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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Freendshell, Marcy, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing okay, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Doing all right? What's going on with this guy? Trey

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Speaker 2: On waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: if you've been ghosted, but we need the backstory. How

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Speaker 2: did you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've

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Speaker 2: been on them? Then where things are now?

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Speaker 3: I'm going to tray on hinge And it went really well.

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Speaker 3: We exchange numbers, We exchange numbers, and we started talking

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Speaker 3: on text and Instagram and like planning our date, and

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Speaker 3: then all of a sudden, in the middle of our planning,

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Speaker 3: you just disappeared. And I'm calling because I'm just like

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Speaker 3: so tired of talking to these guys and then ghost

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Speaker 3: to me with no explanation at all.

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Speaker 2: So you got ghosted before the date, which we do

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Speaker 2: hear about sometimes, But I mean, you're chatting, texting whatever,

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Speaker 2: planning this date and then out of nowhere, the guy

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Speaker 2: just stops responding. So there was not even a date.

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Speaker 2: You got ghosted before the date even happened.

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Speaker 3: I've never even met him.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, Okay, do just happen to you often. I mean

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Speaker 2: you said you're tired of this sort of thing, like

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Speaker 2: or he said something to that effect, like is it

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Speaker 2: just every now and again this happens or all the time?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's happened before.

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Speaker 3: For sure. I wouldn't say it's like all the time,

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Speaker 3: but definitely two or three times.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let's see if we can get a hold

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Speaker 2: of this guy Tray, and we're going to talk to him.

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Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone at the same time. And

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Speaker 2: the hope is always as we can straighten things.

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Speaker 1: And said you got date? Not good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you?

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Speaker 2: Hey Marcy, Yes, all right, let's call this guy Trey.

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Speaker 2: You met saw on one of the apps, you exchanged numbers,

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Speaker 2: you talked about a date, and yet he disappeared before

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Speaker 2: the date actually happened. And you want to know, how

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Speaker 2: do we go from matching and then texting and talking

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Speaker 2: and whatever so then not going out at all? Like,

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Speaker 2: how do we not even wind up on it? How

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Speaker 2: do I get ghosted before I even have a chance

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Speaker 2: to screw it up? What you must be wondering?

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Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, Okay, We're gonna call Tray now, good luck, Marcy, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: this Trey.

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Speaker 4: Yes, speaking.

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Speaker 1: Hey Trey, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 2: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Is it okay if we chat for just a second

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Speaker 1: on the show. Yeah? Sure, I want tickets or something.

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Speaker 2: No, No, Jason's not absolutely not like this.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he would give you.

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Speaker 2: They win something, Well, maybe we'll see. We're calling on

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Speaker 2: behalf of a woman named Marcy. I guess you guys

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Speaker 2: matched on hinge recently, and you guys have been texting

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Speaker 2: or talking on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember Marcy.

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Speaker 4: Marcy is extremely disrespectful and she no longer has access

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Speaker 4: to me.

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Speaker 1: She no longer has access to you. Okay, Okay, Sarah surprised? Okay,

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Speaker 1: are you surprised? Oh, look look at they Trey's out

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Speaker 1: of here protecting his piece. Yeah, so what I'm not

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I shouldn't make fun of you what happened

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Speaker 1: because we just talked to Marcia a second ago and

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Speaker 1: she said that you guys had matched, and then you

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Speaker 1: guys were texting and planning a date. And then we

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Speaker 1: go from there to nothing at all, So what like,

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Speaker 1: how do we why are we ghosting her? And why

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Speaker 1: did she no longer have access to you? Before she

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Speaker 1: ever had access to you?

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Speaker 4: So I called her to check in and tell her

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Speaker 4: to have a good day, and she ignored the call,

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Speaker 4: and I know she was on the phone like she.

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Speaker 1: Usually answers right away.

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Speaker 4: And then she posted something on Instagram and I saw

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Speaker 4: it and she's playing some games. So I asked kat

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Speaker 4: GPT and it said low effort, low intentionality, you should

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Speaker 4: walk away. So I listened to my therapist.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, not an actual therapist. It was your chat

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Speaker 2: gbt's your therapist. Okay, do you know Paulina? So okay,

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Speaker 2: you reached out to her, she didn't pick up, But

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Speaker 2: then she posted something on Instagram, which led you to

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Speaker 2: believe then that she was on her phone, meaning she

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Speaker 2: could have picked up, because if she's messing around on

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Speaker 2: her phone, then she could have answered. And for you,

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Speaker 2: or at least for chat GPT, that means that we

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Speaker 2: never go on a date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, I mean low effert, low reward, So Trey

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Speaker 4: one time?

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Speaker 1: Like, and who's to say?

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Speaker 2: Are you sure the post was even brand new versus

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Speaker 2: it popped up you know from the past. I mean,

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Speaker 2: what if she was somewhere where she could I've been

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Speaker 2: in meetings before where I can't talk to you on

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Speaker 2: the phone, but I can do other stuff on my

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Speaker 2: phone that doesn't involve talking. So she wasn't in a

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Speaker 2: place where she could answer the phone. But yet she

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Speaker 2: was in a place she could use her phone, and

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Speaker 2: we're just qualifying.

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Speaker 4: She couldn't text to me.

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Speaker 1: All right, let me bring Marcia in mos I forgot

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Speaker 1: to mention that Marcian is here.

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Speaker 2: I'm very forgetful, Marcie, what happened with this? I mean,

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Speaker 2: you just heard all of this. So he tried to

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Speaker 2: call you. You didn't call him back, but you were posting

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Speaker 2: on Instagram. Apparently that's a crime.

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Speaker 3: You called me at two pm on a Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: I was at work, I will not play your game

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Speaker 4: and looked like a pool dude.

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Speaker 2: You guys don't know each other, Like, who's a f

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Speaker 2: I know anything about.

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Speaker 1: What game is? I mean the game she's playing is

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Speaker 1: that she was wasting time in a meeting at work

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Speaker 1: that she didn't pay attention.

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Speaker 4: You didn't respond back.

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Speaker 1: I have other things I have going on in my life, guys.

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Speaker 1: I can't be doing this. Well, wait a minute, how

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Speaker 1: long before she responded to you. I don't know. Maybe

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Speaker 1: she called me that evening, but.

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Speaker 2: Like so same day, so at the middle of the day,

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Speaker 2: while she was at work, she called you back when

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Speaker 2: she wasn't at work, Like this is normal stuff, man,

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 4: That's a four hour difference. You can send a text

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Speaker 4: in between four hours. You can't say you're bad at texting.

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Speaker 4: You're on your phone all day.

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Speaker 1: Apparely know each other. I'm scared she doesn't know you,

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Speaker 1: that know you.

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Speaker 3: This is this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: I maybe maybe a doctor's.

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Speaker 2: All who hurts you, man, Like this is not She

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Speaker 2: hadn't called you back for a week or something, and

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Speaker 2: then and then she posts a picture on Instagram, like with.

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Speaker 1: A dude in Hawaii. Then you might have some questions,

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Speaker 1: but like, no, that's problem.

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Speaker 2: Four hours later she called you back when she had

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Speaker 2: time to talk. I don't think that's wrong at all.

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Speaker 1: Listen. I read the Dan Bavarian book.

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Speaker 4: And I listened to told myself, Damn Blair, Okay, now

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go Yeah, all right, that's all I need

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Speaker 4: to do.

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Speaker 1: Respect your well said, she's.

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Speaker 2: Supposed to beg you Yeah, she's good to She's supposed

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Speaker 2: to answer the phone on one ring every time you

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Speaker 2: reach out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, man.

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Speaker 4: I mean I can acceptly she picks up on a

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Speaker 4: third or fourth ring, but like at least okay, So Marcy,

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Speaker 4: I think I know she's that interested, Trey.

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Speaker 2: I'll asked the question. I think I know the answer too.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go out with Marcy? We'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 4: No, I'd rather get concert tickets so we can do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you needn't lead this stuff alone. Yeah I don't

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Speaker 1: think so. GPT you got them go. You need to

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Speaker 1: lead it alone. It's not going to work out. Marcie

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Speaker 1: Tray best have looked at both of you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you