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Speaker 1: I Almost Famous podcast with R Radio. This has been

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Speaker 1: and we don't have Ashley to day. We have a

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Speaker 1: very special co host, Kindles in the house. Hello, can

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Speaker 1: along from The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise. She's found

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Speaker 1: gonna be around the whole podcast talking everything Bachelor, We're

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Speaker 1: talking everything Colton, and we're gonna catch up on her life. Kindle,

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Speaker 1: you've just gotten back to l A. You've been traveling.

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Speaker 1: What in the world have been up to? Um? Well,

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Speaker 1: Joe is on Dancing with the Stars tour right now,

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Speaker 1: so I've been living the bus life with him. Um,

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Speaker 1: know this, So so, Joe, your boyfriend went on Dance

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Speaker 1: But then after the show, they go on tour and

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Speaker 1: pirate ship is an hour from l A. Like, going

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Speaker 1: all the way back to the mansion changing getting ready

426
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Speaker 1: for the Unian portion is a lot. So you go

427
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: to this hotel, they get your food, you eat, but

428
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 1: it is a mad rush. I mean, I think I

429
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:19,720
Speaker 1: remember as the guys, there was like two or three

430
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 1: rooms they would use for like ten of us, and

431
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 1: we would all be in there trying to throw our

432
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: suits on you, spraying cologne, doing our hair. It's a

433
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,600
Speaker 1: wild party. But it's I think for our listeners it's

434
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,880
Speaker 1: It's actually a lot of fun because where you start

435
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,880
Speaker 1: to bond with the other contestants, Oh yeah, you definitely

436
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 1: and helping each other out. The one thing I really

437
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:42,120
Speaker 1: loved about all the mad Rushes was that, um, people

438
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 1: would ask what would you want to borrow my clothes?

439
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 1: Or do you need to use my mirror makeup? And um,

440
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: there's a lot of like female bonding. At least I

441
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 1: can speak for our season when when you were pushed

442
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: by you had the pressure of having to get ready.

443
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: The girls always wanted me to do their eyebrows, Like, Astley,

444
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 1: if you have a little larrd time, can you please

445
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 1: do my eyebrows? I would definitely be one of those

446
00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 1: people because my sister does my eyebrows for me. She's

447
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: way more talented than I am, and so I would

448
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 1: be one of those girls asking you tell me, um,

449
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: actually you're not with us this week. Before we get

450
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: back into the Bachelor talk, we're summing up Colton's third

451
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 1: episode of his season. Where are you and what are

452
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:26,879
Speaker 1: you doing? Um? It is me, Jared obviously, Carly and

453
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: Evan and we're down at the Secrets Resort in Cancoon

454
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 1: doing a piece for entertainment tonight. Oh that's sounds so nice.

455
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: You love fash. You're getting paid to go to the

456
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: Cancoon Secrets Resort for entertainment tonight. You know what, I

457
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: envy you sometimes. Well, you know what, then, I'm sure

458
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: you're given funny similar opportunities. Um well, actual, we miss

459
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 1: you here in studio. But everybody's wondering. What's your opinion

460
00:22:55,600 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: so far? After episode three? Uncle on Colton, I think

461
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: I think I still feel the same about Bolt and

462
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 1: I think he's just like a superbinized great guy. I

463
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: think it's been a really good bassler. I think like

464
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 1: this episode, he's really gotten comfortable and he's taking charge

465
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: and leading the hole to bag. But I kind of

466
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: said the same thing. We really thought he his his

467
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 1: like he put his foot down this week. Yeah, yeah,

468
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 1: he's in control now. I think he did enough observing

469
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 1: and now he feels okay to like get in. You

470
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 1: can see he's getting really giddy and excited about certain girls,

471
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: and it shows in his face too when he talks

472
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: about certain people. You see him like starting to like

473
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: he can't help but break a little smile or get

474
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: really cute, and um yeah, I actually I love seeing that.

475
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 1: It's like the initial Of course you have the initial connection,

476
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 1: but then you start seeing those connections get more in depth,

477
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 1: and it is kind of like seeing the honeymoon phase

478
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 1: of the beginning of starting to discover relationship. And that's

479
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: one of my favorite parts. Yeah, it's really not a

480
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: challenge to tell which girls he liked and which ones

481
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: he doesn't really give enough about. Definitely, it's so easy.

482
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 1: That's one thing he's so easy to. You know, I

483
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: want to hear your as opinions. One thing I wrote down.

484
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: You know, we've watched the show for years. Most people

485
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: out there listening have the you can always kind of

486
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: tell who he's into and who you know, there's a

487
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: sense of it's going to be the real deal when

488
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 1: you don't see a lot of them for the first

489
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: couple of weeks and you're like, I wish I saw

490
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 1: more of you. One is, we haven't seen anything from

491
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Speaker 1: my girl Brie, nothing like nothing from Brie yet. Uh.

492
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: And then also Cassie and Hannah Gee. Other than Hannah Gee,

493
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Speaker 1: you know, on the first night, we haven't heard from her.

494
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: I want to hear your three your opinions. Do you

495
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: think that means those three your big players? This season No,

496
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: Ben Hannah g had a very significant role. I felt

497
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 1: like an episode two he was like him with her

498
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: during that group day, he was like all over her

499
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: and like really established that they liked each other already.

500
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: So I think that's why she had a break this week.

501
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 1: And then and this episode, Alice really came out as

502
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: a as one of the the people that you really like.

503
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,399
Speaker 1: So did Kaylin. Oh. I loved Lisa's date. That was

504
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: adorable to me too, genuinely, and her stories the saddest

505
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 1: and they have a lot of common as well. But

506
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: the charity is totally do you think the Bree Cassie thing? Then,

507
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: I mean, am I wrong on that or have I

508
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: missed a com We have not seen a lot of Cassie.

509
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: And then Bree. I think she's really pretty and she

510
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: got some attention for her parents and maybe her entrance

511
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 1: with the Australian accent. And also I always remember that

512
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: in the beginning of our season um in the first

513
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: couple of weeks, Lauren and myself both didn't get a

514
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: date as well, just like Hannah didn't get a date.

515
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: So I feel like maybe because like he said, he

516
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: was talking to Hannah and he did say that he

517
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: felt so confident in her relationship that he wanted to

518
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: get to know most like some of the other girls

519
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,640
Speaker 1: better and establish those relationships. So it's it's hard. It's

520
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: hard to balance that many women, and if you do

521
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: feel confident about somebody, maybe you can put the relationship

522
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: on a backburner while you're trying to give other people

523
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: a chance to show who they truly are. Yeah, I

524
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: completely agree. I think a lot of the time, the

525
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 1: front runners, the ones that they're set on, they don't

526
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: get dates the first couple of weeks. But for some reason,

527
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: I don't feel like Bree is one of those examples.

528
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: I feel like he's going to fall at the wayside.

529
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: I don't think she's really captured him with any conversation

530
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: so far. That's too bad. You know who she kind

531
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: of reminds me of more for you, Ben, But then again,

532
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: we all know that you're seeing someone. Yeah. I was

533
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,640
Speaker 1: gonna say, I'm just I'm just I'm just talking now,

534
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm just a talker, talking head um, no action involved.

535
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: But you know Ashley, who she reminds me of who

536
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: We used to talk about a lot. Who I got

537
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: to know a little bit, not a lot outside the show.

538
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: She's great. Is there the Whitney Friends way? I think

539
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: her name is um Oh, yeah, she's beautiful, gorgeous. We

540
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: watched that season, We're like, why isn't she shown more

541
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: like she is, like stunning, and then they just never

542
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,719
Speaker 1: did and then she was gone and we never got

543
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,479
Speaker 1: to know anything about Whitney. That's so crazy about Whitney

544
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: is that she made it to like top eight, but

545
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: we still never really got to know her, just like

546
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: on my season, we never got to Samantha until Paradise.

547
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: I think Samantha had two lines on my tea then. Yeah,

548
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: it's really weird. It's kind of there. There's always that

549
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: that one that is beautiful, stunning, But we don't see

550
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: a lot from will be in see if we we

551
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 1: see much from Bree. Uh. Hey, Ash, I know that

552
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: you've called in to talk back, So we've also caught

553
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: in to tell all of our listeners about one of

554
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: you and Jared's favorite brands. Yeah. So recently Jared and

555
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: I registered at greaton Barrel and it was a really

556
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,160
Speaker 1: fun morning that we had to go. We went in

557
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: and we discovered that we wanted so many Houselar items

558
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 1: that we really never even thought of like once before

559
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: in our life, but then you see it, You're like,

560
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I want to have that. I think

561
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: we could have registered for everything in that store if

562
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: we had, you know, multiple huge houses, but we seriously

563
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: wanted everything right there. Yeah. Well this is Jared by

564
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 1: the way time because my ears worked up. It was

565
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: probably one of the coolest days because it feels like

566
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: you're just shopping for free. And I love Grhan Barrow.

567
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: We watched a lot of you know, uh house Owners

568
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: at TV all that good stuff, so now we're very

569
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: much into buying for our dream home one day and

570
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: so going to gran Barrow's like ooh I like that,

571
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: Oh I like this. It felt like we were shopping

572
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: for free, which was awesome. He means shopping for free

573
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: because the registry so that people are going to mean

574
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: buy and for us and we can stick out where

575
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: we walk and not have to actually spriend the money. Um.

576
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: I love the fact that if we were debating on something, well,

577
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: we didn't know we were going to want it in

578
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: the store and then we came home we were still

579
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: thinking about it. We can go online or on the

580
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: apps and just added to our registry. And I think

581
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: we're even gonna go shop a little bit more this

582
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: week and registried for some more things because just like

583
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: browsing around the store is so much fun. Um, the

584
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: Crate and Barrel employees are so knowledgeable about all the products,

585
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: so you know that what you're adding key registry is

586
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: perfect for your home and lifestyle. And what I love

587
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: is that Straight and Barrel has these pieces that are

588
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: there timeless, they're classics. They are going to go with

589
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: whatever short of decor you're gonna make your house, even

590
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: in ten years, you know. Yeah, it was just so

591
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: much fun when we were in there. We're even thinking

592
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: about eating healthier because there are so many tools to

593
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: make food healthy. Food's fun. I was like, I need

594
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: to do sir. I want that mixer. I want that

595
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: um like the salad toss or you know, the one

596
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: that cleans your lettuce. I would eat salad so more

597
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: if I had the solid cleaner. So anyway, because Cranton Barrel,

598
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: it's great, it's going to evolve with your style. We're

599
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: going to go back because they can't get enough. And

600
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:13,239
Speaker 1: you can start your registry at Cranton Barrel now at

601
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Speaker 1: Cranon Barrel dot COM's last gift registry, So head over

602
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Speaker 1: to Cranton Barrel dot com and start your your Creton

603
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: Barrel wedding registry right now, ash before you go, I know,

604
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: are you able to hang out on the beach at

605
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: all with Jared? This week we hung out a little

606
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: bit on the beach. I like in this old part

607
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: now because I like want to lie in bed and

608
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: get extra sleep when we are on like a working vacation,

609
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: then lie out and get tanned. Like I know I'm

610
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: old now because getting tan is not the point of

611
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: a vacation. Just getting restive, Ashley, I love you. You've

612
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: just this is the weirdest year of my life to

613
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: just watch you transition. This is the best ever. That's

614
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: so on it. That's not actually I knew a year ago.

615
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: I know it's kind of sad. Oh no, you're doing great. Um,

616
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,479
Speaker 1: But I really want to hear how you and Kindle

617
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: feel about Demmi. This is a topic that's blowing up

618
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: our emails. Our Twitter handle is going crazy. People can't

619
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: figure out Demi. They don't hate her, you know, she's

620
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: not a villain. She's just confusing. And I want to

621
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: hear it. You and kindle thing kindall you go first. Um,

622
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: I think she's adorable. At the same time, it's the

623
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: age shaming is difficult for me to get over. I

624
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: feel like, um, I feel like it's already difficult to

625
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: go into a situation with a bunch of younger girls,

626
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: and if you are older than the bachelor, Um, it's,

627
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's not as easy. And I see that

628
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: she's been making fun of Tracy a lot, and um,

629
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, it kind of makes me cringe a

630
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,479
Speaker 1: little bit. It doesn't make me cringe a little bit.

631
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's intending to be mean or

632
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: ages at all, but um, it's you know, it kind

633
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: of left you the bad taste in my mouth about her.

634
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: I think he's just being a total ham. I think

635
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: she's just saying anything that's gonna like stir people. I

636
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: don't think she's a villain like he said, Ben, She's

637
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Speaker 1: I definitely, I definitely love seeing a lot of her

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00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: dates though that were like, Okay, that was a defining

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Speaker 1: moment in this season. It was incredible to watch. But

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Speaker 1: fact that her story is impactful and incredible and she's

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Speaker 1: used it. Like she said, I thought this was the

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Speaker 1: cool thing that got me just so hyped um listening

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Speaker 1: to her was she said, you know, those pain, those

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Speaker 1: platform to make something better. Uh, And that really to

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Speaker 1: for somebody else, and so for me, I just I

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745
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Speaker 1: get to know her better through this season. Same same,

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Speaker 1: I'm very excited to get to know her moving on. Then, Uh,

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Speaker 1: we'll mark Elise's date up to an A plus. We'll

748
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Speaker 1: say it was great. Uh, we're really really just thankful

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Speaker 1: that she's on this season and that we again, you know,

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Speaker 1: onto this show because it just represents this whole thing

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Speaker 1: a lot better. And somebody else that represents Batchel Nation

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Speaker 1: really well. Is our next in studio guest, Rebecca Cruizes

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Speaker 1: Almost famous podcast. What's good guys? How are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: glad to be here. We are just a little bit

757
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Speaker 1: of briefing. We saw Rebecca and her husband Terry on

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Speaker 1: this last episode of The Bachelor, leading the women through

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Speaker 1: their final group day of the episode. Rebecca, I know

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Speaker 1: Kennell's got a was in questions. I want to start

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Speaker 1: by saying, how in the world did you get on

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Speaker 1: this show? Uh? Well, you know what I got on

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Speaker 1: the show because I've been married for thirty years to

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Speaker 1: this amazing actor. Who um people too, I guess people

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Speaker 1: a reality show a few years back, and so we've

768
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: just gotten a lot of love and respect and support

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Speaker 1: We've been through a lot, and somebody, you know, some

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Speaker 1: power that'd be, decided that we should come on and

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Speaker 1: give some advice and it was tremendously exciting to do so.

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Speaker 1: I absolutely loved that date because you see a different

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Speaker 1: side of someone when they are pushed to their limit. Pasically,

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Speaker 1: did you see? I mean, which girls stood out to you?

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Speaker 1: That's that's interesting. You were talking about Elise. Yes, Um,

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Speaker 1: I won't say that she stood out physically, but she

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Speaker 1: did stand out in that I felt that Colton ran

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Speaker 1: to her aid quite frequently, Like when she was pushing

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Speaker 1: And I was like, somebody has captured the heart. I'm

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Speaker 1: a teammate with somebody and help them, it's such a

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Speaker 1: male thing, right to rescue, to dive in. You know,

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Speaker 1: course capable of doing that, but wanting to be there

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Speaker 1: and wanting to support her right. And look, we're we

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Speaker 1: give birth to children, We do all kinds of very

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm like, thank you, honey, I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: And what was it? What was your favorite challenge on

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Speaker 1: that date? My favorite challenge had to be what was

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Speaker 1: They had to run with the heart and put it

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Speaker 1: of the pedestal. I I love that because, um, it's

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Speaker 1: some of the others like watching them push the sled.

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Speaker 1: I just thought, why are we doing this in this

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Speaker 1: ugly lot with rocks? And pulling the limo too? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I almost feel like who was the first girl that

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Speaker 1: seems so easy, yeah, to like, you know, that's that's

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Speaker 1: fill me in a little bit. So how hard is

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Speaker 1: it to pool of mill? Well, in reality, if a

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Speaker 1: of females could push a car. But pushing is a

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Speaker 1: stronger position of strength than pulling. Pulling is very difficult.

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Speaker 1: So you know, just I was, I used to play track,

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Speaker 1: it is not nearly as difficult as like using that

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00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 1: upper body torque and and trying to walk forward. You know,

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Speaker 1: somebody thought that was a good idea. All I was

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Speaker 1: thinking is we're gonna have to fix this real quick.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean tracking across country as well

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Speaker 1: college and um, definitely, I mean I think the legs

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Speaker 1: of the Powerhouse of the Woman. Yeah, and so in

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Speaker 1: just it was just fun to watch. It's just fun

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Speaker 1: You know. It's why we love those silly little obstacle

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839
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Speaker 1: balance it? You know, and it's quick motion, you know.

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Speaker 1: Some of the other challenges, Um, we're kind of slow

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00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: but it's not real fun to watch. Well, it's interesting

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Speaker 1: because in terms of the dynamic of the girls because

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848
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: remember everybody, but there I'm looking at their pictures. Hold on,

849
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm looking at their pictures and I remember one girl.

850
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: Every time she came running around the ring, she was

851
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: jumping up, hugging Colton. Should you trying a little hard? Rebecca?

852
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: As we as we continue on here, if if you

853
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: could give one piece of advice these women right, and

854
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: not on the Bachelor, and not how to get through

855
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: reality television, but just how to build and find that

856
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 1: relationship that matters? What would you and Terry say? Now

857
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 1: now you write up my alley, honeygun, because let me

858
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: tell you something. I'm working on a book called How

859
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 1: to Find and Marry the Right Man, and they're they're

860
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:32,760
Speaker 1: the One thing that I absolutely say about this process,

861
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: this journey of finding the person that you think you

862
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: want to spend your life with, is that first of all,

863
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: you have to know who you are and what you

864
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,359
Speaker 1: really want there there are so many people who fall

865
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: in love with someone who does not want the same

866
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: things they want in life, and then you're in love,

867
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 1: but you're in disagreement, you're not on the same path,

868
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: and ultimately those choices um dissolve your union. You know,

869
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: I've seen people that are dating each other live together.

870
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: He wants kids and she doesn't. That's a very big

871
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: deal breaker. She's a huge deal breaker. Um career. I

872
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: knew that I wanted to marry somebody in the arts

873
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: because that's what I was doing. And and so, believe

874
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: it or not, I made a list. Okay, Boo had

875
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 1: to fill out an application to get with me because

876
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 1: I had a list of all these things. I said,

877
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 1: he has to want kids at least four. He has

878
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: to love the arts, either music or acting or turned out,

879
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: my husband was a visual artist and he also was

880
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 1: a breakdancer back in the day, which you've gout have

881
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: seen him doing all these movies. Um, so he loved performing,

882
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: though that wasn't what he was studying in school. And uh,

883
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: and then I said, you know, I want a man

884
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: who has faith. I want someone that shares my values,

885
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: you know. And I kind of had this list, you know,

886
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: this kind of picture, and I had a picture of

887
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 1: where I wanted to go. So if you want to

888
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 1: go work on the pipeline in Alaska, I'm not dating you.

889
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm not going to Alaska. Okay. I grew up in

890
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 1: the cold. I grew up in Indiana, went to college

891
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: in Michigan. I wanted to live in the warm weather.

892
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 1: So when my timeca where you grew up in Indiana, Gary, Indiana. Honey, Michael, Yes,

893
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 1: so who you're in the house but you. But you've

894
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: got to know who you are and what you want,

895
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: and then you got to know what you don't want.

896
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: You know, if you're dating a guy who doesn't pay

897
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 1: his bills, that's not gonna be cute when he's your husband.

898
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 1: You know, because one thing I remember, my my pastor

899
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 1: said to me years ago before he married my husband

900
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,879
Speaker 1: and I He said, you have to love him enough

901
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: that if you close your eyes today and he never changes,

902
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: could you live with him the rest of your life.

903
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 1: I was just talking about that with my friend and saying,

904
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: you don't want to walk down the eyele with somebody

905
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 1: that you feel like, oh, there's something that's a little

906
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 1: bit off. But we'll figure this out as we go on. Honey,

907
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: You're gonna be living with it, is what you're gonna do.

908
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: Because because people don't change a whole lot. I'm not

909
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 1: saying people don't grow and change, but you cannot live

910
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 1: um in a loving relationship always trying to change someone.

911
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: And listen, we all do. We all have things that

912
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: we wish they do better. Pick up your clothes or

913
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 1: clothes the youth based or put the seat down or

914
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: you know, those are little things, but if you have major,

915
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:39,720
Speaker 1: major disagreements about what you want in life, no amount

916
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 1: of force is going to turn that person into your

917
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:48,800
Speaker 1: your dream spouse or your dream lover. It's it's um,

918
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: It's a good bit of wisdom that I took, and

919
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: I believe with all my heart. It's why I still

920
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: am married to my college sweetheart. Yeah. And I think

921
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 1: the most important thing for me, especially one thing that

922
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: has been different with Joe than anyone else that have

923
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:06,760
Speaker 1: ever dated is that his amount of kindness and empathy

924
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: towards other people, right, it is remarkable and that's a huge,

925
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: huge thing for me. And also finding someone I could

926
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: laugh at with my family one of the major if

927
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 1: we whenever we went through something heartbreaking or difficult, we

928
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: would learn to laugh at it. And so I feel

929
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: like having the same humor is incredibly important as well.

930
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: And seeing a best friend in somebody. Yes, I always

931
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: say that I married my best friend. Um. People ask

932
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: me this on the red carpet all the time. What

933
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: is the secret? And the answer that I typically give

934
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: is what I call the F word forgiveness, Because you

935
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: have to let things go. You you know, it's very

936
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: easy to pick up a little grudges in your marriage

937
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: and you just look up one day and you're just

938
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: mad about everything. You're just mad, you know. And But

939
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: the other thing that I always say is Mary your friend.

940
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: Um I, it's cliche. You probably hear people say it

941
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: all the time, but there are times that just my

942
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: friendship with Terry has kept us together, just my love

943
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: for him as a person as a human being. When

944
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: the romance wasn't great, or the kids were given us hell,

945
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: or the finances were bad, I still was so rooting

946
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: for him as a person and he was rooting for

947
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: me that um I couldn't imagine life without him. It just,

948
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying. He's still someone

949
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: I generally just like to be around. So and and

950
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 1: a lot of women sleep on that. Now I'm gonna

951
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: school some of you young chicks, okay, some of you.

952
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 1: Some of them get caught up in the game. They're

953
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,399
Speaker 1: caught up in. But he's not making the money yet.

954
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: And he my husband was broke. Okay when we got married,

955
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: we were both broke. I was actually the breadwinner when

956
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: we got married, and I paid the bills, and but

957
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: I knew what was inside of Terry, you know what

958
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And so many times, you know, when we

959
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: make that list, Well, he's got to be, you know,

960
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: six ft three, and he's got to be muscular, and

961
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: he's got to be financially stable, and he's got no kids.

962
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 1: Well a lot of people have kids nowadays, you know

963
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So, so the core of who a

964
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: person is, the core of their character, is really the

965
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: only value judgment that you have. It really really is,

966
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: because those outer circumstances will change. Yeah, And I've it's interesting.

967
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,919
Speaker 1: Love is never what you expect it to be. I think.

968
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: I also had a whole list of things that I

969
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: wanted the person that I dated to fulfill. And um,

970
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: I learned with Joe that you know, you you have

971
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: to have the core things at the same time. You

972
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: can't look at somebody and say you are responsible for

973
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,959
Speaker 1: my happiness. And a lot of the time I would

974
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: look at people that I dated, and if I felt

975
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: like I was in a bad mood, I would look

976
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 1: at them and say, you should make me feel happy.

977
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,280
Speaker 1: Can you read my mind and tell me that I'm upset?

978
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: There's no such thing as that you have to people

979
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: don't know how you feel unless you tell them, and

980
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: that goes both ways. Um, I always find that I

981
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: don't what's the right word. I've heard it said that

982
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: men only use so many words in a day, and

983
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,400
Speaker 1: that you know, men use fifteen thousand, women use twenty

984
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: thou right, these are all all these I read a

985
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: book by Dr Debratan in years ago called you Just

986
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: Don't Understand, And she's a sociologist, and this is some

987
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: older research, but it still proves true that the way

988
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: we communicate is very different. And so a man will

989
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: think he told you how he feels. But to me,

990
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, you didn't say anything. You know that gave

991
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: me a clue to what's going on inside you. And

992
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: and so that non verbal that you know, my husband

993
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 1: may not all always say honey, I'm pissed about what

994
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: you said to me, but his action will show me.

995
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: You know, he'll do something a little um, a little snide,

996
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: and I'll go, what's wrong with you? You You know? And

997
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: he'll go, well, you were cracking on my lumps in

998
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: my head, and I'm like, well, I was kidding, you know,

999
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: because we joke a lot in our house. But but

1000
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 1: he won't always verbally, verbally tell me that I hurt

1001
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 1: his feelings. I was speaking with my friend about this earlier. Um.

1002
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,239
Speaker 1: Whenever you date somebody, it's almost as if it's a

1003
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 1: different language, and you have to learn that language the

1004
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: more you're with them. And so whenever Joe and I

1005
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,760
Speaker 1: are in an argument, UM, I'll always pause and say,

1006
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: I still don't understand you completely. I'm still learning about

1007
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: how to handle things and how to deal with things.

1008
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: So it's a constant, very much like you're learning a

1009
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: different language or a diffistument. You have to put work

1010
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: in and slowly you will master that instrument. No, absolutely,

1011
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: UM sensitivity to UM. I'm a mom, just like with

1012
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: my kids. My daughter won't say anything when she's upset,

1013
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:13,439
Speaker 1: but she'll go to the fridge and right, so I'll

1014
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 1: be like, what's wrong. You know, what's wrong, honey bear nothing.

1015
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 1: My My daughter Winnie is about to be sixteen, and

1016
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: she just auditioned for a performing arts high school that

1017
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: she's wanted to go to, and she's very nervous and

1018
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: she's a shy girl, and um, you know has had

1019
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: some struggles with school. So we all know when Winnie's upset.

1020
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: There's certain things she does, you know, And so you

1021
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 1: tend to feel that way about kids, you know, you

1022
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: tend to feel like you can read them. But I

1023
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:49,480
Speaker 1: tend to feel with an adult, use your words. You

1024
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: can say how you feel. You can tell me that

1025
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: piste you off, you can tell me right. But I

1026
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: find I have a male child, He's my only boy,

1027
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: and I find that this thing is genetic, this tendency

1028
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 1: to express things another way, Like like my brother used

1029
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: to do. If I teased him about his his um

1030
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: ugly shirt, he just hit me. Yeah. He wouldn't say

1031
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,359
Speaker 1: dangs this that was cold. He just popped me. You know,

1032
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: it's more action. You Actually my brother was the same way,

1033
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: where well usually my my sister and I would always

1034
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 1: let's say everything right almost, you know, just like it

1035
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 1: was like a storm of emotions and it was very

1036
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: quiet and kept to himself. It's in a relationship, it's

1037
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: important to know what kind of person you're you're with. Also,

1038
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like you do a lot

1039
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: of growing in a relationship and you can adjust to

1040
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: knowing how you work together. You know, with with Joe

1041
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: and I, in the beginning, it was a little bit difficult.

1042
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: He's a little more reserved. And then later on in

1043
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: our relationship, you start to see someone in his safety,

1044
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: you know, and that's extremely important. You never want to

1045
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: betray the trust of someone when they do put up

1046
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: to you and maybe they don't open up to everybody else.

1047
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 1: And the reason why I feel so special with Joe

1048
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: is that he isn't very open with everybody, but he's

1049
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: open with me. And you have to honor that trust

1050
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 1: and you have to preserve it. And so that's I

1051
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,400
Speaker 1: think that's one of the most beautiful things in a relationship,

1052
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,479
Speaker 1: is to be the safety for someone and then they're there.

1053
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: Well see. And the problem is, I'm married to a comedian,

1054
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: So say there's no safety in my house. Look, I

1055
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:30,440
Speaker 1: tell my husband something personal. He will play the he

1056
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: will go on stage and he will play the dozens

1057
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: on me in a minute. My husband grew up in

1058
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Speaker 1: a home where they played the dozens. Now do y'all,

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00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,839
Speaker 1: y'all know what playing the dozen? Okay, this is? This

1060
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 1: is this is a good term for putting everybody down. Okay.

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00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: So playing the dozens is when you get in the

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00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 1: circle and you say, your mom is so big, she

1063
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 1: walked around the house, and she walks around the house, right.

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00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 1: And then the other kid replies back, you'll face so ugly.

1065
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: Even mother and nature don't want to look at you.

1066
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: And and it's a game, and they go back and forth. Now,

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00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,919
Speaker 1: I did not grow up with this behavior in my home.

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00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 1: Um though I am. My mother is African American. I

1069
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: grew up in this kind of fluffy, educated, stuffy um

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00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: upper middle class family. Right, we sat around the dinner table,

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00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,919
Speaker 1: we dressed up, we tucked our napkins in, and we

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00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: spoke very politely to each other at the table. So

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00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: I show up at my husband's Thanksgiving dinner with his

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00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: family and they're all insulting each other. Right, They're all like,

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00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: you got a big kid, you got a big nose.

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00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: But but and they're all laughing, and I'm going clutch

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00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 1: my pearls. And so my husband is ruthless. You know,

1078
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 1: you've seen how funny he is on TV, and he's

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00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,919
Speaker 1: very charming and likable and he is. But at home

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Speaker 1: at Thanksgiving, it's like, Mommy got to be a kid,

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00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: you know, or you know. And I'm like, Terry, you're

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00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 1: teaching the children to be disrespectful. He's like whatever, and

1083
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: then they all jump in, but then we all turned.

1084
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 1: I call him milked at his and then they call

1085
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,320
Speaker 1: him milk dead head, and then it's therapeutic to be

1086
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 1: able to be fund of each other very much though, Rebecca,

1087
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: I think this is like you're touching on what so

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00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: many people have wondered. And one of the questions that

1089
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: our listeners has written in for you is, you know,

1090
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: how do you make this thing work? Which I obviously

1091
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: ask you, and you're touching on it. There's an authenticity

1092
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: and genuineness to your relationship with Terry that we all see, UM,

1093
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 1: and you know, with your your background of faith in

1094
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 1: your background and your commitment to Terry, it's really awesome

1095
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: for so many young people out there to kind of

1096
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: use you too as a representation of how a couple operates.

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Speaker 1: Before you go, UM, because I know you're busy, h

1098
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: we really want to say thank you for coming on

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00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: The Bachelor and thank you for com on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything out there that you you know, your book,

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00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: you're you're obviously talking about any projects that you and

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00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: Terry working on together, any projects that Terry's working on

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00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: that you're working working on that you'd like to tell

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00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: our listeners about. Oh sure, well, since mommy is on

1105
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: the podcast today, I'm gonna talk about my music project.

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00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,160
Speaker 1: I have some singles out on iTunes, spot of by

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00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,800
Speaker 1: all those places under both Rebecca Cruz and my alter

1108
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: ego is Regina Madre, and all those songs are up

1109
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:11,480
Speaker 1: on iTunes, Destiny, occup pulling on one, goodbuyington really awesome

1110
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: music that I'm promoting as an independent artist. So check

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00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: me out in the music scene. Uh, doing a lot

1112
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: more press and performances on that and doing new music.

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00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: So new music coming out. Husband and I are working

1114
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: on a book together, um yet untitled about UM, not

1115
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: just about marriage, but about overcoming obstacles and finding success

1116
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 1: in a very various areas of life, marriage, finances, UM,

1117
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: pursuit of career, UM, all the things that people tend

1118
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: to ask us, like how did you make it? How

1119
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: did you stay together? How did you um keep your family?

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Speaker 1: You know, my kids, Thank God? So far nobody's in jail,

1121
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: nobody's on the pole, you know. So at this point

1122
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: is fingers crossed right, and then uh, I am working

1123
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: on some materials of my own, giving advice to women

1124
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: and advice to mother's advice to single women. UM, just

1125
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: the stuff I've lived through. I'm not a PhD. And

1126
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: I'm not a doctor. I just have a degree in

1127
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 1: the in the um a degree in life and the

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Speaker 1: Book of Life, and UM. We just want to share

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00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: what we've been through and encourage other people that they

1130
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: can make it where they're trying to go. Thank you

1131
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: so much, Thank you the greatest. Thanks for coming in,

1132
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 1: Thanks for talking about everything. Tell Terry I'm a big fan, Rebecca.

1133
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of you can I and I

1134
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: can tell you that to your face. But tell Terry Forest,

1135
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show. Appreciate you both,

1136
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: and thanks for being an amazing example of how a

1137
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: couple can love and work and like each other for

1138
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: thirty years. I know we got married at ten. Thank

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00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you. Um Kindle, but do you brush

1140
00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 1: your teeth? I do brush my teeth T today? Maybe three?

1141
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: That's interesting? So do I and I use quip? All

1142
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: of our listeners out there, you've heard me talk about quip.

1143
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 1: We love quip. Candle and I both brush our teeth

1144
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: and and Kindle, do you feel good about telling all

1145
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: of our listeners all about quip? Um? So Starting a

1146
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: healthy routine and sticking to it are two very different things. Inevitably,

1147
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,160
Speaker 1: we all skimp on that full night of sleep, skip

1148
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: a workout or two, our brush our teeth with a tired,

1149
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 1: old toothbrush. We're not perfect, but we can do better

1150
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 1: and quips a better electric toothbrush that can help klip.

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01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: Has sensitive sonic vibrations for an effective clean that's gentle

1152
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: on your sensitive gums. Built in two minutes time repulses

1153
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: every thirty seconds to remind you when to switch sides

1154
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 1: and help you clean your whole mouth evenly. That's very

1155
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: important because I never know how long I have to

1156
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: have my toothbrush on certain areas. Um. Also, brush heads

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Speaker 1: are automatically delivered on dentists recommended schedule every three months

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Speaker 1: for just five dollars, a friendly reminder when it's time

1159
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: for a refresh and to stay committed to your oral health.

1160
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: I had no idea that you had to change your

1161
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: toothbrush every three months. Yeah, I don't do that. I

1162
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 1: don't do that either, and I feel like I should

1163
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 1: because I think a smile is like one of the

1164
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Speaker 1: first things people notice about you. Yeah, I'm pretty gross.

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01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if I've changed, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I have a travel toothbrush that

1167
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: I use it which is quip and uh before quip. Listen,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy. I don't think I change that travel

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01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: toothbrush that I used to have for a year. I wonder,

1170
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 1: like all the bacteria that's living in there, you know,

1171
01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: because you know your mouth is full of just like

1172
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: live things. Good thing. I wasn't kissing anybody, you know,

1173
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: they also did well. Now you are, so you have

1174
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: to be careful. That's probably why you're starting to use

1175
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: because you're starting to kill somebody right now. Um. That's

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Speaker 1: why I love quip and why over one million and

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Speaker 1: happy healthy mouths do too. Quip starts at just twenty

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Speaker 1: five dollars and if you go to get quip dot

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Speaker 1: com slash almost famous right now, you can get your

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Speaker 1: first refil pack for free. That's your first refill pack

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Speaker 1: free at g E T q U I P dot

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Speaker 1: com slash almost famous. Awesome. Yeah, quips good at Actually

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01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 1: it's kind of funny. I thought about this when we

1184
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: first started doing the podcast, and I was like, oh,

1185
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 1: I traveled with the same little bag. It's always packed

1186
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 1: because I traveled so much. I throw it in my suitcase.

1187
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go, and I thought, I don't change

1188
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 1: a lot of this out like I bet I change

1189
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: my toothbrush whenever it starts whenever I lose it starts crusting.

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01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: Maybe on the sides. You see the toothpaste. I can't

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01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: do that. That's the best candle. Ash and I talked

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Speaker 1: every week about shopping. My fashion struggles a lot of

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Speaker 1: the times. Ashley's never does, and one of the reasons

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Speaker 1: it is because a threat up. You're a fan of

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Speaker 1: shopping as well. So to all of our listeners about

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Speaker 1: threat up. Oh, I'm a huge thrift store shopper. I

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Speaker 1: absolutely love using clothes have amazing quality and clothes you

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Speaker 1: can you can't really find anywhere else. Um, So, did

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Speaker 1: you know that on average we throw away about eighty

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Speaker 1: pounds of loathes every year. Buying secondhand extends a life

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Speaker 1: of an item by two point two years and reduces

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Speaker 1: is eco impact by sevent This year, I'm giving myself,

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Speaker 1: my wallet, and my closet a fresh start by giving

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Speaker 1: secondhand clothes a new life with thread up. UM, I

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Speaker 1: actually think it's extremely important to um use second hand

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Speaker 1: clothes and not waste clothing. And there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: amazing clothing clothing that you can find secondhand. Um So

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Speaker 1: threat up is the largest online consignment and thrift store

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Speaker 1: where you can shop high quality pieces for up off

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Speaker 1: estimated retail um. They have over thirty five thou brands

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Speaker 1: ranging from Gap to Gucci Okay guys. Little fact Joe

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Speaker 1: loves Gucci. Joe is a Gucci guy. Um you can

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Speaker 1: find a Coach purse for ten dollars, Anthropology just for

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Speaker 1: six dollars, and Lulemon tank for ten dollars. Joe wore

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Speaker 1: Lula Liman shorts for every single Rose ceremony on Paradise.

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Speaker 1: That is a little fact for you. Um. Plus, if

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Speaker 1: you go to thread up dot com slash almost famous today,

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Speaker 1: you'll get extra off of your first order. It's super

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Speaker 1: easy and fun to shop. You can save your sizes

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Speaker 1: and favorite brands and filter for exactly what you want.

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Speaker 1: And they have so many cute things. And I had

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Speaker 1: thousands of new items every day. I just bought a

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Speaker 1: pair of rainboots to get through the rain storm last week.

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Speaker 1: Um Honestly, New York is quite insane and I've actually

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Speaker 1: gotten things for the warm weather there because I'm not

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Speaker 1: used to having really heavy coats because Los Angeles does

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Speaker 1: not get as cold as New York. So on tour,

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Speaker 1: I've definitely been needing coats like that. Um, but I

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Speaker 1: don't want to spend a lot of money on coats

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Speaker 1: or rain boots for the dress lee changing weather. UM,

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Speaker 1: so threat up was a perfect option for me. I

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Speaker 1: ordered a pair of Tommy Hill fring your rainboots form

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Speaker 1: only and they are usually a hundred dollars. So I

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Speaker 1: think it's really important as you buy something that's really

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Speaker 1: good quality as opposed to buying a million different things

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Speaker 1: that aren't as good qualities. So I think definitely second

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Speaker 1: hand clothing have stood the test of time, so they're

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Speaker 1: more dressed realthly. So go to threat up dot com

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Speaker 1: slash almost famous for an extra thirty percent off your order.

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Speaker 1: That's t h R E d U P dot com,

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Speaker 1: um slash almost famous, threat up dot com slash almost

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Speaker 1: sims for an extrat off today terms apply. The last

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01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:11,680
Speaker 1: group day of this episode, uh was interesting. Obviously, we

1244
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Speaker 1: just had Rebecca on. She's great, fantastic, great advice from her,

1245
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Speaker 1: and I think that's what these women really we're going

1246
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 1: after on the group date. But it's the evening portion

1247
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: of we talked about earlier in the podcast that really matters,

1248
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: and something major happened. I'll send everything else. It really

1249
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 1: focused on one thing, Colton sending somebody home during the

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Speaker 1: group date. UM. I was completely surprised that he sent

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01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: Caitlin home because she seems he seems like he was

1252
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 1: really interested and intrigued by her in the beginning, and

1253
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 1: it is only week three, so you think that he

1254
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 1: would give her more of a chance to show who

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Speaker 1: she was. UM. At the same time, if you're not

1256
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: interested in someone, you're not interested in somebody, and there's

1257
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 1: no use wasting their time or your time and keeping

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Speaker 1: them on UM. But I have to say I was

1259
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:54,920
Speaker 1: not I did not see that coming at all. I

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Speaker 1: really respect the kind of the lead that he took there,

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01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: though you could see the conversation wasn't going well. You

1262
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 1: can see it was a little awkward. I mean, I'm

1263
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: sure in real life it maybe it was just as awkward.

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Speaker 1: There's just some weird responses and some like you can

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Speaker 1: just they weren't clicking. He had obviously, that wasn't the

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Speaker 1: first time they had talked so this is probably something

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Speaker 1: that was building up, and Colton just said, I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing it. I'm not gonna bring like drag this girl

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Speaker 1: along any longer. It's it's done here for me. I

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Speaker 1: thought that was maybe the mark of Colton saying, Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is about my experience with these women and these

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Speaker 1: this and this is not working. I respected that move.

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Speaker 1: I'm proud of him for it. Um. And one other

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Speaker 1: thing I'm kind of proud of Colding for, even though

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Speaker 1: it's not really my place to be proud of him,

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Speaker 1: but I guess all the listeners probably are is then, uh,

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Speaker 1: he cancels the cocktail party to do a pool party,

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Speaker 1: and at the pool party, Uh, the Hannah Kaitlin, Uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, clause come out again and he doesn't have it.

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Speaker 1: Where does this go? Now? Where do you see this

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Speaker 1: one thing ending up? There has to be some sort

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Speaker 1: of clarify cation because they're both going back and forth

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Speaker 1: and saying the exact same thing. They're both saying the

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Speaker 1: other girls untrustworthy, that toxic is a word that they

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01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:10,919
Speaker 1: use a lot um And you can't say those things

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Speaker 1: without having the evidence to back it up. And so

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Speaker 1: right now Colton probably has very strong feelings for both girls,

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Speaker 1: and he probably wants to keep up both of them around,

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Speaker 1: but he's coming to terms of the fact that there

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Speaker 1: is an ultimatum and he probably what does have to

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Speaker 1: get rid of one of the girls because it's going

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Speaker 1: to grow into a bigger deal and distract even more

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Speaker 1: um from his relationship with either of them. So I

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Speaker 1: can understand the frustration because right now I'm not getting

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Speaker 1: any answers. I don't know why they're fighting. I know

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Speaker 1: that they were in a competitive environment, which it makes

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Speaker 1: sense to not maybe have the best of relationship with

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Speaker 1: someone that you're in a competitive environment with, but um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just curious. I don't know why. I also feel

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Speaker 1: like with Klin, she there's something that she's not saying,

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Speaker 1: and I also don't think that um I don't think

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Speaker 1: Hannah thinks it's her place to say what Kalin has

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Speaker 1: gone through, which I do respect, But I feel like

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Speaker 1: Klin does have to open up a little bit more

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Speaker 1: to stay because I almost feel like he would send

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Speaker 1: both of them home if this isn't resolved. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: have any clarification on it. I think we're gonna learn

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Speaker 1: a lot about both these people, especially Kalin. I think

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Speaker 1: right now, Calin has the upper hand. It's just the

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Speaker 1: vengeance of the show and we're seeing it come out.

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Speaker 1: But there is I think this story gets a lot deeper.

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling that's just a lot more going

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Speaker 1: on than what we realized. But they've got to start

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Speaker 1: talking right now. Just we don't We just don't know.

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Speaker 1: I will say one thing I took away from that

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Speaker 1: scene is never make a ridiculously wild monster face on

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Speaker 1: national television and then drag it out. I mean, Hannah

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Speaker 1: will never live that down. That will become a jif,

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Speaker 1: that will be used over and over again forever and ever,

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Speaker 1: just her. I personally think that was epic. I loved

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Speaker 1: that face. I'm sure it was wild. She for it.

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Speaker 1: I mean you have to admire somebody who just goes

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Speaker 1: for it and he has like the monster face, you know.

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Speaker 1: I I liked it personally, unbelievable. Um, hey, can you

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Speaker 1: kill it again? Thank you for being the best guest

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Speaker 1: host ever. Before we send you off, I know we

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Speaker 1: have an email from one of our wonderful listeners out

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Speaker 1: there Easton. We've just hired on this guy with this

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Speaker 1: like very just sensual, magical voice, to read this email

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Speaker 1: to his His name's Mark. He's usually into studio, um

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Speaker 1: Mark Free, Deemo Away, And this person is dying to

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Speaker 1: know who has been dating from Colton season. He can't

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Speaker 1: reveal it for a couple of weeks. Is that when

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Speaker 1: it gets kicked off the show? Just a theory either way,

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Speaker 1: Good luck, happy for you. Okay, who is this mystery

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Speaker 1: woman that we keep hearing about? Oh? First off, I

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Speaker 1: just love Mark Voys because voice is just awesome, Like

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Speaker 1: she's not from Colden season. You know. The reason that

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Speaker 1: I just don't didn't want to put on names yet

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01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: is is at some level, I didn't really mean to

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Speaker 1: slip up. I didn't think I slipped up. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not hiding anything. I think. You know, you go

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Speaker 1: through public relationships before, and you kind of deal with

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Speaker 1: those that pressure and they're just the right timing to

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Speaker 1: it all to kind of make it a thing and

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Speaker 1: publicly put everything out there, And so I just want

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Speaker 1: to kind of tell Colton that you know, long distance

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Speaker 1: isn't easy and it's hard, and that dating is fun

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Speaker 1: and it's exciting, and I've been able to get back

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Speaker 1: into it and uh and just try to relate with

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Speaker 1: him a little bit. So life's good. But she's not

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Speaker 1: from Colton season um, not at all, not from the show.

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