WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Nanny No No 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to your new week and your brand new episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you're having a great Monday. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. We've got a brand new.

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<v Speaker 2>Very official second date update for you in just a second.

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<v Speaker 2>But first comments, Yeah, TI ZV.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's just TZV.

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<v Speaker 1>I that was good. Yeah, said this is crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I found you guys a little over a week ago,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm listening backwards and I'm already up to May.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing at least five hours a day. Y'all for

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<v Speaker 4>being my summer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wow, they commit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I feel like you're calling us your summer.

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<v Speaker 4>Particularly You're gonna get back to Christmas soon if the

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<v Speaker 4>rate you're going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So i'd like to say happy Thanksgiving to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is all right. Your brand new episode starts

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<v Speaker 2>right now, Brooken Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 5>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And I know

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<v Speaker 5>some states have banned cell phones from classrooms. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 5>has anyone thought about proposing a bill that would block

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<v Speaker 5>them from being used on first dates?

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<v Speaker 1>Very easy to of course control that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. More government interference in our personal life, especially life. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>that's where Brook and Jeffy stands. But I only bring

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<v Speaker 5>it up because our listener Katrina blames her phone for

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<v Speaker 5>ruining the momentum of her latest hangout, and now she's

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<v Speaker 5>being forced to use it again to call us for help.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought now she was proposing legislation.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe that's the next step. But Katrina, I am so

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<v Speaker 5>sorry that our producer is making you use your phone

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<v Speaker 5>to do this.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you. I wish I could just throw it away.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that sometimes I get.

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<v Speaker 5>You on that you would dig into mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I would throw away and then jump out of the window.

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<v Speaker 5>Appy, Well, maybe that came up during the date and

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<v Speaker 5>cause some of the problems. Why don't you tell us

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<v Speaker 5>about this guy that you met what's his name?

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<v Speaker 6>His name is Raymond. I met with him on you know,

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<v Speaker 6>on the.

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<v Speaker 5>Apps, on the phone all over again?

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<v Speaker 6>Here we get that on the phone on the phone

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<v Speaker 6>and ended up being our demise.

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<v Speaker 1>What what stood out about him on the apps?

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<v Speaker 6>He's really here.

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<v Speaker 5>To try to come with a deeper answer, but it's

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<v Speaker 5>like he's hot.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what the apps are for, right, Like you see,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have physical attraction, if you're attracted.

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<v Speaker 3>First and then you get to know it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, now that we know that your shallow keep going.

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<v Speaker 6>Just to make sure that I really liked his personality

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<v Speaker 6>and not just his face, I asked him to have

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<v Speaker 6>like a casual daytime date at a park because then

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<v Speaker 6>I can just like leave if.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to.

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<v Speaker 5>You're setting up setting up your exit strategy before you

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<v Speaker 5>even Okay, what did you guys do at the park?

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<v Speaker 6>We just, you know, walked around. Chadden talked about our

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<v Speaker 6>jobs and how similar they can be because he's a

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<v Speaker 6>waiter and I'm a nanny, and so he was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I have customers that like wine and act like children,

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<v Speaker 6>and I was like, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Same, same, and I don't get dipped.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean your your customers are actual children, So.

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<v Speaker 6>Our actual children.

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<v Speaker 5>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you guys are bonding.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, it was going really really well. We were having

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<v Speaker 6>a great time and then my phone started ringing, Oh god,

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<v Speaker 6>here it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you answered immediately no.

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<v Speaker 6>I kind of hesitated, but he heard it and it's like,

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<v Speaker 6>do you need to take that? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so sorry, I do actually need to take this, but.

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<v Speaker 7>I'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 6>Because it was kind of like a personal thing. And

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I just met this man, so I had

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<v Speaker 6>to go back to my car to take the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean, if it's an important call, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like that's understandable.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought when Jeff was, you know, talking about this

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<v Speaker 3>whole day, that you were like playing games on your

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<v Speaker 3>phone in the middle of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner, like an ex texting you or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, I mean, it's okay to answer, but it kind

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<v Speaker 5>of depends on how long you're going to be on

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<v Speaker 5>the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't be gone for thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it should be like five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Mag How long were you gone?

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<v Speaker 6>It was like fifteen to twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's just sitting in the park.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I was playing games on his phone during

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<v Speaker 2>the point, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I bet he was just sitting there quietly with his

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<v Speaker 5>hands folded on the bench.

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<v Speaker 3>And been like, hey, I'm still waiting over here.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a long time.

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<v Speaker 8>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Afterwards you go back to the park, is he even

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<v Speaker 1>still there?

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<v Speaker 6>He was there, which was a good sign. But then

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<v Speaker 6>I realized I was coming up on this time that

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<v Speaker 6>I had to be back to my nanny job.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the end of the date. You're just sitting

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<v Speaker 1>in the car by yourself.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean I got out and then you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't realize until I was talking to him for

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<v Speaker 6>like one minute. I was like, oh, I have to

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<v Speaker 6>leave again.

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<v Speaker 5>So well, I mean you didn't have to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I just kids. They can take it.

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<v Speaker 5>You do have a choice in this situation, and it

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<v Speaker 5>sounds like at this point you're choosing your job over him.

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<v Speaker 3>He's fair enough, but.

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<v Speaker 6>It felt really bad. So I just kind of was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>it was so nice to meet you, and then I

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<v Speaker 6>like give him a hug and I left.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he feels like you don't like him at all.

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<v Speaker 5>A phone like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Fake excuse or something to get out of all.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't think of that. He could think it was

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<v Speaker 3>a fake phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh do you feel bad enough about yourself yet? You should?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever explain to him who was on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone or why it was an important phone call like

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<v Speaker 2>that would make me feel better?

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<v Speaker 1>I knew no, just.

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<v Speaker 6>Because it's like a really like it's really personal.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Brook, Why are you trying to dive into a

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<v Speaker 5>personal off like that? That's just extremely appropriate of you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I do.

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<v Speaker 5>Jesff, Yeah, I cross boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>On the radio and in my personal life.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, fair enough, So that is kind of an

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<v Speaker 5>awkward way to leave the date. I mean, what's happened

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<v Speaker 5>since then? Nothing, nothing at all.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I've been too embarrassed to call him. And

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<v Speaker 6>he did not ask me out again either, obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>So you haven't even contacted him. He probably thinks you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like him. Yeah, you're not getting back to him.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, He's helping you like you rejected him, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I can take a hint.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, no, oh my gosh. Okay.

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<v Speaker 8>So yeah, So that's why I'm blowing you, guys.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I feel like I have to do a big

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<v Speaker 6>gesture now that it's kind of like been awkward for

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<v Speaker 6>so long, because I don't know what to do. So

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<v Speaker 6>I need your help.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, seems yeah, it does seem savable.

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<v Speaker 5>I disagree, but let's do it. Man, Just call him,

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<v Speaker 5>We'll see if he answers, and hopefully we can get

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<v Speaker 5>you a second date update with Raymond right after this hold.

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<v Speaker 2>On Brooking Jeffrey in the Morning second date updates, It's.

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<v Speaker 5>Broken Jeffrey in the Morning and because our listener Katrina

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<v Speaker 5>chose to have her first meet up and around noon.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's look at the comparables of going on a day

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<v Speaker 5>date versus a night one. Okay, I mean on a

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<v Speaker 5>day outing. Let's be honest, you're probably not getting any action.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh so if you didn't want any, I guess that's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>See Ice first thought was the lighting isn't as good

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<v Speaker 1>on a day date.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you look at the negative zone and I know, Katrina,

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<v Speaker 5>you didn't do any drinking this time. But let's say

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<v Speaker 5>you did four drinks during the day, makes it look

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<v Speaker 5>more like you have kind of an issue, whereas at

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<v Speaker 5>night four drinks means you're just having a fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yay person.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh maybe maybe she has had some drinks spoke too soon.

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<v Speaker 5>And finally, if you're meeting up at night, chances are

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<v Speaker 5>you probably don't have to leave the date early to

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<v Speaker 5>go to work. But that's exactly what Katrina had to

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<v Speaker 5>do after she took a phone call in the middle

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<v Speaker 5>of their hangout and realized afterwards there was no time

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<v Speaker 5>left and she had to go, which is why she's

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<v Speaker 5>here seeking our help. Yeah. Overall, not a great review

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<v Speaker 5>for day dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Katrina, Do you wish you would have done a dinner

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<v Speaker 2>or something with him?

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<v Speaker 1>Instead.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I'm happy with the decision. I just wish

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<v Speaker 8>that I didn't have to pay a call.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you should have done a night walk through a

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<v Speaker 5>park that would have gone back.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. These are just ideas. We really just

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<v Speaker 5>need to get to the bottom of this. Call ray

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<v Speaker 5>Raymond and hopefully he answers and can give us what

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<v Speaker 5>we were looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>Short somebody's nickname before you, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, I correct myself. I'll call him Raymond unless he

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<v Speaker 5>gives me permission. But here we go. Let's see. Hello. Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>what's up, Raymond? This is going Sorry, this is Raymond, right, Yes, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>what's up man?

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry for being overly friendly.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, listen, this may sound made up, but I'm being

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<v Speaker 5>one hundred percent serious when I tell you that you're

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<v Speaker 5>on the phone with a radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 5>Jeffrey in the Morning right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome do it, Raymond?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, we're podcast rivals with Julia Luis Dreyfuss show.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. It's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff has been trying to take her down for at

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<v Speaker 2>least half a decade at this point.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we're closing in on it. But the thing is,

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<v Speaker 5>we do a segment on this show that Julia would

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<v Speaker 5>never do, called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh, and that's why you that's what you called me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep.

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<v Speaker 5>We want you to be a part of it because

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<v Speaker 5>one of our listeners asked us to reach out to you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>a woman named Katrina.

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<v Speaker 7>Yep, yeah, okay, reaction.

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<v Speaker 5>I like your cold energy. Let's keep it going.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's kind of the opposite. She's so bubbly

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<v Speaker 2>and giggly.

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<v Speaker 5>We heard about the date from her, and we're looking

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<v Speaker 5>to kind of get your version of the story.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So she told she told you all about it.

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<v Speaker 2>She told us that she thought you were really cute

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<v Speaker 2>and she had a really good time.

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<v Speaker 5>She mentioned, like hanging out at this park, you guys

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<v Speaker 5>were talking about your jobs and laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're a waiter and you deal with adult children

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<v Speaker 2>and she deals with real children.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I thought that was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a funny joke.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow. I mean, you guys are kind of missing the

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<v Speaker 7>whole big thing about this. I mean, maybe it's not

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<v Speaker 7>important to her.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, there was one thing that she felt bad about,

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<v Speaker 5>taking a phone call in the middle of hanging out.

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<v Speaker 1>With you, and we kind of piled on her about

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<v Speaker 1>how dumb that.

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<v Speaker 5>Was, although she said she said she didn't really have

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<v Speaker 5>a choice though, because it was like an important personal

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<v Speaker 5>matter she had to handle.

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<v Speaker 2>And she feels really bad. I mean, I'm sure she

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<v Speaker 2>apologized to you, right for.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, that's not the big thing that I was

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<v Speaker 7>talking about.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not would you mind telling us the big thing?

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<v Speaker 7>She wanted to have a park date, so I get

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<v Speaker 7>there ahead of time and she shows up with a

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<v Speaker 7>five year old kid.

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<v Speaker 3>What she brought one of the kids?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I was like, hey, what's with the kid? But

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<v Speaker 7>she just says, oh, I'm actually like nannying right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. She did not tell us that. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 3>that's why it was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Parent and I found out that my nanny was going

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<v Speaker 2>on dates while they were taking my kids to the park.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, is.

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<v Speaker 1>That what was happening?

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<v Speaker 5>She was.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she was like, my boss is paying me twenty

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<v Speaker 7>five bucks an hour, so I figured I'd multitask.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Multitasking.

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<v Speaker 2>But she said she had to leave for work. She

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<v Speaker 2>didn't tell us that she was at work during the day, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird the kid go while she was on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of questions. Yeah, that's a question.

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<v Speaker 7>Well that's maybe the weird The weirdest part is like

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<v Speaker 7>she got a phone call and then she had to

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<v Speaker 7>take it. So I'm just watching this kid for like

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<v Speaker 7>thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>You hadn't watched she left the kid with a stranger.

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<v Speaker 5>Moments I see. So the kid was misbehaved, and that's

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<v Speaker 5>why you don't want to go now.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just not cute enough.

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<v Speaker 7>Who does that? Who brings the kid on their date?

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<v Speaker 1>Who was on a date while they're at work?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you're a waiter, you wouldn't be like, hey, let's

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<v Speaker 2>go to dinner and sit her by herself while you

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<v Speaker 2>just wait tables around her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's wild. No did you say anything like I

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<v Speaker 1>how could you not have?

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<v Speaker 7>I was going to but when she came back from

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<v Speaker 7>the call, she had to leave, like she had to

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<v Speaker 7>bring the kid home or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh well, here's the good news. Now is your chance

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<v Speaker 5>to confront her about it because you don't know this, Raymond.

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<v Speaker 5>But Katrina's on the other line listening. She really is

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<v Speaker 5>never able to give you a full attention, but now

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<v Speaker 5>she will.

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<v Speaker 1>She's there probably with the kid.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye, Katrina, Hi, Katrina, Yeah you left out a pretty

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<v Speaker 5>key detail when you were telling us your story.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, I mean I just.

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<v Speaker 8>Don't feel like it's that big of a deal, like no, no,

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<v Speaker 8>because you guys are making it seem like I just

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<v Speaker 8>left my nanny kid with him, Like I could see

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<v Speaker 8>everything from my car. He was at the playground. We

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<v Speaker 8>go to the Stagon all the time. He has friends there.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I didn't realize he was with an eye shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, as a mom, I am not hiring someone to

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<v Speaker 1>sit in their.

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<v Speaker 2>Car far away from a playground where my five year

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<v Speaker 2>old is at the park by himself or I guess

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<v Speaker 2>with a stranger.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, sure, but with all due respect, book, this isn't

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<v Speaker 5>about you.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, yeah, it's not that far.

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<v Speaker 8>It's like forty feet.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's sprinting kid. If anything bad happened, she could

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<v Speaker 5>reach him. Yes, thank you, But you know what we're

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<v Speaker 5>we're jumping in with all our opinions. That's not really

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<v Speaker 5>our place right now. We just want you and Raymond

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to each other, So go ahead, Katrina, Okay, Raymond.

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<v Speaker 8>I just I want to apologize because I know that

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<v Speaker 8>like our date was kind of like awkward and funky,

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<v Speaker 8>because I mean, I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>Me bringing my kid bothered you.

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<v Speaker 8>But kid, I mean, I don't want to say his

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<v Speaker 8>name on.

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<v Speaker 1>The radio, but now we're protecting him.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a good name.

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<v Speaker 8>Raymond wasn't really complaining when.

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<v Speaker 6>I had like all these snacks with me, like oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>Nanny's nys exactly.

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<v Speaker 8>So like I gave you string cheese and like apple

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<v Speaker 8>sauce and it was cool, you know, Like I mean,

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't want to go to dinner, but I wanted to, like,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, still show you that, like I can, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>we can have fun together and whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>So is he there? All right? Raymond? You got to

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<v Speaker 5>calm down because they're coming on so strong right here?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you eat the kids snacks?

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<v Speaker 8>Right?

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<v Speaker 7>Bit? She gave them to me? Kids bothered me that

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<v Speaker 7>I basically got tricked into doing Freeze childcare.

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<v Speaker 3>And I wonder, and I still wonder, and I hate

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<v Speaker 3>to bring it up. Who's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>With it was the seven year old. She was still

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<v Speaker 5>watching from her other man and jo on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm still technically watching.

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<v Speaker 2>Over you, okay, Okay, yeah, I wonder if it was

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<v Speaker 2>like the mom or something. Is you still are really

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<v Speaker 2>funny and adorable and likable.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel like a terrible DNA.

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<v Speaker 5>Terrible when Brooke would get a drink with you.

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<v Speaker 2>He'sdable, Like, could you could you look past that?

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<v Speaker 1>She's just really bad at her job?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think about that, Raymond? No, I tried, yeah, best,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why there, I guess I'm not even

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<v Speaker 5>going to offer. No, Katrina, you got your answer.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I'm really sorry Raymond that I, you know, disappointed

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<v Speaker 8>you on our date.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know, good luck in that.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to stop bringing dates on your nanny job.

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<v Speaker 1>The kid is old enough to tell his parents. You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get busted.

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<v Speaker 5>Brook, It's not about you. Oh my gosh, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 5>do that?

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<v Speaker 3>You invite the guy over to the house.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh No, even more scary Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>This really just goes to show it's harder to be

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<v Speaker 5>a nanny now than it ever was before, especially with

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<v Speaker 5>Brooke breathing hot judgment down her back the entire time.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I had a babysitter bring a boyfriend over once,

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<v Speaker 2>and oh, you better believe I narked her out as

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<v Speaker 2>fast as I could to my.

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<v Speaker 5>Right here, you know, I mean, I feel bad for

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<v Speaker 5>the nannies they have so many rules have to fall.

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<v Speaker 5>They're not allowed to let the kids have too much

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<v Speaker 5>free time, No candy before dinner, no letting strange men

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<v Speaker 5>watch them while you're on your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the fun in childhood anymore?

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly, So there's any nannies out there listening, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I would tell you you could help pass the time

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<v Speaker 5>on the job by going and listening to our podcast,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm guessing Brooke doesn't want you to do that either.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's a good lesson for the kids.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, get everybody in listening at Brook and Jeffrey wherever

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<v Speaker 5>you get your podcasts, And if you ever need help

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<v Speaker 5>with your love life, email the show. We'll call that

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<v Speaker 5>person who's not calling you back.