1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with I R Radio. 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Hi everybody, this is Trista and today I'm so low. 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: Bob couldn't make it. He is traveling today and he 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 1: was trying to make it work. He I think just 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: got to the airport or is going to the airport 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: and didn't want to interrupt the interview by jumping out 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: of his car and going inside and going through t 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: s A. So, uh, so he can't make it today. 9 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: I'm really sad. We miss you, Bob. But I'm really 10 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: excited about our guest. We've got Diana Papas. She is 11 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: one of my longtime bachelor friends well really kind of 12 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: my sister in bachelor family. Um, and I'm really excited 13 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: to talk to her today. So Hannah, will you please 14 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 1: bring Diana in Hi, beautiful h So for everyone listening, 15 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: it was Diana's birthday. Happy, happy birthday. UM what did 16 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: you do in years young? That's right, That's right. I'm 17 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: going to keep telling myself that, but I have to 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: tell you. So we just had brad on Um well 19 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: Pep'll get it. Yes, why was that? It was great? Um? 20 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: He is just one of the nicest people. Um, just 21 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: so sweet and it was great to talk to him, 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: just I mean, obviously we can go into it. Huh. 23 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm surprised he did the podcast. I know, shocking, right, 24 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: he does not do this stuff, like he's not on 25 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: any social media whatsoever, like, has never been on it before. 26 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, we were really excited to talk to him. 27 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: He doesn't. Nope, he's dating someone and there's it seems 28 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: like they're serious ish, like they've talked about kids. But 29 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: I don't know, well, I don't know. We'll see verdicts 30 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: verdicts out and and honestly, we might not even know 31 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: if he ever gets married because he's got on social 32 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: you can't keep up with him in anyway. He's kind 33 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: of like, I'm so glad to hear he's doing well. 34 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: I saw that Harrison posted a photo last week of 35 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: the two of them together having lunch or something like that, 36 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: and I just thought, it's just really great. It's it's 37 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: good to see him, you know, and people still keeping 38 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: in touch with him, you know, yes, yes, of course, 39 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: it was great to talk to him. You know. I 40 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: know you're like me and we don't wish our exes 41 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: any bad juju, but yeah, you know, yeah, I mean 42 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: he's he's a great guy. Um. I have nothing but 43 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: love for him. Um. So, anyway, I was going to 44 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: bring up so Brad's birthday. My fiftie, as you know, 45 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: was at the end of October and Brad's fiftie was 46 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: November ten, and so he was talking about kind of 47 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: the same vibe, like, oh, yeah, it's just a number 48 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 1: or whatever. And I'm sorry. I love that everyone's saying that. 49 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: And I know, listen, I get it. It's better than 50 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: the alternative of not having a birthday. I understand that, 51 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: but I just don't like it. I don't like aging. 52 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: You're funny, never liked getting older. No, what I mean, 53 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: that's you do this every year. I know our group 54 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: text and we're we're wishing everyone a happy birthday. You 55 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: do this every year. You do not like to get 56 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: and that's okay. A lot of people are that way, 57 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: and right with that means a lot of things, because 58 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: we are human, right, and that comes with a lot 59 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: of changes, and for women in particular, physical changes, and 60 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: those things hard to like look at ourselves differently, or 61 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: see our bodies changing, or or or peoples or gray 62 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: hair or all of it. That's hard to do. Those 63 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: things embrace those things and feel good about those things, 64 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Gaining weight, everything changing, 65 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: Like it's hard to steel be positive with those things 66 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: because you still want to feel really beautiful. But honestly, 67 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: I'm with Brad like I feel pretty good. You know, 68 00:03:54,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: I don't know to go back to right. I would 69 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: go back to that body any right, honestly, at any time, 70 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: but like totally like as a person emotionally and like 71 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: my mental well being and just being more secure in 72 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: who I am at this, you know, with that comes like, hey, 73 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: it is not about how many friends you have, It's 74 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: about the quality of the few that you do have. 75 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: And like, I don't know that I understood that when 76 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: I was younger, you know, right right now, I have 77 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 1: a lot of conversations with Blake Sleeve about that because 78 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: and pardon me for having a hot slash right when 79 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: you were talking about ages. It was in therapy esday 80 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: on my birthday. I went to therapy, which is a 81 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: per sanity your birthday, and I was like, yeah, a 82 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: little birthday sanity, I need it, hey, sitting in there 83 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: and it was, I swear to God. Halfway through it 84 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: was like sweating and I was like, I'm sorry, is 85 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: it is? Do you have the heat on? Why is 86 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: it a hundred and five degrees in here? Because well 87 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: you are forty one. I was like, damn it, damn 88 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: it smokes, that's really happening. Is that the first one 89 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: you've ever had? Yeah? I mean it was oh my gosh, yeah, 90 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: it was really hot. And there in my defense, yeah, 91 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 1: she just she just was fine with it. No. I 92 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: they are not fun, but you know, I yes, the 93 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: physical stuff is not fun to deal with. But I 94 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: will say just feeling older in terms of my body 95 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 1: and what I can do is such a bummer. Like 96 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: I hate being in pain, like having back pain or 97 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: knee pain, or my body just doesn't work as well. 98 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: A tough year too, Yeah, just health wise in general. 99 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: Both you and Ryan like that's those things are just 100 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: tough and it is a route awakening to realize that 101 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: we just don't bounce back as quickly as we used to. 102 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: Totally that that is such a downer to me because 103 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: I used to like, hey, I you know, go whatever, 104 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: not work out and eat whatever I wanted, and then 105 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: I'd be like, go go back to the gym, and 106 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: two weeks later I'd been right back where I started. 107 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: Not anymore. Even if I go like two days, which 108 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: I never do. If I did two days at the gym, 109 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: it would still take me like six months at least. 110 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: I never do. I don't ever. You don't ever work out. 111 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 1: I mean a little bit here. Oh my gosh, come on, 112 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: I've gained like fifteen pounds, like I am. I'm the 113 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: heaviest that I've ever been in my entire life. I 114 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: can't tell you the last time I've seen my six pack. 115 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: But like, I just but I guess I'm kind of 116 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: just in this place of where just like accepted, I 117 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: just I just want to get like my mental health 118 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: and my emotional well being together. I just do what 119 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: feels good right now. And if that means I work out, 120 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: then that's greatly. I'm totally fine with that too. If 121 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: I go to I don't work out, you know, sometimes 122 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: that's okay, all right, right, I'm just doing what feels good. 123 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: I'll get out and walk a lot. I do enjoy that, 124 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: enjoy to get out and walk my dog and listen 125 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: to a podcast. So I do try to at least 126 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: do that. But yeah, really, at the end of the day, 127 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: I had two martinis at dinner last night, and I 128 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: feel like I need a nap, like for the night. 129 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: I know that too, Like I, Yeah, alcohol, we don't 130 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: drink a lot of alcohol, but still when we do, 131 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: I feel it. Even if I have a glass of 132 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: wine at night, I feel like a little sluggish the 133 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: next day. It's not bad, but I want to go 134 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: back to bed right now, yeah, right, while you're not allowed. 135 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: We're going to talk for a little bit longer. Um, 136 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: But I do you, you know, I I love that 137 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: you are in a place of acceptance and happiness and 138 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: doing what feels right for you. That's what everyone should do, 139 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: and even when you're younger. Like I was about to say, 140 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: with Blakesley, I have had so many conversations because she 141 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: is a teenager, talking about quality of friendship and as 142 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: opposed to quantity, like it is much more important to 143 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: surround yourself with people who lift you up rather than 144 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: um just having the numbers, you know. I We talked 145 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: about that constantly, and I think it is a hard 146 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: learning lesson. Even at fifty, I feel like there are 147 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: definitely times when when I get um, I'm sad because 148 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: I feel left out of something or you know, but 149 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: everyone has families and their own lives, and it's just 150 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: hard these days. People are busy. People are busy. Yeah, 151 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: I think the other like hard lesson. I mean, I 152 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: am trying to implement implement this with my own children, 153 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: but it's been a hard lesson for me in the 154 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: last probably year and a half. In particular, is on 155 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: the same concept of how many people, right, how many 156 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: friends you have? It's not quantity, right, it's the quality. 157 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: And I think that it is so important to be 158 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: truly and fully loved, holy and authentically for who you 159 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,559 Speaker 1: truly are. Do you know the good and the bad? Right? 160 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: Still have good and bad And we're all a product 161 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: of how we were raised. And no one is perfect, 162 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: and you know we have strengths and we have weaknesses. 163 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: And it's truly important to be around and surround yourself 164 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: with people who fully love you for who you are 165 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: alifically holy. Right, we're children of God and He loves 166 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 1: us as broken as we are. That should be done. 167 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: And if you are not being surrounded by those kind 168 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: of people, you need to reevaluate your situation and your friendships. 169 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: And I'm all right with that. I'm alright with people 170 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 1: who are willing to put on the boots and walk 171 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: through the ship like those yes, those are the kind 172 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: of yes I want to be friends with because that's 173 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: the kind of person I am, right fault, and I 174 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: love so truly deeply that that's just who I am. 175 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: Like that's the kind of friend I am, And that's 176 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: the kind of friends that I want. And I got 177 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: so important and I want that for my children. I 178 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: want that same for anyone. You know, say it has 179 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: to be it's very intentional, Like I feel like the 180 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: word of the last couple of years has been intentional, 181 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 1: Like you know, focus your intentions on those who do 182 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: lift you up and who support you and accept you 183 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: and all of those things. So yeah, I love you 184 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: for that. Loyalty, relationships and refinement. That's what right to 185 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: make other people happy, that's not what we're meant to do. Relationships, 186 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:40,479 Speaker 1: and I mean across the board, marriage, you know, significant others, friendships. 187 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: It's about refinement. It is not about making someone happy 188 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: or changing someone. It's about refinement totally. And I feel 189 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: like these days I am just trying to get through it, 190 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: like I you know what I mean. Like there are 191 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: times when like yesterday, for ex ample, I got my 192 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: hair done. Um, you know, go into the hair solan 193 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: air looks so good today, thanks. Thanks. So I go 194 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: and I get my hair done, and it's always a 195 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: day that Ryan hates because I am gone for so. 196 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, as a woman, well you probably 197 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: don't because you get a little highlights, but you don't 198 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: have to do anything because you have gorgeous hair and 199 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: probably not a lot of gray must be where they 200 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: start right underneath here this is oh yes, or just 201 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 1: right at the top, there's like a I was who 202 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 1: I was like, what are all theys coming from? Stress 203 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: up life? Anyway, So I was gone most of the 204 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: day and he hates the day, and of course I 205 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: get home later on in the day and this is 206 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: of course after I go picked blakes Lee up and 207 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: I from a friends who she had a sleepover with, 208 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 1: like all these things, you know, right, went to the gym, 209 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: come home and I'm like, do you want to do anything? 210 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: And he's like, I just want to hang out with 211 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 1: my wife, you know, like beautiful. I know. I'm like, 212 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 1: you know what, some days I just gotta have a 213 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: me day and put time in. I'm sorry that I 214 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: can't be around a hundred percent of the time to 215 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: make you happy. But um, you know, sometimes I just 216 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: gotta take some time for me. So yeah, it's it's 217 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: so true, so do it. Yeah, that's right. Okay, So 218 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: tell me about what's going on in your life lately. 219 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: I know you do the podcast with Jessica. Um are 220 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: you blogging still? I know you're flying, So tell me 221 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: what's going on. I have not been doing any of 222 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: those things. You haven't. Well, you did fly recently. I 223 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: know I'm still working quite a bit, and I feel 224 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: really lucky to work for one family in particular, who 225 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: I just genuinely love. I've been with them for a 226 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 1: really long time and they're really good to me, and 227 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,680 Speaker 1: they're really good to my family. Yeah, tell tell everyone 228 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: what you do, though, because I don't think everyone I know, 229 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: everyone is always so shocked to hear the real job. 230 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, I am a real person. That is fascinating 231 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 1: when people write me on social media, Like if if 232 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: I post that I have been flying or whatever, I 233 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: still get people who email me or sorry DM me 234 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: and say, wow, you work, And I'm like, how could 235 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: I not? There are built bills around here, like mortgage 236 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: if you know, living in the state of California, but 237 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: it is really high. Yeah. Yeah, I am a corporate 238 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: flight attendant. I have done it, and for those who 239 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: don't know, it means private aviation. I work in private aviation. 240 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,319 Speaker 1: I can't imagine working for Delta passing out peanuts and 241 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: a right especially coming from where you're coming from, it 242 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: would be awesome. Addison, maybe she'll follow in mommy's footsteps. Yeah, 243 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: so I work in private aviation and I like the 244 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: freedom of it because I genuinely am a foodie. I 245 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 1: like to cook and or will taste anything that I make, 246 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 1: So I get to cook and do that in flight, 247 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: which I really appreciate. And then also the whole concept 248 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: of being able to travel and stay in a hotel 249 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 1: and go places that I want to go all by myself. 250 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: Um so I've done that for gosh eleven years now, 251 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: eleven years. I had some I have, like this transitional 252 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: period of time after I did the Bachelor Rep where 253 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: it really wasn't sure what to do with my life. 254 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: I think we all do. Yeah. Yeah, it's weird because 255 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: you're a normal person, but you're also put in this 256 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: place where it's hard for you to do normal things. 257 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 1: So I couldn't do real estate anymore because I just 258 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: had strange people who wanted to hang out with me 259 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: and were utilizing my time, yes to get to meet 260 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: me and pretend to buy a house, you know what 261 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: I mean. And then it just wasn't safe for me 262 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: to go out alone right show houses anymore. So that 263 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: was hard because I was still pretty young and I 264 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 1: was really good at it and I just didn't know 265 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: what to do. So and then, as you know this 266 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: trusted with the opportunities that come after the past. I 267 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: got to do of really cool things like I got 268 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: to work on the Red Carpet, and I hosted a 269 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: television show, and I got to go to Iraq twice, 270 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: in Afghanistan twice to visit the troops, and just opportunities 271 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: that I really enjoyed and that I didn't want to 272 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: turn down. So then this period of time where I 273 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: was like, oh, do I want to continue a life 274 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: in television? Like what do I want to do at 275 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: thirty years old? You know, I didn't like the concept 276 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: of people willing to go over whoever they could to 277 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: get on top. And I couldn't get packed that because 278 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: at my core, I am not that person and I 279 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: didn't want to compete for that. Like I just wanted 280 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: to feel full, and I wanted to be happy, and 281 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to have a career that I enjoyed. I 282 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: would like to make some money, you know what I mean. 283 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: But like I couldn't. I couldn't deal with that. I 284 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: couldn't deal with the competition or walking into every E 285 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: News audition and sitting there before other bachelorettes. You know, 286 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: whoever was it was popular at the time got the job. 287 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: You know, it didn't matter. We were whoever was popular 288 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 1: at the time. And so I just didn't like how 289 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: it made me feel and where it was going. So 290 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that I don't still do things like that. 291 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: If something really awesome falls into my lap, then I 292 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: will still take those opportunities. But it has to feel 293 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: right for me, and it has to go right for 294 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: my family, partially in a career I pursued anymore. So 295 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: I had some friends who are in the business and 296 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: we're willing to turn in my application for me. And 297 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: before the Bachelorette, I had had a long history and 298 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: service industry and that's really all I am. I'm a 299 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: glorified server in the air. And also that's how fun. Yeah, 300 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: I like really enjoy it. So I've been working a lot, 301 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: long story short of and working a lot and traveling, 302 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: which takes up a lot of time, and then yeah, 303 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: and finding that when I'm away and I come home, 304 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,240 Speaker 1: I really just want to soak up my time with 305 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: my family, so it's hard to to squeeze in those 306 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: other things where I really enjoyed the creative pieces of blogging. 307 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: I still have my website, but I haven't done anything 308 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: in a really long time. And and the podcast too. 309 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 1: We're just on a break. I'm not really sure what's 310 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 1: happening there, and I kind of feel free without it, 311 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Of course, that's how 312 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: it happened to me. Yeah, we recorded down in Beverly Hills, 313 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: So you know, I enjoyed it. I don't just don't know. 314 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 1: I'm a bit of a transitional face, so I'm not 315 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: sure what. But yeah, as much as I travel and 316 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 1: when I come home, I want to spend all of 317 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: my time with the kids. And that comes down to 318 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: even like you know, social media stuff like I really 319 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: kind of a veered away from doing any kind of 320 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: sam like paid post because it's not worth my time 321 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 1: or hurt, and I'm kind of like my goal and 322 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: it takes a lot of time. Yeah, my goal is 323 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: to be an influencer. That's not my goal. That's that 324 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 1: has been my goal. Like problem sharing, you know, products 325 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: or things that I truly feel good about or like 326 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: passionate about. Like I don't do it just for the check. 327 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: I'm not willing to sell my life for a paycheck. 328 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 1: Like that's not who I am. So, I you know, 329 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I'm just like I'm trying 330 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: to figure myself out again. Yeah, I feel the sway 331 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: a self help journey. I'm reading all of the books. 332 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, if you want to show you. Yes, 333 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: these for my girlfriend, for my girlfriends. I follow this 334 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: girl on Instagram. That's how we heal. Yeah, and she 335 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 1: is like a self help like account. But she you know, anyway, 336 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: I totally got like what do they call it? What 337 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: do the kids call it these days? TikTok TikTok. I 338 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 1: bought it. I got it. The kids call it, you 339 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But it's it's a self help book, 340 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: and it's a self healing book. And she posts a 341 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:44,199 Speaker 1: lot of uh inspirational things on Instagram. And so I 342 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 1: started her a long time ago and really love it 343 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 1: stuff that she put out. So I think that's where 344 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm at. I'm in a bit of a self healing journey. 345 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: Do you know what, I think that's awesome. I really 346 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: like that. I love that you are willing to talk 347 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:15,360 Speaker 1: about it openly and say, you know what, I want 348 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 1: to make sure my life is a quality I'm having 349 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 1: a quality life, you know, and why not go on 350 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 1: a self help journey. I've always felt like it was 351 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: so interesting that people don't talk about when they because 352 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 1: I'm I'm an open book, you know that, like if 353 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: I'm having a bad day. In general has just been 354 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: so telling for a long time. And also I think 355 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: that kind of transitioned right around the COVID time where 356 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 1: so many people struggling. People either thrived or they were 357 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: they were a mess. Do you know what I mean? 358 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 1: We thankfully thrived during COVID. I loved nothing good being 359 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 1: locked in my house with Stephen and our kids, like 360 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: it was years of my life. Like I loved it. It 361 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: It was the first time ever that we were home 362 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:01,880 Speaker 1: at the same time. I got to have dinner every 363 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,120 Speaker 1: single night with her. Do you know what I mean, 364 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: I loved not having to over commit myself and go 365 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: out there or do anything and just be able to 366 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: be with my kids every single night. I like that, 367 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: but I realized it was not that for a lot 368 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: of people. So mental health and mental health awareness and 369 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: suicide prevention, all of that has has been brought to 370 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: such a light in the last couple of years, where 371 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: it was so taboo to talk about before, Like, hey, 372 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 1: I'm mentally I'm struggling right now in face and I 373 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 1: so appreciate people who are not scared to say that 374 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,639 Speaker 1: right now. And I'm like, I pretty pride myself on 375 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: the fact that I've always been an open book, Like 376 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,239 Speaker 1: I don't really have a lot to hide. There are 377 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 1: obviously things that I keep close to my heart, and 378 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: when I'm ready, I will share things. That's just that's 379 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: how I process. But we all have pieces of trauma now, 380 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 1: whether it was like big pieces of trauma or little 381 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: pieces of trauma. Well, myself, I've been through a lot 382 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,160 Speaker 1: of trauma. My mom died when I was really young, 383 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: and that is hard. That causes deep rooted abandonment issues. 384 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: Like I'm pretty self aware of the things that I carry, 385 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 1: and that a place where I want to like fine 386 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: tune those things and I want to I want to 387 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: work on those things like right now, to be the 388 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: best version of myself. I keep saying this authentically for 389 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: who I am, and I truly understand that I have 390 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: my things too, Like I can be really loud, and 391 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 1: I can die away from the conflict I do not. 392 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: I'm pretty smart and I can handle myself. And I 393 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 1: believe in the things that I'm passionate about the things 394 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: that I believe in. And you know, like I have 395 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 1: a daughter, now you know this, Trista, Like I want 396 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: a strong young woman who is not afraid to stand 397 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 1: up for what she believes in and knows her self 398 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: worth and is proud herself. That is incordant to me. 399 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: So for sure, self self awareness journey here I am. 400 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: I I love it. I honestly I think that we 401 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,119 Speaker 1: all should be on a self awareness journey all the time. 402 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 1: Um yeah, I'm I'm an open book too. I have 403 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 1: shared many conversations with you about how I'm having a 404 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 1: bad time or a bad day or whatever is going on, 405 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: and and it it always is shocking to me when 406 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 1: other people don't, like you know what I mean. And 407 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: maybe not shocking. You don't have to do this alone. Right. 408 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 1: If you're having a bad day, it's okay. If you 409 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: feel fat, it's okay. Totally unworthy, it's okay those things. 410 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: But the whole, the whole point is that we are 411 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: not meant to do this alone, right, I mean, across 412 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: the board life in general, we are not meant to 413 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: do this alone. We are meant community. And you should 414 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: be able to lean on those people, your friends, your family, 415 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,479 Speaker 1: your husband, whoever that is. You should not being on 416 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 1: those people and be your true authentic self. And that 417 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: means if you're having a bad day or your having 418 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: terrible thoughts about your own self, your body, your emotions 419 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: are turning fifty one or whatever that is, like you're 420 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: allowed to voice that and you should feel and you 421 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 1: should feel supported. Right, No, agreed, And then back to 422 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: the influencer stuff. Like I feel the same way. I 423 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 1: will scroll on Instagram, but I don't post as much 424 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: just because I feel like it is so consuming in 425 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: terms of time and energy and a lot of negativity, 426 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: and so I don't spend as much time as I 427 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: use to. I mean, I like you if there's if 428 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: there's authenticity when it comes to posting um, you know, 429 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 1: doing campaigns with companies and helping them get the word 430 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: out about their companies. I'm all for it, but it 431 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: can't just be a paycheck for me. Like I remember Blakesley, Um, 432 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:52,959 Speaker 1: maybe she didn't say it, but it was kind of 433 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: uh insinuated that she'd want to be an influencer, and 434 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no no if that hit 435 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,439 Speaker 1: me too when I caught Addison recording videos of herself 436 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: on the iPad, going hey guys, nope, nope, no, no, 437 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 1: this will not be a goal like if you. I 438 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: feel like both of us landed in it. You know, 439 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: it wasn't around when we were on the Bachelorette, and 440 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: so it wasn't like we're um like Caitlin or Hannah 441 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: or it's like two million people from that yes, yes, isn't. 442 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: I think Twitter launched the day that my season of 443 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette was done. Er really, I mean, like I 444 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 1: didn't have to leave that era. And I always think, 445 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure you can sympathize with this with some of 446 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: the newer women who go on the show. Yeah, we didn't. 447 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 1: I wasn't followed by paparazzi. I didn't feel this innate 448 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: pressure to physically be a certain size or a certain 449 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 1: shift or a certain hair color. Like I didn't feel 450 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 1: that because there were there paparazzi hiding in Noon and Georgia. 451 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,640 Speaker 1: Like I went back to my home. My pass were 452 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 1: never to go on a show and become a famous person. 453 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: That was not totally stupid as it sounds. And I 454 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: say this over and over again every time I talked 455 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: to somebody or in every interview. I went on the 456 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 1: show for the right reasons, right, genuinely fine love. I 457 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: gotta say, stupid as it sounds, it's not stupid. Well, 458 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: some people look at that like it's stupid because the 459 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: girls are making lots of money now, like lots of things. 460 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: And I didn't ask for any of those things because 461 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't a thing back then. It wasn't a thing. 462 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 1: I will say though. We did have paparazzi following us, 463 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 1: and I had people knocking on our door. People found 464 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: our house, and I remember a mother and a daughter 465 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 1: they showed up at my door with a magazine like 466 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 1: wanted to get Yeah. It was like, wait, how did 467 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: you know? I was like, how did you find my address? 468 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: Um immediately called the phone company take my number off, 469 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: Like not that we've we had already done that, but 470 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,959 Speaker 1: it's just it's just and especially now with children too, 471 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 1: it is a source of protection. I tried to be 472 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: live a very normal life and you know you feel 473 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: the same, trusta It's always it's always very flattering when 474 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 1: someone still recognizes you from this, It is flattering. I 475 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: am always very happy when people see me in the 476 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: grocery store, yes, no makeup, looking like a hot mess, 477 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: and are not afraid to come up and say hello. 478 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,679 Speaker 1: I totally that say, oh my gosh, I enjoyed watching 479 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: your season. I like following you on social media. It's 480 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: so nice to meet you, Like I will absolutely hug you, 481 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: say it's nice to meet you too. Um, totally. It 482 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: kind of throws me through a loop when I'm seeing 483 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: like at school or something at school pick up and 484 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: to my kids, yeah no, I Dia. Addison's just now 485 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: at the age where she's like, somebody told me you 486 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: were on TV, you know, Like, but they don't they 487 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: don't know you haven't told him, well they know that. 488 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: I mean, Austin could care less, Like he's literally playing 489 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: the same as Max right now. Yeah, he does not care. 490 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: They recognized certain things like when we've had film crews 491 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: at the house to film it's watch it. The only 492 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: thing that happened was when Netflix released it was The 493 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,159 Speaker 1: Bachelor and Bachelor, but they re leased a couple of 494 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,439 Speaker 1: seasons and someone told me about it, and it was 495 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: like there was a like a screen cap above the 496 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 1: season of me kissing Jason Mesnick and Addison. Who's that man? 497 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 1: And why are you kissing him? Not my daddy? And 498 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: I was like, this is how do I explained that? Oh? 499 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: My gosh right, you know, so I just I do 500 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,360 Speaker 1: if she asked, and I don't. Like. Like, she got 501 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 1: in the car a couple of weeks ago from school 502 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: and she goes, Mommy, why don't you tell me you 503 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 1: were famous? And I was like started laughing. First off, 504 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: Christmas because you know me and you know me. I 505 00:27:56,240 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: was like, first off, I am not famous, I'm not us. 506 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: Second off, why are you asking that? She goes, oh, 507 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 1: well someone told me at school and I was like, well, 508 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,919 Speaker 1: who that's that's strange, And she was like, I don't know. 509 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: Somebody told me at school that their mommy saw you 510 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 1: saw her at school and their mommy told me that 511 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: she was on TV and you guys are famous, and 512 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, oh my god. Like, 513 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 1: so there's a couple of I may feel a little 514 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: guarded then, you know, because there is a piece of 515 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you can relate to this, there's a 516 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 1: piece of going on the show where people think they 517 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 1: know who you are, really know who you are? Do 518 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: you know what they of me? Television show that millions 519 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 1: of people watched, but it doesn't mean that they truly 520 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: know me. So I've actually found, like in my adult life, 521 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: that I tend to be pretty guarded. If someone comes 522 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: out of the gate and says, oh my gosh, I 523 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: saw you on the Bachelor and I totally watched your season, 524 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: I immediately become guarded. I feel like a I can't 525 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: be vulnerable, yeah right, I can't be who I truly 526 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: am because these people have this preconceived notion of who 527 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: they think I am. Yeah right. And there's social media, 528 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: so if they take a picture or if they take 529 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: a video and you have resting bitch base and you're 530 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: not smiling, you're a raging bitch and exactly like to 531 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: each their own again, take me happy, Like I'm just 532 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: trying to please me. So so that's that. And then 533 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 1: this is a quick funny story. Well I started on 534 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,719 Speaker 1: this tangent because you had texted me and asked if 535 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: I was watching Bachelor in Paradise, and like, this is 536 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: why I'm not because I have no free time. I 537 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 1: would like to watch Paradise. I do really enjoy it. 538 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: I have not been able to watch this season at 539 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: all because I just don't have a lot of free time. 540 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: And I go to bed at the clock when I 541 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: put my kids to bed. So there's but good for you. Yeah, 542 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 1: I like a solid twelve hours night. Yes, amazing. There 543 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: was a situation that happened a couple of weeks ago 544 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: where we have a cleaning lady. She comes every two 545 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: weeks and it's been one thing that Stephen and I 546 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: don't ever fight about is keeping house clean. So I 547 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 1: will will pay for it. Like I work full time too, 548 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't have time right to clean the house. It 549 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 1: is money well spent to me. She's been with us 550 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: and cleaning her home for several years, like five years 551 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: or something like that. And I didn't know that you 552 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: could change your venmo to be private so that people 553 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: can't see you know, your pay history or whatever. Oh yes, right, 554 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 1: so I didn't know that it's changed now, but so 555 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: I sent her a venmo to pay her one time 556 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: for cleaning my home. And then like two weeks later 557 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: she was over and she was they were kind of laughing, 558 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 1: her and another girl, and I was like, what are 559 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: you laughing at? And they were like, well, we found 560 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: out you were on TV. And I was like, that's 561 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: so weird. How and she goes, well, another woman's house 562 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: that I clean. I saw your house and I was like, 563 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: oh god, how would she know that? And she was 564 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: like I don't know, but she asked me if I 565 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: cleaned your house, and then she was asking me things 566 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 1: like do you have a nice house? Are you? And 567 00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 1: oh my god, it was like yikes, wrong, wrong, wrong. 568 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: I was like, well right, and she was like no. 569 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,080 Speaker 1: I just told her that your guys are great and 570 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 1: your kids are great, like you're really nice people. But 571 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: like this woman said, will you give her my number 572 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: so that we can hang out? And he likes like really, 573 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: oh my, that is bold, like kind of over the 574 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 1: not not even kind of over the line. Bold. Yeah. 575 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: I literally was like, no, please, don't give out my 576 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: phone number? Oh yeah, or you will be fired. Yeah. Anyway, 577 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: she was really nice about it. You know, this woman 578 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: is really nice to you know. Blah blah blah. She 579 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: just of the show that you were on, and I 580 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I totally totally get that. I understand that. 581 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 1: I get that. Yeah, yeah, there's just you know, then 582 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 1: I go into that place where I'm immediately guarded, you know, yes, yes, Okay, 583 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 1: well now I can't be me. I can't be who 584 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: I truly ain't right, So were you thinking of um 585 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: hiring someone else? Isn't that like, because I can imagine that. Okay, good, 586 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: and she does such a great job and I trust her. Yeah, 587 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: please don't tell people where it so one like on venmo. 588 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: That's how she found out that that she cleaned our 589 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,360 Speaker 1: crazy It was public on NMO that I had. Yes, yes, 590 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: I guess she went to venmo her and then she 591 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 1: saw on the paid history that like I have recently 592 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 1: been mode her. It's weird, you know her. Okay, I 593 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: am doing that, like immediately after I get off the 594 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: phone and I'm making it private. It was like, oh 595 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 1: my god, let's change your venmodor private right now so 596 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: people can't see those things. Yeah. Yeah, there's no reason 597 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: that anyone needs to know that I'm paying my daughter's 598 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: friend's mom for snacks. Like, um, okay, I know you're 599 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: not doing the the podcast anymore, but or you're kind 600 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: of on a little break, but I'd love to hear. 601 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: I know, you guys basically just shared everything like there 602 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: was lots of laughter. Is there one story that stands 603 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 1: out that you can share with us from from the podcast? 604 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: It's called Flashbacks People. By the way, if you want 605 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 1: to go back and listen a lot of fun, I would, 606 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: I will tell you that, Like I like that it 607 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: is a really lighthearted show. We the whole address. I 608 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: am definitely more of a serious person than Jessica. Like 609 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 1: she's um, she's just a lot of fun. Like she 610 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: likes to hear like old fun stories. She wants to 611 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 1: hear your drunken stories. She wants to hear when you 612 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: fell down at a club, like she wants to hear 613 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: those things. Yes, I do like to have fun and 614 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: I am a funny person, but I just am more 615 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: I just like genuinely want to be who I am. 616 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: So if I go in and I'm in that mood 617 00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: or whatever, then I feel like that's okay to talk about. 618 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: And I also think that people appreciate about me that 619 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 1: I yeah, I'm not fake in any way, shape or form. 620 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: So totally I'm trying to think because we've had a 621 00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 1: lot of really fun guests on and we've heard a 622 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: lot of really fun stories that there was early on 623 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 1: there was this woman named jesse I think her name was, 624 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: and Jessica knew her from the Playboy Mansion. They had 625 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: I think posed years ago or something like that. That's 626 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 1: how I need chased each other. But we got to 627 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: laughing because she told us a story about how, for 628 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: some reason, everybody always had a Leonardo DiCaprio story. So 629 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 1: like this girl in particular, she waits until the very 630 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: end of the podcast, and the podcast was a bit 631 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: serious at the time, and we talked about her health. 632 00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 1: She had just some health stuff going on, and then Marian, 633 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: We're like, okay, well tell us like your favorite flashback. 634 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 1: We do that like towards the end, like do you 635 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 1: have a back? So hers we said, do you have 636 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 1: a favorite Hollywood flashback of like your time in l 637 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 1: A And she was like, oh, yeah, I went to 638 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,719 Speaker 1: this club one time and then I slept with you know, 639 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,919 Speaker 1: DiCaprio and I'm pretty sure he might be my son's father. 640 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,879 Speaker 1: And we were like, I'm sorry, you just went this 641 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: whole hour on this podcast without telling us that you 642 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: slept with Leonardo DiCaprio, which you think his crime. You 643 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,279 Speaker 1: know what I mean. It was about twenty years ago, 644 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 1: and now I have a son who looks oddly a 645 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: lot like Leonardo DiCaprio. Did you ever follow up with 646 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 1: her or did Jessica ever talk to her afterwards and 647 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 1: see if she did a fraternity No? No, I think 648 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: she was like quasi joking, but she's one of those 649 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: people like you can't tell if she's joking or not. 650 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: She was like she's like six foot and she's like 651 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: blond and beautiful and does yoga yes body. But I 652 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: start following her on social media and she'll post pictures 653 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: of her son and I'm literally like, oh my god, 654 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: he he could be Leonardo to cap your son like 655 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 1: he's and he's about that age where like this could 656 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 1: have happened around the same time. So anyway, we got 657 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 1: to laughing so hard because it seemed like every time 658 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: we had a guest on, someone had a story of 659 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: Leonardo DiCaprio. Had a story of Leo and so like 660 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 1: we could just got to the point where we started laughing. 661 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 1: We were like Leo, we would just like die it. 662 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: Do you have a good slashback Trista from Hollow when 663 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: you must have someone? I was literally just going to 664 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: ask you the same question. I'm like, well, wait, okay, 665 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 1: tell me this woman was talking about Leo. I want 666 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,919 Speaker 1: to know if you've ever run in like you live 667 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: in l A. So I want to know if you 668 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: ever run into any famous people or if you ever 669 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: run into bachelor people. I don't run into bachelor people 670 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: a lot. You don't live I don't live like in Hollywood. 671 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 1: I know, I know, but still, or even when you're traveling, 672 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 1: like I knew you were just in New York, Like 673 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 1: did you see anyone there? You know what I mean? 674 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: You did the first night there, my pilots and I 675 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 1: were going to dinner. We went to this really yoummy 676 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,080 Speaker 1: Italian restaurant. Next time you're in the city, I'll have 677 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: to let you know Hotel met All. I had lamb 678 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 1: bolonaise that I like to eat, and I was literally 679 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 1: like it was the best thing I've ever had. And 680 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: I was like, this is life changing. This is like 681 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 1: we were walking and it was really cold and sure enough, 682 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,799 Speaker 1: and you know, it was funny because people will say 683 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 1: this to me too, like, oh, I didn't see you 684 00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 1: at first, but I could recognize your voice. I knew, 685 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: I knew your voice. Yes, you were walking down um 686 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: and we were in the Financial District and we were 687 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 1: walking down to the restaurant. And then sure enough I 688 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 1: heard her say thanks guys, and I turned and looked 689 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 1: and it was Ellen pump Pumpei Pompey Pompeio from Gray Yes, 690 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 1: just announced that she was leaving great as soon as 691 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: I saw I turned and looked, and I was like, 692 00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 1: and she was like just getting out of her car 693 00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: and walking into a hotel. She was like, thanks, guys, 694 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 1: like totally normal, total no one around, no one, Yes, right, 695 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,320 Speaker 1: I love christ. I didn't say anything. You didn't say anything, 696 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: You didn't say no, no, no, Yeah, but I saw her. 697 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: Sometimes when I fly, you know, it's because well, we're 698 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: not allowed to say anything, so I'm not. But I 699 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 1: flowned some really big celebrities and I don't get star 700 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: struck a lot. I don't know if it's just because 701 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: the industry that we're in and you know l A 702 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,839 Speaker 1: all the time, you know what I mean. Yeah, So 703 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people to get star struck. 704 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 1: But I saw jay Z one time. Uh huh. It 705 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,319 Speaker 1: was like that would be big smokes, It's jay Z, right, 706 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,359 Speaker 1: And then in my head in time as he standing there, 707 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: I kept going, I was like singing his song in 708 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,359 Speaker 1: my head and I couldn't. I couldn't, like I could 709 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: not even like carry on a conversation. Was like, oh 710 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,319 Speaker 1: my gosh, okay, you just reminded me of a really 711 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,880 Speaker 1: fun flashback that I do have. Okay, So I was 712 00:37:56,960 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: dancing for the Miami Heat and um, huge basketball fan, 713 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: huge Michael Jordan fan, like huge Michael Jordan fan, and 714 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: I was sitting. So at that point in time, we 715 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: sat on the court. Now they don't sit on the 716 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: court anymore, probably because we got stepped on so many times, 717 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 1: but yes, exactly, UM with really big feet. So we 718 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: were on the court and we were you know what 719 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 1: they say, they have big so sitting across from the 720 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 1: opposing team, not the Heat, but the opposing team, and 721 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: they happened to be the I think the Washington Wizards 722 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: is who he was playing for at the time. It 723 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: was Michael Jordan's. So Michael Jordan was sitting right across 724 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,800 Speaker 1: from me, like right across from me, and I realized 725 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 1: that I was staring at him. Well, he turns and 726 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: we lock eyes right and you just reminded me that 727 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: when you started singing New York with jay Z like around, 728 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 1: this is similar to what I did. So we lock 729 00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,759 Speaker 1: eyes and we are staring at each other. And it 730 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,879 Speaker 1: probably wasn't for that long, but you know, when you're 731 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: in an in an eye lock, it seems like forever, 732 00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 1: like it seems like I couldn't look away. I was like, um, 733 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan's is staring at me, like I literally can't 734 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,399 Speaker 1: look away. And after we were staring at each other 735 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 1: for I would say a good like maybe like ten seconds, 736 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 1: which is a long time, A long time to right 737 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 1: one another. I and maybe it was less because I 738 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 1: felt like it was longer, but I said I worded 739 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 1: or I mouthed the words Michael Jordan's like, well, it's 740 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: like you say, singing New York, New York like with 741 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: jay Z, Like okay, yeah, that's my song. So you know, 742 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: like I'm STI ring at Michael Jordan's and I don't 743 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:11,320 Speaker 1: say call me or meet me after, I love you, 744 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: or I say his freaking name, and he was scaring 745 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: locked eyes, and you go, Michael Jordan, stupid. It's so stupid. 746 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: I mean, your life could have changed. I was literally 747 00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: just gonna say that. Oh my gosh, it was so right, 748 00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,200 Speaker 1: Like had I met like if I said meet me after, 749 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: maybe you would have met me after, and maybe we 750 00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: would have gotten into this love affair. Probably not, but um, 751 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,280 Speaker 1: but you know, it totally could have changed the trajectory 752 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 1: of my life. But that's my fun flashback five too. 753 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: And now we're tally it would be what's that movie 754 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:58,120 Speaker 1: with Danny and the other guys really tall, like giants 755 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: or something or brothers? What was it? Something like that. 756 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's so funny. I'm going on. Michael 757 00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 1: Keaton one time you did pretty early on, like right 758 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 1: after the Bachelorette. He was like, let me take you out, 759 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm engaged, like Steve, You're like hello, 760 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and he literally was like you could wear 761 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:24,320 Speaker 1: it or not, but let me take Oh Michael Keaton 762 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: right now, but flatter Thank you sir, Yeah, thank you 763 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:31,839 Speaker 1: so much, Thank you so much. All right. Well, I 764 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 1: love talking to you. We could just we could talk 765 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: all day. Um, I miss you, and happy birthday, and 766 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,840 Speaker 1: give the kids a big hug for me. I am 767 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,920 Speaker 1: so thankful that you joined us and Bob oh. I 768 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 1: do have to say Bob was very sad harassing me 769 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 1: and he's not even here today. I know he's traveling, 770 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 1: and he wrote, um, like he texted our group text 771 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: with the producers and stuff that he was going to 772 00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,439 Speaker 1: be in a car probably getting out at the time 773 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 1: that we were doing it, and he just didn't want 774 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 1: to interrupt the interview. So um, he sends his love 775 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: and he wishes he was here. I wish he was 776 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: here too, But we had lots of fun chatting. So um, 777 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 1: we miss you Bob. Next time. UM, I'm Mr Guinea. 778 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,320 Speaker 1: That's right, Thank you, sister. I hope you have a 779 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 1: great time on your trip. Thank you. I wish you 780 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: be wonderful. You're doing great. Fifty no, fifty, sorry that 781 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 1: it's all good. Yes, yes, it's all good. This is 782 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: what happens is great. Forty one is great. Forty one 783 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: is great. That's forty one is great. Um you two 784 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: right back at you. I love you. Thank you. Okay 785 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: bye