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Speaker 1: Welcome to your new week and your brand new episode.

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Speaker 1: Hope you're having a great Monday. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. We've got a brand new.

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Speaker 2: Very official second date update for you in just a second.

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Speaker 2: But first comments, Yeah, TI ZV.

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Speaker 3: You know it's just TZV.

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Speaker 1: I that was good. Yeah, said this is crazy.

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Speaker 4: I found you guys a little over a week ago,

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Speaker 4: and I'm listening backwards and I'm already up to May.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing at least five hours a day. Y'all for

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Speaker 4: being my summer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, they commit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I feel like you're calling us your summer.

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Speaker 4: Particularly You're gonna get back to Christmas soon if the

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Speaker 4: rate you're going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So i'd like to say happy Thanksgiving to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is all right. Your brand new episode starts

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Speaker 2: right now, Brooken Jeffrey in the Morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 5: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And I know

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Speaker 5: some states have banned cell phones from classrooms. Yeah, but

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Speaker 5: has anyone thought about proposing a bill that would block

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Speaker 5: them from being used on first dates?

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Speaker 1: Very easy to of course control that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. More government interference in our personal life, especially life. Yes,

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Speaker 5: that's where Brook and Jeffy stands. But I only bring

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Speaker 5: it up because our listener Katrina blames her phone for

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Speaker 5: ruining the momentum of her latest hangout, and now she's

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Speaker 5: being forced to use it again to call us for help.

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Speaker 1: I thought now she was proposing legislation.

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Speaker 5: Maybe that's the next step. But Katrina, I am so

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Speaker 5: sorry that our producer is making you use your phone

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Speaker 5: to do this.

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Speaker 6: Thank you. I wish I could just throw it away.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that sometimes I get.

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Speaker 5: You on that you would dig into mine.

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Speaker 3: I would throw away and then jump out of the window.

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Speaker 5: Appy, Well, maybe that came up during the date and

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Speaker 5: cause some of the problems. Why don't you tell us

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Speaker 5: about this guy that you met what's his name?

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Speaker 6: His name is Raymond. I met with him on you know,

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Speaker 6: on the.

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Speaker 5: Apps, on the phone all over again?

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Speaker 6: Here we get that on the phone on the phone

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Speaker 6: and ended up being our demise.

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Speaker 1: What what stood out about him on the apps?

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Speaker 6: He's really here.

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Speaker 5: To try to come with a deeper answer, but it's

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Speaker 5: like he's hot.

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Speaker 2: That's what the apps are for, right, Like you see,

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Speaker 2: if you have physical attraction, if you're attracted.

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Speaker 3: First and then you get to know it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, now that we know that your shallow keep going.

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Speaker 6: Just to make sure that I really liked his personality

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Speaker 6: and not just his face, I asked him to have

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Speaker 6: like a casual daytime date at a park because then

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Speaker 6: I can just like leave if.

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Speaker 1: I have to.

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Speaker 5: You're setting up setting up your exit strategy before you

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Speaker 5: even Okay, what did you guys do at the park?

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Speaker 6: We just, you know, walked around. Chadden talked about our

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Speaker 6: jobs and how similar they can be because he's a

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Speaker 6: waiter and I'm a nanny, and so he was like,

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Speaker 6: I have customers that like wine and act like children,

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Speaker 6: and I was like, you know.

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Speaker 2: Same, same, and I don't get dipped.

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Speaker 5: I mean your your customers are actual children, So.

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Speaker 6: Our actual children.

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Speaker 5: That's funny.

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Speaker 1: That's funny.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you guys are bonding.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it was going really really well. We were having

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Speaker 6: a great time and then my phone started ringing, Oh god,

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Speaker 6: here it goes.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you answered immediately no.

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Speaker 6: I kind of hesitated, but he heard it and it's like,

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Speaker 6: do you need to take that? And I was like,

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry, I do actually need to take this, but.

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Speaker 7: I'll be right back.

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Speaker 6: Because it was kind of like a personal thing. And

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Speaker 6: you know, I just met this man, so I had

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Speaker 6: to go back to my car to take the call.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, if it's an important call, I feel

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Speaker 2: like that's understandable.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I thought when Jeff was, you know, talking about this

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Speaker 3: whole day, that you were like playing games on your

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Speaker 1: Dinner, like an ex texting you or something.

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Speaker 5: Sure, I mean, it's okay to answer, but it kind

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Speaker 5: of depends on how long you're going to be on

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Speaker 5: the phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't be gone for thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it should be like five minutes.

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Speaker 1: Mag How long were you gone?

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Speaker 6: It was like fifteen to twenty minutes.

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Speaker 1: And he's just sitting in the park.

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Speaker 2: I know I was playing games on his phone during

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Speaker 2: the point, I don't.

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Speaker 5: I bet he was just sitting there quietly with his

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Speaker 3: And been like, hey, I'm still waiting over here.

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Speaker 5: It's a long time.

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 1: Afterwards you go back to the park, is he even

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Speaker 1: still there?

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Speaker 6: He was there, which was a good sign. But then

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Speaker 6: I realized I was coming up on this time that

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Speaker 6: I had to be back to my nanny job.

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Speaker 1: That was the end of the date. You're just sitting

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Speaker 1: in the car by yourself.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I got out and then you know,

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Speaker 6: I didn't realize until I was talking to him for

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Speaker 6: like one minute. I was like, oh, I have to

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Speaker 5: So well, I mean you didn't have to leave.

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Speaker 1: I mean I just kids. They can take it.

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Speaker 5: You do have a choice in this situation, and it

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Speaker 5: sounds like at this point you're choosing your job over him.

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Speaker 3: He's fair enough, but.

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Speaker 6: It felt really bad. So I just kind of was like, Oh,

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Speaker 6: it was so nice to meet you, and then I

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Speaker 6: like give him a hug and I left.

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Speaker 1: I bet he feels like you don't like him at all.

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Speaker 5: A phone like a.

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Speaker 4: Fake excuse or something to get out of all.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think of that. He could think it was

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Speaker 5: Oh do you feel bad enough about yourself yet? You should?

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Speaker 1: Did you ever?

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Speaker 2: Did you ever explain to him who was on the

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Speaker 2: phone or why it was an important phone call like

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Speaker 2: that would make me feel better?

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Speaker 1: I knew no, just.

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Speaker 6: Because it's like a really like it's really personal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Brook, Why are you trying to dive into a

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Speaker 5: personal off like that? That's just extremely appropriate of you.

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Speaker 1: That's what I do.

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Speaker 5: Jesff, Yeah, I cross boundaries.

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Speaker 1: On the radio and in my personal life.

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Speaker 5: All right, fair enough, So that is kind of an

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Speaker 5: awkward way to leave the date. I mean, what's happened

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Speaker 5: since then? Nothing, nothing at all.

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Speaker 6: I just I've been too embarrassed to call him. And

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Speaker 6: he did not ask me out again either, obviously.

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Speaker 1: So you haven't even contacted him. He probably thinks you

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Speaker 1: don't like him. Yeah, you're not getting back to him.

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Speaker 3: Right, He's helping you like you rejected him, and he's like,

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Speaker 3: I can take a hint.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, oh my gosh. Okay.

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Speaker 8: So yeah, So that's why I'm blowing you, guys.

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Speaker 6: Because I feel like I have to do a big

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Speaker 6: gesture now that it's kind of like been awkward for

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Speaker 6: so long, because I don't know what to do. So

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Speaker 6: I need your help.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, seems yeah, it does seem savable.

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Speaker 5: I disagree, but let's do it. Man, Just call him,

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Speaker 5: We'll see if he answers, and hopefully we can get

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Speaker 5: you a second date update with Raymond right after this hold.

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Speaker 2: On Brooking Jeffrey in the Morning second date updates, It's.

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Speaker 5: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning and because our listener Katrina

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Speaker 5: chose to have her first meet up and around noon.

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Speaker 5: Let's look at the comparables of going on a day

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Speaker 5: date versus a night one. Okay, I mean on a

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Speaker 5: day outing. Let's be honest, you're probably not getting any action.

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Speaker 5: Oh so if you didn't want any, I guess that's perfect.

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Speaker 1: See Ice first thought was the lighting isn't as good

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Speaker 1: on a day date.

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Speaker 5: Oh you look at the negative zone and I know, Katrina,

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Speaker 5: you didn't do any drinking this time. But let's say

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Speaker 5: you did four drinks during the day, makes it look

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Speaker 5: more like you have kind of an issue, whereas at

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Speaker 5: night four drinks means you're just having a fun time.

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Speaker 1: Yay person.

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Speaker 5: Oh maybe maybe she has had some drinks spoke too soon.

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Speaker 5: And finally, if you're meeting up at night, chances are

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Speaker 5: you probably don't have to leave the date early to

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Speaker 5: go to work. But that's exactly what Katrina had to

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Speaker 5: do after she took a phone call in the middle

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Speaker 5: here seeking our help. Yeah. Overall, not a great review

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Speaker 5: for day dates.

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Speaker 2: Katrina, Do you wish you would have done a dinner

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Speaker 2: or something with him?

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Speaker 1: Instead.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I'm happy with the decision. I just wish

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Speaker 5: Maybe you should have done a night walk through a

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Speaker 5: park that would have gone back.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. These are just ideas. We really just

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Speaker 5: need to get to the bottom of this. Call ray

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Speaker 5: Raymond and hopefully he answers and can give us what

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Speaker 5: we were looking for.

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Speaker 1: Short somebody's nickname before you, I.

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Speaker 5: Know, I correct myself. I'll call him Raymond unless he

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Speaker 5: gives me permission. But here we go. Let's see. Hello. Hey,

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Speaker 5: what's up, Raymond? This is going Sorry, this is Raymond, right, Yes, Hey,

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Speaker 5: what's up man?

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Speaker 3: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Sorry for being overly friendly.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, listen, this may sound made up, but I'm being

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Speaker 5: one hundred percent serious when I tell you that you're

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Speaker 5: on the phone with a radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning right now.

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Speaker 1: Welcome do it, Raymond?

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Speaker 5: Okay, we're podcast rivals with Julia Luis Dreyfuss show.

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Speaker 1: That's true. It's true.

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Speaker 2: Jeff has been trying to take her down for at

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Speaker 2: least half a decade at this point.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're closing in on it. But the thing is,

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Speaker 5: we do a segment on this show that Julia would

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Speaker 5: never do, called the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 7: Uh, and that's why you that's what you called me.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 5: We want you to be a part of it because

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Speaker 5: one of our listeners asked us to reach out to you. Okay,

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Speaker 5: a woman named Katrina.

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Speaker 7: Yep, yeah, okay, reaction.

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Speaker 5: I like your cold energy. Let's keep it going.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's kind of the opposite. She's so bubbly

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Speaker 5: We heard about the date from her, and we're looking

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Speaker 5: to kind of get your version of the story.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So she told she told you all about it.

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Speaker 2: She told us that she thought you were really cute

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Speaker 5: She mentioned, like hanging out at this park, you guys

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, I thought that was kind of

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Speaker 5: Oh well, there was one thing that she felt bad about,

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Speaker 5: Was, although she said she said she didn't really have

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Speaker 2: And she feels really bad. I mean, I'm sure she

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Speaker 7: I mean, that's not the big thing that I was

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Speaker 5: It's not would you mind telling us the big thing?

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Speaker 7: She wanted to have a park date, so I get

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Speaker 2: Parent and I found out that my nanny was going

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, is.

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Speaker 1: That what was happening?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she was like, my boss is paying me twenty

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Speaker 7: Well that's maybe the weird The weirdest part is like

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Speaker 3: You hadn't watched she left the kid with a stranger.

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Speaker 1: It was just not cute enough.

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Speaker 7: Who does that? Who brings the kid on their date?

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Speaker 2: Like you're a waiter, you wouldn't be like, hey, let's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's wild. No did you say anything like I

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Speaker 7: I was going to but when she came back from

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Speaker 5: Oh well, here's the good news. Now is your chance

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Speaker 5: to confront her about it because you don't know this, Raymond.

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Speaker 5: But Katrina's on the other line listening. She really is

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Speaker 1: She's there probably with the kid.

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Speaker 5: Ye, Katrina, Hi, Katrina, Yeah you left out a pretty

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Speaker 5: Oh, I didn't realize he was with an eye shot.

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Speaker 1: Like, as a mom, I am not hiring someone to

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Speaker 2: Car far away from a playground where my five year

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Speaker 5: Okay, sure, but with all due respect, book, this isn't

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, it's not that far.

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Speaker 8: It's like forty feet.

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Speaker 5: And that's sprinting kid. If anything bad happened, she could

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Speaker 5: reach him. Yes, thank you, But you know what we're

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Speaker 5: we're jumping in with all our opinions. That's not really

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Speaker 8: I just I want to apologize because I know that

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Speaker 6: Me bringing my kid bothered you.

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Speaker 8: But kid, I mean, I don't want to say his

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Speaker 1: The radio, but now we're protecting him.

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Speaker 5: That's a good name.

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Speaker 8: Raymond wasn't really complaining when.

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Speaker 6: I had like all these snacks with me, like oh yeah,

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Speaker 8: So like I gave you string cheese and like apple

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Speaker 5: So is he there? All right? Raymond? You got to

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Speaker 1: Did you eat the kids snacks?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 7: Bit? She gave them to me? Kids bothered me that

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Speaker 7: I basically got tricked into doing Freeze childcare.

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Speaker 3: And I wonder, and I still wonder, and I hate

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Speaker 5: With it was the seven year old. She was still

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Speaker 2: Over you, okay, Okay, yeah, I wonder if it was

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Speaker 1: You feel like a terrible DNA.

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Speaker 5: Terrible when Brooke would get a drink with you.

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Speaker 2: He'sdable, Like, could you could you look past that?

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Speaker 1: She's just really bad at her job?

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Speaker 5: What do you think about that, Raymond? No, I tried, yeah, best,

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Speaker 5: I don't know why there, I guess I'm not even

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Speaker 8: Well, I'm really sorry Raymond that I, you know, disappointed

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Speaker 6: But you know, good luck in that.

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Speaker 1: You've got to stop bringing dates on your nanny job.

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Speaker 1: The kid is old enough to tell his parents. You're

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Speaker 5: Brook, It's not about you. Oh my gosh, you're gonna

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Speaker 3: You invite the guy over to the house.

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Speaker 2: Oh No, even more scary Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: This really just goes to show it's harder to be

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Speaker 2: No, I had a babysitter bring a boyfriend over once,

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Speaker 5: Right here, you know, I mean, I feel bad for

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Speaker 5: the nannies they have so many rules have to fall.

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Speaker 5: They're not allowed to let the kids have too much

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Speaker 1: What's the fun in childhood anymore?

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Speaker 5: Exactly, So there's any nannies out there listening, I mean,

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Speaker 1: No, that's a good lesson for the kids.

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Speaker 5: Okay, get everybody in listening at Brook and Jeffrey wherever

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Speaker 5: you get your podcasts, And if you ever need help

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Speaker 5: with your love life, email the show. We'll call that

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