1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine. Today on the bright Side, we're popping off 2 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: on the biggest pop culture moments of the week with 3 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: Claudia and Jackie Ashriy. You may know them from their 4 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: podcast The Toast. So we're asking a few questions today. 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 1: Are you pro pda? What do you do with a 6 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: diamond ring after a divorce? And boom, what's scarier than 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: an unwonted ex coming back into your life. It's Friday, 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: October eighteenth. I'm Danielle Robe. 9 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: And I'm Simone Boyce and this is the bright Side 10 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: from Hello Sunshine, a daily show where we come together 11 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 2: to share women's stories, laugh, learn and brighten your day. 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 3: Well, Danielle, happy Friday to you. 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: Boo, Happy Friday. 14 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: You can't keep doing that when I'm not expecting it. 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: I'm terrified. 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: Well, honestly, we've had such a fun week. I love 17 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: looking back on our conversations together. I was definitely thinking 18 00:00:55,440 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: about Kacobell's interview. She's the author and fall Ya Reese's 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: book club pick, and she used her writing to help 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 1: discover her place in her native heritage. I loved hearing 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: about how she stepped into her multiple identities. 22 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: Yes, and I loved our conversation with comedian Leanne Morgan. 23 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 2: I mean, the fact that she didn't start her now 24 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 2: hugely successful comedy career until she was in her thirties 25 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 2: is such a great reminder that it's never too late. 26 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 3: And I can't wait to. 27 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: See her on the big screen with Reese, Withutherspoon and 28 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 2: Will Ferrell next year. 29 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: That's going to be epic. 30 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: She's Honestly, if somebody asked me, like which I'm new 31 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: to the bright Side, which episode should I listen to? 32 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: She's one of the ones I would point to one 33 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: hundred percent. She was so fun. We also had a 34 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: really informative Wellness Wednesday this week with dietitian, plant based 35 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: cook and New York Times bestselling author Roddy Davlukia. Her 36 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: insight on food and spices and illness was really interesting. 37 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, dare I say spicy? 38 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: And Kamila Alvis McConaughey. I have to tell you, Simone, 39 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about what she said in that interview 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: since we spoke to her. She shared that when she 41 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: was cleaning houses when she first got here, she told 42 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: the woman that she was cleaning the houses with. On Fridays, 43 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: we go to the Dollar Store and we buy one 44 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: thing nice because everything we do is for other people, 45 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: and we're doing one fun thing for us. And I 46 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: just felt like that story embodied her spirit. She was 47 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: pretty wonderful. She was doing the Millennial Treat. Before the 48 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: Millennial Treat was the thing, she really was. 49 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: All Right, well, we've got a great show today. We've 50 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: got so many pop culture topics to discuss, but first 51 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 2: it's time to spotlight our favorite moment of the week. 52 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: Yep. Today we're dedicating our spotlight to trailblazer and fair 53 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: pay activists Lily Ledbetter. She sadly passed away Saturday at 54 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: the age of eighty six. You know, when my grandpa 55 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: passed away, The rabbi at his funeral said that people 56 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 1: passed twice. The first time is when their physical body passes, 57 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: and the second is when we stop telling their stories. 58 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: And so one of the reasons I love our spotlights 59 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,959 Speaker 1: is I think it's so important to continue to tell 60 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: these women's stories. And Lily Ugh what a story. She 61 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: was known for many things, and among them was filing 62 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: a gender discrimination lawsuit against Goodyear after discovering she was 63 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: being paid less than her male colleagues for the exact 64 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: same work. So she learned about the pay disparity through 65 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: an anonymous tip nearly twenty years into her career as 66 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: one of the few female supervisors at a tire plant 67 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: in Alabama, and in nineteen ninety nine, as she neared retirement, 68 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: Lily decided to take action and sued her employer. The 69 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: case went all the way to the Supreme Court, which 70 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: ultimately sided with Goodyear, ruling that Lily had filed her 71 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: complaint too late. They argued she should have done so 72 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: within one hundred and eighty days of her first discriminatory 73 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: paycheck way back in nineteen seventy nine. While that decision 74 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: sparked widespread outrage and led to a famous descent by 75 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: you guessed it, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. If you have 76 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: a few minutes this weekend, it's worth a reader. Her 77 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: words are super powerful. But that wasn't the end of 78 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: Lily's story. Two years after the Supreme Court ruling, President 79 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: Barack Obama signed the Lily Ledbetter Fair Pay Act into law, 80 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: effectively removing the statute of limitations on fair pay claims. 81 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 3: Wow, what an incredible story. 82 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: You know, we often have these discussions about equal pay 83 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: and it feels like we're talking about it in a vacuum, 84 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 2: like no one else in history has experienced what we're 85 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 2: going through. That's why it's so important for us to 86 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: remember women like Lily Ledbetter and her advocacy and efforts. 87 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 3: For equal pay. 88 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: M M all right, Danielle, I think it's about that 89 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 2: time you ready to pop off? 90 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: What time is it, simone, it's pop off a clock. 91 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 1: In that case, I'm ready. Claudia Jackie, welcome to the 92 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 1: right side. 93 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having me. 94 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Hi. We both are living for your podcast, 95 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: The Toast and of course the sisterly dynamic. We always 96 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: hear you talk about the biggest stories in pop culture, 97 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,600 Speaker 1: but we're kind of curious about those moments from childhood. 98 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: Who were your icons growing up. 99 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 5: Miley Cyrus, Hanna Montana. 100 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 6: Yeah, we were very much raised by Hannah Montana. I 101 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 6: went through a phase where like I would have laid 102 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 6: my life out on the line for Joe Jonas and 103 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 6: the Jonas brothers, like that was a huge part. 104 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 4: Of my upbringing as well. 105 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 6: We were very much a house also divided by boy bands, 106 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 6: like we were growing up in the InSync. 107 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 4: Backstreet Boys era. 108 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 6: Jackie sort of led the family in the Backstreet boys standhood, 109 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 6: and then our older sister Olivia was the leader, and like, 110 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 6: if you want, if you wanted to hang out in 111 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 6: Jackie's room or you wanted to hang out in the 112 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 6: Libya's room, you had to pledge your allegiance to either 113 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 6: boy band. Like it was so serious, it was so nuts, 114 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:35,119 Speaker 6: but we were obsessed. Wait, remind me the birth order again, 115 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 6: I'm older. How does that dynamic play out in your relationship? 116 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 6: Do you do you think that you embody elder sister 117 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,239 Speaker 6: traits one dousand Marsana. 118 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 3: She's always onelling you me. 119 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,799 Speaker 5: No, I'm just always trying to guide you, yeah, into. 120 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 6: Doing the right thing, Like Jackie, can you always ask 121 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 6: me for guidance? Yes, She's very much like molding me 122 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 6: into the person that I am. Like I'm just becoming 123 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 6: a Jackie two point Oh. 124 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 3: Oh, that's so cute. 125 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: I grew up an only child, so I'm always fascinated 126 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 2: by birth order dynamics. 127 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 6: And we're a fan family that like really respects birth 128 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 6: order dynamics because we're four daughters and like number three Jackie' 129 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 6: number two, and we have two other sisters and like 130 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 6: growing up, like the order in which we were born 131 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 6: played such an important role in like, you know, if 132 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 6: we would go on vacation or like there was like 133 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 6: five pieces of candy, we would choose. 134 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: Always birth order. 135 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 6: Like we very much like leaned into like respecting your 136 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 6: elders and like it kind of stunk being the third 137 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 6: out of four, but it was an important thing in 138 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 6: our lives. 139 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 2: We know that you have your pulse on pop culture 140 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 2: all the time. What do you think is the most 141 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: over hyped pop culture story right now? 142 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 4: The thing is with Jackie and I, like we will 143 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 4: beat something. 144 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: To a cult. 145 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 6: It takes us a lot for us to grow tired 146 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 6: of something like that's our job. We live for when 147 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 6: things like continue to be hyped because it gives us 148 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 6: actually like something to talk about. 149 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 7: But I also feel like there are things that are 150 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 7: happening in pop culture and when they don't interest us, 151 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 7: like we just. 152 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 5: Skip right over them. 153 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 7: So of the things that like we love and a door, 154 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 7: like we really we don't get sick of stuff, but 155 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 7: there's definitely a lot of stuff that goes on that 156 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 7: is a blind spot for us. And we admit that 157 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 7: we're we're like we just don't care about these people. 158 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, Like earlier this summer, we chose not to watch 159 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 6: Love Island, which was a mistake on our part. If 160 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 6: everybody could shut up about it, because like we don't 161 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 6: know what you're talking about it, and we just feel 162 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 6: left out. 163 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: I feel the same way. 164 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 6: It's not that it's like getting like two overhyped. It's 165 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 6: like we can't participate. Therefore we need everyone to be quiet. 166 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 2: Well, Love Island is a huge time investment, too big 167 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 2: of an undertable. 168 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: It's way too big. Like if you're behind, I'm staying behind. 169 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 3: You can't catch up. 170 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, not enough people talk about that. 171 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 5: We were enjoying our summer. 172 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 3: We were outside Jackie. 173 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 2: We were living, We are touching grass, we were in 174 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: these streets, y'all. 175 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay. Well, a story that the media doesn't 176 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: grow tired of is Taylor and Travis. This week, we 177 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: couldn't escape the photos of them hugged up at the 178 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: Yankees Cleveland Guardians game. They were like holding hands and hugging. 179 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: Taylor even fed Travis some popcorn at one point, which 180 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: I thought was very cute. 181 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 3: Did you did you really think it was cute? 182 00:07:55,800 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: I did, because to me, they do understated they're not 183 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: like Travis Sparker and Courtney Kardashian. To me, that's like 184 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to see that. It's a lot for me. 185 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: You're not in your head, Claudia, Yeah, yeah. 186 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 6: Taylor has like spoken a lot about that, like especially 187 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 6: how it come, like how her relationship with her body, 188 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 6: Like you don't see a lot of pictures of her 189 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 6: like in bikinis. Right, Yes, she's very conservative when it 190 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 6: comes to her body, because she has said in her documentary, 191 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 6: like she knows the value of that. She knows like 192 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 6: a photo of her on the beach like will be 193 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 6: sold for money and that makes her really uncomfortable. So 194 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 6: she's low key like a conservative GIRLI when it comes 195 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 6: to things like that, like the way she dresses, and 196 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 6: so the fact that she's never like outwardly pedia Like 197 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 6: I can think of like three examples obviously, like her 198 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 6: and Tom hitdlestand on the beach, her and Harry Styles 199 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 6: New Year's Eve, Like there aren't a lot for someone. 200 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 4: Who, like, you know, everyone says she's like a million boyfriends. 201 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 6: Like she doesn't have like a million pictures of her 202 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 6: like making out with guys or like straddling them. Courtney 203 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 6: Kardashian vibe. So the fact that we did get they 204 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 6: like kiss. I mean he put his hat up in 205 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 6: front of them and then they like kiss behind the hat, 206 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 6: like very demure of them. I lived for it, like 207 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 6: I could do more, do more, I'm ready. 208 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 4: I wanted to see everything. 209 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: I think they do it nicely. 210 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 2: Can we also just talk about the fact that Claudia 211 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 2: just dropped like ten Taylor Swift factoids in a matter 212 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 2: of like thirty seconds. 213 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 3: You're an encyclopedia. The words you're. 214 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: Looking for is loser, no, no, no, Okay. Here's my 215 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: other question though, because it got me thinking about celebrity 216 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: PDA in general. And I constantly think of jay Z 217 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: and Beyonce because oftentimes when they're at award shows, they're 218 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: sitting in the front row and they almost hold court. 219 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: They never even actually get up to greet people. They 220 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: make people come to them or people just gravitate to them, 221 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 1: but you don't see them PDA. All they kind of 222 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: do is hold hands, even like on a yacht in 223 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: the middle of summer, when we like catch them paparazzi style, 224 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: they are not PDA. Is there a power in that? 225 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 4: I feel like it's a personal preference. 226 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 6: No, like some people are just comfortable like having you know, 227 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 6: tits out for the boys, and some are not. 228 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 7: And it also depends on the maturity of your relationship. 229 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 7: I think PDA is more often happening in a very 230 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 7: novel relationship, and then as you spend more time with 231 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 7: each other, like it just it wanes a bit. But 232 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 7: of course older couples also do PDA, but I think 233 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 7: that has a lot to do with it. 234 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: Well, you guys are both married, are you PDA people? 235 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: I am not. 236 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 7: I don't think that will surprise anyone. However, like early 237 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 7: days of my relationship, I was. 238 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you guys, she was out of control. 239 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 3: Like it was an example. That was an example, just. 240 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 5: Like hugging, kissing, sitting on laps, like walking Eve. 241 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 4: Comes to mind. 242 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what happened on New Year's Eve. 243 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 4: We just were all together. 244 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 6: They had really just started dating, and they were like 245 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 6: so head over heels falling in love with each other. 246 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 4: And it was like we were with their family, like 247 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 4: calm down. 248 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: It was just like it was a lot okay, but 249 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: it was New Year's Eve, no, and it was a. 250 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 4: Young love and it was beautiful. I was just a hater, 251 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: you know. 252 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, but as a whole, I'm not a PDA person 253 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 7: myself though in other people, unless you're being disgusting, it 254 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 7: doesn't bother me, Like yeah, unless I'm seeing saliva and 255 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 7: tongues wagging, Like if you're being cute and sitting on 256 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 7: each other's laps and smooches and hugs and touchy, like 257 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 7: that's really cute. 258 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 6: I don't really have like a general rule, Like I'm 259 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 6: kind of hypocritical in the sense that, like it depends who. 260 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 4: We're talking about. 261 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 6: Like if I think you're gross, like then your PDA 262 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 6: is gross. 263 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 5: You're a gross person, then it's gross. 264 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 6: Like if you give off the vibe that you don't 265 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 6: like brush your teeth twice a day, like I don't 266 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 6: want to see. But if you look like, you know, 267 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 6: clean and well kept and like you in your manner, 268 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 6: both really good looking, like you know what, I'll allow 269 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 6: it so not to be shallow. But it's a case 270 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 6: by case I can't make like a grand statement. 271 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: Well, actually, speaking of this, Taylor and Travis have like 272 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: been in New York a lot that seems to be 273 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: their hub, and I see all these photos of them 274 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: coming out of restaurants, and it's to me, like, I'm like, Okay, 275 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: they know they're getting paparazzied, of course, so they're wearing 276 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 1: certain outfits. I see both of their styles changing. And 277 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 1: before I give my two cents, because I have maybe 278 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 1: ten cents for this, I want to know what you 279 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: guys think about the Taylor Travis evolving style. 280 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, you can tell she like is really feeling herself. 281 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 6: I feel like we you're with someone who like really 282 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 6: hypes you up. And I've always said this about Like, 283 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 6: people always comment like, oh, wow, you're such a confident person. 284 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 6: And I really get for my husband, like he is 285 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 6: like always gassing me up. He thinks I'm literally so wargeous, 286 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 6: like he thinks some of the most hot like and 287 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 6: that makes you feel so confident. It gives you, like 288 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 6: the willingness to try new things and wear different tops 289 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 6: that you might know wear, and you gel tillick Taylor, 290 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 6: like I said, she's low key conservative. She's definitely feeling 291 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 6: herself a coarse sit sexualis in her own way. 292 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, I agree, definitely in her sexy era, but then 293 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 7: also trying to like pair it with all the Easter 294 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 7: eggs that she has to like get in for whatever, 295 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 7: like work project she has next, So we're getting like 296 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 7: sexy plaid. 297 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, sexy irishman. 298 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 2: That sounds like a huge burden to have to think 299 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 2: about Easter eggs all the. 300 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: Time, But they have stylists who do that. 301 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:37,679 Speaker 3: I guess, I guess, Okay, I have. 302 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: A hot take. I think Travis's style has gotten worse, 303 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: very different. 304 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 4: It's different, it's there's definitely been a shift. 305 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: There's been a shift. He used to kind of be 306 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: like he had swags. 307 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 4: Swag, and now it's giving very much father for. 308 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 3: Yes, Hey, hey we love our fathers before. Okay, I'm 309 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 3: kind of. 310 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: Like cookout vibes. 311 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 7: Maybe it's aspirational. Maybe it's signaling the future. Maybe he's 312 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 7: dressing for the job. He wants a job. 313 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 3: He has very good point, Jackie. Maybe okay. 314 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 2: Well, Speaking of relationships, Tiamuri of Sister Sister Fame recently 315 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: opened up about repurposing her wedding ring from her ex husband. 316 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: So Tia decided to turn her wedding ring into a 317 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 2: necklace for her thirteen year old son Kree and a 318 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: bracelet for her six year old daughter Cairo, and she 319 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 2: says that the message behind this gift to them is 320 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 2: that they have been her greatest gift even though that 321 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: marriage didn't work out like that. 322 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it too. It's very sustainable. 323 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 6: First of all, like nobody talks about like all the 324 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 6: money that people spend on like engagement gifts and wedding 325 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 6: rings that you know, fifty percent of marriages end up 326 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 6: in divorce, so it's kind of wasteful. And the fact 327 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 6: that like she's able to repurpose it, like, Okay, the 328 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 6: marriage didn't work out, but these are the kids parents. 329 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 6: I actually think it's really sweet. I'm surprising for people. 330 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 6: This is the first time I've ever heard of anyone 331 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 6: doing this, and I'm surprised this' I'm more of a trend. 332 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 3: I agree. 333 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 2: I think it's genius. I think I think all divorced 334 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 2: couples should do this. 335 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 3: I think it's genious. 336 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: It's the brilliant. It's kind of yeah, because the kids also. 337 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: I heard Kelly Clarkson say this in an interview recently 338 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: when she was like, when you get divorced, you have 339 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: to talk about the meaning of love or the definition 340 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 1: of love to kids a lot, because kids say, like, oh, 341 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: you don't love daddy anymore, Like it's hard for them 342 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: to understand what divorce means. And I think the signals 343 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: like you were made from love, Daddy, and I still 344 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: love you. This still matters to us. Like, I just 345 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 1: think it's really beautiful. 346 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that there's something that's always going to connect them. Yeah, 347 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 2: you know so, and they get to carry that as 348 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 2: a token around their neck or their wrists. 349 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 6: I know Greta Tuneberg would approve of being as sustainable 350 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 6: as he is, being like very very Greta. 351 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 5: Approved and selfless. 352 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: Jaggie, what do you think. 353 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 5: I think there's nothing not to like. I think that's 354 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 5: so sweet. 355 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 7: I feel like most times people try to think of 356 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 7: how they can repurpose the ring, like for themselves and 357 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 7: maybe put it on a necklace. 358 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 5: But like none of. 359 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 7: Those ideas I don't know, they just like don't really 360 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 7: resonate with me as much as something like this. 361 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 5: I think it's really sweet. 362 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 2: Well, here's one more thing that TSA about this. She 363 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 2: said that it didn't feel right to sell the wedding ring. 364 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on selling wedding rings? 365 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 6: Well, she's rich, so like she's a celebrity, she has 366 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 6: that privilege. But I think a lot of times people 367 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 6: literally need to sell it to pay for their lawyers. Like, 368 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 6: so it's a case my case thing, Like, you know, 369 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 6: everyone's socioeconomic situations are different. 370 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:18,080 Speaker 5: It's case by case. 371 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: Were you ring people before you got married? Like I 372 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: have friends who have galleries in their phone of rings 373 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: that they then send to their fiance ahead of this, 374 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: being like, here's what I like, and then some people DGAF. 375 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got engaged like kind of young. 376 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 6: I feel like maybe if I had like grown up 377 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 6: a little bit more, I would have spent more time 378 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 6: like ring hunting on interest. 379 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 4: I was like, it didn't mean that much to me. 380 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 6: I think some people it's like the dream. For me, 381 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 6: I was just like, okay, cute love. 382 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 7: I cared what my ring was going to look like, 383 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 7: but I didn't have any idea of what I wanted 384 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 7: it to look like. I'm not even a huge jewelry person. 385 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 7: I didn't know like emerald is more than a color. 386 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 7: I had to kind of educate myself and what I did, 387 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 7: which I thought was really helpful. As I and I 388 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 7: tried on rings, and immediately I knew what shape was 389 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 7: the most me and what looked best on my hand. 390 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 7: And I feel like people have that experience where it's like, 391 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 7: you know what represents you the best and also what 392 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 7: looks best on you. I feel like it didn't. It 393 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 7: wasn't even a hard choice. Once I started trying rings on, 394 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 7: I knew exactly what was right for me. 395 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 4: Jacks, what's your thoughts on like upgrading your ring after 396 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 4: like five or ten years of marriage, like every decade 397 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 4: or so? Love it? 398 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 6: You know, because Joanna Gaines like famously rich queen like 399 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 6: won't upgrade. She has like the same little thing that 400 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 6: Chip gave her and living the chapel like and like, 401 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 6: while that's an immensely admirable and beautiful, Like, bitch, you're rich, 402 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 6: Like get a big diamond. 403 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't you want like a big honkin thing? 404 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:40,479 Speaker 3: Yeah? 405 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that if you can, you should. 406 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: Simone, did you care? 407 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 2: So? 408 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: Uh someone's looking at her ring? 409 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 3: I'm looking, Yeah, my ring. 410 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,119 Speaker 2: I did not have Pinterest sports of rings picked out. 411 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 2: We did go together, but I also got engaged very young, 412 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: and there are so many choices that I would have 413 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 2: changed if I were getting married now. Oh my god, 414 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 2: my bridesmaid's dresses were hideous. I'm so sorry. I apologized 415 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 2: all of them. I had these old I was so 416 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 2: I was a child bride. I was like twenty three. 417 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 2: I was so young twenty two. I got engaged when 418 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,880 Speaker 2: I was twenty one. Yeah, there were pink like lights 419 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 2: in my tent, like for the reception. 420 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: I don't know why pink was the color anyways. 421 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 2: So the reason why I love my ring is because 422 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 2: the wedding band detaches from the ring and there's space 423 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 2: for us to add on to it, like we can 424 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 2: add on a third piece, which we've said was going 425 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 2: to happen at ten years, hasn't happened yet. But here's 426 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 2: open for fifteen. We need to take a quick break, 427 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: but we'll be right back to popping off with Claudia 428 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 2: and Jackie Ashriy. And we're back with Claudia and Jackie Ashriy. 429 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: The next topic we're going to cover is going to 430 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: be really tough for Claudia and Simone, so Jackie are 431 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: going to have to help me out here. It's the 432 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: topic of exes. You guys don't have very many, you. 433 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 4: Know, sleigh slay the house town Yeah, no x'es. 434 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 1: It's truly a sleigh as somebody who has many exes 435 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: that I wish I didn't have. It is a sleigh, 436 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:14,479 Speaker 1: Yeah it is. 437 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 6: And honestly, I don't know if that makes us like 438 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,719 Speaker 6: dating experts or we know nothing, because like I've actually 439 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 6: been on yeah, one date in my. 440 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 4: Life and so I'm amazing to marry you. Yeah, it 441 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 4: was such a good date. He couldn't stay away. 442 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, there's this article in the Cut about how 443 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: exes haunt us, which feels pretty timely leading up to Halloween. 444 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: There's nothing like an X popping and that says boo, 445 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: that scares me more. To be honest, they gathered stories 446 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: related to X's reaching back out, So from exes stalking 447 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: LinkedIn pages to getting drunk dialed by an ex for 448 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: fifteen years. That seems like harassment. 449 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:51,199 Speaker 5: Yeah. 450 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: Literally, I wish my ex would stalk my LinkedIn because 451 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 2: I'd be able to see it. Like, at least on LinkedIn, 452 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 2: you can. 453 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 4: You get some closure. 454 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Like, oh, do you. 455 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: Think that it's okay to be in touch with any 456 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: ex's even if it's appropriate while you're married. 457 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 6: We were just talking about this because Kaylenicle Travis Kelsey's 458 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 6: Exibol podcast, like talking about him in a way that 459 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 6: like a lot of people, you know, had a lot 460 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 6: to say about and you know, we were sympathetic that, Like, yeah, 461 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 6: you were someone for five years and you share so much, 462 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 6: like so many deep parts of yourself, Like it's hard. 463 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 6: But at the end of the day, like when that 464 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 6: person moves on, like it does become inappropriate for you 465 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 6: to continue having a relationship or any form of communication 466 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 6: with that person, Like I'm I'm not about that, Like 467 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 6: we can't be friends. 468 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, and even before they move on, Like if 469 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,479 Speaker 7: you're both single, but you broke up, like you broke up, 470 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 7: and if you want to be in touch, get back 471 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:38,479 Speaker 7: to back together. 472 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 3: See. 473 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: I think that there's a statute of limitations. I feel like, 474 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: if you are friends with an ex from fifteen twenty 475 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 2: years ago, I think that's fine to stay in touch. 476 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 7: Did you stay in touch for fifteen years or fifteen 477 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 7: years later, like, hey, how you doing. 478 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 5: No, that's just a stranger. 479 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 2: I think it's only appropriate if you've stayed in touch 480 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: for fifteen years, You've been friends that whole time. They've 481 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 2: met your new partner, they've kind of been ingratiated into 482 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 2: the social group. 483 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 3: I think. 484 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 2: I will say I think situations like this are rare. 485 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 2: Most of the time. I think it's really inappropriate. 486 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like, just don't go there. You know, 487 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,919 Speaker 4: you should be happy in you're new Like, what do 488 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,119 Speaker 4: you need another friend for? You're in a happy relationship. 489 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 4: I'm all you need. 490 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: If you saw your husband like his you know how 491 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 1: you can see who they've looked up on Instagram? If 492 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 1: you saw your husband had searched an ex, how would 493 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,640 Speaker 1: you feel? And why are you laughing, Jackie? 494 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 5: Because that's like a funny situation. 495 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's funny. Ben doesn't have Ben's like ex girlfriend 496 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 6: like it was when she was like. 497 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 3: Fourteen, like that kind But seriously, I would be mad, 498 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 3: like I was, excuse. 499 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 4: You can only look at pictures of me? 500 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'd want to know why. 501 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 7: I feel like there would be a reason, like oh 502 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 7: I heard that she had a baby right where, you 503 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 7: know something, as. 504 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 5: Long as they're so good reasons. 505 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Otherwise it makes me livid for some reason. 506 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 507 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: I my ex ex boyfriend, I like saw his phone 508 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: and he would look up his ex girlfriend every so 509 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: often just to see what she was up to. And 510 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: I was like, what are you holding onto? It made 511 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 1: me so angry now and the. 512 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 6: Fact that he did it repeatedly like a pattern, like 513 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 6: he had something about that person, Like that's even worse. 514 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: Exactly. Thank you so much, Claudia. I'm on your side, 515 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: thank you. 516 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 3: I disagree with all of you. I think it's human nature. 517 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: I think I think it's natural to be curious about 518 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,919 Speaker 2: someone that you've spent so much time with. And I 519 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 2: think as long as it's not like problematic and they're 520 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 2: not messaging them. 521 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 7: I agree, But not like quarterly, maybe every few years, 522 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 7: like it is like it's a fun blast from the past. 523 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 7: But I think that there's like once a year max. 524 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 7: And if you happen to get caught that one time 525 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 7: in the year, unfortunate, that's that's suspicious. 526 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 2: This is something like. 527 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 6: The Internet sort of has ruined because you have access 528 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,479 Speaker 6: to everybody's information. Like back in the day, what we're 529 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 6: gonna do stop by the person's place of work? Like 530 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 6: you really just were really news letter right, you were 531 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 6: able to forget about people. 532 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 1: Now you can't. No, No, it's such a twenty twenty 533 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: four problem. 534 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 3: You're right. 535 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: I think about my parents, like, how are they going 536 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 1: to look up their exes? They were never to be 537 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 1: heard or seen again. 538 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 3: Have your parents ever looked up their exes. Have you 539 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 3: asked them this? 540 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 1: I haven't. I asked my parents a lot of inappropriate 541 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 1: questions that. 542 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 2: Okay, here's one more topic we're going to pop off 543 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 2: on y'all. So Pop Sugar recently published an article about 544 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 2: the living apart together movement. If you're not familiar, this 545 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 2: is essentially a relationship dynamic in which couples live apart 546 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 2: from each other. We're not talking about in different bedrooms. 547 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: We're talking about under separate roofs. So the benefits include 548 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 2: according to the people who are in these types of relationships, 549 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 2: benefits include preserving personal space and independence. Also could be 550 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 2: beneficial to couples with wildly different sleep schedules or snoring habits. 551 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: That's the one that came to mind for me. What 552 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 2: are your thoughts on this dynamic? Could you ever see 553 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 2: yourself living apart together? No, I'm like cripplingly, like I 554 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: hating alone. 555 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 6: I love being married, Like, come home sooner, come home 556 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 6: from work, quit your job, be my friend, like I 557 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 6: I that's to me one of the benefits of marriage. 558 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 6: I try to judge, you know, anyone set up, but like, 559 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 6: if I'm gonna judge, like, this is not for me, like, 560 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 6: this is not what marriage is about. Marriage is like, 561 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 6: you know, making a commitment to like be together all 562 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,360 Speaker 6: the time. 563 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 4: It's a marriage. 564 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, and I do think that I don't know the 565 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 7: ages of people who are doing this, but I do 566 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,959 Speaker 7: think it's something up. Maybe you could unlock, like forty 567 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 7: years into marriage when it's like listen, I gotta get 568 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 7: a good night's sleep. You like to watch this show 569 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 7: like we obviously love each other. 570 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: I mean there's always this research that comes out about 571 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 1: like is it okay or beneficial for your marriage to 572 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: sleep apart because sleep experts all say yes, like getting 573 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 1: great sleep is the key factor here, but like people 574 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 1: always say no. 575 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 3: I could see you doing this honestly with your sleep. 576 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: You're obsessed with I'm obsessed with sleep. Yeah, but I 577 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: feel very similar to Claudia, like I'm like a crawling 578 00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: in your skin, like we are together together. 579 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 4: By the way, I am also obsessed with sleep. 580 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 5: So ever, you probably sleep better with Ben. 581 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 582 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 4: I like sleep so bad when I'm alone. 583 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,679 Speaker 6: I'm Loki also like afraid of the dark, like I 584 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 6: watched like so much SVU growing up. 585 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 4: I always think there's a murder in my closet. 586 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 6: Whatever, the opposite of like living apart together, Like I'm 587 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 6: like living up your butt, Like that's that's my ideal marriage. 588 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 3: Me too. 589 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 1: I want to like crawl into your pants and your 590 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: sweatshirt whatever. 591 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 4: It's like you couldn't possibly be close enough to me. 592 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, okay, I need to get away from you. 593 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, me, let me hug her. 594 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: She won't let me hug her. 595 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,479 Speaker 6: True, that is Jackie and I like, good luck ever 596 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 6: getting like a kiss from Jackie. 597 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 1: Did you guys watch the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show? 598 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 4: We did? 599 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 1: We did? 600 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 6: We had really we did, like a forty five minute 601 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 6: recap on the podcast because we had I needed to 602 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 6: work through our feelings almost. 603 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: Like and I felt the same way. We had a 604 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: lot of feelings. 605 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 7: Someone commented, so did the girls like the show or 606 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,879 Speaker 7: did they not like the show? I couldn't tell you, Like, 607 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 7: there were things about it that were good, but over 608 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 7: we're all like it just wasn't iconic, and I don't 609 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 7: think it accomplished what they were trying to accomplish, which 610 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 7: I still don't know what they were trying to accomplish. 611 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 2: I think it's really hard to bring back that show. 612 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 2: I just think it's kind of it doesn't age well 613 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 2: even if you try to come back with good intentions. 614 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,479 Speaker 2: We all know, we were all there, We all saw 615 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 2: the culture. We were part of the culture. 616 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: Yes, well, you said something yesterday that I thought was brilliant, 617 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: which was you were like, we. 618 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 3: Can't just forgive you Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 619 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 2: I think if you grew up as a teenager in 620 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 2: the nineties early two thousands, we were all part of 621 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 2: that toxic beauty culture. We all saw the tabloids, we 622 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 2: all saw how women were consistently torn down. 623 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 3: In the media. 624 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 2: And you can't expect us to just forget, Like, we're 625 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 2: not going to forget what happened. 626 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 4: That's what Jackie was saying. 627 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 6: Like, remember back in the day, they would have like packages, 628 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 6: pre recorded packages between each. 629 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,919 Speaker 4: Like music set and explain the outfits and the meaning. 630 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 4: They just like no explanation. They didn't explain to us. 631 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 4: Is this a one time thing? Is this a reunion? 632 00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 4: Are they back bed better than ever every year? 633 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 6: What's the point? What's different about it? Like there was 634 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 6: no story. It was just I liked it because it 635 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 6: was short. I love short things. 636 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 4: I'd like such a short but they really shortened meaning. 637 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 4: They needed meaning yeah, there was no meaning. 638 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 6: In addition to like, yes, we had a lot of 639 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 6: critiques about the actual show. There were far too many models. 640 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 6: The camera work was really bad. Everything was so dark, 641 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 6: the makeup was badly, costumes were ugly. Like when it 642 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 6: comes to the actual purpose, I'm unclear on why they 643 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 6: brought it back. 644 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't answer the why. I'm left wondering, like, 645 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 2: what was the point? You know, it's that we were 646 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 2: missing the why. But honestly, just us talking about it today, 647 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 2: this is a great millennial therapy session. 648 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 3: I feel a lot better. So thank you. 649 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: What I learned is that internally I understand their why, 650 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 1: and it didn't it wasn't communicated. Yeah, smart, what you said, 651 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 1: where was the story? 652 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 2: Claudia, Jackie, thank you so much for popping off with 653 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,800 Speaker 2: us today and bringing your sisterly energy. 654 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 3: We loved it. 655 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much, so much for having so 656 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 1: feat Thank you. 657 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 2: Claudia and Jackie Aushriya are sisters and co hosts of 658 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 2: the pop culture podcast The Toast. 659 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 1: It's time for another short break. We'll be right back, Simon. 660 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 1: We've had a lot of fun talking about what's in 661 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: our cards each week. 662 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 3: I know, right, I mean, I'm trying to keep up. 663 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 3: There's been so many good products. 664 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,640 Speaker 1: Well, today we have an entire fall decor refresh courtesy 665 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 1: of Walmart. To me, follow is all about entertaining, right. 666 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: It's the time of year when you start spending more 667 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: time at home, so you're having people over for dinner parties, 668 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: or if you're me, you're staying in and binge watching 669 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 1: the new show. Nobody wants this. I am obsessed. 670 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 3: Oh it's so good. 671 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:36,400 Speaker 2: Okay, dare I say we're going from brat summer into cozygirlfall. 672 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: I love that, and I love to take a weekend 673 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: every fall to clean out my whole apartment and donate 674 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: what I'm not loving anymore and then find new pieces 675 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: that are more meat you know. 676 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 2: Ooh Okay, on that note, what is the most you 677 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 2: thing in your apartment now that you've cleaned out everything? 678 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: Okay, So this fall, I'm all about simple, sophisticated pieces 679 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: that elevate entertaining. So I went to walmart dot com 680 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 1: and found a set of cast iron candlesticks and a 681 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: twelve piece stoneware dinner set that are both from the 682 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: Better Homes and Gardens collection. And as you know, I 683 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,479 Speaker 1: am not crafty, but the stoneware plates look like they 684 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 1: could have been handmade by somebody. 685 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 3: Else of course, ooh, you are ready for entertaining? 686 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 1: Oh yes, And for my living room, I found a 687 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: gorgeous burrelwood tabletop tray from Drew Barrymore's brand Beautiful that 688 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,480 Speaker 1: has these delicate gold handles and a really elegant mid 689 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 1: Century Modern inspired floor lamp in brass. And I love 690 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: how all these natural, earthy textures and colors work so 691 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: well to create such a timeless look. Someone, what about you? 692 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 1: What do you think of when I say fall decor Hmmm? 693 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 2: I don't know for me if fall is the best 694 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 2: time to do DIY projects and get everything in order 695 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: before the holidays hit and it starts to get crazy 696 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 2: when you know we're going to be traveling and hosting 697 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 2: and everything. I'm actually finishing up a home improvement project 698 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: now that I've been working on for a little while. 699 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 3: Do you remember how in our. 700 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,479 Speaker 2: Episode on Perfectionism I mentioned that I'm building these closet 701 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: doors for my sun's room. Yes, And I got stuck 702 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 2: in the parking lot at the hardware store in freeze 703 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: mode because I was too scared to buy the wrong 704 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 2: type of lumber. 705 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: I remember, and go you for getting over your procrastinator perfectionism. 706 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: So now that you're done making the doors for the 707 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: boys room, what finishing touches are on your list? 708 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 2: Well, since you asked, I'm getting our guest bedroom ready 709 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 2: for the holidays because we're gonna have family in town. 710 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 2: So I'm all about the Better Homes and Gardens collection 711 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 2: on Walmart dot com. I mean, it's been a life saver. 712 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: I found these crisp arctic white, three hundred thread count 713 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: sheets that are so nice. I just had to get 714 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 2: a second for our bedroom too. 715 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: You know how important good betting is to me. 716 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 3: I know, right, I feel you on that. 717 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 2: Well, to top it all off, we got this dark 718 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: brown roused faux for throw, also from the Better Homes 719 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 2: and Gardens collection. It looked so cozy online I just 720 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: couldn't resist, and when it arrived I was surprised by 721 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 2: how luxurious it feels. 722 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: It is dangerously soft. I actually fell asleep under it 723 00:29:58,920 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 3: on the couch last night. 724 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: Hmm, sleep, sleep, sleep. You're speaking my language, okay. 725 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 2: But then for the adults, I also have my eye 726 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 2: on a new set of crystal stemware glasses, perfect for 727 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 2: something bubbly during our holiday parties. They're so festive and 728 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 2: they have this really elegant modern vibe. But they're also approachable, 729 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 2: you know, like not too fancy where we can't use 730 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 2: them every day, meaning they're dishwasher safe. 731 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: I mean, it's only October and you're already ready for 732 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: the holidays. I am so impressed. 733 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 3: Well, I'm embressd with everything Walmart has to offer. 734 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: Yep, thank you to our partners at Walmart. Check out 735 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: walmart dot com to find all of this and more. 736 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 1: That's it for today. On Monday, we're joined by Food 737 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: Network star and cookbook author Mollie Yay. She's telling us 738 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 1: all about go to Halloween treats and life on a farm. 739 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: Listen and follow The bright Side on the iHeartRadio app, 740 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The bright 741 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 1: Side is a production of Hello, Sunshine and iHeart Podcasts 742 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: and is executive produced by Reese Witherspoon. 743 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 2: Production by Arcana Audio. Our producers are Jessica Wenk and 744 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: Christa Ripple. Our senior producers are Janis Yamoka, it'si Kin 745 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 2: Thania and Amy Padula. Our engineer is PJ Shahamatt. 746 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: Arcana's executive producers are Francis Harlowe and Abby Ruzika. Arcana's 747 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: head of production is Matt Schultz. 748 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: Natalie Tuluk and Maureen Polo are the executive producers for 749 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 2: Hello Sunshine. 750 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: Julia Weaver is the supervising producer, and Ali Perry is 751 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: the executive producer for iHeart Podcasts. Tim Palazzola is our showrunner. 752 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 2: This week's episodes were recorded by Josh Hook and Joel Morales. 753 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 2: Our theme song is by Anna Stump and Hamilton Lighthouser. 754 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: Special thanks to Connell Byrne and Will Pearson. 755 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm Simone Boyce. You can find me at Simone Boyce 756 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 2: on Instagram and TikTok. 757 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: And I'm Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok. That's ro 758 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 1: O b A Y. 759 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 3: We'll see you Monday, y'all. 760 00:31:53,760 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 2: Keep looking on the bright side.