a lot different.

1594
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 2: Now, how y'all deal with the podcasts and groupies when

1595
01:15:57,479 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 2: you'll be on tour and don't tell me y'all don't

1596
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:02,080
Speaker 2: have them because men way worse groupies than women.

1597
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:02,720
Speaker 3: We do.

1598
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: But I would never fuck with nobody that listens to

1599
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 1: the poor mind. Yeah, I would either. Well, I feel

1600
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 1: like I would never like if you're like a fan,

1601
01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: like a hard now like that, like you're a fantasized

1602
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 1: like you're like fantasizing about me and you were like,

1603
01:16:18,120 --> 01:16:19,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, like a like a fan, Like I

1604
01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 1: would never mess with a fan, somebody who knows who

1605
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 1: I am, you know, with what you were doing and

1606
01:16:25,960 --> 01:16:27,439
Speaker 1: this and that, or I listen to you and this,

1607
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,120
Speaker 1: like that's cool because I've actually met, you know, guys

1608
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 1: that have done that. We've had, you know, back and

1609
01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:33,679
Speaker 1: forth a little bit. So I don't have a problem

1610
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:36,840
Speaker 1: with being I want somebody who supports me and understands it.

1611
01:16:37,360 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 1: So for me, that's total but not a groupie, not

1612
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:43,559
Speaker 1: a fan. And I mean, you know, people don't be listeners.

1613
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 1: I can't do it though I've seen it. That's just

1614
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 1: my couple of tea. And I think it's also different

1615
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: for women than it is for men. You don't talk

1616
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:57,160
Speaker 1: to a little girl, don't talk to something. I think

1617
01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 1: it's a different.

1618
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 2: Thirty What do you think about Apple and Microsoft? I'm like,

1619
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 2: this is what you want to know. What you think about?

1620
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 1: Should I inveg. Girl, phone your bank account.

1621
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:17,160
Speaker 2: You're not about to come up off me, but come

1622
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:19,600
Speaker 2: what you need right And in the.

1623
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:22,679
Speaker 1: Morning, the girls be walling out there and I maybe

1624
01:17:22,840 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 1: using the stocks to hit on you in that is

1625
01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:27,480
Speaker 1: actually hilarious.

1626
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 2: You look at my portfolio.

1627
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:31,759
Speaker 1: That's a little smooth though, that is a little smooth.

1628
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: So has a girl like really had a real portfolio

1629
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:35,920
Speaker 1: And it was like, oh, let me show you and

1630
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,400
Speaker 1: she was like loke, just hitting on you. Yeah, the

1631
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:39,799
Speaker 1: girls got game. Baby.

1632
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 2: She was a monster too, and you liked it.

1633
01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: She had a good portfolio. She was phenomenal.

1634
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:52,880
Speaker 2: You know.

1635
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,120
Speaker 1: She was like, let me show her my new stock.

1636
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:59,600
Speaker 1: She don't know. Okay, So now we're gonna move on.

1637
01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:02,840
Speaker 2: We gonna get into entertainment.

1638
01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:12,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you gotta tell him the box he bobo

1639
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:16,680
Speaker 1: about you want to Go Far? You want to I?

1640
01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:19,599
Speaker 1: This week? I really like the Chloe Bailey and Chris

1641
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: Brown song You like it?

1642
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 2: How does it feel?

1643
01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:23,200
Speaker 1: I really like that song?

1644
01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 2: You know.

1645
01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 1: I really like Chris Brown music.

1646
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:28,760
Speaker 2: Artists of all time?

1647
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 1: Yes I do.

1648
01:18:30,000 --> 01:18:31,760
Speaker 3: And even though people be trying to, you know, make

1649
01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 3: some of us, they still like Chris Brown and listen

1650
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 3: to him feel bad.

1651
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:36,600
Speaker 1: I still like his.

1652
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 3: Music, Okay. And I like Chloe Bailey too, like she

1653
01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 3: can really sing. She's super talent to her and her sister.

1654
01:18:42,439 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 3: So I really like that song.

1655
01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, you've been listening to Lick. Y'all know I've

1656
01:18:47,880 --> 01:18:50,400
Speaker 1: been back on my afro beats. I told y'all it's

1657
01:18:50,400 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 1: about to be summertime we outside, So y'all know I

1658
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:56,200
Speaker 1: love Aria Star. I made the song Rush that she

1659
01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: had a couple of weeks ago, my bob. So she

1660
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,439
Speaker 1: got a song with whiz Kids called to Sugar, and

1661
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:03,760
Speaker 1: this is my jam. Everybody knows whiz Kid. We all

1662
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 1: love whiz Kids, and I really I'm rooting for Ario

1663
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 1: Star because she's young too. I love when artists are

1664
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 1: young and they just she has a very distinctive voice,

1665
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 1: and I love people who have unique voices. So to

1666
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 1: Sugar wiz Kid featuring Are Your Star, that's my bot.

1667
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 2: What you've been listening to? Carol Jesus dropped a new album,

1668
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:24,160
Speaker 2: So I've been on my like Mexican.

1669
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 1: What to say, like not you give a Dominican poppy, But.

1670
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:36,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been going to Mexico. As you got a

1671
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:36,680
Speaker 2: place out there.

1672
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 1: You know this you're big Ian for realis okay? So

1673
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 1: where where's your like? What city?

1674
01:19:46,600 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? I know I know what play a vibe? Don't

1675
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 2: y'all come? How y'all did Houston? You know, I just

1676
01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 2: came back from Bay like two weeks ago. I know

1677
01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 2: that's a lot up.

1678
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 1: What's your favorite vacation city? Was like, you know, taking

1679
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:04,560
Speaker 1: your little boot.

1680
01:20:05,880 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 2: Either player, I'll probably go to Turkstall a little bit.

1681
01:20:09,760 --> 01:20:11,160
Speaker 2: London is a good vibe to though.

1682
01:20:11,520 --> 01:20:15,320
Speaker 1: You said what I've been and it's crazy because I've

1683
01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 1: never been in London. I keep.

1684
01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 2: Like a clean in New York. Got some hood parts too.

1685
01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 2: She don't want to mess around it, but London is

1686
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 2: a vibe.

1687
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 1: Okay, vacation we go to London, isn't it period? Okay?

1688
01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:35,519
Speaker 1: All right, all right, so that show Bob Carol g

1689
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 1: I keep seeing her name a lot, so I'm gonna

1690
01:20:39,160 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 1: pull it up because she's really super popular. So I

1691
01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 1: don't want people be like you don't.

1692
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:44,720
Speaker 2: I know who she is is a good place if

1693
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 2: you go to Noble.

1694
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 1: I think Cabo, remember mister Cabo, times were had Alright, man,

1695
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:00,880
Speaker 1: I'm telling you me and mister we used to have

1696
01:21:01,080 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: a ball. All right. So now we're gonna get into

1697
01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: our favorite segment, yeah, which is pour your heart out.

1698
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 3: So you know, if you have any questions, you can

1699
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 3: always send them to ask poor minds at gmail dot com.

1700
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:15,759
Speaker 3: It's as kp ou r in my NDAs at gmail

1701
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 3: dot com. Sending your questions, send in your testimonials, because.

1702
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 1: You know we be big facts.

1703
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 2: If you were a victim of the Savage of sugar Lander,

1704
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 2: want to get guy, you won't be.

1705
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: Reading you want to go read it.

1706
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 3: It's only one question. That's only one Okay, I'll read it. Okay,

1707
01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 3: go ahead, Okay, Hello queens. I am a big fan

1708
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:40,719
Speaker 3: of the show, and I love to see black women

1709
01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 3: doing ay thing. I'm a twenty five year old man

1710
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:45,760
Speaker 3: from Chicago, and I'm getting tired of games. I have

1711
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,680
Speaker 3: been dating around looking for my equal meaning. I love

1712
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 3: a mindset where if I pay for dinner, you got

1713
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 3: the tip. If I pay for movies and parking, you

1714
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:56,120
Speaker 3: got the snacks. I will pay for everything like a

1715
01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 3: man is supposed to do. Hold doors open, walk on

1716
01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 3: the street on the side of the sidewalk, and I've.

1717
01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:03,880
Speaker 1: Never even left the toilet seat up.

1718
01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 3: I'm on my way to making six fears by the

1719
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,040
Speaker 3: time I'm thirty, and I'm just looking for someone I

1720
01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:11,920
Speaker 3: could deal with. However, it seems that every time I

1721
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 3: almost get into a serious relationship with the girl's way

1722
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:18,160
Speaker 3: a relationship, the girls fall for a man with a

1723
01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:22,240
Speaker 3: baller costume on. When they notice he's fake, they try

1724
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 3: and run back. But I take my time very seriously

1725
01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:27,240
Speaker 3: and willever waste my time as much as I don't

1726
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:30,960
Speaker 3: waste someone else. I'm wondering if there are any questions

1727
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 3: or ways that I could detect the women that are

1728
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:36,439
Speaker 3: only playing games and are not serious before I start

1729
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 3: to fully investe my time and energy.

1730
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, laughing a lot so we're gonna let you answer.

1731
01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 1: We're gonna let you go first.

1732
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 2: Y'all can chime into number one. You gotta quit being

1733
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:51,360
Speaker 2: a good guy, I forget, okay, gotta make women earn that.

1734
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:54,200
Speaker 2: I don't think a man should spend any money like

1735
01:22:54,280 --> 01:22:55,160
Speaker 2: the first ninety days?

1736
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:58,599
Speaker 1: What no money to party? We can't go eat?

1737
01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 2: I mean, like, yeah, but you sing.

1738
01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:04,680
Speaker 3: You knew there was gonna spark some controversy coming up

1739
01:23:04,760 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 3: on hill staying big.

1740
01:23:08,040 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 2: Ninety days, Steve Harvey said. Steve Harvey said, don't give

1741
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:13,160
Speaker 2: up the pussy for ninety days.

1742
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey also said no. Steve Harvey also said that

1743
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:21,800
Speaker 1: women all stopped taking me. He's also said women need

1744
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:23,720
Speaker 1: to stop taking me in serious who don't even want

1745
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 1: to take you to eat? That's so basic because that

1746
01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:28,320
Speaker 1: means you can't you can't give me no food.

1747
01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:29,920
Speaker 2: Or play the fool like that don't count. But I

1748
01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:31,439
Speaker 2: don't think this should be like tricking out.

1749
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 1: No. I mean, that's that's fine, but I'm talking about

1750
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 1: there are men out here like that. If we're going

1751
01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 1: out to eat.

1752
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,120
Speaker 2: Okay, can we be real, Let's be rue that Dick

1753
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 2: ain't hitting a lot of them problems. You have with

1754
01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:43,479
Speaker 2: my guys.

1755
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:45,240
Speaker 1: You talk about it.

1756
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:47,719
Speaker 2: Listen, you gotta get the fucking a little bit better.

1757
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:50,400
Speaker 3: Because I'm not going if you got good dick, you

1758
01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 3: don't have them kind of problems. If you got good

1759
01:23:53,040 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 3: d and I disagree with that, no, no, no way.

1760
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:57,519
Speaker 3: But let me say this, if you got good dick,

1761
01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:58,040
Speaker 3: not gonna lie.

1762
01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 2: It's all like keep be going up for Like.

1763
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 1: If you have good dick, I'm not gonna lie. You're

1764
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 1: gonna have a girl who wants to take you out

1765
01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:11,800
Speaker 1: to dinner and she don't mind paying for everything. I

1766
01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 1: don't like if you pay. If you're paying, I'm not

1767
01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:17,200
Speaker 1: doing no. Oh you pay the tab, I got the tip,

1768
01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:18,439
Speaker 1: We're not six and then.

1769
01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:20,960
Speaker 3: Walking on the sidewalking shit, nigga, that's she was posted.

1770
01:24:21,280 --> 01:24:24,320
Speaker 3: You post to talk me. Yeah, So I feel like

1771
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 3: if I'm paying for dinner, I'm not looking for.

1772
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:26,720
Speaker 1: You to pay no tip.

1773
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:29,360
Speaker 2: I'm treating you tonight, and I think what he wants

1774
01:24:29,400 --> 01:24:31,760
Speaker 2: something equal, but like just go off the actions, like

1775
01:24:31,840 --> 01:24:33,760
Speaker 2: if you take somebody out to dinner and they never

1776
01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 2: offer to get you anything.

1777
01:24:35,720 --> 01:24:37,680
Speaker 1: Because there are fifty to fifty women out there. So

1778
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 1: back to why you feel like in the first.

1779
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,400
Speaker 2: And ninety days and they feel like I'm telling you

1780
01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:43,160
Speaker 2: what worked best?

1781
01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:46,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So but what do you spending money? Though? Are

1782
01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:47,759
Speaker 1: we talking about dinner?

1783
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:52,360
Speaker 2: It's cool and plus like if I like funck with

1784
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:55,560
Speaker 2: you and will vib like, I'll go crazy on the

1785
01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:58,600
Speaker 2: dates and what we're gonna Dokay, You're a thoughtful It

1786
01:24:58,720 --> 01:25:01,479
Speaker 2: has to be earned, so I'm not coming out the

1787
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:02,679
Speaker 2: gate like, yo, let's go shot.

1788
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,960
Speaker 1: So what does a woman have to do to earn in?

1789
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 2: It just has to be number one good energy okay,

1790
01:25:08,240 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 2: number two honesty.

1791
01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 1: Okay.

1792
01:25:10,920 --> 01:25:14,120
Speaker 2: Peace is very important, but I'm learning too. Like Fellas,

1793
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:16,240
Speaker 2: we ask for peace, but we got to also give

1794
01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 2: that ship too.

1795
01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:18,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you.

1796
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:21,080
Speaker 2: I used to be at terrorist too, Like, baby, why

1797
01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 2: you're not be a peace with you?

1798
01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:27,800
Speaker 1: You meet a girl in January? She does all that

1799
01:25:28,000 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 1: bring you peace? Energy is good, she's honest. Valentine's Day

1800
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:34,599
Speaker 1: is coming up, but it's it's still within the ninety days.

1801
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:35,519
Speaker 1: You're not getting hurt again.

1802
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:38,760
Speaker 2: It depends on if we what simple said, we gotta

1803
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 2: be friends first. So if it was cool like what

1804
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:43,439
Speaker 2: I just no, no, no, like so I was just

1805
01:25:43,560 --> 01:25:45,599
Speaker 2: I just had a little Valentine that excersion went crazy

1806
01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:52,840
Speaker 2: crazy flowers everywhere. That's right, but we we had like

1807
01:25:53,000 --> 01:25:58,200
Speaker 2: a previous dealing, previous relationships. If I just had met her, no,

1808
01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 2: because for.

1809
01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:03,719
Speaker 1: Six weeks though, so you're not getting her nothing, not even.

1810
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,920
Speaker 2: I mean, but okay, let's be honest. Too many dudes

1811
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:12,080
Speaker 2: lead with money, and it's damn it not even unique anymore.

1812
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:15,640
Speaker 1: That's true. But I feel like a woman still know

1813
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 1: whether she like you or not. Money.

1814
01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:19,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, and dudes know like if even like it's sound

1815
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 2: like you've been going through, that's just like dere grol. Yeah,

1816
01:26:22,240 --> 01:26:25,200
Speaker 2: that's why I'm like, you can't be as like even

1817
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:27,640
Speaker 2: a I'm standing on the side of the street, and

1818
01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:30,439
Speaker 2: you gotta pick a woman who fucks with you.

1819
01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 1: But also, and I hate to say this, but I

1820
01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:35,760
Speaker 1: have to wait ninety days for you just yeah, but

1821
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 1: you also have to pick a woman who has stuff

1822
01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 1: going on so you know she's not using you. You

1823
01:26:39,400 --> 01:26:41,479
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like you do have to you

1824
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:43,840
Speaker 1: need to pick somebody who's like, you don't mind paying

1825
01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:45,200
Speaker 1: the whole tab and paying the tip because you know,

1826
01:26:45,720 --> 01:26:47,920
Speaker 1: if I wasn't here, she was gonna be here by

1827
01:26:47,960 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 1: herself eating. And because this is how she eats and

1828
01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 1: this is what she does on a daily So maybe

1829
01:26:52,320 --> 01:26:55,680
Speaker 1: you need to raise your standards a little bit you

1830
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:56,559
Speaker 1: wouldn't feel.

1831
01:26:56,479 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 2: Used, or also just work on you like I know

1832
01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:02,439
Speaker 2: men don't want to hear it, but it's like you

1833
01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:04,760
Speaker 2: have to find ways to make you pop so they

1834
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:07,880
Speaker 2: want you and it's easier, like and the things that

1835
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:10,640
Speaker 2: I love about y'all your actions telling it all. If

1836
01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:13,200
Speaker 2: you'll you call nigga nineteen times a day, fay hey,

1837
01:27:13,280 --> 01:27:15,640
Speaker 2: pabe is checking on you, how you're throwing, how your

1838
01:27:15,680 --> 01:27:18,320
Speaker 2: podcast go, let me know if they don't fuck with you,

1839
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:19,679
Speaker 2: be dry.

1840
01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:23,560
Speaker 1: Whether or not somebody like you.

1841
01:27:23,680 --> 01:27:27,280
Speaker 3: And I feel like sometimes men definitely buy things to

1842
01:27:27,439 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 3: try to like buy your love by your sure, but

1843
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:34,000
Speaker 3: I feel like niggas know when they're doing that, right

1844
01:27:34,160 --> 01:27:37,080
Speaker 3: because you can tell when somebody is into here and

1845
01:27:37,200 --> 01:27:37,800
Speaker 3: when they're not.

1846
01:27:38,760 --> 01:27:40,599
Speaker 1: But also the problem, I guess.

1847
01:27:40,400 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 3: That's why I always say I don't feel like it

1848
01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:43,920
Speaker 3: should be a time frame for things, because it's like.

1849
01:27:44,200 --> 01:27:46,280
Speaker 1: Okay, if I really like this, if I really like

1850
01:27:46,360 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 1: this guy, I'm gonna have stink with you.

1851
01:27:48,720 --> 01:27:53,040
Speaker 2: I like, like, if you like me, if a't good

1852
01:27:53,080 --> 01:27:55,599
Speaker 2: throwing the energy ain't good like and I'm not trying

1853
01:27:55,640 --> 01:27:58,600
Speaker 2: to criticize. Some men have had to improve, but that

1854
01:27:59,240 --> 01:28:03,160
Speaker 2: energy is like I'm being taken advantage of, and I'm like,

1855
01:28:03,400 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 2: you just gotta keep working every day, got to work.

1856
01:28:06,160 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 1: But let me disclaimer honestly, but let's say this too,

1857
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 1: though I have to say a disclaimer. I feel like

1858
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:19,760
Speaker 1: you know you want a different tax bracket. It be

1859
01:28:19,840 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 1: niggas that be trying to talk like you like I

1860
01:28:21,320 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 1: ain't spending no money because these girls be gold digcase.

1861
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:26,760
Speaker 1: You ain't got no gold. So you can't talk like

1862
01:28:26,880 --> 01:28:31,080
Speaker 1: big e no because a lot of times I've been

1863
01:28:31,200 --> 01:28:32,960
Speaker 1: a lot of the times of the men that even

1864
01:28:33,000 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 1: attack us, the men that attack us, it's like you

1865
01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:38,120
Speaker 1: don't have these problems. A lot of times the men

1866
01:28:38,200 --> 01:28:39,760
Speaker 1: that don't have the money, they be trying to speak

1867
01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 1: for the men with money. So let's le let's just

1868
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,880
Speaker 1: let that be known and put that out there right now.

1869
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:46,920
Speaker 2: What are your requirements for what you need? Though? For

1870
01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:48,480
Speaker 2: those kind of men who attack.

1871
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:51,120
Speaker 1: You, I don't have requires for them because I don't

1872
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:52,960
Speaker 1: care because the type of men that approached me, I

1873
01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:55,639
Speaker 1: don't have davy problems when it comes to like money

1874
01:28:55,720 --> 01:28:59,040
Speaker 1: and things and what we do I have. I can't

1875
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:01,280
Speaker 1: remember the last time I was with the man and

1876
01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:03,880
Speaker 1: it was like, oh, I pay for this all the time.

1877
01:29:04,040 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 1: You don't ever pay for nothing, never never.

1878
01:29:07,680 --> 01:29:09,640
Speaker 2: I think he just want equal effort. That's what it

1879
01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 2: sounds like. Yeah, but like you lead a tip that's crazy. Yeah,

1880
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

1881
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:18,040
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, but throat would be great.

1882
01:29:21,240 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 2: A little bit, little tip. These are just jokes entertainment.

1883
01:29:26,560 --> 01:29:33,559
Speaker 2: DC Young back to you guys.

1884
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:37,840
Speaker 1: Let us know where they can find you at, how

1885
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:40,080
Speaker 1: they can follow you, and you know where they can

1886
01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 1: catch on tickets seeing you live.

1887
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:47,080
Speaker 2: Yes, I will be giving a Western back at marking

1888
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:50,560
Speaker 2: Moneys live in l A March eleventh, Toronto will be

1889
01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:52,519
Speaker 2: after that April second. You can follow me on Instagram

1890
01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:55,479
Speaker 2: at the mass investor. The site is joining red Panda

1891
01:29:55,520 --> 01:29:57,200
Speaker 2: dot com. And if I've made you money, please put

1892
01:29:57,280 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 2: yes in chat. And I'm the only one to be

1893
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:01,320
Speaker 2: really making up his money. And we want to get

1894
01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 2: to talking. This is just entertainment. Those time me take

1895
01:30:04,640 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 2: it up a little bit. So I'm gonna take it

1896
01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:07,360
Speaker 2: up a little bit. I'na blame it on y'all.

1897
01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you did it sober We don't have a

1898
01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:13,880
Speaker 1: lot of sober game. We can drink now we have okay,

1899
01:30:14,320 --> 01:30:17,519
Speaker 1: damn we should should have had listen.

1900
01:30:17,640 --> 01:30:21,200
Speaker 2: I was so drunk in Mexico. Boy, this is Valentine's

1901
01:30:21,240 --> 01:30:23,400
Speaker 2: that weekend. So it was in the club right and

1902
01:30:23,520 --> 01:30:26,000
Speaker 2: I'm like two levels up. I was drinking tequila.

1903
01:30:26,000 --> 01:30:28,240
Speaker 1: I was sitting down kind of tequila drink because I'm

1904
01:30:28,240 --> 01:30:29,000
Speaker 1: a tequila drinker.

1905
01:30:29,080 --> 01:30:33,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, nineteen forty two. He got so yeah, So I

1906
01:30:33,880 --> 01:30:36,400
Speaker 2: got up. Man, I fell on this couple. Damn you

1907
01:30:36,600 --> 01:30:39,280
Speaker 2: feel fell on top of them like Gronkowski.

1908
01:30:39,720 --> 01:30:40,200
Speaker 1: Oh my.

1909
01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:42,800
Speaker 2: I was like, my friend, I'm so sorry. I was like,

1910
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:48,600
Speaker 2: Canela gonna beat my? I said, I don't want no

1911
01:30:48,680 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 2: problems because Mexico different, like there's no fighting in the clubs.

1912
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 2: Like if you're fighting club, no, no, you don't get killed.

1913
01:30:56,080 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 2: Oh no, nobody leave me alone. I was like, I'm

1914
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:02,000
Speaker 2: so sorry.

1915
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:04,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So you had a ball. How long

1916
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:05,479
Speaker 1: did y'all stay out there?

1917
01:31:05,760 --> 01:31:07,800
Speaker 2: Like five days? That was.

1918
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:12,479
Speaker 1: So do you let the girls like post your arm

1919
01:31:13,000 --> 01:31:14,439
Speaker 1: or so I'm just letting know, you know, you know

1920
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:16,080
Speaker 1: how the girl like the post dinner.

1921
01:31:16,200 --> 01:31:17,160
Speaker 2: If you with me post me?

1922
01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1923
01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:24,719
Speaker 2: Posts? Because if I get to hide you, it's.

1924
01:31:24,560 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 1: Gonna be a problem. Don't feel some type of way.

1925
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:28,679
Speaker 3: It is a noble standard because I do think women

1926
01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:30,760
Speaker 3: like we gotta be mad if they could be trying

1927
01:31:30,800 --> 01:31:32,240
Speaker 3: to hide we definitely.

1928
01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:36,600
Speaker 2: Because girls be like I should be on vacation with

1929
01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:37,400
Speaker 2: you post me.

1930
01:31:39,160 --> 01:31:39,880
Speaker 1: That is true.

1931
01:31:40,000 --> 01:31:42,439
Speaker 2: Even when I bought the more flowers and that went crazy.

1932
01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:45,680
Speaker 2: She tagged you no, no, like other other women's like

1933
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:47,720
Speaker 2: I can't believe you brought her Flowersody, what you mean?

1934
01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 1: That's right, big in not the little one period. So

1935
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:54,120
Speaker 1: y'all make sure y'all follow.

1936
01:32:21,120 --> 01:32:23,559
Speaker 3: What's up y'all at your girl ex pee, it's your girls,

1937
01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:25,120
Speaker 3: drain the cold and we are.

1938
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1939
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1940
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1941
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1942
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:39,719
Speaker 1: So there's nothing better than getting your house super clean,

1943
01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:43,679
Speaker 1: my fans, sweeping all that good stuff and lighting a candle.

1944
01:32:43,720 --> 01:32:46,639
Speaker 1: And let me tell you, my favorite scent is black love.

1945
01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:49,160
Speaker 1: I like to manifest that in the air because that's

1946
01:32:49,240 --> 01:32:52,760
Speaker 1: what I want. And so what is vanilla? I feel

1947
01:32:52,800 --> 01:32:55,000
Speaker 1: like you can never go wrong with the vanilla candle.

1948
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Speaker 1: I mean it's fall time. That's the kind of sense

1949
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1950
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1951
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1952
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1953
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Speaker 1: and have your house smelling good. Y'all ready to do

1954
01:33:15,080 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 1: the karaoke. I'm ready, y'all. You know, I know you

1955
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,640
Speaker 1: know a pretty ricky song. You have a sing to

1956
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:21,120
Speaker 1: a girl?

1957
01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:30,599
Speaker 2: No, I'm ul at heart. I told you. Yeah, that's

1958
01:33:30,680 --> 01:33:31,960
Speaker 2: just how terrible too. If I do.

1959
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:36,200
Speaker 1: Love a good karaoke moment and I can't sing, but

1960
01:33:36,240 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 1: I'll be sarious. We I love to sing to a nigga.

1961
01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:41,479
Speaker 1: It don't sound good, dude, I even do it? Gotcha,

1962
01:33:41,760 --> 01:33:45,840
Speaker 1: y'all ready, I'm ready. Loron is like already Riden wait

1963
01:33:45,920 --> 01:33:50,639
Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, I got new shoes on my right

1964
01:33:51,840 --> 01:33:53,360
Speaker 1: rolling down ninety five.

1965
01:33:54,360 --> 01:33:57,200
Speaker 3: To see in my eyes that I'm looking for her

1966
01:33:57,280 --> 01:34:02,559
Speaker 3: Qubie pie Llueen got love and we could just cut a.

1967
01:34:05,600 --> 01:34:10,040
Speaker 1: Your so I beat it up, beat.

1968
01:34:09,880 --> 01:34:16,720
Speaker 2: It up, hold your body, y'all, hold on which one

1969
01:34:16,720 --> 01:34:19,000
Speaker 2: of y'all said, y'all't like it? Rough though? What was

1970
01:34:19,040 --> 01:34:20,320
Speaker 2: that what was that simple episode?

1971
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:25,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I said, I like passionate love making.

1972
01:34:25,439 --> 01:34:27,160
Speaker 1: I think you gotta have a little bit about it.

1973
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:33,160
Speaker 1: You gotta make it, do it to do Okay, beating

1974
01:34:33,200 --> 01:34:34,200
Speaker 1: it up in Mexico.

1975
01:34:34,960 --> 01:34:39,880
Speaker 2: Boys, boy, I get that stalker for nothing.

1976
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:42,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying by.

1977
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:50,360
Speaker 2: Your three Your three jobs is to protect a pounds. Listen, like,

1978
01:34:50,439 --> 01:34:52,479
Speaker 2: if you have money, you protect and don't get no

1979
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:54,599
Speaker 2: good dick, how long will you keep it? Do around?

1980
01:34:55,240 --> 01:34:57,439
Speaker 2: You got six months? Maybe they're gonna be like, no, baby,

1981
01:34:57,479 --> 01:35:02,000
Speaker 2: it's okay. What shall be say? Oh it's perfect all that, bro,

1982
01:35:02,439 --> 01:35:03,000
Speaker 2: it ain't hidden.

1983
01:35:03,840 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 3: But I.

1984
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:09,519
Speaker 1: Don't I know that's right. Hey, and babe, we don't

1985
01:35:09,600 --> 01:35:13,200
Speaker 1: talk to her. Send me a DMN girl because we

1986
01:35:13,240 --> 01:35:15,280
Speaker 1: gotta know what. We want to know the gifts that

1987
01:35:15,360 --> 01:35:17,320
Speaker 1: you didn't got, because I know she got some good ship.

1988
01:35:17,720 --> 01:35:19,879
Speaker 2: Well I know she put it through hell for Olympics.

1989
01:35:19,880 --> 01:35:21,360
Speaker 2: I didn't even know.

1990
01:35:24,040 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 1: He got to rules of regulation on PERP like you

1991
01:35:28,360 --> 01:35:31,759
Speaker 1: wanted the niggas they test no testing days.

1992
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:36,719
Speaker 2: I know I wasn't. Yeah, we talked before. I wasn't

1993
01:35:37,880 --> 01:35:41,400
Speaker 2: my best self. Okay, So like I've had to do

1994
01:35:41,560 --> 01:35:44,360
Speaker 2: because like dating ship has always come easy to me,

1995
01:35:45,040 --> 01:35:49,800
Speaker 2: so I didn't put it in as much work as

1996
01:35:50,240 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 2: I should have protect her look out for. So it's

1997
01:35:53,920 --> 01:35:55,320
Speaker 2: not like an intention to think like I don't want

1998
01:35:55,320 --> 01:35:57,280
Speaker 2: to put nobody through the garlet. But I think any

1999
01:35:57,360 --> 01:36:00,280
Speaker 2: dude who's like I had women of some when you

2000
01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:02,679
Speaker 2: look back at black, damn, like I end up fucking

2001
01:36:02,760 --> 01:36:06,439
Speaker 2: up lives and didn't even know it. So I try

2002
01:36:06,479 --> 01:36:09,439
Speaker 2: to be like a lot more gracious and peaceful. Good.

2003
01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:12,519
Speaker 1: Good for you. I like to see people grow, though,

2004
01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:15,680
Speaker 1: because I love the guys taking accountability, Like, damn, I

2005
01:36:15,800 --> 01:36:18,000
Speaker 1: really put her through hell, you know, let me do better?

2006
01:36:18,920 --> 01:36:21,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, even like you know, like she cry like them

2007
01:36:21,960 --> 01:36:23,360
Speaker 2: like I hurt you that bad to make you want

2008
01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:25,400
Speaker 2: to cry like that. Shit fucks with me, y'all.

2009
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:27,439
Speaker 1: But good because a lot of niggas don't care. Don't

2010
01:36:27,439 --> 01:36:29,439
Speaker 1: see a bitch trying to be like, oh, brother, and

2011
01:36:29,560 --> 01:36:31,640
Speaker 1: did you come to this realization on your own? Or

2012
01:36:31,680 --> 01:36:32,639
Speaker 1: like did you go to therapy?

2013
01:36:32,720 --> 01:36:33,599
Speaker 2: And I came to the loan?

2014
01:36:33,760 --> 01:36:34,040
Speaker 1: Okay?

2015
01:36:34,680 --> 01:36:37,400
Speaker 2: Like I have a love hate relationship with the idea therapy.

2016
01:36:37,479 --> 01:36:39,439
Speaker 2: I think we need it, but I think a lot

2017
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:41,160
Speaker 2: of people will go to therapy and want to do

2018
01:36:41,200 --> 01:36:42,000
Speaker 2: the work before.

2019
01:36:41,840 --> 01:36:44,000
Speaker 1: After I agree with it, yeah yeah.

2020
01:36:43,880 --> 01:36:48,680
Speaker 2: Because it's like that's five percent of it.

2021
01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:49,040
Speaker 3: Right.

2022
01:36:49,200 --> 01:36:51,200
Speaker 1: So did she like try to leave and that's when

2023
01:36:51,240 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 1: you were like, oh, no, I need to change.

2024
01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:53,799
Speaker 2: I end up splitting.

2025
01:36:54,360 --> 01:36:55,559
Speaker 1: So that's when you was like, I got to get

2026
01:36:55,600 --> 01:36:56,200
Speaker 1: my ship together.

2027
01:36:56,560 --> 01:36:58,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I was on some little boyshits and

2028
01:36:58,560 --> 01:36:59,760
Speaker 2: dogs for a little bit, and I was like it

2029
01:36:59,840 --> 01:37:02,519
Speaker 2: was worth it because honestly, like looking back, I'm like,

2030
01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:06,080
Speaker 2: if I want to put in effort before, had open conversation,

2031
01:37:07,560 --> 01:37:11,479
Speaker 2: listen to her fears, told her mind work real fast, right,

2032
01:37:11,880 --> 01:37:14,519
Speaker 2: But then the ego get involved and yo, you're not

2033
01:37:14,640 --> 01:37:16,360
Speaker 2: doing this, so I'm gonna do it. I'm him, and

2034
01:37:16,760 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 2: I'm him hard away and all that ship.

2035
01:37:19,680 --> 01:37:23,320
Speaker 1: Then I'm like that's the name of these episodes.

2036
01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:27,479
Speaker 2: And then you'll be like, oh ship, Like you know

2037
01:37:27,760 --> 01:37:30,160
Speaker 2: they take about calls and ship like no ego.

2038
01:37:31,320 --> 01:37:34,640
Speaker 3: Just when you realize that, like sometimes you try to

2039
01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:37,920
Speaker 3: convince yourself that you really care about people, but sometimes

2040
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:38,400
Speaker 3: you really.

2041
01:37:38,280 --> 01:37:40,519
Speaker 1: Don't give a fuck. It just be your ego, like

2042
01:37:40,840 --> 01:37:46,519
Speaker 1: the thing that they tried to play with you. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

2043
01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:50,200
Speaker 1: a lot of times I realize I'll be tripping I'll

2044
01:37:50,240 --> 01:37:51,639
Speaker 1: be like, you don't, do you really care?

2045
01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:54,679
Speaker 3: Is it just your No, it's you're it's times usually

2046
01:37:54,840 --> 01:37:58,559
Speaker 3: like ninety percent of the time your ego fex facts.

2047
01:37:59,160 --> 01:38:02,439
Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much for joining us and teaching

2048
01:38:02,520 --> 01:38:03,120
Speaker 1: the class.

2049
01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:06,080
Speaker 2: All jokes aside. I'm proud of y'all. Thank you.

2050
01:38:08,160 --> 01:38:11,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna run it up. Please read it today, and

2051
01:38:11,760 --> 01:38:13,120
Speaker 1: we really need to do. It's toward two.

2052
01:38:13,840 --> 01:38:15,439
Speaker 2: Can we get this together a record?

2053
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:20,200
Speaker 1: Ryan? Look, Ron was already crunching the number on the work.

2054
01:38:20,920 --> 01:38:22,240
Speaker 1: All right, we'll see y'all next week.

2055
01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:22,519
Speaker 2: Y'all,